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Speaker 2: But the truth of the matter is is that money

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Speaker 1: as this episode airs at the close of twenty twenty five, baby,

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Speaker 1: this timing could not be more divine. Okay. Today's guest

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Speaker 1: is the Blueprint. We are joined by doctor Darnielle Jervi Harmon,

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Speaker 1: a powerhouse and business transformation and personal reinvention. About fifteen

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Speaker 1: years ago, she was navigating bankruptcy. Fast forward to today,

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Speaker 1: she has built an eight figure empire and is the

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Speaker 1: CEO of an ink five thousand company that helps entrepreneurs

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Speaker 1: featured in Forbes, TEDx, NBC, Fox News, and Oh, The

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Speaker 1: Oprah magazine, and she is known for blending strategy with spirit,

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Speaker 1: wealth with worthiness, execution with identity work. She doesn't just

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Speaker 1: teach business skilling, she teaches women how to become who

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Speaker 1: they need to be to answer the call on their lives.

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Speaker 1: So settle in, lady, because this is not just information,

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Speaker 1: this is activation. I have my notebook ready. Okay, doctor

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Speaker 1: darn Jell, welcome to Cultivating her Space.

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Speaker 2: Heay, I am so excited to be here. How are you,

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Speaker 2: beauties doing tonight?

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Speaker 1: Amazing? You're ready to look up some game? We are

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Speaker 1: so excited.

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Speaker 4: Yeses awesome.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have been waiting for this, So I'm so

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Speaker 2: excited that the time has come. And I'm excited for

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Speaker 2: everybody who's going to listen, Like you said, whether they're

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Speaker 2: it later. Because this is a moment that is going

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Speaker 3: Oh, we are ready for that clarity. All right, So

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Speaker 3: let's get into our cold of the day. Now. This

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Speaker 3: I used to get in trouble for talking too much

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Speaker 3: in class. Now I use my words to deliver and

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Speaker 3: set free facts. Yes, And I'm gonna say that quote

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Speaker 3: they know who we're dealing with, Like, who has come

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Speaker 3: I mean, this conversation is about to be good.

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Speaker 3: So when you hear yeah, when you hear that quote,

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Speaker 2: And so when I hear my words, when I hear

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Speaker 2: it makes me feel really good that I said yes,

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Speaker 2: even though it came with setbacks, It came with, you know,

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Speaker 2: and so whatever comes out of it. When I hear

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Speaker 2: me and be in this experience, I just I get excited.

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Speaker 4: I get grateful.

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Speaker 2: It's making me tear up a little bit, just because

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Speaker 2: that's what it's all about.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that I don't think that anything that

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Speaker 1: Oh child, All right, now, we already know it's about

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Speaker 1: I got goosebumps over here. So we got to get

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Speaker 1: the tissues out. We have so many questions for you, Darnielle,

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Speaker 1: for you to share your origin story and how you

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Speaker 2: I am the product of two drug addicted urned crack

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Speaker 2: those things are around you and they become normal. But

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Speaker 2: what that even meant. And so I, as Robert Frost

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Speaker 2: Bible would say, I studied to show myself approved in

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Speaker 2: up one morning and saying, you know, I don't think

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Speaker 2: I was meant to sit behind someone else's desk and

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Speaker 2: purposing to go out on my own and start my

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Speaker 2: and I didn't know what I didn't know, and I

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Speaker 2: didn't know the source of the lack that was bred

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Speaker 2: that the decision to be wealthy at age ten didn't

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Speaker 3: Ooh, Okay, so many questions that came from you sharing

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Speaker 3: your story, but I think and you dropped so many

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Speaker 3: How did you navigate those relationships in those dynamics with

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Speaker 2: Uh, very carefully and very confidently. Right, Like you learn

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Speaker 2: that noahs a complete sentence. You teach your family not

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Speaker 2: to project your checkbook and to not make decisions for

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Speaker 2: you based on what they believe that you have an

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Speaker 4: Because I have become fiscally responsible.

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Speaker 2: Like I never understood that my sister, the antagonist of

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Speaker 2: He didn't want me to pay the two hundred dollars

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Speaker 2: And the decisions that I made for myself in my

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Speaker 1: It's the audacity for me. Okay, what I'm still stuck

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what did you think about that? Dad? What you shared?

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Speaker 1: but I'm going to stay focused now. You mentioned something earlier,

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Speaker 1: same thing. But I just have more money. Now, how

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So let me first say this money is an amplification

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Speaker 2: all by mistake. It was not intentional. But in growing

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Speaker 2: I experienced everything that one experience is when it comes

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Speaker 2: because that's the call of my life, the anointing, And

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Speaker 4: And here's what I'll say.

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Speaker 2: Most of us, and you, ladies, since we're here together,

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Speaker 2: And because every single day we all have to make

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Speaker 4: And so therefore we are.

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Speaker 2: Constantly contending with our survival mode even when we have more.

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Speaker 2: So that I wanted to give that background before I

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Speaker 2: We have to rewire our beliefs and we have to

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Speaker 2: Whenever we're presented with more money, we're gonna be waiting

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Speaker 2: I'm already really excited and I know y'all got more questions.

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Speaker 2: But but that's the quick and easy answer is you

438
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Speaker 2: have to reset your thermometer, and you have to teach

439
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 2: your nervous system that actually having excess is safe, and

440
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Speaker 2: so somatically through your body science, understanding science, spiritually looking

441
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 2: at the word is going to be important.

442
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 4: As well, So we do all three.

443
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Speaker 2: We're gonna look at the science, We're gonna look at

444
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 2: the somatics, and we're gonna look at the spirit, and

445
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,479
Speaker 2: we're gonna bring all of them together so that what

446
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 2: we were taught as we were raised, because most of us,

447
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 2: you know, we were raised religiously, right, it can make

448
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 2: sense and it doesn't go against what is ingrained in

449
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,679
Speaker 2: us as our belief system, even though most of the

450
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 2: things that we believe are indeed a lie.

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Speaker 3: Okay. I had a bunch of other questions as you

452
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 3: were speaking, and then you dropped that last statement of

453
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Speaker 3: most of the things that we were taught to believe

454
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Speaker 3: were alive. And so I want to tie that into

455
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 3: how we understand money right and the ability to build wealth. So,

456
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Speaker 3: what are some of the lies that we have been

457
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Speaker 3: taught to believe around wealth and money that we need

458
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Speaker 3: to release and let go of so that we can

459
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Speaker 3: truly start to embrace our ability to accept and hold

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Speaker 3: and create wealth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, doctor dom I want to run around this room

462
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 2: and give you a hug all at the same time

463
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Speaker 2: because I love that question. Okay, So I'm gonna say this.

464
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Speaker 2: So the Bible talks about money wealth, and possessions. Twenty

465
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Speaker 2: three hundred times God talked about money, wealth and possessions

466
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Speaker 2: more than he talked about.

467
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Speaker 4: Heaven or hell.

468
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Speaker 2: Why not just because in Deuteronomy he told us that

469
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Speaker 2: we have the power to create wealth, but because money

470
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Speaker 2: is a lesser thing that we actually need to be

471
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Speaker 2: masters over. But most of us, you know, what's the

472
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Speaker 2: oj song for the love of money? Like most of us?

473
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Speaker 2: Because one Timothy six and ten, that's the scripture that

474
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Speaker 2: I think does everybody in and that is for the

475
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 2: love of money is the root of all evil, for

476
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 2: they that covetive after have aired from the faith, and

477
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:57,959
Speaker 2: that has caused them sorrow. And the first thing I

478
00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 2: say this a lot on a lot of the podcasts

479
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Speaker 2: I'm on when I'm talking about money, is we have

480
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,440
Speaker 2: to understand that the Bible was written in three languages,

481
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 2: but English was not one of them, and so many

482
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 2: of the things in the translation they get lost, and

483
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 2: then they continue to be misinterpreted from pullpit to pulpit

484
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 2: to pullpit based on people's limiting.

485
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Speaker 4: Beliefs and understanding about money.

486
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Speaker 2: Because we're most of us are financially illiterate, and financial

487
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 2: literacy isn't just.

488
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Speaker 4: For poor people.

489
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Speaker 2: It doesn't have any thing to do with how much

490
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Speaker 2: money you have. But if you don't understand what money is,

491
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 2: and you have to understand the spirituality of money as

492
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 2: well as the practicality of money, you'll miss it. So anyway,

493
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Speaker 2: in the scripture, Paula is telling Timothy Timothy's territory is

494
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Speaker 2: the one where the wealthy people are, and Timothy needs

495
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Speaker 2: to understand how to manage and navigate these wealthy people

496
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Speaker 2: in his territory. And so you know, paul is saying, basically,

497
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Speaker 2: it's not for the love of money like it's translated.

498
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Speaker 2: It's actually the Greek word avarice, which is extreme greed.

499
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Speaker 2: The scripture is really saying is extreme greed is.

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Speaker 4: The root of all evil.

501
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Speaker 2: I don't know about you, doctor dom and Terry, but

502
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 2: I agree with that statement one hundred percent that when

503
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 2: people are extremely greedy and they are desperate and they

504
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 2: will do anything for money, it can lead to evil.

505
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 2: But for me, I was challenged by the scripture because

506
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 2: the use of love, because in First Corinthians thirteen it

507
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 2: defined love for me, and that definition of love didn't

508
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 2: match what that scripture was saying.

509
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 4: So I had to dig a little bit deeper.

510
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,199
Speaker 2: So that's one lie I could do a whole I

511
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 2: got an episode on my podcast all about that particular scripture.

512
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 2: That's one of them. That you have to work hard

513
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 2: for money. Now I get it. And here in the

514
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 2: United States, we are a society that has people trade

515
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: their time and effort in exchange for money. It is

516
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 2: very transactional, and so all of us were taught that

517
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 2: you have to work hard for We are raised when

518
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 2: we work hard. If you've ever done anything amazing and

519
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 2: people came to celebrate you, I bet nine times out

520
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 2: of ten someone said.

521
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:08,880
Speaker 4: I'm so proud of you.

522
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 2: You work so hard for this, and so we glorify

523
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,479
Speaker 2: hard work. But the truth of the matter is that

524
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 2: money is an energy that is always available, and you

525
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 2: do not have to effort for money to come into

526
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 2: your life experience. You only need to embody. You need

527
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 2: to be it, You need to be the energy of it.

528
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 2: People got it right halfway when they started this whole

529
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 2: faked until you make it. There is some truth to

530
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 2: that operating in the energy of as if it's already yours.

531
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Speaker 2: Even the body says, even the Bible says, speak those

532
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 2: things that be not as though they were right. So

533
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 2: the impetus of fake it until you make it is

534
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 2: right because when we speak it, we know life and

535
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 2: death is in the power of the tongue, right. We

536
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 2: know that we will have what we say. We know

537
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 2: that what we say creates or condemn. We know all

538
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 2: of this just through the power of our words. So

539
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 2: it was half right. But after you say it, you

540
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 2: just have to line up to the energy and the

541
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 2: frequency of what would actually allow it to come in.

542
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 4: For it to come in, and it.

543
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 2: Does not require that money be exchanged or that effort

544
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 2: be exchanged for you.

545
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 4: To get money.

546
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Speaker 2: But that's not the lie that we were all taught

547
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 2: because we here in the United States, we effort for money, right,

548
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: And so that's a second lie. And I'll give you

549
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 2: one more, just because this will make the whole the

550
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 2: whole thing really really long. And then the third one,

551
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 2: the third lie, is that money changes you. Again, money

552
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,479
Speaker 2: amplifies whatever you haven't healed. So if you were a nasty,

553
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 2: contankerous person and you were broke and nobody knew it

554
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 2: because you didn't have any money, guess what you get

555
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 2: a couple of dollars.

556
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 4: You're still going to be nasty.

557
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: And contankerous because it's only a tool of amplification. And

558
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 2: I could go on and on and on about the lies.

559
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 2: I mean, they're are so many. And I like to

560
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 2: say that because the word believe be e l I

561
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 2: e ve e, it has a lie right.

562
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Speaker 4: In the middle. So again, most of the things we

563
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 4: believe are a lie.

564
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 2: And just like we used to believe in Santa Claus

565
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 2: until we did it, we can change our beliefs.

566
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 4: We can rewire our beliefs.

567
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 2: We can start to believe something different and have the

568
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: energy line up to begin to bring into our life

569
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 2: experience that which we most desire to experience.

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Speaker 1: That is so powerful. Mike drop might drop, Okay, Darnielle

571
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Speaker 1: for the woman who's listening and she knows that her

572
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 1: life is supposed to look different, but she keeps slipping

573
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Speaker 1: back into those old patterns. Can we talk about or

574
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: illustrate what embodiment is in action? So you said money,

575
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: I believe money, Like, what is the energy of money?

576
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: I guess because you said, well, you can embody that. Yeah.

577
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Speaker 2: So one of my favorite universal laws spiritual laws another

578
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 2: way to say, these are the laws that God created

579
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 2: that he used scripture to reference to basically tell us

580
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 2: how the world works.

581
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 4: Right.

582
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Speaker 2: So one of my favorites is the law of circulation.

583
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 2: I call it the law of abundance. That's just what

584
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 2: Darniell calls it. The world calls it the law of circulation.

585
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 2: And what the law of circulation says, it says abundance

586
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 2: or money is expanding around us at an ever increasing rate,

587
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 2: and it never stops expanding, with the exception of specific

588
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 2: actions that we take that will stop money from circulating

589
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 2: to us. Example number one, you go out to a restaurant,

590
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 2: your waiter or waitress was nasty, so you don't leave

591
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 2: them a tip. The tip is not for them, the

592
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 2: tip is for you. Because money needs to move, and

593
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 2: money is always moving, and the principles of money is

594
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 2: that it's always moving. So when you hoard money, you

595
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 2: think by putting it in your bank account.

596
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 4: I mean, there's a reason why savings accounts.

597
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 2: Give you like next to nothing because money needs to

598
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 2: move and circulate. And even when you put your money

599
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 2: in the bank and it's sitting there and you get

600
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 2: that whatever percentage of you're have a high yield savings account,

601
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 2: you might get getting four or five percent right now,

602
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 2: even when you put your money in there, you know

603
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 2: what the bank is doing. They're circulating your money. They're

604
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 2: using your money to give out loans or to make

605
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 2: investments to make them more money. Because that's the one

606
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 2: thing that wealthy people and people who understand the energy

607
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 2: of money understand. The whole purpose of money is to

608
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 2: create more money. That's what's supposed to happen with money.

609
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 2: But that's not ultimately what it is that we know.

610
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 2: So anyway, the energy of money is best embodied through

611
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 2: this simple phrase, be it to become it Again. I

612
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 2: said it earlier. I think fake it till you make

613
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 2: it was half right. Faking is disingenuous, right, But if

614
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 2: you truly believe, like if you believe, like you know

615
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 2: your name, actually, let's not even believe because there's a lie,

616
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 2: and believe. Let's know if you know, like you know

617
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 2: your name, that you are coming in to another season,

618
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 2: no matter or what it looks like right now. Because

619
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 2: the one thing about money is your money can change

620
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 2: in an instant. Today, you could have no money in

621
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 2: the bank. Tomorrow, through effort action making a sale, you

622
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 2: can have a lot of money in the bank right

623
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 2: whatever that means to you, because even a lot is relative,

624
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 2: and the way that that changes the fastest is acting

625
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 2: as if you already have money. Most people who have

626
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 2: money challenges act downtrodden. They are low vibrational right, They

627
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 2: are in fear, in doubt and overwhelm. They are frustrated.

628
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 2: They are all of these and negative emotions, whereas typically

629
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 2: people that have money i e. People who feel safe

630
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 2: with money. They are grateful, they are appreciative, they are givers.

631
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 2: They are constantly sewing into other people. And we've all

632
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 2: probably heard the law of sowing and reaping because money

633
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 2: needs to move, right. So even with the law of circulation,

634
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 2: money is always expanding. What it doesn't say is the

635
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: money you put out is coming back to you in

636
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 2: the same way that it went out from you. No,

637
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: because money is always expanding. If I give you twenty dollars,

638
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 2: I might wake up tomorrow and there's two hundred dollars

639
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 2: in my mailbox because.

640
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 4: I made money move.

641
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 2: The way that we keep money circulating is by investing,

642
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,720
Speaker 2: putting it out there and being investible. So the energy

643
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:29,240
Speaker 2: of being investible, believing that you are worthy of money,

644
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,839
Speaker 2: you are desirable of abundance.

645
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 4: That abundance lives in you. It is part of you.

646
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 2: When you hear abundance, think abundance, say abundance, you do

647
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 2: not feel tension anywhere in your body. Instead you feel

648
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 2: light and airy. Then that is an indication that you

649
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 2: are in the energy of frequency of money. And then

650
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 2: you can start testing it out and you can start

651
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 2: putting things out there.

652
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 4: Like I could literally right.

653
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 2: Now, and I'm not even a big social media person,

654
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 2: but I could literally right now go into DMS and

655
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 2: reach out to some people and be like, Hey, I

656
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,280
Speaker 2: have an opportunity for you to come and do whatever

657
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 2: whatever for whatever amount of money. And I would imagine

658
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 2: that if I did that with ten people, at least

659
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 2: one person would say yes, and I would be able

660
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 2: to make money, like just like that, right Or I

661
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 2: could go, if I was a day trader, I could

662
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 2: go and I could buy a stock.

663
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 4: I could go and I could buy.

664
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: Some you know, some crypto and I could watch it

665
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 2: every day and I could create money.

666
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 4: And I'm not expending.

667
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 2: Effort to do those things because that's the way that

668
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 2: money works and the way that money moves, and so

669
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 2: most of us have we don't know this.

670
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 4: The only way we know that money moves is through

671
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 4: the sweat on our brow. So that is how we.

672
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 2: Indicate our ability to get money. So we work hard,

673
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 2: we hustle, we grind. You know, we're always doing all

674
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 2: the things. We have two hundred and fifty thousand revenue streams,

675
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,280
Speaker 2: which is probably a whole episode in and of itself.

676
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 2: But we're doing all of these things hoping that something

677
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 2: will pan out and create money for us.

678
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 4: When what we need to do in tandem.

679
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 2: I'm not going to sit here, and I'm not one

680
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 2: of those people who believes that it's just about manifestation.

681
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,919
Speaker 4: If we just manifest then all will be well.

682
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 2: No, manifestation is a piece of it, but there is

683
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 2: still some work has to be done right. Even the

684
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,399
Speaker 2: Bible says faith without works is dead. I can believe

685
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 2: all day long I'm gonna be wealthy, but if I'm

686
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,800
Speaker 2: not taking an action that leads me down the path

687
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 2: of wealth, I'm not going to be wealthy.

688
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 4: But what the Bible.

689
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 2: Doesn't say is it doesn't say sweat on my brow

690
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 2: is what has to happen.

691
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:35,919
Speaker 3: Right.

692
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 2: The action that I could take could be investing in

693
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: a stock like a big part of me becoming a

694
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 2: millionaire one year.

695
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 4: After I filed bankruptcy.

696
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 2: Was because I had some Microsoft stock that did really,

697
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 2: really well. Between that and my home, the two added

698
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 2: up to more than a million dollars at the time.

699
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,919
Speaker 2: Even in bankruptcy, I was able to keep my home

700
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 2: as long as I kept making the payments.

701
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 4: And I still have that home.

702
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 2: In my portfolio today and have renters in there. So

703
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 2: I didn't effort to make those things happen. I made

704
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 2: a decision. I made an investment. I bought stock and

705
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 2: kept it in there until it got to the point

706
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 2: where my advisors told me now would be the time

707
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 2: I did the same thing with crypto. I first bought

708
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 2: bitcoin a million years ago. I think it was like

709
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,919
Speaker 2: twenty eighteen. It was like five hundred dollars a coin.

710
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 2: I bought tens. I spent five thousand dollars and bought

711
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 2: ten bitcoin. Well, y'all know, a couple of years ago,

712
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 2: it's up again over one hundred thousand, but bitcoin.

713
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:37,280
Speaker 4: Went up over one hundred thousand.

714
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,839
Speaker 2: That was a million dollars that I made that I

715
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 2: cashed out and went and bought some real estate.

716
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 4: I didn't do.

717
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 2: Anything but invest the five thousand dollars to make a

718
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 2: million dollars some five years later, seven years later, whatever

719
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 2: the timeframe was. So we have to stop thinking that

720
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 2: the only way for us to get money is to

721
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 2: effort to hustle to grind. And that is hard, like,

722
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:06,400
Speaker 2: because we're trying to undo years upon years upon years

723
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 2: of all of the lessons that all of our elders

724
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 2: told us and that we've deemed to be acceptable as

725
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 2: a way in order to create the money.

726
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 3: Ooh, okay, So as I was listening, you know, one

727
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 3: of the things that keeps that kept coming up was

728
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 3: I know that there's a lady listening who's like, I

729
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 3: don't make six figures. I'm working barely making above minimum wage.

730
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 3: And the way this economy is economy, and right now

731
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 3: I'm scraping by. Yeah, Like every month it is a

732
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 3: struggle to figure out am I going to have enough

733
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 3: to pay this rent to keep food on my table,

734
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 3: to keep gas in my car so that I can

735
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 3: get to this job, to the rent to keep food

736
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 3: on the table. And the cycle keeps going, right.

737
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 4: The cycle, Yeah, yeah, and it.

738
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, because yeah, and I know that we have listeners

739
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 3: out here who are living this right who are saying, like,

740
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 3: I mean, that's all well and good, but y'all are

741
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 3: talking to y'all not speaking to me. Y'all are speaking

742
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 3: to women who have six figure salaries.

743
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and here's what I would say to a woman

744
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:35,359
Speaker 2: who is feeling that way and listening right now. Number one,

745
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 2: you're absolutely right, your situation is different. But what I

746
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 2: want you to understand is that everything that I'm sharing

747
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 2: is agnostic to whatever your situation is.

748
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 4: It is the way.

749
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 2: Of the world, if you will, it is the way

750
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 2: that the law works. And I also want to tell you, like,

751
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 2: start where you are right. So I imagine if you

752
00:39:56,239 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 2: are scraping things together, you know that you're in aren't meeting,

753
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 2: You're going to have to be a little bit more

754
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 2: disciplined than some other people to begin to carve out

755
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 2: something that will give you an opportunity to start to shift.

756
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 2: But here's the other thing I want to say, Like,

757
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 2: we live in the land of the Internet.

758
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 4: Where for free, like you could go listen to my podcast.

759
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 2: You could keep listening to this podcast and you can

760
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 2: get nugget upon nugget upon nugget practical implemmation, implement.

761
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 4: I can't even my words out. I'm so trying to

762
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 4: say so much.

763
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 2: Practical information that you can begin to leverage right where

764
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,359
Speaker 2: you are that will experience a shift. So here are

765
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:37,879
Speaker 2: three things that I'm going to tell you right now,

766
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 2: if that's who you are. Number One, I want you

767
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 2: to become completely aware of how you are managing your money.

768
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 2: So I want you to create a journal, a money journal,

769
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 2: and I want you to just start listing all of

770
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 2: the money that comes in and all of the money

771
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 2: that goes out. And I want you you Maybe you

772
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 2: do that now, but here's how I want you to

773
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 2: do it going forward. I want you to shift your

774
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 2: countenance around it. But instead of looking at what's not

775
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 2: there and being disgusted or frustrated, I want to invite

776
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 2: you to be grateful for what you do have. Gratitude

777
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:15,279
Speaker 2: is the highest emotion y'all might remember back in the day,

778
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 2: depending upon your age, when Oprah was on when she

779
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 2: first introduced the world to a gratitude journal, she said,

780
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 2: for five minutes every day, just write what you're grateful for.

781
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 2: Let me tell you the science behind that. The pure

782
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 2: act of gratitude is the highest emotion. When you are grateful,

783
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 2: you are vibrating at the highest of levels. I told

784
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 2: you money is an energy, and because money is an energy,

785
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 2: it is attracted to a frequency that makes it feel safe,

786
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 2: just like you might not feel safe with money. If

787
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 2: money doesn't feel safe with you, it's not coming around you.

788
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 2: Let me say it differently. If you have a best friend,

789
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 2: y'all been best friends, and I'm not talking about the

790
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 2: kind of best friends that call each other out of

791
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 2: their name as a term of endearment. Right, listen, me

792
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 2: and you friends, I'm doing yeo. Maybe you can call

793
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 2: me darny, maybe, but you can't call me nothing else.

794
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 2: The day you start calling me out of my name

795
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 2: and start treating me funny, I'm probably not.

796
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 4: Going to spend time around with you anywhere. Would you,

797
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 4: ladies agree, Well, let's.

798
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 2: Look at money the same way, because we'd be talking

799
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 2: dirty to money. We'd be calling money out of his name.

800
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: We'd be spaying things like that's expensive, that's a lot

801
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 2: of money.

802
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 4: I can't afford that. I wouldn't spend my money on that.

803
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: Well.

804
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 2: Money, Just like a person wouldn't want to spend time

805
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 2: around someone who doesn't edify them and make them feel

806
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 2: good about themselves, Money's not going to want to spend

807
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 2: time around you. So it's not going to stay because

808
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 2: you don't feel safe with it and you don't treat

809
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 2: it with respect. So anyway, that was a cydebar. That

810
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 2: wasn't part of it. So the first thing is I

811
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 2: want you to do a money study. Second thing, I

812
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 2: want you to trace the origins of where your relationship

813
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 2: with money the first time you knew that there was

814
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:53,399
Speaker 2: a thing called money.

815
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 4: I want you to get a sheet of paper.

816
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,919
Speaker 2: I want you to turn it horizontal, and I want

817
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 2: you to number it one to seven, eight to fifteen,

818
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 2: sixteen to whatever, the twenty one, twenty two to twenty eight,

819
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 2: and increments of seven up to your age, however old

820
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 2: you might be. I want you to go back as

821
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 2: far as you possibly can from one to seven, and

822
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 2: I want you to remember the first time you knew

823
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 2: there was a thing called money. I was six when

824
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 2: I learned that there was something called money. I was

825
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 2: in the grocery store with my mom, and I picked

826
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 2: up a little something something that when we got to

827
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 2: the register, I put up there and I met my

828
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:32,160
Speaker 2: mom's hand the back of it when she proceeded to

829
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 2: tell me that we don't have money for that. Money

830
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,240
Speaker 2: is only for what we need. That was my first

831
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 2: definition of money. Money is only for what you need.

832
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 2: I'm forty nine years old and in thirteen days, I'm

833
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 2: about to be fifty, and I still catch myself saying,

834
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 2: but I don't need that.

835
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 4: Why am I telling you this?

836
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 2: Because no one goes to bed a blunder and wakes

837
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 2: up a wonder. But if you don't know where the

838
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 2: money stories come from, if you don't know where the

839
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 2: money troys comes from, then it's going to be very

840
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 2: hard for you to undo it. And here's what I believe,

841
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:08,800
Speaker 2: And I'm just assuming that if you listen to this show,

842
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 2: you are a woman of faith, and you are a

843
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 2: woman who knows that you are created to be more

844
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 2: than whatever your circumstances and situation is right at this moment.

845
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 2: And if you are that woman, and if you do

846
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 2: believe in God, if you do believe that Jesus was

847
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 2: sent that you might have life and have it to

848
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 2: the full, that means you too. And you live in

849
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:34,439
Speaker 2: paycheck to paycheck, scrimpling and scrampling to get by. God

850
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 2: gets no glory in that we are not sitting around

851
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 2: praising God when we don't have money enough to handle

852
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 2: our basic needs.

853
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 4: And necessities.

854
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 2: But if we can find the energy to be grateful

855
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 2: for what we have, even when it's short, even when

856
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 2: it's not enough, even when we have to do overtime

857
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 2: just to be able to pay our bills, that energy

858
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 2: shift will start to create more. It happened for me

859
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 2: in my twenties when I've graduated from college. My first

860
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 2: job paid me nineteen thousand, forty one dollars a year,

861
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 2: and that was nineteen ninety seven.

862
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:13,839
Speaker 4: That was not a lot of money.

863
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 2: I mean, it's still lain't in a lot of money today,

864
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 2: right somehow, though, I tied because I believe in the

865
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 2: principle of tithing. I believe that when whatever you put

866
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 2: out there is going to come back tenfold. I just

867
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 2: believe it. It is universal law. It is the law

868
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 2: of sowing and reaping. I could probably tend you to

869
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 2: five different scriptures that talk about that, for those of

870
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 2: you who need a scripture to reference it. And so

871
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 2: nineteen thousand and forty one dollars a year, I still

872
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 2: tithed every two weeks when I got paid. You know,

873
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 2: I moved into a house when I was twenty one

874
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:53,359
Speaker 2: years old that I bought that was an eighty five

875
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 2: thousand dollars home that I was the owner of, and

876
00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 2: my mortgage was five hundred dollars a month. So I

877
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 2: believe that if you start where you are, and you

878
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 2: start working the principles where you are, then they will

879
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 2: meet you where you are. I say all the time,

880
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 2: God will give you more while you're moving than he

881
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 2: ever will if you stand still. So just start with

882
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 2: where you are. Do the money study, Start to express

883
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:22,280
Speaker 2: gratitude for what it is that you have, and trace

884
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 2: the steps of where the money comes from.

885
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 4: So how much money am I making right now, whether

886
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 4: it's enough or not.

887
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 2: Be grateful for whatever you have, whether it's enough or not.

888
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 2: And then where does the trauma come from? And for

889
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 2: every trauma point that you find as it pertains to money,

890
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 2: I want you to ask yourself a simple question, and

891
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:45,720
Speaker 2: that is is it possible that this is not the truth?

892
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 2: And if there is any possibility that what you have

893
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 2: been telling yourself and living in your life experience is

894
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 2: not true, then I want you to challenge it.

895
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 4: That's the law of polarity.

896
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 2: The law of polarity says, if there is lack, there

897
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 2: is also abundance.

898
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 4: Both have to be true at the same time. So

899
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:04,879
Speaker 4: for you to be.

900
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 2: Living paycheck to paycheck, there has to be somebody out

901
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 2: there who's swimming in money, because that's a universal law.

902
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 2: God designed it that way, and if it can happen

903
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 2: for one, that means it can happen for you. Because

904
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 2: God is no respector of persons. We just have to

905
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,720
Speaker 2: be willing to challenge what we true, what we choose

906
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:30,400
Speaker 2: to believe as truth, in order to begin.

907
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 4: To change into something else. That's it.

908
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 2: I probably oversimplified it, but that's it. It can be

909
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:42,280
Speaker 2: that simple. Everything doesn't have to be hard. Everything doesn't

910
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 2: have to require sweat beyond your brow for it to

911
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 2: be real.

912
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: Berniell you, I don't know. I feel some type of

913
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:50,760
Speaker 1: way because you didn't tell us that you be preaching

914
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 1: on Monday, and you ever preaching. This is good, okay, this.

915
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 4: Is what happens when you bring me out late at

916
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 4: night I'm supposed to.

917
00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:00,799
Speaker 1: Be sleep or almost that I promised. I'm gonna wrap

918
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: up good.

919
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 4: Look, I'm right away. I might go outside and run

920
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 4: of mind with y'all. I'm so hyped right now.

921
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: I want to do a two parter. It's a very

922
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: quick question that that is important. And then another question

923
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: that it also feels important, but it shouldn't take like, yeah,

924
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 1: this shouldn't take that long. So the first question is

925
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 1: one just to give you context. We are manifesting the multimillions, okay,

926
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: like we are in that energy space. That's what we're

927
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 1: bringing in the next years about the blow up. It's

928
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 1: about to be incredible. And I want to know for

929
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: you what does it feel like to be wealthy so

930
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 1: that we can tap into that energy and how you

931
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 1: explain exap when I do my visualizations, I want to

932
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: tap into that energy of how you explain the wealth

933
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 1: and what it feels like for you when you wake

934
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: up and just to see that money in that bank account,

935
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: I want to ask that. And then the other question,

936
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: just to tighten there, is how do you navigate spaces

937
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: where you feel or sense envy, jealousy or like mean

938
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: girl energy? Because one of the things I've noticed about

939
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 1: myself over the years is I would shrink myself because

940
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: I don't want anyone to not like me. I don't

941
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 1: want to be in that and like it's just uncomfortable.

942
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 1: So you, as a beautiful, confident woman amost fifty, where

943
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 1: how do you navigate that those are the two questions.

944
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 2: So today it feels completely normal to be wealthy, but

945
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 2: it wasn't always that way. So let me quantify it

946
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 2: and give you some real juicy adjectives. It feels like

947
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,760
Speaker 2: you can make a decision at any point in time

948
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 2: about anything that is pertaining to money without having to

949
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,839
Speaker 2: think about it. So one of the things I pray

950
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 2: every single day. I literally when I wake up and

951
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:28,879
Speaker 2: I open my eyes in the morning, I say, thank

952
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 2: you Lord, I'm so grateful that I have more money

953
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 2: than I can give, give, invest, save, or spend.

954
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 4: And that is the order in which I move money.

955
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 2: I give first, then I invest, then I spend, then

956
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 2: I save.

957
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 4: And then I spend.

958
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 2: So it means that you don't have to go and

959
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 2: look at how much something costs if it's something that

960
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,919
Speaker 2: you truly desire. Now, I just told my mom told

961
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 2: me my first definition or first memory of money was

962
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 2: money is only for what you need. Well, today, I

963
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 2: you know, I have a really nice house, I drive

964
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 2: a really nice car. I don't need I mean, I

965
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,359
Speaker 2: need a house, but I don't need this particular house

966
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 2: seventy seven hundred square feet. I don't need this house, right,

967
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 2: I don't I don't need the car that I drive.

968
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 2: But what I realize is because I am God's daughter,

969
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 2: and because before I was formed in my mother's womb,

970
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:32,760
Speaker 2: he knew me, and he approved me. He called me profit,

971
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 2: he gave me a message to share with the nations.

972
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 4: It means that I am worthy of all the.

973
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 2: Abundance for him being willing to sacrifice his son for

974
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:48,720
Speaker 2: Darnielle Antoinette. So I move in that energy at all times,

975
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 2: and now that my money has lined up to that reality, I'm.

976
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,919
Speaker 4: Still a good steward of it. I'm not wasteful.

977
00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 2: I you know, I indulge when I feel the desire

978
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 2: to do so, Like I'm about to go on my

979
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 2: birthday trip to Bali first clad, Like, ain't nobody going on?

980
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 4: No, I got two flights.

981
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:12,120
Speaker 2: One flight is eighteen hours, the other flight is seven hours.

982
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 2: That means it's gonna take me a whole day to

983
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:15,320
Speaker 2: get the Bali.

984
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:16,959
Speaker 4: Ain't nobody being in coach.

985
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 2: I don't fly coach domestically, So I'm absolutely not flying

986
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 2: coach internationally. And I'm not saying that to brag, but

987
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 2: I'm saying it that that is normal for me. And

988
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 2: so before I had money, I drove around neighborhoods, not

989
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 2: gated communities because you know you can't usually get into them, but.

990
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 4: Really nice houses.

991
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:42,760
Speaker 2: I would go on Sundays, I would go to open houses,

992
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 2: like I would find that here in Delaware, Greenville is

993
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 2: where all the big mc mansions are, and.

994
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:48,879
Speaker 4: I would go.

995
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:50,839
Speaker 2: I had a good friend that was a realtor, and

996
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 2: she would take me so we could walk through the

997
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 2: houses and I could feel how it would feel to

998
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 2: lead live there, and I could visualize. I could literally

999
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 2: sit on the couch in the living room and imagine

1000
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 2: that it were my home, and I could raise my

1001
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 2: vibration to anchor into that feeling.

1002
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 4: That's why I love this question.

1003
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 3: Right.

1004
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:11,400
Speaker 2: I'm not a big label girl, like I mean, I

1005
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,399
Speaker 2: have a few labels now, but they definitely came later

1006
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 2: in life. But that was never my thing. But today,

1007
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 2: if I decide that I want that, I can now.

1008
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 2: I do have a Louis Vaton bad actually have too,

1009
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 2: but I also spend ten thousand dollars buying Louis Vauton stock.

1010
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 2: So if I'm willing to put it on me, I

1011
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 2: also have to do something to put it in me,

1012
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 2: like to create more that I'll be able to leave

1013
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 2: to my lineage. Like, that's my rule again, give first,

1014
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 2: and that second, save third, spend fourth.

1015
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 4: That's the way that I move my money.

1016
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 2: And I have an amazing relationship with money today, Like

1017
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 2: I go on money dates.

1018
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 4: What's a money date?

1019
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 2: A money date is when you spend time looking at

1020
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 2: your money and you affirm it and you talk good

1021
00:52:58,400 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 2: to it. Like, think about how if you go on

1022
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 2: a date with a guy if you're not married, right,

1023
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:05,359
Speaker 2: you you even if you are married, especially right, you

1024
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 2: want them to tell you you look nice, and you

1025
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 2: want them to make you feel safe and special.

1026
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 4: Well, that's what I do with my money.

1027
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 2: I believe in the principle of what you focusing, what

1028
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 2: you focus on expanding, So you put your focus on

1029
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 2: whatever you want to grow. Now, there's a fine line

1030
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:25,839
Speaker 2: between focusing and obsessing. But when you are building a

1031
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 2: relationship with money, just like you're building a relationship with

1032
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 2: any other human, You're gonna spend time with them, right,

1033
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 2: You're gonna get to know them, You're gonna ask them questions.

1034
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 2: You're gonna spend you know, hours on the phone or

1035
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:39,399
Speaker 2: go out to the mall or whatever the things are

1036
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 2: to get to know them, well, you got to do

1037
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:43,280
Speaker 2: the same thing with money. But it just it feels

1038
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 2: really really good, it feels really really normal, And when

1039
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 2: it didn't feel that way yet, I put myself in

1040
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 2: situations to feel the energy of it so that I

1041
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 2: could imagine what it what it would be would be like.

1042
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 2: So that's the first question, and then the second question,

1043
00:53:57,320 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 2: you know, how do you handle mean girl energy? Best

1044
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:03,719
Speaker 2: book I ever read in my life was What You

1045
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 2: think of Me Is None of My Business?

1046
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 4: By Terry Cole Whittaker. So when I was in high.

1047
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 2: School, I think it was there was a girl once

1048
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:17,279
Speaker 2: who was like, you think you're cute. I don't know

1049
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 2: where this came from, y'all, but my response to her was, Oh,

1050
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 2: I don't need to think I'm cute because you're thinking

1051
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 2: it for me.

1052
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 4: So what am I saying?

1053
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 2: I don't spend my energy focused on what any other

1054
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 2: person thinks. I know who I am, I know whose

1055
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 2: I am, I know every every scratch or bruise that

1056
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 2: I have on my body, for all the things that

1057
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:41,800
Speaker 2: I've been through. I know everything that I have today.

1058
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 2: I earned it, and because of that, I don't need

1059
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 2: to be validated by anyone else.

1060
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 4: Now that's today.

1061
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 2: That wasn't always my story, but right, but today I'm

1062
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:54,799
Speaker 2: validated and I don't need anybody else liking me.

1063
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 4: Or love I mean, it's great, sure, like me, that's awesome.

1064
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 2: Like me, please like me right at the same time,

1065
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:02,279
Speaker 2: But if you don't like me, that doesn't make me

1066
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:05,399
Speaker 2: any less of God's chosen. It doesn't give me any

1067
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,799
Speaker 2: less of an anointing, and it doesn't make me any

1068
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:12,240
Speaker 2: less capable of living out the power to create wealth.

1069
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 2: And so you just have to make the decision that

1070
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:18,479
Speaker 2: you'll be nice.

1071
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:18,879
Speaker 4: Now you don't.

1072
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 2: I don't think you have to be cantankerous, right Like

1073
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 2: I'm nice, I'm generous, I speak to people, you know,

1074
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:28,000
Speaker 2: and I'm an introvert. But I don't I don't people please,

1075
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:31,880
Speaker 2: And that maybe to my detriment sometimes because I have

1076
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:35,320
Speaker 2: been in spaces and places with people that other people

1077
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 2: fall over and I'm just like she put her pennies

1078
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 2: on one leg at a time, like I do like she,

1079
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like and not just because

1080
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:46,400
Speaker 2: of that. I don't get caught up in that. And

1081
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 2: I think that anybody who wouldn't want to know me

1082
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 2: and build a relationship with me is dumb like I mean,

1083
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:58,120
Speaker 2: I'm an amazing human like like serious if when when

1084
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 2: I approach you, if my confidence bumps up against your

1085
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:06,319
Speaker 2: insecurity and then it creates this reaction in you that

1086
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 2: is your problem, not mine, Like I'm not internalizing that.

1087
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 2: I'm not taking that on you know how they say,

1088
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:13,439
Speaker 2: and I think it was Newton Energy is neither lost

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Speaker 2: nor destroyed, is merely transferred. I'm not taking on your

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Speaker 2: negative energy. I'm going to stay in my positive energy

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Speaker 2: because I already know that I'm going to do way

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Speaker 2: more good by being positive energy than I am succumbing

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Speaker 2: to whatever it is that you have in there.

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Speaker 4: So I'm nice, I'm cordial. But when you mean girl me,

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Speaker 4: I just know that it's you.

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Speaker 2: Can't handle the anointing all my life, and instead of

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Speaker 2: being excited that assists is out here getting it, you

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Speaker 2: feel some kind of way because it's not you, that's

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Speaker 2: lack and scarcity. I live in the land of abundance,

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Speaker 2: which means that I can celebrate you and be excited

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Speaker 2: for you having what you have, knowing that it don't

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Speaker 2: have nothing to do with me getting what I'm supposed

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Speaker 2: to have.

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Speaker 1: So that's yeah, that was so beautiful and yell. We

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for your time and your energy.

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Speaker 1: We spent a lot of time with you on this

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Speaker 1: late night but we appreciate all the gems and the

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Speaker 1: work you're doing in the world, and we know this

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Speaker 1: episode is going to bless so many people. Can you

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Speaker 1: let our listeners know how can they support you? Where

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Speaker 1: can they touch base with you and support your work?

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Speaker 1: Let them know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So, if anything I said during this episode just got

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Speaker 2: you feeling all warm and fuzzy, I want to invite

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Speaker 2: you to go to move to millions gifts dot com.

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Speaker 2: I've curated a special bundle of many of the things

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Speaker 2: that we got into in this conversation, tools that you

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Speaker 2: can use that will help you to begin the journey

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Speaker 2: of shifting the way you see yourself and the way

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Speaker 2: that you see money. I believe that until your relationship

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Speaker 2: with yourself with success and wealth is your sanctuary, your

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Speaker 2: move to Millions is in jeopardy. I have a new

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Speaker 2: program that I'm going to be launching later this year,

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Speaker 2: in twenty twenty five, and then it'll be out in

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Speaker 2: the world after that, called Sanctuary, which is an opportunity

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Speaker 2: to learn the science, the spirit, and the somatics of

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Speaker 2: wealth and money so that you can finally, once and

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Speaker 2: for all, feel safe with money and create your own sanctuary.

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Speaker 2: It's work that we need to have, especially in our community.

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Speaker 2: We need to understand how this works, because we came

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Speaker 2: here as at a deficit, right Like, first of all,

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Speaker 2: we were snatched and brought here. We didn't come here

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Speaker 2: of our own volition, and in being here, even though

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Speaker 2: it's twenty twenty five, in many ways, we are still

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Speaker 2: behind and it doesn't help the scenario that we are experienced.

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Speaker 2: We have experienced massive financial trauma in addition to some

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Speaker 2: of the other traumas. Because at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: fortunately or fortunately depending upon how you look at it,

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Speaker 2: cash rules everything around us, right like, our ability to

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Speaker 2: have money equals the amount of choices that we have

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Speaker 2: and the amount of decisions that we can make to

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Speaker 2: support ourselves, to support our children, to support the future,

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Speaker 2: to create a financial legacy.

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Speaker 4: So unless we get our money up, then.

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Speaker 2: Our ability to be able to change things is going

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Speaker 2: to stay down. And unless we learn how to feel

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Speaker 2: safe with money, then we're not going to be able

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Speaker 2: to walk into the wealth that is our birthright. And

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Speaker 2: the whole reason why we're here, and so I'm just

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Speaker 2: trying to do my part, my little corner of the

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Speaker 2: earth to help as many people as I possibly can

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Speaker 2: start to feel safe with money so that they can

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Speaker 2: experience experience the abundance that is their birthright.

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Speaker 1: Beautifully stated, thank you so much, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for having me. This was so good.

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Speaker 3: It's doctor dom here from the Cultivating her Space podcast.

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Speaker 1: And before we meet again, repeat after me, I release

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Speaker 1: the old with gratitude and prepare for the new with intention.

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Speaker 1: Keep thriving, Lady, and tune in next Friday for more

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