WEBVTT - Thinking Sideways: Agatha Christie Disappearance

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<v Speaker 1>know the answer too. Hey, guys, welcome to an episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Thinking Sideways the podcast. I am Devin, joined as

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<v Speaker 1>usual by Steve Joe and the Ghost in the mixer,

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<v Speaker 1>which is on, which is totally yes, it's on. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't mentioned the tuper coper lately, so so why not.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just say he's here in spirit. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you really have upset some of our listeners. The tuper

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<v Speaker 1>Copera hasn't made an appearance on the show in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure, I'm sure that we can work it into

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<v Speaker 1>this before we get too far into it. And by

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<v Speaker 1>too far into it, I mean into it at all. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>this suggests this is a listener suggestion. I believe it's

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<v Speaker 1>pronounced tomorrow. I think that's right. It's like Maru the

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<v Speaker 1>Cap but with an O Insteadmorrow. Yeah. Anyway, this week

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to talk about what is up with the

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<v Speaker 1>Agatha Christie disappearance? She vanished for eleven days? She did? Yeah, actions, well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we're talking about that she disappeared in nineteen six.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're a doctor who nerd like me, you

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<v Speaker 1>know that it's because of a giant space wasp. It's proven. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see that particular episode, did he did he

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<v Speaker 1>actually transport her like ten days forward in time? Spoilers? Sorry, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, that was like season three those spoilers. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I think of season five. It was the Donna season.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, five, Oh it was, and then' like that season.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let's see this a doctor on now like thirty

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<v Speaker 1>seven or something. This is a very long conversation. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so here's the story. You guys, Ready for the story? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. On December three, Agatha Christie and her husband

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<v Speaker 1>Archie had been fighting a little bit, just a little.

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<v Speaker 1>He had asked her for a divorce because he was

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<v Speaker 1>in love with another woman. By the way, this is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a jerk jerk thing from to do. Because

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<v Speaker 1>her mother died recently, she was under a lot of stress. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and to top it off, he had a quote unquote

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<v Speaker 1>problem with sick people. Yeah, so he was nowhere to

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<v Speaker 1>be seen, like a month or two. He was hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out in London. Yeah, no, no, if I'm not coming

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<v Speaker 1>to the the house, yeah yeah. Archie left the house that

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<v Speaker 1>afternoon to spend some weeks with his mistress, who was

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<v Speaker 1>named Nancy Neal. I thought they were just going to

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<v Speaker 1>spend like a weekend again. I was gonna say, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen both. That's why I was trying to see

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<v Speaker 1>if you'd found anything that said he said X amount

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<v Speaker 1>of time. Okay, I think a weekend, a long weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's British timing. I don't know what. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what that is, but I don't know. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of stuff where you're kind of like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't actually know how what that's referencing. But okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So after a little while, I think it was like

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<v Speaker 1>nine pm or something like that. After he left, Agatha

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<v Speaker 1>got up from her chair, went upstairs, kissed her daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>and left a note for her secretary saying that she

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<v Speaker 1>was going to Yorkshire for a bit. Later that night,

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<v Speaker 1>her car was found abandoned, lights on quote perched above

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<v Speaker 1>a chalk quarry. Yeah you hear that differently suddeny here,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like run into some sort of bush. Sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>hear it's like kind of on the precipice, yeah something,

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<v Speaker 1>or just hood up lights on. Yeah. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>the consistent thing and all of these versions is all

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<v Speaker 1>of her stuff was in the car. I've never heard

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<v Speaker 1>when where her stuff wasn't abandoned at the car. Most

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<v Speaker 1>of her stuff. Yeah, it was a fur and a

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<v Speaker 1>bag with a little bit of clothing and and of

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<v Speaker 1>course your driver's license was in there. Yes, And interestingly

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<v Speaker 1>it was found. It was found southwest of London, which

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<v Speaker 1>is like totally the wrong direction to go if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to have to the Yorkshire Yeah, fifteen miles. I

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<v Speaker 1>pulled it up on the map. It's about fifteen miles

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<v Speaker 1>south south west, southwest of Yeah, no southeast, yeah, from

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<v Speaker 1>their home. From their home, she drove southeast, yeah, instead

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<v Speaker 1>of driving northeast to go to Yorkshire. Correct. Yeah. Well

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she was confused, Yeah, maybe maybe she couldn't read

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<v Speaker 1>a map. Yeah. Anyway, that was it for eleven days,

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<v Speaker 1>that the map upside down. Yeah, it's possible actually. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>People suggested that this was the publicity stunt, after all,

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<v Speaker 1>the murder of Roger Ackroyd had just been published I

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<v Speaker 1>think within a year of the of her disappearance, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was, you know, a massive success of course, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but for some reason people thought that she needed a

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<v Speaker 1>publicity stunt on top of that. Maybe she wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>give it a little boost. I guess, yeah, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to disappear and give our ratings a booth. But most

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<v Speaker 1>people suspected that her husband had something to do with it,

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<v Speaker 1>which I think you would naturally assume a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>after the search had been going on for a few days.

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<v Speaker 1>It actually made the cover of the New York Times,

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<v Speaker 1>the New York Times, So of course if that ended

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<v Speaker 1>up in a huge nationwide manhunt. Almost about fifteen thousand

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<v Speaker 1>people volunteered to help search for her, as well as

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<v Speaker 1>dogs and airplanes they had searching for her as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently that was an historical first for Britain. Yeah, the airplanes, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>using them to search for people. And since they kind

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<v Speaker 1>of feared the worst, they started dredging streams and lakes

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<v Speaker 1>especially there was there was a little lake right and

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<v Speaker 1>right near where a car was found, so that's the

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<v Speaker 1>first place they turned to. Yeah, and there's a great

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<v Speaker 1>picture that shows during the search when they're doing the dredging.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know that everybody understands, so I had

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<v Speaker 1>never really thought about it, But do you know how

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<v Speaker 1>you dredge for a Well, what they were doing is

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<v Speaker 1>they had basically a giant, three pronged hook on a rope,

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<v Speaker 1>chucking it in, letting it sink and dragging it back

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<v Speaker 1>to the top, which would have paid in the butt.

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<v Speaker 1>And I would hate to be the guy who was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta bite yeah, really seriously, probably brought up a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of logs, car tires, maybe some road signs, and

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<v Speaker 1>probably some of Churchill's tea set. Wait, I mean a

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<v Speaker 1>Turing t set. Yeah. Yeah, you guys you've heard about

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<v Speaker 1>what happened with his teacup, right, didn't He used to

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<v Speaker 1>like lock it to his death. It was just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a weirdo move. Yeah, I don't know, like why. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out to somebody at Bletchley Park thought that

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<v Speaker 1>they were a really funny prankster and would steal people's teacups,

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<v Speaker 1>and nobody really knew what the deal was until a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of years ago when they drained the pond and

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<v Speaker 1>on them all in the middle. He just thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was funny for them to disappear all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's criminally irresponsible. In the middle of a war.

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<v Speaker 1>You're wasting precious teacups. Yeah, I'm not gonna I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell the whole story here, But someday, if you're curious,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're listening to this, you should go out on

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<v Speaker 1>the internet and try to find the story of Churchill's parrot. Oh, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a great story. Yeah, not for this show now,

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<v Speaker 1>Batgar story. Sorry. Famous people started getting involved. Arthur Conan

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<v Speaker 1>Doyle remember him. Yeah, he gave a psychic one of

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<v Speaker 1>Agatha Christie's gloves. The psychic who was Horace Leaf. You guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you've heard of I am not. Actually you haven't. I

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<v Speaker 1>may have, but the name is not ringing a bell.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was like one of the most He was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of the spearhead of the spiritualist movement and he

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<v Speaker 1>would hold all of these like seances and stuff like

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<v Speaker 1>that and just with a total hack. There was a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of that stuff going on. Yeah, yeah, there was.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that he could tell she was still alive

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<v Speaker 1>though quote half days and half purposeful unquote. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's that's the whole thing, right, it's like mediums

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<v Speaker 1>and spiritualists. It's that like cold reading situation. Anyway, He however,

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<v Speaker 1>did predict that she would surface a few days later,

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<v Speaker 1>and accurately she did. Bob Tappen the banjo player at

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<v Speaker 1>the then named Harrowgate Hydropathic Company or the hydro which

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<v Speaker 1>is now called the Old swan In because sure he

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<v Speaker 1>recognized Christie. She had apparently checked in some number of

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<v Speaker 1>days ago. Though I've never been able to find out

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<v Speaker 1>when under the assumed name of Mrs Teresa Neil. That

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<v Speaker 1>theme sound familiar, does do? Who? Just? It's um archies

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<v Speaker 1>love her? Nancy Neal? Oh used the same last name? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>got it? Yeah? No, sorry, not to res Nel, but yeah, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I was confused. I wanted banjo player, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, the one of the London papers that offered

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<v Speaker 1>a one hundred pound reward and he collected it. He

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<v Speaker 1>got to collect it with hundred pounds back in those days,

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<v Speaker 1>was you know, chunk changed nair amount of money? Definitely apparently?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh sorry, that was also gonna say that. Apparently one

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<v Speaker 1>of the stories goes that it was actually one of

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<v Speaker 1>the one of the maids that recognized her, and she

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned it to him, and he just so he jumped

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<v Speaker 1>in there and grabbed the rewards. She should have kept

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<v Speaker 1>her mouth shut, should have she should have told somebody. Yeah, Apparently,

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<v Speaker 1>according to the prevalent theory, whatever, Christie had crashed, her

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<v Speaker 1>car gone into the what the old timey doctors called

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<v Speaker 1>the out of body amnesia experience, boarded a train to

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<v Speaker 1>the Hydro, checked in with almost no luggage, and lived

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<v Speaker 1>like a normal guest for eleven days. She had like

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<v Speaker 1>a pouchful of money, she like three hundred pounds or

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<v Speaker 1>something like. She had a lot of money. She had

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<v Speaker 1>like a money belt yeah yeah, which like, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why, like her driver's license and stuff weren't

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<v Speaker 1>in there, but okay, fine, who goes around with a

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<v Speaker 1>money belt stuffed full of cash all the time. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know rich people. I guess, I guess. Actually, when

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<v Speaker 1>I travel, I usually have a money belt with money

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<v Speaker 1>in it if I'm traveling overseas, right, yeah, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's traveling overseas. Yeah, not when you're, you know, going

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<v Speaker 1>to drive over to Yorkshire for a little bit. It

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<v Speaker 1>is admittedly it's two miles something from It's a couple

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<v Speaker 1>hour drive, is what it is. Though, that's that's not

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<v Speaker 1>far enough to me to justify trapping on yield money belt.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, Well, I'm sure a lot of people do

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of thing. Yeah, she I guess she had

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<v Speaker 1>read the newspapers with her name and picture plastered kind

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<v Speaker 1>of all over it, without apparently recognizing herself nor anybody

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<v Speaker 1>else looking at the you know, she's sitting there reading

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<v Speaker 1>the newspaper. There's the picture of her. You know, you

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<v Speaker 1>can play that in a movie, right, there's a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of her. You look at that, You look at her,

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<v Speaker 1>You look at that, You look at her, and you go, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not her. It's not her at all. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>did you look at the photos that they have of her,

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<v Speaker 1>because they had renditions of hers. Yeah, they especially with

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<v Speaker 1>that that weird little little um the glasses and the

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<v Speaker 1>high shirt. Yeah, or that weird haircut, or she looked

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<v Speaker 1>like what's his name from the three students? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And I kind of imagine, like, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>tappens revelation played out, I guess I imagine him just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of looking at her and saying, oh, hey, you're

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<v Speaker 1>Agatha Christie, the people are looking for you, and her

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<v Speaker 1>being like, no, I'm I'm miss Neil, and he's like, nah, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure you're Agatha. I'm going to call a police.

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<v Speaker 1>You probably didn't say that because she might iran if

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<v Speaker 1>she's maybe done that, that's true. Yeah, the police did

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<v Speaker 1>show up, and her husband did as well. Apparently this

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<v Speaker 1>rated on his like how much do I care about

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<v Speaker 1>my soon to be ex wife scale her disappearance. I

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<v Speaker 1>think the guy who philanders as much as he was

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<v Speaker 1>this is it's really weird that this rank's okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>the death of her mother doesn't. Yeah, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>at this point he was under a lot of scrutiny

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<v Speaker 1>from the press, and you know, you don't you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you're treating her so bad, you don't care

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<v Speaker 1>care about her at all, and so you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>demonstrate that. I don't. I don't think you probably especially

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go. But I mean, I think in addition

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<v Speaker 1>to that, it's, you know, you're treating her so bad,

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<v Speaker 1>you're being horrible to her. You probably killed her. If

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<v Speaker 1>we can't find her, we'll probably think that you killed her.

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<v Speaker 1>He probably had a pretty big vested interest in trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that she was found safe and sound.

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<v Speaker 1>True anyway, he without I guess, protests from her. I

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<v Speaker 1>never read any stories about her, you know, kicking and

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<v Speaker 1>screaming and protesting and saying, oh I'm not a good Christie.

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<v Speaker 1>Um no ah. He took her from the hydro to

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<v Speaker 1>Las Palmas, which like, why would you complain about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Spain little island off Spain, got it, beautiful little resort community.

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<v Speaker 1>Hang on, I'm gonna go see a check it out

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<v Speaker 1>a street view. Yeah, you should have done that already. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So she fully recovered and never had a spell of

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<v Speaker 1>lost time, at least that we know of. Again, never

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<v Speaker 1>had out of body or not anesthesia the same thing, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>Anesthesa does give you amnesia, does you know? So that's

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<v Speaker 1>the story. We don't know anything. I mean, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what happened during the love and days at all.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no record of it, and she didn't talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it in her memoirs at all either. She seems to

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<v Speaker 1>not genuinely. She never wanted to talk about She didn't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what she said. That's what she said. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of questions how did she get from

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<v Speaker 1>why did she go south? And then how did she

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<v Speaker 1>get from the car to the train, because it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like it was across the street from the train depot

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<v Speaker 1>or just down the street from it. There are there's

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<v Speaker 1>that town just to the northwest of where they found

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<v Speaker 1>the car, and it's it's spelled Guildford, but if I know,

0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:22.360
<v Speaker 1>the British just pronounced Jolfer, but it's spelled Guildford. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's a train station there and that's not very far

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<v Speaker 1>from where she crossed your car five, not even that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't, okay, Yeah, and so she but she would

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<v Speaker 1>have to be aware of what's around her to then

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<v Speaker 1>know to go that direction. I mean, it's just there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things. Well, I mean, I guess somebody

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<v Speaker 1>could have picked her up. It it was dark. Somebody

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<v Speaker 1>could have said, oh, yeah, i'll give you a right

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<v Speaker 1>to the nearest town and you can, you know, deal

0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:44.920
<v Speaker 1>with everything there. And she just was maybe a little

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<v Speaker 1>you know, adult, and so it was like, oh, okay, cool,

0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:50.440
<v Speaker 1>I'll get on the train. Well, yeah, it was one

0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.920
<v Speaker 1>way to look at it. Yeah, it's possible. There was

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<v Speaker 1>a rumor you'll read sometimes on the internet, um that

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<v Speaker 1>there was a cottage not far by that was found

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<v Speaker 1>with women's clothes like left in it. It was an

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<v Speaker 1>abandoned cottage or something that it meant that Agatha had

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<v Speaker 1>like changed her clothes. But that was total bunk. That

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<v Speaker 1>didn't actually happen. It's like a late addition to the story.

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<v Speaker 1>I want anything like that ever happened on the internet. Never, never,

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<v Speaker 1>never ever. So theoris the first one is the doctor obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah for real, I mean the giant Wasp aliens could

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<v Speaker 1>have been involved in the episode slash real life, because

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<v Speaker 1>we all know the doctor, who is a documentary Agatha

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<v Speaker 1>has been luring had been luring the Wasp away from

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<v Speaker 1>a party when she crashed her car. She suffered some

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<v Speaker 1>pain as the Wasp dies and she passes out, and

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<v Speaker 1>the doctor realizes that, like, oh, I'm the reason that

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<v Speaker 1>she was gone for eleven days, although in the episode

0:15:50.680 --> 0:15:53.160
<v Speaker 1>it was ten days. So I'm just going to take

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<v Speaker 1>her to the small where she was found. But no,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't think that as much as I like, dr

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<v Speaker 1>who is that not ane? I'm putting theory nobly not

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<v Speaker 1>like yet, as you would say, okay, fine, all right,

0:16:07.520 --> 0:16:10.840
<v Speaker 1>serious Option one, she was faking it yeah, I'm kind

0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:14.480
<v Speaker 1>of liken this one. Okay, So in true again Devin fashion,

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing the titles subheadings. But and this one is

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<v Speaker 1>actually pretty plausible that she was faking it. I mean again,

0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:23.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's like what you see pictures of yourself

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<v Speaker 1>all over the place, Like, how do you not? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because even if you've forgotten who you are, you're still

0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:30.680
<v Speaker 1>looking in the mirror every day. I don't know what

0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:34.960
<v Speaker 1>you look like. Yeah, um, but how many times have

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<v Speaker 1>you gone and looked at yourself in the mirror and

0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:41.480
<v Speaker 1>not notice something about yourself? You know, Let's say you've

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<v Speaker 1>got some you know, there's a wrinkle in your forehead

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<v Speaker 1>or something, you've got that distinct pattern, and you just

0:16:46.680 --> 0:16:49.880
<v Speaker 1>don't notice those anymore. And it might be that if

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<v Speaker 1>she's you know, a little screwed up in the head,

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<v Speaker 1>you just ignore that. Your brain just says, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>normally don't look at that, So I'm not gonna look

0:16:57.120 --> 0:16:58.400
<v Speaker 1>at that. I'm not gonna look at this. I'm gonna

0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:00.040
<v Speaker 1>look at that. And I just don't know who that

0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:03.440
<v Speaker 1>that that funny bit of nose and eyebrow wiz, you know. Actually,

0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:05.359
<v Speaker 1>and maybe she'd put out a whole lot of weight recently.

0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:08.560
<v Speaker 1>You know, the pictures were not you know, taken just yesterday. Yeah,

0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:10.199
<v Speaker 1>they weren't. Yeah, it's not like we were in the

0:17:10.240 --> 0:17:12.720
<v Speaker 1>age of instant photos. Yeah. So maybe she had the

0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:15.000
<v Speaker 1>picture those photos, that photo was taken and then she

0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:18.760
<v Speaker 1>put on like three pounds. That didn't happen, But it

0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:20.880
<v Speaker 1>might be a couple of years out of date. Yeah,

0:17:21.400 --> 0:17:24.600
<v Speaker 1>before we get too deep into this, this theory and

0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:28.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of you know, why and and how, let's pause

0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:31.359
<v Speaker 1>for a second to take a step out of the

0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:37.360
<v Speaker 1>Agatha Christie story and into psychology. Whoo, who at least

0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:40.880
<v Speaker 1>favorite college class? He's my favorite college class. It's weird

0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:43.040
<v Speaker 1>that they kept taking me stare at that black and

0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:48.320
<v Speaker 1>white spinning wheel. Yeah, by and I wouldn't remember anything.

0:17:48.400 --> 0:17:52.119
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, well maybe you had this happen to Actually

0:17:52.200 --> 0:17:54.640
<v Speaker 1>I have to have that sometimes when I've just sort

0:17:54.640 --> 0:17:58.680
<v Speaker 1>of lost memory. Yeah, usually alcohols involved. Yeah, usually yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>As I mentioned before, officially Agatha was diagnosed with out

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<v Speaker 1>of body amnesia and I had to turn to our

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<v Speaker 1>experts on this. So a huge thank you to Luke, Hannah,

0:18:11.359 --> 0:18:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Aaron Jacob, and Elena and thanks guys. You guys were

0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:19.639
<v Speaker 1>like crazy helpful. I can google all I want and

0:18:19.680 --> 0:18:22.199
<v Speaker 1>read the Wikipedia articles that you quoted back to me,

0:18:22.840 --> 0:18:25.560
<v Speaker 1>and it will never be as good as somebody you know,

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<v Speaker 1>writing out in layman's terms what this means and giving

0:18:28.760 --> 0:18:33.080
<v Speaker 1>me their professional opinion on something. So thank you. Everybody

0:18:33.080 --> 0:18:36.160
<v Speaker 1>pretty much agreed that the modern diagnosis of an out

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<v Speaker 1>of body amnesia experience would be what's called a FuG state.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're a fan of Breaking Bad, you probably have

0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:45.359
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of experience with this. You guys on

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<v Speaker 1>Walter had to account for some lost time. What are

0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:58.000
<v Speaker 1>you staring me? Yeah? Yeah, here right, yeah, any any

0:18:58.200 --> 0:18:59.720
<v Speaker 1>you know? So he's naked in a store and he

0:19:00.080 --> 0:19:02.440
<v Speaker 1>doesn't really know who he is, and thanks for spoiling

0:19:03.600 --> 0:19:05.480
<v Speaker 1>that spoils a very small part of it. But in

0:19:05.520 --> 0:19:08.440
<v Speaker 1>the in the episode, it's very clear that he isn't

0:19:08.480 --> 0:19:11.760
<v Speaker 1>actually in state. He's faking it. Yeah. Essentially, as I

0:19:11.840 --> 0:19:14.919
<v Speaker 1>understand it, when somebody is under a huge amount of

0:19:14.960 --> 0:19:20.199
<v Speaker 1>stress or incredibly depressed, the brain basically decides to say, like,

0:19:20.240 --> 0:19:22.520
<v Speaker 1>by Felicia, let's start a whole new life as a

0:19:22.520 --> 0:19:24.760
<v Speaker 1>whole new person, and makes it up for you. I

0:19:24.760 --> 0:19:27.760
<v Speaker 1>don't know how often this happens though, I well, nor

0:19:27.800 --> 0:19:31.720
<v Speaker 1>do I, and we'll we'll talk about that. Yeah, there

0:19:31.720 --> 0:19:33.840
<v Speaker 1>does seem to be Yeah, um, it can also be

0:19:33.960 --> 0:19:37.880
<v Speaker 1>caused by trauma, like a car crash, right if you

0:19:37.960 --> 0:19:40.040
<v Speaker 1>hit your head hard enough, your brain wakes up and

0:19:40.080 --> 0:19:43.600
<v Speaker 1>it's like, I don't know what's going on. She ran

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<v Speaker 1>her car into a bush. I thought, Yeah, have you've

0:19:46.960 --> 0:19:53.280
<v Speaker 1>seen the hedgerows? Those things are stout? Didn't think, have

0:19:53.320 --> 0:19:55.040
<v Speaker 1>you ever seen I've never seen a small headge in

0:19:55.119 --> 0:19:58.840
<v Speaker 1>England and they're all massive. Yeah. I guess for me,

0:19:58.960 --> 0:20:00.960
<v Speaker 1>it's a little bit like I don't know what caused

0:20:00.960 --> 0:20:03.000
<v Speaker 1>her to crash her car, So I don't even know

0:20:03.000 --> 0:20:05.240
<v Speaker 1>if it was crashed well, or to run off the

0:20:05.320 --> 0:20:07.520
<v Speaker 1>road or whatever. You know, it wasn't in the middle

0:20:07.560 --> 0:20:09.760
<v Speaker 1>of the road. It was off the road for some reason.

0:20:10.960 --> 0:20:14.000
<v Speaker 1>So she might not have you know, this, this head

0:20:14.040 --> 0:20:16.680
<v Speaker 1>injury that we're now talking about, might not even happen

0:20:16.760 --> 0:20:18.960
<v Speaker 1>in the car. It may not have happened at all.

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<v Speaker 1>It may have been you know, she may have slipped

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<v Speaker 1>into a few state because because her husband, her mom

0:20:25.440 --> 0:20:28.119
<v Speaker 1>just died and her husband is leaving her, and like

0:20:28.160 --> 0:20:31.600
<v Speaker 1>that's a pretty a small child, pretty high level of stress.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a lot of stress. Yeah, but you know,

0:20:33.640 --> 0:20:35.320
<v Speaker 1>as far as the car thing goes, I'm not sure

0:20:35.359 --> 0:20:37.240
<v Speaker 1>she even crashed. And I think what happened is this

0:20:37.280 --> 0:20:40.720
<v Speaker 1>was this was early December in Britain. She's driving a

0:20:40.800 --> 0:20:43.199
<v Speaker 1>British car. What does a British car have in it?

0:20:43.600 --> 0:20:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Nothing that Lucas electrics, Yeah, which means that the car

0:20:47.480 --> 0:20:50.280
<v Speaker 1>will just stop running for no reason whatsoever. Yeah, you

0:20:50.400 --> 0:20:54.000
<v Speaker 1>never You never experienced Lucas electrics, so you haven't. I

0:20:54.119 --> 0:20:58.280
<v Speaker 1>drive Japanese cars mostly. Yeah. Yeah, anyway, that's why I

0:20:58.880 --> 0:21:03.040
<v Speaker 1>drive good cars. That's what I donna say. But yeah, yeah,

0:21:03.280 --> 0:21:07.760
<v Speaker 1>no reliance, no Robin reliance. Um. So the experts did

0:21:07.760 --> 0:21:10.720
<v Speaker 1>agree on that bit. Just across the board. Everybody said, yes,

0:21:12.000 --> 0:21:15.840
<v Speaker 1>huge state, that's a thing. It's an actual thing. What

0:21:15.920 --> 0:21:19.640
<v Speaker 1>they didn't super agree about is how common it is.

0:21:20.400 --> 0:21:25.600
<v Speaker 1>The answers kind of varied from not uncommon to extremely uncommon.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that, you know, not uncommon is like

0:21:28.400 --> 0:21:31.359
<v Speaker 1>the term that clinicians use when they're like, well, you

0:21:31.480 --> 0:21:36.000
<v Speaker 1>might know somebody who has this happened to them. I don't,

0:21:36.760 --> 0:21:40.199
<v Speaker 1>you know, It's not like I don't know either. I

0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:43.239
<v Speaker 1>had one expert who said that, UM, in all you know,

0:21:43.280 --> 0:21:47.119
<v Speaker 1>she's practicing clinician, And she said, in all of her time,

0:21:47.520 --> 0:21:50.840
<v Speaker 1>like twenty years or whatever, and in everybody that she knows,

0:21:51.280 --> 0:21:56.040
<v Speaker 1>none nobody has ever actually encountered, UM, somebody who's been

0:21:56.040 --> 0:22:00.119
<v Speaker 1>in a few state. So I wonder, certain diagnosed this

0:22:00.800 --> 0:22:05.320
<v Speaker 1>come into fashion and and things. More and more of

0:22:05.320 --> 0:22:09.919
<v Speaker 1>the medical practicing, psychologist psychological practices seem to keep being

0:22:10.160 --> 0:22:15.320
<v Speaker 1>subdivided into smaller, smaller, more finite answers. So I wonder

0:22:15.440 --> 0:22:19.600
<v Speaker 1>if fugue state was kind of that blanket general term

0:22:19.600 --> 0:22:22.560
<v Speaker 1>they used for this whole group of things they didn't understand.

0:22:22.640 --> 0:22:25.840
<v Speaker 1>And as time has gone on and things have gotten

0:22:25.960 --> 0:22:30.200
<v Speaker 1>more exact, they've kind of abandoned that term or even

0:22:30.440 --> 0:22:32.840
<v Speaker 1>the whole thing, because then, oh no, it's actually this

0:22:32.960 --> 0:22:36.000
<v Speaker 1>one thing, or it's, oh, this other thing. I don't

0:22:36.000 --> 0:22:39.240
<v Speaker 1>think fugue state is an old term. It's that out

0:22:39.280 --> 0:22:42.000
<v Speaker 1>of out of body amnesia is what they used to

0:22:42.040 --> 0:22:45.440
<v Speaker 1>call it. FuG state is certainly not a new diagnosis,

0:22:45.440 --> 0:22:48.920
<v Speaker 1>but I also don't think it's particularly old. UM. One

0:22:48.960 --> 0:22:51.280
<v Speaker 1>of the people that I talked to UM said that

0:22:51.400 --> 0:22:57.359
<v Speaker 1>oftentimes people who suffer from PTSD will experience moments of

0:22:57.440 --> 0:23:01.159
<v Speaker 1>these not weeks months, you know, and you you you

0:23:01.280 --> 0:23:04.840
<v Speaker 1>hear stories like there's all those stories of villagers after

0:23:05.480 --> 0:23:08.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, bombs go off, planes drop a gazillion bombs

0:23:08.720 --> 0:23:11.240
<v Speaker 1>and obliterate the town and they're all just kind of

0:23:11.280 --> 0:23:15.119
<v Speaker 1>wandering around, going where what is this place? Where am I?

0:23:15.320 --> 0:23:18.320
<v Speaker 1>What's going on? So, I mean, it's a very famous

0:23:18.480 --> 0:23:22.159
<v Speaker 1>example of a potential we'll maybe do an episode. Is

0:23:22.200 --> 0:23:25.439
<v Speaker 1>Benjamin Kyle. Yeah, if he's not faking it, he is

0:23:25.440 --> 0:23:28.880
<v Speaker 1>in a few state. That's that's a thing. Apparently. Well

0:23:28.920 --> 0:23:30.679
<v Speaker 1>if I mean, either he's faking it or he's in

0:23:30.720 --> 0:23:32.440
<v Speaker 1>a few state, those are the only two options he

0:23:32.560 --> 0:23:34.639
<v Speaker 1>needs to snap out of it. Yeah, somebody needs to

0:23:34.640 --> 0:23:37.879
<v Speaker 1>give him a shake, Yeah, because that's I'm sure what cost.

0:23:38.400 --> 0:23:41.600
<v Speaker 1>That always clears it right up. I'm going to shake you. Yeah.

0:23:41.600 --> 0:23:43.920
<v Speaker 1>When I was a kid, this is actually a recurring

0:23:43.960 --> 0:23:46.320
<v Speaker 1>theme and a lot of like comedies like whatever, people

0:23:46.359 --> 0:23:48.159
<v Speaker 1>would get it, get hit in the head and they

0:23:48.160 --> 0:23:50.800
<v Speaker 1>would have amnesia. And then while it turns out that

0:23:51.200 --> 0:23:54.000
<v Speaker 1>you know American television, another blow to the head and

0:23:54.040 --> 0:23:58.159
<v Speaker 1>the exact same spot will bring your memory back. So

0:23:58.240 --> 0:23:59.639
<v Speaker 1>I didn't somebody hit her on the head with a

0:23:59.720 --> 0:24:03.080
<v Speaker 1>rock really though, or put her in a car and

0:24:03.119 --> 0:24:06.040
<v Speaker 1>shut it down the hill. I mean, the thing is right,

0:24:06.160 --> 0:24:09.840
<v Speaker 1>is it seems like I haven't heard anybody say she

0:24:09.960 --> 0:24:13.640
<v Speaker 1>totally denied it. You know, there's no record of how

0:24:13.720 --> 0:24:16.640
<v Speaker 1>she reacted once somebody was like, hey, you're at the Christie.

0:24:16.680 --> 0:24:21.080
<v Speaker 1>There's no record of how she reacted or anything. And

0:24:21.560 --> 0:24:26.080
<v Speaker 1>it was not really thoroughly investigator. Yeah, they beat the bushes,

0:24:26.080 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 1>but once they found her, they didn't really question anybody there.

0:24:28.320 --> 0:24:30.920
<v Speaker 1>It seems like, well, it's I think it's because everybody

0:24:31.040 --> 0:24:35.320
<v Speaker 1>was really peeved. She wasted a lot of people's time,

0:24:35.800 --> 0:24:38.600
<v Speaker 1>and obviously that would be a good reason to say

0:24:38.720 --> 0:24:40.720
<v Speaker 1>what she said, which is that I was in a

0:24:40.840 --> 0:24:43.000
<v Speaker 1>huge state or out of body or whatever, I just

0:24:43.040 --> 0:24:46.159
<v Speaker 1>had no memory, because obviously otherwise one up there and

0:24:46.680 --> 0:24:49.240
<v Speaker 1>knowing the papers says that thousands of people are out

0:24:49.320 --> 0:24:51.639
<v Speaker 1>looking for her, and she didn't lift a finger to

0:24:51.720 --> 0:24:53.800
<v Speaker 1>let anybody know that she was. Okay, So we'll we'll

0:24:53.840 --> 0:24:58.640
<v Speaker 1>talk about this. We're getting a little ahead of ourselves. Yeah.

0:24:58.920 --> 0:25:02.320
<v Speaker 1>So the for option, as we were going to play

0:25:02.359 --> 0:25:06.000
<v Speaker 1>now off pause, is the first serious option is she

0:25:06.119 --> 0:25:08.760
<v Speaker 1>was faking it. So if we go with the experts

0:25:08.760 --> 0:25:12.240
<v Speaker 1>who say it's extremely uncommon for people to experience this

0:25:12.320 --> 0:25:15.560
<v Speaker 1>sort of you know, time lost, lost self fugu state.

0:25:15.880 --> 0:25:18.720
<v Speaker 1>Then we end up with the theory that um Agatha

0:25:18.920 --> 0:25:21.960
<v Speaker 1>was faking it. But why would she fake it? I

0:25:22.000 --> 0:25:25.200
<v Speaker 1>can think of one reason. I can think of a couple. Yeah,

0:25:25.240 --> 0:25:27.840
<v Speaker 1>for real, let's talk about a couple of them, all right.

0:25:28.040 --> 0:25:31.760
<v Speaker 1>The first one is she was attempting to sully the

0:25:31.800 --> 0:25:35.119
<v Speaker 1>name of her husband, right, yeah, n married what twelve

0:25:35.200 --> 0:25:37.080
<v Speaker 1>fourteen years at that point, I mean, she'd been wrong

0:25:37.119 --> 0:25:39.919
<v Speaker 1>pretty seriously. I would say, oh yeah, and they had

0:25:39.920 --> 0:25:42.199
<v Speaker 1>a kid too, don't forget, you know. And so suddenly

0:25:42.240 --> 0:25:43.760
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, you know, we've been together, we've had

0:25:43.760 --> 0:25:45.480
<v Speaker 1>a kid, and now I want to I'm in love

0:25:45.520 --> 0:25:47.960
<v Speaker 1>with a younger woman. That's kind of rude, But yeah,

0:25:48.560 --> 0:25:50.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't think it was just a matter

0:25:50.000 --> 0:25:56.520
<v Speaker 1>of sullying his name as Ash, staging a disappearance and

0:25:57.600 --> 0:26:00.280
<v Speaker 1>drawing a lot of attention to that and well than

0:26:00.359 --> 0:26:03.320
<v Speaker 1>basically his romantic getaway for the weekend. Yeah. There's actually

0:26:03.359 --> 0:26:06.520
<v Speaker 1>a quote that I have here um by the author

0:26:07.119 --> 0:26:10.880
<v Speaker 1>of Agatha Christie and the Eleven Missing Days, whose name

0:26:10.920 --> 0:26:15.159
<v Speaker 1>is Jared Cade and he says, quote, hell, hath no fury.

0:26:15.560 --> 0:26:18.320
<v Speaker 1>She wanted to disrupt his weekend with Nancy Neal and

0:26:18.400 --> 0:26:22.159
<v Speaker 1>make him suffer, although she still adored him. What no

0:26:22.200 --> 0:26:25.000
<v Speaker 1>one could have foreseen was the press reaction. She was

0:26:25.040 --> 0:26:28.080
<v Speaker 1>propelled from being an author with a reputation into one

0:26:28.080 --> 0:26:30.600
<v Speaker 1>of the most famous women in England unquote, which I

0:26:30.600 --> 0:26:35.720
<v Speaker 1>think is fair. Right. It's who who says I'm gonna

0:26:35.800 --> 0:26:38.239
<v Speaker 1>run away from home for a couple of days with

0:26:38.400 --> 0:26:44.080
<v Speaker 1>the anticipation of a national manhunt. Yeah, you know, I

0:26:44.119 --> 0:26:47.400
<v Speaker 1>think you don't. There's no way you would consider that

0:26:47.400 --> 0:26:49.360
<v Speaker 1>that would ever happen. That it would just be that

0:26:49.960 --> 0:26:52.280
<v Speaker 1>Archie her husband would get word that she was missing,

0:26:52.320 --> 0:26:54.680
<v Speaker 1>and he would say, oh, better go look for her.

0:26:54.920 --> 0:26:57.720
<v Speaker 1>And she would resurface a few days later and say

0:26:57.760 --> 0:27:01.080
<v Speaker 1>see how see how it feels or whatever, I got

0:27:01.080 --> 0:27:03.719
<v Speaker 1>you or whatever. But once it gained steam, she couldn't

0:27:03.720 --> 0:27:06.640
<v Speaker 1>get out from under it. Right, That's exactly I mean.

0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:08.800
<v Speaker 1>I think you kind of panic, right if you see

0:27:08.880 --> 0:27:11.480
<v Speaker 1>your face on the front page of the New York

0:27:11.520 --> 0:27:16.120
<v Speaker 1>Times and they're like missing thousands of people looking, well,

0:27:16.640 --> 0:27:19.040
<v Speaker 1>you're not going to be like, oh, I better like

0:27:19.119 --> 0:27:21.560
<v Speaker 1>show up because you're going to see if you can

0:27:21.560 --> 0:27:23.840
<v Speaker 1>find a way to make it go away. Yeah. Last

0:27:23.840 --> 0:27:25.679
<v Speaker 1>the thing is like, by by doing what she did,

0:27:25.720 --> 0:27:28.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't think she really thought through the consequences that, well,

0:27:28.800 --> 0:27:32.000
<v Speaker 1>if she fixed leaving her car in someplace not anywhere

0:27:32.119 --> 0:27:35.480
<v Speaker 1>in New Yorkshire, what they're belonging still in it, you know.

0:27:36.640 --> 0:27:38.879
<v Speaker 1>And then she picks up the papers, sees her name

0:27:38.920 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 1>in there and her pictures, says, oh, gets in touch

0:27:41.040 --> 0:27:42.520
<v Speaker 1>with the police right away. They go say, well, why

0:27:42.640 --> 0:27:45.119
<v Speaker 1>was your car parked where it was? There's not a

0:27:45.119 --> 0:27:47.320
<v Speaker 1>lot of good explanations for that. And I don't think

0:27:47.359 --> 0:27:50.359
<v Speaker 1>she thought her planned to to really quite carefully enough.

0:27:50.480 --> 0:27:53.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm I'm sure that it wasn't really a plan.

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:57.800
<v Speaker 1>I I get the feeling that if she did this intentionally,

0:27:58.119 --> 0:28:01.000
<v Speaker 1>it was a bit of I'm going to do this,

0:28:01.640 --> 0:28:04.919
<v Speaker 1>and then she stops, crap, I can't do that, you know,

0:28:05.000 --> 0:28:07.480
<v Speaker 1>like just kind of making it up as she goes along,

0:28:08.040 --> 0:28:09.840
<v Speaker 1>and she's like, well, I said i'd go to Yorkshire.

0:28:09.880 --> 0:28:11.679
<v Speaker 1>So I went to Yorkshire and then I checked in

0:28:11.760 --> 0:28:14.080
<v Speaker 1>and I was having a good couple of days and

0:28:14.080 --> 0:28:17.439
<v Speaker 1>then oh, hell, it's all over the news. If I

0:28:17.480 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 1>come out now, it's gonna be terrible. Oh it's another day.

0:28:21.240 --> 0:28:24.359
<v Speaker 1>It's still terrible. You know, it's just every day just

0:28:24.400 --> 0:28:31.800
<v Speaker 1>hoping it'll go away, it'll die down. Yeah, make um fun. Fact,

0:28:33.119 --> 0:28:35.359
<v Speaker 1>she was actually driving the way she was driving. I

0:28:35.359 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 1>know you guys were kind of speculating back but first left. Yeah,

0:28:39.480 --> 0:28:42.320
<v Speaker 1>when she first left, because she wasn't driving towards Yorkshire,

0:28:42.600 --> 0:28:46.120
<v Speaker 1>Yorkshire from from their house, and I know that Joe

0:28:46.160 --> 0:28:47.800
<v Speaker 1>does this all the time, so it's my turn to

0:28:47.840 --> 0:28:51.320
<v Speaker 1>do this. Um. She was actually driving towards the place

0:28:51.360 --> 0:28:55.600
<v Speaker 1>where Archie was spending the weekend with his lover. On

0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:58.040
<v Speaker 1>the map, it kind of lines up in the direction

0:28:58.120 --> 0:29:02.400
<v Speaker 1>she was going, so Mary was actually maybe she sat

0:29:02.400 --> 0:29:05.280
<v Speaker 1>down and thought, I'm actually I need to go confront

0:29:05.400 --> 0:29:08.840
<v Speaker 1>him or confront them or whatever. And then car breaks

0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:12.000
<v Speaker 1>down with the great electronics, with great electronics, that's that's

0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:15.040
<v Speaker 1>seriously a possibility. I remember like some years back, in

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:17.240
<v Speaker 1>front of mine had a chance and heally convertible my

0:29:17.280 --> 0:29:19.960
<v Speaker 1>little Brady sports car that had Lucas electrics in it,

0:29:20.440 --> 0:29:22.400
<v Speaker 1>and we he was living in Newport at the time,

0:29:22.440 --> 0:29:25.640
<v Speaker 1>and we went to a concert in Eugene and night

0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:29.240
<v Speaker 1>it's night night. We're driving back to Newport and well

0:29:29.280 --> 0:29:31.600
<v Speaker 1>the car just crapt out in the middle of nowhere.

0:29:31.920 --> 0:29:35.600
<v Speaker 1>We had to spend the night sleeping in the car. Yeah,

0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:38.760
<v Speaker 1>so she could have been doing it. She could have

0:29:38.840 --> 0:29:43.000
<v Speaker 1>been going to ruin their weekend. She could have been lying,

0:29:43.520 --> 0:29:46.760
<v Speaker 1>faking it because it was a trick gone awry. I

0:29:46.760 --> 0:29:50.240
<v Speaker 1>guess she could have been doing it to stage a disappearance,

0:29:50.280 --> 0:29:54.600
<v Speaker 1>to have his name be sullied. I don't know. Maybe

0:29:54.640 --> 0:29:58.440
<v Speaker 1>she was heading that direction to murder him, and it's unlikely,

0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:03.200
<v Speaker 1>but maybe if bowl Yeah, yeah, but then why she

0:30:03.280 --> 0:30:06.880
<v Speaker 1>went in border to train to some place ELTs She

0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:09.680
<v Speaker 1>was being stupid, Not to be mean, but she's like,

0:30:09.880 --> 0:30:13.120
<v Speaker 1>this is stupid. What am I doing? Not bad idea,

0:30:14.000 --> 0:30:17.000
<v Speaker 1>It's like bad idea became another. Yeah, yeah, imagine you

0:30:17.080 --> 0:30:19.280
<v Speaker 1>know for what Imagine her car did break down. That

0:30:19.320 --> 0:30:21.680
<v Speaker 1>the nearest town is that little town called Guildford or

0:30:21.720 --> 0:30:24.040
<v Speaker 1>whatever it's however was pronounced, and so she walks back

0:30:24.120 --> 0:30:26.360
<v Speaker 1>there and just says, he says, you know what, screw

0:30:26.440 --> 0:30:28.640
<v Speaker 1>that car, I'm just gonna get on a train. Yeah,

0:30:28.840 --> 0:30:32.200
<v Speaker 1>or you know, she decides, oh wow, that was crazy talk.

0:30:32.280 --> 0:30:36.720
<v Speaker 1>I need to go take a spaw day and then it,

0:30:36.840 --> 0:30:38.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, gets out from under her again. Don't These

0:30:38.800 --> 0:30:43.360
<v Speaker 1>are all theories, you know. The I didn't have time, unfortunately,

0:30:43.360 --> 0:30:45.840
<v Speaker 1>to read Jared Kade's book about the Missing Eleven Days,

0:30:46.120 --> 0:30:48.640
<v Speaker 1>did I Yeah, if I wish I had, But I

0:30:48.680 --> 0:30:50.840
<v Speaker 1>did read. I did read a few summaries of it.

0:30:51.080 --> 0:30:54.400
<v Speaker 1>Apparently he interviews some of the some of the relatives

0:30:54.440 --> 0:30:56.400
<v Speaker 1>of some of the people who were actually involved in this,

0:30:57.320 --> 0:31:01.600
<v Speaker 1>and they said that she actually concocted this whole scheme

0:31:01.600 --> 0:31:04.800
<v Speaker 1>with one of her friends and actually got some help

0:31:04.800 --> 0:31:08.440
<v Speaker 1>and support from these people. Yeah. I've seen stuff about that. Yeah,

0:31:09.000 --> 0:31:12.920
<v Speaker 1>so that's theory. Serious theory number one. Serious theory number

0:31:12.920 --> 0:31:15.440
<v Speaker 1>two is that she was actually doing it to slowly.

0:31:15.440 --> 0:31:17.960
<v Speaker 1>The name of her husband's lover did sort of bring

0:31:18.000 --> 0:31:19.760
<v Speaker 1>that out of the open, huh that did? I mean,

0:31:19.840 --> 0:31:21.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, it brought that whole situation out in the open.

0:31:21.960 --> 0:31:25.000
<v Speaker 1>But also she did check into the hotel under the

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:28.840
<v Speaker 1>same last name as her husband's lover, which is kind

0:31:28.840 --> 0:31:34.040
<v Speaker 1>of sketchy, like it's not Neil isn't the most common

0:31:34.120 --> 0:31:37.200
<v Speaker 1>last name, especially if he's just said, oh, I'm leaving

0:31:37.240 --> 0:31:40.840
<v Speaker 1>you from Nancy Neil. So the other little thing that

0:31:40.920 --> 0:31:44.000
<v Speaker 1>I read and I don't I honestly don't remember where

0:31:44.000 --> 0:31:46.880
<v Speaker 1>I read it, but I read that Agatha when she

0:31:46.960 --> 0:31:50.680
<v Speaker 1>was asked why she took the why she gave that

0:31:50.720 --> 0:31:54.080
<v Speaker 1>as her fake name, she actually gave the mailing address

0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:57.280
<v Speaker 1>of the Neil family and said that inquiries regarding this

0:31:57.320 --> 0:32:01.120
<v Speaker 1>matter should be directed there, which is pretty boss, right,

0:32:02.040 --> 0:32:05.520
<v Speaker 1>So that I don't know. In a way though, if

0:32:05.560 --> 0:32:09.160
<v Speaker 1>she was faking it, it kind of worked because I

0:32:09.160 --> 0:32:11.960
<v Speaker 1>don't think she and her husband officially were divorced for

0:32:12.040 --> 0:32:14.960
<v Speaker 1>another year and a half, for another year, another year. Yeah,

0:32:14.960 --> 0:32:17.000
<v Speaker 1>it took. It wasn't like, you know, I mean, they

0:32:17.000 --> 0:32:21.080
<v Speaker 1>had already had their trial separation, which was her reconciliation,

0:32:21.720 --> 0:32:26.000
<v Speaker 1>which didn't work at all. So in a way, she

0:32:26.360 --> 0:32:30.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of got it kind of worked because he had to.

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:33.160
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like he was free to just go about

0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:37.240
<v Speaker 1>with with miss Neil and have an open relationship because

0:32:37.480 --> 0:32:41.360
<v Speaker 1>technically he's still married and that was highly frowned upon. Yeah. Yeah,

0:32:41.600 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 1>so that's another option. I guess Batley was an attempt

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:48.120
<v Speaker 1>to just spoil their weekend and maybe shine a little

0:32:48.120 --> 0:32:51.120
<v Speaker 1>bad light of publicity on both of them. But there's

0:32:51.160 --> 0:32:55.960
<v Speaker 1>also the option to that she wasn't faking it that

0:32:56.080 --> 0:32:58.760
<v Speaker 1>she really did go into a few state. I also

0:32:58.880 --> 0:33:01.040
<v Speaker 1>think this is fairly re in a ball. You know,

0:33:01.080 --> 0:33:03.400
<v Speaker 1>Agatha was under a lot of stress, as we mentioned,

0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:08.880
<v Speaker 1>emotionally maybe physically I don't know, but certainly emotionally. She

0:33:09.000 --> 0:33:11.200
<v Speaker 1>had a lot of the stuff that we were talking

0:33:11.240 --> 0:33:15.200
<v Speaker 1>about earlier, and she was It turns out, according to

0:33:15.240 --> 0:33:17.160
<v Speaker 1>most reports, she was really still in love with her

0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:20.400
<v Speaker 1>husband Archie. So it wasn't just the embarrassment of a

0:33:20.440 --> 0:33:23.240
<v Speaker 1>divorce and him taking a lover. It was also the

0:33:23.320 --> 0:33:26.080
<v Speaker 1>heartbreak of you know, him saying, oh I don't love

0:33:26.080 --> 0:33:29.640
<v Speaker 1>you anymore. I'm leaving you for a younger woman. By So,

0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:31.959
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, she could have She could have easily

0:33:31.960 --> 0:33:34.720
<v Speaker 1>slipped into a few state even before she left the house.

0:33:35.080 --> 0:33:37.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, she got in the car, she was driving

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:39.760
<v Speaker 1>the wrong direction. She could have been confused at that point.

0:33:40.360 --> 0:33:42.959
<v Speaker 1>She could have she could have hit her head in

0:33:43.000 --> 0:33:45.120
<v Speaker 1>the car. You know, in some way, she could have

0:33:45.120 --> 0:33:49.040
<v Speaker 1>slipped into a feug state wall she was driving. That's

0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:52.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, she kind of lost control of the car. Fine,

0:33:52.160 --> 0:33:54.280
<v Speaker 1>and then she gets out and is confused, and so

0:33:54.360 --> 0:33:57.960
<v Speaker 1>basically she could have slipped into that huge state for

0:33:58.040 --> 0:34:00.360
<v Speaker 1>many time, when she was in the house, when she

0:34:00.480 --> 0:34:03.400
<v Speaker 1>left to after she left her car. Yeah, I wouldn't.

0:34:03.520 --> 0:34:06.240
<v Speaker 1>I would say that if if she actually was in

0:34:06.280 --> 0:34:08.880
<v Speaker 1>a few states. It wasn't at the spa like she

0:34:09.000 --> 0:34:11.040
<v Speaker 1>got there and checked it, you know that. Yeah, she

0:34:11.040 --> 0:34:17.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't get such a great massige. Yeah. So yeah, maybe

0:34:17.200 --> 0:34:19.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe it was a car breaking down. Maybe that was

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:22.160
<v Speaker 1>a less straw. It's yeah, it's possible. Maybe that was it.

0:34:22.280 --> 0:34:26.000
<v Speaker 1>Maybe the car broke down and she just lost it. Literally,

0:34:28.120 --> 0:34:31.320
<v Speaker 1>I need to stop doing this podcast. But no, it

0:34:31.440 --> 0:34:33.960
<v Speaker 1>is stressful. It's super stressful, especially as a woman, you

0:34:33.960 --> 0:34:37.680
<v Speaker 1>know in the English countryside. Just suddenly you know, there's

0:34:37.680 --> 0:34:40.240
<v Speaker 1>nothing you want to be in the next Morrow Murray, Yeah,

0:34:40.400 --> 0:34:45.120
<v Speaker 1>or or the first mor Murray. Yeah, it wouldn't have

0:34:45.120 --> 0:34:48.239
<v Speaker 1>been the next Well I'm just saying. I'm just saying,

0:34:48.239 --> 0:34:51.359
<v Speaker 1>if you're a woman today and you break down, then

0:34:51.440 --> 0:34:54.520
<v Speaker 1>you could be the next Mornure. Yeah yeah, yeah, I

0:34:54.760 --> 0:34:59.080
<v Speaker 1>you know what, Honestly, I'm torn. I don't know, I

0:34:59.160 --> 0:35:01.280
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I don't I like, I don't know about

0:35:01.280 --> 0:35:04.239
<v Speaker 1>this well I am I'm trying to remember where where

0:35:04.280 --> 0:35:07.160
<v Speaker 1>I where I read this. But she was there for

0:35:07.200 --> 0:35:09.960
<v Speaker 1>like about ten days. I think nobody knows exactly. I

0:35:10.000 --> 0:35:13.080
<v Speaker 1>don't think exactly when, which is weird lit right now,

0:35:13.280 --> 0:35:14.719
<v Speaker 1>she had to go to London and then catch a

0:35:14.760 --> 0:35:18.640
<v Speaker 1>train from London. Supposedly she had some co conspirators in London,

0:35:18.680 --> 0:35:21.520
<v Speaker 1>if you believe that particular theory, she might have stayed

0:35:21.520 --> 0:35:23.520
<v Speaker 1>there for a day or two. And apparently these people

0:35:23.560 --> 0:35:25.719
<v Speaker 1>also helped her out by giving her some cash, um,

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:28.239
<v Speaker 1>and then she headed on up there. But apparently while

0:35:28.280 --> 0:35:31.239
<v Speaker 1>she was staying there, it happens a week before this

0:35:31.320 --> 0:35:34.160
<v Speaker 1>whole thing happened, she was I think, at Herod's in London,

0:35:34.800 --> 0:35:37.680
<v Speaker 1>and she had lost her ring in the store and

0:35:37.800 --> 0:35:42.920
<v Speaker 1>she um. While she was staying at the bath the hydro,

0:35:43.840 --> 0:35:46.560
<v Speaker 1>she actually wrote a letter to Herod's inquiring about the

0:35:46.600 --> 0:35:50.680
<v Speaker 1>lost ring. Oh yeah, she did, she I believe it

0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:54.919
<v Speaker 1>in the name Agatha Christie. She so it appears that

0:35:56.040 --> 0:35:59.600
<v Speaker 1>she her memory was intact. If this is true. Yeah,

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:02.200
<v Speaker 1>if that's true, Yeah, it would appear that. But I

0:36:02.680 --> 0:36:04.919
<v Speaker 1>don't know that we can you know, prove it either.

0:36:04.960 --> 0:36:07.120
<v Speaker 1>Well that's it, I mean, I don't I haven't seen

0:36:07.160 --> 0:36:11.040
<v Speaker 1>a copy of the letter. Eventually, the rain was found apparently, Yeah,

0:36:11.120 --> 0:36:14.880
<v Speaker 1>but uh, Yeah. The one thing about Agatha Christie that

0:36:15.480 --> 0:36:18.920
<v Speaker 1>always that makes me wonder if maybe it's not real

0:36:19.200 --> 0:36:22.239
<v Speaker 1>and that she was faking it is. For the most part,

0:36:22.280 --> 0:36:25.000
<v Speaker 1>I never really saw her ever reflected in any way

0:36:25.040 --> 0:36:30.719
<v Speaker 1>as an exceptionally happy person. She hated a lot of things. Yes, um,

0:36:31.280 --> 0:36:34.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean she was a bit of an anti semit

0:36:35.040 --> 0:36:40.279
<v Speaker 1>she was. She also hated her own characters books, uh

0:36:40.520 --> 0:36:46.759
<v Speaker 1>perot and um, what's the marvel? Marvel? Miss Marple hated them?

0:36:46.760 --> 0:36:49.640
<v Speaker 1>Why don't hate them? She was tired of writing about them.

0:36:49.680 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 1>And she really had created these characters that she said

0:36:52.719 --> 0:37:00.000
<v Speaker 1>she detested. It was nineteen five she killed him, um

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<v Speaker 1>pro she had written his death and then put it

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<v Speaker 1>in a safe deposit box with instructions for it to

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<v Speaker 1>be published upon her death. And you know, and then

0:37:09.960 --> 0:37:13.000
<v Speaker 1>she ended up, of course publishing that story just shortly

0:37:13.040 --> 0:37:15.640
<v Speaker 1>before she died, because she knew she was going to pass.

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<v Speaker 1>But she, I mean, in general, just didn't seem like

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<v Speaker 1>a happy person. So I don't know that that suddenly,

0:37:23.680 --> 0:37:27.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, her husband turned the tables on her. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't see it is coming as a shock because if

0:37:29.840 --> 0:37:33.200
<v Speaker 1>she had been that angry or not happy about things

0:37:33.239 --> 0:37:36.880
<v Speaker 1>for a while people tend to know when their relationships

0:37:37.000 --> 0:37:39.759
<v Speaker 1>are on the skins, it does sond like she was

0:37:39.840 --> 0:37:41.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of a hard person to live with. Yeah, there

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<v Speaker 1>was an incident of her throwing a full teak out

0:37:43.800 --> 0:37:48.799
<v Speaker 1>let Archie's head. Yeah, I did not know that. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know if that was before or

0:37:51.320 --> 0:37:55.640
<v Speaker 1>after he asked for the divorce after just I was

0:37:55.680 --> 0:37:58.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna say it was probably just before he's like, that's it,

0:37:58.480 --> 0:38:03.160
<v Speaker 1>good divorce. Yeah, So I don't know. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>I think I do break a little bit more towards

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<v Speaker 1>the she faked it. I think that seems more likely.

0:38:09.520 --> 0:38:12.279
<v Speaker 1>But I also know that the mind is capable of

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<v Speaker 1>doing some really weird stuff. And the line is, the

0:38:17.320 --> 0:38:19.600
<v Speaker 1>mind is capable of doing strange things, but it's still

0:38:19.600 --> 0:38:23.040
<v Speaker 1>incredibly rare. Whereas the mind is capable of hatching sneaky

0:38:23.080 --> 0:38:27.200
<v Speaker 1>plots to spell your husband's weekend. So there's much much

0:38:27.200 --> 0:38:30.280
<v Speaker 1>more capable of doing that. But you know, the defense

0:38:30.320 --> 0:38:34.439
<v Speaker 1>mechanisms of your psyche they're pretty they're crazy creative too.

0:38:35.080 --> 0:38:37.400
<v Speaker 1>So like even if you know, if she was never

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<v Speaker 1>really happy and she just got like way way less happy,

0:38:41.880 --> 0:38:44.600
<v Speaker 1>became really really depressed, was dealing with all of this

0:38:44.680 --> 0:38:49.560
<v Speaker 1>emotional baggage and stuff. Those are literally the textbook circumstances

0:38:49.640 --> 0:38:53.359
<v Speaker 1>of somebody going into this kind of few state. So

0:38:53.400 --> 0:38:57.480
<v Speaker 1>it's also not, I think unreasonable to say that it

0:38:57.600 --> 0:39:01.120
<v Speaker 1>could have happened. I wish we had descriptions from the

0:39:01.200 --> 0:39:06.920
<v Speaker 1>staff of how Teresa Neil her assumed name, behaved. If

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:10.120
<v Speaker 1>she was a totally happy, go lucky kind of person

0:39:10.840 --> 0:39:15.120
<v Speaker 1>that would totally support the fuge to the brain snaps,

0:39:15.600 --> 0:39:19.320
<v Speaker 1>takes a break everything. Like, I wish we had anything

0:39:19.400 --> 0:39:21.640
<v Speaker 1>from the staff. It doesn't even have to be even

0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:25.200
<v Speaker 1>like as much as ah, she reacted poorly when we

0:39:25.280 --> 0:39:28.080
<v Speaker 1>told her that she was not that person, or she

0:39:28.239 --> 0:39:31.400
<v Speaker 1>seemed like she knew that would be super helpful. The

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<v Speaker 1>descriptions I have seen about what the staff said is

0:39:33.760 --> 0:39:36.399
<v Speaker 1>they said that she wasn't holding up in her room.

0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:41.440
<v Speaker 1>She was actually hanging out readings, going to dances. She

0:39:41.680 --> 0:39:44.399
<v Speaker 1>this this was the fun. Like when her husband Archie

0:39:44.480 --> 0:39:47.800
<v Speaker 1>came to retrieve her, she made him wait until she

0:39:47.840 --> 0:39:50.160
<v Speaker 1>had changed into her evening gown, which again, like I

0:39:50.160 --> 0:39:52.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know, like it's never explained how she had those clothes.

0:39:52.440 --> 0:39:55.880
<v Speaker 1>Did she buy them? Did she Yeah, Well, she was

0:39:55.920 --> 0:39:57.680
<v Speaker 1>in London, she could have stopped off and then done

0:39:57.680 --> 0:40:00.799
<v Speaker 1>a little shopping. Yeah, that's so she actually changed into

0:40:00.800 --> 0:40:03.200
<v Speaker 1>her evening gown because it was evening before she came

0:40:03.360 --> 0:40:06.880
<v Speaker 1>and left with him. I mean she seemed to be

0:40:07.320 --> 0:40:11.200
<v Speaker 1>she was socializing. Yeah, and that supports the thing that

0:40:11.280 --> 0:40:13.880
<v Speaker 1>Joe was talking about. It if she had bought those clothes,

0:40:13.920 --> 0:40:16.800
<v Speaker 1>she would have had to stop in London and couldn't

0:40:16.840 --> 0:40:19.759
<v Speaker 1>have gone shopping till the day after she left her house.

0:40:19.760 --> 0:40:23.240
<v Speaker 1>Because if she leaves her house and it's dark, okay,

0:40:23.239 --> 0:40:25.960
<v Speaker 1>it's Christmas, that's about five o'clock or so, plus a

0:40:26.000 --> 0:40:29.000
<v Speaker 1>train ride to London, you're gonna get there about nine o'clock.

0:40:29.520 --> 0:40:32.920
<v Speaker 1>Nothing is open in London after nine o'clock. You're not

0:40:32.960 --> 0:40:34.680
<v Speaker 1>going to get there. Well, she left the house at nine,

0:40:34.719 --> 0:40:40.000
<v Speaker 1>I thought. Yeah, I'm saying, I'm saying, best case scenario,

0:40:40.120 --> 0:40:42.480
<v Speaker 1>she leaves when it gets dark, She's still got hours

0:40:42.520 --> 0:40:44.440
<v Speaker 1>before she gets here. There's no way she could have

0:40:44.480 --> 0:40:47.920
<v Speaker 1>made those purchases that same day. She mean, she had

0:40:47.960 --> 0:40:49.920
<v Speaker 1>to have somewhere to stay. Yeah, she might have even

0:40:50.000 --> 0:40:52.880
<v Speaker 1>stayed in Guildford for the night. Yeah, Yeah, she possibly

0:40:52.880 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 1>could have stayed there. Train in the morning. It might

0:40:54.719 --> 0:40:56.720
<v Speaker 1>not even be that there's a you know, ten o'clock

0:40:56.800 --> 0:41:01.480
<v Speaker 1>PM trained like there wouldn't be. But my yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>yeah that's our stories. Do you guys have any more thoughts?

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<v Speaker 1>Not really, I'm just I'm just saying it was just

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<v Speaker 1>her being sneaky. Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I'm waffle

0:41:11.080 --> 0:41:13.160
<v Speaker 1>on this one. Sure, me too. That's kind of how

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<v Speaker 1>I feel. And it is a little bit of a

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<v Speaker 1>I think. Yeah, we don't really want any of you.

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0:42:06.440 --> 0:42:09.640
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