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Speaker 1: My cousin blew up on me because I'm training her

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Speaker 1: brat kids like dogs. Somebody had to tame those beasts.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? You know?

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Speaker 3: Maybe you train the kids to attack the mom. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: like wild mischievous wolves.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe you have one of those clickers and you're

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Speaker 3: Like right here, have you seen the guy that can

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Speaker 2: No, it's like I.

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Speaker 3: Feel I think it's like one of those like older

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Speaker 3: to him, like he knows he knows wolf language. He

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Speaker 3: knows wolf language, he speaks wolf. That's insane. Maybe that

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Speaker 3: is the guy that's training these children.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe you know, at least he has a wolf pack.

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Speaker 1: Though you know it's community, a place to call zone, yeah,

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Speaker 1: place to call home. My cousin Amy twenty five female

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Speaker 1: twenty seven female have a very strained relationship with her,

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Speaker 1: But because my mom's side of the family demands that

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Speaker 1: I remarked to her or that if I ever have them,

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Speaker 2: She brushed me off. What does that mean? Train them?

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Speaker 1: The kids now are hella destructive and loud, pulling out

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Speaker 2: They sound like little Tasmanian devils. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: When it was my first turn to deal with them,

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Speaker 1: them so that every time they follow my orders and behave,

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Speaker 1: soon enough? Wait, this is kind of Jesus.

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Speaker 2: Wiles, is Jesus? I love this? Soon enough?

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Speaker 1: Every time the kids were duged on me, they went

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Speaker 1: grabbed the M and ms since the twins were there.

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Speaker 1: Once they arrived, the twins were being so destructive. An

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Speaker 1: them just being kids and they'll grow out of it eventually.

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Speaker 1: I don't want them to grow out eventually. I want

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Speaker 1: them to behave right now. Yeah, I shouted the twins' names,

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Speaker 1: Rufus Hunter.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's their actual name is, but

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Speaker 1: They came running over and I popped six pieces into

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Speaker 1: do so bro Op, he has them trained.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: This is amazing, This is incredible.

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Speaker 1: Halfway through the party, every time something similar came up

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Speaker 1: But honestly, the fact that OPI he's able to discipline them,

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Speaker 2: All she's doing is eating M and m's literally and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's nothing, that's nothing. It's barely any candy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: At the end, Amy blamed me for them turning out

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Speaker 2: So am I the a hole?

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Speaker 1: John is OPD A hole for training those little remlins

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Speaker 3: Okay? So I actually I'm so intrigued by this method,

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Speaker 2: Hey, did you do your homeworks tonight?

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Speaker 3: Like different like normal human behaviors, I guess it's like, yeah, that's.

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Speaker 2: A great like reward system.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and like people will do like, hey, you can

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Speaker 2: Exactly like there's there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there is a version of that exists, and especially

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Speaker 3: or a dessert.

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Speaker 1: But I definitely wouldn't, like I wouldn't train my kids

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Speaker 1: like that if you give your kids, like it's like Hunter,

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Speaker 3: So Eminem, that's where I'm like to sit and like

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Speaker 2: That's too much.

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Speaker 3: But I think little things like and maybe it's not

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Speaker 1: You know, as though op system seems hell effective.

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Speaker 2: Bro, it's so damn efficient. I know, I know, so I'm.

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Speaker 3: Very intrigued, but I will I do not think that

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Speaker 3: OPI is an a hole. I think honestly, the the mom

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Speaker 1: So it's like, yeah, she needs to get her act

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Speaker 1: know is like, have you had your own mischievous children

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Or have you ever seen like someone with crazy kids

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Speaker 2: What's your eminem method?

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Speaker 1: I think it would be like you get like fifteen

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Speaker 3: Yeah, also like what do they like too? So it's

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Speaker 3: That's a whole other vortex of parenting.

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Speaker 1: But I just feel like it feels wrong. Is like

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Speaker 1: I don't know why does that feel worse? I know,

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Speaker 1: maybe because it's not that different than giving a kid

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Speaker 3: I think it maybe it's because we're so used to

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Speaker 2: That way that were like you're treating your kid like

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Speaker 1: But maybe it's the most effective way. We don't know,

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Speaker 1: Also, can you tell us why it's up to train

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Speaker 1: because we might not, but I mean what we love is. Also,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, yes you do, and let me share

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Speaker 2: some right now.

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Speaker 3: This one is from the video My Mom Gave Money

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Speaker 3: to a Nigerian Prince. This is where the mom gave

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Speaker 2: Come on, mama.

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Speaker 3: This comment comes from public subscriber Elizabeth Conley. To me,

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Speaker 3: it kind of sounds like she's either manipulative as hell

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Speaker 3: either she's naive by choice or because she never had

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Speaker 3: to deal with this through life. Maybe the only way

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Speaker 3: I can see the trust being rebuilt is by trying

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Speaker 3: no Opie should not give her a cent of what

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Speaker 3: it will never be given to the mother. Elizabeth, thank

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Speaker 3: you so much for sharing your wonderful thoughts. If y'all

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Speaker 2: We'll see you next time. See soon. I started dating

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Speaker 2: my childhood bully's mother. He has no idea. Now she

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Speaker 2: wants me to come to dinner with her son.

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Speaker 1: That's an awkward high school reunion. You know, it's like, Hey,

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen each other ten years. What have you

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Speaker 1: been doing. I've been doing your mom remember that math class?

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Speaker 1: You know, like, hey, I remember addition and subtraction. Well,

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Speaker 1: how about your mom subtracts this dick?

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Speaker 2: You know what? The answer was, d D.

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Speaker 1: Extra credit, that's right, And that was turn those ds

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Speaker 1: into a's with a little more ds d's nuts.

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Speaker 3: I thought you were spelling out dad. Oh that too,

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Speaker 3: my D and her A makes me your dad. There

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Speaker 3: you go?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: So I'm twenty four mail, and as a young teen,

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Speaker 3: my bully used to gang up with his friends and

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Speaker 3: bully me for literally no reason.

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Speaker 2: What did they say?

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Speaker 3: You know, give me your lunch money punk classic, stop

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Speaker 3: stop having six with my mom?

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: If this is during high school, a whole different story

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Speaker 3: was a whole different.

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Speaker 2: Story story of jail time and the mom, you know,

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Speaker 3: He like like everyone's being bullied and he's like fine,

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Speaker 2: A bullying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, facts become his dad and then be like, become

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Speaker 2: Become his dad in high school.

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Speaker 1: It's like a fifteen year old, have you seen how

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Speaker 1: It's like he gets into the bullies bullying too many

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Speaker 2: It's the kid who's big bullied in his mom.

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Speaker 3: Well, we eventually grew up, school ended, but honestly, this

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Speaker 1: Yo, so like so like op, He's like like I

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Speaker 1: revenge to the finest. Yes, she's one of those young

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Speaker 2: I used to be. Wow.

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Speaker 3: Tell you, I hope he has a glow up. He's

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Speaker 3: just been he's just been pumping that iron. Get ready

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Speaker 3: to pump more iron, that iron thong. She doesn't know

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Speaker 3: who I am, but she's about to. But she's about

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Speaker 3: It will be soon, I guess, thankfully, I hear some

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Speaker 3: wedding bells. I hear wedding bells even years later. Efing

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Speaker 3: been incredible. And even though I did it initially purely

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Speaker 2: Probably catching feelings for.

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Speaker 3: Mom over here yikes, and hopefully at least be able

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Speaker 2: He's this is beyond revenge at this point.

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Speaker 3: He's like, I want to legitimately potentially build a life

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Speaker 2: Yo.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if, like the revenge makes it that much

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Speaker 3: And and like I feel like that's part of what

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Speaker 2: Make that Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: She told me that she has a son around my

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Speaker 2: Yo, Like, Op, he's been waiting for this body.

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Speaker 1: He's like, I can't wait to rub it in the

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Speaker 3: You could not plan a better revenge. You cannot plan it?

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Speaker 3: I said, sure, Yeah, of course O P did. We're

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Speaker 3: I mean, what's gonna happen?

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Speaker 2: Dude, I'm so excited. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 1: I understand why he's excited, to understand why he's nervous,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what's gonna happen? When he walked like our hand's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, son, that's what he has to do.

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Speaker 2: The prodigal son product.

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Speaker 3: The prodigal dad has a dad baby. I feel bad

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Speaker 3: that this started off as petty revenge because she deserves

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Speaker 3: Op is salty at all. I think he's healed from

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Speaker 3: these Oh yeah, he's clearly he's he's over total. I

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Speaker 2: It doesn't work. It all.

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Speaker 1: Did Ops trying to dunk on this kid in every way,

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Speaker 1: Like like it's not enough for Op that that this

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Speaker 1: he's like, I'm going to stick it to your mom too,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well he's going to be in for a big

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Speaker 3: surprise this weekend. She mentioned he was already uncomfortable with

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Speaker 3: her new boyfriend's age, but.

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Speaker 2: Which like that's kind of weird.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like like imagine like a scenario where like

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Speaker 1: That's fucking weird. That's that's theird pill to swallow. That's

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Speaker 1: that's too tough. That's too tough to swallow. Be like Mom,

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Speaker 1: I mean my parents are happily man. Yeah, yeah, but

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Speaker 1: that hypothetically i'd be like mom, like date someone your

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Speaker 3: Date someone who who came out of a vagina after

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Speaker 3: I came out of the Yorks like that. That is

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's not asking for money, not not asking for

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Speaker 1: too much. Get someone that like got your movie references

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Speaker 2: Twenties, you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And oh, man, is my guy in for

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Speaker 3: a world of art, especially when I eventually become his stepdad,

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Speaker 3: move into that house and tell him he either needs

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Speaker 1: Oh he's really taking over, he is. He is stepping

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Speaker 3: As his stepdad, I will not let him be a

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Speaker 3: want me to move out anyway, unless he enjoys hearing

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Speaker 3: me breed with his mother every night.

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Speaker 2: Yike breed with his mother.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, God, the classic Reddit speech. This weekend is going

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Speaker 3: to be great. I cannot wait to look him in

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Speaker 3: the face. My god, o p you are cruel.

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Speaker 2: He is cruel. He is one cruel man.

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Speaker 3: He like I feel like, for the mom's sake, he

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Speaker 1: I mean, if he's actually trying to make it doesn't

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 1: I think like getting revenge on the bully is priority one,

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Speaker 1: and then the Beverly Mother relations charity. We gotta flip

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Speaker 1: the priorities. I don't know, but maybe maybe he just

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Speaker 1: wants to watch this guy suffer. Maybe he believes his

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Speaker 3: Well, there is an update. Oh shit, So we had

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Speaker 2: Well I went to her place while he wasn't there.

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Speaker 3: For the first time, he knew she was seeing someone

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Speaker 2: And my girlfriend told me, does he know how much younger? Though?

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Speaker 3: I think he said like around my age, like the

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Speaker 3: me it might be awkward, but she didn't know the

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Speaker 3: used to bully me in high school.

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Speaker 2: Yikes. So right as I walked in I saw him.

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Speaker 3: He looks like Doggie dude, fat, balding, and pasty.

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Speaker 2: Wow, dude, this guy's like twenty four.

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Speaker 1: Op He hates this guy, bro he's relishing in every

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Speaker 3: Also, this guy was a bully because he knew he

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Speaker 2: Fat man with age twenty five.

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Speaker 1: When when you know you're gonna peak in high school,

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Speaker 1: you gotta take advantage of it, you know, go all in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he looked like he spent the last twelve years

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Speaker 2: God dude, Ope he's ruthless. Yeah, just like ruthless no

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Speaker 3: Well, the moment he saw me, I could tell he

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Speaker 1: Oh bro OPI bro Opie is like is an ecstasy

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Speaker 1: right now? Opie is so happy with himself, which again,

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Speaker 1: like the mom wants them to get along. So he's

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Speaker 2: Move on to this bully.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's just it's just, yeah, the intentions

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Speaker 3: Well, he didn't react well, and he started referring to

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Speaker 2: And I told him, what is the nickname? Like but thunder?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but thunder like or like he like

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Speaker 3: fartened in math?

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Speaker 2: Hey, math fart? What's that? Farten? And math again? Pull

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Speaker 1: I do I feel I feel like that insult would

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I told him, Oh, it is you small world, and

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Speaker 3: I honestly didn't recognize you. Dude back, dude, he's we're

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Speaker 3: duking it out. I gave his mom a big kiss

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Speaker 2: Stop it precious imagining.

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Speaker 1: And he's giving like a big kiss to uh, the

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Speaker 1: like at the Bully's like. She was surprised, and she said,

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Speaker 1: She asked if we were friends, and I said not really.

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Speaker 1: I honestly didn't really know Bully that well. He was

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Speaker 2: So Bully's not having it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you would have it, like even if,

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Speaker 2: I went to what are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Like like I need a minute, stop start talking to

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Speaker 3: just to f f him, which it clearly did. Okay,

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Speaker 3: now he's being spiteful. Yeah, I mean we set up

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Speaker 3: But I don't know why I expected anything different.

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Speaker 2: We made love.

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Speaker 3: That night in her bed, and I made sure to

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Speaker 2: Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 3: I didn't see him the next day, but my girlfriend

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Speaker 3: it's okay. I know he's clearly had a hard time

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Speaker 3: since high school and seeing someone from that time of

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Speaker 3: Maybe I'll take him out for a beer or something

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Speaker 3: and we can try to get him out of the

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Speaker 2: And she liked the sound of that. This is going

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Speaker 2: to be fun.

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Speaker 3: Guys, he is playing for d revenge chess. Oh he is.

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Speaker 3: He is just up a tearing everything right now.

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Speaker 2: None of this is Is this ethical? I don't know

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Speaker 2: if this is ethical.

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Speaker 3: Here's where it would have been fine. Once he like

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Speaker 3: really caught feelings for the mom. He would come clean

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Speaker 3: to her and be like, listen, I you know I

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Speaker 3: was bullied by your son in high school, and I

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Speaker 3: would be lying if I didn't meet Like part I

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Speaker 3: was attracted to you, but part of it was like,

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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, like I get to get this revenge,

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Speaker 3: but like I really care for you now and like

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Speaker 3: I'm over that and I want to like mend the bridges.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he's actually in this relationship for anything

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Speaker 1: other than revenge. Yeah, it doesn't seem like it, like

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Speaker 1: based on this story, it seems like it's just like,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm just trying to get revenge and I'm

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Speaker 1: going to just do this until my bully's misery. I

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Speaker 1: wonder if the bully went left and had nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with the mom and they like didn't see each

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Speaker 1: other anymore, Like if if he would still get that

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Speaker 1: much value out of the out of the relationship.

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Speaker 3: And maybe he would stay with her. But like I

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Speaker 3: think it's like if he really cared about her, he

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Speaker 3: would be trying to mend things with the son.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he does not care. He's he's he's shaking

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Speaker 2: doing it.