1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: I don't care. If your mom's disabled then just got evicted. 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: I will not let her live in my five bedroom mansion. 3 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:09,039 Speaker 2: Yo, you need a bedroom for sleeping, You need a 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: bedroom for freaking. You need a bedroom for flying yep, 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 2: because you gotta do that flying simulator. Absolutelyous gossip. You 6 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 2: need a bedroom for dying, frying like like like you. 7 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: I don't know if you've seen the office, but he 8 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 2: fries bacon right next to his bed. 9 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 3: It's dangerous space. You need a facility for that. 10 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then the fifth bedroom is just for fun, 11 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 2: you know. 12 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 3: Then he rents an apartment outside of that to actually 13 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 3: live in. 14 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 2: But yeah, five rooms, bedrooms and also like for days 15 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: the week, possibly have someone lived other than yourself. 16 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 3: Yeah no, no, even you can't live there. You have 17 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 3: to rent a whole. 18 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: Other living arrangement exactly side of the five bedroom m 19 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: mansion exactly. So my mom just lost her house a 20 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: week ago and has thirty days to find somewhere else 21 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: to go. 22 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 3: That is rough. That is super rough. 23 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: She was on State housing and disability, but it was 24 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: turned off without warning. 25 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 3: My god, dang dudeez, this woe's going through it. 26 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: Literally, we are trying to fight it currently, but as 27 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: far as I can tell, she is not the only 28 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: person that's happened to this month, Like hundreds of elderly 29 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 1: people are going through this right now. Wow, she has lupus, 30 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: so she has no job. She's fifty nine, and we 31 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: have a five bedroom house, three kids who have their 32 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: own room, and then the fourth bedroom is used as 33 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: a shared office between me and my partner. I suggested 34 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 1: letting my mother move in here and letting her stay 35 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: in our office, which we would have to relocate maybe 36 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: to the attic. Seems reasonable, okay, right, you know the 37 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: mom is really down on her luck. 38 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 2: Right, yeah, so's she's basically gonna be homeless literally, And 39 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 2: it's like, hey, we have five bedrooms, so surely you 40 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 2: can spare one. 41 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 3: Surely you could you you would think, right, you would. 42 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 2: Think, But again I would think, this is reddit. These 43 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 2: people they're not like you and me. They're freaking crazy. 44 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: Do you know what the wife said, what she said immediately, No, 45 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: it is not gonna happen. 46 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 2: Damn no, damn. I got scared. John Gell went off. 47 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 3: I had to. I had to, really, just like you 48 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 3: were channeling something. You know, we're not actors, but we 49 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 3: read reddit stories. 50 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 1: Okay, in the drama, we bring the words to one reddit. Yes, 51 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: the Shakespeare aren't just the asshole food be. 52 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 3: An asshole to not to be an asshole? That just 53 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 3: the question. Oh man. 54 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: I remained calm despite her hostility surrounding the issue bothering me. 55 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 1: I tried coming up with every alternative imaginable, and she 56 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: shot down every single idea. 57 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,519 Speaker 3: I mean went in much here completely, like just completely. 58 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 3: This poor mother, like she's being so unreasonable. Yeah right now. 59 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: I found it a little weird because her and my 60 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: mom get along really well. Like, I'm pretty sure my 61 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: mom likes my wife more than she likes me. 62 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 3: So what's the issue? What is the deal? What's the issue? 63 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: So I finally snapped and asked her what is her 64 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: problem and why she was acting so miserable. She snaps 65 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: back with last time I freaking checked. You're fully aware 66 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 1: that I refuse to be around your mother's dog. 67 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 3: Wait, wait, this is because of the dog? What so. 68 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 2: Your man's you're gonna let your man's mother be homeless 69 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 2: because you can't deal with the dog. 70 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 3: Can't deal with it, can't do it. She goes on 71 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 3: to say her dog is not coming here. Her dog 72 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 3: is not allowed here. She won't get rid of her dog. 73 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 3: Therefore she has no place here, bro like no place? 74 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 3: What is wrong with you? 75 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: Like I lack comprehension, there's no logic here. 76 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 2: I'm just I'm a pault same and also like, I mean, 77 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 2: also what kind of dog is this though? Because like 78 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 2: maybe if it's like if it's a golden retriever, this 79 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 2: this person is satan. But if it's like a chue, 80 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 2: you know, maybe maybe she's got a point. 81 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: Maybe Yeah, now she got I'm not letting you rat dog. 82 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 3: Come on, I can't do that. I can't swing that. 83 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: So I honestly hadn't even thought about the dog up 84 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: until this point. My mom has a Rottweiler who's like 85 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: two years old, and he's a big boy. 86 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 3: He's a boy. 87 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: He's Gompymy I'm guessing like just like a like a 88 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: freaking like like a unit beefcake, a little beefcake, name beefcake, 89 00:04:59,000 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: A little beefcake. 90 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 3: It's actually get like a great raph for name. It 91 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 3: is a little beefcake. My wife does not like the 92 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 3: dog at all. 93 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 2: You think, oh wait, wait, think I know, like to 94 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 2: an untrained ear, you might not be able to hear 95 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 2: that the wife, in her inner tone and her phrasing 96 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 2: is not really liking the dog. But we pick up 97 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 2: on this, it's hard to tell. Yeah, we translate for 98 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 2: you guys when she. 99 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 3: Says absolutely not. It's hard to understand what she's saying. 100 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 2: But see, John and I are trained in emotional intelligence 101 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 2: through reading thousands of Reddit stories, and so don't worry, 102 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 2: we'll translate for you. 103 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 3: We got we got gotcha. You're welcome. Come on, John 104 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 3: and Sam Steel of emotional Really. 105 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: So apparently my wife used to get chased by rottweiler's 106 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: as a kid but was never bitten. 107 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 3: So it goes back to childhood, trumps back to childhood. 108 00:05:56,600 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 3: But I mean, you're a pronass adult. I'm gonna be honest. 109 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 2: Put that childhood trauma and a bottle. Bottle it up 110 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 2: but never release it. No bites. That's my thing. 111 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 3: What she was never bitten? Oh? Really? She said? 112 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was just chaste but never bitten. Kind of 113 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 2: sounds like shaken but not stir. That's funny, cha, Yeah, 114 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 2: nothing really happened. Go on, come on, grow up. 115 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 3: It's his mother who's on the streets. 116 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, but God forbid, you may have gotten bitten by 117 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 2: a dog. 118 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 3: But didn't. YEA, what the hell your trauma is lame? 119 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 1: Yes, yes it is. I'm sorry. So she won't even 120 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: give the dog a chance. She admittedly doesn't like any 121 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: dog outside of retrievers. 122 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 3: Retrievers the freaking beste gold like. 123 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: Soa, I love golden they're like, you know, if they're 124 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 1: raised wrong or have aggression, I mean they can they 125 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: can mess you up. 126 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 3: Golden retrievers. Yeah, of course you've met a bad Golden Retriever. 127 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 3: They're out there. Yeah, for sure. 128 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: There's My aunt used to volunteer at a Golden trier 129 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 1: Golden retriever rescue where they were just like messed up 130 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: because they were like beating the dogs and like stuff 131 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 1: like that. So their instinct is to attack, right, Yeah, yeah, absolutely. 132 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 3: I believe it. 133 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, corrupting the Golden retrie image that I have in 134 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 2: my mind, Let me have that. Let me this one 135 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 2: happy thought circling in my head, destroying it after reading 136 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 2: is ruined like every situation everything, Just. 137 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 3: Please let me have this one. 138 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: I told her she was being incredibly selfish for being 139 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: unwilling to help my mother over a dog, and she 140 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 1: absolutely lost it. Really, she said that her life is 141 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: not going to be revolving around taking care of your 142 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: disabled mother and taking care of an untrained giant rottweiler. 143 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 2: Oh, five bedrooms five and at the very least, like 144 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 2: just like it. Let her live there until she gets 145 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 2: back up on her feet, like I don't think op, 146 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 2: he's saying forever. 147 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 3: No, Like she just needs a. 148 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: Place right now, God lady. She said that she's also 149 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: not chancing having this mutt around our kids while untrained, 150 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: and she is absolutely repulsed that I am not seeing 151 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: how dangerous it could be since we have small kids. 152 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:37,199 Speaker 1: She said, I'm an absolute prick and under no circumstances 153 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: was she going to put my mother over the well 154 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: being of our kids. And if I do that, then 155 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,839 Speaker 1: I'd better see myself out. 156 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 3: Wait. 157 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 2: So man wants to take care of his mother and 158 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 2: she's like, divorce. Excuse me, yeah, divorce. I I'm just 159 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:50,839 Speaker 2: so lost. 160 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 3: Excuse me? 161 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 2: Uh we can you turn around? Do you see something 162 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 2: behind you? Oh it's a divorce papers. Oh I just 163 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 2: need a time my shoe. Just kidding, it's a divorce paper. Oh? 164 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 3: Get bro? I hate dogs. Do you understand? I was 165 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 3: traumatized because one almost bit me. 166 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: I had a dog growl at me from across the 167 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: room when I was four years old and I never recovered. 168 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 3: And I will never experience something like that again. 169 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: Dude, Oh my god, I think she's over the freaking 170 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 1: top to be blunt. 171 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 3: Am I the a hole? 172 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: There's a small update after this, but uh, I gotta 173 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: check in with everybody here. I gotta check in with 174 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: you what do we think? 175 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 2: And also, in a lot of households across the world, 176 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 2: it's very normal for parents to move into their supernormal 177 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 2: their h sons and daughters homes, and so it's like, 178 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 2: because this opposed to it over a dog, there must 179 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 2: be some other reason too, right. This feels like a 180 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 2: fake reason almost absolutely. 181 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: It's like it's like when in the stories when the 182 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 1: girl gets pregnant and the dude like freaks out. 183 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 3: He's like, you're cheating on me and she's like no. 184 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 2: No, and then I find out that the dude was 185 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 2: just cheating time. Yeah, I would love to know what 186 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 2: you guys think, Like, like, is op being the A hole? 187 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 3: Yeah? 188 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 1: How would you react if your own mother was like 189 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: sick on the streets and your partner refuses so let 190 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: them live with you? In a five bedroom house. So 191 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: ridiculous with the kids together in one room. Dog can 192 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: have its own bedroom, brock. 193 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 3: Literally, Oh my god. You just lock it in there. Yeah, 194 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 3: but you never have to see it the little doggy 195 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 3: door outside. 196 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 197 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: Well no, no, I can't. I can't leave the room 198 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 1: like a jail. That's the only way. Oh my god. 199 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: So update, My wife is in therapy, kind of belongs there. 200 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 1: She's yeah, not going to lie my god, She's going 201 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: to exposure therapy. She's going to dog parks to get. 202 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 2: Over her beer. 203 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,560 Speaker 1: The therapy doesn't take away the fears. She said that 204 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: mom could move in if she doesn't have the dog, 205 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 1: but my mom refuses. 206 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 3: Oh, she's like, know, no dog know me. Apparently that's 207 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 3: where we're at with it. 208 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 1: And it's actually my wife's house. She inherited it long 209 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: before we got married. That so that changes the dynamic 210 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:13,840 Speaker 1: a little bit. I mean, she's still in that whole, 211 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: but it's ultimately her decision. Yeah, but like, yeah, it's 212 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 1: not like they oh they split the mortgage. Yeah, she 213 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: works from home full time and has the kids. I 214 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: work part time in office and part time at home. 215 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 3: Oh my god, what a doozy. 216 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're just y'all are just gonna have 217 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 1: to tell us what would you do here? Truly, truly, 218 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 1: what would you do in the situation? 219 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 3: We need to know. 220 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 2: I mean, like, also, like, have you guys ever had 221 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 2: a parent move in, because I feel like a lot 222 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:45,439 Speaker 2: of families will have their parents move in, like when 223 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 2: they get older. 224 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, and the dynamics of the household can change a lot. 225 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 2: And so I'm wondering, like, what does it actually feel 226 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 2: like for the people who actually experience it. 227 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 1: That's a fair point in question. I mean, it's like 228 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: you go from the care taker to the caregiver. 229 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not necessarily an easy thing to have 230 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 2: like a whole other adult in your your life. 231 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 3: It's not. Yeah, I mean, we want to know what 232 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 3: you guys think. 233 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 2: I think the uh, at the very least, the wife 234 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 2: has some un addressed trauma. 235 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 3: For sure. 236 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 2: I think she's being I mean I think like she's 237 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 2: being a little unreasonable. 238 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 3: So unreasonable unless the dog has like a history of 239 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 3: attacking children. 240 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: That would be totally and maybe you know, at the 241 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 1: end of the day, this is one perspective from one 242 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 1: person in the story. So it's like exactly, maybe he's 243 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,599 Speaker 1: intentionally omitting and he's just like making her seem like 244 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 1: a monster when actually it's like not of our children. 245 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: The dog is literally just like just like jumped ten children. 246 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 3: I mean, I think I'm thinking of my mom. My 247 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 3: mom would probably. 248 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 2: Not want a Rottweiler or a pit bull in our house. 249 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like do they not have a yard? 250 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, but even in the yard, she's like, I don't 251 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 2: want that thing that she's like hates pitbulls and because 252 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 2: they've like multiple of them have attacked our dogs in 253 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 2: the past, and she's just profiled everything just like no, 254 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 2: not for me. So I like, I like, I think 255 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 2: those people do exist. Is it rational? I don't necessarily 256 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 2: think so. But at the end, also, it's like it's 257 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 2: her house. You know, she's allowed to be in a 258 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 2: flo if she wants to. 259 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 3: A way, she has the ultimate decision making. 260 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: It's not like if they bought the house together and 261 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:24,839 Speaker 1: split the mortgage, but. 262 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 3: It's really her decision. 263 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 1: But she's just she's just such an thought. I just 264 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: can't get over. Oh and here's the crazy cherry on 265 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: the cake. Guess what Reddit said, Like, you know how 266 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 1: they make the judgment in the thing they said. 267 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 3: Oh, p was the soul? Really? Why? I don't know 268 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 3: what they say? 269 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: You're the ahole a hold the mother refuses medications and 270 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: refuses any training on the dog. I'm an animal behaviorist 271 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 1: and I've worked with large oarcks for over fifty years. 272 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 1: Most dartis are sweet and but they all need training. 273 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 1: There are many medications for lupas pain control. This is 274 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: too much. Perhaps the iments of your wife's reaction is 275 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: her recognition of the truth this would damage your family 276 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: in so many ways. 277 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:07,319 Speaker 3: Maybe disagree. 278 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's kind of what you were 279 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:11,079 Speaker 2: saying is maybe we don't know the full scope of 280 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 2: what's actually but neither. 281 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 3: Does this commenter. Like what the fuck? I know? Get it? 282 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 3: It's got two thousand up votes this comment. Really you 283 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 3: gotta you gotta tell us. I'm a little split here. 284 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 3: Oh wait, wait, okay, So maybe it says your mother 285 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 3: refuses medications. I'm is that is the case that happened. 286 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like that's a big inference unless 287 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 1: they know a lot more. Maybe like lupus is like 288 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: completely treatable with medication. 289 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 3: I don't think that's the case. 290 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 2: Like what you guys, guys get to the bottom of 291 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 2: this far us put it in the comments. We're confused, 292 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:46,239 Speaker 2: but we'll see you in the next episode. 293 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: By Karen thinks her son deserves my phone and tries 294 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: to fail it from me. 295 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 2: What is with all these Reddit people thinking they deserve 296 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 2: other people's belongings? 297 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 3: Bro, I one is so what can it be? Man cheering? 298 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 3: Carry give me your chick. 299 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: This one is a short story. So this last week 300 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: May twenty third, to be exact, I was at the 301 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: thrift store picking out some clothes. 302 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 3: Dude, thrifting is lit. Dude, you got you gotta be 303 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 3: looking fresh at cha? At these? I got these shoes 304 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 3: eighty there we go. 305 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 2: Also, dude, I got new shoelaces for these whole new 306 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 2: shoe If we get show shoelaces. 307 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 3: Changes whole new especially a white shoes, especially white. 308 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 1: I was in the pants style when I hear a 309 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: very abrupt and obviously agitated. 310 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 3: Oh, I love your Karen. 311 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 1: I turn around to see the typical Karen entitled parent 312 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 1: the Karen Classic coming to an NFT near you. 313 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 2: Karen, Karen glasses. That would actually be a great NFT project. 314 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 2: Karen's it could do it, It could do it. When 315 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 2: I say that she had the appearance. When I say 316 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 2: hair nft, Karen nft, Karen nft. 317 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 3: That's pretty good. That's pretty good. 318 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: We're saving that one, or saving that one. When I 319 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 1: say when I say she had the appearance of a Karen, 320 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: I mean it. She had the hair, sunglasses, indoors in 321 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 1: a purse hanging off of real. Oh, classic classic Karen, 322 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: Classic Karen. When I turned around, she looked at me, 323 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: not saying a word. She was just surveying my clothes, 324 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 1: looking disgusted. I was wearing a large hootie and basketball shorts, 325 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 1: so I kind of understand. 326 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 3: Why don't sell yourself short man. Yeah, you can wear 327 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 3: whatever you do. Don't let other people judge you. That's right. 328 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: I was about to ask can I help you, when 329 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 1: out of nowhere, the little kid no more than eight 330 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 1: or nine years old runs up to ask Karen can. 331 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 3: I play games on the phone, and he points to me. 332 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 3: I had the phone out in my hand because I 333 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 3: was texting a because I was god texting a friend 334 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 3: before all of this, Karen replies to the entitled kid, 335 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 3: ask them, not me. 336 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 2: Entitled kid comes up with your answer to ask a 337 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:04,880 Speaker 2: random person for their phone so your kid can play 338 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 2: a game, honestly, honestly, at least she didn't just yank 339 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:09,400 Speaker 2: it out of his hair. 340 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 3: There and we've known worse, k We've seen worse. Uh 341 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 3: entitled kid comes up to me and asks again, can 342 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 3: I play games on your phone? 343 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 1: I say no, sorry, it's my phone. Why don't you 344 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: ask your mom to play on her phone? And I 345 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 1: put emphasis on the word her. Karen looked shocked, like 346 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 1: a deer in headlights, with her mouth gaping. 347 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 3: Why to attack, ready to rumble? Uh entitled kid? Mommy, 348 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 3: can I play on your phone? Karen is still shocked, 349 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:53,959 Speaker 3: staring straight into my soul. Then, out of nowhere, Karen 350 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 3: tries to nab my phone right out of my hand. 351 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 3: See we spoke too soon. She did try to nab. 352 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: Yes, I had a firm grip on it, and we 353 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 1: had a tug of war over my phone. 354 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:08,199 Speaker 3: Why does this person think it's okay, Karen give me 355 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 3: the phone? My son wants to play. This woman was 356 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 3: nuts And then the kid tries to intervene and says, Mom, 357 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 3: I don't want to play anymore. Stop it, stop it. 358 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 3: Karen finally gives up and scolds me for being selfish 359 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 3: in a jerk for not letting her phone. Even the 360 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 3: kid doesn't want it anymore. Bro. Even the kid is like, mom, bro, 361 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 3: cut it out. Oh my god, Oh she's mad for 362 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 3: not letting her son play on my phone. 363 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:49,640 Speaker 1: Karen is furious and red faced, and an employee comes 364 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,959 Speaker 1: up and asks if everything is okay. I say everything 365 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 1: is fine, and then the employee leaves. Karen eventually leaves, 366 00:18:57,080 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: holding entitled kid firmly by the hand and grumble and 367 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: mumbling some random garbage. 368 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 2: Dude, these Karens are These Karens feel like they're entitled 369 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 2: to literally everything in the world. 370 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 3: Truly. Also, there's a quick update, which is crazy hilarious. 371 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 3: I didn't call the police because I was ninety nine 372 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,959 Speaker 3: percent sure that entitled kid didn't have a dad, and 373 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:21,200 Speaker 3: I didn't want to have him and myself go through 374 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 3: all the trouble. My phone wasn't damaged and I still 375 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 3: have it, so there's nothing to worry about. 376 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 2: Except just like the inconvenience that these Karens cause, and 377 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 2: also the fact that she'll probably strike again. 378 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 3: Dude. The audacity, yeah, audacity. We got to put a 379 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 3: stop to it at some point,