1 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, Emily, here you were listening to five Minute 2 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: Friday from Hurdle. I am inclined to gap about goal 3 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: setting today and the importance of putting your goals out 4 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: into the universe. I've definitely shared this story on the 5 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 1: show before, but it's been some time. So back God, 6 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: I started the show at the very beginning of twenty eighteen, 7 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: literally like on New Year's Day essentially, and I believe 8 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:53,279 Speaker 1: it was at the end of that year. I was 9 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: in Vancouver getting ready to run Seaweeds, which was a 10 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: race that they used to offer. I actually heard not 11 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: that long ago now that I'm saying this out loud, 12 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: that they were bringing it back. But a cool part 13 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 1: about this particular experience was that they really built out 14 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 1: the race expo to include a slew of different programming 15 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: aimed at helping participants live their healthiest lives. And as 16 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 1: we know, a big part of that is the mental 17 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: side of things as well, And so one of my 18 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 1: favorite parts of the weekend was a goal setting session. 19 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 1: I went into that goal setting session having never really 20 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: done anything like that before, and after maybe an hour's 21 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: worth of prompts and discussion and small group work and whatnot, 22 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: at the end of the session, they asked if anyone 23 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: wanted to volunteer to come on stage and speak their 24 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: goals into existence, and so, naturally, as the extrovert that 25 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: I am most of the time, I offered to go 26 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: on stage. And I went on stage and I stood 27 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: there and I said, within the next four years, I 28 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: want hurdle to become the main thing. And that was 29 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: kind of the beginning for me of getting really intentional 30 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: with goal setting, so much so that I decided to 31 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: do a lot of coursework relative to helping people go 32 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: after their big goals, i e. Becoming a certified professional coach, 33 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: which you can like and do a life coach. And 34 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: something that I took with me from that experience is 35 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: that goals don't happen unless you are willing to express 36 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: what it is that you want. And although there is 37 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: a lot of benefit to smart goal setting specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, 38 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: and time bound, there's also a lot of goodness that 39 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: can come from saying something a bit more broad and 40 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: allowing the universe to conspire in your favor. I know 41 00:02:56,680 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 1: it sounds a little woo woo, but when you put 42 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: out what it is that you want into the world. 43 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: That is, when you are capable, able, prepared to truly 44 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: receive it. Case inpoint, like I said at that goal 45 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: setting workshop at Sewee's, I stood on stage and I said, 46 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: I want hurdle to become the main thing. And now 47 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: hurdle's the main thing. I mean, there are things that 48 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: I do that stem off of this show, like speaking 49 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: and moderating and brand deals, et cetera, et cetera. However 50 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: it is the main thing. It all stems from this 51 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: podcast that I decided to start a year into being 52 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: my own boss because I wanted to tell stories how 53 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to tell stories, and I didn't want to 54 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: have to pitch my ideas to everybody else. And so 55 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: here we are. And so I tell you this story 56 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: this week because last week I signed a contract that 57 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: has been eight years in the making. And although I 58 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: can't tell you more about it right now and I'm 59 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: not trying to be super cagey, I swear that I 60 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: signed it because I was willing to stand up and 61 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: speak what I want into existence. And that feels all 62 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: the more rewarding and uplifting. And yeah, so we're there. 63 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: So that's where we're at. My listener prompt for you 64 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: this week is what do you want to put into 65 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 1: the universe? What is it that you want? Maybe you've 66 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: been scared to vocalize it, maybe you haven't been able 67 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: to really articulate it. But can you do yourself a 68 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 1: favor ask yourself what is best for insert name here 69 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: and get gritty, get specific, get bold. I want you 70 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: to reach out to someone that you care about and 71 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: tell them something that you are after. That is your 72 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: homework assignment and I would love for you to DM 73 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: me about it, So shoot me a message. I could 74 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:59,239 Speaker 1: be your person, but also you can message someone else, 75 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: someone you know irl and have a real conversation about 76 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: maybe something that's scared you to articulate up until this point. 77 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: And now a listener question. Hey Emily, I have a 78 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: listener question that I'd like to ask anonymously if possible. 79 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: I'm a longtime listener of the show and love the 80 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: positivity that it brings to my week. My question is 81 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 1: about exercise and aging, particularly in relation to perimenopause and menopause. 82 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: I've heard that resistance and strength training are super important 83 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: as women age, and comparatively, cardio isn't as significant for 84 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: your health. Is this true and can you please explain why? 85 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 1: Thank you for your work. Name redacted, Hi, name redacted. 86 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: Of course I will answer your question anonymously, and it's 87 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: a really important question. Strength training is important for all 88 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: of us, but it is critically important during these phases 89 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 1: of life, and that's because it counteracts the effects of 90 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: decline estrogen. When you strength train, you preserve your bone density. 91 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: So basically, decreasing estrogen accelerates bone loss and with that 92 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: you up your risk of things like fractures in osteoporosis. 93 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 1: So when you lift weights or candidly even do body 94 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: weight exercises, you are placing stress on your bones, which 95 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 1: stimulates bone forming cells and helps to maintain or even 96 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: improve bone mineral density. I know this sounds like a 97 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: little inside baseball. The other thing about strength training is 98 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 1: it also helps to maintain your muscle mass, which is 99 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: something else that naturally can decrease with age. So putting 100 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: it all out there, that's why this is critically important 101 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 1: at this life stage. You asked about cardio and its 102 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: importance at this life stage. I would say that it 103 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:00,359 Speaker 1: is very important. However, it just it serves a front 104 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: primary function. If you will then strength training during this time. However, 105 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:08,799 Speaker 1: I say this with a caveat the CDC still recommends 106 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty minutes of cardio per week for 107 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: all adults ages. I think they quantify that as eighteen 108 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 1: to sixty four or sixty five plus. So although the 109 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: type of cardio you are doing may differentiate or change 110 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: as you age, it's just important that you're getting that 111 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: movement in. Just to remind all of you as well, 112 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: I am a certified personal trainer, I'm a certified run coach. 113 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: I've done the research, and I really make it a 114 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: point to make sure that I am only giving out 115 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: factual and safe information for all of you. So any 116 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: other questions like this, I'm always happy to try to 117 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: break it down and lend a hand where I can. 118 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: You know where to find me. If you've got a 119 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: listener question, you can always email me over at Hullo 120 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: at Hurdle dot us and the d ms are open 121 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: over at Hurdle Podcast and at Emily Abodi Another Hurdle conquered. 122 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 1: Catch you guys next time