WEBVTT - Maria Sharapova

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<v Speaker 1>You are listening to Ruthie's Table four in partnership with Montclair.

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<v Speaker 2>It may not.

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<v Speaker 3>Seem obvious at first, but tennis and cooking have a

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<v Speaker 3>lot in common. Chefs and tennis players are both rigorous

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<v Speaker 3>preparation in the kitchen, court side rituals. When the match

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<v Speaker 3>begins or when the restaurant doors open, both need to

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<v Speaker 3>be ready, focused and adaptable. Meeting Maria Sharapova at a

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<v Speaker 3>grand dinner in Milan, I discovered a food lover whose

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<v Speaker 3>story off the court is as amazing as her performance

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<v Speaker 3>on it. In nineteen eighty six, pregnant with Maria and

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to protect her, her parents fled Belarus, escaping the

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<v Speaker 3>Chernobyl nuclear disaster. A few years later, she and her

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<v Speaker 3>father moved to Florida with just seven hundred dollars and

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<v Speaker 3>not a word of English. Every year must be an

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<v Speaker 3>anniversary for someone like Maria, who hit her first tennis

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<v Speaker 3>ball age four, was spotted by Martina Navratlova aged six,

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<v Speaker 3>and became one of only ten women in history to

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<v Speaker 3>win a career Grand Slam. But this year is especially special.

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<v Speaker 3>Maria is celebrating twenty years since winning against Serena Williams

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<v Speaker 3>becoming at age seventeen a Wimbledon champion. Today, we're here

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<v Speaker 3>in the River Cafe to celebrate as a businesswoman. She's

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<v Speaker 3>uniquely creative and inspiring other magical ingredients needed in a

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<v Speaker 3>kitchen or a tennis court. We're here together, two women

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<v Speaker 3>talking about food and memories, with stories to tell, and

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<v Speaker 3>maybe before we finish, we'll have a celebratory chocolate nemesis

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<v Speaker 3>with twenty candles.

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<v Speaker 1>I genuinely cannot believe that Ruthie Rogers just did an

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<v Speaker 1>introduction on me.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so specially we just kind of love at first

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<v Speaker 3>sight at that dinner because we were in Milan at

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<v Speaker 3>the Montclair Dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and we just kind of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was a very charming evening. Was his name is dark

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<v Speaker 1>and moody, a little bit eerie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it was toward the end of dinner, when

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<v Speaker 1>I think things were wrapping up, I came across even

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<v Speaker 1>a hallway, maybe the bathroom line.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was. It was in that corner, and

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<v Speaker 3>then they ever know and that's where we go. But

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<v Speaker 3>it was it was a lovely it was for Remy Raffiniyes.

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<v Speaker 1>Who've gotten to know in the last few years and

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<v Speaker 1>you as well, And what a charming, very charming man

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<v Speaker 1>and has done incredible things with Montclair.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and that was just a very joyous atmosphere in

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<v Speaker 3>the room. I thought everybody was there to celebrate him,

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<v Speaker 3>to celebrate each other over food.

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<v Speaker 2>When we talked last week about.

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<v Speaker 3>Doing this, I you know, we always start with a recipe,

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<v Speaker 3>and there's something about hearing someone you know, we've done

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<v Speaker 3>Nazy Pelosi or al Gore, people who would never think saying,

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<v Speaker 3>take it tomato and squash it, you know. And so

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<v Speaker 3>when I asked you what you wanted to cook, you

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<v Speaker 3>said that you'd like to do a recipe that reminded you.

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<v Speaker 1>Reminded me of my grandmother. Yeah, yes, the years that

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<v Speaker 1>I spent in her kitchen.

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<v Speaker 3>You chose the recipe with potato potatoes. Said there was

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<v Speaker 3>a potato.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, there's a potato.

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<v Speaker 1>My mother makes these delicious potato pancakes as a treat.

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<v Speaker 1>And if it's a holiday or you know, every on

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<v Speaker 1>my birthday, she usually likes to make potato pancakes. And

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<v Speaker 1>then Alexander orders a little jar of caviar and that

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<v Speaker 1>is our that's our ultimate and absolutely sour cream.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, well, these are potatoes lu Cheesi because it comes

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<v Speaker 3>from well. Luca is a beautiful city in Tuscanes, near Pisa.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you like to read the recipe.

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<v Speaker 1>Roast potatoes from Luca Potato luchesi. One kilogram of waxy potatoes,

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<v Speaker 1>one medium red onion, finely sliced careful with your fingers.

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<v Speaker 1>Six scarlet cloves, peeled and kept whole. Four sprigs of

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<v Speaker 1>fresh rosemary and sage, and one glass of dry white

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<v Speaker 1>wine extra virgin olive oil. Let's preheat the oven to

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred degrees. Peel the potatoes and cut into thick slices.

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<v Speaker 1>Put into the cold water to wash off excess starch,

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<v Speaker 1>then drain, pat dry and put in a large mixing bowl.

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<v Speaker 1>Add the onion. Onions are my favorite, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>Yes show its and onions. Onions with potato is just

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<v Speaker 1>the best combination. So add the onion, garlic and herbs

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<v Speaker 1>to the potato bowl and the rest of the ingredients

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<v Speaker 1>and toss well. Choose a baking tray large enough for

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<v Speaker 1>the potatoes to be spread out in one later, cover

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<v Speaker 1>with foil and bake in the oven for twenty five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Remove the foil, then using the back of a large

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<v Speaker 1>cooking spoon. Break up the potatoes and herbs to make

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<v Speaker 1>a rough mash. That's the fun part. Drizzle with olive oil,

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<v Speaker 1>return to the oven and roast for thirty minutes or

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<v Speaker 1>until the potatoes are brown and crisp on top and

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<v Speaker 1>still light and fluffy underneath. Serve cut into slices.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's not a take a pancake, but we tried

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<v Speaker 3>to find the recipe that way.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds delicious, it is. Can you please sign this

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<v Speaker 1>recipe for me?

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<v Speaker 2>With love?

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<v Speaker 3>We talk about this quite often about how much we

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<v Speaker 3>really respect and love women who cook. You know that

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<v Speaker 3>that cooking is a way of sharing, it's a way

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<v Speaker 3>of expressing love. But we also have to really respect

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<v Speaker 3>and admire the women who don't you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And that you know, And that's and I do.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think that I have a friend whose father

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<v Speaker 3>would never let her in the kitchen because he didn't

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<v Speaker 3>want her to cook. And I was sort of slightly

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<v Speaker 3>equated to learning how to type, that, you know, growing

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<v Speaker 3>up in the sort of seventies and thinking, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we were women who were going to work that if

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<v Speaker 3>we learned how to type, we'd be secretaries. Yes, and

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<v Speaker 3>Luckily my mother forced me to go to typing school.

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<v Speaker 2>Now that we all use laptops, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, knowing how to type, But there are as women

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<v Speaker 3>sort of categories that were thrust into and we're judged

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<v Speaker 3>whether we're a good mother by the way we cook

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<v Speaker 3>or a good wife by the way we cook.

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<v Speaker 2>Very much, but now I think it's it's also.

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<v Speaker 3>I think everything we're looking at and we're also looking

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<v Speaker 3>at men and how they cook and how they shop, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>and even cooking as a form of seduction, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, I think if some I think if some of

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<v Speaker 1>my relatives, I mean my mother, when you ask her

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<v Speaker 1>if she enjoys cooking, I think her answer is no,

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<v Speaker 1>but she enjoys cooking knowing that somebody will enjoy it. Yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so she and when she cooks every the process is meticulous,

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<v Speaker 1>like she does it in advance, She does it off

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<v Speaker 1>of a recipe. She makes sure that it's very precise.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that also seeing her go through that

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<v Speaker 1>process taught me a lot about discipline, because cooking, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's different ways to cook. Right you can just take

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<v Speaker 1>ingredients from the refrigerator and just whip it right up.

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<v Speaker 1>But her process was very meticulous and in particular and

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<v Speaker 1>the ingredients that she chose based off recipes, and she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to know that if it worked for someone, it

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<v Speaker 1>would work for her if she did it well, and

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<v Speaker 1>her kitchen is always clean. And I think that's, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the energy that she that she taught me to

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<v Speaker 1>perform with, is that you have to put everything that

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<v Speaker 1>you have. You have to do it with a way

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<v Speaker 1>of discipline and time and get it done and know

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<v Speaker 1>that you have no regrets in the end.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say that very often about Julia Child Cookbooks,

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<v Speaker 3>American cookbook writer, that she did it.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so precise.

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<v Speaker 3>She never said, take a ripe tomato, but she would say,

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<v Speaker 3>take a tomato that's you know, two inches wide and

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<v Speaker 3>four inches high.

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<v Speaker 2>Put it in a dish.

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<v Speaker 3>It but it was it was like science, right, and

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<v Speaker 3>therefore you never had a failure because if you followed it,

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<v Speaker 3>you know that, and that gave you the confidence to

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<v Speaker 3>then be able to not follow the rules well.

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<v Speaker 1>And even if you did fail, I think there's you

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<v Speaker 1>would carry a sense of knowing that you you performed

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<v Speaker 1>it at your very best, because then you don't, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't you're not looking back and regretting, which is one

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<v Speaker 1>of the worst feelings that you may have in that voice. Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that says, oh I didn't prepare enough or I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do that enough. At least when you prepare the very

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<v Speaker 1>best that you could that you know, and in my sport,

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<v Speaker 1>that was so important as doing you know, we just

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<v Speaker 1>briefly discussed it, but doing your homework and going overboard

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<v Speaker 1>with your homework so that you know, no matter what result,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, you show up on the day and

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<v Speaker 1>things can go wrong. Yeah, you can be as prepared

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<v Speaker 1>as you want to be. You know, you can be

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<v Speaker 1>as confident as you want to be and as you are,

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<v Speaker 1>and you did everything to your best knowledge and ability

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<v Speaker 1>and it just doesn't work out. But at least that's

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you know, that's like and that happens, but

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<v Speaker 1>you did everything to get to that moment. You did

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<v Speaker 1>it one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Gives you resilience as well. I think if you have that.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that word.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it too. I was saying that.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, now, everybody talks about teaching and it's very

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<v Speaker 3>very important their children's self esteem and what I sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>think self esteem is overrated. But anyway, it's that's another

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<v Speaker 3>cop But I do think resilience if I could, and

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen it in this restaurant. I've seen the times

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<v Speaker 3>that we've had hard times or different issues, and they're

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<v Speaker 3>the one who are just able to not not to

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<v Speaker 3>hide it, not to shun it away, but to take

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<v Speaker 3>it and then you know, carry on, which is I

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<v Speaker 3>think I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was so nicely surprised to see how young your stuff is.

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<v Speaker 2>They are, they are, I think they, you know, some

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<v Speaker 2>of them. It's interesting. It used to be that in

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<v Speaker 2>the kitchen you.

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<v Speaker 3>Had chefs who started very very young, and sometimes academically

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<v Speaker 3>were challenged, and so they found a skill that they

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<v Speaker 3>could do, which is great. Now we have that and

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<v Speaker 3>they're you know, questioned. Looking at Adriana, I think I

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<v Speaker 3>studied history and got a degree and then.

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<v Speaker 2>Always knew she wanted to cook.

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<v Speaker 3>It's very performance led a restaurant, you know, the curtain

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<v Speaker 3>so compared probably comparison very sport, but also to theater.

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<v Speaker 3>Let go, and it's already and it's collaborative. I note

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<v Speaker 3>that if you don't chop the chilis, the sauce chef

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't have it to make use sauce doesn't have the chilies.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're late for work, it's very often not the

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<v Speaker 3>bosses have crossed, but your colleague.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, another alloticed.

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<v Speaker 1>Another similarity with sport and particularly in tennis. And then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, being working at a restaurant is that when

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<v Speaker 1>the curtains close and all the you know, all the

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<v Speaker 1>people leave, it's just you and in this very quiet

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<v Speaker 1>and eerie place, which if you think about leaving the

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<v Speaker 1>center court and walking back through a tunnel and going

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<v Speaker 1>into the locker room where you are, I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>fairly lonely, right, It's just you and your bag, and

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<v Speaker 1>you go in the shower and you know you have

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<v Speaker 1>some of your rivals and compatriots in there, but it's just,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it's very intimate. And just a few

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<v Speaker 1>minutes prior to that, you were in a room that

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<v Speaker 1>was you know, in this arena that was full of

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<v Speaker 1>thousands of screaming fans, and then it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Just you tell me how that relationship was between your

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<v Speaker 3>grandmother and her mother and cooking.

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<v Speaker 1>My mother was a very young mom. She she wasnt

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<v Speaker 1>when she was nineteen, so she yes, I'm an only child,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was still in university at the time, and

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<v Speaker 1>so you know her mom. Between she she had a

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<v Speaker 1>job in a local market. Oh, I was a local

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<v Speaker 1>in Sochi, so She which is aware, which is in

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<v Speaker 1>the south of Russia. It's on the Black Sea. I

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<v Speaker 1>was born in Siberia while my mother was pregnant with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually both of my parents are Belarussian. But during Chernobyl

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<v Speaker 1>and the explosion, my parents moved to Siberia. I had

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<v Speaker 1>some close relatives there and so they found out that

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<v Speaker 1>would be a safer place for my mom to give birth.

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<v Speaker 1>That so at twenty she gave birth to me. So

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<v Speaker 1>we were very young, a very small family, and we

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<v Speaker 1>were very close until this day. We remained that way.

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<v Speaker 1>My mother has been a huge influence in my life

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<v Speaker 1>because so much of what I did was about sport,

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<v Speaker 1>but so much of her influence was outside of the court.

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<v Speaker 1>Like she of course she was very involved in making

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<v Speaker 1>sure I did the right thing in my career, but

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<v Speaker 1>most of her influence was making sure that I did

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<v Speaker 1>my homework, Was that I studied well, Was that I

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<v Speaker 1>immersed myself in a different world that wasn't connected to sport,

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<v Speaker 1>that I was curious and interested and different.

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<v Speaker 2>What did your father do?

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<v Speaker 1>My father had a little construction firms and around the country,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was traveling quite a bit, so he you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we would actually rarely see him because he was working

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<v Speaker 1>full time. As my mom was young and was raising.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, and so you grew up in Sibery.

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<v Speaker 1>Grew up in Siberia for the first two years, and

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<v Speaker 1>then at two years old, we moved to Sochi.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did they choose it?

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<v Speaker 1>Sochi was known for a place where a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people from the north of Russia would come to relax

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<v Speaker 1>and go on their summer holidays. And they had these

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<v Speaker 1>sanatoriums where you'd spend several weeks getting healthy and swimming

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<v Speaker 1>in the sea of doing you know, natural therapies because

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people that worked in oil and coal mining,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they would go to just breathe fresh air.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was a very warm city in the summer.

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<v Speaker 1>It reminded me very much of Florida.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, the River Cafe cafe, steps away from our restaurant,

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<v Speaker 3>is now open in the morning an Italian breakfast with cornetti,

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<v Speaker 3>chiambella and cristada from our pastry kitchen. In the afternoon,

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<v Speaker 3>ice creamed coops and River Cafe classic desserts come in

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<v Speaker 3>the evening for cocktails with our resident pianist in the bar.

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<v Speaker 3>No need to book, see you here. The food in

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<v Speaker 3>Russia is very regional, but what it had been different

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<v Speaker 3>in Belarus to Soshi.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely remember that the tastes of the food being

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<v Speaker 1>very different and both you know, my grand no, my

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<v Speaker 1>grandmother's food was very flavorful because it had a very

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<v Speaker 1>rich profile. You know, there are a lot of stews

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of soups, and you know, within a

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<v Speaker 1>borshe I mean there's more than ten ingredients. You had

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<v Speaker 1>the beets and the peppers and the meat, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a few spices and and then I went to the

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<v Speaker 1>United States and it was a grilled piece of chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a very different experience. And I missed sour cream.

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up eating sour cream on everything, and all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden it was ketchup.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I was born in upstate New York in Woodstock, and

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<v Speaker 3>my father the real treat wol He would take us,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, sort of once a month to New York

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<v Speaker 3>and he'd drive and we'd see the ships, and then

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<v Speaker 3>we'd see a musical and then.

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<v Speaker 2>We would go to the Russian tea room.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and that was the tradition of a samovar drinking

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<v Speaker 1>tea is such a I mean, anytime I would enter

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<v Speaker 1>my grandparents' house, they would have they would cut a

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<v Speaker 1>piece of rye, like a big, big rye bread and

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<v Speaker 1>they would cut it in many slices. They would put

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<v Speaker 1>a thick of butter and then red caviar because that

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<v Speaker 1>was the cheaper than black caviar. And it was welcoming

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<v Speaker 1>your family was they were so proud, like to see

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<v Speaker 1>their granddaughter walk through the door and and their their

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<v Speaker 1>children and that was I just I remember this beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>plate and presentation is everything. You know. The china was.

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<v Speaker 1>They would take out their most beautiful china. And they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have much. I mean they didn't grow up with

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money. They didn't have a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know when they would sit at a table,

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<v Speaker 1>there's everything had a meaning. The food had a meeting

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<v Speaker 1>and a purpose, and it was it was about having

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<v Speaker 1>a nice time and sharing memories and laughs and just

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<v Speaker 1>being a family over food of having conversations. And I

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<v Speaker 1>really missed that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and you create that in your own you try.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's there's nothing like going to your grandmother's home.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, there's really there's really not I also have

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<v Speaker 1>a more minimal approach to decoration and the way I

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<v Speaker 1>set a table, and it's quite a contrast to thinking of,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, arriving at my grandmother's house, where everything is

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<v Speaker 1>more oriental and detailed, and there's you know, even even

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<v Speaker 1>the way that she serves, and there's just there's a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>You went to Miami with your father.

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<v Speaker 1>I went there with my father because my mom couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get a visa for the first two years, and it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't planned. It was just difficult to obtain the visa,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I spent the first two years, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just eating takeout food. The only thing I remember him

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<v Speaker 1>cooking was white rice because he was because he would

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<v Speaker 1>wake up super early because my training would be early,

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<v Speaker 1>and he would find, you know, random jobs that he

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<v Speaker 1>could take, and most of them were on golf courses.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he had a construction background. He did a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of jobs on golf courses and his work would start

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<v Speaker 1>super early. So he would make rice for me while

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<v Speaker 1>I was still sleeping in the morning, and he would

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<v Speaker 1>leave it in the pan and he would put it

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<v Speaker 1>under a pillow, and so when I would wake up,

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<v Speaker 1>I would eat this rice as my breakfast on my own.

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<v Speaker 1>I would put some milk in it.

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<v Speaker 3>So you were at seven, though, Yeah, and he was

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<v Speaker 3>already trained.

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<v Speaker 1>I was already training.

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<v Speaker 2>How did that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>My father enjoyed the sport. He's not a He's no

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<v Speaker 1>brilliant athlete, although he claims to be. I grew up

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<v Speaker 1>going to tennis practice with him because he enjoyed the sport.

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<v Speaker 1>He played at a leisure level. He played with his friends.

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<v Speaker 1>This wasn't so che Yes, yes, we only moved to

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<v Speaker 1>the United States because of tennis. It was very specific

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<v Speaker 1>to going to this very famous academy in Florida where

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of tennis players went and and it was

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<v Speaker 1>mostly because there's a huge facility and you have other

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<v Speaker 1>kids your age that you play with, you have some

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<v Speaker 1>of the best coaches in the world going there, and

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<v Speaker 1>you just don't need to leave, which for an athlete

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<v Speaker 1>is incredibly important, just to have a base where you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, I'm just focused on this one craft. I

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<v Speaker 1>do it every day, I have no distractions. And it

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<v Speaker 1>just happened to be in the middle of nowhere in Florida.

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<v Speaker 3>Did they think about feeding children who are athletes in

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<v Speaker 3>a certain way or was it.

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly just think they cared about making money.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe that.

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<v Speaker 1>Time food wasn't a priority for athletes.

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<v Speaker 2>I talked to Savannah Leaf. She know Savannah Leaf, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>She's great.

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<v Speaker 3>She was an Olympic volleyball player and she's now a

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<v Speaker 3>filmmaker and an artist and wonderful. And we were talking

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<v Speaker 3>about when and how the awareness of food and athletic

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<v Speaker 3>ability forty years ago it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Not no big deal. Yeah, that people didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't think they told what they would eat prior

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<v Speaker 1>to a match or after a match. It just wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>And now players travel with their own chefs because it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's become a critical component of an athlete's life, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because the difference of number ten in the world to

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<v Speaker 1>number one in the world is very small. And so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, having you know, having a perspective that's different

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<v Speaker 1>to others, you know, or having a game plan that's

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<v Speaker 1>smarter than others, right, or treating your body like it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's an incredibly important tool, is vital.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you merge the academic with the athletic when

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<v Speaker 3>you were a child of seven and they were and

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<v Speaker 3>they had it must have been regulated, no, to give

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<v Speaker 3>you an academic.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, it was something once my my mother arrived, besides

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<v Speaker 1>giving me a fresh haircut and changing all my clothes

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<v Speaker 1>because she said, what is what is your father buying you?

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<v Speaker 1>And cooking home, home cooked meals? She was I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, education was was a big part of her contribution.

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<v Speaker 1>And even even when it came to high school, I was,

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<v Speaker 1>I was a teenager, and she sourced because I traveled

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<v Speaker 1>so much as a teenager, she knew I couldn't go

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<v Speaker 1>to a you know, a school in Bradenton, Florida. That

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<v Speaker 1>we'd have to find a school that I could do online,

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<v Speaker 1>and she sourced a place. It wasn't very it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like a popular school. But I finished high school, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I finished that that part of my academics while I

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<v Speaker 1>was traveling and competing and playing at Wimbledon. And she

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<v Speaker 1>would when when the school would send all the books,

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<v Speaker 1>my mother would cut it in four portions for each

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<v Speaker 1>each semester and she'd put it in a folder and

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<v Speaker 1>she would print all the material that I had to

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<v Speaker 1>execute and I would travel, you know with these you know,

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<v Speaker 1>quarter a quarter of books with me.

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<v Speaker 2>You have exams.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have had exams online? Yes? I thought school

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<v Speaker 1>was a really healthy distraction for me. Our studying was

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<v Speaker 1>because it taught me things that tennis could never teach me. Art. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just understanding that there are things outside of

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<v Speaker 1>hitting a yellow you know, fluffy ball, or history or

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<v Speaker 1>mathematics and numbers, the discipline of you know, coming back

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<v Speaker 1>after a match and being in a hotel room in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of nowhere and sitting down in your hotel

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<v Speaker 1>room at this little desk and taking out your material

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<v Speaker 1>and taking your mind off of the grind of the

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<v Speaker 1>tour and practice, you know, and being with my father

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<v Speaker 1>all the time and listening, you know, to his advice

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<v Speaker 1>on the tennis court. It was an escape for me

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<v Speaker 1>to study, and so I really loved the process of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Did your father always travel with you.

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<v Speaker 1>He traveled with me until I was twenty one, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I won my third Grand Slam, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do it on my own. He was still heavily,

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<v Speaker 1>very much involved in my career and we speak almost daily.

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<v Speaker 3>Were you becoming aware of food? What made you a

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<v Speaker 3>better athlete? Depending on what you ate to kind.

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<v Speaker 1>Of travel, was what you know brought out my curiosity

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<v Speaker 1>and food. My food choices when I was young were

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<v Speaker 1>very simple and only because we didn't have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of money. They were flavorful, you know, once my mother arrived,

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<v Speaker 1>because she would make the meals herself, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>felt comforted by the fact that, you know, I had

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<v Speaker 1>someone at home cooking for me. And when I'd come

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<v Speaker 1>back from practice, first thing I would do is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she'd give me this long rope and I had to stretch,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I had to hang off a rod just

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<v Speaker 1>to loosen my body because there was so much physical exertion.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't know anything about fourhands or back ends, but

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<v Speaker 1>she knew that my body was at a young age,

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<v Speaker 1>was going through a lot, was going through such intense workouts,

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<v Speaker 1>and she just wanted to make sure that I that

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<v Speaker 1>I was stretching. Yeah, so this was her ate.

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<v Speaker 2>She also watched.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't interested in a way that she she thought

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<v Speaker 1>or studied or how it would have you know, how

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<v Speaker 1>I would feel after what would I be energized by

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<v Speaker 1>the food. She just wanted to make sure that I

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<v Speaker 1>was fed. That was her goal.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you wrote a rather beautiful sentence which when we

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<v Speaker 3>talked about management. I don't know where we found this,

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<v Speaker 3>but it said, did you do enough and more to

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<v Speaker 3>prepare for your next opponent. You've taken a few days off,

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<v Speaker 3>your body's losing that edge, that extra slice of pizza.

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<v Speaker 2>Better make up for it with great morning session.

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<v Speaker 3>And that is that the metaphor of a pizza, the

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<v Speaker 3>idea of a pizza.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the balance of discipline.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's a It's a balance of giving yourself a

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<v Speaker 1>break in life, but being disciplined and courageous and taking

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<v Speaker 1>chances and knowing that life is not all rainbows and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, butterflies and great moments, life is hard, and

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<v Speaker 1>accepting the fact that it is hard and that you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to face, you know, moments of discouragement, of low confidence,

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<v Speaker 1>of people having difficult opinions of you. It's part of

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<v Speaker 1>the ups and downs, and especially in athletics, especially in

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<v Speaker 1>a world where you know you're in journalism, where you're

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<v Speaker 1>constantly judged for how you perform, even if you win.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way I suppose you did you go from

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<v Speaker 3>the rise in the morning to a different breakfast. Tell

0:24:20.480 --> 0:24:25.520
<v Speaker 3>me about your eating regime if you were playing a game, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Eating as an athlete is about keeping things clean. It's

0:24:29.480 --> 0:24:34.040
<v Speaker 1>about clean ingredients. It's understanding you know, when does your

0:24:34.080 --> 0:24:36.400
<v Speaker 1>body need more protein and when does your body need

0:24:36.440 --> 0:24:39.879
<v Speaker 1>more carbs? You know, with are you loading on you know,

0:24:39.920 --> 0:24:42.520
<v Speaker 1>more energy? Thirty minutes or an hour before you go

0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:44.520
<v Speaker 1>out on court? How long did you play for it?

0:24:44.600 --> 0:24:46.560
<v Speaker 1>Did you was your match an hour or was your

0:24:46.560 --> 0:24:49.440
<v Speaker 1>match three hours? And to be honest, it's not even

0:24:49.480 --> 0:24:52.640
<v Speaker 1>about you can have a set schedule and you can

0:24:52.680 --> 0:24:54.439
<v Speaker 1>have an idea of what you're going to do and

0:24:54.480 --> 0:24:56.600
<v Speaker 1>how you're going to prepare and what you're going to eat.

0:24:56.960 --> 0:24:59.560
<v Speaker 1>But I think what makes the best teams in the

0:24:59.560 --> 0:25:02.280
<v Speaker 1>best ap athlete as being able to pivot based on

0:25:02.440 --> 0:25:06.000
<v Speaker 1>how things go and reacting on the occasion. So if

0:25:06.040 --> 0:25:08.480
<v Speaker 1>you just competed and you know, you thought you was

0:25:08.560 --> 0:25:10.480
<v Speaker 1>the first round, you thought you were gonna win easy,

0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:12.680
<v Speaker 1>but all of a sudden, your opponent had an incredible

0:25:12.760 --> 0:25:15.120
<v Speaker 1>day and you end up winning, but it was three

0:25:15.160 --> 0:25:19.800
<v Speaker 1>hours long. Your recovery now is completely different than what

0:25:19.880 --> 0:25:22.480
<v Speaker 1>you thought would be just in forty five minutes an

0:25:22.480 --> 0:25:25.960
<v Speaker 1>hour match. It's all clean, It's just it's more about

0:25:26.000 --> 0:25:28.919
<v Speaker 1>the quantity shift of what you were eating prior to

0:25:28.960 --> 0:25:33.280
<v Speaker 1>a match. It was very simple those vegetables. Back to

0:25:33.320 --> 0:25:35.960
<v Speaker 1>the rice, it was white rice and a clean piece

0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:38.840
<v Speaker 1>of chicken. I actually look back at those meals and

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<v Speaker 1>I think of them as very lonely because the food

0:25:42.320 --> 0:25:45.280
<v Speaker 1>was very lonely, and I've I've grown to love food

0:25:45.359 --> 0:25:50.560
<v Speaker 1>so much that it it felt like I wanted better options.

0:25:51.880 --> 0:25:57.760
<v Speaker 3>It describes the solitary nests of your career and so

0:25:57.840 --> 0:26:01.600
<v Speaker 3>there are you're playing with canst about it. You've surrounded

0:26:01.600 --> 0:26:05.040
<v Speaker 3>by people, But is there a sense of being quite solitary.

0:26:05.760 --> 0:26:08.720
<v Speaker 1>I think everybody handles that differently. I think some people

0:26:09.800 --> 0:26:13.920
<v Speaker 1>enjoy that they're part of this larger and more than

0:26:13.960 --> 0:26:17.399
<v Speaker 1>life energy that's surrounding them in a stadium environment, I

0:26:17.480 --> 0:26:22.240
<v Speaker 1>think a very special feeling. But I always performed best

0:26:22.320 --> 0:26:26.680
<v Speaker 1>when I was calm within myself. Like of course, this

0:26:27.240 --> 0:26:31.400
<v Speaker 1>positivity and then the things that your fans shout when

0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:33.679
<v Speaker 1>you're down in a match and the encouragement that you

0:26:33.800 --> 0:26:37.240
<v Speaker 1>hear is one of the best feelings in life. But

0:26:37.400 --> 0:26:41.560
<v Speaker 1>when you're going through a three hour match inside of yourself,

0:26:41.600 --> 0:26:44.320
<v Speaker 1>you need to feel that you are calm and collected,

0:26:44.720 --> 0:26:47.840
<v Speaker 1>that you can handle negative comments, that you can handle

0:26:47.920 --> 0:26:51.680
<v Speaker 1>positive ones. And unfortunately you have to treat the negative

0:26:51.680 --> 0:26:55.360
<v Speaker 1>and the positives almost like they are the same, so

0:26:55.400 --> 0:26:58.280
<v Speaker 1>that you don't go through these ranges of emotion during

0:26:58.280 --> 0:27:02.720
<v Speaker 1>a match. Right that you're collected, you're you're strong, you're

0:27:02.880 --> 0:27:06.040
<v Speaker 1>you're positive. And so when I felt like I was

0:27:06.200 --> 0:27:09.440
<v Speaker 1>just that the best version of myself is it didn't

0:27:09.480 --> 0:27:11.440
<v Speaker 1>matter what people said during.

0:27:11.240 --> 0:27:12.840
<v Speaker 2>A match, or do you hear it?

0:27:13.000 --> 0:27:17.280
<v Speaker 1>Do you hear you hear everything? It's hard to block that. Yeah,

0:27:17.400 --> 0:27:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I think it goes back to acceptance. I think accepting

0:27:21.640 --> 0:27:25.040
<v Speaker 1>the fact that people will always have always said this,

0:27:25.160 --> 0:27:28.879
<v Speaker 1>but people will have different opinions of you as a player,

0:27:28.960 --> 0:27:31.920
<v Speaker 1>as a person, as whatever you say and how you

0:27:31.960 --> 0:27:35.919
<v Speaker 1>say it, people react differently to it. And and a

0:27:36.000 --> 0:27:38.359
<v Speaker 1>big part of being an athlete is, you know, is

0:27:38.880 --> 0:27:43.119
<v Speaker 1>having to read things about yourself and accepting that is

0:27:43.160 --> 0:27:45.359
<v Speaker 1>a big It's something that I had to learn and

0:27:45.400 --> 0:27:47.399
<v Speaker 1>I learned it the hard way from a very young age.

0:27:47.440 --> 0:27:50.159
<v Speaker 1>When you win Wimbledon at seventeen years old and people

0:27:50.200 --> 0:27:53.800
<v Speaker 1>still find tough things to say about you or your

0:27:53.840 --> 0:27:58.439
<v Speaker 1>family or criticize you in any way, it takes time to,

0:27:59.200 --> 0:28:01.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, to get comfortable with that fact.

0:28:01.480 --> 0:28:03.240
<v Speaker 3>Did you have good friends or do you always have

0:28:03.400 --> 0:28:05.399
<v Speaker 3>different circuits and different Yeah, it was.

0:28:05.600 --> 0:28:08.640
<v Speaker 1>It was really hard to make friends. And at the core,

0:28:08.880 --> 0:28:12.840
<v Speaker 1>I was a very tough competitor and they could have

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:15.640
<v Speaker 1>been the nicest opponent in the world, but I had

0:28:15.720 --> 0:28:19.399
<v Speaker 1>to think that they were a terrible human being, even

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:24.200
<v Speaker 1>though they were extremely nice to me. Mentally, I knew that,

0:28:24.600 --> 0:28:27.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's it's whoever's strongest. It's not even just

0:28:27.320 --> 0:28:28.719
<v Speaker 1>who's physically strongest.

0:28:29.480 --> 0:28:32.760
<v Speaker 3>Did you when you traveled, did were you able to

0:28:33.119 --> 0:28:34.760
<v Speaker 3>experience other cultures?

0:28:34.800 --> 0:28:40.360
<v Speaker 1>Well, an athlete, I didn't, I really didn't. I remember

0:28:40.400 --> 0:28:43.320
<v Speaker 1>this fondly. Many years ago. I went on a date

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 1>with someone and it was one of our first few dates,

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 1>and we're talking about the places that we traveled to,

0:28:49.520 --> 0:28:52.400
<v Speaker 1>and he said to me, He's like, wow, I mean

0:28:52.640 --> 0:28:55.800
<v Speaker 1>they're so you are so lucky. You haven't really visited

0:28:55.800 --> 0:28:59.400
<v Speaker 1>the world. I mean, you've you've competed in some of

0:28:59.440 --> 0:29:01.840
<v Speaker 1>the biggest, best cities in the world, but you don't

0:29:01.880 --> 0:29:05.160
<v Speaker 1>know anything about them really, And you know, there are

0:29:05.160 --> 0:29:08.000
<v Speaker 1>places that I hadn't been to, like Venice in Italy,

0:29:08.240 --> 0:29:12.840
<v Speaker 1>or even Barcelona, or you know, cities that you'd think

0:29:12.920 --> 0:29:15.120
<v Speaker 1>of course, you know it'd be on my list and

0:29:15.200 --> 0:29:18.560
<v Speaker 1>I've visited them several times, but I hadn't and so

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:21.800
<v Speaker 1>and it really opened my eyes to the fact that, yeah,

0:29:21.840 --> 0:29:24.680
<v Speaker 1>he was absolutely right, like I, How lucky am I

0:29:24.800 --> 0:29:28.200
<v Speaker 1>that I've yet to experience these cities from a different

0:29:28.240 --> 0:29:30.040
<v Speaker 1>perspective than I had all these years.

0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:32.680
<v Speaker 3>I always just think that I used to be envious

0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:36.000
<v Speaker 3>of people who'd never been to Venice because I could

0:29:36.040 --> 0:29:38.760
<v Speaker 3>never remember seeing Venice for the first time because I

0:29:38.800 --> 0:29:40.920
<v Speaker 3>was young when I went. And then you think, I

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:43.400
<v Speaker 3>just say, Wow, somebody's going to get to this place

0:29:43.800 --> 0:29:45.680
<v Speaker 3>as an adult and see.

0:29:45.400 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 2>This incredible city I had.

0:29:48.320 --> 0:29:51.080
<v Speaker 3>I had a kid last summer, I was a Vedics

0:29:51.080 --> 0:29:53.840
<v Speaker 3>and a friend of mine bought his six year old child.

0:29:53.960 --> 0:29:57.320
<v Speaker 3>We did this huge visit of Vedas. We went everywhere

0:29:57.400 --> 0:30:01.160
<v Speaker 3>around Vedice and I said to him, how how Nicholas,

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:02.680
<v Speaker 3>And he said, what do you think of Venice? He said,

0:30:03.520 --> 0:30:10.440
<v Speaker 3>not enough canals, He'll never remember.

0:30:10.640 --> 0:30:13.560
<v Speaker 1>I went to Venice in December of last year, and

0:30:13.600 --> 0:30:16.880
<v Speaker 1>I brought my mom along with me. It was one

0:30:16.880 --> 0:30:19.280
<v Speaker 1>of the most magical trips that a mom and a

0:30:19.360 --> 0:30:21.920
<v Speaker 1>daughter could take in the chilly nights.

0:30:22.160 --> 0:30:24.760
<v Speaker 3>What month of theo was December December. Oh, I love

0:30:24.840 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 3>Venice in December.

0:30:25.720 --> 0:30:28.840
<v Speaker 1>It was so special. It didn't matter if it was

0:30:29.040 --> 0:30:33.440
<v Speaker 1>rain or shine or wind or cold. It just felt right.

0:30:34.000 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 1>And I think the company helps in the food and

0:30:36.160 --> 0:30:39.960
<v Speaker 1>the views. And I think that that's been one of

0:30:39.960 --> 0:30:41.960
<v Speaker 1>our best trips that we've done together.

0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:44.160
<v Speaker 3>As we used to go every December, the first weekend

0:30:44.240 --> 0:30:47.680
<v Speaker 3>of December, and I remember thinking we did it for

0:30:47.760 --> 0:30:50.600
<v Speaker 3>a sat to kind of be together for a sad memory.

0:30:50.720 --> 0:30:55.160
<v Speaker 3>And I thought if it was a perfect place to go,

0:30:55.240 --> 0:30:57.120
<v Speaker 3>because if you went to Rome and it was raining,

0:30:57.200 --> 0:30:59.480
<v Speaker 3>you'd think, oh, it's raining. If you go to Venice

0:30:59.560 --> 0:31:02.280
<v Speaker 3>and it's ray and it's rainy, it kind of fits

0:31:02.360 --> 0:31:05.120
<v Speaker 3>in Melancholia but also joy Magic.

0:31:05.680 --> 0:31:07.360
<v Speaker 1>Do you have a favorite restaurant in Venice?

0:31:07.360 --> 0:31:11.040
<v Speaker 3>And I like Ilkhovo, which is nice. I like Carampane,

0:31:11.280 --> 0:31:13.600
<v Speaker 3>I like Testieri. There are those restaurants, but I have

0:31:13.640 --> 0:31:16.960
<v Speaker 3>to say when people ask me my favorite three restaurants

0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:19.240
<v Speaker 3>in Venice, I usually say Harry's Bar, Harry's Bar and

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:19.800
<v Speaker 3>Harry's Bar.

0:31:20.200 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 1>The corner table that's magical.

0:31:22.160 --> 0:31:23.920
<v Speaker 3>You can't figure out it's just sitting there and think

0:31:24.280 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 3>it has the room because it has low ceilings there

0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:31.880
<v Speaker 3>are no windows. It's kind of everything should be wrong

0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:34.920
<v Speaker 3>the minute you go in there. I think it's possibly

0:31:34.960 --> 0:31:37.680
<v Speaker 3>because it's a bar and you walk straight in. There's

0:31:37.680 --> 0:31:40.200
<v Speaker 3>no entrance, so you walk straight in. I think the

0:31:40.280 --> 0:31:42.719
<v Speaker 3>tape I've really spent a lot of time with analyzing it.

0:31:43.080 --> 0:31:44.480
<v Speaker 2>I think that the tables.

0:31:44.160 --> 0:31:47.080
<v Speaker 3>Are very low, and so you feel quite, you're not

0:31:47.240 --> 0:31:51.560
<v Speaker 3>reaching out, you're trying to and everybody's together in there,

0:31:51.560 --> 0:31:52.320
<v Speaker 3>and the food is so.

0:31:52.320 --> 0:31:55.800
<v Speaker 1>Good, it's so good. It's consistent. Yeah, and consistency in

0:31:55.840 --> 0:31:59.640
<v Speaker 1>restaurants is challenging. I'm sure you. Yeah, you come across

0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:03.240
<v Speaker 1>that off and they're they're always consistent. In the Bellini,

0:32:03.400 --> 0:32:05.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you cannot say no to the.

0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:09.280
<v Speaker 2>I love I love a bar. So let's go to head,

0:32:09.360 --> 0:32:13.560
<v Speaker 2>let's go, let's go, go commer, let's go. It's December, Okay,

0:32:13.600 --> 0:32:14.040
<v Speaker 2>it's a day.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a day we have and I hope we have

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<v Speaker 3>thousands and thousands of listeners.

0:32:19.720 --> 0:32:21.360
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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

0:32:49.200 --> 0:32:52.720
<v Speaker 3>So right now you are working with Monk Laire.

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:53.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm working with.

0:32:54.880 --> 0:32:55.040
<v Speaker 3>I.

0:32:55.480 --> 0:32:58.880
<v Speaker 1>During my career, I from a very early age I

0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:01.440
<v Speaker 1>recognized that ten of was so much more than just

0:33:01.480 --> 0:33:06.000
<v Speaker 1>a sport. It was a really an opportunity to create

0:33:06.000 --> 0:33:09.120
<v Speaker 1>a platform, an opportunity to be curious and to be

0:33:09.600 --> 0:33:12.000
<v Speaker 1>picky about the people that I get to work with

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:14.560
<v Speaker 1>and the brands I get to align myself with. And

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:18.600
<v Speaker 1>I would, you know, I would ask to be and

0:33:18.680 --> 0:33:21.840
<v Speaker 1>to go in a room where they would do meetings

0:33:21.880 --> 0:33:24.800
<v Speaker 1>that you know, where the talent is usually not involved in.

0:33:25.000 --> 0:33:27.960
<v Speaker 1>But I felt like, you know, by getting my nose

0:33:28.040 --> 0:33:31.000
<v Speaker 1>in there, I learned so much for these smart people.

0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:34.680
<v Speaker 1>And I knew that as a woman tennis wouldn't last forever,

0:33:34.760 --> 0:33:37.040
<v Speaker 1>that I would want a family, especially since I had

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:39.760
<v Speaker 1>such a strong, you know, relationship with my young mom,

0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:42.480
<v Speaker 1>and I wanted, you know, a child of my own.

0:33:42.520 --> 0:33:45.720
<v Speaker 1>And also realistically, you can get injured any day, and

0:33:46.080 --> 0:33:49.320
<v Speaker 1>knowing that if that one sport, and you know, you

0:33:49.440 --> 0:33:53.400
<v Speaker 1>put all your stones in this one bucket and you

0:33:53.480 --> 0:33:57.440
<v Speaker 1>have to find other avenues, right And I love to work.

0:33:57.520 --> 0:33:59.640
<v Speaker 1>I love to work hard, and so I got a

0:33:59.720 --> 0:34:04.400
<v Speaker 1>chance to meet brilliant people in the business world, and

0:34:04.400 --> 0:34:07.560
<v Speaker 1>that led me to my role at Montclair on the

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:10.400
<v Speaker 1>being on the board there and and continue to learn

0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:13.440
<v Speaker 1>from I mean from Remo who's had I mean just

0:34:13.719 --> 0:34:17.359
<v Speaker 1>significant experience and success in what he's built and done

0:34:17.400 --> 0:34:20.239
<v Speaker 1>with With Montclair, I now get to work with the

0:34:20.239 --> 0:34:25.239
<v Speaker 1>Aman Hotel Group. We're curating wellness retreats around the world

0:34:25.280 --> 0:34:27.920
<v Speaker 1>that their properties are first one is going to be

0:34:27.960 --> 0:34:30.839
<v Speaker 1>in September at Almonzaou in Greece.

0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:32.880
<v Speaker 2>And Greece it's a three on the mainland.

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:37.560
<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's It's a three three, three night program where

0:34:37.640 --> 0:34:40.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm bringing in people that I've worked with in the past,

0:34:40.600 --> 0:34:43.440
<v Speaker 1>some of my trainers. You know, I look back at

0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:45.920
<v Speaker 1>my career, the years of playing, and I had an

0:34:45.960 --> 0:34:49.200
<v Speaker 1>exquisite team that would basically set a schedule for me,

0:34:49.400 --> 0:34:51.279
<v Speaker 1>Like in the morning, you wake up, you you know,

0:34:51.320 --> 0:34:55.080
<v Speaker 1>you measure your your heart rate variation, you go have breakfast,

0:34:55.160 --> 0:34:57.080
<v Speaker 1>you go do a warm up, you know, you loosen

0:34:57.160 --> 0:34:59.960
<v Speaker 1>up your body, you go train. And when I retire,

0:35:00.400 --> 0:35:03.640
<v Speaker 1>I realized that I have to make those decisions for myself.

0:35:03.680 --> 0:35:05.879
<v Speaker 1>So when I was curating this program, I thought, how

0:35:05.920 --> 0:35:08.040
<v Speaker 1>amazing to be able to show up and have this

0:35:08.239 --> 0:35:10.760
<v Speaker 1>few days just completely set for you.

0:35:10.840 --> 0:35:14.440
<v Speaker 3>Right, So you're working with Aman, you're working with Montclair.

0:35:14.320 --> 0:35:16.080
<v Speaker 1>And I'm a mother and your mother.

0:35:16.239 --> 0:35:19.759
<v Speaker 3>Tell me about feeding your baby? How does he does

0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:20.600
<v Speaker 3>he like to eat?

0:35:20.680 --> 0:35:20.960
<v Speaker 2>Does he.

0:35:22.760 --> 0:35:25.440
<v Speaker 1>I've yet to find find his true talent yet, but

0:35:25.560 --> 0:35:29.120
<v Speaker 1>food is I think is one of his passions. That

0:35:30.520 --> 0:35:33.400
<v Speaker 1>he loves food. I mean, he says nam nyam is

0:35:33.440 --> 0:35:36.440
<v Speaker 1>his favorite phrase. He just walks around the entire day

0:35:36.480 --> 0:35:37.600
<v Speaker 1>and just says, nam nam.

0:35:37.640 --> 0:35:39.800
<v Speaker 3>What about tell us we haven't talked about your husband,

0:35:39.880 --> 0:35:40.719
<v Speaker 3>tell us about.

0:35:41.440 --> 0:35:43.520
<v Speaker 1>We're not married yet, but tell me about you.

0:35:43.600 --> 0:35:46.200
<v Speaker 2>I called him speak phrase that tell me?

0:35:46.280 --> 0:35:48.319
<v Speaker 1>But I'd like I call him my husband because I

0:35:48.320 --> 0:35:50.800
<v Speaker 1>feel like he's my husband, but we're not officially married.

0:35:52.320 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 3>So tell me about food in your lives with him?

0:35:54.600 --> 0:35:55.520
<v Speaker 3>Does he love to eat?

0:35:55.600 --> 0:35:57.719
<v Speaker 1>We're big foodies. I mean we just recently on my

0:35:57.800 --> 0:36:00.080
<v Speaker 1>birthday we went to the Baths County in Spain and

0:36:00.400 --> 0:36:03.680
<v Speaker 1>did an entire trip around food because that was It's

0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:06.719
<v Speaker 1>one of our great passions. And when we met, I

0:36:06.760 --> 0:36:09.200
<v Speaker 1>feel like so many of our we've come from very

0:36:09.200 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 1>different backgrounds. You know, he grew up in you know,

0:36:12.239 --> 0:36:15.759
<v Speaker 1>having a proper education and spending his early years in

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<v Speaker 1>the luxury space with LVMH and Kruge Champagne and then

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<v Speaker 1>and then moving into the art world, so more of

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<v Speaker 1>a polished upbringing, and I came from much more grittier

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<v Speaker 1>perspective where sweat and tears, and we we met around

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<v Speaker 1>the art world. I enjoy collecting art. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>big passion of mine. And he started an online auction

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<v Speaker 1>site and a mutual friend put us in touch, and

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<v Speaker 1>so conversations started around art and moved into food and

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<v Speaker 1>then life, and then all of a sudden, we felt

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<v Speaker 1>like we had so much chemistry and connection around what

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<v Speaker 1>we've experienced in life, even though they came from completely

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<v Speaker 1>different backgrounds and perspectives, and and that's been it's been

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<v Speaker 1>nice to share that with our son, you know, our

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<v Speaker 1>different cultures and you know, I always feel like in teamwork,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's your sport or whether it's your career, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's family, if you have you have different ways of

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<v Speaker 1>getting to one destination. But if your vision is the

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<v Speaker 1>same and aligned, then that's what makes that story really beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Where do you live like we live in California and

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<v Speaker 1>Santa Barbara.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that's right, I realize and you have it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, because I do remember reading about you love

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<v Speaker 3>the shopping for the food my market market.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one of our favorite things to do is just

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<v Speaker 1>going to a local farmers market, taking our son and

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<v Speaker 1>using the stroller as my food basket and trying all

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<v Speaker 1>the you know, local ingredients and then going and getting

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the fresh fish from the pier and the

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<v Speaker 1>fresh oonie. It's really it's one of our favorite things

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<v Speaker 1>to do over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>And do cook yourselves. Both we do myself.

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<v Speaker 1>So Alexander, he loves to cook, but he doesn't like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of help because I think I'm I provide

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<v Speaker 1>too many suggestions. It sounds like a marriage, it does exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So when he cooks, he prefers that I just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>get a drinker. Just watch him from the sidelines quietly.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was so impressed. He We invited another couple

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<v Speaker 1>over and he made a Thanksgiving meal all by himself,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much. I did something with the potatoes. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I helped him prepare, but he, you know, he looked online.

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<v Speaker 1>He looked through a few recipes and he's like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what I'm doing. He got all the groceries, not

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of it, I was like, this was

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<v Speaker 1>really good. I'm so proud of you.

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<v Speaker 3>Entertaining is tough to the performance. You know, you have

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<v Speaker 3>people coming and you're going to take.

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<v Speaker 1>Get nervous about entertaining because I'm a perfectionist and he's

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<v Speaker 1>He's definitely much more comfortable with the concept because he

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<v Speaker 1>comes from a larger family and he comes from a

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<v Speaker 1>world of inter haining and throwing gatherings together people of

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<v Speaker 1>all different walks of life, and so he makes it work.

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<v Speaker 1>I just hone in on so many details that I

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<v Speaker 1>get a little stressed about the outcome, and I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>worried about each guests and you know, and I also,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I hate this, but I asked my guests

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<v Speaker 1>to take their shoes off because I love you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this Japanese sanctuary of a house, and I just I

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<v Speaker 1>know there, you know, guests are going to be annoyed.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fun. So I'm like, I need to get everyone's slippers.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so annoying. I'm annoying the fruits of the vegetables.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to get slippers. Yeah, So it's we're a

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<v Speaker 1>fun combination.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you get a restaurants much or do you lessly.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't eat out too much. We eat out a

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<v Speaker 1>lot when we travel. I love the curation on Yolo Journal.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you're familiar with that site, but

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<v Speaker 1>Yolanda Edwards puts together a really beautifully curated list of

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<v Speaker 1>I think you've contributed to her Hughes letter, but I

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<v Speaker 1>love her selections of places. So we share. We do

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of research on where on the city that

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to.

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<v Speaker 3>We were talking about before about talking and listening, and

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<v Speaker 3>one of the questions that we ask everyone is a

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<v Speaker 3>food is love, If food is sharing, a food is memories,

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<v Speaker 3>if food is your generations from your grandmother to your mother,

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<v Speaker 3>to yourself and to your son.

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<v Speaker 2>It also is comfort.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think that I would like to ask you

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<v Speaker 3>when you need and I hope you don't need it

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<v Speaker 3>very often, but when you want food as comfort to

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<v Speaker 3>make you feel better, is there a food that you

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<v Speaker 3>would go to for that.

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<v Speaker 1>I would go to my mom and I would ask

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<v Speaker 1>her to make crepes creps craps, Yeah, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>ask her to make it with a local jam, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's a strawberry or a cherry, and I just put

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<v Speaker 1>a large spoon of the jam onto the crepe and

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<v Speaker 1>roll it and eat several of them. Yeah, that's my

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<v Speaker 1>comfort food.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd love that sounds delicious.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd like to read something that you wrote before we

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<v Speaker 3>end this, beautifully written talking about future, about what we're

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<v Speaker 3>doing about every day, about how we live. And you

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<v Speaker 3>wrote that relentless chase for victories, though that won't ever

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<v Speaker 3>diminish no matter what lies ahead. I will apply the

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<v Speaker 3>same focus, the same work ethic, and all of the

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<v Speaker 3>lessons I've learned along the way. And I think that

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<v Speaker 3>is a beautiful marriage of past and future and present.

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<v Speaker 2>And so thank you so much for coming today, Ruthie.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>We covered a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Now let's go eat.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go eat. Thank you. I think we have a cake.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't need to celebrate.

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<v Speaker 1>Yay. I love cake.

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<v Speaker 3>I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for listening to Ruthie's Table four in partnership

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<v Speaker 1>with Montclair