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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with a

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. Good morning Seacrest with you. Hello, Tanya, how

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Speaker 1: are you this morning? Good morning? I am great? How

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Speaker 1: are you going? Very good? Very good? Is where's Patty?

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Speaker 1: Patty's here? I just saw her earlier? Oh this is

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Speaker 1: how are you, Patty? I'm doing great, excellent, so beautiful morning, good.

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Speaker 1: I'm just I got a new printer, so I'm just

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Speaker 1: looking where it is. So if anybody needs anything, I

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Speaker 1: know where it is now, all right, so send me

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Speaker 1: anything you want. What is the update on our group

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Speaker 1: text before we get going this morning? Patty? Was that

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Speaker 1: just to me? Was it to everybody? I know? And?

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Speaker 1: All right? So costuming costuming? Patty sent us a photo

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Speaker 1: She's flanked by her two boys. Where were you guys?

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Speaker 1: Gets a great costume and I mean face paint and everything,

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Speaker 1: face makeup and everything. Yes, I did all. I put

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Speaker 1: Can't see the patre so it's traditional mariachi suits for

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Speaker 1: the boys. Um, the beautiful jackets and the big bow tie.

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Speaker 1: It's very traditional Mexican charo. And that dress I had

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Speaker 1: in my plust end for every year for the other

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Speaker 1: we take our family picture, um, and we also honor

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Speaker 1: our loved ones. And this was our yearly family picture here,

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Speaker 1: all in black with tones. Except you're missing a member

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Speaker 1: I didn't send you that a picture. Huh. Only sent

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Speaker 1: me the three of you. So there we go first four. Now, okay,

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Speaker 1: where's that? See? Someone always gets stuck taking the picture,

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Speaker 1: but doesn't have to get stuck taking the picture because

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Speaker 1: again some something and set the timer right. So you

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Speaker 1: left out your Michael. But does he does? He does

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Speaker 1: that bother him that he gets left out? No, not

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Speaker 1: at all. He was okay, alright, have my kid here too,

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Speaker 1: that's all right. Just push him away like you do,

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Speaker 1: Just push him away, you know. So what happened here

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Speaker 1: didn't get that picture, Tony, We only got the three

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Speaker 1: of them. I was really wanted to see what Michael

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Speaker 1: looks like and I'm really impressed, you responded right away.

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Speaker 1: It was very like, yeah, really well because response if

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Speaker 1: I it wasn't much love this, um was my response.

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Speaker 1: But I knew if I didn't respond quickly then this morning,

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Speaker 1: But I think, oh, I'll just I'll wait a beat

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Speaker 1: even respond. I was. I got accedentally drunk yesterday. How

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Speaker 1: do you accidentally, Well, not not yesterday, but the day

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Speaker 1: that Patty sent the photos, because um, I normally don't

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Speaker 1: It was just it was a one I was at

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Speaker 1: a one year old's birthday and drinking during the day.

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Speaker 1: a parents party than anything else exactly. So let's get

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Speaker 1: down to it. I got Julie Pa tickets every single home.

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Speaker 1: I do that in just a minute actually literally. Also

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Speaker 1: tickets to are Kiss if I'm sold out jingle Ball

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Speaker 1: presented by Capital One. That's every single hour. Also, we

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Speaker 1: got your morning hacked. This morning, we're gonna talk to

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Speaker 1: the guy who wrote The Four Agreements and The Mastery

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Speaker 1: of Love. These two books are just global sensations. I

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Speaker 1: just read one before, re read one and read The

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Speaker 1: Mastery of Love recently. Me gettle RUI is gonna be

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Speaker 1: Jingle jingle, jingle ball, jingle ball jingle. But we're just

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Speaker 1: talking about a jingle ball tickets. We've got them all

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Speaker 1: bit later. But tell me what's on your mind? How

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Speaker 1: you know? I want to comment on your comment on

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Speaker 1: Friday about you saying that when you post your food

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Speaker 1: picture of our food before we eat it, we're more

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Speaker 1: likely over time to gain weight. And I think there

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Speaker 1: doesn't act the same. But you lost weight by taking

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Speaker 1: pictures of your food. Tell me Ryan, what happened? Is

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Speaker 1: I post my food. I just a diet um and

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Speaker 1: I post my food breakfast, lunch, and dinner every day.

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Speaker 1: And I lost nine pounds. But that's fantastic. And what

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Speaker 1: was the How did you lose the ninety pounds? Because

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Speaker 1: you couldn't just post pictures, you had to do something else.

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Speaker 1: I actually ate, you know. I stopped eating meat. I

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Speaker 1: went to um eating guacamolean chips. That's how I started out,

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Speaker 1: take a bite of that too, you know, Ryan, Ryan,

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Speaker 1: it's that discipline. Well, look for the table if you

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Speaker 1: that's also money. Do you have a you have more

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Speaker 1: want to maintain. The maintaining part is what you need

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Speaker 1: to do. The maintaining. I still eat light, but I

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Speaker 1: it sounds like you're I mean your chips, your guacamala,

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Speaker 1: for you. Congratulations, you have a great day. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for listening to us. Thank you. And you guys want

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Speaker 1: to see my my my different foods. You can go

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Speaker 1: I've had people do it and they worked with them too.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for calling, Thank you and having us up.

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Speaker 1: A wonderful rest of your day. And you too, Thank

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Speaker 1: you appreciate that. Yeah, it's not for everybody. Good for her.

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Speaker 1: So she disputed the some you know, one of the

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Speaker 1: things we're talking about here, which is great. I've got

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Speaker 1: something else. Your three best option candies for Halloween on

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Speaker 1: fun size three Musketeers, one size m hmm, there are

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Speaker 1: peppermint patties. I do love them Mini York pepper patti's.

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Speaker 1: I what an underrated candy, right, And junior mints Junior

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Speaker 1: But another level. Today's quote, your future needs you, your

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Speaker 1: We're gonna talk to Miguel Ruise in just a minute. Mcgo.

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Speaker 1: Ruiz wrote the Four Agreements. Guy wrote the Four Agreements.

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Speaker 1: He was a surgeony at a car accident, changed that

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Speaker 1: to meet him. It's coming up first headlines, Tanya, what's happening?

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Speaker 1: An advisory panel at the FDA will vote today on

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Speaker 1: In early November, Mammoth Mountain received more than two ft

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Speaker 1: making it the second snowiest October on record. Memmoth is

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Speaker 1: Disneyland raised the cost of most daily tickets and expanded

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Speaker 1: Many people are both. UM spirituality is so interesting to

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Speaker 1: that Miguel Ruiz was born in Mexico, younger said, thirteen kids,

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Speaker 1: Great Means, and the Four Agreements are a frameworker spirituality

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Speaker 1: always have heard people say, well it all happens for

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Speaker 1: for me tremendously. So let's bring in Miguel Ruise right now.

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Speaker 1: Mr Louise, it is a pleasure to meet you. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for coming on. Thank you sir, it's a big

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Speaker 1: pleasure to read your show. Thank you for inviting me.

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Speaker 1: It's so I've read it your both the Four Agreements

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Speaker 1: and The Master of Love. And I read the Four

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Speaker 1: something you should own, and you should. You can read

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Speaker 1: I don't know, just like going out and honestly should

423
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: just see her get wasted. She gets mad wasted, and

424
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: I don't think we really have that same kind of

425
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 1: life and lifestyle. You know, I'm not really that type

426
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 1: of guy that likes to go out and just hardcore

427
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: drink get wasted out of my gut. Okay, let me

428
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: just tell you now, Jack, Rachel is on the phone.

429
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:43,120
Speaker 1: Before we go further. Rachel is listening to this call,

430
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 1: and Rachel has heard everything you just said. Rachel, would

431
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 1: you like to respond to Jack? Yeah, yeah it would. Um,

432
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: I was not like that wasted. I don't know that

433
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 1: hard Okay, Like I don't think this is stare at all.

434
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:11,639
Speaker 1: So Jack, she thought you guys had chemistry. She wanted

435
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 1: to see you again, But clearly it was what she

436
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 1: did and posted. It sounds like afterwards that made you

437
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 1: think you were not going to go out with her again,

438
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: Am I right? Yeah? Pretty much? Yeah, Rachel, when you

439
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,199
Speaker 1: were posting, I'm assuming he's telling the truth. But when

440
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: you were posting things, did you think that maybe someone

441
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:38,400
Speaker 1: like Jack might see it and say what he said? Well, no, Like,

442
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:42,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I like to have fun with my girlfriends

443
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 1: and I like to like go out and like be

444
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 1: a little crazy, but like I'm not like this huge

445
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: party girl or something like Jack. Were you jealous? Did

446
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 1: you have envy? I mean, of course, like I don't

447
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 1: want to sit there and see her like go all

448
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 1: crazy out at the club because I you know what

449
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: at leats too, But at the same time, like do

450
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: her thing and literally went out with there once. I'm

451
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: not like to attach to her. I guess. So we went,

452
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 1: we went out, we had some of fun, and now

453
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: you're like not talking to me because I go to

454
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 1: the club and get a little crazy with my girls.

455
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:24,919
Speaker 1: Like seriously, I mean seriously, absolutely. I mean, if imagine us,

456
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 1: imagine this in the long run, If we're having this

457
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 1: type of issue right now and it's only been one day,

458
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: imagine if me and you actually says to settle down

459
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: and do all this stuff, and you want to have

460
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: your little night out with your friends, and I'll be

461
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: the understanding boyfriend. It's like, okay, cool, go for it.

462
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 1: And then boom, Mike, you what you know what you're

463
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 1: gonna do? Not post it, but you're still doing it,

464
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 1: or you're gonna remove me from your close friend. I

465
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 1: if you're doing it now, you're gonna sure as he'll

466
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 1: do it if things escalate to further between me and

467
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 1: your Jack isn't And I don't even know if we

468
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: need to keep vauling back and forth. Right, this is

469
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:06,399
Speaker 1: a removement from your close friends. You guys don't need

470
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: to be friends, you don't need pen pals. Let's just

471
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: move on. And I'm gonna go out and lemon say

472
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 1: there are other people out there for each of you.

473
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 1: They're fit and this is not a fit. And Jack,

474
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 1: thank you for staying on, Rachel, thank you for reaching out.

475
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 1: Lose each other's contact. Ah yeah, have fun okay, than

476
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: by Rachel. Good luck Rachel, Good luck Jack, Jack, Jack?

477
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 1: What about Jack? Judge mcjennerson. People assume what you post,

478
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: people create the narrative. What you post can push people away. Stories, stories, stories, right,

479
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: push him away because Rachel can party she can live

480
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: her life the way she wants to live her life. Judge,

481
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 1: Judy Jack can think whatever he wants and he can

482
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: just mosey on down to another football game. Okay, and

483
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 1: Adam to your former acquaintance is list Air with Ryan Seacread.

484
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: Let me grab Heather one or two seven. Heather, good morning,

485
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? How are you doing well? Heather?

486
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: Thank you? So let's see you're calling for advice in

487
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 1: what what category? So it's kind of a long story,

488
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: but I promise I'll be quick. Okay. My my mom

489
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: passed away about six months ago, and she's been really

490
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 1: sick for a really long time. And honestly, it's it's

491
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: for the best. You know, she's not suffering anymore. It's good.

492
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: But we were cleaning out her house and we found

493
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 1: her wedding dress that's the attic, and it was such

494
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: a special moment because my sister is getting married. So

495
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: she took the dress us got a refurbished, cleaned up

496
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:05,479
Speaker 1: and fitted in all the things to wear for her wedding. Well,

497
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: when I was going through some of the things at

498
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: my mom's house that were at my place, I found

499
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: my mom's wedding photos. It's not the same dress, not

500
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: even close. And I don't have no idea who's dressed

501
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: this this? And do I tell my sister the wedding

502
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: is next weekend? And I don't know she's bound to

503
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: see the photos of my mom's pudding eventually, So do

504
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: I tell her? Do I not? She spent so much money?

505
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: I have no idea what to do. Well, first of all,

506
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry about my gosh, you're the loss that you

507
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: had with your mother and um going through that now,

508
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: I don't really understand weddings so much, so let me

509
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: ask questions from where I sit, do what's who's could

510
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 1: it be? I have no idea. I have never even

511
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 1: seen it like it was, So is there is there

512
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: any sorry? So play this out. So if you tell

513
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: you you're shocked. And if you tell your sister, oh

514
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 1: my gosh, I just found this out is not the

515
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: same dress. Why wouldn't you tell her? Well, because she's

516
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: it's the weddings next weekend, and I'm like, what am

517
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 1: I supposed? Like she spent so much money on it?

518
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: And like she thinks the reason why she did that

519
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: because she thinks it's my mom right, But everybody thought

520
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: it was your mom's and so to not tell her

521
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: and you know is worse. You can't keep that from

522
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: your sister before she gets married. You gotta tell her

523
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 1: the wedding is next weekend. She doesn't have time to

524
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 1: She can't. Just like you can't just go buy a

525
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,719
Speaker 1: wedding dress like you. She's going to have the same dress.

526
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: There's just a different story to it. But it could

527
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: be Behinder's dress. Well you so you the other way

528
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: it plays out is you don't tell her and she

529
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 1: finds out later. That's worse. I mean, you have to

530
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: tell her what you know and then you she's gonna

531
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: decide what to do. I mean, it could still be

532
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: somebody from the family, but you listen to your sister.

533
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: You can't withhold this information. I know, but I'm so

534
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: nervous to tell her when I know, I get it.

535
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: But that's that's the tough thing, Patty. What do you

536
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: think more than likely your sister is gonna you know,

537
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: when she does a speech, she's gonna mention this dress

538
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 1: that she has all She's going to say that she

539
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 1: found it in the addiction that you know this beautiful

540
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 1: story you and you cannot have her do that, and

541
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: you have to be honest with her, okay, and what

542
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 1: happens happens, But we we know what happens if you

543
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 1: don't tell her and she finds out later, it's worse. No, no, no, okay,

544
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: what if this wedding dress the photo that you saw.

545
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 1: What if your mom had multiple wedding dresses and the

546
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 1: photo that you saw was just one of the dresses

547
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 1: and the other dress that you guys found was actually

548
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: another one that your mom wore. Honest, So now she's

549
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 1: married to two men. You're saying she had different marriages, know,

550
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: but some some people have a wedding dress and a

551
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 1: reception dress or I don't know, maybe it was rehearsaled

552
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: another picture that you don't really know what photo you saw.

553
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 1: So maybe that the dress does belong to your mom

554
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: and it was, but that doesn't that's fine. The point

555
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 1: is she needs to tell her sister. All that stuff

556
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 1: is irrelevant. You got to tell her what you know.

557
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: We actually gonna hand up with you. Now she can

558
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: call your sister Heather and congratulations to her. Good luck, Okay,

559
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,959
Speaker 1: thank you, O, goodbye. I mean, it's not like it's

560
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: Heather's fault. She didn't do anything wrong. She just found

561
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: out right, she doesn't feel bad or scared. Right, it

562
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 1: is reality, and now we deal with it like a

563
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: week away from the wedding. I just the stress that's

564
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 1: gonna put on her and the like. But Tony, you're

565
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 1: not seeing what happens if she doesn't tell her three

566
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: months after the wedding. That ruins of sibling relationship. We

567
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: just don't know the full story. I think the dress

568
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: don't need the full story. She needs to tell her

569
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: and then you'll figure out the full story together. You're

570
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: focused on that this stuff that doesn't matter. But what

571
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:03,479
Speaker 1: really matters? That's the question? Oh spiritual Here her sharing

572
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 1: what she knows with her sister, and then her sister

573
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: dealing with it her wedding day. It's not about the dress,

574
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: It's not. It's about the union of her and her

575
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 1: significant other and the vows they are making to one another.

576
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:20,720
Speaker 1: The dress is very instance. This isn't about the dress.

577
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: This is about being upfront and honest with your sibling.

578
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 1: So what is it really about telling the truth? Forget

579
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 1: the dress, forget the wedding. It's truth telling time, and

580
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 1: we must take a break on air with Ryan Secrets

581
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: all right, Let's let's get back to this. Tanya. You

582
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: brought this up yesterday on the show, and you said

583
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: that you know that your friend is lying to her

584
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: boyfriend about using birth control, and you don't know what

585
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 1: to do with that information. Correct? And what do you

586
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: think you should do with that information? Well, when I

587
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 1: say friend, it's distant acquaintance. But we were all talking

588
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 1: in this group and it slipped out of her mouth.

589
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:09,959
Speaker 1: And so now, like if this was a friend of mine,

590
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 1: I would for sure say this is wrong. You're not

591
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,280
Speaker 1: building trust in your relationship. I would have probably stepped

592
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: in and said something, But I'm not super close with her.

593
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: But I also feel like this is important information. So

594
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: now you don't know what to do? Yes, the same

595
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: the same amount that I know her. All right, let

596
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: me graand Michelle. Michelle, good morning. Thank you for listening.

597
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:34,399
Speaker 1: You have some guidance here, go ahead, you're wrong with us, Hi, Ryan,

598
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: huge fan of the show. Thanks for taking my call.

599
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 1: I really appreciate it, of course, thank you for listening.

600
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:43,879
Speaker 1: Go ahead. I just think Tanya, knowing what you know

601
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: it does put you in a super precarious situation. But

602
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,879
Speaker 1: I really would advise you to tell the guy I'm

603
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: in a relationship with someone right now, and the same

604
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:59,439
Speaker 1: thing happened to him where the girlfriend had told him

605
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: that he that she was on the pill but she

606
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: wasn't and ended up getting pregnant, and um, you know,

607
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 1: they have a kid together, and it was something that

608
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: like one of them wanted, one of them didn't, And

609
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 1: it's just like puts a huge strain on the rest

610
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 1: of your life. And I think with those kind of implications,

611
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 1: it's it's just way bigger picture, Tony. Do you know

612
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: why she's lying to him? No, And that's the thing.

613
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: It could be she's not taking it for medical reasons,

614
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,800
Speaker 1: or she didn't get into it. It It literally just like

615
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 1: slipped out of her mouth and it was like and

616
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: she said it in a funny way, but my eyes

617
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: just kind of went like, it's not that funny. I mean.

618
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 1: And I think Patty was saying in terms of like

619
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,800
Speaker 1: it's just as much a guy's responsibility. I totally agree.

620
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: But if you have a conversation with your partner and

621
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 1: you've outlined it that this person is doing this thing

622
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 1: for birth control, then then that's the responsibility has been had,

623
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, you've had that conversation, and

624
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 1: those are your assumptions going into it. Do you know,

625
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: do you have a girlfriend that's close with this acquaintance

626
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: of yours that you could tell to tell her? I do, yes.

627
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: Is that a good route? I mean I guess yeah,

628
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: that's probably the best route so that I'm not involved.

629
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 1: But then I'm like doing the right thing. Michelle, thank

630
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: you for calling. So Jessica, you're on with us. What

631
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:29,720
Speaker 1: do you think Tony should do? I think that Tony

632
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 1: should talk to the friend, um, even if they're not

633
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 1: that close, and just let her know. It's something that

634
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 1: she kind of put out there and made everyone's issue, um,

635
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 1: and something that just doesn't want that Tony shouldn't have

636
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: on her conscience. UM. So it's just a communication thing, honestly.

637
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 1: I mean that is interesting. The acquaintance put it into

638
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 1: the universe, so now everyone's got to deal with it exactly. So,

639
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,800
Speaker 1: but Stanya tell the guy she does know the guy too.

640
00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 1: That's why I think first, because communication is key in

641
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: the girl an opportion to me let her know, like, hey,

642
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: this is something you put out there. I don't want

643
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 1: it all my conscience. It's not what I'm saying on

644
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 1: the universe, so you need to be honest with him.

645
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 1: And because he's a close friend of mine, you know,

646
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: I want to or a friend of mine in general.

647
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:14,879
Speaker 1: I wanted to let you know ahead of time, like, hey,

648
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: it needs to be said. He needs to know about it,

649
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: all right, thank you for thank you for calling any

650
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 1: further from Dona. I don't want to It's just I

651
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 1: mean it is. I don't think you I don't think

652
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 1: you can rest on it. I know, And I guess

653
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: the thing is I didn't go in like girl code.

654
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 1: You don't want to go against and just go rogue

655
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 1: and tell the guys. So maybe I think the friend

656
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: route might be the best route because then I'm involved.

657
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying how I feel and what I think is right,

658
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: but I'm also not involving myself. You know, it's just

659
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: a dishonesty. It's such a bummer in a relationship. This

660
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:58,800
Speaker 1: is an important thing to communicate about, right and that

661
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: is huge protection birth control, those things that you know

662
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 1: you just don't want to lie about. Patty Again, it's

663
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: a learning lesson for both parties to be understanding of

664
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: what's happening. Even if she told him I'm on birth control,

665
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:23,439
Speaker 1: I think there needs to be a conversation when where

666
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 1: it's really clear that he says, Okay, you're on birth control,

667
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,439
Speaker 1: meaning that there's a very small chance that you still

668
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: may get pregnant. So either I decide to bring in

669
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 1: my own protection or take that risk. But I think

670
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 1: they both need to be aware of what's happening. And

671
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 1: clearly it's a good point. I think the issues that

672
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: she's telling him she is and she's not. But I'm

673
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,359
Speaker 1: saying this, this should be a learning lesson because well,

674
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 1: you know right now, well that's done, but we should

675
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:53,840
Speaker 1: all learn from this. Um well, we scared off some callers.

676
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: We were just what was the one that was about

677
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 1: to come on? Got scared off? Hey, Jasmine is on

678
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 1: with this, Jasmine, go ahead, you're on the end with us. Hey. Um, um,

679
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 1: so my best friend she told her boyfriend at the

680
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: time that she was on birth control when she wasn't,

681
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 1: and he like, he was totally under the assumption that

682
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: she was on birth control. Then she got pregnant, and

683
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: um they got married. They've been married for two years

684
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: and they have a son now, and I mean he

685
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: loves his son to pieces. But every time that they

686
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 1: get into like a bigger like argument or anything like that.

687
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: She'll be like, oh, well, I gave you a baby

688
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: and he's like, no, you stole a baby from me.

689
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,879
Speaker 1: Like now, it's a funny joke. But yeah. So they're

690
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:47,280
Speaker 1: they're in love and they're happy. Yeah, okay, Well Jasmine,

691
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: why did she lie? I'm curious about that. Well, she

692
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: she kind of has daddy issues, like big time, and

693
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: her dad had just passed away. She was kind of

694
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: a hot mess, and her general manager at the time,

695
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: who is now her husband, was the fifty two year

696
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:04,879
Speaker 1: old balding tall man, and she just she wanted him

697
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: and um, he didn't seem attainable without becoming trapped, you know,

698
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: one way or another. So she trapped. Yes, I mean

699
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: you laugh every time you say it. It's now like

700
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: once she told me it's so bizarre. But I mean

701
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: it's not as uncommon as you think, Like I know

702
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: so many women that do these things. Like even my

703
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: sister she did the same thing, and it's just like

704
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 1: but I mean it's oh big time. Yeah, my well okay,

705
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: so my younger sister, this one's kind of actually bad. Um.

706
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: Her boyfriend at the time, I think he was like

707
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 1: seventeen and they had just gotten out of high school,

708
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 1: they just graduated, and he was going to go to

709
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: the military, and she didn't want him to go to

710
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 1: the military, so she told him that she was on

711
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:54,240
Speaker 1: birth control and then got pregnant so that he wouldn't

712
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: lead to the military and trapped him. M hm. And

713
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 1: how are they right? Uh? They they're like a bitter Uh.

714
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: It's just war all over for them. They have two

715
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: kids together now, but they're they're separate. And she went

716
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 1: on to trap three other men in the same kind

717
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:16,759
Speaker 1: of predicament. Wow, I think you've provided Tanya with some

718
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:22,839
Speaker 1: guidance here. Definitely, I'm definitely gonna go the route first

719
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:26,240
Speaker 1: of telling her that she needs to be honest through myself.

720
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: I have to disagree. You don't trap a man. Again,

721
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 1: a man knows what he's doing. So the man really

722
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: wanted to take care of himself, that he needs to

723
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: also bring him you know, be protected himself and bring

724
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 1: that to the table. Women cannot trap men. That's just

725
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:48,760
Speaker 1: not that doesn't happen. Well, she's not saying it's not trapped,

726
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 1: but like when you're lying to somebody and saying you're

727
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:54,320
Speaker 1: taking birth control, you're being dishonest and then you're getting pregnant.

728
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 1: It's not, but she was saying that she intentionally did

729
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 1: this to Mislead who get pregnant. So there's lays, there's layers,

730
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: there are levels to it. Yes, all right, well, Jasmine,

731
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: thank you for calling. Thanks Ali, Jasmine, she's fun. Thanks Jasmin.

732
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: By every time she tells one of the stories, she

733
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 1: laughs about it. I know, I know, I know with

734
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: Ryan secrets. Oh here we here she comes, Katie currect

735
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:33,240
Speaker 1: back to the show. Hi, nice to see you all.

736
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 1: How are you all? Well, let me just tell you

737
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: last night I went to go get I like artichokes

738
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: that come in the jar with the olive oil. Already

739
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not beat them with a toothpick, And

740
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,720
Speaker 1: so I was picking up some of those, among other things,

741
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: and there I was checking out the store and you're

742
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: on the covers of people. You're on the cover up

743
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah. And I didn't pick it up to

744
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 1: read it because I knew I was going to talk

745
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 1: to you today, but she's she I almost picked it

746
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: up to read eggs. Ryan. I got my artichokes and thought,

747
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to you tomorrow. Um, now, you don't

748
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: need people you've got, You've got it straight from the

749
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 1: horse's mouth, exactly exactly. So let's we're gonna talk about

750
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 1: the tour in a second. But obviously everybody's talking about

751
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,399
Speaker 1: your book going there. And you say, there's a real

752
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 1: specific reason why you wrote this, why you decided to

753
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: tell these stories? Tell us that, Well, first of all, like,

754
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: I've never looked back on my life and it's been

755
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 1: this crazy, big, unexpected, fascinating life full of ups and downs. Uh.

756
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 1: You know, I've had incredible experiences through the years, through

757
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:41,760
Speaker 1: my forty years and broadcasting probably not unlike you, Ryan,

758
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 1: and I thought it would be interesting to put pen

759
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:48,240
Speaker 1: to paper. One of the reasons I also really wanted

760
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 1: to write this book was for my daughters Ellen Carrey,

761
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 1: who are now and thirty, because they were six and

762
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 1: two when their dad died and never really got to

763
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 1: know him, and I wanted to bring him alive for

764
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 1: them and also talk about the very painful experience of

765
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: losing someone you love to cancer just over a nine

766
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:15,839
Speaker 1: month period. So, you know, I think different people will

767
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: get different things from this book. How persistent I was

768
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,880
Speaker 1: early in my career and wouldn't take no for an answer.

769
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,280
Speaker 1: How Um, I had to manage sort of this sudden

770
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 1: suddenly being a public figure as just kind of this

771
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: normal girl from Arlington, Virginia. I had to deal with, uh,

772
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 1: you know, losing my husband when he was just forty

773
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,239
Speaker 1: two and I was forty one, and my sister a

774
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 1: couple of years later. I had to handle and navigate

775
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: some pretty hostile work environments along the way. So, you know,

776
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: I think that the breadth of my experience experiences and

777
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 1: the wide ranging opportunities I've been privileged to have, I

778
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 1: think reflected not only my life but some of the

779
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 1: changes in society over the last forty years. So it

780
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 1: was really kind of just a very interesting to explore

781
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 1: this on so many levels. You know it for so

782
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 1: many people, Um, you you were companion to them. People

783
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 1: who didn't know you, who don't know it still aren't right.

784
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 1: I mean for me, before I met you, I feel

785
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 1: like I felt like I knew you, and I think

786
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: that was That's an incredible thing to be able to

787
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 1: to accomplish with people. Yeah, I think these para social

788
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 1: relationships that people form, I'm sure that you've experienced them

789
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 1: to a lot. Brian. If people see you in different situations.

790
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 1: They really feel like they know you, and and on

791
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: some level, as I write in the prologue, they do,

792
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: you know. They saw me have two children, They saw

793
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: me lose my husband and my sister. They saw me

794
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 1: laugh during funny segments and cry during sad ones, and

795
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 1: get tough when it was required to interview politicians or

796
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: people who were just you know, needed to be called out,

797
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: and so um they but that that was only to

798
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: a certain point. They they didn't really know what I

799
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:18,359
Speaker 1: was thinking, what was going on when Jay was diagnosed,

800
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 1: or when CBS was was a disaster, and they weren't

801
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: particularly welcoming to me and what it was like, um,

802
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,800
Speaker 1: you know, going through five years at at a network

803
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:35,360
Speaker 1: that just wasn't that into me, as the book calls it,

804
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 1: and the movie based on the book, But you know,

805
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 1: to me, it's just I don't know, I can't imagine

806
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 1: I can't imagine a book being very interesting if you're

807
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 1: just kind of saying la la, la, la la. And

808
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: then this happened, and then that happened without kind of

809
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 1: really revealing in a deeply personal way what that felt like.

810
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 1: And it came with some controversy, and you probably knew

811
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: it would when you told some of these stories about

812
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 1: some of the places where you were in the people specifically. Well,

813
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: what's interesting, though, what's interesting is the controversy is so

814
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: um based on a complete distortion. It's that's misinterpretation, misrepresentation, relation.

815
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 1: But but but to me, what's really fascinating is, you know,

816
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: a lot of it is manufactured controversy, and a lot

817
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 1: of the things that I think deserve a deep look

818
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 1: and a discussion or sort of how I was able

819
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: to navigate this male dominated media culture that doesn't seem

820
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 1: as interesting as sort of this hackneyed, predictable, sexist trope

821
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 1: of a cat fight, which is sort of like yeah, yeah,

822
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:50,879
Speaker 1: you know, of course they're going to blow that up

823
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 1: when it doesn't really exist in the book, you know.

824
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:57,760
Speaker 1: But the other things, the hard things that we really

825
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 1: need to look at, Yeah, that those are hard conversations

826
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: and big questions, and that doesn't seem to be appealing

827
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:10,839
Speaker 1: to those who are kind of writing salacious and misleading

828
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: headlines opecially fascinating stories. In the book, it's called Going There,

829
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Speaker 1: And now you're going to tell us what Going There

830
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Speaker 1: live will be because we're tickets are oun sale ticket

831
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Speaker 1: master dot Com. I'm really excited because I just really

832
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Speaker 1: wanted to to get people together in community, as they say,

833
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Speaker 1: to have a night that I hope will really inspire them,

834
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:36,759
Speaker 1: educate them. They'll be fascinating guests. So I think it's

835
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Speaker 1: going to be a very uplifting positive you know, here

836
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Speaker 1: we are. They're good people in the world doing great things,

837
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: and people who care about the world, who are thoughtful

838
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 1: and um, you know, don't necessarily just want to you know,

839
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 1: be flamethrowers. They want to have intelligent, civilized, thoughtful conversations.

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Speaker 1: Ticket Master dot Comference Take It's well, I could talk

841
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Speaker 1: to you for hours. Thank you for coming on. Katie's

842
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Speaker 1: always great to see you and I'd love to I

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Speaker 1: always love to have uh you're you're smart and it's

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Speaker 1: nice to have meaningful conversations with someone who's thoughtful because

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Speaker 1: it doesn't always happen. Well, thank you, we aim Please.

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Speaker 1: That was a lot of work for me. I'll talk

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Speaker 1: to you later. Bye, Katie, Okay, bye guys, thanks for

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Speaker 1: having me. Bye, very welcome. Bye. Air with Ryan Seacrest

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Speaker 1: World Series Game one braves Astros very tough for Los

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Speaker 1: when it's sold out. But I got you in a

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Speaker 1: second so recently single behavior Tanya has in the trending report.

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Speaker 1: Go for it, So I bring it up because that's

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Speaker 1: kind of what I think is going on with Jojo Siua.

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Speaker 1: So Jojo Siua is known for her like bright blonde

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Speaker 1: hair along with a lot of the other things in

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Speaker 1: her signature look like the bow and things like that.

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Speaker 1: But she debuted a new brunette hair color for Halloween

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Speaker 1: week on Dancing with the Stars because she was dressing

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Speaker 1: up as her Dancing with the Stars pro partner Jenna

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Speaker 1: Johnson Um. Some fans, though, seem to think that it's

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Speaker 1: more than just this Halloween look debut because news broke

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Speaker 1: a few days prior that Jojo Siwa and her girlfriend

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Speaker 1: Kylie Prue had called it quits. So some fans are

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Speaker 1: thinking it's RSB. You know, when you go through a breakup,

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Speaker 1: you want to make like a physical change to your look.

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Speaker 1: And honestly, I've never done anything like that, where you know,

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Speaker 1: you go from brighte blonde to brown hair. But I

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Speaker 1: almost feel like when you're ending a relationship and you're starting,

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Speaker 1: you're starting a new beginning, it's got to be kind

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Speaker 1: of empowering and very liberating to change something really drastic

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Speaker 1: about your look. I my RSB is always I go

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Speaker 1: to like the cheesy quotes on social media, and I'm

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Speaker 1: posting all those you know self helpy relationship quotes on

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Speaker 1: my Instagram. But I feel like going the physical route

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Speaker 1: and changing something about your parents might be actually kind

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Speaker 1: of really empowering and cool. I don't know what I

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Speaker 1: could do to change my physical appearance. I don't think

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Speaker 1: there is another appearance of me. You could grow your

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Speaker 1: hair out and wearing like a bun or in a

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Speaker 1: ponytel like during the pandemic, and none. I decided I

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Speaker 1: didn't like I do grow beards. No, you have scruff.

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Speaker 1: You don't have beards. Maybe instead of a six pack

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Speaker 1: is an eight pack? Well, I don't even have a

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Speaker 1: six pack. I'll tell you what I do. I tell

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Speaker 1: you what I do. I call Greg over at heart

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Speaker 1: and hustle the gym where I work out, or sometimes

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Speaker 1: and I called Greg and I say, let's pull it

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Speaker 1: tired down the alley, or let's drive a sled across

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Speaker 1: the boulevard, or let's do pull ups. And I put

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Speaker 1: into a workout I try and put into It doesn't

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Speaker 1: always last that long, but I try and put it

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Speaker 1: into a workout. Right, that's a healthy approach. And then

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Speaker 1: I wear tighter shirts once I've done the workout, and

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Speaker 1: then maybe I'll post one of those shots and regret it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: nice thirst trap. That's very hard. But I think it's

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Speaker 1: a thirst trap until I read the comments, and then

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Speaker 1: I realized it wasn't a thirst trap. People are just listen.

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Speaker 1: They don't have the courage that you have to post

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Speaker 1: that a picture. Mcgalui told me in the Four Agreements,

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Speaker 1: don't take anything personally, and he knew that he wrote

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Speaker 1: that way before comments were a thing. I know it's

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Speaker 1: the hardest thing to do, though. Not to take something

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Speaker 1: personal is the hardest thing to do in the world.

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Speaker 1: But read his words and it does give you a

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Speaker 1: way to do it. Even though I agree with you.

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Speaker 1: On on air with Ryan Seacrest, that's gonna do it

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Speaker 1: for us tomorrow. We've got more kiss if I'm Jingo

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Speaker 1: ball tickets. Also, you know, Savella is double digits now

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Speaker 1: ten weeks old. Sisanse husband Michael will join us tomorrow morning.

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Speaker 1: Hands full with Michael, that's what we're calling it. Until then,

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