WEBVTT - Mom Entrepreneurs

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, everybody, and welcome back to Katie's Crib. In this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a group, a group you guys, of impressive

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<v Speaker 1>and amazing women here all in one room. We are

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<v Speaker 1>in this very sexy, fancy recording studio. We are not

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<v Speaker 1>in Katie's crib. We're in a recording studio because I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to get this particular group of women together. They

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<v Speaker 1>are all entrepreneurs who started their businesses when they were

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<v Speaker 1>new moms, and we're going to talk about what their

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<v Speaker 1>journeys have been like and how, if at all, being

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<v Speaker 1>a mom has made an impact on them as business owners.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got a lot together. This is a huge topic

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm super I literally have goosebumps talking about this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like entrepreneur moms. It just sounds so fucking awesome. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me introduce today's guest guests plural, that's why we're

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<v Speaker 1>in the recording studio. We have Sarah Gibson Tuttle, who

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<v Speaker 1>is the founder and CEO of Olive and June. We

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<v Speaker 1>have Katerina Schneider, the founder and CEO of Ritual, And

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<v Speaker 1>we have Angela Sutherland, the co founder and CEO of

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<v Speaker 1>Umi Service. And we're gonna put links um all on

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<v Speaker 1>the cribs, no to all of these amazing businesses. You

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<v Speaker 1>can really do a deep dive on these awesome ladies.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi ladies. UM, it's so great to have you here.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys for being here. Um, let's get into this.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk briefly. Let's all go around and talk briefly

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<v Speaker 1>about everyone's lives before kids, Like were you already pursuing

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<v Speaker 1>careers on your own? What areas were you working in?

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<v Speaker 1>What were your daily schedules? Like, okay, I'll start. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is angela from you me Hi. So I was

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<v Speaker 1>a traditional whole geek. I actually went to school with

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<v Speaker 1>yeah here, no way, where did you go to school? Brown?

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<v Speaker 1>I was a math major. She was applied math. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a super nerdal art. I don't think I've ever met

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<v Speaker 1>math majors in my life, which goes to show you

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<v Speaker 1>how small and wow, okay, I'm just we are. It's

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<v Speaker 1>more like can you find us? Um? Yeah, so I've

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<v Speaker 1>known her a long time ish but like, um, but anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like sort of traditional nerd path. So

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<v Speaker 1>I went to you know, like school, was a math major,

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<v Speaker 1>went into investment banking, and then went to an a

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<v Speaker 1>management program and then into like private equity. So I've

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<v Speaker 1>actually always done finance or operations, and so that's like

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much my background pre launching a company, And so

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<v Speaker 1>why I launched this company really had to do with

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<v Speaker 1>more like what the situation was. Like I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>ever thought I would go into baby food, tell us like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go around, we'll all talk about pre baby and

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<v Speaker 1>then just go into your business and how you started it,

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<v Speaker 1>like grouping them together. I would never have, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>never would have made the jump if it wasn't something

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<v Speaker 1>so obvious to me that needed to happen, Like so

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<v Speaker 1>in my life, So I had a baby, I got pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>and I started realizing that there's this period of life

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<v Speaker 1>called a thousand days that was so important for childhood nutrition.

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<v Speaker 1>Like basically nothing you do for the rest of your

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<v Speaker 1>life matters on it comes of nutrition, except this period.

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<v Speaker 1>And this period was like you know basically you know

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<v Speaker 1>conception to h two and that what you give your

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<v Speaker 1>kid during that period changes their life. And where did

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<v Speaker 1>you like was that in a book that you read

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<v Speaker 1>and you all of a sudden just like got obsessed

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<v Speaker 1>with it and you were like this has nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>do with math, and I'm so into it. I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>a nerd and so I reached researched a lot, and

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<v Speaker 1>so there's a publication called the Lancet, which is like

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<v Speaker 1>the n I H O the UK, So the Nationals

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<v Speaker 1>have Health for the UK and they published it and

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<v Speaker 1>it's about eight epidemiologists that came together and said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this period is really important. You know all these like

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<v Speaker 1>vitamins and minerals things that happen are super important. So

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<v Speaker 1>you have genetics that like for me, but you have

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<v Speaker 1>this period that are epigenetic things that actually change the

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<v Speaker 1>way that you live the rest of your life based

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<v Speaker 1>on what you're doing. And so because of that, it

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<v Speaker 1>really just opened my eyes to how little I knew

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<v Speaker 1>and like how how much I wanted to know. And

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<v Speaker 1>so like I'm you know, we're like starving for information.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to do the right things for your kids,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't know what information you're supposed to get.

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<v Speaker 1>And this was real and concrete and saying like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like get enough of this and this will happen. And

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, wow, that's something I can do. I can

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<v Speaker 1>have real ownership over. And so you know. Similarly, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you into your life like choosing things that you

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<v Speaker 1>can do that your real ownership over in our generation

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<v Speaker 1>is like a gift because you're like, wow, there's I

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<v Speaker 1>feel so confused by all the information online what can

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<v Speaker 1>I do or not do? And so this was something

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<v Speaker 1>for me. I was like I can really do something.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I started to trying to do it and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, wait, what, Like you want me to

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<v Speaker 1>cook every single meal? And how much was your kid

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<v Speaker 1>when you started this? She was seven months, so it's

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<v Speaker 1>seven months. You just started the idea of giving her

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<v Speaker 1>solid foods, and you were like, I went into this

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<v Speaker 1>deep dive with the how UK system works and all

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<v Speaker 1>the research, and you were like, I'm going to start

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<v Speaker 1>a business. Yeah, I started research with this small baby. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I started research before I was a pre datal and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, thinking I was going to cook it.

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<v Speaker 1>So then I was like, so this is great. I

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<v Speaker 1>have all this research. I'm ready to go. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm gonna make all this stuff. And I

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<v Speaker 1>started to do that, and I'm like, oh my lord,

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<v Speaker 1>this is terrible. Nobody wants. Nobody wants to do that

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<v Speaker 1>because you think you do. I never thought, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you never thought I did, so I think you think

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're like, no, I really don't like to

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<v Speaker 1>know everything they're supposed to be getting to be, like

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<v Speaker 1>are you getting in a vitamin A? Like are you?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you're never going to know, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>make a ton of it and you freeze it, and

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<v Speaker 1>also your freezer is full of these little like frozen

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<v Speaker 1>dots and I don't know what I did, and like

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<v Speaker 1>I blacked out and made a lot of food and like,

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<v Speaker 1>but then that's just not a way to live because

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to work too, and I wanted to be productive,

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<v Speaker 1>and I also wanted to be present for my children

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<v Speaker 1>and like like have time for like what am I

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be doing? Like with them playing and all

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<v Speaker 1>of these things? Like I was like, how does this

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<v Speaker 1>not exist? Did you feel so driven to start your

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<v Speaker 1>own company, be your own boss, to make your own hours,

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<v Speaker 1>to be spend more time with your kids or was

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<v Speaker 1>it just so you were so passionate about the idea. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I almost wish that were the case, because then

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<v Speaker 1>I probably wouldn't have done it, because you don't realize

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<v Speaker 1>that when you what you give up, when you start

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<v Speaker 1>a company, Like it's like it's not your own hours,

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually like eight times the amount of hours, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like you think that you're, oh, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be flexible in this baby. It's like flexible, that'll FaceTime

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<v Speaker 1>my baby when I love to. Like it's like there,

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<v Speaker 1>it's you're giving up so much to start a business,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and so much of yourself and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>you're basically having another baby. And so I and I

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<v Speaker 1>say that because not to like to tear anyone from

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<v Speaker 1>doing it, but just to know, like you do it

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<v Speaker 1>because you love it, right, you just like it's something

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<v Speaker 1>else you love, and so you're you're deciding to put

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<v Speaker 1>all your energy into this other thing. Um, I like

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<v Speaker 1>that idea. You said you had two babies, Like it's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally understand that. Um. I also think you do

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<v Speaker 1>it because you want to touch other people's lives. Like

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<v Speaker 1>when Angela launched you Me, which wasn't named me, then, um,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a beta there, this is Sarah. There was

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<v Speaker 1>a beta. Um this is Sarah June and they did

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<v Speaker 1>a beta testing and they sent me the product and

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<v Speaker 1>like that changed my life because I was able to

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<v Speaker 1>work and feed my child this amazing food. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I think Angel did it because she loved it and

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<v Speaker 1>she cares so much deeply about the subject in the topic.

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<v Speaker 1>But you also do it because you want to change

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<v Speaker 1>people's lives and help. I wouldn't have been able to

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<v Speaker 1>work at the pace I was working without without you Me.

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<v Speaker 1>For Me, I was going to say that you Me

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<v Speaker 1>really contributes to female empowerment in such a big way.

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<v Speaker 1>I had my first kid without you that I had

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<v Speaker 1>my second kid with you Me, and it just provided

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<v Speaker 1>so much flexibility. And I think that the impact that

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<v Speaker 1>companies like that are having in the world is like

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<v Speaker 1>and just so you guys know, you mean as a

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<v Speaker 1>food it's an amazing food delivery service for baby food

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<v Speaker 1>and things like that. That they're getting all of the

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<v Speaker 1>health and nutrients, which I felt was probably a huge

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<v Speaker 1>weight off your shoulders if you couldn't be home actually

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<v Speaker 1>cooking the food yourself, knowing that what was left in

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<v Speaker 1>the fridge for whoever to give to them while you

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<v Speaker 1>were running your new businesses was providing nourishment and really

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<v Speaker 1>good choices because we're yeah, this is one hell of

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<v Speaker 1>a type of room that you didn't have to worry.

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<v Speaker 1>You could come home and literally like feed your child

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<v Speaker 1>and it was immediate and you never had to worry

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<v Speaker 1>about it. People thought I was getting paid. It was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think four sponsored ads resting, but and I was

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<v Speaker 1>clearly not getting paid. And they were like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand why we're posting so much about this company. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, she's literally changing my life, Like this

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing, wonderful to hear. Can you tell me, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah about Olive in June and when you started it

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<v Speaker 1>and why, what your life looked like, what did you

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<v Speaker 1>work before? Did you work through your pregnancy? Tell me

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<v Speaker 1>about that. It's a little hard to go after Angela

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<v Speaker 1>Um after that intro, but I'm happy to talk about nails. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Nails are also very empowering and creative and artistic. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, like nails are like and honestly, the

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<v Speaker 1>first time I left my baby, and I'm probably going

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<v Speaker 1>to bet that a lot of moms I know, the

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<v Speaker 1>first time I left my baby with someone was to

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<v Speaker 1>just like get my nails and yeah, because I was

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<v Speaker 1>like that's an hour and I feel like I need

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<v Speaker 1>to treat myself. But I also don't know who I

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<v Speaker 1>am anymore and I don't want to. You know, caught

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<v Speaker 1>my baby's face open with like bad nails, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you're like a mess, and it's just someone

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<v Speaker 1>can take care of you. You feel complete? Yes, so

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about we get that. A lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>are like, I have one hour and I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to get a manny petty um. So so I actually so.

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<v Speaker 1>I started all of in June. My background is somewhat

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<v Speaker 1>similar to Angela, although a little less smart. UM. I

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<v Speaker 1>went to Colgate and I was a philosophy major. I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>for a hot second I wanted to be a lawyer,

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<v Speaker 1>but I started working on a trading desk UM at

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<v Speaker 1>JPMorgan and so I kind of worked at the other

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<v Speaker 1>side of the business, much more of the social um

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<v Speaker 1>client service like have fun, go out really late type

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<v Speaker 1>of business UM. And I do that for ten years

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<v Speaker 1>and and I like learned client service so intensely so

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<v Speaker 1>and something that I love doing. And at some point

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I do not want to do this anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to live in New York anymore. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to live in l A. I like the sunshine,

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<v Speaker 1>such a type of person that I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>a really good balance for me to live here. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>We feel very similar on that because I'm from New

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<v Speaker 1>York born raised, and I came here and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't do that because of traffic. Wow, It's like

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<v Speaker 1>I just chill out. It's like it's like CBD. But yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I agreed, agreed, agreed, yes, perfect end quote exactly. And

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<v Speaker 1>so um, I started researching where where where I would

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<v Speaker 1>work and actually that's how I met my now husband. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I did a bunch of informational interviews and entertainment. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And and actually my husband works with Angela's brother in law.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is a really small group. Wow. Back also

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<v Speaker 1>like all friends and you're like, yeah, I can start

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<v Speaker 1>my own business like she did it. Like if I

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<v Speaker 1>was around you guys, I feel like I could maybe

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<v Speaker 1>do that. You're making me feel very this is awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if yeah exactly. Um. And So basically what

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<v Speaker 1>I fell in love with dry Bar I like, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and now it's crazy that Ali's one of my closest

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<v Speaker 1>friends because I feel like it was such a fan

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<v Speaker 1>girl for such a long time. UM, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>fell in love with the model. I loved what they

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<v Speaker 1>were offering. I love there was affordable price point and

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<v Speaker 1>I love nails. So I had this moment where I

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<v Speaker 1>said to my now husband, like, I'm going to do

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<v Speaker 1>the dry bar for nails, Like this just makes so

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<v Speaker 1>much sense, and there's no national nail chain and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel so good about this. UM And it was super

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<v Speaker 1>inspired And we can get into later like what that

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<v Speaker 1>looks like today because it's a little bit different, we're

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<v Speaker 1>shifting into products. But UM, but I that was my

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<v Speaker 1>initial idea. And I opened this song on before I

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<v Speaker 1>was actually I think I was engaged, so before I

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<v Speaker 1>was married and had a kid. UM. But then I

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<v Speaker 1>had I had no about three months before I opened

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<v Speaker 1>the second location UM, and it was insane. We had

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<v Speaker 1>to like move the opening to after I had her

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<v Speaker 1>because I just literally physically couldn't do it. Um. But

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<v Speaker 1>it was so it was really really hard. UM. But

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<v Speaker 1>I was so like, I'm so passionate about making people's

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<v Speaker 1>lives better and like what that looks like and for me,

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<v Speaker 1>always having my nails that makes you feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>can fill in the blank of what that word is,

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<v Speaker 1>but for me, it just feels like you feel completely

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<v Speaker 1>feel like ready to take on the world. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>very like I'm currently in the swectwort and jeans like

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<v Speaker 1>that's my like vibe and so having my nails and

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<v Speaker 1>feel so good. Um, I'm taking a break this week

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<v Speaker 1>and I hate it. I hate every minute of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, get polished on my nail. You don't really

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<v Speaker 1>have all the creative stuff sometimes the rhind stones and stuff. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we have nail or stickers, which I think are like

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<v Speaker 1>the cute version. Yeah, I love them. Um, and so

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm doing designs, I'm doing other hand painted by

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<v Speaker 1>the manicarister. I'm doing those stickers. But but I always

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<v Speaker 1>like my nails are always done and um and so

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<v Speaker 1>so transitioning with a child, like honestly, companies like Angela's

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<v Speaker 1>like that made my life easier. Um, were like my

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<v Speaker 1>blowing like it was. There was nothing better than being

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<v Speaker 1>able to come home and actually engage with your child

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<v Speaker 1>and not feel like, oh I have to go make

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<v Speaker 1>the smeil or I have to go do certain things.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I'm I'm very grateful for that because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think because I to Angela's point, you don't take

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<v Speaker 1>any time off. I didn't take one day of maternity

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<v Speaker 1>leave like I constantly we closed our first round of

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<v Speaker 1>funding when I was in the hospital. Term like going

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<v Speaker 1>over while I was a lamor just doesn't stop and

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<v Speaker 1>they don't care, like did you have any like were

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<v Speaker 1>you also? I don't know why I keep coming back

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<v Speaker 1>to this, but where you like, I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 1>my own boss and I'm gonna be able to see

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<v Speaker 1>my kid. Is that something that you fake yourself into

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<v Speaker 1>or you knew? Oh, I think I thought that that

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be the case. I mean I do

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<v Speaker 1>think the one thing is like working in finance, Like

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<v Speaker 1>working where I worked, it was like a seven am

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<v Speaker 1>two you know, you go out almost every night, so

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<v Speaker 1>so that was a long day and you can't leave

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<v Speaker 1>because you're tied to the desk because of the markets

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<v Speaker 1>are going. It's not like it's it's project based or

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<v Speaker 1>meeting based. Um. So I absolutely see my daughter now

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<v Speaker 1>more than I would see her as I can walk

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<v Speaker 1>from home like if I need to, or I can

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<v Speaker 1>go she's a blood drive, I can go at her school.

0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:39.360
<v Speaker 1>I can go. Um and I could not. There's no

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<v Speaker 1>way I could do that at my previous job. But

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<v Speaker 1>it means I worked till three in the morning. That night,

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<v Speaker 1>like I have to the work doesn't go away, and

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<v Speaker 1>I care more about the work now than ever, so

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<v Speaker 1>you have to balance. And I worked seven days a week. God,

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<v Speaker 1>oh god, you guys are very impressive. It's so funny

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<v Speaker 1>someone I've posted on my Instagram that like I was

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<v Speaker 1>having a bad day or that like I was working

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<v Speaker 1>tons and someone gave me you back there, like we

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<v Speaker 1>don't actually want to see that because we believe your

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<v Speaker 1>life is so glamorous that like we don't want to know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like they didn't want to know. And I thought to myself,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so funny because people they think that the

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<v Speaker 1>life we're living is so fantastic, but like we are

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<v Speaker 1>working all of the time. Well, I will say that,

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<v Speaker 1>like like Elvin June was like the beginning of like

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram destination place, you know, like she really was at

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<v Speaker 1>the forefront of like mommy are getting my nails done

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna take a post that it's right. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like it's like you're I'm hearing my nails and and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like an experience or like she sort of manifested

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<v Speaker 1>her dream of like I want this to be a

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<v Speaker 1>place that you go and relax and like it's like

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<v Speaker 1>what she feels. And so I think that's why she

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<v Speaker 1>is so influential and people go to her and like

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<v Speaker 1>she really is. Like people were like saying, oh my goodness,

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<v Speaker 1>like please don't post a great life because I think

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<v Speaker 1>like it's part of this, like you know, swoop away,

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<v Speaker 1>like to bring me to another place, and that honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like even like sort of spells out what we do

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<v Speaker 1>and his company and like what people look for. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like you have to realize she was like at the

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<v Speaker 1>forefront of sort of deciding like what people wanted this experience,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that that's why. I think like people

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<v Speaker 1>looked at her fore and experience like wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not the experience I wanted. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see you at ten at ten p m. With your

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<v Speaker 1>manny on your keyboard. Not interesting. Cat. Tell us your

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<v Speaker 1>your origin story of your lovely company ritual. Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>So I started the company when I was four months pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>My background very simie to Angela's. I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>I have to sing that, but in investment banking, I

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<v Speaker 1>was at Lehman Brothers all the way through the collapse

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<v Speaker 1>and then got into the startup World, became the chief

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<v Speaker 1>of staff to the CEO of Universal Music, head of

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<v Speaker 1>innovation there, then met Troy Carter along the way, who

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<v Speaker 1>was Lady Gaga's manager, became the head of innovation at

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<v Speaker 1>his company, and then ran his investment fund of over

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<v Speaker 1>seventies startups, everything from Uber to drop box where people

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<v Speaker 1>spotify and and then got pregnant and life changed forever,

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<v Speaker 1>and for me, my journey started when you know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>always been passionate about health and kind of what I

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<v Speaker 1>was putting in and on my body, But when you

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<v Speaker 1>get pregnant, it's like a whole other caliber. You really

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<v Speaker 1>become very aware of what's in lotions and what's in deodorants,

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<v Speaker 1>and what's in all of this stuff. Yeah, exactly, And

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<v Speaker 1>so I kind of went through a clearing phase, got

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<v Speaker 1>rid of deodorance, toothpaste, sunscreens, cleaning supplies, all my husband's stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I remember telling him, do not spray your

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<v Speaker 1>cologne within I got outside the house, if you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to do this. I remember that on Scandal because I

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<v Speaker 1>was pregnant and I didn't want to tell anyone, but

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<v Speaker 1>like the amount of hair spray that is in the

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<v Speaker 1>makeup trailers. I mean, for all, you know, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing ten women at once in a tiny closed space,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh shit, like oh my god, like

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<v Speaker 1>this is just gonna go. This is oh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>would cover my face. It was so in saying. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it actually did anything, but exactly so

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<v Speaker 1>that's where you got the idea. That's where I got

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<v Speaker 1>the idea. I started to kind of look at my

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<v Speaker 1>prenatal vitamin. I turned it turned it around me. I

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<v Speaker 1>was always trying to find the best version of everything.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I actually dug deeper about on the ingredients

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<v Speaker 1>that was in my prenatal I was pretty horrified and

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<v Speaker 1>confused and was in this search for something better. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I realized, you know, the same with Angela did a

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<v Speaker 1>deep dive in research, and ingredients was something that was

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't ever question before. We questioned what we were eating,

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<v Speaker 1>like where was the kale and our salad coming from?

0:17:34.480 --> 0:17:37.080
<v Speaker 1>We could find that out. Or if your chicken you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know where the who the chickens playing with? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>But why not question what we're ingesting every single day

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<v Speaker 1>for our pregnancy or beyond that? And so one of

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<v Speaker 1>you know, an interesting fact I found was over a

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<v Speaker 1>third of women have a genetic variation where they can't

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<v Speaker 1>even properly utilize synthetic fulight full of acid that's in

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<v Speaker 1>ninety plus for son of prenatals. And so one of

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<v Speaker 1>the things we did as a company is we use

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<v Speaker 1>methylated folli that bypasses genetic variations. We really go above

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<v Speaker 1>and beyond searching for for better ingredients. So these D

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<v Speaker 1>three from wild harvested like, and we use omega three's

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<v Speaker 1>from micrology, and we my background and technology kind of

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<v Speaker 1>allowed me to really show where those things were coming

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<v Speaker 1>from and why and go really deep which wasn't done before.

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<v Speaker 1>That's amazing, It's so cool. Um do you think that

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<v Speaker 1>go back to I feel like you guys were all

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<v Speaker 1>very influenced by your pregnancies. I mean one, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>ritual for sure, and you me and also I mean again,

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<v Speaker 1>like I just feel like women and pregnant women, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I remember going to the manicurist and being like, am

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<v Speaker 1>I allowed to have like regular nail polish on? You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Because there's like non toxic, like

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<v Speaker 1>are you allowed to have that stuff? You become much

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<v Speaker 1>more aware than you ever did before. Did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>find when you started looking for funding and things like that,

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<v Speaker 1>did you encounter skepticism because you were a woman, because

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<v Speaker 1>you were pregnant? I mean today today we've raised for

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<v Speaker 1>over forty million dollars and just closed with the ground. Yeah,

0:19:13.960 --> 0:19:19.400
<v Speaker 1>we just announced the big round. Yes, yes, it means

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of work ahead, but yeah. So the first

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<v Speaker 1>round of funding was me four months pregnant, going to

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<v Speaker 1>Silicon Valley and investors and I had a really well

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<v Speaker 1>known investor UM that I went to, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was questioning them like do I tell them that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pregnant from the first meeting or do I tell

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<v Speaker 1>them I'm pregnant in the second meeting? Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>transparency is obviously our brand ether this, so I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, but I don't want to be dinged

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<v Speaker 1>for that UM. So I decided to be just completely

0:19:50.640 --> 0:19:53.040
<v Speaker 1>up front. And I went into this really well known

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<v Speaker 1>investor's office and I was like, all right, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to start a prenatal company or a vitamin company.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to reinvent the vitamin and I'm pregnant. And

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, oh uh, well, you have two choices. You

0:20:05.400 --> 0:20:08.520
<v Speaker 1>can either start a family or you can have a company,

0:20:08.600 --> 0:20:11.640
<v Speaker 1>but you there's no way you can do both. Well, Um,

0:20:12.359 --> 0:20:15.960
<v Speaker 1>so I am literally every hair on my body just

0:20:16.119 --> 0:20:24.880
<v Speaker 1>stood up. That's a good way. That's awesome yourself? Did that?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel held back or did you feel like

0:20:29.480 --> 0:20:32.959
<v Speaker 1>that was fire? Total fire? Yeah? You just were like

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<v Speaker 1>watch me? Yeah? Um did anyone I do? Either of you?

0:20:36.480 --> 0:20:42.120
<v Speaker 1>Sarah Angela? Did you have this? Sucks? It's like it's

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<v Speaker 1>also compounded I think with like some of the industries

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<v Speaker 1>that we chose, Like I think, um partially, like at

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<v Speaker 1>least vitamins can be like for everybody, Like, but if

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<v Speaker 1>you were like specifically prenatal like nails, you know, baby food,

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<v Speaker 1>it is a an industry. Those are industries that like

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<v Speaker 1>or women dominated, only four women out of the times,

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<v Speaker 1>and like even like your vitamins are also like women focused,

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<v Speaker 1>do I think it's yeah, not just prenatals so like,

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<v Speaker 1>but like so when you're doing that, there's also this

0:21:09.640 --> 0:21:13.439
<v Speaker 1>like they don't understand the market problem, so they like

0:21:13.520 --> 0:21:16.000
<v Speaker 1>think how big is that market? You know, who's that

0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:19.159
<v Speaker 1>really for? And so there's all these questions just just

0:21:19.320 --> 0:21:22.280
<v Speaker 1>on that alone. So like compound that with you going

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<v Speaker 1>in pregnant like or which I was. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>I was like fundraising for a pregnant and then it's

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<v Speaker 1>like then they like they question everything, like so do

0:21:32.359 --> 0:21:34.199
<v Speaker 1>you want to do this because it's like a hobby

0:21:34.280 --> 0:21:37.880
<v Speaker 1>for you? Like do you think this is a lifestyle business?

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean? What is that like business that

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<v Speaker 1>you just want to pay for your lifestylef with? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like I'm I'm coming from investment banking. I'm giving

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<v Speaker 1>up a ton of money to do this. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>completely not an idiot about this, Like I It's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be huge, trust me, Like what do you ask the

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<v Speaker 1>person that started Gerber like this lifestyle for you? You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Like, you didn't ask that? So

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<v Speaker 1>do you think they asked me that question? Was like

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<v Speaker 1>Sally cancer? Was that just like a lifestyle thing? It's

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<v Speaker 1>like these are huge things in the world, Like why

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<v Speaker 1>are you then asking me, like, well, how big is

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<v Speaker 1>the market? Do you think this is a big thing?

0:22:11.800 --> 0:22:15.359
<v Speaker 1>It's like this is huge, but like that's immediately like

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing that they think of because of like

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<v Speaker 1>you're a woman, and it's like a very women run

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<v Speaker 1>a woman like business. You know, it's like four women

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like and then on top of that being pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like the first things like, oh, so how much

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<v Speaker 1>time are you going to take off? Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>or like where you guys asked that, Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I was, so are you planning on taking a maternity leave?

0:22:35.720 --> 0:22:37.399
<v Speaker 1>It was almost like this like a roundabout way like

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<v Speaker 1>when is that launch of this thing? And like and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to see if you will, but like I was,

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<v Speaker 1>like I had a baby. When I did it, I

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<v Speaker 1>took zero time off. I'm taking zero time off now.

0:22:47.240 --> 0:22:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm literally like it was like in labor, not kidding this,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's my second It's fine sending Excel sheets like

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<v Speaker 1>to like close up like the due diligence and like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not taking time off. And if I were, do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that I wasn't capable will of like making

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<v Speaker 1>sure that the team is there, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that you can trust a guy to have done that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wouldn't have done that. Like it's like the

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<v Speaker 1>question has become much more like you know pointed like

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<v Speaker 1>like because you're a woman, because you're pregnant, that probably

0:23:14.160 --> 0:23:16.600
<v Speaker 1>you weren't capable of this. And so it's not even

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<v Speaker 1>just like the question of like are you going to

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<v Speaker 1>take time off? Like were you even capable of setting

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<v Speaker 1>up a company that wouldn't you know like that like

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<v Speaker 1>that couldn't sustain that. And I think that's actually even

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<v Speaker 1>more hurtful in some ways. So this is so fascinating

0:23:30.200 --> 0:23:32.800
<v Speaker 1>to me and so upsetting. I mean, I know it's there,

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<v Speaker 1>like I know, but I just really like to live

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<v Speaker 1>in my bubble. I have, like, actually I have a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of thoughts. I had the similar experiences I also

0:23:39.320 --> 0:23:42.920
<v Speaker 1>had UM when I wasn't pregnant. UM. I sat in

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<v Speaker 1>a room with someone. It was the second round of fundraising,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had probably been talking for forty five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>And anyone that gets in the room with me for

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes knows that I'm like kind of a killer

0:23:52.160 --> 0:23:54.760
<v Speaker 1>and like we'll do anything and like we'll scalp any

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<v Speaker 1>wall and break through anything to do get it done.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm a sole founder, so like, I mean, it's

0:23:59.800 --> 0:24:03.119
<v Speaker 1>just like I feel like you get my energy immediately.

0:24:03.440 --> 0:24:06.720
<v Speaker 1>We've been talking for forty five minutes, and so he

0:24:06.760 --> 0:24:09.480
<v Speaker 1>basically knew everything about me at that point. And then

0:24:09.920 --> 0:24:11.639
<v Speaker 1>he was like so he's like so at the end,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, so, let me just ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 1>So like, given where you're from, which from Connecticut, Given

0:24:17.280 --> 0:24:19.480
<v Speaker 1>where you're from, and your father was worked in finance

0:24:19.960 --> 0:24:23.919
<v Speaker 1>and your husband works in entertainment, Like why do you

0:24:23.920 --> 0:24:26.960
<v Speaker 1>want to do this business? And I literally was like

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<v Speaker 1>if I've spent forty five like I looked at I said,

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<v Speaker 1>if I haven't convinced you that I'm going to basically

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<v Speaker 1>take over, then I'm going to innovate on the nil world.

0:24:34.720 --> 0:24:37.520
<v Speaker 1>We're going to change the industry forever. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that I have anything else to answer that, like if

0:24:39.359 --> 0:24:41.520
<v Speaker 1>you think I'm a kid from like my dad has

0:24:41.520 --> 0:24:43.920
<v Speaker 1>funded zero part of this business, my husband has spending

0:24:44.040 --> 0:24:46.359
<v Speaker 1>zero part of this business, Like I've done everything with

0:24:46.400 --> 0:24:48.840
<v Speaker 1>my savings and raised money, like this is my second round.

0:24:49.400 --> 0:24:51.440
<v Speaker 1>I literally was like I don't even have an answer

0:24:51.480 --> 0:24:54.959
<v Speaker 1>for you, Like I was like conversations over and I

0:24:55.000 --> 0:24:57.800
<v Speaker 1>told my actually told my first investor, my first big

0:24:57.840 --> 0:25:00.880
<v Speaker 1>investor in the first round, and he was like, they

0:25:00.880 --> 0:25:03.160
<v Speaker 1>would never have asked the man that, Like, and this

0:25:03.200 --> 0:25:05.639
<v Speaker 1>is an investor who I think is a pretty traditional person.

0:25:05.800 --> 0:25:08.439
<v Speaker 1>Like I think probably I could have said some of

0:25:08.440 --> 0:25:10.480
<v Speaker 1>the crazy things we just heard, And was the person

0:25:10.480 --> 0:25:12.320
<v Speaker 1>who's pushing me to take a maternity leave. Like, I

0:25:12.320 --> 0:25:15.119
<v Speaker 1>think there are wonderful investors out there, but I just

0:25:15.160 --> 0:25:16.960
<v Speaker 1>think there are some that just I can't see pass

0:25:17.040 --> 0:25:21.520
<v Speaker 1>their own experiences and it's really pathetic. Do you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>are there any lessons that you guys have learned starting

0:25:24.280 --> 0:25:28.720
<v Speaker 1>businesses that you feel like applied to parenthood? Are they

0:25:28.760 --> 0:25:31.359
<v Speaker 1>the same? I love that this thing you made about

0:25:31.560 --> 0:25:34.600
<v Speaker 1>they're all your babies right, so much patience. So one

0:25:34.600 --> 0:25:36.560
<v Speaker 1>thing I will I don't have a lot of that

0:25:36.880 --> 0:25:41.640
<v Speaker 1>takeaway is that like it's asking for help. So I

0:25:41.680 --> 0:25:44.240
<v Speaker 1>had a very hard time. I mean I'm very type

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<v Speaker 1>A welcome to the podcast of type. So I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that everything's done right and like all

0:25:51.600 --> 0:25:54.520
<v Speaker 1>the way to the end. And you know, but the

0:25:54.520 --> 0:25:57.359
<v Speaker 1>difference between like a mom and pop shop and a

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<v Speaker 1>huge company is that you're actually able to find people

0:26:00.240 --> 0:26:02.560
<v Speaker 1>to replace you. That's like, you know, full stop. You

0:26:02.640 --> 0:26:04.800
<v Speaker 1>can have a huge mom pop company, like very huge,

0:26:05.600 --> 0:26:07.639
<v Speaker 1>but then it ceases to exist when the mom or

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<v Speaker 1>dad leaves. Right, that can't be in a company and

0:26:11.000 --> 0:26:13.280
<v Speaker 1>that can't be at home, Like you got to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out a way to support you and your vision in

0:26:16.880 --> 0:26:19.400
<v Speaker 1>both places, and so you have to ask for help.

0:26:19.560 --> 0:26:25.080
<v Speaker 1>Like so, if that's like family or like nanny's or schools,

0:26:25.160 --> 0:26:27.040
<v Speaker 1>try to figure it out. If it works, that's like

0:26:27.040 --> 0:26:29.760
<v Speaker 1>getting a number two and number three helping you out.

0:26:29.880 --> 0:26:32.040
<v Speaker 1>Get to figure it out, because like, it can't just

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<v Speaker 1>be you, and you have to learn that, like again,

0:26:34.960 --> 0:26:36.840
<v Speaker 1>in both places. And so maybe it's something I learned

0:26:36.880 --> 0:26:38.480
<v Speaker 1>from home that I had to apply to work, or

0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:40.480
<v Speaker 1>work that I applayed at home, but I started. You

0:26:40.520 --> 0:26:44.080
<v Speaker 1>started soon realize if it is just you, it actually

0:26:44.119 --> 0:26:46.800
<v Speaker 1>won't be as successful. And so, yeah, you can't grow.

0:26:46.960 --> 0:26:49.479
<v Speaker 1>Carrie Washington always says this bally thing to me. She

0:26:49.560 --> 0:26:52.119
<v Speaker 1>was always like, if you're spending all of your time maintaining,

0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 1>you're never going to grow. Like, if you spend all

0:26:54.040 --> 0:26:56.440
<v Speaker 1>of your days just in reaction to emails and things

0:26:56.520 --> 0:26:58.520
<v Speaker 1>that are coming forward and maintaining and just holding on

0:26:58.640 --> 0:27:02.080
<v Speaker 1>and maintaining, it might be time to ask for help,

0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:04.760
<v Speaker 1>get people around you to help, whether that's in your

0:27:04.800 --> 0:27:06.840
<v Speaker 1>home life or your work life or whatever, because then

0:27:06.920 --> 0:27:10.600
<v Speaker 1>you will finally have space to grow. Um, I think

0:27:10.640 --> 0:27:13.840
<v Speaker 1>that's brilliant. Do you and you guys agree? Cat Zarah, Yeah,

0:27:14.240 --> 0:27:16.800
<v Speaker 1>our CFO c O constantly is like your time efficiency

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:19.840
<v Speaker 1>is everything. So she pushed me to put a lot

0:27:19.880 --> 0:27:22.720
<v Speaker 1>of my personal stuff on our assistant and it's very

0:27:22.720 --> 0:27:25.280
<v Speaker 1>hard for me to do. But then I focus either

0:27:25.320 --> 0:27:27.480
<v Speaker 1>on my home life or my work life, and I'm

0:27:27.640 --> 0:27:30.120
<v Speaker 1>so much more efficient. I read a book UM called

0:27:30.200 --> 0:27:34.280
<v Speaker 1>essential is Um and I'm I've heard about this. We

0:27:34.320 --> 0:27:37.159
<v Speaker 1>should put a link on that came to and it

0:27:37.240 --> 0:27:39.280
<v Speaker 1>just focus on essentially have like one to two missions

0:27:39.280 --> 0:27:41.359
<v Speaker 1>and that's all you care about. And I try to

0:27:41.359 --> 0:27:43.280
<v Speaker 1>do that at home, like I'm like, all I care

0:27:43.280 --> 0:27:45.320
<v Speaker 1>about is like spending time with Noah and my husband

0:27:45.320 --> 0:27:47.840
<v Speaker 1>in like a very concentrated way. And then at work,

0:27:47.960 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 1>like our vision is to democratize the salon manicure and

0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 1>so that's all we're focused on. And I think I

0:27:53.000 --> 0:27:55.720
<v Speaker 1>think focusing has been very very good. I also think

0:27:55.760 --> 0:27:58.640
<v Speaker 1>patients like I worked on a trading nesk very very quick,

0:27:59.000 --> 0:28:01.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot of a lot of then a lot not

0:28:01.840 --> 0:28:03.680
<v Speaker 1>I would say, like a lot of not a lot

0:28:03.680 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 1>of emotion um and not a lot of listening and

0:28:06.119 --> 0:28:09.000
<v Speaker 1>just constantly go, go go. And this business has taught me.

0:28:09.040 --> 0:28:11.199
<v Speaker 1>My team has taught me to be patient and to

0:28:11.240 --> 0:28:14.480
<v Speaker 1>allow people to like learn and develop into Angela's point,

0:28:14.480 --> 0:28:16.399
<v Speaker 1>like when you bring those people in that are supposed

0:28:16.440 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 1>to be taking parts of your job from you, to

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:20.080
<v Speaker 1>actually let them have it and let them have the

0:28:20.080 --> 0:28:24.520
<v Speaker 1>moment to run a trust, that's huge and for you

0:28:24.560 --> 0:28:31.160
<v Speaker 1>can't same same. I love exactly the same. Um. Now

0:28:31.200 --> 0:28:37.359
<v Speaker 1>that you guys are in full swing of running successful businesses, bravo. Um,

0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:40.040
<v Speaker 1>how have you integrated being a mom into your brand?

0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:43.719
<v Speaker 1>Like do you Well, I feel like it's all majorly

0:28:43.800 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 1>in your brands, But how does it affect you guys?

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:50.120
<v Speaker 1>Do you have you had other moms work in your business?

0:28:50.160 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you have number two? Is number three? Is that

0:28:52.080 --> 0:28:54.400
<v Speaker 1>are pregnant? That are women? Like? How do you a

0:28:54.520 --> 0:28:57.880
<v Speaker 1>sort of I'm like, right, the wrongs of your up

0:28:57.880 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 1>and coming you know what I mean? But like, how

0:28:59.640 --> 0:29:03.600
<v Speaker 1>do you I know you guys don't take days off,

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:06.000
<v Speaker 1>but like, do all of your staff not take days off?

0:29:06.120 --> 0:29:09.680
<v Speaker 1>Or they moms? Like tell me, so, I've had two

0:29:09.760 --> 0:29:14.200
<v Speaker 1>kids and starting the company and raising money and it's challenging.

0:29:14.240 --> 0:29:17.600
<v Speaker 1>And the silver lining to the conversation for me is

0:29:17.720 --> 0:29:20.720
<v Speaker 1>the investors that we did take on encouraged me to

0:29:20.800 --> 0:29:24.240
<v Speaker 1>take time off encouraged me to take as much time

0:29:24.240 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 1>off as I could to connect with my kids. UM,

0:29:28.120 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 1>the challenge was the guilt and that I put on

0:29:33.840 --> 0:29:36.800
<v Speaker 1>myself rather and you know, I really didn't take time off.

0:29:37.400 --> 0:29:40.360
<v Speaker 1>But I really do encourage that for women. I think

0:29:40.360 --> 0:29:43.600
<v Speaker 1>it's really important. And I don't think UM as a

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:47.760
<v Speaker 1>society we encourage it enough. I think it's a problem.

0:29:47.880 --> 0:29:52.360
<v Speaker 1>So for the kind of company that we've built, we

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:55.720
<v Speaker 1>we have a really generous maternity maternity leave policy and

0:29:55.800 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 1>paternity leave policy. Yeah, and we were pretty small when

0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 1>we instituted it, you know, like ten lesson ten people,

0:30:05.840 --> 0:30:08.640
<v Speaker 1>and so every person is so critical and it's just

0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:11.280
<v Speaker 1>a sacrifice that we made and UM, yeah, you really

0:30:11.320 --> 0:30:13.719
<v Speaker 1>feel it when they're gone, like it's it's taking hit

0:30:13.920 --> 0:30:16.880
<v Speaker 1>for sure. But it was something that you know, we're

0:30:16.880 --> 0:30:20.000
<v Speaker 1>trying to build a long lasting brand, not just something

0:30:20.040 --> 0:30:23.840
<v Speaker 1>that scales and the flails out. So having that and

0:30:23.880 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 1>setting it up with lawyers and experts and thinking through

0:30:28.400 --> 0:30:30.560
<v Speaker 1>that UM was really important to us in the beginning.

0:30:30.560 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 1>And then we've also set up a pumping room early on.

0:30:34.040 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm still pumping and it sucks. Do you

0:30:37.360 --> 0:30:39.440
<v Speaker 1>have a brand new baby. I have a ten eleven

0:30:39.440 --> 0:30:42.960
<v Speaker 1>menthol Yeah, so you're pumping away. Yeah, proms with you

0:30:43.120 --> 0:30:45.800
<v Speaker 1>right now. Um, so I know how much that sucks.

0:30:45.880 --> 0:30:48.080
<v Speaker 1>I was pumping out in the open when we started,

0:30:48.120 --> 0:30:52.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's so kind of embarrassing. I mean yeah, yeah,

0:30:52.400 --> 0:30:54.880
<v Speaker 1>yeah no, but it is like it's touchy for people.

0:30:55.040 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 1>And also, I mean we've talked a lot about breastfeeding

0:30:57.320 --> 0:31:00.360
<v Speaker 1>on this podcast, but some people are very effect did buce,

0:31:00.640 --> 0:31:02.640
<v Speaker 1>Like they can't make milk if they're stressed out, do

0:31:02.680 --> 0:31:04.200
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? So like to have a

0:31:04.240 --> 0:31:06.920
<v Speaker 1>place to go where you can actually just like you know,

0:31:06.920 --> 0:31:08.440
<v Speaker 1>if you're there are people that have to look at

0:31:08.440 --> 0:31:10.480
<v Speaker 1>pictures of their babies or videos of their babies and

0:31:10.480 --> 0:31:12.360
<v Speaker 1>their milk. That was me, Like my milk would not

0:31:12.360 --> 0:31:15.000
<v Speaker 1>come down unless I like would see my child because

0:31:15.000 --> 0:31:19.320
<v Speaker 1>I was so stressed. Yeah, um, that's beautiful. What about

0:31:19.320 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 1>you guys, Angela Sarah. Yeah, So as far as the

0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:25.160
<v Speaker 1>generation at work or like how we try to like

0:31:25.320 --> 0:31:28.040
<v Speaker 1>approach it, I have a baby food company, so it's

0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:31.760
<v Speaker 1>like a very part of my like our whole being,

0:31:32.160 --> 0:31:37.000
<v Speaker 1>you know. So like it's it's funny because I, unlike Sarah,

0:31:37.000 --> 0:31:41.000
<v Speaker 1>no one's really looking to me for like it is,

0:31:41.040 --> 0:31:43.240
<v Speaker 1>I like, I don't. I'm very private of a person,

0:31:43.360 --> 0:31:46.200
<v Speaker 1>like I don't like share a lot of anything, and

0:31:46.240 --> 0:31:49.840
<v Speaker 1>so I think that's like why, um, but what I

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.080
<v Speaker 1>want to bake for the company, though, is stuff that

0:31:52.160 --> 0:31:55.040
<v Speaker 1>makes people's lives better, and so we try to apply

0:31:55.120 --> 0:31:57.200
<v Speaker 1>that to people that work for the company. So we

0:31:57.280 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 1>like try to look for under employed moms, like giving

0:32:00.400 --> 0:32:02.360
<v Speaker 1>them flexible jobs, like whether it's like they want to

0:32:02.360 --> 0:32:06.040
<v Speaker 1>help with content or write or like you know, be

0:32:06.600 --> 0:32:09.400
<v Speaker 1>like you know, be an assistance of either like customer service,

0:32:09.560 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 1>like anything that they can do, or it's over like

0:32:12.560 --> 0:32:16.080
<v Speaker 1>field marketing. Like unemployed moms are always looking for jobs

0:32:16.080 --> 0:32:18.560
<v Speaker 1>like and they're very very talented people, they just feel

0:32:18.560 --> 0:32:21.040
<v Speaker 1>like they can't balance everything. And so we look a

0:32:21.040 --> 0:32:23.960
<v Speaker 1>lot of underemployed moms like to do those roles because

0:32:23.960 --> 0:32:25.880
<v Speaker 1>that's what you're also are looking for. I mean, as

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:27.800
<v Speaker 1>a parent that's buying food, you want to actually probably

0:32:27.800 --> 0:32:29.960
<v Speaker 1>hear from another mom. So it works both ways. So

0:32:29.960 --> 0:32:32.080
<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of companies should actually look for

0:32:32.720 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 1>people that could help them in that way, like and

0:32:35.800 --> 0:32:38.440
<v Speaker 1>so and for us, we don't it's maternally we're actually

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:41.440
<v Speaker 1>I think I'm the only person that had a baby.

0:32:41.600 --> 0:32:43.720
<v Speaker 1>I can't think of other people that had babies that

0:32:43.800 --> 0:32:46.040
<v Speaker 1>said um. But that being said, like we've talked a

0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:48.320
<v Speaker 1>long time about what that's going to look like and

0:32:48.360 --> 0:32:51.120
<v Speaker 1>when that happens, and like, I think we want to

0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:53.240
<v Speaker 1>make sure that it's as flexible as possible for them

0:32:53.280 --> 0:32:57.080
<v Speaker 1>to come back and integrate back in and like you know,

0:32:57.120 --> 0:32:58.959
<v Speaker 1>what can they do and how much time they can have.

0:32:59.160 --> 0:33:02.600
<v Speaker 1>Like we're obviously very small, but you know, I truly

0:33:02.600 --> 0:33:04.160
<v Speaker 1>believe in that for society. So I think you have

0:33:04.280 --> 0:33:06.200
<v Speaker 1>to put out there what you want in society. And

0:33:06.240 --> 0:33:08.680
<v Speaker 1>so I think that's like why we try to balance

0:33:08.720 --> 0:33:13.920
<v Speaker 1>and consider but the same UM, I think we have

0:33:14.040 --> 0:33:16.880
<v Speaker 1>basically our brand director and our CFO c O are

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:19.640
<v Speaker 1>part time and they're both and they're both moms and

0:33:20.120 --> 0:33:22.320
<v Speaker 1>works great for them. It's great. I think there's something

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:24.640
<v Speaker 1>so true and what Angel is saying is that there's

0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:28.120
<v Speaker 1>like a workforce of women who are moms who can't

0:33:28.160 --> 0:33:30.960
<v Speaker 1>figure out totally and there's some there's some companies that

0:33:30.960 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 1>are coming out that are trying to like feed that

0:33:32.480 --> 0:33:34.640
<v Speaker 1>talent to company to you know, to be that B

0:33:34.680 --> 0:33:38.120
<v Speaker 1>two b um, which I think is super interesting Um,

0:33:38.280 --> 0:33:40.400
<v Speaker 1>it was amazing. It works so well for us. I

0:33:40.400 --> 0:33:43.320
<v Speaker 1>mean we have basically a Stanford Business School grad who

0:33:43.360 --> 0:33:45.800
<v Speaker 1>has been a CFO c O at many companies and

0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:48.280
<v Speaker 1>she's our part time CFO c O and she's couldn't

0:33:48.280 --> 0:33:50.600
<v Speaker 1>be more impactful for the business, our brand director, and

0:33:50.640 --> 0:33:53.120
<v Speaker 1>it works perfectly for her because she's like I get

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.920
<v Speaker 1>to be with my kid and also I'm working exactly

0:33:57.000 --> 0:33:58.680
<v Speaker 1>And what's great about it is, I mean with a

0:33:58.680 --> 0:34:00.920
<v Speaker 1>little bit of a specific citch with special situation because

0:34:00.920 --> 0:34:03.000
<v Speaker 1>I've known her since I was twenty two, so the

0:34:03.160 --> 0:34:05.440
<v Speaker 1>trust is insane. Like I mean, she makes her an hour,

0:34:05.520 --> 0:34:07.560
<v Speaker 1>she makes HERMN schedule, and like I know everything will

0:34:07.600 --> 0:34:11.640
<v Speaker 1>get done. Um. And our brand director is similar where

0:34:11.680 --> 0:34:13.919
<v Speaker 1>I've known her since before we were open, and she's

0:34:13.920 --> 0:34:16.000
<v Speaker 1>fantastic and she brib works another ten to twenty hours

0:34:16.040 --> 0:34:19.439
<v Speaker 1>a week, and and they're both our works long works

0:34:19.440 --> 0:34:21.160
<v Speaker 1>more twenty hours a week. But like it's just for

0:34:21.239 --> 0:34:23.440
<v Speaker 1>us at this stage, like we don't have the ability

0:34:23.440 --> 0:34:25.520
<v Speaker 1>to either afford either of these people a full time

0:34:25.840 --> 0:34:28.759
<v Speaker 1>but also yeah, it's great for them. It's great for

0:34:28.760 --> 0:34:30.520
<v Speaker 1>them too because we have this too. I mean I

0:34:30.520 --> 0:34:32.400
<v Speaker 1>don't run a successful business but I do run a

0:34:32.400 --> 0:34:34.880
<v Speaker 1>successful not for profit. I have a theater company that

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I started ten years ago. A successful business. Yeah, thank you,

0:34:39.200 --> 0:34:41.839
<v Speaker 1>it's called I have a theater company. But um, we

0:34:41.880 --> 0:34:44.279
<v Speaker 1>have like our managing director who does all of our

0:34:44.320 --> 0:34:46.319
<v Speaker 1>funds and our money and all of that, Like we

0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:48.640
<v Speaker 1>couldn't afford a full time person, but she also can

0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:51.920
<v Speaker 1>afford a full time nanny. So it's this great idea

0:34:52.040 --> 0:34:58.040
<v Speaker 1>of these like part time moms who are totally so amazing,

0:34:58.280 --> 0:35:00.520
<v Speaker 1>and I'm so lucky to have her. It's like insane.

0:35:00.560 --> 0:35:02.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, the business would fall apart without her. She's

0:35:02.680 --> 0:35:04.960
<v Speaker 1>the only person that knows like the actual logistical ship,

0:35:05.080 --> 0:35:08.080
<v Speaker 1>like I don't even know, but she it's incredible because

0:35:08.120 --> 0:35:10.319
<v Speaker 1>she only she can work like three days a week,

0:35:10.440 --> 0:35:12.200
<v Speaker 1>full days, and that's what she could afford a nanny,

0:35:12.239 --> 0:35:14.359
<v Speaker 1>and that's what makes sense financially for her family, which

0:35:14.400 --> 0:35:16.480
<v Speaker 1>is a blessing, Like the way what she wants to do,

0:35:16.520 --> 0:35:19.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think for our especially for Claire who

0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:21.799
<v Speaker 1>runs who is our CFOC, Like she wants to spend

0:35:21.800 --> 0:35:23.960
<v Speaker 1>a lot of time with her family, Like that's hugely

0:35:23.960 --> 0:35:27.000
<v Speaker 1>important to her, so for her to have this flexible job,

0:35:27.000 --> 0:35:29.960
<v Speaker 1>but she gets still like she's like brilliant. It's just

0:35:30.000 --> 0:35:33.960
<v Speaker 1>a wonderful arrangement. I think, Um, we recently moved from

0:35:34.120 --> 0:35:37.600
<v Speaker 1>contractors to employees. Are our team really liked being freelancers,

0:35:37.600 --> 0:35:40.040
<v Speaker 1>and I understand why, but we at some point we're like,

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:42.880
<v Speaker 1>we want to be We wanted a team of employees,

0:35:42.880 --> 0:35:45.080
<v Speaker 1>and so I think some people resist that it's somewhere

0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:48.040
<v Speaker 1>manicures didn't want that, UM, but those who did really

0:35:48.080 --> 0:35:49.920
<v Speaker 1>leaned into the fact that there's actual benefits and there's

0:35:49.960 --> 0:35:52.640
<v Speaker 1>actually like a company that you are protected by both

0:35:52.719 --> 0:35:55.839
<v Speaker 1>us in the state, and so UM really excited, like

0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:58.839
<v Speaker 1>as we get bigger, really excited to be like more

0:35:58.880 --> 0:36:08.760
<v Speaker 1>like ritual. Do you guys? UM have advice for women

0:36:08.840 --> 0:36:11.759
<v Speaker 1>in similar situations who are contemplating starting or running their

0:36:11.800 --> 0:36:15.360
<v Speaker 1>own businesses. I have to tell you, guys, I have

0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:19.520
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of friends who either got pregnant or have

0:36:19.680 --> 0:36:26.040
<v Speaker 1>small babies and are having massive, like like huge questioning

0:36:26.040 --> 0:36:28.560
<v Speaker 1>about what they've been spending their time doing, like very

0:36:28.600 --> 0:36:33.200
<v Speaker 1>successful like high up executives entertainment industry, and just you know,

0:36:33.239 --> 0:36:36.080
<v Speaker 1>having a baby has completely, in a beautiful way, changed

0:36:36.200 --> 0:36:38.319
<v Speaker 1>their thoughts and their priorities and what they want to do.

0:36:38.480 --> 0:36:39.960
<v Speaker 1>That doesn't mean they want to work less and be

0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:42.680
<v Speaker 1>home more. It means if they're going to be away

0:36:42.680 --> 0:36:44.799
<v Speaker 1>from their kids, they have to be doing something they're

0:36:44.840 --> 0:36:48.239
<v Speaker 1>super fucking passionate about. Think it's like the most I

0:36:48.280 --> 0:36:50.840
<v Speaker 1>think that's probably why it's like it's the most clarifying

0:36:50.880 --> 0:36:53.120
<v Speaker 1>moment for a lot of people, at least, Like for me,

0:36:53.160 --> 0:36:56.000
<v Speaker 1>it was like why am I doing this other thing?

0:36:56.280 --> 0:36:58.520
<v Speaker 1>Like if I could do all my energy, put all

0:36:58.520 --> 0:37:00.520
<v Speaker 1>of it into it wasn't for the last words, right,

0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:01.879
<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't like I get to have more flex

0:37:01.920 --> 0:37:05.319
<v Speaker 1>spells ators for like I'm gonna do all of this.

0:37:05.719 --> 0:37:09.000
<v Speaker 1>Let's make something huge, just change the world. Let's make

0:37:09.040 --> 0:37:12.080
<v Speaker 1>something like big and exciting and like it can be

0:37:12.120 --> 0:37:15.280
<v Speaker 1>what I wanted to be because I just saw it happened,

0:37:15.320 --> 0:37:18.279
<v Speaker 1>like I just had a child, and that's like I

0:37:18.400 --> 0:37:21.200
<v Speaker 1>made this little miracle happen. Like I can do this,

0:37:21.360 --> 0:37:23.239
<v Speaker 1>Like I could do whatever I want, Like look at this,

0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:27.760
<v Speaker 1>like I kept this thing alive. Yeah, it's like it's huge,

0:37:27.880 --> 0:37:34.719
<v Speaker 1>and I pressed that like and so I'm just saying

0:37:34.719 --> 0:37:37.160
<v Speaker 1>that it really is empowering so as much as like

0:37:37.719 --> 0:37:40.200
<v Speaker 1>it's so hard if women just like step back and

0:37:40.200 --> 0:37:43.000
<v Speaker 1>be like, wow, you did that, like nobody else said

0:37:43.040 --> 0:37:46.000
<v Speaker 1>that you did that, Like you can really do anything.

0:37:46.200 --> 0:37:48.680
<v Speaker 1>Like then it is that moment you get to look

0:37:48.760 --> 0:37:50.239
<v Speaker 1>step back and say, is this what I want on

0:37:50.320 --> 0:37:52.719
<v Speaker 1>in my life? I could do anything? And so like

0:37:52.719 --> 0:37:55.800
<v Speaker 1>I encourage anybody that has that those thoughts, that doubts,

0:37:55.840 --> 0:37:58.879
<v Speaker 1>like to really look through their life and think like

0:37:58.880 --> 0:38:00.440
<v Speaker 1>like do I want to start a pie yeast? Do

0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:01.879
<v Speaker 1>what I mean? Do I want to do this? Don't

0:38:01.840 --> 0:38:03.360
<v Speaker 1>I want to get my voice out there? Do I

0:38:03.360 --> 0:38:05.560
<v Speaker 1>want to, like, you know, do the things I've always

0:38:05.560 --> 0:38:07.960
<v Speaker 1>wanted to do? Because you can. You just proved that

0:38:08.080 --> 0:38:10.880
<v Speaker 1>you could, and so like or like join something, joined

0:38:11.040 --> 0:38:16.239
<v Speaker 1>us call me hey, So it's like call me. You

0:38:16.320 --> 0:38:19.480
<v Speaker 1>got those thoughts like we want people that want to

0:38:19.480 --> 0:38:21.880
<v Speaker 1>do a lot like change the world, like and I

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:25.560
<v Speaker 1>think there's almost like this like no better time. But

0:38:25.600 --> 0:38:27.840
<v Speaker 1>I think there's only inflection points in your life, you

0:38:27.880 --> 0:38:29.759
<v Speaker 1>know where you're like, what do I do? Like is

0:38:29.920 --> 0:38:31.520
<v Speaker 1>life going to be the same? And want of this

0:38:31.560 --> 0:38:35.359
<v Speaker 1>is graduating college? You're like that's weird, Like my whole

0:38:35.360 --> 0:38:38.520
<v Speaker 1>life has been divided into like semester like a human

0:38:39.560 --> 0:38:41.560
<v Speaker 1>there's like no spring, like what do we do? This

0:38:41.640 --> 0:38:44.319
<v Speaker 1>is real life like and then it's also married, like

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:46.839
<v Speaker 1>weirdly like even if you're not married, or that big

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:49.520
<v Speaker 1>moment where you like find someone because it's like, oh

0:38:49.719 --> 0:38:52.480
<v Speaker 1>now I am tied to you as a human right

0:38:52.560 --> 0:38:56.640
<v Speaker 1>And then babies like and babies is like, wow, is

0:38:56.680 --> 0:38:58.560
<v Speaker 1>this what the rest of my life's going to look like?

0:38:58.640 --> 0:39:00.120
<v Speaker 1>And it doesn't have to, but it doesn't make you

0:39:00.200 --> 0:39:02.000
<v Speaker 1>think that way because like where am I going to

0:39:02.120 --> 0:39:04.920
<v Speaker 1>be that raises this kid? But philosophies are going to choose,

0:39:05.239 --> 0:39:07.920
<v Speaker 1>and I say, like grab onto those inflection points, like

0:39:08.120 --> 0:39:10.840
<v Speaker 1>because it's your time to like ride it into something

0:39:10.880 --> 0:39:13.479
<v Speaker 1>new or like change your life or like get into

0:39:13.560 --> 0:39:16.080
<v Speaker 1>more or like dive deeper in and whether that means

0:39:16.120 --> 0:39:18.759
<v Speaker 1>like stay home with your kid and like cherish that

0:39:19.000 --> 0:39:21.759
<v Speaker 1>or like you know, lean into another thing. But it

0:39:21.840 --> 0:39:24.520
<v Speaker 1>really does allow for that to happen, like it's like

0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:27.000
<v Speaker 1>entreated like that, like it's it's an inflection point, like

0:39:27.160 --> 0:39:31.640
<v Speaker 1>make make a decision now. Like I would say that

0:39:32.080 --> 0:39:34.200
<v Speaker 1>I would agree with everything that angel is saying. I

0:39:34.239 --> 0:39:37.880
<v Speaker 1>would also say that try to try to honestly critically

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:41.239
<v Speaker 1>analyze yourself and like what type of personality you are

0:39:41.760 --> 0:39:44.200
<v Speaker 1>because like I'm in a I'm like in a rationally

0:39:44.200 --> 0:39:47.200
<v Speaker 1>exuberant person that has tons of ideas, and I'm like, Okay,

0:39:47.239 --> 0:39:48.880
<v Speaker 1>we're going to bring all of in June to everyone.

0:39:48.960 --> 0:39:51.520
<v Speaker 1>We're going to teach everyone to paint thrown nails, and

0:39:51.560 --> 0:39:53.759
<v Speaker 1>like that's my personality and we're going to do it

0:39:53.800 --> 0:39:56.040
<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna overtake it. We're gonna change the industry forever.

0:39:56.719 --> 0:39:59.040
<v Speaker 1>There are other people on my team who are who

0:39:59.160 --> 0:40:01.360
<v Speaker 1>want to be part of that vision but want to

0:40:01.440 --> 0:40:04.000
<v Speaker 1>be more structure or want to be or like they

0:40:04.080 --> 0:40:05.840
<v Speaker 1>they're kind of like nervous to be the person to

0:40:05.880 --> 0:40:07.840
<v Speaker 1>say like we're going to teach everyone to pay thrown nails,

0:40:07.880 --> 0:40:09.800
<v Speaker 1>But they're my CFO c O, and she wants to

0:40:09.800 --> 0:40:12.160
<v Speaker 1>be part of that vision, but she wants to structure

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:14.400
<v Speaker 1>it out. She wants to build a team. Like I

0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:16.799
<v Speaker 1>know what kind of personality you are, because I do

0:40:16.840 --> 0:40:19.759
<v Speaker 1>not think that everyone should be an entrepreneur, but I

0:40:19.800 --> 0:40:22.560
<v Speaker 1>think everyone if they feel the way that you just described,

0:40:22.960 --> 0:40:27.719
<v Speaker 1>they should join an entrepreneurial like entrepreneurial journey. And so

0:40:27.800 --> 0:40:29.799
<v Speaker 1>I think there's like I think knowing what type of

0:40:29.800 --> 0:40:32.640
<v Speaker 1>personality you are, like Claire will say all the time,

0:40:32.719 --> 0:40:34.920
<v Speaker 1>she's like, I am a number two. And it's not

0:40:35.000 --> 0:40:37.200
<v Speaker 1>that she's saying like I'm not the I'm not Sarah.

0:40:37.280 --> 0:40:39.799
<v Speaker 1>It's not about that. It's about what her personality and

0:40:40.080 --> 0:40:42.799
<v Speaker 1>what she wants to do with her life. And like

0:40:42.920 --> 0:40:45.399
<v Speaker 1>she's she's she's building more than I am, Like I mean,

0:40:45.480 --> 0:40:47.920
<v Speaker 1>she's more. She's in some ways I think I report

0:40:47.960 --> 0:40:50.919
<v Speaker 1>to her like she's she's more instrumental in some ways

0:40:50.960 --> 0:40:53.320
<v Speaker 1>to the business than I am. But it's just different

0:40:53.440 --> 0:40:56.000
<v Speaker 1>parts of the business. And so I think knowing your

0:40:56.040 --> 0:40:58.880
<v Speaker 1>personality and where you can like thrive, whether it be

0:40:58.960 --> 0:41:01.160
<v Speaker 1>joining a company or start earning a company, like I

0:41:01.200 --> 0:41:03.080
<v Speaker 1>think that that's so important because if you start a

0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 1>company and you don't have that like irrational exuberant, the

0:41:06.120 --> 0:41:09.040
<v Speaker 1>lows will will kill you. He'll be out, they'll crush you,

0:41:09.080 --> 0:41:11.800
<v Speaker 1>and they're just too low. And you have to be

0:41:11.840 --> 0:41:14.160
<v Speaker 1>the person that can get so high. Yeah, you have

0:41:14.200 --> 0:41:16.000
<v Speaker 1>to wake up every day. It's like being an actor.

0:41:16.080 --> 0:41:19.319
<v Speaker 1>It's like it is, but like waking up every day

0:41:19.360 --> 0:41:21.279
<v Speaker 1>being like today is going to be the different day

0:41:21.280 --> 0:41:24.560
<v Speaker 1>where everyone's gonna know to me. For the past three years,

0:41:24.600 --> 0:41:29.279
<v Speaker 1>I haven't made a dollar and yet today I'm yeah,

0:41:29.480 --> 0:41:31.680
<v Speaker 1>like I'm so fucking passionate about this. I have to

0:41:31.719 --> 0:41:34.160
<v Speaker 1>be a scary storyteller. There's you know I learned this weekend.

0:41:34.200 --> 0:41:36.680
<v Speaker 1>It was so eye opening. I learned this weekend that

0:41:36.760 --> 0:41:39.400
<v Speaker 1>I want to hear a cat to your advice. I

0:41:39.480 --> 0:41:42.759
<v Speaker 1>learned this weekend that I, I mean, someday, who knows

0:41:42.800 --> 0:41:44.319
<v Speaker 1>what will happen. I'm an actor, my husband an actor.

0:41:44.320 --> 0:41:45.560
<v Speaker 1>Who knows what will happen. I might have to be

0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:47.600
<v Speaker 1>a stay at home mom. But I learned this weekend

0:41:47.600 --> 0:41:49.640
<v Speaker 1>that I I actually don't like it, and I'm really

0:41:49.680 --> 0:41:52.520
<v Speaker 1>bad at it. Like my nanny has been sick and

0:41:53.080 --> 0:41:54.600
<v Speaker 1>I was home and so I had the baby and

0:41:54.640 --> 0:41:56.120
<v Speaker 1>my husband has a job, so he was gone and

0:41:56.120 --> 0:41:57.759
<v Speaker 1>I was just by myself with the baby for like

0:41:57.800 --> 0:42:01.880
<v Speaker 1>a week, and um, it was I was terrible at it.

0:42:02.040 --> 0:42:05.200
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm a much better mom when I get Okay,

0:42:05.520 --> 0:42:07.680
<v Speaker 1>you have him from three to seven today, and like,

0:42:07.760 --> 0:42:10.200
<v Speaker 1>I go so hard those four hours with him, and

0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I read books and I pay attention and I'm focused

0:42:12.600 --> 0:42:14.879
<v Speaker 1>and I'm patient and I and my phone is off

0:42:14.920 --> 0:42:16.680
<v Speaker 1>and I know it's the time I get with him,

0:42:16.760 --> 0:42:18.879
<v Speaker 1>and I'm very fortunate privileged to be able to make

0:42:18.880 --> 0:42:21.799
<v Speaker 1>this choice, but I felt like, holy sh it, Like

0:42:21.840 --> 0:42:24.680
<v Speaker 1>I have to work and I want to work in

0:42:24.719 --> 0:42:27.120
<v Speaker 1>my life to be able to afford another person to

0:42:27.160 --> 0:42:29.359
<v Speaker 1>help me raise my son because work brings me such

0:42:29.440 --> 0:42:32.680
<v Speaker 1>joy and actually makes me a better mother. But like

0:42:32.719 --> 0:42:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I feel bad about that even still is that crazy?

0:42:37.520 --> 0:42:38.920
<v Speaker 1>Like I said, I was, like, I'm terrible. This is

0:42:38.920 --> 0:42:40.800
<v Speaker 1>where I'm supposed to want to be, but it's not.

0:42:42.280 --> 0:42:44.759
<v Speaker 1>Another time, I talked about this a lot about like

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<v Speaker 1>where you find your sense of self and it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to always align like with what people think. You

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<v Speaker 1>should find your sense of self, right, So, like I

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<v Speaker 1>find my sense of self at work or productivity, but

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<v Speaker 1>like that doesn't mean that I'm not great at the

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<v Speaker 1>home or like I'm not like there or take care

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<v Speaker 1>of it. It's just you also are a person, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so you should take care of that who you are,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's going to make you better in every other

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<v Speaker 1>part of your life. And so like some people do

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<v Speaker 1>find their sense of self at the home and then

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<v Speaker 1>it's great and that helps them, that works, and then

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<v Speaker 1>that's where they find the sense selfs so like they

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<v Speaker 1>can and that makes them a better person in other

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<v Speaker 1>parts of their life and when they're at work and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>when they get re energized at home, like you have

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<v Speaker 1>to find where you find like you're re energized, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think, but in all those situations you should

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<v Speaker 1>find out how to find help. So even if you're

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<v Speaker 1>someone that has help at home, maybe all the other

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<v Speaker 1>parts of your life you need help into write. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're all not better or worse for it. Actually, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that at the end of the day, like it's

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<v Speaker 1>actually a good thing to find out who you are

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<v Speaker 1>and how you fit in, because then you know where

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<v Speaker 1>to ask for help and you don't feel bad about it,

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<v Speaker 1>because like it does feel like sometimes like shouldn't I

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<v Speaker 1>be like like the person crawling on the floor chasing

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<v Speaker 1>my child? And it's like then everyone Dave realized, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it shouldn't be. Don't have to it happened to be.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so eye opening. I worked so many hours.

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<v Speaker 1>I went back to work when he was really little,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would always say, I just want to be

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<v Speaker 1>at home with my kid. I just want to be

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<v Speaker 1>home my kid. Like why then was I saying that, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had some time with that now, and that is

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<v Speaker 1>actually not true. I would like to be home with

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<v Speaker 1>my kid for some of the time, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>like really quality time. But I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>home with my kid all day. I don't. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I hated it. I've never been so tired of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>UM cat tell us um advice and what you would

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<v Speaker 1>say to any woman you know who's thinking about starting

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<v Speaker 1>a business or maybe really had a baby or is

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<v Speaker 1>pregnant and is having like these thoughts of like, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>her job is at the moment is not for her

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. So I think he touched on it. But

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<v Speaker 1>being a mom is the hardest job there is. There's

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<v Speaker 1>no harder job in the world. I think we're all

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<v Speaker 1>in agreement that because it's the you can't quit. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the one that means the most, it's NonStop, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>one you don't think about for the rest of your life. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter where your kid is your you're tethered and

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about him or her. I'm in this WhatsApp group

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<v Speaker 1>with a bunch of female entrepreneurs and they're all about

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<v Speaker 1>to have babies or they all have had babies, and

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<v Speaker 1>you see but shock and horror after they've given birth,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're all like what do I do? Like babies

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<v Speaker 1>not sleeping and they're not eating, and it's so shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>I think when you have a child, there's nothing else like.

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<v Speaker 1>And you see like in this What'sapp group but it

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<v Speaker 1>won't name the entrepreneurs, but they're like really successful women

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<v Speaker 1>that have built really big companies, are are really far

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<v Speaker 1>in their careers and acting and whatnot, and they're just horrified.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was a shock to me. That's what damn sure, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's important to realize. And then you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of get over that hump and you realize, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>women are capable of so much and that's pretty incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I don't know, my advice would be not

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<v Speaker 1>to be so hard on yourself. That's something I've personally

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<v Speaker 1>struggled with a lot. And you really can only balance

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of things this at a time. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>all of us are type A, so like, my relationship

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be awesome, and my career is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be perfect, and my babies perfect, my job is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be billy there. And I think at any given

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<v Speaker 1>point there's only three things you can do semi well

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<v Speaker 1>or semi okay, and not being so hard on yourself

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<v Speaker 1>if something is just like failing miserably and just acknowledging

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<v Speaker 1>that it is. UM. So that's been I think my

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<v Speaker 1>my biggest struggle and advice that I wish I had

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, being like cool, I sucked up awesome. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course. It sounds to me like you guys all

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<v Speaker 1>had really strong passions and it sounds like you're equally

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<v Speaker 1>as passionate about being moms. And this has been like

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<v Speaker 1>so eye opening and inspiring and I cannot thank you

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<v Speaker 1>enough Sarah and Cat and Angela for coming on Katie's

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<v Speaker 1>Crib and for sharing your very impressive, inspiring, hard stories.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish you guys the best of luck. In my business.

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<v Speaker 1>We say break legs, but like I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>you say to female entrepreneurs who were kicking out in business. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys so much for being on Katie's Crib.

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<v Speaker 1>I really appreciate it. Thank you, thank you, Thank you

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