1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 3: At all at all, So don't given them all back 4 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 3: A million bus buss boozy. 5 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 1: Listening to. 6 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:39,639 Speaker 4: To I want to Joy. 7 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 3: Joy you. 8 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 2: Don't turn. 9 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 3: You got to turn them out. Turn you probably got 10 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 3: to turn the mouth. 11 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: Turn out, turn the water the water jump look me. 12 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: Come come on, you'll think that. 13 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 5: Uh huh, I sure will. A good morning everybody. You 14 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 5: are listening to the voice. Come on, digney now one 15 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 5: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, today 16 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 5: is simple. I want to tell you. I want to 17 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 5: just talk to you about effort today. Just about effort. 18 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 5: You know, it's it's it's it's a word that people 19 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 5: use to describe sometimes trying. But what I found out 20 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 5: about trying is trying is just a noble way of 21 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 5: saying you didn't get it done. I tried when and 22 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 5: then everybody go, well, he tried, that was the best. 23 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 5: Well that's that's not. 24 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 2: Exactly true though, that that's that's not exactly true. 25 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 5: You are and I want to talk to you about 26 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 5: that because I don't want you to be one of 27 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 5: the people who just tried. 28 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 2: See trying. I mean, I gotta tell you to attempt something. 29 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,519 Speaker 5: You're gonna have to first try, but I want you 30 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 5: to change your mindset from trying to getting it done. See, 31 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 5: that's a big difference. I'm really more apt to listen 32 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 5: to the person that says to me, I'm gonna get 33 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 5: it done. I'm gonna try. What try does is it 34 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,239 Speaker 5: allows you to fail. It's the person that has the 35 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 5: mindset that I'm gonna get it done. It's the person 36 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 5: who changes the complexion of things. I'm gonna get it done. 37 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 5: It's very different than I'm gonna try. 38 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 6: You know. 39 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 5: Look, man, I know this sounds a little harsh, but 40 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 5: you gotta stop feeding yourself these little old wise sayings 41 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 5: that ain't it was a valiant tried. Hey man, you 42 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 5: talk to anybody that took second place in the Super 43 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 5: Bowl and see how they feel about their valiant try. 44 00:03:58,640 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 2: The only way. 45 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 5: To gain God's real blessings is you have to try something. 46 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 5: Steve Backpeddling, now, listen to me close. You have to 47 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 5: put forth an effort to allow God to put his 48 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 5: finger on something to bless on your behalf. You must 49 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 5: start to attempt now in saying getting it done and 50 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:31,799 Speaker 5: I'm gonna try. 51 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 2: That's a difference of two different faiths. To me, I'm 52 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:37,720 Speaker 2: just talking about me. 53 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 5: Now. You may be different, so I can't say this 54 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 5: about you, but I can say this about me. If 55 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 5: I say I'm gonna get it done, I have a 56 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 5: lot of faith in it. I am going to get 57 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 5: it done because I just don't see failure as an option. 58 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 5: A lot of times now, if somebody says to me, 59 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 5: like the Olympic team invited me out to curl one day, 60 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 5: which is throw these stones on the ice. If you're 61 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 5: not familiar with this very simple thing. 62 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 2: And so I said, man, I'd like to give that 63 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: a try. 64 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 5: I went in full well knowing I may not come 65 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 5: away from this little curling lesson as a person. 66 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 2: Who could make the Olympic team. I just wanted to 67 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 2: try it because I thought it looked cool, and. 68 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 5: I always wanted to get it done. When I failed twice, 69 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 5: I threw a stone completely into the other lane, I 70 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 5: lost that little ice shoe. It shot out under me. 71 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 5: But you know what, I kept trying though. I kept 72 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 5: trying until I got four of them stones in that 73 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 5: circle right where I aim. But now had I given 74 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 5: up after I failed. After I threw that stone in 75 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 5: the other lane, after I shot my shoe down all 76 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 5: the way to bottom side, the little ice shoe they 77 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 5: give you. I never did it, but because I was trying. 78 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 5: Something got me together a little bit because of my effort, 79 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 5: and it caused me not to fall the next time, 80 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 5: not to throw it in the other lane, not to 81 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 5: shoot my shoe to the back of the wall. All 82 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 5: of a sudden, my trying became something. Now had I 83 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 5: stayed out there and it wasn't so cold, and I 84 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 5: went back week after week after week after week, I 85 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 5: promise you I could get it done. I could at 86 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 5: least know how to compete in a game of curling. 87 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 2: Might not be the best. 88 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 5: I might not win the championship, but I could have 89 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 5: got it done to the point where I could have 90 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:47,720 Speaker 5: competed in a game of curling. So sometimes if you're 91 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 5: scared to say I'm gonna get it done, just go 92 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 5: out there and get started. You know, learn from every 93 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 5: attempt that you make. See, don't quit writing yourself off 94 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 5: as a failure every time something don't go right. And 95 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 5: when I fail on that ice, I could have said, man, 96 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 5: I can't curl, but hold up, Man, I'm watching four 97 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 5: other women. 98 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 2: Out here curl. 99 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 5: Four of the dudes out here curling, little kids out 100 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 5: here curling. Hold up, Pardner. You know, man, So I 101 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 5: learned when I threw that stone on the other ice, 102 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 5: when I failed, when when my shoe shot off, I 103 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 5: learned from every attempt a little bit more about it. 104 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 5: And then I said to myself one point in time, man, 105 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 5: I'm gonna get this stone in that circle. I'm gonna 106 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 5: get this stone in this circle. And guess what I 107 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 5: got it done. Now what you're saying to me, Steve, 108 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 5: I'm saying to you that you gotta get started. That 109 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 5: you got to put forth an effort. Give God something 110 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 5: to bless Oh God, bless me, Oh God, bless me. 111 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 2: Bless you? 112 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 6: What? 113 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 2: Bless you? 114 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: Where? 115 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 2: Bless you? 116 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 6: How? 117 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,119 Speaker 5: Stop basing your results on what you're thinking. You gotta 118 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 5: think higher. You get God in your life. Man, He 119 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:04,559 Speaker 5: allows you to think, KaiA, bigger, better more. I'm sitting 120 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 5: up in my debt. I came up with a plan 121 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 5: to get out of debt in five years. I came 122 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 5: up with this plan right, I was sitting up and 123 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 5: I was tripping on it. Now, I said, wait a minute, man, 124 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 5: hold on, this is what I came up with. I said, 125 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 5: God created heaven and earth, all of it, the mountains, 126 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 5: the sky, the valleys, the oceans, trees, the birds, the 127 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,319 Speaker 5: Indian Ocean, all of it, made all of it in 128 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 5: six days, and then he rested on the seven. So 129 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 5: why am I taking to God the five year plan? 130 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 5: If he can create heaven and earth in six days, 131 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 5: why am I walking in there talking about help me 132 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 5: in five years? How is it gonna take God five 133 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 5: years to getting me out of debt? 134 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 2: And he made heaven and Earth in six days? A math? Hell, Man, 135 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: I ain't that big. You ain't that big. You ain't 136 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 2: in that much trouble. I ain't in that much trouble. 137 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 5: See, God got a way of showing you some things, man, 138 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 5: but it's gonna take some faith, and faith gonna take 139 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 5: some effort on your part. Man, get out and do something. Man, 140 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 5: you God will bless you a little bit and he 141 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 5: give you a little bit more courage. And then all 142 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 5: them attempts you making is gonna and all this so 143 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 5: I'll try. You know what that turned into. I'm gonna 144 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 5: get it done. And at the end of the day, 145 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 5: that's what you have to do, because trying to pay 146 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 5: your rent and not paying your rent is two different things. 147 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 5: You could you can try to play your pay your rent, 148 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 5: or you can get it done. Now, how long you 149 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,199 Speaker 5: think you gonna stay in that house trying? You got 150 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 5: to go with the mindset of getting it done. And 151 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 5: if you can put some stuff out there and give 152 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 5: God a chance to put his finger on and bless 153 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:51,599 Speaker 5: it for you the most stuff he can do for you, 154 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 5: quit looking around at what everybody. 155 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 2: Else got and gonna get some of it for yourself. 156 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 157 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen again. 158 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:13,439 Speaker 5: Today we have been provided blessed with grace, favorite with 159 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 5: a new opportunity. Today you have an opportunity to make 160 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 5: a set of brand new choices. Today you can decide 161 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:29,719 Speaker 5: to be grateful. You can decide to do the right 162 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 5: thing or the wrong. Today. You get to pick if 163 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 5: you are going to improve yourself or if you are 164 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:42,719 Speaker 5: going to remain the same. You can choose today to 165 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 5: be proactive or stagnant. You get to make the choice. 166 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 5: But do you understand how valuable of an opportunity you've 167 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 5: been given to do? Either one of those, I choose 168 00:10:55,800 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 5: the positive and the one that's more with thinking. That's 169 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 5: how I choose to live my life. I'm gonna make 170 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 5: those choices today. I'm gonna ask God to help order 171 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 5: my steps so I don't stumble, and if I do stumble, 172 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 5: hold me. But also I'm just gonna concern myself with today, 173 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 5: taking tomorrow off the plate, because there is nothing you 174 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 5: can do today about tomorrow. Nothing you could wake up 175 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 5: tomorrow and it go completely different from everything you've planned. 176 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 5: So give us this day our daily bread. That's a 177 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 5: very important line in that prayer. Steve har Marty Show, 178 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 5: Chlon Strawberry Collin for rerel Mississippi, Monica Jr. 179 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 2: And the legend that is nephew Tommy Junior. What's going 180 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:48,719 Speaker 2: on with you? 181 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, let me ask you a question. Do you remember 182 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 7: where you were when you decided to stop running from God? 183 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 7: Do you remember how you how that went? 184 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 6: Well? 185 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 5: I've had a couple of those because I read more 186 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:05,959 Speaker 5: than once. The first time I was sixteen seventeen. I 187 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 5: got saved when I was about sixteen seventeen. Then I 188 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 5: went to college. It was in a foot race the 189 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 5: other way, a track meet to Hell. I ran lead 190 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 5: off and anchor. 191 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:28,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they handed to stick to myself. 192 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 5: That second leg I got when I got it from 193 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 5: myself from the lead off that second leg. 194 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 2: Who if they had. 195 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 5: If they had video cameras back then, you just saw 196 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 5: something world record. Then I got married and I tried 197 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 5: to straighten up a little bit, and so I slowed down. 198 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 5: So I gave up relay racing and just turned into 199 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:58,199 Speaker 5: a cross country runner. 200 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 2: Oh long long, yeah, long distance. I'll try to do 201 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:02,959 Speaker 2: it like that. 202 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 5: And that didn't work out for me too well either, 203 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 5: and then I lost everything and became homeless and bought 204 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 5: the relay team back out of retirement. 205 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: Retirement. 206 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:21,439 Speaker 5: Oh, I was doing pretty good. And then I got remarried, 207 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,199 Speaker 5: and then I fell off the wagon. Right then I 208 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 5: became a full blown, recovering alcoholic. At that point, I 209 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 5: didn't know what was going on. I ain't even dreamed. 210 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 5: That's what made that That second man was. 211 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: Just coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour, Junior. 212 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, well here. 213 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:46,319 Speaker 1: As he runs that prank back right after this. You're listening. 214 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 8: Morning show. 215 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 2: My name is. 216 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:56,199 Speaker 9: Tony and my daughter Bailey is seven years old. We 217 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 9: learned about seeker Selle at Bert. So when we got 218 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 9: the news, my first mind was WHI else. I remember 219 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 9: that sometimes the things that you go through are not 220 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 9: necessarily for you, there for somebody else. I'm so thankful 221 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 9: to God and Saint Jude and all the angels that 222 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 9: work here. They took all the whereaway. 223 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 7: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and diseases like 224 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 7: sickle self. Please become a Saint Jude partner in Hope 225 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 7: today by texting s h M S to seven eight 226 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 7: five eight three three. 227 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: It is time now to run that prank back with 228 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: the nephew. 229 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 10: What you got for his new Can you bring me 230 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 10: some paper? I'm at a house, I'm visiting. Nobody's at 231 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 10: this house with me, So I called the neighbor down 232 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 10: the street to see if he can bring me some paper. 233 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 10: I mean, it's the neighborly thing to do. Don't you 234 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 10: think you know it wouldn't be a problem bringing me 235 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 10: some paper. So cat dog, let's run this thing. Can 236 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 10: you bring me some paper? 237 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 11: Hello? 238 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 4: Hello, I'm trying to Charles. I'm looking for Charles. 239 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 11: Yeah, this child this How can I help you? 240 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 4: Hey, listen, I'm you by singing with I'm sorry, it's 241 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 4: gotty man, I'm house sitting for Rita. 242 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 11: See y'all okay, okay, yeah, yeah, she told me she 243 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 11: was going out of town. What can I do for you? 244 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: Brother? 245 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 4: How far y'all down the way? Man, y'all, I'm in 246 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 4: the house file houses. 247 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 11: Yeah, I think let's see. Yeah we four houses down. 248 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 4: Okay. Now, she loved me a number, man, love me, 249 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 4: y'all know me? And then she loved Miss Dars. No, 250 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 4: I try to call Miss Darts, but then nobody after 251 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 4: the phone. 252 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 11: Yeah, you know, I'm in church around this time. Ria 253 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 11: said she was gonna be gone for a minute. 254 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 4: So you say you dowing there right right right? And 255 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 4: she told me if I got an emergency anything, that 256 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 4: I could reach out to y'all and call y'all right, 257 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 4: right right, okay? Are you are you busy right now? Man? 258 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 6: Well? 259 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 11: Actually, I'm in the middle of cooking my wife some 260 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 11: dinner and uh got some meat on the grill. 261 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 4: But other than that, you know, okay, I mean you 262 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 4: you are you able to help me out with something 263 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 4: right quick? Or you got you got time for that? 264 00:15:59,480 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 6: Well? 265 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 11: Like I said, I'm in the middle of cooking. If 266 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 11: there's something I can help you with, I you know, 267 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 11: I don't mind coming down there and showing you doing 268 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 11: whatever it is that we need to do. 269 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 4: Okay, Charlie, would you outen to have any paper? Man? 270 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 11: Any paper? 271 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 6: Yeah? 272 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 11: I think I got some newspaper. You're trying. 273 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no, no, no news. 274 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 6: I mean some paper. 275 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 4: You have some paper? 276 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 11: What notebook paper? 277 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 6: No? 278 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 4: See man, listen, Chylie, Like I said, my name's gootted. Man, 279 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 4: I know you don't know me. I didn't got myself 280 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 4: in this situation here down here read the house man, 281 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 4: and I didn't. Man, I'm in a situation I actually 282 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 4: and in the bathroom. Man, it ain't no paper in here. 283 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 6: Dog. 284 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 11: So you're saying you want me to bring you. 285 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 4: Some toilet paper, I mean, if you don't mind. I'm 286 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 4: sitting there. My legs ain't got none of my I 287 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 4: can't feel my my, my whole little body man, from 288 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 4: butt down. I can't feel nothing, man, my feet, everything 289 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 4: that went to sleep on me. 290 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 11: Hold up, babe, dude down here at rid the house 291 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:04,399 Speaker 11: saying he wants me to bring his taper because he 292 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 11: didn't got numb sitting on a TuS man. Look at it, bruh. 293 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 11: I'm in the middle of cooking. I wish I could 294 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:11,200 Speaker 11: help you, but you know, I mean. 295 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 4: Tell you ain't about four hours a doctor. You just 296 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 4: run down here right quickly. I'm in the back door open. 297 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:18,120 Speaker 11: I have to say. Man, I understand all that you're saying, 298 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:20,120 Speaker 11: but like I said, I'm in the middle of cooking 299 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 11: for my wife. We having a little special occasion because 300 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 11: our kids and stuff gone, and I can't leave her 301 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 11: like that just to come bring you know, taper. Now, 302 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 11: what I can tell you to do is if Rita 303 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 11: got one of them toils or something that. 304 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 4: Man, I'm not using nobody tie like. That's disrespectful. 305 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 11: Man. Okay, hey, but lord your voice? Man, you calling 306 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 11: me to help you, and you acting like I caused 307 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 11: you to not have no guy? 308 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 4: You case the handsati the bachelor. I got all I'm 309 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,679 Speaker 4: asking for. Just ain't gonna take no more but two 310 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 4: three minutes. Run down here right quick and bring the 311 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 4: paper man and then you get on back to your dinner. 312 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 11: Well, what you was kind of like what you need 313 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 11: to do? 314 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:55,880 Speaker 6: Brother? 315 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 11: You said you had emergency. I thought the house or 316 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 11: the dog that got out of Uh you lock yourself 317 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:03,879 Speaker 11: out the house. But I'm not gonna come down there. 318 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 11: And bring you no papers, because that doesn't sound like emergency. 319 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 11: That sounds like some personal And furthermore, you're in the 320 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:12,680 Speaker 11: bathroom just jump shot your cool getting a shot on white. 321 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 4: I'm not fein the dog. That's like I said, I'm 322 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:17,120 Speaker 4: numb right now, man, I need some help. 323 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:17,359 Speaker 6: It's on. 324 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 11: So you want me to come down there and bring 325 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 11: you some toilet papers and pick your number? You can't 326 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 11: get up out the tilet if I want to help 327 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 11: you things this day. 328 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 4: That's why I'm trying to tell you I'm in an emerging. 329 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 11: See man, Okay, Well that, like I said, Man, that 330 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 11: don't sound like emergency. It seems like a little quick fix. 331 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:38,159 Speaker 11: Get your drawings and white your drawings. So the way go, 332 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 11: get you some molds. I mean, I'm not send to 333 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 11: walk four houses down there to bring you some toilet papers. 334 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:45,639 Speaker 11: Your legs, n h. How you gonna get up and 335 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 11: open the door. 336 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 4: The back door is open. All you gotta do is 337 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 4: come in here and reaching him and pass me roll 338 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 4: of paper. Man, That's all I'm asking you to do, 339 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 4: mister Charlotte. 340 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 11: I understand that, but I'm not gonna come down there 341 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 11: and bring you no table. I'm not gonna bring you 342 00:18:58,640 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 11: bring me. 343 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:00,439 Speaker 4: Some paper down here? 344 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 11: Man told you? 345 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 4: Man, you no man to say? 346 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 11: Man, who the hell you think you holling at? 347 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 4: You need me? I don't need you or want you 348 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:08,920 Speaker 4: to do something. Man. You see, I'm sitting in a 349 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 4: situation noreda left y'all number that y'all will help me 350 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 4: while I'm down there house watching. Man. 351 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:17,120 Speaker 11: Just here's crazy, baby. Man, what whyn't you you gonna 352 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 11: call me asking me to bring you some newspapers? I 353 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 11: told you that I was in the middle of fixing 354 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 11: me and my wife from dinner, and you come calling 355 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,040 Speaker 11: me talking about some paper. 356 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 4: Man. 357 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 11: I don't want to hear no, by no doubt, and 358 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 11: I ain't coming down there to bring you no paper. 359 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 4: Man. Hello, Charlie, you're gonna bring this paper man? 360 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 11: Man? Look like I told you before, I ask him 361 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:41,640 Speaker 11: to bring you no paper down there. We don't wape 362 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 11: no on this street. 363 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:44,879 Speaker 4: Hold old man, I can't just you can't just leave 364 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 4: me here. 365 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 11: And I'm Numb'm like this, bounce to come bring no 366 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 11: brown man, no toilet papers because he is responsible when 367 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 11: he going into a restroom. That sound like a personal problem. 368 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 11: You you too wrong for that. 369 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,880 Speaker 4: Just situation though this is an emergency. Man. 370 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 11: Man, that don't sound in no penc. That sounds like 371 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 11: a personal problem that you got going on. 372 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 4: I'm gonna get off of here, man, you know to 373 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 4: be off with I don't give about you being man 374 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 4: mat a fact. 375 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 11: Soon as you get your out of there, you so, man, 376 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 11: you come on down here. 377 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 4: I'm coming down there. 378 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:16,360 Speaker 11: By the trick. 379 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 4: I'm coming down there the way. I am just like 380 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 4: this hell and I'm gonna whoop for not helping me 381 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 4: while I'm in a situation. 382 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 11: Will bring your tomb. I got one more thing I 383 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 11: need to say. 384 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:26,919 Speaker 4: To you that I'm gonna do, is. 385 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 11: You're listening ringio tongue. I got some snake skin shoes 386 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 11: that fit right up, clean up. Only. 387 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 4: I got one more thing and you listening? 388 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 6: Man? 389 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 11: What man like I said? 390 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 6: What what you got to say? 391 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 4: Man, this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 392 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 4: You just got pranked by your neighbor readers. 393 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 11: Anxious damn cat mother from the radio stations. This timing 394 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 11: from the Steve Harvey Morning So. 395 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 4: I'm gonna whoop. 396 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:59,920 Speaker 11: Reader, got you called? Now? Man? You had me house, 397 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 11: gonna come down there, man and boy, you better be 398 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 11: glad I'm eating. I can't believe it. 399 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 4: Hey man, I gotta ask you man, one more thing. 400 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,159 Speaker 4: What is what is the baddest I'm talking about the 401 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 4: baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Harvey Show. 402 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 11: Y'all playing practical joke sold folks many. 403 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 2: Let me back and I thank you. 404 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 8: Coming up next it is as the CELO or Chief 405 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 8: Love Officer, Steve Harvey back in the building. 406 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 407 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,400 Speaker 2: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow room? 408 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 5: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space until 409 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 5: now introduce it the Hondai Ionic nine, a three row 410 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 5: electric suv with over three hundred miles of rage, ultra 411 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,040 Speaker 5: fast charging capability, and lots of space. 412 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 10: The all new Hondai Ionic nine face in an EV. 413 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 10: Visit HONDAIUSA dot com for more details. 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Actual rings will vary based on several factors. 416 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. 417 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 8: In trending National news, President Trump warns that la military 418 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 8: deployment could be first of many and in entertainment news. 419 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:27,439 Speaker 8: R Kelly's attorney asks President Trump to free him from prison, 420 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 8: and sly Stone's. 421 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:31,400 Speaker 1: Cause of death has been revealed. 422 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 8: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top 423 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 8: of the hour, but right now it is time to 424 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 8: ask the colo. 425 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 1: This is from Quinn and Minneapolis. 426 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,639 Speaker 8: Quinn writes, my husband takes my cell phone at times 427 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 8: if he's out, running out to get coffee or anywhere quick. 428 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 8: I have nothing to hide, but it's annoying that he 429 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:56,639 Speaker 8: grabs my phone. That's over sharing and he needs to 430 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 8: take his own phone. Am I overreacting on it? 431 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 5: I don't think you are. I don't think you are. 432 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 5: I don't understand why. Well, I'm taking your phone. You 433 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:12,880 Speaker 5: ain't got none of my contacts in there. I don't 434 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:14,400 Speaker 5: want to talk to none of your friends. 435 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 2: I just don't. I don't know. I don't know what 436 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:20,879 Speaker 2: that is. I don't know. 437 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 5: You know it called itself taking the phone. You ain't 438 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 5: talking nobody while I'm gone. It could be that insecurity 439 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 5: you could be checking your phones whatever. But no, you're 440 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 5: not overreacting. It's your phone to take your phone. Yeah, 441 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 5: even if you're married, you don't belong to somebody just well, 442 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:43,480 Speaker 5: I can't say that. Let me put to you this way, 443 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 5: just because you're married, you still have to have some 444 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 5: things that are yours. You can't give up your individuality completely, right, 445 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 5: you know, a woman and a man. You deserve your 446 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 5: own phone, your own bank account. Every married person should 447 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 5: have their own own bank account. You got to have 448 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 5: something of yours that you can control. You can't just 449 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 5: give yourself over to somebody else to let them do 450 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:07,159 Speaker 5: what they want to do. 451 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 2: No, who do that? 452 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 1: That ain't fun at all? 453 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 2: All right? 454 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:13,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, Philo? What's wrong? 455 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 2: Nobody sent me into sumright? The left the house with 456 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 2: the phone. What that couldn't happen to you if you 457 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 2: had got to run that car off the road. All right? 458 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,399 Speaker 1: Moving on to Brittany and Norcross. 459 00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 8: Brittany writes, my dad was not in my life until 460 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 8: I got married and had a child. 461 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 1: Now he's the best grandfather ever. 462 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 8: He was even there for my son's birth, and I 463 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 8: got jealous and resentful because of that. 464 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,879 Speaker 1: I'm almost thirty. So should I tell my dad or 465 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 1: let go of the past. 466 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 5: Well, I'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist, but let me 467 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 5: just say this. 468 00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 2: You can ruin your future dwelling on your past. You 469 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 2: can do that. I know a lot of people who 470 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 2: have done it. 471 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:05,400 Speaker 11: Now. 472 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,399 Speaker 5: I know you might have some daddy issues because you 473 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,640 Speaker 5: didn't have a father. That's very very reasonable, that's very 474 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 5: doable in you, and you might have to discuss that 475 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 5: with him. But he's grown into a new person. People 476 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 5: have a right to change. You're in his life now. 477 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:25,680 Speaker 5: He's a great grandfather. 478 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 479 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 5: He said, Man, I messed up on trying to get 480 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 5: it right. I don't think you're looking at that part. 481 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,680 Speaker 5: You're only looking at the part of what he didn't 482 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 5: do for you. You're not looking at what he's doing 483 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 5: for you now and what he's providing for the grandchild. 484 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 2: So you can go. 485 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,720 Speaker 5: I mean, you might as well have a talk with 486 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 5: him and just say, hey, look I felt resentful forgive me, 487 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 5: I've been thinking these ways. I'm sorry. I was upset 488 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,239 Speaker 5: with you because you weren't there for me. Now you're 489 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,199 Speaker 5: there all the time, and now I don't know why 490 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 5: you mad because he there now though. But people have 491 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 5: to deal with issues they way. You might have to 492 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 5: bring it up and say something to him about it, 493 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:05,680 Speaker 5: or get counseling, which I don't you know. I'm not 494 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,959 Speaker 5: a counsel type person, but a lot of people are. 495 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 5: So you might have to get therapy to talk to 496 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,360 Speaker 5: the issues about it because him not being there has 497 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:14,800 Speaker 5: created something for sure. 498 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:19,120 Speaker 1: Absolutely. Yeah, okay, all right, Celo, thank you for that one. 499 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 8: Asia in Baltimore says, my boyfriend will take my car 500 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,639 Speaker 8: to the car wash, but he will not get the 501 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 8: inside cleaned and vacuumed. 502 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 1: I get tired. 503 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 8: I got tired of it, so I hired the young 504 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,440 Speaker 8: man across the street to vacuum and wash my windows 505 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:33,639 Speaker 8: to get back at him. 506 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 6: It worked. 507 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 1: Am I petty for doing it? 508 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:41,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? You said, to get back at him and it worked? Yeah, yeah, 509 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 2: am I petty? Yeah? Yeah you petty? The next question, 510 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 2: all right, the last one, and you know you petty? 511 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:54,920 Speaker 1: You said, yeah, yeah yeah. Eric and Dothan writes that 512 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: my wife talks in her sleep. 513 00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 5: Jothan, Alabama, two thirty one, Baby day in Express, go ahead. 514 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 1: Share my wife. 515 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 5: With lounge Parrot Parrot lounge to be outside of holiday 516 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:11,120 Speaker 5: in Express. On two thirty one. 517 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 8: At Doping okay uh, anyway, Eric writes that my wife 518 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 8: talks in her sleep, and last night she said, hey, Steve, 519 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 8: I assumed it was Steve Harvey because we watched Family 520 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 8: Feud before bed. Survey says, my wife is dreaming about you, Steve. 521 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 8: Is it normal to dream or fantasize about a phil. 522 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 5: Absolutely not, absolutely not, absolutely not. And she didn't say 523 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:43,160 Speaker 5: Steve Harvey, So you know, it could be Steve Wilco. 524 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 5: He got a show, used to be Jerry Spranger's bodyguard. 525 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:55,400 Speaker 1: You yeah, before bed? 526 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, it could be here, Yeah, it's you. It could be. 527 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:01,960 Speaker 2: There's a lot of Steve's. I know, you could just 528 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 2: be one of them. 529 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 5: You could be dreaming about Steve Stout and then that'll 530 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:07,879 Speaker 5: be a problem because he ain't that family, but he 531 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 5: lived in New York. 532 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 2: And then you know it's either you or Stephen Smith. 533 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 2: It's one of the two. But would oh, there you go, 534 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 2: oh Stephen a right here? She would say, though, no, 535 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 2: she wouldn't. There's Steve. They don't they cool? 536 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:26,200 Speaker 6: You know? 537 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 12: So I don't. 538 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 2: I'm not in her dreams. 539 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 13: Dog, No. 540 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: I ain't. 541 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 2: I ain't finna be that, No, no, sir. 542 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 6: Yeah. 543 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 2: All the people shout out to Monica Barnes, who was 544 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 2: at the. 545 00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 5: Golf tournament and uh who has been on some type 546 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 5: of program and look absolutely amazing. Yesterday shout out to 547 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 5: Monica Bard straight out of Mississippi on some type of 548 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 5: program them and they was on hall at the golf 549 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 5: Turn to yesterday. 550 00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 6: The hall. 551 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was out there. She was out there winning 552 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 2: Shirley in college. 553 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 1: Get your dub girl, win win. 554 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 2: She looks great. 555 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 1: And that's all her own hair, thank you, Yes, beauty, Paul. 556 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 2: And I told them that too. I said, she's single 557 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 2: and that's her hair. 558 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 3: That's all. 559 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 2: That's her hair. 560 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 1: If she bought it is her hair. 561 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 5: No, No, she ain't bought that though. That ain't come 562 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 5: out the bag, that comes straight out the roots. 563 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:44,200 Speaker 8: Sorry, So so you're you're convinced that it wasn't you. 564 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 8: She was dreaming about we're all in disagreement. 565 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,320 Speaker 2: That's way too many steeves. 566 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 8: Yeah, but they watched Family Feud right before bed. Okay, 567 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 8: so it stands to reason that. 568 00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 2: They don't stand what you stand to reason me that. 569 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 1: Is you because they watched the show. 570 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:04,840 Speaker 2: Stand to. 571 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 1: It's you could have been on the show. 572 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 6: She was. 573 00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 2: She was on her phone. She was on her phone. 574 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,440 Speaker 2: She could have been talking about Steve. 575 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 8: Jobs, everybody in Family, Seeds and Taste. Yeah, coming up, 576 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 8: at the top of the hour. We'll have some entertainment 577 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 8: news for you right after this taste. 578 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 579 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 8: In trending national news, according to CNN and ABC News, 580 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 8: protests and folding nationwide against President Donald Trump's immigration agenda 581 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 8: come as ice immigration and customs enforcement races. Uh, they're 582 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 8: racing to meet White House arrest quotas. La Mayor Karen 583 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 8: Vass has announced an eight pm curfew due to the 584 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 8: protests and lou President Trump and his administration officials said 585 00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 8: the use of the military in response to protests against 586 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 8: his immigration crackdown may not be limited to just Los Angeles, 587 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 8: saying it could be the first of quote many, and 588 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 8: that protesters could be met with equal or greater force. 589 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 1: In addition, the. 590 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 8: President said that protesters who assembled during the Army's two 591 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 8: hundred and fiftieth Birthday military parade in Washington would be 592 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 8: met with very big force, very big force. So he's 593 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:34,080 Speaker 8: already threatening getting ready for that. That's happening this weekend, Yeah, 594 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 8: Saturday in Washington. 595 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. So yeah, it's a lot. 596 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, you have to avoid that at all because that's 597 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 5: you can't disrupt, you know, veterans and military and stuff 598 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 5: that I just stay away from that one, y'all because 599 00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 5: he already said you'll be met with that. They gonna 600 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 5: take that personally, right, I'm okay with peaceful protests. It's 601 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 5: a way to express how you are. I think what 602 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 5: happening with this administration is they now seem to have 603 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 5: this quotea of the feel and now they're not filling 604 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 5: it with criminals and uh, drug dealers and people who 605 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 5: have warrants. They just feeling it. They're just breaking up 606 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 5: families and stuff now. And that's kind of kind of 607 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 5: what the problem is that they're having. I mean, when 608 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 5: you go to a school and take a child out 609 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 5: of school. They arrested this one girl and it was heartbreaking. 610 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 5: She said, I have finals. Can I go back to school? 611 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 5: I have my finals. It's sent it to a center 612 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:44,480 Speaker 5: and everything that's not right, it's not right with it. 613 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 1: He didn't call the military and handle all this. 614 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's all of them, he's his partner. 615 00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:03,240 Speaker 1: There, right exactly. So Yeah, very hypocritical. 616 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, And January sixth, it was one of the craziest 617 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:13,960 Speaker 5: things I've ever seen perpetrated in this country. Yes, of 618 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 5: late against the government and all that window breaking and 619 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 5: wall climbing, brall daylight, nothing any pardoning these people, Yeah. 620 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 2: Right, had them been black people. 621 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 1: Please, Lord Jesus Mercy or brown people, yeah, you know. 622 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 2: How many people would have got shot off that wall man? 623 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 6: Yeah? 624 00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, big four as he says, very big force. 625 00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 14: Yeah yeah, all right, moving on, he needs a vocabulary, 626 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 14: I know that he got. We're gonna switch gears here. 627 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 8: Steve and Entertainment News, a leader of an Arian Brotherhood 628 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:58,080 Speaker 8: prison gang, claimed that federal authorities offered him freedom to 629 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 8: spend his last days outside of prison and if he 630 00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 8: killed r Kelly, he allegedly told the authorities he was 631 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 8: willing to Yeah, he allegedly told the authorities he was 632 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 8: willing to commit the murder, but instead told r Kelly 633 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 8: about the plot and warmed him about the danger to 634 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,319 Speaker 8: his life. R Kelly's attorney said, quote R Kelly's life 635 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,600 Speaker 8: is now threatened because of his willingness to fight and 636 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,520 Speaker 8: to expose a very kind of corruption that President Trump 637 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 8: has been fighting and standing up to since the day 638 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,400 Speaker 8: he took that office. We will ask the President for 639 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 8: help end quote. R Kelly is currently, of course, incarcerated 640 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,439 Speaker 8: due to a thirty year sentence in New York City 641 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,440 Speaker 8: after he was found guilty of nine counts of racketeering 642 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,360 Speaker 8: and sex trafficking back in twenty twenty two, and he 643 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 8: faces up to twenty years from being found guilty to 644 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 8: criminal sexual charges in Chicago. 645 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 1: So they're appealing now to President Trump to release r. 646 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:51,400 Speaker 2: Kelly. 647 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 15: Basically, Oh no, he's not getting up of that. 648 00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 2: Care who told you. 649 00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 1: This is horrible? 650 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 6: Yeah. 651 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:07,719 Speaker 5: I don't put nothing. I don't put nothing past this 652 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 5: administration nothing. 653 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,960 Speaker 1: Oh so yeah, yeah, you never know what you're saying, Steve. 654 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 2: All of this is on the table. And you know what, man, 655 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,239 Speaker 2: we could we can be angry if we want to. 656 00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 5: But I tell people all the time, slow it down 657 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 5: for yourself, man, stop stretching yourself out. Do you know 658 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,320 Speaker 5: we as Americans, we're not allowed to vote on foreign policy? 659 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:34,720 Speaker 5: What's happening in Israel, what's happening with Ukraine? 660 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 2: How we gonna have? We don't get to vote on 661 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:38,360 Speaker 2: foreign policy. 662 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:40,320 Speaker 12: All all that? 663 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 5: And this is what he's doing with Ice. That's a 664 00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:45,200 Speaker 5: foreign policy he's creating. Yeah, he's putting that on the 665 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:48,320 Speaker 5: foreign policy. He just we don't get to vote in that. 666 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 5: So y'all can relax you know, and I know it's 667 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 5: people say it's easy for you to say relaxed, Eve. 668 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,960 Speaker 5: Now what I mean by that is take that off 669 00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:02,720 Speaker 5: your plate of worry. Yep, because this guy is doing 670 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:06,720 Speaker 5: what he wants to do, and he has the entire 671 00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:13,800 Speaker 5: Republican Party by the throat and under his knee, and 672 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 5: he and they are intimidated by him, and they can 673 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 5: and you know a few of them came, oh, we're 674 00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,279 Speaker 5: not going to pass this great bill. Now I have 675 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 5: some problems with it. 676 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:24,920 Speaker 2: It passed. 677 00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:28,439 Speaker 5: They all say this is not good. If I could 678 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 5: it passed. Vibe, we're gonna do it. He gonna do 679 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:36,279 Speaker 5: what he want to do anyway, because they scared of him. 680 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:38,800 Speaker 1: He told people what he was going to do. 681 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, all absolutely, but they didn't believe him. They didn't 682 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:45,360 Speaker 8: believe him. And that's why he's president. 683 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:50,480 Speaker 2: They believed that's what they wanted. 684 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, a lot of people didn't though. 685 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,000 Speaker 8: I thought they didn't believe that he really was going 686 00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,000 Speaker 8: to do all these terrible things he said he was 687 00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 8: going to do. 688 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 1: They just liked him and wanted him to win, so 689 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 1: they voted. Who told you, Yes, he who they are? 690 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:11,799 Speaker 1: Believe them, believe them and they cheated. Uh all right, right, 691 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:12,399 Speaker 1: all right. 692 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 8: Guys, coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll 693 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 8: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 694 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:21,239 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 695 00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 2: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow room? 696 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:32,720 Speaker 5: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space. 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That's wonderful, wonderful. 753 00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 8: Yeah, because Saint Jude is just doing wonderful things. They 754 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 8: house the families, their main families don't have to worry 755 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,359 Speaker 8: about where they're gonna live, what they're gonna eat, none 756 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 8: of that. 757 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,279 Speaker 2: Huh, yeah, we know that. Yeah. 758 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,600 Speaker 5: If you ain't got that, seeing what you can right, 759 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,200 Speaker 5: seeing what you can anything is helpful. 760 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 2: If you don't have the nineteen dollars, just seeing whatever 761 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 2: you can. 762 00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:47,239 Speaker 8: Right, just text the word s HMS to seven eighty 763 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:50,279 Speaker 8: five eight three three and click the link from Saint 764 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:51,320 Speaker 8: Jude to donate. 765 00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,160 Speaker 1: All right, that's all, yeah, junior, what. 766 00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 2: Did you say about eight? 767 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:55,319 Speaker 1: Coming up? 768 00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 2: Did you say about eighty three? 769 00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,800 Speaker 15: Back in nineteen eighty three, that's when Kimberlyn was cheered of, 770 00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 15: Oh yeah, I'm. 771 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 8: All right, guys, thank you so much. Coming up at 772 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,960 Speaker 8: thirty four minutes after the hour, here's a question. Should 773 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,279 Speaker 8: a daughter spend Father's Day with her husband or her father? 774 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:18,480 Speaker 8: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve 775 00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 8: Harvey Morning Show. Here's a question that we saw online. 776 00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:28,880 Speaker 8: Should a daughter spend Father's Day with her husband or 777 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,160 Speaker 8: her father? That is a question, and older dad wrote 778 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 8: in and said, it's been a long time since I've 779 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 8: seen my daughter on Father's Day. Her husband says she 780 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 8: needs to spend Father's Day with him, the father of 781 00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:43,440 Speaker 8: her children. My daughter told her husband you are not 782 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:47,720 Speaker 8: my daddy? Why is my son in law Tripp? Then okay, 783 00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 8: all right, we've had this situation on Mother's Day. Yeah, 784 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 8: so what you say your thoughts, Steve Tommy Junior. 785 00:41:59,520 --> 00:41:59,879 Speaker 2: Don't say. 786 00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 10: You know, if you could split the day, it would 787 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 10: be probably ideal to please everybody. But I'm going to 788 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:12,400 Speaker 10: my parent first. My dad, uh father'd my daddy. I 789 00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,799 Speaker 10: don't really have to see my kids on Father's Day. 790 00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 2: I really don't. I see them every day. 791 00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:27,160 Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, so you wouldn't mind if your daughter 792 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:28,000 Speaker 1: was married. 793 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:30,760 Speaker 16: You wouldn't mind her going to be with her husband 794 00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:32,719 Speaker 16: if they had kids, versus coming to see you. 795 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:35,839 Speaker 2: Her husband ain't her dad? 796 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 1: Yeah okay, okay, yeah you getting mad to. 797 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:47,080 Speaker 2: Let me back husband ain't her dad. I'm sorry I 798 00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:47,680 Speaker 2: was still agree. 799 00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:51,960 Speaker 5: But that's the problem with the letter, because the husband, 800 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 5: who is the father of their children is mad at 801 00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:58,160 Speaker 5: her for wanting to go spend it with her daddy. 802 00:42:58,440 --> 00:42:59,919 Speaker 2: Put your selfish of him. 803 00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, it is because bruh, if you the father 804 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 5: didn't spend it, spend the time with your kids, you know, 805 00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:10,920 Speaker 5: if you're gonna have that argument and let her go 806 00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 5: see her daddy. You don't knock him out of his honor, 807 00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:18,279 Speaker 5: so you can just have an honor yourself. That's that's ridiculous. 808 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:21,680 Speaker 5: You hang with your kids and let her go see 809 00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:22,240 Speaker 5: her daddy. 810 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,800 Speaker 8: But it sounds like in this situation though, someone's gonna 811 00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,919 Speaker 8: be mad, either the husband or the dad. 812 00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,239 Speaker 5: Come on, man, you got a man up on this one. 813 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,480 Speaker 5: Let her go see her daddy. You don't know how 814 00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:37,879 Speaker 5: many more of them she got right with her? Can't 815 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,319 Speaker 5: they just being selfish? And then considerate he is a father. 816 00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 5: If it wasn't for this man, you don't even had 817 00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:46,080 Speaker 5: his wife. Though we'll still be found in the evenings. 818 00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:49,000 Speaker 5: He ain't gonna be gon on that long she lived 819 00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:49,279 Speaker 5: with you? 820 00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,320 Speaker 2: Is one day? Listen to me, Father's Day at that 821 00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 2: bigger deal? No way, let's stop. 822 00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 12: It is. 823 00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:59,200 Speaker 5: Yes, No, it ain't a little ragged holiday, y'all. Just 824 00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:06,920 Speaker 5: a matter of fact. I'm getting no fall canceling. Why 825 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:08,320 Speaker 5: he didn't go? 826 00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 2: He didn't? He didn't? Yeah, yeah, tommy, why wait? 827 00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:17,799 Speaker 6: Man? 828 00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:18,400 Speaker 1: Let me ask you. 829 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,480 Speaker 16: This Father's Day is a big deal. We will celebrate 830 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,600 Speaker 16: you a wonderful dad. You're wonder got on a big 831 00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:30,759 Speaker 16: deal Tommy and everything? What do you want for Father's Day? 832 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 6: No? 833 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 7: Say nothing about r I've just been doing this a 834 00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,960 Speaker 7: bout three years. I don't I have not seen nothing. 835 00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:39,479 Speaker 7: So I see what Steve saying. 836 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,480 Speaker 15: Ain't you saying? 837 00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:43,239 Speaker 1: You don't get gifts? You don't get? 838 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:47,120 Speaker 2: Give what I got? 839 00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,279 Speaker 15: Step in front of mine? What are you talking about? 840 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:55,719 Speaker 15: Step Daddy, they fathers? I got step in here. 841 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:56,279 Speaker 6: This is not. 842 00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:04,920 Speaker 1: But all right, okay. 843 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:09,440 Speaker 2: You all I get is what are you expecting? I 844 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,080 Speaker 2: just get the same thing I get? 845 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 1: What are you expecting? 846 00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:12,800 Speaker 2: What would you like? 847 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:14,040 Speaker 1: Nothing? 848 00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,319 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna get nothing. You know why? We don't 849 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,400 Speaker 2: know what to get you? You got everything? That's the 850 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 2: same whine ask you every year. 851 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:27,959 Speaker 8: Give them some suggestions. You do have everything. Sometimes people 852 00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 8: do struggle getting you stuff. 853 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:32,279 Speaker 2: My oldest boy gave me a card in Spain's on 854 00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:40,320 Speaker 2: the dollar store. What kind of I can't read. 855 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 1: Dollar at least? 856 00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:53,239 Speaker 6: Man? 857 00:45:53,400 --> 00:46:00,120 Speaker 1: Come on, Dave, you can't get mad mad. 858 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,319 Speaker 2: Merry Christmas. I don't know what the hell? Hey man, 859 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:06,880 Speaker 2: if it wanted from my wife buying me some I 860 00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:07,799 Speaker 2: wouldn't get noney. 861 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,719 Speaker 8: Okay, we gotta do better, all right, coming up next, 862 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,600 Speaker 8: it is the nephew with today's prank phone call. 863 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:17,880 Speaker 1: Right after this polease, you're listening to the Steve Harvey 864 00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:18,560 Speaker 1: Morning Show. 865 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,319 Speaker 8: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 866 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,040 Speaker 8: four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today, and 867 00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:32,839 Speaker 8: the subject is something seems fishy here. We'll get into 868 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:34,600 Speaker 8: that find out what that's all about in just a 869 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:38,600 Speaker 8: few because right now the nephew is here with today's 870 00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:39,719 Speaker 8: prank phone call. 871 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:41,920 Speaker 1: Nephew, what's on the menu. 872 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,400 Speaker 10: What's on the menu, Shirley. The menu this morning is 873 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,759 Speaker 10: three minute remarks. You know, we have these funerals, you know, 874 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:53,000 Speaker 10: and we lose our loved ones. You know, people want 875 00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:54,640 Speaker 10: to get up and say something, They want to get 876 00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,160 Speaker 10: up in there and express themselves about how they felt 877 00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 10: about the person that passed away, and we all say 878 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:01,200 Speaker 10: three minutes. 879 00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 2: And it's just I don't know, it's just for some 880 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:07,520 Speaker 2: reason we other people don't know what three minutes are. 881 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:09,920 Speaker 2: We either we don't know what it is or we 882 00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 2: don't respect what it is. 883 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 10: So we you know this right here, this is three 884 00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:18,440 Speaker 10: minute remarks right here, three minute remarks, cat dog, if you. 885 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:24,160 Speaker 6: Would well, yes, I'm trying to reach your brother Keith please. 886 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:27,799 Speaker 12: Yeah, this is Keith Keith. 887 00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:32,000 Speaker 6: How you doing? This is Lawrence overhead your funeral home. 888 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:33,240 Speaker 12: Okay. 889 00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:38,720 Speaker 6: We are the ones that have the doing the funeral 890 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:44,839 Speaker 6: for sister Dolores. And that is your aunt. Am I understanding? Right? Yeah, 891 00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:48,920 Speaker 6: that's Lngti Okay? And yes you know the funeral is 892 00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:51,360 Speaker 6: this coming Thursday. 893 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:53,800 Speaker 12: Yes, I'll be that Thursday. 894 00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:58,200 Speaker 6: I'm giving you a call because it's been brought to 895 00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:03,240 Speaker 6: my attention, uh that you were going to be giving 896 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:09,280 Speaker 6: remarks for the funeral. Is that correct? Yes? Absolutely? Okay. 897 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:11,840 Speaker 6: I wanted to call you because we're getting ready to 898 00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:16,080 Speaker 6: print the programs for the funeral and let you know 899 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:22,240 Speaker 6: that they have taken you off for the remarks because 900 00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,080 Speaker 6: they say that you're not going to be. 901 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:27,560 Speaker 11: What do you mean taking me off? 902 00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,680 Speaker 6: Well, what I'm saying they say that you're not going 903 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:35,400 Speaker 6: to abide by the two three minute rule that they 904 00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,600 Speaker 6: have for remarks, and they wanted they've they've taken you off. 905 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 12: And uh, who is they come out? Who? 906 00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 11: Who? 907 00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:46,480 Speaker 12: What's the name in. 908 00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:51,160 Speaker 6: Lawn? I'm Laune, I'm the actual funeral director. 909 00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:53,160 Speaker 11: Lord, and who who. 910 00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:54,239 Speaker 12: Told you to take me off? 911 00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:58,640 Speaker 6: One of the one of the family members. I'm assuming 912 00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:01,560 Speaker 6: is who who the adjustment. 913 00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:05,080 Speaker 12: And an adjustice that ain't no adjustment, that's that's changing 914 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:06,000 Speaker 12: the whole program. 915 00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:07,560 Speaker 11: Who else is on the list? 916 00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:10,920 Speaker 6: I mean there's quite a few family members doing different 917 00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,240 Speaker 6: things throughout the funeral. 918 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,880 Speaker 12: Okay, so how did you get to my name? Is 919 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,080 Speaker 12: what I'm trying to figure out. 920 00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:19,040 Speaker 6: That they said that. 921 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:20,640 Speaker 2: Listen to me. 922 00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:23,879 Speaker 6: Listen, Listen to me. Listen to me, brother, keep listen 923 00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,359 Speaker 6: to me. What they said is that you weren't going 924 00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:30,680 Speaker 6: to abide by the time. You weren't going to do 925 00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:33,520 Speaker 6: your remarks in three minutes or less. 926 00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:38,799 Speaker 12: Listen, listen, listen, listen. Man, you raised me, he put 927 00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:41,719 Speaker 12: me through college, and you think I'm finna, I'm finel 928 00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:45,480 Speaker 12: goes down her funeral and be under two minutes. 929 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:49,719 Speaker 6: Well and well, listen to listen, brother, Keith, Brother, Keith, 930 00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:53,760 Speaker 6: listen to me. Normally, when we have these funerals, people 931 00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:56,799 Speaker 6: who give remarks, we have them three minutes or less. 932 00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:00,799 Speaker 11: Okay, I'll tell you what I tell you. What mister 933 00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,200 Speaker 11: Lorst is on the list. 934 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:08,640 Speaker 6: Oh we have a seala. Yes, there's a seala that's 935 00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:11,600 Speaker 6: singing name off the list. 936 00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,600 Speaker 12: You take her off the list and put me where 937 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 12: she's supposed to be with my time and her time. 938 00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:24,320 Speaker 6: Is Bobby there too, Bobby now, yes, Bobby Jr. Is 939 00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 6: given remarks that's that's that's Delorous. That's miss Delorus's son, right, Yes. 940 00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,400 Speaker 12: Their son, the one that been locked up. He just 941 00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:35,800 Speaker 12: got out of tell the truth. He told he's the 942 00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,319 Speaker 12: one down there. Put her in the coat. You needn't 943 00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:40,640 Speaker 12: take him off the list too. Give me all that time, 944 00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:43,200 Speaker 12: because I mean, if I ain't gonna take nothing that. 945 00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:45,279 Speaker 6: My brother Keith, let me let me. Let me just 946 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:50,560 Speaker 6: say this to you. I cannot take Sheela or Bobby Jr. 947 00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:50,839 Speaker 11: Off. 948 00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:55,040 Speaker 6: I can't make any alterations to this program unless they 949 00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:58,200 Speaker 6: say that. I can't, sir. 950 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,799 Speaker 12: You already you already they take you already taking people 951 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 12: name off. We're taking my name off. 952 00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:09,279 Speaker 17: But they they orchestrated this though his day who is Day? 953 00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:12,360 Speaker 12: They for having much problems. They try to take me 954 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,360 Speaker 12: off my Hotey program. 955 00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:15,279 Speaker 11: Who is Day? 956 00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:19,160 Speaker 6: Sir? I'm not gonna get into a family matter. 957 00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:21,880 Speaker 17: But until they say that you can do in a 958 00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,640 Speaker 17: family matter, sure, I'm not gonna. 959 00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:25,319 Speaker 11: I don't wanna. 960 00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:27,719 Speaker 6: I don't want to have this. This turned out to 961 00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:30,400 Speaker 6: be bad and we want to have a great homegoing 962 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:34,160 Speaker 6: for sister Delory. Okay, Right, And if I. 963 00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:37,360 Speaker 12: Don't get to say nothing, I guarantee you, I guarantee 964 00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:38,839 Speaker 12: you it's gonna be a tooth for one in there, 965 00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,920 Speaker 12: somebody else gonna get there in the coffer two. I 966 00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:44,640 Speaker 12: guarantee you that if I don't get to say nothing 967 00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:48,360 Speaker 12: in my artif you know Mon didn't pay for their college, 968 00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:52,120 Speaker 12: I didn't put six thousand dollars in funeral, I bet 969 00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,440 Speaker 12: you I'll tell you this. I tell you this, Miss Laws. 970 00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:57,480 Speaker 12: I bet you whether I'm on the program I'm not. 971 00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:00,239 Speaker 12: I bet you, I say with the I won't too. 972 00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:01,600 Speaker 11: I bets you that much. 973 00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:06,480 Speaker 12: You tell day Zach, how didn't you find they put 974 00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:11,040 Speaker 12: me through college? Put money on the funeral? Called around 975 00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:12,640 Speaker 12: to see who ain't putting no money on the feudal 976 00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:14,480 Speaker 12: tell them they can't be on the program? 977 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:22,000 Speaker 6: Man uh Keith? They when they decide who who who's 978 00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:25,480 Speaker 6: on it? If they changed the format that I will 979 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:26,239 Speaker 6: call you back. 980 00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,959 Speaker 17: Who who is they? 981 00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:30,480 Speaker 12: That's what I'm trying to get. 982 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:32,160 Speaker 11: Get you understand who is they? 983 00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:34,879 Speaker 6: Can I can I tell you something? And I don't 984 00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:38,840 Speaker 6: want you to get to our rape, Okay, ahead. 985 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:39,440 Speaker 11: Go ahead, go ahead. 986 00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:42,640 Speaker 6: Man, I just want to say this, keep with them. 987 00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,560 Speaker 6: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Mornings Show. 988 00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:49,120 Speaker 6: You just got breaked. You just got breaked by your 989 00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:50,960 Speaker 6: cousin Bobbing Jr. 990 00:52:53,520 --> 00:53:01,560 Speaker 12: You bos I'm up, I'm kicking Bobby. 991 00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:02,400 Speaker 6: I know that. 992 00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:05,839 Speaker 11: My pressures all. 993 00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,920 Speaker 12: I ain't gonna con be playing man taking me off program. 994 00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:20,680 Speaker 6: Baba said, y'all grew up like brothers man, and you was. 995 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,520 Speaker 6: You was basically another son of mister Lord's. 996 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:25,440 Speaker 11: That's right, Yes, yes, I was. 997 00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:25,879 Speaker 12: Man. 998 00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:29,840 Speaker 6: Oh my, hey, let me ask you this, man, what 999 00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 6: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show 1000 00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:33,600 Speaker 6: in the. 1001 00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:36,560 Speaker 17: Land, The Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1002 00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,839 Speaker 2: Come on and let's get some frank and praise up 1003 00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:47,960 Speaker 2: in here. Come on, what delicious? 1004 00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:57,759 Speaker 1: What you do be wanting them to wrap it up? 1005 00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,680 Speaker 2: Though? Yeah, yeah, I. 1006 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:03,759 Speaker 10: Did a little time I went away, but then when 1007 00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,719 Speaker 10: I got out, Larry was waiting on me. 1008 00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:07,279 Speaker 2: He was the one to pick up. 1009 00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:13,720 Speaker 15: The greeting of everybody in the pool pit is two minutes. 1010 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:14,839 Speaker 8: Oh yes. 1011 00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:18,960 Speaker 2: First of all, I want to give an honor. 1012 00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:23,759 Speaker 10: To guard pastors in my life, all the members and 1013 00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:27,920 Speaker 10: uh boy, choir members, deacons and friends. 1014 00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,879 Speaker 6: Those are in the bathroom that ain't in here right now. 1015 00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:35,640 Speaker 6: I just want to give honor to everyone. 1016 00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:47,879 Speaker 10: Well please, all right, the Junior teenth comedy explosion is coming. 1017 00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:49,640 Speaker 10: You don't want to miss it. I've been talking about 1018 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:51,880 Speaker 10: it and talking about it. You already know. Juneteenth is 1019 00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,520 Speaker 10: what that is the end of slavery. We have now 1020 00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:59,000 Speaker 10: federal holiday. That's what we're doing. So uh, this is 1021 00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:00,239 Speaker 10: what Tommy is doing. 1022 00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:00,680 Speaker 2: Junior. 1023 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:04,400 Speaker 10: You have inspired me. All right, I am doing. I 1024 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:07,160 Speaker 10: am a special guest. I am a special guest at 1025 00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:11,560 Speaker 10: Miss ople Lee's annual June teenth Walk, which is Thursday 1026 00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:13,880 Speaker 10: morning of June nineteenth. 1027 00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:18,279 Speaker 2: It's Miss open Lee's annual June tenth walk. All right. 1028 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:22,279 Speaker 10: That's Farrington Field in Fort Worth, Texas, and it's going down. 1029 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:26,680 Speaker 6: Get there they walk in saw we walking for June tenth, 1030 00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:30,080 Speaker 6: were walking for freedom. Now you want to walk with me? 1031 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,080 Speaker 6: Mister Harvey, what I. 1032 00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:36,839 Speaker 8: Gotta go, guys, Struberry letters subject something seems fishy here, 1033 00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 8: celebration to it. 1034 00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:41,920 Speaker 18: Right after this Las ten years old. One day she 1035 00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:45,320 Speaker 18: just started limping all the blue. Went to her doctor 1036 00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:48,920 Speaker 18: and the doctor did emma or her knee, and the 1037 00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:52,239 Speaker 18: next day was that Saint June eighteen rounds came up, 1038 00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,600 Speaker 18: Nie sagery, just knowing that Saint June covers everything. Right now, 1039 00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:59,359 Speaker 18: layla Spanish, she came up. She's canceled free right now. 1040 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,879 Speaker 5: You can help Teas fight childhood cancer and Sickle soon 1041 00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,840 Speaker 5: become a Saint Jude partner in hope by texting sh 1042 00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:10,600 Speaker 5: MS two seven eighty five eight three three. 1043 00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:19,000 Speaker 8: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1044 00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:23,560 Speaker 8: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, 1045 00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,719 Speaker 8: parenting and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve 1046 00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:31,480 Speaker 8: HARVEFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 1047 00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:34,040 Speaker 8: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 1048 00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,200 Speaker 8: we're going to read this one right here, right now, 1049 00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,920 Speaker 8: and you never know, it could be yours. 1050 00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:41,600 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 1051 00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:44,840 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here It is Strawberry Let. 1052 00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:46,120 Speaker 1: Up, Thank you, nephew. 1053 00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:50,720 Speaker 8: Subject something seems fishy here, Dear Stephen Shirley. I rushed 1054 00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:53,200 Speaker 8: into a relationship and I thought I was in love. 1055 00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:56,200 Speaker 8: My boyfriend moved in with me after we date it 1056 00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:58,759 Speaker 8: for two months, and I got pregnant four months later 1057 00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,480 Speaker 8: to get married, but I couldn't do that until I 1058 00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:05,760 Speaker 8: lost my baby. Wait, I ended up having a second child, 1059 00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:09,040 Speaker 8: so I kept postponing our wedding. Now that our kids 1060 00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:12,279 Speaker 8: are two and four, my boyfriend doesn't mention marriage. All 1061 00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,759 Speaker 8: he says is money is tight and he's focused on 1062 00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,880 Speaker 8: getting his hustle, his side hustle going. He told me 1063 00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,560 Speaker 8: that he wants to get a salon suite to do tattoos. 1064 00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:23,720 Speaker 8: He hasn't done tattoos in years, but he feels like 1065 00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,439 Speaker 8: it would bring in a lot of money. So he's 1066 00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:28,960 Speaker 8: been going out every night of the week and saying 1067 00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:31,840 Speaker 8: that he's going to find customers. He'll stay out all 1068 00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:34,560 Speaker 8: night sometimes, and his excuse is that he does not 1069 00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:38,920 Speaker 8: want to wake the children by coming in late. Their 1070 00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,520 Speaker 8: bedroom is right by the back door. But that's a 1071 00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,880 Speaker 8: very bad excuse. This weekend, he stayed out again and 1072 00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,520 Speaker 8: came home at seven am Sunday morning. He went straight 1073 00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,040 Speaker 8: to the shower. I asked him to please take his 1074 00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:53,560 Speaker 8: shower at his girlfriend's house before he comes home. That 1075 00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:57,200 Speaker 8: caused a big argument, and he told me to get 1076 00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,880 Speaker 8: dressed and get the kids dressed. He took us to 1077 00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,439 Speaker 8: the bad part of town to show me an old 1078 00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:06,040 Speaker 8: gas station that he had been renovating. He said it 1079 00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:09,200 Speaker 8: was going to be his tattoo shop. There was an 1080 00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:11,520 Speaker 8: old sofa and a microwave in the back, and he 1081 00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:14,240 Speaker 8: expected me to believe that's where he sleeps when he 1082 00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,960 Speaker 8: stays out. This is where all of his money has 1083 00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,000 Speaker 8: been going, and he didn't even tell me about it. 1084 00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:22,680 Speaker 8: I feel like he has plans to move on without 1085 00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:25,840 Speaker 8: me and the kids. He still hasn't told me why 1086 00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:28,480 Speaker 8: he doesn't come home some nights. Would I be foolish 1087 00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:33,720 Speaker 8: to keep dating this man after all of this? I think, yeah, 1088 00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:36,360 Speaker 8: you would be foolish to keep dating him, But not 1089 00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:37,720 Speaker 8: for the reason you think. 1090 00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:38,800 Speaker 1: I'm saying. 1091 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:41,640 Speaker 8: It's way past time for a commitment between the two 1092 00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 8: of you. You've moved fast in the beginning. You said 1093 00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:48,280 Speaker 8: you rushed into this relationship, and now two kids later, 1094 00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:51,400 Speaker 8: because you didn't lose your baby weight, you didn't want 1095 00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:54,640 Speaker 8: to marry him, so he stopped asking. But if you're 1096 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:57,720 Speaker 8: still living together and having sex without protection like before, 1097 00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,600 Speaker 8: guess what, baby number three can't. 1098 00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:03,680 Speaker 1: Be far behind. Huh. But I do agree with you. 1099 00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,640 Speaker 8: A man shouldn't be spending the night out and coming 1100 00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:09,400 Speaker 8: in at all times at all kinds of crazy hours 1101 00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:12,160 Speaker 8: and all of that. But he did take you to 1102 00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:14,880 Speaker 8: the place. He showed you what he's been up to. 1103 00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:17,880 Speaker 8: He said he's been working on his future, and it 1104 00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:20,360 Speaker 8: looks like that's what he's been doing. He's been renovating 1105 00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:22,960 Speaker 8: his business. He told you he wanted to open a 1106 00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:27,160 Speaker 8: tattoo shop. That was his side hustle, so and he 1107 00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:29,760 Speaker 8: could make a lot of money with that. So I'm sorry, 1108 00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:32,480 Speaker 8: but it doesn't feel to me like he's cheating. 1109 00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:33,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1110 00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,560 Speaker 8: He might be, but I don't think he is. You 1111 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:38,920 Speaker 8: never once mentioned that he's ever stepped out on you. 1112 00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:43,120 Speaker 8: So I say to you, worry about yourself now. You 1113 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,960 Speaker 8: got to stop putting it off. Start your self care 1114 00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:49,240 Speaker 8: routine right now, get your extra weight off, get your 1115 00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:52,560 Speaker 8: self esteem back, and begin feeling better about you. This 1116 00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:54,920 Speaker 8: is not about him, he says. He's doing something for 1117 00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:57,000 Speaker 8: the family, and he took you and the kids to 1118 00:59:57,080 --> 00:59:57,400 Speaker 8: see it. 1119 00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:03,520 Speaker 5: Steve something. It seems fishy here, No, it doesn't. I 1120 01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:05,560 Speaker 5: see exactly what's going on this letter. 1121 01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:06,760 Speaker 2: You typed it. 1122 01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:08,800 Speaker 5: I'm gonna read it to you. You tell me if 1123 01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:12,240 Speaker 5: you don't see what I see, I rushed into a relationship, 1124 01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:15,120 Speaker 5: and I thought I was in love. Okay, right there, 1125 01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:19,280 Speaker 5: rushed into a relationship, you thought you was in love, 1126 01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:23,400 Speaker 5: So now there's doubt. My boyfriend moved in with me 1127 01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:27,400 Speaker 5: after we dated for two months. Who rolling kind of fast. 1128 01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:30,240 Speaker 5: I got pregnant four months later. 1129 01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:31,680 Speaker 2: That's six months. 1130 01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:34,280 Speaker 5: He wanted us to get married, but I couldn't do 1131 01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:38,919 Speaker 5: that until I lost my baby. Wait, okay, I ended 1132 01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:44,040 Speaker 5: up having a second child, so I kept postponing our wedding. 1133 01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:47,760 Speaker 5: Now the kids are two and four. My boyfriend doesn't 1134 01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:52,960 Speaker 5: mention marriage. Now let's stop right here, because this is 1135 01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:54,440 Speaker 5: what this whole letter is about. 1136 01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:55,760 Speaker 2: And I figured it out. 1137 01:00:56,480 --> 01:01:00,520 Speaker 5: You said he wanted to get married after your baby, 1138 01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:02,280 Speaker 5: but you couldn't do that because you didn't want to 1139 01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:03,800 Speaker 5: get married until you lost your baby. 1140 01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:05,520 Speaker 2: Wait, because you gotta take pictures in everything. 1141 01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:05,800 Speaker 6: Right. 1142 01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:08,720 Speaker 5: Well, then you mess around and you had baby number 1143 01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:14,120 Speaker 5: two and I ended up having a second child, so 1144 01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:16,720 Speaker 5: I kept postponing I wedded. 1145 01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:19,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, you did, this is all you. 1146 01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:23,360 Speaker 5: Now the kids are two and four, and my boyfriend 1147 01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:27,400 Speaker 5: don't mention marriage. Well you know why he don't mention 1148 01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:31,080 Speaker 5: marriage because you told him before you wasn't getting married 1149 01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:34,000 Speaker 5: until you lost the baby weight from the first baby. 1150 01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:36,120 Speaker 2: Then you had baby number two. 1151 01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:40,400 Speaker 5: Now, the reason he don't mention marriage is because you 1152 01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:43,560 Speaker 5: ain't gonna get married because you still got. 1153 01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:47,439 Speaker 2: Some more babyweight. Now you got baby weight number one 1154 01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:48,120 Speaker 2: and two. 1155 01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:54,320 Speaker 5: On you, and so he hasn't mentioned marriage because you 1156 01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,800 Speaker 5: said you're not gonna get married until you lose the baby. Wait, 1157 01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:03,080 Speaker 5: so now with two children, that's why he don't ask 1158 01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:07,080 Speaker 5: you no more. Now he says money's tight, and he's 1159 01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:10,040 Speaker 5: focused on getting inside hustle. Going told me, you want 1160 01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:12,840 Speaker 5: to get a salon suite to do tattoos. He hasn't 1161 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:15,959 Speaker 5: done tattoos in years, but it feels like it would 1162 01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:19,439 Speaker 5: bring in a lot of money. Okay, sounds like a plan. 1163 01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:22,240 Speaker 5: So he's been going out every night of the week 1164 01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:28,000 Speaker 5: and saying that he's going to find customers. That's when 1165 01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,760 Speaker 5: a lot of people get tattoos after the club clothes 1166 01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:31,640 Speaker 5: because they drunk. 1167 01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:37,200 Speaker 2: Okay, so he that was his plan. 1168 01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,840 Speaker 5: He'll stay out all night sometime and his excuse is 1169 01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:42,919 Speaker 5: that he don't want to wake the children by coming 1170 01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:50,360 Speaker 5: here late. God damn, you can say that. Hey, I 1171 01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:54,720 Speaker 5: ain't never used that one. I love the d I 1172 01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,280 Speaker 5: ain't never used that one. I ain't never used That's a. 1173 01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:00,600 Speaker 8: Good well, But we'll have part two of Steve's response 1174 01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,640 Speaker 8: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's 1175 01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:07,320 Speaker 8: Strawberry Letters subject something seems fishy here. We'll get back 1176 01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:12,040 Speaker 8: into it right after that. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1177 01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:20,120 Speaker 13: Kinsley will be six in September. We are at Saint 1178 01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:23,200 Speaker 13: Jude because she was diagnosed with leukemia. Her treatment is 1179 01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:27,320 Speaker 13: receiving a chemotherapy and it is a two and a 1180 01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:30,400 Speaker 13: half to three year process. Fact that Saint jud does 1181 01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:33,640 Speaker 13: not send a bill has been a god seeing childhood 1182 01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:36,120 Speaker 13: cancer needs to be eradicated. 1183 01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:39,240 Speaker 7: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and diseases like 1184 01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:41,800 Speaker 7: SIPL seal. Please become a Saint Jude Partner in Hope 1185 01:03:41,840 --> 01:03:45,919 Speaker 7: today by texting SHMS to seven eight five eighty three three. 1186 01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:49,520 Speaker 8: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1187 01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:52,080 Speaker 8: The subject is something seems fishy here. 1188 01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:56,240 Speaker 5: Well, this couple met and they rushed into a relationship, 1189 01:03:56,280 --> 01:03:58,960 Speaker 5: according to the lady who wrote the letter, and she 1190 01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:01,920 Speaker 5: thought she was in love, so they moved in with 1191 01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:05,600 Speaker 5: each other. After they dated for two months, and then 1192 01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:07,640 Speaker 5: he wanted us to get married, but I couldn't do 1193 01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:10,560 Speaker 5: that until I lost my baby weight. But then mess 1194 01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:14,400 Speaker 5: around and had another baby. So and now she kept 1195 01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:17,520 Speaker 5: postponing the wedding cause of the baby weight. Now the 1196 01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:20,560 Speaker 5: boyfriend don't mention marriage no more. You know why he 1197 01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:23,360 Speaker 5: don't mention it cause of the baby weight. You know 1198 01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,280 Speaker 5: you ain't gonna get married no way. Now you got 1199 01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:28,160 Speaker 5: double baby weight on you. You got baby one and 1200 01:04:28,280 --> 01:04:30,400 Speaker 5: baby two. Now that's a real issue because when women 1201 01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:34,760 Speaker 5: gave them children, they gain weight. That's real, and then 1202 01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:36,240 Speaker 5: they got the hormone in balance. 1203 01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:38,320 Speaker 2: It is real. What they go through is real. 1204 01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:43,560 Speaker 5: Okay, So now, yeah, but he telling you that the 1205 01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:46,400 Speaker 5: money tight, he trying to get a side hustle going. 1206 01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:50,600 Speaker 5: He won't open up a salon to do tattoos. But 1207 01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:53,760 Speaker 5: you say, he ain't done tattoos in years. So he's 1208 01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:56,040 Speaker 5: been going out every night of the week saying he's 1209 01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:57,800 Speaker 5: going to find customers. 1210 01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,720 Speaker 2: He'll stay out of all all night sometime. And it's 1211 01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:02,560 Speaker 2: excuse he is. 1212 01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:05,280 Speaker 5: He don't want to wake the children by coming here 1213 01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:07,880 Speaker 5: late because their bathroom, their bedroom is right by the 1214 01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:10,640 Speaker 5: back door. That's a very bad You know you can 1215 01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:14,000 Speaker 5: open that door quiet. Kids don't wait coming. Kids sleep 1216 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:19,600 Speaker 5: hard as hell. Especially they feel safe. They ain't even 1217 01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:21,280 Speaker 5: their problem. Who at the back door? Their mom and 1218 01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:25,600 Speaker 5: daddy problem. I would I can't go and answer the door, 1219 01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:30,400 Speaker 5: not way, So I got to lay here. I was 1220 01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:36,200 Speaker 5: told you don't gonna answer that door. I got the 1221 01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:38,720 Speaker 5: beating my life opening the door. One time on a 1222 01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:41,520 Speaker 5: Saturday morning, open the door for the Jehovah witnesses. I 1223 01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:45,600 Speaker 5: opened and let them in here, let them all the 1224 01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:48,560 Speaker 5: way in that house. They was in the living little God, 1225 01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:56,240 Speaker 5: watch your house. Yeah, I was just thinking about that time. 1226 01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:58,040 Speaker 5: Open that door, man. They got all the way up. 1227 01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:00,919 Speaker 5: I invited them me in as they want some water 1228 01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:05,920 Speaker 5: and everything. Boy, my mama came around the corner. My 1229 01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:10,280 Speaker 5: mom came around that corner boar, so they watchedowers standing there. 1230 01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:11,000 Speaker 6: Got her. 1231 01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:18,600 Speaker 5: Back to the letter anyway, So I couldn't have answered 1232 01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:19,840 Speaker 5: that don't nobody anyway. 1233 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:21,440 Speaker 2: This weekend he stayed out again. 1234 01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:25,360 Speaker 5: He came in at seven am on Sunday morning and 1235 01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:28,760 Speaker 5: went straight to the shower. I asked him, please take 1236 01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:32,160 Speaker 5: this shot his girlfriend's house before he come home. Oh 1237 01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:36,360 Speaker 5: that started a big argument. He told me get dressed, 1238 01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:37,360 Speaker 5: get the kids dressed. 1239 01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:38,240 Speaker 2: He took us to the. 1240 01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:40,640 Speaker 5: Bad part of town to show me an old gas 1241 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:42,840 Speaker 5: station that he had been renovating. 1242 01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:45,080 Speaker 2: He said it was going to be his tattoo shot. 1243 01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:47,960 Speaker 5: That was an old sofa and microwave in the back, 1244 01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:50,080 Speaker 5: and he expected me to believe that that's where he 1245 01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:51,440 Speaker 5: sleeps when he stays out. 1246 01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:54,400 Speaker 2: My man, come through? Boy? 1247 01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:54,760 Speaker 8: What e was? 1248 01:06:55,280 --> 01:07:00,240 Speaker 5: That's some good thinking right there. And they had a 1249 01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:01,480 Speaker 5: microwave and a couch. 1250 01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:07,800 Speaker 2: WHOA, that was a good boy. But no pillow and 1251 01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:08,640 Speaker 2: no blanket. 1252 01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:15,160 Speaker 5: Hard to sleep without a blanket, It really is, man, 1253 01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:17,400 Speaker 5: something abouty blanket that makes sleep. 1254 01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:19,600 Speaker 2: Better, even in the summer time. 1255 01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:26,360 Speaker 5: Anyway, that and this is where all his money has 1256 01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:28,400 Speaker 5: been going, and he didn't even tell me about it. 1257 01:07:29,240 --> 01:07:31,680 Speaker 5: I feel like he has plans to move on without 1258 01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:35,120 Speaker 5: me and the kids. He still hasn't told me why 1259 01:07:35,200 --> 01:07:38,520 Speaker 5: he doesn't come home some nights. Should I be foolish 1260 01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:42,080 Speaker 5: to keep dating this man after all of this? Well, 1261 01:07:44,280 --> 01:07:46,360 Speaker 5: first of all, let me clarify a couple of things 1262 01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:53,720 Speaker 5: for y'all. Ain't dating. Y'all live together. Y'all don't just 1263 01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:59,400 Speaker 5: live together, y'all are family. So all this would I 1264 01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:01,880 Speaker 5: be foolish to keep dating this man. Dating is man. 1265 01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:06,800 Speaker 5: He the father your children? What you're talking about? Do 1266 01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:09,480 Speaker 5: you know how far up the roads y'all are right now, 1267 01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:12,960 Speaker 5: and you're gonna break it back down to just Dayton? 1268 01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:16,720 Speaker 5: And he still ain't told me why he don't come 1269 01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:20,479 Speaker 5: home some night. Wait a minute, lady, you waiting on 1270 01:08:20,600 --> 01:08:25,639 Speaker 5: a man to walk in the house and really tell 1271 01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:29,479 Speaker 5: you why he stay out at night? You know why 1272 01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:33,280 Speaker 5: he stay out at night cause that because ain't no consequences. 1273 01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:40,439 Speaker 5: There's none, because he's done it more than once and 1274 01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:45,280 Speaker 5: there are no consequences. See, I can't stay out all 1275 01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:47,160 Speaker 5: night because I already know when I come in there's 1276 01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:50,360 Speaker 5: gonna be some consequence. Well, I'm gonna know that loan 1277 01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:58,240 Speaker 5: before that because that phone, that phone gonna be off 1278 01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:02,439 Speaker 5: the hook. If I was up to sum I wouldn't 1279 01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:04,760 Speaker 5: beaby enjoy myself. My phone be on constant rain. 1280 01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:20,400 Speaker 2: As we lay nice Shirley Murdock. As we lay we 1281 01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:25,320 Speaker 2: forgot about the price we had to pay. 1282 01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:30,799 Speaker 1: Oh the Gospel version. 1283 01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:38,080 Speaker 2: As I lay here and the song comes to the window, 1284 01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:45,120 Speaker 2: my head explode. 1285 01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:52,080 Speaker 1: You're coming from discobbery letters. Steve Barby FM on Instagram. 1286 01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:59,840 Speaker 8: Podcast Free never sounded so good. 1287 01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:01,320 Speaker 1: You can download it today. 1288 01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:04,360 Speaker 8: Coming up at forty six minutes after the hour will 1289 01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:06,439 Speaker 8: here from Junior Sports Sun. 1290 01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:10,960 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1291 01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:16,519 Speaker 2: Layla's ten years old. 1292 01:10:16,760 --> 01:10:19,680 Speaker 18: One day she just started limping out the blue, went 1293 01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:23,320 Speaker 18: to her doctor and the doctor did m I or 1294 01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:26,040 Speaker 18: her knee. And the next day was that Saint June 1295 01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:30,240 Speaker 18: eighteen rounds of cameo knee surgery. Just knowing that Saint 1296 01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:33,679 Speaker 18: June covers everything. Right now, Laylas, she came up. She's 1297 01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:34,400 Speaker 18: canceled free. 1298 01:10:34,520 --> 01:10:34,840 Speaker 2: Right now. 1299 01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:38,080 Speaker 8: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and diseases like 1300 01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,920 Speaker 8: sickle cell. Please become a Saint Jude partner in Hope 1301 01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:45,320 Speaker 8: today by texting SHMS to seven eight five eight three three. 1302 01:10:46,840 --> 01:10:49,320 Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. What 1303 01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:50,200 Speaker 1: you got Junior? 1304 01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:51,479 Speaker 2: All right, Shirley. 1305 01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:54,519 Speaker 7: It was Game three in the NBA Finals last night, 1306 01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:56,240 Speaker 7: and let's go ahead. 1307 01:10:56,280 --> 01:10:58,280 Speaker 2: Man, look at this. We got us a series. 1308 01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:01,960 Speaker 15: This is getting interested. Indiana beats Homer City. 1309 01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:03,439 Speaker 2: Oh you like it now? 1310 01:11:04,040 --> 01:11:06,639 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I like it now? Now it's one sixteen, 1311 01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:09,760 Speaker 7: one oh seven Indiana. Indiana takes a two to one 1312 01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:12,080 Speaker 7: lead in this series. That's why I like it now, 1313 01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:15,559 Speaker 7: Tim and the underdogs is winning. The underdogs is winning. 1314 01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:17,559 Speaker 7: They don't care if you got the MVP on they 1315 01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:18,080 Speaker 7: team or not. 1316 01:11:18,479 --> 01:11:19,840 Speaker 2: I am pulling for ok See. 1317 01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:22,160 Speaker 1: Oh real, okay, yeah, you. 1318 01:11:22,240 --> 01:11:24,400 Speaker 15: Pulling in the wrong direction. They lost last night. 1319 01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:27,000 Speaker 2: I understand, I understand, but I don't leave you when 1320 01:11:27,080 --> 01:11:30,880 Speaker 2: you lose. I'm holding tight. Not a fairweather fans, No, 1321 01:11:31,240 --> 01:11:32,920 Speaker 2: I'm not Fairwell, we're gonna be all right. 1322 01:11:33,520 --> 01:11:35,800 Speaker 7: Well if if Oklahoma City take the lead, I would 1323 01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:37,320 Speaker 7: be rooting for them because this ain't my team, right, 1324 01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:37,680 Speaker 7: neither one. 1325 01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:38,719 Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about. 1326 01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:41,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, neither wanted my team. I just I just go 1327 01:11:41,240 --> 01:11:43,880 Speaker 7: on for who win. That way, I'll be right hard 1328 01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:46,680 Speaker 7: being on team and losing. Yeah, that's all I'm doing. 1329 01:11:46,760 --> 01:11:47,000 Speaker 2: Caller. 1330 01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:50,559 Speaker 7: Whoever's winning as who I'm going with. And today is Indiana. 1331 01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:52,040 Speaker 7: The Indiana looking great? 1332 01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:52,920 Speaker 2: They did? 1333 01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:53,680 Speaker 6: You know? 1334 01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:54,000 Speaker 2: Uh? 1335 01:11:54,479 --> 01:11:57,040 Speaker 7: Halliburton finished with twenty two points and nine rebounds and 1336 01:11:57,120 --> 01:11:59,040 Speaker 7: eleven assists, almost a triple double. 1337 01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:00,519 Speaker 15: That's what you want at your point guard. 1338 01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:01,360 Speaker 2: That was really good. 1339 01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:02,000 Speaker 6: Uh. 1340 01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:04,760 Speaker 15: Shay Gilder Alexander Sga he had twenty four. 1341 01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:07,600 Speaker 7: Jalen Williams for Okay, se had twenty six, but the 1342 01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:10,760 Speaker 7: man of the hour was Benedict mcthurmon. I know you 1343 01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:13,479 Speaker 7: ain't never heard of him, Benedict mcthurn. He came off 1344 01:12:13,520 --> 01:12:16,280 Speaker 7: the bench and put down twenty seven. His her name 1345 01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:20,040 Speaker 7: is Benedict, Benedict. I don't know how old his parents is, 1346 01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:21,719 Speaker 7: but his name is being. 1347 01:12:21,560 --> 01:12:23,160 Speaker 10: They didn't have to do that, boy like that. They 1348 01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:26,760 Speaker 10: really he can change that Monday morning. You know, he 1349 01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:28,360 Speaker 10: can go down there and change that on Monday. You 1350 01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:29,000 Speaker 10: know he can't. 1351 01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:31,120 Speaker 2: He could change his name. 1352 01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:36,880 Speaker 1: Maybe his names after his grandfather. 1353 01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:39,880 Speaker 7: And I'm sure if his granddaddy was here, he would 1354 01:12:39,920 --> 01:12:46,320 Speaker 7: say that danger's boy. They got computers. Now, the name Benedict. 1355 01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:47,479 Speaker 7: They got computers out here. 1356 01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:48,599 Speaker 2: Now what are we doing? 1357 01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:51,840 Speaker 7: So, you know, Friday night we're gonna have Game four. 1358 01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:54,720 Speaker 7: But I'm telling you right now, Indiana played a really 1359 01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:56,639 Speaker 7: good game last night. They didn't struggle. They just start 1360 01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:59,200 Speaker 7: off slow. They came out and they completely and that's 1361 01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:01,320 Speaker 7: how they got and so we're proud of them. So 1362 01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:04,120 Speaker 7: I just want to say thank you Indiana for making 1363 01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:06,040 Speaker 7: me look good because I've been riding with y'all since 1364 01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:08,840 Speaker 7: serious started, you know, since they won Game one at 1365 01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:10,680 Speaker 7: the last second that I like. 1366 01:13:10,840 --> 01:13:13,320 Speaker 2: I like Indiana with the last second. 1367 01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:16,000 Speaker 15: Yeah yeah, the last week when Okay was winning, but 1368 01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:17,080 Speaker 15: then when they won the game. 1369 01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:21,040 Speaker 2: I switched right win so Walkahoma win Game four? You 1370 01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:21,640 Speaker 2: who you with? 1371 01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:23,679 Speaker 15: Well, dog, I'm gonna have to be a Okay see 1372 01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:25,280 Speaker 15: a fan. That's what I'm gonna do. 1373 01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:28,200 Speaker 7: I'm I'm gonna be a fan, I mean with Okay 1374 01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:30,280 Speaker 7: see right, then you got to learn how to switch time. 1375 01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:33,479 Speaker 15: You can't stay the sund pivot. You gotta know how 1376 01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:35,760 Speaker 15: to pivot. Yeah, thank you, sir. You gotta know how 1377 01:13:35,800 --> 01:13:36,240 Speaker 15: to pivot. 1378 01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:37,000 Speaker 6: Man. 1379 01:13:37,000 --> 01:13:39,040 Speaker 15: I don't sitting here crying for these teams. This ain't 1380 01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:40,920 Speaker 15: our Saint the Rockets. 1381 01:13:42,200 --> 01:13:42,360 Speaker 2: Man. 1382 01:13:43,080 --> 01:13:46,679 Speaker 1: All right, Junior, thank you. Coming up of the hour. 1383 01:13:48,200 --> 01:13:51,360 Speaker 8: On social media needs some advice, Steve White, move out, 1384 01:13:52,479 --> 01:13:55,920 Speaker 8: I'm happy, she says, Okay, we'll get into it right 1385 01:13:55,960 --> 01:14:00,360 Speaker 8: after this. Mark Jackson, you're listening to the Steve Harvey 1386 01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:06,840 Speaker 8: Morning Show. All right, Steve, this is from Brianna on 1387 01:14:07,000 --> 01:14:10,160 Speaker 8: Steve Harvey FM. Brianna says, I'm in my late twenties. 1388 01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:12,040 Speaker 8: I have a good job, make good money, and I 1389 01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:14,840 Speaker 8: still live at home with my parents and honestly, I 1390 01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:18,680 Speaker 8: love it. We get along great, split responsibilities and I 1391 01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:21,519 Speaker 8: have my own space. But some of my friends and 1392 01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:24,960 Speaker 8: coworkers act like it's weird and even embarrassing that I 1393 01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:28,160 Speaker 8: haven't moved out yet. I've started looking at apartments, but 1394 01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:31,240 Speaker 8: it feels like I'm only doing it because of pressure 1395 01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:34,280 Speaker 8: from other people, not because I actually want to leave. 1396 01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:37,000 Speaker 8: Is it wrong to just do what makes me happy? 1397 01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:41,680 Speaker 8: Or are societal expectations reason enough to finally get my 1398 01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:42,599 Speaker 8: own place? 1399 01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:44,600 Speaker 2: No state in stay in. 1400 01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:48,960 Speaker 5: In some cultures that's very acceptable, right. The daughter stays 1401 01:14:49,240 --> 01:14:52,840 Speaker 5: at the house until they get married. Married, right, and 1402 01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:54,760 Speaker 5: you ain't got nobody on the hook? 1403 01:14:55,439 --> 01:15:00,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, and she enjoyed it. You ain't even hard date. Yeah. 1404 01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:06,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, so she has her own state. Yeah, yeah, it's 1405 01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:07,639 Speaker 1: pretty cool, wasting. 1406 01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:10,320 Speaker 2: I couldn't stay at my mom and daddy house in 1407 01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:11,120 Speaker 2: my twenties. 1408 01:15:11,240 --> 01:15:14,000 Speaker 1: Boy bye, because you're a man and you should be 1409 01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:14,559 Speaker 1: out there. 1410 01:15:14,720 --> 01:15:18,560 Speaker 2: We had our stand in twenties. Who oh, Lord of 1411 01:15:19,600 --> 01:15:20,840 Speaker 2: phone cameras. 1412 01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:26,360 Speaker 1: No phone cameras, no social media. 1413 01:15:27,439 --> 01:15:29,200 Speaker 2: I wasn't famous him. 1414 01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:31,839 Speaker 1: White things. 1415 01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:36,080 Speaker 2: I know the things I gotta wait with, Thank you. 1416 01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:45,720 Speaker 8: Thank you Lord, grateful no phone care, Yeah, I have 1417 01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:53,719 Speaker 8: no record of anything. Yeah, so yeah, but she don't 1418 01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:56,800 Speaker 8: don't buckle under the pressure of your coworkers and all 1419 01:15:56,880 --> 01:15:59,160 Speaker 8: of that society, right. 1420 01:15:59,160 --> 01:15:59,880 Speaker 2: Do you girl? 1421 01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:00,240 Speaker 1: Yes? 1422 01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:06,519 Speaker 2: I like that and do you yeah? 1423 01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:07,400 Speaker 8: She's in late? 1424 01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:08,880 Speaker 1: When you wear it out? 1425 01:16:09,160 --> 01:16:12,280 Speaker 2: Do you save your money, get your stack your paper. 1426 01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:15,439 Speaker 1: Right, that's right, that's right, all right? 1427 01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:21,519 Speaker 2: Listening to everybody else, all right, Moving. 1428 01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:23,559 Speaker 8: On to Katina, we have time for another one. Steve 1429 01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:28,200 Speaker 8: Katina on Steve HARBFM says, I think I've finally found 1430 01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:30,760 Speaker 8: someone I can spend the rest of my life with. 1431 01:16:31,240 --> 01:16:32,040 Speaker 1: My boyfriend is. 1432 01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:37,360 Speaker 8: Kind, open minded, intelligent, everything I've ever wanted. He's met 1433 01:16:37,439 --> 01:16:40,400 Speaker 8: my family once, but it was a quick, surface level visit. 1434 01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:43,720 Speaker 8: Why he doesn't know. What he doesn't know is that 1435 01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:48,000 Speaker 8: they're not great people. They're crass, a little racist, and 1436 01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:51,200 Speaker 8: say crazy things like it's no big deal. I've spent 1437 01:16:51,280 --> 01:16:54,560 Speaker 8: most of my adult life distancing myself from them, and 1438 01:16:54,720 --> 01:16:58,360 Speaker 8: now that this relationship is getting serious, I'm terrified he's 1439 01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:00,760 Speaker 8: going to find out who they really are are and 1440 01:17:00,960 --> 01:17:04,200 Speaker 8: decide he wants no part of it or me. I 1441 01:17:04,280 --> 01:17:06,240 Speaker 8: feel like I'm going to have to choose between the 1442 01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:08,920 Speaker 8: man I love and the family I was born into 1443 01:17:09,200 --> 01:17:09,920 Speaker 8: what should I do? 1444 01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:12,960 Speaker 2: It must be I would go with the man you love? 1445 01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:18,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, and he black? Yeah, No, it ain't. This ain't 1446 01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:24,760 Speaker 5: everything A little bit, No, this ain't everything. His white 1447 01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:28,240 Speaker 5: girl got her a black husband, that's what. 1448 01:17:29,840 --> 01:17:30,040 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1449 01:17:30,880 --> 01:17:35,280 Speaker 5: Now here's the thing about this. And if it's not, 1450 01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:40,640 Speaker 5: his disadvice applies black or white. It's very simple. You 1451 01:17:40,920 --> 01:17:43,800 Speaker 5: have found the man you think it's all of this 1452 01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:46,439 Speaker 5: and all that. You found a man you think you 1453 01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:49,640 Speaker 5: are married with, married with yo. Go now, now let 1454 01:17:49,680 --> 01:17:52,439 Speaker 5: me ask you a question. Has he said these words 1455 01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:56,120 Speaker 5: to you? Has he told you this that he can't 1456 01:17:56,200 --> 01:17:58,519 Speaker 5: live without you, that you're the woman for him, he 1457 01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:00,400 Speaker 5: won't spend the rest of your life with him? Because 1458 01:18:00,439 --> 01:18:04,240 Speaker 5: right now, this one side, I think I found what 1459 01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:06,559 Speaker 5: has he found? As he told you what he found? 1460 01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:09,640 Speaker 5: You need to find that out because you might not 1461 01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:15,200 Speaker 5: have to introduce him to your little racing daddy, just 1462 01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:17,320 Speaker 5: a little race. He might as well just not even 1463 01:18:17,360 --> 01:18:19,479 Speaker 5: go over there and introduce him to your little daddy, 1464 01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:20,759 Speaker 5: little fat archie bunker. 1465 01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:22,960 Speaker 2: You just leave that alone. 1466 01:18:24,200 --> 01:18:34,040 Speaker 19: Yeah, daddy, this is the chante. Her name is Deshonte. 1467 01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:35,040 Speaker 19: What is that the shirt? 1468 01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:37,800 Speaker 2: The Africans weren't No, that's daddy. 1469 01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:41,080 Speaker 12: All right. 1470 01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:45,400 Speaker 8: All right, guys, coming up more of the Steve Harvey 1471 01:18:45,479 --> 01:18:46,880 Speaker 8: Morning Show right after this. 1472 01:18:47,360 --> 01:18:54,479 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 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You could choose to pay now, pay 1507 01:20:55,800 --> 01:21:00,240 Speaker 16: in four, or monthly. I just purchased airline tickets, been 1508 01:21:00,280 --> 01:21:02,360 Speaker 16: a daughter and I are so ready for vacation. 1509 01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:04,600 Speaker 1: Don't just pay PayPal. 1510 01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:09,519 Speaker 16: PayPal pay later options are subject to approval, eligibility berries. 1511 01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:13,559 Speaker 1: Learn more at PayPal dot com slash by now, pay later. 1512 01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:18,000 Speaker 8: It is time now for a round of would you rather? Uh, guys, 1513 01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:21,920 Speaker 8: would you rather be the ultimate barbecue griller? Or would 1514 01:21:21,960 --> 01:21:27,280 Speaker 8: you rather be the ultimate handyman? Which one handy ultimate. 1515 01:21:27,760 --> 01:21:30,920 Speaker 10: Barbecuing or I'm not fixing nothing. I'm too old for that. 1516 01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:32,200 Speaker 10: I'm barbecuing. 1517 01:21:32,640 --> 01:21:37,919 Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, you'd rather be the ultimate fix ladders. 1518 01:21:38,040 --> 01:21:40,679 Speaker 2: I ain't doing none of that, junior. 1519 01:21:41,640 --> 01:21:43,280 Speaker 15: Yeah, I will be the handyman. 1520 01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:47,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you can get out there right now. Stop 1521 01:21:47,280 --> 01:21:47,800 Speaker 2: putting up a. 1522 01:21:47,880 --> 01:21:53,719 Speaker 1: Fence yourself to worry about. 1523 01:21:55,960 --> 01:22:00,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's this building a matter most What about you, ste. 1524 01:22:01,680 --> 01:22:04,920 Speaker 5: I'm gonna be a gorilla because if very handy man 1525 01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:10,439 Speaker 5: when I'm a barbecue Oh all right, you shouldn't go 1526 01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:12,680 Speaker 5: up there and put new gutters on the house. And 1527 01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:17,439 Speaker 5: you have a stall of water heatering, you have. 1528 01:22:17,479 --> 01:22:20,080 Speaker 1: A chef, but you still prefer to do your own barbecuing. 1529 01:22:20,680 --> 01:22:23,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. I eat his, but you know, mm hmmm, he 1530 01:22:23,920 --> 01:22:26,439 Speaker 2: done got better. He got better. 1531 01:22:27,840 --> 01:22:28,040 Speaker 11: Done it? 1532 01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:30,479 Speaker 5: He from South? Yeah, he don't. He don't do deserts. Well, 1533 01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:31,840 Speaker 5: he needs to stay away from there. He need to 1534 01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:36,560 Speaker 5: stop doing that. He made me, he made me a 1535 01:22:36,800 --> 01:22:38,360 Speaker 5: peach cake the other day. 1536 01:22:38,479 --> 01:22:44,040 Speaker 2: I man, what the hell? Hey man, we don't do that. 1537 01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:45,280 Speaker 2: What is she doing? 1538 01:22:45,360 --> 01:22:47,680 Speaker 5: Don't don't add nothing to just do what my mom 1539 01:22:47,760 --> 01:22:51,280 Speaker 5: in law told you do. Don't add nothing. No little 1540 01:22:51,640 --> 01:22:53,080 Speaker 5: peach quarters in hell dawn? 1541 01:22:53,120 --> 01:22:53,680 Speaker 6: What we eat? 1542 01:22:56,040 --> 01:22:57,040 Speaker 1: All right? Moving on? 1543 01:22:57,960 --> 01:22:58,040 Speaker 6: Uh? 1544 01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:01,760 Speaker 2: Pudding? You ain't posted see big slices of bread in here? 1545 01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:02,080 Speaker 6: What is. 1546 01:23:05,360 --> 01:23:08,080 Speaker 5: You're not supposed to it's bread pudding. You're not supposed 1547 01:23:08,080 --> 01:23:10,600 Speaker 5: to actually see the corners and all that. 1548 01:23:13,880 --> 01:23:15,080 Speaker 1: You're so stupid. 1549 01:23:16,120 --> 01:23:18,240 Speaker 2: I don't really he got to stop. That ain't what 1550 01:23:18,320 --> 01:23:18,519 Speaker 2: he do? 1551 01:23:18,920 --> 01:23:19,080 Speaker 6: You know? 1552 01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:21,320 Speaker 1: He was trying right quick? 1553 01:23:21,760 --> 01:23:21,920 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1554 01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:24,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and quick calling this cobbler too. Don't call it 1555 01:23:24,439 --> 01:23:29,200 Speaker 2: that no more. Just call it tart. Yeah, he made tarts. 1556 01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:31,439 Speaker 2: You don't make no peach cobbler. That ain't what this is. 1557 01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:33,160 Speaker 2: I told you my mom in lawd and gave you 1558 01:23:33,240 --> 01:23:34,840 Speaker 2: the recipe. What is you what? 1559 01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:38,600 Speaker 5: I wanted to leave it in the oven? Make it 1560 01:23:38,680 --> 01:23:41,080 Speaker 5: extra chrispy? Oh, there wasn't no such thing as extra 1561 01:23:41,160 --> 01:23:47,880 Speaker 5: Christmas peach cobbler? What Saint chicken? And then, hey, hey, 1562 01:23:47,960 --> 01:23:50,439 Speaker 5: you're gonna messure when I lose your job. I ain't 1563 01:23:50,479 --> 01:23:52,240 Speaker 5: gonna lie to you. It's just certain things. 1564 01:23:53,800 --> 01:23:57,679 Speaker 8: Would you rather have an unlimited supply of cigars? Would 1565 01:23:58,080 --> 01:24:00,200 Speaker 8: exactly what I have? 1566 01:24:00,360 --> 01:24:06,240 Speaker 1: Ice cream? We've moved on. Cigars are ice cream? Cigars 1567 01:24:06,479 --> 01:24:08,160 Speaker 1: ice cream? Why are you hello? 1568 01:24:09,120 --> 01:24:09,400 Speaker 3: Hello? 1569 01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:11,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a tough decision for you. 1570 01:24:12,120 --> 01:24:13,599 Speaker 2: Isn't it ice cream? 1571 01:24:13,640 --> 01:24:13,760 Speaker 6: Here? 1572 01:24:13,840 --> 01:24:14,719 Speaker 2: That I got both? 1573 01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:18,040 Speaker 1: My favorite both? 1574 01:24:21,479 --> 01:24:24,840 Speaker 2: All right, I take the end the supply ice cream. 1575 01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:27,800 Speaker 1: Okay, that's today's rounded. 1576 01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:29,800 Speaker 8: Would you rather coming up next to our last break 1577 01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:31,120 Speaker 8: of the day and we'll close out. 1578 01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:33,400 Speaker 1: The show with the one and only Steve Harvey right 1579 01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:37,360 Speaker 1: after this. 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Actual rings will vary based on 1589 01:25:10,720 --> 01:25:11,400 Speaker 10: several factors. 1590 01:25:12,160 --> 01:25:14,400 Speaker 8: All right, guys, here we are our last break of 1591 01:25:14,560 --> 01:25:19,559 Speaker 8: the day on this Thursday, and good day. 1592 01:25:21,320 --> 01:25:22,040 Speaker 2: It has y. 1593 01:25:23,560 --> 01:25:26,360 Speaker 5: Hey you know something, I was going over something the 1594 01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:30,680 Speaker 5: other day. As I prepare you know, the boys uh 1595 01:25:31,960 --> 01:25:36,280 Speaker 5: have arrived at the minering camp and it's a whole 1596 01:25:36,360 --> 01:25:39,640 Speaker 5: new set of young minds that will try to have 1597 01:25:39,800 --> 01:25:44,960 Speaker 5: an effective change on I always incorporate a spiritual element 1598 01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:47,599 Speaker 5: in all of my talks with the young men. 1599 01:25:48,840 --> 01:25:50,960 Speaker 2: I found that there are quite a few young men. 1600 01:25:50,960 --> 01:25:55,400 Speaker 5: Who have church backgrounds, and you know, so it always 1601 01:25:55,720 --> 01:25:59,280 Speaker 5: has an interesting twist to it. And then there are 1602 01:25:59,360 --> 01:26:03,000 Speaker 5: some who have no idea what I'm talking about, and 1603 01:26:03,120 --> 01:26:07,920 Speaker 5: I have to fix fix the verbiage to fit somebody 1604 01:26:08,000 --> 01:26:11,519 Speaker 5: who doesn't understand. I'm saying that to say all this 1605 01:26:11,680 --> 01:26:15,600 Speaker 5: that I will always always continue the spiritual component to 1606 01:26:15,680 --> 01:26:18,360 Speaker 5: my camp because I look back over my life, I 1607 01:26:18,479 --> 01:26:20,360 Speaker 5: don't know how I would have made it without a 1608 01:26:20,439 --> 01:26:23,880 Speaker 5: relationship with God. I really, I really really don't. I 1609 01:26:24,200 --> 01:26:28,519 Speaker 5: don't know how I could have overcome the things I've 1610 01:26:28,680 --> 01:26:36,599 Speaker 5: overcome without God's presence. You know, man, I'm so grateful 1611 01:26:36,720 --> 01:26:38,960 Speaker 5: to have come to the point to understand that it 1612 01:26:39,080 --> 01:26:42,519 Speaker 5: ain't really me. Now, let me give myself a little 1613 01:26:42,520 --> 01:26:44,400 Speaker 5: bit of credit. Did I work hard? 1614 01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:45,320 Speaker 2: Yes? I did? 1615 01:26:46,160 --> 01:26:49,880 Speaker 5: Did I never give up? I did my best? Did 1616 01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:53,360 Speaker 5: I give it my all? I done have my foot 1617 01:26:53,520 --> 01:26:55,479 Speaker 5: to the gas pedal to the floor. For a long 1618 01:26:55,640 --> 01:26:59,280 Speaker 5: time now, have I been in relentless pursuit of my 1619 01:26:59,439 --> 01:27:03,400 Speaker 5: dreams and aspirations, Yes I have. Did I grit my 1620 01:27:03,520 --> 01:27:06,080 Speaker 5: teeth when it was necessary? Did I put the put 1621 01:27:06,160 --> 01:27:08,240 Speaker 5: my fist in the lord back and being at the 1622 01:27:08,320 --> 01:27:11,160 Speaker 5: knee and take the brace's position and just handle it? 1623 01:27:11,320 --> 01:27:11,559 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1624 01:27:12,280 --> 01:27:15,200 Speaker 5: Have I survived all my haters and they say us, Yes? 1625 01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:19,440 Speaker 5: Did I stay the course when I was offered directions 1626 01:27:19,520 --> 01:27:20,479 Speaker 5: to go on another way? 1627 01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:23,040 Speaker 2: Yes I did. I did all of that. 1628 01:27:24,760 --> 01:27:27,479 Speaker 5: But none of that, None of that would have been 1629 01:27:27,640 --> 01:27:33,320 Speaker 5: possible without my relationship, without without with God, without God 1630 01:27:33,439 --> 01:27:36,040 Speaker 5: tucking me under his wings and protecting me. Man, when 1631 01:27:36,040 --> 01:27:39,559 Speaker 5: I needed it so bad, when I didn't have nobody 1632 01:27:39,640 --> 01:27:43,639 Speaker 5: to call, when nobody really knew what I was going through, 1633 01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:47,840 Speaker 5: God was there when I had turned my back on God. 1634 01:27:48,800 --> 01:27:52,479 Speaker 5: God never turned his back on me when I walked 1635 01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:56,160 Speaker 5: the other way. God just stayed close by because he 1636 01:27:56,360 --> 01:27:58,680 Speaker 5: just kept trying to get my attention because he had 1637 01:27:58,720 --> 01:28:01,280 Speaker 5: a plan and a purpose me. Have you ever felt 1638 01:28:01,360 --> 01:28:03,800 Speaker 5: that way, y'all? Have you ever felt like, man, it's 1639 01:28:03,840 --> 01:28:05,960 Speaker 5: got to be more to my life than this. Have 1640 01:28:06,120 --> 01:28:09,479 Speaker 5: you ever thought for a moment, man, that there's got 1641 01:28:09,560 --> 01:28:11,760 Speaker 5: to be more to my life than what's going on. 1642 01:28:12,240 --> 01:28:14,880 Speaker 5: If you're having that thought, that's cost it's what it is. 1643 01:28:16,640 --> 01:28:20,960 Speaker 5: And God is touching you. He's tapping you on your shoulder, 1644 01:28:21,400 --> 01:28:24,920 Speaker 5: he's whispering in your ear. He's giving you a gentle nudge. 1645 01:28:25,840 --> 01:28:30,280 Speaker 5: He's always there as a reminder. Man, I've turned my 1646 01:28:30,360 --> 01:28:32,760 Speaker 5: back on God so many times and walked the other way. 1647 01:28:33,040 --> 01:28:37,120 Speaker 5: He just said, all right, okay, I need your attention, though, Steve, 1648 01:28:38,680 --> 01:28:43,040 Speaker 5: I need your undivided attention. And because he gives us 1649 01:28:43,080 --> 01:28:45,000 Speaker 5: the power of choice, and some of the decisions I 1650 01:28:45,160 --> 01:28:46,799 Speaker 5: was making got me in a position. 1651 01:28:47,200 --> 01:28:52,000 Speaker 2: Or guess what, he had my undivided attention. I'll tell 1652 01:28:52,040 --> 01:28:52,200 Speaker 2: you what. 1653 01:28:52,320 --> 01:28:53,880 Speaker 5: Man, when I was living in a car for all 1654 01:28:53,920 --> 01:28:57,040 Speaker 5: in years, he had my attention. Then, Oh he got 1655 01:28:57,120 --> 01:28:57,840 Speaker 5: it full blown. 1656 01:28:57,960 --> 01:28:58,360 Speaker 2: He got it. 1657 01:28:59,479 --> 01:29:01,400 Speaker 5: You remember that time he stricken you and you had 1658 01:29:01,439 --> 01:29:05,040 Speaker 5: that You remember when you had that health scare. He 1659 01:29:05,160 --> 01:29:10,120 Speaker 5: had your attention, then, didn't he didn't He Remember when 1660 01:29:10,120 --> 01:29:13,600 Speaker 5: you lost somebody that was real deal to you. He 1661 01:29:13,720 --> 01:29:15,000 Speaker 5: got your attention, didn't he. 1662 01:29:16,520 --> 01:29:16,880 Speaker 2: Didn't he? 1663 01:29:18,320 --> 01:29:20,280 Speaker 5: You remember that time you thought you weren't gonna make it. 1664 01:29:20,360 --> 01:29:22,240 Speaker 5: You ain't have no answers, you ain't know what to do. 1665 01:29:23,479 --> 01:29:27,680 Speaker 5: He had your attention, didn't he didn't He Remember when 1666 01:29:27,720 --> 01:29:29,920 Speaker 5: you made that right turn, and he told you go left, 1667 01:29:30,200 --> 01:29:33,519 Speaker 5: and you made that right turn. Anyway, He got your attention, 1668 01:29:33,680 --> 01:29:37,679 Speaker 5: didn't he didn't he see? You know what I'm saying. 1669 01:29:37,720 --> 01:29:43,240 Speaker 5: In all of this, We've always had a choice. We 1670 01:29:43,360 --> 01:29:45,920 Speaker 5: are the only creatures that God gave the power of 1671 01:29:46,000 --> 01:29:49,960 Speaker 5: decision too. We get to decide all day long. We 1672 01:29:50,080 --> 01:29:55,639 Speaker 5: get to decide. But by God's grace and mercy, even 1673 01:29:55,720 --> 01:30:01,599 Speaker 5: when you make the bad decision, he always did always 1674 01:30:01,680 --> 01:30:04,160 Speaker 5: get you, man, And you know why it gets you 1675 01:30:04,680 --> 01:30:09,639 Speaker 5: because his love is uncompromising. His love for you don't 1676 01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:13,320 Speaker 5: come with conditions. He loves you in spite of your mistakes. 1677 01:30:14,479 --> 01:30:16,640 Speaker 5: He loves you because He created you, and He has 1678 01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:18,280 Speaker 5: a plan for you, and as a plan for you 1679 01:30:18,400 --> 01:30:21,439 Speaker 5: to prosper you, he just trying to get your attention, man, 1680 01:30:21,720 --> 01:30:23,439 Speaker 5: so you can do some of the stuff he wants 1681 01:30:23,439 --> 01:30:28,040 Speaker 5: you to do. I tell you something, man, I've learned 1682 01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:31,880 Speaker 5: some major lessons in my life. And one of the reasons, man, 1683 01:30:31,920 --> 01:30:34,120 Speaker 5: I was just running from God. I was just running 1684 01:30:34,120 --> 01:30:36,080 Speaker 5: from God because I felt like it was so much 1685 01:30:36,520 --> 01:30:39,800 Speaker 5: I wanted to do, so much I wanted to be 1686 01:30:39,920 --> 01:30:42,360 Speaker 5: and if I go over there, become a Christian and 1687 01:30:43,120 --> 01:30:44,960 Speaker 5: honor God, I'm not gonna be able to do it. 1688 01:30:46,280 --> 01:30:48,639 Speaker 5: And I read something one day that struck me as said, 1689 01:30:49,280 --> 01:30:53,400 Speaker 5: becoming who God created you to be will cost you 1690 01:30:54,560 --> 01:30:59,200 Speaker 5: who you thought you were. And that's what I was 1691 01:30:59,280 --> 01:31:05,720 Speaker 5: afraid of. Becoming who God created you to be will 1692 01:31:05,880 --> 01:31:08,040 Speaker 5: cost you who you thought you were. 1693 01:31:08,960 --> 01:31:09,720 Speaker 2: But it's worth it. 1694 01:31:10,880 --> 01:31:11,080 Speaker 6: Man. 1695 01:31:11,360 --> 01:31:15,280 Speaker 5: Everything I wanted to do and and and and and 1696 01:31:15,479 --> 01:31:20,000 Speaker 5: and and and do and and become was nothing compared 1697 01:31:20,040 --> 01:31:23,200 Speaker 5: to what God was working on for me. God been 1698 01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:26,400 Speaker 5: working on us for a long time. Man, show would 1699 01:31:26,439 --> 01:31:29,840 Speaker 5: be nice to give him your undivided attention before it's 1700 01:31:29,880 --> 01:31:34,240 Speaker 5: too late. Give God your attention. Man, he got a 1701 01:31:34,280 --> 01:31:36,160 Speaker 5: good plan for you, and I got news for you. 1702 01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:38,960 Speaker 5: It's way better than the one you got. Took me 1703 01:31:39,040 --> 01:31:40,720 Speaker 5: a long time to figure that out, but I'm sure 1704 01:31:40,840 --> 01:31:43,559 Speaker 5: glad I did. Those are my close remarks today. Hope 1705 01:31:43,600 --> 01:31:45,360 Speaker 5: you got something from it if you didn't try us 1706 01:31:45,360 --> 01:31:47,840 Speaker 5: again tomorrow, because we're gonna try to do the same thing. God, 1707 01:31:47,880 --> 01:31:50,080 Speaker 5: will y'all have a great day today. Talk to God. 1708 01:31:50,360 --> 01:31:51,960 Speaker 5: He'd absolutely love to hear from. 1709 01:32:00,160 --> 01:32:03,200 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Contest no purchase necessary, voidware prohibited. 1710 01:32:03,280 --> 01:32:06,479 Speaker 8: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years 1711 01:32:06,560 --> 01:32:08,120 Speaker 8: old unless otherwise stated. 1712 01:32:08,240 --> 01:32:12,679 Speaker 1: For complete contest rules, visit steveharveyfm dot com. 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