Speaker 1: That's leaven or Hayes from Taylor Swift this morning. Um,
Speaker 1: all right, so we got Shaggy here, we got Lizzo here,
Speaker 1: we've got DJ Trible like cell is gonna mix it
Speaker 1: up in a few minutes. Super Bowl this weekend, Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day on Tuesday. I am not loving the Tuesday fall.
Speaker 1: You can't change it. I don't. And you know what,
Speaker 1: Robbie's birthday is less than a week away from Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: So it's like double can't change that either. We can
Speaker 1: change it if you celebrate it on a different day.
Speaker 1: Move it. I can't move it because it's Super Bowl Sunday,
Speaker 1: so you can't do it Sunday. You can't combine the today,
Speaker 1: so today. I'm telling you it's a problem. It's a
Speaker 1: real like if you want to do it's a real problem.
Speaker 1: But I don't want to belabor that. So you're talking
Speaker 1: about lust languages here, Sisney, What is the difference in
Speaker 1: a lust language love language? So I think we're all
Speaker 1: familiar with the five love languages, and I'll refresh your memory.
Speaker 1: Physical touch, gifts, words of affirmation, quality time, access service.
Speaker 1: Their love language is Ryan. Do you remember what Yours
Speaker 1: were acts of kindness, Yours were words of affirmation? Was
Speaker 1: your number one? You? That was your number one when
Speaker 1: we took that quiz, Remember that long quiz. I made
Speaker 1: you take what I give or what I want? What
Speaker 1: you want? You want? Words of affirmation is what really
Speaker 1: you like? Who says? Followed by quality time? Okay? Was
Speaker 1: your top two? That's so you my top two or
Speaker 1: words of affirmation just like you? And then acts of
Speaker 1: service those are my top two. Okay, okay, what about
Speaker 1: I'm acts of service like all the way and my
Speaker 1: number two is physical touch okay, okay. So lust languages
Speaker 1: is you know, kind of a little bit more of
Speaker 1: your turn ons and turn offs when it comes to intimacy.
Speaker 1: So it's kind of taking love language but to the
Speaker 1: next level and it's more about what turns you on
Speaker 1: in the bedroom sort of speak. So lust language comes
Speaker 1: down to four romantic, harmonious, connected, and primal. So to
Speaker 1: find out what your lust language is, you don't have
Speaker 1: to take a crazy quiz. You just kind of have
Speaker 1: to sit here and think about what these breakdown to.
Speaker 1: So if you're a romantic lust language, if you get
Speaker 1: more excited over a candle at dinner than essential massage.
Speaker 1: Your lust language must be romantic, so think about that harmonious.
Speaker 1: For example, you're stuck at work, but you came home
Speaker 1: to a homemade meal, a clean kitchen. You're rushing to
Speaker 1: get the kids ready for school, and your partner handles
Speaker 1: drop off, so you're not like for work. That's harmonious
Speaker 1: lust language, Okay, connected lust language for you would be
Speaker 1: you ache for a strong emotional connection. You want to
Speaker 1: know your their mind and heart as well as their body.
Speaker 1: That's connected. And then primal is exactly kind of what
Speaker 1: it sounds like. Do you have a bucket list for
Speaker 1: the bedroom? So if you're into non traditional arrangements or
Speaker 1: if you identify with the primal, you know, I guess
Speaker 1: just the nontraditional type of stuff, the kinky stuff you
Speaker 1: have to be in nontraditional arrangements. It could just be uh,
Speaker 1: creative thinking, sure, creative thinking. That mean that may be
Speaker 1: more a primal less for what are you romantic? Harmonious? Harmonious?
Speaker 1: Your harmony it's the worst. Now, I'm not that that
Speaker 1: would turn me on. Michael picks up the kids. That
Speaker 1: turns you on literally him. It checks out with the
Speaker 1: acts of service and words like all that stuff. For me,
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm any of them. I think I'm
Speaker 1: a slow burn. Like I would fix you as a
Speaker 1: connected like like knowing what's in their mind and their
Speaker 1: heart and like their deep soule. Yeah, but that doesn't
Speaker 1: turn me on. Like what turns me on is when
Speaker 1: he's like kissing the back of my neck. And maybe
Speaker 1: your primal, but I'm not so like out of the box.
Speaker 1: Maybe like a little out of the box. So maybe
Speaker 1: then you're you're handle at dinner or sensual. I was
Speaker 1: thinking that I could be a hybrid of this stuff,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I like dinner like I
Speaker 1: like a candle. I like music, and I like kids,
Speaker 1: and you like a clean kitchen. I love a clean kitchen.
Speaker 1: But harmonious is not where I'm going with this. And
Speaker 1: I like romantic and I like you know, say it's early,
Speaker 1: right and then connection you'll talk right. But it can
Speaker 1: change so here but this article said that it can
Speaker 1: change from time to time depending on your age. Yeah exactly.
Speaker 1: It evolves with like you as a person, your partners,
Speaker 1: if you if they change, etcetera. So I don't like
Speaker 1: to talk, No you don't. I don't like to talk
Speaker 1: all the time, but in a moment like this, I
Speaker 1: would talk. What are you? How do you look at
Speaker 1: this stuff? Are you romantic? Harmonious? Connected, primal? I guess
Speaker 1: it's a mix of all. Yeah, well not harmonious. You
Speaker 1: want to go, let's see. What do you wanna do?
Speaker 1: You're gonna clean up the kitchen or no? She cleans
Speaker 1: up the kitchen and she rushed to get of kids
Speaker 1: ready for school. I think Tubbs would be romantic. Why
Speaker 1: didn't you like if she had a candle at dinner
Speaker 1: for you? Tubs? Wouldn't that do it? And a big
Speaker 1: old steak? It's not good for you? Don't want a
Speaker 1: steak before primary? Why I didn't say? It was prime
Speaker 1: more and a big old steak and a candle of dinner?
Speaker 1: And then that's his lust language because it's so filling.
Speaker 1: That kind of like all of them though. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: well listen, thank you will decipher happy Valentine states four
Speaker 1: days away. It doesn't have to be one could be
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