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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in grub du du. You

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Speaker 1: should have said scrub, scrub, scrub, and my heart goes scrubs.

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Speaker 2: I don't get that joke.

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Speaker 3: Heavy sigh. You never saw Zena Xenon.

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Speaker 1: You've seen Xena the Warrior Princeress, but you haven't seen

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Speaker 1: Xenon the twenty first century?

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Speaker 4: Correct?

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Speaker 3: What is it Xenon Girl of the twenty first Century?

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Speaker 3: You've never seen that? Never? Is that true? Swear?

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Speaker 5: I haven't seen a lot of movies like Father of

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Speaker 5: the Bride, Pretty Woman.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we want.

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Speaker 2: Why, I don't know. It's like one of.

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Speaker 5: Those things that I like missed. I missed the mark

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Speaker 5: on and like now it's like it's so far gone

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Speaker 5: that like what's the point.

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Speaker 3: First of all, you didn't miss the mark because it

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Speaker 3: was it's like an old.

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Speaker 1: Right, right, So like I missed it, so it's like fast,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you need to watch uh, well, you

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Speaker 1: need to watch both of those. But I didn't see

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Speaker 1: Father of the Bride for a very long time in

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Speaker 1: my life, so that one I understand.

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Speaker 3: Even though it's people's favorite movie.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 5: Robbie said literally last weekend, he was like, we need

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Speaker 5: to watch Father of the Bride tonight and I was like.

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Speaker 4: You will cry.

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Speaker 1: You will be very emotional because you have a very

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Speaker 1: like sweet relationship with your dag.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and Pretty Woman's a classic.

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Speaker 2: You'll will So I know people always reference it. They're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: a pretty woman.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, just take take a like take a

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Speaker 1: break from your scripted series from twenty eighteen.

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Speaker 3: Put on a class that.

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Speaker 4: I know Island.

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Speaker 2: So I just found out that Love Island Australia.

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Speaker 5: They have a casa or they have uh a more

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Speaker 5: hotel or like the hideaway, like the room that they

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Speaker 5: go to.

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Speaker 2: It's like whatever, it's like talking to them walls here.

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Speaker 3: Believe me, we get it. We get it from the

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Speaker 3: other side. Rude.

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Speaker 2: So I'm gonna give Love on Australia try.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe you haven't already.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's I already do UK. There's so many

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Speaker 2: there to watch.

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Speaker 3: You did Traders from every.

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Speaker 2: Because there's like one or two seasons of each.

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Speaker 1: This is like, oh you're gonna try, Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: take We've lost her again, folks.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I'm actually watching someon current right now, what

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Speaker 5: are you watching Disclaimer.

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Speaker 2: Movie show?

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Speaker 3: I heard it's good. It's good, It's only dark. Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: like dark.

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Speaker 4: Because you asked people, I love Breaking Bad? What else

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Speaker 4: should I watch? This kind of that vibe? People say?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, people said Disclaimer and Diplomat were like the two showstoppers.

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Speaker 3: Do you not think that Breaking Bad was stark.

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Speaker 2: Weirdly? Yeah, a little bit. But I found the story

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Speaker 2: so interesting and intriguing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you're able to look past the darkness.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's like, oh he makes math, who doesn't?

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Speaker 1: Ye? Yeah, could be worse, could be worse. Yeah, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's exciting. Well, speaking of Love Island, I went to

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Speaker 1: the Gladiator premiere and h as I had told you,

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Speaker 1: the cast was there, Yes, on the carpet.

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Speaker 5: I needed to know the specificity of this whole situation.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so first of all arrived. First, First of all.

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Speaker 1: I get so anxious going to things like that because

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Speaker 1: the carpet's so intimidating to me, because I don't know,

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Speaker 1: you're kind of like at this massive premiere. Granted, at

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Speaker 1: this one, it was nice because none of the celebrities

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Speaker 1: from the movie, like the real celebrities weren't there, so

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Speaker 1: it was kind of like reality people my wheelhouse, of

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Speaker 1: like camaraderie in that sense.

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Speaker 3: So I felt a little less like intimidated.

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Speaker 1: And so I get there, I do the carpet tailor's

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Speaker 1: with me.

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Speaker 3: Taylor's like talking to all the people, like e news people, like.

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Speaker 1: All her friends that are in the press, and I

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Speaker 1: see Hannah Ge she was doing interviews. I just have

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Speaker 1: to say, Dylan Barber, Hannah G's husband, is one of

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Speaker 1: the nicest best guys to come out of the Bachelor franchise.

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Speaker 1: Every time I've talked about, every time I've talked to him,

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Speaker 1: he's so warm, he's so kind, he's so engaging, he's

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Speaker 1: not like trying to be anything, no ego, just so nice.

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Speaker 1: And then Hannah's obviously just love the affect and so cute. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the Montana boys were there.

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Speaker 5: No Mark Estes, Yeah, Caleb, I don't I don't know any.

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Speaker 1: It's like Montana Boy one, Montana Boy two. I think

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Speaker 1: Montana Boy one is Mark I got Hannah Boy two

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Speaker 1: is Caleb got it. I don't know the third one,

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Speaker 1: but he was just the two of them.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I saw the cowboy hats.

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Speaker 1: From a distance, I said, there they are in person

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Speaker 1: stad this carpet. And then I saw Krishelle and Emma

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Speaker 1: from Selling Sunset. I love Krishelle, and Emma was so cute.

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Speaker 1: She brought her dad, so he was just like halving

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Speaker 1: the time of his life. And then I look down

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Speaker 1: and I see Kendall.

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Speaker 2: You see oh no, the boys.

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Speaker 3: I see the.

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Speaker 1: Boys and then I see Live and Kaylor. So go

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Speaker 1: up to the boys first, and I'm like Hi. I

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Speaker 1: was like, my name is Becca. I was like, so,

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Speaker 1: my friend Tanya is obsessed with Love Island. I was like,

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Speaker 1: can y'all just if I do a video? Can y'all

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Speaker 1: just say hi to her? So they it was.

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Speaker 3: Funny that they all said pull up. Yeah. Is that

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Speaker 3: a Love Island thing? Or is that more like a

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm starts saying it. You have no

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Speaker 2: idea like having text? Tis like, Tanya, where are you at?

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Speaker 3: Pull up? Where are you? I was like, pull up?

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Speaker 5: I'm pulling up in bed, Yeah, pulling the sheets right

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Speaker 5: on up, right on up over my head.

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Speaker 1: Kaylor was talking to someone, but Live was standing there,

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Speaker 1: so I was like Live and she turns but to like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, Hi, I love you.

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Speaker 3: You're sunning.

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Speaker 1: But like she had no idea who I was. She

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Speaker 1: was just like such a girl's girl that she was

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Speaker 1: just like it's so sweet.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. I already knew that about her. But

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Speaker 5: I love getting confirmation. Yeah, And I was like on

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Speaker 5: the boots on the ground confirmation.

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Speaker 1: I was like, so I have a podcast with my

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Speaker 1: best friend. And then Kayler's like, Tonya.

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Speaker 3: Where are you at? Like and I'm like, wait, let

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, just say how to Tanya. So Live

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Speaker 1: starts and then Kayler jump jumps in. Yeah, pull up,

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Speaker 1: pull up the f up?

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Speaker 3: Where are you at?

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Speaker 1: So they were so sweet, and we went into this area.

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Speaker 1: It was like a cocktail area where there was a

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Speaker 1: bar and like heaters and stuff for us is.

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Speaker 3: Staying around and I love a heater. Live was so sweet.

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Speaker 1: She kept coming up being like come hang out with us,

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Speaker 1: like come stand with us, you know. So You're like

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Speaker 1: I'm good, no, no, no, well, I mean we were

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Speaker 1: more just like kind of browsing, like looking around waiting

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Speaker 1: for I wanted to see if I could get a

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Speaker 1: glimpse of Denzel. You know, it's just like you know,

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Speaker 1: seeing it where I could get a glunch of people.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to star.

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Speaker 2: Watch yeah, and she was like partying.

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Speaker 1: They were party. They were just like at the bar.

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Speaker 1: They were like, I don't even know if they came

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Speaker 1: to the movie. Well, they had gone to Vegas and

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Speaker 1: saw a screening of it, so they literally may not

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Speaker 5: I knew that Live was going to be my girl.

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Speaker 5: Well Kaylor's my like real girl, yeah and lives like

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Speaker 5: my girl girl.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: There. They were really really fun and sweet and nice.

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Speaker 2: But they said they would come on the pod totally.

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Speaker 1: They're totally down and I genuinely think that they want

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Speaker 1: to if the schedule is a line that they will

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Speaker 1: definitely come on.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 5: I don't think I wish that you So, first of all,

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Speaker 5: that Monday night, I also got invited to the Sabrina

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Speaker 5: Carpenter concert, and I was like, I already turned down

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Speaker 5: my best friend Becca to go to Gladiator premiere because

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Speaker 5: I cannot do two nights back to back, so I

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Speaker 5: had to decline the Sabrina Carpenter show. So I didn't

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Speaker 5: even see I don't even think I saw nine to

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Speaker 5: twenty one o'clock that night, Like I was fast shoes gone.

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Speaker 5: By the time when you had sent me those videos

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Speaker 5: of them, I was literally in bed in my pajamas,

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Speaker 5: actually naked, because that's how I sleep.

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Speaker 2: But I always always, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Even when the kids are there. Yeah really yeah, interesting.

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Speaker 2: Well I don't like walk around naked, but I get

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Speaker 2: I have my robe.

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Speaker 4: But what if one of them comes in the middle

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Speaker 4: of the night, Oh, I need your help, come kill

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Speaker 4: a spider or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true, or like they're like bad, I don't

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Speaker 1: feel like I don't feel well and they want to

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Speaker 2: Never happened.

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Speaker 5: Well, one of them has come up in the middle

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Speaker 5: of the night because of something, and then Robbie just

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Speaker 5: gets up in help.

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Speaker 4: If one of them's sick in the middle of the night,

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Speaker 4: you don't run in there.

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Speaker 2: I put my robe on.

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Speaker 5: Something they yell from downstairs or something, I'll put my

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Speaker 6: But yeah, interesting, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Anyway, so I'm in bed and but we didn't have

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Speaker 5: them that night. But I was in bed and I

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Speaker 5: see these text messages and I'm like screaming like a

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Speaker 5: little girl, Like I literally feel like the cat Love

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Speaker 5: Island cast sends me back to like my teenage years

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Speaker 5: because also I had like the space buns in my head,

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Speaker 5: so it was like a really double whammy. I felt

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Speaker 5: like I was a fifteen year old girl getting a

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Speaker 5: video from like or something, Yeah, Kira or whatever. I

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Speaker 5: was freaking out so cool. Yeah, and I feel like

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Speaker 5: they just seem so cool.

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Speaker 3: They were all so nice. Yeah, Kendall was so nice.

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Speaker 1: And then I don't know where Janey was when when

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Speaker 1: I was talking to the girls, but at one point

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Speaker 1: she like walked by and I was like, Janey, you

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Speaker 1: look beautiful, and she's like, oh my god, you know

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Speaker 1: did her She's I mean, they're all like beautiful in person.

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Speaker 3: And then did you change numbers?

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Speaker 2: Did you get any of their numbers?

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Speaker 1: I did not ask, but you have Kayler's numbers, so yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we got a drag line.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We're standing there waiting for Denzel and other star sightings,

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Speaker 3: Like, once.

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Speaker 5: The magic I do feel like the buns like I'm

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Speaker 1: Thank you, all right, Tanya take it away after that

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Speaker 5: It might not not saying space buns. I'm not saying

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Speaker 5: I was like, the fact that that's a green flag

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Speaker 5: I did not bring. I did not anticipate this hat

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Speaker 1: Well, we do have a Dear Bonnie episode today, So

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Speaker 2: No, we so much to good Chetah, what Phoebe and.

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Speaker 1: If you want updates on Phoebe that happens on my Instagram,

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Speaker 5: But it appears that it has hit a weird part

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Speaker 5: Like I'm like, you're trying to call me out and

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Speaker 3: You're like hit the follow for more of this.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, make sure to follow and subscribe.

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Speaker 3: And I have a podcast as well.

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Speaker 2: Yes, please subscribe to that.

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Speaker 5: If you want more insecure insecurity, please please follow along there.

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Speaker 1: I just didn't find it, Like, I don't think wanting

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Speaker 1: Like it just sometimes when you go viral, that's you

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Speaker 5: And then people were like, you made the photos so ugly,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, every troll, everyone that's trolling me is getting some

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I thank you.

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Speaker 4: For these comments. She ruined the pick. Anyway, all that work,

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Speaker 1: who are these are these children? Like who's commenting on

448
00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:07,520
Speaker 1: this is the weirdest you really hit like this niche

449
00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,840
Speaker 1: weird pocket. Yeah, you never know like when that is

450
00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,720
Speaker 1: the thing with TikTok and reels like you just you

451
00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:16,960
Speaker 1: throw it up and you never know where it's gonna go.

452
00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,800
Speaker 2: And first time going viral and I'm like, bring it.

453
00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:23,000
Speaker 3: Off, baby, Engagement is engagement.

454
00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:25,920
Speaker 2: Yeah you want to troll me atroll right back? Thank you.

455
00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:29,840
Speaker 1: I just posted that like clip of Gracie walking into

456
00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,320
Speaker 1: the party at uh oh my TikTok and it's at

457
00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 1: one point seven million views, like her fans are just

458
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:35,960
Speaker 1: like so obsessed.

459
00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:38,120
Speaker 2: Not quite as viral as mine, but.

460
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Speaker 3: No, no, no, it's not.

461
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:40,720
Speaker 1: It's like half I'm not even in it though, so

462
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:45,280
Speaker 1: anything negative is just like but everyone's like wow, you.

463
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Speaker 2: Know, yeah, do you have any trolls on that? No?

464
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 1: No, yeah, no, they're like she's ethereal she looks like

465
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,480
Speaker 1: Lexi Gray, you know, they're like.

466
00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:55,320
Speaker 3: Assess of her.

467
00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:58,640
Speaker 2: Anyways, that was a little bit about me this week.

468
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Speaker 1: Well, just thrilled for you that you have hit a

469
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:06,200
Speaker 1: viral streak and just taking it in stride.

470
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, bring on the trolls.

471
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 3: I don't want them. Don't come. I don't like the trolls.

472
00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 2: I can handle them.

473
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's good. Okay.

474
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 2: I don't know me, they don't know me at all.

475
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 3: I'm still going. She does not care, but we're still going.

476
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Speaker 5: If my friends and family were saying this stuff, I

477
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:26,640
Speaker 5: would care.

478
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:32,440
Speaker 2: But these trolls. Please. Yeah, no, pack a lunch, Pack

479
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 2: a lunch. Yeah. I think we have to go back,

480
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,040
Speaker 2: and I think we have to take another break.

481
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Speaker 3: No, we don't know, we know. No, man, it's been

482
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:40,720
Speaker 3: like five minutes staying.

483
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,159
Speaker 1: But we are gonna do at least one dear Bonnie

484
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Speaker 1: before we take our next break, all right, Mark to do.

485
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Speaker 4: The first one here? Yeah, first off, I just want

486
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 4: to say a big thank you for all the positive

487
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 4: energy and light you bring every week to the podcast.

488
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,120
Speaker 4: There's a guy I used to work with for six years.

489
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,920
Speaker 4: We became close. We got lunch together multiple times a week.

490
00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,439
Speaker 4: I didn't think much of a first, except that I

491
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 4: really appreciated his friendship, But as the years went by,

492
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,880
Speaker 4: I caught feelings. I never did anything about it because

493
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:08,880
Speaker 4: we were colleagues that would have made things awkward. Well,

494
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,239
Speaker 4: he was let go last year, but we've maintained our

495
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 4: friendship and made up once every few months. We don't

496
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,160
Speaker 4: text regularly, but he likes and replies on my instagrams.

497
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 4: We can go weeks without talking, but we meet up.

498
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 4: I always feel like we have the best time. Last

499
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 4: week we met up, he'd smile and wink at me.

500
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 4: He asked to hold his hand to feel how cold

501
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 4: it was. He he had to wake up early the

502
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 4: next day, but we ended up walking around aimlessly and

503
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 4: chatting in a park until two in the morning. We

504
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 4: talked about going for pickleball and he said, yes, we

505
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,479
Speaker 4: should definitely do that. Message me when you're free. So

506
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,640
Speaker 4: this makes me confuse and frustrated because I'm not sure

507
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 4: why he's not taking more of an initiative to find

508
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Speaker 4: a time to meet if he's really interested, instead of

509
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 4: waiting for me to reach out to him. We have

510
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,399
Speaker 4: mutual colleagues and friends. They say he's obviously into me

511
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 4: when we meet up. Sometimes I feel like he does too,

512
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:55,639
Speaker 4: but I don't know why. When we're not together, he

513
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 4: doesn't put in the effort to chat or meet up

514
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 4: more often, which makes me think that maybe he doesn't

515
00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 4: like me that way. I don't want to ruin the friendship.

516
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 4: What should I do help?

517
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 1: This is one of those where I think you just

518
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 1: say hey, kiss me. I think you saw I don't

519
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: think you say kiss me. I think you just say hey.

520
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 1: Is this do you see?

521
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:20,679
Speaker 8: Like?

522
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 3: Is this friendship? Or is there like do you see

523
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 3: me more than a friend? Or is this friendship?

524
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 2: Because like you know, it's better than words. Actions exactly

525
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:32,199
Speaker 2: what an action is?

526
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 3: What kiss that? You said kiss me? Which is words?

527
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 5: So instead of saying kiss me, just kiss him, just

528
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 5: go in kiss him. If he backs off and says WHOA,

529
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 5: then you have your clear answer. If he leans in

530
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 5: and makes out with you, you have your answer.

531
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Speaker 3: I would much rather be rejected by.

532
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:50,920
Speaker 2: Words than a pull away.

533
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, coming from a girl that's been pulled away many times.

534
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, who's pulled away from you?

535
00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 5: I don't know Matthew from college, Pete, that's real.

536
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 3: You've been pulled away from when we need to kiss.

537
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 2: It's fine, I'm fine, everything's fine.

538
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 3: She's hitting all the friends characters.

539
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,159
Speaker 5: Yeah, So anyways, I think you just go in for

540
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 5: a kiss. That's the telltale way.

541
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 4: You can decide words or kiss. But it's time for

542
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 4: you to make an initiative here. And you're worried about

543
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 4: we're in the friendship. There is no this is over.

544
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 4: It's already over because you have feelings for him, So

545
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 4: there is no future friendship here. So you need to

546
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 4: make the move, whether it's with words or with actions,

547
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,400
Speaker 4: because this we need to We need to get out

548
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 4: of this limbo that we're in. We need to get

549
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:36,639
Speaker 4: out of it.

550
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: I don't think the friendship's over because I think if

551
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,679
Speaker 1: she's like, hey, are we you know? What is this

552
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 1: and he's like, oh, I just here as a friend.

553
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:44,919
Speaker 1: If she needs space, she can take it. But I

554
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,880
Speaker 1: think that if they have a and she knows the

555
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, I had her friendship with a guy.

556
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and guess what. He had a crush on you,

557
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 2: I know.

558
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: But then and then he was like I just need

559
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 1: to take time, and then we were friends again, and like.

560
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 2: Now are you still friends?

561
00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 3: Now?

562
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, when's the time you talked to this guy?

563
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 3: I mean he lives in San Diego, he's married.

564
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 8: Now.

565
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 5: I know he's saying your friend Lee, but like, the

566
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 5: friendship's ruined no matter what, You're not going to keep

567
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 5: this friend when you're married.

568
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 3: I know, but she's not married and neither is he.

569
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: So I'm just saying if it's if he's like, I

570
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 1: don't I like you as a friend and she enjoys

571
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 1: being around him and is like, now she has a

572
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,119
Speaker 1: clear idea of what the relationship is. They can just

573
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: be friends without any expectations.

574
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 4: Can But I think there the friendship has a cell

575
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 4: by date on it because one of you are going

576
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 4: to be in a relationship and that's the end of

577
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 4: the friendship. And that's fine. I know what's in a relationship,

578
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 4: but there's going to be some day.

579
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 1: Yes, So you're just like, you don't have friends with

580
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 1: people because they might eventually get into relationship.

581
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 4: Friends with people I used to have crushes on.

582
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 9: Yes, same interesting yeah, I disagree anyway, Guys, there's something

583
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 9: about this generation of guys, whether it's millennials or gen Z,

584
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 9: they really are bad at taking the initiative.

585
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,959
Speaker 4: And obviously that's a big generalization and I'm sure there

586
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,919
Speaker 4: are exceptions to that, but generally speaking, they seem very

587
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 4: scared of making a move. It's time to make a move, Anonymous, Yeah.

588
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: I just also am like, here's my thought on if

589
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 1: I like, if I like someone, do I want to

590
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 1: be with someone who is like, you know, the whole

591
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: thing if he wanted to do he would?

592
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 3: Or do you want to see she would?

593
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: I've always thought like, well, some people are just more shy,

594
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 1: they're a little more hesitant. But it's also like, do

595
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: you want someone who's not gonna take the initiative? Like

596
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: do you want someone that you have to ask to

597
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: make the move? Or do you want someone who's gonna

598
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 1: make it clear that you don't have to be in

599
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: this confusing state? Like is it even worth it at

600
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 1: this point? Is this your guy? Because it's the guy

601
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 1: that you want gonna be like scared to be straightforward

602
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: with you about his feelings.

603
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 4: This is a fair point because they were saying if

604
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 4: he wants to be with you. You will know it.

605
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Speaker 1: I have never had a fleeing a relationship where I

606
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: wasn't one thousand percent sure that the person had the

607
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: same feelings for me.

608
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 4: But why is he if I'm him, I'm not walking

609
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,360
Speaker 4: around till two in the morning with somebody I don't.

610
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

611
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 1: But I'm also like, so is he shot? What's the

612
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 1: hold up is he? Is it a personality?

613
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 4: It's fear of rejection.

614
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 2: I don't know.

615
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 3: Man.

616
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 5: Now I'm thinking about things a little differently because I

617
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 5: was thinking about.

618
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 2: You know who?

619
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 3: I know who? Oh yeah, we used.

620
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 5: To hang out all the time, just the two of

621
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 5: us hung out. He loved hanging out with me as

622
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 5: a friend. Called to you, told me you want to

623
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,880
Speaker 5: get a drink? I want to do this, I want

624
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 5: to go to this workout. And I was into him.

625
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 5: I was like, why is he making a move? He

626
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:47,360
Speaker 5: clearly didn't want to. Now he's married to somebody else, spoiler?

627
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 4: What was he doing all that?

628
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 3: I know as a person and wanted to.

629
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 4: I'm cool, very beyond cool, but just as a friend,

630
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 4: that's all.

631
00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 2: It's odd to me. It was so odd to me.

632
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 2: I was like hell, hell, how much more? Like can

633
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 2: I put my boobs up?

634
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:07,439
Speaker 3: And like, yeah, I mean you can only put your

635
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 3: boobs up so much.

636
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: You can only put your boobs up.

637
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 3: And if he wants it, he wants the boob he doesn't.

638
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 2: Right, And so like, moves could have been made.

639
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 3: But did you kiss him?

640
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 6: No?

641
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 3: Did you ask him to kiss you?

642
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 4: No?

643
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 5: I don't know why I didn't, though in hindsight I

644
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 5: wish I would have. So that's my advice to you, anonymous.

645
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 5: In hindsight, I had a similar situation. I did not

646
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,640
Speaker 5: make a move, and I will always wonder what if

647
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 5: I mean really?

648
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 2: But yeah, so I think you should just make your.

649
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 4: Move, all right, right, great, not all in agreement.

650
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: And I also think you deserve to have someone who

651
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: just makes a move, even though I know a lot

652
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: of people disagree and be like.

653
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 3: Not everyone straightforward.

654
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: Some guys need a little push personally, I think you

655
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: deserve not to be in a state of confusion with

656
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: the person that you're gonna be.

657
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 5: I was so confused in that situation, and he wasn't

658
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 5: the right guy right right.

659
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 3: And the right guy didn't make you feel confused about

660
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 3: his feelings for you.

661
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 2: No, he didn't. He said, I'll pick you up on

662
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 2: my way to the date.

663
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

664
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 4: I hope she can put all this advice together and

665
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 4: make it somewhat cohesive and make a decision bullet points.

666
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 3: Okay, well now let's take a break.

667
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 4: But we'll tease it.

668
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, this is a good one. Okay, is

669
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Speaker 3: bad at texting a red flag?

670
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Speaker 2: Oh no?

671
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 4: All right, well, all.

672
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 3: Right, we're back mark.

673
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: This is well, we know Tanya's opinion, but let's hear

674
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: the meat of the question.

675
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 4: I love the podcast and hearing all of your stories.

676
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 4: You guys make the work week easier, So thank you

677
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 4: for that. That is very sweet. That is the goal, right,

678
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,719
Speaker 4: we want to make the tough week easier. That's sweet.

679
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 4: I'm twenty nine, started dating again after a long bad relationship.

680
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 4: I've gone on a few okay dates, but I know

681
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 4: it's a numbers game, so I keep trying. I've finally

682
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 4: met a guy and we clicked on our first date. Chemistry, conversation,

683
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 4: We're great. We've gone in a few dates since then.

684
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 4: They've all been great. My issue is the communication between

685
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 4: the dates not so great. Texts are short, sometimes he

686
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 4: leaves me on red gives me reasons like, uh, my

687
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 4: phone died, I was busy at work. I told him,

688
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 4: you can just tell me if he's busier can't talk.

689
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 4: Sometimes he goes a day or two without saying anything,

690
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 4: and it's just weird to me. He's three years younger

691
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 4: than me, so I'm not sure if it's an age

692
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 4: thing as well, am I overreacting? A part of me

693
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 4: wonders if he's just not interested. Of note, we've both

694
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 4: initiated making plans to hang and he says he really

695
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 4: likes me. But at the same time, actions speak louder

696
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 4: than words. I'd love any advice all four of you

697
00:30:58,000 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 4: could give.

698
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 3: Goes back to just goes back, similar, similar, But.

699
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: I also here's my thing with this, because I don't

700
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: think that everyone is a good communicator, especially over text

701
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: and calls. Like I do think people are just like

702
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: lazy about charging their phone, like I have some people

703
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: that just their phones never.

704
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 3: Charged, and I do believe that.

705
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: However, it seems like you want someone who is a

706
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: good texter and is a good communicator, and I don't

707
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: think that this is something I think this is something

708
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: that's going to continually bother you.

709
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 3: Oh wow, in the relationship.

710
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 5: So as someone who is not a good texture myself thyself. Yeah,

711
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 5: like in the beginning, I would always like screenshot Robbie's

712
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 5: text and send it to you to come up with

713
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 5: like a funny, witty response.

714
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's not the same as not responding.

715
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I could that could have taken a day,

716
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 2: Like you know what I mean.

717
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 4: We never took a day to respond, lovely, it's running

718
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 4: a day workshopping responses.

719
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 3: Very different. This is very different, by the way.

720
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 4: Group of ten people similar demographic to Robbie, how would

721
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,479
Speaker 4: you respond if I said this to him?

722
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: But it could be the same thing.

723
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 5: It could be like this guy is maybe not the

724
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 5: best text or he wants to be like funny and

725
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 5: witty and on it with you, and so he's like

726
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 5: afraid to respond because his response is lame, and like

727
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 5: he's sending it off to his friends to workshop as well.

728
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 2: Is that delusional?

729
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 3: I say yes, But there are others who will say no.

730
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,959
Speaker 4: Some guys, some people are just bad at texting. I've

731
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 4: got guys like my friend Kurt. I know if I

732
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 4: text him here from him in three days. Maybe it's

733
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 4: just kind of how some guys are. So I think

734
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 4: maybe it's just how he is. But like Beca said,

735
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 4: if this is important to you, then yes, it's a

736
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 4: red flag because everyone's what flags are.

737
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 2: Different, it's a beige flag. I like, it's not that bad.

738
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 1: I just think if it's y'all aren't even an official

739
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: couple and it's bothering you, then when you get together,

740
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 1: that's going to be annoying.

741
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 5: But also she hasn't even told him that it's annoying.

742
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 5: Why don't you tell him, Hey, I don't like this,

743
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 5: because that's.

744
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: Going to come across like naggi and like, I'm not

745
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: even your boyfriend. Why are you expecting me to just

746
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: like respond on.

747
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 2: Your Then maybe she shouldn't.

748
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 3: Shouldn't what expect that?

749
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 2: This is just who he is.

750
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's fine, but she wants someone who's gonna communicate.

751
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: She thinks you Robbie's a very good texter and communicator

752
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 1: and if.

753
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 3: He wasn't, you would not. You are talking about you

754
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 3: never miss a.

755
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 4: Beat, like you're the other extreme from this guy. This

756
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 4: guy like season and Red just ignores it goes back

757
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 4: to work. Were you obsessed about what you're gonna say? Back? Becca?

758
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 4: What should I say? And even when you're not in

759
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 4: that situation with him. I think you respond very quickly

760
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 4: and very well. Yours respond to me immediately. I understand,

761
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 4: But I'm just saying I think I don't think you're

762
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 4: a bad texture.

763
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 3: No, and I also think that.

764
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: But your reason of not being what you consider not

765
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 1: being a good Texter is because you're thoughtful about your response.

766
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 3: And I don't.

767
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: Necessarily think this guy is being thoughtful about his response.

768
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 2: But that's you know what that is. That's an assumption,

769
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: it is.

770
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 4: And you're an overthinker. He's an underthinker.

771
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 2: Assuming makes an ass out of you and me.

772
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: Yes, but I don't I feel I feel confident in

773
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: my my stance here.

774
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,800
Speaker 2: Well, you have two different stances, Anonymous, So take the

775
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 2: yellow brick road.

776
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, the yellow brick road.

777
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: I just think that, and I do think if you

778
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: want to, if you really like him and you want

779
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 1: to have a I'm scared you're scaring me.

780
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 3: She's staring at me the head.

781
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 2: Down makes really standing straight.

782
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just gonna say, if you want to have

783
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 1: a conversation, like hey, like I I can't tell if

784
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 1: I'm expecting too much, but I'm not used to not

785
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: hearing from the person. I don't want to take it

786
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,919
Speaker 1: the wrong way, but it's, you know, making It's making

787
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,439
Speaker 1: me wonder if you're like interested and I just wanted

788
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 1: to make sure we're on the same page.

789
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 3: That would be a very mature, healthy way to handle it.

790
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 3: If you can get there.

791
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 2: Take your take your brick road, take your time, Take

792
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 2: your time, take your brick.

793
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 4: Becka, do you want to jump with the most salacious

794
00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 4: of these?

795
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 3: Is that my sex life? Yes? It's short and sweet.

796
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 4: Hi guys, so grateful for your pod. I love every

797
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 4: Monday and Thursday because of you. Again, I need some advice.

798
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 4: My husband and I've been married four years and have

799
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 4: a one and a half year old. Ever since we

800
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 4: had our child, our intimacy has been black. Oh no,

801
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 4: he claims he isn't cheating, he isn't watching porn, he

802
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 4: isn't masturbating, et cetera. I genuinely believe him, But why

803
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 4: does he never want sex with me? I've tried initiating.

804
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 4: Oh this, this sentence hurts me. I tried initiating and

805
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 4: he turned me down because you wanted to watch a

806
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:35,280
Speaker 4: show or go to sleep. I feel sad at this point.

807
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 4: Am I crazy? How do I fix this.

808
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:39,919
Speaker 2: I don't think that's sad.

809
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,240
Speaker 4: I think it's so sad.

810
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 5: Why if you're tired, the last thing I want to

811
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 5: do is be jumping around on someone.

812
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 4: Well, and I'm again with the generalizations. I feel like

813
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:52,319
Speaker 4: with women that is the case. I feel like men

814
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 4: will take the jumping around any chance they can get

815
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:55,280
Speaker 4: the jumping around.

816
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 2: Yes, you think.

817
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 1: I don't think I have a get time an opinion

818
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 1: of this because I don't. I'm not dealing with the

819
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 1: man woman dynamic, you know.

820
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't. I think it's different for everybody,

821
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 4: and it's certainly in my case that is the case.

822
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 4: I don't that's a wonderful offer, and I'm never turning

823
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 4: that down.

824
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:16,720
Speaker 2: But I also think that you offer something every day.

825
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 4: If only that were the case.

826
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,399
Speaker 1: But I agree, if it's like a one off, he's

827
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 1: had a long week and he's started, he just wants

828
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: to decompress and watch the show. But if it's like

829
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 1: every time she's offering, well.

830
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 5: Well, I think the difference here is because I don't

831
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 5: think it's a bad sign. Like I've I've wanted to

832
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 5: and he's not wanted to. But I like, I'm ready

833
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 5: to go every day. So it's not like this like

834
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 5: exciting thing, do you know what I mean? Like I

835
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 5: it is what it is, but the fact that they

836
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:49,399
Speaker 5: aren't having it, they are not having sex and then

837
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 5: she's tried and he turned it down that you know,

838
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 5: that hurts I think more because it's not like they

839
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 5: just had sex the day before, you know what I mean.

840
00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

841
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe talk to someone about it and try to

842
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: figure out because remember when we had that sex therapist

843
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: on and did.

844
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 3: We have a sex therapist on? No?

845
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a sex like couple therapists, and she has

846
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: like she had like the show where they figure out

847
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: their styles of.

848
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 3: We did have someone yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah we

849
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 3: did trying to make me feel trying to gaslight me.

850
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 1: No, So I remember I found it so interesting because

851
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: she was like trying to find like what turned your

852
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 1: partner on and like what it is, like.

853
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,760
Speaker 2: The languages of sex or something.

854
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: Yes, I think that is so such valuable information because

855
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: it could be figuring out what it is that gets

856
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: him in the mood because it might just be different

857
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: than what gets you in the mood, and if it

858
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,399
Speaker 1: could be like a date before or something that makes

859
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: y'all feel connected, so that that that natural progression of

860
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 1: sex is like open for him. He might just be

861
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 1: like shut down right now, not feeling like intimate or

862
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 1: connected with you. And I think it's like refinding that

863
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 1: those things that excite you about each other.

864
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 3: Because I've heard.

865
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: From every single person that I know that's had kids,

866
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: especially in those first years. Mark, I feel like we've

867
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 1: talked about this that it's hard and like intimacy and

868
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 1: trying to connect with their partner is just different. It's

869
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 1: a different phase of life.

870
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 3: It is.

871
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,919
Speaker 1: You have like a baby that you're trying to I bet,

872
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 1: and so it might just be an adjustment.

873
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 4: And you know how like guys are like afraid to

874
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 4: do it when you're pregnant because they think they're going

875
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 4: to hurt the baby or something, you know, the silly things.

876
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 4: But you know, we have that in mind because everything's different.

877
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,280
Speaker 4: And even after you have the baby, things are different.

878
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,919
Speaker 4: Your boobs are now feeding your children, Like it's weird

879
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 4: to be like excited for them when they're actually generating. YEA,

880
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 4: so body it's much more functional now and I don't

881
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 4: and it's so it's a weird. It's not that it's

882
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,959
Speaker 4: not sexy anymore, because it absolutely can be. But guys,

883
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 4: I think are a little freaked out by some of

884
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 4: those changes and and so there might be something to that.

885
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 4: But I think Becky, you're right, you should have a

886
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 4: conversation like what turns you on? Yeah, if you were to,

887
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 4: you mentioned watching porn, If you were to, what do

888
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Speaker 4: you like to watch? What are you into? And maybe

889
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 4: we can incorporate some of that in the bedroom if

890
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 4: it's not too.

891
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 3: Weird or if it's not.

892
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 4: But I think there's a conversation there because you could

893
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 4: be freaked out by certain things. He doesn't want to

894
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 4: mention because it doesn't want to hurt your feelings, But

895
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 4: it would be that you know what that is, And maybe.

896
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 5: It is maybe it is exactly that, Like he sees

897
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 5: the boobs as like his child's food supplies, if he

898
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 5: doesn't want to suck on them and accidentally get some

899
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 5: of the food, you know what I mean?

900
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, And the kids just came out of the other area.

901
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 4: It's weird for you to want to do things to

902
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 4: that area that just created life.

903
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 5: It's weird, right, you know, I didn't even think of

904
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 5: it like that, Like, you're not gonna smack.

905
00:39:50,000 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 10: My, I'm sorry, smack your What what's he smacking that

906
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:04,840
Speaker 10: sounds so painful?

907
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 3: Anything other? What is he smacking? Not the smack.

908
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 2: The thing is he's not smacking it, okay, he's not.

909
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 3: Just upset to know that he does. That's really upsetting.

910
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: There's something about the space bunds that makes it more.

911
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 5: The first are also loose, like they're super loose, so

912
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 5: I feel like they're.

913
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: Like jiggling on my head.

914
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 3: Man.

915
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well any next question?

916
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:52,720
Speaker 3: Mark?

917
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 4: All right, well shall we? I mean, we're getting towards

918
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 4: the end of our time.

919
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 2: We should wrap it up.

920
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 4: We can jump to the fun one. Yeah, yeah, let's

921
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,799
Speaker 4: This is from mollyhi Beckatania Mark and Eastern Day one

922
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 4: scrubber Here. This is a fun question that I ask

923
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 4: my friends and people I meet and find that they

924
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 4: be telling of who they are and their personality. You

925
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 4: all may have experienced this already, especially Tanya. But who

926
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 4: is a celebrity that you know that you know you

927
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 4: would hit it off with and become friends with if

928
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 4: you met them organically at a bar and why or

929
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 4: in the case of U four, a work or an

930
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 4: influencer event, And if this has happened already. Who is it?

931
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 4: Mine has always been Jamie Lee Curtis. I have no

932
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 4: real reason to believe this, but I just know in

933
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 4: my heart to be true. She wants to hear our thoughts.

934
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 4: So celebrity, you just know, maybe you've never met them,

935
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 4: you just know that if you did meet them, you

936
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 4: guys would hit it off and you'd be besties. I

937
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 4: got one. I can go first, Jason Bateman. I think

938
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 4: Jason Bateman and I would be best friends.

939
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

940
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're similar age, our kids are similar age. I

941
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 4: always think he's great in his movies and such. He's

942
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 4: a baseball fan. I think we'd be good friends.

943
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 2: Good one. That's actually a really good one.

944
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 3: Do you have anyone off the top of your head,

945
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 3: So off the top of my head.

946
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:05,879
Speaker 4: You can't say Kayler.

947
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 5: Top of my head. I want to say Chloe Kardashian,

948
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 5: Oh that's a good one, thank you, or Courtney Kardashian

949
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 5: or Kim kard I honestly, all the Kardashians adopt me.

950
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 2: I'm kidding. Yeah, I feel like I feel like all

951
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:28,439
Speaker 2: of them. Weirdly, I feel like, yeah, they.

952
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,280
Speaker 4: Would love you, they'd want you hanging out at the mansion.

953
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like maybe Chloe Moore, maybe Courtney Moore.

954
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's a toss up.

955
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 5: You could really just hit And I think Kendall and

956
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 5: Kylie would enjoy me as well.

957
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 4: Sure, kind of like an aunt.

958
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I always feel that way with Kylie Jenner.

959
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, that shots fire came over that comment. Uh, that's

960
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 5: kind of where my brain went. Was the Kardashian clan

961
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 5: and Chris Jenner. I'd a that holiday party.

962
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 2: I feel like it'd be fun times.

963
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 3: It's so basic to say this, but I always feel it.

964
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 2: When I know what you're gonna say. Jennifer Anderson, No,

965
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 2: I bet you would, though I do.

966
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 3: I think so too.

967
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 1: But I was gonna say Taylor Swift, like I just

968
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: feel like, I literally feel like if we just like

969
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: hung out and had a conversation that like outside of

970
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: her fame world, that we would be friends.

971
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she's so famous.

972
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, it changes people.

973
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 3: I don't think it changes her. I just don't know

974
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 3: that she has time for me.

975
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 4: I think that level of fame cannot help but change people.

976
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 1: I agree, Oh yeah, because every friend you make you

977
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 1: have to go like, yeah, why are do they just

978
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: would they be friends with me without the success.

979
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 9: Right.

980
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, there was somebody I saw interviewed recently and I

981
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: was like, she is so funny and I feel like

982
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 1: I could be like, she has the humor that I love.

983
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 3: But I can't remember who it was, but it was like.

984
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:58,720
Speaker 5: A Drew Barrymore, no man love her, but no Martha Stewart,

985
00:43:58,880 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 5: no Ben Hathaway.

986
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: Someone wrote me on Instagram and said they worked for

987
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: her and they worked in a store and they all

988
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: used to fight over like not wanting to help her

989
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 1: because she was so rude.

990
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 5: I imagine, Yeah, I imagine that she's quite prickly.

991
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, Like I don't know that she'd be the

992
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 3: one that i'd have.

993
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 2: A dinner party with.

994
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree, but she's fascinating. Yeah yeah, So

995
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: I guess it's so basic, but I think Taylor.

996
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 2: I know, I went basic too with the Kardashians.

997
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 3: I'm doing.

998
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 2: My My FIRSTLF.

999
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,280
Speaker 1: Was Kylie Jenner because every time I see her videos,

1000
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: I think she's so funny, and I really I think

1001
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 1: the Kardashians were a good one.

1002
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 2: Thank you not to scroll then, yeah.

1003
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Speaker 3: You don't need to. I was scrolling millennial woman.

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Speaker 8: Celeb Yeah wow, all right, well that's all for now,

1005
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 8: but we will be back on Monday.

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00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, stay tuned for that. We can't wait. Have a

1007
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 1: great weekend.

1008
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 3: We love you, somebody love you.

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Speaker 10: Bye mhm.