Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brick and Jeffrey in the morning. We got
Speaker 1: you on Friday. Okay, we got a brand new Second
Speaker 1: Date episode. And for those of you who don't listen
Speaker 1: to our full show, because we do do a full
Speaker 1: hour every day, can I just recommend today's episode one
Speaker 1: full hour? Yeah, I really like Jeff's song parody today
Speaker 1: it's all about soup. You can also see it on
Speaker 1: our YouTube page if you just go to at Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: Yes, and you know it's not a crazy Friday unless
Speaker 2: you're bumping songs about soup.
Speaker 1: That's right, that's right. Yeah, I said it first. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we do a lot here. Okay, yeah, just Second Dates.
Speaker 3: Okay, No, and Brooke, that was the perfect segue to
Speaker 3: the comment I actually had pulled off.
Speaker 1: I'm not even lying. I didn't even plan it.
Speaker 3: I know you did it, and Jay Gregg said, I
Speaker 3: don't normally leave comments, but I found you watching TikTok.
Speaker 3: Then I listened to all the Second Date updates, then
Speaker 3: all the phone taps, now the full shows.
Speaker 1: I listen all day every day. I'm addicted. Be like
Speaker 1: Jay greggs, Yeah, be like him. Enjoy right now your
Speaker 1: brand new Second Date update.
Speaker 4: Second date up day.
Speaker 5: Some people might say it's presumptuous on a first date
Speaker 5: to bring a girl straight to a hotel. Yeah, but
Speaker 5: Brooke would say the laquinsa oh my.
Speaker 1: I didn't know you were going to say, a nice hotel.
Speaker 5: You don't even need a room. I'll just lay on
Speaker 5: the breakfast bar. You feed me Raisin brand till I
Speaker 5: say stop.
Speaker 1: I'll show you how to use that waffle maker's.
Speaker 4: Brooke likes it.
Speaker 5: But I only bring it up because, according to our
Speaker 5: listener Jack, in his email, he says he had his.
Speaker 4: First date at a local hotel and that's all I know, So, Jazz,
Speaker 4: you don't.
Speaker 6: A nice restaurant at a local hotel?
Speaker 1: My fingers for a bar?
Speaker 4: Y hey man, welcome to the show, dude, thank you
Speaker 4: wearing me?
Speaker 2: And you know what, that sounds really great? But was
Speaker 2: it that we're.
Speaker 1: Talking about the breakfast bar? Sounds really great?
Speaker 6: Hook up with the waffle machine.
Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about taking the lady to a hotel
Speaker 2: on the first date.
Speaker 6: Like you guys, it didn't happen.
Speaker 4: Oh happened. I thought that's what it's said in the email.
Speaker 5: But a sorry reading's hard, Okay, I apologize, so maybe
Speaker 5: you should just start at the beginning.
Speaker 4: Tell us about this lady that you met.
Speaker 2: Alright, well, we did go to a hotel, but it
Speaker 2: was the coffee bar.
Speaker 6: So Jeff read the word hotel and was like, it
Speaker 6: was a hotel.
Speaker 4: What else do you do at a hotel?
Speaker 1: You can get a coffee coffee bar, okay, but the
Speaker 1: Lakina breakfast bar is it? What is the difference? Your name?
Speaker 2: I just figured if I put hotel in the email,
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, this is getting somebody as a town. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Get her name is Delilah?
Speaker 4: Okay? And how did you meet her?
Speaker 2: We met on a dating app?
Speaker 1: Did you take everything in your power not to sing
Speaker 1: that plain white Teese song to her?
Speaker 6: Oh? God?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah? And you would think like that alone would make
Speaker 2: me remember. But I don't know if it's because you know,
Speaker 2: dating and you're looking at a lot of different people,
Speaker 2: a lot of different names. But we were sitting there
Speaker 2: and I say, within five minutes, I can't remember her name?
Speaker 4: Yeah what did you do?
Speaker 1: Oh ye?
Speaker 2: Hopefully luckily she kind of saved me from it because
Speaker 2: she started telling a story about her and a friend
Speaker 2: and she was like, oh and my friend was like Delilah,
Speaker 2: what are you doing? And I'm like, oh, that's it,
Speaker 2: Oh Delilah, Oh my.
Speaker 6: Gosh, you listened to her.
Speaker 4: That's a good things, Like, okay, now you're listening.
Speaker 5: So now that you're fifteen minutes into the date and
Speaker 5: you finally refigured out her name, where does it go
Speaker 5: from there?
Speaker 2: I mean, back up a little bit. She's very pretty
Speaker 2: and I was really attracted. And this may have been
Speaker 2: like the whole I forgot her name thing, but she
Speaker 2: had just like brown reddish hairs, picture like Emmastone, but prettier.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's shots fired at Emma Stone.
Speaker 1: I know she's really pretty.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Emason is a big listener to this show. So
Speaker 4: that's okay.
Speaker 1: I mean that's awesome. You were blown away. How gorgeous
Speaker 1: this woman was, Delilah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it was aside from like I can't remember
Speaker 2: your name, there were a couple other weird things you
Speaker 2: kind of take us a good side, Like we were
Speaker 2: wearing the same colors.
Speaker 1: Did she notice that or did you point it out?
Speaker 2: She actually was the one who pointed that.
Speaker 4: Out, talking like black and brown both the BA shirt. Yeah,
Speaker 4: we're in all green polka dots together.
Speaker 6: This super specific.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 5: I mean, aside from the color of her hair and
Speaker 5: the color of your clothes, were there any other color?
Speaker 4: That's very good? What other highlights did you and Delilah
Speaker 4: have with each other?
Speaker 2: I thought it was a good date. You know, we
Speaker 2: had a good conversation. It kind of veered off in
Speaker 2: a weird direction at one point. I don't know how
Speaker 2: we got there, but like we started talking about childhood
Speaker 2: dentist drama.
Speaker 1: That's a good one, and everyone knows a story about that.
Speaker 5: It's a really hot thing to talk about on a
Speaker 5: first day.
Speaker 1: Did it make you laugh?
Speaker 2: I mean ye kind of. I had a story about,
Speaker 2: you know, wisdom teeth getting pulled and lots of blood
Speaker 2: and actually vomiting or whatever. But she was laughing at it.
Speaker 1: Okay, I like she finds a human you like a
Speaker 1: little dry socket. At least you keep up with your teeth.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm.
Speaker 4: I mean. Maybe we should just jump right to how
Speaker 4: did it end?
Speaker 2: I thought it ended well, you know, I mean, it's
Speaker 2: a daytime to day, so it wasn't like we were
Speaker 2: a kiss. We hugged. Okay, I'm trying to think of
Speaker 2: you know, I used the coupon to pay for the coffee.
Speaker 2: But I don't think she even saw that, so it's
Speaker 2: not like she's gonna go, oh, gosh, cheap or something.
Speaker 1: So some people love an issue with coupons for some
Speaker 1: reason because I think that just means you were a
Speaker 1: smart So I need to know.
Speaker 3: Was it like on your phone cubon you had like
Speaker 3: a paper cutout?
Speaker 6: Why that's kind of old.
Speaker 1: Who cares where the coupon came from?
Speaker 5: Okay, but the brism that you do it, Brooke, is
Speaker 5: so that you can tip less on the fire.
Speaker 4: That's a bad thing.
Speaker 1: Also, that just means you found a man that could
Speaker 1: be financially stable.
Speaker 2: I don't even think she's solid. I mean it was
Speaker 2: on my phone. I don't even think she's solid. But
Speaker 2: if she did, then yeah, it was on the phone back.
Speaker 6: Yeah they're fine.
Speaker 5: Okay, how long has it been since your hotel coffee date?
Speaker 2: Uh? It is then just over a week and I'm
Speaker 2: getting absolutely nothing back.
Speaker 5: Okay, you hesitated there, and I thought you might be
Speaker 5: saying seven years.
Speaker 4: So this is than what I was expecting.
Speaker 5: That means we still have a chance when we come
Speaker 5: back and we called Delilah for you, Hopefully she has
Speaker 5: some memory of who you are and some memory of
Speaker 5: why she's not calling you back.
Speaker 1: If she forgets his name, it'll just make him feel better. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's also positive.
Speaker 2: I would prefer you didn't bring that part up, okay,
Speaker 2: but yeah, whatever you gotta do, Okay, we'll.
Speaker 4: Make it happen for you with your second date update
Speaker 4: right after this. Hold on second date update if you're
Speaker 4: just joining us.
Speaker 5: We've been chopping it up with our listener Jack about
Speaker 5: his first date with a lovely woman with reddish brown
Speaker 5: hair named Delilah.
Speaker 1: Say, auburn hair.
Speaker 4: That's not how he described that is.
Speaker 1: What reddish brown is.
Speaker 6: You read it was red.
Speaker 5: But you've heard of the app coffee meets Bagel. Well,
Speaker 5: Jack said no.
Speaker 4: To that bagel. Just grabbed coffee with.
Speaker 7: Her at a hotel bar and it was a great transition.
Speaker 6: And when he wrote that down in his head, he's like,
Speaker 6: I'm going.
Speaker 4: To say this. I'm hearing the people laughing in their
Speaker 4: cars right now.
Speaker 5: And they discussed hobbies and childhoods, traumatic dental experiences.
Speaker 4: All the usual first date topics.
Speaker 5: But now, just like the ring, it's been seven days,
Speaker 5: so it's time to go get our girl.
Speaker 6: Scary you guys.
Speaker 5: Are seeing the ring You know, you see the video
Speaker 5: and then you have seven days to like forward it
Speaker 5: or you die.
Speaker 1: I know, watch those movies. They are two frightenings, scary.
Speaker 5: It's seven days and then the entity comes to get you.
Speaker 5: And that's what we are. We are the entity coming
Speaker 5: to her.
Speaker 4: We're about to ask her what's up. Okay, it's okay, Brook.
Speaker 5: I know you don't appreciate amazing transitions like that, but
Speaker 5: that's what we're gonna do in radio.
Speaker 3: But this whole time, Joe was like, I'm coming in
Speaker 3: with a copy Bagel, Joe, I'm.
Speaker 6: Following up with the ring man.
Speaker 4: This is gonna be I.
Speaker 1: Don't even have to day after you.
Speaker 5: These two got me because when we win on Marconi
Speaker 5: Award after this, you're gonna see who's laughing.
Speaker 1: But that's no one knows what a Marconi is radio
Speaker 1: for twenty don't.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a radiogram.
Speaker 4: I didn't know until Jack, you feel me. You felt
Speaker 4: like that was a good recap, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I thought you guys got you say no, Jack, no,
Speaker 2: because he thinks he says no, Oh my god, we all.
Speaker 6: Know the answer.
Speaker 2: I only hesitated because I was listening to you guys
Speaker 2: talking about what the hell is Marconi?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's it's the highest prize you can win in radio.
Speaker 1: It's not included in the got for a reason.
Speaker 4: Yeah, fine, the reckoning is coming.
Speaker 7: Let's just call this Yeah, Hello, Hey is this Delilah?
Speaker 1: This is she?
Speaker 4: Hey Delilah? Happy? What?
Speaker 1: No, you're in for a treat. Yeah.
Speaker 5: You're hearing a lot of voices right now because you're
Speaker 5: on the radio right now on the show called Broken
Speaker 5: Jebbary in the Morning.
Speaker 8: Okay, yeah, hi the show.
Speaker 1: Thanks, that's appropriate response.
Speaker 5: I know you're probably wondering what's going on, and I
Speaker 5: can tell you this is a segment we do.
Speaker 4: You may have heard of it before. It's called a
Speaker 4: second Date update.
Speaker 8: Uh okay.
Speaker 4: It's where if.
Speaker 5: We have a listener who wants some help getting in
Speaker 5: touch with someone they went on a date with recently,
Speaker 5: we can call them on their behalf and try to
Speaker 5: figure out if there's a reason why they aren't getting
Speaker 5: together again.
Speaker 1: Oh kind of cute, huh yeah.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: And the reason that we're calling you is because you
Speaker 5: met up with a guy named Jack recently.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the coffee date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, coffee Jack.
Speaker 9: Right, it was a piece of date, but I mean overall,
Speaker 9: I mean, unfortunately I kind of sounded a little a
Speaker 9: little boring, you know.
Speaker 6: Oh no, that's the world.
Speaker 4: Which part was boring?
Speaker 9: Like? Yeah, there was just like not a lot of
Speaker 9: initiatives taken on, like starting different conversations.
Speaker 1: Uh, okay, so you felt like you had to lead
Speaker 1: all the conversation. Is that what you mean?
Speaker 9: Yeah, like a little bit. I honestly think that we
Speaker 9: got started talking about the dentist after I said I
Speaker 9: had sensitive teeth when I drank my coffee when it
Speaker 9: was too hot, and then that's how.
Speaker 5: We ended up there, okay, And when he was describing
Speaker 5: how he was puking in the dentist's chair.
Speaker 4: That didn't give you romantic butterflies.
Speaker 9: It's not necessarily the exciting first date conversation you like,
Speaker 9: get to know you.
Speaker 5: Okay, But to be fair, like, what is like what
Speaker 5: were you hoping for? Like you guys are just supposed
Speaker 5: to up and get to know each other, right like
Speaker 5: a first time.
Speaker 9: I don't have like a first date script that I
Speaker 9: expect to be like gone over it.
Speaker 1: I mean I can kind of understand what she's saying.
Speaker 1: When you have a conversation with someone and it feels
Speaker 1: like it's more work than what you get out of it.
Speaker 5: I mean, Brooke, I agree with you on that, and
Speaker 5: I see what you mean. But we do a lot
Speaker 5: of these phone calls, and I would caution people because.
Speaker 4: A lot of times when someone says they're.
Speaker 5: Looking for that romantic spark, that's just not how real
Speaker 5: dates actually are.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying she should give up on it. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying that I understand having those conversations and leaving
Speaker 1: and being like, oh, that was exhausting.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't hear her saying like, God, that was exhausting.
Speaker 4: Was just like I was kind of bored. I didn't
Speaker 4: feel the spark, you know.
Speaker 6: When people are like, oh, it felt like we already
Speaker 6: knew each other, like the chemistry was there. This is
Speaker 6: like the opposite event.
Speaker 5: But you're describing Brook and her cousins at their family
Speaker 5: and that's a different situation.
Speaker 3: That my second or third date feeling thirsty.
Speaker 1: So Delilah, you're saying it was so boring and it
Speaker 1: didn't even warrant more exploration into if there was actually
Speaker 1: something there.
Speaker 9: Like he is a good but to be perfectly honest,
Speaker 9: like I'm getting messages from guys pretty frequently, and like
Speaker 9: I'm going on quite a few coffee.
Speaker 8: Tapes and so like, if it's not.
Speaker 9: Interesting or I don't feel like a spark or like
Speaker 9: want to pursue it, I I just don't know that
Speaker 9: it's worth my time.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 6: Okay, it's like, you know, I got his audition.
Speaker 5: Sure, but who's to say that he wasn't also equally
Speaker 5: bored and wanting more from you during.
Speaker 4: The conversation Chef.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well that's what he said, because that's the polite
Speaker 5: thing to do when you meet somebody.
Speaker 4: Then, and I'm not just gonna say that in his place.
Speaker 5: I'll let him tell you, because Jack is on the
Speaker 5: other line listening to this call wanted to.
Speaker 8: Jump in, yeah, oh, or I I would not like
Speaker 8: that had I known that you were I'm sorry, Yeah, Brook,
Speaker 8: he's just doing the.
Speaker 2: Wells. I'm just gonna say in my defense, I mean,
Speaker 2: it was a coffee date in the middle of the day.
Speaker 2: I don't know what you expect.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 9: Maybe we connect over a mutual hobby or like a
Speaker 9: movie that we liked, and none of that happened.
Speaker 2: I mean, I was just hold him back because again
Speaker 2: I thought we were just trying to go slow, try
Speaker 2: and get to know each other. I mean, you've got
Speaker 2: to wait till like the second date before you get you.
Speaker 1: Know, where you get to hobbies.
Speaker 2: I'm not boring. I mean I eat a whole rope
Speaker 2: kissery chicken on a zoom call last week.
Speaker 6: And a boy, now we're talking a lot.
Speaker 9: What were you making like a what do they called
Speaker 9: like a mop bong video where you eat in front.
Speaker 2: Of the camera.
Speaker 5: He's just an interesting guy who does crazy interesting things.
Speaker 4: All the time.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you would, yeah, you would know that about
Speaker 5: him if you gave him a chance.
Speaker 3: I want more examples.
Speaker 1: You want to know what else?
Speaker 9: I just didn't feel that connec spark?
Speaker 5: Are you sure, Delilah, Because back then maybe you didn't
Speaker 5: feel it, But after hearing about that chicken stuff, you
Speaker 5: might be getting a little hot.
Speaker 4: And heavy right now.
Speaker 2: Maybe there's a bad example. Okay, my neighbors, my neighbor's
Speaker 2: cast follows me everywhere like I'm some kind of a
Speaker 2: cult leader.
Speaker 1: Oh good, judge, care why do we go to that analogy?
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying because I don't want you to
Speaker 2: think like I'm just some plain old, boring guy.
Speaker 1: I say, I say, I mean, I will say, sometimes
Speaker 1: people just don't make the best first impressions and maybe
Speaker 1: that's you, And that's okay, that's literally. You know, it's
Speaker 1: better that he didn't talk your ear off and talk
Speaker 1: at you instead of just being a little boring on
Speaker 1: a first date.
Speaker 9: That's true. I do like being able to have an
Speaker 9: equal conversation instead of just being talked at.
Speaker 5: Okay, now's a good opportunity, Jack, give her a chance
Speaker 5: to talk.
Speaker 9: I will say, Jack getting in touch with me through
Speaker 9: the radio is certainly interesting.
Speaker 6: You millions of people saying to you right now.
Speaker 1: I think the tides are turning, Jeff.
Speaker 5: Yes, but she did mention that she has a ton
Speaker 5: of messages from other dudes.
Speaker 1: Why would bring that up right now?
Speaker 4: Well, she brought it up.
Speaker 1: But we don't have to go back there.
Speaker 4: You're right, Brooke.
Speaker 5: I'm hoping that we don't and that she just agrees
Speaker 5: to another date right now with Jack.
Speaker 1: That's exciting.
Speaker 5: A coffee and possibly a bagel date that we would
Speaker 5: pay for.
Speaker 2: No, I've got to have a dinner. We'll quote it night.
Speaker 6: Yes, what about a movie night?
Speaker 9: The Ring?
Speaker 4: Sure?
Speaker 9: Oh my god, that movie is terrifying.
Speaker 8: I don't want to watch the ring.
Speaker 4: Well, this is sounding a lot better. So what do
Speaker 4: you think about giving him one more chance? Tolilah again,
Speaker 4: we would pay for it if you say yes.
Speaker 9: I mean, I do have a couple of other dates
Speaker 9: lined up, just to be perfectly honest, But if he's
Speaker 9: willing to, you know, be that fourth date, I would
Speaker 9: totally go on a second date with you.
Speaker 5: Okay, she's volleyed it back over the net to you.
Speaker 4: Jack.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying I might have some dates myself.
Speaker 2: All right, No, I agree, I agree.
Speaker 1: All right, you're excited.
Speaker 2: I'm excited. I just wanted to kind of. I'm not
Speaker 2: a boring guy, so yeah, maybe I got.
Speaker 5: Well, Jack, if you're really not boring, maybe you go
Speaker 5: on the other dates with Delilah and you can meet
Speaker 5: and even one up some of the other men.
Speaker 1: Oh what are you on today? I know, man, seven days.
Speaker 2: I don't think anybody likes that idea.
Speaker 9: Just to meet four more dates.
Speaker 1: We're gonna go get Jeff and napped.
Speaker 5: Brook's gonna leave us with a really quippy thing on
Speaker 5: the very end of it.
Speaker 1: Go Brook, No, I think that we just end the call. Congratulations.
Speaker 1: You can't wait to hear back from you. Let us
Speaker 1: know how it goes.
Speaker 4: Well, that was boring rook Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: You know, it's nice to hear the boring guy get
Speaker 5: a win every once in a while.
Speaker 4: I like that.
Speaker 1: I think what's funny is like, when we were talking
Speaker 1: to him, I didn't find him boring. Yeah, yeah, but
Speaker 1: he seemed like normal. But maybe we talked more than
Speaker 1: he did, and that was maybe we definitely interesting one.
Speaker 4: It's good that he realized that and kept his mouth.
Speaker 5: What the bad news is, we're not going to be
Speaker 5: on the date with him, so we can't help him
Speaker 5: out again. Because the thing that really seemed to change
Speaker 5: her mind was the fact that he called us and
Speaker 5: put her on the radio.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is one of those things where
Speaker 1: you should go with just a couple of pre planned
Speaker 1: questions for any date, like any dinner party, you know,
Speaker 1: come with some interesting conversation.
Speaker 6: Yeah, what's your body count?
Speaker 1: No? No, after like middle school school?
Speaker 4: Okay, what's what's a better one?
Speaker 1: Like the most embarrassing thing that happened to you in
Speaker 1: middle school?
Speaker 5: No, that sounds like that sounds like all of the
Speaker 5: other stories that he was telling about dst.
Speaker 1: No, I don't have the list in front of me.
Speaker 1: If he needs help, we can do that. Make the
Speaker 1: list and let us know and match your own personality forwards,
Speaker 1: not so.
Speaker 4: That we don't have to think of it.
Speaker 5: But remember, if you want help with your dating life,
Speaker 5: we can be there for you to call that person
Speaker 5: who isn't calling you back. And remember all of our
Speaker 5: second dates are online on YouTube, where you can also
Speaker 5: watch Brook eat an entire rotisserie chicken in under twenty minutes.
Speaker 1: I can't believe I haven't done that yet.
Speaker 4: It's the ball the way that Jawn hinges. It's wild.
Speaker 4: Go check it out at Brooke and Jeffrey