1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: Why y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all 2 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: bat all suit looking back to back down, giving them 3 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: mo like theming buck bus things in its tub, y'all 4 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: to me true good to the hut guy listening to 5 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: me to other for stout money. Why don't you join? Yeah, well, 6 00:00:43,040 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: hobby joining me, honey said dot turn Yeah, you gotta 7 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: turn to turn at the time, lovey got to turn 8 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: out to turn the water the water go, come come 9 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: on your back at it. Uh huh. I shall will 10 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: come on and everybody you're listening to the voice, come 11 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey got 12 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 1: a radio show. Man, if if if I had time 13 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: enough to tell the whole trip, the whole journey, and 14 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: y'all would be sitting up in there going, okay, Steve, 15 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: are we gonna play the show this week? But man, 16 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 1: it's been a lot of amazing things has has happened 17 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: to me over the years, um and and not all 18 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: of them good. It's been some amazingly bad things that 19 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: have happened too. But I just come on in the 20 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: morning as a reminder to everybody of of of the 21 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: actual goodness of God that you know, man, that these 22 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: mistakes that you're making, that these setbacks that you keep having, 23 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 1: that these falls that keep occurring in your life, that 24 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,399 Speaker 1: they all are leading you somewhere. If you us don't 25 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 1: ever give up. That's the key. You can never ever 26 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: give up because you don't know how the trip has 27 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: been laid out for you. You know, if somebody had 28 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 1: told me, um years ago, when I had the dream 29 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,839 Speaker 1: of being on TV and then I thought about being 30 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 1: a one of one of the best comedians I could be. 31 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: You know when when I when I started, somebody had 32 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 1: told me everything that was gonna have to happen in 33 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: order for me to get there, I would have changed it. 34 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: I would have I would have said, Okay, well I 35 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: ain't gonna be that. How about this? See and and 36 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: no one can know all of the events of their 37 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: life ahead of time. You know. It would be so nice, 38 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: whenn't it. You know, to prepare for it, see it coming, 39 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: be aware of the haters, always knowing when the backstabbing 40 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: moment is coming in your life, always knowing when you're 41 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: gonna get blindsided by the enemy. We're really great to 42 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: know that, wouldn't it. Well, that's not how it works, 43 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: So since no one knows exactly the challenges and the 44 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 1: pitfalls and the detools that's gonna be set them. It's 45 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: it's it's imperative that you just don't give up because see, 46 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: knowing these things, we as human beings by nature, would 47 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 1: choose another route. But it ain't the route God God 48 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: for you, though. See the route God God for you. 49 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: If you if you're trying to do the right thing, 50 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: if you're doing the best you can, if you ain't 51 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: out here just intentionally just messing over, folks, if you're 52 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: using faith and that's the belief in things that you 53 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: cannot see. If you have something on the inside of 54 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: you to keep saying there's got to be more to 55 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: life than that, then that's that's you. You, my friend, 56 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 1: have a great chance here. And if you've ever had 57 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 1: that feeling and gave up on it, just get it back. 58 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: Just asked for it back. Just say, hey, man, I'm 59 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: getting back to the way I used to be because 60 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: there's a change that's available in your life, but you 61 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: gotta take it. You gotta take a shot at it. Folks. 62 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: There's a chance for you to get it right, but 63 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: you gotta take a shot at it. Folks, there's a 64 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: chance for you to turn this whole thing around with 65 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 1: God's help, But you gotta take a shot at it. 66 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 1: You see, this decision is yours. The decision to lay 67 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: down and give up, there's yours. It ain't. It just 68 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 1: got too hard for me. Life too much, man, life 69 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: hard and too much for everybody. What I gotta get 70 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: you to see is if you don't lay down and 71 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: give into it, there's some great things in store for 72 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 1: your life. Because all of the things every lesson I've 73 00:05:55,800 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: ever ever learned, the best lesson has been a boult lesson. 74 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: And my father used to always tell me, he said, 75 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: so best lessons in life the born your value and 76 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 1: learn the most is about lesson. I didn't quite understand 77 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: that being young, but I showed God it now ain't 78 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: no lesson like a bout lesson, the one you pay for. 79 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: Those are the ones that hold to you, that stick 80 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 1: to you, that that that start turning you into who 81 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 1: you're gonna be. Those are the character builders. See, um, 82 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: you got to be forged to get to where you 83 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: want to go in life. So that's what the challenges 84 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 1: and missteps is for. That's what the failing is about. Now, 85 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: I know you don't like it. I didn't. I know 86 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 1: you're not comfortable when I wouldn't. I know you wish 87 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: it was over sooner than later. I always do. I 88 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: always wanted to be over sooner than later because the 89 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 1: later manager seems like it's so much I gotta go through. 90 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 1: But let me tell you something, man, if you can, 91 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 1: if you can Ford your way through it and understand 92 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 1: that you are forged in life, I don't know. I 93 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: was on TBN one time when I was doing one 94 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: of my motivational speeches, and I began to wonder about 95 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: this experience I had at Ford Motor Company, and um, 96 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: one of the things that I had came to the 97 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: realization of was that that job at Ford mot Motor 98 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: Company taught me a couple of valuable lessons. First of all, 99 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: that I had to be at work on time, because 100 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: I always was. I had a really, really good work record. Man, 101 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: I was a great employee because I because I didn't 102 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 1: want to disappoint anybody. You know, I already saw the 103 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: look on my parents face when I flunked out of college. 104 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: I didn't I wanted my father to know that I 105 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: was a hard worker. And so when I got the 106 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: job at Ford. I wanted to prove to my father, 107 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: my mother, you know, the the nay says, hey man, 108 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: I know how to stick to something. But my last job, 109 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: after the auto industry start going down, my last job 110 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: was in the foundry and my job was to stand 111 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: at the end almost where the engines first come out 112 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: of the furnace. See, the engines are poured into a mold. 113 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: It's hot, melted down metal whatever they call it, lava 114 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: or whatever. They poured into a mold and it goes 115 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: into this furnace that's extremely hot. And my job was 116 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: after the heat was applied to the engine block, it 117 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: would come through and it would it would go through 118 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: a hardening stage. But the way it was hardening, they 119 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: would cool it. Suddenly they would flush it with water. 120 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: It was just blast water on it. But the fire 121 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 1: and the high temperature is what made the engine block solidified. 122 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,839 Speaker 1: It's because it's gotta get real hot, get melted down first. 123 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 1: Then it's got to get poured into a mold. Then 124 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,599 Speaker 1: it's gotta be pressure, hit with water and all of 125 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 1: this and then it and it's real hot. Now it's 126 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: still hot even though there's water been shadow but when 127 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: it comes out the end of the side, there's a 128 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 1: lot of flashing in it, and flashing is a metal 129 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 1: from that ton dripped through the cast or molding on it, 130 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: just like flecks of extra pieces of metal. My job 131 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: was to hit this engine block in the front, which 132 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: is huge, heavy rubber mallet, knock all the flashing off 133 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: the front, and when it came around back to bam, 134 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: hit it real hard again on the back side, and 135 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: that became the core of what the car is. A 136 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: car without a great engine is nothing. It's just a 137 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: pretty looking vehicle over there. But if it can't do 138 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:46,959 Speaker 1: what it was made to do because the engine block 139 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: then cracked. So you can have a car look real good, 140 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 1: but if it freezes an engine block crack your car, 141 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,719 Speaker 1: you can it's it's over man. You gotta get a 142 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 1: new block. The block is the core. But in order 143 00:09:58,040 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: for you for the car to do what it's got 144 00:09:59,880 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: to to, it's gotta have a strong engine in it. 145 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 1: In order for the engine to be strong, it's got 146 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: to be forged and still come through fire, get poured 147 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 1: in a mold, cooled off, heated, knocked around, beat on 148 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: the front end, beat on the back end, in order 149 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: for it to be what it's gonna be. The moral 150 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: of the story, folks, is you got to get forged 151 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 1: in fire to be what you're gonna be. You got 152 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 1: to get beat up, you got to get pressure washed, 153 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: you got to have heat on you, you gotta get 154 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: melted down, you gotta get poured into a mold. That's 155 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 1: how you become who you are. So the tough things 156 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,479 Speaker 1: that you're going through, the difficult challenges and the setbacks. 157 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:41,319 Speaker 1: I know a brother who went to prison, man, And 158 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:43,839 Speaker 1: and the whole reason he ended up going to prison 159 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 1: because he was looking out the loop window looking out 160 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,599 Speaker 1: in the yard and I'm working out. And then the 161 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 1: next thing you know, man, this brother decided that he 162 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,559 Speaker 1: was gonna go out there and work out. Well, guess what, 163 00:10:54,559 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: he's one of the top trainers in country today. You're ladies, gentlemen, 164 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 1: boys and girls. I have your undivided attention. Please. This 165 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:15,319 Speaker 1: is what's called a p s A, better known as 166 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: a public service announcement. You today will be tested, you 167 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 1: will be extended, you will be privileged mm hmm, and 168 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: you will be rewarded. We are going to find out 169 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 1: how well you drive in a car, how long you 170 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: can hold coffee in your mouth. We will find out 171 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 1: if you will be able to quiet your laughter, to 172 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: wear self maintained and not draw any attention to bosses, 173 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: from bosses or coworkers. You will be tested on your 174 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,679 Speaker 1: billy of it not to laugh at things that you 175 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 1: know good and well you're not supposed to laugh at. 176 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: This is a test today. Come on board. We hope 177 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 1: that you all fail. Yes, Welcome to the Steve Harvey 178 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Shirley, Hey, good morning to you, Steve, Yes, Carl, 179 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: good morning, Happy Monday morning, Uncle Jake. I am now 180 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: on a championship team Baby Champihip teams Lady and gentlemen, 181 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: Thomas Miles your side, Top of the morning, Top top 182 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: top yo. H Well, so so we're done with nephew 183 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: tom I don't know you don't even know who he 184 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 1: isn't well, he knows. They're all. They're all here a 185 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: something here we have yet to meet. Been that he'd 186 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: been out here a week. We ain't talked, text called, 187 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:20,599 Speaker 1: nothing's got to be on you because he has not 188 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 1: next call, tweeted. The only time I talked to Tommy 189 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 1: is on the air with you all. So I have 190 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: decided that this mentory, it's just radio restricted me. That's 191 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: all we got, Connor, Tommy. January is coming to a close, 192 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: twenty night day. What's what's happened? We're good, We're good. 193 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: He won't let me. You know. I'm getting the apartment. 194 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 1: I'm getting settled here. Just hold tight, I'm coming. Excuse me, guys, guys. 195 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 1: If everywhere twenty eight is what I am, excuse me, guys, 196 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: you've got another note. Excuse me, guys. That's not what 197 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: he said. What is he said? January two? That's what 198 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: I was coming to town. Okay, just the first time here, 199 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: so you don't need miner and until the lastness and 200 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: love is all over, and you've made several black states. 201 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: You're black. You're entering going into spring break. Yeah, no 202 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: decisions to the twenty. You'll see what I'm up. All right, listening, guys, 203 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: that's some highlights from last night's Grammy Awards. You're listening 204 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Uh, Steve, 205 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: before we get into the Grammy Talk, go ahead with 206 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: your mentoring session on Okay, before I talk to Tommy, 207 00:14:56,520 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 1: just let me get some guidance myself from y'all, because 208 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: y'all hang out with Tommy. Yeah, if Tommy doesn't want 209 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 1: the mentoring session the first one into February eight I'm 210 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 1: just I'm just trying to not Okay, January twenty ninth, Okay, 211 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 1: so let me say that all of all of this month, 212 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: now we've been to do all of February, y'all don't 213 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: think that he gonna make in the first two months 214 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 1: of a year any decisions about the new year. Oh, 215 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 1: I'm sure absolutely we all have. So what wouldn't you 216 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: think that now my mentory's gonna be like it's always been. Well, 217 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: when you do that, now sign that this time he's 218 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 1: actually he says this time, Steve, he's says he's actually 219 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 1: going to listen to you. You had to say that 220 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: before because he didn't listen, But not just because he 221 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 1: started made the decision. If he's already decided this is 222 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 1: what he's doing. I mean you, really, two thousand and 223 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: eighteen in this business should practically be mapped out by now. Really, well, 224 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: there they're tapped out. There's such things as late bloomer, Steve. 225 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 1: Maybe Tommy's a late bloomer. He's starting a little late. 226 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 1: He fitted in the year, not in his chronological age. Now, 227 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: what he's saying, Shirley is that Tommy he ain't no late. 228 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: That's what late bloomers means. Though. How long Tommy just moved. 229 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: He's got to get settled in. Okay, So you asked 230 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 1: him what was happening to ship? Okay, what's happening Tommy? 231 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: What's going on? I'm right here in case say I 232 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:08,400 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know, surely I said, I said, 233 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:13,440 Speaker 1: you wait until February Twitter eight fall it was you. Okay, 234 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: let me say, let's backtracks moving, Okay, Okay, here we go. 235 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 1: So I'm in l A today, Uncle Steve all the 236 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 1: way to Fry. Do you have any time this week? 237 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: I come up to the show, not where we are. 238 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 1: That's what they did before Junior. We kind of like that, 239 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: you know, they act like they like they worked the 240 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:49,640 Speaker 1: wall and game. I mean even his lunch, this book, 241 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: it's books solid. This is what they did him. That's 242 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: how I got February because we love the schooeze you in. 243 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:03,400 Speaker 1: But you're gonna go that's Mr Team till me right there. 244 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 1: You I mean, he got all his lunche braces book 245 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 1: to Oh my god, when does he eat, When does 246 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: he eat forty five, three, forty six. He's got to 247 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: squeeze that in six. He's got to be finishing. Back 248 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 1: on the We got a drum roll for a date. 249 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 1: I have an Okay, tom can you just give me 250 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 1: and I can start, give me the first subject we'll discuss, 251 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 1: and I can start. I can start texting you information 252 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 1: to even start considering. M M. That's that's that's because 253 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: it doesn't people on the board. Who was the people? 254 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Junior and j We're trying 255 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 1: to work to get you in now. I got two 256 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 1: men recessions already in that because I hand no problem 257 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: going in the back room and asked, right, because you're 258 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 1: already in there. You're there, you're in the building. Well, 259 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 1: he can't get Monday. I got that because man got 260 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 1: two Tommy, you gotta you gotta really have to put 261 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: you probably when are they gonne? That's what I wanted 262 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: to with the Oscars calling Grammys. You still haven't given 263 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 1: him a date. I'm not decorated enough to get all right. 264 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,440 Speaker 1: Last night, the sixtieth Annual Grammy Awards in New York 265 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: City at Madison Square Garden, hosted by Late Night Um 266 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: in car pool karaoke guy you know him James Cordy. 267 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: It has been fifteen years since the Grammys were in 268 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 1: New York City and the show's producers wanted to switch 269 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:58,440 Speaker 1: things up a bit. YEP. After being snubbed and overlooked 270 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 1: in major categories for nearly four decades, hip hop figures 271 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 1: led the pack in nominations. Here Here all Right. Jay 272 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 1: Z had eight nominations, including the Biggest Album of the Year, 273 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: Record of the Year, Song of the Year, and Best 274 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:18,159 Speaker 1: Rap Album. Kendrick Lamar Love Him To followed with seven nods. 275 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:22,919 Speaker 1: Bruno Mars We Love Bruno had six, Then Our Girls Scissor, 276 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 1: She's new to the scene. She's the most Grammy nominated 277 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 1: Woman of the Year with five nominations. Yes she is. Yes, 278 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 1: she is the most Grammy nominated woman of the Year. 279 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 1: She Like I Said. She had five nominations, and she 280 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 1: tied with male artists um Khalide and Childish Gambino. Wow. 281 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 1: There was plenty of musical performances on music's biggest night, 282 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:52,920 Speaker 1: including Childish Gambino, Stay Woke, Pig Scissor, and Kendrick Lamar 283 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 1: with his explosive set with you two and Dave Chappelle. Wow, 284 00:20:57,240 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: take a listen, all right, I'm doing Chapelle and I 285 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,679 Speaker 1: just wanted to remind the audience that the only thing 286 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: more frightened than watching a butt man be honest in 287 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: America is being an honest black man in America. Sorry 288 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 1: for the interruption, Please continue. I got a lot of 289 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 1: guys in this building right now that I still out 290 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 1: of lost to this day. Jay Z nas Puff, you know, 291 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 1: these guys showed me the game through their lives from 292 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:32,159 Speaker 1: close and from afar. So with that being said, this 293 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 1: show for the hip hop real talk. That's love baby, 294 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: Jay for President, nothing for Monique for comedy. Alright, Music's 295 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: biggest night was unbelievable. It was good. But Monday. It 296 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: is Monday, so get ready for Reverend Motown and Deacon 297 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: depth Jam. They're up next with church Complaints. You're listening 298 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of 299 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 1: the hour MS and will be here with today's national 300 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 1: news and of course highlights from last night's Grammys. But 301 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,159 Speaker 1: right now it is time for taking Deaf Jam and 302 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:16,880 Speaker 1: Reverend Motown with today's church complaints. M hm oh yeah, 303 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:30,879 Speaker 1: oh lord, ma, my mama, that's Johnny Gil if you 304 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 1: want to know. Yeah, man, man, man, look we are 305 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 1: here again from this great Monday moon, not to give 306 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 1: thanks but to give complaints. Wait a minute now to 307 00:22:53,800 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: twitch and moan about things going on. Yes, I have 308 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 1: the most ungrateful congregation. We're not every man ever galvl 309 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 1: on the across and who leaves them? Now we bring 310 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: off of the bad news. Just this was my friend. 311 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:29,159 Speaker 1: We are still. I gave him the position of deacon. 312 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: He was working down at the car wash doing wheels. Yeah, 313 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 1: picked him up, turned him round, RASHAWNDI really good ladies 314 00:23:54,320 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 1: and genera uh death jail. Yes, I get mine and 315 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 1: everyone and passed them all in Motown. We have a situation, Pastor. 316 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know about this. The u 317 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:14,399 Speaker 1: f C Church had fighting team, all right. The u 318 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 1: f C Traits Hat fighting team has the first fight 319 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 1: on Saturday against Mount Zion Mission. They're about to church 320 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 1: our very own sister Barbretta Daniels is favored to have 321 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 1: them tapping out in less than one minute. The issue 322 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 1: is that the team wants to paint the church van 323 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 1: with a slogan Sister Slam Squad and uh, it's gonna 324 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,680 Speaker 1: be up to you only if you're gonna let these 325 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:45,440 Speaker 1: sisters paint on the van. I have told his sisters 326 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 1: that Dave got to Martin. Now they have raps, now 327 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 1: that you can do your truck in the wrap alright, 328 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 1: don't make sister barb Bretta man ask you where hell 329 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 1: you cat Bretta can wrap the church. And what the 330 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 1: slogan is again, d the slogan is r R Sister 331 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 1: slam squad. Wrap it in that, But you can't paint 332 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 1: the van. All right, leave the van right and don't 333 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 1: ain't the van wrap it in and make sure to 334 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 1: cross the showwood. Make sure crowds. Of course, a lot 335 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 1: of childs will be trying to cut through craft traffic. 336 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,760 Speaker 1: We need that cross showing culture. Church van's actually all 337 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:34,680 Speaker 1: old used ambulems, right right, all right, here we go, 338 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,840 Speaker 1: I pastor the wig band that had struck again, only 339 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: this time he did not go after the sisters. He 340 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 1: pulled brother sherman baptize wig Off and his wife had 341 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 1: no idea. And yeah, he wants to sue the church 342 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: called Sister Claudine Baptiste is now leaving him. What the 343 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:02,200 Speaker 1: breaking up couples at the church. I don't understand this, 344 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:06,680 Speaker 1: He'll complaine. Let me tell you what. One month time 345 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: the wig band not understanding church gets sued where the 346 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 1: church has not caught the wig bandit pastor and not 347 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,119 Speaker 1: the band is losing his wife because the white didn't 348 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: know about him wearing his hats. He didn't know anything 349 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 1: at all. Well, Degan, I don't really know how the 350 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 1: church is hell loable where you got this wig band 351 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 1: running around and we we we ain't got nothing. Dam 352 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,200 Speaker 1: don't get mad at me. I'm just telling you this 353 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:43,520 Speaker 1: just a city wide crisis, alright. He ain't just open 354 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 1: the here, jackpot I didn't know he was hit another church, yes, yes, 355 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 1: so alright this nationwide? Who knew he taking busses? He 356 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 1: crossed he to cross town week bed all right. I 357 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 1: don't know what to tell him, Okay, I fixed that on. 358 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 1: He has a serious issue. Brother Kurt Franklin, Uh won't 359 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 1: ask the boycott T D. Jake's and the Potter's house 360 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 1: for offering him three hundred and fifth it out of 361 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 1: the scene at three o'clock service. He says he knows 362 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 1: for sure that they paid Fred Hammond five times that 363 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 1: at ten o'clock service. Your thoughts passed on the boycott. 364 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 1: We not getting involved with boycotting anything. Bishop Jake's do. 365 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:41,959 Speaker 1: He has a mega church. We got thirty two members. 366 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: I mean, well, what really, what are we gonna do? 367 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 1: I mean, do we rather want to krect your saying here? 368 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell? Well, let me ask 369 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 1: you this. You gotta get into fight and try to 370 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,200 Speaker 1: whoop somebody you want to. You want to get jumped 371 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 1: on about Kirk wrinkling, or you won't get jumped on 372 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,360 Speaker 1: by Fred heaven, Now i'd have I'd have to Kirk 373 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:05,920 Speaker 1: damp on me. I don't want to bring it a 374 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 1: little last on down here. Let's get a story. We're 375 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 1: gonna leave, having log and having from Detroit, had a 376 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 1: birthday too last week, having come with other issues and 377 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 1: other people your so m alright, so t Kirk. We're 378 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 1: not gonna to our cat with him. Alright, No, no, no, 379 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 1: not at all. Alright, matter of fact, stop that, pastor 380 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 1: come on there, Ah, brother Abraham had a birthday, Kirk. 381 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 1: If you listen, don't Kirk, it's your brother Abraham. Geddrid 382 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:55,320 Speaker 1: has been telling members that he is one percent Hebrew 383 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 1: and that he is from Israel. He alstop telling them 384 00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 1: that most of the people in the Bible he is 385 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 1: kin too. Ah, he's telling them to come have a 386 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 1: private Bible study with him, because you don't. He knows 387 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 1: more than you do that all that might be true, 388 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 1: But he ain't no Hebrew path that his land ain't Geltre. 389 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 1: His last name is Gretry and his first name is Abraham. Yeah, 390 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,240 Speaker 1: let's go over some of the Abrahams that could possibly 391 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 1: be Hebrew other than him. Was Abraham Lincoln Hebrew? N No? 392 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 1: Was Abraham Jackson Hebrew? Not that I know. Abraham Willis 393 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 1: was Hebrew? He was not? Now he was not? So 394 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 1: he and the hell is Abraham gidrill gonna be he? 395 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 1: I have no earth the idea go by? If he 396 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 1: was related all the people in the Bible, why is 397 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: he working down at the toast question? You don't think 398 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 1: that the Lord would all would have done something special 399 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 1: in his life by now? All right, uh, pastor deacon, 400 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 1: And we gotta get out of here, coming up at 401 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 1: the top of the hour. You done at just tas 402 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: you was to the low. More highlights from last night 403 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 1: Grammy Awards and MS and will be here with today's 404 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 1: national news and headlines. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 405 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Steve. Last night, of course, was 406 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 1: music's biggest night. It was the Grammys, the sixtieth Annual 407 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 1: Grammy Awards. They were back in New York City at 408 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 1: Madison Square Garden. This show was really good. Have to 409 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 1: keep me abreast because I noticed it's gonna come as 410 00:30:54,680 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 1: a surprise to you. What I didn't see it just 411 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 1: you weren't glued. You usually washed the Grammys all the time. 412 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 1: I ain't know. Yes, your dare you watched them last year? 413 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 1: We talked about No, I saw Kendrick Lamar and last 414 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 1: night watch it. I just happen to be cutting through, 415 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 1: But I went, I wasn't cutting through last night because 416 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 1: I was glued to NIT. I was glued to TV. Yeah, 417 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 1: all right, humble, come on now. Yeah, the show was good. 418 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: It was good last night. After being snubbed and overlooked, 419 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 1: hip hop led the pack of nominations. Jay Z, Kendrick Lamar, Bruno, 420 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 1: Mars Scissor, Khalid Um, Childish Gambino, DJ Khalid, Rihanna, et cetera. 421 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 1: Here's some of the highlights. Check it out, and the 422 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 1: Grammy goes to Loyalty Kendrick Lamar, and the Grammy goes 423 00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: to your Grammy goes to Damn Kendrick Lamar, and the 424 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 1: Grammy goes to Dave Chappelle and the Grammy goes to 425 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 1: That's what I Like, And the Grammy goes two Funny 426 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 1: Cars and the Grammy goes to four karat Magic Damas. 427 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, you know we absolutely love us from 428 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 1: Kendrick Lamar, some jay Z, DJ Khalid, Rihanna, on and on. Well, 429 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 1: tomorrow is another big night the President of these United States. 430 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 1: That's the deliver to deliver his first State of the 431 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 1: Union speech, is the State of the Union address. So 432 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 1: speaking of being glued to the TV, we got boycast behind, 433 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 1: that's what you mean because he's all you're gonna hear 434 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:08,320 Speaker 1: I probably listen to me. No, no, no, no, all 435 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 1: you're gonna hear. Right right, I did it right, you know, 436 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,200 Speaker 1: I changed the economy. He's gonna talk about the economy. 437 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 1: He's going to talk about the strongest military. He's going 438 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:24,680 Speaker 1: to talk about the lowest rate unemployment for African Americans. 439 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 1: He's gonna talk about the highest numbers in the stock market. 440 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 1: He's gonna talk about all of that. That's what this 441 00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:38,960 Speaker 1: whole thing is going to be focused on, border control, 442 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 1: making this country safe again. That's all He's gonna talk 443 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 1: about the State of the Trump Address. But there's a 444 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: lot of people boycotting. You know, a lot of mayors 445 00:33:52,160 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 1: are definitely boy yeah yeah, yo oh yeah. I mean 446 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 1: you know, come on now, no, just some people have 447 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: decided not to watch. He wants you to watch, but 448 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 1: there are a lot of people who have decided not 449 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 1: to even go and not to watch. But Steve is 450 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,320 Speaker 1: that one black guy gonna be there, you know, you know, 451 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,040 Speaker 1: the one I'm talking about the long Pony Deal or whatever. 452 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:28,840 Speaker 1: He is Trump right right there. So that's going on 453 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:35,919 Speaker 1: tomorrow night. Uh? Is it on Netflix Towork? Yeah, it'll 454 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:40,800 Speaker 1: be everywhere tomorrow night or tonight. It's tomorrow night. Okay, 455 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,280 Speaker 1: i gotta do two shows. I gotta do two shows. 456 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna probably miss it. Do you think? All right? 457 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:50,600 Speaker 1: Miss Anne's here. Come on, let's ladies and gentlemen, she's here, 458 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,479 Speaker 1: miss Anne Trip, Thank you very much, everybody. Good morning, 459 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:57,240 Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. And this is the news. Well, casino 460 00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,719 Speaker 1: mogul Steve Wynn is a reportedly leaving his post as 461 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:04,759 Speaker 1: GOP finance chair amid the purports of sexual impropriety. Steve Win, 462 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 1: a big donor to the Republican Party, has led the 463 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 1: party's national committees fundraising efforts ever since Donald Trump took 464 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 1: office and selected him to do it. However, the Wall 465 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:15,799 Speaker 1: Street Journal reports at a number of women who worked 466 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 1: for Steve Win say they've been harassed or assaulted by 467 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 1: the casino owner, and that one case actually led to 468 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 1: a seven and a half million dollars settlement with the manicures. 469 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 1: That's according to the Wall Street Journal. The RNC says 470 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 1: it has accepted wins resignation. Meanwhile, Florida's Republican Senator Marco 471 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,440 Speaker 1: Rubio says he's fired his chief of staff after reports 472 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 1: of improper conduct with subordinates. President Trump scheduled to make 473 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,319 Speaker 1: his first day the Union addressed tomorrow night. It's as 474 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:42,320 Speaker 1: a suggesting that he's going to sound more compromising than combative. 475 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: We'll see. Trump will reportedly try and sell the nation 476 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:48,359 Speaker 1: on his economic and tax policies, as well as how 477 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 1: he wants to change the country's the immigration is set up. 478 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 1: It's only about a week and a half away before 479 00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 1: the current federal stopgap funding bill expires one component of 480 00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 1: the measure as an immigration deal that protects the so 481 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: called dreamers, young folks board here illegally as kids. The 482 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,160 Speaker 1: president sentiments on the issue, you know, have gone from 483 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,880 Speaker 1: hot to cold. But last week Trump proposed giving and 484 00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 1: the estimated to one point eight million undocumented young people 485 00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:13,719 Speaker 1: a pathway to citizenship in exchange for Democrats backing his 486 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,560 Speaker 1: twenty five billion dollars to finish that borderble. He's talking 487 00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 1: about democrats like Santa Joe Manchin says at the beginning, 488 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 1: Republican Senator McCarthy says, the bills the least promising. I 489 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 1: think the President did the right thing by laying out 490 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 1: where he wants to be, where he thinks the starting 491 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,800 Speaker 1: point is we've got to decide do we go large, 492 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:33,279 Speaker 1: do we go medium, or do we go small. Both 493 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:37,399 Speaker 1: lawmakers were on NBC's Meet the Press and last night's 494 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:41,719 Speaker 1: sixtieth Grammy Awards a ceremony. Bruno Mars won six Grammys, 495 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,839 Speaker 1: uh and including this one for Song of the Year, 496 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,719 Speaker 1: which is, uh, that's what I like, That's what I like. 497 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: Jay Z was nominated for eight, but he was shut out. 498 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: Lifetime Achievement Awards were presented to Neil Diamond Queen and 499 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 1: the always gorgeous and super talented Tina Turner. And that's 500 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,480 Speaker 1: what I again, Tom said. The box office when a 501 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 1: lot of folks watched and like this weekend, they went 502 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 1: to the movies, and yes, there were a lot of 503 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,839 Speaker 1: things coming on for the first time the first time. 504 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 1: For instance, Blade Blaze, Runner of the Death Cure. That 505 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,320 Speaker 1: was the third and final installment. A Blade rund of 506 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:18,359 Speaker 1: Death Cure was number one. They took you because you're 507 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 1: immune blague that's wiping out the human race. They think 508 00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,759 Speaker 1: you're worst sacrificing to find a cure. I don't know 509 00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:29,959 Speaker 1: if they'll find a cure. Eugie the Butterfly twenty minutes 510 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: after the hour, stay tuned to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 511 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:36,240 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, 512 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 1: please introduce Ja, Ja, Please introduce the Butterfly. Happily, Happily downhill, 513 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 1: change your head? How can he come to work? Realizing 514 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:50,080 Speaker 1: that this segment is almost done but it's not famous 515 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,640 Speaker 1: on the embarrassing and humiliating for him, Well, I'm just 516 00:37:53,760 --> 00:38:01,040 Speaker 1: killing him. Do you know a better flack? That? Okay? 517 00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 1: I want to saying too, did you know did you 518 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:15,879 Speaker 1: know he's still here today? Have you known the butterfly? 519 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 1: I know him? Have you seen the butterfly right here? 520 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 1: Good morning everyone, Good morning, Peter. Lift the butterfly because 521 00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:34,640 Speaker 1: he's not here, he's right now. I said, I'm right here. 522 00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't do that. Everything must come to it, 523 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:49,920 Speaker 1: just like him. Good morning everyone, Junior Carlos about the stress, 524 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:55,920 Speaker 1: Good morning, but futter you be strong, great money. I 525 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 1: am strong. I am strong. I am strong. I am strong, 526 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:03,000 Speaker 1: strong in the strike off. Good morning. So just something 527 00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:04,400 Speaker 1: to let you out now that I went to the 528 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:09,560 Speaker 1: Grammys and you did. But I had tar all but 529 00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:11,920 Speaker 1: seats because Tommy got tar with I'm sitting way in 530 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,800 Speaker 1: the back and I wanted to m talk to you 531 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 1: about you in the back, way in the back. Couldn't 532 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 1: see nothing. It's called way in the top. Yeah, well 533 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:30,799 Speaker 1: that's what I mean. But well I've been and let 534 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 1: me just say, had you had better seats, you would 535 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,680 Speaker 1: have had a great time. Yeah. But I want to 536 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,560 Speaker 1: say this, being part of this show and I allowed 537 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 1: to represent the Sea Morning Show, would at least be 538 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 1: on the you know, like tenth thrower or something. Is 539 00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 1: there a way because yeah, because we don't. We don't 540 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:51,680 Speaker 1: really get too much participation with the Grammys, so and 541 00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 1: if we do, Shirley and Cally usually go. But they 542 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,080 Speaker 1: don't even want a guy. I'm the one that wants 543 00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,919 Speaker 1: to be there, and you know they're more important comple 544 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,000 Speaker 1: on it to the show. That's why they get off 545 00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,799 Speaker 1: the Grammar request them. They don't even know who you are. 546 00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,879 Speaker 1: Why are you always so negative to me? They don't 547 00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,680 Speaker 1: know just thing you're saying. My segment is going down? 548 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 1: Damn hell? Why do you do this? So? Why do 549 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:17,680 Speaker 1: you say these things to me? Well? Truth, you're almost 550 00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 1: out of here, Steve, No, what do you want me 551 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:27,279 Speaker 1: to do? Shirley, don't worry about it, because you know 552 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 1: why I've been thinking about it. I've been I've been 553 00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,600 Speaker 1: called to preach and that may speak. That must be. 554 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,959 Speaker 1: What I need to do is to leave this. Hey, 555 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:44,560 Speaker 1: the Lord holds on. Okay, it's good to be here 556 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:51,760 Speaker 1: to murder another hit? Uh coming up at thirty four. Jesus, 557 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve show a right, Steve, it is 558 00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:00,239 Speaker 1: time introduce your boys so he can murder an another 559 00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:05,479 Speaker 1: Jeffrey Brown. Thank you thank you. Bout two more four 560 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:11,000 Speaker 1: sold out shows often Shamee top Coat, TUSI sho under 561 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:18,799 Speaker 1: It hosted by my girl Shirley Stop. I hope she'll 562 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:23,200 Speaker 1: gets on stage because once Shirley Strawberry hits that stage, Steve, 563 00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I'm coming coming tomorrow night. I've got 564 00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 1: so much time, Steve, Please, I'm telling it's crazy. And 565 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,839 Speaker 1: the next week we got Earthquake. Another song right here 566 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,719 Speaker 1: is an honor of the Grammars. I got a lot 567 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:42,359 Speaker 1: of guys in this building right now that I still 568 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:46,200 Speaker 1: out of lostin this day, jay Z nas Puff. You 569 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 1: know these guys showed me the game through their LIGs 570 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,319 Speaker 1: from close and from afar. So with that being said, 571 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 1: this show for the hip hop, real talk, that's love 572 00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:58,720 Speaker 1: Baby Change for President. We went back into the stash 573 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,000 Speaker 1: and we pulled out a by Kendrick Lamar. It has 574 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 1: to do with how the state of the Union is 575 00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:08,440 Speaker 1: gonna be when President Parapo Barack Obama leaves the White House. 576 00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 1: Check it out. All eight years he had some safe 577 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:21,640 Speaker 1: people people all eight years. Day had roped like he's 578 00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 1: almost gone in the phone, his times up, but he 579 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,040 Speaker 1: didn't give funk. And when he leaves a shock. It's 580 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:30,919 Speaker 1: gonna be all white, white people. We're gonna be all 581 00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,280 Speaker 1: white white, brother, week gonna be all white, My sister, 582 00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,320 Speaker 1: it's gonna be all white. Do you him? And do 583 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,839 Speaker 1: you Kimly, We're gonna be all white, right, brother, it's 584 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,719 Speaker 1: gonna be all white, right, sister, it's gonna be all 585 00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:44,680 Speaker 1: white white. Maybe it's gonna be all white due here 586 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 1: and here and they're gonna be all right up. I'm 587 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:50,399 Speaker 1: gonna day comes, Republic comes celebrating shooting handguns the ball. 588 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 1: Could you know they're gonna want to take down replace 589 00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:54,919 Speaker 1: him with the racetrack and her horse down? Oh week 590 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 1: and no, we're talking about the black life. Could you 591 00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,480 Speaker 1: know they put it into my life? Whether he sailed 592 00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:01,800 Speaker 1: in the guard let the highlights not temp Obama, we 593 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,759 Speaker 1: love it. But once he takes like, oh no, no, 594 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,879 Speaker 1: that's a no the TV, no more wrapping in the evening, 595 00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:07,680 Speaker 1: no way back to status quote white is male? Now 596 00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,840 Speaker 1: you feel only playing cut music down reckond b I 597 00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:13,080 Speaker 1: never singer cut before saying there don't like us double trump. 598 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,000 Speaker 1: He ends up too bad hend to re check emails 599 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,840 Speaker 1: on day Bote, but then offline as can be so 600 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 1: your best believe when I say't when you gonna black 601 00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:25,919 Speaker 1: people won't have no vote people instead of raising dope, 602 00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:29,200 Speaker 1: probably end up back in that first show people and 603 00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:31,520 Speaker 1: he ate Rice Goes had a number nine that it 604 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:34,719 Speaker 1: took to go people. He missr Jake's by boat my 605 00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 1: eyes getting what to see Obama godless, it's gonna be 606 00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 1: all white, white people. We're gonna be all white white brother, week, 607 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:44,359 Speaker 1: gonna be all white, my sister, it's gonna be all 608 00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,320 Speaker 1: white doing him, and do you can We're gonna be 609 00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:49,879 Speaker 1: all white, right, brother, it's gonna be all white, right, sister, 610 00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,719 Speaker 1: it's gonna be all white white. Maybe it's gonna be 611 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 1: all white doing him and even gonna be all white people. Week, 612 00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,879 Speaker 1: gonna be all white, brother, week, gonna be all white. 613 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:11,320 Speaker 1: Like amazes to me is your diversity. It's like alarming 614 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:17,040 Speaker 1: to me. How did you know that song? What made 615 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:23,160 Speaker 1: you rewrite it? And it actually was prophecy prophesied in 616 00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,799 Speaker 1: the sin. Yeah, there's gonna be nothing for us when 617 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 1: Trump gets in the white US, and then very much 618 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:32,200 Speaker 1: there's nothing for us. He hasn't come to pass. He 619 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:36,759 Speaker 1: has not He has one cabinet member, yeah, one black 620 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:43,560 Speaker 1: who never see that we never seen and when he talks, 621 00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,840 Speaker 1: he's not seeing you because his eyes is closed in 622 00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:54,120 Speaker 1: the back union here we are union. How long does 623 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,719 Speaker 1: that speech normally like? But thirty it's going to be 624 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:04,360 Speaker 1: from nine pm Eastern. Tell about when he's he's the 625 00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:10,759 Speaker 1: worst speech giver when he's reading. Man, what makes him 626 00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:18,440 Speaker 1: a bad speech giver is he's reading so it's never fluid. 627 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,200 Speaker 1: He doesn't read fluid. And then he goes off script 628 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,520 Speaker 1: and then he got to get back on script. He 629 00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:33,400 Speaker 1: should just go off scripts in front of him. A 630 00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,640 Speaker 1: world of trouble. Yeah, but when he goes we know 631 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:39,560 Speaker 1: how he really feels. That's how he really Yeah, when 632 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:43,440 Speaker 1: he goes on the White House said that. Okay, all right, listen, 633 00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 1: uh when we come back. The nephew has a prank 634 00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:50,240 Speaker 1: phone call right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey 635 00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,759 Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour, 636 00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after today's Strawberry letter, the subject 637 00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:00,959 Speaker 1: me and my man have a little situation. Keep word 638 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 1: little in that, But I'm next nephew Tommy right here 639 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:08,280 Speaker 1: with today's prank phone call. What you got your son too? Fat? 640 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 1: Tommy Fat? They with me? One more time. Your son 641 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:24,839 Speaker 1: too fat? Here? Here? Here? Were you overweight as a child, Jane? 642 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,959 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, all weight as an adult. I can tell. 643 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:33,520 Speaker 1: I can tell he's still bitter about it. I can't 644 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:37,160 Speaker 1: let it go. Yes, jeans and said husky on the back. Yes, 645 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:43,960 Speaker 1: I'm still bitterer. Yeah, run a cat, your son too fat? Hello? Hello, 646 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:47,440 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Cathy. Please. Um. This is hi Kathy. 647 00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 1: This is Kirby. I'm actually the the owner at the daycare, 648 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:55,080 Speaker 1: Mine's daycare when your son comes. Alright, I'm sure you're 649 00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,360 Speaker 1: familiar with my wife, Anita. All right, how are you 650 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:02,360 Speaker 1: doing today? I'm good? Oh, how's a little little divine? 651 00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,960 Speaker 1: How's he doing? He's good. He's laying down taking a nap. Okay, 652 00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:09,120 Speaker 1: you guys been coming here. I guess about a year now, right, yes, 653 00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:12,640 Speaker 1: since he was one. Okay, listen, I wanted to give 654 00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:15,560 Speaker 1: you a call. I'm looking at some some information I 655 00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,040 Speaker 1: was I was Divine doing at home? Is he is 656 00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:21,000 Speaker 1: he eating properly at home? When you say eating, what 657 00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:24,600 Speaker 1: do you mean? I mean? Is he getting uh meals 658 00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 1: every time he's supposed to get them while he's at home? Yeah, 659 00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:32,320 Speaker 1: he's dotting pretty good. Okay, Now there's there's there's no 660 00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:35,799 Speaker 1: situation where you guys may be a shortage of food 661 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:40,920 Speaker 1: or anything like that. Are you uh as the food? No, sir, 662 00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:43,600 Speaker 1: my husband works real good. We don't have a problem 663 00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:45,360 Speaker 1: with as short as the food. Is there a problem 664 00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:48,200 Speaker 1: with him? Well, you know we're looking at the records 665 00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:53,120 Speaker 1: and little divines too. Have you looked at the comparison 666 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,520 Speaker 1: of two year olds the majority of two year olds 667 00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,640 Speaker 1: and in comparison to I guess I should say size 668 00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,560 Speaker 1: and comparison to the bond side, you mean like in 669 00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:05,800 Speaker 1: body way, buddy size. I mean he's a little tall. 670 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 1: You know, he wasn't a small chat when his born 671 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:11,240 Speaker 1: he was ten pounds. But no, he's on the scale 672 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,840 Speaker 1: of right where he should be. He's just a little, 673 00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 1: you know, taller because his daddy is tall. But he's 674 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:21,120 Speaker 1: doing so. You're you don't think he's anywhere in the 675 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:25,239 Speaker 1: in the ballpark of of of of of obesity at 676 00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,719 Speaker 1: two you mean fat? I mean, I didn't want to 677 00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:32,319 Speaker 1: be blunt, but but but Ms Cathy, you're I mean, 678 00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,160 Speaker 1: I mean your sons. Let me just say on a Sunday, 679 00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,960 Speaker 1: I'm relaxed and we're talking about you think my son 680 00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:42,879 Speaker 1: is a little overweight or what he's what's the problem? Well, 681 00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,320 Speaker 1: I mean I think he's fat, you know, and and 682 00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:50,160 Speaker 1: and the problem I'm I'm noticing the records of everything 683 00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,200 Speaker 1: is wait, wait, wait, wait, we need to back up 684 00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:54,960 Speaker 1: to you think he's sat I've never spoken to you, 685 00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,240 Speaker 1: Mr Kirby. Is that what she said? My name is Kirby. Okay, 686 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:00,360 Speaker 1: so every morning that I dropped him off for a 687 00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:03,839 Speaker 1: year and I give my daycare money. Ms Benita has 688 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 1: never said anything about his eating habits. So you're telling 689 00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,440 Speaker 1: me that you think my son is fat with him, 690 00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:11,759 Speaker 1: you deal with him on a daily basis. I don't 691 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 1: deal with him on a daily basis. What I'm looking 692 00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:15,800 Speaker 1: at his records that are showing me that he's eating 693 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,080 Speaker 1: way more than the rest of anybody at the daycare. 694 00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,480 Speaker 1: And not only that, he's drinking probably a gallon of 695 00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,759 Speaker 1: milk a day, all in the milk. Y'all only get 696 00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,680 Speaker 1: snacks two times a day, and he's there only for 697 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:29,920 Speaker 1: breakfast and lunch. And how in the hell is he 698 00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:34,520 Speaker 1: drinking a gallon of milk? And if he is, but 699 00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:36,719 Speaker 1: all I know is this, No, No, I'm blown away 700 00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:38,640 Speaker 1: by this because you're calling me on a Sunday, calling 701 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,640 Speaker 1: my damn child fat. That's the problem. And your wife 702 00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:45,000 Speaker 1: has never said a damn thing. Never has she said 703 00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:46,680 Speaker 1: one thing to me in a year when she collected 704 00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:49,040 Speaker 1: my damn daycare money. She ain't said my son is 705 00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 1: eating y'all at a house at home? Okay, Well, you 706 00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:53,040 Speaker 1: know my wife is a different person, and she tries 707 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,359 Speaker 1: to be cordial with everyone. He's the one who deals 708 00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,239 Speaker 1: with me. Mr Kirby. I've never met you, never met you, 709 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:02,120 Speaker 1: especially on a Sunday. Why I'm calling you on a Sunday, ma'am, 710 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,839 Speaker 1: is that I know tomorrow if you're gonna be trying 711 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,319 Speaker 1: to drop your son off, I am gonna drop him off. 712 00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,279 Speaker 1: I am don know. No, that's that's kind of the 713 00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,360 Speaker 1: reason why I'm calling you. Now. Here's where we can 714 00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:15,279 Speaker 1: do here. Either you can keep him at home. No, 715 00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:18,080 Speaker 1: I'm not keeping him at home. My husband works and 716 00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:20,960 Speaker 1: I work. I'm dropping my damn son off at six 717 00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:24,760 Speaker 1: and he like I do every morning. Because man listening, 718 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:29,840 Speaker 1: if we can't get him on the side, because obviously 719 00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:31,400 Speaker 1: you ain't the one that need to be talking to me, 720 00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:33,799 Speaker 1: because if you're not there every day and I did 721 00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,320 Speaker 1: with your wife. I'm telling you that your son is 722 00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:41,560 Speaker 1: too big to be is coming every morning if that's 723 00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:43,600 Speaker 1: the case, and if he's eating at a house at home, 724 00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 1: I'll send him some extra. But what I paid my 725 00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 1: money for is what you're gonna feed him for two 726 00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:52,160 Speaker 1: full meals and two snacks. And if he needs extra, 727 00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,520 Speaker 1: I'll put some in his bag. But he's drinking a 728 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 1: gallon of milk a day or you looking here, I 729 00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:00,439 Speaker 1: don't care. There's no way possible that he can drink 730 00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,759 Speaker 1: a gull in the milk of day. Here's here's here's 731 00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:04,520 Speaker 1: the deal. I don't want you to have to stop 732 00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:06,480 Speaker 1: bringing your son now, and I'm not and I'm not. 733 00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:10,640 Speaker 1: Here's my second alternative. I will put him on a diet. Okay, 734 00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:13,040 Speaker 1: I'll give him an apple in the day. You ain't, no, 735 00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:16,400 Speaker 1: damn you ain't. Are you from the health food program? 736 00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:18,480 Speaker 1: I will. I will give him an apple and a 737 00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,399 Speaker 1: glass of water in the morning, and I'll give him 738 00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,080 Speaker 1: an apple and a glass of water in the evening, 739 00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:24,040 Speaker 1: and then you guys can feed him when he gets home. 740 00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,680 Speaker 1: You must be certified in the food program, especially if 741 00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 1: you're sitting there telling me my damn son is one 742 00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:31,440 Speaker 1: on a diet and he's not drinking no water and 743 00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:35,000 Speaker 1: no apple. He needs a full snack. If the other 744 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,440 Speaker 1: kids is having an apple and water, then that's that 745 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 1: you better be serving him. But if that ain't the 746 00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:40,880 Speaker 1: case in here, I'll know he better get the full snack. 747 00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:43,080 Speaker 1: So if that's graham crackers and apple juice, well damn it, 748 00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:44,840 Speaker 1: that's what my son better be getting. And if he 749 00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,319 Speaker 1: won't extra, he better get it. Listen, all I'm trying 750 00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,320 Speaker 1: to tell you is your son drink too MUCHY he 751 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:54,439 Speaker 1: drinks too much? Well, well, well you need to back 752 00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:57,239 Speaker 1: the I know you did not cussing me. I know 753 00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:00,640 Speaker 1: I did not cut that you. I'll caught mysel ready 754 00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:02,799 Speaker 1: to come to me. Let me tell you what say. 755 00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:04,560 Speaker 1: You ain't got to worry about it. We don't have 756 00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:07,880 Speaker 1: nothing else to talking about. My husband, me, your wife, 757 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:11,160 Speaker 1: and everybody that works at damn daycare better be there 758 00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:13,759 Speaker 1: in the morning because that's six thirty. We're gonna be there, 759 00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:17,680 Speaker 1: and my son he's coming up week and he gonna 760 00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:21,160 Speaker 1: eat all week. If he woke two gallons of milk, 761 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:24,080 Speaker 1: he gonna drink it. If he want two plates of food, 762 00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:26,520 Speaker 1: he gonna get it. Because I tell you what we say. 763 00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:31,960 Speaker 1: Damn good money to come to that daycare sold up there. 764 00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,279 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna have to put him on some swim fast. Now, 765 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,960 Speaker 1: I will put your child on swim fast. I was 766 00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:40,040 Speaker 1: trying not to give him, but I will ask gives 767 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,240 Speaker 1: him some slim fast, and you're gonna get a slim 768 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:45,880 Speaker 1: fast swooping. I'm gonna whoop y'all that whoever gave it 769 00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:47,880 Speaker 1: to him, whoever gave it to him, They're gonna get 770 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:50,360 Speaker 1: a slim fast shipping all the little kids that have 771 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,600 Speaker 1: some slim fasts. If he getting some, he better eat 772 00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:54,560 Speaker 1: whatever they eat. And if they eating steak, well, damn it, 773 00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,520 Speaker 1: he better have something too. If we had steak, he 774 00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,839 Speaker 1: probably eat the damn cough. He didn't care. I pay 775 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,879 Speaker 1: what but he's been like getting clim fast. I will 776 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,279 Speaker 1: shut it down about my child. Okay, I got something 777 00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:09,080 Speaker 1: else you need to know about your son? What else 778 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,479 Speaker 1: do I need to know besides you think my son 779 00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:15,839 Speaker 1: is overweight? What the elf can you tell me today? 780 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:17,719 Speaker 1: I need to tell you this. I need to tell 781 00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,240 Speaker 1: you that this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey 782 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:25,640 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Your girlfriend Lucresia got me to prank call you. 783 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:31,279 Speaker 1: What did you just say? What did you just say? 784 00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:34,799 Speaker 1: This is Nephew tim Me from the Steve Harvey Morning. 785 00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:39,520 Speaker 1: Tell your girlfriend Lucretia got me to prank phone call you. 786 00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:44,919 Speaker 1: I'm gonna beat that to that. She No, I don't 787 00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 1: play about my nemn son at all. That's my only son. 788 00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:50,759 Speaker 1: I don't play about him. I'm gonna be Is she 789 00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:54,719 Speaker 1: there hear me? It's all after this, It's just all. 790 00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,800 Speaker 1: It is all. Hey, I got one more thing I 791 00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:01,240 Speaker 1: gotta ask you, baby, what is what is the baddest 792 00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,200 Speaker 1: that I mean, the baddest radio show in the land, 793 00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:11,560 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning. It's all. I hope you can hear 794 00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:16,800 Speaker 1: me wherever you Atlantic. It's all what y'all think? I 795 00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:29,360 Speaker 1: think the gang gang of kids, y'all go to Thomas 796 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:32,040 Speaker 1: Miles dot com. Go to Thomas Miles dot com. All 797 00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:35,520 Speaker 1: the information of any Thomas Miles dot com, Thomas all 798 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:39,279 Speaker 1: the information of anyone that Thomas mcrank dot com. And 799 00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,440 Speaker 1: see that's without your mentoring, that's without one mentoring session. 800 00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:44,480 Speaker 1: Was that okay? Was that a bad Was that a 801 00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:48,359 Speaker 1: bad move? A good move? That I do? Okay? Thank you, sir, 802 00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:50,640 Speaker 1: Thank you, sir. I'm gonna make some good moves. We're 803 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,279 Speaker 1: gonna We're gonna make some good Why do you think 804 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:55,879 Speaker 1: that's a good move. That's who he is. He's Thomas Miles. 805 00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:59,239 Speaker 1: Nobody what character he developed, It's still Thomas. Okay, thank you. 806 00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,239 Speaker 1: Coming up of the top of the hour, Today's Strawberry 807 00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:06,799 Speaker 1: Letter subjects needed my man have a little situation. You're 808 00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:10,560 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, did you 809 00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:13,359 Speaker 1: guys see the Grammy's last night? Please hit us up, 810 00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:16,239 Speaker 1: hit us up on Steve Harvey, f M. Tell us 811 00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:19,080 Speaker 1: your favorite moment? Was it Kendrick Lamar? That was a 812 00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:26,000 Speaker 1: great moment. Hi, I'm da Chapelle, and I just wanted 813 00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:29,120 Speaker 1: to remind the audience that the only thing more frightening 814 00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:33,040 Speaker 1: than watching a black man be honest in America is 815 00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:37,480 Speaker 1: being an honest black man in America. Sorry for the interruption, 816 00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:41,320 Speaker 1: Please continue. Jay Z? Was it Bruno Mars? Was it 817 00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:52,440 Speaker 1: Cardi Bar? This couple, jay Z and B Have you 818 00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:57,799 Speaker 1: seen your pictures on the Graham Steve? My wife that's 819 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:02,359 Speaker 1: that's the couple. My wife loves. Yes, they look so good. 820 00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:09,319 Speaker 1: Granted they've been getting at it. JB. Gangster though. Boy. Yeah, 821 00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:14,880 Speaker 1: he's aging well, you know yeah, transitioning from you thank you. 822 00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:18,520 Speaker 1: He's doing Yeah, and of course you are. I know 823 00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:26,320 Speaker 1: that was meant for meat. I'm talking about you. Thank you. 824 00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:32,839 Speaker 1: Jay Z is coming. They're great. They're a great couple. Yeah. 825 00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:43,200 Speaker 1: What about what about damn anything? Anything? I can't Monique 826 00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:49,279 Speaker 1: and Sydney. That's what I'm asking a question statement in 827 00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:58,040 Speaker 1: Trouble Beautiful, We're ready. Time wait, hold on, Tommy, right now, 828 00:56:58,280 --> 00:57:01,400 Speaker 1: it's time for today's Strawberry Letter. If you want our advice, 829 00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:03,799 Speaker 1: all you have to do is submit your Strawberry Letter 830 00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:07,120 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey FM dot com. Alright, nephew, let's go 831 00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:09,680 Speaker 1: just like this one. Buggle up, hold on tight. We 832 00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:13,600 Speaker 1: got it for you. It is the Strawberry Letter. Alright. Subject. 833 00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:18,760 Speaker 1: Me and my man have a little situation. Dear Stephen Shirley. 834 00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:22,320 Speaker 1: I met a gentleman seven months ago. I'm forty five 835 00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:26,080 Speaker 1: and he's thirty seven. When we met, he lived three 836 00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:29,520 Speaker 1: hours away, so he decided to move to my area. 837 00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:32,520 Speaker 1: It's been four months now since since we've been in 838 00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:35,760 Speaker 1: the same city, and I'm starting to see issues with him. 839 00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:39,040 Speaker 1: He didn't have a plan in place, when he moved 840 00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:41,520 Speaker 1: to my city, and now he's living in a shelter 841 00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:44,960 Speaker 1: because I told him he cannot live with me. He 842 00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:48,040 Speaker 1: doesn't have a car and I refuse to drive him around. 843 00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:51,760 Speaker 1: He does have a job. In fact, he's had three 844 00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:54,960 Speaker 1: different jobs since he's been here. He has been fired 845 00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:57,840 Speaker 1: from each job because he has an issue with the 846 00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:02,320 Speaker 1: way people talk to him. See, he has issues with 847 00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:10,760 Speaker 1: being short. He is only five three. I'm out a 848 00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:14,120 Speaker 1: break so I'm not going to do this. Let me 849 00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:18,120 Speaker 1: just say thank you. I told you you were gonna 850 00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,920 Speaker 1: love it, and I asked you enough for you to 851 00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:25,200 Speaker 1: stick around. I'm going to the break room. We're a team, alright. 852 00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:31,000 Speaker 1: He has issues with being short. He's only five three. 853 00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:33,960 Speaker 1: I am five to so his height doesn't bother me, 854 00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:39,360 Speaker 1: but it bothers him. He has short patience with people. 855 00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:42,680 Speaker 1: I believe he's been abused by a woman before because 856 00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:46,320 Speaker 1: he always thinks I'm talking down to him and belittling him. 857 00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:49,960 Speaker 1: I jokingly push these issues to the side, but it's 858 00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:52,880 Speaker 1: getting old. I'm getting to the point where I want 859 00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:56,040 Speaker 1: to end this relationship. Can I help him overcome this 860 00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:58,400 Speaker 1: or should I just let him work through his own 861 00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:09,720 Speaker 1: problems alone? Please help let me get back. You're gonna 862 00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:13,400 Speaker 1: love it, and you're welcome, by the way, You're welcome. Listen. 863 00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:15,640 Speaker 1: You may not have a problem with his height, but 864 00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:19,360 Speaker 1: he certainly does, and you got to let him work 865 00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:21,200 Speaker 1: it out on his own. There are things that you 866 00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:24,080 Speaker 1: can help help him do. I don't know, maybe take 867 00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:26,760 Speaker 1: him to therapy so he can deal with it that way. Uh, 868 00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:29,440 Speaker 1: but there's nothing you can do about his problem with 869 00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:34,040 Speaker 1: his height. You cannot change people. You cannot change him. Uh. 870 00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:37,280 Speaker 1: You've only known him for seven months. Um. It made 871 00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:40,640 Speaker 1: me think, did you see him before you guys you know, 872 00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:42,960 Speaker 1: got together. But I guess you did because you would 873 00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:45,720 Speaker 1: have said that if you didn't. But now he's moved. 874 00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:47,919 Speaker 1: You guys didn't talk about what was going to happen, 875 00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:49,800 Speaker 1: where he was going to live, whether or not he 876 00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:52,560 Speaker 1: had a car. You guys didn't discuss any of that 877 00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:56,640 Speaker 1: before he moved to the same city. How can he's 878 00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,160 Speaker 1: had three jobs since he's been there. He's only been 879 00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:01,720 Speaker 1: there what four months? He has an issue with the 880 01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:05,160 Speaker 1: way people talk to him. This is crazy. These are 881 01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:07,360 Speaker 1: things that he has to deal with on his own, 882 01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:10,520 Speaker 1: and he's probably been dealing with for the majority of 883 01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,680 Speaker 1: his adult life. Uh, you don't care because he's still 884 01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:17,960 Speaker 1: taller than you at five two. So I don't know, Um, 885 01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:21,400 Speaker 1: if you're gonna be able to help him overcome this, 886 01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:24,120 Speaker 1: because he's got to do it first. The only thing 887 01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:26,720 Speaker 1: you can do is to be there to support him. Yeah, 888 01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:30,160 Speaker 1: he's gonna have to work through these problems alone. UM. 889 01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if this relationship is going to last 890 01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,440 Speaker 1: because he can't keep a job. He lives in a shelter. 891 01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:38,959 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, and you want him to do better, 892 01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:42,040 Speaker 1: I'm sure, but he can't because of he has a 893 01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:46,240 Speaker 1: problem with being little. You know, he needs counseling. I think, Steve, 894 01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:55,960 Speaker 1: now I good advice. This is not the time to 895 01:00:56,040 --> 01:01:00,400 Speaker 1: be funny and be rude. Just please don't start it out, Steve. 896 01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm the one to get stupid about Steven Shilling. Now, 897 01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:14,360 Speaker 1: this lady met this man seven. Let me go down. 898 01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:20,680 Speaker 1: I promise you. I'm farted five years old. He thirty 899 01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:30,400 Speaker 1: seven right now, he shot he down eight years he 900 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:34,760 Speaker 1: already he now, he's eight years shot he already and 901 01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:40,120 Speaker 1: equated this the inches. You can believe that you farted 902 01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:44,560 Speaker 1: five thirty seven when we met. He lived three hours away. 903 01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:48,160 Speaker 1: So he decided to move to my area. It's been 904 01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:51,760 Speaker 1: foemost now since we've been in the same city. Here's 905 01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,840 Speaker 1: a line in this letter that really amazes me. I'm 906 01:01:54,920 --> 01:02:01,160 Speaker 1: starting to see issues with him really, So here we go. 907 01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:04,000 Speaker 1: He didn't have a plan in place when he moved 908 01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:08,600 Speaker 1: to my city. He now living in a shelter. Your 909 01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:13,600 Speaker 1: man that you Dayton, the one that moved to your city, 910 01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:19,240 Speaker 1: is now living in the shelter. So when you go by, 911 01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:23,480 Speaker 1: pop in to see him. How's that working for you? 912 01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:34,520 Speaker 1: Where you sit at the shelter? Little man ain't got 913 01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:38,880 Speaker 1: no home. Oh you get in my house. Listen to me. 914 01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:48,360 Speaker 1: Tiny houses they got this boy could have had a 915 01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:55,680 Speaker 1: place by nothing. Tiny house Nation is on TV. Well 916 01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,360 Speaker 1: that part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty 917 01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:05,320 Speaker 1: three after the hour. All right, you're listening, Steve. Al right, Steve, 918 01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:09,000 Speaker 1: come on part two. Now I left y'all with this 919 01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:11,760 Speaker 1: woman dating this shout man. Yeah, me and my man 920 01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:15,840 Speaker 1: have a little situation. Now. She five, he fired three. 921 01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:19,760 Speaker 1: She fired too, So that don't bother her. It's an 922 01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:23,240 Speaker 1: eight year difference in him because she farty five, he 923 01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:27,200 Speaker 1: thirty seven. Now he had the mood into town but 924 01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:29,400 Speaker 1: he ain't got no plan. She won't let him live 925 01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:32,680 Speaker 1: with him, so he lived in the shelter. I was 926 01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:35,280 Speaker 1: just wondering how it is for her when she stopped by. 927 01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:37,920 Speaker 1: How are you gonna see your man at a shelter 928 01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:41,480 Speaker 1: where you sick? Put you into the bed, he's yours 929 01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:44,760 Speaker 1: because one thing I know from being a homeless you 930 01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:47,680 Speaker 1: can't sit on another homeless person stuff. You're bet not. 931 01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:54,160 Speaker 1: That's rule number one. That's all they got. You don't 932 01:03:54,240 --> 01:03:57,960 Speaker 1: touch my grocery cart. You don't put your hand on 933 01:03:58,080 --> 01:04:02,800 Speaker 1: my duck tape, You don't get away from this blanket. 934 01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:07,880 Speaker 1: He doesn't have a job, he doesn't have a car, 935 01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:11,640 Speaker 1: and I refused to drive him around, so now he 936 01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:14,040 Speaker 1: just trying to walk around him in the leg. Well 937 01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:16,920 Speaker 1: he does have a job, he well, excuse me, he 938 01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:18,800 Speaker 1: got a job, but he ain't got no car. You 939 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:24,560 Speaker 1: refuse Now he got to try everywhere. In fact, Tina 940 01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:26,840 Speaker 1: had three different jobs since he's been here. He'd been 941 01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,960 Speaker 1: friving from his job because he has an issue with 942 01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:33,000 Speaker 1: the way people talk to him. And old Lord, how 943 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:37,440 Speaker 1: many times have we run into this? How many the 944 01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:41,760 Speaker 1: right show because we are dealing with this ourselves and 945 01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:43,919 Speaker 1: I want to thank you for the opportunity to give 946 01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:46,360 Speaker 1: us to vent some of the things that we've been 947 01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:49,120 Speaker 1: going through, because we got somebody on this show that 948 01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:51,840 Speaker 1: has an issue with the way people talk to him. 949 01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:56,280 Speaker 1: He stayed touchy, he edgy all the damn time. Some 950 01:04:56,520 --> 01:05:01,560 Speaker 1: always wrong, He always offended. See, he has an issue 951 01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:08,200 Speaker 1: with being short. Jor wouldn't you have an issue with 952 01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:13,280 Speaker 1: being short of you? Five for three now, she says, 953 01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:18,040 Speaker 1: So his height doesn't bother me, but it bothers him. 954 01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:26,200 Speaker 1: He has short patience with people. What you want him 955 01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:30,840 Speaker 1: to have long patience, he don't. He don't like nobody 956 01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:34,880 Speaker 1: cause he edgy. He always assumed it's about his height. 957 01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:38,320 Speaker 1: He produced the thought that we had to produce on 958 01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:41,040 Speaker 1: this show. If you throw a rock in a pack 959 01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:44,800 Speaker 1: of dogs, you wonder, Holly if the one hit. Every 960 01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:48,040 Speaker 1: time we mentioned height on this show, we got one 961 01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:52,640 Speaker 1: person jump to conclusion that we're talking about him even 962 01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,920 Speaker 1: when we're not, Like right now, I can bet you 963 01:05:56,360 --> 01:06:00,160 Speaker 1: he think we talked about his ask right now now, 964 01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:02,520 Speaker 1: she says, I believe that he's been abused by a 965 01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:06,120 Speaker 1: woman before because he always think I'm talking down to him. 966 01:06:06,520 --> 01:06:11,000 Speaker 1: That's because the women he dated with taller. They was 967 01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:16,320 Speaker 1: talking down to him. It happens to Tom. Excuse me, 968 01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:20,280 Speaker 1: it happens to this person we refer to all the time. 969 01:06:23,680 --> 01:06:27,160 Speaker 1: I'm trying outside that's kind of slipped out now. I 970 01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:29,640 Speaker 1: believe he's been abused by a woman because they always 971 01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:32,200 Speaker 1: think I'm talking down to him. I joking. He pushed 972 01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:35,040 Speaker 1: these issues to the side, but he's getting old. I'm 973 01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,520 Speaker 1: getting to the point where I want to end this relationship. 974 01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:40,520 Speaker 1: Can I help him overcome this? I want to answer 975 01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:42,640 Speaker 1: that for you in just a second. Or should I 976 01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:45,640 Speaker 1: just let him work through his own problems alone? Can 977 01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:51,040 Speaker 1: I help him overcome this? No? You cannot, No, you cannot. 978 01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:53,720 Speaker 1: This person can be fifty. You ain't gonna be able 979 01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:59,919 Speaker 1: to help them, because that's a big number. He thirty seven. 980 01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:03,120 Speaker 1: I'd have seen this go all the way up to 981 01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:08,440 Speaker 1: at least I know fit fifty for damn sure, we 982 01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:10,480 Speaker 1: ain't been able to help him yet. Or should you 983 01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:13,480 Speaker 1: let him work through his own problems alone? He can't. 984 01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:17,800 Speaker 1: He has no answers for this because he touches all 985 01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:24,120 Speaker 1: the damn it's always about him. Little people got big issues, 986 01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:28,160 Speaker 1: little man short patients, they got shot legs, They got 987 01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:31,840 Speaker 1: short arms. They're setting up everything about him a shot. 988 01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:37,480 Speaker 1: But one thing about short people, they get a job. Though, 989 01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:44,720 Speaker 1: I don't care what nobody's saying. They always working. I'm 990 01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:48,600 Speaker 1: surprised why he had a shot shorter at five three? 991 01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:53,240 Speaker 1: He could easily sign up for Falster killing. He could 992 01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:56,960 Speaker 1: be in somebody's how get the house? Yeah, he can 993 01:07:57,040 --> 01:08:01,120 Speaker 1: get in the house because he shot. And once again, 994 01:08:01,640 --> 01:08:04,200 Speaker 1: why is he out of work and ain't got no 995 01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:07,720 Speaker 1: where to stay? Why is he in the shelter? Listen? 996 01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:11,680 Speaker 1: I was watching tiny houses the other day, Tiny house Nation. 997 01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:16,519 Speaker 1: This be like a mansion for him. A matter of fact. 998 01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:19,320 Speaker 1: You take this little lass house and you rename it. 999 01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:22,760 Speaker 1: You can call it like a shateau or something. Give 1000 01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:26,880 Speaker 1: it a big name, and it be just for little people. Wow. 1001 01:08:28,080 --> 01:08:31,080 Speaker 1: See that's how you do it. You take a little 1002 01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:35,240 Speaker 1: house and give it a big name. See, you ain't 1003 01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:40,120 Speaker 1: gotta call it tiny house, call it a shaateau. All 1004 01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:43,720 Speaker 1: of the rooms pop out, lift up a lead that 1005 01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:47,599 Speaker 1: was a cupboard for clothes and stuff. It's a bath tub, 1006 01:08:49,560 --> 01:08:54,519 Speaker 1: you understand. You climb up stairs for storage and a 1007 01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:57,160 Speaker 1: little loft. You move that stuff out the way. It's 1008 01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:03,840 Speaker 1: a bunk. Bad man, the stove and the toilet is 1009 01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:09,479 Speaker 1: the same thing that you fixed the food on the toilet. 1010 01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:13,040 Speaker 1: Then you move all the stuff out the way and 1011 01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:14,920 Speaker 1: lift the lid up and you put the food that 1012 01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:18,920 Speaker 1: you just eat down in the toilet. I can't go 1013 01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:21,960 Speaker 1: with you on that one. No, this is for tiny houses. 1014 01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:23,840 Speaker 1: Surely you ain't got too because you have a hole. 1015 01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:28,559 Speaker 1: But the people right here shop people like they can 1016 01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:33,280 Speaker 1: do stuff like that. I've seen it done. Excuse me, 1017 01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:36,800 Speaker 1: tell me you're right, I'm fine. I'm a man. I'm 1018 01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:40,439 Speaker 1: gonna be all right now, you all right, you ain't fine. Yeah, 1019 01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:43,600 Speaker 1: you're a man, But it's two things you ain't. You 1020 01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:51,280 Speaker 1: ain't fine, and you're not tall, and you damn near 1021 01:09:51,360 --> 01:10:01,559 Speaker 1: this letter. We have seen see some of the things 1022 01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:04,120 Speaker 1: that we're dealing with. All Right, Steve, we gotta get 1023 01:10:04,160 --> 01:10:06,240 Speaker 1: out of here. You can email us or Instagram. That's 1024 01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:09,080 Speaker 1: your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at my Girl, Shirley. 1025 01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:11,200 Speaker 1: Please don't forget to join me this Thursday at one 1026 01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:16,160 Speaker 1: thirty pm Eastern Strawberry Letters Live after show on Facebook Live. 1027 01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:20,639 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show Van Jones. 1028 01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:23,320 Speaker 1: You know was our special guest Van Jones from CNN. 1029 01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:26,200 Speaker 1: He has a brand new show on CNN that started 1030 01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:29,800 Speaker 1: on Saturday. Jay Z was his first and very special guest. 1031 01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:33,840 Speaker 1: Van asked jay Z about President Trump and his blank 1032 01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:37,160 Speaker 1: hole comments. He asked him about unemployment for black Americans, 1033 01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:40,200 Speaker 1: and he also asked him about his marriage to Beyonce. 1034 01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:42,640 Speaker 1: Take a listen, we have a president that comes and 1035 01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:47,599 Speaker 1: says every African country is a whole country. How does 1036 01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:49,880 Speaker 1: that land with you as a dad? Yeah, that's it's 1037 01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:53,519 Speaker 1: it's like it's disappointing and it's hurtful. It really is hurtful. 1038 01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:56,400 Speaker 1: More so like if everyone feels anger, but after the 1039 01:10:56,479 --> 01:10:59,160 Speaker 1: anger is really hurtful because like you're like looking down 1040 01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:01,800 Speaker 1: on the whole population to people and you're so missing 1041 01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:06,479 Speaker 1: form because these places have beautiful people and have beautiful everything. Um, 1042 01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:09,360 Speaker 1: And it's just like, this is the lead of the 1043 01:11:09,439 --> 01:11:12,800 Speaker 1: free world speaking like this. But on the other side, 1044 01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:16,840 Speaker 1: this has been going on. It's how people talk. This 1045 01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:18,800 Speaker 1: is how they talk behind closed doors. There was a 1046 01:11:18,920 --> 01:11:22,920 Speaker 1: moment where Donald Sterling had been exposed as this racist 1047 01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:25,680 Speaker 1: on a private phone conversation that he was having and 1048 01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:27,800 Speaker 1: they took his team from it. And it's like Okay, 1049 01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:29,960 Speaker 1: that's one way to do it. But another way it 1050 01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:31,920 Speaker 1: would have been let him have his team and then 1051 01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:35,880 Speaker 1: let's talk about it together unless unless many some penalties. 1052 01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:39,640 Speaker 1: But because once you do that, all the other closet 1053 01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:41,800 Speaker 1: races just run back in the hall. You have you 1054 01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:44,719 Speaker 1: have been fixed anything. What you've done was spray perfume 1055 01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:47,680 Speaker 1: on a trash can. And what you do when you 1056 01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:49,960 Speaker 1: do that is, you know, the bugs come and you 1057 01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:52,280 Speaker 1: spray something, and then they come and then you create 1058 01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:54,880 Speaker 1: a super bug, right because you don't take care of 1059 01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:57,360 Speaker 1: the problem, you don't take the trash out. You just 1060 01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:02,680 Speaker 1: keep spraying whatever to make it acceptable. And then you know, 1061 01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:05,679 Speaker 1: as those things grow and you create a super bugget 1062 01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:08,160 Speaker 1: then now only have Donald Trump the super bulk. I'm 1063 01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:10,880 Speaker 1: being funny. I think I say that too. But somewhere 1064 01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:14,720 Speaker 1: along his lineage, something happened to him, happening, something that 1065 01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:16,400 Speaker 1: happened to him, and he's in pain and he's like 1066 01:12:16,520 --> 01:12:19,320 Speaker 1: expressing it in this sort of way. Well, you know, uh, 1067 01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:23,479 Speaker 1: let me say this, Um, what j is saying makes 1068 01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:27,360 Speaker 1: a great sense because I think when Van Jones was 1069 01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:30,040 Speaker 1: on the show, we even had touched on it. You know, 1070 01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:33,519 Speaker 1: you can say that unemployment is at an all time 1071 01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:39,160 Speaker 1: load for African Americans. But that's not just didn't happen 1072 01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:43,479 Speaker 1: over the past year. I mean, this was some stuff 1073 01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:46,280 Speaker 1: that had been put into place with policy all the 1074 01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:50,000 Speaker 1: way back to the stimulus package to President Obama. Yeah, 1075 01:12:50,040 --> 01:12:52,920 Speaker 1: and it comes around now, it can because he's been 1076 01:12:52,960 --> 01:12:55,080 Speaker 1: the years the president. Can he take some credit for that? 1077 01:12:55,240 --> 01:12:57,120 Speaker 1: Of course he can, and he will and he is. 1078 01:12:57,760 --> 01:13:00,120 Speaker 1: He's taking credit for all. You best to believe if 1079 01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:02,200 Speaker 1: anybody was in office, they'd be doing the same thing. 1080 01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:05,400 Speaker 1: So that part I get. But the part of it 1081 01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:09,880 Speaker 1: is we have the lowest unemployment rate, but we are 1082 01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:14,840 Speaker 1: at our most dysfunctional phase. This is the most dysfunctional 1083 01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:21,479 Speaker 1: I've ever seen this country. I mean, well, in you no, 1084 01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:25,439 Speaker 1: let's let's know, it's not the most dysfunctional I've seen. 1085 01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:30,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I've seen way worse. The segregation of the South, 1086 01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:36,719 Speaker 1: I've seen way worse. But for this to be coming 1087 01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:40,400 Speaker 1: from the White House the way it's coming in terms 1088 01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:45,280 Speaker 1: of policy and rhetoric, I've never seen this at least 1089 01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:49,000 Speaker 1: who and they were doing racial things, they had the 1090 01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:54,400 Speaker 1: at least courtesy to try to mask it with some 1091 01:13:54,760 --> 01:13:58,840 Speaker 1: type of conversation that tried to make you think it 1092 01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:05,000 Speaker 1: wasn't really that races. But now there is no attempting 1093 01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:09,519 Speaker 1: to hide or mask anything. That's what's alarming about this. 1094 01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:12,600 Speaker 1: And I think that jay Z is right. You know 1095 01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:17,000 Speaker 1: you can you can be so wonderfully paid but so 1096 01:14:17,200 --> 01:14:20,960 Speaker 1: miserably unhappy and be sick about it. You know, if 1097 01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:23,000 Speaker 1: somebody pays you a lot of money but treat you 1098 01:14:23,160 --> 01:14:26,240 Speaker 1: horrible at one point in time, man, when you don't 1099 01:14:26,240 --> 01:14:32,320 Speaker 1: spent that money, the treatment outweighs the money, It really does. Example, 1100 01:14:32,760 --> 01:14:34,880 Speaker 1: you can be in a marriage with somebody that's doing 1101 01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:38,000 Speaker 1: really well, and you could be the beneficiary of all 1102 01:14:38,040 --> 01:14:40,559 Speaker 1: this money and all these perks, but if you ain't 1103 01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:43,439 Speaker 1: happy in the marriage, what you got it makes no sense. 1104 01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:46,960 Speaker 1: It's you man. You know how many women walk away 1105 01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:51,080 Speaker 1: from that money? They get up and walk. You can 1106 01:14:51,240 --> 01:14:54,080 Speaker 1: have this money, man. Tina did it in the movie 1107 01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:59,639 Speaker 1: Oh Yeah, I just want my name in a marriage. 1108 01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:02,559 Speaker 1: He talked about that with Beyonce too, with Van Jones. 1109 01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:05,479 Speaker 1: What is it about this marriage is so special that 1110 01:15:05,520 --> 01:15:08,080 Speaker 1: he would fight this hard to keep to save it? Well, 1111 01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:10,800 Speaker 1: it's my soul, mads, person. I love you know, you 1112 01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:12,599 Speaker 1: can be in love with someone. You can love someone 1113 01:15:12,640 --> 01:15:15,040 Speaker 1: and you're not. And if you have an experienced love 1114 01:15:15,160 --> 01:15:17,080 Speaker 1: you don't understand it and you don't have the tools 1115 01:15:17,200 --> 01:15:21,280 Speaker 1: to move forward, then you're gonna have complications. Period. You 1116 01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:23,560 Speaker 1: can either address it or you can pretend until it 1117 01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:26,000 Speaker 1: blows up at some point. You know. For us, we 1118 01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:29,160 Speaker 1: chose to fight for our love, for our family, to 1119 01:15:29,320 --> 01:15:33,160 Speaker 1: give our kids a different outcome you see, see, you know, 1120 01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:37,400 Speaker 1: to break that cycle for black men and women, you know, 1121 01:15:37,560 --> 01:15:39,920 Speaker 1: just to see a different outcome. Like you were saying, 1122 01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:44,320 Speaker 1: it's not this celebrity because we were never celebrity couple. 1123 01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:47,000 Speaker 1: We were a couple who just happened to be celebrities 1124 01:15:48,400 --> 01:15:52,200 Speaker 1: like real people. I mean, that's that's being pretty honest 1125 01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:58,240 Speaker 1: about it. You know. That is exactly how how it 1126 01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:03,559 Speaker 1: plays itself out for who happened. It's just what's sad 1127 01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:08,560 Speaker 1: about it. It's most people don't want to hear the 1128 01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:12,040 Speaker 1: other pain repeatedly over and over because it lasts way 1129 01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:15,559 Speaker 1: longer than you wanted to last. M That's the thing 1130 01:16:15,680 --> 01:16:20,560 Speaker 1: that all someone taught me about seeing seeing cost you 1131 01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:22,560 Speaker 1: more than you want to pay, and it makes you 1132 01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:25,880 Speaker 1: stay longer than you want to stay. That's the cold 1133 01:16:25,960 --> 01:16:28,599 Speaker 1: thing about it. And so when you get in these 1134 01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:32,439 Speaker 1: situations in this relationship, it cost you more than you 1135 01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:34,639 Speaker 1: want to pay, and it makes you stay way longer 1136 01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:36,519 Speaker 1: and you want to stay. And I think what I 1137 01:16:36,600 --> 01:16:39,040 Speaker 1: heard him say was clear. You got to hear the 1138 01:16:39,120 --> 01:16:41,760 Speaker 1: other person's pain, and it's uncomfortable, and it takes some 1139 01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:45,000 Speaker 1: time because they gotta wash through. But most people want 1140 01:16:45,000 --> 01:16:47,760 Speaker 1: to walk away before I said, I'm sorry that. That's 1141 01:16:47,800 --> 01:16:50,439 Speaker 1: what I respect about that situation the most, that they 1142 01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:53,559 Speaker 1: hung in there and try to work it out. They 1143 01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,800 Speaker 1: worked on it. It takes work after something like that, 1144 01:16:57,080 --> 01:16:59,200 Speaker 1: and you can you it's a choice that you make 1145 01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:02,479 Speaker 1: to either stay or leave. And it's tough, man, It's 1146 01:17:02,520 --> 01:17:05,160 Speaker 1: not easy. Hey, listen. Coming up at the top of 1147 01:17:05,200 --> 01:17:09,519 Speaker 1: the hour, Jays put together a segment called Phrases that 1148 01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:12,759 Speaker 1: let you know you didn't do well in the bedroom. 1149 01:17:15,760 --> 01:17:24,559 Speaker 1: Right after this, I've apparently I speak from what I knew. 1150 01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:30,320 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Okay, Steve 1151 01:17:30,479 --> 01:17:33,320 Speaker 1: j is here your friend, the one you hire, the 1152 01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:38,360 Speaker 1: one your your road dog back in the day. Come on, Jay, 1153 01:17:38,439 --> 01:17:41,560 Speaker 1: Phrases that let you know you didn't do with all phrases, 1154 01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:46,960 Speaker 1: every man Once you hear these phrases, they automatically let 1155 01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:52,240 Speaker 1: you know did not do a good job. We all 1156 01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:59,120 Speaker 1: been there, we've all we've all had some bad Yeah. Yeah, 1157 01:18:01,040 --> 01:18:13,720 Speaker 1: jor what man, let you know you have not done it? 1158 01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:18,960 Speaker 1: Like here's one. Here's one. H is that it? Yeah? 1159 01:18:22,840 --> 01:18:30,639 Speaker 1: Is that you've been told that? Yeah and paid money? Wow, 1160 01:18:31,120 --> 01:18:35,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, Tommy, now your money back. This one's on 1161 01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:42,040 Speaker 1: the house. Oh man, this one's now all right. Come on, 1162 01:18:42,160 --> 01:18:46,400 Speaker 1: young junior. Oh what I've heard? What time is your 1163 01:18:46,479 --> 01:18:58,839 Speaker 1: game coming on? What time is your game coming on? Nephew, 1164 01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:04,280 Speaker 1: the worst one I've heard. You got to be kidding, 1165 01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:11,880 Speaker 1: really like that. You got to be kidding, all right. 1166 01:19:11,960 --> 01:19:14,640 Speaker 1: These are phrases that let you know, guys that you 1167 01:19:14,720 --> 01:19:17,799 Speaker 1: didn't do a good job in the bedroom. Come on, Steve, 1168 01:19:19,240 --> 01:19:25,800 Speaker 1: that's okay. You don't have to call me as well. 1169 01:19:26,720 --> 01:19:30,800 Speaker 1: I don't even worry about it. This one, thank you. 1170 01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:34,639 Speaker 1: Absolutely don't no, don't come. I got you tomorrow. I'll 1171 01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:37,280 Speaker 1: call you when to get in. And that's that's okay. 1172 01:19:38,040 --> 01:19:39,960 Speaker 1: This is one that really lets you know you're not 1173 01:19:40,160 --> 01:19:43,160 Speaker 1: doing a damn thing in the bedroom. This one right here, 1174 01:19:43,760 --> 01:19:46,880 Speaker 1: this one right here, this is it's d just stop. 1175 01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:55,960 Speaker 1: Just hold up stop stop stop stop stop stop clothes 1176 01:19:56,120 --> 01:20:09,559 Speaker 1: stop just no, no, stop, damn it stop. Yeah that's true, junior. Well, 1177 01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:11,960 Speaker 1: if they got enough energy just to make a regular statement, 1178 01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:14,120 Speaker 1: which normally what I get after I finished, some time 1179 01:20:15,120 --> 01:20:18,840 Speaker 1: they finished, you just say pass my phone, the phone 1180 01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:21,680 Speaker 1: off the night stand. Now I'm over here, this passing stuff, Nick, 1181 01:20:23,800 --> 01:20:27,320 Speaker 1: you gotta see what's up the ground. You're doing terrible. 1182 01:20:28,920 --> 01:20:32,519 Speaker 1: Ain't nothing like rolls over neck and passing somebody phone. Enough, 1183 01:20:33,360 --> 01:20:35,360 Speaker 1: But in your mind, are you thinking you killed it? 1184 01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:42,960 Speaker 1: She just told me as come on the phrases to 1185 01:20:43,120 --> 01:20:45,880 Speaker 1: let you know you didn't do well in the bedroom. Guys, 1186 01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:53,479 Speaker 1: is this why you left your car running? This is this? This? 1187 01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:56,519 Speaker 1: This this the reason right here. I ain't gonna being 1188 01:20:56,560 --> 01:21:02,760 Speaker 1: here but at right back here. No, no, I don't 1189 01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:11,960 Speaker 1: need a cigarette. I'm good. Do not need a cigarette 1190 01:21:12,960 --> 01:21:18,800 Speaker 1: that I got one right here? This one really hurt 1191 01:21:18,920 --> 01:21:30,920 Speaker 1: right here, this right here. Seriously, don't leave your wife home, okay, 1192 01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:41,519 Speaker 1: precious crash press, don't you leave your house. U. You 1193 01:21:41,640 --> 01:21:47,720 Speaker 1: can't bring that over here. I can't. Wow, guys, I'll 1194 01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:49,320 Speaker 1: tell you what. That's that's what I knew. I wasn't 1195 01:21:49,320 --> 01:21:52,439 Speaker 1: doing a good job and said, tell my son. I said, 1196 01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:59,200 Speaker 1: come here? What what tell my son? I said, come here? 1197 01:21:59,600 --> 01:22:05,160 Speaker 1: Come this is finish? Yeah? So you yeah, she back 1198 01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:07,600 Speaker 1: on it. You're inviting people in here now I'm in 1199 01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:19,599 Speaker 1: the bab Your mama said, come in want you? Why 1200 01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:21,840 Speaker 1: don't you just why don't you just wake me up 1201 01:22:21,880 --> 01:22:26,920 Speaker 1: when you think? Just wake me up? When you throw 1202 01:22:27,680 --> 01:22:34,559 Speaker 1: you didn't put her to sleep on her own phrases 1203 01:22:34,600 --> 01:22:36,200 Speaker 1: and let you know you didn't do such a good 1204 01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:38,960 Speaker 1: job in the bach in the room. Come on, Mr Harvey, 1205 01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:42,080 Speaker 1: what you got? You know what you need? Joe ass 1206 01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:55,680 Speaker 1: like that? Really? Oh my brother? O you guys go 1207 01:22:55,880 --> 01:23:01,320 Speaker 1: through it. J oh yeah, So time does you get here? 1208 01:23:02,880 --> 01:23:14,559 Speaker 1: You want you out immediately like the movie get out? Yeah, Jay, 1209 01:23:14,640 --> 01:23:19,760 Speaker 1: this is hard, but I remember this moment too. You're 1210 01:23:19,760 --> 01:23:26,599 Speaker 1: gonna tell what up? What you gonna tell? So that's 1211 01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:39,479 Speaker 1: I'm told. I'm talking. You did your thing? Phrases that 1212 01:23:39,640 --> 01:23:41,800 Speaker 1: let you know you didn't do a good job in 1213 01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:47,840 Speaker 1: the bedroom. Baby you you you must have ticked around peel. 1214 01:23:51,040 --> 01:23:52,880 Speaker 1: That can't be the one you was trying to take. 1215 01:23:52,920 --> 01:24:01,280 Speaker 1: That can't be. Oh, I don't want to be you guys, Steve, 1216 01:24:01,880 --> 01:24:05,280 Speaker 1: this is a text that you get on your way home. 1217 01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:08,479 Speaker 1: After you get home, you thank you too, did something? 1218 01:24:09,640 --> 01:24:12,000 Speaker 1: You got that little emoed you with the sad face 1219 01:24:12,160 --> 01:24:17,800 Speaker 1: on it with the upside down from dot dot dot. 1220 01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:25,600 Speaker 1: You didn't do a damn thing. You said? You what 1221 01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:35,519 Speaker 1: you alright? More of the craziness coming up at twenty 1222 01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:39,080 Speaker 1: after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to the 1223 01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:43,599 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, today is Oprah's sixty four 1224 01:24:43,880 --> 01:24:48,040 Speaker 1: birthday and Oprah Happy Birthday, Oprah. Oprah set the record 1225 01:24:48,080 --> 01:24:50,360 Speaker 1: straight on whether she'll run for president in two thousand 1226 01:24:51,360 --> 01:24:55,160 Speaker 1: and it's a no. I think we've heard that, she says, no, 1227 01:24:56,320 --> 01:25:00,040 Speaker 1: she did. She recently revealed it's it's always very a 1228 01:25:00,160 --> 01:25:02,519 Speaker 1: cure and confident. She's always been a very secure and 1229 01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:05,560 Speaker 1: confident person in knowing what she could do and what 1230 01:25:05,720 --> 01:25:08,519 Speaker 1: she could not do. And so it's not something that 1231 01:25:08,680 --> 01:25:11,479 Speaker 1: interests her. Meaning running for president is not something that 1232 01:25:11,640 --> 01:25:13,960 Speaker 1: interests her at this time. She says she doesn't have 1233 01:25:14,040 --> 01:25:17,080 Speaker 1: the DNA for it. You're you're good with that, right, Steve, Yeah, 1234 01:25:17,200 --> 01:25:20,880 Speaker 1: that's perfect. She don't need that man, Yeah, in her life. Yeah, 1235 01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:23,599 Speaker 1: she don't need that at all. She didn't worked really hard, 1236 01:25:24,200 --> 01:25:27,639 Speaker 1: built a great career. You know, she's worked hard. She's 1237 01:25:27,720 --> 01:25:30,040 Speaker 1: just going out and new Joyce. So you can't accomplish 1238 01:25:30,080 --> 01:25:35,639 Speaker 1: anything in government. I've learned. You can't accomplish anything in government. 1239 01:25:35,920 --> 01:25:40,920 Speaker 1: You can't get anything done. Yeah. Oprah even mentioned that 1240 01:25:41,160 --> 01:25:44,120 Speaker 1: her best girlfriend, Gail King, gets stopped all the time 1241 01:25:44,200 --> 01:25:46,479 Speaker 1: by people asking if Oprah is going to run, but 1242 01:25:46,560 --> 01:25:49,559 Speaker 1: Gail knows it wouldn't be a fit for her friend. Uh, 1243 01:25:49,760 --> 01:25:53,360 Speaker 1: it would only be good for everyone else, not for Oprah. 1244 01:25:54,000 --> 01:25:56,400 Speaker 1: So we say happy birthday, Oprah, and thank you for 1245 01:25:56,520 --> 01:25:59,680 Speaker 1: setting the record straight. Okay, because it was good when 1246 01:25:59,760 --> 01:26:02,759 Speaker 1: people we're talking about it. You know, wow, if president 1247 01:26:03,920 --> 01:26:06,280 Speaker 1: only because we wanted we we just knew, would be 1248 01:26:06,360 --> 01:26:10,800 Speaker 1: better than what was in there right now. Yeah yeah, no, 1249 01:26:11,000 --> 01:26:13,720 Speaker 1: let me you know, ignorant stuff wouldn't be coming out 1250 01:26:13,800 --> 01:26:18,120 Speaker 1: of her mouth. But they will not do it right. Yeah, 1251 01:26:18,760 --> 01:26:20,719 Speaker 1: it's no way they would do it right. It would 1252 01:26:20,720 --> 01:26:24,800 Speaker 1: be horrible. Man, When do you think another black man 1253 01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:30,639 Speaker 1: or woman could become president? Steve in the next election 1254 01:26:31,080 --> 01:26:35,880 Speaker 1: but her seeable future? Yeah but who Uh Corey Booker 1255 01:26:35,960 --> 01:26:39,240 Speaker 1: comes to mind. That's about it right now. Kamala Harris 1256 01:26:39,320 --> 01:26:49,040 Speaker 1: out of California Yeah, Sydney for president Goodney, Monique, Sydney Monika, 1257 01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:54,240 Speaker 1: y'all don't even be paying attention. Not a politician. I like, 1258 01:26:54,600 --> 01:27:01,280 Speaker 1: I like your stupid. Ain't gonna like for real? He 1259 01:27:01,400 --> 01:27:10,000 Speaker 1: is you love us? For real? Jack? You say you 1260 01:27:10,080 --> 01:27:15,479 Speaker 1: know she should meet? She texted me did Yeah, she 1261 01:27:15,560 --> 01:27:19,040 Speaker 1: said she wants to talk to me. Sugar brother brother 1262 01:27:19,640 --> 01:27:24,240 Speaker 1: love man. I'm not messing a Monique. Man who different 1263 01:27:24,280 --> 01:27:29,839 Speaker 1: weight class. I ain't messing with that man weight class. Apologize, Monique, 1264 01:27:29,840 --> 01:27:34,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, take it all back. I don't. I don't 1265 01:27:34,040 --> 01:27:38,200 Speaker 1: know what to say after that. I just saying that. Yeah, okay, 1266 01:27:38,280 --> 01:27:40,320 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1267 01:27:41,080 --> 01:27:45,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. Should we gonna break here? 1268 01:27:49,120 --> 01:27:56,400 Speaker 1: What's in the world? Jake just jokes he's a comedian. 1269 01:27:56,520 --> 01:27:58,880 Speaker 1: She's a comedian. But yeah, remember, why don't you call 1270 01:27:58,960 --> 01:28:02,120 Speaker 1: it though? I ain't got nothing to say to Moniq. No, 1271 01:28:02,320 --> 01:28:05,080 Speaker 1: you're know you're writing songs and god, that's what But 1272 01:28:05,160 --> 01:28:09,760 Speaker 1: that's what I do, is not what I do. Talked 1273 01:28:09,800 --> 01:28:13,559 Speaker 1: about it, you ask people about the boycott. Yeah, I'm 1274 01:28:13,600 --> 01:28:17,360 Speaker 1: surprised he hasn't written a song. I'm surprised. Yeah, he 1275 01:28:17,479 --> 01:28:21,720 Speaker 1: did that's right? Got song a song? I don't all 1276 01:28:21,760 --> 01:28:27,080 Speaker 1: about that? Base? Yeah? All about yeah? Who does people 1277 01:28:27,320 --> 01:28:30,800 Speaker 1: you talk about? I don't confronts talk about who does that? 1278 01:28:31,400 --> 01:28:37,920 Speaker 1: Just stupid passive aggressiveness. I don't live like that. Who 1279 01:28:38,040 --> 01:28:43,840 Speaker 1: lives that? Dan that dangerous? I defend it's not what 1280 01:28:43,920 --> 01:28:51,120 Speaker 1: it's about. Jay got that right? Yeah, totally doing but 1281 01:28:51,680 --> 01:28:56,360 Speaker 1: is just jokes. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1282 01:28:57,120 --> 01:29:00,320 Speaker 1: All right, Steve. Last night, of course, was music's big tonight. 1283 01:29:00,360 --> 01:29:03,519 Speaker 1: It was the Grammys, the sixtieth Annual Grammy Awards. They 1284 01:29:03,560 --> 01:29:05,719 Speaker 1: were back in New York City at Madison Square Garden. 1285 01:29:06,080 --> 01:29:08,559 Speaker 1: This show was really good. Have to keep me abreast 1286 01:29:08,600 --> 01:29:12,000 Speaker 1: because I noticed it's gonna come as a surprise to you. 1287 01:29:12,560 --> 01:29:21,120 Speaker 1: What I didn't see it. You weren't glued. You usually 1288 01:29:21,200 --> 01:29:25,599 Speaker 1: watched the Grammys all the time. I ain't know washing. Yes, 1289 01:29:25,680 --> 01:29:27,800 Speaker 1: you dare you watched them last year. We talked about. No. 1290 01:29:27,960 --> 01:29:32,960 Speaker 1: I saw Kendrick Lamar before and the last night watch it. 1291 01:29:33,080 --> 01:29:35,160 Speaker 1: I just happened to be cutting through, but I would 1292 01:29:35,200 --> 01:29:37,360 Speaker 1: I wasn't cutting through last night because I was glued 1293 01:29:37,400 --> 01:29:44,000 Speaker 1: to NIT. I was glued to TV. Al Right, Humble, 1294 01:29:44,120 --> 01:29:49,360 Speaker 1: come on Now. Yeah, the show was good. It was 1295 01:29:49,439 --> 01:29:52,519 Speaker 1: good last night. After being snubbed and overlooked, hip hop 1296 01:29:52,640 --> 01:29:55,679 Speaker 1: led the pack of nominations jay Z, Kendrick Lamar, Bruno, 1297 01:29:55,800 --> 01:30:02,160 Speaker 1: Marris Scissor, kalid Um, Childish Gambino, DJ Kalid, Rihanna, et cetera. 1298 01:30:02,280 --> 01:30:04,760 Speaker 1: Here's some of the highlights. Check it out. All right, 1299 01:30:07,880 --> 01:30:12,560 Speaker 1: I'm doing Chapelle and I just wanted to remind the 1300 01:30:12,640 --> 01:30:15,680 Speaker 1: audience that the only thing more frightening than watching a 1301 01:30:15,800 --> 01:30:19,759 Speaker 1: black man be honest in America, it's being an honest 1302 01:30:19,800 --> 01:30:24,320 Speaker 1: black man in America. Sorry for the interruption, Please continue. 1303 01:30:24,880 --> 01:30:26,479 Speaker 1: I got a lot of guys in this building right 1304 01:30:26,479 --> 01:30:28,080 Speaker 1: now that I still out of last in his day, 1305 01:30:28,200 --> 01:30:32,600 Speaker 1: jay Z nas Puff. You know, these guys showed me 1306 01:30:32,680 --> 01:30:35,360 Speaker 1: the game through their legs from close and from afar. 1307 01:30:36,000 --> 01:30:38,519 Speaker 1: So with that being said, this show for the hip 1308 01:30:38,560 --> 01:30:41,880 Speaker 1: hop real talk. That's love baby for President, all right, Steve, 1309 01:30:41,960 --> 01:30:44,760 Speaker 1: you know we absolutely love us. From Kendrick Lamar, some 1310 01:30:44,960 --> 01:30:49,240 Speaker 1: jay Z, DJ Khaled, Rihanna, on and on. Well, tomorrow 1311 01:30:49,760 --> 01:30:53,799 Speaker 1: is another big night the President of these United States. 1312 01:30:55,400 --> 01:30:59,720 Speaker 1: That's the deliver to deliver his first State of the 1313 01:30:59,840 --> 01:31:03,519 Speaker 1: u in speech. Is the State of the Union address. So, 1314 01:31:03,680 --> 01:31:06,120 Speaker 1: speaking of being glued to the TV, we're gonna boycast. 1315 01:31:07,320 --> 01:31:14,400 Speaker 1: That's because he's all you're gonna hear I probably listen 1316 01:31:14,439 --> 01:31:17,400 Speaker 1: to me. No, no, no, no, all you're gonna hear 1317 01:31:17,640 --> 01:31:22,679 Speaker 1: right right, I did it right, you know, I changed 1318 01:31:22,680 --> 01:31:25,360 Speaker 1: the economy. He's gonna talk about the economy. He's going 1319 01:31:25,400 --> 01:31:28,360 Speaker 1: to talk about the strongest military. He's going to talk 1320 01:31:28,400 --> 01:31:33,960 Speaker 1: about the lowest rate unemployment for African Americans. He's gonna 1321 01:31:34,040 --> 01:31:38,840 Speaker 1: talk about the highest numbers in the stock market. He's 1322 01:31:38,880 --> 01:31:41,840 Speaker 1: gonna talk about all of that. That's what this whole 1323 01:31:41,920 --> 01:31:47,320 Speaker 1: thing is going to be focused on, border control, making 1324 01:31:47,360 --> 01:31:51,439 Speaker 1: this country safe again. That's all he's gonna talk about 1325 01:31:51,560 --> 01:31:56,040 Speaker 1: the state of the Trump address. But there's a lot 1326 01:31:56,120 --> 01:32:00,160 Speaker 1: of people boycotting, you know, a lot of mayors mid 1327 01:32:00,200 --> 01:32:06,360 Speaker 1: Boy Oh yeah, Georgia, Oh yeah, I mean you know, 1328 01:32:06,600 --> 01:32:12,559 Speaker 1: come on now, whole no, just some people have decided 1329 01:32:12,640 --> 01:32:15,800 Speaker 1: not to watch. He wants you to watch, but there 1330 01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:17,280 Speaker 1: are a lot of people who have decided not to 1331 01:32:17,360 --> 01:32:19,519 Speaker 1: even go and not to watch. But Steve is that 1332 01:32:19,720 --> 01:32:22,080 Speaker 1: one black guy gonna be there. You know, you know 1333 01:32:22,320 --> 01:32:25,800 Speaker 1: what I'm talking about with the long Pony deal or whatever. 1334 01:32:25,880 --> 01:32:31,000 Speaker 1: He is yeah, right right there. So that's going on 1335 01:32:31,160 --> 01:32:37,840 Speaker 1: tomorrow night. Uh is it on Netflix tomorrow every nightwork? Yeah, 1336 01:32:37,880 --> 01:32:42,120 Speaker 1: it'll be everywhere tomorrow night or tonight. It's tomorrow night. 1337 01:32:42,320 --> 01:32:45,120 Speaker 1: I got the two shows I'm probably missing. All right, 1338 01:32:45,200 --> 01:32:48,519 Speaker 1: we'll be back with Steve's closing remarks. They are back. 1339 01:32:49,160 --> 01:32:54,000 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Show, Last break of the day, Steve. 1340 01:32:57,720 --> 01:33:00,519 Speaker 1: Just one more thing you're closing remarks? Are before I 1341 01:33:00,600 --> 01:33:02,719 Speaker 1: do that? I want to can I have one open 1342 01:33:02,840 --> 01:33:06,400 Speaker 1: mintory session with Tommy? Right? Of course? The first thing 1343 01:33:06,479 --> 01:33:13,880 Speaker 1: that we will tell now that no Shirley answer she 1344 01:33:13,960 --> 01:33:18,759 Speaker 1: wants to hear. We need two things at the beginning edition. 1345 01:33:20,080 --> 01:33:23,760 Speaker 1: Two things to begin to year with. We need a 1346 01:33:23,880 --> 01:33:29,720 Speaker 1: very competent assistant. We're working on that. Who No, I 1347 01:33:29,800 --> 01:33:32,559 Speaker 1: didn't say you wasn't. I was just saying this what's needed. 1348 01:33:33,320 --> 01:33:45,320 Speaker 1: A very competent assistant who knows more than you. Second thing, yeah, 1349 01:33:45,960 --> 01:33:50,759 Speaker 1: we need a booking system. You should use a travel 1350 01:33:50,880 --> 01:33:55,120 Speaker 1: agent to book your flights. Yes, sir. They can find 1351 01:33:55,240 --> 01:33:59,080 Speaker 1: discounts for you and I think they have ends and 1352 01:33:59,200 --> 01:34:01,760 Speaker 1: outs in more knowledge about when you can fly. It 1353 01:34:02,400 --> 01:34:08,120 Speaker 1: helps say those two things we should work on, yes, sir, yeah, 1354 01:34:08,280 --> 01:34:12,760 Speaker 1: and then I think that one we meet, I will 1355 01:34:12,880 --> 01:34:17,280 Speaker 1: too it. But since because February twenty, well, hell what 1356 01:34:17,360 --> 01:34:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do. Maybe you can wait till February. 1357 01:34:20,960 --> 01:34:25,400 Speaker 1: I can't, but that was busy. But until then, those 1358 01:34:25,439 --> 01:34:31,000 Speaker 1: are two good mentoring tips. Tommy. Don't you think he 1359 01:34:31,080 --> 01:34:35,280 Speaker 1: won't stay. I'm fine. I'm fine with what. I gotta 1360 01:34:35,280 --> 01:34:37,960 Speaker 1: go and see my family. Stay. Come on now, Doc, 1361 01:34:38,080 --> 01:34:41,160 Speaker 1: I ain't saying where you're going. I just stated the 1362 01:34:41,280 --> 01:34:44,520 Speaker 1: fact that you won't stay in town. So and I'm available. 1363 01:34:44,560 --> 01:34:52,080 Speaker 1: He gone, Well, weekend, you only weekend. I mean I 1364 01:34:52,200 --> 01:34:58,040 Speaker 1: really can't see you during the week, and I can 1365 01:34:58,240 --> 01:35:01,000 Speaker 1: say you're doing a week? Who needs the mentor it? 1366 01:35:02,280 --> 01:35:07,600 Speaker 1: I don't need memory all the people that mentor me. 1367 01:35:07,760 --> 01:35:10,120 Speaker 1: I'm on the schedule. Did you bring up a very 1368 01:35:10,160 --> 01:35:12,560 Speaker 1: good point? Man? Tell me you have any advice for 1369 01:35:12,680 --> 01:35:18,280 Speaker 1: your Can I say this though? I text Bishop Jake's, 1370 01:35:18,880 --> 01:35:23,920 Speaker 1: I text Bishop Getties, I text Bishop Over, I text 1371 01:35:24,120 --> 01:35:30,719 Speaker 1: Joe Old Steve, I text Robert. I text okay, okay, 1372 01:35:32,640 --> 01:35:35,200 Speaker 1: let me jump. When I text you, you don't respond. 1373 01:35:35,760 --> 01:35:38,240 Speaker 1: I respond to everything, But what all you do is 1374 01:35:38,280 --> 01:35:41,680 Speaker 1: put me in group text me. When I text you, 1375 01:35:41,960 --> 01:35:44,240 Speaker 1: I text you last week. You said, what the blank 1376 01:35:44,320 --> 01:35:51,479 Speaker 1: you want? Okay, but what did you want to blank 1377 01:35:52,000 --> 01:35:55,120 Speaker 1: you want? I'm not responding. Need a day or two. 1378 01:35:55,200 --> 01:35:57,920 Speaker 1: The digest when he said, Steve, as you heard his feelings, 1379 01:35:58,720 --> 01:36:01,479 Speaker 1: he got time to worry about that. He talked to 1380 01:36:01,560 --> 01:36:07,240 Speaker 1: everybody like that though, But he's why he's taking a 1381 01:36:07,360 --> 01:36:09,800 Speaker 1: personal sme. That was the text. Do you want the 1382 01:36:09,840 --> 01:36:15,600 Speaker 1: information or you want this kindness? Steve, you read the 1383 01:36:15,680 --> 01:36:19,360 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. He has issues with how people talk to 1384 01:36:19,520 --> 01:36:24,960 Speaker 1: him short fifty years Shirley. I ain't wrote that letter. 1385 01:36:25,280 --> 01:36:28,280 Speaker 1: He didn't just get short. Stop talking about the letter 1386 01:36:28,439 --> 01:36:35,720 Speaker 1: time and we know it's about you. Facts facts. Nobody 1387 01:36:35,840 --> 01:36:39,080 Speaker 1: in here. Ain't nobody else thinking with about deal. He 1388 01:36:39,200 --> 01:36:41,479 Speaker 1: has issues with being short. I just happened to have 1389 01:36:41,600 --> 01:36:43,920 Speaker 1: the letter right here. You haven't had that. I don't know, 1390 01:36:46,000 --> 01:36:49,040 Speaker 1: didn't talk too harsh. Yeah, he has issues with being short. 1391 01:36:51,720 --> 01:36:57,760 Speaker 1: He has short patience with people. Uh. He always thinks 1392 01:36:57,800 --> 01:37:00,920 Speaker 1: I'm talking down to him and be little him. I'm 1393 01:37:01,040 --> 01:37:07,880 Speaker 1: six to Uh, what where's the I mean? You know, 1394 01:37:08,040 --> 01:37:10,000 Speaker 1: I mean it goes on and on. He's been fired 1395 01:37:10,040 --> 01:37:12,479 Speaker 1: from each job because he has an issue with the 1396 01:37:12,520 --> 01:37:16,320 Speaker 1: way people talk to him. He has issues with the 1397 01:37:16,400 --> 01:37:22,800 Speaker 1: way people talk to him. So so that kind of 1398 01:37:22,880 --> 01:37:26,880 Speaker 1: speaks to what you guys were just talking about the text, Tommy. 1399 01:37:27,800 --> 01:37:31,479 Speaker 1: We're trying to help you, Tommy, harshly, don't just love 1400 01:37:32,560 --> 01:37:36,920 Speaker 1: Last week, I said, hey, how you doing? You got 1401 01:37:36,960 --> 01:37:40,719 Speaker 1: any time in the next day? So what the blank 1402 01:37:40,840 --> 01:37:46,200 Speaker 1: you want? Not? Well, that's what I got. I'll actually 1403 01:37:46,240 --> 01:37:52,160 Speaker 1: refer again. I'll have to refer again to exhibit A. 1404 01:37:52,360 --> 01:37:55,559 Speaker 1: He has a problem with the way people talk to him. 1405 01:37:55,760 --> 01:37:58,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's right there. He has an issue with 1406 01:37:58,280 --> 01:38:01,519 Speaker 1: the way you and I had to do was this 1407 01:38:01,760 --> 01:38:06,000 Speaker 1: is what the blank? I won't and we said, well 1408 01:38:06,120 --> 01:38:09,120 Speaker 1: do this like that and that like this. Can we 1409 01:38:09,280 --> 01:38:13,040 Speaker 1: stop text? Cussing in the not gonna happen. You're not 1410 01:38:14,200 --> 01:38:15,800 Speaker 1: to get it in the text, so you can get 1411 01:38:15,840 --> 01:38:18,760 Speaker 1: it in the it's gonna be I prefer taking it 1412 01:38:19,000 --> 01:38:22,320 Speaker 1: on the tail. Right, there's gonna be some cussing, tom 1413 01:38:22,360 --> 01:38:24,640 Speaker 1: because he's not cussing. You ain't talking to you, So 1414 01:38:26,280 --> 01:38:29,559 Speaker 1: he don't love you if he ain't customing. He only 1415 01:38:29,680 --> 01:38:32,880 Speaker 1: cus when he likes you. So what do you want? 1416 01:38:35,360 --> 01:38:37,679 Speaker 1: I'll tell you when I had of me he wants 1417 01:38:38,000 --> 01:38:40,640 Speaker 1: without cussing, that's what he wants. Not gonna get that. 1418 01:38:40,760 --> 01:38:43,920 Speaker 1: Don't look at that. That's just not man's man. Well, 1419 01:38:44,040 --> 01:38:47,880 Speaker 1: the stuff he gave you today was not cussing. It's 1420 01:38:48,240 --> 01:38:50,640 Speaker 1: I got that. I'm run with that. I'm run with 1421 01:38:50,720 --> 01:38:58,479 Speaker 1: that to be if you keep going, Hey Tommy, yes, sir, 1422 01:38:59,320 --> 01:39:04,320 Speaker 1: have you ever have thought about hiring Monica Barnes. No, 1423 01:39:04,560 --> 01:39:08,799 Speaker 1: I haven't, And let let me tell you why, because 1424 01:39:09,080 --> 01:39:12,639 Speaker 1: it's a job that she could easily do and you think, 1425 01:39:12,760 --> 01:39:21,000 Speaker 1: Steve tells, wow, I have a great weekend. Closing remarks 1426 01:39:21,080 --> 01:39:28,599 Speaker 1: will continue tomorrow. You have a great weekend to folk 1427 01:39:28,640 --> 01:39:42,640 Speaker 1: coming up this weekend. For all Steve Harvey contests, no 1428 01:39:42,720 --> 01:39:46,080 Speaker 1: purchase necessary void where prohibited. 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