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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys.

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Speaker 2: Online at advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 3: Tyler is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 3: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named

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Speaker 3: Jessa who he went on a day with. So in

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Speaker 3: a few minutes we'll call her and see if chat

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Speaker 3: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 3: another date. But first let's find out what happened on

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Speaker 3: the date. Tyler, what's up man? How long has it

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Speaker 3: been since you heard from Jessa?

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Speaker 4: I mean it's been about a week and have not

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Speaker 4: heard anything from her at all?

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Speaker 2: Have you tried? How many times have you reached out

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Speaker 2: to her?

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Speaker 4: Not too much? You don't want to be like aggressively late.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I agree. I just was checking to see

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Speaker 2: where you did.

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Speaker 4: A double text is all I did, you know? Okay,

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Speaker 4: texted the night after and then I text a couple

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Speaker 4: of days later. That's really all I've done, Okay. I

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Speaker 4: don't want to don't know, push her. It was fun.

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Speaker 4: We had a great time, went out to dinner at

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Speaker 4: and then ended up going to a second location, which

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Speaker 4: is always a good you know, good sign you go

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Speaker 4: to a second location that's a drinks. I went really well.

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Speaker 4: We just went a lot of great conversation. I was,

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Speaker 4: you know, I paid for everything. I wanted to make

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Speaker 4: sure she never had enough worry about it. But I

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Speaker 4: also made clear there was no obligations. I was just

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Speaker 4: there enjoying my time with her because we really got

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Speaker 4: along well and I was just really happy with the

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Speaker 4: whole day. Like she was fantastic.

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Speaker 2: So what do you think happened?

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Speaker 1: Then?

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Speaker 2: Why do you think she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 4: I don't I honestly, I honestly don't know. The conversation

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Speaker 4: never lagged. It never she never felt like it never

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Speaker 4: seemed to me like there's any issue I was. I

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Speaker 4: was a little sweaty, I dressed up and went out

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Speaker 4: somewhere nice. Maybe I don't know. If I don't feel

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Speaker 4: like I hope it wasn't that that seems kind of weird.

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Speaker 4: I did pay for everything. It was expensive, so it

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Speaker 4: was like super pricey, So maybe that was too much.

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Speaker 4: I am worried that I put on like too much

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Speaker 4: of an effort, but I really liked her, and I

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Speaker 4: don't have a lot of free time, so like I

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Speaker 2: That's sweet.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm really not sure. I like, I know this

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Speaker 4: sometimes if you put too much money into it the

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Speaker 4: first day, like, it can turn somebody off. And so

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Speaker 4: I am a little worried that that might be it.

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Speaker 4: But it's so hard to tell because I really and

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Speaker 4: then the night, you know, it went really well. Like

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Speaker 4: I said, we had some drinks and then afterwards we

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Speaker 4: just walked around a little bit and then she was

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Speaker 4: waiting for Uber and they was really nice out and

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Speaker 4: she looked really beautiful, and I asked her if I

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Speaker 4: could give her a kiss, and she said yes. So

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Speaker 4: it was just a very nice, you know, nice kiss,

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Speaker 4: very you know, nothing like aggressive. And then she in

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Speaker 4: her car and I text her and you know, and

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Speaker 4: said I had a great time, and then have heard

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Speaker 2: So did you guys kiss on the lips?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I was just a little one though, Like what do

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Speaker 4: you call a church kiss? Like a church weddy kiss?

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Speaker 1: Ye.

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Speaker 4: I was trying to be very respectful and you know,

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Speaker 4: and I.

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Speaker 3: Know it's a little bit less than my grandma kiss.

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Speaker 2: Well, did it seem like she was really into you? Like,

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Speaker 2: did you guys talk about seeing each other again at

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Speaker 4: Well, we did, and she seemed amenable to it, and

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Speaker 4: like we talked back and forth, Like I mean, I

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Speaker 4: asked her a lot of questions about herself, and she

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Speaker 4: funny stories. We had some you know, just little things

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Speaker 4: in common that were fun. You know, you can really

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Speaker 4: was a legitimate spark that I felt. So this is

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Speaker 4: why they say if it was a bad day, I

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Speaker 4: can see the ghost. I mean, you understand, it happens.

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Speaker 4: But this was a really good one, and I was

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Speaker 4: kind of really invested. Like I said, I'm really busy

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Speaker 4: worth my time. So it's really kind of sad that

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Speaker 4: she ghosted because I was really into her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did she say anything about wanting another date with you?

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Speaker 4: She she seemed to like I said we should do

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Speaker 4: this again, and she seemed, yes, of course, let's let's

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Speaker 4: do the Like she knew there was not any she

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Speaker 4: didn't shut down, and I mean we didn't make actual plans,

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Speaker 4: but you know, she seemed to be like, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Tyler. When you said earlier that you were sweaty, Like

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Speaker 2: how sweaty?

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Speaker 4: Oh we're not talking like you know, buckets, but I

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Speaker 4: mean it was, it was kind of sweaty. It's just

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Speaker 4: you know, I think I overdressed a little bit for

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Speaker 4: the weather. The restaurant had a keat on, so yeah,

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Speaker 4: just a little bit of you know, forehead tweat. But

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Speaker 4: I'm not like just enough that I was worried about it.

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Speaker 4: I was more subconscious than anyone.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, and

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Speaker 3: then call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 3: she's ghosting you.

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Speaker 2: And maybe get to another date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, fantastic a right, Plus, I'll come back get your

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Speaker 3: first day follow up next if you're just joining us

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Speaker 3: for today's first date follow up. Tyler is on the phone,

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Speaker 3: and Tyler is getting ghosted by Jessa. It's been about

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Speaker 3: a week now and he hasn't heard from her. So

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Speaker 3: in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and see

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Speaker 3: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting and maybe get

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Speaker 3: him another date. But first, Tyler, why don't you catch

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Speaker 3: everybody up on your situation with Jessa.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Jess how I went out on our first day

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Speaker 4: to uh. It was a really nice, nice time, really

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Speaker 4: kind of expensive restaurant. They went off for drinks afterwards.

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Speaker 4: I paid for everything and h and then we really

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Speaker 4: got along. Well, I kissed you goodbye and haven't heard

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Speaker 4: from her since. I'm kind of worried. Maybe because I

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Speaker 2: All right, well, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 4: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello him, I aspeaking to Jessa. Please, Hey, Jessa, how

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Speaker 3: are you? My name is Jewbell and I host a

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Speaker 3: radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Jessa, I

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Speaker 3: mean also on the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, a lot of you.

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's that? How are you doing today?

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Speaker 5: I'm okay, what what's going on?

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Speaker 3: We do a segment on the show it's called the

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Speaker 3: first eight follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 3: on a date with somebody and then you ghost them,

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Speaker 3: that person can ask us to get you on the

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Speaker 3: phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got

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Speaker 3: an email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, Well, I mean I am on a dating app,

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Speaker 5: so this could be going a couples all right, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Wait to put yourself out there. Well, I'll tell you

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Speaker 2: who it is. Okay, Okay, his name is Tyler.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, that's a recent one. Okay, because this thing

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Speaker 5: does happen to me where somebody will ghost me for

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Speaker 5: like months. I just had a guy reach out to me.

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Speaker 5: Win went on one date ten months ago. He stopped

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Speaker 5: this is very recent.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm like you Tyler, Yeah, it's been a week

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Speaker 2: since he talked to him. Yeah, is that ghost him? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I mean honestly, like the date, like there was nothing

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Speaker 4: He just I don't know.

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Speaker 5: It kind of feels like maybe our our lives aren't

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Speaker 1: Up, like he did seem really tired on the date,

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Speaker 1: and I think he's just like super busy. He might

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Speaker 1: be like a workaholic, and I just didn't feel like

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Speaker 1: kind of was like, I'll just cut it loose. It's

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Speaker 1: been one date, so like, you know, it's easier to

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Speaker 1: ghost people than to like be like your life isn't

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It's just like it's awkward.

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Speaker 5: It just it just didn't feel like it was gonna

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Speaker 1: He works like all the time, Like I feel like

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Speaker 1: even going on this date with me was like they

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Speaker 1: but it just didn't feel like he's gonna have time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's really it.

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Speaker 5: Like it's nothing crazy like it was.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't like oh god, he you know, didn't tip or

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Speaker 1: it just it just like didn't feel like it was

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Speaker 1: looking for that like fairytale romance, you like want to.

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Speaker 5: Spend all your time together and fall in love. Is

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Speaker 5: like not that, you know after one date. But it

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Speaker 5: just didn't feel like it was gonna I was gonna

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I did post him. What's that?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: What's that saying?

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Speaker 6: Though people will always make time for what it is

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Speaker 6: just kind of feels like maybe it was a a

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Speaker 6: just slow down, like he needs to slow down.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I feel like he needs to slow down.

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Speaker 5: I mean I get it, like I work a lot too,

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Speaker 5: but yeah, I don't know. I mean, that's really it,

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Speaker 5: Like maybe that's not a good enough reason to go somebody.

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Speaker 5: But like when you're on the app, it's such a

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Speaker 5: like I don't know if we can curse, but it's

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Speaker 5: such like a show. Yeah, you gotta sometimes just get

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Speaker 5: in and out and move on, because you know, you

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Speaker 5: wait ten months and you might hit you up again anyway.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, who are we to tell you why

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Speaker 2: you shit or shouldn't got people? Yeah, I mean he

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Speaker 2: didn't even wait ten months. He waited a week.

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Speaker 5: He waited a week. We're still in the statute of limitations.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for being honest with us. Appreciate that. Yeah, sure,

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Speaker 3: I should let you know that he's actually on the

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Speaker 3: phone too. Tyler is on the phone listening and wants

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Speaker 3: to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Oh am, I in trouble.

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Speaker 2: Now, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: No, you know, O Hi Hi, oh hey Tyler. So

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Speaker 5: how's it going?

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Speaker 4: Well? You know, I think you said it's more awkward

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Speaker 4: to try to tell somebody and then he just ghosted,

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Speaker 4: but this is probably more awkward.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is a little awkward. Now, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: I am sorry about that. But yeah, no, you know,

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Speaker 4: I do. I do work a lot, and and I

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Speaker 4: was tired, but like when something does matter to me,

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Speaker 4: I do make the effort for it. I do put

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Speaker 4: in the effort to make space when things are important

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Speaker 4: to me. And so I want you to know that

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Speaker 4: that that is something that I'm working working on. But

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Speaker 4: also I'm already aware of. And I did make a

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Speaker 4: time for our date because it was important because I

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Speaker 4: think we got along really well and I could tell

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Speaker 4: we're going to go well. And I am I'm willing

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Speaker 4: to put some flexibility into my schedule. Like I like

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Speaker 4: my work, but I also like having someone to spend

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Speaker 4: time with and you know, go do things with and

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Speaker 4: all of that. And then you know, I love that

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Speaker 4: a little bit more than work.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so you think you're going to be able to

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Speaker 5: like let loose a little bit, maybe.

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Speaker 7: A little bit, somebody who's willing to be like, hey,

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Speaker 7: let's go do something, or give me a little encouragement

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Speaker 7: to stop working for a bit, because it's hard when

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Speaker 7: you work from home, it's really hard to stop working.

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Speaker 4: You're just constantly working. And so if I have somebody

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Speaker 4: that I'm like, hey, let's go that I want to

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Speaker 4: spend time with, then that's a good intensive for me

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Speaker 4: to stop working. And so I'm one hundred percent willing

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Speaker 4: to work on that and talk about it and everything.

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Speaker 4: But I want to talk about it. I'd like to

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Speaker 4: be able to, you know, actually talk about it, not

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Speaker 4: just not hear from somebody for a bit.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, honestly, I didn't know that. I mean,

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Speaker 5: I guess I didn't know you had any kind of

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Speaker 5: like feelings that way after one date. But that is

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Speaker 5: good and refreshing to hear. So I guess I'm glad

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Speaker 5: I answered the phone this time.

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Speaker 4: Me too, Me too. And obviously you have all the

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Speaker 4: pressure of the radio behind you. Say yes. Everyone want

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Speaker 4: to make you, make you say yes to a second

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Speaker 4: day right now. But if you do want to go

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Speaker 4: on a second date, I would love to, but I

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Speaker 4: would lead to you to maybe text me privately later on.

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Speaker 4: I want I don't want you to feel pressure if

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Speaker 4: you don't want to.

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Speaker 5: You know what actually this is, this is going well,

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Speaker 5: so yeah, I feel good about it. We can we

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Speaker 5: can give it another shot, especially.

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Speaker 1: If you're you know, open about the time issue and

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Speaker 1: willing to make some like assuming we want to make

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Speaker 1: more time for each.

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Speaker 2: Other, then yeah, so you'll go on another date with Tyler.

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, even better, sure.

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Speaker 2: So Tyler doesn't have a problem spending money.

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Speaker 5: But I love.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations Tyler, you got another date.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much. I'm glad. Okay, great, Well I'm

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Speaker 4: so excited, just so thank you. I probably next time

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Speaker 4: I will be like so sweaty.

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Speaker 5: What so sway? What did I miss them? Okay, all right, okay,

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Speaker 5: I'll let it go. I don't know about it. Juble's

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Speaker 5: first date follow up