Speaker 1: Hey Eastern, can you bring us in please? Hey? I
Speaker 1: Suck at Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared and I
Speaker 1: heart radio podcast with Dean, Jason and Jared. This wonderful
Speaker 1: day in Las Vegas. We're suck at Dating in Vegas.
Speaker 1: We're recording live from the most pop and pool party
Speaker 1: in all of Las Vegas. And when I say that,
Speaker 1: I'm being a little bit facetious. Um. Anyways, thank you
Speaker 1: so much for joining us on this week's episode of
Speaker 1: help I Suck At Dating. I'm Dean, joined in Studio
Speaker 1: by in Studio also known as the Cabana next to
Speaker 1: the Planet Hollywood Pool. We have a very special co
Speaker 1: host with us today, not just a guest, but a
Speaker 1: co host who is going to help guide this entire podcast.
Speaker 1: You know him, you love him. Weighing at a hund
Speaker 1: ninety pounds, standing tall at six ft two, Jason, I
Speaker 1: don't want to say your last day and got the
Speaker 1: from Buffalo, New York. Come on from Buffalo, Buffalo. You
Speaker 1: are just so I know this is a podcast. You
Speaker 1: guys can't see. I just want to give you a
Speaker 1: play by play. Jason right now is eating some buffalo
Speaker 1: wings with ranch sauce. Ladies and gentlemen. I agree that
Speaker 1: it's fake news because you're so publicly blue cheese and
Speaker 1: here you are using ranch differ in your chicken wings
Speaker 1: chicken wings. I don't eat Vegas chicken wings, first of all,
Speaker 1: the second of all, the tat times. Anyways, thank you
Speaker 1: so much for joining us here. We do appreciate you
Speaker 1: having here. So why aren't you the bachelor? What's going on? Whyn't?
Speaker 1: Let's get right into it, get right into it. I
Speaker 1: don't know. That's a decision you did or a question
Speaker 1: you have to ask someone else. I was. I was
Speaker 1: willing to do it. And uh, it's all good. One
Speaker 1: chapter ends, another begins, so we'll see. Well, you definitely
Speaker 1: have a positive attitude about it, which is really good.
Speaker 1: So what's dating life been, Poscho, Yeah, it's been. It's
Speaker 1: been different, right, I mean, so for me, I'm looking
Speaker 1: for someone like with quality and the right intentions, and
Speaker 1: it's different. But here's the thing is, because before you
Speaker 1: went on TV, you were a very like sought after
Speaker 1: attractive You're you're still the same like attractive person that
Speaker 1: you are now, right, And so it's you. You made
Speaker 1: it sound like a question like right, Well, the point.
Speaker 1: The point is like before I want I was just
Speaker 1: a dumbass. I'm sorry for cursing. I was just some
Speaker 1: dummy who worked as a recruiter in Los Angeles. But Jason,
Speaker 1: I feel it was always kind of a guy that
Speaker 1: would be like people like I wanted to be with you, Right,
Speaker 1: that's nice to you. Well, I can only imagine. Again,
Speaker 1: I don't know even the show, and so it's I'm
Speaker 1: sure it's changed for you to some extent, but like,
Speaker 1: how has it really like Obviously, like people you go out,
Speaker 1: like people notice you and recognize you, like all that
Speaker 1: kind of stuff, But I don't necessarily imagine it being
Speaker 1: that different for you. To me, it's it's not entirely different.
Speaker 1: I think obviously it opens doors and intros to people
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't have met otherwise. But for me, it's
Speaker 1: like I don't like being so public with everything I
Speaker 1: feel like. And then you go on a date and
Speaker 1: you go on rend at the next day and people
Speaker 1: are talking about who it was, or you don't go
Speaker 1: on a date, you just go to coffee with a
Speaker 1: friend and you're new to a city and you have
Speaker 1: people saying, oh they're dating, they're kissing they're holding hands,
Speaker 1: et cetera. So for me, it's the whole public aspect
Speaker 1: of it. That's just it kind of yeah, it's like
Speaker 1: it's just different. It's just different. I was talking to Blake.
Speaker 1: It's like you could go to lunch with your cousin
Speaker 1: or something like that, and people are like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: who is this. Who's he dating? One sudden, you're dating
Speaker 1: your cousin. It's that we don't do that in Buffalo.
Speaker 1: I remember one time in a restaurant back home. I
Speaker 1: was out one night and this waitress at this restaurant
Speaker 1: called Basos to go to all the time. Long story short,
Speaker 1: So one of the waitresses that worked there at a
Speaker 1: at a different bar and I said, oh, hey, what's up.
Speaker 1: I recognize from the restaurant. She's like, yeah, you coming
Speaker 1: all the time. You're the one who always brings in dates.
Speaker 1: I was like what. She's like, yeah, every time you
Speaker 1: come in, you're with a different girl. And then I
Speaker 1: was like, and I remember I went on a date
Speaker 1: there one time, and I was like, that was one time.
Speaker 1: Why did they think I'm with all these different girls?
Speaker 1: And then I realized because I go in there with
Speaker 1: my sister one of my best friends who's a girl
Speaker 1: my cousin. And I was like, oh my god, they
Speaker 1: think I'm all dating this girl. But it's the same thing, right,
Speaker 1: It's this guy from The Bachelor coming in with all
Speaker 1: these differ women. So oh, he's just bringing He's just
Speaker 1: dating seventeen girls at one time. You get this like,
Speaker 1: there's a good story with Taylor. Actually we talked about Taylor.
Speaker 1: So Taylor was so nice. She reached out and she said, hey,
Speaker 1: I know you're new to Seattle. If you ever want
Speaker 1: to get together, I could show the places to go
Speaker 1: and things to do. So we got together, very casual,
Speaker 1: very friendly, and um we left and as we left,
Speaker 1: some guy said, hey, can I take a picture of
Speaker 1: you with you? So he's like, all right, get together
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, don't you want to be in
Speaker 1: the picture? Isn't that the premises. He's like, oh, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: So then he jumps in the picture, takes it, we
Speaker 1: walked away say goodbye. I'm like that was kind of weird, right,
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, that was weird. Two hours later he's
Speaker 1: all over the internet saying dating and everything, and literally
Speaker 1: it was very just very friendly it was very nice
Speaker 1: for her to reach out. She's an awesome person, but
Speaker 1: it was nothing more than welcome to Seattle and some
Speaker 1: places to check out. So you're dating Taylor, Now, I
Speaker 1: am not Taylor. She's great, but I'm just It's another
Speaker 1: example totally exactly. Um, I don't think I have any
Speaker 1: stories of that specific situation, but yeah, it's like you
Speaker 1: go anywhere with anyone and then all of a sudden
Speaker 1: and it dies down. It dies down a little bit.
Speaker 1: Like I was talking to Blake about this either day too.
Speaker 1: Um it's like maybe like the first couple of months afterwards,
Speaker 1: everyone's like super hyper involved in your love life, right,
Speaker 1: and um it a year removed from my experience is
Speaker 1: like people care a lot less now, which is great,
Speaker 1: Like it's you can you can be more I guess
Speaker 1: natural and that type of stuff. Um, but yeah, like
Speaker 1: I think it's said discovery. You know, when you're starting
Speaker 1: to date someone, there's a discovery phase like are you
Speaker 1: gonna date them or you're not gonna date them? It's
Speaker 1: gonna get serious? Is it gonna last? As a long
Speaker 1: distance is not that tough? That process is like so
Speaker 1: much more difficult now because as you're like kind of
Speaker 1: treading through the water and trying to get to know
Speaker 1: someone to see if that's gonna work out that direction.
Speaker 1: There are so many things being said about where you're
Speaker 1: going and what you're doing and how it's So I
Speaker 1: went on a date last week actually that uh, this
Speaker 1: is actually an important conversation for us to talk about.
Speaker 1: I feel like is I went on a date. We
Speaker 1: went to a baseball game, and I was like, we
Speaker 1: were driving home and she was like, yeah, Like I
Speaker 1: was pretty hesitant to date you because your life is
Speaker 1: so public and I want my life to be super private,
Speaker 1: Like I'm a very private person. And she so she said,
Speaker 1: like the barrier to entry for this date to me
Speaker 1: was the fact that I don't want my life to
Speaker 1: be publicized so much. And I was like, well, obviously,
Speaker 1: like if we were to ever get to the point
Speaker 1: of being girlfriend boyfriend, like I would respect that and
Speaker 1: I wouldn't like plaster your face all over my Instagram
Speaker 1: like that kind of thing. But it was a very
Speaker 1: weird thing to hear, Like this girl was very verbally
Speaker 1: like she was very aware of the fact that like
Speaker 1: if she were to date me, then she would then
Speaker 1: become like this person where her help personal life would
Speaker 1: then become published would be girlfriend, right, And that's no,
Speaker 1: that's like an action. The first time I've heard it
Speaker 1: was the first time I had heard it, and I
Speaker 1: was like, that's do you make an incredible point. I
Speaker 1: would never obviously want to make you, uh, force me
Speaker 1: in a position that makes you uncomfortable, but like that's
Speaker 1: something that now has to be taken into conistration when
Speaker 1: dating Jackson or Dean. Obviously, Jared's engaged to Ashley, who
Speaker 1: you know, you know, we've got our own feelings about Actually,
Speaker 1: of course we love her, we love her, but it's
Speaker 1: a weird thing for the single people that you know,
Speaker 1: in my personal experience, I would say, if it were
Speaker 1: up to me, I would not ever be in a
Speaker 1: bachelor relationship again. And so now when I'm dating people
Speaker 1: that aren't part of Bachelor Nation, who have not chosen
Speaker 1: to make their lives public like we have, it makes
Speaker 1: it more challenging. Yea. But even if you're in a
Speaker 1: bachelor relationship, I mean, like it's up to two people
Speaker 1: about how public or private your relationship is. You have
Speaker 1: that option, which is always good. But I think coming
Speaker 1: from an outsider who's not a part of franchise. Dating
Speaker 1: someone who is who is very much part of it,
Speaker 1: very much public figure, that does create a different dynamic
Speaker 1: because you're, right, someone who's just lived this very normal
Speaker 1: life and who hasn't, um, you know, really had the
Speaker 1: exposure or hasn't been like it's weird having people talk
Speaker 1: about you. I think that's one of the weirdest parts.
Speaker 1: And now, like, if you date someone from the franchise,
Speaker 1: you're gonna be talked about in like evaluated and judged
Speaker 1: and that's a really difficult position to be put in
Speaker 1: for sure. Um, but it's interesting too. I want to
Speaker 1: get your take on this, Jason, Like, going on dates,
Speaker 1: do you find that there's like almost a different expectation
Speaker 1: on a first date when you go and meet somebody,
Speaker 1: because you know, back when I was single before the
Speaker 1: man I'm you know, I was with the love of
Speaker 1: my life, the most beautiful woman ever. Um. Get that
Speaker 1: camera out of my face. Dean's video in me right now. Um,
Speaker 1: But I want to get your idea about this. You know,
Speaker 1: you go on a date and you meet someone for
Speaker 1: the first time, but for them, if they're a fan
Speaker 1: of the show, they know a lot about you and
Speaker 1: I think, like you said, there's this discovery about a
Speaker 1: first date that really doesn't happen when they go on
Speaker 1: a date with you because they know so much about
Speaker 1: you that I think there's different expectations on the first
Speaker 1: date for somebody who's going on a date with you. Yes, absolutely,
Speaker 1: And I don't I don't want to put, you know,
Speaker 1: any barriers against anybody. I'm curious your opinion of this. Generally,
Speaker 1: if someone is a fan of a show I'm starting off,
Speaker 1: it's a turn to exactly your point, because they already
Speaker 1: know all these things about me that I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is interesting, and someone doesn't know the show. I
Speaker 1: didn't want to interrupt Jared while he was talking, but
Speaker 1: I agree, I would almost not ten times out of ten,
Speaker 1: I would prefer someone to not know anything about me,
Speaker 1: because then you're on the same playing level. And so
Speaker 1: so for you, like I understand, like you had your
Speaker 1: time of kind of getting over the breakup with Becca,
Speaker 1: but then you like, it's been a while, so you've
Speaker 1: like started dating again. So do you notice people like
Speaker 1: already having like a like a maybe like an opinion
Speaker 1: of you in their head, or like an understanding who
Speaker 1: you are as a person because you especially went far.
Speaker 1: You got third right, so a third right apron me
Speaker 1: right exactly. But like you you introduced her your family,
Speaker 1: you her family, I'm not mistaken. And so it's like
Speaker 1: people don't necessarily have to know you to know you.
Speaker 1: And now you're dating, especially in Seattle. It's a big city,
Speaker 1: but it's kind of a small town. I feel like
Speaker 1: as well, Um, so you do you notice that or like,
Speaker 1: have you noticed that? That's interesting because on the show,
Speaker 1: you know, my best friends came to surprise me met
Speaker 1: her best friends, and she met my family right, and
Speaker 1: everyone got exposed to my parents and my brother and
Speaker 1: his relationship. And to your point, you go on the
Speaker 1: States and they're asking you about your best Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: your friend from Vancouver or your buddy from Rochester, and
Speaker 1: it's almost like, wait a second, we didn't cross that,
Speaker 1: but we didn't get we didn't get there yet. So
Speaker 1: I think that adds a different element to it. So
Speaker 1: it's the public perspective. And then you know, coupled with
Speaker 1: the whole you know, they know so much about you
Speaker 1: before you go on the dates. And again I've been
Speaker 1: I've been talking down on it because it can suck
Speaker 1: sometimes but at the same time it kind of is
Speaker 1: good because then they know what they're getting with helth into.
Speaker 1: You know, it's like, oh, you know, I've aired out
Speaker 1: my grievances for the world, and you still want to
Speaker 1: go on a date with me after seeing those things?
Speaker 1: So why would you not? Because I would think that
Speaker 1: I would be more hesitant to. But why would you
Speaker 1: not want to date someone from the franchise? There's I
Speaker 1: think you know that earlier. There's just so much pressure
Speaker 1: in it, and as I come to find out, I
Speaker 1: don't really do well, especially with the relationships when there's
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure on in them. Um, And like
Speaker 1: I said, I went on this day date recently, like
Speaker 1: I've just started dating again, maybe within the past like
Speaker 1: three or four weeks, and even then, it's like I
Speaker 1: kind of had a conversation recently where it's like, okay,
Speaker 1: like where are we gonna go after the third date?
Speaker 1: And I'm sitting there and I'm like, this is like
Speaker 1: exactly what it is. It's like, you we try to
Speaker 1: define something before it has to be defined, and that's
Speaker 1: what bachelor relationships were always like It's like okay, well,
Speaker 1: like you're a date or two into it and you're like, okay,
Speaker 1: I'll call your boyfriend girlfriend. It's like, well, can we
Speaker 1: take some time to figure this out for ourselves, And
Speaker 1: especially when it's a bachelor relationship, the public doesn't for you, right,
Speaker 1: Like if you post a picture with like we were
Speaker 1: just talking Jared and I were talking about Jordan's from
Speaker 1: New Zealand and um, Jacqueline, now it seemed to be dating,
Speaker 1: and it's like you then let people define a relationship
Speaker 1: for you so soon and the way before you like
Speaker 1: even allowed to yourself to define it for yourself. Um.
Speaker 1: And because of that, I just don't really ever see
Speaker 1: myself being in a bachelationship. It doesn't stop you though,
Speaker 1: And you could speak to this shared I mean, so
Speaker 1: you start dating then your boyfriend girlfriend. And I was
Speaker 1: just with Raven and Adam last weekend adorable love them,
Speaker 1: but all the questions about their relationship is when are
Speaker 1: you getting engaged? Why do you're moving in? Right? So
Speaker 1: it's always it's just a different phase, different questions. People
Speaker 1: want the answers, and people always want the next step.
Speaker 1: They want the next step. And don't get me wrong,
Speaker 1: there are people in vaschlation that I would definitely date
Speaker 1: like I'm interested, uh, like whatever it is interested in,
Speaker 1: but it's it's it's such a turn off for me
Speaker 1: because I'm like, okay, like I think you're cute, I
Speaker 1: think you're interesting, but I don't think I can necessarily
Speaker 1: date you because of the connotations that are the pressure
Speaker 1: that's gonna be involved with it. Well, I also think
Speaker 1: that's why Ashley and I, for a lot of reasons,
Speaker 1: but one of them, waited two months to actually come
Speaker 1: out about our relationship because we didn't want to post
Speaker 1: a picture a week into dating, be like, hey, we're
Speaker 1: dating now, because we knew that there would be a
Speaker 1: lot of outside pressure put onto it. So we wanted
Speaker 1: to be like, listen, let's take our time, let's keep
Speaker 1: this private, let's work on each other. Because once we
Speaker 1: started dating, we had an idea that this was gonna
Speaker 1: be a lifelong partnership, marriage type relationship. And then a few,
Speaker 1: you know, a week or so, honestly, like a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks in dating, and we both knew where this
Speaker 1: was going. Um, but we still wanted to wait and
Speaker 1: really just grow our love and and and and we did,
Speaker 1: like we didn't We've known each other three years, but
Speaker 1: it took like a month and a half into actually
Speaker 1: dating before I wanted to drop the L word on um,
Speaker 1: and that was cool. There was no pressure. It was
Speaker 1: just like a very natural progression, which was really nice
Speaker 1: to have. So I can understand your hesitations about dating
Speaker 1: someone within the Bachelor franchise because there is this pressure
Speaker 1: of like, oh, well, you're there for love, so now
Speaker 1: you guys are in love, you're gonna get married. And
Speaker 1: this is the most fantastic thing I've ever seen when
Speaker 1: it's like, well, we were just two people dating trying
Speaker 1: to figure things out, like we don't know if it's
Speaker 1: gonna work out or not. We have no idea. Um, Jason,
Speaker 1: is there anyone in Bachelor World that you're interested in?
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you. I gotta you didn't even answer
Speaker 1: my question. There's someone that I've never met personally that
Speaker 1: I have texted a few times that I have a
Speaker 1: very harmless schoolgirl crushed on. What season was she on?
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna tell you. That'll definitely give it a
Speaker 1: was she on the past? Either are your NIX season? Now?
Speaker 1: She wasn't. She's an old school O. G O, G
Speaker 1: Wait what about you, though, Jason? I have to see.
Speaker 1: I think you know, I already got Colton right now recruiting.
Speaker 1: He's saying the ones that I don't like that. I
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna up and I already told some of
Speaker 1: the producers I'm like, having my back here, let's go,
Speaker 1: let's find this. So, um, I'm gonna hold off on
Speaker 1: that one. So would you be open to the idea
Speaker 1: of doing Paradise next year? I would be? Yep, absolutely,
Speaker 1: I was this past summer. Absolutely not. I just wasn't
Speaker 1: ready for us. Yeah, And I wouldn't do it unless
Speaker 1: I was ready. Um, But for next summer, yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll be on the beach together. Who knows? Blake,
Speaker 1: would you do it for those ladies? And studio are Cabana?
Speaker 1: I just got over here, Come over, Blake? Should we
Speaker 1: go rock? We got? We needed a studio and so
Speaker 1: so Blake, what's up? Joined This has helped I suckon dating.
Speaker 1: You're on the podcast with Dean, Jason and myself. So
Speaker 1: what's going on? How's life, bro? How's the life post Bachelor?
Speaker 1: It's good? It it's good, it really is. It's it's
Speaker 1: a strange feeling. It's pretty surreal, but it's fun. Um.
Speaker 1: It's a weird platform. That's what I saying. This is
Speaker 1: what I always say. It's like a cool it's a
Speaker 1: weird platform that we've been given where we kind of
Speaker 1: like we can you know, we meet people, we can
Speaker 1: make a smile just by being ourselves, you know, which
Speaker 1: is really fun. That's a weird thing to be able
Speaker 1: to do. So that's fun. Um And obviously, you know,
Speaker 1: dating again. You know, I'm back out there, so that's fun.
Speaker 1: So yeah, so you're are you? Are you single? I
Speaker 1: am single? I am single. No more competing for the
Speaker 1: same girl, though, Can we all agree on that we're
Speaker 1: done with that until you guys both go on paradise
Speaker 1: and like the same girl. It's always gonna work out that.
Speaker 1: What a lucky girl that will be. I imagine being
Speaker 1: a having to choose between Jason and Blakes, like the
Speaker 1: luckiest girl in the world girl and flush out here.
Speaker 1: It's already hot. I will say Becca. I met Becca,
Speaker 1: and she's a sweetheart. The fact that she had Garrett,
Speaker 1: who I've never actually met personally but seems like a
Speaker 1: great guy. Blake, Jason and Colton, who obviously we all adore.
Speaker 1: The luckiest girl in the world. Maybe the best final
Speaker 1: four I've ever personally seen. Great. I'm not a big
Speaker 1: fanner reality television. I didn't really watch many seasons, but
Speaker 1: absolutely actually always says it was the best top four
Speaker 1: since Caitlyn season. So that's a that's a pretty good one.
Speaker 1: What about Dean, Peter and Brian and Eric that's okay. Anyways,
Speaker 1: she loves you guys too, anyway. Okay, So for the
Speaker 1: listeners out there, me, we went out last night, not
Speaker 1: so not so much Jared because he's a married man.
Speaker 1: I was back in the room by eleven o'clock. Jason
Speaker 1: and I'm looking forward to Yeah, Yeah, we all are Blake. Jason, myself,
Speaker 1: Ben Higgins, Nick, and a couple other buddies went out
Speaker 1: to uh pool party last night and Vegan and I
Speaker 1: just need to take another minute to let Jason blush
Speaker 1: real quick, because this man's ability to open is hero
Speaker 1: to the point where he needs to. He's maybe the
Speaker 1: best wing man out there, America's wing man. They were
Speaker 1: sitting on a bed at a pool last night, like
Speaker 1: just drinking whatever it is, and I look over at Jason.
Speaker 1: I was like, Jason, that girl over there's really really cute.
Speaker 1: He like tasking on the show. He's like, didn't come
Speaker 1: here real quick. Literally, we walk fifty ft over to
Speaker 1: this girl. We walk up to her, and Jason like
Speaker 1: leans in, is like, hey, my friend. I don't know
Speaker 1: what exactly what he said. I would imagine it's along
Speaker 1: the lines of, Hey, my friend over there thinks you're
Speaker 1: really cute. I'm just like standing there like a freaking nerd,
Speaker 1: sipping my drink. And it was three girls and one guy,
Speaker 1: and you could tell this guy was so upset. He
Speaker 1: was He's like, these two guys came over and the
Speaker 1: trying to steal all three of my girls. I just
Speaker 1: I needed to take a moment just to appreciate Jason
Speaker 1: for his ability and willingness to help my pledge. That's
Speaker 1: the New York of me, right something, go get it all? Right? So,
Speaker 1: Jason Blake, what's your go to opening line? Like, if
Speaker 1: you're going to if you're going walking up to a
Speaker 1: girl here at the Veiggas pool party to hit on them,
Speaker 1: what would your opening line be? Real, I'll go first.
Speaker 1: I'm not a big opening line kind of guy. And
Speaker 1: here's why. I think an opening line for everyone out there,
Speaker 1: all the males out there listening, I think an opening
Speaker 1: line instantly brings someone's guard up. Okay, so you drop
Speaker 1: some line and you do some stupid thing and you
Speaker 1: try and get attention, and instantly their guards up. I'm
Speaker 1: the opposite. I want to be like, listen, I'm not
Speaker 1: here for anything, just to say hello. Like there's there's
Speaker 1: no pressure, there's nothing. You don't have to do any anything,
Speaker 1: you don't have to accept the drink. I just want
Speaker 1: to say hello. I noticed you across the bar and
Speaker 1: I wanted to say hello. Yeah, actually agree, I do.
Speaker 1: So there's two things not that I have, like two
Speaker 1: things I do every time, but I always use self
Speaker 1: deprecating humor like they let their guard down. And then
Speaker 1: also I dance. I usually grab them and dance like
Speaker 1: you would do the same. You are a big line
Speaker 1: dancer dancing. So yeah, that's why I always go to
Speaker 1: the bars that have like dance words and stuff, because
Speaker 1: that's the easiest opener ever. You just want to dance.
Speaker 1: You start spinning around. I will say, Blake, can you
Speaker 1: confirm the funniest thing last night? Because we're all hanging out,
Speaker 1: we made the intro to Dean. He's talking about this
Speaker 1: girl NonStop. So ten minutes where everyone's like where his
Speaker 1: team and what do you know? Like he's like slowly
Speaker 1: mozying over there, trying to like get back in. She's
Speaker 1: the most beautiful girl you see in my life. I
Speaker 1: heard that undertimes record she was. I didn't get her
Speaker 1: number because angels don't have cell phones. But the point,
Speaker 1: there's a line, there's a line. I remember. Eventually we
Speaker 1: convinced the guy who was who hated us again, we
Speaker 1: convince him to come over and take a shot with us,
Speaker 1: and then I mentioned he became our good friend. I
Speaker 1: feel like it's like hanging out with the sung that.
Speaker 1: I mean, let's not put the all the pressure on
Speaker 1: me here. I feel like you guys also had women
Speaker 1: walking to you last night. You guys always have women
Speaker 1: flocking to It's so funny. You talk about opening lines, though,
Speaker 1: and you don't have one because Dina, I've talked about
Speaker 1: this on the podcast before. We totally agree the best
Speaker 1: thing to do is go up to a girl and
Speaker 1: just say, hey, how are you. I'm Jared, I'm Dean.
Speaker 1: It's always the best approach and guys need to take
Speaker 1: advice to that. But I remember one time, so I
Speaker 1: would always do this but a few years back, I
Speaker 1: came to Vegas a couple of my boys and like,
Speaker 1: for some reason, you get in the mode, you have
Speaker 1: a couple of drinks, you're like, Okay, I'm feeling it.
Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing this time. So there's these
Speaker 1: girls in the pool and I looked at my buddy
Speaker 1: and was like, you come after wait here five minutes
Speaker 1: and then you come behind me and I start going
Speaker 1: to these girls like what are you doing? And I
Speaker 1: was like, I got this. I got this. So I
Speaker 1: go out to the girls and literally it was the
Speaker 1: most awkward thing ever because I'm swimming up to them
Speaker 1: and they see me coming and it's like two or
Speaker 1: three girls and they're just and they're still. I'm swimming
Speaker 1: like it's like fifteen to twenty ft, so it takes
Speaker 1: me a good like eight seconds to get there and
Speaker 1: they're just staring at me. And then I get over
Speaker 1: there and I'm like, Hey, what's up? And then literally
Speaker 1: had to keep the conversation trying to go for like
Speaker 1: four minutes. Finally my buddy came swimming behind me, and
Speaker 1: I was like, this is the dumbest thing I've ever
Speaker 1: done in my entire life. What the hell am I
Speaker 1: thinking that was the only time I tried like an
Speaker 1: opening line. Here's the thing with those things, that is
Speaker 1: when you're when you feel responsible for starting the conversation.
Speaker 1: So I was playing basketball the other night with someone.
Speaker 1: But some of my buddies in um like West Hollywood
Speaker 1: or something like that, and one of my friends like
Speaker 1: brought a girl who's friends with and I was like
Speaker 1: trying to have a conversation with her. And if you
Speaker 1: have to try to continue, like to allow a conversation
Speaker 1: to continue to happen, it's probably just not funny. Just
Speaker 1: like let it go, like let it go, like Okay,
Speaker 1: she's cute. Show. But I don't want to have to
Speaker 1: always be responsible for like guiding conversation, you know. Like,
Speaker 1: but if someone does have the chops, male or female
Speaker 1: to come up to you and swim across the pool
Speaker 1: to say hello, I think you should respect that right
Speaker 1: because it's not an easy thing to do, is to
Speaker 1: come up someone cold called and just say hello. To
Speaker 1: walk up to is not flowing and there's not chemistry,
Speaker 1: then that's a red flag. So the first conversation doesn't
Speaker 1: go well, is that it it's over? Move on, I
Speaker 1: would say, almost Yes, I agree. I think if you don't,
Speaker 1: if you don't have that initial connection to that initial
Speaker 1: conversation spark, you don't, I don't think it comes later, right,
Speaker 1: I don't. I might disagree with that. So suppose that
Speaker 1: you're into this girl and like you, you have the butterflies,
Speaker 1: she makes you a little nervous or something, and you're
Speaker 1: not being yourself because you're so like attracted physically. Do
Speaker 1: you think she's the angel at the angel? I mean
Speaker 1: you wouldn't give it another shot because I would. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I think that, okay, maybe
Speaker 1: gave it a second try. But also it's like if
Speaker 1: that's indicative of what it's going to be like for
Speaker 1: the rest of your life as a potential relationship, It's
Speaker 1: just like, do you do you want that? Maybe some
Speaker 1: people do. I personally don't want to feel like I'm
Speaker 1: responsible for God in conversations. But it's also hard. Like
Speaker 1: my sister went on a first day with a guy
Speaker 1: and it went really it went well, So she went
Speaker 1: on a second date. Second day did not go as well,
Speaker 1: nearly as well, and she was really going back and
Speaker 1: forth whether she wanted to go back on a third day,
Speaker 1: went back on a third day, and now she married him.
Speaker 1: So it's like it's hard because we always say like
Speaker 1: the three day rule, like we've had if he had
Speaker 1: life coaches come on saying like you need to go
Speaker 1: on three days with somebody before you can really tell
Speaker 1: whether it's going somewhere or not. But he is he
Speaker 1: punching out of his weight classes. She's like, is she
Speaker 1: too good for him? Kind of thing? You know, they're
Speaker 1: both equal. First all, nobody's good enough to day my sister,
Speaker 1: so I had, but but he's awesome. This has me
Speaker 1: thinking though, in two thousand eighteen, how are people meeting? Right?
Speaker 1: I mean, so you're meeting on bumble or tender television meeting,
Speaker 1: you're going to reality TV shows Like I wonder how
Speaker 1: are people meeting today? And I always think about like
Speaker 1: where am I going to meet my future wife? Or
Speaker 1: have I met her? I have an answer we have.
Speaker 1: We have one of our friends, Brittany here, who's sitting
Speaker 1: right next to us. Hey, Brittany and Brittany, how did
Speaker 1: you meet your boyfriend? Oh? Yeah, please lay in. I
Speaker 1: love those shoes by the way, um m me on
Speaker 1: Instagram DM is like Instagram is the new dating app.
Speaker 1: I advocated slide into d M. So here's appen. So
Speaker 1: would you rather Brittany this question for you? Would you
Speaker 1: rather a guy slide into your d M s and
Speaker 1: or would you rather him like tweet you or comment
Speaker 1: publicly like would you rather a problem DM or more
Speaker 1: of like a shout out you don't want to shout
Speaker 1: out private M What if? What if you don't see
Speaker 1: the d M? I didn't see it, and then he
Speaker 1: tried again four weeks later, and then I thought, I
Speaker 1: will say the unsend feature on Instagram is maybe the
Speaker 1: most revolutionary piece of technology that's ever happened. But I
Speaker 1: also quickly want to say this. A lot of people
Speaker 1: will come up to say, oh, I d M. Do
Speaker 1: you didn't respond? There's that whole other section in d M.
Speaker 1: So if you're not, if you don't someone you going
Speaker 1: to the request folder and if you don't see that,
Speaker 1: that's why, because you're ignoring. But it's also different somebody
Speaker 1: trying to d M, for example, you or Blake, because
Speaker 1: you guys were getting flooded with d ms right now,
Speaker 1: like it's you you. Since sitting down here, you've probably
Speaker 1: gotten seventeen new DM s. I will say, I do
Speaker 1: have actually an interesting story about how I met the
Speaker 1: girl that I went on a date with just recently
Speaker 1: this past week, and I was just talking about earlier.
Speaker 1: Before we do that, I do want to give a
Speaker 1: shout out to Jet Suite X, who actually was the
Speaker 1: airline that flew us out here from Los Angeles. It
Speaker 1: was awesome. I'm I was. I'm always a nervous wreck
Speaker 1: on small planes, but Jet Sweet X was amazing. It's
Speaker 1: far better than I could have possibly imagine. It's funny too,
Speaker 1: because so what you we do is we showed up
Speaker 1: to Burbank at a hangar. The private jet whatever it was,
Speaker 1: was literally sitting right there at the hanging. We have
Speaker 1: to go through security, nothing like that, literally no line.
Speaker 1: And Jared leans into me, he goes, I hate small airplane.
Speaker 1: I'm terrible. I'm not a big flyer to begin with,
Speaker 1: and small airplanes, I just you can feel every bump.
Speaker 1: I'm just a nervous wreck. And I was completely fine
Speaker 1: on Jet Sweet They made the experience actually really fun.
Speaker 1: Diana and I were playing bags in the hangar or
Speaker 1: a flight. We literally showed up twenty minutes before a flight,
Speaker 1: played a game of bags and then got en a
Speaker 1: flight to Las Vegas, which blows my mind to this day.
Speaker 1: Jet sweet X is incredible if you're considering traveling any
Speaker 1: amount of distance. I'm not sure exactly how far they fly,
Speaker 1: but definitely check it out. We flew from Los Angeles
Speaker 1: to Las Vegas. It took us, you know, fifteen minutes,
Speaker 1: however long that flight is. And I don't know if
Speaker 1: you noticed this, but we're flying super low. Maybe just
Speaker 1: something that I noticed, but say more like fetle. I
Speaker 1: don't know, just my eyes, but I do want I
Speaker 1: do want to give them a shout out real quick,
Speaker 1: because they were incredible. It was an awesome experience. I
Speaker 1: don't think I can ever fly commercial again. But the
Speaker 1: cool thing was it's like it's not commercial, but it's
Speaker 1: all also not private. It's kind of like in the middle.
Speaker 1: It's like private flying with commercial fairs, which is pretty cool.
Speaker 1: And they have business class leg room, which is really nice,
Speaker 1: so you've got plenty of room in front of you.
Speaker 1: There's free drinks, snacks, cocktails. There's no baggage charges like
Speaker 1: you can bring you can we we I checked two
Speaker 1: bags and you get charged for either one of one.
Speaker 1: It was such a great experience. So yeah, big shout
Speaker 1: out the jet sweet x um. Anyways, back to what
Speaker 1: I was talking about. So Brittany who was so gracious
Speaker 1: to share her story about how she met her boyfriend,
Speaker 1: um boyfriends, boyfriends. Uh. I will say the girl that
Speaker 1: I went on a date with, and I have been
Speaker 1: on a couple of dates with to this point, I
Speaker 1: slip into her d N. I went to a football
Speaker 1: game near the end of last year and she was
Speaker 1: there and I, I don't know, I guess I recognized her.
Speaker 1: She was a dancer for the Chargers. I pulled up
Speaker 1: like the roster on the Chargers dancers. I was like,
Speaker 1: that's her. I gotta say something. I said something fast
Speaker 1: forward obviously, like ten months later. This is pretty recent
Speaker 1: where we like just started like going on dates, you know,
Speaker 1: And I have to say, like Instagram is the new
Speaker 1: dating app. I feel like totally. I think people should stop,
Speaker 1: like go after what they want and let go of
Speaker 1: how it comes to be. So like, if you find
Speaker 1: someone really cute on Instagram, don't be ashamed to just
Speaker 1: d m them, Just d m them and see what happens.
Speaker 1: Like there's nothing wrong with being like, yeah, I met
Speaker 1: my husband on Instagram. You met your husband, you met
Speaker 1: the person you're supposed to spend the rest of your
Speaker 1: life with. That's the most important thing, not how you
Speaker 1: met them. The fact is that you met them. So
Speaker 1: I agree. And I'm all for dating apps too, Like
Speaker 1: you know, I'm all for Bumble and Hinge and we
Speaker 1: know we know Blake's on Bumble good good transition, which
Speaker 1: is great. I mean I'm on Bumble too. Hey why yeah,
Speaker 1: according on my Instagram, we're not I'm gonna I'm gonna
Speaker 1: on match dot com. I'm gonna have to check. I
Speaker 1: want to go back to if you guys answer a
Speaker 1: couple ms here and there, if they get super witty,
Speaker 1: like I love this funny. There are things respond I
Speaker 1: don't respond to. The things I definitely respond. Most you
Speaker 1: are when people say that their fans of the podcast.
Speaker 1: I like to support and acknowledge that people that say that, Um,
Speaker 1: but yes, I'll respond every once in a while. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but saying marry me, I love you and there. And
Speaker 1: that's the thing too. There are some very attractive women
Speaker 1: on Instagram, but if they have like like if they
Speaker 1: say hi or something, it's like, you're not gonna respond
Speaker 1: to someone saying, yeah, you know. The other problem I
Speaker 1: have right now is my mother didn't know what Instagram
Speaker 1: was before I went on the show. I barely knew
Speaker 1: what it was. I think I had five posts. Well
Speaker 1: now every time I bring someone up, my mom's going
Speaker 1: on their Instagram. No, you can't date her pictures. She's
Speaker 1: showing her but you can't know if I see cleavage.
Speaker 1: So Instagram has opened up so much it allows us
Speaker 1: to stock more so than we probably should be able to.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, I feel like I know when
Speaker 1: I go on like first date or something somebody with
Speaker 1: a girl and I've already stuck her inscraped, I know
Speaker 1: she is all right. It's a crazy crazy And I
Speaker 1: was talking to Jason about this earlier because so I've
Speaker 1: lived in Denver for maybe like a year after college,
Speaker 1: and Blake living in Denver now after going on the show.
Speaker 1: It's like it's such a it's a big city, but
Speaker 1: it's also such a such a small town, right, and
Speaker 1: so it's like you can't go out. I feel like
Speaker 1: in Denver without anyone, like everyone knows who you are
Speaker 1: basically at this point. Right, Oh, absolutely I go out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I do, Like if I got to a bar. It's
Speaker 1: like a meat and great in the corner one hide
Speaker 1: and they're all you know, it's like, ah, yeah, it's this.
Speaker 1: This is really funny. Back to D M S. I'm
Speaker 1: talking about Denver because it's the act to the important
Speaker 1: stuff DM. So if I go to New York or Chicago,
Speaker 1: people will just come right up. There's no question they
Speaker 1: want to talk to you. They ask, they want to
Speaker 1: have conversation. Now I want him. In Seattle, It's like
Speaker 1: a joke amongst my friends. I'll go to a restaurant,
Speaker 1: I'll go to a bar, I'll go to a cafe.
Speaker 1: No one will say a word, which is fine and
Speaker 1: it worries and then I leave and within ten minutes.
Speaker 1: So it's interesting different cultures. Like that's actually really good
Speaker 1: point because the same as like if you were at
Speaker 1: a restaurant, instead of saying hi to the bartender, you
Speaker 1: leave your number on a cocktail napkin. It's like the
Speaker 1: electronics the cocktail. Now, wow, you're right, so perplexing, I
Speaker 1: will say. So, I don't know if you guys have
Speaker 1: been to New York. I'm sure you have since the show,
Speaker 1: and New Yorkers are very vocal about their love for
Speaker 1: the show, which is great, but there's no place like
Speaker 1: New York after going on the Bachelorette because people will
Speaker 1: stop you every second, and which is likened to open
Speaker 1: those doors. Yeah, New York. I appreciated spect but you
Speaker 1: literally cannot walk more than fifty in New York, especially
Speaker 1: coming right off the show without someone stopping you and
Speaker 1: saying hi, which is fun, but it also gets exhausting
Speaker 1: and it makes uh talking to Jason about this earlier
Speaker 1: about how it's difficult to date someone because of that, right,
Speaker 1: and so like Blake, I would imagine you've moved on
Speaker 1: since your last relationship, right, so you're like you're dating
Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. It's it's so much. It's
Speaker 1: like a double edged sword, right, Like it opens doors,
Speaker 1: but it also makes it more difficult to date someone
Speaker 1: after the opportunities to date are a lot more. But yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: you don't know their intentions more or less or if
Speaker 1: they are if they have, you know, watch the show
Speaker 1: and they think that's what's hard. Actually is I feel
Speaker 1: like every time now I meet a woman, they have
Speaker 1: this idea of who I am, but they don't really
Speaker 1: know who I am. You know, I have to almost
Speaker 1: live up to this whatever they build expectations. And I'll
Speaker 1: say this, there was a moment during the Bachelotte airing
Speaker 1: on my season, I was like scared to leave my
Speaker 1: house because I was like, they're portraying to me. They're
Speaker 1: portraying me to be this like really nice guy, which
Speaker 1: I think I'm a nice guy, but I've got my
Speaker 1: faults obviously, and like I'm scared to leave my house
Speaker 1: and like let someone down ruined. Yes, exactly, Like it's
Speaker 1: a weird feeling, Yeah, absolutely, And it's so true because
Speaker 1: like people will come up I'm sure they come up
Speaker 1: to you guys all the time. You're like you're the
Speaker 1: nicest guy alive, and you're like, no, no, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I mess up all the time. And it's like terrifying
Speaker 1: because there's this public image of you being like so
Speaker 1: great and it's like no, like I'm what if I
Speaker 1: do something stupid, which I'm very capable of doing, And
Speaker 1: it's it's nerve wracking. Like you said, Dean, it's like
Speaker 1: it's just hard to live up to those expectations. I
Speaker 1: wonder if we sound like douche bags right now, probably,
Speaker 1: but that's nothing new for us. They're like, oh god,
Speaker 1: it's so hard to day after the show. Really, I
Speaker 1: don't care what anyone thinks it. Don't leave that out.
Speaker 1: You leave that in there. That's so funny. But no,
Speaker 1: there is challenges that come from it, and I think
Speaker 1: people are interested in it's interesting talking about a pregnant woman.
Speaker 1: That's how hard it is for me to be dating.
Speaker 1: And at that at that one out Jane Ramers here
Speaker 1: and she's looking phenomenal. Oh boy, ladies and gentlemen, that
Speaker 1: is dean everybody. Anyways, all right, so I got some
Speaker 1: rapid fire questions for you guys that pertained to Vegas
Speaker 1: and how we're in Vegas. We're in the comanda next
Speaker 1: to the pool park. You know, why not let's just
Speaker 1: ask a Vegas questions. So this is like because they're
Speaker 1: sharing them, like, so I'll go first, then Blake. So
Speaker 1: this is like three single three single guys and an
Speaker 1: engaged guy. And this is the difference in the two
Speaker 1: right here. So ready, so for like, whatever you guys
Speaker 1: think you do tomorrow morning, tomorrow day, whatever, like, answer
Speaker 1: it that way? All right? Ready? Alright, So pool party
Speaker 1: of your club, pool party, pool party, pool party. Uh,
Speaker 1: same because I get to be home by seven o'clock,
Speaker 1: all right. So if you're back in the room by midnight,
Speaker 1: is that a successful night or a failure in Vegas?
Speaker 1: In Vegas failure. Don't come to Vegas, dude. I was
Speaker 1: back in the room by left last night. I'm never
Speaker 1: going out without Jason again. What time are you guys
Speaker 1: out last night? We got back like three, right, guys,
Speaker 1: living your best life. I love it, all right. So
Speaker 1: in the morning, coffee or bloody Mary? What day of
Speaker 1: the week? Jason literally ordered both literally spicy bloody with
Speaker 1: the coffer with failingscovery, and I got a whiskey. So
Speaker 1: I can't really say anything. Story. When we were in Toronto,
Speaker 1: we were in the hotel lobby before It's like six
Speaker 1: thirty am, and we're all drinking coffee, decent pops, the
Speaker 1: champagne bottoms. Let's go get back out of the horse
Speaker 1: boy saddle. I respected boogein this that Jason encompasses God,
Speaker 1: that's amazing. All right. If you have to go to
Speaker 1: a pool party, would you go to a topless party
Speaker 1: or a bottomless party? Bottomless? Topless? I figure everyone knows
Speaker 1: everything else about us, they might as well see what
Speaker 1: else we're working on. I'm on topless of course, Dan
Speaker 1: the bottomless. I love it, all right. If you guys
Speaker 1: are next to a beach, you're drinking a fruity drink?
Speaker 1: Are you trying to get that manly drink? Fruity? And no,
Speaker 1: shame on the fruity drink. I want fruity drink with
Speaker 1: all the fruit in there, and I'm drinking it with
Speaker 1: pinky out. I can't. I can't do the fruity. I'm
Speaker 1: going whiskey. I'll do it if I'm next to a beach,
Speaker 1: peanut clotta with a banana on top of the all day,
Speaker 1: all right, you guys, more of chubbies or board shorts.
Speaker 1: Shubbies on board shorts? All right? On a girl, do
Speaker 1: you like a one piece or a bikini better? I
Speaker 1: honestly think one pieces are so pieces are in again
Speaker 1: there is and a girl that can fall off a
Speaker 1: one piece is does something to me. I'm in for
Speaker 1: the one piece like Janna Kramer. Where is she by
Speaker 1: the way, so dean pregnant women or not? Yeah? The
Speaker 1: reason I ask that questions because I was like, man,
Speaker 1: I love one pieces. I wonder if these guys are
Speaker 1: gonna agreat like it's a new thing for me though,
Speaker 1: And Okay, my favorite thing in the entire world is
Speaker 1: when they have the tan line from the two piece
Speaker 1: and then they wear the one piece that you can
Speaker 1: see like the hip like the white tan line. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean, that's so sexy to me. I
Speaker 1: don't know what. So, ladies, if you're listening out there,
Speaker 1: definitely all three men love the one piece. Uh. Before
Speaker 1: we before we go to the next question, I do
Speaker 1: want to point out that, So I have some friends
Speaker 1: who work for like brands and stuff like that, and
Speaker 1: they've talked to like other people from The Bachelor at
Speaker 1: like a Chase or Robbie, and they and they'll tell
Speaker 1: that person about like the d MS that they get,
Speaker 1: and I personally don't ever get like very like what's
Speaker 1: the word like rated x d ms. It's never like
Speaker 1: here's like here my boobs, like here whatever it is.
Speaker 1: It's always like here's my dog, or like you're cute.
Speaker 1: I want to date you, like from like a fourteen
Speaker 1: year old, I want, are your guys dms? Are they
Speaker 1: more like sexual? Are they more like funny and like
Speaker 1: like like cute? Let me tell you this quick story
Speaker 1: because it's really funny. I won't tell you who the
Speaker 1: contestant is, but a former contestant on my season of
Speaker 1: the Bachelorette was a very nice, very good guy, and
Speaker 1: then he was saying and then on Paradise he got
Speaker 1: a bat. You know, he just was a villain and
Speaker 1: so he was like, dude, honestly, the best thing about
Speaker 1: being villainized on Paradise. He's like, when I was on
Speaker 1: the bachelort and I was a nice guy, I get
Speaker 1: all these like marriage requests and people want to damie,
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, I became the villain
Speaker 1: and I got all these nude photos just women want
Speaker 1: to sleep with me. It's the funniest thing I've ever
Speaker 1: heard in my entire life. Um, but Jason and Blake,
Speaker 1: I'm curious to know what kind of what kind do
Speaker 1: you get? Typically? Yeah, I honestly get a lot of
Speaker 1: marriage or like deep conversation that I want to talk
Speaker 1: about like politics, economics, gay rights, which I aggressively support,
Speaker 1: you know, they want to talk about like deep things.
Speaker 1: I mean, I will say that's different forums for different conversations.
Speaker 1: So d m s are more like deep root meaning
Speaker 1: core life things. That's what I'm getting, and then somehow
Speaker 1: like they go to Snapchat and all breaks loose and
Speaker 1: it's like just nudes. I'm like, wait, who are you?
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think I want to get off Snapchat pact.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know how to use Snapchat. I
Speaker 1: probably don't know how to use it. I don't even
Speaker 1: snap I don't have to. Yeah, like you must be
Speaker 1: getting so many marriage proposals. Say, yeah, I don't have
Speaker 1: like economic questions or any of that, but I do
Speaker 1: have a lot of a lot of marriage proposals. Uh,
Speaker 1: I get you know what I asked. I probably the
Speaker 1: number one question I get asked is how do get
Speaker 1: over heartbreak? Like That's the question I get asked all
Speaker 1: the time. It's like, how did you get over heartbreak?
Speaker 1: Because I'm going through a heartbreak right now. And the
Speaker 1: crappy thing is to you almost feel like a bad
Speaker 1: person for not responding to everyone you know. It's like
Speaker 1: you want to be there and help them, but you can't.
Speaker 1: At the same time, you don't have them and everybody
Speaker 1: you know. I always say, everybody's heartbreaks differently, so it's
Speaker 1: not like there's one thing that you know suddenly cure
Speaker 1: your heartbreak. I will say one thing that we can
Speaker 1: all I think commend you for is you once you
Speaker 1: want something, it seems like you're there, and that's fantastic.
Speaker 1: That's that. It takes me like h once I once
Speaker 1: I figure out what I want to go after the
Speaker 1: pousand or something. Absolutely. Yeah, you're very passionate about things.
Speaker 1: I like that. I like that about you, Blake. All right,
Speaker 1: So if you're playing Roulette, what number you're playing and why?
Speaker 1: This is Jason's question by the way. All right, so
Speaker 1: I have a really good buddy in the NFL. I
Speaker 1: know what he would say. He would sixty, he would
Speaker 1: split six, and I would play nineteen. Can we talk
Speaker 1: about your friendship with Rob Bronc, do you guys? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So him and I grew up together. Um played hockey
Speaker 1: on the Mighty Ducks the second grade. How does he
Speaker 1: allow himself to play for the Patriots if he's inherently
Speaker 1: a Bills finger? Right? Like? Well, so, here's a crazy thing.
Speaker 1: Is the Buffalo Bills. This guy grew up in Buffalo,
Speaker 1: in the backyard of Buffalo, New York. Buffalo Bills passed
Speaker 1: on him not once, but twice in the draft. In
Speaker 1: his games against the bills are always electric, So I
Speaker 1: think he's got some fueled energies channeling. It's it's easy
Speaker 1: to be, you know, okay being on the Patriots and
Speaker 1: Tom Brady story passes. We were gambling last night and
Speaker 1: the waitress, the cockstail waitress that was bringing his strings,
Speaker 1: was wearing a Jim Kelly jersey, and I literally every
Speaker 1: time she came around, I would like, try and find
Speaker 1: you very excited, but every time I can never find
Speaker 1: you so excited. But going back his infatuation for six nights,
Speaker 1: it's out right. It's stemmed from like middle school and
Speaker 1: didn't stop every press conference he's ever said, he mentioned
Speaker 1: when he was like, he was like, yeah, scored by
Speaker 1: sixty eight tonch out today one more. It's unbelievable. He
Speaker 1: I think he hasn't a lot of him sid on
Speaker 1: his phone for six. So nine, oh god, as if
Speaker 1: I could love so I'll rule that number. What number
Speaker 1: are you playing in? Why? Jason just said he pushed
Speaker 1: six and nine. No, no, no, no, I said, my
Speaker 1: friend would have done that. Nineteen was my number growing
Speaker 1: up hockey and soccer. I go number ten is my
Speaker 1: lucky number as well. Yeah, I got twelve. That's my
Speaker 1: lucky number, if you lucky number. It was my number
Speaker 1: of football and basketball. I was about to say, I
Speaker 1: was like waiting for the Tom Brady reference. I'm like,
Speaker 1: come on, Blake, come on, Jared, Jared kick rocks. All right,
Speaker 1: we're Broncos fans. Whatever. Uh fifteens mind, not the same thing.
Speaker 1: My birthday played it all in Carmelo Anthony. All right,
Speaker 1: you guys have one concert to go to. You're going
Speaker 1: to back Street Boys with Jlo Tonight, back Street Boys
Speaker 1: all day. Jaylo was fifty years old and it's still insane. Dude.
Speaker 1: I'm totally with Ja in Backstreet Bis. All right for
Speaker 1: you guys, Jalo, Brittany, Jlo, I might go Brittany. Actually,
Speaker 1: I think Britney Spears was my first CD. And I
Speaker 1: remember when you remember you get the CD and you
Speaker 1: can open the cover and there's like a big, bold,
Speaker 1: beautiful thing with Britney Spears. She was the first girl
Speaker 1: I put on my wall. I was about say Britney
Speaker 1: Spears was the first for a lot of things in
Speaker 1: my life. Oh boy, this is a dangerous podcast. Alright, alright, guys,
Speaker 1: you're in Vegas here, you're going on the streep. You're
Speaker 1: going to strip clubs then a strip clubs? You like them,
Speaker 1: don't like them? Nay, I cannot stand strip clubs. I
Speaker 1: cannot stand them. He loves him that much. That's how
Speaker 1: I just can't stand him, and begin to verbalize how
Speaker 1: much I just don't. I think it's so degrade. I
Speaker 1: think it's I just can't stand the cont feel uncomfortable too.
Speaker 1: Especially in Denver. There's a couple of Diamond Cabaret Chocolate
Speaker 1: and Willis, and I think one of them is B
Speaker 1: y O B. Just watch so the strip the governor
Speaker 1: of Deeper a strip club never and like that's the
Speaker 1: only place that's there's alcohol till four. It is like
Speaker 1: the Yelp of strip clubs. Five stars. I personally am
Speaker 1: very vehemently against strip clubs. I hate them. I did
Speaker 1: go to I did go to one in Portland one time,
Speaker 1: and it was a karaoke strip club. So you stand
Speaker 1: out there and you try and sing karaoke stripping on you.
Speaker 1: It's that's pretty. There's one in Miami that's more of
Speaker 1: like a club than an actual strip club, and that one,
Speaker 1: I think it's called eleven. That's really fun. I think
Speaker 1: that's a good It's called eleven Yeah, I think twice.
Speaker 1: I think it's called eleven one, two three s all right,
Speaker 1: if you guys have one movie to watch while in Vegas,
Speaker 1: you're watching Hangover Oceans eleven Oceans, Big Oceans guy. You
Speaker 1: know who's a huge huge Oceans guy is Grocer Grocery
Speaker 1: Store Joe Grocery Store. Joe told me he like every
Speaker 1: night falls asleep to Oceans. Ya like, so he watched
Speaker 1: it over and over and over. That's how I'm with
Speaker 1: the outside, but the Oceans, I mean, I love Joe.
Speaker 1: He's kind of got that swagger like a George Clean.
Speaker 1: Is that weird for you guys to see because you
Speaker 1: guys didn't know Joe that well from your season, right.
Speaker 1: I didn't talk to him once exactly, have no idea.
Speaker 1: I talked a lot, but it was a lot of
Speaker 1: post show you guys have probably talked. Yeah. Yeah, he's
Speaker 1: a great guy and Kendall are awesome. Are you guys
Speaker 1: more of uh, George Clooney or Brad Pitt in that
Speaker 1: movie George Clary all day. I like to say that
Speaker 1: I looked like Brad Pitt. I'm definitely more George Dean.
Speaker 1: You heard the definition of Brad Pitt in that movie.
Speaker 1: I love it, all right. You guys like to say,
Speaker 1: I have the body from Bad Brad Pitt from Flight
Speaker 1: Club and then the personality of Brad Pitt from Ocean.
Speaker 1: Can we give a Wells a shot out here? Wells
Speaker 1: just walking to the command looks like a million bucks
Speaker 1: and he's on break. He's not making drinks today, No
Speaker 1: drinking making today? All right? You guys more of a
Speaker 1: spray tan or on tan. Okay, let me let me
Speaker 1: tell you. Let me tell you quick funny story about
Speaker 1: Blake and Coulter. I'll make it quick. We're on the
Speaker 1: show and these guys are like, look so bronze and beautiful.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you guys? Like? Who are you?
Speaker 1: We're tanning booth? Are you going to Both of them
Speaker 1: have like Jurgen's extra like face? If of YouTube, I
Speaker 1: would expect Jason to be the one that does that.
Speaker 1: For the record. Now, I use it because Luke, because
Speaker 1: Luke Pelty Wars Winter Games, and I would always give
Speaker 1: him so much crap for it. I colon bathes in
Speaker 1: that stuff. I'm not supposed to be, but he did
Speaker 1: it all over now I use it. No shame, Dean
Speaker 1: did what did you say, suntan? I'm a sun guy.
Speaker 1: I don't even use sunscreen. I'm I don't believe in
Speaker 1: rubbing shi it in my skin. You don't believe that.
Speaker 1: Like everyone showed up here with a shirt on. Nick
Speaker 1: File just showed it. It's like a shirt automatically gone.
Speaker 1: Guys so ripped, and I hate it. I'm never taking
Speaker 1: my shirt off within ten feet of him. All Right,
Speaker 1: you guys, if you guys are out dancing, fist pumping
Speaker 1: or flossingsaws, come on, Jason, I'm gonna let everyone down.
Speaker 1: I'm fistup, man. Don't let me down like that. I'm
Speaker 1: totally fist bumping, poll d for life. All right, last question,
Speaker 1: if you're going on the Vegas Strip, Planet, Hollywood or
Speaker 1: anywhere else. Obviously Hollywood, Baby play in Hollywood all the way.
Speaker 1: This place is amazing. It's the second year. Well you
Speaker 1: weren't here last year, but I wasn't here. Last place
Speaker 1: is incredible. It's a hidden gem. It's you know that
Speaker 1: plant always celebrating ten years with all its new rooms
Speaker 1: and sweets. Guys, this plant of Hollywood is awesome. We
Speaker 1: love the pool We love our rooms. You can stay
Speaker 1: in a bright, contemporary, ultra hip room. You can upgrade
Speaker 1: to a spacious, sweet with panoramic views in the Laws
Speaker 1: of Vegas Strip. Ashley and I Rooms is incredible as
Speaker 1: a view of the entire strip. I can see him
Speaker 1: from Encore all the way down to MGM the roller
Speaker 1: coaster First Will. It's pretty incredible. Whatever room you choose,
Speaker 1: you feel like Hollywood v I P. It's actually Plant
Speaker 1: of Hollywood. Is also home to Gordon Ramsey Burger. You
Speaker 1: know you can go there get casual burger that's always
Speaker 1: fresh and always energygetic. It's located right inside our Center
Speaker 1: Strip entrance. You can prepare for kind of dining experience
Speaker 1: that only Gordon Ramsey can deliver. Um their theater, the Access.
Speaker 1: It's home to the hottest resident headliners on the Strip,
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez, Battery Boys, Britney Spirits, Lino Richard. They have
Speaker 1: all the line of riches, all the hits, but all
Speaker 1: of their hits are gonna be played when you come
Speaker 1: to Planet Hollywood. The sixth floor pool deck, which is
Speaker 1: what we are on right now in our cabana, features
Speaker 1: all new cabanas great entertainment. First and only flow ride
Speaker 1: or wave machine. You guys doing the floor rider later.
Speaker 1: I love the floor Yeah, I want to see this thing.
Speaker 1: I haven't done this thing. It is literally the most
Speaker 1: fun thing in the entire Do you guys surf No
Speaker 1: snowboard here, snowboard lake, Jason's skier, skyversurgeons. Man, you're a
Speaker 1: sky l It's okay. You guys are gonna just be
Speaker 1: fine on the floor right. I definitely you guys coming
Speaker 1: out to the Vegas Strip. Definitely check out Planet Hollywood. Uh.
Speaker 1: I think that will do it for us today. What
Speaker 1: do you think? Boys? Guys? So much awesome podcast, So Blake, Jason,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us today. Big shout
Speaker 1: out to play in Hollywood. Big shout out the jet
Speaker 1: Suite X. We're excited to fly back on our private
Speaker 1: jet back to Los Angeles. Dean, as always, you are
Speaker 1: the best. I would like to have one more shout
Speaker 1: out to Jason for just having the most incredible ability
Speaker 1: to open and I hope that this continues for the
Speaker 1: rest of the weekends. I'm excited to spend the rest
Speaker 1: of the weekend with you guys. Let's go, baby, I'll
Speaker 1: be in the room by Levin. I'm excited to hear
Speaker 1: the following morning at Brunch, so definitely guys. Thanks for
Speaker 1: tuning in and make sure you tune in next week
Speaker 1: for an all new episode to help us suck at
Speaker 1: Dating were hopefully we suck a little less. Follow help
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