WEBVTT - Dear Banya: Smack That

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in grub du du. You

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<v Speaker 1>should have said scrub, scrub, scrub, and my heart goes scrubs.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't get that joke.

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<v Speaker 3>Heavy sigh. You never saw Zena Xenon.

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<v Speaker 1>You've seen Xena the Warrior Princeress, but you haven't seen

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<v Speaker 1>Xenon the twenty first century?

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<v Speaker 4>Correct?

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<v Speaker 3>What is it Xenon Girl of the twenty first Century?

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<v Speaker 3>You've never seen that? Never? Is that true? Swear?

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't seen a lot of movies like Father of

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<v Speaker 5>the Bride, Pretty Woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we want.

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<v Speaker 2>Why, I don't know. It's like one of.

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<v Speaker 5>Those things that I like missed. I missed the mark

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<v Speaker 5>on and like now it's like it's so far gone

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<v Speaker 5>that like what's the point.

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<v Speaker 3>First of all, you didn't miss the mark because it

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<v Speaker 3>was it's like an old.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, right, So like I missed it, so it's like fast,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, you need to watch uh, well, you

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<v Speaker 1>need to watch both of those. But I didn't see

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<v Speaker 1>Father of the Bride for a very long time in

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<v Speaker 1>my life, so that one I understand.

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<v Speaker 3>Even though it's people's favorite movie.

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<v Speaker 4>I know.

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<v Speaker 5>Robbie said literally last weekend, he was like, we need

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<v Speaker 5>to watch Father of the Bride tonight and I was like.

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<v Speaker 4>You will cry.

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<v Speaker 1>You will be very emotional because you have a very

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<v Speaker 1>like sweet relationship with your dag.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and Pretty Woman's a classic.

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<v Speaker 2>You'll will So I know people always reference it. They're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>a pretty woman.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, just take take a like take a

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<v Speaker 1>break from your scripted series from twenty eighteen.

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<v Speaker 3>Put on a class that.

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<v Speaker 4>I know Island.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just found out that Love Island Australia.

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<v Speaker 5>They have a casa or they have uh a more

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<v Speaker 5>hotel or like the hideaway, like the room that they

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<v Speaker 5>go to.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like whatever, it's like talking to them walls here.

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<v Speaker 3>Believe me, we get it. We get it from the

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<v Speaker 3>other side. Rude.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm gonna give Love on Australia try.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't believe you haven't already.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's I already do UK. There's so many

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<v Speaker 2>there to watch.

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<v Speaker 3>You did Traders from every.

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<v Speaker 2>Because there's like one or two seasons of each.

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<v Speaker 1>This is like, oh you're gonna try, Oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>take We've lost her again, folks.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I'm actually watching someon current right now, what

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<v Speaker 5>are you watching Disclaimer.

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<v Speaker 2>Movie show?

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<v Speaker 3>I heard it's good. It's good, It's only dark. Oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>like dark.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you asked people, I love Breaking Bad? What else

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<v Speaker 4>should I watch? This kind of that vibe? People say?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, people said Disclaimer and Diplomat were like the two showstoppers.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you not think that Breaking Bad was stark.

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<v Speaker 2>Weirdly? Yeah, a little bit. But I found the story

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<v Speaker 2>so interesting and intriguing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you're able to look past the darkness.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like it's like, oh he makes math, who doesn't?

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<v Speaker 1>Ye? Yeah, could be worse, could be worse. Yeah, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's exciting. Well, speaking of Love Island, I went to

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<v Speaker 1>the Gladiator premiere and h as I had told you,

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<v Speaker 1>the cast was there, Yes, on the carpet.

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<v Speaker 5>I needed to know the specificity of this whole situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so first of all arrived. First, First of all.

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<v Speaker 1>I get so anxious going to things like that because

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<v Speaker 1>the carpet's so intimidating to me, because I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're kind of like at this massive premiere. Granted, at

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<v Speaker 1>this one, it was nice because none of the celebrities

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<v Speaker 1>from the movie, like the real celebrities weren't there, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of like reality people my wheelhouse, of

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<v Speaker 1>like camaraderie in that sense.

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<v Speaker 3>So I felt a little less like intimidated.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I get there, I do the carpet tailor's

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<v Speaker 1>with me.

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<v Speaker 3>Taylor's like talking to all the people, like e news people, like.

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<v Speaker 1>All her friends that are in the press, and I

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<v Speaker 1>see Hannah Ge she was doing interviews. I just have

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<v Speaker 1>to say, Dylan Barber, Hannah G's husband, is one of

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<v Speaker 1>the nicest best guys to come out of the Bachelor franchise.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time I've talked about, every time I've talked to him,

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<v Speaker 1>he's so warm, he's so kind, he's so engaging, he's

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<v Speaker 1>not like trying to be anything, no ego, just so nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Hannah's obviously just love the affect and so cute. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the Montana boys were there.

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<v Speaker 5>No Mark Estes, Yeah, Caleb, I don't I don't know any.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like Montana Boy one, Montana Boy two. I think

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<v Speaker 1>Montana Boy one is Mark I got Hannah Boy two

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<v Speaker 1>is Caleb got it. I don't know the third one,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was just the two of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I saw the cowboy hats.

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<v Speaker 1>From a distance, I said, there they are in person

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<v Speaker 1>stad this carpet. And then I saw Krishelle and Emma

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<v Speaker 1>from Selling Sunset. I love Krishelle, and Emma was so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>She brought her dad, so he was just like halving

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<v Speaker 1>the time of his life. And then I look down

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<v Speaker 1>and I see Kendall.

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<v Speaker 2>You see oh no, the boys.

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<v Speaker 3>I see the.

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<v Speaker 1>Boys and then I see Live and Kaylor. So go

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<v Speaker 1>up to the boys first, and I'm like Hi. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, my name is Becca. I was like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Tanya is obsessed with Love Island. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>can y'all just if I do a video? Can y'all

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<v Speaker 1>just say hi to her? So they it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Funny that they all said pull up. Yeah. Is that

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<v Speaker 3>a Love Island thing? Or is that more like a

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<v Speaker 3>gen Z thing?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I'm starts saying it. You have no

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<v Speaker 2>idea like having text? Tis like, Tanya, where are you at?

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<v Speaker 3>Pull up? Where are you? I was like, pull up?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm pulling up in bed, Yeah, pulling the sheets right

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<v Speaker 5>on up, right on up over my head.

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<v Speaker 1>Kaylor was talking to someone, but Live was standing there,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was like Live and she turns but to like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, Hi, I love you.

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<v Speaker 3>You're sunning.

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<v Speaker 1>But like she had no idea who I was. She

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<v Speaker 1>was just like such a girl's girl that she was

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<v Speaker 1>just like it's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh. I already knew that about her. But

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<v Speaker 5>I love getting confirmation. Yeah, And I was like on

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<v Speaker 5>the boots on the ground confirmation.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, so I have a podcast with my

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<v Speaker 1>best friend. And then Kayler's like, Tonya.

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<v Speaker 3>Where are you at? Like and I'm like, wait, let

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<v Speaker 3>me video this.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, just say how to Tanya. So Live

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<v Speaker 1>starts and then Kayler jump jumps in. Yeah, pull up,

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<v Speaker 1>pull up the f up?

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<v Speaker 3>Where are you at?

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<v Speaker 1>So they were so sweet, and we went into this area.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a cocktail area where there was a

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<v Speaker 1>bar and like heaters and stuff for us is.

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<v Speaker 3>Staying around and I love a heater. Live was so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>She kept coming up being like come hang out with us,

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<v Speaker 1>like come stand with us, you know. So You're like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, no, no, no, well, I mean we were

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<v Speaker 1>more just like kind of browsing, like looking around waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for I wanted to see if I could get a

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<v Speaker 1>glimpse of Denzel. You know, it's just like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>seeing it where I could get a glunch of people.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to star.

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<v Speaker 2>Watch yeah, and she was like partying.

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<v Speaker 1>They were party. They were just like at the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like, I don't even know if they came

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<v Speaker 1>to the movie. Well, they had gone to Vegas and

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<v Speaker 1>saw a screening of it, so they literally may not

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<v Speaker 1>have gone to the movie.

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<v Speaker 5>I knew that Live was going to be my girl.

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<v Speaker 5>Well Kaylor's my like real girl, yeah and lives like

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<v Speaker 5>my girl girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>There. They were really really fun and sweet and nice.

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<v Speaker 2>But they said they would come on the pod totally.

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<v Speaker 1>They're totally down and I genuinely think that they want

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<v Speaker 1>to if the schedule is a line that they will

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<v Speaker 1>definitely come on.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think I wish that you So, first of all,

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<v Speaker 5>that Monday night, I also got invited to the Sabrina

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<v Speaker 5>Carpenter concert, and I was like, I already turned down

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<v Speaker 5>my best friend Becca to go to Gladiator premiere because

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<v Speaker 5>I cannot do two nights back to back, so I

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<v Speaker 5>had to decline the Sabrina Carpenter show. So I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>even see I don't even think I saw nine to

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<v Speaker 5>twenty one o'clock that night, Like I was fast shoes gone.

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<v Speaker 5>By the time when you had sent me those videos

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<v Speaker 5>of them, I was literally in bed in my pajamas,

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<v Speaker 5>actually naked, because that's how I sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>But I always always, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Even when the kids are there. Yeah really yeah, interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I don't like walk around naked, but I get

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<v Speaker 2>I have my robe.

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<v Speaker 4>But what if one of them comes in the middle

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<v Speaker 4>of the night, Oh, I need your help, come kill

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<v Speaker 4>a spider or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's true, or like they're like bad, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I don't feel well and they want to

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<v Speaker 1>get in bed with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Never happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, one of them has come up in the middle

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<v Speaker 5>of the night because of something, and then Robbie just

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<v Speaker 5>gets up in help.

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<v Speaker 4>If one of them's sick in the middle of the night,

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<v Speaker 4>you don't run in there.

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<v Speaker 2>I put my robe on.

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<v Speaker 5>Something they yell from downstairs or something, I'll put my

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<v Speaker 5>robe on and go down there.

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<v Speaker 6>But yeah, interesting, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Anyway, so I'm in bed and but we didn't have

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<v Speaker 5>them that night. But I was in bed and I

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<v Speaker 5>see these text messages and I'm like screaming like a

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<v Speaker 5>little girl, Like I literally feel like the cat Love

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<v Speaker 5>Island cast sends me back to like my teenage years

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<v Speaker 5>because also I had like the space buns in my head,

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<v Speaker 5>so it was like a really double whammy. I felt

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<v Speaker 5>like I was a fifteen year old girl getting a

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<v Speaker 5>video from like or something, Yeah, Kira or whatever. I

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<v Speaker 5>was freaking out so cool. Yeah, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>they just seem so cool.

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<v Speaker 3>They were all so nice. Yeah, Kendall was so nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I don't know where Janey was when when

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to the girls, but at one point

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<v Speaker 1>she like walked by and I was like, Janey, you

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<v Speaker 1>look beautiful, and she's like, oh my god, you know

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<v Speaker 1>did her She's I mean, they're all like beautiful in person.

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<v Speaker 3>And then did you change numbers?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you get any of their numbers?

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<v Speaker 1>I did not ask, but you have Kayler's numbers, so yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we got a drag line.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We're standing there waiting for Denzel and other star sightings,

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<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden, Gracie Abrams walks into our section,

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<v Speaker 1>which is like literally all influencers. Like, it's not none

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<v Speaker 1>of the celebrities are in there. Okay, it's like real,

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<v Speaker 1>just like reality people you know, and you feel, which

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<v Speaker 1>is so interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Then where do they put the movie stars?

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<v Speaker 1>I think they just came later like they like once

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<v Speaker 1>we went in there, like basically the carpet started, which

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<v Speaker 1>I actually liked because a lot of times they knew it.

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<v Speaker 3>At the same time, no.

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<v Speaker 2>One wants to walk a red carpet in front of

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<v Speaker 2>like the Rock.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, and the Rock doesn't want anyone walking like

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<v Speaker 1>in front of him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm sure he wouldn't care. He seems so kind.

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<v Speaker 3>You love the Rock. I had no idea your fandom

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<v Speaker 3>of the Rock.

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<v Speaker 2>It's new.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, but yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So Gracie walks in and we're and she doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>like she has two people with her, but they're not

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<v Speaker 1>like security or anything. They were like publicist or something,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just like got it. I just was like,

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<v Speaker 1>she's so beautiful. She looked like she like floated in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I did see the video and it really did

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<v Speaker 2>look like she was floating.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I went up to her while we were like

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<v Speaker 1>walking out to go into the theater, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I loved your uh surprise performance with Taylor. I love

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<v Speaker 1>that you were surprised. When she's saying out of the Woods,

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<v Speaker 1>it's one of my favorite songs, She's like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>me too. I freaked out. She was really cute.

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<v Speaker 2>No selfie with Grazie Abrams.

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<v Speaker 1>No, because one was asking for selfies and I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like it was more of like an.

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<v Speaker 3>Experience just to like say hi, proud.

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<v Speaker 2>Of you, thank you. Yeah, I would not control myself here,

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<v Speaker 2>she would.

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<v Speaker 1>You think you've been in so many things where you're

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<v Speaker 1>like so and so is here and you haven't even.

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<v Speaker 3>Said hi, cool girl, and yeah, yeah, just super cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we went and watched the movie. The movie

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<v Speaker 1>is like amazing, but very gory, like if you liked

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember the first one came out so long ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember I think it was gory, but this one

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<v Speaker 1>was just like left right, someone's losing body parts due

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<v Speaker 1>to swords and yeah, but it was good.

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<v Speaker 3>Paul came and inentered the movie.

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<v Speaker 2>Paul Mescal.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not a drink.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, it's like mescal Pedro Pascal.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's all mes. Yeah, there's a lot, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But he came in to interer the movie. Very cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say. After seeing the movie, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally get it because the whole movie he's like buff,

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<v Speaker 1>he's tan, his eyes are just like piercing blue and he's,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like the hero of the movie. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, he's really cute, So I'll give you that, Sam.

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<v Speaker 2>He is cute, big Paul fan.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I get it. Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it weird that he looks nothing like your boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>We actually got into like a little tif over it

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<v Speaker 7>because I just said how much I want to see

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<v Speaker 7>Gladiators too, and he was like, oh, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 7>you liked the first one, and I said, I've never

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<v Speaker 7>seen the first one.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea what these movies are even about.

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<v Speaker 3>I just need to.

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<v Speaker 7>Go see it in imax for Paul mescal And he

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<v Speaker 7>was like, you could just look a picture of him

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<v Speaker 7>at home, like.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, well, no, that's really funny. Yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean listen, I have a massive crush on Chris Hemsworth,

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<v Speaker 1>and Haley looks nothing like him.

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<v Speaker 3>So can't.

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<v Speaker 2>A huge crush on the rock.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not intimidating to Roy at all problems.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have a crush on the Rocks. It's new.

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<v Speaker 2>I heard rotch red one. I was like hmmm. And

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<v Speaker 2>then I saw this video of him like brushing his

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<v Speaker 2>daughter's hair once, and I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, once.

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<v Speaker 4>Was space buns something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I gave Tanya space funds because everyone liked the episode

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<v Speaker 1>and thought it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Really funny, and yeah, she's not into him.

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<v Speaker 4>Today, we're trying to recapture the magic.

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<v Speaker 5>The magic I do feel like the buns like I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to give Actually, I'm gonna give a really big

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<v Speaker 5>p s A to anybody, to everybody listening right now,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm gonna do when we come back, is it time?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that right?

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<v Speaker 6>But that okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, all right, Tanya take it away after that

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<v Speaker 1>big teeth.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, thank you so much. So this is a PSA

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<v Speaker 5>to anybody listening. If you are in a rut in

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<v Speaker 5>your life, if you are feeling a little mundane, a

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<v Speaker 5>little black, maybe a little gray, change your hair. I

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<v Speaker 5>felt like Cindy Luhu on Monday. I felt like I

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<v Speaker 5>was a little girl running around Whoville waiting for Christmas

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<v Speaker 5>to come.

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<v Speaker 3>What. I just don't know that that would do it

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<v Speaker 3>for me.

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<v Speaker 5>It might not not saying space buns. I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 5>like give yourself space bunds. What I'm saying is like,

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<v Speaker 5>change the color of your hair, change the length of

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<v Speaker 5>your hair, change the part of your hair, like, do

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<v Speaker 5>something different with your hair, because I'm telling you it

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<v Speaker 5>changed my dynamic on Monday, Like I was not Tanya.

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<v Speaker 5>I was Tati. My god, the look, although I did

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<v Speaker 5>have to take them off because I never was so

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<v Speaker 5>funny to post this video Robbie saying like he's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>I think they're cute, they're goofy or whatever he's like,

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<v Speaker 5>but I'm not like romantically into them. I was like, okay, great,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll take them down before we go upstairs, if you

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<v Speaker 5>know what I mean. And so many people were dming

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<v Speaker 5>me saying that this is a giant green flag because

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<v Speaker 5>they're like, he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Want you to look like a young little girl.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, the fact that that's a green flag

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<v Speaker 5>is concerning.

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<v Speaker 3>Bars on the ground.

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<v Speaker 2>Bar is very low.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, so I think they're cute and goofy, but

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<v Speaker 1>not romantically romantically.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not into that.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't want to like, grab one of the space

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<v Speaker 3>bun give it a whirl.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's see what this. See what she brings to the bedroom. Why,

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<v Speaker 2>I think she'd be fun too, But he'll never know.

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<v Speaker 5>Nows his lost Yeah, but now I have him again today,

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<v Speaker 5>So back.

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<v Speaker 1>Up He's probably like Becca, how dairy betray me like this?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so these are a little different today. These are

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<v Speaker 5>Becca buns, but.

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<v Speaker 4>Either taller, they have more energy to them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they do have some more height.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like Mickey like mini mouse ears.

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<v Speaker 3>So now you're like just like the kid.

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<v Speaker 5>And yes, that's my PSA change your hair. It brings

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<v Speaker 5>out a different side of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait when you look at the camera, because I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about one of the scruncheese is huge and the other

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<v Speaker 1>one's small.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, one of them you can see and one of

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<v Speaker 5>them you cannot. That's my That is the user error.

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<v Speaker 5>I did not bring. I did not anticipate this hat

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<v Speaker 5>to happen today, so I didn't have two of the

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<v Speaker 5>same size. We're still troubleshooting, fine tuning, fine tuning if

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<v Speaker 5>you will.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we do have a Dear Bonnie episode today, So

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<v Speaker 1>shall we get to it because time is of the essence.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we so much to good Chetah, what Phoebe and.

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<v Speaker 4>Pretty much just your dog isn't like rivetting.

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<v Speaker 2>We could do.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want updates on Phoebe that happens on my Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't think that's a podcast conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>My dog's knees needs searcher.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh but you know what is interesting what happened? I

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<v Speaker 5>think I went viral for the first time. Oh on

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<v Speaker 5>what on Instagram?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh the real that you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there a million views and climbing.

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<v Speaker 5>But it appears that it has hit a weird part

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<v Speaker 5>of the internet because I'm getting trolled like I've never

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<v Speaker 5>been trolled in my life, trolled like like people will

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<v Speaker 5>being like she's so annoying, how pathetic, you're a you're

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<v Speaker 5>an adult.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw some of those comments and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this has really hit a strange corner because there's as

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know you, they don't know people do not

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<v Speaker 1>know Yes, because I've come across your video randomly. Yes.

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<v Speaker 5>And the best part is I'm responding to all of

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<v Speaker 5>them that they're like, you're so.

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<v Speaker 2>Annoying. I'm like, yeah, i am, that's my whole like brand,

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<v Speaker 2>thanks for listening.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm like, you're trying to call me out and

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<v Speaker 5>be a bitch, but like, funny, you don't even know

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<v Speaker 5>that I own that.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like hit the follow for more of this.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, make sure to follow and subscribe.

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<v Speaker 3>And I have a podcast as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, please subscribe to that.

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<v Speaker 5>If you want more insecure insecurity, please please follow along there.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't find it, Like, I don't think wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to be on the end is an insecurity thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I apparently it is, but I do.

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<v Speaker 3>Think it's a funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it just sometimes when you go viral, that's you

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<v Speaker 1>can't control.

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<v Speaker 5>And then people were like, you made the photos so ugly,

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<v Speaker 5>Like why do you have to smile like that? I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, I think I made the photo, but like

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<v Speaker 5>I kept just keep hitting the back saying I think

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 2>But things.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, every troll, everyone that's trolling me is getting some

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<v Speaker 5>sort of response, but like not what they want.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's interesting. I just like, don't engage.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you don't engage.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, if someone's gonna call me ugly, I'm gonna say, actually,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm really beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>For these comments. She ruined the pick. Anyway, all that work,

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<v Speaker 4>and look what happened. By the way, you didn't you

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<v Speaker 4>look just.

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<v Speaker 3>Like photo and smiling.

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<v Speaker 4>This is the most immature, annoying.

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<v Speaker 2>Ass Yeah wait, what did I respond to?

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<v Speaker 4>That level of insecurity is insane? Are you said?

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<v Speaker 5>So?

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<v Speaker 4>The burden said, this is the most annoying immature ss

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<v Speaker 4>and somebody else said it's immature to want to be

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<v Speaker 4>close to someone, and then somebody said when other people

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<v Speaker 4>are already surrounding them posted the picture, then yeah, and

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<v Speaker 4>then somebody else said, you realize if they had a problem,

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<v Speaker 4>they would have never made this right. And then you

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<v Speaker 4>said that's correct.

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<v Speaker 3>Like someone I saw a comment that was like you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell, like they're all closer because they have the same

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<v Speaker 1>hair color. Look at their hair color versus I'm like this,

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<v Speaker 1>who are these are these children? Like who's commenting on

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<v Speaker 1>this is the weirdest you really hit like this niche

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<v Speaker 1>weird pocket. Yeah, you never know like when that is

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<v Speaker 1>the thing with TikTok and reels like you just you

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<v Speaker 1>throw it up and you never know where it's gonna go.

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<v Speaker 2>And first time going viral and I'm like, bring it.

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<v Speaker 3>Off, baby, Engagement is engagement.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you want to troll me atroll right back? Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I just posted that like clip of Gracie walking into

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<v Speaker 1>the party at uh oh my TikTok and it's at

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<v Speaker 1>one point seven million views, like her fans are just

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<v Speaker 1>like so obsessed.

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<v Speaker 2>Not quite as viral as mine, but.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like half I'm not even in it though, so

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<v Speaker 1>anything negative is just like but everyone's like wow, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, yeah, do you have any trolls on that? No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, yeah, no, they're like she's ethereal she looks like

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<v Speaker 1>Lexi Gray, you know, they're like.

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<v Speaker 3>Assess of her.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyways, that was a little bit about me this week.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, just thrilled for you that you have hit a

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<v Speaker 1>viral streak and just taking it in stride.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, bring on the trolls.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want them. Don't come. I don't like the trolls.

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<v Speaker 2>I can handle them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's good. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know me, they don't know me at all.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still going. She does not care, but we're still going.

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<v Speaker 5>If my friends and family were saying this stuff, I

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<v Speaker 5>would care.

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<v Speaker 2>But these trolls. Please. Yeah, no, pack a lunch, Pack

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<v Speaker 2>a lunch. Yeah. I think we have to go back,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think we have to take another break.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we don't know, we know. No, man, it's been

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<v Speaker 3>like five minutes staying.

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<v Speaker 1>But we are gonna do at least one dear Bonnie

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<v Speaker 1>before we take our next break, all right, Mark to do.

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<v Speaker 4>The first one here? Yeah, first off, I just want

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<v Speaker 4>to say a big thank you for all the positive

0:21:51.640 --> 0:21:53.760
<v Speaker 4>energy and light you bring every week to the podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a guy I used to work with for six years.

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<v Speaker 4>We became close. We got lunch together multiple times a week.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't think much of a first, except that I

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<v Speaker 4>really appreciated his friendship, But as the years went by,

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<v Speaker 4>I caught feelings. I never did anything about it because

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<v Speaker 4>we were colleagues that would have made things awkward. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>he was let go last year, but we've maintained our

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<v Speaker 4>friendship and made up once every few months. We don't

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<v Speaker 4>text regularly, but he likes and replies on my instagrams.

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<v Speaker 4>We can go weeks without talking, but we meet up.

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<v Speaker 4>I always feel like we have the best time. Last

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<v Speaker 4>week we met up, he'd smile and wink at me.

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<v Speaker 4>He asked to hold his hand to feel how cold

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<v Speaker 4>it was. He he had to wake up early the

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<v Speaker 4>next day, but we ended up walking around aimlessly and

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<v Speaker 4>chatting in a park until two in the morning. We

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<v Speaker 4>talked about going for pickleball and he said, yes, we

0:22:36.680 --> 0:22:39.479
<v Speaker 4>should definitely do that. Message me when you're free. So

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<v Speaker 4>this makes me confuse and frustrated because I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 4>why he's not taking more of an initiative to find

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<v Speaker 4>a time to meet if he's really interested, instead of

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<v Speaker 4>waiting for me to reach out to him. We have

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<v Speaker 4>mutual colleagues and friends. They say he's obviously into me

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<v Speaker 4>when we meet up. Sometimes I feel like he does too,

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<v Speaker 4>but I don't know why. When we're not together, he

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't put in the effort to chat or meet up

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<v Speaker 4>more often, which makes me think that maybe he doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>like me that way. I don't want to ruin the friendship.

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<v Speaker 4>What should I do help?

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<v Speaker 1>This is one of those where I think you just

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<v Speaker 1>say hey, kiss me. I think you saw I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you say kiss me. I think you just say hey.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this do you see?

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<v Speaker 8>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Is this friendship? Or is there like do you see

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<v Speaker 3>me more than a friend? Or is this friendship?

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<v Speaker 2>Because like you know, it's better than words. Actions exactly

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<v Speaker 2>what an action is?

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<v Speaker 3>What kiss that? You said kiss me? Which is words?

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<v Speaker 5>So instead of saying kiss me, just kiss him, just

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<v Speaker 5>go in kiss him. If he backs off and says WHOA,

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<v Speaker 5>then you have your clear answer. If he leans in

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<v Speaker 5>and makes out with you, you have your answer.

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<v Speaker 3>I would much rather be rejected by.

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<v Speaker 2>Words than a pull away.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, coming from a girl that's been pulled away many times.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, who's pulled away from you?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know Matthew from college, Pete, that's real.

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<v Speaker 3>You've been pulled away from when we need to kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>It's fine, I'm fine, everything's fine.

0:24:11.000 --> 0:24:13.200
<v Speaker 3>She's hitting all the friends characters.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So anyways, I think you just go in for

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<v Speaker 5>a kiss. That's the telltale way.

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<v Speaker 4>You can decide words or kiss. But it's time for

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<v Speaker 4>you to make an initiative here. And you're worried about

0:24:23.119 --> 0:24:25.120
<v Speaker 4>we're in the friendship. There is no this is over.

0:24:25.200 --> 0:24:27.320
<v Speaker 4>It's already over because you have feelings for him, So

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<v Speaker 4>there is no future friendship here. So you need to

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<v Speaker 4>make the move, whether it's with words or with actions,

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<v Speaker 4>because this we need to We need to get out

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<v Speaker 4>of this limbo that we're in. We need to get

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<v Speaker 4>out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think the friendship's over because I think if

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, hey, are we you know? What is this

0:24:41.760 --> 0:24:43.119
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, oh, I just here as a friend.

0:24:43.200 --> 0:24:44.919
<v Speaker 1>If she needs space, she can take it. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think that if they have a and she knows the

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I had her friendship with a guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and guess what. He had a crush on you,

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But then and then he was like I just need

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<v Speaker 1>to take time, and then we were friends again, and like.

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<v Speaker 2>Now are you still friends?

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<v Speaker 3>Now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, when's the time you talked to this guy?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean he lives in San Diego, he's married.

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<v Speaker 8>Now.

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<v Speaker 5>I know he's saying your friend Lee, but like, the

0:25:07.600 --> 0:25:10.160
<v Speaker 5>friendship's ruined no matter what, You're not going to keep

0:25:10.160 --> 0:25:12.000
<v Speaker 5>this friend when you're married.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, but she's not married and neither is he.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just saying if it's if he's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I like you as a friend and she enjoys

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<v Speaker 1>being around him and is like, now she has a

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<v Speaker 1>clear idea of what the relationship is. They can just

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<v Speaker 1>be friends without any expectations.

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<v Speaker 4>Can But I think there the friendship has a cell

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<v Speaker 4>by date on it because one of you are going

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<v Speaker 4>to be in a relationship and that's the end of

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<v Speaker 4>the friendship. And that's fine. I know what's in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 4>but there's going to be some day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So you're just like, you don't have friends with

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<v Speaker 1>people because they might eventually get into relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>Friends with people I used to have crushes on.

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<v Speaker 9>Yes, same interesting yeah, I disagree anyway, Guys, there's something

0:25:51.520 --> 0:25:53.879
<v Speaker 9>about this generation of guys, whether it's millennials or gen Z,

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<v Speaker 9>they really are bad at taking the initiative.

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<v Speaker 4>And obviously that's a big generalization and I'm sure there

0:25:59.000 --> 0:26:01.919
<v Speaker 4>are exceptions to that, but generally speaking, they seem very

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<v Speaker 4>scared of making a move. It's time to make a move, Anonymous, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I just also am like, here's my thought on if

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<v Speaker 1>I like, if I like someone, do I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be with someone who is like, you know, the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing if he wanted to do he would?

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<v Speaker 3>Or do you want to see she would?

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<v Speaker 1>I've always thought like, well, some people are just more shy,

0:26:22.680 --> 0:26:25.000
<v Speaker 1>they're a little more hesitant. But it's also like, do

0:26:25.040 --> 0:26:27.720
<v Speaker 1>you want someone who's not gonna take the initiative? Like

0:26:27.720 --> 0:26:29.720
<v Speaker 1>do you want someone that you have to ask to

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<v Speaker 1>make the move? Or do you want someone who's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>make it clear that you don't have to be in

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<v Speaker 1>this confusing state? Like is it even worth it at

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<v Speaker 1>this point? Is this your guy? Because it's the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you want gonna be like scared to be straightforward

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<v Speaker 1>with you about his feelings.

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<v Speaker 4>This is a fair point because they were saying if

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<v Speaker 4>he wants to be with you. You will know it.

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<v Speaker 1>I have never had a fleeing a relationship where I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't one thousand percent sure that the person had the

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<v Speaker 1>same feelings for me.

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<v Speaker 4>But why is he if I'm him, I'm not walking

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<v Speaker 4>around till two in the morning with somebody I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying.

0:27:05.400 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 1>But I'm also like, so is he shot? What's the

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:12.640
<v Speaker 1>hold up is he? Is it a personality?

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<v Speaker 4>It's fear of rejection.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Man.

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<v Speaker 5>Now I'm thinking about things a little differently because I

0:27:18.840 --> 0:27:19.840
<v Speaker 5>was thinking about.

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<v Speaker 2>You know who?

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<v Speaker 3>I know who? Oh yeah, we used.

0:27:25.680 --> 0:27:27.159
<v Speaker 5>To hang out all the time, just the two of

0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:30.919
<v Speaker 5>us hung out. He loved hanging out with me as

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<v Speaker 5>a friend. Called to you, told me you want to

0:27:33.320 --> 0:27:35.880
<v Speaker 5>get a drink? I want to do this, I want

0:27:35.880 --> 0:27:38.600
<v Speaker 5>to go to this workout. And I was into him.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, why is he making a move? He

0:27:40.600 --> 0:27:47.360
<v Speaker 5>clearly didn't want to. Now he's married to somebody else, spoiler?

0:27:47.800 --> 0:27:48.600
<v Speaker 4>What was he doing all that?

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<v Speaker 3>I know as a person and wanted to.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm cool, very beyond cool, but just as a friend,

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<v Speaker 4>that's all.

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<v Speaker 2>It's odd to me. It was so odd to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like hell, hell, how much more? Like can

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<v Speaker 2>I put my boobs up?

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<v Speaker 3>And like, yeah, I mean you can only put your

0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:08.280
<v Speaker 3>boobs up so much.

0:28:08.320 --> 0:28:09.840
<v Speaker 2>You can only put your boobs up.

0:28:10.040 --> 0:28:13.400
<v Speaker 3>And if he wants it, he wants the boob he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, And so like, moves could have been made.

0:28:16.520 --> 0:28:17.800
<v Speaker 3>But did you kiss him?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:19.920
<v Speaker 3>Did you ask him to kiss you?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why I didn't, though in hindsight I

0:28:23.720 --> 0:28:27.040
<v Speaker 5>wish I would have. So that's my advice to you, anonymous.

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<v Speaker 5>In hindsight, I had a similar situation. I did not

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<v Speaker 5>make a move, and I will always wonder what if

0:28:34.000 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 5>I mean really?

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so I think you should just make your.

0:28:41.200 --> 0:28:45.720
<v Speaker 4>Move, all right, right, great, not all in agreement.

0:28:45.760 --> 0:28:47.800
<v Speaker 1>And I also think you deserve to have someone who

0:28:48.000 --> 0:28:49.400
<v Speaker 1>just makes a move, even though I know a lot

0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:50.560
<v Speaker 1>of people disagree and be like.

0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:51.920
<v Speaker 3>Not everyone straightforward.

0:28:51.960 --> 0:28:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Some guys need a little push personally, I think you

0:28:55.160 --> 0:28:57.040
<v Speaker 1>deserve not to be in a state of confusion with

0:28:57.080 --> 0:28:58.360
<v Speaker 1>the person that you're gonna be.

0:28:58.480 --> 0:29:01.720
<v Speaker 5>I was so confused in that situation, and he wasn't

0:29:01.720 --> 0:29:03.720
<v Speaker 5>the right guy right right.

0:29:03.800 --> 0:29:05.800
<v Speaker 3>And the right guy didn't make you feel confused about

0:29:05.800 --> 0:29:06.680
<v Speaker 3>his feelings for you.

0:29:06.720 --> 0:29:08.800
<v Speaker 2>No, he didn't. He said, I'll pick you up on

0:29:08.920 --> 0:29:09.960
<v Speaker 2>my way to the date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:29:11.080 --> 0:29:13.720
<v Speaker 4>I hope she can put all this advice together and

0:29:13.920 --> 0:29:17.880
<v Speaker 4>make it somewhat cohesive and make a decision bullet points.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well now let's take a break.

0:29:21.080 --> 0:29:21.840
<v Speaker 4>But we'll tease it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, this is a good one. Okay, is

0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:27.840
<v Speaker 3>bad at texting a red flag?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, well, all.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, we're back mark.

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<v Speaker 1>This is well, we know Tanya's opinion, but let's hear

0:29:56.320 --> 0:29:58.760
<v Speaker 1>the meat of the question.

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<v Speaker 4>I love the podcast and hearing all of your stories.

0:30:01.960 --> 0:30:04.200
<v Speaker 4>You guys make the work week easier, So thank you

0:30:04.280 --> 0:30:06.520
<v Speaker 4>for that. That is very sweet. That is the goal, right,

0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:09.719
<v Speaker 4>we want to make the tough week easier. That's sweet.

0:30:10.200 --> 0:30:13.840
<v Speaker 4>I'm twenty nine, started dating again after a long bad relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>I've gone on a few okay dates, but I know

0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:19.560
<v Speaker 4>it's a numbers game, so I keep trying. I've finally

0:30:19.600 --> 0:30:22.600
<v Speaker 4>met a guy and we clicked on our first date. Chemistry, conversation,

0:30:22.680 --> 0:30:24.400
<v Speaker 4>We're great. We've gone in a few dates since then.

0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:27.760
<v Speaker 4>They've all been great. My issue is the communication between

0:30:27.800 --> 0:30:31.040
<v Speaker 4>the dates not so great. Texts are short, sometimes he

0:30:31.120 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 4>leaves me on red gives me reasons like, uh, my

0:30:33.440 --> 0:30:36.360
<v Speaker 4>phone died, I was busy at work. I told him,

0:30:36.480 --> 0:30:38.520
<v Speaker 4>you can just tell me if he's busier can't talk.

0:30:39.000 --> 0:30:40.960
<v Speaker 4>Sometimes he goes a day or two without saying anything,

0:30:41.000 --> 0:30:43.120
<v Speaker 4>and it's just weird to me. He's three years younger

0:30:43.120 --> 0:30:44.640
<v Speaker 4>than me, so I'm not sure if it's an age

0:30:44.640 --> 0:30:47.400
<v Speaker 4>thing as well, am I overreacting? A part of me

0:30:47.440 --> 0:30:51.520
<v Speaker 4>wonders if he's just not interested. Of note, we've both

0:30:51.520 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 4>initiated making plans to hang and he says he really

0:30:53.880 --> 0:30:56.000
<v Speaker 4>likes me. But at the same time, actions speak louder

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:58.000
<v Speaker 4>than words. I'd love any advice all four of you

0:30:58.000 --> 0:30:58.440
<v Speaker 4>could give.

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:03.560
<v Speaker 3>Goes back to just goes back, similar, similar, But.

0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I also here's my thing with this, because I don't

0:31:05.800 --> 0:31:09.720
<v Speaker 1>think that everyone is a good communicator, especially over text

0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:12.320
<v Speaker 1>and calls. Like I do think people are just like

0:31:12.720 --> 0:31:15.240
<v Speaker 1>lazy about charging their phone, like I have some people

0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:16.960
<v Speaker 1>that just their phones never.

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<v Speaker 3>Charged, and I do believe that.

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<v Speaker 1>However, it seems like you want someone who is a

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<v Speaker 1>good texter and is a good communicator, and I don't

0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:28.160
<v Speaker 1>think that this is something I think this is something

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<v Speaker 1>that's going to continually bother you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, in the relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>So as someone who is not a good texture myself thyself. Yeah,

0:31:36.800 --> 0:31:39.000
<v Speaker 5>like in the beginning, I would always like screenshot Robbie's

0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:40.280
<v Speaker 5>text and send it to you to come up with

0:31:40.320 --> 0:31:41.520
<v Speaker 5>like a funny, witty response.

0:31:41.600 --> 0:31:43.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but that's not the same as not responding.

0:31:43.920 --> 0:31:45.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I could that could have taken a day,

0:31:45.880 --> 0:31:46.840
<v Speaker 2>Like you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>We never took a day to respond, lovely, it's running

0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:51.560
<v Speaker 4>a day workshopping responses.

0:31:52.080 --> 0:31:55.920
<v Speaker 3>Very different. This is very different, by the way.

0:31:55.840 --> 0:31:58.760
<v Speaker 4>Group of ten people similar demographic to Robbie, how would

0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:00.479
<v Speaker 4>you respond if I said this to him?

0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:02.560
<v Speaker 2>But it could be the same thing.

0:32:02.640 --> 0:32:04.320
<v Speaker 5>It could be like this guy is maybe not the

0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:05.760
<v Speaker 5>best text or he wants to be like funny and

0:32:05.800 --> 0:32:07.640
<v Speaker 5>witty and on it with you, and so he's like

0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:11.280
<v Speaker 5>afraid to respond because his response is lame, and like

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:13.880
<v Speaker 5>he's sending it off to his friends to workshop as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that delusional?

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<v Speaker 3>I say yes, But there are others who will say no.

0:32:20.680 --> 0:32:22.959
<v Speaker 4>Some guys, some people are just bad at texting. I've

0:32:23.000 --> 0:32:24.760
<v Speaker 4>got guys like my friend Kurt. I know if I

0:32:24.800 --> 0:32:26.680
<v Speaker 4>text him here from him in three days. Maybe it's

0:32:26.720 --> 0:32:28.880
<v Speaker 4>just kind of how some guys are. So I think

0:32:28.920 --> 0:32:31.480
<v Speaker 4>maybe it's just how he is. But like Beca said,

0:32:31.800 --> 0:32:33.720
<v Speaker 4>if this is important to you, then yes, it's a

0:32:33.720 --> 0:32:35.320
<v Speaker 4>red flag because everyone's what flags are.

0:32:35.200 --> 0:32:41.080
<v Speaker 2>Different, it's a beige flag. I like, it's not that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think if it's y'all aren't even an official

0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:47.480
<v Speaker 1>couple and it's bothering you, then when you get together,

0:32:47.920 --> 0:32:49.360
<v Speaker 1>that's going to be annoying.

0:32:49.680 --> 0:32:52.240
<v Speaker 5>But also she hasn't even told him that it's annoying.

0:32:52.400 --> 0:32:54.760
<v Speaker 5>Why don't you tell him, Hey, I don't like this,

0:32:55.080 --> 0:32:55.680
<v Speaker 5>because that's.

0:32:55.560 --> 0:32:58.560
<v Speaker 1>Going to come across like naggi and like, I'm not

0:32:58.600 --> 0:33:01.480
<v Speaker 1>even your boyfriend. Why are you expecting me to just

0:33:01.480 --> 0:33:02.280
<v Speaker 1>like respond on.

0:33:02.240 --> 0:33:05.520
<v Speaker 2>Your Then maybe she shouldn't.

0:33:05.840 --> 0:33:07.480
<v Speaker 3>Shouldn't what expect that?

0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:09.160
<v Speaker 2>This is just who he is.

0:33:09.960 --> 0:33:12.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and that's fine, but she wants someone who's gonna communicate.

0:33:13.760 --> 0:33:18.160
<v Speaker 1>She thinks you Robbie's a very good texter and communicator

0:33:18.200 --> 0:33:18.600
<v Speaker 1>and if.

0:33:18.520 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 3>He wasn't, you would not. You are talking about you

0:33:22.520 --> 0:33:23.320
<v Speaker 3>never miss a.

0:33:23.320 --> 0:33:26.120
<v Speaker 4>Beat, like you're the other extreme from this guy. This

0:33:26.160 --> 0:33:28.240
<v Speaker 4>guy like season and Red just ignores it goes back

0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:31.880
<v Speaker 4>to work. Were you obsessed about what you're gonna say? Back? Becca?

0:33:31.880 --> 0:33:33.400
<v Speaker 4>What should I say? And even when you're not in

0:33:33.400 --> 0:33:36.000
<v Speaker 4>that situation with him. I think you respond very quickly

0:33:36.320 --> 0:33:41.120
<v Speaker 4>and very well. Yours respond to me immediately. I understand,

0:33:41.120 --> 0:33:42.560
<v Speaker 4>But I'm just saying I think I don't think you're

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<v Speaker 4>a bad texture.

0:33:43.200 --> 0:33:44.120
<v Speaker 3>No, and I also think that.

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<v Speaker 1>But your reason of not being what you consider not

0:33:48.080 --> 0:33:50.800
<v Speaker 1>being a good Texter is because you're thoughtful about your response.

0:33:50.840 --> 0:33:51.560
<v Speaker 3>And I don't.

0:33:51.320 --> 0:33:54.240
<v Speaker 1>Necessarily think this guy is being thoughtful about his response.

0:33:54.600 --> 0:33:56.440
<v Speaker 2>But that's you know what that is. That's an assumption,

0:33:56.640 --> 0:33:56.960
<v Speaker 2>it is.

0:33:56.920 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 4>And you're an overthinker. He's an underthinker.

0:33:59.280 --> 0:34:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Assuming makes an ass out of you and me.

0:34:01.320 --> 0:34:05.240
<v Speaker 1>Yes, but I don't I feel I feel confident in

0:34:05.320 --> 0:34:06.440
<v Speaker 1>my my stance here.

0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:09.800
<v Speaker 2>Well, you have two different stances, Anonymous, So take the

0:34:09.880 --> 0:34:10.640
<v Speaker 2>yellow brick road.

0:34:12.480 --> 0:34:14.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the yellow brick road.

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:17.120
<v Speaker 1>I just think that, and I do think if you

0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:18.960
<v Speaker 1>want to, if you really like him and you want

0:34:18.960 --> 0:34:20.960
<v Speaker 1>to have a I'm scared you're scaring me.

0:34:22.719 --> 0:34:24.120
<v Speaker 3>She's staring at me the head.

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:27.960
<v Speaker 2>Down makes really standing straight.

0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:29.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm just gonna say, if you want to have

0:34:29.640 --> 0:34:32.040
<v Speaker 1>a conversation, like hey, like I I can't tell if

0:34:32.080 --> 0:34:34.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm expecting too much, but I'm not used to not

0:34:35.120 --> 0:34:36.880
<v Speaker 1>hearing from the person. I don't want to take it

0:34:36.920 --> 0:34:39.919
<v Speaker 1>the wrong way, but it's, you know, making It's making

0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:42.439
<v Speaker 1>me wonder if you're like interested and I just wanted

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:43.840
<v Speaker 1>to make sure we're on the same page.

0:34:43.960 --> 0:34:46.040
<v Speaker 3>That would be a very mature, healthy way to handle it.

0:34:46.040 --> 0:34:48.040
<v Speaker 3>If you can get there.

0:34:49.600 --> 0:34:52.600
<v Speaker 2>Take your take your brick road, take your time, Take

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:54.880
<v Speaker 2>your time, take your brick.

0:34:56.320 --> 0:34:58.160
<v Speaker 4>Becka, do you want to jump with the most salacious

0:34:58.160 --> 0:34:58.600
<v Speaker 4>of these?

0:34:59.080 --> 0:35:02.440
<v Speaker 3>Is that my sex life? Yes? It's short and sweet.

0:35:02.560 --> 0:35:05.000
<v Speaker 4>Hi guys, so grateful for your pod. I love every

0:35:05.000 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 4>Monday and Thursday because of you. Again, I need some advice.

0:35:09.239 --> 0:35:10.960
<v Speaker 4>My husband and I've been married four years and have

0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:12.440
<v Speaker 4>a one and a half year old. Ever since we

0:35:12.480 --> 0:35:15.120
<v Speaker 4>had our child, our intimacy has been black. Oh no,

0:35:15.440 --> 0:35:17.920
<v Speaker 4>he claims he isn't cheating, he isn't watching porn, he

0:35:18.000 --> 0:35:22.080
<v Speaker 4>isn't masturbating, et cetera. I genuinely believe him, But why

0:35:22.120 --> 0:35:25.319
<v Speaker 4>does he never want sex with me? I've tried initiating.

0:35:25.640 --> 0:35:29.680
<v Speaker 4>Oh this, this sentence hurts me. I tried initiating and

0:35:29.719 --> 0:35:31.920
<v Speaker 4>he turned me down because you wanted to watch a

0:35:31.960 --> 0:35:35.280
<v Speaker 4>show or go to sleep. I feel sad at this point.

0:35:35.320 --> 0:35:36.920
<v Speaker 4>Am I crazy? How do I fix this.

0:35:39.040 --> 0:35:39.919
<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's sad.

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:41.240
<v Speaker 4>I think it's so sad.

0:35:41.400 --> 0:35:44.920
<v Speaker 5>Why if you're tired, the last thing I want to

0:35:44.960 --> 0:35:47.360
<v Speaker 5>do is be jumping around on someone.

0:35:47.440 --> 0:35:50.000
<v Speaker 4>Well, and I'm again with the generalizations. I feel like

0:35:50.080 --> 0:35:52.319
<v Speaker 4>with women that is the case. I feel like men

0:35:52.400 --> 0:35:54.480
<v Speaker 4>will take the jumping around any chance they can get

0:35:54.480 --> 0:35:55.280
<v Speaker 4>the jumping around.

0:35:55.560 --> 0:35:56.600
<v Speaker 2>Yes, you think.

0:35:58.120 --> 0:36:00.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I have a get time an opinion

0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:02.879
<v Speaker 1>of this because I don't. I'm not dealing with the

0:36:02.920 --> 0:36:04.319
<v Speaker 1>man woman dynamic, you know.

0:36:05.719 --> 0:36:07.880
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't. I think it's different for everybody,

0:36:07.960 --> 0:36:10.719
<v Speaker 4>and it's certainly in my case that is the case.

0:36:11.040 --> 0:36:13.920
<v Speaker 4>I don't that's a wonderful offer, and I'm never turning

0:36:13.920 --> 0:36:14.279
<v Speaker 4>that down.

0:36:14.320 --> 0:36:16.720
<v Speaker 2>But I also think that you offer something every day.

0:36:18.000 --> 0:36:19.160
<v Speaker 4>If only that were the case.

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:22.399
<v Speaker 1>But I agree, if it's like a one off, he's

0:36:22.400 --> 0:36:24.040
<v Speaker 1>had a long week and he's started, he just wants

0:36:24.080 --> 0:36:26.640
<v Speaker 1>to decompress and watch the show. But if it's like

0:36:26.719 --> 0:36:28.000
<v Speaker 1>every time she's offering, well.

0:36:27.960 --> 0:36:32.359
<v Speaker 5>Well, I think the difference here is because I don't

0:36:32.360 --> 0:36:36.000
<v Speaker 5>think it's a bad sign. Like I've I've wanted to

0:36:36.120 --> 0:36:38.279
<v Speaker 5>and he's not wanted to. But I like, I'm ready

0:36:38.320 --> 0:36:40.000
<v Speaker 5>to go every day. So it's not like this like

0:36:41.520 --> 0:36:43.200
<v Speaker 5>exciting thing, do you know what I mean? Like I

0:36:43.239 --> 0:36:46.120
<v Speaker 5>it is what it is, but the fact that they

0:36:46.320 --> 0:36:49.399
<v Speaker 5>aren't having it, they are not having sex and then

0:36:49.440 --> 0:36:53.160
<v Speaker 5>she's tried and he turned it down that you know,

0:36:53.560 --> 0:36:56.400
<v Speaker 5>that hurts I think more because it's not like they

0:36:56.440 --> 0:36:58.000
<v Speaker 5>just had sex the day before, you know what I mean.

0:36:58.120 --> 0:36:58.800
<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying.

0:36:59.160 --> 0:37:03.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe talk to someone about it and try to

0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:07.160
<v Speaker 1>figure out because remember when we had that sex therapist

0:37:07.200 --> 0:37:08.120
<v Speaker 1>on and did.

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:10.160
<v Speaker 3>We have a sex therapist on? No?

0:37:12.000 --> 0:37:16.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like a sex like couple therapists, and she has

0:37:16.360 --> 0:37:18.279
<v Speaker 1>like she had like the show where they figure out

0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:19.200
<v Speaker 1>their styles of.

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:21.560
<v Speaker 3>We did have someone yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah we

0:37:21.640 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 3>did trying to make me feel trying to gaslight me.

0:37:26.520 --> 0:37:29.800
<v Speaker 1>No, So I remember I found it so interesting because

0:37:29.800 --> 0:37:32.520
<v Speaker 1>she was like trying to find like what turned your

0:37:32.520 --> 0:37:34.759
<v Speaker 1>partner on and like what it is, like.

0:37:34.680 --> 0:37:36.760
<v Speaker 2>The languages of sex or something.

0:37:36.920 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I think that is so such valuable information because

0:37:41.600 --> 0:37:44.520
<v Speaker 1>it could be figuring out what it is that gets

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:46.600
<v Speaker 1>him in the mood because it might just be different

0:37:46.600 --> 0:37:48.480
<v Speaker 1>than what gets you in the mood, and if it

0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:51.399
<v Speaker 1>could be like a date before or something that makes

0:37:51.440 --> 0:37:55.080
<v Speaker 1>y'all feel connected, so that that that natural progression of

0:37:55.440 --> 0:37:58.880
<v Speaker 1>sex is like open for him. He might just be

0:37:58.960 --> 0:38:01.279
<v Speaker 1>like shut down right now, not feeling like intimate or

0:38:01.280 --> 0:38:03.360
<v Speaker 1>connected with you. And I think it's like refinding that

0:38:03.560 --> 0:38:05.279
<v Speaker 1>those things that excite you about each other.

0:38:05.280 --> 0:38:06.640
<v Speaker 3>Because I've heard.

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:09.960
<v Speaker 1>From every single person that I know that's had kids,

0:38:10.040 --> 0:38:12.759
<v Speaker 1>especially in those first years. Mark, I feel like we've

0:38:12.800 --> 0:38:15.799
<v Speaker 1>talked about this that it's hard and like intimacy and

0:38:15.840 --> 0:38:17.960
<v Speaker 1>trying to connect with their partner is just different. It's

0:38:18.000 --> 0:38:20.799
<v Speaker 1>a different phase of life.

0:38:22.280 --> 0:38:22.799
<v Speaker 3>It is.

0:38:23.400 --> 0:38:25.919
<v Speaker 1>You have like a baby that you're trying to I bet,

0:38:26.800 --> 0:38:28.719
<v Speaker 1>and so it might just be an adjustment.

0:38:28.840 --> 0:38:32.360
<v Speaker 4>And you know how like guys are like afraid to

0:38:32.400 --> 0:38:34.560
<v Speaker 4>do it when you're pregnant because they think they're going

0:38:34.600 --> 0:38:36.480
<v Speaker 4>to hurt the baby or something, you know, the silly things.

0:38:36.520 --> 0:38:38.760
<v Speaker 4>But you know, we have that in mind because everything's different.

0:38:39.200 --> 0:38:41.280
<v Speaker 4>And even after you have the baby, things are different.

0:38:41.680 --> 0:38:44.919
<v Speaker 4>Your boobs are now feeding your children, Like it's weird

0:38:44.920 --> 0:38:50.239
<v Speaker 4>to be like excited for them when they're actually generating. YEA,

0:38:50.600 --> 0:38:52.879
<v Speaker 4>so body it's much more functional now and I don't

0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:55.160
<v Speaker 4>and it's so it's a weird. It's not that it's

0:38:55.160 --> 0:38:57.959
<v Speaker 4>not sexy anymore, because it absolutely can be. But guys,

0:38:57.960 --> 0:38:59.400
<v Speaker 4>I think are a little freaked out by some of

0:38:59.400 --> 0:39:03.560
<v Speaker 4>those changes and and so there might be something to that.

0:39:03.600 --> 0:39:05.000
<v Speaker 4>But I think Becky, you're right, you should have a

0:39:05.040 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 4>conversation like what turns you on? Yeah, if you were to,

0:39:08.000 --> 0:39:10.200
<v Speaker 4>you mentioned watching porn, If you were to, what do

0:39:10.239 --> 0:39:12.239
<v Speaker 4>you like to watch? What are you into? And maybe

0:39:12.320 --> 0:39:14.600
<v Speaker 4>we can incorporate some of that in the bedroom if

0:39:14.600 --> 0:39:15.400
<v Speaker 4>it's not too.

0:39:15.239 --> 0:39:18.520
<v Speaker 3>Weird or if it's not.

0:39:21.600 --> 0:39:23.480
<v Speaker 4>But I think there's a conversation there because you could

0:39:23.480 --> 0:39:25.040
<v Speaker 4>be freaked out by certain things. He doesn't want to

0:39:25.040 --> 0:39:26.960
<v Speaker 4>mention because it doesn't want to hurt your feelings, But

0:39:26.960 --> 0:39:29.000
<v Speaker 4>it would be that you know what that is, And maybe.

0:39:28.719 --> 0:39:33.080
<v Speaker 5>It is maybe it is exactly that, Like he sees

0:39:33.120 --> 0:39:36.360
<v Speaker 5>the boobs as like his child's food supplies, if he

0:39:36.400 --> 0:39:38.319
<v Speaker 5>doesn't want to suck on them and accidentally get some

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:39.480
<v Speaker 5>of the food, you know what I mean?

0:39:39.840 --> 0:39:42.280
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And the kids just came out of the other area.

0:39:42.400 --> 0:39:44.040
<v Speaker 4>It's weird for you to want to do things to

0:39:44.080 --> 0:39:45.880
<v Speaker 4>that area that just created life.

0:39:45.960 --> 0:39:48.080
<v Speaker 5>It's weird, right, you know, I didn't even think of

0:39:48.120 --> 0:39:49.880
<v Speaker 5>it like that, Like, you're not gonna smack.

0:39:50.000 --> 0:40:03.400
<v Speaker 10>My, I'm sorry, smack your What what's he smacking that

0:40:03.520 --> 0:40:04.840
<v Speaker 10>sounds so painful?

0:40:08.400 --> 0:40:18.680
<v Speaker 3>Anything other? What is he smacking? Not the smack.

0:40:20.760 --> 0:40:23.719
<v Speaker 2>The thing is he's not smacking it, okay, he's not.

0:40:23.960 --> 0:40:32.120
<v Speaker 3>Just upset to know that he does. That's really upsetting.

0:40:33.920 --> 0:40:36.600
<v Speaker 1>There's something about the space bunds that makes it more.

0:40:41.239 --> 0:40:43.880
<v Speaker 5>The first are also loose, like they're super loose, so

0:40:43.920 --> 0:40:44.680
<v Speaker 5>I feel like they're.

0:40:44.480 --> 0:40:45.640
<v Speaker 2>Like jiggling on my head.

0:40:47.719 --> 0:40:48.040
<v Speaker 3>Man.

0:40:48.200 --> 0:40:52.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, well any next question?

0:40:52.440 --> 0:40:52.720
<v Speaker 3>Mark?

0:40:52.880 --> 0:40:54.600
<v Speaker 4>All right, well shall we? I mean, we're getting towards

0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:55.200
<v Speaker 4>the end of our time.

0:40:55.560 --> 0:40:56.200
<v Speaker 2>We should wrap it up.

0:40:56.239 --> 0:40:58.000
<v Speaker 4>We can jump to the fun one. Yeah, yeah, let's

0:40:58.440 --> 0:41:01.799
<v Speaker 4>This is from mollyhi Beckatania Mark and Eastern Day one

0:41:01.840 --> 0:41:04.480
<v Speaker 4>scrubber Here. This is a fun question that I ask

0:41:04.600 --> 0:41:06.560
<v Speaker 4>my friends and people I meet and find that they

0:41:06.640 --> 0:41:08.799
<v Speaker 4>be telling of who they are and their personality. You

0:41:08.840 --> 0:41:11.359
<v Speaker 4>all may have experienced this already, especially Tanya. But who

0:41:11.400 --> 0:41:14.080
<v Speaker 4>is a celebrity that you know that you know you

0:41:14.120 --> 0:41:16.279
<v Speaker 4>would hit it off with and become friends with if

0:41:16.280 --> 0:41:19.400
<v Speaker 4>you met them organically at a bar and why or

0:41:19.400 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 4>in the case of U four, a work or an

0:41:21.040 --> 0:41:24.040
<v Speaker 4>influencer event, And if this has happened already. Who is it?

0:41:24.320 --> 0:41:26.719
<v Speaker 4>Mine has always been Jamie Lee Curtis. I have no

0:41:26.840 --> 0:41:28.640
<v Speaker 4>real reason to believe this, but I just know in

0:41:28.680 --> 0:41:30.880
<v Speaker 4>my heart to be true. She wants to hear our thoughts.

0:41:30.920 --> 0:41:33.040
<v Speaker 4>So celebrity, you just know, maybe you've never met them,

0:41:33.160 --> 0:41:34.640
<v Speaker 4>you just know that if you did meet them, you

0:41:34.680 --> 0:41:40.000
<v Speaker 4>guys would hit it off and you'd be besties. I

0:41:40.000 --> 0:41:44.239
<v Speaker 4>got one. I can go first, Jason Bateman. I think

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<v Speaker 4>Jason Bateman and I would be best friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we're similar age, our kids are similar age. I

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<v Speaker 4>always think he's great in his movies and such. He's

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<v Speaker 4>a baseball fan. I think we'd be good friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Good one. That's actually a really good one.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have anyone off the top of your head,

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<v Speaker 3>So off the top of my head.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't say Kayler.

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<v Speaker 5>Top of my head. I want to say Chloe Kardashian,

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's a good one, thank you, or Courtney Kardashian

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<v Speaker 5>or Kim kard I honestly, all the Kardashians adopt me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kidding. Yeah, I feel like I feel like all

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<v Speaker 2>of them. Weirdly, I feel like, yeah, they.

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<v Speaker 4>Would love you, they'd want you hanging out at the mansion.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I feel like maybe Chloe Moore, maybe Courtney Moore.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. It's a toss up.

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<v Speaker 5>You could really just hit And I think Kendall and

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<v Speaker 5>Kylie would enjoy me as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, kind of like an aunt.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I always feel that way with Kylie Jenner.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that shots fire came over that comment. Uh, that's

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<v Speaker 5>kind of where my brain went. Was the Kardashian clan

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<v Speaker 5>and Chris Jenner. I'd a that holiday party.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it'd be fun times.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so basic to say this, but I always feel it.

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<v Speaker 2>When I know what you're gonna say. Jennifer Anderson, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I bet you would, though I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I think so too.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was gonna say Taylor Swift, like I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, I literally feel like if we just like

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<v Speaker 1>hung out and had a conversation that like outside of

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<v Speaker 1>her fame world, that we would be friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but she's so famous.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it changes people.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it changes her. I just don't know

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<v Speaker 3>that she has time for me.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that level of fame cannot help but change people.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, Oh yeah, because every friend you make you

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<v Speaker 1>have to go like, yeah, why are do they just

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<v Speaker 1>would they be friends with me without the success.

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<v Speaker 9>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there was somebody I saw interviewed recently and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, she is so funny and I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I could be like, she has the humor that I love.

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<v Speaker 3>But I can't remember who it was, but it was like.

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<v Speaker 5>A Drew Barrymore, no man love her, but no Martha Stewart,

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<v Speaker 5>no Ben Hathaway.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone wrote me on Instagram and said they worked for

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<v Speaker 1>her and they worked in a store and they all

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<v Speaker 1>used to fight over like not wanting to help her

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<v Speaker 1>because she was so rude.

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<v Speaker 5>I imagine, Yeah, I imagine that she's quite prickly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, Like I don't know that she'd be the

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<v Speaker 3>one that i'd have.

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<v Speaker 2>A dinner party with.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I agree, but she's fascinating. Yeah yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's so basic, but I think Taylor.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I went basic too with the Kardashians.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 2>My My FIRSTLF.

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<v Speaker 1>Was Kylie Jenner because every time I see her videos,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's so funny, and I really I think

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<v Speaker 1>the Kardashians were a good one.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you not to scroll then, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't need to. I was scrolling millennial woman.

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<v Speaker 8>Celeb Yeah wow, all right, well that's all for now,

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<v Speaker 8>but we will be back on Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, stay tuned for that. We can't wait. Have a

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<v Speaker 1>great weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>We love you, somebody love you.

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<v Speaker 10>Bye mhm.