WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Hotel Bar Rendezvous

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brick and Jeffrey in the morning. We got

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<v Speaker 1>you on Friday. Okay, we got a brand new Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date episode. And for those of you who don't listen

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<v Speaker 1>to our full show, because we do do a full

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<v Speaker 1>hour every day, can I just recommend today's episode one

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<v Speaker 1>full hour? Yeah, I really like Jeff's song parody today

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<v Speaker 1>it's all about soup. You can also see it on

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<v Speaker 1>our YouTube page if you just go to at Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and you know it's not a crazy Friday unless

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<v Speaker 2>you're bumping songs about soup.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, that's right. Yeah, I said it first. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we do a lot here. Okay, yeah, just Second Dates.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, No, and Brooke, that was the perfect segue to

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<v Speaker 3>the comment I actually had pulled off.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even lying. I didn't even plan it.

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<v Speaker 3>I know you did it, and Jay Gregg said, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't normally leave comments, but I found you watching TikTok.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I listened to all the Second Date updates, then

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<v Speaker 3>all the phone taps, now the full shows.

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<v Speaker 1>I listen all day every day. I'm addicted. Be like

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<v Speaker 1>Jay greggs, Yeah, be like him. Enjoy right now your

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<v Speaker 1>brand new Second Date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Second date up day.

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<v Speaker 5>Some people might say it's presumptuous on a first date

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<v Speaker 5>to bring a girl straight to a hotel. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 5>Brooke would say the laquinsa oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know you were going to say, a nice hotel.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't even need a room. I'll just lay on

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<v Speaker 5>the breakfast bar. You feed me Raisin brand till I

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<v Speaker 5>say stop.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll show you how to use that waffle maker's.

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<v Speaker 4>Brooke likes it.

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<v Speaker 5>But I only bring it up because, according to our

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<v Speaker 5>listener Jack, in his email, he says he had his.

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<v Speaker 4>First date at a local hotel and that's all I know, So, Jazz,

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<v Speaker 4>you don't.

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<v Speaker 6>A nice restaurant at a local hotel?

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<v Speaker 1>My fingers for a bar?

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<v Speaker 4>Y hey man, welcome to the show, dude, thank you

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<v Speaker 4>wearing me?

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what, that sounds really great? But was

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<v Speaker 2>it that we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking about the breakfast bar? Sounds really great?

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<v Speaker 6>Hook up with the waffle machine.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm talking about taking the lady to a hotel

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<v Speaker 2>on the first date.

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<v Speaker 6>Like you guys, it didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh happened. I thought that's what it's said in the email.

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<v Speaker 5>But a sorry reading's hard, Okay, I apologize, so maybe

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<v Speaker 5>you should just start at the beginning.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell us about this lady that you met.

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<v Speaker 2>Alright, well, we did go to a hotel, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was the coffee bar.

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<v Speaker 6>So Jeff read the word hotel and was like, it

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<v Speaker 6>was a hotel.

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<v Speaker 4>What else do you do at a hotel?

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<v Speaker 1>You can get a coffee coffee bar, okay, but the

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<v Speaker 1>Lakina breakfast bar is it? What is the difference? Your name?

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<v Speaker 2>I just figured if I put hotel in the email,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, oh, this is getting somebody as a town. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Get her name is Delilah?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay? And how did you meet her?

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<v Speaker 2>We met on a dating app?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you take everything in your power not to sing

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<v Speaker 1>that plain white Teese song to her?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh? God?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? And you would think like that alone would make

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<v Speaker 2>me remember. But I don't know if it's because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>dating and you're looking at a lot of different people,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of different names. But we were sitting there

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<v Speaker 2>and I say, within five minutes, I can't remember her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah what did you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh ye?

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully luckily she kind of saved me from it because

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<v Speaker 2>she started telling a story about her and a friend

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<v Speaker 2>and she was like, oh and my friend was like Delilah,

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<v Speaker 2>what are you doing? And I'm like, oh, that's it,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Delilah, Oh my.

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<v Speaker 6>Gosh, you listened to her.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a good things, Like, okay, now you're listening.

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<v Speaker 5>So now that you're fifteen minutes into the date and

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<v Speaker 5>you finally refigured out her name, where does it go

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<v Speaker 5>from there?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, back up a little bit. She's very pretty

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<v Speaker 2>and I was really attracted. And this may have been

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<v Speaker 2>like the whole I forgot her name thing, but she

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<v Speaker 2>had just like brown reddish hairs, picture like Emmastone, but prettier.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, that's shots fired at Emma Stone.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she's really pretty.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Emason is a big listener to this show. So

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<v Speaker 4>that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's awesome. You were blown away. How gorgeous

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<v Speaker 1>this woman was, Delilah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And it was aside from like I can't remember

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<v Speaker 2>your name, there were a couple other weird things you

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<v Speaker 2>kind of take us a good side, Like we were

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<v Speaker 2>wearing the same colors.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she notice that or did you point it out?

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<v Speaker 2>She actually was the one who pointed that.

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<v Speaker 4>Out, talking like black and brown both the BA shirt. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we're in all green polka dots together.

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<v Speaker 6>This super specific.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, aside from the color of her hair and

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<v Speaker 5>the color of your clothes, were there any other color?

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<v Speaker 4>That's very good? What other highlights did you and Delilah

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<v Speaker 4>have with each other?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was a good date. You know, we

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<v Speaker 2>had a good conversation. It kind of veered off in

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<v Speaker 2>a weird direction at one point. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>we got there, but like we started talking about childhood

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<v Speaker 2>dentist drama.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good one, and everyone knows a story about that.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a really hot thing to talk about on a

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<v Speaker 5>first day.

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<v Speaker 1>Did it make you laugh?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean ye kind of. I had a story about,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, wisdom teeth getting pulled and lots of blood

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<v Speaker 2>and actually vomiting or whatever. But she was laughing at it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I like she finds a human you like a

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<v Speaker 1>little dry socket. At least you keep up with your teeth.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean. Maybe we should just jump right to how

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<v Speaker 4>did it end?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it ended well, you know, I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a daytime to day, so it wasn't like we were

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<v Speaker 2>a kiss. We hugged. Okay, I'm trying to think of

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I used the coupon to pay for the coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't think she even saw that, so it's

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<v Speaker 2>not like she's gonna go, oh, gosh, cheap or something.

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<v Speaker 1>So some people love an issue with coupons for some

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<v Speaker 1>reason because I think that just means you were a

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<v Speaker 1>smart So I need to know.

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<v Speaker 3>Was it like on your phone cubon you had like

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<v Speaker 3>a paper cutout?

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<v Speaker 6>Why that's kind of old.

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<v Speaker 1>Who cares where the coupon came from?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but the brism that you do it, Brooke, is

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<v Speaker 5>so that you can tip less on the fire.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, that just means you found a man that could

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<v Speaker 1>be financially stable.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even think she's solid. I mean it was

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<v Speaker 2>on my phone. I don't even think she's solid. But

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<v Speaker 2>if she did, then yeah, it was on the phone back.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah they're fine.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, how long has it been since your hotel coffee date?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh? It is then just over a week and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>getting absolutely nothing back.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you hesitated there, and I thought you might be

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<v Speaker 5>saying seven years.

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<v Speaker 4>So this is than what I was expecting.

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<v Speaker 5>That means we still have a chance when we come

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<v Speaker 5>back and we called Delilah for you, Hopefully she has

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<v Speaker 5>some memory of who you are and some memory of

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<v Speaker 5>why she's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>If she forgets his name, it'll just make him feel better. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's also positive.

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<v Speaker 2>I would prefer you didn't bring that part up, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, whatever you gotta do, Okay, we'll.

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<v Speaker 4>Make it happen for you with your second date update

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<v Speaker 4>right after this. Hold on second date update if you're

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<v Speaker 4>just joining us.

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<v Speaker 5>We've been chopping it up with our listener Jack about

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<v Speaker 5>his first date with a lovely woman with reddish brown

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<v Speaker 5>hair named Delilah.

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<v Speaker 1>Say, auburn hair.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not how he described that is.

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<v Speaker 1>What reddish brown is.

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<v Speaker 6>You read it was red.

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<v Speaker 5>But you've heard of the app coffee meets Bagel. Well,

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<v Speaker 5>Jack said no.

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<v Speaker 4>To that bagel. Just grabbed coffee with.

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<v Speaker 7>Her at a hotel bar and it was a great transition.

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<v Speaker 6>And when he wrote that down in his head, he's like,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm going.

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<v Speaker 4>To say this. I'm hearing the people laughing in their

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<v Speaker 4>cars right now.

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<v Speaker 5>And they discussed hobbies and childhoods, traumatic dental experiences.

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<v Speaker 4>All the usual first date topics.

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<v Speaker 5>But now, just like the ring, it's been seven days,

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<v Speaker 5>so it's time to go get our girl.

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<v Speaker 6>Scary you guys.

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<v Speaker 5>Are seeing the ring You know, you see the video

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<v Speaker 5>and then you have seven days to like forward it

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<v Speaker 5>or you die.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, watch those movies. They are two frightenings, scary.

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<v Speaker 5>It's seven days and then the entity comes to get you.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's what we are. We are the entity coming

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<v Speaker 5>to her.

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<v Speaker 4>We're about to ask her what's up. Okay, it's okay, Brook.

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<v Speaker 5>I know you don't appreciate amazing transitions like that, but

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<v Speaker 5>that's what we're gonna do in radio.

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<v Speaker 3>But this whole time, Joe was like, I'm coming in

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<v Speaker 3>with a copy Bagel, Joe, I'm.

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<v Speaker 6>Following up with the ring man.

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<v Speaker 4>This is gonna be I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't even have to day after you.

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<v Speaker 5>These two got me because when we win on Marconi

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<v Speaker 5>Award after this, you're gonna see who's laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's no one knows what a Marconi is radio

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<v Speaker 1>for twenty don't.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's a radiogram.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know until Jack, you feel me. You felt

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<v Speaker 4>like that was a good recap, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, I thought you guys got you say no, Jack, no,

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<v Speaker 2>because he thinks he says no, Oh my god, we all.

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<v Speaker 6>Know the answer.

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<v Speaker 2>I only hesitated because I was listening to you guys

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<v Speaker 2>talking about what the hell is Marconi?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's it's the highest prize you can win in radio.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not included in the got for a reason.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, fine, the reckoning is coming.

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<v Speaker 7>Let's just call this Yeah, Hello, Hey is this Delilah?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Delilah? Happy? What?

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<v Speaker 1>No, you're in for a treat. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>You're hearing a lot of voices right now because you're

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<v Speaker 5>on the radio right now on the show called Broken

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<v Speaker 5>Jebbary in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, yeah, hi the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks, that's appropriate response.

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<v Speaker 5>I know you're probably wondering what's going on, and I

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<v Speaker 5>can tell you this is a segment we do.

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<v Speaker 4>You may have heard of it before. It's called a

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<v Speaker 4>second Date update.

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<v Speaker 8>Uh okay.

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<v Speaker 4>It's where if.

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<v Speaker 5>We have a listener who wants some help getting in

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<v Speaker 5>touch with someone they went on a date with recently,

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<v Speaker 5>we can call them on their behalf and try to

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<v Speaker 5>figure out if there's a reason why they aren't getting

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<v Speaker 5>together again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh kind of cute, huh yeah.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And the reason that we're calling you is because you

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<v Speaker 5>met up with a guy named Jack recently.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the coffee date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, coffee Jack.

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<v Speaker 9>Right, it was a piece of date, but I mean overall,

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, unfortunately I kind of sounded a little a

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<v Speaker 9>little boring, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh no, that's the world.

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<v Speaker 4>Which part was boring?

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<v Speaker 9>Like? Yeah, there was just like not a lot of

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<v Speaker 9>initiatives taken on, like starting different conversations.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, okay, so you felt like you had to lead

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<v Speaker 1>all the conversation. Is that what you mean?

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, like a little bit. I honestly think that we

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<v Speaker 9>got started talking about the dentist after I said I

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<v Speaker 9>had sensitive teeth when I drank my coffee when it

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<v Speaker 9>was too hot, and then that's how.

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<v Speaker 5>We ended up there, okay, And when he was describing

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<v Speaker 5>how he was puking in the dentist's chair.

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<v Speaker 4>That didn't give you romantic butterflies.

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<v Speaker 9>It's not necessarily the exciting first date conversation you like,

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<v Speaker 9>get to know you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, But to be fair, like, what is like what

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<v Speaker 5>were you hoping for? Like you guys are just supposed

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<v Speaker 5>to up and get to know each other, right like

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<v Speaker 5>a first time.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't have like a first date script that I

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<v Speaker 9>expect to be like gone over it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I can kind of understand what she's saying.

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<v Speaker 1>When you have a conversation with someone and it feels

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<v Speaker 1>like it's more work than what you get out of it.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, Brooke, I agree with you on that, and

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<v Speaker 5>I see what you mean. But we do a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of these phone calls, and I would caution people because.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of times when someone says they're.

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<v Speaker 5>Looking for that romantic spark, that's just not how real

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<v Speaker 5>dates actually are.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying she should give up on it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying that I understand having those conversations and leaving

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<v Speaker 1>and being like, oh, that was exhausting.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I didn't hear her saying like, God, that was exhausting.

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<v Speaker 4>Was just like I was kind of bored. I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>feel the spark, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>When people are like, oh, it felt like we already

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<v Speaker 6>knew each other, like the chemistry was there. This is

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<v Speaker 6>like the opposite event.

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<v Speaker 5>But you're describing Brook and her cousins at their family

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<v Speaker 5>and that's a different situation.

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<v Speaker 3>That my second or third date feeling thirsty.

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<v Speaker 1>So Delilah, you're saying it was so boring and it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even warrant more exploration into if there was actually

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<v Speaker 1>something there.

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<v Speaker 9>Like he is a good but to be perfectly honest,

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<v Speaker 9>like I'm getting messages from guys pretty frequently, and like

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<v Speaker 9>I'm going on quite a few coffee.

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<v Speaker 8>Tapes and so like, if it's not.

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<v Speaker 9>Interesting or I don't feel like a spark or like

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<v Speaker 9>want to pursue it, I I just don't know that

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<v Speaker 9>it's worth my time.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, it's like, you know, I got his audition.

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<v Speaker 5>Sure, but who's to say that he wasn't also equally

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<v Speaker 5>bored and wanting more from you during.

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<v Speaker 4>The conversation Chef.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well that's what he said, because that's the polite

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<v Speaker 5>thing to do when you meet somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>Then, and I'm not just gonna say that in his place.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll let him tell you, because Jack is on the

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<v Speaker 5>other line listening to this call wanted to.

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<v Speaker 8>Jump in, yeah, oh, or I I would not like

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<v Speaker 8>that had I known that you were I'm sorry, Yeah, Brook,

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<v Speaker 8>he's just doing the.

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<v Speaker 2>Wells. I'm just gonna say in my defense, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a coffee date in the middle of the day.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what you expect.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 9>Maybe we connect over a mutual hobby or like a

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<v Speaker 9>movie that we liked, and none of that happened.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I was just hold him back because again

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<v Speaker 2>I thought we were just trying to go slow, try

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<v Speaker 2>and get to know each other. I mean, you've got

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<v Speaker 2>to wait till like the second date before you get you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, where you get to hobbies.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not boring. I mean I eat a whole rope

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<v Speaker 2>kissery chicken on a zoom call last week.

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<v Speaker 6>And a boy, now we're talking a lot.

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<v Speaker 9>What were you making like a what do they called

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<v Speaker 9>like a mop bong video where you eat in front.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the camera.

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<v Speaker 5>He's just an interesting guy who does crazy interesting things.

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<v Speaker 4>All the time.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and you would, yeah, you would know that about

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<v Speaker 5>him if you gave him a chance.

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<v Speaker 3>I want more examples.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to know what else?

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<v Speaker 9>I just didn't feel that connec spark?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you sure, Delilah, Because back then maybe you didn't

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<v Speaker 5>feel it, But after hearing about that chicken stuff, you

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<v Speaker 5>might be getting a little hot.

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<v Speaker 4>And heavy right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe there's a bad example. Okay, my neighbors, my neighbor's

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<v Speaker 2>cast follows me everywhere like I'm some kind of a

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<v Speaker 2>cult leader.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh good, judge, care why do we go to that analogy?

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm just saying because I don't want you to

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<v Speaker 2>think like I'm just some plain old, boring guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I say, I say, I mean, I will say, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>people just don't make the best first impressions and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's you, And that's okay, that's literally. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>better that he didn't talk your ear off and talk

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<v Speaker 1>at you instead of just being a little boring on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date.

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<v Speaker 9>That's true. I do like being able to have an

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<v Speaker 9>equal conversation instead of just being talked at.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, now's a good opportunity, Jack, give her a chance

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<v Speaker 5>to talk.

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<v Speaker 9>I will say, Jack getting in touch with me through

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<v Speaker 9>the radio is certainly interesting.

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<v Speaker 6>You millions of people saying to you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the tides are turning, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, but she did mention that she has a ton

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<v Speaker 5>of messages from other dudes.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would bring that up right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, she brought it up.

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<v Speaker 1>But we don't have to go back there.

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<v Speaker 4>You're right, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm hoping that we don't and that she just agrees

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<v Speaker 5>to another date right now with Jack.

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<v Speaker 1>That's exciting.

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<v Speaker 5>A coffee and possibly a bagel date that we would

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<v Speaker 5>pay for.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I've got to have a dinner. We'll quote it night.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, what about a movie night?

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<v Speaker 9>The Ring?

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<v Speaker 4>Sure?

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<v Speaker 9>Oh my god, that movie is terrifying.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't want to watch the ring.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, this is sounding a lot better. So what do

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<v Speaker 4>you think about giving him one more chance? Tolilah again,

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<v Speaker 4>we would pay for it if you say yes.

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, I do have a couple of other dates

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<v Speaker 9>lined up, just to be perfectly honest, But if he's

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<v Speaker 9>willing to, you know, be that fourth date, I would

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<v Speaker 9>totally go on a second date with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, she's volleyed it back over the net to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Jack.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm just saying I might have some dates myself.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, No, I agree, I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you're excited.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited. I just wanted to kind of. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>a boring guy, so yeah, maybe I got.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, Jack, if you're really not boring, maybe you go

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<v Speaker 5>on the other dates with Delilah and you can meet

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<v Speaker 5>and even one up some of the other men.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what are you on today? I know, man, seven days.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think anybody likes that idea.

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<v Speaker 9>Just to meet four more dates.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna go get Jeff and napped.

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<v Speaker 5>Brook's gonna leave us with a really quippy thing on

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<v Speaker 5>the very end of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Go Brook, No, I think that we just end the call. Congratulations.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't wait to hear back from you. Let us

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<v Speaker 1>know how it goes.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that was boring rook Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, it's nice to hear the boring guy get

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<v Speaker 5>a win every once in a while.

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<v Speaker 4>I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think what's funny is like, when we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>to him, I didn't find him boring. Yeah, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>he seemed like normal. But maybe we talked more than

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<v Speaker 1>he did, and that was maybe we definitely interesting one.

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<v Speaker 4>It's good that he realized that and kept his mouth.

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<v Speaker 5>What the bad news is, we're not going to be

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<v Speaker 5>on the date with him, so we can't help him

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<v Speaker 5>out again. Because the thing that really seemed to change

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<v Speaker 5>her mind was the fact that he called us and

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<v Speaker 5>put her on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this is one of those things where

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<v Speaker 1>you should go with just a couple of pre planned

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<v Speaker 1>questions for any date, like any dinner party, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>come with some interesting conversation.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, what's your body count?

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, after like middle school school?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, what's what's a better one?

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<v Speaker 1>Like the most embarrassing thing that happened to you in

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<v Speaker 1>middle school?

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<v Speaker 5>No, that sounds like that sounds like all of the

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<v Speaker 5>other stories that he was telling about dst.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't have the list in front of me.

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<v Speaker 1>If he needs help, we can do that. Make the

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<v Speaker 1>list and let us know and match your own personality forwards,

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<v Speaker 1>not so.

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<v Speaker 4>That we don't have to think of it.

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<v Speaker 5>But remember, if you want help with your dating life,

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<v Speaker 5>we can be there for you to call that person

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<v Speaker 5>who isn't calling you back. And remember all of our

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<v Speaker 5>second dates are online on YouTube, where you can also

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<v Speaker 5>watch Brook eat an entire rotisserie chicken in under twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe I haven't done that yet.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the ball the way that Jawn hinges. It's wild.

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<v Speaker 4>Go check it out at Brooke and Jeffrey