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Speaker 1: There are so much going on in the sports entertainment

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Speaker 1: culture world right now, Skip Bayless, Shannon Sharp went at

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Speaker 1: it now. It's by design for you to be on

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Speaker 1: the Debate show and debate and argue and differ, right do.

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Speaker 1: That's how the game goes, and that process. People don't

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Speaker 1: understand that they don't force you to pick a side,

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Speaker 1: but basically you come with your original, authentic opinion. Right,

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Speaker 1: So whenever you see Beef of the time, it's really

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Speaker 1: what they feel in this situation. Because I'm so familiar

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Speaker 1: with those two individuals and the network at large, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna break this one down. Uh. I love my friends,

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Speaker 1: I love my coworkers, I love my peers, but I

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Speaker 1: the truth. This one started a long time ago in

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Speaker 1: terms of their history. You gotta know the dynamic, how

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Speaker 1: they all got this together, how they became teammates. Uh

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Speaker 1: Fox one, and you know, he's basically the pioneer, you know,

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Speaker 1: the one that plans to flag. Uh. He's the first

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Speaker 1: one on the network. Him and Colin Coward, they put

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Speaker 1: and you also gotta pay him. They got paid pay pay. Um.

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Speaker 1: I don't know real numbers, but I heard like six

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Speaker 1: now you got Shannon sharpoo used to do his thing

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Speaker 1: I don't think it was cracking. It is now so

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Speaker 1: in that dynamic, who had the upper hand. You know

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Speaker 1: whose locker room was it? It was Skips Duck in

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Speaker 1: terms what the network felt, and you know Shannon knew

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Speaker 1: as well, getting where you fit in. But Shannon, man,

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Speaker 1: he blew up so fast with this, uh, this whole UNC,

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Speaker 1: all that stuff. Even though I've never seen Shannon drink,

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Speaker 1: means that. Uh, that was intentional in terms of leaning

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Speaker 1: you know he dragged on that black anyway. It worked,

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Speaker 1: whether you say, oh, Shannon sharp, you lean into your blackness,

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Speaker 1: leaning into uh, the drank. It worked, seriously. It worked

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Speaker 1: He became more popular. But y'all remember how this show

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Speaker 1: also got built Skip Bayless leaving Stephen a Smith Stephen

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Speaker 1: You got Max, who has got no problem with Shannon

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Speaker 1: Now here's the beef, So you gotta skip whose fits

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Speaker 1: So what do you do? You sit there with envy,

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Speaker 1: with jealousy, Yes, I said, jealousy towards your own success

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Speaker 1: Let me just let me be real because I could,

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Speaker 1: sitting there like, no matter how successful I am, no

425
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 1: matter how much I've done, do you know how much

426
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: I need? And I'm the one who's made this happen

427
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: in terms of I'm the one who gets the receipts.

428
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: I'm the one who has to put in the work.

429
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: I'm the one who has to make this all happened.

430
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: What do you need? Why does that supersede what I need?

431
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 1: And I know that tugger war emotionally. That's why I'm

432
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 1: not mad at Romeo. I just want him to understand.

433
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 1: Stop adding to that list, because it's gonna be painful

434
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 1: when Dad can't check every one of those boxes. And

435
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,199
Speaker 1: it's painful for me when I can't check every one

436
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:01,199
Speaker 1: of those boxes for my father because he keeps adding

437
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: to that list. Oh man, pain bro Let me get

438
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:10,719
Speaker 1: off this conversation for the tears start flowing. But now

439
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: I'm about to talk about something that did had me crying,

440
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 1: at least a little tongue in cheap tear a little

441
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: What the third tier? I dropped a thud tier from

442
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: my man. Clipper Daryl got knocked out? Oh man, this

443
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 1: one hurt Clipper Daryl. Was he in his fifties, gotta

444
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 1: be sixties. Maybe you know that black don't crack And

445
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: Clipper Daryl got knocked out by a security guard and

446
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: everybody's hitting me up. Obviously, I'm like Clipper Darrel two

447
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 1: point Oh, I'm like baby Clipper Darrel b C. D

448
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: at A. I mean, one, what did y'all expect me

449
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 1: to do? All you spoken to me to go to

450
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: crypto dot com and find a security guard and beat

451
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 1: him up. I think he got arrested, right and all that,

452
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,360
Speaker 1: But let's play this one out. Let's talk about this

453
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: one because everyone thinks I'm coming to Clipper Darrell's defense,

454
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 1: But the only defense I always come to is the truth.

455
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 1: I defend the truth. And then let's talk about this

456
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 1: if you slow motus when if you play it out,

457
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 1: it looked like Clipper Darrow was asked or told that

458
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 1: he couldn't go somewhere he wanted to go. Started there

459
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: looked like that I may be wrong, but damn it.

460
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 1: This podcast ain't called I'm right, It's called more to it.

461
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: So let's talk to it. So in that moment, and

462
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: I've been there before, you feel like, yo, the first

463
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:33,640
Speaker 1: thing you think about is who you are in that context,

464
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: in this context, outside of the players that are on

465
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: the court. And I ain't say on the team. Y'all

466
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 1: heard me on the court. Some of the players that's

467
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 1: on the team, I don't know who they are outside

468
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: of the players on the court. And a couple of

469
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: dudes on the bench and a few celebts. Clipper Daryl,

470
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: he top fifty every game he go to probably top

471
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 1: thirty in terms of recognizable faces and in terms of celebrity,

472
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 1: terms of Q rating, and you know who knows that

473
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 1: Clipper Daryl. Right, let's use the word entitled. Properly so,

474
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: but entitled. I've been that guy before. When you're like,

475
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 1: you know, if I go to a Charger game and

476
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 1: security try to check me, why I want to go

477
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: somewhere and I don't have the proper credential, first thing

478
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: I think about is dog, you don't know who I

479
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: am for the Chargers, And he's like, nah, be I

480
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 1: really don't remember that. You know that third year had

481
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: six acts and they cut you or that part. So

482
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: Clipper Darrel feels entitled. Now you better check yourself or

483
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 1: you wreck yourself. In this moment, Clipper Darrel tries to

484
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 1: go to the side of some beefy looking security guard

485
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: like Doude look like he didn't put it in work

486
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 1: with the iron before I could see that. See the

487
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: trap game. I can see the shoulders, I can see

488
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: the flex the elbows, the angles, the angles of the

489
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: mailbow told me Clipper dar will stay still, dog, don't

490
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: try and go around this dude. But he did. Oh

491
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: my god, and boy, at that moment, the dude basically

492
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 1: gave him an arm bar. I call it to James

493
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: Harden because if you ever see James Harden, and now

494
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: everybody's doing it, but years ago, James Harden was the

495
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: first to do it. Like he used to say what's up,

496
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: y'all and he put his arm out so you can't

497
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: come in too hard with the bro hug. I used

498
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: to crack up. He caught me like that one time

499
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 1: in Vegas. I was like, oh, this is new. I

500
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: M gonna have to try this one never but um,

501
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: I noticed a lot of cats do that now, like

502
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: what's up? And they put that arm out. Well, that

503
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: security guard did that to Clipper Daryl, like bro I

504
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 1: just told you and Clipper Darryl. I don't know what

505
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 1: he had in his hand. It looked like a bag

506
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: and like you know, a fish fry, like carton a

507
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: container like something to eat. Swung his arm up with

508
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: the bag, knocked the dude's arm off him. May have

509
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: hit the dude. I don't know. I ain't gonna get

510
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 1: technical with all this in the age and size. When

511
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: people do that, like, if you disrespect me, don't give

512
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 1: a damn how old you are unless you're not an adult.

513
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: If you're an adult, you count. And I don't give

514
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: a damn your little are big. If you assault or

515
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: touch or get in my private space, personal space, you count.

516
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 1: So in this moment, Clipper Darrow is old as he

517
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: is with his old ass, and as you know, lovable

518
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:13,959
Speaker 1: and likable he is. He did swing the dude's arm

519
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 1: off him as the dude braced his arm on him. So, okay,

520
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: nobody's winning this one right now, this is all bad.

521
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: But when he did it, what he told that security

522
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: dude is not only am I not listening to you,

523
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: don't put your hands on me, and I'm not gonna

524
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: respect what your job is. I'm Clipper Daryl. You're just

525
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: this security ren a cop dude. Now, this is where

526
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: the dude went wrong. He knocked Clipper Darryl out. I

527
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: think there's levels to how he could have handled this

528
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: situation without going nitrous extreme I'm gonna knock his ass out.

529
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: He could have went to the level of let me

530
00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 1: put him in ahead lock, let me hold him him,

531
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: let me sandwich him. Let me, let me tackle him,

532
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: whatever you gotta do. Let me just push him back

533
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: one more time. But Clipper Derrol did already swing that dude,

534
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: so like he probably thinking we passed the push pushing part,

535
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 1: kind of like you know when Jordan Pool was at

536
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 1: it with Draymond, Like you know that push part, like

537
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: you remember Jordan's food pushed Draymond. They say, don't pull

538
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: it out if you unless you want to use it. Well,

539
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 1: that's the same thing. When you push somebody, don't push

540
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: him unless you're ready to throw. And he threw all

541
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 1: of them. Hell and a maker. That was wrong. That

542
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: was excessive use of force. Not because his age and

543
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: his size, is because you could have escalated to that point,

544
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 1: like take baby steps to doing that. But boy, everybody

545
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: hit me like I was gonna defend Clipper Dale. But

546
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: I saw I saw some wrong in Clipper Derrl. I

547
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 1: saw the fact that dog, why you trying to go

548
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: there so damn bad. And if you are supposed to

549
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: go there, have the proper credentials or even if you

550
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: don't have all that, but you just know killing with kindness,

551
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: you know, Manytimes, I get somewhere just because people don't

552
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: even recognize me. But I'm like, yo, you know it

553
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: ain't gonna kill you, is it. You know what I'm saying,

554
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: look out for people like you know, use the honey,

555
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: not the vinegar, especially when you know you you barking

556
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: up that tree and that tree may fall on you.

557
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: I saw that happen before, and it happened same place basically.

558
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 1: Remember when Nipsey Hustle knocked out the security guard. I

559
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 1: don't know if he knocked him out, but he hit

560
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: his aunt and happened at Downtown l A live same spot.

561
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: Entitlement as well. I think Nipsey wanted to move the

562
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: cone and do it. Was like, you can't go this

563
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: way with your car and the cone and just slap them.

564
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 1: And I know that security guard actually that hurt. That

565
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: was a little homie. I was like, damn. But this

566
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: entitlement empowers you, and it's like a social capital. We

567
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 1: all all have it. You go back to your old

568
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: high school and they don't let you in the gym

569
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: because you ain't buy a ticket and they ran out

570
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 1: of tickets or something. It's sold out. You know what

571
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna do. You're about to lean on security. You're

572
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 1: about to lean on the cafeteria lady who's working the

573
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: front door. You're gonna be leaning. Oh, man, I'm sad.

574
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: I'm sad man because my boy hit Clipper girl talk

575
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: about leaning had I'm snoozing out there, sad, sad, sad.

576
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: You don't want to switch gears and talk about something

577
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 1: that doesn't get mentioned a lot. It's the love hate

578
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: relationship that happens between the starter and backup. And what's

579
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 1: making me think about this is Mike White and Zach Wilson. Yeah.

580
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: This fun the dynamic of when you know you you're

581
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: talking out of both sides of your mouth. I love

582
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: you and I hate you. I hope you played well.

583
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: I hope you suck. You got to do it. And

584
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: I was a backup for my first three years, so obviously, uh,

585
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: it was a little easier when you are a rookie

586
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 1: or a young player and I'm behind Bruce Smith, I'm

587
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 1: behind Phiel Handsome. Yeah. I mean even I and my

588
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: wildest dreams didn't think I deserve to start. But when

589
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 1: you think you deserve to start, Oh, it's a different animal.

590
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 1: You out there rooting against this dude. Basically, your mindset

591
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,760
Speaker 1: and equation is I hope the team wins and he sucks,

592
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,399
Speaker 1: and Mike White can't lie. You ain't got to lie, Craig,

593
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: because I know you feel that way, and in that game,

594
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:36,839
Speaker 1: that's exactly what happened. Almost damn it right, You're like,

595
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: come on, Jets win, Zack sucked, Zach didn't suck. He's

596
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 1: just I don't know if he kept his job. I

597
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: don't know if he got his job back. I should

598
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: even say, because Mike White is sitting there like, uh no, sir,

599
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 1: not you. Because when you get a chance to while

600
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: he piped somebody, when you get a chance to go

601
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 1: out there is to back up and then take over.

602
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: You can't let that go. And that's why my wife

603
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:06,280
Speaker 1: was like, a damn it, can I get another m r?

604
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: Can some doctor cleared me? He went to late They

605
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 1: said ten twelve doctors to get cleared. Because you're like,

606
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 1: I got the momentum, I got the team believing in me.

607
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: Zach Wilson making all these stupid mistakes and saying stupid

608
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: stuff like, oh, it's not on me that the team

609
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: play bad, it's on y'all. And did you let the

610
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: team down, Zach Wilson. Nope, he didn't learn this that

611
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,919
Speaker 1: when you win, it's we, and when you lose, it's me.

612
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: Just say that or call everyone out individually, particularly specifically

613
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: with names and numbers. If you're not gonna go to

614
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: that point, you bet a lot of kick it. Simple

615
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 1: was that. So this is a situation where I I've

616
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: lived through it. When you're sitting there, like I used

617
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 1: to watch Bruce schoo out there and I used to

618
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: be like, damn, I don't want them to get hurt,

619
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 1: but I just don't want them to play that much.

620
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: I just don't want him to play this many reps.

621
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 1: I couldn't. I couldn't root against how good he was.

622
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 1: It was just insane. Like God would have looked at

623
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: me like, dog, that's a dumb prayer. What you doing?

624
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 1: Bruce smithic on ball? So I was like, damn, well,

625
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: you gotta play so much. But in this situation, gonna

626
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: be fun to see how their friendship plays out, because

627
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: all these friendships are really typically associations like we played

628
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: together in the same room together, where quarterbacks together on

629
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 1: the same team, Yeah, yeah, yeah, blah blah blah. I'm

630
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 1: gonna say all the right things, y'all know, the real

631
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: that one of these dudes get traded, then you're gonna

632
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: have one of those that you know, real interviews candy

633
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: look inside the mind and the relationship, and then they'll

634
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 1: tell the truth. Then, well, I'm here to tell the truth. Now.

635
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: I want to talk about something that is painful, but

636
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 1: I gotta be truthful about it, be real about it.

637
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: And I saw the suicide, Ah that happened with DJ

638
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: Twitch and Wow talking about a guy who was loved

639
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: um as I'm sure many of you listeners have dealt with,

640
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: unfortunately suicide in the family and suicide in your community.

641
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,720
Speaker 1: Um I dealt with it a couple of different times,

642
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: and just want to talk a little bit about this,

643
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 1: this situation. And there seems to be a similarity between

644
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: what Twitch was in personna and Junior say O, my

645
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: late great teammate rest in peace in his persona. They

646
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 1: both look like to the extreme, positive, right to the extreme,

647
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: not just normal happy, not normal kindness to the extreme.

648
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:56,399
Speaker 1: And I remember privately questioning at times, could JR. Ever

649
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 1: say no, what a burden he must have been carrying

650
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,320
Speaker 1: in a life where you present yourself as always so positive,

651
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 1: Could you ever say no? Could you ever be negative?

652
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: Could you ever show that balance that's necessary to just

653
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: be a human being? Because you don't. You don't get

654
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: balanced right, You don't get balanced naturally. You gotta attain it,

655
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,399
Speaker 1: you gotta work for it. And the balance I'm talking

656
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 1: about is being able to show a different side of

657
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: yourself and it's still being who you really are and

658
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: people receiving it. I ain't see that with Junior, and

659
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe his closer friends did, but the

660
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 1: persona I didn't. And I was like, damn, you imagine

661
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: being a guy who grows up in one locale. So

662
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: he grew up in southern California, San Diego area, Oceanside

663
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 1: and all that. Then you go to school right up

664
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: the street. Then you play pro right back here. You imagine,

665
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: I mean times you run into your third grade homey

666
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: who needs two tickets, your fifth grade homie who needs

667
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 1: to go to your restaurant and get camped, your cousins

668
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: from everywhere. Goodness, I think I asked family. I used

669
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: to always sit there. I was like, man, and Junior

670
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: always ran first to the party to be the light

671
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 1: of the party. And I was like, does he ever

672
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: demn that? And it's okay to them that because if

673
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 1: not that extreme display of positivity, that extreme display of

674
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:38,240
Speaker 1: behavior can rig your processor to be extreme in other

675
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: ways when things aren't going so well, when things aren't right,

676
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: when you have to do with real life burdens and

677
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: experiences who need that balance. That's a word I'm talking

678
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 1: about right now. And I don't know Twitch, and I

679
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:57,959
Speaker 1: don't want to guess about what he was really dealing with.

680
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: But imagine that e emotional tsunami that comes to all

681
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: of us at times, and how that could be exaggerated

682
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: if your processor takes it to the extreme. So we

683
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:16,280
Speaker 1: saw a public display of Junior and Twitch, always positive, Twitch,

684
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: always dancing, people said, always smiling, always trying to give

685
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: to you. I saw the same thing with JR. And

686
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 1: I wonder when it all comes rushing and it's not positive,

687
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 1: it's not all good, how they deal with that, how

688
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 1: they process that. Had a conversation with Dr Child, who

689
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:43,839
Speaker 1: was a great friend of Junior, much closer than I um,

690
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: and we talked about that that when it gets dark,

691
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 1: that they fall into the abyss more than maybe the

692
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:57,279
Speaker 1: average person or someone who's healthier mentally, who has a

693
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: greater perspective or balance, who really is. Even in darkness,

694
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: is just a perspective shift, and you sometimes it's easily

695
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 1: can just turn the lights on, or maybe it's more

696
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: difficult than that, but you can start a fire anyway

697
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 1: it goes. You know there's a way out of it,

698
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: because there was a way into that. I just want

699
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: to talk about this, even though I know it's a

700
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 1: touchy subject, and you know, God bless the dead. But

701
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:27,959
Speaker 1: just a healthy respect and a healthy relationship with yourself

702
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 1: everyone out there, because you know, people could have a persona,

703
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: they could have an image, they could have all of

704
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: their posts making you think this, but without that balance,

705
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: be reserved guys in terms of judgment and reach out

706
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 1: more so than anything before it's too late m hmm

707
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:55,719
Speaker 1: speaking of something that whoa that is too late to

708
00:41:55,800 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: cats out the bag? Y'all hear RG three? Set h

709
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: This was interesting. I saw it. What did he say

710
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 1: on air? Try to say bugga boo, end up saying

711
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: jiggaboo boy. People went crazy, uh and it was layered

712
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: And it was bad that it was r G three

713
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: because I think it was a mishap. I think it

714
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,839
Speaker 1: was a mistake, honest mistake whatever that means. You know,

715
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 1: like I said, not necessarily words. I don't remember a

716
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,439
Speaker 1: word that I've said or a phrase that I said.

717
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I didn't mean that. Sometimes I

718
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: just didn't know what it was. He knows the difference

719
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: between the jigaboo and the buggaboo. So it's not that

720
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:40,879
Speaker 1: I've never I've never confused it. Two Now, I have

721
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: said things that weren't properly articulated concise, like I meant

722
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 1: something different, but not the phrasing, the gist of it,

723
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:55,720
Speaker 1: not a word, the gist of it. You get the difference.

724
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 1: Like I was like, oh, I didn't mean to say

725
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: they were bad, but it came him out like I

726
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 1: said they were bad, but I never called him out

727
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 1: of their words in terms of term or phrase. This

728
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 1: reminds me of remember Mike Greenberg said, Martin Luther Coon

729
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 1: day or something like that. Remember that. I think it's

730
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:17,280
Speaker 1: the same thing. Like if you try to say King

731
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:22,240
Speaker 1: and Junior too fast, too soon, you ain't don't necessarily

732
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 1: say coon, but you're gonna get close, go get hella close.

733
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 1: And you know our word count. We talk so much,

734
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: so often and sometimes so fast, that we become unprofessional

735
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: and unprofessional means slow your hands down and say exactly

736
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: what you mean. You're getting paid to do that. You

737
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: got one job, not to throw the football anymore. R

738
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 1: G three is just just say what you really mean.

739
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: I have one job to say what I really mean.

740
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 1: So I've never done what they've done, but I have

741
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,439
Speaker 1: done something that has been misleading in terms of where

742
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,360
Speaker 1: I wanted to go. I didn't take my audience with me,

743
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 1: So I understand it. But this one has a little

744
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 1: more to it, or to it. We all know r

745
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: G three is married to a white woman, which comes up.

746
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 1: It seems like as often as how great he is

747
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: or was and playing football and how fast he was,

748
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 1: and how great a broadcaster he's become, right, they always

749
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, as soon as they give him

750
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: his flowers, he better watch out for the thorns. Because

751
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: every time you talk about RG three, it seems like

752
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 1: here we go. Um now, people are like insert that

753
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 1: into the conversation. Marcella's is there more to it in

754
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 1: terms of him saying jiggaboo instead of buggaboo? First of all,

755
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: why the hell are you trying to say buggaboo? Like

756
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 1: all the pools in this world? In terms of phrasing

757
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: bugga ball like they ain't even the right way to

758
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 1: use it, let alone cool to use and say. But

759
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 1: let's talk about the race element. Did that play a

760
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 1: part in it? Oh, he's so comfortable with her, and

761
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 1: when he had the d laws, you know, it goes

762
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: down and you know he's just loose with the tongue.

763
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: I feel dirty even saying that. Yeah, silly, yah know,

764
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: damn well, it ain't that, because if it was that,

765
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 1: then every single damn near black announcer, at least the

766
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 1: ones I know, we'll be saying the N word up

767
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: there because they he loosed with that, and somehow, some

768
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 1: way they are able to keep that one tucked in, right.

769
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: I think r G three could tuck it in if

770
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: he did have those racial thoughts in his head. So

771
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:29,879
Speaker 1: I didn't go with that play. I mean, sometimes it's

772
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 1: just so convenient, the narrative so convenient is just like

773
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: we can run with it. Yeah, y'all can run with it.

774
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: Just don't run that way because I think that's wrong.

775
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: Let's talk about something that's wrong. I mean, I hate

776
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 1: to judge a book by his cover, or judge a

777
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:54,879
Speaker 1: man by his police arrest record and statement. But Mary

778
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 1: Stottmyer no dog. Reports come out that he got a

779
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:05,280
Speaker 1: rested release for punching his daughter and the jaw whipping

780
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 1: his kids. I don't know right from wrong, real from

781
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,439
Speaker 1: faith on this one, but I'm gonna talk through this

782
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: situation because it takes me back to how I was

783
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: raised and how I'm raising my kids. I was raised,

784
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: obviously in a different era like you guys who I

785
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: think our parents thought. Discipline was Oh, you mess up,

786
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: You're about to catch hell, so you don't mess up again.

787
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: And when I mean hell, I mean literal fahrenheit hell,

788
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 1: I mean Dante's Inferno. I got. I got spankings with

789
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: the hand, the belt, the leather belt, the belt buckle,

790
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:48,919
Speaker 1: m extension cords, which were the worst to me that

791
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 1: uh and this horse with my grandmother had oh oh

792
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: God with three little like tweed prongs on the end

793
00:46:56,480 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: that used to go, I mean seriously like some I

794
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: don't know she got that from slavery or what that

795
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: ship hurt um. Yeah. And I didn't make a vow

796
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: to myself that I would not discipline my kids physically

797
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 1: like I was disciplined, because frankly, I saw some of

798
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 1: the rewards like when you got that horse whipper, you

799
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: got the extent. Of course, she remember when I used

800
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 1: to play with fire. I was a piro, I will

801
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 1: say pyro. I used to My mom used to go

802
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 1: buy some some papper towels and put them in the cabinet.

803
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:34,280
Speaker 1: We don't have a pantry, Damn. We were broke cabinet right,

804
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 1: and I grabbed the whole row, the whole role plastic included,

805
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 1: throw it in the sink and light it on fire

806
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: and wind in the sink. Because I had the water

807
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: right there, I could douse it out right, get rid

808
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 1: of it. Man, one time it was hard to get

809
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 1: rid of all. Right, Now that's fire. I'm in trouble.

810
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 1: And I put it out finally, but the smell the fire,

811
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:08,840
Speaker 1: the towel flames just flying through the house. Whoa. And

812
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 1: it was one of those whippings where go to my

813
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 1: room and you're sitting in there. I think I sat

814
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: in there for like two or three hours, and what

815
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 1: are they say? The anticipation of death is worse than

816
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 1: death itself. The three hours I got so many whippings

817
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: in my head for those three hours. And then she

818
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: came in for real and put it on me, here's

819
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: the point. Did I play with fire after that? Nah?

820
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,720
Speaker 1: Did not. So you know, I grew up thinking it works,

821
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: it's a good turn. But then I have my kids

822
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, nah, I can't do it. Why Frankly,

823
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: I don't want my kids thinking that physical violence is

824
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: an answer. I know it's sometimes a means to a

825
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: greater end, Right, you want to get to somewhere, and

826
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:01,880
Speaker 1: you ran out options and it becomes one of the

827
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: means is going to whip somebody asks. But your kids,

828
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 1: I don't want them to think that. I don't want

829
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:12,880
Speaker 1: them to go to that hoster for that weapon physical violence,

830
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 1: because I don't even like my kids to yell. I'm like,

831
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: when you're yelling, Like even when I catch myself yelling

832
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 1: or ramping up, amping up, I'm like, I'm losing my voice.

833
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:26,280
Speaker 1: That's why I'm yelling. You catch it like I'm yelling

834
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: because my voice feels minimized frustration. So now I'm gonna

835
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: yell because obviously at a normal level, it's not being respected.

836
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:38,320
Speaker 1: So I always want my kids to stay even in conversations,

837
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: and a lot of people say I do more than not,

838
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: and I do. I know I do, but still who

839
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 1: couldn't be better at something? So I used to always

840
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 1: think about, don't be the one that lets them think

841
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: that one of their tools is yelling. Another one of

842
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 1: their tools is not fighting physical violence. I don't want

843
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 1: to introduce it to them because they're gonna think that's

844
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: a vice, that's the way to do it. M hmm.

845
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: But I also respect when I've read and heard that

846
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: discipline punishment has to be appropriate and if you don't

847
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 1: get the proper response, you have to ramp up the discipline.

848
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 1: And that may include physical flicking of the finger right

849
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 1: or maybe you gotta smack him on the butt open handed,

850
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 1: But I don't think it includes hitting him in the jaw,

851
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:33,240
Speaker 1: if that's what happened according to these reports, Abouba, Marius

852
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: Stodemeyer and his daughter m I know, I didn't mean

853
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 1: it like, oh, you can hit your son. I'm in dactor,

854
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 1: like you created her whatever she's gonna do. Whatever she

855
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: said in response, Hey, it came in part from you,

856
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 1: and it came to you. Handle it differently, because now

857
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:56,800
Speaker 1: not only is she hurt, and whoa, you're talking about

858
00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 1: the crumbling of an image. If you're Dad Cocks, you

859
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 1: upside the jaw. What's the recovery for that. I'm not

860
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 1: talking about the jaw, I'm talking about the break. What's

861
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 1: the recovery for that? But in the name of discipline,

862
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,879
Speaker 1: I do understand there are levels to it. I just

863
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: don't know that level the level of I'm about the

864
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: cold cock, my daughter, and with an explanation, with a justification,

865
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,439
Speaker 1: I can't justify that one big dog, if it's real

866
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 1: something that I saw this weekend, I know you guys

867
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: saw it too. We can't justify how that Patriot game

868
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:43,280
Speaker 1: ended for the Patriots. You'll see that, Jesus. The laterals,

869
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 1: the Stanford band laterals, like they instead of just saying, hey,

870
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: let's go over time, we gotta tie, let's play this out. Nah,

871
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 1: We're gonna go for it all And what was that

872
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 1: Jacobe Myers threw it back in the air. The first

873
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: thing I thought about, because I'm haid a lot of

874
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:04,239
Speaker 1: football obviously, is no matter who you are, if you're

875
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 1: not a quarterback, throwing the football is like the hardest

876
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: thing to do in a football game. And we see

877
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 1: it all the time with like you know, half that

878
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: passes and wide receiver screen passes and double passes like damn,

879
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 1: I thought the dude was a pro. Why are you

880
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 1: throwing it like a balloon. It is hard to throw

881
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 1: a football in a game. I say that, that's why

882
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 1: the quarterbacks have the hardest job. They say, right, But

883
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:36,839
Speaker 1: that play just reminded me so much will Bill Belichick

884
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 1: represents and preaches against. You know, it's funny because Bill

885
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:45,879
Speaker 1: Belichick used to always say more games are lost than

886
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:50,959
Speaker 1: one in the NFL. More games are lost than one

887
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: in the NFL. I remember when I first heard that,

888
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 1: when I was playing like damn Belichick a beast for

889
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: even saying that. Well, you know what's crazy. Now he

890
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 1: has zip it a right there on his roster in

891
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:10,320
Speaker 1: his film session. They lost that game. They lost that game,

892
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: not the Raiders want wanted. Not the Raiders went out

893
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 1: there and beat them up. They lost that game from

894
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 1: that play, one play right there, speaking of one player,

895
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 1: Kyler Murray, my man, one play right. I hated football

896
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: for this reason. It's so fickle, so fickle. Ain't no

897
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 1: love coming back from football. Yeah, you eat what you killed,

898
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 1: and there's a meritocracy. If you ball out, you're gonna

899
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:41,280
Speaker 1: get respect. But it's fickle, like the three little pigs

900
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: like football is built on sand bro It's like one

901
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 1: play away Kyler Murray out for the year, third play

902
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:54,799
Speaker 1: of the game that nobody touched him. Now done. In

903
00:53:54,840 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 1: those moments, you feel so defeated because you're like, how

904
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: did this happen? Like you just keep asking yourself, how

905
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 1: did this happen? I'm big, fast, strong, in shape, been

906
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 1: working out, just just a routine play. Why and how

907
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 1: did this happen? Why to me? And how right now?

908
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 1: And it makes you just feel like you gotta climb

909
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 1: that mountain again with the fear and I mean a

910
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 1: full fledged fear that you're gonna get knocked down again

911
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 1: another injury. Yeah, I mean we're seeing this all across

912
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 1: the league in terms of guys who get hurt and

913
00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 1: coming back. Do they return back to their normal form,

914
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,319
Speaker 1: to their prior form. You can look at it and say,

915
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,760
Speaker 1: is that guy gonna be the same the trust issues

916
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 1: you have with your body and your mind in terms

917
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:55,360
Speaker 1: of getting after it, Like Kyla Murray style of play

918
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 1: is you know, it's Mickey Mouse in the phone booth.

919
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: It's like I got you know, it's just running around

920
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 1: Tasmanian devil style. Right, that's a lot of trust, because

921
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: that is a lot of moving parts in terms of

922
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: I'm still a quarterback traditional stay in the pocket, I

923
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 1: can still run outside the pocket. Then I have this

924
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: X factor, this next level element where I could just

925
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:25,319
Speaker 1: how athletes you guys, Is he gonna get back to

926
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 1: all those levels and phases of his game? Is the

927
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: conversation I want to know. That's interesting to see if

928
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 1: he's gonna return back to Kyler Murray, mighty mouse himself.

929
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 1: It's time to get into some quick hitter. Quit us,

930
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 1: let's do it. Mike Leach rest in peace, dies of

931
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:48,439
Speaker 1: a heart attack at sixty one. Whoo. Mike Leach put

932
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 1: his fingerprint on football. Funny guy, innovative, obviously offensive guru

933
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:58,439
Speaker 1: as well, just a guy that you had to notice, right,

934
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 1: Just a guy that you just had to respect for

935
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 1: his brilliant mind. I mean it could have been a

936
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: stand up comedian it seemed like too, as well as

937
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 1: just a great football coach. Much respect for him. It's

938
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 1: hard to play football when you got heart, heartache and

939
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 1: heartbreak like that too, So to all his players out there,

940
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 1: I understand the pain because I remember my mom passed

941
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: away when I was in Dallas and the last thing

942
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:25,719
Speaker 1: I wanted to do is pass rush. The last thing

943
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to do is make a tackle. Some of

944
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 1: y'all gonna sit back and push back and say that's

945
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 1: the last thing you did too, because you didn't play

946
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: well at Dallas. Oh man, I'm I'm keen levity. I

947
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 1: always got to bring some lightness, some laughter too, even

948
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: the most painful of things, because I laugh at my pain.

949
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:47,399
Speaker 1: That's how I just processed things. But that heartache is real.

950
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,360
Speaker 1: My mom when she told me she had breast cancer,

951
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 1: and I was sitting there like, Okay, where do I

952
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 1: put this in this world in terms of how I'm

953
00:56:56,960 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 1: approaching things? How do you use this as motivation? You can't.

954
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 1: I mean every time you say, yeah, I'm gonna do

955
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,799
Speaker 1: it for mama, you also sit there and say what

956
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 1: am I doing this for? Like much more important things

957
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:12,799
Speaker 1: in this world, many more important things going on in

958
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 1: this world than just that. So in that respect, I

959
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 1: feel those players pain. I feel their pain. Let's go

960
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 1: back to New England concussion. Remember the Patriots game had

961
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 1: a concussion. Teammates had a call of time out. Why

962
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 1: because the independent doctor wasn't paying attention. Why because the

963
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: coaching staff wasn't paying attention, or they all were paying attention,

964
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 1: but their hearts are not in this, y'all. Can y'all

965
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 1: stop lying to yourself, stop making this a story. When

966
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: someone gets concussed, not only is the player sitting there like, oh,

967
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:43,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to lose playing time, this player's safety,

968
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 1: y'all going too far, but institutionally like everyone is sitting

969
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 1: there like I want to address the problem with players

970
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: safety and fix the problem if that's a possibility of

971
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 1: player safety. But the reality is, my heart's ain't in.

972
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: My heart's not in this. Why is it your heart

973
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 1: in it? Because you want the best players to play.

974
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 1: There are competing interests in this conversation, and you know

975
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 1: who usually wins out the bottom line and whoever contributes

976
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 1: to it. So in this situation, when these incidents happen

977
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 1: like what twa and we saw it with the Patriots game,

978
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 1: whenever somebody gets concussing, you're like, how come you then

979
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 1: see what I saw? Because I turned the blind eye

980
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 1: blind eyes because I didn't want to see it. My

981
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 1: heart wasn't in seeing that. And somebody y'all try to

982
00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:37,919
Speaker 1: clown saying it's hard wasn't playing a basketball James Harden,

983
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 1: who's having a good year, y'all, said his heart wasn't

984
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 1: then playing basketball. He's a quitter for wanting to get

985
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 1: traded and actually getting traded from Brooklyn. But then James

986
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 1: Harden brought some attention to that conversation lately and saying,

987
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 1: but y'all don't think k D is a quitter for

988
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 1: asking for a trade. Y'all, don't call him a quitter

989
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 1: from one out of there. Keep us aime energy, you know, toomato.

990
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 1: Tomato's good for the goose. James Harden got a point, y'all.

991
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 1: I mean, this is when your reputation precedes you, because

992
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 1: one thing you can't question about KD is his commitment

993
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 1: to basketball. He's a surest. So because of that, whenever

994
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 1: there's a basketball pure conversation, you're never gonna question his dedication,

995
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 1: his motivation. Sorry, James Harden. Whether it's sometimes we see

996
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: you and there's more to James Harden than not in

997
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:36,880
Speaker 1: terms of the scale and pounds and how big it gets,

998
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 1: or sometimes it's more to it, it seems like in

999
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: terms of his effort up and down the court, his

1000
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 1: reputation proceeding them. So when you could attach something to

1001
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 1: a narrative or to a conversation about his lack of dedication,

1002
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 1: They're gonna run with that. James. So I get what

1003
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,000
Speaker 1: you're saying, and I'm glad you brought it up because

1004
00:59:57,000 --> 01:00:00,120
Speaker 1: it was real on on the surface. It will is

1005
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: a real conversation to have. But going deeper, k D

1006
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 1: is always gonna get the benefit of the doubt. Why

1007
01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:09,720
Speaker 1: because that's just who k D is. So who didn't

1008
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 1: get the benefit of the doubt? Did you guys see

1009
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 1: Clinton Portis on the pivot? Yeah, the pivot with my

1010
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 1: dog fred t shout out to Freddie Taylor, fred Tangy

1011
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 1: Tang Tang Taylor, my teammate, my boy Ryan Clark. Respect

1012
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 1: People think I don't like Ryan Clark. I actually do.

1013
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:30,800
Speaker 1: We just have had differences, beefs, public beefs, disagreements, whatever

1014
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:32,959
Speaker 1: you may be. But I'm the type. I'm the type

1015
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 1: that walk it off. Y'all know I don't fight, so

1016
01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk it off, right And in that situation,

1017
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 1: Ryan Clark. Nothing beloved for Ryan Clark, even though I

1018
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: will beef with him again, probably because uh, he's a collectiveness.

1019
01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:50,040
Speaker 1: He likes he likes the group people and group things

1020
01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 1: together and I don't. So whenever we get into one

1021
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: of those conversations, typically about race, it is what it is.

1022
01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 1: But I love him. I love of Freddy T and

1023
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 1: like Freddy too. He's a big difference. Ain't gonna loe

1024
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 1: of y'all um, and then my boy chatting and it's hilarious.

1025
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 1: He is fun need. But they had Clinton Porters on there,

1026
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: and it was interesting. Clinton Porter's breaking down why he

1027
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 1: got caught up and falsely accused if I'm not putting

1028
01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 1: words in his mouth of the scam against the player

1029
01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 1: health benefits in the NFL, NFL p A. And I

1030
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 1: watched the interview and I was like, interesting, he made

1031
01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 1: a great case for himself, probably a greater case for

1032
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 1: himself on the pivot than he did in the courtroom

1033
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 1: because he would have got off on that one. I

1034
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: had reasonable doubt. Seriously, cpter homie too. I haven't seen

1035
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 1: him in forever, but respect. But my only question is,

1036
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 1: like everybody, when someone gets quote unquote falsely accused, why

1037
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:02,360
Speaker 1: you ne other than me you're guilty? It just makes

1038
01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: me always say, but why are you? And they went

1039
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: there with him basically they're like, why you He was

1040
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:12,800
Speaker 1: the biggest fish they could fry and basically all these

1041
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 1: other guys who were caught up in this scandal, And

1042
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 1: I was like, is that good enough? Is that the

1043
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 1: reason why the FBI is on your tail because you

1044
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: were the biggest fish. I'm interested in seeing what y'all

1045
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:29,840
Speaker 1: think of this one more than anything, because I just

1046
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 1: was like, Clinton, he paid the guy, the guy did

1047
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: some work for him, He returned the money, but still

1048
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 1: had to do six months. Why Clinton, Porters, I'm gonna

1049
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 1: need a little more than that one. I'm gonna need

1050
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 1: y'all help on that one. But I was just sitting

1051
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 1: there at the end of the interview still saying why

1052
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Speaker 1: why you CP? Why nobody else in that respect? Oh,

1053
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 1: let's talk about why nobody else? This is a transition

1054
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: talking about walking in someone's shoes and then the shoes

1055
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:06,080
Speaker 1: are too small or too big. Imagine walking in Lebron

1056
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: James's shoes and having to be Brownie James who played

1057
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: against Carmelo's son recently, and those shoes they have to

1058
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: feel goodness. See, everybody has their own trials and tribulations,

1059
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:23,400
Speaker 1: even guys born on third base or home based home

1060
01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:28,520
Speaker 1: plate uh, because Brownie James shout out to him. I

1061
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 1: don't even know him, but shout out to him for

1062
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 1: handling it this well at this younger age so far. Goodness,

1063
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:41,920
Speaker 1: it's something that James blood that they can handle some success.

1064
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 1: And you know, he goes to Sierra Canyon and my

1065
01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 1: neighbors actually run Sierra Canyon. Yep. Jim and Dina, those

1066
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,439
Speaker 1: are the neighbors and they're the heads of school there,

1067
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:57,200
Speaker 1: as I hear from everyone respect to them. And this

1068
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 1: kid has to be a fourth superstar because of his talents,

1069
01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:05,840
Speaker 1: because of his family's name, and because of his ambitions

1070
01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:10,440
Speaker 1: at this young age. And it's crazy to see not

1071
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: only him, but the second generation. I love it so much. Oh,

1072
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 1: I'm rooting for my son to be second generation football player,

1073
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 1: not really basketball player, uh uh, second generation broadcaster, not

1074
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: really whatever you want to do, poet, but just second

1075
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:29,320
Speaker 1: generation success. Whatever success looks like to you. To me,

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01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 1: success is close your eyes, close your eyes and think

1077
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,439
Speaker 1: of something you want to become. Now, open your eyes

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01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 1: and make that a reality. That success to me, I

1079
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 1: want my son, I want all my kids to be

1080
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 1: second generation success. But since we're talking sports and I

1081
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:51,080
Speaker 1: played sports, Oh, if my son played pro WHOA twelve

1082
01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 1: men on the field Wiley again every play I'm out there,

1083
01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 1: I would be so pumped. Oh man, I'll be so

1084
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 1: thirsty for us uh and pumping them up pom poms everywhere.

1085
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 1: Let's talk about some thirst. The thirst is real in Atlanta,

1086
01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 1: y'all see this video These nurses and got the asses

1087
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 1: fired by putting out some TikTok. Oh man, I've lost

1088
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:20,080
Speaker 1: jobs before, but it ain't because of TikTok. I don't

1089
01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 1: know nurses over there clowning people who are having kids,

1090
01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 1: not just the moms, not just the maternity of it,

1091
01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:34,520
Speaker 1: but just families and the knees desperate they are, and

1092
01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 1: how thirsty they are and how much they need it

1093
01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: in Atlanta, in Georgia, when Georgia has the highest maternal

1094
01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:48,480
Speaker 1: mortality rate of any state. Yeah, that was a bad play. Um, easy,

1095
01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:51,000
Speaker 1: easy call. What to do with them? You know, you

1096
01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 1: gotta pay the stupid tax. And it's crazy because my wife,

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01:05:57,200 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 1: who are our boy, our our birth with m J

1098
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 1: look at me saying our You know I'm a real husband.

1099
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 1: It's an hour. Um, she did all the work. I

1100
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 1: did some work nine ten months before that, and y'all

1101
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:12,480
Speaker 1: know what I'm drawn round around. Uh, I did my

1102
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:18,240
Speaker 1: work earlier, UM, thirty seven hours in labor, thirty seven

1103
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 1: hours and damn baby, I love you. UM, but it

1104
01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 1: was worth it. You did m J. But it got

1105
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 1: easier and easier, but it was never easy. So shame

1106
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 1: on people who clown that process because you really are

1107
01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 1: just leaning into people in terms of support, needing emotional support,

1108
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:43,160
Speaker 1: needing real support, in terms of next steps like to

1109
01:06:43,240 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 1: have another human being. Ain't omanual, no handbook, And then

1110
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:49,760
Speaker 1: people who have it, who've been through this experience, who

1111
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 1: was supposed to be your comfort, supposed to be your

1112
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:55,360
Speaker 1: support system. Do your job, go home, talk ship, go

1113
01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 1: home talk trash. I get it. No job is perfect,

1114
01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 1: so I get that part. But don't make the people

1115
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 1: feel bad and worse. Don't make a video that's gonna

1116
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: get you fired about the people that you're not even

1117
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 1: talking to and working with. All kinds of stupid happened

1118
01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:18,000
Speaker 1: in that moment. Speaking of happening and and stupid. What

1119
01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 1: is going on in Atlanta with the Falcons? M hmm, yeah,

1120
01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 1: this is stupid. UM, I don't know what to call it,

1121
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 1: but Marcus Mariota gets bents and then all of a

1122
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 1: sudden needs a knee surgery, the old bench bench, a

1123
01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 1: rout to switch, a rude bench, a rou um my knee.

1124
01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:43,240
Speaker 1: You know, the need that I have not been on

1125
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:45,480
Speaker 1: the injury report for, and the need that just been

1126
01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 1: really tearing me up all year. But I fought through

1127
01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 1: it into you know what. Oh, I'm not playing anymore.

1128
01:07:51,760 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 1: I'm out. Let me go get this surgery. I think

1129
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 1: it's stupid because Mariota is really cashing all his chips

1130
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:02,439
Speaker 1: in when he's still got some hands to play. If

1131
01:08:02,560 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 1: Mariota was smart, keep your reputation pristine right now, because

1132
01:08:07,840 --> 01:08:09,720
Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna have to lean on when it

1133
01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:12,600
Speaker 1: comes to the next opportunity. Not necessarily you played this

1134
01:08:12,640 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 1: year because it was pretty bad. I ain't gonna lie,

1135
01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:16,639
Speaker 1: you know it. And I think he puts so much

1136
01:08:16,760 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: on this season because this was his resurrection Mariota to

1137
01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 1: the Falcons and then resurrect himself, and when it didn't

1138
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 1: work out, he thinks it's all over. Well, it's really

1139
01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:32,880
Speaker 1: gonna be based on how you play it right now

1140
01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:37,519
Speaker 1: if it's all over, because I think you gotta play.

1141
01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 1: I think you could go somewhere once again, tuck your tail,

1142
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:44,160
Speaker 1: be a backup and let people know you're still a

1143
01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:47,240
Speaker 1: great locker room presence. You still support the team, and

1144
01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 1: I still got something to contribute if I'm on the field. Now,

1145
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 1: that last part sounds like a lie to a lot

1146
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:57,559
Speaker 1: of people. But I thought Mariota played for a minute there, right,

1147
01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:02,559
Speaker 1: But the numbers don't support it fully. That said, don't

1148
01:09:02,600 --> 01:09:05,040
Speaker 1: throw out the baby with the bath water, and all

1149
01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,840
Speaker 1: of a sudden have people questioning your character or you

1150
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:10,040
Speaker 1: quit on us? Uh, how are you gonna get another

1151
01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:12,719
Speaker 1: job if you're quitting on this one? That's the problem.

1152
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 1: And something going on in Atlanta because cast be tapping

1153
01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:19,479
Speaker 1: in Atlanta. Remember when Calvin really tapped, He tapped it and

1154
01:09:19,439 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 1: and claimed it was mental health. I ain't believe that one.

1155
01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:24,320
Speaker 1: And who am I I know here? I can hear

1156
01:09:24,360 --> 01:09:27,360
Speaker 1: y'all know. Oh how you to sit there and judge somebody?

1157
01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 1: Didn you just talk about suicide? I said, the dude

1158
01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:35,160
Speaker 1: has struggles on the field, and it turned into struggles mentally. Yeah,

1159
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 1: but mental health is not just as that you're struggling

1160
01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:41,479
Speaker 1: through things. Mental health, it's just like physical health in

1161
01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:44,439
Speaker 1: some respects. You gotta put in the work you gotta

1162
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: get in the gym. You gotta get into the mental

1163
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:52,000
Speaker 1: gym and get stronger. That year, what do you have,

1164
01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:56,599
Speaker 1: like five games or so, and he became the number

1165
01:09:56,600 --> 01:09:59,640
Speaker 1: one wide receiver. Y'all tell me if all these are coincidences?

1166
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 1: Five games, bad numbers? Now you're the number one? Is

1167
01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:06,600
Speaker 1: that are the number two? Julio Jones gone, it's on you.

1168
01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:09,840
Speaker 1: You're struggling. You just tap and say it was mental health.

1169
01:10:10,280 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 1: That cover I talked to I talked through things, and

1170
01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:18,040
Speaker 1: I talked to things, and that sounded like one. And

1171
01:10:18,080 --> 01:10:21,160
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, I ain't even tripping

1172
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:23,680
Speaker 1: on the gambling part. I thought that was weird. He

1173
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:25,800
Speaker 1: wasn't on the team at the time and all that,

1174
01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 1: and then he bets and but you can't compromise the

1175
01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:32,760
Speaker 1: integrity of the game. You can't compromise the image of

1176
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 1: the integrity of the game. But when it came to

1177
01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:40,200
Speaker 1: him tapping, I was like, yeah, it's a cover. It's

1178
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 1: obviously something that you can't really talk through with people.

1179
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: I can because I'm not scared of the reaction, but

1180
01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:50,840
Speaker 1: I know there's gonna be a reaction. And I was like,

1181
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:55,400
Speaker 1: if someone's not physically prepared, we talked through it. We

1182
01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 1: we questioned their injury, requestioned their toughness, but with mental health,

1183
01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 1: we don't because we automatically think the consequences suicide or

1184
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:10,640
Speaker 1: or something of that nature close to it. And I'm like,

1185
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 1: they're gonna harm themselves. I'm like, the only way we're

1186
01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 1: really going to address this issue is to address this

1187
01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:22,000
Speaker 1: issue and separate the real from the fake and have

1188
01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:27,360
Speaker 1: the conversation and also have the individual explain themselves and

1189
01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:30,640
Speaker 1: have the individual do what they're supposed to do in

1190
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:36,360
Speaker 1: terms of personal responsibility for their own health, physical and mental.

1191
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:41,760
Speaker 1: I thought that one was a little convenient in terms

1192
01:11:41,840 --> 01:11:44,720
Speaker 1: of the mental health play at that moment. But who

1193
01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 1: am I. I'm on the outside looking in. That's why

1194
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:54,320
Speaker 1: I'm just speaking from this outside perspective. Y'all. See TA

1195
01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 1: try to give his uh last speech to the h

1196
01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 1: b c U S. Jackson State. Try to give that

1197
01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:07,599
Speaker 1: speech where he takes the high road and usually and

1198
01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:09,439
Speaker 1: I know this because I'm guilty of this right now

1199
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 1: in terms of why I left Fox, and you know

1200
01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:15,719
Speaker 1: all the conversations I'm having about what I'm doing next,

1201
01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:19,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to take high roads. You sound confusing. This

1202
01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:21,720
Speaker 1: hell when you take the high road and try to

1203
01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:24,400
Speaker 1: talk to somebody because they're like, huh that on that up?

1204
01:12:24,439 --> 01:12:26,920
Speaker 1: What let you talk about? Man? And that's what Dion

1205
01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:29,519
Speaker 1: is right now in terms of that last speech sounds

1206
01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:33,160
Speaker 1: a little confusing, oh man. Like it was the art

1207
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:36,320
Speaker 1: of saying something while saying nothing because he doesn't want

1208
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 1: to out people, and I respect him for doing it.

1209
01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:41,559
Speaker 1: He's like dogs, if I flame Broyal these foods, it'll

1210
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:43,559
Speaker 1: be a rap. I think Jackson Stake gonna be bad

1211
01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:46,000
Speaker 1: without me. Whoa Let me put this torch on them

1212
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 1: and see what happens. So Dion just basically doesn't want

1213
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:52,000
Speaker 1: to let everybody know. Yo, it was bad there, y'all.

1214
01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 1: I mean, we already know the resources are not there,

1215
01:12:55,360 --> 01:12:57,280
Speaker 1: like a power five. We already know the budgets are

1216
01:12:57,280 --> 01:13:01,080
Speaker 1: not there, the supports not there. They stole EON's jewelry.

1217
01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:08,280
Speaker 1: He historic who still coaches chain? I would have left

1218
01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:10,760
Speaker 1: that day. Y'all got me twisted. You're still in my chain.

1219
01:13:10,800 --> 01:13:14,160
Speaker 1: I'm out yep that part, oh man. But Dion is

1220
01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:17,599
Speaker 1: trying to take the high road. He owes no one anything,

1221
01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 1: He owes nobody anything. Be thankful, show gratitude. So I'll

1222
01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:25,759
Speaker 1: be on like Romeo. It's be grateful with the position

1223
01:13:25,800 --> 01:13:28,760
Speaker 1: he puts you in. Damn it. That's all it should be.

1224
01:13:29,400 --> 01:13:33,080
Speaker 1: And since I'm in the grateful mindset right now, and

1225
01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 1: y'all know I spelled grateful different g R E A

1226
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:41,080
Speaker 1: T F you L great full Westbrook having a great year, y'all.

1227
01:13:41,479 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 1: Russell Westbrook is bawling out of control the homey too.

1228
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 1: I will say that our kids go to the same

1229
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:52,400
Speaker 1: school as well, our our families, hang um, our wives hang.

1230
01:13:53,320 --> 01:13:55,519
Speaker 1: Give me this flowers. He's coming off the bench. When

1231
01:13:55,560 --> 01:13:57,719
Speaker 1: he does, he's bawling out of control when he starts

1232
01:13:57,800 --> 01:14:03,519
Speaker 1: or whenever that is. He's out there with the starters. Yeah, yeah,

1233
01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:05,280
Speaker 1: that trade talking. You don't know what to do with

1234
01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:08,519
Speaker 1: it right now, huh. I understand you're like forty seven million.

1235
01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:10,599
Speaker 1: I know what to do with it. It's crazy, But

1236
01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:15,760
Speaker 1: here here are your flowers, Russell Westbrook. They always want

1237
01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:19,680
Speaker 1: to kill you, and I wish god, I wish I

1238
01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:22,320
Speaker 1: was Russell. When when they're talking bad about him, I'll

1239
01:14:22,320 --> 01:14:25,280
Speaker 1: be like, WHOA, who the hell are y'all? I will

1240
01:14:25,360 --> 01:14:29,320
Speaker 1: be on people's heads, oh man, But I wouldn't talk

1241
01:14:29,360 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 1: about how it affects me, my family and my kids.

1242
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:34,720
Speaker 1: Now we're staying bulletproof to this bro, because I do

1243
01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 1: not forget where I came from and how far he's come. Man,

1244
01:14:38,920 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 1: So give him his flowers right now, because Westbrook balling

1245
01:14:40,960 --> 01:14:42,680
Speaker 1: out of control. Y'all try to kill him and give

1246
01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:45,000
Speaker 1: him the dirt last year and when he got here

1247
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:48,639
Speaker 1: his flowers. Right now, he's bawling out of control. Let's

1248
01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:52,360
Speaker 1: talk about something else that's happening and talking about ball

1249
01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 1: now to control. Mr Purty. Mr Purdy in San Francisco

1250
01:14:57,280 --> 01:15:00,559
Speaker 1: is bawling out of control. Here's the thing. We all

1251
01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:02,360
Speaker 1: see it. We're like, damn, he got something going on.

1252
01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 1: He got some moxie. You got a little special talent.

1253
01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:10,760
Speaker 1: Here are the levels, and so far he's graduated two

1254
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 1: of them and there's one more. You get thrust into action,

1255
01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:18,040
Speaker 1: your drilling is flowing. Oh Jimmy Jesus got hurt. My turn. Okay,

1256
01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:20,479
Speaker 1: all those practices gonna come to life. It's my turn.

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01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:22,760
Speaker 1: Let me go out there and get it. You can

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01:15:22,760 --> 01:15:27,240
Speaker 1: ball in those moments prepared, but let's be real unprepared

1259
01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:29,760
Speaker 1: in terms of Wow, you're getting all these reps, but

1260
01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:32,040
Speaker 1: you took them in practice here and there. You're ready.

1261
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 1: You played football before the next level is from getting

1262
01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:42,519
Speaker 1: thrust into action to m M. I'm a starter, like

1263
01:15:42,560 --> 01:15:45,559
Speaker 1: you go to bed at night, wake up. Oh, they're

1264
01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:48,000
Speaker 1: expecting me to start. They're expecting me to be the

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01:15:48,040 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 1: guy out there under center. I gotta show up. He's

1266
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:55,879
Speaker 1: graduated that level. He's done in a couple of times already.

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01:15:56,200 --> 01:16:03,200
Speaker 1: But now here's the last one. It's called those championship expectations.

1268
01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:08,960
Speaker 1: You're being counted on for a championship as a leader. Oh,

1269
01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:11,759
Speaker 1: now you gotta wake up to that. Playoff time is coming.

1270
01:16:11,880 --> 01:16:15,639
Speaker 1: It's coming soon. So now you don't just show up.

1271
01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:19,200
Speaker 1: You're not just the quarterback. You gotta show out because

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01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:24,439
Speaker 1: you're special for our team. You've been special, and if

1273
01:16:24,479 --> 01:16:26,640
Speaker 1: our team is gonna make it all the way and

1274
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:30,920
Speaker 1: win it all, you have to be special. See how

1275
01:16:30,920 --> 01:16:32,880
Speaker 1: he wakes up to that or how he goes to

1276
01:16:33,000 --> 01:16:35,880
Speaker 1: bed to that in the playoffs. I'm wishing them well, man,

1277
01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:37,880
Speaker 1: it's a great story. Y'all know. I love me some

1278
01:16:37,960 --> 01:16:41,360
Speaker 1: Jimmy g Q. But at the same time, hey, this

1279
01:16:41,439 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 1: dude are doing something special. Hopefully perty could keep being

1280
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:46,679
Speaker 1: perty out there let's stay in the Bay Area because

1281
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:49,639
Speaker 1: they're out there bowing. Elon Musk. When Dave Chappelle performed,

1282
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:53,920
Speaker 1: I saw that, Can y'all not be so captain obvious?

1283
01:16:53,920 --> 01:16:59,639
Speaker 1: San Francisco? Hey, Elon mustnao. It reminds me of two things. One,

1284
01:16:59,760 --> 01:17:02,919
Speaker 1: when people see me in real life, I never get booed.

1285
01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:07,559
Speaker 1: I never get clowned, like personally like to me in

1286
01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 1: an audience like what he did. Yeah, Elan knows when

1287
01:17:11,080 --> 01:17:14,120
Speaker 1: you get in front of people and they're against you,

1288
01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:18,400
Speaker 1: the way they showed respect, the way they show their

1289
01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:22,120
Speaker 1: love for you, their respect for you. If they're against you,

1290
01:17:22,280 --> 01:17:25,280
Speaker 1: is they boo you. It's the best compliment in the world.

1291
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:29,040
Speaker 1: If you're on enemy territory, it's the best compliment. And

1292
01:17:29,080 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 1: it's crazy because of our politics right now, Elon Musk,

1293
01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:35,880
Speaker 1: going to San Francisco is enemy territory. Oh man, I'm

1294
01:17:35,880 --> 01:17:39,000
Speaker 1: gonna make a change in that. But I mean, if

1295
01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:42,200
Speaker 1: y'all really want to do some apathy is the worst response.

1296
01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:44,479
Speaker 1: When people don't trip on you, when they don't care

1297
01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 1: about you and they're like whatever, whatever, give a damn

1298
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:53,000
Speaker 1: about you? That hurts the most. And I remember when

1299
01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:56,439
Speaker 1: I was bawling and then I come out the tunnel,

1300
01:17:57,320 --> 01:18:04,639
Speaker 1: they do the player introductions whatever on the road, like, yeah,

1301
01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:08,479
Speaker 1: better respect me, better put money on this, homy, you

1302
01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:12,880
Speaker 1: better love me. But then there are also times like

1303
01:18:12,920 --> 01:18:16,120
Speaker 1: when I was falling off at the end. Now come out,

1304
01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:20,080
Speaker 1: they say my name. I can hear the hot dog

1305
01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:25,479
Speaker 1: man up there talking. Ain't give it down whatever, And

1306
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:29,000
Speaker 1: that felt worse than booze. So hey, stan Fran, y'all

1307
01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:32,679
Speaker 1: really want Ellen to fill it? Shut up, don't say anything.

1308
01:18:33,320 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 1: Let's talk about the Lakers one more time. Brody, three

1309
01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:39,880
Speaker 1: games on the d s hurt again, injury prone, can't

1310
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:46,080
Speaker 1: get around it, doubt birds flying those doubt birds, and

1311
01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 1: Crypto boy, Crypto about to be dusty. You better heard.

1312
01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:50,960
Speaker 1: Let me get them a new arena or renovator something,

1313
01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:54,840
Speaker 1: because Clippers are leaving in there are already two football

1314
01:18:54,840 --> 01:19:01,000
Speaker 1: teams in Inglewood. Clippers will be there in two years. Downtown. Man,

1315
01:19:01,160 --> 01:19:03,080
Speaker 1: with the politics out here in l A right now,

1316
01:19:03,160 --> 01:19:05,960
Speaker 1: the homeless run downtown. It might start a homeless team

1317
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:07,960
Speaker 1: up in there in Crypto and play with the Lakers.

1318
01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:10,240
Speaker 1: Lakers in trouble right now. Three games under five Hunter

1319
01:19:10,280 --> 01:19:14,080
Speaker 1: with a D and he's been bowling m that playing game,

1320
01:19:14,120 --> 01:19:16,360
Speaker 1: Look a little far away. All right, it's time for

1321
01:19:16,400 --> 01:19:18,360
Speaker 1: some Tiki talk. I'm gonna keep you all three hours.

1322
01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:20,960
Speaker 1: I just love all these stories, and I love the

1323
01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:23,599
Speaker 1: fact that I have this format, and this is this

1324
01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:26,360
Speaker 1: is just the beginning, y'all. I have this format. I

1325
01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:28,880
Speaker 1: could talk about everything and just personalize it and bring

1326
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:31,559
Speaker 1: it home to you guys, and talk real story and

1327
01:19:31,640 --> 01:19:34,799
Speaker 1: not be rusting, not be all caught up in somebody

1328
01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:38,120
Speaker 1: else's feelings about the topic. Like I like these topics

1329
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:40,439
Speaker 1: and if you like them, you're gonna keep listening. And

1330
01:19:40,479 --> 01:19:43,200
Speaker 1: that's the fun of this my tiki talk is the

1331
01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:46,760
Speaker 1: question is what's your favorite superhero should be? Who's your

1332
01:19:46,760 --> 01:19:50,400
Speaker 1: favorite superhero? I think I don't know. My sister and I, uh,

1333
01:19:50,800 --> 01:19:55,160
Speaker 1: we always be on these Um god, I want to

1334
01:19:55,240 --> 01:19:57,639
Speaker 1: I want to say incredible Hulk, you know the David

1335
01:19:57,640 --> 01:20:00,920
Speaker 1: Banner with the TV show version, when he used to

1336
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:06,599
Speaker 1: have to walk down the road by himself, ripped up jeans. Oh.

1337
01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:08,880
Speaker 1: I used to cry, like every single time, like he

1338
01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:12,519
Speaker 1: helped everybody, He helped the whole town. Now nobody helping him.

1339
01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 1: Look at him, he just ripped jeans and green. I

1340
01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:17,639
Speaker 1: used to cry for real. I used to cry on that.

1341
01:20:17,800 --> 01:20:20,120
Speaker 1: I know I'm not alone, but my favorite superhero I

1342
01:20:20,160 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 1: can't get away from it. I love track and field

1343
01:20:22,040 --> 01:20:24,559
Speaker 1: too much. It's my favorite sport. It's the first sport.

1344
01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:30,240
Speaker 1: It's the purest sport. Flash. I love Flash. Flash can't

1345
01:20:30,240 --> 01:20:33,200
Speaker 1: do number run and that's enough. That's it. Keep a simple,

1346
01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:36,439
Speaker 1: stupid Flash b boning out dog. Every time I see Flash,

1347
01:20:36,560 --> 01:20:40,880
Speaker 1: I stopped and watched Flash. Is he the best superhero? No,

1348
01:20:41,080 --> 01:20:45,240
Speaker 1: but that's not the question my favorite superhero. I love you, credible,

1349
01:20:48,880 --> 01:20:52,440
Speaker 1: but it's Flash. Okay, it's time to get to hashtag

1350
01:20:52,520 --> 01:20:54,960
Speaker 1: asked that dude, if you have a question on Twitter.

1351
01:20:56,120 --> 01:21:01,160
Speaker 1: Hass tag asked that dude, ask a T d U

1352
01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:06,559
Speaker 1: d E. Here's a question. I'm wondering if you're on

1353
01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:10,639
Speaker 1: quote unquote high atis because you were too honest about

1354
01:21:10,640 --> 01:21:14,920
Speaker 1: a certain quarterback that has several accusations against him. I

1355
01:21:14,960 --> 01:21:17,519
Speaker 1: agree with you when you said it what you said,

1356
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:20,679
Speaker 1: But next thing, I know, you're gone. Asked that dude.

1357
01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:25,559
Speaker 1: Hash tag mischief. Hm hmmm. I'll take you all inside

1358
01:21:25,640 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 1: my dome because I've said some controversial things and it's

1359
01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:32,679
Speaker 1: weird because y'all know me. I don't do clickbait because

1360
01:21:32,720 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: if I did, oh my god, I'd be so super

1361
01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:39,080
Speaker 1: super duper uber famous because I know what the clicks are.

1362
01:21:39,160 --> 01:21:41,400
Speaker 1: I know what to get your clicking. But I don't

1363
01:21:41,439 --> 01:21:43,679
Speaker 1: do that. I stand on my own and I say

1364
01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:46,559
Speaker 1: things that I believe, And sometimes I say things that

1365
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:51,479
Speaker 1: I believe that we don't agree up on. We don't believe,

1366
01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:53,960
Speaker 1: but I do, So I'm gonna say it. Y'all know

1367
01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 1: what they are. One of them was Deshaun Watson. You know,

1368
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:01,479
Speaker 1: I thought he was up for no freak. I've been there,

1369
01:22:02,120 --> 01:22:05,160
Speaker 1: not to the extent where he did, But have I

1370
01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:09,880
Speaker 1: messed with my massage therapist? Yeah? Oh yes, many of them, um,

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01:22:09,960 --> 01:22:12,360
Speaker 1: And a lot of times they started the conversations. They

1372
01:22:12,400 --> 01:22:15,120
Speaker 1: initiated it. Sometimes it was me because they were fine.

1373
01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:17,599
Speaker 1: Simple was that. But you gotta read the room, read

1374
01:22:17,600 --> 01:22:19,720
Speaker 1: the social cues, and just know what the no is.

1375
01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:22,800
Speaker 1: No means no. If there were a no said, but

1376
01:22:22,840 --> 01:22:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm about I'm not gonna legislate this one.

1377
01:22:26,000 --> 01:22:29,519
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna try this case again. But your question,

1378
01:22:30,040 --> 01:22:32,720
Speaker 1: did they have something to do with it? You know,

1379
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:36,720
Speaker 1: these networks, they wanted our show to go lighter. They

1380
01:22:36,760 --> 01:22:38,360
Speaker 1: wanted to show to be different. They wanted to show

1381
01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:40,160
Speaker 1: to be what it is right now. I didn't want

1382
01:22:40,200 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 1: to do that show. I saw it then and I

1383
01:22:42,240 --> 01:22:45,639
Speaker 1: see it now. That's not for me, y'all, y'all, y'all

1384
01:22:45,640 --> 01:22:47,880
Speaker 1: listening to this podcast way till my show comes out

1385
01:22:47,960 --> 01:22:50,559
Speaker 1: next month. I think, y'all tell me if that's the

1386
01:22:50,600 --> 01:22:53,519
Speaker 1: same and it's not a diss like, damn, don't we

1387
01:22:53,560 --> 01:22:55,760
Speaker 1: could like two different things. So I think a lot

1388
01:22:55,800 --> 01:22:59,120
Speaker 1: of times people think we had competing interests. Marcelos wants

1389
01:22:59,160 --> 01:23:02,240
Speaker 1: to stay. No, we finished the sentence. I wanted to

1390
01:23:02,280 --> 01:23:04,679
Speaker 1: stay doing what I was doing when I got there.

1391
01:23:05,160 --> 01:23:07,400
Speaker 1: We already had started to get away from that, but

1392
01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:10,519
Speaker 1: not too far. But yeah we did. We got away

1393
01:23:10,520 --> 01:23:14,640
Speaker 1: from Whitlock and Marcellus to I chowing Marcellus, and that

1394
01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 1: comes with a different set of standards, different reactions and expectations.

1395
01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:23,040
Speaker 1: So lighter is I chose a talent dude. That dudes

1396
01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:26,720
Speaker 1: super talented. He's a word smith. He'll say something you'd

1397
01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:28,760
Speaker 1: be like, damn, that was pretty doope, dope how you

1398
01:23:28,800 --> 01:23:33,479
Speaker 1: said it? More importantly, he'll repeat himself three times so

1399
01:23:33,560 --> 01:23:34,880
Speaker 1: you make sure you heard it. But I like that,

1400
01:23:35,080 --> 01:23:37,200
Speaker 1: like the dude is a beast man. Don't try and

1401
01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:39,640
Speaker 1: put me in a position to say less. Here's the

1402
01:23:39,720 --> 01:23:43,960
Speaker 1: thing though, with him and with that situation. He has

1403
01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:46,719
Speaker 1: a great relationship with Oprah because you know his book

1404
01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:49,280
Speaker 1: comes out on Oprah. I chow as a great relationship

1405
01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:53,559
Speaker 1: with Deshaun Watson as well, and and David Mullaghetta. I

1406
01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:56,280
Speaker 1: have a little relationship with David. It started off on beef,

1407
01:23:56,600 --> 01:24:01,080
Speaker 1: like usually my relationships do, and then we talked through it. Um.

1408
01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:04,639
Speaker 1: But I think if you add up what I said

1409
01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:09,280
Speaker 1: about Deshaun Watson, I think that's like if anything half

1410
01:24:09,280 --> 01:24:12,320
Speaker 1: a percent nothing. But I did go against the grain,

1411
01:24:13,360 --> 01:24:16,600
Speaker 1: Um what I said about Colin Kaepernick when against the

1412
01:24:16,640 --> 01:24:20,479
Speaker 1: grain to a greater degree. Black lives matter, um to

1413
01:24:20,520 --> 01:24:24,120
Speaker 1: a greater degree. And it's only because, let's be real,

1414
01:24:25,479 --> 01:24:27,360
Speaker 1: it's against the grain because I'm black, and I'm supposed

1415
01:24:27,360 --> 01:24:29,439
Speaker 1: to say something else. I'm supposed to say what a says.

1416
01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:32,439
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to say what most people say. I don't agree,

1417
01:24:34,320 --> 01:24:37,400
Speaker 1: you know, I speak for me, not we and me.

1418
01:24:38,439 --> 01:24:42,479
Speaker 1: Marcel Is thought different, and I explained myself, and I

1419
01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:46,120
Speaker 1: thought that you could either disagree with me or you

1420
01:24:46,120 --> 01:24:48,200
Speaker 1: could say you know what. That was food for thought

1421
01:24:48,600 --> 01:24:50,920
Speaker 1: or you can agree with me, but did that play

1422
01:24:50,920 --> 01:24:54,280
Speaker 1: into my decision or did it play into their decision?

1423
01:24:55,040 --> 01:24:58,559
Speaker 1: I'm certainly played into their decision, but to what degree

1424
01:24:58,600 --> 01:25:01,920
Speaker 1: they probably like lighter means you know what, We don't

1425
01:25:01,960 --> 01:25:05,400
Speaker 1: want to talk that heaven in it on. We don't

1426
01:25:05,400 --> 01:25:08,639
Speaker 1: want to go against the grain like that, I'm sure,

1427
01:25:08,640 --> 01:25:13,000
Speaker 1: because that's not good for branding, marketing sponsorship, which networks

1428
01:25:13,000 --> 01:25:16,000
Speaker 1: are built on. It's good for me and my essence

1429
01:25:16,000 --> 01:25:17,719
Speaker 1: and my honesty, and I can look at my kids

1430
01:25:17,720 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 1: in the eyes and in the face and say, your

1431
01:25:21,000 --> 01:25:24,280
Speaker 1: daddy stands on his own principles. It's it's great around

1432
01:25:24,280 --> 01:25:26,800
Speaker 1: my house. It's not great at Fox or at the

1433
01:25:26,880 --> 01:25:29,800
Speaker 1: network if you're sitting there going against the grain. But

1434
01:25:30,760 --> 01:25:34,360
Speaker 1: I'm not the only one. I had huge amounts of

1435
01:25:34,400 --> 01:25:37,960
Speaker 1: support for everything I've said. Maybe not upstairs, maybe not

1436
01:25:38,040 --> 01:25:40,160
Speaker 1: at the network, maybe not with the sponsors, maybe not

1437
01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:42,360
Speaker 1: with the brand, maybe not what an oprah. I tell

1438
01:25:42,439 --> 01:25:44,360
Speaker 1: you to get mad at me sometimes when I say stuff,

1439
01:25:45,000 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 1: but I got mad at him sometimes when he's saying stuff.

1440
01:25:47,120 --> 01:25:48,679
Speaker 1: So I don't even know where to go with that.

1441
01:25:49,120 --> 01:25:51,200
Speaker 1: It's crazy, but I do know where you're coming from.

1442
01:25:51,240 --> 01:25:54,519
Speaker 1: I do understand where you're coming from. But we didn't

1443
01:25:54,560 --> 01:25:58,640
Speaker 1: have competing interests. We had diverging interests. I wanted to

1444
01:25:58,640 --> 01:26:01,479
Speaker 1: do something different. I want to do what I'm doing now.

1445
01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:05,679
Speaker 1: Plus I'm just starting to get there. And I don't

1446
01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:09,439
Speaker 1: think that would have played that relationship well in terms

1447
01:26:09,479 --> 01:26:13,439
Speaker 1: of Fox and I in terms of chewing I and

1448
01:26:13,720 --> 01:26:16,639
Speaker 1: I'm glad he's doing what he's doing, and I'm glad

1449
01:26:16,680 --> 01:26:19,639
Speaker 1: I'm doing what I'm doing. Last one is a wily

1450
01:26:19,840 --> 01:26:22,599
Speaker 1: ism with the nine hour podcast I'm doing. I've seen

1451
01:26:22,600 --> 01:26:26,160
Speaker 1: a lot of popular podcasts like mine. Um, I was

1452
01:26:26,200 --> 01:26:29,080
Speaker 1: doing forty fifty minutes. People were telling me, yeah, don't

1453
01:26:29,080 --> 01:26:32,400
Speaker 1: go over forty nine minutes. I'm like, all right, I'm

1454
01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:34,320
Speaker 1: new to it. Then I'll start looking at all the

1455
01:26:34,360 --> 01:26:35,920
Speaker 1: other popular ones out there. I was like, they're going

1456
01:26:35,920 --> 01:26:37,200
Speaker 1: an hour and a half, two hours. I was like,

1457
01:26:37,240 --> 01:26:38,720
Speaker 1: I got a lot more to say, so let me

1458
01:26:38,760 --> 01:26:41,120
Speaker 1: say it. Y'all. Hit me back into reviews. If you're like, yo,

1459
01:26:41,200 --> 01:26:43,800
Speaker 1: that's too long, be or you're like keep it coming, bro,

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Speaker 1: either way it goes. I'm here, I'm listening. Time for

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Speaker 1: our wiley ism, y'all. Let's get to it. Attack a

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Speaker 1: man's weakness if you want to beat them, attack a

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Speaker 1: man strength, if you want to break them. Pop, that's

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Speaker 1: some ball, that's some life. That's some real game right there.

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Speaker 1: Attack a man's weakness if you want to beat them,

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Speaker 1: attack a man's strength, if you want to break them.

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Speaker 1: That's right. What is their plan? A know your opponent,

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Speaker 1: know what they want to do first and foremost, and

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Speaker 1: take that away. You break them, then they're gonna go

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Speaker 1: to plan B, and you know what's gonna happen. You're

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Speaker 1: gonna beat them. I love this one, oh man. There's

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Speaker 1: so many situations we're going to it selfishly. We go

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Speaker 1: into it with our own my optic focus and just

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Speaker 1: on us instead of what are they trying to do

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Speaker 1: to us? Right Like having an opponent's mindset, Not only

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Speaker 1: is that advantageous for you in turns to how you

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Speaker 1: should game plan what are they gonna try to do

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Speaker 1: to me? So I could be prepared, But more importantly,

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Speaker 1: even yourself as life as a competition between you and yourself,

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Speaker 1: game plan against yourself. It's not always you're going against

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Speaker 1: an opponent that's outside of you. It's not always you're

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Speaker 1: going to get some entity or thing that's outside of you.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you're going to get your own thoughts, your own demons,

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Speaker 1: your own issues, right mm hmm. And if you want

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Speaker 1: to break those generational curses, you want to break all

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Speaker 1: of those issues within yourself. Attack the strong ones, Attack

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Speaker 1: the ones that really got their grip on you. Attack those.

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Speaker 1: Then when you get to the lesser ones, you already

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Speaker 1: know the victory is yours. You're gonna be able to

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Speaker 1: beat them. I love it, I love it. I love it.

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Speaker 1: Michael Irving, like, I give you props for that one,

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Speaker 1: and gave me that gym months ago. I had to

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Speaker 1: hold on to that. Wiley isn't alright, y'all? That's gonna

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Speaker 1: do it. For More to It, check the show notes

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Speaker 1: for all the information on our topics to day to day.

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Speaker 1: You want to keep the conversation going, I know, y'all

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Speaker 1: do let's talk. You can find me on all socials.

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Speaker 1: That's right at Marcellus Wiley at Marcellus Wiley. More to

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Speaker 1: It is a production of Dan Patrick Productions, That Dude

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Speaker 1: Entertainment and Workhouse Media. Show is executive produced by Dan Patrick,

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Speaker 1: Marcella's Wally That's Me, Paul Anderson, and Nick Panella. I'm

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Speaker 1: Marcella's wally dad. Dude up Why Thanks for listening y'all

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Speaker 1: and thanks for the reviews. Y'all getting better. Keep up

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Speaker 1: the reviews, please keep them coming. There's more coming from

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Speaker 1: More to It. Talk to you next week. Got