WEBVTT - SISANIE- Lust Languages

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<v Speaker 1>That's leaven or Hayes from Taylor Swift this morning. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, so we got Shaggy here, we got Lizzo here,

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<v Speaker 1>we've got DJ Trible like cell is gonna mix it

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<v Speaker 1>up in a few minutes. Super Bowl this weekend, Valentine's

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<v Speaker 1>Day on Tuesday. I am not loving the Tuesday fall.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't change it. I don't. And you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>Robbie's birthday is less than a week away from Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like double can't change that either. We can

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<v Speaker 1>change it if you celebrate it on a different day.

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<v Speaker 1>Move it. I can't move it because it's Super Bowl Sunday,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can't do it Sunday. You can't combine the today,

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<v Speaker 1>so today. I'm telling you it's a problem. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>real like if you want to do it's a real problem.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't want to belabor that. So you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about lust languages here, Sisney, What is the difference in

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<v Speaker 1>a lust language love language? So I think we're all

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<v Speaker 1>familiar with the five love languages, and I'll refresh your memory.

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<v Speaker 1>Physical touch, gifts, words of affirmation, quality time, access service.

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<v Speaker 1>Their love language is Ryan. Do you remember what Yours

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<v Speaker 1>were acts of kindness, Yours were words of affirmation? Was

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<v Speaker 1>your number one? You? That was your number one when

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<v Speaker 1>we took that quiz, Remember that long quiz. I made

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<v Speaker 1>you take what I give or what I want? What

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<v Speaker 1>you want? You want? Words of affirmation is what really

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<v Speaker 1>you like? Who says? Followed by quality time? Okay? Was

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<v Speaker 1>your top two? That's so you my top two or

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<v Speaker 1>words of affirmation just like you? And then acts of

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<v Speaker 1>service those are my top two. Okay, okay, what about

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<v Speaker 1>I'm acts of service like all the way and my

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<v Speaker 1>number two is physical touch okay, okay. So lust languages

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<v Speaker 1>is you know, kind of a little bit more of

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<v Speaker 1>your turn ons and turn offs when it comes to intimacy.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of taking love language but to the

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<v Speaker 1>next level and it's more about what turns you on

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<v Speaker 1>in the bedroom sort of speak. So lust language comes

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<v Speaker 1>down to four romantic, harmonious, connected, and primal. So to

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<v Speaker 1>find out what your lust language is, you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to take a crazy quiz. You just kind of have

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<v Speaker 1>to sit here and think about what these breakdown to.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're a romantic lust language, if you get

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<v Speaker 1>more excited over a candle at dinner than essential massage.

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<v Speaker 1>Your lust language must be romantic, so think about that harmonious.

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<v Speaker 1>For example, you're stuck at work, but you came home

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<v Speaker 1>to a homemade meal, a clean kitchen. You're rushing to

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<v Speaker 1>get the kids ready for school, and your partner handles

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<v Speaker 1>drop off, so you're not like for work. That's harmonious

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<v Speaker 1>lust language, Okay, connected lust language for you would be

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<v Speaker 1>you ache for a strong emotional connection. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>know your their mind and heart as well as their body.

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<v Speaker 1>That's connected. And then primal is exactly kind of what

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like. Do you have a bucket list for

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<v Speaker 1>the bedroom? So if you're into non traditional arrangements or

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<v Speaker 1>if you identify with the primal, you know, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>just the nontraditional type of stuff, the kinky stuff you

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<v Speaker 1>have to be in nontraditional arrangements. It could just be uh,

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<v Speaker 1>creative thinking, sure, creative thinking. That mean that may be

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<v Speaker 1>more a primal less for what are you romantic? Harmonious? Harmonious?

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<v Speaker 1>Your harmony it's the worst. Now, I'm not that that

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<v Speaker 1>would turn me on. Michael picks up the kids. That

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<v Speaker 1>turns you on literally him. It checks out with the

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<v Speaker 1>acts of service and words like all that stuff. For me,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I'm any of them. I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a slow burn. Like I would fix you as a

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<v Speaker 1>connected like like knowing what's in their mind and their

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<v Speaker 1>heart and like their deep soule. Yeah, but that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>turn me on. Like what turns me on is when

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<v Speaker 1>he's like kissing the back of my neck. And maybe

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<v Speaker 1>your primal, but I'm not so like out of the box.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe like a little out of the box. So maybe

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<v Speaker 1>then you're you're handle at dinner or sensual. I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that I could be a hybrid of this stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. I like dinner like I

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<v Speaker 1>like a candle. I like music, and I like kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and you like a clean kitchen. I love a clean kitchen.

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<v Speaker 1>But harmonious is not where I'm going with this. And

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<v Speaker 1>I like romantic and I like you know, say it's early,

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<v Speaker 1>right and then connection you'll talk right. But it can

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<v Speaker 1>change so here but this article said that it can

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<v Speaker 1>change from time to time depending on your age. Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>It evolves with like you as a person, your partners,

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<v Speaker 1>if you if they change, etcetera. So I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>to talk, No you don't. I don't like to talk

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, but in a moment like this, I

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<v Speaker 1>would talk. What are you? How do you look at

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff? Are you romantic? Harmonious? Connected, primal? I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it's a mix of all. Yeah, well not harmonious. You

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<v Speaker 1>want to go, let's see. What do you wanna do?

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna clean up the kitchen or no? She cleans

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<v Speaker 1>up the kitchen and she rushed to get of kids

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<v Speaker 1>ready for school. I think Tubbs would be romantic. Why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you like if she had a candle at dinner

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Tubs? Wouldn't that do it? And a big

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<v Speaker 1>old steak? It's not good for you? Don't want a

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<v Speaker 1>steak before primary? Why I didn't say? It was prime

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<v Speaker 1>more and a big old steak and a candle of dinner?

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<v Speaker 1>And then that's his lust language because it's so filling.

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<v Speaker 1>That kind of like all of them though. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>well listen, thank you will decipher happy Valentine states four

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<v Speaker 1>days away. It doesn't have to be one could be

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