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Speaker 1: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on dig

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Speaker 1: me now one and only. Uh huh. Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: of the hour, Michael Jackson's pet elephant escaped from the

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Speaker 1: what where is my backpack? Then? Where is your backpack?

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Speaker 1: My backpack has been on this chill with my wallet

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Speaker 1: hal style Surrenzo. Oh great, great, Hey, we were waiting

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Speaker 1: is this is this calming? Hi? How are you good? Great? Listen? Um,

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Speaker 1: I've gotten into a spat with Oliver, and I just

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Speaker 1: go back and forth with you about this. I've been god,

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Speaker 1: I have argued with him all night. I'm not going

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00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: to go back and forth and argue with you as well. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have to argue with me when I need it

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00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: for you to be here, I understand that, and I'm

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Speaker 1: going to send someone there, any one of the most

427
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 1: unprofessional stylists I have ever met in my life. I

428
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 1: cannot even believe you're doing this. Listen, I'm trying to

429
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Speaker 1: deal with you on a professional level, but you're not

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Speaker 1: because you're not here. I understand that, and I understand

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00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to to to rein on your parade

432
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: and professionalism went out the window when you called to

433
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Speaker 1: say that you can make it because you were in

434
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: an argument with your boyfriend. Well, I'm not gonna do

435
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 1: is go back and forth with you. Somebody to find Kim,

436
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 1: find um, tell her to come. Where is everybody? Mama?

437
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 1: Please get him to the phone. Oh boyd, listen, what

438
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: Have you done to your hair thing? Okay? Has it

439
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: been washed? Yes? Okay, so it's just waiting. Is that

440
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: what's going on. Yes, that's what's going on. Have been done?

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00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 1: Have you been under the dryer at all? No? Okay?

442
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: So is it still there? What are you asking me questions?

443
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: You have been trying to get someone I bring when

444
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: I send someone and I want to send them in there. Yes,

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00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: I'm sitting here with wet hair. Has your has your

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00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: makeup been done yet? No? I'm waiting for you to

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00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 1: do my hair. I cannot believe this. Why are you

448
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 1: asking me these questions? Told on ones like Oliver, I'm

449
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: not gonna go. I'm Oliver, I'm not Oh my god,

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00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say. This is crazy. I'm not going

451
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,120
Speaker 1: to you now. Let me take care of the time.

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00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: I'm not going. Hello, are you kidding me? Listen? Is

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00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: there any way you could possibly push the wedding back

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00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: to seven? You are crazy? You want me to change

455
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 1: my time because you're in an argument with your friend. Listen,

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00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: this is the first thing. This is you are the

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00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 1: most unprofessional dollars I've ever met in my life. And

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00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 1: trust me, Darling, I will put the word out about you. No, no,

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00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: do you. I will make sure that you never ever

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00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 1: do business again. Wait a minute, now, what you're not

461
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,640
Speaker 1: gonna do? Don't curse at me. You're not gonna You're

462
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: not gonna do ring in my day. I understand. There's

463
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: no reason to be mad. I'm the one that should

464
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 1: be upset. It's my day. You're not gonna talk to

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Speaker 1: me like this, and you don't talk to you any

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Speaker 1: kind of way. I want to you call ringing my day.

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00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: Hold on a second. So you got this talking crazy

468
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: to me, and I'm nothing to go with it, and

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00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm not what I'm not gonna do it sitting talk

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Speaker 1: to me. No, you didn't call me. I'm not going

471
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: to sit here and let you talk to me. You

472
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 1: know what, I wish you were coming to this church.

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00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: I got your listen. I'm not gonna sit here and

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00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: go back and forth with you. Now. I got someone

475
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: I can send in there to get your hat done.

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00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: Do you want it or do you not? Who are

477
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: you sending? I am sending let's and I will be

478
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: sending my assistant. And she does. She washed his hair.

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00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 1: She's been instructed what to do. Don't worry, She'll get

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00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 1: it to You don't want me to let her shampoo

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00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 1: girl start my hair for my wedding? Look do you

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00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: want Are you kidding me? I'm a a please. No,

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00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: you need to be talking to me, not Oliver. I understand. Listen,

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00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: let me take the racial voice, said her voice at me.

485
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: I can't do what everyth hell I want to. This

486
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: is my You're ruined my wedding day. No, I'm not.

487
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get your wedding day together. Now. I'm

488
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: going to send this one shampoo girl to do my hair.

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00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,719
Speaker 1: Cynthia is very good. She will be there at five o'clock.

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00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 1: We will have you ready. Your wedding starts at five o'clock.

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00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. What you need to

492
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: be saying? Is he on your day? I'm gonna Simpia

493
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: will be on. I don't want Synthia to do my hair.

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00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: I didn't pay Cynthia to do my hair. I paid

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00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: you to do my hair. You have to bring Oliver

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00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: with you. You need to come on. But do you

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00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,719
Speaker 1: want to go? Oh my god, do you want to

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00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:00,719
Speaker 1: just go with me? Okay, listen, I have one more

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00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: thing I need to say. Yeah, I have to say

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00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: to me The only thing you need to be saying

501
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: to me is that you and Oliver on your way. Yeah,

502
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: about to ruin the most important day of my life.

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00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: I am not on your way, yes or no? Are

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00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 1: you on your way? Yes or no? Yes? And I

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00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: have one more thing I need to say. But what

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00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: do you want to say? Listen, don't don't, don't come

507
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 1: for me. Boy, You've got to spit it out. This

508
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: is Matthew caught me from the Steve Alby Morning Show.

509
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: You just got pranked by all your bridesmaids. Oh my god,

510
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: I am going to I don't believe they did this.

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00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: That's why I can't sign on, Tessa, And I'm kicking you.

512
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: Was not funny, not today. This is the last thing

513
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: I needed today. You know what they wanted me. They

514
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: wanted me to get you yesterday. I said no, We're

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00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: waiting to the wedding day. I got one more thing.

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00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you, what is what is the baddest

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00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land,

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00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning All right, thank you. We'll be

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00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 1: All right, we have a lot to get to this hour,

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00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: but first we have to talk about this Tommy earlier.

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00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: Uh in the show, you made reference to your backpack

524
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: and Steve made reference to its credit card. What were you? Okay,

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00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: I came in here with the back back this morning.

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00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: Now it's gone. I know, damn well, who got it?

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00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: So I called myself playing a little joke. Alright, I

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00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: went by his house, I left to go and my

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00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 1: wife went to Vegas. Yeah, here's credit card is in

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Speaker 1: the house. Land I pick it up, I said, I said,

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00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play a joke on so I take his card.

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00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: Then I, you know, shot a video saying I got

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00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: my Moca card. I'm bawling in Vega. Okay, so I'm

534
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: just playing, you know now, But okay, you play it.

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00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: But did you have my card? Though? I had your card? Okay, okay,

536
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: And now I have an American Express card too. Mine

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00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: ain't black man, feel forul but you know, hanging out

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00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 1: having fun, I messed around, grabbed the wrong card. Yeah,

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00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: I use your card a little bit. But at the

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00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 1: end of the day, you know how you grabbed the

541
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: wrong card? How you just said your card ain't black.

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00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 1: Now how you grab you you grab a black card

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00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 1: knowing you ain't got but a silver card. So now

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00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: you didn't grab the black card and you use it

545
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: a little bit? HOI ho? How you? How you using

546
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: a little bit? Like I said, you know, we're hanging out.

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00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 1: It was dark where I was, and the card is dark,

548
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: but it wasn't yours currently It was just a joke.

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00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: You know. He didn't took it the wrong. Now my

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00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: damn backpack on and I know it's in this room somewhere,

551
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: so I know you got it. Okay, Uh huh, the

552
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: joke's on you and your medicine in there, yes that

553
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 1: I need. What's wrong with you? Well, he doesn't have

554
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: sickle cell, he doesn't have diabetes. What he got? Yeah?

555
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: What do you? What do you have to do? No?

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00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: Little slightly slightly in little frost state, you know, just

557
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: a little bit, but that's because you got a little prostate.

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00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: I said, slightly in large. They just regular side. They

559
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: did look big medicine, man, you can miss dag. Nope,

560
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: you got regular side, look real big on you. Okay,

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00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 1: so that's up too far. All right, Well, thanks for

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00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:29,240
Speaker 1: thanks for clearing alright. So I was telling you earlier, Steve,

563
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:32,280
Speaker 1: that Michael Jackson's old pad elephant was a little naughty

564
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: over the weekend in Florida, The Jacksonville Zoo and Garden

565
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: said on its Facebook page that Ali, that's an elephant

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00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: that once lived at Michael's Neverland ranch, moon walked out

567
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,839
Speaker 1: of his enclosure on Sunday and ended up in a courtyard.

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00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: Zoo officials say workers accidentally left a gate open and

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Speaker 1: Ali the elephant tried to beat it. He was. He

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00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:59,439
Speaker 1: was on the loose for about twenty minutes before zoo

571
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,439
Speaker 1: workers were able to use food to entice him back

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00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: to his enclosure. Fortunately, no one was hurt and Alie

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00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: is safe, so that's the good news. What happened? What

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00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: do you mean? I just read the story with as

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00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 1: George Wallace his mama it was Father's Day. She wanted

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00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 1: to go wish him a happy Father's Day because you

577
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: know he don't know his real daddy. So he left

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00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: a zoo to George, happy for you? Man dead, He said,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's Father's Day tomorrow. I Miss Anna

580
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: is here with today's headlines. Please introduce her, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: Miss and trip. Really, thank you, Steve, Thanks everybody. Good

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00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: morning everybody. This is and tried with the news well.

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Speaker 1: As the Trump administration comes under increasing criticism over its

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00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,359
Speaker 1: separation at the US border of illegal adult immigrants from

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00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 1: their children, the presidents quoted is blaming the Democrats for

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00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 1: the border separations and adding that he intends to keep

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00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 1: the US from becoming a quote migrant camp. However, lawmakers

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00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 1: and religiously just calling on the calling the policy immoral

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00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,800
Speaker 1: and wrong. Other Republicans also saying things like that. However,

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00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: the U s. Attorney General Jeff Sessions is defending the

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00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 1: new crackdown, telling an audience of police at the New

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00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: Orleans that America is faced with a choice whether we

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Speaker 1: want to be a country of laws or whether we

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Speaker 1: want to be a country without borders, and Sessions is

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Speaker 1: calling on lawmakers to come up with new immigration laws

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Speaker 1: to end what he describes as the quote lawlessness at

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Speaker 1: the border. And that's maybe two thousand youngsters have been

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00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: separated from their parents and over just the last six

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Speaker 1: weeks or so, by the way, The President is to

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Speaker 1: meet with the House of Representatives this afternoon and talk

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Speaker 1: about immigration. Place in Germany have arrested the head of

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Speaker 1: Volkswagen's luxury car brand out He is part of a

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00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: bigger probe and to the diesel emission scandal over there.

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Speaker 1: The arrest coming only week after German prosecutors find the

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Speaker 1: Volkswagen company one point two billion dollars. That's billion, would

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Speaker 1: it be? Rupert Statler was arrested yesterday on charges of

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00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 1: fraud and false advertising. Prosecutors looking to see if he

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00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: acted quickly enough to stop deliveries of Outie vehicles within

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00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: Europe whose gas emissions gauges had been manipulated to make

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Speaker 1: the cars appear more efficient than they actually were. According

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Speaker 1: to the World Health Organization, video game addiction GET this

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Speaker 1: is a disorder. In other words, it's an identifiable condition.

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Speaker 1: Today is Juneteenth, which commemorates today in eighteen sixty five,

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00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,399
Speaker 1: when the slaved Africans in Texas finally got the word

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00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 1: that they'd been freed, because the whites kept the news

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00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: away from them as long as possible to get all

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Speaker 1: that free work out of them. Slavery in America had

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00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 1: been outlawed two and a half years earlier by the

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Speaker 1: Emancipation Proclamation, however, didn't really take effect until the end

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Speaker 1: of the Civil War in eighteen sixty five. Finally, during

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Speaker 1: a White House briefing yesterday, President Trump announced plans to

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Speaker 1: have the Pentagon create what he's calling a Space Force.

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Speaker 1: Trump says he wants it to become the six branch

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Speaker 1: of the Arms Services. Even though any new branch of

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00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 1: the military requires Congressional approval, President Trump sounded as if

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Speaker 1: he could just order it. We are going to have

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Speaker 1: the Air Force and we are going to have the

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Speaker 1: Space Force. Separate but equal. There's no place like space.

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Speaker 1: Good luck General Dunford and the Joint Chiefs. I want

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Speaker 1: to wish you a lot of luck with Space Force. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Trump says he wants to establish you a supremacy and

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Speaker 1: out of space, we'll be back in more entertainment, Today's

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Speaker 1: trending topics twinning us after the hour Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. First Lady

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Speaker 1: Melania Trump wants a solution to the Trump administration policy

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Speaker 1: of separating immigrant children from their parents. I'm glad she's

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Speaker 1: speaking up on this. Also, in an op ed in

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Speaker 1: The Washington Post, former First Lady Mrs Laura Bush shared

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Speaker 1: her perspective. She said, I live in a border state.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate the need to enforce and protect our international boundaries,

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Speaker 1: but this zero tolerance policy is cruel, It is immoral,

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Speaker 1: and it breaks my heart and um Steve. Nearly two

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Speaker 1: thousand immigrant children were separated from their parents over a

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Speaker 1: sixth day period in April and May. The President has

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Speaker 1: suggested he would reverse the policy if Democrats here we

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Speaker 1: go blaming Democrats again, would agree to his immigration demand,

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Speaker 1: including providing funds for a border wall the next was

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Speaker 1: gonna pay for. But yeah, yeah, and this is like

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Speaker 1: holding these kids hostage. Here's a guy who's who's not

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Speaker 1: a mother, But you ain't got to be a mother

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Speaker 1: to understand this. All you have to have been as

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Speaker 1: a child before just to know what they feel like,

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Speaker 1: to watch get towards your mama's own. This dude does

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Speaker 1: not get it, and the Republicans know that. But they're

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Speaker 1: sitting up here supporting this. And the Conservative Republican Party

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Speaker 1: is supposed to be the moral party of the country.

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Speaker 1: That's what they built their the stance of the Republican

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Speaker 1: being the moral core of the nation. What we want

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Speaker 1: is the right thing. We've we've followed the Bible that

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Speaker 1: death that's what all this is steemed from. That's how

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Speaker 1: they got all the people on their side. We followed

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Speaker 1: the Bible. We're doing it the right way. Those liberals

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Speaker 1: are too liberal, so they have these anti abortion things

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Speaker 1: that they stand on because it's not right to kill

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Speaker 1: a person. It is not right. They all one right

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Speaker 1: is not right. But I happen to also think that

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Speaker 1: a woman has a right to decide what to do

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Speaker 1: with her body. So I happen to think that. So

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Speaker 1: happen to think the conservatives are right, but then also

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Speaker 1: think that the other side is right and that a

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Speaker 1: woman has a right to choose because she the won't

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Speaker 1: got to do the work. See this is easy, these

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Speaker 1: men talking these laws because we we ain't gotta do

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Speaker 1: no work. We ain't got birth, no child, and we

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Speaker 1: and we ain't gotta be holding the bad for the

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Speaker 1: whole time a man and just walk off. That's the

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Speaker 1: view on gay marriage and all. And it's supposed to

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Speaker 1: be their stance on gays in marriage. But hold up,

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Speaker 1: Republicans are gay. Two Republicans want to marry one another

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Speaker 1: same sex too, So why would you not let these

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Speaker 1: people do this? But it's a conservative stance though so

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Speaker 1: they all take these stances. Man, If gay people want

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Speaker 1: to get married, why not? Why not? And you telling

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Speaker 1: them they can't, don't stop them from loving who they love. It,

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Speaker 1: don't stop that. That's why it's cool with everybody loving

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Speaker 1: whoever they want to love, because you're making a law

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Speaker 1: from the stop of damn thing. Yeah. Now, coming up

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Speaker 1: at thirty or four, after the hour, comedy roulette. We

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Speaker 1: will spend the will and we come back right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve. All right, Steve J is here,

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Speaker 1: he's ready for comedy roulette. What you got very simple?

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Speaker 1: Take five subjects, put them on a wheel, spun the

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Speaker 1: wheel where it stop. All right, Here we go with

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Speaker 1: the subjects today. Number one, I had no idea that

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Speaker 1: bill was overdue. That a lot too. I'm gonna help

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Speaker 1: you out. But that baby doesn't look anything like me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I just want you to know that I like it. Three,

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Speaker 1: it's it's it's four of us in this car. Somebody

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Speaker 1: sanking and it ain't me. Number four. When you're ready

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Speaker 1: to get serious about this relationship, give me a call

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Speaker 1: on number five. If I said this to all of

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Speaker 1: you guys before, some people can't take a joke spinning

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Speaker 1: care Comedians can't take a joke. Oh look where it stopped.

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Speaker 1: Some people can't take a joke. I'm so glad it

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Speaker 1: stopped there because this does not pertain to them. Why

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Speaker 1: at all? I can't get it and I can't take it.

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Speaker 1: I'm in the taking it. I love it when the

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Speaker 1: jokes on me. Bring it, bring it all the time.

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Speaker 1: What you got? I'll tell you what what? Okay, listen,

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Speaker 1: I'm I know I can't take it. I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: But but the fact that, the fact that you cross

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Speaker 1: had of talking to me, and I'll bring it up.

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Speaker 1: You mad at me? You can't take the joke? You

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Speaker 1: see all that's happening. What's the subject again? Some people

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Speaker 1: can't take a joke. Now, Hey man, I pranked your mama. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but you're gonna shoot him. You can't take a joke, brother,

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Speaker 1: We'll just cause your eyes is the biggest eyes on

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Speaker 1: the morning show. Don't mean you can see everything? Why

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Speaker 1: what if he was talking about I'm not I don't

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Speaker 1: know if not me? Yeah, you're right. Some people can't

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Speaker 1: take a joke. You said one little thing, they shut down.

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Speaker 1: They all up in their feelings. May have been about me,

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Speaker 1: but James is definitely about telling me. Okay, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: saying I don't know. I can't take a joke. I

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Speaker 1: know that. But if you got one shoe, he'll figure

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Speaker 1: then the other. And I noticed you you got cloth foot.

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Speaker 1: What you want me to do? I know I can't

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Speaker 1: take a joke. You asked me, You asked me how

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Speaker 1: my butt looking the Jane all I said, well, bigger

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Speaker 1: than it did yesterday. Now you we ain't doing nothing

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Speaker 1: to night now nothing, Come on, baby, like that joke.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes some people can't take a joke, But damn, you

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Speaker 1: ain't got to customy under your brother. You ain't got

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Speaker 1: to be too little more be ok Okay, So let

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Speaker 1: me just say this. Let me just put this out here.

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Speaker 1: Just because I own a comedy club, you ain't got

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Speaker 1: coming my club and point out things that ain't working. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm working on it. I ain't got one. I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you what. You know. People who can't taking joke, I

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Speaker 1: know I can't take one. But the point is I

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Speaker 1: know what I said. Both Damn dug why the police

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Speaker 1: got the heavy handcuff. I got to go to jail.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, you're ready, Well, some people can't talk

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Speaker 1: to joke man, but you need to just talk to

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Speaker 1: your mom about how she'd be looking. Okay, way to

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Speaker 1: shut it down. Steve coming up in the top of

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Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after it's today's Strawberry Letter,

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Speaker 1: the subject the whole town's laughing at me, and uh,

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Speaker 1: the nephew is coming up with a great phone call

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Show coming up

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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about to four

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Speaker 1: minutes after it's today's Strawberry Letters, subject the whole town

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Speaker 1: laughing at me. But right now the King of pranks

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Speaker 1: is here with today's prank phone call. What you got?

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Speaker 1: My bones is weak, My bones is weak. Listen to this. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to Uh, I'm trying to speak to Ron

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Speaker 1: is run. Hey, Ron, how you doing? It's Folly man,

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Speaker 1: how are you brother? I'm hey. I wanted to congratulation

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Speaker 1: man on the on the baby man. I wasn't able

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Speaker 1: to make it to the baby shower, man, but I

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Speaker 1: want to congratulate you on the baby man and and

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Speaker 1: all of that. Man. Much success to you man, you

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Speaker 1: and the wife, Thank you, thank you. You You appreciate that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well you're fully man. I didn't get you know, my

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Speaker 1: my wife denieda she came to the to the to

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Speaker 1: the baby shower, man, so you know, she was telling

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Speaker 1: me how how nice it was, how successful it was. Man.

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Speaker 1: So I just you want, you know, I wanted to

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Speaker 1: give you big ups. And I heard the baby came

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Speaker 1: and everything, and I wanted to just do a little girl,

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Speaker 1: a little girl. You had a little girl. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, Well congratulations man, congratulations is round. I wanted

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Speaker 1: to definitely call and congratulate man. And um baby real quick?

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Speaker 1: What um? What? Baby? Solar? Was your wife there? Because

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Speaker 1: we had two, We had one from my side of

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Speaker 1: the family and then one from my wife's side, because

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Speaker 1: you know, they lived different places and stuff. Man, So

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Speaker 1: which one do you think she was at? Um? Probably

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Speaker 1: on your wife's side, you know. Okay, okay, she knows

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Speaker 1: my wife. Well, no, I see see the Nita is

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Speaker 1: actually friends with with Kendred. Now you know Kendre right,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, I know? Kind yeah, yeah, that's good thing

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Speaker 1: she was. She was with Kendra. Okay, yeah, she comes,

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Speaker 1: they play cards, you know, Okay, okay, yeah, she she

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Speaker 1: was with Kendre man, and she was just telling me

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Speaker 1: how successful man, how nice it was, and you know,

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Speaker 1: laid out baby shower. I wasn't able to make him. Man,

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Speaker 1: I've been a little under the weather, bro you know,

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Speaker 1: and uh, you know, with with God's help, man, I'll

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Speaker 1: be able to get back on my feet. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's all right, Hey, man, I I

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Speaker 1: just you know, congratulations again man, you know the beautiful

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Speaker 1: baby girl. I man, that's a beautiful thing. Yeah, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Um, I'm matter, hell, I just I can't

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Speaker 1: told me I'm trying to remember you and trying to

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Speaker 1: place you in I just I can't do it. Have

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Speaker 1: we met no, no, no, no, no, no, no, my

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Speaker 1: bad man. I'm sorry. Job. No, me and you we haven't.

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Speaker 1: We haven't met at all. Um. Like I said, you know,

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Speaker 1: my wife knows Kendrew and they hang out and uh,

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Speaker 1: I guess she's she's dabbled a couple of times and

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Speaker 1: been around. You know your wife is your wife is Maryland? Right? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's my wife. Okay, Yeah, I guess she's been been

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Speaker 1: in the presence of Maryland. Man. So you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: I kind of got your number from uh, from my wife,

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Speaker 1: man Um, and she got it from Kendrick. So I

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Speaker 1: kind of wanted to holl a to you know, which

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Speaker 1: you weren't actually man Like I said, Man, I've been

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Speaker 1: I've been down for a minute, you know. And uh

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Speaker 1: I uh actually you know, came from doctor yesterday and

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Speaker 1: and my my bones, man, they my bones are deteriorating.

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Speaker 1: You know. Uh, that's that's kind of what I've what

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Speaker 1: I've been going through, man um. And if I don't

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Speaker 1: uh get the proper medication that I need, man, then

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Speaker 1: we you know it within the next three months here, dog,

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Speaker 1: could it could get pretty bad. You know what I'm saying. Well,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to hear that, bro Um. You know,

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Speaker 1: all I can do is man. And you know well, man,

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Speaker 1: I the doctor told me. The doctor told me, Man,

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Speaker 1: And you know, if I get the right medication, man,

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Speaker 1: that you know, I could get back up to healthy again,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So you know, it's just

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Speaker 1: a rare type of thing that I need to try

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Speaker 1: and get and I think that you might be I

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Speaker 1: think you can't help me. We will be strong, man,

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Speaker 1: be strong, just man, see down. It's gonna be all right.

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Speaker 1: But I say it's gonna be all right. God, it's

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Speaker 1: with you. I pray for you. I do all I can.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't know well actually actually uh the

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Speaker 1: doctor told me. Man, then if for six months, if

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Speaker 1: I drunk breast milk, it will, it will. It would

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Speaker 1: put enough calceum and stuff back into my bones that

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Speaker 1: would get me back up the seventy to eighty five

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Speaker 1: percent healthy. Yeah, I ain't got no beast. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's not. It's not you wrong you you don't you know,

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Speaker 1: but you know your your wife does though. Whoa you're

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Speaker 1: talking about my wife's breast. Man, I'm not not directly man,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying that chickens, you know. I mean, if

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00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 1: I had her breast milk for like six months straight, man,

840
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 1: I to get back hold again. Man, Oh you'll talk

841
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: about a man's wife or her breast now, I just

842
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: kind of I just gotta say, I'm just just all

843
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:12,000
Speaker 1: you ask you for my wife breast milk. Man. Man,

844
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 1: I'm just asking y'all to share it for six We

845
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 1: can't set the breast milk with you. Man, You're got

846
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:20,919
Speaker 1: the wrong one, man, the wrong one. And you said

847
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 1: your name was is wrong man, it's wrong wrong. No

848
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 1: we're just talking about six months of breast milk. Man,

849
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,919
Speaker 1: six months my wife prest milk when we're talking about

850
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 1: just best monk. And I understand I ain't frest milk man.

851
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 1: I understand that. Man. But we're talking about you saying

852
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 1: a life, man, A life. I ain't the one o'h coming.

853
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 1: Let me ask you just one If y'all would have

854
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 1: had twins, man, y'all would have been press set in

855
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,240
Speaker 1: two babies. Just look at it as if we're twins.

856
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 1: The man, I'm getting them top this phone because I

857
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: don't know who you are. You need to chill, man,

858
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: you need to go, get on your knees, trade that

859
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 1: your bones, get you know whatever. You got the wrong number? Man, Listen. Man,

860
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 1: all I'm saying is I got one more thing I

861
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 1: want to say and then I get man, I just

862
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,919
Speaker 1: want to get off the phone called Kendrall and kind

863
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 1: out what gives you my number? Because that's how you

864
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: got Can I say one more saying? Man? Go ahead,

865
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 1: go ahead? Can I say it? Man? This is nephew

866
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 1: taught me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Kendrall and

867
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:28,320
Speaker 1: your wife Maryland got me to prank phone call you

868
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:39,839
Speaker 1: hello rock rock. Yeah, Man, y'all a good man? Whoa man?

869
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: I'm right man? Man? Did I get you? Man? Yeah,

870
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 1: y'all got it in. Y'all having me? Hey, I got

871
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 1: them too. They don't started something? Hey, one more thing.

872
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:56,359
Speaker 1: What's the baddest radio station in the land? Man? Man?

873
00:53:56,400 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 1: It is Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man. Y'all understood that

874
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: breast milk is the most Yeah, breast milk good for

875
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: the bone. You don't need a whole year, just six months?

876
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:21,719
Speaker 1: Why breast milk? That's all? How stupid are you? Oh? Oh,

877
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 1: Tommy and the president is CEO of t Tommy six months, Junior,

878
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:33,400
Speaker 1: I want six months bress milk. Get myself back together

879
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: and get on my feet. Man, all right, thank you, nephew.

880
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:44,440
Speaker 1: Really wow? All right? Well, Suge Knight is in the news. Guys.

881
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 1: He's hoping to get a day pass from jail. Um

882
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: he's asking to attend his mom's funeral. Uh TMZ is

883
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 1: reporting that Suge Knights mom, Maxine Chapman, died on Sunday,

884
00:54:55,320 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 1: surrounded by family at a hospital in Paramount, California. Yeah,

885
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: she should get that, give him that right. She was

886
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 1: seventy seven years Um. I don't know. They is hard

887
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: to get. Yeah. She she was seventy seven years old.

888
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 1: She suffered a stroke about a month ago, and her

889
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 1: health has been on the decline since. Sugar is under

890
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: more restrictive conditions than most due to alleged attempts at

891
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 1: witness tampering. So yeah, we don't know. I hope. All right,

892
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna move on here. It's time now for today's

893
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. The subject is the whole town's laughing at me,

894
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 1: and we'll get to that right after this. You're listening

895
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Alright, it is time for

896
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter, guys, and if you need some advice

897
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 1: on relationship, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, submit your

898
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and click

899
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:57,400
Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, it's just that simple. Let's go

900
00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 1: and nephew buggalo up and hold on tight. We got

901
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 1: it for you. Here. It is the strong very letter.

902
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: You did. Re nailed it. Let me hear you can't

903
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: you tell me? Come on, alright, subject the whole town's

904
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 1: laughing at me, and it has nothing to do with

905
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 1: the Teddy Pendergrass song. Okay, Dear Stephen Shirley, I am

906
00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,240
Speaker 1: a thirty seven year old man and I've been dating

907
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 1: a thirty one year old woman for three years. She

908
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 1: is the love of my life and I want to

909
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:39,919
Speaker 1: ask her to marry me. But I recently found out

910
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:44,320
Speaker 1: some disturbing info about her. I got an anonymous message

911
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 1: on social media and it got my full attention. The

912
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 1: message said that my woman was very friendly in all caps,

913
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 1: very friendly with a lot of guys when she was

914
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: in college, especially the athletes. I was shocked and anger,

915
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: so I confronted her immediately. I asked her if it

916
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:07,439
Speaker 1: was true, and she admitted it. She says she does

917
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: not want any secrets between us, and she told me

918
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 1: more about her sex life before she met me. She

919
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: said she had threesomes over the years with men and women,

920
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 1: and whenever she went back home to visit her parents,

921
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: she had sex with a few of her classmates that

922
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: still lived in town. We just went to her high

923
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 1: school reunion and she said that at least five of

924
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 1: the guys were there. Now I can't help but think

925
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 1: that whenever we go to cookouts, concerts, football games, even church,

926
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 1: she has had sex with some of the guys there.

927
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong. I've had my share of sexual encounters,

928
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:44,080
Speaker 1: but nothing in comparison to hers. If I had known

929
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 1: all of this before, there is no way I would

930
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:50,479
Speaker 1: have stayed with her. Now I'm in too deep. I

931
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:53,920
Speaker 1: love this woman. I need Steve's honest opinion on this.

932
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 1: Do you think that her past can stay in the past.

933
00:57:56,720 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 1: Should I still propose to her and hope for the best? Well,

934
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: I'm sure that's a true statement. If you had known

935
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 1: all of this before, there's no way you would have

936
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: stayed with her. But now you're in too deep, like

937
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 1: you say, and I think the heart loves who it loves.

938
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 1: I mean, you say that she is the love of

939
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 1: your life. I mean I love this woman you say,

940
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:22,440
Speaker 1: so go with that. I mean everyone everyone has a past,

941
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: including you, As you mentioned. Uh, this all happened in

942
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 1: the past before you. It happened before you, back when

943
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: she was in college. She's thirty seven years old. Now

944
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:36,320
Speaker 1: the question is has she changed? The question is is

945
00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 1: she still doing what she used to do? And you've

946
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: been dating her for three years, so I'm assuming the

947
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 1: answer is uh no. Uh. But she told you she

948
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 1: she was honest with you and and now you know

949
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 1: about her past. I understand you're angry. I understand your shocked.

950
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: I understand when you go, you know, your ego gets

951
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 1: involved and you're looking around seeing if you know she's

952
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: been with any of these guys. But she did what

953
00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: she did, Yes, she was why back in the day.

954
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: She really was in the past. And it's just up

955
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: to you now whether you can take the heat and

956
00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: and you know, get past her past now that you know, Steve,

957
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 1: see see right here, see see what I'm telling you

958
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 1: right here, see see see listen. Honesty ain't always the

959
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 1: best policy. Say that again. Honesty ain't always the best policy.

960
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:43,040
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's down right stupid. Hit this man thirty seven

961
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 1: dating this woman thirty one, been three years. She the

962
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:50,800
Speaker 1: love of his life. I want to ask her to

963
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 1: marry him, but find out some disturbing news. Got an

964
00:59:55,400 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 1: anonymous message see anonymous, no name attached. He is I

965
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 1: hate him trying to destroy something that they see is good.

966
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 1: It ain't. It's it's amazing how people can't be happy

967
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: for one of them. Tell her that your woman was

968
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 1: very friendly with a lot of guys she was in college,

969
01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 1: especially the athletes. Your thirty seven that was six seven

970
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 1: years ago. You get out of college about four. I

971
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 1: asked her if it was true, and she admitted it.

972
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: Why right here, right here, this this, this doesn't even

973
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: had to be and we don't even had this. You

974
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 1: don't even start. What what made you admit it? She says,

975
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: she doesn't want any secrets? Tween, why why why you

976
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 1: don't want to see? That's why they're secrets. See, you

977
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 1: have secrets so they can be seen. I got it.

978
01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 1: I ain't count the secrets I got okay, but they're secrets,

979
01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 1: so I ain't gonna tell you what there is, because

980
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 1: because then they wouldn't be secrets no more. See. Somebody

981
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:19,919
Speaker 1: always say, can you keep a secret? Hell yeah, Hell yeah,

982
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: I can keep a secret, expecially if it's about me.

983
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 1: I swear to God I can keep my whole damn

984
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 1: mouth shut. Man. You ain't got to worry about here,

985
01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 1: nothing about me from me. Oh no, I have kept

986
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 1: a miss Universe thing a secret. If you asked me,

987
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 1: Steve did, if everybody had to saw it, got a knowlege.

988
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: But what Stephen saw your miss Universe? That wasn't me,

989
01:01:57,080 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 1: she told. Then she said she don't want no secrets,

990
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: and she told me more about her sex life. Why see,

991
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 1: that's like if the police bust you like they did

992
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: my partner. I had a partner man. They busted him

993
01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 1: for robbing or Hallmark cars though um robbed. Now, little

994
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 1: did I know that my partner every Saturday after basketball

995
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 1: robbed the stoke. I don't know. Yeah, every Saturday after

996
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:34,880
Speaker 1: we played basketball he robbed the stoke. Yeah, with a

997
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: with a blank gun. He robbed the stoke with a

998
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 1: blank gun every side. So the police get him down there.

999
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 1: They got him on this one. I can't believe it

1000
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 1: because he wasn't a church next day past and say

1001
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: they're arrested. So and so I said, I'll be down.

1002
01:02:54,640 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 1: So I said, okay, cool he down now. Then the

1003
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: pastor say, we got a bigger problem. He done admitted

1004
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 1: to fifteen on Steve. We we gotta take a break

1005
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 1: right here. Hang on, we'll have part two of Steve's

1006
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: response and find out at the end of this story

1007
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 1: from his friend about his friend. At twenty three after

1008
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:25,680
Speaker 1: the hour, Okay, you're listening, Steve show. All right, Steve,

1009
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 1: come on with part two of your Let's get back.

1010
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 1: This woman then admitted to her thirty seven year old

1011
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 1: man that Fitna asked her to marry him because somebody

1012
01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 1: announcedly contact him on social media about her being real

1013
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:39,720
Speaker 1: friendly with athletes. She admitted and then said she didn't

1014
01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 1: want these secrets. So she saw telling the more she

1015
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 1: didn't had three sons with men friends. Now I said,

1016
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 1: this is just like my partner that got arrested her

1017
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:56,640
Speaker 1: arm robber. They get him down there past to tell

1018
01:03:56,720 --> 01:04:00,280
Speaker 1: us we got a problem. Paul got arrested farm Roberta

1019
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 1: keep saying it man, okay, I'm back. So he said

1020
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 1: we got a problem. So and so got arrested from robbery.

1021
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 1: We shot next day, passing tell we got a bigger problem.

1022
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 1: He didn't admit at the fifteen oh, because they said, well,

1023
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 1: we didn't have several of these robberies like this is

1024
01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 1: that you? Yeah? Why why why do you say that?

1025
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: Now I got to go to prison every Sunday at

1026
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:34,880
Speaker 1: church go visit him because he right there one Field Reformatory.

1027
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:37,080
Speaker 1: So I had to go up there every Sunday to

1028
01:04:37,160 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 1: visit him. My main question, she was like why company

1029
01:04:42,920 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 1: fifteen I got you did the one we cod were

1030
01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:47,880
Speaker 1: still at Holmers, but what what are you? And then

1031
01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:51,080
Speaker 1: time about these other fifteen. Why is this girl talking

1032
01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 1: about before she met me? She said she had three

1033
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 1: sons with men and women. Whenever she went back home

1034
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 1: and visit her parents, she had sex with a few

1035
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 1: classmates and still lived in town. And we just went

1036
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 1: to high school for you, and she said at least

1037
01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:07,760
Speaker 1: five of the guys was in there. Now, I can't

1038
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 1: help but think that whenever we go to cook house, concerts,

1039
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 1: football games, even church, she has sex with some of

1040
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 1: the guys. There. Shut your damn mouth. I have told

1041
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:25,120
Speaker 1: women on my talk show and everything. Your maximum number

1042
01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 1: that you can recall having sex with me is three.

1043
01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 1: That's your maximum number? Flash sound Chris Dog? Double standard? Yeah?

1044
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 1: Can what tell us to No, dude, we ain't down.

1045
01:05:49,680 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 1: Three is your number. And don't get me wrong, I've

1046
01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:06,520
Speaker 1: had to share my I've had to share my sexual encounters,

1047
01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 1: but nothing in comparison to hers. If I had known

1048
01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 1: all this before, there's no way I would have stayed

1049
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:14,960
Speaker 1: with her. Nami and too deep. I love this woman.

1050
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 1: I need Steve's honest opinion on this. Do you think

1051
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 1: that her past can stay in the past. Should I

1052
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 1: still proposed her and hope for the best. Alright, here's

1053
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:29,360
Speaker 1: the real deal. She admitted this. She was wrong for

1054
01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: admitting it. You can't hold people's past against them. Everybody changes.

1055
01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 1: Everybody has the right to change. She said she didn't

1056
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 1: want no secrets, so she came forward. Now listen, everybody changes.

1057
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:52,520
Speaker 1: People get it right. People can live a bad life

1058
01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 1: or wrong life and get it right. As long as

1059
01:06:56,400 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: that life is behind her. Let it stay behind. That's right,

1060
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 1: and give a woman a chance because you you can't

1061
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: stop loving you. You're in deep, don't you in love

1062
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 1: with But now you gotta put your big boy pass

1063
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:17,000
Speaker 1: on now if you love her that much, and y'all

1064
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:20,000
Speaker 1: really in love, y'all are gonna try for a new beginning.

1065
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 1: We need you might have to move move and you

1066
01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 1: definitely gotta quit going to you that you can't go

1067
01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:33,360
Speaker 1: no more that y'all church gotta be out of town.

1068
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:36,560
Speaker 1: And we gotta change her name. We got to go

1069
01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:39,960
Speaker 1: down and get a new name. And he's a hair style.

1070
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:45,920
Speaker 1: You need a funny nose and some amber face. You

1071
01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 1: need to lighten her skin, some bigs or something. Can't

1072
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:55,520
Speaker 1: be hu because every time somebody speak to it, you're

1073
01:07:55,520 --> 01:08:00,680
Speaker 1: gonna be looking upside of the head. Uncle Steve soup girl,

1074
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 1: and what the hell you mean? What's up girl? I'm sorry, bro,

1075
01:08:05,320 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 1: I'll just be went with school together and what else

1076
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 1: you do together? Right there, You're gonna be real. You're

1077
01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 1: never gonna get over it. It's he can get over it,

1078
01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:20,719
Speaker 1: but that he can't. It can't be in his face.

1079
01:08:21,760 --> 01:08:24,080
Speaker 1: And that's the problem with trying to get over anything.

1080
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:26,839
Speaker 1: It can't stay in your face. You gotta give yourself

1081
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:30,559
Speaker 1: a chance to move on. That's all you gotta do.

1082
01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 1: And that's that's what you need to do. You probably

1083
01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:36,760
Speaker 1: didn't need to move start over, y'all. Go somewhere and

1084
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:38,840
Speaker 1: have your family and stuff where they don't know him.

1085
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,600
Speaker 1: Calma Wash you know, yeah, because you think like a

1086
01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:46,040
Speaker 1: witness protection program. I know, I got a lot of

1087
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:50,320
Speaker 1: partners in program. You know, it's places you can move.

1088
01:08:50,320 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 1: I got a lot of partners in program. You know. Well,

1089
01:08:56,400 --> 01:08:58,639
Speaker 1: you know they had to, you know, shorten their sentence,

1090
01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 1: so you had to get vout some information. They're snitching,

1091
01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:05,559
Speaker 1: Like I told you, ain't no snitching. It's telling you know,

1092
01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 1: I don't snitch. I tell I tell you right now,

1093
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:11,000
Speaker 1: don't come up over here with no crime because I'm

1094
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:13,240
Speaker 1: gonna have to tell if it means you and me,

1095
01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:15,680
Speaker 1: I'm letting you know. I'm telling it's not snitching. I'm

1096
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 1: telling you right now iNFiNiT telling, don't come over here

1097
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:23,280
Speaker 1: with nothing criminal, because I'm gonna tell you. Let them know.

1098
01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 1: Don't include me. Bro. If you're coming in here talking

1099
01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:32,479
Speaker 1: about doing something illegal, I'm telling you right now, stop

1100
01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:35,599
Speaker 1: talking and get away from me, because if you ask me,

1101
01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:39,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell it. Because I can't get drugged down

1102
01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:42,680
Speaker 1: with you. I can't go to jail. Ain't none of

1103
01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:46,320
Speaker 1: my cars over there. My chef ain't gonna be able

1104
01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:50,000
Speaker 1: to come. It's just some stuff I ain't got used to.

1105
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:54,800
Speaker 1: I'm not going to jail. One suit. Let's go, let's

1106
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:57,519
Speaker 1: go back, Let's go back. So every time y'all left

1107
01:09:57,520 --> 01:09:59,479
Speaker 1: the basketball court on saying that you didn't know what

1108
01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:02,400
Speaker 1: he was go to do, that dude went and committed

1109
01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 1: a Robbie. They had sixteen unsolved cases. And the way

1110
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:11,160
Speaker 1: he got caught was this time when he robbed the place.

1111
01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:16,559
Speaker 1: He pulled out and he paid a car and somebody

1112
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:19,160
Speaker 1: took his license plate number. So he driving down the

1113
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:23,920
Speaker 1: street and please pull him over. That's how he got busted. Man.

1114
01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:28,559
Speaker 1: And then he having a real gun, and and you know,

1115
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:30,519
Speaker 1: and they took the money and everything here he got

1116
01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 1: a hunt the dollar. Oh my goodness. All right, Steve,

1117
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here. Coming up in ten minutes.

1118
01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 1: Advice to on how to have a successful marriage. You're

1119
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:48,719
Speaker 1: listening to Steven Show. All right, before we went to break,

1120
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 1: we said we were going to talk about marriage and

1121
01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:56,559
Speaker 1: you can get back in on this one. Let's talk

1122
01:10:56,560 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 1: about family two world parents. Yeah, we have to talk

1123
01:10:59,160 --> 01:11:02,040
Speaker 1: about that. Well, so, um, I have a story here

1124
01:11:02,080 --> 01:11:04,600
Speaker 1: about Beyonce and jay Z. They say they're committed to

1125
01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:08,720
Speaker 1: their marriage. Remember when Beyonce released her album Lemonade, she

1126
01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 1: revealed on that, you know, about her heartbreak and her

1127
01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:15,120
Speaker 1: anger over um finding out about Jay's infidelities, his cheating

1128
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,960
Speaker 1: and everything. Cheating and infidelity the same thing, because nobody

1129
01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:21,679
Speaker 1: ever says that. They always say infidelity and some people

1130
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:24,560
Speaker 1: say it's just straight cheating. Yeah, uh it is, and

1131
01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:30,720
Speaker 1: how they almost ended their marriage over it. Um. A

1132
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:33,639
Speaker 1: year later, jay Z's album four four four came out

1133
01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:37,520
Speaker 1: and then he came clean about his cheating slash infidelities.

1134
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:42,439
Speaker 1: J Uh, he had guilty, had pain over you know

1135
01:11:42,520 --> 01:11:45,040
Speaker 1: what he had caused his wife and his child. They

1136
01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:47,680
Speaker 1: were paining. They were pained about it. They were she

1137
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 1: was hurt, the child was hurt, all of that, and um, yeah,

1138
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:54,080
Speaker 1: like so many other married couples, Um, they weren't living

1139
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:57,920
Speaker 1: this picture perfect life that we believe that they were living,

1140
01:11:58,120 --> 01:12:01,720
Speaker 1: you know, because you think that they are. Absolutely so

1141
01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:03,560
Speaker 1: they came clean. They let us know, and then you

1142
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 1: show participating for somebody to you not that same show

1143
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 1: all up in the middle is the fidelity and cheating,

1144
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 1: the same the same reason why you're asked him done.

1145
01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 1: Both you and he don't want to go back. He

1146
01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:32,760
Speaker 1: ain't going back. No, nothing has to say, right, I've

1147
01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:38,439
Speaker 1: never seen you that quiet before, Jack, So so what

1148
01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 1: steve seriously from you? Though? What's some good advice on

1149
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:45,360
Speaker 1: how to stay marriage, stay married and to weather these

1150
01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:48,759
Speaker 1: storms because you know you will have them. A storm

1151
01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 1: is always going to uh, you know, come in a marriage,

1152
01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:55,400
Speaker 1: you have to weather some things. Well yeah, I mean

1153
01:12:55,479 --> 01:12:57,200
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not an expert at it by any

1154
01:12:57,240 --> 01:12:59,880
Speaker 1: stretch of imagination. Man, I just have to You have

1155
01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:01,680
Speaker 1: to make up your mind that you want to be

1156
01:13:01,760 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 1: married every day and you know, and you have to

1157
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:07,760
Speaker 1: deal with temptation. I mean, there's no difference from anybody.

1158
01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 1: Anybody's marriage. You're gonna deal with temptations, weakness or flesh.

1159
01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:15,280
Speaker 1: You're gonna deal with, you know, some things that you

1160
01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:17,640
Speaker 1: know that you don't intend to happen. But you can

1161
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:22,639
Speaker 1: get off track, you know. You know you can't go

1162
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:26,400
Speaker 1: everywhere and then expect not to be You can't put

1163
01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:31,679
Speaker 1: yourself in situations that can cause certain other things can happen,

1164
01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:35,120
Speaker 1: like something as innocent as a golf trip. Okay, but

1165
01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 1: you need to pay attention to where you're going on

1166
01:13:37,040 --> 01:13:40,160
Speaker 1: your golf and who's going to be there. Hello, you

1167
01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 1: gotta make sure all dudes you're playing golf with just

1168
01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:45,519
Speaker 1: like you got something of value at home that they

1169
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:49,000
Speaker 1: don't want to lose. Yeah, you're going golfing with a

1170
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:52,519
Speaker 1: bunch of dudes this single a while and then y'all

1171
01:13:52,520 --> 01:13:54,400
Speaker 1: sitting up at night. Now, he man, come on, stop

1172
01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:56,320
Speaker 1: by the room. Now, all of a sudden, the room crowded.

1173
01:13:57,960 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 1: Hey man, Now you got to see now you can

1174
01:14:00,320 --> 01:14:03,960
Speaker 1: put yourself in a bad you know, and you just

1175
01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 1: got to stay out of bad positions. Man, Ain't they

1176
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 1: don't need a tempting yourself now, because it ain't it

1177
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 1: ain't no, you know, ain't nobody. Ain't nobody everybody a hercules,

1178
01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:16,439
Speaker 1: you know, so you have to I just try to

1179
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:19,000
Speaker 1: keep I just try to stay out of those positions

1180
01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:23,200
Speaker 1: in my life. Getting older has helped me. Yeah, when

1181
01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 1: I was younger, I ain't know that. Yeah, I had

1182
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:30,479
Speaker 1: to learn, and boy, I show didn't learn. Well, let's

1183
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: ask the person that just got off his second anniversary

1184
01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 1: celebration trip, and that would be your nephew. Steve asked me,

1185
01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 1: what about marriage? You know what, what have you learned?

1186
01:14:47,439 --> 01:14:51,360
Speaker 1: It's hard. It's just it's too much, you know, It's

1187
01:14:51,720 --> 01:14:54,600
Speaker 1: what I mean, it's too much. I just think you

1188
01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 1: all the out of a month, you know, I think

1189
01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 1: for three weeks we do this a thing. You give

1190
01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:04,719
Speaker 1: me a damn week off, you know, I see, I'm serious.

1191
01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 1: I don't know who set it up the way it's

1192
01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 1: set up. The lord that would be the lord. Well,

1193
01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:12,720
Speaker 1: here's the thing. You always care married people. You ask

1194
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:16,599
Speaker 1: American house mad who is a lot of work, already

1195
01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:22,639
Speaker 1: got a job, already got several jobs. But but don't

1196
01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 1: you get to take off job at the house. I don't.

1197
01:15:26,400 --> 01:15:34,280
Speaker 1: I mean, it just ain't for everybody. It ain't for everybody. Well, Tommy,

1198
01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:38,800
Speaker 1: why are you thinking him? And you're married? I need

1199
01:15:38,880 --> 01:15:44,600
Speaker 1: somebody to know who've been there? But why Junior? So

1200
01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 1: don't even look over here? But Junior, don't you think

1201
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 1: about it? I mean, you're getting towards that. It's it's

1202
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:54,519
Speaker 1: that point where you know you gotta start thinking differently,

1203
01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 1: you know, and that couple getting older. You know, I

1204
01:15:56,439 --> 01:16:03,960
Speaker 1: just thought about it. You, Junior, enjoy the money you've

1205
01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:09,240
Speaker 1: got at that age. Boy, shut up and damn mouth

1206
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 1: in a Jewish store for money you got coming in

1207
01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:22,400
Speaker 1: short this moment. But you know, let me on all seriousness.

1208
01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 1: I have taken out a hit on myself. I hit

1209
01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:28,000
Speaker 1: on myself that I have a hit man. I paid

1210
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:30,559
Speaker 1: him a lot of money. If he sees me in

1211
01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:36,760
Speaker 1: a jurish though he is, and he sees me like

1212
01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:40,320
Speaker 1: if I fall a week into temptation, what's that sound again?

1213
01:16:41,760 --> 01:16:47,719
Speaker 1: I'm out? That's through the jewelrysh stole he called the mall.

1214
01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:52,080
Speaker 1: He follows me wherever I go. As you get a

1215
01:16:52,160 --> 01:16:57,560
Speaker 1: ring up and you look at it, butt out of that.

1216
01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:07,200
Speaker 1: Oh no hit killings in, I said, do not warn me,

1217
01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:11,320
Speaker 1: now take me out, take me Jay. Why don't you

1218
01:17:11,360 --> 01:17:14,960
Speaker 1: do it like that? If you see you in going

1219
01:17:15,120 --> 01:17:20,200
Speaker 1: into jewelry store, get a warning shot, just shoot it

1220
01:17:20,200 --> 01:17:25,200
Speaker 1: off for something to dog reel or something spot. But

1221
01:17:25,280 --> 01:17:27,640
Speaker 1: if you go in after the water shot and you

1222
01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:29,479
Speaker 1: pick the ring up and you're looking at and you

1223
01:17:29,560 --> 01:17:35,720
Speaker 1: put that loop in your eye, that's the dog. Put

1224
01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:41,920
Speaker 1: that looping out, then you get this here, really, guys.

1225
01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:45,280
Speaker 1: All right, we also wanted to talk about family too,

1226
01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:48,400
Speaker 1: because we all have kids, we all have grown kids, um,

1227
01:17:48,479 --> 01:17:50,479
Speaker 1: and we wanted to talk about that their sense of

1228
01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:54,200
Speaker 1: entitlement these days. We'll be back with more of the

1229
01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:58,040
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to

1230
01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Alright, guys, So before we

1231
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:05,559
Speaker 1: even started the show this morning. Uh, unbeknownst to all

1232
01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:11,040
Speaker 1: of us, we're kind of in the same situation parenting wise, uh,

1233
01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:13,400
Speaker 1: in the sense that our kids are entitled. We have

1234
01:18:13,520 --> 01:18:19,320
Speaker 1: these kids and they want us to give, give, give, give, give,

1235
01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:21,840
Speaker 1: and we give a lot of time. You want to give,

1236
01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:25,760
Speaker 1: you want to give kids? You don't know, I mean,

1237
01:18:26,400 --> 01:18:28,679
Speaker 1: you don't not want a kid. But that's that's why

1238
01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:32,200
Speaker 1: we're in a situation. And because we wanted to we

1239
01:18:32,240 --> 01:18:34,479
Speaker 1: wanted our kids to have a better life than we had.

1240
01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:36,880
Speaker 1: You know, we worked really hard so we can have,

1241
01:18:37,120 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 1: you know, more than our parents did, so we could

1242
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:41,479
Speaker 1: give our children more. But can we have honest commerenation?

1243
01:18:42,479 --> 01:18:46,559
Speaker 1: Part of the problem with young people today, and I

1244
01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:48,200
Speaker 1: know it's got to be a lot of people out

1245
01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:50,559
Speaker 1: there dealing with it because they grew up in a

1246
01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:56,160
Speaker 1: different time technology. They come with this sense of entitlement

1247
01:18:57,120 --> 01:19:02,559
Speaker 1: it's supposed to happen instantly halls of Google. They don't

1248
01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:06,960
Speaker 1: understand what it's even like as to look up information.

1249
01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:11,280
Speaker 1: It's that their fingertips. We was so much so different

1250
01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:14,599
Speaker 1: from us, which created a different work ethic in most

1251
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Speaker 1: of us. Our children today don't get that, and they

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01:19:19,200 --> 01:19:24,600
Speaker 1: can be so obnoxious, growing up with the audacity to

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01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 1: say some of the things I don't like you. You

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01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:32,479
Speaker 1: weren't there for me. How dare you? You know? And

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01:19:32,520 --> 01:19:35,400
Speaker 1: I set up and I look at them sometimes, and

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01:19:35,439 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 1: I know other people are going through it, but I

1257
01:19:37,439 --> 01:19:40,559
Speaker 1: look at some sometimes when I go, are you kidding me?

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01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:45,840
Speaker 1: First of all, you have any idea what I did

1259
01:19:45,920 --> 01:19:49,519
Speaker 1: to get here? Any idea? And then how dare you

1260
01:19:50,400 --> 01:19:56,080
Speaker 1: hold me responsible for stuff you didn't have? Come on, now,

1261
01:19:56,120 --> 01:19:59,600
Speaker 1: are you for real? When I clearly didn't have it

1262
01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:02,880
Speaker 1: to get of to you, but gave you everything I hate,

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01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:07,800
Speaker 1: don't That's that's just I think sometimes they don't understand

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01:20:07,840 --> 01:20:11,360
Speaker 1: that you're absence from being there put them in a

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01:20:11,479 --> 01:20:14,839
Speaker 1: situation that they're in now to have and you wouldn't

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01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:19,160
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have it. But you're absolutely right. They don't

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01:20:19,280 --> 01:20:25,440
Speaker 1: understand it. They don't understand it. They and that's yeah,

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01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:28,080
Speaker 1: but they don't care though. That's the other thing. It's

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01:20:28,080 --> 01:20:30,360
Speaker 1: not that they don't understand it so much it doesn't

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01:20:30,479 --> 01:20:33,519
Speaker 1: matter to them. The time matters to them. They wanted

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01:20:33,600 --> 01:20:36,000
Speaker 1: us there, and we have to see their side of it.

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01:20:36,360 --> 01:20:37,760
Speaker 1: You know. I had to do that with my own

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01:20:37,840 --> 01:20:40,320
Speaker 1: daughter because I mean, as many people know who've been

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01:20:40,320 --> 01:20:42,559
Speaker 1: listening to the show for years, Steve, of course, you know,

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01:20:42,760 --> 01:20:45,200
Speaker 1: you guys know that my mom, when she was live,

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01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:47,120
Speaker 1: she helped me raise my daughter. I mean, for the

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01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:49,800
Speaker 1: most part, my daughter was with my mom for the

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01:20:49,840 --> 01:20:53,240
Speaker 1: most part. That was my sacrifice. I didn't want to

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01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:55,559
Speaker 1: do that, no, but it was the best thing for

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01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:58,840
Speaker 1: my daughter at the time. That's the choice I made,

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01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:00,800
Speaker 1: you know, and I have to up with that choice.

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01:21:00,840 --> 01:21:05,080
Speaker 1: You know it. Man, we've been through it, definitely. We

1283
01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:07,160
Speaker 1: We've my daughter and I we've been through it, you know,

1284
01:21:07,280 --> 01:21:10,519
Speaker 1: with her whole hating me and everything because I wasn't there. Steve,

1285
01:21:10,600 --> 01:21:13,360
Speaker 1: you know, we talked about this. It's just really hard.

1286
01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:16,800
Speaker 1: What do you do? But that old I hated you

1287
01:21:17,520 --> 01:21:19,360
Speaker 1: see that. That's what I really just want to tell

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01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:24,679
Speaker 1: my kids. Kiss my ass if you wouldn't, I don't

1289
01:21:24,760 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 1: my ass, you know, to hear you talking about I

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01:21:28,200 --> 01:21:30,120
Speaker 1: wasn't there. You know, I was out here trying to

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01:21:30,160 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 1: be me. Yea, All this did you benefit from now?

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01:21:34,680 --> 01:21:37,760
Speaker 1: Was like Jay said, cause I wasn't there, and I

1293
01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:40,559
Speaker 1: got what it took away. But if I had stayed there,

1294
01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:44,840
Speaker 1: what will we be at now? Though? We'd be back down. Yeah,

1295
01:21:45,600 --> 01:21:50,000
Speaker 1: I have to understand. But then as a kid growing up,

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01:21:50,040 --> 01:21:53,479
Speaker 1: they really say that I have a better relationship with

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01:21:53,520 --> 01:21:56,720
Speaker 1: my kids now, And because there was sometimes that I

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01:21:56,720 --> 01:21:59,919
Speaker 1: thought I would never um, you know, have the respect

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01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:02,600
Speaker 1: or have the kind of conversation or kind of relationship

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01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:04,960
Speaker 1: that I have with my kids now. I just thought

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01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 1: it would never happen, We would never get past it.

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01:22:07,600 --> 01:22:10,040
Speaker 1: So they would never get past you know, not not

1303
01:22:10,120 --> 01:22:12,880
Speaker 1: like him or disrespecting me or hating me. And I

1304
01:22:12,880 --> 01:22:15,479
Speaker 1: can truly say that now at this particular point, it

1305
01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:18,439
Speaker 1: is much better, and you know, I'm really thankful for that.

1306
01:22:18,600 --> 01:22:21,200
Speaker 1: But it was a struggle. It was definitely a struggle.

1307
01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:24,639
Speaker 1: But it's it's steady thrown up what the younger kids

1308
01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:28,000
Speaker 1: are getting that the older ones didn't. It's it's constantly

1309
01:22:28,040 --> 01:22:29,680
Speaker 1: I didn't have that. I didn't have what they got.

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01:22:29,720 --> 01:22:32,160
Speaker 1: I didn't get this. I didn't get that. I can't

1311
01:22:32,200 --> 01:22:34,799
Speaker 1: fix that. We'll see, you guys have a different situation

1312
01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:36,920
Speaker 1: because I don't have any more younger kids that I

1313
01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:46,920
Speaker 1: know about that anybody brought up turn my youngest. We'll see.

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01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:49,120
Speaker 1: I have a different situation because they have two daughters

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01:22:49,160 --> 01:22:53,040
Speaker 1: at are the same age. Don't judge me, okay, don't

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01:22:53,120 --> 01:22:59,760
Speaker 1: damn it, don't judge me. A nobody said no, no, no.

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01:22:59,800 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 1: I all I asked you was how old is your

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01:23:02,240 --> 01:23:05,160
Speaker 1: young And I got two daughters that same ja, I

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01:23:05,200 --> 01:23:13,120
Speaker 1: got two daughters at six. They're what they're called. Listen

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01:23:13,160 --> 01:23:16,439
Speaker 1: to me, they're called what I learned on family feud,

1321
01:23:16,439 --> 01:23:21,559
Speaker 1: they're called Irish twins. Well, you are in a family

1322
01:23:21,720 --> 01:23:24,680
Speaker 1: and your sibling is born in the same year as

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01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:29,679
Speaker 1: they called them Irish twin. So Jay is black dog,

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01:23:31,200 --> 01:23:38,040
Speaker 1: that's just called the baby mama. Yeah, my my youngest

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01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:41,400
Speaker 1: is my youngest, the youngest twins, we call them in twins.

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01:23:41,600 --> 01:23:44,120
Speaker 1: The twins are ported. I don't want to put their

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01:23:44,160 --> 01:23:49,360
Speaker 1: age other that, but they're they're forty. Well I'm sorry, yes, sorry,

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01:23:50,400 --> 01:23:53,200
Speaker 1: I know. I know I'm in no position to do this,

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01:23:53,240 --> 01:24:08,080
Speaker 1: but I was judging. I keep it playing keeping my

1330
01:24:08,120 --> 01:24:15,400
Speaker 1: oldest and seven. But yeah, we're all kind of going

1331
01:24:15,439 --> 01:24:17,000
Speaker 1: through the same thing. You know what we're at it.

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01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:19,519
Speaker 1: We're all of us safety can say we're at a

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01:24:19,640 --> 01:24:22,799
Speaker 1: very good place in our life. We've all been blessed.

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01:24:23,240 --> 01:24:26,679
Speaker 1: Even having this conversation. We're all on the radio talking

1335
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:29,960
Speaker 1: about what we've gone through and we're successful at it

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01:24:30,160 --> 01:24:37,400
Speaker 1: and kid still need work better place. Yeah, we're in

1337
01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:40,880
Speaker 1: a better place. But then act like, see, this is

1338
01:24:40,880 --> 01:24:42,840
Speaker 1: what I don't like. What you can keep doing is

1339
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:45,320
Speaker 1: bringing up the pass to me. I'm not gonna sitting

1340
01:24:45,320 --> 01:24:47,720
Speaker 1: here with you and do this every time you want

1341
01:24:47,720 --> 01:24:51,719
Speaker 1: to go through something, I'm not going We'll be back

1342
01:24:51,760 --> 01:24:54,320
Speaker 1: with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after

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01:24:55,360 --> 01:25:00,439
Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Alright, guys, we're back.

1344
01:25:00,479 --> 01:25:03,800
Speaker 1: This conversation has turned into something really interesting. We were

1345
01:25:03,800 --> 01:25:06,960
Speaker 1: talking about families and our children and their sense of

1346
01:25:07,120 --> 01:25:09,599
Speaker 1: entitled In Stephen, you wanted to say that, you know what,

1347
01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:15,080
Speaker 1: it's two things. What young people got to grow up

1348
01:25:15,120 --> 01:25:18,880
Speaker 1: and stop doing what these parents is. It's two things.

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01:25:20,640 --> 01:25:26,719
Speaker 1: It's guilty, which is the most meaningless emotion in the world.

1350
01:25:27,360 --> 01:25:33,720
Speaker 1: Guilt serves nobody any purpose except the person that's applying

1351
01:25:33,880 --> 01:25:40,920
Speaker 1: the guilt. And then that's for what to munipulate. And

1352
01:25:41,000 --> 01:25:45,400
Speaker 1: so it's manipulation and guilt and those two things. It

1353
01:25:45,520 --> 01:25:49,439
Speaker 1: kills me when children do that, because when you have kids,

1354
01:25:49,479 --> 01:25:52,120
Speaker 1: you're gonna it's gonna come back on you. You're going

1355
01:25:52,200 --> 01:25:56,240
Speaker 1: to learn because to be a parent is to make

1356
01:25:56,280 --> 01:26:01,240
Speaker 1: the ultimate sacrifice oftentimes and oftentimes ms while you're in

1357
01:26:01,280 --> 01:26:06,439
Speaker 1: the process of sacrificing. These little stupid kids don't see it.

1358
01:26:07,720 --> 01:26:11,040
Speaker 1: All they want is like, surely say you're not here.

1359
01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:14,559
Speaker 1: I got what you're saying. But like I said on

1360
01:26:14,640 --> 01:26:17,599
Speaker 1: the last break, if I have stayed there, I guess

1361
01:26:17,640 --> 01:26:21,479
Speaker 1: where we'll be at back down? Now? Do you like

1362
01:26:21,640 --> 01:26:24,080
Speaker 1: it here where we are? Now? Are you like it

1363
01:26:24,200 --> 01:26:26,599
Speaker 1: back there? Where we was because you kill your ass

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01:26:26,640 --> 01:26:31,280
Speaker 1: back there, but you're going without your daddy. No, I'm

1365
01:26:31,280 --> 01:26:35,560
Speaker 1: not doing poe ass no more. What I'm doing no

1366
01:26:35,800 --> 01:26:42,640
Speaker 1: ass was in the Bible as it's different, Temmy, you

1367
01:26:42,720 --> 01:26:45,400
Speaker 1: had a solution, what was yours? I just you know,

1368
01:26:45,560 --> 01:26:47,240
Speaker 1: I got to a point where I'm just fed up

1369
01:26:47,240 --> 01:26:49,919
Speaker 1: with it. So when you're coming, you're complaining, and um

1370
01:26:50,080 --> 01:26:52,559
Speaker 1: you you're throwing up just two years in my face.

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01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:54,600
Speaker 1: You know I didn't get ain't But one thing I

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01:26:54,600 --> 01:27:06,200
Speaker 1: can say, man, damn man, I think I think that's

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01:27:06,240 --> 01:27:08,160
Speaker 1: how he feels. And that's how a lot of parents feel,

1374
01:27:08,240 --> 01:27:14,920
Speaker 1: of course, but that's how he feels. That's how every

1375
01:27:14,960 --> 01:27:20,960
Speaker 1: time you don't get what you want, I think you want.

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01:27:21,000 --> 01:27:22,720
Speaker 1: Can I just say that as a circle of the

1377
01:27:22,720 --> 01:27:26,080
Speaker 1: conversation that we had, that's an opinion that a lot

1378
01:27:26,120 --> 01:27:29,000
Speaker 1: of parents are gonna take, and its reason why some

1379
01:27:29,280 --> 01:27:31,600
Speaker 1: people don't talk for their kids. But you know what

1380
01:27:31,960 --> 01:27:34,680
Speaker 1: she is, like this what I had to develop and

1381
01:27:34,840 --> 01:27:37,800
Speaker 1: like you know, as kids now they're young, so they

1382
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:39,960
Speaker 1: all in the therapy and they got money for that.

1383
01:27:41,600 --> 01:27:43,400
Speaker 1: I don't see. I don't go to therapy because I

1384
01:27:43,439 --> 01:27:45,720
Speaker 1: don't need it. Now it's good for some people. It's

1385
01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:48,640
Speaker 1: great for some people. But I'm really grateful that I

1386
01:27:48,720 --> 01:27:54,679
Speaker 1: had a very unique ability to say, Okay, that's over,

1387
01:27:55,280 --> 01:27:58,680
Speaker 1: we're past it, let's get up, let's move on, go

1388
01:27:58,800 --> 01:28:03,760
Speaker 1: on to something else. I've had a very keen ability

1389
01:28:03,840 --> 01:28:07,400
Speaker 1: to do that my entire life. If I hadn't, my

1390
01:28:07,479 --> 01:28:11,240
Speaker 1: life would have crumbled me. I would have crumbled under

1391
01:28:11,240 --> 01:28:15,240
Speaker 1: the weight of my own life, of my own crippling

1392
01:28:15,320 --> 01:28:18,920
Speaker 1: decisions I had made. But God gave me a great

1393
01:28:19,040 --> 01:28:23,320
Speaker 1: ability to be able to say, Okay, it's done. I

1394
01:28:23,479 --> 01:28:28,000
Speaker 1: messed up, my bad, I'm sorry. I asked for forgiveness

1395
01:28:28,400 --> 01:28:31,439
Speaker 1: from God and for people all the time, I'm sorry,

1396
01:28:31,720 --> 01:28:33,800
Speaker 1: Can we move on? And then I get up and

1397
01:28:33,840 --> 01:28:37,840
Speaker 1: go again? And that has kept me therapy free because

1398
01:28:37,880 --> 01:28:40,479
Speaker 1: what I do not do is I don't keep dragging

1399
01:28:40,479 --> 01:28:43,559
Speaker 1: my mistakes with me. I don't keep bringing up my

1400
01:28:43,640 --> 01:28:48,439
Speaker 1: past transgressions. Now. Sad thing is people in my life

1401
01:28:48,479 --> 01:28:51,880
Speaker 1: do no, You've forgiven yourself. It's what you're saying, You've

1402
01:28:51,920 --> 01:28:56,439
Speaker 1: forgiven yourself. And if you don't forgive me, then man

1403
01:28:56,920 --> 01:29:02,960
Speaker 1: bump you. That's what I say. We'll have more of

1404
01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:05,960
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening

1405
01:29:06,200 --> 01:29:09,840
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We have to talk

1406
01:29:09,880 --> 01:29:12,840
Speaker 1: about this, Tommy. Earlier. Uh in the show, you made

1407
01:29:12,880 --> 01:29:15,920
Speaker 1: reference to your backpack and Steve made reference to his

1408
01:29:16,040 --> 01:29:19,400
Speaker 1: credit card. Where were you? Okay, I came in here

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01:29:19,400 --> 01:29:22,320
Speaker 1: with a backpack this morning. Now it's gone. I know,

1410
01:29:22,439 --> 01:29:25,559
Speaker 1: damn well, who got it? So I called myself playing

1411
01:29:26,040 --> 01:29:28,120
Speaker 1: a little joke. Alright, I went by his house for

1412
01:29:28,240 --> 01:29:30,080
Speaker 1: I left to go and my wife went to Vega.

1413
01:29:30,520 --> 01:29:34,439
Speaker 1: His credit card is in the house land. I picked

1414
01:29:34,439 --> 01:29:37,280
Speaker 1: it up. I said, I say, I'm gonna play a

1415
01:29:37,360 --> 01:29:40,639
Speaker 1: joke card. So I take his card. Then I, you know,

1416
01:29:41,120 --> 01:29:43,840
Speaker 1: shot a video saying I got my Loca card. I'm

1417
01:29:43,880 --> 01:29:50,040
Speaker 1: bowling in Vega. Okay, so I'm just playing, you know now,

1418
01:29:50,720 --> 01:29:54,519
Speaker 1: But okay, you play it. But did you have my card? Though?

1419
01:29:55,200 --> 01:29:58,200
Speaker 1: I had your card? Okay, okay, alright, go ahead, and

1420
01:29:58,280 --> 01:30:01,280
Speaker 1: now I have an American Express card to mine. Ain't

1421
01:30:01,280 --> 01:30:05,720
Speaker 1: black man, feelful? But you know, hanging out having fun.

1422
01:30:06,360 --> 01:30:08,639
Speaker 1: I messed around, grabbed the wrong card. Yeah, I used

1423
01:30:08,640 --> 01:30:11,360
Speaker 1: your card a little bit. But at the end of

1424
01:30:11,360 --> 01:30:17,120
Speaker 1: the day, you know how you grabbed the wrong card?

1425
01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:21,680
Speaker 1: You just said your card ain't black? Now how you

1426
01:30:21,720 --> 01:30:25,000
Speaker 1: grab you you grab a black card knowing you ain't

1427
01:30:25,000 --> 01:30:29,519
Speaker 1: got but a silver car. So now you didn't grab

1428
01:30:29,600 --> 01:30:33,000
Speaker 1: the black card if you use it a little bit? Hi?

1429
01:30:33,040 --> 01:30:37,680
Speaker 1: HOI how you? How you using a little bit? Like

1430
01:30:37,720 --> 01:30:42,280
Speaker 1: I said, you know, we're hanging out. It was dark

1431
01:30:42,360 --> 01:30:45,360
Speaker 1: where I was and the card is dark. So but

1432
01:30:46,080 --> 01:30:50,280
Speaker 1: in yours, curently it was just a joke. You know,

1433
01:30:50,960 --> 01:30:53,160
Speaker 1: he didn't took it the wrong. Now my damn backpack

1434
01:30:53,280 --> 01:30:54,880
Speaker 1: on and I know it's in this room somewhere, so

1435
01:30:54,920 --> 01:30:59,400
Speaker 1: I know you got it. Okay, Uh huh, the joke's

1436
01:30:59,479 --> 01:31:06,040
Speaker 1: on you and you're medicine in there? Yes, I need

1437
01:31:06,680 --> 01:31:11,000
Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? Slightly in frost state? You know,

1438
01:31:11,200 --> 01:31:14,960
Speaker 1: just a little bit. They just regular side. They didn't

1439
01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:21,600
Speaker 1: look big. Well, I need put out my medicine. Man,

1440
01:31:21,240 --> 01:31:26,479
Speaker 1: you've you've been miss Dagne. You got regular side propt.

1441
01:31:26,600 --> 01:31:32,080
Speaker 1: They didn't look real big on you. Okay, So that's

1442
01:31:32,120 --> 01:31:38,439
Speaker 1: like if you had not far see too far, ain't

1443
01:31:38,479 --> 01:31:43,040
Speaker 1: wining hell like happen? All right, well, thanks for thanks

1444
01:31:43,080 --> 01:31:46,920
Speaker 1: for clearing up. All right. So I was telling you earlier,

1445
01:31:46,960 --> 01:31:49,760
Speaker 1: Steve that Michael Jackson's old pad Elephant was a little

1446
01:31:49,840 --> 01:31:53,680
Speaker 1: naughty over the weekend in Florida. The Jacksonville Zoo and

1447
01:31:53,760 --> 01:31:57,519
Speaker 1: Garden said on its Facebook page that Ali, that's an

1448
01:31:57,560 --> 01:32:01,759
Speaker 1: elephant that wasn't lived at Michael's land Ranch moon walked

1449
01:32:01,800 --> 01:32:04,880
Speaker 1: out of his enclosure on Sunday and ended up in

1450
01:32:04,960 --> 01:32:09,160
Speaker 1: a courtyard. Zoo officials say workers accidentally left a gate

1451
01:32:09,200 --> 01:32:12,560
Speaker 1: open and Ali the elephant tried to beat it. He

1452
01:32:14,000 --> 01:32:16,799
Speaker 1: was He was on the loose for about twenty minutes

1453
01:32:16,840 --> 01:32:19,960
Speaker 1: before zoo workers were able to use food to entice

1454
01:32:20,040 --> 01:32:23,679
Speaker 1: him back to his enclosure. Fortunately, no one was hurt

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Speaker 1: and Alie is safe, so that's the good news. What happened? Well,

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Speaker 1: what do you mean? I just read the story with

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Speaker 1: George Wallace. His mama. It was Father's Day. She wanted

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Speaker 1: to go wish him a happy father Day because you know,

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Speaker 1: he don't know his real daddy. So he left a

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Speaker 1: zoo to George happy man dead. It's father Day tomorrow,

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Speaker 1: all right? Steve, coming up our last break of the day,

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Speaker 1: closing marks. Right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Show.

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Speaker 1: Here we are, Steve, Last Break of the day. I

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Speaker 1: was on a good morning. Yeah, we got a lot

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Speaker 1: of should have paid you alright, Alright, God, it made

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Speaker 1: me a bed prison. I'm all right, I promise you

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Speaker 1: hashtag Yeah yeah, Steve, You're good. I ain't got to be.

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Speaker 1: He's still working it out. Keep running over here, though,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna learn some moment. Yeah. So what did we

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Speaker 1: learn today? Though? What did we learn? Well? You know what, kids,

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you something else. Kids don't understand.

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Speaker 1: We as parents have all protected our kids from certain

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Speaker 1: information because we felt that at certain times and they

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Speaker 1: liked they didn't need certain information because they didn't have

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Speaker 1: at that age the ability to process. Steve from Asia.

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Speaker 1: But I've learned over the years, I started slowly releasing

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Speaker 1: information till them because see, now you at an age

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Speaker 1: where you can understand. So all this you've been thinking

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Speaker 1: of feeling about me, it's a little sideway looking at

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Speaker 1: me at the corner of your eye, questioning me about

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Speaker 1: my my level of participation in your life when you

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Speaker 1: use babies and all this here. Oh, let me tell

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Speaker 1: you a couple of things, because I know what didn't

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Speaker 1: happened here, see, and Mama got a different story because

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Speaker 1: you ain't there. Okay, But now have you ever heard

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Speaker 1: the story about why I wasn't now anybody told you

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Speaker 1: that story. Okay, let me go and give you I'm

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Speaker 1: let me let me dribble you a little information, messing,

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Speaker 1: a little day of since you want to. But see

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Speaker 1: if you keep talking to me grown, then I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: talk back to you like you grown, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: let you have a little information. Now. You think you

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Speaker 1: need therapy now with waiting this story over? Yeah, he

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01:35:02,680 --> 01:35:10,000
Speaker 1: is open. I'm telling you now. So it's sort of funny, man.

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Speaker 1: But it's like I think the truth is, it's it's

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Speaker 1: it's necessary sometimes likely, you know, for example, Okay, closing remarks,

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Speaker 1: let me let me do it like this, because earlier

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Speaker 1: I was thinking about I was jokingly talking about the

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, how honesty is not always the best policy.

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Speaker 1: And it's not because sometimes the truth is too strong.

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Speaker 1: The truth of the matter is too strong, and if

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01:35:40,560 --> 01:35:44,520
Speaker 1: you're carrying person, you can't be that strong to everybody

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01:35:44,600 --> 01:35:49,639
Speaker 1: because everybody can't handle full strength medicine. Some people allergic

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01:35:49,720 --> 01:35:52,200
Speaker 1: to certain medicines like penicill is good, but some people

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Speaker 1: are allergic to it. That's what I feel about the truth,

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Speaker 1: that as some people that's allergic to the truth. That's

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Speaker 1: some people who can't tell the truth say that lot

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Speaker 1: they're just habitual liars. But that's some people you cannot

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Speaker 1: share the truth with because that information in its harshest form,

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Speaker 1: in its purest form of truth, can be too much

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Speaker 1: for a person. So if all of your friends ask

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Speaker 1: you for your honest opinion of them, would you would

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01:36:23,960 --> 01:36:28,479
Speaker 1: you all tell them the pure truth? How you really

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Speaker 1: feel about every outfit they wear, how you really feel

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Speaker 1: about their hairstyle, how you really think they can pick

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Speaker 1: the wrong shade of make up? Do you think it's

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Speaker 1: in your best interesting to share the complete honesty? And

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Speaker 1: there are people sitting up and listening, going, well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: if you're the real friend and y'all have a friendship,

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Speaker 1: you should be honest. But you can't though you can't

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Speaker 1: because it's it's not humanly smart to do that. You

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01:36:53,960 --> 01:37:00,240
Speaker 1: can't bear everything you think to everybody because everybody they

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Speaker 1: can't handle it. It's just like you can't raise two

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Speaker 1: children the same way because everybody's different, so you have

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Speaker 1: to reshape some of the stuff you said. I got

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Speaker 1: some things I could say to some of my children

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Speaker 1: that I can't say to the other children. I got

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Speaker 1: certain ways I can handle one of my children in

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Speaker 1: this regard with discipline. But if the other one would

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Speaker 1: crumble under that type of discipline, so I have to

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Speaker 1: weigh it out. I got certain friends that I could

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Speaker 1: talk to you about this, but certain friends I can't

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Speaker 1: bring the subject up. I got certain friends I could

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Speaker 1: take certain places. I got certain friends that can't go nowhere. No. Well,

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Speaker 1: so I was jokingly saying, honesty ain't the best policy.

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Speaker 1: But sometimes you got to know. That's the thing called

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Speaker 1: discernment that you have to use in your life. And

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Speaker 1: as my children have gotten over in reference to my

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Speaker 1: children and my children have gotten older, sometimes we have

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Speaker 1: a little bit stronger conversations. I able to let them

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Speaker 1: in on a little bit more of what it was

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Speaker 1: like for me back then versus what they thought I

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Speaker 1: should have did or should have been. But like I said,

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Speaker 1: if I had stayed there where we were today, we

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be where we are. You know where we would

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Speaker 1: be where? You know where we would be right back

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Speaker 1: where we was. Now which one you like best? That

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Speaker 1: you make the decision from here? And everybody got to

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Speaker 1: grow up. See our children listen to me, even though

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Speaker 1: they always be our children at one point in time,

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Speaker 1: they have to grow up too, and sometimes you just

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Speaker 1: got to let them in on a little bit of

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Speaker 1: background so they can so you can speed up to

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Speaker 1: grow up process. And that's just the suggestion I have.

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Speaker 1: That's what I've learned over the years as my children

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Speaker 1: are all over twenty one. Okay, cool, now you know

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Speaker 1: we don't spank no more on all this here. But

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Speaker 1: let me have this conversation. Why ain't think you did

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Speaker 1: this right? You ain't think that. You don't think I

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Speaker 1: did this right? Let me tell you why I made

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Speaker 1: this decision. And I ain't been perfect. I don't made

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Speaker 1: some mistakes, But let me tell you what was behind

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Speaker 1: this decision that I made? That that that that that

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Speaker 1: that that. Now how you feel? Oh I ain't know that? Okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: well now you do. I love you, dad, I love

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Speaker 1: you too. Happy Fathers Day, everybody. Happy Mother's Day too.

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Speaker 1: You ain't got to ask me. Hold up, just going away?

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Speaker 1: Everybody mouth already. I wanted to say drop it, but

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Speaker 1: you ain't got saying. My mouth was open, but the

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Speaker 1: words didn't come out. Everybody's mouth. Hoping good words, boy,

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Speaker 1: y'all have a great weekend in the moment for all.

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