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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becka Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Happy Monday, Everybody, and Happy First Day of the Week

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Speaker 2: of our second show.

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Speaker 3: And Happy Post Oscar Monday.

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Speaker 2: Happy Post Oscar Tanya working on the Oscars.

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Speaker 3: You guys, my vision board came to life.

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Speaker 2: I mean, so what's come to life? We have some

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Speaker 2: progress made on the vision board in early twenty twenty.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, twenty twenty is leveling the f up, Like you

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Speaker 3: might have.

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Speaker 2: To add some things because everything might happen before March.

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Speaker 3: I know, I need to take another look at that

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Speaker 3: bad boy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I was gonna say, I'm trying to remember some

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Speaker 2: of the things, but you've definitely accomplished some big ones.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: The OSCARS was like the craziest thing. Like I still

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Speaker 4: kind of can't believe. I was like on the same

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Speaker 4: carpet as Brad Pitt I know, same and Sandra Oh,

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Speaker 4: I was like one degree away from her last.

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Speaker 5: Night with no contact, no zero.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because like you don't you can't be like fangirly

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Speaker 2: no to be professional.

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Speaker 3: And my credential cut off at one pm, So I like.

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Speaker 4: They're really like serious about it too, like they're like.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, like you're it just said till one.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, cut throat.

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Speaker 3: Cut throat. So I couldn't even see Sandra if I

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Speaker 3: wanted to.

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Speaker 6: But she walked the same same steps, exact same steps

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Speaker 6: as her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the Oscars is so big that it's almost like

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Speaker 2: over my head. You know, I haven't seen any of

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Speaker 2: those movies. Really, I don't know a lot of I'm

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Speaker 2: not really immersed in the movie world. So knowing you,

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Speaker 2: when I watch it, I'm always like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: you forget how many people and how many creative minds

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Speaker 2: it takes to make one movie.

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Speaker 3: I think about that too.

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Speaker 4: And I also think, like, so I did the ET stream,

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Speaker 4: so I was hosting it for the E stream, but

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Speaker 4: they had tons of coverage literally everywhere, Like they had

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Speaker 4: TV going from like nine am to like ten pm,

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Speaker 4: and like stream was covered and every aspect was covered.

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Speaker 4: And that's just one media outlet, and it was like

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Speaker 4: an insane amount of people. I'm like, it's just crazy,

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Speaker 4: the amount of people that put so much effort into

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Speaker 4: like this one day, you know what I mean, Yes,

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Speaker 4: it's crazy to think about.

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Speaker 5: It's for a bunch of movies and very few people

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Speaker 5: I have seen.

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Speaker 3: Totally and probably won't see.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, although I feel bad they haven't seen Parasite. I

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Speaker 5: really would like to know.

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Speaker 3: I know, me too, me too, because like, yeah, we're

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Speaker 3: missing out apparently. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well this week and I found out that I

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Speaker 2: can't overdo it on caffeine. I had a day on

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Speaker 2: a s energy drink with my lunch, so I ate

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Speaker 2: but I get I don't know if it was just

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Speaker 2: really strong coffee, it wasn't your just like typical you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm I literally feel so nauxious, and I will avoid

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Speaker 2: throwing up at all costs, like I will do I

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Speaker 2: like I'll do anything do. I hate it. And finally

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna throw up, and so I

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Speaker 2: as a snack, black olives. So I threw up my

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Speaker 2: coffee and all of the really gross combo by the way,

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Speaker 2: And so then our friends Britt and Michael got engaged,

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Speaker 2: and so they facetimed me and I was like, I

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Speaker 2: if I answered, and she was like call me back.

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Speaker 2: So I realized it was important, and they got engaged

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Speaker 2: having a I'm surprising Britt with all her friends, like

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Speaker 3: How far was part of town west side.

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Speaker 2: Venice, So I show up on time because I'm like,

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Speaker 2: you know, when there's a surprise, I definitely don't want

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Speaker 2: oh no, I'm nauseous. I'm on the west side alone.

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Speaker 5: That's scared of them to be driving that far in

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Speaker 5: traffic and nauseous because you know, that's the last thing,

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Speaker 5: Like what's worse than vomiting being having to vomit alone

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Speaker 5: in your car.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And like I clanged out my car, so I

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Speaker 2: don't have any of my fast food bags laying around

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Speaker 2: right now, I'd want. Of course, there's just one, I think,

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Speaker 2: but I so then I get there, and then I

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Speaker 2: and they were at a like pub down the street,

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Speaker 2: and they were all like so drunk when I got there.

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Speaker 2: But you know, I just realized I can't. I was

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Speaker 2: trying to be healthy. I was like, I should have

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Speaker 2: just had a doctor Pepper and said the selca.

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Speaker 5: There's a lot of caffeine and doctor pepper.

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Speaker 2: It's different, you would know, because I think the celcus

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Speaker 2: has vitamins in it or something.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I think I'm like immune to caffeine because

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Speaker 4: I could probably drink coffee from like six am to

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Speaker 4: six pm and still go to bed at like nine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like commune to it. Sad. So what do

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Speaker 3: you do for shots in this bad boy?

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Speaker 2: I know? But what do you do?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 2: So you're it does give you.

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Speaker 3: It does give me a little jolt, but like it

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Speaker 3: lasts like two seconds.

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Speaker 2: You have like natural coffee in your veins though, like

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Speaker 2: espresso just I do in your blood.

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Speaker 3: I have espresso in my blood. That's right.

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Speaker 2: Did you have any fun. I don't know dates or

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Speaker 2: anything we got.

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Speaker 5: We gotta stop beating around the But here's the deal.

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Speaker 2: We kind of want to save all the details for

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Speaker 2: the live show. You do kind of.

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Speaker 5: Well, hold on, this is if anybody wants to miss this.

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Speaker 5: On the Ryan Seacrest, Joe, Tanya had a big presentation.

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Speaker 8: Sure did.

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Speaker 5: She made a big mistake by texting Ryan on like

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Speaker 5: Monday night and then's Tuesday he can talk about this.

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Speaker 5: She's like, no, no, no, it's got to be tomorrow what

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, I couldn't say I needed an extra

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like it was a song,

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Speaker 4: but I didn't want to ruin the song. So I

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Speaker 5: Well, here's a little piece of the song. If you

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Speaker 5: missed it, he shows up.

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Speaker 3: I got no doubt.

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Speaker 9: I have a boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: Holy wow, meat, that's how I have a boyfriend.

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Speaker 5: Holy.

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Speaker 2: I mean him should be sponsoring.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 3: I'm actually surprised I haven't heard from them.

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Speaker 5: I mean the father that Tanya has a boyfriend. I

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Speaker 5: think it should be a bigger deal that we're making it.

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Speaker 5: I mean, obviously that song made it a big deal,

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Speaker 5: but we're kind of acting like it's no big deal.

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Speaker 5: Let's just talk about the oscars or whatever.

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Speaker 2: This is a big deal, I know, but I knew

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Speaker 2: so I was going to bring it up, but I

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Speaker 2: didn't want to over bring it up that we can

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Speaker 2: really bring it up on Thursday.

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Speaker 5: There stood, but we've done two hundred episodes of time

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Speaker 5: to try to find a man. She found a man.

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Speaker 5: Make a big deal out of it.

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Speaker 2: It is a huge deal.

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Speaker 4: It's a huge deal because I haven't actually like had

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Speaker 4: an opposite. I had had a boyfriend, but I haven't

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Speaker 4: that it feels weird. It even feels weird saying it.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Well, you haven't wanted someone to be your boyfriend?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean?

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Speaker 3: Like think about like doctor? No, I we don't need

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Speaker 2: But I feel like some I feel like you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So I just feel like it's a it's a big deal.

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Speaker 2: And I remember when she told me I have a boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: She texted me that night and was like, I have

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Speaker 4: Well, because we went into that night and sure expecting

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Speaker 4: Else because if I go out, I was like, if

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Speaker 4: I see this guy, I need to go out looking

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Speaker 6: Yeah, And then and I haven't met him, I know,

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Speaker 6: because I know I met him.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Mark met him last night.

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Speaker 5: Him, me and this guy. Ye old. But you know

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Speaker 5: I enjoyed meeting him. I got a very good vibe

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Speaker 5: off of him. He's very handsome, He's very much Tinya's type.

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Speaker 5: And he was very like, like, he was very complimentary

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Speaker 5: meet somebody like impression striking says very nice things about you.

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Speaker 5: But he repeated that a couple of times. I was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: The thing is is like he's not trying to like

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Speaker 4: butter mark up like that's just how he is, you

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Speaker 4: know what I mean, It didn't I know, I know,

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Speaker 4: he's like super were genuine and sincere, and that's like,

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Speaker 4: I think one of the things I like most about him,

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Speaker 4: because this entire time, he's been very much that, very sincere,

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Speaker 3: Some of it I didn't like to hear, but it's

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Speaker 3: it is what it is, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 5: The kind of leaned into him and I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: this works, Like this list looks like a cute couple

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Speaker 5: right here, really leased to look good together.

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Speaker 2: Yes, well, what all I've seen is one photo, so

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Speaker 2: that's all I have, and it was a great photo.

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Speaker 2: He's very cute. You look very cute together.

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Speaker 3: He's very much your type, very much.

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Speaker 2: So I'm really looking forward to meeting him whenever that

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Speaker 2: may be.

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Speaker 5: Whenever that may be going to be pretty soon.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure it will be very soon.

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Speaker 5: So let's get into that. I know you want to

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Speaker 5: say something for it for Thursday night. Yeah, And I

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Speaker 5: So you went into that dinner though, saying planning to say, look,

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Speaker 5: And if you're not ready for that, I got to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I was. I was like, I was pretty

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Speaker 3: I don't think he really knows like what they mean.

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Speaker 4: He was just like saying things about me and how

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Speaker 3: He said that I was his angel.

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Speaker 2: You know my favorite part of a walk to remember

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Speaker 5: Really keep I know what was the line he said, kiss?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's like, you're an He was like complimenting like me,

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Speaker 3: I melt. I literally just like melted right there there.

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Speaker 5: In front of him.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's so sad that my mind goes to

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Speaker 4: So I'm like reading it like kind of shaking the

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Speaker 5: I going to see anybody else now, it's just the

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Speaker 2: It's exclusive, just the two of us.

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Speaker 5: We can make it a show, a song to choose.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Then I had to call and break it up with

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Speaker 2: But I thought, was you handled very well?

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Speaker 4: that because everybody just said, like, you only went out

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but y'all have experienced Jennifer Anison together together. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was like y'all had leveled up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, one day, that's true, but how did that go?

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Speaker 5: Talk about that? Because that's interesting too.

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Speaker 5: To, and it really is.

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Speaker 3: I respect that.

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Speaker 4: And he was like, if things don't work out with

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Speaker 4: like he was really sweet about it.

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Speaker 2: When it rains, it poured, you know, it.

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Speaker 4: Was actually like a and I actually recommend it, to

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Speaker 4: calling somebody if it's not gonna like I don't know

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Speaker 4: if you got someone, you don't really see it going

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Speaker 4: anywhere for some particular the reason like let them know, you.

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Speaker 5: Know, yes, let them imagine losing you. And if that's

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Speaker 2: Know about the other guy that she went on the

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Speaker 2: one day. Yeah, like being respect.

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Speaker 3: Just being respectful.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think if I do think there's different situations,

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Speaker 2: Like I felt like that guy was like legit and

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Speaker 2: I think you respected that aspect. I think if it's

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Speaker 2: you're not into it at all, right, you don't really

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Speaker 11: After like like less than three dates.

447
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think a Texas fine. I think a Texas

448
00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:48,080
Speaker 2: I think being honest, being like, hey, I hate talking

449
00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:50,919
Speaker 2: on the phone personally, like a lot of people we know,

450
00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:54,600
Speaker 2: why didn't you?

451
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Speaker 4: Could you imagine? I can't FaceTime him to like say

452
00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:02,040
Speaker 4: that's so weird?

453
00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,679
Speaker 2: Like Danielle text in the group text this morning, She's like,

454
00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:06,359
Speaker 2: I'm I'm so sorry I'm not going to be at

455
00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:08,400
Speaker 2: the podcast today. I'm sick from this weekend. I didn't

456
00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:10,360
Speaker 2: want to bring in the office. She's like, well, y'all

457
00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:12,320
Speaker 2: call me afterwards to talk about the live show, and

458
00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,160
Speaker 2: Tonie's like, yeah, we'll FaceTime you, and I'm like, when

459
00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:19,359
Speaker 2: I'm sick, the literal last thing I want is to

460
00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:20,280
Speaker 2: FaceTime anything.

461
00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:23,080
Speaker 3: But you're not Danielle. Danielle wants us to facetimer.

462
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Speaker 5: I don't think. I don't think she.

463
00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:29,880
Speaker 2: I think she call just said call me after well, right.

464
00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:31,400
Speaker 4: Because she thought we were gonna call her from the studio,

465
00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,199
Speaker 4: but like we can FaceTime are so much better so

466
00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,240
Speaker 4: she can like really like feel like she's here.

467
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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see what. We'll take a boat on that.

468
00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:43,639
Speaker 2: By the way, we had the best first show ever.

469
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Speaker 2: It was so fun, Mark, we missed you.

470
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Speaker 5: I had serious FOMO that night. Honestly, I was following

471
00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,439
Speaker 5: all of your Instagram stories and I was sad that

472
00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,600
Speaker 5: I wasn't there. But it sounded great. It was fun,

473
00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,560
Speaker 5: and there was something we didn't talk about from that show.

474
00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:00,320
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, what Mecca?

475
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,920
Speaker 5: I know?

476
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:07,119
Speaker 2: Five per Okay here, Okay, I need to hear the

477
00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:15,320
Speaker 2: aftermath anxiety honestly that I'm not like taking it back

478
00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:18,320
Speaker 2: or anything like that, but I I did have. When

479
00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:21,960
Speaker 2: the question was asked, I thought if I drink. This

480
00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:25,600
Speaker 2: is going to cause a fight, you know. And then

481
00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,960
Speaker 2: I didn't know where my number was that wasn't going

482
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,239
Speaker 2: to cause a fight. So I was like, you know,

483
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Speaker 2: I'm just I'm going to put it out there, and

484
00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:36,520
Speaker 2: I went with ninety five, which is really high.

485
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Speaker 3: That's a ninety is like, there's this five Okay.

486
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,959
Speaker 2: Anyways, I not, like I said, I don't want to

487
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:51,240
Speaker 2: like take it back, but just so you know my mind,

488
00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:52,480
Speaker 2: my thought process.

489
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:57,199
Speaker 5: I was walking the dog and listening. I wish there

490
00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,040
Speaker 5: had been a camera on me, because yes, I like

491
00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:02,520
Speaker 5: stopped in my acts and like my eyes got wide,

492
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,959
Speaker 5: my mouth was open, like, oh my god, because I

493
00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 5: feel you say fifty to fifty, We'll see how it goes.

494
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 5: That's what I expected you to say to blow.

495
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,679
Speaker 2: You don't know the argument that I don't know.

496
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 5: I don't know, my god, but five percent, I was

497
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 5: so many's so happy?

498
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean yeah, I was like I felt like

499
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:26,960
Speaker 2: I had just like gotten engaged or something. But I

500
00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:28,879
Speaker 2: I was gonna go with eighty, and then I was

501
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Speaker 2: like oh and then like it was also on the

502
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Speaker 2: spot that I didn't have more time to process another number,

503
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Speaker 2: So I was like ninety five and then like literally

504
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 2: the whole night, I was like, I know everyone's like

505
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 2: waiting for a proposal. No, I got so many messages like.

506
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, ninety five percent.

507
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Speaker 5: So really, I don't know who I asked on a Facebook,

508
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,240
Speaker 5: but they should get her an award.

509
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Speaker 4: They should get a question because it was it.

510
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 2: Was didn't it wasn't it two parted or something.

511
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 5: I think we tweaked it. I think somebody asked. I

512
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,680
Speaker 5: think a number of people asked if you're going to

513
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 5: get married? And so we just tweaked it two percent

514
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 5: likelihood because we felt like that's harder to blow off.

515
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 5: So yes, it really was, because that's a tough because

516
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,160
Speaker 5: drinking is bad and answering is bad. You were torn,

517
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,919
Speaker 5: I know it was. It was like not great, what

518
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 5: about has there been family reaction? Has there been sister's reaction?

519
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 2: I don't know if anyone listens to them? So didn't

520
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 2: get those questions bombarding.

521
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, because this would have been my family.

522
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Speaker 4: My mom would have been like what yeah, no.

523
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Speaker 3: One what Yeah, she listens.

524
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Speaker 5: I know one is a radiotary is priority one. These

525
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Speaker 5: are the listeners that listen every day, all the time.

526
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 5: You need to keep them as happy as possible. They

527
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 5: are your top priority. Those are called P one listeners.

528
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Speaker 5: One of them.

529
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, that was it? Was it was it

530
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 2: the one that was like if you had to choose,

531
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Speaker 2: like if you had to choose between saving Tanya or

532
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 2: Phoebe and you had to give us a percentage? Was

533
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 2: it that there was one that there was like Tanya

534
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 2: and Phoebe involved, like I had to save them.

535
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Speaker 3: I don't know, but you answered it nicely. I was

536
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 3: not upset, I know.

537
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 2: I was really like looking out for everyone's feelings. It's

538
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 2: a lot of pressure to like the easiest thing would

539
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 2: would be to just get drunken to a shop for everything.

540
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 3: No, not the point.

541
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Speaker 2: But we had the best time. It was so great.

542
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 2: It was so funny. It's so funny because in rehearsal

543
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 2: we were like there was a lot of downtime with

544
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 2: the music playing that we were like, oh yeah, we're

545
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 2: out there.

546
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 3: We were like, oh my god, I need more time.

547
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 2: Story kept having to come drag us, I know.

548
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 4: And also thank you guys so much for the letters

549
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 4: and like the gifts and like it's just so I

550
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 4: can't explain to you, like the feeling of somebody going

551
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 4: out of their way to like make a tank top

552
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 4: or make a shirt, or write a beautiful card that's

553
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,239
Speaker 4: like has a butterfly on it, and they're just so

554
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 4: thoughtful and it's so uh.

555
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 3: I don't even have the word to explain it.

556
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 2: I got pop tarts, doctor Pepper, I got like all

557
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 2: these books that they made for with all the photos

558
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 2: and the notes. Yeah, it was I was the same

559
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 2: way like going through them the next day. I was

560
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 2: so overwhelmed because every time we have a meetup of

561
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 2: some sort of people bring us things and it's always like, wow,

562
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,399
Speaker 2: this is so like you said, the fact that you

563
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 2: took the time and the energy and the effort and

564
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 2: spent your money to do this is is really really awesome,

565
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Speaker 2: And it was fun going through all.

566
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Speaker 4: I started a scrubbing in box where like I keep

567
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 4: all those letters and stuff just because they're like they're

568
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 4: so intricate.

569
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Speaker 5: Quite a few boxes lately.

570
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Speaker 2: I started, is it just the card in the.

571
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 3: Should put? Oh that's good, I.

572
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 5: Put away because the ornament should be with the ornaments.

573
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I put cernament. It's just that card.

574
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 4: And then he sent me a bottle of champagne for

575
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 4: our San Franciscocio with a note on it said that note.

576
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:12,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is cute.

577
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 5: That was not covered in the Morning Show. But I

578
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 5: think that's so great because he said, did you keep

579
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 5: the card? You go? Oh yeah, I started a box

580
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 5: like the standard operating at this point, I toted a box. Yeah,

581
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 5: but I thought that was so funny and so sweet

582
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:28,919
Speaker 5: that just boom, got to start a box there. I'm

583
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 5: guessing it's been a while since you've started a box.

584
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 3: Oh, it's been a why.

585
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 4: I mean my scrubbing in box. I started that. I

586
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 4: think after our first meet up and we were getting

587
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 4: like letters because they were just like the cars, they're nice,

588
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 4: You're very encouraging, Yeah, and like come with little gifts

589
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 4: on them.

590
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 3: So it's like, I can't throw these away.

591
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Speaker 5: Cards are interesting because I think they are meant to

592
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 5: be thrown away, but it's always seems mean to throw

593
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 5: them away.

594
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so true.

595
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,360
Speaker 3: That's the only box I've started in like years.

596
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 5: Oh, I know what i'd ask you guys, did you

597
00:25:56,320 --> 00:26:00,439
Speaker 5: guys watch last week's Gray's anatomy. I'm going to go

598
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 5: with it was called the Last Supper. I believe this

599
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 5: is the one where they had the dinner party at

600
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 5: Weber and no, definitely not.

601
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 2: Can you talk about it a little bit, I mean,

602
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 2: and just give me your opinion and they'll tell you.

603
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 5: My wife and I were watching. She fell asleep about

604
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 5: fifteen minutes and I felt no need to wake her. Look,

605
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 5: I'm the biggest apologist. I know that one was rough.

606
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 3: You guys, I do want to say, it's like psalmzi

607
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 3: over there.

608
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,120
Speaker 2: Jace, who plays Terren Helm, who was on the live show,

609
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 2: was so great and great. I could have asked her

610
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: so many I just have quite I wanted to know

611
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: if she obviously like we want to see like a

612
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 2: storyline for her. I'm like, there's so many people that

613
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 2: we could be giving storylines too that I haven't had

614
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 2: anything yet. Instead of replaying the same.

615
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 5: Well that episode, they're literally name one of your favorite

616
00:26:55,640 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 5: characters from Grace anatomy. Joe not in that episode, Meredith

617
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 5: was not in that episode. Jackson was very much in

618
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 5: that episode.

619
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 3: Wait, I have to tell you, guys, though, So what

620
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 3: is this. It's when we landed in San Franciso.

621
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 4: So it's me, Paulina, one of my best friends Easton, Allison, Emma,

622
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 4: and then jac and her friend Sam and so we're

623
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 4: all getting in a car to go to the hotel. Right,

624
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 4: so everybody in this elevator like knows me obviously, like family, mineus,

625
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 4: jac and her friend, and I was hugging her. We'd

626
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,640
Speaker 4: met her for the first time, and she's like, oh,

627
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 4: your hair's wet. I was like, oh my gosh, literally

628
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 4: my hair. I was like, my hair's always wet. I'm

629
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 4: always just like showering and like going to the next thing,

630
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 4: like you know. I was like, if I wrote a memoir,

631
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 4: it'd be called like Tanya Rat always wet. Everybody was

632
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 4: like like dying laughing because they knew, they knew.

633
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 3: But she, like I could see her face.

634
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 2: She was like like, oh, like what am I doing here?

635
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:56,439
Speaker 2: What am I doing here?

636
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 4: And I was like, I mean because like my hair's

637
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 4: always wet, Like I'm just always hourad can go in

638
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 4: to the next thing, you know, like you.

639
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 2: Know, not that what.

640
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 10: It was a beautiful moment and then we had to

641
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 10: get into a cramped car with her for a long time.

642
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 3: But she seemed great.

643
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 5: She seemed very into the whole thing in the crowd

644
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 5: and the show and you guys, and she liked it.

645
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really we had a really good time. Yeah,

646
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 2: it's fun.

647
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 5: Well, we have a meeting after this to figure out

648
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 5: what we're doing Thursday, because I don't know anything that

649
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 5: we're doing Thursday in Los Angeles.

650
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 2: Neither do we same.

651
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 5: Well we'll figure it out.

652
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 3: Well, we have a couple we decided on a couple

653
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 3: of things.

654
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm.

655
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 11: It's going to beat for me the exact same show,

656
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 11: so you know, is it really no different.

657
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 2: It's funny because I mean I was so pleasantly surprised

658
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 2: because I guess the sound sounded great online shows, which

659
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: normally I've heard horror stories about people being like I

660
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 2: hate the live show episode.

661
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 3: You can't hear anything, but I hate live shows as

662
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 3: a listener.

663
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 2: So it sounded great. Though everyone seemed to really good.

664
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Speaker 10: I got a lot of compliments from people that were

665
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 10: not deserved for how it sounded. I was like, I

666
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 10: had nothing to do with that. That was a fine people

667
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 10: at as well. But there was an issue though that

668
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 10: you cut off the beginning.

669
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, because I listened to it to hear

670
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 2: like the first snippet of how it sounded, and I

671
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 2: was like, oh they didn't, We're what.

672
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 5: The engineer forgot to record? Imagine he remembered halfway through,

673
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 5: towards the end, you guys were talking about bracelets. Yeah,

674
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 5: we missed almost all of that conversations. Then you said

675
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 5: how you guys doing, and I was like, well, that's

676
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 5: our that's our open because I got nothing else. So

677
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 5: that's what I did.

678
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 3: It was that engineer.

679
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,479
Speaker 11: I don't name names, but I know exactly who it was.

680
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 5: That's why it started a little weird. So this next one,

681
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 5: hopefully we'll start better. We'll figure it all out.

682
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel it wouldn't have been that big of

683
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 2: a deal if he hadn't like totally not recorded the

684
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 2: whole thing, aside from just maybe his job or something.

685
00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 2: But because a lot of people were so excited I

686
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:01,719
Speaker 2: did that, we released They didn't know that we were

687
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 2: going to release the episode because I guess some shows

688
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 2: are just shows and it's like if you're there, you're there,

689
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 2: and other shows are you know, we give back to

690
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 2: the people who are in the Los Angeles Francisco area.

691
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 2: I'm just saying we're trying to take this thing on

692
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 2: the road, but right now.

693
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 4: I know I'm actually like, I'm kind of nervous for

694
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 4: LA because everybody, like performers, like artists and stuff say

695
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 4: that LA when they play their LA shows, it's like

696
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 4: the toughest crowd.

697
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 11: I've heard that.

698
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 2: Too, Yeah, Haley told me. Haley she was like, just

699
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 2: to set your expectations like L as the the least

700
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 2: like excited crowd because there's always stuff going on here. Yeah. However,

701
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 2: I think the Scrubbers are gonna rubber.

702
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 3: No, never met a jaded scrubber.

703
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 2: There's no jaded ness no within the scrub community.

704
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 3: Their songs, Jane, they are smooth, and.

705
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 5: They're probably over the place. It's not just going to

706
00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 5: be LA people.

707
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 4: I feel like it might be LA people because it

708
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 4: sold out so fast. I feel like it was probably

709
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 4: LA people.

710
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 2: But we had so many people that flew, Yeah, the Hollands.

711
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 3: By the way.

712
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 4: I also feel bad because I'm having to like turn

713
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 4: down a bunch of people now that want to come. Say,

714
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 4: I'm like, we're past our calms, Like I don't know what.

715
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 2: To do, Like I'm the same. I'm like, I really

716
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 2: feel like a huge star trying to get all my

717
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 2: peeps Vaccinay.

718
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 4: I know, like almost wish she would have been a

719
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 4: bigger venue so we can have like all of our

720
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 4: friends kind of like am I And I was like,

721
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 4: I need Wow.

722
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 2: It's a good, good problem to haven't we nave it

723
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 2: to Staples Center.

724
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 5: Someday? Vision twenty three?

725
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, not a bad idea. Dak Shepherd is selling up

726
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 3: four thousand.

727
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 5: Seats, are you really? Yes? Wow?

728
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 3: For his live shows?

729
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 5: Well, who knows? So speaking of big stars, today, we

730
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 5: have one of the biggest stars we've ever had on

731
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 5: this show.

732
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 2: Yes, truth.

733
00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 5: Uh so we'll get to her in a minute.

734
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 3: She wanted my face.

735
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 5: Are people Megan Trainer, She's fantastic, She's coming in. But

736
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,719
Speaker 5: the bottom line, so everyone knows. Moving forward, Tanya has

737
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 5: a boyfriend.

738
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 6: Gorgeous, gorgeous place it should we nickname him at the

739
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 6: live show?

740
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's nickname it. That's a live show.

741
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 5: In the morning show. He's Hinge Harry from Hassan to Heights.

742
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 3: I don't love.

743
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 5: I'm just going with like, I'm just like whatever.

744
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 2: Hinge Harry is funny.

745
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 3: He's not going to be Hinge Harry for us.

746
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 2: But Hinge Harry Hussy Heights is a lot. It's a lot.

747
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 5: It's well, we all say the Hinge Harry, Hinge Hinge Harold.

748
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 5: I mean, they all kind of work. But for the scrubbers,

749
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 5: they get their own unique nickname. Yeah, so we'll do

750
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 5: that idea.

751
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 2: Oh, stay tuned.

752
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 3: It's a good one because it's like it's a double

753
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 3: on to what's it called?

754
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I think dropping the ari is acceptable.

755
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 3: That's right.

756
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 2: First with me, years Tanya said the right word.

757
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 11: Easton disagrees with me, but I've heard it's it's definitely

758
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 11: a tondre.

759
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 2: Okay, Well she did she she did it?

760
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 11: Double is French for here and what.

761
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 3: Does that mean? Two meanings? Yes, thank you?

762
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 2: But for you it's on toon?

763
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, is it title double.

764
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 2: I'm so excited to talk to me again. I know

765
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 2: y'all are like BFFs, but I'm excited me too.

766
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 3: We have a short amount of time with her, though,

767
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 3: so we gotta get going.

768
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do.

769
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 12: It, paging doctor Tillie, Dr Rad and doctor Trader.

770
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 2: That's so cool, Tony. I'm gonna let you do the

771
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 2: honors here because I know this is the best day

772
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 2: of your life.

773
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 4: I'm very happy you've just heard this voice of an angel,

774
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 4: and I'm very happy that we have Megan Trainer here

775
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 4: starving Bay.

776
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:19,400
Speaker 2: This is a big deal for us.

777
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:22,239
Speaker 13: Mean, this is a big deal for me, Like he

778
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 13: saw you guys win.

779
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 2: The awards, the awards.

780
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 13: Oh my god, I'm standing on my words. I'm fangirling.

781
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 2: It's so cool, dude.

782
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: It's like hard to start a podcast and then we're

783
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 1: going to be so successful and awesome.

784
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 13: It's like, yeah, people are listening.

785
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 2: It's dope.

786
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:38,720
Speaker 3: It's really dope.

787
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, We've had so many requests to have you on

788
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 2: the podcast. Yeah, because you represent pretty much what this

789
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 2: podcast is all about. And in my mind, I'm like,

790
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 2: well Ton is friends with her, so this seems realistic.

791
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 2: But also is she she's a level too big for the.

792
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 13: I'm not too big for anything, dude. I love it all.

793
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 13: Are you kidding me? I thought like, I feel so

794
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 13: cool that I got to be here today. I'm telling you.

795
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 12: Wow.

796
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,280
Speaker 13: I was like, I get to do the podcast.

797
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:10,839
Speaker 3: But it is.

798
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 2: It is.

799
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 3: Beck's totally right, because I feel.

800
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 4: Like everything that you stand for, everything like your message

801
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 4: is very much aligned.

802
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 3: With our listeners.

803
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 4: You talk about yeah, yeah, and so this is a treat.

804
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 4: It's a treat, a treat myself. We're here to celebrate

805
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:27,800
Speaker 4: the album.

806
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 13: Really oh yeah the album yeah, well done.

807
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 5: Yeah.

808
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 1: I feel like everyone's talking about it now though, like

809
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 1: self awareness and self love, and it's like it's so

810
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:42,400
Speaker 1: crucial and important because everyone's losing their minds, you know.

811
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: So I think we all need a little moment of

812
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 1: let's take a step back and go back to looking

813
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 1: at yourself in the mirror and being like, let's take

814
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: some time off, let's let's love you again. You know.

815
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 13: Yeah, it's so hard.

816
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 4: I do actually want to get into that because I

817
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 4: met you before, Darryl, so you're married.

818
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:03,280
Speaker 1: Now I'm a married woman and so happy. I'm so happy.

819
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 4: But it took a lot of heartbreak to get there. Yeah,

820
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 4: mostly because of me, you know, you think so.

821
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:10,759
Speaker 13: Yeah, it wasn't like.

822
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: It wasn't like I dated a bunch of people and

823
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: they wronged me. It was just like I always knew

824
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 1: that I would find him close. It was so bizarre, man,

825
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 1: I don't know I would I guess that was the

826
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: only time I manifested something and I was like where

827
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 1: is he?

828
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 13: And I would talk about him like he was already there.

829
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 1: I'd be like, he's making so many mistakes right now,

830
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 1: like oh my god, what was he doing?

831
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 13: Like he's acting a fool.

832
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 1: And then I remember one night I was crying to

833
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,720
Speaker 1: my best friend Jojo, who you've met a bunch of times,

834
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: and I.

835
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 13: Was like, where is he? And she was like, he's close.

836
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: And then I met him like two weeks after that

837
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: on our date and I was like, it's like you because.

838
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 4: You wrote so you have that you had Dear future

839
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 4: husband the song I have a Dear future Husband journal

840
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 4: that I like write in when I.

841
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 13: Go on like that.

842
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 4: I talked to dear future husband and I just I don't.

843
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 1: Know, it's like you miss him, Yeah, I miss Yeah,

844
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 1: I missed him a lot, and I'm like I always

845
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: say like, god, I missed you.

846
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I like write down like how bad my

847
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 4: date was, and I'm like, oh, like you're gonna be

848
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 4: so worth it.

849
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 13: Yeah yeah, oh my god. I love that. Really, I

850
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 13: love you for that. That's so cute.

851
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 2: Did you do stuff like that where you left like

852
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,399
Speaker 2: room in your closet for your future husband or not.

853
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 1: Like physically like that, but I, uh, I left room

854
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: in my hot and I always take it like a

855
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: step little too far. Yeah yeah yeah, but I did

856
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: write songs about it. I had another song on my

857
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 1: second album called Holpus Romantic Oh, and that was me

858
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 1: just crying out for him.

859
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 13: And it was crazy because in that song I said,

860
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 13: I bet we met at a party before, and I did.

861
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 1: I first met him two years before a first date

862
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 1: at a party and he crashed my party. My song

863
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 1: r in a party and I was like, are you

864
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 1: spy kids and he was like yeah, and I was like,

865
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: I love spi kids, And it's crazy how I wrote

866
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: that in a song. And then two years later we

867
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 1: went on a date and I was like, oh my god,

868
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 1: I was singing to you. So for a long time

869
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 1: on tour, I would sing that song to him and like,

870
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 1: no one knew he was there.

871
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 2: Did y'all? So there was no romantic initial connection.

872
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 13: At that party. I was, I mean, I was having

873
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 13: a good time and I was drunk.

874
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 2: Yeah I was.

875
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 1: I met him at the drink place you get you poor,

876
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 1: you drink. But it was more I was more star

877
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: fan star I don't know what I'm saying.

878
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 3: What is it starstruck?

879
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 13: Starstruck? Yeah, I was so starstruck.

880
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: And I'm not like I'm too embarrassed and scared to

881
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 1: go up to celebrities and talk to them.

882
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:40,759
Speaker 13: But him, I was like, I was, you know, I

883
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 13: was feeling myself and I was like.

884
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: I love you. I have to tell you I love you,

885
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 1: and I called. I remember calling my parents that night,

886
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 1: being like a party with.

887
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,879
Speaker 13: Spy kids, y'all. And so I was married to him.

888
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so cool, Like in my house we have

889
00:38:56,000 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: like his posters and his outfit like framed my parents.

890
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 13: That it's so cute.

891
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 3: That is so cute. Reach for the stars man.

892
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I always thought like, y'ah, I'll just get

893
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 1: like a nice dude and then I'll fix him and stuff.

894
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: But I never thought i'd get like the most romantic,

895
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 1: kindest person ever.

896
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,760
Speaker 3: Like no, he last night so much.

897
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 1: Last night, he like massaged my feet for thirty minutes,

898
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 1: right foot left for right foot left fo like just

899
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,760
Speaker 1: because I was wearing heels for a minute, Like it's

900
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: it's it's so And I didn't think that existed, Like

901
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 1: you don't expect that. You don't think guys have.

902
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 2: Hearts like that.

903
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: I don't know, right, And then and then you meet one,

904
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: and then I tell all my friends like, oh my god,

905
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 1: never settle because there's a guy out there who will

906
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: love you so dramatically and like he's so emotional. He

907
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 1: definitely cries more than me. But no, we cried this,

908
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: but it's great. He loves rom coms. I think that's

909
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: what made him a good guy.

910
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 2: That's it.

911
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 13: He loves them. He loves all of them.

912
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 2: So when you when you talk about like you it

913
00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 2: was mostly your fault, do you feel like you just

914
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 2: went for eyes who you thought they might not be

915
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 2: great for me, but I can change them and then

916
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 2: it ended up just No.

917
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 13: I think when I say it's my fault, it's like.

918
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 1: I it wasn't always like sunshine and love. It was

919
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 1: because I was I'm like my biggest bully. I'm like,

920
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: the meanest person to me is me, Like nobody's nobody's

921
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 1: actually like you know when you sit at a party

922
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 1: or at an event and you're like, oh my god,

923
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: everyone's judging me.

924
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 13: Everyone thinks I look ugly, and everybody they aren't cool enough.

925
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: Nobody is had cares at first of all, to go

926
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: that deep into hating you and like you're the only

927
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: one bringing these thoughts in your mind.

928
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 13: And it's it's.

929
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 1: When I realized that I was like, oh no, I'm

930
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: so mean to myself, Like I gotta flip that, I

931
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: gotta be better at that and it's so hard, like

932
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: when someone's like, just be nicer to yourself, Like, uh no,

933
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: So I wrote these songs like working on it, like

934
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna attempt to start this journey of like be

935
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 1: nicer to yourself.

936
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 4: That is one of my favorite songs on the album.

937
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 4: I love it so much.

938
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,479
Speaker 2: We do thank You because it's so true.

939
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 4: It's like you're like, it's funny people make fun of

940
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 4: me all the time because like you're always reading like

941
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 4: self help books and you're always trying to but I

942
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:08,800
Speaker 4: want to constantly be evolving into a better, better person myself.

943
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:12,360
Speaker 13: Yeah. Sorry, I'm trying to lot myself. Excuse me.

944
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 1: And I love Lee and Stella, so that was like

945
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: a really And Sasha Sloane Man, she came, I'm a

946
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 1: biggest fan, and it's so funny when we did that song.

947
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: She was like she's like exactly like me, but even worse.

948
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 1: She's like, Yo, if you want someone more famous or

949
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,240
Speaker 1: like Huler, I totally get it. I was like, Sasha,

950
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 1: shut up, like you're the only person who's gonna sing

951
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 1: on this song.

952
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 13: I'm not replacing you. That's so stupid. You wrote this

953
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 13: song and you're my superstar.

954
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 2: Do you know, it's so funny. I feel like we

955
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 2: all do this weird comparison thing. And the only person

956
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 2: I can think of that might not do it is

957
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 2: Jennifer Aniston. I'm like, she feels you knows she's the queen.

958
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 2: She's like, oh yeah, I'm like, Janson do that.

959
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:51,919
Speaker 3: I'm sure she does.

960
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 13: No, she definitely, I know.

961
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 2: But I'm saying like we all, no matter what level

962
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 2: you're at, you have the mentality of like I'm not

963
00:41:58,680 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 2: big enough.

964
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:00,839
Speaker 13: Oh yeah, good and and I don't know.

965
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: Do you guys feel like this, Like the more success

966
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: I get, the less famous and the less successful I feel,

967
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh god, I'm at the bottom.

968
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 13: I gotta start all over again.

969
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: And they're like, the other day someone read all the

970
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: stuff I've ever accomplished and it was like a fat,

971
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 1: long page and they were like, well, that's crazy, isn't it.

972
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, could you read that again?

973
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 4: Like, I know, we actually act all that talk and

974
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 4: Andy grammar about that where it's like the highs and

975
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 4: the lows in this industry can be very, very jarring

976
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:27,720
Speaker 4: because it's like one day you can have the number

977
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,840
Speaker 4: one song in the country and everybody you know everybody's

978
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 4: talking about it. Yeah yeah, and then literally two months later,

979
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 4: like you can't get any like you can't get someone

980
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 4: to listen to.

981
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 13: Take good job.

982
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, Like the highs and lows are just so

983
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 4: you have to just kind of have something that just

984
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 4: keeps you eating.

985
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,320
Speaker 1: And that's like I think that's all entertainment too, because

986
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: my husband, like when it's like if he's not hot

987
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:50,800
Speaker 1: in the acting role, he's not going to get that job.

988
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: And he goes on these auditions, which I don't know

989
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: how he does it, but like he'll go on auditions

990
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 1: and it's even worse for actors and dancers cause it's.

991
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 13: Like most of that is low.

992
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like he's like.

993
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: Huh, I'm in an audition right now, and there's all

994
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 1: like obese men, and I feel very like they were

995
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 1: looking for like.

996
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 13: A fat guy, right and I was like, why why

997
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 13: am I here? Like, and it's literally even dancers.

998
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I need someone this tall so that

999
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:16,760
Speaker 1: it looks clean.

1000
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 13: And it's the worst. I don't know. I could not

1001
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 13: do that job.

1002
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:20,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's tough.

1003
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 13: It's brutal.

1004
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,399
Speaker 2: Well, anyway, I was talking about I was gonna bring

1005
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 2: this up, but I feel like we're in a place

1006
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 2: where a lot of music is all about women empowerment,

1007
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: which is really cool to see. But I kind of

1008
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 2: when I look back and think of you're like one

1009
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,399
Speaker 2: of the first people I remember having this moment coming

1010
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 2: into the scene. And I remember we were I was

1011
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 2: on the Bachelor, like forever ago, but we were in

1012
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 2: Bali and they had this music channel and the only

1013
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,720
Speaker 2: thing that was in English was this music video channel,

1014
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 2: and it was like just replaying the same videos, and

1015
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 2: yours was one of the ones I saw over and

1016
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,879
Speaker 2: over again, and the song like really just embally. Yeah,

1017
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 2: it was really cool. That's tating.

1018
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 4: I have this like ability, especially on this this new album.

1019
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 4: Baby Girl is one of my favorite songs. I just

1020
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 4: think it's so so good, it's so special, and it's

1021
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 4: all like, it's so weird because I feel like so

1022
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 4: much of your music I feel like our pages out

1023
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 4: of my diary. Yes, and I'm sure so many other

1024
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 4: women feel that way.

1025
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 1: My best friend says, you write stuff that we all

1026
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: think but we're too shy to say out loud.

1027
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 3: For sure, And I was like, yeah, Like I.

1028
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: Would never go up to someone and be like I'm

1029
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 1: sad and I mean to myself, but I'm gonna work

1030
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 1: on it. And it's like it's so good in his

1031
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: song and it's so refreshing to hear.

1032
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 3: What mental space were you when you wrote baby Girl?

1033
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 13: Just brutally honest, I don't know.

1034
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,360
Speaker 1: That was like I want I remember I needed a

1035
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: slower song out of the album. I was like, looking

1036
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 1: at it, I was like, I need a ballad, wid

1037
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 1: of tempo. And I've been to Sunday Service a lot

1038
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: with Kanye West, and I was like I kind of

1039
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 1: wanted to sound like inspired by him. So I had

1040
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: my brother scream on it. Thats Ryan just going ah yeah.

1041
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 13: Right before the drop.

1042
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,479
Speaker 1: Mike Sabbath produced it and made it like so cool

1043
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 1: and weird, and then I just wrote it like a

1044
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:07,919
Speaker 1: beautiful ballad that was like all those like I'm talking

1045
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: to my fourteen year old self.

1046
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 13: I'm like, don't give up yet. All your dreams will

1047
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 13: come true.

1048
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 1: I know you don't believe it at all, but like

1049
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: hang on and time heals all, and when you get older,

1050
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 1: you're you'll start loving yourself and you'll see how better

1051
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 1: life can be when you start loving yourself. Cause I

1052
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: was like I was on an Island where all my

1053
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: friends were in bikinis and went to the beach and

1054
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 1: it's like that's what you do there. You're born and

1055
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: raised on the beach. I hated it and I avoided.

1056
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 13: It at all costs.

1057
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: Like my friends are like, where's your bathing suit? I

1058
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: was like, I don't own a bathing suit because like,

1059
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: I don't. I haven't put on a badsuit in like

1060
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: eight years. And when they were like, we're going to

1061
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 1: the beach and this like high school or middle school,

1062
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 1: I'd be like, ah, man, I have to work for

1063
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 1: my parents at the jewelry store, like.

1064
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:50,439
Speaker 13: Sucks, and I would like straight up lie.

1065
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 1: Or I'd have my mom like yell at me through

1066
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 1: the phone and be like you can't go, and I'm

1067
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 1: like thanks Mom, Like yeah, And I look back and

1068
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, why why did we do that?

1069
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 13: Why did weish? So many years? We were a team.

1070
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 4: And it's all that stuff so happens when you're an adult, Oh.

1071
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 13: My god, forever.

1072
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:09,959
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1073
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 13: I always say like life is high school? Like life

1074
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 13: is high school?

1075
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I always say, because everyone's like, you know, high

1076
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 2: school was so long ago, We've changed so much, and

1077
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:21,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, it really doesn't like we just learned. It's

1078
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 2: just like.

1079
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,439
Speaker 1: When I'd a job with other adults and we're now

1080
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 1: this high school literally.

1081
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 2: I know, and it's I mean, I can't even imagine.

1082
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 2: In like the music industry, I feel like especially because

1083
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:35,240
Speaker 2: everyone's essentially the popular person.

1084
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: Literally, it's like and everyone goes it's all about who

1085
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: you know. And I was like, ah, man, I don't

1086
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: know where anyone as this is gonna be tough.

1087
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 2: Well, I I recently had a moment where I was like,

1088
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 2: I don't like how I look in any of my clothes.

1089
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 2: I was like literally sitting in the bathtub, like grab

1090
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 2: my stomach roll and I was like, I have this

1091
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: moment where I was like, no one cares about my

1092
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 2: stomach rolls, and no one cares about what I wear

1093
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 2: or how I look at my outfit. But what they

1094
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 2: think about when I go to a party or an event,

1095
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 2: when I walk away, it has nothing to do with

1096
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 2: my physical appearance. Like some you might notice someone and

1097
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 2: be like, oh they look really pretty or I love

1098
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:14,319
Speaker 2: their outfit, but it's a fleeting thought. But what I've

1099
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,879
Speaker 2: always remembered when I go to like social events, it's

1100
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:20,240
Speaker 2: how someone reached out to me. Or like I remember

1101
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 2: meeting you and how kind you are. I walked away

1102
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 2: from talking. When we walked away from you, I was like,

1103
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,399
Speaker 2: she's so kind, Like that's what I remembered about you.

1104
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 2: You know. It's like we worry so much about our

1105
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 2: physical appearance and no one cares. No, it's not why

1106
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 2: people remember you.

1107
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all personality, and it's so effortless and so

1108
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 1: easy to be nice to someone that like when someone's not,

1109
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,720
Speaker 1: You're like, that's going on in your life?

1110
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 13: So so hard right now?

1111
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, hurt people?

1112
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 13: But yeah, yeah, her people hurt people.

1113
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 3: I know you have. Yeah, Tommy's like, ha ha.

1114
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 13: Oh her people hurt people. Amen.

1115
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 4: By the way, I know I told you this, But

1116
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 4: Tommy Bruce, I said, the biggest crush on your car.

1117
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 13: Tommy Bruce loves me.

1118
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 2: I know, I know.

1119
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 3: My in all of my college. I was like, why

1120
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 3: doesn't like me?

1121
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 2: Back?

1122
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 1: Oh wait, need to go to his school or you

1123
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 1: were shot off?

1124
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 12: Yeah?

1125
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 13: Oh mg?

1126
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 1: Really like me?

1127
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 13: Why does he so long? You heartbreaking? Dirty boy?

1128
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,400
Speaker 2: His parents are so tight. But you didn't know.

1129
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 1: Were you will you quote unquot straight by then? Yeah,

1130
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:30,760
Speaker 1: he was a cheerleader.

1131
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 13: By the way, stay champion twice.

1132
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 2: Well, did you go to Dayton Arizona. Bro? Yeah, that's right.

1133
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 4: I know you have a heart out, so I want

1134
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 4: to make sure that we get an album. Treat Myself

1135
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 4: is available. Now, do you have favorites?

1136
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 3: I that's the favorites.

1137
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:53,280
Speaker 13: It changes all the time, but I've been really digging ashes.

1138
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 3: I'm just saying that's.

1139
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 1: My favorites too, dude. That was the last minute too.

1140
00:48:58,560 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 1: That was about and I was like through it. I

1141
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: My friend was like, produce this out and I was like,

1142
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 1: this is unbelievable, Like.

1143
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:04,479
Speaker 13: This is a good one.

1144
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 3: It's a really good one.

1145
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 5: Thank you.

1146
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 13: I'm so excited about it.

1147
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: It was written about like me being in a fight

1148
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 1: with my little stubborn brother. I'm like, dude, you're so annoying.

1149
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 1: I wish you could see what you look like. And

1150
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:15,279
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, it's a great relationship fight.

1151
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 4: And I wrote love song life of a Musical Mastermind.

1152
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,600
Speaker 13: I looked so crazy. Sometimes I'm like at home, I'm like,

1153
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 13: give me the phone. I need to write it down.

1154
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, nice to meet you.

1155
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 13: Nice to meet to too.

1156
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 3: That one's in my hand featuring Nicki Minaja. That's a

1157
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 3: good one.

1158
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 13: That's a good one. It's a bucket this moment, it's

1159
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 13: like check.

1160
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, do you have anyone like

1161
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 2: manifested who your dream collab is?

1162
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 13: Justin Timberlake solemn, but like no positive.

1163
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: Mary kids, I say, just.

1164
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:52,879
Speaker 13: Ti, I'm married the spy.

1165
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 2: The spy.

1166
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for taking the time. We appreciate you, honored.

1167
00:49:57,960 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 1: I live down the street. Whenever you want me, I

1168
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 1: will come in here. I will do whatever you want.

1169
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 13: I love this podcast. I love you girl so much.

1170
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 13: I like this was the best therapy. I feel like,

1171
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 13: oh my god.

1172
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 3: There's so much more. I want to dig in with you.

1173
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 13: By the way, I know I've come here to offer.

1174
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 13: I'm telling you I'm down the street.

1175
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 3: We can come to your house.

1176
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 1: I have a studio in my house. Got more dogs,

1177
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 1: we can all hold one.

1178
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 4: Because I do think it's very interesting. Because I also

1179
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 4: just I am gonna wrap it up. But I feel

1180
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,839
Speaker 4: like people listening you know you you really are like

1181
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 4: you are on a whole another level, but you are

1182
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 4: just like all the rest of us, and so it's like,

1183
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 4: what do you mean, well.

1184
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 2: Level am I You're like you're a You're famous celebrity, celebrity,

1185
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 2: A celebrity, do you know what I mean?

1186
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 4: And like, but people don't realize that you're human, you know.

1187
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,800
Speaker 4: So I think it's just interesting to hear this side

1188
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 4: of you and like, you know, all of these things

1189
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:51,359
Speaker 4: that we all deal with.

1190
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get I just like never felt famous. I

1191
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: never feel famous.

1192
00:50:55,440 --> 00:51:03,360
Speaker 13: I don't super she'd be like that your is.

1193
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:05,879
Speaker 3: Trainer comes here.

1194
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 13: I'm like, oh my gosh, that's nuts.

1195
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you so much for hav Thank you elevated

1196
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:12,360
Speaker 2: our podcast.

1197
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:15,640
Speaker 13: Dude, you guys did it on your own. You goals

1198
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:16,760
Speaker 13: so proud.

1199
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 9: I love you.

1200
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 2: I mean, wow, she is amazing.

1201
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 3: We really need more time with her.

1202
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 2: I know. I think we bring her back on, have

1203
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 2: her as a co a third co host, and like

1204
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 2: we she answers emails with us, gives advice with us,

1205
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,320
Speaker 2: We dig deeper because there's.

1206
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 4: So much to her, Like I really feel like I

1207
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 4: really did, Like I got to know her before she

1208
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 4: met her husband, her now husband, Darryl, and she and

1209
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:58,479
Speaker 4: I are very similar in the way that we dealt

1210
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 4: with our dating lives, and I think she would have

1211
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:05,360
Speaker 4: really good advice now being on the other end of

1212
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 4: it as a married woman.

1213
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, I would love it. I just I

1214
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 2: think she's so perfectly exactly what our podcast represents, just

1215
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 2: like a modern thing woman.

1216
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 3: It's true.

1217
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 5: She's a great interview yeah. Always. She aw's got the energy,

1218
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 5: she's always fun. She doesn't seem to have much of

1219
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:28,400
Speaker 5: a filter. She's really great.

1220
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, And she's very self aware and she's very unapologetic.

1221
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 4: So like she knows and she knows she like she

1222
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:36,880
Speaker 4: knows who she is, and then she knows what she

1223
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 4: wants to be, and like she just I don't know,

1224
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 4: she's she's like a.

1225
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:41,840
Speaker 3: Work in progress.

1226
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 2: We all are we are? We all?

1227
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 10: She called me a like four years ago, she came

1228
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 10: on the morning show and she called me a cutie

1229
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 10: on the air to Ryan, and it made me feel

1230
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 10: very good about myself.

1231
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 11: And I have the audio on my coveer. And the other.

1232
00:52:58,440 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 4: Thing too that I love so much about her is

1233
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 4: she really is just like a kind human Like at

1234
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 4: the end of the day, take it all the way

1235
00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 4: take she does seem to be that she's an A

1236
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 4: level celebrity. Take all her celebrity at her accolades, She's

1237
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 4: had sold out all these things, just gold records on everything,

1238
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:15,280
Speaker 4: she's just like kind well.

1239
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:17,719
Speaker 5: Before she was in a level celebrity, and she hasn't

1240
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 5: changed in the slightest and the slightest And that's that's reassuring,

1241
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 5: because they do change. We seen them before and we

1242
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 5: see them after, and there is a major difference a

1243
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 5: lot of the time.

1244
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's funny. She made the comment, I don't

1245
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 2: feel I've never felt famous or I don't feel famous,

1246
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 2: and I'm like, that's why you are who you are. Like,

1247
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 2: the moment you feel famous is the downfall I feel.

1248
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 4: You know what, though, what she could be my ticket

1249
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 4: into the recording academy. I just need three credits. If

1250
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 4: she'll just let me write with her three songs.

1251
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,959
Speaker 13: I won't take any money. I don't want any money.

1252
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 3: I just need the three credits so that I can

1253
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 3: get on the board.

1254
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,319
Speaker 2: What if you brought just like that to her and

1255
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 2: she adds.

1256
00:53:57,880 --> 00:53:59,800
Speaker 5: A verse or changes the words around. Now, it's a

1257
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 5: she would do it.

1258
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:02,319
Speaker 2: She told she would.

1259
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:04,799
Speaker 5: It interesting, that's not bad.

1260
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 3: She would make just like that a bop.

1261
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:11,720
Speaker 2: She really would, and she could sing from like personal

1262
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 2: experience of having gone through that.

1263
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 13: Yeah, oh, this is good, Okay, this is good.

1264
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 2: Speaking of the Morning Show. I started watching The Morning Show.

1265
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, wow, I think it's fantastic.

1266
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 2: It is just so well done, well casted, The characters

1267
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 2: are so amazing. I just love it.

1268
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 5: And I'll tell you no spoilers, but the ending is great.

1269
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 5: Like some shows the ending can be a real disappointment

1270
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 5: after a season of build up. It's really strong.

1271
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:43,760
Speaker 3: I will say, Steve Correll to me is a little

1272
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 3: hard to see as lost.

1273
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 5: The Steve Carrell in my brain was that character was.

1274
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:51,399
Speaker 2: Saying me too.

1275
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 3: He was Steve Carell to me.

1276
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 2: That's so funny because I I at first, I was like,

1277
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 2: how his voice? This is a tone that I only

1278
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 2: hear in comedy. But for some reason it switched. But

1279
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,240
Speaker 2: there's a moment which I don't think this is a spoiler,

1280
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 2: where Jennifer Anderson is sitting in this table in front

1281
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 2: of all these men and she's just like, you need me,

1282
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 2: and so I'm going to do it my way. And

1283
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 2: I was like, whoa. That was so cool, Like she

1284
00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 2: was just like, you're gonna listen to me and what

1285
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 2: I have to say because you need me. I can't

1286
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 2: rery this show.

1287
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's really good.

1288
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 3: You guys, all ten of them Nope, not done yet.

1289
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 5: I think maybe he will, especially over the last few episodes.

1290
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:32,319
Speaker 5: He may become Mitch Keschler to you, right, because to

1291
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 5: me he's just Mitch. Something about that salt and pepper beard.

1292
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:37,280
Speaker 5: All right, do you want to read an email?

1293
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 2: I would love to try to.

1294
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 5: Call and surprise somebody because that's always a hoot. This

1295
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:44,240
Speaker 5: is from Carter. She put Carter in quotes, so probably

1296
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 5: not a real name, but hey, Carter. I transferred to

1297
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:49,360
Speaker 5: a college my senior year and became good friends with

1298
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 5: two girls that have been besties for years, Danielle and Cassie.

1299
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 5: I was a bridesmaid in Cassie's wedding when I was

1300
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 5: getting married, asked and to be bride'smaids and my bachelorette. Well,

1301
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 5: they ditched us to hang out with each other. She's

1302
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 5: always kind of felt like a third wheel with these two.

1303
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:05,800
Speaker 5: On my wedding day, Cassie cried in the bathroom and

1304
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:07,320
Speaker 5: told me she was separating from her husband.

1305
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1306
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:10,360
Speaker 5: When I got back from my Honeymohen, I called Cassie

1307
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 5: to talk through what happened. When we both cried and

1308
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 5: everything was okay. She apologized for her actions at my bachelorette.

1309
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 5: Two months later, I found out that on my wedding day,

1310
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:20,799
Speaker 5: she slept with my nineteen year old nephew. We were

1311
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 5: twenty eight. I was incredibly upset, but Danielle defended Cassie.

1312
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:28,319
Speaker 5: They're both adults. I was stunned. We were all drunk, yes,

1313
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:30,319
Speaker 5: but he's my nephew, and he's a nineteen year old

1314
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 5: college kid. He'd sleep with anything with a heartbeat. She

1315
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 5: was old enough to know better, and she didn't tell me.

1316
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:37,919
Speaker 5: Our phone call when she apologized for my bachelorette would

1317
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:39,800
Speaker 5: have been the perfect time to tell me, and she

1318
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,480
Speaker 5: chose not to. Anyway, Now I'm not friends with either

1319
00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 5: of them because they stopped talking to me. They were

1320
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 5: my best friends and now nothing. They were in all

1321
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 5: my wedding pictures. Do you think I was wrong for

1322
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 5: being upset? How do I move on from this?

1323
00:56:55,520 --> 00:57:00,080
Speaker 2: Wait? So Cassie technically was married, but like going to

1324
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 2: separate from her husband a really hard time.

1325
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 3: And yeah, basically that she slept with somebody that she

1326
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 3: shouldn't have.

1327
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 5: But shouldn't she have? I'm just playing devil's advocation.

1328
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 4: I say, thing happened to me in college, but it

1329
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 4: wasn't in the eighteen year old nehew, but it was.

1330
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 4: I was slept with one of my friends, a guy

1331
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 4: that a friend liked, like you know, the typical thing.

1332
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 5: And you were going through a hard time and you

1333
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 5: just kind of fell into him literally exactly just.

1334
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 7: Felt I kind of felt on top of him, and

1335
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:34,480
Speaker 7: it sucked and I didn't meet Like it was like

1336
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 7: such a lapse in judgment, you know what I mean,

1337
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 7: Like I didn't mean to and it meant nothing to me,

1338
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 7: and I felt so horrible, and like it sucks because

1339
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 7: I've been on the other end of this, you know,

1340
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 7: like unintentionally doing that.

1341
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 2: But if she's not friends with them anymore, does anything

1342
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 2: need to happen? Like if that was enough to end

1343
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 2: the friendship, is it? Like I don't feel like they

1344
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 2: were like super loyal and great friends anyway. Like I

1345
00:57:56,720 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 2: don't feel like it was a huge loss during how

1346
00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 2: they treated her and things before, like her bachelorette. Do

1347
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 2: you see you know what I'm saying.

1348
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 5: Yes, I have a quote. Life becomes easier when you

1349
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 5: learn to accept the apology you never got.

1350
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 3: It's true, amen, preacher brother.

1351
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 5: Well that's great, do your best to let it go.

1352
00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 3: And Also, it's like being upset about stuff like this,

1353
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 3: like it just creates more.

1354
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 2: It's just weighing on you. I guarantee, it's not waiting

1355
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 2: on your nephew or Cassie. So you are the one

1356
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:32,080
Speaker 2: carrying this burden that's like unnecessary, Like you're carrying weight

1357
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 2: that you need to just like go off because it's

1358
00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 2: there's a lot more going on in the world.

1359
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:39,800
Speaker 3: There's a lot of fish to have been fried.

1360
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 2: Okay, well, I don't think that helps you at all,

1361
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 2: but I do think there's a lot more that you

1362
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 2: could spin that energy. Worrying on worrying I don't yeah,

1363
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 2: I don't know. I know is just like taking over

1364
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:57,320
Speaker 2: my brain. Nothing makes sense. It's all blurt.

1365
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:00,640
Speaker 3: When I say earlier shoot for the who landing a

1366
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:01,680
Speaker 3: monkst the starf.

1367
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:04,600
Speaker 2: Oh I knew over that one.

1368
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 3: I knew it was wrong when it came out, I

1369
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 3: was like, but what is it?

1370
00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 5: This is a sweet email from Kayla and then we'll

1371
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 5: try to call her. Okay, thank you for bringing so

1372
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 5: much light and laughter to my workdays. In my life,

1373
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 5: I was a huge Becca fan when she was on

1374
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 5: the Bachelor, and I only discovered the podcast four months ago.

1375
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,600
Speaker 5: I have fallen in love, have listened to the recent podcast,

1376
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 5: and now I'm backtracking all the way from episode one.

1377
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 5: I have to remind myself to laugh quieter, and my

1378
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 5: coworkers give me concerned notes. After I discovered your podcast,

1379
00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 5: I mentioned it to my younger sister, who rolled her eyes, saying,

1380
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:38,919
Speaker 5: she's been following you guys for a long time. She's

1381
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 5: more of a Becca. I'm a lot more Tanya. It's

1382
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 5: kind of scary, and although we're in South Dakota, we're

1383
00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:45,120
Speaker 5: hoping to make it to one of your live shows

1384
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 5: this year. My sister Lexi and I have always had

1385
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:50,040
Speaker 5: a strong relationship, but even more so recently. I'm the oldest,

1386
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 5: but she inspires me every day. She got married last year,

1387
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,240
Speaker 5: they bought a house and they let me move in

1388
00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 5: with them. Her husband plays baseball and has gone seven

1389
00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 5: months out of the year, but she is his biggest cheerleader.

1390
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 5: My sister Trim twenty four a few days ago, and

1391
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 5: would make her day if she got a shout out

1392
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 5: or a phone call from you guys. Thank you for

1393
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 5: being such kind and positive humans. I'm sure I speak

1394
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:10,520
Speaker 5: for thousands when I say you, your words and your

1395
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 5: show make a difference. I wish I lived closer to La.

1396
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 5: We'd definitely be besties. Did you call Kayla Easton?

1397
01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 3: Should we pretend to do something?

1398
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 5: All right? Well, wait, we're gonna call Kayla first, she

1399
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 5: wrote this. Let's get her on first, and then we'll

1400
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:24,919
Speaker 5: we'll plan with her what we should do because she'll

1401
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 5: know more. Okay, so you guys can't hello Kayla?

1402
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, Kayla, Yeah, Kayla, Hello.

1403
01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:43,440
Speaker 2: Hi Kayla. It's beca Tanya, Mark and Easton.

1404
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 3: How's the go?

1405
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 8: I literally, so this is kind of funny. I had

1406
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 8: to tell my sister that you guys might be calling

1407
01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 8: because she's in Hawaii, and I just texted her and

1408
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 8: told her I don't think he's still gonna call, So we.

1409
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 3: Can't pretend to be like Netflix or something.

1410
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 8: If she knows. So, I know, I wanted to surprise her,

1411
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 8: but I'm like, well, I don't know what time, don't call,

1412
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 8: and if she's like sleeping, I need to make sure

1413
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 8: she has her phone.

1414
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 2: That's true. That's a good point because I definitely would

1415
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 2: not be answering it this time. And if I were

1416
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:19,640
Speaker 2: in Hawaii.

1417
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, so we'll call it.

1418
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:27,080
Speaker 2: We're gonna hi, and we're gonna call and then we'll

1419
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 2: say I wish there was a way. Is she saying

1420
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:31,960
Speaker 2: at like a hotel resort or anything.

1421
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 8: No, she's with our family that lives there.

1422
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 2: Oh well that's very convenient. How nice? I know.

1423
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 3: I want to sing her a song?

1424
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 2: Do you want to? Just we just want to.

1425
01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 3: It's just call her, but let's like sing our song.

1426
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 2: Okay, Like no birthday clich like we would have to

1427
01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 2: do that.

1428
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 3: We should like, let's like make it on the sauce.

1429
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:57,480
Speaker 4: I'll be like, we just wanted to call because we

1430
01:01:57,520 --> 01:01:59,000
Speaker 4: wrote you a birthday song. And then we'll go into

1431
01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 4: it and like all say a line, sne.

1432
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:05,479
Speaker 2: Okay, So she's gonna say line, and then I'm gonna

1433
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:08,120
Speaker 2: say something that rhymes and you have to rhyme, and

1434
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 2: then you have.

1435
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 13: H okay.

1436
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 5: In the line and has to rhyme it. Yeah, yeah, okay,

1437
01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 5: got it all right? And she's in Hawaii.

1438
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I get to set the tone of the song.

1439
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 6: Since I'm the star, go ahead, make it something that

1440
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 6: I can run off. Please, all about that bass vibe? Okay,

1441
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:31,360
Speaker 6: Megan Trainer or if I.

1442
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 3: Was you, i'd want to be me. Is that better

1443
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:34,280
Speaker 3: than me too?

1444
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:36,720
Speaker 2: Just whatever? Your heart desires.

1445
01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 3: You know all about that bass. Okay, you know Lexi,

1446
01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 3: she's all about that grace.

1447
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 5: That's an original song. Doesn't love to be original song?

1448
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:51,440
Speaker 3: Lexi?

1449
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 2: Yes, Hello, Lexi.

1450
01:02:56,880 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 3: Hi, Happy belated birthday, Lexi.

1451
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 2: Happy belated birthday. We have a song for you.

1452
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 3: We have a surprise for you, Lexi. Okay, okay, you

1453
01:03:09,920 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 3: know Lexi because she shines like the.

1454
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:19,920
Speaker 2: Stars, Lexi Alexi in Hawaii.

1455
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:21,320
Speaker 13: You are.

1456
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 5: Lexi. She has a wonderful sister named Kayla and Alexi.

1457
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 10: She is the greatest, even in Australia.

1458
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 2: Flawless performance.

1459
01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:48,920
Speaker 7: You guys, we just wanted to continue to sing you

1460
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 7: a special birthday song.

1461
01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 2: We wrote Happy Belated Birthday. I know, or a little

1462
01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 2: bit late, but we wanted to know that. We got

1463
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:01,960
Speaker 2: your email, Kayla, and so we wanted to call you

1464
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 2: Lexi and we hope you're having a great time in Hawaii.

1465
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:08,160
Speaker 8: Yes, I definitely. It's pretty nice.

1466
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 3: And we want to say thank you for listening because

1467
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:12,080
Speaker 3: we love you and that was so sweet.

1468
01:04:13,400 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 8: Yeah, we love you.

1469
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:20,760
Speaker 5: So I hate it. John Bain here for personal reasons,

1470
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 5: but who did your husband play baseball for?

1471
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 8: He plays for the Astros organization.

1472
01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 5: Is he signs Steeler. He's he's in the minors. But

1473
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 5: we have a lot of minor league players wives.

1474
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, totally, don't we know it?

1475
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 5: What position does he play?

1476
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:43,280
Speaker 8: He plays first base?

1477
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 3: He's in Corpus Christy base of them all. I like,

1478
01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 3: I like to hum. I like to hum around first base.

1479
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 3: That's my that's my that's my base. I have.

1480
01:04:57,800 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 2: I have just a quick question both of you. Caleb,

1481
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 2: what makes you such a Tanya so much? And then Lexi?

1482
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 2: What makes you such a Becca?

1483
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 8: Well? Yeah, I think that I would probably decide to

1484
01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 8: come up with a song too, just like crazy Tanya suggested.

1485
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1486
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 8: I'm just really goofy and I care a lot of

1487
01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:27,400
Speaker 8: about the people around me and do do a lot

1488
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 8: of crazy things for them.

1489
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 2: So yeah, it's so numbing.

1490
01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 3: So Lexi, you love.

1491
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 8: What I love, Doctor Pepper.

1492
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:44,280
Speaker 2: That's all you need. That's all you needed to say.

1493
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:48,040
Speaker 8: I just started drinking it though, for a month. But

1494
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 8: I'm back on the train.

1495
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 2: I know, you know. I did it for a month

1496
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 2: too one time, and everyone's like, you won't even crave

1497
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:57,000
Speaker 2: it afterwards, And let me tell you the moment that

1498
01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 2: month was over and I had my first sip. It

1499
01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 2: was like nothing a change.

1500
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 3: Yeah my hello old friend.

1501
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:11,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, hello old friend. I missed you well. Thank you

1502
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 2: guys both so much for listening. Thank you for writing

1503
01:06:13,320 --> 01:06:16,320
Speaker 2: the email Kayla was so nice and happy birthday, Lexi.

1504
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 2: We hope you're having the best time in Hawaii. Thanks

1505
01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 2: for picking up.

1506
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 8: Thank you you guy. You guys calling.

1507
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 1: You.

1508
01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 3: That was nicely done.

1509
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 4: All everybody Australia was unexpected, but right with Kayla, I

1510
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 4: had a challenge.

1511
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:37,640
Speaker 5: It came through it. That was impressive.

1512
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 3: That is what else rides with Kayla Maya Layla.

1513
01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 11: My original thought was I was going to be slay like.

1514
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:49,720
Speaker 10: I was like, I don't want I don't accuse her

1515
01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:51,960
Speaker 10: of killing anybody that was.

1516
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 3: Good of thee.

1517
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 8: Mark.

1518
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 2: Did you have a chance to listen to our manal

1519
01:06:56,240 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 2: a few weeks ago?

1520
01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 5: I listened to bits and pieces of it. I really

1521
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 5: liked one of those guys, was it Jack's that I

1522
01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 5: really liked?

1523
01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 4: Well, explain a little bit about what what you liked

1524
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:06,480
Speaker 4: and then we'll be able to figure out whatever.

1525
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:08,520
Speaker 5: He had a lot of feelings. He was very open

1526
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,360
Speaker 5: about his uh dating issues in the past and how

1527
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 5: he's He blamed himself for a lot of the problems

1528
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 5: he's had. Jacks, Yeah, I thought he was really good.

1529
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:19,480
Speaker 2: That's so interesting because we had I did see some

1530
01:07:19,560 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 2: comments on the Facebook group who were very much like

1531
01:07:23,400 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 2: we want, you know, Mark and Easton's advice on married life.

1532
01:07:27,680 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 2: Like this guy.

1533
01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:33,479
Speaker 11: Much different opinion than I would usually share.

1534
01:07:34,120 --> 01:07:36,440
Speaker 2: I could barely make eye contact with Easton because I

1535
01:07:36,480 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 2: felt like I'd start dying laughing. But I honestly very

1536
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:44,040
Speaker 2: much appreciated that he was like I sucked in the past.

1537
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 3: Well that's the thing too, Like men are like.

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Speaker 5: Here we go.

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01:07:51,400 --> 01:07:53,280
Speaker 4: I was first gonna say men are like fish, there's

1540
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 4: all different kinds of them in the sea, and then

1541
01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:57,800
Speaker 4: I went to skittles, I meaning there's lots of different

1542
01:07:57,840 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 4: colors and tastes, and but I mean like men are

1543
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,880
Speaker 4: just they run all flavors of life, you know, so

1544
01:08:05,080 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 4: let's we get you and Easan are one type of man.

1545
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:10,120
Speaker 4: But there are the Jaxes out there and everything in between,

1546
01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:10,440
Speaker 4: I know.

1547
01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:13,000
Speaker 2: And what's so fascinating to me is that a lot

1548
01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:15,560
Speaker 2: of these girls who ask for advice are dating the

1549
01:08:15,680 --> 01:08:17,919
Speaker 2: Jackses in the world. So I thought it was interesting

1550
01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:20,240
Speaker 2: to have that perspective of a guy just being like

1551
01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:22,840
Speaker 2: I just wanted to date girls to sleep with them,

1552
01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:25,600
Speaker 2: because that's very real in what's going on, and it

1553
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 2: might not be what you want to hear.

1554
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's true for sure. And I liked him

1555
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:31,479
Speaker 3: a lot.

1556
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 2: Actually, that's what.

1557
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:34,720
Speaker 5: I'm looking for in podcasts and entertainment. I just want

1558
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:36,840
Speaker 5: real and people to be honest with me. I'm tired

1559
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:39,600
Speaker 5: of people just kind of having an on air persona.

1560
01:08:39,240 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 4: Right right, Like he's like I love my wife and

1561
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 4: like she's the best and I was an angel before

1562
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 4: I met her.

1563
01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 5: It's like, Okay, he's being honest.

1564
01:08:45,680 --> 01:08:50,679
Speaker 2: Yeah. I didn't see any comments about you and Hunter

1565
01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:53,160
Speaker 2: being together. Were people wanting that at all?

1566
01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:57,920
Speaker 3: I thought, no comment, nothing about the actual zip zero.

1567
01:08:59,439 --> 01:08:59,639
Speaker 5: Boy.

1568
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:00,800
Speaker 3: Did I get a lot of d ms?

1569
01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I saw just like the photo you posted

1570
01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:05,640
Speaker 2: in the comments under that.

1571
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:09,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like open your heart, give him a chance.

1572
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:11,559
Speaker 11: I went on his Instagram.

1573
01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:13,640
Speaker 10: He posted something about his like TV show and all

1574
01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:17,879
Speaker 10: the comments are like, day Tanya.

1575
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:19,959
Speaker 2: The scrubbers, they are here for the setup.

1576
01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 4: I do like working with him a lot, I really do.

1577
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:25,720
Speaker 4: The Grammys was the first show I ever worked with him,

1578
01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 4: and I had a blast doing it.

1579
01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:31,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's so fun, Like he's just very easy to

1580
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:32,880
Speaker 2: have her, Like, I'd love to have him on the

1581
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:34,240
Speaker 2: podcast like regularly.

1582
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:36,160
Speaker 4: Just we did say that we'd go on a triple

1583
01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:42,920
Speaker 4: date and who were the six Hunter myself, Becca and

1584
01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:47,640
Speaker 4: her self partner and Jackson his wife.

1585
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:52,360
Speaker 2: Myself partner yourself which is not myself, but.

1586
01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:55,120
Speaker 5: It sounds like it's your that stand up figure that

1587
01:09:55,160 --> 01:09:55,799
Speaker 5: we had.

1588
01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, the six of us. I'm down for that. I

1589
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 3: think it'd be fun.

1590
01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 2: I'm down too, I think it'd be brilliant. So Jackson's wife, Brittany,

1591
01:10:06,320 --> 01:10:08,720
Speaker 2: who is also I mean, people are very aware of

1592
01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 2: her if they watch vander Pump, but she is the

1593
01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 2: kindest person, Like I just think she's it's so funny

1594
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 2: knowing her and then him talking about like his past

1595
01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:22,000
Speaker 2: and stuff, and it's just funny the dynamic. Not that

1596
01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:24,679
Speaker 2: I know them, either of them very well, but she's

1597
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:26,719
Speaker 2: just adult. So she would be so fun.

1598
01:10:26,720 --> 01:10:29,639
Speaker 3: And so this is the major. Yes, let's figure out

1599
01:10:29,680 --> 01:10:32,280
Speaker 3: a good day and do it great great right.

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01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:39,200
Speaker 5: This Thursday the Roxy Oh scrubbing in Live number two

1601
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:40,160
Speaker 5: and so.

1602
01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:43,880
Speaker 4: That'll air like that'll go up on Thursday night, like

1603
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:44,680
Speaker 4: people can hear that.

1604
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:48,439
Speaker 3: So we'll save all of our Valentine's Day plans for

1605
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 3: that show.

1606
01:10:49,439 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 2: Okay, great to discuss right for the live showing.

1607
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, great, sounds great because it'll be Valentine's Day.

1608
01:10:57,120 --> 01:11:00,120
Speaker 3: Eve aka Valentine's.

1609
01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 5: Day tends Day fun and we'll all be there for

1610
01:11:03,160 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 5: that one. Yeah.

1611
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:07,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, the whole gang should be after party somewhere.

1612
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:12,639
Speaker 5: You gotta get home, I'm down.

1613
01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 2: Where do you want to go? Tanya?

1614
01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:16,560
Speaker 3: I don't know if she would go, like on the

1615
01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:19,799
Speaker 3: rocks next door? Is that cute? Should do that? Should

1616
01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:21,639
Speaker 3: do that? Do we like that?

1617
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:25,280
Speaker 2: Well? Yeah, we have the VIP party afterwards. It'll be

1618
01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 2: a party, so it would be that would be just

1619
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:29,839
Speaker 2: a party, a party.

1620
01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:34,040
Speaker 3: Two Yeah, extension extension X extension.

1621
01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:38,120
Speaker 2: It's gonna be fun. We had the freaking best time

1622
01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:44,479
Speaker 2: in San Francisco. Like it's it's gonna be hard to beat, true,

1623
01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 2: but I think it's gonna be.

1624
01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:50,160
Speaker 4: It's gonna be beaten. Everything we do gets better and better.

1625
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:54,000
Speaker 4: That's the whole point of life, that level up, level up,

1626
01:11:54,040 --> 01:11:56,599
Speaker 4: each thing, each podcast, each podcast, each week should be

1627
01:11:56,600 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 4: better than the prech.

1628
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:01,840
Speaker 2: Well oh yeah, that's your words, your word?

1629
01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:03,080
Speaker 5: All right?

1630
01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 2: Well, we cannot wait to see there. I mean, you know,

1631
01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:07,680
Speaker 2: we sold out in like a few hours, but if

1632
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 2: you're able to get tickets off of like stub Hub

1633
01:12:09,800 --> 01:12:11,760
Speaker 2: or something, we'd really appreciate it. Some time and death

1634
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 3: The ROXY is like truly gonna be insane.