WEBVTT - “MY HUSBAND SEXTED A NIGERIAN CHATBOT”

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey, what's up? What's your name?

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna go buy her bagdads today.

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca, what's going on? How's life? Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>You know life? And I guess what brings you to

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<v Speaker 2>the show?

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<v Speaker 3>Huh so much.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I've texted you a million things, so I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. I don't know which one you want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about. I'm down to talk about any of them.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the most recent was like me being angry

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<v Speaker 2>at another person on the podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>Who who on the podcast? Were you angry at that guy?

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<v Speaker 3>Jose?

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<v Speaker 2>He was just like lying to you and then making

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<v Speaker 2>you stay on the call, And I was like, what

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<v Speaker 2>is why is he doing all this?

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<v Speaker 1>Dude? It's so funny. First of all, shadow Jose. Jose's

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<v Speaker 1>a legend, Jose's a hero, but for some reason, so like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so random. That was a phone call about absolutely nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>and it has gotten way more uh reception than any

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<v Speaker 1>phone call recently about anything. Yeah, No, Isaiah was a

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<v Speaker 1>good guy. I don't know it was. I mean, people

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<v Speaker 1>were mad at me. They thought I was being a dick.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just having a conversation. I felt like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>people were mad at me, and then they were mad

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<v Speaker 1>at Jose. And I'm like, I think both of us

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<v Speaker 1>were just existing. That was the whole point. That was

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<v Speaker 1>what I was trying to get at, is we were

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<v Speaker 1>just existing on the phone together.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he needed done more than you need a

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<v Speaker 2>DoD Well.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I mean he felt like he felt as though

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<v Speaker 1>there was something wrong with him, and I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to tell him that there were there There wasn't. He

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<v Speaker 1>was he was exactly okay, just existing as who he was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I get that, but yeah, So, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how far you've gone in my text threats.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're just talking, and so I actually did. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not looking at the thing. We're all exactly. We're on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now, We're in the moment. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to talk about?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, I have a funny story.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Story that happened to me like two years ago. Uh

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<v Speaker 2>huh with my person who I am currently now married with.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll try to make a sure But basically, he

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<v Speaker 2>was like texting a bot and he thought it was

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<v Speaker 2>like a girl, and he like sent nudes and she

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<v Speaker 2>sent nudes and then turns out it was a man

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<v Speaker 2>in Nigeria, scamming him for money. And then he was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to confess to you, and I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>what's up? And he was like, well, this is what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm being extorted for money from somebody who was from Nigeria.

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<v Speaker 2>What should I do? And then I was like it

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<v Speaker 2>was pretty funny. I thought it was kind of stupid

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<v Speaker 2>because I said, if I'm going to marry this man,

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<v Speaker 2>why am I allowing this?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>But also side note, I did marry him so I

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<v Speaker 2>can get legal documentation in the United States, but also

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<v Speaker 2>because like I've been with him for a for a

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<v Speaker 2>long time. But it just felt very weird knowing that

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<v Speaker 2>this man was sending newts to a man in Nigeria

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<v Speaker 2>thinking that it was a woman and marry him. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a problem for me, but I think it

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<v Speaker 2>was okay because we'd been together for over four years.

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<v Speaker 2>It was kind of just to me, it felt like

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<v Speaker 2>this was like the end all be all, even though

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<v Speaker 2>it shouldn't have been.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, I'm sorry you felt like what was the end

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<v Speaker 1>all be all?

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<v Speaker 2>Like this relationship?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, I'm trying to understand why this was not a

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<v Speaker 1>problem for you.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Okay, So The only reason why it was not

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<v Speaker 2>a problem was because I was trying to look past

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<v Speaker 2>the problem. I was trying to get papers essentially.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and how okay, And now you guys are married

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<v Speaker 1>and you looked past that, and how is the marriage going?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>So like this, it's a whole ball of bs. But

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<v Speaker 2>basically what happened is we were not good. So maybe

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<v Speaker 2>about like seven months ago, we kind of took a

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<v Speaker 2>break and then I don't know, I think I would

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<v Speaker 2>consider this. I would say it was an affair because

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<v Speaker 2>I met somebody at work. I started working at a

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<v Speaker 2>restaurant and then I do back a house and so

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<v Speaker 2>I met somebody at work, and then I was not

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<v Speaker 2>seen the man that I married, right, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>was seeing this new guy. We're gonna call him Joey.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was seeing Joey and then we were dating essentially,

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<v Speaker 2>and then like it, just like me and the guy

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<v Speaker 2>that I married just were kind of no contact. It

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<v Speaker 2>was just like random text, hey, hey, how are you whatever, whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>But then I started really catching feelings for this Joey

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<v Speaker 2>guy and he wanted to be with me, but then

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<v Speaker 2>he was love bombing me. He was very much like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>when I saw you, I knew I was going to

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<v Speaker 2>marry you, and I'm like, well, you know, I'm married,

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<v Speaker 2>so I just can't happen. But I was almost like

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<v Speaker 2>about to give in. And then this guy turned out recently,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like going on Instagram and then he has

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<v Speaker 2>a girlfriend already in a month that we stopped.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking, and a d during this time. Are you with

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<v Speaker 1>your husband? Like, are you like to get married?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but no contact like maybe two texts throughout the

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<v Speaker 2>month or something. Oh okay, so legally yes, okay, married

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<v Speaker 2>by uh huh?

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<v Speaker 1>So are you Roman? Who are you romantically involved with

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<v Speaker 1>your husband? Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Now, yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Where are you from California? Why do you need papers?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I was brought here when I was like three

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<v Speaker 2>years old.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, so you don't have a US passport?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't, Oh shit, damn. But you've been how long

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<v Speaker 1>you've been therefore?

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<v Speaker 2>I have been here for twenty five years, damn, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>And you still need to fucking marry a crazy guy.

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<v Speaker 1>You still need to have a horrible relationship to uh America?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, literally? And you know what, And there's obviously like

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<v Speaker 2>good parts and there was a lot of good parts,

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<v Speaker 2>but also a lot of horrible parts that I literally

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<v Speaker 2>had no idea were happening, you know, because I feel like, naturally,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a very loving girl, and so I think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>very trusting, and so this guy, like I just one

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<v Speaker 2>time got like a hunch and looked through his phone.

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<v Speaker 2>And then since the first year we were dating, there

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<v Speaker 2>was like he was in girls dms and then girls

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<v Speaker 2>like randomly would DM me and they would be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>or do you know this guy, like he's been calling me,

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<v Speaker 2>he DMS me and he wants to hang out, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was the whole thing. But again, I think I

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<v Speaker 2>was just very like blinded by it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And I'm the problem? Why do you? Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you the problem?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I think I'm just too trusting. Same thing with

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<v Speaker 2>this guy Joey. I feel like even though like I

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<v Speaker 2>really liked him, I really enjoyed the time I was trusting.

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<v Speaker 2>And then how in a month are you already with

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<v Speaker 2>a girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>And so who are you with now? You're with the

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<v Speaker 1>guy who sexted the Nigerian chat Bob? Yes, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>how's and again again I've moved in now okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>are you with him? With him? Or I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>trying to distinct the differentiate between who you're with for

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<v Speaker 1>papers and who you're like actually romantically involved with.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I'm with him for papers, the guy that

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<v Speaker 2>was texting the Nigerian Bot, and then currently we're trying

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<v Speaker 2>same person. We're trying to romantically be involved.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's like I went through so much with yeah at.

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<v Speaker 1>The okay, but at the time that you were sexting

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<v Speaker 1>with that, he was sexting with the Nigerian Bot. Were

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<v Speaker 1>you guys in a committed relationship?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay uh and Okay, how is repairing that going?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? So we do have conflicting work schedules, so I

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<v Speaker 2>think I like, I only see him during the weekend

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<v Speaker 2>for a few hours because I work at Baker hours,

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<v Speaker 2>So that means I'm at work by four am and

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<v Speaker 2>he is going to work at one pm, and then

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<v Speaker 2>he won't get off till eleven pm, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>get off at twelve thirty pm, so I have to

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<v Speaker 2>be in bed by like seven pm. So weekends really

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<v Speaker 2>are the only times I see him because he's off

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<v Speaker 2>those days, okay, And so it's it's a little odd,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because he has no idea about Joey from work.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I've never yeah, okay, so essentially you guys

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<v Speaker 1>cheated on each.

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<v Speaker 2>Other, yes, but he said more times. I know it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't justify it, but you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, So at that point, it's like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>you did some things. I did some things. Let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>start from scratch. That's kind of where we're at this

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Okay, And are you enjoying being around him?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you actually want to make this work or is

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<v Speaker 1>it just for the papers?

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like a little bit of both. Right, So

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<v Speaker 2>at this point, it's kind of like getting papers is

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<v Speaker 2>really expensive. I'm glad you don't ever have to go

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<v Speaker 2>through that, but it's it's really expensive to try to

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<v Speaker 2>just even get documents, Like I have a work permit

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<v Speaker 2>and I have to pay just recently almost six hundred

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<v Speaker 2>dollars to be able to work here and pay taxes,

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<v Speaker 2>which is insane crazy. That's a whole nother story. But

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<v Speaker 2>I am enjoying the time, and I'm trying, like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>trying to actually be committed into this, you know, m

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm enjoying it so far, And.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would say, does he also seem as though

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<v Speaker 1>he is enjoying it, like he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Making I think so, yeah, for sure, like financially he's

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<v Speaker 2>being very helpful. But I also don't know if that's

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<v Speaker 2>also you know, a little bit of guilt that he have.

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<v Speaker 1>But her parents are still in the country.

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<v Speaker 2>So my mom actually left a few years ago, and

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<v Speaker 2>she's like doing really well over there.

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<v Speaker 1>But my dad, Yes, where is she from?

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<v Speaker 2>My mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Mexico okay.

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<v Speaker 2>We're from Mexico City, Okay. And so she's over there

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<v Speaker 2>doing her things. She owns a business. She's doing really

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<v Speaker 2>well over there. My dad is here and he just

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<v Speaker 2>he has his own business and he's doing He remarried,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, that's another situation. Remarried, bought a house really far,

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<v Speaker 2>so he moved to Lancaster now, and so that's about

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<v Speaker 2>like two hours from where I'm at. Okay, mm wait,

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<v Speaker 2>are you still in la.

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<v Speaker 1>Right at this very moment? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, wow.

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<v Speaker 4>See.

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<v Speaker 2>And that was the funny part is Joey was supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to go with me to go to your show, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, you know, and he was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>buy the tickets and then we're going. But then he

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<v Speaker 2>ended up like no, never mind.

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<v Speaker 1>So Where are you? Where are you coming? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>coming to the show?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 5>Not anymore?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I was about to say I'll see you in

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<v Speaker 1>three hours. Wait did you still wait? So you bought

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<v Speaker 1>a ticket? You're not going?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you going?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I'm like, I don't have anybody else to go with.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, okay, listen, here's the thing. I see

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<v Speaker 1>the numbers of some of the shows, not all of them,

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<v Speaker 1>but but listen, you're not the only person who's bought

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<v Speaker 1>a single tick get to the event.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, come to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's in like fucking two hours.

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<v Speaker 2>It seems like, yeah, like I should go, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just like, you know what, I've worked tomorrow four am

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<v Speaker 2>again and then to drive back to La.

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<v Speaker 1>You wait from where?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you live in La?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, okay, so my friends make fun of me because

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<v Speaker 2>I use stay LA, but it's like technically La County.

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<v Speaker 2>So for example, like today, when I got off work,

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<v Speaker 2>it took me an hour and ten minutes to get

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<v Speaker 2>back home. Yeah when typically in the morning, Yeah, four am,

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<v Speaker 2>we're talking twenty five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well what's so what's up with Joey? Wait? So

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<v Speaker 1>you were gonna go with this guy. Wait, so you

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<v Speaker 1>were going to bring your mistress to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and you were.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not afraid that, Like, well I don't, You're not

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<v Speaker 1>afraid that, like you know, what if I'm what if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like recording it and then he's like in it

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<v Speaker 1>and then you get you get caught.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because the one that was texting the Nigerian bot,

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<v Speaker 2>he actually like I try to get him to listen

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<v Speaker 2>to your show, and he just like never wanted to.

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<v Speaker 2>He was always just like, oh yeah, that's funny whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, you don't get it. And then Joey

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<v Speaker 2>on the contrary, like he would actually like listen and

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<v Speaker 2>like we would be in the car and then he

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<v Speaker 2>would like, you know, comment about it. So I knew

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<v Speaker 2>that he would have been the person that would have

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<v Speaker 2>enjoyed it more.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but you're happy in your marriage too. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call him the Nigerian guy. You're happy in your

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<v Speaker 1>marriage to the Nigerian guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. That's where I'm conflicted, because it's like

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm just kind of forcing myself. But again,

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<v Speaker 2>it just feels like I don't know, I'm mad that

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<v Speaker 2>like Joey is with this girl in a month, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you still thinking? Why are we even still

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<v Speaker 1>talking about Joey? You're married to the Nigerian guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yes, but because I thought that, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it was not going to work out with the Nigerian guy,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I thought, like, you know, maybe Joey and

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<v Speaker 2>I would would have been together.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but that's it. But now you're with the Nigerian guy.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're thinking about Joey with the Nigerian guy,

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<v Speaker 1>then But.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying is that I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm happy. I'm kind of like, am I settling?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you want to be with myself?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I think that's too late.

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<v Speaker 1>It's probably it's a little too late to be with Joey.

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<v Speaker 1>But then what's the point of being with it? But

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<v Speaker 1>then why don't you But if you don't even want

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<v Speaker 1>to be with.

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<v Speaker 2>This guy the leapers because I need papers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you can like break up and not get divorced.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, But then the thing is like, is he gonna

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<v Speaker 2>let me get papers? I need him to physically be there,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, like I can pay it. I can

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<v Speaker 2>pay for the papers and stuff, but he needs to

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<v Speaker 2>sign like legal documents and do the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did he agree to? But he's like sected, Why

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<v Speaker 1>did it sounds it doesn't sound like either of you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be with each other. Why is this even happening?

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<v Speaker 5>I think?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so he has changed a lot since, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like I've forgiven him all those times. And it was

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<v Speaker 2>more than just the Nigerian texting that guy, right. It

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<v Speaker 2>was the girls that had dms me and talking about hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I met up with him, blah blah blah. It's been

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<v Speaker 2>more like girls from like the UK get I literally it.

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<v Speaker 3>Has to be.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like a crazy person because one time this

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<v Speaker 2>girl commented he has like another page, another Instagram page

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<v Speaker 2>where he does photography, and this girl commented like so natural,

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<v Speaker 2>just very much like oh my gosh, such a cute picture,

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<v Speaker 2>some dumb shit like that, right, And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>why is she so comfortable commenting that with hearts while

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<v Speaker 2>you and I are together? This was before we got married,

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<v Speaker 2>and so then I was like, hey, girl, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just wanted to check in, like is there something between

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<v Speaker 2>you two? And she was like, oh, well, we've been

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<v Speaker 2>dming and she's from the UK. Gheg and We're in America.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's yeming with people in Nigeria. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>he's got uh like.

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<v Speaker 3>A ratio location.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, this is what what is the I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand. I don't understand the point of you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>Like why, like, what is neither neither of you, neither

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<v Speaker 1>of you want to be in the relationship. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing.

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<v Speaker 2>For papers? It just it seems like convenience, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I think, but.

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<v Speaker 1>At what point is it like like you're here to

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<v Speaker 1>be in the US to do what.

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<v Speaker 4>To live?

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<v Speaker 2>Because this is all I've known my whole life. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't be like, hey, go back to Mexico and

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<v Speaker 2>then I don't even know what the hell that looks like.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we're talking like you were here broad as

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<v Speaker 2>a baby, and what the hell am I going to

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<v Speaker 2>do over there?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you you have a baby?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't have a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, I think said brought you a broad as

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<v Speaker 1>a baby. Oh okay, okay, don't well, don't have a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a terrible idea.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, trust me, I'm very much anti kid.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your name again?

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<v Speaker 2>Rebecca?

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have.

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<v Speaker 1>No solution for your problem. I mean there's I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I do sort of, but yeah, you're gonna have to

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<v Speaker 1>just break well, you have to break up. But like

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<v Speaker 1>I guess the whole thing is like if you break up,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the point of him? But he doesn't want like,

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<v Speaker 1>but what's the But here's the thing. He doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to even be in the relationship anyway. So there so

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<v Speaker 1>there's no point. So even even if he is married

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<v Speaker 1>to you, there's no point in him going to these

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<v Speaker 1>appointments anyway. You know, Yeah, this it doesn't make any sense.

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<v Speaker 2>I think. Again, I think it's mostly kind of maybe

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<v Speaker 2>it could be the guilt and maybe he feels like

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<v Speaker 2>he has to help me at this point, which is

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<v Speaker 2>what I kind of feel like, maybe that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>But I do also know that like you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>we've been together for so long and like it feels

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<v Speaker 2>like there is love there. Okay, but you know, as

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<v Speaker 2>conflicting as all.

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<v Speaker 1>Of this, how long you how long have you been together?

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<v Speaker 2>Seven years?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, he'll help you with your pay, he'll help you

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<v Speaker 1>with the papers, but like I think he'll help you.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll help you with the papers. But but just if

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing this thing, where like now that if you

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<v Speaker 1>actually want to be with each other, then like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a conversation about it and be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, listen, like you want to hang out with

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<v Speaker 1>these whatever London Instagram models, I want to hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with Joey or whatever. Like let's just do that. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you could help me out with the papers, that'd

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<v Speaker 1>be cool too, you know. Yeah, like what's the point

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<v Speaker 1>of this?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know what, but I've tried that. I've tried that,

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<v Speaker 2>and he like refuses to let go, and I also

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<v Speaker 2>refuse to le go clearly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole Rebecca Rebecca shits. Who's Nicole?

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<v Speaker 2>It's not my real name. Don't worry.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I don't know where Nicole is. But is there

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<v Speaker 1>anything else you want to say to the people of

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<v Speaker 1>the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck dumb kids, Thank you, good luck, good bye, but

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<v Speaker 2>you around the universe, See.

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<v Speaker 1>You around the universe.

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<v Speaker 2>Toodle's poodle?

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey, what's up man?

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<v Speaker 4>Who is this? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>This is the gecko? What's up? Man? Who is this?

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<v Speaker 4>Whoa? This is Joe?

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<v Speaker 1>Joe? What kind of name is Joe?

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<v Speaker 5>It's it's like, you know, like the average Joe you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, are you an average Joe or are you or

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<v Speaker 1>are you more than that?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm pretty average. I mean, I don't know, man, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>just some guy. I'm just a man. I'm just some guy.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm kind of lost though.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like you're a regular guy?

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like I'm more than a regular guy. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 5>you ever get those like those small instantaneous like bursts,

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<v Speaker 5>like I feel like I'm the fucking dog today. Can

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<v Speaker 5>I cuss on ears?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Why do people always ask me that I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm I always get offended, not offended, defend is

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong word. But I like, uh, I'm like, have

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<v Speaker 1>I am I too soft? The people have to ask

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<v Speaker 1>have to ask me that.

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<v Speaker 5>You sound so chill, Like you don't sound like a

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<v Speaker 5>guy who cusses, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't sound like a guy who cusses.

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<v Speaker 5>No, you don't, dude, Like I take you as like

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<v Speaker 5>a very sweet guy. I feel like I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>you're one of those guys. Like if I was with

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<v Speaker 5>a group of guys and you were there and I

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<v Speaker 5>was cussing, you would tell everyone to like calm down

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Really?

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<v Speaker 5>Ah, man, oe, dude, maybe maybe we need to smoke

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<v Speaker 5>and we together and figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't know, I mean, I try to. No,

0:23:07.480 --> 0:23:09.520
<v Speaker 1>it's funny there. I mean, I've been in some like

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<v Speaker 1>social circles in my life where like, uh, people have

0:23:15.560 --> 0:23:19.040
<v Speaker 1>said certain similar things to me. But like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I seem like I don't cuss, I don't like that.

0:23:22.040 --> 0:23:28.760
<v Speaker 1>It feels that feels uh. I don't know. That's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate this is an interesting way to get a

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<v Speaker 1>grip on how I'm perceived.

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<v Speaker 5>But you seem very nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I try, man, I don't know, I'm going.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I would I would sit down if you

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<v Speaker 5>were at a bar. I would sit down with you

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<v Speaker 5>if you're by yourself and buy your beer.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks. Man, Well, I'm going insane. I'm going insane.

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry, I'm going insane. Bro, I'm looking you lost right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you going? And so tell me why you're

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<v Speaker 1>going insane? Son?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So I'm looking at a musician. I like to play bass.

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<v Speaker 5>So I was in this music store. I'm in Teteluma

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<v Speaker 5>right now on a getaway trip with my girlfriend and dude.

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<v Speaker 5>Her phone just died and she says she's going to

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<v Speaker 5>a bookstore. And then there's like five bookstores near me,

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<v Speaker 5>and I went through like three already, I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 5>losing it and I'm lost, and I don't remember where

0:24:22.720 --> 0:24:25.920
<v Speaker 5>we parked. And now I'm sitting on a bench smoking

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<v Speaker 5>my weed and right next to me, I see a

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<v Speaker 5>signentist no smoking prohibited in the park.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude? What is Petaluma?

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<v Speaker 5>It's a little city, it's by It's it's in like

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<v Speaker 5>is it the Nooma County or something? I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 5>It's in California.

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<v Speaker 1>And what are you doing there again? You're on vacation.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's a little getaway trip for me and my

0:24:50.359 --> 0:24:53.439
<v Speaker 5>girls are six years That's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And where is she? You can't find her?

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<v Speaker 5>Heyde a bookstore, She's told me a bookstore last because

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<v Speaker 5>I was in this music store for a good minute.

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<v Speaker 5>I walked out and I see like one bookstore going it,

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<v Speaker 5>couldn't find her. I go another one, couldn't find her.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I kind of just gave up halfway. And

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<v Speaker 5>now I'm sitting here on a bench.

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<v Speaker 1>And where do you think she might be?

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<v Speaker 5>There's I mean, there's two more spots I could go too,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm halfway with my joint, go to the two spots. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>should I finished my joint first?

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<v Speaker 1>How much do you have left in the joints?

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<v Speaker 5>Like it's like a halfway you know those a little stizzy,

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<v Speaker 5>like those little stizzy half joints, like a little half rams.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, I thought it was like I thought. I

0:25:46.520 --> 0:25:51.800
<v Speaker 1>thought Stizzy was a was a vape company.

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<v Speaker 5>Dude, That's what I thought too. But then I went

0:25:54.600 --> 0:25:57.159
<v Speaker 5>into the disco recently and I saw that they had joints.

0:25:57.680 --> 0:26:00.440
<v Speaker 5>I was like, let me try that, and dudes, good deal.

0:26:01.160 --> 0:26:03.080
<v Speaker 5>I thought there'd be more of It's only five little things.

0:26:03.119 --> 0:26:04.800
<v Speaker 5>I'm kind of a heavy smoker, so I kind of

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<v Speaker 5>killed it with the day.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you meet your girlfriend six years ago?

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<v Speaker 5>Did we meet in high school? Yeah, well she was

0:26:17.359 --> 0:26:20.639
<v Speaker 5>I was sixteen, she was fifteen, and then we were

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<v Speaker 5>in the same grade. We're both sophomores at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>We met.

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<v Speaker 5>There a mutual friend that I don't I don't talk

0:26:27.520 --> 0:26:30.000
<v Speaker 5>to you anymore. That's some actually more crazy stuff about that.

0:26:30.000 --> 0:26:33.200
<v Speaker 5>That shit too, But we met their mutual friend and

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<v Speaker 5>then we.

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<v Speaker 4>Hit it off.

0:26:35.400 --> 0:26:38.879
<v Speaker 5>Actually, she slid in my DMS. Actually she slid in

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<v Speaker 5>my DMS before we actually first met, which is crazy

0:26:42.840 --> 0:26:46.440
<v Speaker 5>because normally like want maybe the other way around.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, No, not necessary. I think there's a

0:26:50.280 --> 0:26:52.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of there's a lot of guys who like the

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<v Speaker 1>reason they have a girlfriend is because they the girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>DMed them, like they made the first move, you know, Doude.

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<v Speaker 5>The thing is, I'm not I never really, dude, I

0:27:03.760 --> 0:27:06.199
<v Speaker 5>was a hermit growing up, bro, Like I played games,

0:27:06.200 --> 0:27:11.120
<v Speaker 5>I played bass, I played bass guitar and then fucking dude, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I just I was that kid who was just like

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<v Speaker 5>you know, and I did boxing for for that for

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<v Speaker 5>a little while.

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<v Speaker 4>But dude, I did. I was a hermit growing up. Bro.

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<v Speaker 5>I did not pay attention to girls. Really, and this

0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:24.200
<v Speaker 5>girl's young me and I was like, okay, do.

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<v Speaker 1>You still identify as a hermit?

0:27:27.480 --> 0:27:30.280
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, low ki, dude, I'm still a hermn like really bad.

0:27:30.359 --> 0:27:31.919
<v Speaker 5>I'm trying to break out of that sometimes.

0:27:32.080 --> 0:27:34.600
<v Speaker 1>But yet you're lost in Paloma.

0:27:35.840 --> 0:27:37.879
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm lost in Pedaluma, dude.

0:27:38.440 --> 0:27:39.840
<v Speaker 1>Why did you choose Pedaluma?

0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:44.600
<v Speaker 5>We showed, oh dude, Pedaluma. Well it's actually Napa, but

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:46.640
<v Speaker 5>we're staying in Napa. Pedaluma is like a sister city

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:49.520
<v Speaker 5>to Napa. NAPA is actually like one of the greatest

0:27:49.520 --> 0:27:52.720
<v Speaker 5>cities of wine. And I like to get drunk. So

0:27:52.760 --> 0:27:56.439
<v Speaker 5>I got really drunk yesterday off of wine, like a

0:27:56.440 --> 0:27:57.000
<v Speaker 5>lot of wine.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna, how long have you been lost?

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<v Speaker 4>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>What if minutes? Okay? Have you tried calling your girlfriend?

0:28:12.720 --> 0:28:15.359
<v Speaker 5>Her phone is bad, bro, her.

0:28:14.920 --> 0:28:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Phone is dead. Her phone is dead. Okay, that's a problem.

0:28:18.240 --> 0:28:19.640
<v Speaker 5>She did not charge your last night.

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<v Speaker 1>Does she typically do that? She she a classic.

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:28.199
<v Speaker 5>She's on it, but she's she's always on it. She's

0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:30.399
<v Speaker 5>a smart girl, like she's always on top of her stuff.

0:28:31.000 --> 0:28:34.199
<v Speaker 5>But dude, we got so drunk and so hammered that

0:28:35.400 --> 0:28:36.959
<v Speaker 5>I really, I really don't know how we got home.

0:28:37.160 --> 0:28:40.240
<v Speaker 5>Say I, I don't drink and drive. People, this is

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<v Speaker 5>online and you're listening to me. Please do not drink

0:28:42.480 --> 0:28:42.800
<v Speaker 5>and drive.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't. I don't know.

0:28:44.480 --> 0:28:47.440
<v Speaker 5>I don't remember how I got but or to the hotel,

0:28:49.000 --> 0:28:50.280
<v Speaker 5>but it happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmmm hmm okay, okay. And she's either in this

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<v Speaker 1>music store or in this bookstore.

0:29:04.640 --> 0:29:06.880
<v Speaker 5>It's even in this bookstore. I was in the music store.

0:29:06.960 --> 0:29:09.840
<v Speaker 5>I was fidgeting around on this base I liked.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, hmm, oh, I think you guys should break up.

0:29:17.960 --> 0:29:19.120
<v Speaker 1>You're ever going to find each other.

0:29:20.320 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 5>I should wake up. We're not going to fight each other.

0:29:22.080 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 1>You guys should break up. You guys did Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean this would be grounds for like I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>in the in the fourteen hundred so this would be

0:29:30.160 --> 0:29:34.280
<v Speaker 1>grounds for a breakup, just the fact that you can't

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<v Speaker 1>physically find each other.

0:29:36.040 --> 0:29:37.600
<v Speaker 5>I would I would want her to sell.

0:29:37.920 --> 0:29:39.200
<v Speaker 4>I would want her to like.

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:43.080
<v Speaker 5>Get a horse though, Like if that was the case, okay,

0:29:43.080 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 5>at least get a horse. Yeah, like a horse. You

0:29:47.320 --> 0:29:48.920
<v Speaker 5>know in the fourteen hundred three they would trade with

0:29:48.960 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 5>animals and livestock. Mm hm. So you know, I feel

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:55.560
<v Speaker 5>like it'd be okay if she got at least three horses.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, what's the highest number you think you could count to.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not good at math at all.

0:30:04.280 --> 0:30:05.880
<v Speaker 4>Gag. That's why I do construction.

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:09.160
<v Speaker 1>What it was the last thing you built as a

0:30:09.200 --> 0:30:11.240
<v Speaker 1>construction worker? What have you been building?

0:30:11.600 --> 0:30:11.719
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>I did like rough carpentry for a house. So it

0:30:14.920 --> 0:30:20.480
<v Speaker 5>was just like the framework of it. But you know,

0:30:20.560 --> 0:30:23.360
<v Speaker 5>even then, like me and my bro homies get hammered

0:30:23.920 --> 0:30:27.280
<v Speaker 5>and just build. It's like it's like it's like legos,

0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:28.680
<v Speaker 5>Like you're an adult with legos.

0:30:29.120 --> 0:30:31.800
<v Speaker 1>You and your homies get hammered and build houses. That

0:30:31.880 --> 0:30:33.120
<v Speaker 1>sounds really dangerous.

0:30:33.240 --> 0:30:35.480
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it sounds really fun.

0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:39.240
<v Speaker 1>Okay, maybe I am. Maybe I have gone soft. Maybe

0:30:39.240 --> 0:30:39.960
<v Speaker 1>I have Maybe that.

0:30:40.000 --> 0:30:43.920
<v Speaker 5>Is That's what I'm saying. Dude, I got you, I

0:30:43.920 --> 0:30:44.640
<v Speaker 5>got you right there?

0:30:45.160 --> 0:30:45.480
<v Speaker 4>Got you?

0:30:46.480 --> 0:30:48.480
<v Speaker 1>Is that really what true? Do I sound? I don't know.

0:30:48.560 --> 0:30:54.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't like uh, I don't know. I say I'm

0:30:54.440 --> 0:30:56.200
<v Speaker 1>telling you no.

0:30:56.320 --> 0:31:00.280
<v Speaker 5>I mean, dude, I'm not a party animal either, And

0:31:00.360 --> 0:31:02.000
<v Speaker 5>I still living on the edge. Dude, I live on

0:31:02.000 --> 0:31:02.480
<v Speaker 5>the edge.

0:31:04.320 --> 0:31:09.000
<v Speaker 1>You've been living on the edge. Yeah, sometimes at the end,

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:10.600
<v Speaker 1>do you like being on the edge or do you

0:31:10.680 --> 0:31:12.120
<v Speaker 1>want to get back to the center.

0:31:13.920 --> 0:31:16.120
<v Speaker 5>I like to be on the edge, but my girlfriend

0:31:16.120 --> 0:31:17.200
<v Speaker 5>likes to keep me on the center.

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<v Speaker 1>M Okay. And your girlfriend's more uh put together than you?

0:31:22.840 --> 0:31:26.360
<v Speaker 5>It sounds yes, dude, she's way more put together. Dude,

0:31:26.400 --> 0:31:29.239
<v Speaker 5>I am. I'm like think of it as like, uh

0:31:29.520 --> 0:31:32.560
<v Speaker 5>ever sent the movie Twins with Ronald Solszenegger and Dane Devio.

0:31:34.040 --> 0:31:34.680
<v Speaker 1>I've heard of it.

0:31:35.800 --> 0:31:39.600
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so the movie is like basically like they're twins,

0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 5>but only one of them gets the good as genetics,

0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:44.760
<v Speaker 5>and that's Ronald Sowlschenegger's character who's at the big, buff,

0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:45.480
<v Speaker 5>handsome one.

0:31:45.680 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 4>I like my girlfriend and I'm Dan de Vide.

0:31:47.560 --> 0:31:51.240
<v Speaker 5>I'm like the small, fat, stinky one. Mm hmm.

0:31:53.120 --> 0:31:54.560
<v Speaker 1>What's your dream for the future?

0:31:56.480 --> 0:31:59.640
<v Speaker 5>My dream for the future, dude, I'm like lurki as

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:02.160
<v Speaker 5>sorry musician right now, Like I'm kind of in my

0:32:02.200 --> 0:32:06.040
<v Speaker 5>own band and I'm just like, I haven't put anything

0:32:06.040 --> 0:32:08.360
<v Speaker 5>out yet. It's just what I've been struggling with is

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:12.280
<v Speaker 5>finding like a good tone for my bass, because I'm

0:32:12.320 --> 0:32:15.120
<v Speaker 5>just bass and drums like a little shitty piano that

0:32:15.160 --> 0:32:15.760
<v Speaker 5>I use.

0:32:18.400 --> 0:32:18.520
<v Speaker 4>Well.

0:32:18.840 --> 0:32:22.800
<v Speaker 1>And what do you make music about, dude?

0:32:22.960 --> 0:32:25.840
<v Speaker 5>It's like punk rock music. It's like experimental punk rock.

0:32:25.960 --> 0:32:29.040
<v Speaker 5>So I'll like, I'll make like catchy jingles kind of

0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:32.400
<v Speaker 5>and I'll just like, I don't really like have a voice, dare.

0:32:32.400 --> 0:32:34.640
<v Speaker 5>I'm still trying to work up to getting a good voice.

0:32:35.080 --> 0:32:37.480
<v Speaker 5>I kind of just like say stuff that that I

0:32:37.520 --> 0:32:38.440
<v Speaker 5>want to get off my chest.

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:42.000
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. What do you want to get off your chest?

0:32:42.040 --> 0:32:45.520
<v Speaker 1>What was the last thing you expressed musically?

0:32:47.480 --> 0:32:49.280
<v Speaker 5>Well, dude, I haven't posted anything yet. I have like

0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:52.280
<v Speaker 5>a little vault like like four songs that I like.

0:32:52.400 --> 0:32:54.880
<v Speaker 5>I'm still kind of working on One of them is

0:32:54.920 --> 0:32:58.720
<v Speaker 5>kind of just about like influences with people that like

0:32:58.800 --> 0:33:01.960
<v Speaker 5>got to me and I kind of hated that. That's

0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:04.440
<v Speaker 5>why I like I tell people like don't hang out

0:33:04.480 --> 0:33:07.600
<v Speaker 5>with fucking drug addicts or fucking just just don't hang

0:33:07.600 --> 0:33:10.960
<v Speaker 5>out with alcoholics people. It's it's not worth it. It's you

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:11.960
<v Speaker 5>don't want to be around.

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:12.360
<v Speaker 4>People like that.

0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:14.520
<v Speaker 1>Was that you at one point?

0:33:15.840 --> 0:33:17.800
<v Speaker 5>That was that was me at one point? Yeah, it

0:33:17.880 --> 0:33:18.480
<v Speaker 5>was pretty bad.

0:33:18.560 --> 0:33:21.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh what what influenced you to change?

0:33:23.400 --> 0:33:23.680
<v Speaker 4>Dude?

0:33:23.800 --> 0:33:26.520
<v Speaker 5>It's gonna sound so corny, but it was my girlfriend.

0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 4>I in my cat.

0:33:28.120 --> 0:33:29.600
<v Speaker 5>Do you have a little baby cat that I love?

0:33:29.640 --> 0:33:34.840
<v Speaker 5>He's like two now, he's like my son.

0:33:35.520 --> 0:33:37.960
<v Speaker 1>How did your girlfriend convince you to change?

0:33:40.240 --> 0:33:40.560
<v Speaker 4>Dude?

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:45.200
<v Speaker 5>I literally, okay, I'm twenty two now, and I don't

0:33:45.200 --> 0:33:47.520
<v Speaker 5>know why, Like do gag. I was like so stupid

0:33:47.640 --> 0:33:50.400
<v Speaker 5>and like I did so many stupid things that I look,

0:33:50.480 --> 0:33:52.800
<v Speaker 5>you had this like like a role that I was

0:33:53.120 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 5>gonna be like dead in the ground by eighteen. It

0:33:55.240 --> 0:33:56.960
<v Speaker 5>was like sad, And honestly it's sad when I look

0:33:57.000 --> 0:33:59.920
<v Speaker 5>when I look back at it now and like, I look,

0:34:00.040 --> 0:34:02.840
<v Speaker 5>you just had no purpose. And I guess like I

0:34:02.840 --> 0:34:06.400
<v Speaker 5>don't know, like like I like, growing up, it was

0:34:06.480 --> 0:34:08.080
<v Speaker 5>kind of hard. I was looking on my own, like

0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:11.080
<v Speaker 5>I had parents, but like my mom was at work,

0:34:11.880 --> 0:34:13.359
<v Speaker 5>and then my dad was always at a night job,

0:34:13.360 --> 0:34:15.960
<v Speaker 5>so that was always sleeping and he was like king alcoholics.

0:34:16.080 --> 0:34:16.920
<v Speaker 5>I kind of grew up with that.

0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:18.960
<v Speaker 4>But it's like.

0:34:21.000 --> 0:34:22.719
<v Speaker 5>I kind of just found out that there's more to

0:34:22.800 --> 0:34:24.560
<v Speaker 5>life than certain things. Like I remember I was on

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:28.000
<v Speaker 5>a shroom trip with my friends, and like I was

0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:29.919
<v Speaker 5>sitting on the beach and looking at like the sky,

0:34:30.040 --> 0:34:31.600
<v Speaker 5>and dude, I sort of got it was like pink

0:34:31.600 --> 0:34:34.520
<v Speaker 5>and purple, and I could see like the galaxy out there,

0:34:34.640 --> 0:34:36.480
<v Speaker 5>like it was like Super Mario Galaxy out there. I

0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:38.279
<v Speaker 5>was to shoot up in the star and go up

0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:41.200
<v Speaker 5>in space and collect some little like those little dust

0:34:41.239 --> 0:34:45.040
<v Speaker 5>things will start like a little colorful shit. But then

0:34:45.400 --> 0:34:47.719
<v Speaker 5>I came back and I was like wow, yeah, dude,

0:34:47.719 --> 0:34:49.960
<v Speaker 5>I was like wow, I could be like in Super

0:34:49.960 --> 0:34:52.960
<v Speaker 5>Mario Galaxy right now if I want, you know. And

0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:54.920
<v Speaker 5>then I just wanted to live life, dude, Like I

0:34:54.960 --> 0:34:57.399
<v Speaker 5>just want to be out there, like I just want

0:34:57.440 --> 0:34:59.560
<v Speaker 5>to do more than what I'm supposed to. Like I

0:34:59.600 --> 0:35:01.960
<v Speaker 5>think with that trip, I learned that there's more to

0:35:02.040 --> 0:35:04.880
<v Speaker 5>life than what I am, dude, because we are an

0:35:04.920 --> 0:35:10.160
<v Speaker 5>ant right now. We're just ants on this planet on

0:35:10.320 --> 0:35:13.160
<v Speaker 5>the like we could be on Nettune being water people,

0:35:13.160 --> 0:35:16.759
<v Speaker 5>but we're on Earth right now being human people.

0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:21.399
<v Speaker 1>To being a water person would be crazy. We're kind

0:35:21.400 --> 0:35:23.399
<v Speaker 1>of like water people are made of water. We're made

0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:26.080
<v Speaker 1>of water. Did you know that we're like what water?

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's like seventy five dude. I think ninety

0:35:29.200 --> 0:35:32.799
<v Speaker 5>per water is like too much because how like how

0:35:32.880 --> 0:35:35.239
<v Speaker 5>is our blood split up of water?

0:35:35.680 --> 0:35:35.759
<v Speaker 4>Like?

0:35:35.760 --> 0:35:38.360
<v Speaker 5>How does that work? If we're mainly water? But where's

0:35:38.360 --> 0:35:40.960
<v Speaker 5>our blood? So wouldn't you be being made of more

0:35:41.000 --> 0:35:41.680
<v Speaker 5>water than blood?

0:35:41.800 --> 0:35:42.240
<v Speaker 4>Definitely?

0:35:44.440 --> 0:35:46.680
<v Speaker 1>You know what? I think you should sit on that

0:35:46.719 --> 0:35:48.800
<v Speaker 1>bench until you figure out the answer to that question.

0:35:50.080 --> 0:35:52.279
<v Speaker 5>I should, dude. You know what's on your what's on

0:35:52.320 --> 0:35:52.719
<v Speaker 5>your mind?

0:35:52.719 --> 0:35:53.000
<v Speaker 4>Geg?

0:35:53.200 --> 0:35:54.359
<v Speaker 5>I always want to like figure out.

0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:55.120
<v Speaker 4>What's going on with you? Dude?

0:35:58.160 --> 0:35:59.040
<v Speaker 1>What's your name again?

0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:02.440
<v Speaker 4>Name is Joe? Joe?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else you want to say to the

0:36:03.920 --> 0:36:05.520
<v Speaker 1>people of the computer before we go?

0:36:09.520 --> 0:36:11.920
<v Speaker 5>Can you guys please check out Rotten Dog. I'm gonna

0:36:11.920 --> 0:36:13.759
<v Speaker 5>it's My band is called Rotten Dog. You can find

0:36:13.760 --> 0:36:14.560
<v Speaker 5>me on Instagram.

0:36:14.600 --> 0:36:18.440
<v Speaker 1>But rotten dog. Okay, hold on, let me do right,

0:36:18.560 --> 0:36:22.440
<v Speaker 1>I have rotten rotten dog.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like d A W G Dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Rotten dog.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:31.680
<v Speaker 5>I have like a little cartoon.

0:36:33.680 --> 0:36:36.960
<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm gonna look this up, are you? Oh

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 1>you have the cartoon with the green yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Cool?

0:36:40.920 --> 0:36:43.600
<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, wait, get I see my girlfriend?

0:36:44.160 --> 0:36:44.799
<v Speaker 1>I see her.

0:36:45.360 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 5>Wait, yes, I'm leaving her down.

0:36:47.440 --> 0:36:50.360
<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, go go go talk to her. I

0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:52.440
<v Speaker 1>followed you on Instagram. We'll keep up.

0:36:52.600 --> 0:36:54.200
<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, wait, can't you say hi to you?

0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:54.720
<v Speaker 4>Real quick?

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:55.520
<v Speaker 1>Sure?

0:36:56.640 --> 0:36:57.000
<v Speaker 4>Okay?

0:36:57.040 --> 0:37:00.319
<v Speaker 5>Also about my band music will drop Sune probably within

0:37:00.360 --> 0:37:03.759
<v Speaker 5>like a month or two, so please, Okay, here's our

0:37:03.760 --> 0:37:07.719
<v Speaker 5>girl friend here.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, hey, listen, just I'm I'm gonna hang up now.

0:37:13.800 --> 0:37:16.879
<v Speaker 1>I gotta go. But with just whatever, it's just this guy.

0:37:17.160 --> 0:37:18.920
<v Speaker 1>I forget his name. I'm bad with names, but I

0:37:18.960 --> 0:37:23.600
<v Speaker 1>followed him on Instagram rotten dog. Hi. But listen, it's

0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:27.560
<v Speaker 1>it's just just do me a favor. This this gentleman,

0:37:27.600 --> 0:37:29.960
<v Speaker 1>this guy that's in front of you, he's he's a

0:37:30.280 --> 0:37:33.080
<v Speaker 1>sweet guy. He's a good soul upon this earth. You know,

0:37:34.800 --> 0:37:37.480
<v Speaker 1>he's not you know, listen, look after him. I mean

0:37:37.480 --> 0:37:39.560
<v Speaker 1>he's not your responsibility. You you're your own.

0:37:40.000 --> 0:37:41.080
<v Speaker 3>You guys are people.

0:37:41.520 --> 0:37:43.440
<v Speaker 1>He's a broad ass man. He can take care of himself,

0:37:43.480 --> 0:37:47.640
<v Speaker 1>but you know, but he's a good guy, and so

0:37:47.800 --> 0:37:55.440
<v Speaker 1>are you, and thank you. I'm sure. I don't I

0:37:55.440 --> 0:37:58.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know. You could be a multitude of things. But

0:37:58.480 --> 0:38:00.319
<v Speaker 1>I have try to put trust in the Uni verse,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll put my trust on you.

0:38:03.680 --> 0:38:04.080
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:38:04.560 --> 0:38:05.880
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything that you want to say to the

0:38:05.880 --> 0:38:07.359
<v Speaker 1>people of the computer before we go.

0:38:10.520 --> 0:38:11.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:38:11.600 --> 0:38:12.719
<v Speaker 2>Let me give the phone to him.

0:38:12.719 --> 0:38:21.520
<v Speaker 5>Actually I want to say, I love my girlfriend. Uh,

0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:24.960
<v Speaker 5>you know, thank you, Jesus, God, God, bless somebody. I

0:38:25.160 --> 0:38:29.680
<v Speaker 5>don't know. Not America, though America's on my it's why

0:38:29.719 --> 0:38:31.160
<v Speaker 5>not multitude things?

0:38:31.239 --> 0:38:31.520
<v Speaker 4>Dude?

0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:36.800
<v Speaker 1>Well no, I mean why rotten dog. I'll see you

0:38:36.800 --> 0:38:39.120
<v Speaker 1>around the universe on dog.

0:38:39.200 --> 0:38:41.560
<v Speaker 5>Yes, dude, I'm coming at you live anywhere. You're going

0:38:41.600 --> 0:38:44.080
<v Speaker 5>to see me, get go give me on in the

0:38:44.120 --> 0:38:45.960
<v Speaker 5>future with you, I'll be rich and famous.

0:38:46.440 --> 0:38:48.759
<v Speaker 1>You're you're you're on. You're with me, You're on the

0:38:48.800 --> 0:38:54.160
<v Speaker 1>thing with me right now, there's no the go.

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:59.480
<v Speaker 5>Ahead, dude, I'm going to your freaking show in San

0:38:59.560 --> 0:39:01.320
<v Speaker 5>fran Oh cool.

0:39:01.360 --> 0:39:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay, sweet, all right, I'll see you that all right,

0:39:02.880 --> 0:39:10.120
<v Speaker 1>all right, you can come on stage, you can freestyle, okay, okay, cool,

0:39:10.320 --> 0:39:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm excited. I'm excited to tell me, give me. I

0:39:12.800 --> 0:39:14.759
<v Speaker 1>don't want any more information about this mask. I want

0:39:14.760 --> 0:39:16.920
<v Speaker 1>to see it in person. I'm very exciting.

0:39:17.360 --> 0:39:18.680
<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, cool?

0:39:19.280 --> 0:39:20.560
<v Speaker 1>All right man, I'll see you that.

0:39:21.520 --> 0:39:23.200
<v Speaker 5>Can we can we both chuck and a beer together.

0:39:24.520 --> 0:39:27.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't promise that, but I can promise we can

0:39:27.600 --> 0:39:28.080
<v Speaker 1>say what's up?

0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:29.840
<v Speaker 5>Okay?

0:39:29.880 --> 0:39:32.759
<v Speaker 1>All right, all right man, I'll see you on the

0:39:32.840 --> 0:39:33.919
<v Speaker 1>univer I'll see you in San Fran.

0:39:34.080 --> 0:39:36.320
<v Speaker 5>All right, I bet dude, I'll see you run the

0:39:36.360 --> 0:39:37.520
<v Speaker 5>Universe and then San Fran.

0:39:38.120 --> 0:39:39.719
<v Speaker 1>All right, man, I'm excited to see what the hell

0:39:39.760 --> 0:39:41.040
<v Speaker 1>what this mask is this week?

0:39:41.120 --> 0:39:44.120
<v Speaker 5>Fun dude, Yeah, no, you'll you'll see bro, I'll post.

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:46.600
<v Speaker 1>You okay, cool man, okay, cool, al right, I followed,

0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:48.320
<v Speaker 1>I followed you, Rotten Dog, right, I'll see you.

0:39:48.360 --> 0:39:49.319
<v Speaker 5>That are you for real?

0:39:50.040 --> 0:39:53.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? You're the green Dog?

0:39:53.400 --> 0:39:55.520
<v Speaker 4>Right? Yes? That is me?

0:39:56.440 --> 0:39:59.160
<v Speaker 1>All right man, I'm excited. I'm I'm looking forward to

0:39:59.160 --> 0:40:00.279
<v Speaker 1>this this mixtape.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, bro.

0:40:03.400 --> 0:40:04.640
<v Speaker 1>All right man, you take care.

0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:09.000
<v Speaker 5>Awesome, you take better care. Thanks you taking more care

0:40:09.040 --> 0:40:13.120
<v Speaker 5>than I will myself. Yeah you too, man bybe.

0:40:19.880 --> 0:40:21.640
<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey, what's up?

0:40:21.680 --> 0:40:21.799
<v Speaker 4>Man?

0:40:21.800 --> 0:40:22.399
<v Speaker 1>What's your name?

0:40:23.560 --> 0:40:24.400
<v Speaker 4>My name is Brett.

0:40:24.719 --> 0:40:26.000
<v Speaker 1>What's up, Brett? What's going on?

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:28.880
<v Speaker 4>Not much?

0:40:29.760 --> 0:40:33.920
<v Speaker 5>Not much going on. I'm actually taking a break from

0:40:33.960 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 5>from work right now.

0:40:37.320 --> 0:40:41.799
<v Speaker 1>And what are you doing during that break?

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:49.359
<v Speaker 5>I just tried a new restaurant, the Chicken Place, kind

0:40:49.360 --> 0:40:53.879
<v Speaker 5>of Nashville Hot Chicken. H I found out it's it's

0:40:53.920 --> 0:40:55.160
<v Speaker 5>a restaurant by Shack.

0:40:56.880 --> 0:40:57.000
<v Speaker 3>Oh.

0:40:57.080 --> 0:40:58.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, is it any good?

0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:01.000
<v Speaker 4>Its delicious?

0:41:01.440 --> 0:41:03.840
<v Speaker 5>Okay, in my opinion, a little bit over priced, but

0:41:04.560 --> 0:41:05.560
<v Speaker 5>it was really good.

0:41:05.760 --> 0:41:05.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:41:06.000 --> 0:41:07.760
<v Speaker 1>What's how much for like a chicken sandwich?

0:41:09.719 --> 0:41:12.040
<v Speaker 5>The sandwich itself is like twelve bucks?

0:41:13.000 --> 0:41:14.799
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well you can just get a sandwich. You got

0:41:14.840 --> 0:41:16.960
<v Speaker 1>to you got a combo. I assume you got some fries.

0:41:17.000 --> 0:41:17.680
<v Speaker 1>You gotta drink.

0:41:19.480 --> 0:41:22.040
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, they they got me. They got me on the

0:41:22.120 --> 0:41:23.000
<v Speaker 5>on the good stuff.

0:41:23.280 --> 0:41:35.000
<v Speaker 1>They got you on the good stuff. What's your name again, Bett, Brett?

0:41:35.160 --> 0:41:39.279
<v Speaker 1>What would you like to talk about today?

0:41:39.760 --> 0:41:41.360
<v Speaker 4>Uh? Good question.

0:41:42.040 --> 0:41:48.840
<v Speaker 5>I think I I texted you something about how this

0:41:48.920 --> 0:41:50.360
<v Speaker 5>is kind of thing that me and my friends have

0:41:50.400 --> 0:41:54.440
<v Speaker 5>been talking about recently. We're all similar age, around the

0:41:54.480 --> 0:41:57.080
<v Speaker 5>age of thirty, some of us a little under some

0:41:57.120 --> 0:42:03.400
<v Speaker 5>of us over and we're experiencing this collective feeling of

0:42:06.000 --> 0:42:15.840
<v Speaker 5>how like cool simple things are. Yeah, alright, I'm in

0:42:15.920 --> 0:42:18.040
<v Speaker 5>my car now, so I should be able to hear

0:42:18.040 --> 0:42:27.239
<v Speaker 5>you better. But yeah, it's uh, it's like I just

0:42:27.360 --> 0:42:31.880
<v Speaker 5>moved recently and I'm a bigger yard and I just

0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:36.200
<v Speaker 5>like get home from work and I started a little

0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:38.880
<v Speaker 5>garden and I water those plants and then I watched

0:42:38.880 --> 0:42:43.400
<v Speaker 5>my dog run around and it's frigging sweet.

0:42:45.719 --> 0:42:48.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I think it's because like the older you get,

0:42:48.040 --> 0:42:52.400
<v Speaker 1>the more I mean, the more I guess supposedly the

0:42:52.440 --> 0:42:54.000
<v Speaker 1>older you get, the more you've done and the more

0:42:54.000 --> 0:43:01.600
<v Speaker 1>you've seen, and so because of that, it's like the

0:43:01.640 --> 0:43:05.600
<v Speaker 1>novelties kind of wear off and the simple things are

0:43:05.640 --> 0:43:06.680
<v Speaker 1>kind of all you're left with.

0:43:09.239 --> 0:43:10.759
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I can see that.

0:43:14.360 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 5>Kind of like a little bit of maybe like a

0:43:17.719 --> 0:43:25.040
<v Speaker 5>sense of stability too. Yeah, but just having appreciating, like

0:43:25.120 --> 0:43:27.160
<v Speaker 5>the simple things in your day to day life make

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:29.640
<v Speaker 5>you feel a little bit more more grounded, maybe is

0:43:29.640 --> 0:43:30.520
<v Speaker 5>a better word for it.

0:43:31.560 --> 0:43:34.279
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel more stable now?

0:43:37.360 --> 0:43:37.840
<v Speaker 4>Uh? Yeah.

0:43:37.880 --> 0:43:42.120
<v Speaker 5>In the past like year or so, I feel like

0:43:42.160 --> 0:43:45.640
<v Speaker 5>I've kind of taken a turn where in my early

0:43:45.680 --> 0:43:49.200
<v Speaker 5>to mid twenties it was like I felt like an

0:43:49.280 --> 0:43:52.480
<v Speaker 5>over aged teenager, if that makes sense.

0:43:53.160 --> 0:43:55.000
<v Speaker 1>Well, which still kind of.

0:43:57.480 --> 0:43:57.640
<v Speaker 4>Oh.

0:43:57.840 --> 0:44:01.520
<v Speaker 5>Just I feel like, or at least another thing that

0:44:01.560 --> 0:44:04.200
<v Speaker 5>people say around here is like thirty is the new twenty.

0:44:04.960 --> 0:44:09.600
<v Speaker 5>Just shark with society and how expensive things can be.

0:44:09.680 --> 0:44:12.000
<v Speaker 5>It like takes your early twenties to figure out how

0:44:12.040 --> 0:44:12.720
<v Speaker 5>to be an adult.

0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:18.759
<v Speaker 1>M yeah, you need more. Yeah, you kind of get

0:44:18.800 --> 0:44:20.880
<v Speaker 1>like a fresh start, it seems.

0:44:22.680 --> 0:44:23.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:44:23.320 --> 0:44:26.680
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So I kind of feel like I got through that,

0:44:27.719 --> 0:44:35.719
<v Speaker 5>and you know, I've got a pretty decent job, a

0:44:35.760 --> 0:44:38.719
<v Speaker 5>bigger yard from my dog, like all the things that

0:44:38.920 --> 0:44:41.200
<v Speaker 5>a few years ago I knew I wanted to get to,

0:44:41.320 --> 0:44:43.040
<v Speaker 5>I'm starting to get to.

0:44:46.320 --> 0:44:49.080
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything left that you haven't gotten to yet?

0:44:51.840 --> 0:44:52.520
<v Speaker 4>Oh? I'm sure.

0:44:52.600 --> 0:44:59.840
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I've always wanted to. I mean, I've done a

0:45:00.080 --> 0:45:01.680
<v Speaker 5>very bit of traveling, but I want to do a

0:45:01.680 --> 0:45:02.680
<v Speaker 5>lot more traveling.

0:45:05.000 --> 0:45:05.520
<v Speaker 4>And then.

0:45:07.000 --> 0:45:11.560
<v Speaker 5>I've always felt like once I own my own home

0:45:11.800 --> 0:45:15.680
<v Speaker 5>would be like a very big adult thing. Although in

0:45:15.719 --> 0:45:22.600
<v Speaker 5>my area that's not super realistic, but it kind of

0:45:22.600 --> 0:45:26.680
<v Speaker 5>feels like that. I feel like the sensation I would

0:45:26.760 --> 0:45:29.920
<v Speaker 5>expect from reaching that milestone I'm kind of reaching in

0:45:30.000 --> 0:45:35.160
<v Speaker 5>this in this current house that I'm renting. I think

0:45:35.200 --> 0:45:38.319
<v Speaker 5>I feel like it's giving me the same kind of fulfillment.

0:45:39.520 --> 0:45:41.560
<v Speaker 1>And what does that what does that sensation feel like?

0:45:44.160 --> 0:45:50.480
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's a good question. I haven't tried to like

0:45:51.040 --> 0:45:55.399
<v Speaker 5>put words to it. I guess it's just kind of

0:45:55.880 --> 0:46:03.719
<v Speaker 5>like maybe just like less more more peaceful, like a

0:46:03.800 --> 0:46:08.960
<v Speaker 5>sense of calm. I'm not so worried about like what

0:46:09.040 --> 0:46:13.960
<v Speaker 5>I need to do next in order to start, in

0:46:14.040 --> 0:46:17.439
<v Speaker 5>order to progress towards what it is that I want.

0:46:17.520 --> 0:46:20.920
<v Speaker 5>I can kind of take a step back and appreciate

0:46:21.640 --> 0:46:24.839
<v Speaker 5>the moment a little more. Yeah, it sounds like a

0:46:25.000 --> 0:46:28.000
<v Speaker 5>like a super grand statement, but that.

0:46:28.719 --> 0:46:31.319
<v Speaker 1>Sounds pretty normal to me. Yeah, that sounds pretty normal

0:46:31.360 --> 0:46:34.080
<v Speaker 1>to me. That's what I'm Yeah, I think that that's

0:46:34.280 --> 0:46:37.040
<v Speaker 1>uh yeah, the older you get, the more you kind

0:46:37.040 --> 0:46:39.440
<v Speaker 1>of crave a little bit of peace and a little

0:46:39.440 --> 0:46:41.800
<v Speaker 1>bit less like all right, what do I gotta do next?

0:46:41.960 --> 0:46:44.759
<v Speaker 1>But my brain works in a sense of like, uh,

0:46:46.120 --> 0:46:48.319
<v Speaker 1>it kind of oscillates, like you get too stressed out

0:46:48.320 --> 0:46:50.880
<v Speaker 1>and then you want peace. But then, at least for me,

0:46:50.920 --> 0:46:53.120
<v Speaker 1>when I have too much peace, I get I get antsy.

0:46:53.360 --> 0:46:56.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm like I gotta if I gotta find another thing

0:46:56.440 --> 0:46:58.160
<v Speaker 1>to do. That will stress me out.

0:46:59.400 --> 0:47:04.360
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I actually I totally get that. I recently,

0:47:04.480 --> 0:47:06.800
<v Speaker 5>there's been a ship ton of stuff going on in

0:47:06.880 --> 0:47:09.640
<v Speaker 5>my life in the last like six months or so.

0:47:10.560 --> 0:47:13.640
<v Speaker 5>And I actually wrote you an email not that long ago,

0:47:14.080 --> 0:47:15.600
<v Speaker 5>which you may have not seen yet.

0:47:16.239 --> 0:47:17.760
<v Speaker 4>What was the email, but in it.

0:47:20.360 --> 0:47:25.440
<v Speaker 5>Really quick summary in the last six months, my dog

0:47:25.600 --> 0:47:31.600
<v Speaker 5>had a life threatening emergency. He's fine now, totally fine.

0:47:32.320 --> 0:47:37.800
<v Speaker 5>My father in law had a two strokes and he's recovering.

0:47:38.800 --> 0:47:41.960
<v Speaker 5>And then we found out that my mom has stage

0:47:42.000 --> 0:47:47.560
<v Speaker 5>four stomach cancer. Oh no, right around Christmas or so.

0:47:47.920 --> 0:47:48.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to hear that.

0:47:51.920 --> 0:47:53.839
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean it was a lot.

0:47:53.920 --> 0:47:58.279
<v Speaker 5>Obviously, there's I think it's I want to say, it's

0:47:58.280 --> 0:48:00.760
<v Speaker 5>a good thing that it all happened at the same time.

0:48:02.160 --> 0:48:09.000
<v Speaker 5>But it did kind of give me some like intense perspective,

0:48:09.080 --> 0:48:14.480
<v Speaker 5>I guess, which is probably tying into feeling all of

0:48:14.480 --> 0:48:19.120
<v Speaker 5>these or appreciating all these simpler things in life.

0:48:19.680 --> 0:48:21.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what kind of perspective did it give you?

0:48:24.000 --> 0:48:24.200
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:48:24.360 --> 0:48:29.360
<v Speaker 5>So in the email, I also write about, uh this,

0:48:29.560 --> 0:48:32.200
<v Speaker 5>I forget which episode it was, but you were kind

0:48:32.239 --> 0:48:36.960
<v Speaker 5>of talking about how you were traveling or you you

0:48:37.280 --> 0:48:41.480
<v Speaker 5>oscillate between like this itch to travel and experience the world,

0:48:41.520 --> 0:48:44.919
<v Speaker 5>and then you come home and you're like finding joy

0:48:44.960 --> 0:48:46.640
<v Speaker 5>in the fact that you have bananas on your counter.

0:48:47.120 --> 0:48:47.319
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:48:47.400 --> 0:48:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Sure, Yeah, there's a lot of joy just having bananas

0:48:51.120 --> 0:48:52.680
<v Speaker 1>on your counter. There's a lot of joy in film,

0:48:52.719 --> 0:48:58.000
<v Speaker 1>like yeah. Person Like when I when I I'm in

0:48:58.040 --> 0:49:00.799
<v Speaker 1>California and I was visiting a childhood friend of mine

0:49:00.840 --> 0:49:03.160
<v Speaker 1>and I went to his house and he had like

0:49:03.200 --> 0:49:07.080
<v Speaker 1>a real apartment like where like things were like set

0:49:07.200 --> 0:49:10.280
<v Speaker 1>up and he had like a blender and a spice

0:49:10.400 --> 0:49:12.480
<v Speaker 1>rack and it like, you know, he was like, Oh,

0:49:12.520 --> 0:49:15.319
<v Speaker 1>this is like a real person, you know. And I've

0:49:15.320 --> 0:49:18.520
<v Speaker 1>had little epochs in my life where I was like, oh,

0:49:18.560 --> 0:49:21.440
<v Speaker 1>I feel like a real person, and it always feels

0:49:21.440 --> 0:49:23.800
<v Speaker 1>but it feels better to feel like a real person

0:49:23.880 --> 0:49:28.600
<v Speaker 1>than it does to be like, I don't know, of

0:49:30.080 --> 0:49:35.239
<v Speaker 1>a vagrant or whatever, you know, like you see like

0:49:35.719 --> 0:49:37.840
<v Speaker 1>and also I think you can be a real person

0:49:37.920 --> 0:49:41.960
<v Speaker 1>for longer, Like you see like a fifty six year

0:49:41.960 --> 0:49:47.160
<v Speaker 1>old guy and he's like eating some yogurt, he's looking

0:49:47.200 --> 0:49:48.959
<v Speaker 1>at his watch, or like, this is a real guy.

0:49:49.040 --> 0:49:52.480
<v Speaker 1>You can be. You can sustainably be a real guy

0:49:52.640 --> 0:49:56.600
<v Speaker 1>for a pretty long time, you know, I don't know

0:49:56.600 --> 0:49:58.400
<v Speaker 1>if it's because I don't know if it's because of

0:49:58.520 --> 0:50:03.560
<v Speaker 1>like whatever, Like boomers have had less existential dread than

0:50:04.400 --> 0:50:06.799
<v Speaker 1>our generation and that makes it easier for them to

0:50:06.840 --> 0:50:11.200
<v Speaker 1>be real people. But uh, yeah, I don't know, dude.

0:50:11.200 --> 0:50:16.400
<v Speaker 1>It's it's it's uh, it's it's a tough balance.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's definitely a balance. I feel like if you

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<v Speaker 5>asked me, you know, five six years ago, if I

0:50:26.840 --> 0:50:32.120
<v Speaker 5>thought being a middle aged adult eating yogurt at like

0:50:32.160 --> 0:50:34.920
<v Speaker 5>a cafe was cool, I'd tell you absolutely not.

0:50:35.040 --> 0:50:36.960
<v Speaker 4>But now that's awesome.

0:50:37.760 --> 0:50:40.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, it looks it looks great. Yeah, it's a

0:50:40.640 --> 0:50:43.800
<v Speaker 1>great day. It's a great day being fifty six years old.

0:50:44.640 --> 0:50:47.360
<v Speaker 1>You're like looking at something, You're not thinking about anything,

0:50:47.440 --> 0:50:52.120
<v Speaker 1>You're just in your life so deeply. That's I hope

0:50:52.160 --> 0:50:54.319
<v Speaker 1>that's me one day. I really do. I get so

0:50:54.719 --> 0:50:58.719
<v Speaker 1>pumped when I see that, especially in New York, I

0:50:58.760 --> 0:51:00.759
<v Speaker 1>get so pumped when I see that, Like that could

0:51:00.840 --> 0:51:03.879
<v Speaker 1>be me one day. I could be fifty six years

0:51:03.880 --> 0:51:09.760
<v Speaker 1>old sitting right there eating yogurt, not fucking thinking about anything.

0:51:09.840 --> 0:51:15.840
<v Speaker 1>I have just over twenty years to get to that point.

0:51:16.040 --> 0:51:17.960
<v Speaker 1>It's the type of it's the type of thing I

0:51:17.960 --> 0:51:19.520
<v Speaker 1>think about it that makes you want to not kill

0:51:19.520 --> 0:51:22.560
<v Speaker 1>myself is seeing a fifty six year old guy sitting

0:51:22.600 --> 0:51:26.080
<v Speaker 1>in a chair eating yogurt. It really is. It's the

0:51:26.120 --> 0:51:28.880
<v Speaker 1>type of thing that gives me. It's very hopecore.

0:51:30.080 --> 0:51:31.120
<v Speaker 4>For sure. For sure.

0:51:31.840 --> 0:51:35.040
<v Speaker 5>I think that's that's the best part about it is

0:51:36.400 --> 0:51:38.360
<v Speaker 5>you can you can look forward to it, but you

0:51:38.400 --> 0:51:40.840
<v Speaker 5>can also do that kind of thing right now to

0:51:40.880 --> 0:51:41.360
<v Speaker 5>an extent.

0:51:44.360 --> 0:51:46.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, you can do that thing right now. I

0:51:46.760 --> 0:51:49.000
<v Speaker 1>mean I've talked to older people, and a lot of

0:51:49.000 --> 0:51:50.879
<v Speaker 1>older people have told me that they have way less

0:51:50.880 --> 0:51:55.080
<v Speaker 1>anxiety at their age than you know, in their in

0:51:55.120 --> 0:51:56.440
<v Speaker 1>their twenties and thirties.

0:51:58.800 --> 0:52:01.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that makes sense. You just learn more about the world.

0:52:02.000 --> 0:52:03.799
<v Speaker 5>I feel like maybe part of it too, is like

0:52:03.880 --> 0:52:05.880
<v Speaker 5>you kind of have to go through that phase or

0:52:05.920 --> 0:52:08.640
<v Speaker 5>that other side of the coin where you do travel

0:52:08.680 --> 0:52:11.360
<v Speaker 5>and go experience things that there are to experience to

0:52:13.000 --> 0:52:18.160
<v Speaker 5>really have as much knowledge about the world and kind

0:52:18.160 --> 0:52:21.800
<v Speaker 5>of release yourself from all that anxiety and stress realize

0:52:21.840 --> 0:52:22.839
<v Speaker 5>it's not such a big deal.

0:52:27.719 --> 0:52:29.839
<v Speaker 1>Are you What are you most stressed about? Now?

0:52:31.280 --> 0:52:35.600
<v Speaker 4>That's a good question. Day to day.

0:52:35.719 --> 0:52:40.960
<v Speaker 5>I work in a retail management so I can be

0:52:41.000 --> 0:52:43.160
<v Speaker 5>a stressful environment. But I'm not sure that I would

0:52:43.200 --> 0:52:47.560
<v Speaker 5>say I'm necessarily stressed about work, because in the grand

0:52:47.600 --> 0:52:50.360
<v Speaker 5>scheme of things, it's like so trivial.

0:52:53.560 --> 0:52:58.440
<v Speaker 4>I feel like more so if I kind of.

0:52:58.480 --> 0:53:01.319
<v Speaker 5>Dug deeper for an answer, I'd probably just be more

0:53:01.320 --> 0:53:07.000
<v Speaker 5>stressed about I don't know, like taking advantage of the

0:53:07.040 --> 0:53:07.719
<v Speaker 5>time I have.

0:53:08.840 --> 0:53:10.640
<v Speaker 4>Is that makes sense?

0:53:11.520 --> 0:53:13.919
<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, looking at a dog and go being

0:53:13.960 --> 0:53:16.239
<v Speaker 1>in your yard is a pretty good way to do that.

0:53:17.640 --> 0:53:18.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:53:18.160 --> 0:53:21.120
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's kind of why I feel like I'm That's

0:53:21.160 --> 0:53:25.120
<v Speaker 5>why this banana thing is stuck in my head. It's like,

0:53:25.440 --> 0:53:27.719
<v Speaker 5>I don't think you were trying to say anything provocative,

0:53:27.760 --> 0:53:31.239
<v Speaker 5>but for whatever reason it really stuck with me. Was like,

0:53:31.719 --> 0:53:34.360
<v Speaker 5>just focus on the simple stuff and enjoy it, and

0:53:34.360 --> 0:53:37.440
<v Speaker 5>you're less Your time is gonna feel like it's wasted.

0:53:37.840 --> 0:53:41.440
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you this too. What's your name again, Brett?

0:53:42.160 --> 0:53:42.319
<v Speaker 4>Right?

0:53:42.360 --> 0:53:44.160
<v Speaker 1>Let me say I saying Brett. I'm in a hotel

0:53:44.239 --> 0:53:50.880
<v Speaker 1>room in San Diego right now, and there is a

0:53:51.000 --> 0:53:56.399
<v Speaker 1>Reese's fast break wrapper and an empty bottle of Gatorade

0:53:57.320 --> 0:54:00.640
<v Speaker 1>on the night stand next to me, and and I

0:54:00.719 --> 0:54:07.520
<v Speaker 1>feel insane. And when I am in my apartment and

0:54:07.560 --> 0:54:11.560
<v Speaker 1>there's just like bananas on the shelf. I feel I'm

0:54:11.680 --> 0:54:17.040
<v Speaker 1>craving deeply having bananas on my shelf. So I I

0:54:17.920 --> 0:54:24.120
<v Speaker 1>you Actually, it's funny. You're reminding me that it feels

0:54:24.160 --> 0:54:25.839
<v Speaker 1>good to have bananas on your shelf. I don't think

0:54:25.840 --> 0:54:28.800
<v Speaker 1>I've had bananas on my shelf since that pot whatever

0:54:28.840 --> 0:54:31.279
<v Speaker 1>podcast episode. I said that in that that must have

0:54:31.320 --> 0:54:34.680
<v Speaker 1>been a year ago since I had bananas on my shelf.

0:54:35.719 --> 0:54:38.440
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I can't remember. I can't remember what was actually

0:54:39.680 --> 0:54:40.280
<v Speaker 5>talking about.

0:54:40.440 --> 0:54:41.320
<v Speaker 4>But you started.

0:54:41.760 --> 0:54:43.400
<v Speaker 5>He just asked you how you were doing, and you

0:54:43.680 --> 0:54:46.000
<v Speaker 5>started talking about that in like the first ten minutes

0:54:46.040 --> 0:54:46.640
<v Speaker 5>of the episode.

0:54:46.800 --> 0:54:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, okay, we're going to get back there. I'm

0:54:49.600 --> 0:54:52.600
<v Speaker 1>inspired by by this conversation. Thank you for thank you

0:54:52.640 --> 0:54:55.480
<v Speaker 1>for reminding me where I need to be in this

0:54:55.560 --> 0:54:56.200
<v Speaker 1>world again.

0:54:57.840 --> 0:55:00.239
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well, I mean you're out there doing the the

0:55:00.280 --> 0:55:01.759
<v Speaker 5>Flip Side right now, because didn't you.

0:55:01.719 --> 0:55:02.919
<v Speaker 4>Just start the tour.

0:55:03.400 --> 0:55:05.279
<v Speaker 1>I did start the tour. The tour has been fun.

0:55:05.280 --> 0:55:07.920
<v Speaker 1>The shows have been fun. I have it's it's a

0:55:08.040 --> 0:55:10.040
<v Speaker 1>it's a worth it trade off. The shows have been fun.

0:55:10.040 --> 0:55:14.759
<v Speaker 1>We did the American Comedy Company in San Diego last night,

0:55:14.760 --> 0:55:16.919
<v Speaker 1>and now we're doing La tonight. It'll be fun.

0:55:18.200 --> 0:55:18.800
<v Speaker 4>That's awesome.

0:55:18.920 --> 0:55:26.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it'll be fun. What's your name again, man, Brett? Brett, Brett.

0:55:26.320 --> 0:55:27.400
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else you want to say to the

0:55:27.400 --> 0:55:28.680
<v Speaker 1>people of the computer before we go?

0:55:32.000 --> 0:55:32.239
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:55:32.440 --> 0:55:36.000
<v Speaker 5>Just uh go get some bananas, put him in your house,

0:55:37.680 --> 0:55:39.080
<v Speaker 5>look at him, eat one of them.

0:55:39.880 --> 0:55:46.760
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Yeah, just choose to choose to have a good day.

0:55:47.360 --> 0:55:50.160
<v Speaker 1>Perfect. Hey, thank you, Brett.

0:55:51.600 --> 0:55:52.319
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, thank you.

0:55:52.480 --> 0:55:56.040
<v Speaker 5>I'll uh, I'll actually be at your your show in Seattle.

0:55:56.600 --> 0:55:58.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh cool, Oh okay, I think yeah, that'll be in

0:55:59.040 --> 0:56:01.520
<v Speaker 1>uh like a month. All right, I'll see you in

0:56:01.560 --> 0:56:05.879
<v Speaker 1>a month, Brett. Yeah, see you awesome, thanks man.

0:56:06.960 --> 0:56:07.719
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I have a good wie.

0:56:10.560 --> 0:56:15.640
<v Speaker 3>Hello, Lyle, what I got to hey you? I sent

0:56:15.680 --> 0:56:18.320
<v Speaker 3>you a text that it was at a blues jam

0:56:18.400 --> 0:56:19.359
<v Speaker 3>in Belgium.

0:56:19.960 --> 0:56:22.320
<v Speaker 1>Oh you're at a blues jam in Belgium.

0:56:22.920 --> 0:56:26.880
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yes, indeed, indeed have been.

0:56:29.160 --> 0:56:29.520
<v Speaker 1>Go ahead.

0:56:31.760 --> 0:56:34.399
<v Speaker 3>I've been trying to call you for quite some time

0:56:34.480 --> 0:56:35.759
<v Speaker 3>and I'm a big fan.

0:56:35.840 --> 0:56:36.000
<v Speaker 4>Man.

0:56:36.080 --> 0:56:38.000
<v Speaker 3>I I listen to you all the time when I'm

0:56:38.000 --> 0:56:39.600
<v Speaker 3>stretching or brushing my teeth.

0:56:40.600 --> 0:56:40.799
<v Speaker 4>Fuck.

0:56:40.880 --> 0:56:42.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, thank you man. What's your name?

0:56:43.800 --> 0:56:44.080
<v Speaker 4>Peter?

0:56:44.320 --> 0:56:44.520
<v Speaker 3>Peter?

0:56:44.640 --> 0:56:45.120
<v Speaker 4>Is my name?

0:56:45.760 --> 0:56:51.600
<v Speaker 1>Peter Peter from Belgium At a blues Jazz Festival.

0:56:53.120 --> 0:56:54.160
<v Speaker 5>No, it's it's a jam.

0:56:54.200 --> 0:56:57.400
<v Speaker 1>It's just a bar, okay, are you there by yourself?

0:56:59.560 --> 0:57:02.360
<v Speaker 3>Well, I've been living here for ten years and in

0:57:02.400 --> 0:57:05.600
<v Speaker 3>the beautiful city of Ghent, so when I go out

0:57:05.640 --> 0:57:06.719
<v Speaker 3>of it's just people I know.

0:57:06.840 --> 0:57:13.239
<v Speaker 1>You know, ooh that's great, that's pretty juicy. So you've

0:57:13.320 --> 0:57:15.000
<v Speaker 1>just been living there for long enough that you just

0:57:15.080 --> 0:57:18.760
<v Speaker 1>walk the streets and you're you're you're the man of

0:57:18.800 --> 0:57:20.720
<v Speaker 1>the people of uh what the what the hell is

0:57:20.760 --> 0:57:26.640
<v Speaker 1>the name of the city Ghent? He a n t okay,

0:57:26.680 --> 0:57:28.560
<v Speaker 1>So you're just the man of you are the man

0:57:28.640 --> 0:57:29.000
<v Speaker 1>of Ghent.

0:57:31.040 --> 0:57:34.080
<v Speaker 3>I am a man of Ghent. But yeah, I get around.

0:57:34.120 --> 0:57:36.520
<v Speaker 3>I get around. So it's like you say, you just

0:57:36.800 --> 0:57:39.240
<v Speaker 3>go out and you do stuff and you get to

0:57:39.240 --> 0:57:41.360
<v Speaker 3>know people. You see them once, you see them twice

0:57:41.400 --> 0:57:43.920
<v Speaker 3>and just like you would struck up conversation.

0:57:46.040 --> 0:57:51.600
<v Speaker 1>Pretty good, pretty good, hm hm. So what made you

0:57:51.640 --> 0:57:54.960
<v Speaker 1>want to go out to specifically this jazz place tonight.

0:57:57.240 --> 0:57:59.960
<v Speaker 3>It's a place I I'm a regular here. So it's

0:58:00.120 --> 0:58:03.320
<v Speaker 3>called the Mississippi, but not like you know, the spelling

0:58:03.400 --> 0:58:05.640
<v Speaker 3>of the river. But it's like Missy as in a

0:58:06.200 --> 0:58:08.600
<v Speaker 3>missus and sippy as in pacip A drink.

0:58:09.400 --> 0:58:14.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh, okay, that's a pretty cool place as I'm sorry.

0:58:14.640 --> 0:58:16.600
<v Speaker 4>We have a lag because.

0:58:21.400 --> 0:58:24.960
<v Speaker 3>Blues and blues and roots bar a couple of jazz

0:58:25.040 --> 0:58:28.280
<v Speaker 3>places in Ghent as well, but this is more blues focused.

0:58:28.600 --> 0:58:30.920
<v Speaker 3>And we just had a jam. It was with a

0:58:31.960 --> 0:58:35.480
<v Speaker 3>Syrian player and he had a sauce, which is a

0:58:35.600 --> 0:58:39.439
<v Speaker 3>very special instrument. We didn't expect that we were going

0:58:39.440 --> 0:58:42.760
<v Speaker 3>to play with him, but we managed to somehow make

0:58:42.800 --> 0:58:43.840
<v Speaker 3>something cool of it.

0:58:44.200 --> 0:58:52.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what is the roots.

0:58:49.240 --> 0:58:50.760
<v Speaker 5>Like blues and roots music?

0:58:50.800 --> 0:58:56.760
<v Speaker 3>It's like country folk Americana. So actually closer to your

0:58:57.000 --> 0:58:59.680
<v Speaker 3>culture than ours, really, m hmmm.

0:59:01.080 --> 0:59:03.600
<v Speaker 1>Do you listen to any Belgian music whatever the hell

0:59:03.680 --> 0:59:04.439
<v Speaker 1>that might be?

0:59:06.680 --> 0:59:10.919
<v Speaker 3>Belgian music is more like pop music. I do listen

0:59:10.960 --> 0:59:14.920
<v Speaker 3>to a lot of to some Belgium music, but I

0:59:15.120 --> 0:59:21.120
<v Speaker 3>mostly listened to like old English seventies eighties progressive rock

0:59:21.200 --> 0:59:22.600
<v Speaker 3>bands and this and that.

0:59:24.320 --> 0:59:28.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay, who did you run into today at the jazz

0:59:29.480 --> 0:59:32.040
<v Speaker 1>bar that that you knew?

0:59:34.960 --> 0:59:39.640
<v Speaker 3>There's this guy called Emil and we're starting a project

0:59:39.720 --> 0:59:43.200
<v Speaker 3>right now. We're trying to start a band like a

0:59:43.240 --> 0:59:46.280
<v Speaker 3>cover band, but with a twist, with everything is played

0:59:46.280 --> 0:59:49.800
<v Speaker 3>a little bit lower and a little bit slower, and

0:59:49.840 --> 0:59:54.120
<v Speaker 3>I ran into Laura. She's a girl who goes around

0:59:54.160 --> 0:59:56.840
<v Speaker 3>here as well, and I invited a friend as well.

0:59:57.360 --> 0:59:59.919
<v Speaker 3>Hannah's a pretty cool girl. She knows a lot about

1:00:00.040 --> 1:00:02.400
<v Speaker 3>Star Wars.

1:00:04.280 --> 1:00:06.080
<v Speaker 1>She knows a lot about Star Wars. Why does she

1:00:06.120 --> 1:00:07.440
<v Speaker 1>know so much about Star Wars.

1:00:09.400 --> 1:00:11.920
<v Speaker 3>I guess it's I guess it's the age man like

1:00:12.360 --> 1:00:16.320
<v Speaker 3>around people are born in like I don't know. I'm

1:00:16.600 --> 1:00:18.680
<v Speaker 3>I was born in ninety four, and I think people

1:00:18.760 --> 1:00:22.400
<v Speaker 3>until like two thousands, two thousand and one, two thousand

1:00:22.440 --> 1:00:25.360
<v Speaker 3>and three, they were all brought up with Star Wars,

1:00:25.360 --> 1:00:28.160
<v Speaker 3>you know, And that's why she knows a lot about

1:00:28.160 --> 1:00:28.680
<v Speaker 3>Star Wars.

1:00:29.720 --> 1:00:31.840
<v Speaker 1>Does she know who wins the Star War?

1:00:35.160 --> 1:00:38.720
<v Speaker 3>I think, well, you know, I don't take an account

1:00:38.800 --> 1:00:42.600
<v Speaker 3>like the sequels because there non canon for me. So

1:00:42.720 --> 1:00:46.040
<v Speaker 3>for me, like the Rebels win, Like you know, Star

1:00:46.080 --> 1:00:48.320
<v Speaker 3>Wars was based off like the Vietnam War, so I

1:00:48.320 --> 1:00:51.680
<v Speaker 3>think Vietnam wins the Star Wars.

1:00:53.640 --> 1:00:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was based off of like World War Two,

1:00:55.680 --> 1:00:57.720
<v Speaker 1>and like Darth Vader was Hitler.

1:01:00.160 --> 1:01:03.240
<v Speaker 3>Well, I think the uniforms of the of the storm

1:01:03.240 --> 1:01:07.280
<v Speaker 3>Coopers were based off of of the World War two

1:01:07.400 --> 1:01:13.440
<v Speaker 3>uh Nazi uniforms but the Star Wars were actually based

1:01:13.480 --> 1:01:16.320
<v Speaker 3>off of the Vietnam War because they've got the rebels

1:01:16.760 --> 1:01:18.760
<v Speaker 3>or hidden in the jungle, you know, like in the

1:01:18.800 --> 1:01:22.760
<v Speaker 3>third movie, well, actually the sixth movie, and the empire

1:01:22.880 --> 1:01:24.960
<v Speaker 3>is the United States.

1:01:26.360 --> 1:01:29.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh so the way is the empire? Okay, Oh so

1:01:29.800 --> 1:01:33.640
<v Speaker 1>the rebels are Vietnam and we're the bad guys. And well,

1:01:33.640 --> 1:01:36.640
<v Speaker 1>I guess not we your you're Belgium. So I guess

1:01:37.000 --> 1:01:40.160
<v Speaker 1>the US is the bad guys.

1:01:41.920 --> 1:01:46.360
<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Well, well, you know, I gotta tell you something.

1:01:47.720 --> 1:01:50.640
<v Speaker 3>I was I was a little This call comes a

1:01:50.680 --> 1:01:53.120
<v Speaker 3>little bit late because I've I've had so many ideas

1:01:53.160 --> 1:01:55.120
<v Speaker 3>about what i wanted to say to you, And I'm

1:01:55.160 --> 1:01:58.320
<v Speaker 3>looking at my old job right now, which is a

1:01:58.360 --> 1:02:02.120
<v Speaker 3>big gass tower. It's all the belfry. It's a tower

1:02:02.160 --> 1:02:04.720
<v Speaker 3>where tourists can go climb to the top and get

1:02:04.760 --> 1:02:08.840
<v Speaker 3>a view of the city, you know, like a panoramic view, singy.

1:02:09.680 --> 1:02:13.880
<v Speaker 3>And I hated my job. I hated doing it because

1:02:13.920 --> 1:02:16.680
<v Speaker 3>it was always the same thing, and it's always interactions

1:02:16.680 --> 1:02:20.440
<v Speaker 3>of only like ten seconds. But you meet a lot

1:02:20.480 --> 1:02:24.280
<v Speaker 3>of people from a lot of places. And I think

1:02:24.440 --> 1:02:28.480
<v Speaker 3>that the Americans actually were some of the nicest people

1:02:28.720 --> 1:02:32.680
<v Speaker 3>I've met some of the most talkative and I think

1:02:32.720 --> 1:02:36.360
<v Speaker 3>to myself, like, yeah, your government is run by some

1:02:36.480 --> 1:02:41.640
<v Speaker 3>fucking people, but people are nice. You know. I've run

1:02:41.680 --> 1:02:44.440
<v Speaker 3>into a lot of Americans and they've all always seemed

1:02:44.440 --> 1:02:49.919
<v Speaker 3>like very open people, very very speak easy. That's why

1:02:49.960 --> 1:02:52.480
<v Speaker 3>I enjoyed listening to your podcast as well. It kind

1:02:52.480 --> 1:02:55.040
<v Speaker 3>of gives a perspective of like, you have your government,

1:02:56.200 --> 1:02:58.240
<v Speaker 3>but that doesn't mean that it's people.

1:02:58.600 --> 1:03:01.240
<v Speaker 1>You know, Yeah, of course, I've always felt that way.

1:03:02.400 --> 1:03:04.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it always depends. I mean, everywhere in the

1:03:04.520 --> 1:03:07.960
<v Speaker 1>world is has you know, people who are jerks and

1:03:08.000 --> 1:03:12.880
<v Speaker 1>people who are nice. I don't really the question of

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<v Speaker 1>what makes somebody who they are is such a there's

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<v Speaker 1>a multitude of factors, be it like you know how

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<v Speaker 1>they were raised, and you know the country, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>there's so much it's hard to it's hard to say like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>the people in this country or this or the people

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<v Speaker 1>in that country or that. I mean, do you think

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<v Speaker 1>Belgians are good? People? Are nice folks?

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<v Speaker 5>Generally?

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<v Speaker 3>I think we are, like especially in this city. The

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<v Speaker 3>reason why I stayed this long I was born in Belgium,

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<v Speaker 3>But anyway, it's because people are quite open here and

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<v Speaker 3>quite talkative. But I think in general people in Belgium

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<v Speaker 3>are a little bit closed off in comparison to the Netherlands,

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<v Speaker 3>at least where they are more direct and more open.

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<v Speaker 3>And here it kind of feels like you need to

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<v Speaker 3>take like fifteen steps until you get to know somebody,

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<v Speaker 3>and you cannot skip a step because otherwise I'll kind

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<v Speaker 3>of find you weird or they will stop talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, if you skip a step, they'll find you weird.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean? Like, what does that mean to

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<v Speaker 1>skip a step?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, you got to go through that whole

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<v Speaker 3>dance of who is this person and this and that

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<v Speaker 3>you cannot over over share in the beginning. They'll kind

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<v Speaker 3>of find you weird or are off putting. That's the

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<v Speaker 3>feeling I have, at least in in in Flounders, because

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<v Speaker 3>Baltimus is like three parts. You have like Flounders, and

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<v Speaker 3>then you have Bologna, which is in the south, and

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<v Speaker 3>then you have like Brussels, which is the.

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<v Speaker 5>Capitol in the middle.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but people in Flounders I feel like they're kind

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<v Speaker 3>of closed off. I feel more spiritually connected with people

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<v Speaker 3>from the Netherlands or from the US or Australia like

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<v Speaker 3>all kinds of people who are kind of really open

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<v Speaker 3>and you can just tell your whole life story and

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<v Speaker 3>it'll be okay and you'll be us buddies.

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<v Speaker 1>But in no time, do you feel a stronger kinship

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<v Speaker 1>two folks from US and Australia?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes? Indeed?

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>So you've do you have you spent much time in

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<v Speaker 1>either of those countries?

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<v Speaker 3>No, neither neither. I think I'm gonna wait a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit until a certain president is is done in the

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<v Speaker 3>US and then I'll I'll take a look there. Might

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<v Speaker 3>wanna see some nature parks and this and that. I'd

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<v Speaker 3>love to see Australia too, but you know, traveling costs money.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, what uh? What's the what's the Belgian government

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<v Speaker 1>look like? What are they doing? What are they worrying about?

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<v Speaker 5>They're fucking up?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, man, If the Belgian government is it's really hard

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<v Speaker 3>to explain because we have like a Dutch part of

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<v Speaker 3>French speaking part and then a German speaking part, and

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<v Speaker 3>we have multiple governments. It's it's really too much to

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<v Speaker 3>explain right now. Anyway, How are you doing, man? I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't seen the Ukraine video yet, but I'm really excited

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<v Speaker 3>to see that one. And I think what you're doing

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<v Speaker 3>with this traveling around and showing the real side of

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<v Speaker 3>people is a really great and admirable work. Naol.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, thank you, thank you. I really appreciate that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to Yeah, I'm really really really trying to

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<v Speaker 1>like make that my next thing. You know, I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make it so that, like I mean, because I

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<v Speaker 1>post that stuff now and people are like, oh, he's

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<v Speaker 1>trying a new thing, and I'm like, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make it like no, that's the thing that I do.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's going to take some time. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to take a lot more videos. I'm just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of keep my head down and focus on

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<v Speaker 1>the work, you know. I mean, it's it's been taken

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<v Speaker 1>too long to make the videos. So it's been fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I love I love I love doing I

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<v Speaker 1>love doing that stuff. I think I'm gonna try to

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<v Speaker 1>go to some Mali land next, and then.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe yeah, India.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to go to India. People like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>talk ship on India a lot, and I want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see it for myself, like you just

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<v Speaker 1>see what what the what the vibe is like.

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<v Speaker 3>I think India has some tropical environments and I think

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<v Speaker 3>that's good for a get go, right, I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I don't know the most of.

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<v Speaker 5>The get gos.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I really I have to tell you

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<v Speaker 3>something about geckos guitar. I have this guitar and I

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<v Speaker 3>painted geckos on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's really cute. Do you play guitar or you

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<v Speaker 1>just have a guitar?

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<v Speaker 3>I played the guitar. Yeah, I played the guitar, so

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<v Speaker 3>I'll send it to you later on. I bought this

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<v Speaker 3>trap and it had geckos on it, and then I

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<v Speaker 3>thought like, hey, I'm gonna just paint some geckos on

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<v Speaker 3>this guitar as well, in honor of the big lyle

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<v Speaker 3>of the of the gecko.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks man, thanks man? Uh do you do you are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever join in on the jazz jams?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I did last week in a jazz club called

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<v Speaker 3>the Hot Club. And it's like these free jazz sessions.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not really a jazz musician, not scholared, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>like free jazz, so you can do whatever you want,

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<v Speaker 3>just listen to the other people and just like it's

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<v Speaker 3>its freedom.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, cool cool. Who's your favorite jazz musician of all time?

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<v Speaker 3>I think Chad Baker definitely, like John Coltrane, love him.

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<v Speaker 3>Bill Evan's when you feel when it's raining outside, get can?

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<v Speaker 3>I think in New York it kind of rains a lot,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's kind of like jeary autumn weather. You got

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<v Speaker 3>to pull out on some uh some Bill Evans I know,

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<v Speaker 3>and then just stare out of the window, very melancholically,

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<v Speaker 3>and it'll h.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I do. That's what I do with Simon

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<v Speaker 1>and garfunkle Is. I go out and I listen. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>if you ever listen to the Only Living Boy in

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<v Speaker 1>New York when it's like snowy and depressing in New York,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a great vibe.

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<v Speaker 5>Hmmm.

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<v Speaker 3>I will remember that. I will remember that once I'm

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<v Speaker 3>in New York. Hey, are you doing the I r

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<v Speaker 3>L podcast soon? Because the weather is getting better?

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we'll go back to do the r L podcast soon.

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<v Speaker 1>I just haven't haven't been in New York in a bit,

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<v Speaker 1>so when I get back home, i'll do that. But

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<v Speaker 1>what's your name again?

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<v Speaker 4>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Peter, Peter Peter Sellers, Peter Pan Peter Griffin, Peter, Peter,

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<v Speaker 1>Griff and Peter, is there anything you want to say

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<v Speaker 1>to the people of the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, just trust your gut and if a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>people love each other, the world would be a better

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<v Speaker 3>place to live.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks, Peter, have a good rest of your evening jaunting

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<v Speaker 1>around Belgium.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you're under universe.

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<v Speaker 1>Take care man, all right, that's cool. I'd like I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I'd like to be like a known guy

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<v Speaker 1>around Belgium just fucking uh, just fucking bar hoping running around.

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<v Speaker 1>Goes on the line every teaching you