WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Shop Til You Drop Date 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:03.160 Need Lasic trust the experienced team at the Lasic Center 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:06.560 at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. 0:00:06.840 --> 0:00:10.000 What will you do lesic at Evergreen dot com. It's 0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:12.039 Brook and Jewel in the morning. And out of all 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:14.840 the segments that we do on this show, probably one 0:00:14.840 --> 0:00:17.200 of the most popular ones we don't do it very 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:22.400 often is the second date update updates. Yeah, people love these. 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:24.239 We don't do them a whole lot because usually after 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:25.880 a second date update to people just hate each other. 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:29.160 But sometimes they actually contact us to give us an 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:32.680 update on how things went. So we're gonna play a 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:34.800 second date update for you right now, and then after 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:36.840 you hear it, we'll have the person on the line 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:38.639 to give us an update. So here's your second date 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:47.480 update update right now and Jewels second date Update. This 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:50.960 must be the year for dating, because it seems like 0:00:51.000 --> 0:00:53.520 every single email that we get in for a second 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:56.760 date update this past year has said this is the 0:00:56.800 --> 0:01:00.400 best date I've ever been on my entire life. So 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:02.800 everybody's apparently having the best dates of their entire life 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:04.520 this year. Why are we getting so many emails for 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:06.920 a second date updates? Then? I don't know, but Cassie 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:08.880 who's on the phone right now for a second day update, 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:11.679 said that she had the best date of her entire life. 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:14.080 I used to say bold statement, but I don't know 0:01:14.120 --> 0:01:19.000 that it is anymore. Maybe the bar is just low enough. Finally, yep, So, Cassie, 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:20.880 why don't you tell us about your best date of 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:25.200 your entire life? Hello? All right, how are you doing? 0:01:25.360 --> 0:01:29.880 You sound like you're still smiling, Cassie, So that's good. Yeah, 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:35.200 I am, and I'm trying to still. You're obviously not 0:01:35.200 --> 0:01:38.880 getting to call back, but that's cool. Yeah, kind of sucks, 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:41.960 but you know, hopefully you guys can help me. Yeah, 0:01:42.200 --> 0:01:45.440 we'll see. We do help a lot of people. No, 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:49.000 we don't, not really, we'll try. So tell us a 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:50.560 little bit about the dude you want to call today. 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:52.680 Who'd you go on a date with? His name is Levi. 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:56.360 And we did go on a lovely dinner date. Oh, 0:01:56.440 --> 0:02:00.360 the best date ever? It really was, you know, until 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:04.200 he just stopped contacting me. Yeah, and that usually makes 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:08.320 it a lot worse, all right, Cassie. Like I said, 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.440 everybody seems to be saying they've had the best day 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:12.920 of their entire life. Why was it so special? We 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:16.360 went to a really nice restaurant. Okay, I heard that before. 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:21.840 Don't be bored of their story. Listen to her. Most 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:24.040 guys I hear most guys say they don't want to 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:26.160 invest too much in a first date. So it is 0:02:26.200 --> 0:02:28.480 a nice thing when it's a nice restaurant that isn't cheap. 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:31.480 Good point. So it was really nice. You know, the 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:35.520 dishes were like at least thirty forty bucks per person, 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:39.559 and he did everything but you know, like a traditional 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:41.560 mom would tell you to look for a guy, like 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:44.000 pulling out the chair for you, opening the door for you. 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.680 He even was so weird, even like stood up when 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:50.240 I came back from the bathroom, and I've never experienced 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:52.639 that before. I was like, wait, what's going on? Are 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:57.200 we leaving? That's really funny. For I am a gentleman. 0:02:57.240 --> 0:02:59.960 I stand when a woman into the room. I'm waiting 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:01.639 for you to be seated, and then I will take 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:04.239 my seat as well. Oh my god, I think I 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:05.600 didn't say that because I was like, oh wait, no, 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:08.960 he's doing that old school chivalrous thing. I was like, wow, 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:11.880 this is really interesting. So he was. I mean, he 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:14.920 was really polite, was what it sounds like, which is lovely. 0:03:15.440 --> 0:03:17.760 And sad that that is what makes it the best 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:20.760 date ever? Or was there something else? Now there's more. 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:22.920 It's like, it's what's so weird about it. So he 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:26.720 wasn't only polite, he was engaging and interesting and he 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:29.519 had a sense of humor. He asked me questions about myself. 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:32.120 He didn't just go on and on about himself. It 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:35.720 was like, really like he had my interest. Yeah, it 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:38.800 sounds refreshing and lovely. Sounds like you went out with 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:42.320 a knight of the round table who has learned to 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:46.200 travel to the future. No, ya, maybe that's why he's 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.480 not calling you back. He had to go back fight 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:55.920 some dinosaurs, dragons, really whatever they were fighting. It sounds 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:59.720 like a true gentleman, Cassie. Anyway, the dinner date was awesome. 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:02.320 Everything ended well, I mean, you know, big Bill, I'm 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:05.960 sure because we ordered everything and then we were walking 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:08.040 out and he was like, I really don't want to 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:10.800 stay to end you and I said, actually, no, I'm 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:13.600 having a really good time. Oh that's such a nice moment. 0:04:14.520 --> 0:04:16.159 But I thought he was like. I was like, okay, 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:17.520 is this the point where he's going to ask me 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.799 to go back to his place? And then that's gonna 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:22.440 like just be you know, everything downhill from there. And 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:25.240 I was like waiting for it, but he said, well, 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.839 let's just get in my car and we'll go find 0:04:27.960 --> 0:04:30.440 something fun to do. And we ended up at a mall. 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:33.760 What yeah, I thought you said something fun to do. 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:36.200 Why were you at a mall? Well, I just kind 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:38.120 of ended up in our conversation. We were just yapping 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:40.600 about something and I was like, oh, you know what, 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:42.640 that actually is not a bad idea. There's something I 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:45.200 wouldn't mind, you know, stopping a Sephora pick up a 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.800 couple things that I know I need. Okay, Cassie, Now 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:51.320 we're running errands on our day, Okay, Like I don't know. Well, 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:53.359 it was an excuse to keep the day going. You know, 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:55.039 he's a dested mall and I was like, sure, why not. 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:58.559 And so you guys went and picked up some dry cleaning. 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:03.400 I'm gonna lose it, but yeah, so we win them all. 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:05.880 I stopped at Sephora. He actually goes with me, which 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:07.600 was weird. Usually like a guy would just be like, 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:09.560 i'll be out here, so I go get my stuff 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:11.640 and he just like butts in in front of me 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:14.640 and puts his credit card down and buys it for me. 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:19.080 Nice whoa, yeah, fifty dollars you know of like cream 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:21.200 and foundation stuff. I'm like, wait, what, why are you 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:22.960 doing this? And he's just like, oh, I just want 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:25.960 to see a smile. Oh You're like, okay, sir, come 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:29.920 with me to the next store, then bigger. It does 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:31.560 sound like the best day of your entire life. I 0:05:31.600 --> 0:05:33.920 wish somebody would take me out and just buy me things. Yeah. 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:36.560 Actually it did. Continue. I went into another store and 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:38.480 I was like, surely he's not going to keep doing this. 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:39.840 I just saw something in the window. I was like, oh, 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:41.960 that looks cool. What do you know? He buys that 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:44.800 for me too. And I kept trying to say stop, 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:46.919 you don't have to do this. This is like you know, 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:48.680 and he's like, no, no, please, please let me. I 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:53.839 enjoy giving and you know, I'm enjoying my time with you. Wow. Okay, 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:56.599 So other than credit card debt, how did the date end? 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:01.520 Very nice? He took me back to my house and 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:04.880 dropped me off and it definitely ended with a nice kiss. Oh. 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:07.320 And that's when I told him, you know, I was like, 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:09.640 this is probably the best date I've ever been on. 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:11.400 And you know, I was like, thank you very much, 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:14.719 and he said, don't say that yet because we have 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:18.840 another date coming up very soon together. Oh cute way 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:22.480 to take control, sir. Obviously he was lying though, because 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:26.040 you haven't gone out again. How long ago was it 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:28.120 that he said that? That was like a couple of 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:31.120 weeks ago. And yeah, that was the last time we 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:33.640 spoke about it. I mean he hasn't you know, we 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:35.480 haven't spoken on the phone. We've just kind of texted 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:38.400 a little bit, but not made any concrete plans. He 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:40.919 hasn't really followed up with what he said. Yeah, a 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:44.520 few weeks I would not consider very soon. No, yeah, 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:46.839 And it's frustrating because we've kind of talked about the dates, 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:49.400 but nothing's really happening. And I do want to see 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:52.359 him again. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:54.200 and then call him and get your second date up date. 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:59.000 All right, thank you? Okay, hang up if you're just 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:01.600 joining us for today's second date update. Cassie is on 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:04.160 the phone and she said she had the best date 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:07.200 of her entire life with the dude named Levi. They 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:09.440 went out for a very nice dinner and then at 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:14.400 the end of dinner, Levi looked her and he said, congratulations, Cassie, 0:07:14.520 --> 0:07:19.520 you just won a luxurious shopping spree. You'll be whisked 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:21.880 away to the local mall. We'll head on over to 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:23.800 Saphora and buy you a bunch of perfume and other 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:28.800 facial crap, and then you get a pair of new shoes. Cassie, 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:32.119 this is what life is like when you're dating Levi. 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:37.000 Is that kind of how it went, Cassie? Pretty much? Yeah, 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:39.720 I guess I was pretty much date except for non 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:43.040 game show like no music announcer. That's too bad. It 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:44.600 couldn't have been the best day of your entire life, 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:47.400 because every really good date involves a game show announcer. 0:07:48.400 --> 0:07:50.560 Cassie went to the mall with this dude after they 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:52.360 had dinner, and he bought her a bunch of stuff 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:54.600 and then they had a kiss. He said he had 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:57.800 another huge surprise planned for their second date. But now 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:00.920 the conversation has fizzled out. And what are you feeling 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:03.120 with him right now? Are you still liking him a lot? 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:07.360 You too? Frustrated? I still like him, slightly frustrated, but 0:08:07.520 --> 0:08:11.080 I also am thinking there could be another girl involved. 0:08:11.120 --> 0:08:13.800 I just want to get an answer. Oh, like he 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:16.640 hasn't had time because he's dating other women possibly or 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:18.520 he has a girlfriend and he knows if he is 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:20.360 seeing somebody else, he's spending a lot of cash if 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:23.960 that's the way he dates. Yeah, all right, Cassie, here 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:35.360 we go. I'm gon An Dallas one him right now? Okay, Hello, Hey, 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:38.640 can I speak to Levi? Oh? Yeah, this is him? Hey, 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:40.439 what's up? Man? How are you? This is Jewbil from 0:08:40.440 --> 0:08:44.199 Brook and jew Bil in the Morning from What Brooke 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:49.240 and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Oh oh, okay. 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:52.320 Have you listened to the show before? I have not? 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:56.760 Okayy cool, Thanks, don't blame you, Levi. I don't even 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:58.400 want to listen when I'm here, you know. No, No, 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:01.000 I'm personal. I'm just not a big radio guy. Yeah, 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:03.439 but for me it's personal though. Anyway, let's not talk 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:06.120 about that. I want to talk to you because we 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:09.280 got an email from one of our listeners about you. 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:12.840 You got an email about me? Yeah, it's from a 0:09:12.880 --> 0:09:18.680 girl named Cassie. Cassie emailed you about me. Yeah, she did. 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:20.440 We do a segment on our show called the Second 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:23.480 Date Update. So Cassie says that you had a wonderful 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:26.080 date together, but you've kind of been blowing her off 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:28.319 recently and she feels like you don't want to go 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:30.920 out again. Wait. Wait, I just want to clarify other 0:09:30.960 --> 0:09:33.280 people have done this, right, I'm not the first guy 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:36.040 that you've been contacted about. Does that make you feel 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:38.240 better about the situation if other people have done it 0:09:38.280 --> 0:09:41.160 before you? Well, I just want to make sure that, like, 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:44.000 I'm not the first, No, but you're the best. Leave 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:47.800 you're not the first. We do a lot of these Okay. 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:51.640 First of all, I just want to say that my 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:54.600 date with Cassie was like the best date I've ever 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:57.760 been on, and I had a great time, and I 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:00.679 really really really want to go out with her again. 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:05.280 I'm just not ready. You're not. Why aren't you ready? Well, 0:10:06.240 --> 0:10:09.240 to be completely honest, I'm kind of broke. That first 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:11.760 date kind of tapped me out, and I'm trying to 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:18.160 save up enough money to take her on a second date. O. Man, 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:21.079 why are you paid for all this expensive stuff if 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:23.000 you don't have the funds to do that, like buy 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.800 her the makeup and the shoes. Oh she told you 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:28.920 about all that stuff? Huh yeah, yeah, yeah, we talked 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:30.400 to her about your date. She said, you, guys went 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:32.320 to a really nice dinner and then afterwards you took 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:33.720 her to the mall and you were like, throw it 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:37.959 in the bag. Girl, It's not really a big deal. Guys, 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:40.559 I got a second Um, I gotta I'm I'm driving 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:44.320 for Uber now, and so between Nan and my real job, 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:47.200 I really think that you know, it's going to be 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:49.240 easy to take her on dates like that. I just 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:51.280 wasn't planning ahead because I didn't know I was going 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:56.360 to meet her. You know, you took a second job 0:10:56.400 --> 0:11:00.840 in order to take Cassie out again. Yeah. That is 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:04.280 so sweet and so wrong all at the same time. Yeah, no, 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:06.600 it's not right. I mean, look, let's be honest. What's 0:11:06.640 --> 0:11:09.360 money for if not to like spend it on people 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:11.760 you like? Sounds like money for you should be to 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:14.800 save it. But you realize when you go out on 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:17.800 a date, you don't have to break the bank. Right, Well, 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:23.080 you don't know Cassie, but she's definitely worth breaking the bank. 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:25.000 I mean, i'd even rob a bank, not a big one, 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:32.559 but a medium size bank. If you don't have the bank, 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:36.440 don't spend it. No, No, I get that it's just 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:40.840 I think today nowadays, it's just a nice concept to 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.320 be able to take somebody out. And if I'm the 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:45.439 one asking them out, I want to be the one 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:48.600 who can, like, you know, make it a date. Okay, 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:50.880 I agree with you there, I do. I think that 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:52.559 if you're the one that's asking, then you should be 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:54.960 the one that treats. But she likes you for a 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:57.480 lot of reasons, and there's a lot of other less 0:11:57.480 --> 0:12:01.080 expensive date options than taking them to the mom, Like 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:04.319 you could go, I don't know, to coffee man. Yeah, 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:06.640 I mean, I don't know. In the dating climate nowadays, 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:10.480 I think too many guys are content just being you know, typical. 0:12:10.720 --> 0:12:13.760 And I wanted to wow her, and I still want 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:16.040 to wow her on our next date. That's the point. 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:19.480 And this promotion that Uber's offering right now, if I 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:22.480 give one hundred and fifty rides in a three week period, 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:24.800 I get a bonus five hundred dollars. So I was 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:27.080 out there last night until four in the morning, giving 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:29.400 rides to a lot of drunk people, and it was 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:33.920 totally worth it. I think that is so kind, But 0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:36.120 you're missing the point. That's not how you wow a woman. 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:39.439 It's not with money. You wowed Cassie because you listen 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:42.200 to her, that you engaged her, You pulled the chair 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:46.119 out for her, You made her feel respected and important. 0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:49.600 Well regardless guys of like what we agree or disagree on, 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:53.000 can you do me a favor and just let Cassie 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:56.640 know that I am totally on board for another date 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:58.880 and if she can just wait a few more days, 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:01.240 I'm going to give her the best next date ever. 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:05.559 Oh okay, well I'll let her know, but you kind 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:07.560 of already did because she's actually on the other line 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:10.080 listening and wants to talk to you. What do you mean. 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:13.040 I mean we have multiple phone lines and she's been 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:20.600 on one of them listening to you talk. Oh hellosh, 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:26.520 look and there she is. Modern technology, isn't it awesome? Levi? Hi, Hi, LEVI? 0:13:27.960 --> 0:13:32.079 Have you been listening along? Yes, I listened to everything. 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:36.400 There was no time where you stepped away from the phone. No, 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:41.840 I heard it all. It's okay, I am. I'm really 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:44.800 glad to you know, just like hear something, because you know, 0:13:44.880 --> 0:13:49.760 I was really starting to wonder and just think that, um, okay, 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:54.120 maybe there was another girl you did something. No, no 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:58.520 other girls. You are the only girl I want to 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:01.440 hang out with I just really wanted to show you 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:05.640 a great date. And I get that. I think that 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:09.360 that's amazing. I really really like after hearing your story now, 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:13.400 like I'm so amazed that you would go to that extent, 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:16.120 but you really, like, you know, you don't have to 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:20.240 go that that crazy, I mean, especially we're just getting 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:22.760 to know each other, like, you know, we should focus 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:25.880 on getting to know each other, not just about the money. 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:28.440 I mean, you're really awesome. I want to spend time 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:31.560 with you. Well, let's see on our next date. I 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:34.480 got you two pairs of shoes instead of one. I mean, 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:38.360 you're not going to turn that down, right? Okay, that 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:41.680 is not necessary. You know I eventually I'm going to 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:43.400 run out of places to put things if you keep 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.080 it up like that. Well we could get slippers. They 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:48.560 they're more space efficient yet, or you could take a 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:53.120 third job and build your new closet. Believe, it's almost 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:56.920 like insulting to her. She she's more than just wanting shoes, man, 0:14:57.000 --> 0:14:59.840 She wants you. She wants your personality. She wants how 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:02.800 you make her feel. Not only do I want to 0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:06.800 listen to Cassie and here and respond with her. But 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:08.680 I also want to be able to, like, you know, 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:12.320 buyer things because that's the total package, and that's what 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:17.400 that's what women dig, and that's awesome. You got me 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:22.320 excited about it. I can't wait to do that. You're enough, 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:24.600 That's what I'm saying. You're enough. You don't need the 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:28.920 other stuff. You are the total package without the shoes. Yes, exactly, 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:31.840 you don't. I mean it's gonna be detriment, like if 0:15:31.840 --> 0:15:33.760 we were in a relationship and you are just busy 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:35.520 working all the time to make the money and then 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:37.680 just give me guests if I don't have a connection 0:15:37.720 --> 0:15:40.400 when you because you're gone, and that's not the total package. 0:15:40.560 --> 0:15:43.720 That's like a lopsided package. All right. When we were 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:47.000 at the door after we kissed, you told me that 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:50.600 that was the best state you'd ever been on. Right, Yes, 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:54.560 and that was because I got you this stuff at 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:58.040 Sephora and I got you the shoes you are. No, 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:01.320 it's not because of that. That was just like an extra, 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:04.720 like icing on the cake. Totally unexpected. But I was 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:07.920 already interested in you from our conversation at dinner and 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:10.360 how polite you are. I mean, if you were rude 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:11.880 and awful, and then you said you want to hit 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:13.440 me shopping. It would have been weird. I probably would 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:14.960 have said, no, I'm good. I don't want to pen 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:20.640 any more time with you. So it wasn't the money, Okay, 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:23.040 I hear you. It wasn't the money. But just so 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:26.320 you know, I've been saving up a lot for our 0:16:26.320 --> 0:16:30.680 next week. Oh my god, you're driving until four in 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:32.960 the morning, carting around drunk people, just trying to make 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:35.720 some cash so he can take you out again, Cassie. 0:16:36.760 --> 0:16:40.040 Totally not necessary. Have about we just go to dinner 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:43.200 somewhere that's inexpensive, and we just take a walk somewhere 0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:47.160 where there's no money involved, no shopping, like something simple 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:49.600 on a beach or whatever. Oh I could rin a 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:52.040 pair of sale and we could fly around on that. No, 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:56.040 don't any money. I mean literally, the only red flag 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:57.760 with you right now at this point is your money 0:16:57.760 --> 0:17:01.120 management skills. Like you need to stop. Man, How about this, 0:17:01.160 --> 0:17:03.000 Would you go out on a second date with Cassie. 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:06.120 We will pay for it and you can't spend any 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:10.159 money on it, though. I gotta respectfully decline, guys, because 0:17:10.320 --> 0:17:12.920 I'm gonna pay for it, and you guys can't pay 0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:16.360 for anything. This is my date. Oh my god, it's 0:17:16.400 --> 0:17:19.199 just the principle of the matter. You're arguing whether or 0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:21.280 not we pay for your date that you can't afford. 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:23.640 I'm going to be paying for stuff, and that's how 0:17:23.680 --> 0:17:27.480 it is. Okay, it's fine, you can pay for stuff, 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:30.200 but let's not like be spending the whole time paying 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:32.800 for stuff. Like, just pay for a dinner and then 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:35.439 a little dessert and then that's fine. That's it. No shopping. 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:37.639 How about that. That's probably a good idea because I 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:39.879 should be driving over by ten thirty. That's when you 0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:44.600 get the biggest bonus. Okay, cool, So we're gonna agreement. 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:47.240 Then you guys are going to go out one more time. Yes, Cassie, 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:49.879 I'm really excited for an estate. I don't want to 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:54.040 give away too much, but it does involve a limousine 0:17:54.720 --> 0:17:59.240 and endangered animals. Oh my god. Wow, yeah, I don't 0:17:59.240 --> 0:18:03.879 care what I want to go on this date. In 0:18:03.880 --> 0:18:06.640 the morning. You just heard a second date update from 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:10.080 months ago, and now Cassie is on the phone with 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:13.320 an update for us. What's up, Cassie? Hey, how are you? 0:18:13.680 --> 0:18:15.840 Oh good? How are you not too bad? I just 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:20.040 I picture you lavished with gifts right now? Oh? Absolutely? 0:18:21.840 --> 0:18:23.600 So is it only you on the phone, because like 0:18:23.640 --> 0:18:25.679 he's broke now and you don't talk to him anymore. 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:28.040 What's what's the deal? You said you had an update 0:18:28.040 --> 0:18:30.679 for us? Oh yeah, yeah, I know, we've been dating. 0:18:30.760 --> 0:18:34.800 We've actually been doing pretty well. Oh my gosh. Really 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:39.199 that's so exciting. Congratulations. Yeah. Once I realized what his 0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:42.439 motive was that, you know, he just really wants to 0:18:43.040 --> 0:18:45.800 go all out. He has super high expectations of himself, 0:18:45.880 --> 0:18:48.000 just wants to give me the world. And I'm like, Okay, 0:18:48.040 --> 0:18:51.199 I gotta appreciate his motivation. Yeah, that's exciting for you 0:18:51.280 --> 0:18:53.199 get all kinds of free stuff. Still, that's great. I 0:18:53.200 --> 0:18:55.280 think my biggest question is how many jobs does he 0:18:55.359 --> 0:19:00.320 have right now? Well, um, he has this one job 0:19:00.960 --> 0:19:02.919 and he has to to like go out of the 0:19:02.920 --> 0:19:05.120 country for it because it's gonna make him a lot 0:19:05.160 --> 0:19:08.200 of money. Really, okay. Is that why he's not on 0:19:08.240 --> 0:19:12.120 the phone with those right now? Exactly? He's abroad Okay. 0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:15.000 And so I mean, where are you guys at in 0:19:15.000 --> 0:19:17.679 your relationship? Are you just enjoying the present or you 0:19:17.760 --> 0:19:21.160 planning for the future? Um, it's still in the present. 0:19:21.240 --> 0:19:23.400 I mean, I'm hoping, you know, I'm hoping it worked out, 0:19:23.440 --> 0:19:25.800 but I'm still enjoying the present as well. Is he 0:19:25.880 --> 0:19:28.600 going to have to move Overseas for this job? Well 0:19:28.720 --> 0:19:30.840 for a little while, and I mean hopefully not for 0:19:30.880 --> 0:19:32.920 a long time because I could complicate things. But yeah, 0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:34.760 for it's gonna be a few months. You know, he 0:19:34.800 --> 0:19:37.119 has to go there. Um, it was actually spending a 0:19:37.119 --> 0:19:39.800 lot on his credit card too, so he has to 0:19:39.880 --> 0:19:42.000 go there. So did he just leave the country because 0:19:42.040 --> 0:19:43.320 of debt? Is that it? Is? He just on the 0:19:43.400 --> 0:19:47.040 run now, like not really on the run, but he 0:19:47.080 --> 0:19:49.840 has an opportunity to you know, pay off his debt 0:19:50.000 --> 0:19:52.320 very quickly, so he kind of has no choice at 0:19:52.320 --> 0:19:55.720 this moment. Okay, this is starting to sound a little sketchy. 0:19:55.880 --> 0:19:58.560 I'm not gonna lie to you. I really hope not. 0:19:58.760 --> 0:20:00.800 But he had so much jet and then one of 0:20:00.880 --> 0:20:05.040 his friends reached out with this opportunity. And I've seen 0:20:05.040 --> 0:20:07.360 the show Locked Up Abroad, you know, is that the opportunity, 0:20:07.400 --> 0:20:12.040 Like he's smuggling drugs from wherever wherever there's a lot 0:20:12.040 --> 0:20:14.520 of money. You can make money pretty quick that way. No, 0:20:14.680 --> 0:20:20.200 it's it's not drugs. But it is diamonds, diamonds, smuggling diamonds. 0:20:20.040 --> 0:20:23.159 It's gonna be digging for diamonds. He's digging for like 0:20:23.200 --> 0:20:26.239 he's actually in a mine as we speak. Yeah, if 0:20:26.240 --> 0:20:29.520 buddy and Russia actually called him because he bought some 0:20:29.680 --> 0:20:32.639 lands and he needs to help mining or digging for 0:20:32.760 --> 0:20:36.080 some diamonds. So he's he's doing and this isn't like 0:20:36.119 --> 0:20:39.760 an email scam that he fell for. Yes, no, it's 0:20:39.800 --> 0:20:42.199