1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than the excited tell me about. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Take running 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: our diaries, except we say them a lot, of course, 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 1: we call them blogs Kiki, Yeah, you gotta go. 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 2: All right, dear blog. 6 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 3: So there's a trend happening on TikTok where brides are 7 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 3: kind of sharing their list of things that they will 8 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 3: do at their twenty or not just at their wedding. 9 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 3: Mine is in twenty twenty seven, but at their weddings, 10 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 3: and then things that they won't do at their weddings. 11 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 3: So I shared my little list because you know, I 12 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:34,239 Speaker 3: don't miss a TikTok trend, and I got some interesting feedback. 13 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,239 Speaker 3: So number one on my lists, I will not do 14 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 3: a first look, which is something that a lot of 15 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 3: the girls are doing, where before the wedding ceremony you 16 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 3: are going to meet with your groom and you all 17 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 3: take pictures just the two of you before the ceremony. 18 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 3: So I'm not doing that because when I open the door, 19 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 3: like when the door's open it my wedding, I need 20 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 3: Big Tim to like faint all out. 21 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 4: You need that to be the first law. 22 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 3: I need him to do all of that in front 23 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 3: of you. All, you know, so I can do it. 24 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 3: I'll be standing right next to him. I hold him up. 25 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 3: That'll be greats man, I need hold and support him. 26 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 4: I'll be right there. 27 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 2: I want you to faint too, like I want everybody 28 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 2: to calculation. 29 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 4: Everybody right now, down to my knees. 30 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 2: And if you don't do that, I'm gonna walk back 31 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:18,559 Speaker 2: out try it again. 32 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 3: Okay, So that was one thing on my list, and 33 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 3: a lot of people argued me about you know, well, 34 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 3: you're gonna miss your cocktail hour taking photos and you're 35 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 3: gonna hey whatever, I gotta do. I need the drama. 36 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 3: Number two, no children allowed at my wedding. I love 37 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 3: the kids, Kiki loved the kids, but not for this event. 38 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 2: You know. 39 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: But your nephews will be there. Well, they're in the 40 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 1: wedding nobody else's kids. 41 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 3: So I've been thinking about it because my nephews will 42 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 3: test some stuff up. So I'm thinking about putting them 43 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 3: out after the ceremony. Okay, yeah, I'm pondering, but yeah, 44 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 3: no children. I feel like I want parents to have 45 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 3: the night off. I want Paulina able to dance on 46 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 3: the table with yes, you. 47 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 4: Know, like you don't get pregnant again before this one. 48 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 2: Okay, I promise you this is this is my wedding 49 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: to Kiki. 50 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: Yes, like you did for your wedding, I was very pregnant, 51 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: got pregnant for your wedding. 52 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 3: She couldn't even drink. But yeah, so we're gonna have 53 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:15,239 Speaker 3: I want to party. So no children. But people were 54 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 3: arguing me about that. They said, well, you know you 55 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 3: can hire a sitter to maybe sit all the children 56 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 3: at that. 57 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 4: You're supposed to run a daycare at your own wedding. 58 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 3: No, no, they'll cater chicken tenders and they'll have a 59 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 3: separate room for the kids. Like absolutely not. The budget 60 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 3: is not given that. That still kills the vibe. 61 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, because parents are gonna go check on their kids. 62 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I said no long unnecessary speeches at 63 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: my wedding, and Kaitlyn kind of shot side eyed me. 64 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 3: But I just feel like, you know, you go to 65 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 3: a wedding sometime and then here's the uncle speaking about 66 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 3: he hasn't seen you in twenty years. 67 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 4: For those of you who don't know me, yeah, I'm 68 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 4: the bride. 69 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 2: That was my number one No, don't do. 70 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 5: I could not open my made of our speech with 71 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 5: For those of you who don't know me. 72 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 2: That was my one rule that you put on me. Yeah, 73 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 2: I don't. 74 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 3: I think we may have one speech, you know, like, 75 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 3: if it's something on your heart you really want to 76 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 3: tell me, call me now, you know, like call up 77 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 3: here right now if you want to tell me, but 78 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 3: don't do it, don't do it at my wedding. Would 79 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 3: the speech be Probably my brother Cameron, because he's also 80 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 3: Timothy's best man, and so I feel like he knows 81 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 3: both of us the best. 82 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: He kind of put us together. 83 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 4: So he can cover all the bases. 84 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 5: Your sister is not gonna speak, No, we don't need that. 85 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: My sister is not a public speaker. 86 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then if she speaks, everybody's gonna cry, and 87 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 3: we don't I crying. 88 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 2: I don't need that, I need it. 89 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 4: No anything else. 90 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: You guys can give speeches to each other anything else 91 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: you don't want. 92 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 3: I think that pretty much covered. Oh, I will not 93 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 3: be separating from my husband at the reception. I noticed 94 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 3: that a lot of receptions, the husband is on one side 95 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 3: of the room, the bride is on another side of 96 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 3: the room. They don't see each other till midnight. No, 97 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 3: everywhere we go in that party, we will be together 98 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 3: experiencing good luck with that, right plan, I'm running a 99 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 3: strict program. 100 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 4: Right. 101 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: Listen to the Tangent from yesterday our all Fair, Uncentered podcast. 102 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: You will hear her plans for the uh bachelor and 103 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: bachelorette party, which is joint as well. Yes, we can 104 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 1: let that you just married the man. You can let 105 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 1: him out of your site for just a second at 106 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: the wedding. He probably won't leave the venue, Kiki, you might. 107 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 2: So to us part baby. 108 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, you're gonna like go around to each person 109 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 5: and thank them for coming. I always feel so bad 110 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 5: for the bride and groom for that part. 111 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're going to figure out how to do that. 112 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 3: I do want to agree each table at least and 113 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 3: just say thank you. 114 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, do it as a table, not individually, because 115 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 5: that's a long. 116 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 2: It is a long time. But I don't know. 117 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 3: Let me know what else I need to add to 118 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 3: this list, because I'm not messing around. 119 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 4: All right, Well, rip up by speech speech right now. 120 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 2: You don't want it. 121 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 4: You didn't want my speech