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Speaker 1: often is the second date update updates. Yeah, people love these.

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Speaker 1: We don't do them a whole lot because usually after

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Speaker 1: update update right now and Jewels second date Update. This

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Speaker 1: must be the year for dating, because it seems like

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Speaker 1: every single email that we get in for a second

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Speaker 1: Who'd you go on a date with? His name is Levi.

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Speaker 1: And we did go on a lovely dinner date. Oh,

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Speaker 1: Don't be bored of their story. Listen to her. Most

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Levi? Oh? Yeah, this is him? Hey,

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Speaker 1: Brook and jew Bil in the Morning from What Brooke

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Speaker 1: You got an email about me? Yeah, it's from a

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Speaker 1: girl named Cassie. Cassie emailed you about me. Yeah, she did.

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Speaker 1: before you? Well, I just want to make sure that, like,

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Speaker 1: First of all, I just want to say that my

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Speaker 1: I'm just not ready. You're not. Why aren't you ready? Well,

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Speaker 1: Have you been listening along? Yes, I listened to everything.

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Speaker 1: That's like a lopsided package. All right. When we were

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Speaker 1: it's not because of that. That was just like an extra,

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Speaker 1: Totally not necessary. Have about we just go to dinner

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Speaker 1: don't any money. I mean literally, the only red flag

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Speaker 1: Would you go out on a second date with Cassie.

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited for an estate. I don't want to

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