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Speaker 1: like a girl that appreciates a nice broke dude from

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Speaker 1: time to time. Katie, who's on the phone to do

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Speaker 1: a second date update right now, loves broke dudes. Wow, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's up, Katie? How are you? Hey, guys you're at

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Speaker 1: We'll get to how much you like broke guys in

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Speaker 1: just a second, But first, tell us about the broke

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Speaker 1: guy that you went on a date with. What's his name?

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Speaker 1: His name is Gabriel. Gabriel all right, and how did

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Speaker 1: you meet him? We met on a dating app, not

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Speaker 1: to pay for dating app. Obviously true. It was that

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Speaker 1: like part of his like profile that he said he

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Speaker 1: was a broke dude. No, not like that's not the

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Speaker 1: central factor of the story. Oh, okay, do you guys know, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's just what I chose to highlight on from our email.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about your date with Gabriel we had a

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Speaker 1: great date. I mean, and honestly, like I've I've been

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Speaker 1: on and off dating apps for the last year, like

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Speaker 1: a few like Bumble, Tinder, Okay, Jupid. I've really tried

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Speaker 1: a lot, and some have been really bad, but some

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Speaker 1: have been good. And Gabe, this one, my hand, was

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Speaker 1: actually one of the best I've ever had. I've never

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Speaker 1: felt like I've met someone online and really really really

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Speaker 1: like them. Oh yeah, so sweet. Yeah, it sucks even

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Speaker 1: more that you're not going to call back now exactly.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I wanted to talk to you guys.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about the date and why I keep calling

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Speaker 1: him a broke guy. You should probably explain that. Yeah. So,

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Speaker 1: so we met at a restaurant and it's kind of

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Speaker 1: funny because we sat down and he looked really nervous,

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Speaker 1: and I've done this a lot in the last year,

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Speaker 1: and it's kind of just like it doesn't really work

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Speaker 1: just said, you don't have to be nervous, And I thought, maybe,

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Speaker 1: Maybe he I intimidated him, maybe he thought I was

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Speaker 1: pretty I don't know, but either way. I just kind

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Speaker 1: and like it's okay, like, no no pressure, this is

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Speaker 1: just fun, right, did that help? Well? He said that

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Speaker 1: it wasn't that, and it was something else, and so

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Speaker 1: I asked him what he was talking about, and he said,

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Speaker 1: to be honest, I just don't think I can afford

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Speaker 1: the food here, So that's your broke jokes thing whatever.

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Speaker 1: I laughed at him and left. No, no, no, I

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Speaker 1: I told him, wow, why you're a breath of fresh here,

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Speaker 1: because honestly, like I love that you are honest? All right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I was not expecting him to say that,

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Speaker 1: And it wasn't a turn off to me. It was

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Speaker 1: too expensive, and I appreciated dishonesty. I've done that before,

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Speaker 1: like I've definitely looked up menu, was ahead of time

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Speaker 1: and changed plans rightly. So what did you guys do?

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Speaker 1: And I said, yes, what are you fine, let's go,

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Speaker 1: honesty must have made you feel comfortable with him too, totally,

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Speaker 1: and it was like, you know, without having this kind

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you sound like you were so jaded

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Speaker 1: dot night saying thanks to the date. Okay, and what

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Speaker 1: not wanting to go out again? I don't know, like

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Speaker 1: Well we'll try to figure it out. We'll play a

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Speaker 1: your second day up date. Okay, great, thank you, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: hang on looking jubil in the morning. Hey, Katie, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's gotta be frustrating because you said you went out

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Speaker 1: just I was just thinking about it's gonna be frustrating

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Speaker 1: So I don't know why you're not getting a call

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Speaker 1: date next time, Like olive garden. Wow, maybe take you

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Speaker 1: to the gas station, buy you a Voss water. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I absolutely think that you should go to the gas

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now and see if we

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Speaker 1: can figure out why he's not getting back to you. Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, I gotta speak to Gabriel. This

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Speaker 1: is Gabriel, Gabriel, how are you man? This is Jewel

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Speaker 1: from the radio show Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Call him from where Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Oh um? Okay, okay. Any idea

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Speaker 1: why a radio show is calling you? Or do you

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Speaker 1: get radio show is calling you? No? I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: Where are you guys calling? Kay? I'm calling you today

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Speaker 1: because we got an email about you from somebody who

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Speaker 1: listens to our show about me. Yes, her name is Katie.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, weird, weird? Do you know Katie. You remember Katie. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we went on a date. Yes, Yeah, that's exactly why

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Speaker 1: we're calling. We do a segment called the second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 1: and ask what happened? Slow down for a second. Why

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Speaker 1: why isn't she calling me? Why isn't she just asked

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Speaker 1: me herself? Well, because apparently she's tried to get a

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Speaker 1: call her back. So that's why she hasn't asked you herself,

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Speaker 1: because you won't respond to her. Yeah, pretty good reason,

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Speaker 1: the whole point behind what we're doing right now. I

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Speaker 1: get that. But she conducted a radio station. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean how else? I mean, she didn't have any other

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Speaker 1: Do you like Katie? She was nice? Yeah, she seems

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Speaker 1: That's wow, that's that's sweet. Yeah, no pressure or anything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: life works. Can you explain that a little bit more

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Speaker 1: for us? You know, it's it's kind of embarrassing. I

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Speaker 1: So and how could her life you be embarrassing? I

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Speaker 1: don't know if it's embarrassing to her. Why don't you

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Speaker 1: She just wants to know, all right. Well, look, she

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Speaker 1: sure how to react. Okay, so what just too much pressure?

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Speaker 1: Knowing that she's a virgin. I think I should clarify

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Speaker 1: reimagined vision remained imagined virgin, right, And I was confused, like, oh, sorry,

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Speaker 1: Are you religious? And and she said no, no, it's

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Speaker 1: not like that. It's just that after every hook up

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Speaker 1: with a guy, I reimagined myself as a virgin. Wait,

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Speaker 1: so she's having sex on the regular but just imagining

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Speaker 1: herself as a virgin afterwards. That that is my understanding. Yes,

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Speaker 1: she is not a virgin. But she said that, Look,

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Speaker 1: I thought, okay, so am I the next person to

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Speaker 1: virginity but a pressure, Yeah, I've never heard of that before.

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Speaker 1: and her name is Katie. Don't you think we should

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Speaker 1: ask her. Yeah, I mean, I've already talked to her

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Speaker 1: say hi to Gabriel. Hi Gabe, Hi, Hey Katie, Hi Gabe.

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Speaker 1: I'm just a little surprised that you feel this way.

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Speaker 1: There's no religious connection, no religious affiliations. Age doesn't matter.

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