WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Mr.Date Saver

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels, second date date. There are all types of

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<v Speaker 1>places that you can meet somebody to date online apps,

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<v Speaker 1>on your phone, or sometimes while you're out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody else. What no, I mean? I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna just say in person. That's where Abby met

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<v Speaker 1>the guy she wants to call today for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Apparently she met him while she was out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with another dude. What's up, Abby? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? It's pretty good? Hello? Man eater? My god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I'm not. It sounds so much cooler than

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<v Speaker 1>I am. That's how your email said. You said you

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<v Speaker 1>met what's the guy's name you want to call today?

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Connor. Connor says you met Connor while

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<v Speaker 1>you were out with another guy. How'd that worked? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I met this guy on Tinder, not Connor, the

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<v Speaker 1>other guy. When I'm on a date with this Tinder guy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>first red flag is he hadn't you meet him at

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<v Speaker 1>a bar that was like thirty minutes away from my

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<v Speaker 1>place and it was like super close to his He

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like consider it at all with that? Okay? And

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<v Speaker 1>you knew you felt like he was looking for a

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<v Speaker 1>hook up. This Tinder guy a little bit, absolutely, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like why would he want to go to a bar

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<v Speaker 1>that was people called to his place? Right? Anyway, the

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<v Speaker 1>entire date, he just talks about himself, like I probably

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<v Speaker 1>said like two things about myself. Okay, So he was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a d bag totally, and he was just

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<v Speaker 1>so in himself and like he would interrupt me constantly

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<v Speaker 1>and I couldn't even get a word in edgewise. And

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<v Speaker 1>he was like super loud, incredibly rude. I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>a wait staff, like he would like snap at them.

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<v Speaker 1>I guarantee there's people listening that are like, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>on that date. That's so weird. I'm sure there's way

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<v Speaker 1>so many men like that out there. Absolutely. So the

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<v Speaker 1>dude that you want to call the day Connor, how

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<v Speaker 1>does he fit into this whole thing. So in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of him talking, Tinder Guy gets up and he's like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got to go pitch. They've got to go open

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<v Speaker 1>the sludgegates. We'll be right back. I think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>really really classy move. No, no, no, one says that. Oh. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>Tinder guy goes to the bathroom and there's this table

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<v Speaker 1>next to me and there's this really cute guy sitting

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<v Speaker 1>there and he leans over to me and he was like, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean it interrupts, but I have to ask

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<v Speaker 1>if that's a first date. Oh my god, people were

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<v Speaker 1>actually eavesdropping on your date. That's how bad it was. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he was so loud and sere they could could hear

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<v Speaker 1>everything about him. Oh and I love going to restaurants

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<v Speaker 1>and over listening on people's tender dates. You can always

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<v Speaker 1>tell when they're a train wreck. It was so obvious.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really embarrassing. So you obviously said yes to

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<v Speaker 1>this guy. I did, and Connor was so sweet. He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, you seem way too nice for

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<v Speaker 1>a girl to be on a date with him. He

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<v Speaker 1>seems like a total like douche bag. And he offers

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<v Speaker 1>to pretend to be my brother, and he offers to

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<v Speaker 1>like come in to the bar and like interrupt our

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<v Speaker 1>date and say that it's like emergency and he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to take me away. That's nice of him offered to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. That is a modern day night in shining

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<v Speaker 1>armor right there, the little night in training armor. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, no, that's not necessary. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>just like, why don't we just leave together, you and

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<v Speaker 1>I and go like somewhere else. Whoa, So you were

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<v Speaker 1>going to skip that piece in the bathroom worked out

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<v Speaker 1>in Connor's favor. Yeah, he's like whoa yeah, Like he

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<v Speaker 1>was really surprised with me saying that, but like he

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to do it. Well, you were still on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>You probably wanted to go on a date with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>at least and finish it all up totally. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>shaved my legs, like from my hair I had to do. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>don't waste your pretty So where'd you guys go? We

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<v Speaker 1>literally went to a bar right down the street. I

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<v Speaker 1>was very impossible that Cinder guy could totally like seeing us.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like he's so stupid he wouldn't even got it though, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>whoa are you the chick I was just talking to

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<v Speaker 1>just yeah, I mean I left without paying the tab

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<v Speaker 1>or anything like that was for him to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you deserve that though. So how was

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<v Speaker 1>the time with Connor the night and shining Armor at

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<v Speaker 1>the other bar. You obviously enjoyed that or you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be wondering why he's not getting back to you. I did.

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<v Speaker 1>And the thing is is we only hung out for

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<v Speaker 1>like an hour, but he was so genuine and just

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<v Speaker 1>so like cool, like you know when you'd like click

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<v Speaker 1>with someone really really well, you know, you just laughed

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<v Speaker 1>and like feel comfortable with him, like I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I'd known him for like a year. It was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was really weird. So you didn't think that the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>ended up all being about the Tinder guy or anything, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, really not at all? Okay, Like we kind

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<v Speaker 1>of joked about it in the beginning, but then it

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<v Speaker 1>was like we were on a gate, like he genuinely

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to get to know me and vice versa. It

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<v Speaker 1>was really refreshing. How long did you guys hang out together?

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<v Speaker 1>Only an hour? And then I asked if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we could like hang out it later, but he said

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<v Speaker 1>he had planned, so he gave me his number. But

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<v Speaker 1>like in the back of my mind, it was thinking

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<v Speaker 1>planned at ten o'clock at night, you know, it would

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<v Speaker 1>did he have like a girlfriend or was there something

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<v Speaker 1>going on, Like I don't know, I don't know who

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<v Speaker 1>I hang out with it o'clock at night. Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he had another date planned. I didn't expect a date

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<v Speaker 1>to just happen while he was out earlier, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, I guess I didn't even think about that,

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<v Speaker 1>so you never established with him, like you'd never asked

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<v Speaker 1>specifically are you single? Well, no, I just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like assumed, right, I don't think a guy in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship would offer to do that. I don't know, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>they could, I mean, it's happened. Why not mean you could? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm I could actually see my husband doing it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and like being kind of an idiot thinking that he

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<v Speaker 1>was just helping and not realizing that it was coming

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<v Speaker 1>off as hitting on someone. Yeah, but it really did

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<v Speaker 1>seem like he was really into me and like flirting.

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<v Speaker 1>He was touching my arm and stuff like. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know where he would have thought that that wouldn't come

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<v Speaker 1>across as him being interested. Okay, and how many times

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<v Speaker 1>have you tried to get a hold of him since

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<v Speaker 1>you guys hung out. I didn't want to come off

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<v Speaker 1>too crazy, so I just texted him like a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of times, you know ever since Okay, andsn't responded. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what We'll play a song, come back call him and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update and find out why he's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting back to you. Okay, oh, I'm so nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay brooking jubil in the morning, if you're just joining

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<v Speaker 1>us for today's second date update. Abby is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and today she wants to call a guy named Connor.

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<v Speaker 1>She met Connor in a pretty unconventional way. She was

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<v Speaker 1>actually out on a date with another dude who sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a huge duche. Yeah. I guess he was just

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<v Speaker 1>like talking about himself the whole time and was loud

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<v Speaker 1>and obnoxious and rude in the bar. And when he

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<v Speaker 1>got up to go to the bathroom, Connor, the dude

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<v Speaker 1>that we're about to call, lean over to Abbey and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hey, is this the first date? It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds terrible. Do you want me to pretend to be

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<v Speaker 1>your brother and come in and tell him that there's

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<v Speaker 1>an emergency and you leave with me? And she was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just leave now and go on a date. So

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<v Speaker 1>they went right from there and hung out for about

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<v Speaker 1>an hour and she really liked Connor. But now he's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting back to her. Abby, Are you ready to

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<v Speaker 1>call him? I am? I just food he's like really

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<v Speaker 1>heartbroken if he did up a girlfriend, because he just

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<v Speaker 1>seems so genuine. Yeah, but think of it. This. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>that's way better than him saying something awful about you totally. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm just saying you could be more heartbroken here

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<v Speaker 1>in a second. All right, thank you? Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>prepare for every angle? Look forward to that? Well? Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, guys, Yeah, no problem. We're always very supportive.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing these second date updates. All right. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>dial him right now, get him on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can find out why he's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to back to you. Okay, oh oh man, I'm really nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Connor please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Connor Connor. How are you? This is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry you're

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<v Speaker 1>you said your name is Jebil. Yes, and huh from

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<v Speaker 1>Jebil from from Brooke and Jewbil in the Morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show. All right? Then you call me. Why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you because we got an email about you

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<v Speaker 1>from one of our listeners and they asked us to

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<v Speaker 1>give you a call. I don't want to understand. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>explain it for you. So we do a segment on

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<v Speaker 1>our show called the Second Date Update. Right, it's where

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<v Speaker 1>if you go out on a date with somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>then end up blowing them off after they email us

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<v Speaker 1>to see if we can get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and find out why you didn't call him back. So

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<v Speaker 1>what does it have to do with me? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>well get it because you recently went on a date

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<v Speaker 1>sort of with a girl named Abby. Yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to talk about that. Is there anything else

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<v Speaker 1>that you hang on? One second? Like, Abby asked us

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<v Speaker 1>to call you because she wants to know why you

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<v Speaker 1>won't get back to her. She said she had a

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<v Speaker 1>really fun time with you and thought you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>a great connection and chemistry and everything else. I really

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<v Speaker 1>just so much. Well, she was nice on all those things.

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<v Speaker 1>We are really fun time and I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>going to be great. But I just I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about Hold connor, hold on a second,

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<v Speaker 1>Take a breath. The thing is she really liked you man,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we talked to her about your date by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>nice move swooping in and rescuing her from a dirt bag.

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<v Speaker 1>She told you about all that. Yeah, yeah, she told

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<v Speaker 1>us about how you guys met. She told us about

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<v Speaker 1>how you hung out for a while after and she

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<v Speaker 1>told us how she really liked you, and now you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling her back. She sounds like a really nice girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and even though I spent an hour together, she's invested

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<v Speaker 1>into this. I wish I could make a different I

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<v Speaker 1>really do, but I just can't. I just can't. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean you can't make it different? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you can do whatever you want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you really uncomfortable right now because you're actually in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship and you don't want your girlfriend to find out?

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<v Speaker 1>That's No, that's not it at all. That's not it

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<v Speaker 1>at all. I just she was really nice, she was

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet. It's just it just wouldn't work out. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hold on a sucond, Connor. If you're saying that

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<v Speaker 1>she's nice, sweet and you're available, don't you think you

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<v Speaker 1>owe her an explanation and telling her why you're not

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<v Speaker 1>getting back to her. I mean, did you just not

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<v Speaker 1>like her? No? I totally like her. But I like

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<v Speaker 1>the way my face looks more. You like the way

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<v Speaker 1>your face looks more. Oh my god, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>date yourself? What are you talking about? Man? You're like

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<v Speaker 1>rambling right now, and I'm making any sense? Okay, Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>She obviously told you guys how we met. Yeah, which

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<v Speaker 1>again nice move, and we uh we hung out afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>And after the date, I'm going home and I'm walking

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<v Speaker 1>up to my apartment and I get confronted, attacked by

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<v Speaker 1>douchebag who she was with at the first place. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious? Whatever the hell's name is, the knuckle dragon

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<v Speaker 1>frat boy follows me home telling me that I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>allowed to talk to her. I'm not allowed to contact her.

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<v Speaker 1>If she contacts me, all this stuff is going to

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<v Speaker 1>happen to me. I mean, he pushed me, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like trying to get physical in but he was

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<v Speaker 1>like ten times bigger than me, and I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh man, I gotta talking my way out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you say to him? I just said, look,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I just met her for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>She asked me to get her out of there. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what your relationship status was or anything. And

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<v Speaker 1>he's wearing and cuffing at me, and he's like ready

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<v Speaker 1>to blow a gask and he's like, that's my up

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<v Speaker 1>and girlfriend and you don't talk to him. Wow, wait

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<v Speaker 1>a minute, that's crazy. Do you think that that was

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<v Speaker 1>actually her boyfriend. I don't know. I met her for

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<v Speaker 1>the first time. All I know is that this dude

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<v Speaker 1>knew where I lived, followed me home, and I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna mess with him. Does that her boyfriend? That's like

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<v Speaker 1>some psycho tender guy. If it was her boyfriend, she

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be contacting us to put all of her business

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<v Speaker 1>out on the radio. Oh, we don't know that for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>We have had a lot of weird things happened. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be her boyfriend of like seven years, and we

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea. I know how we can find out, though, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can ask me. Okay, good, thank you, Abby. What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? Connor? That's Abby. She's actually on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening and wants to talk to you. She's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Yeah, why don't you talk to her and

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<v Speaker 1>find out the information for yourself? Yeah? Yeah, Connor High.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this dude your boyfriend or what? No? No, he's

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not my boyfriend. Everything I told you it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, realistically, it doesn't really matter because this dude

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<v Speaker 1>knows where I live and he wants to kick Maya

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to be part of that. Connor

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<v Speaker 1>is so cowardly. You're gonna let this guy not day

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<v Speaker 1>the girl that you're interested in because you're afraid of Inima.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy he's huge. I mean, I can't believe that

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<v Speaker 1>you just call him cowardly. I'd be scared boodless too.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you really like someone, if you really really

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<v Speaker 1>like someone, it shouldn't matter. Why are you sonnche lot

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<v Speaker 1>about your Tinder date being so crazy? There are a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of crazy douchebogs out there, But I am more

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<v Speaker 1>concerned about Connor. He was willing to like protect me

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<v Speaker 1>when kinder guy wasn't there, but when he is, he

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<v Speaker 1>just like backs out, Like. I don't understand how am

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<v Speaker 1>I a bad guy? Here? I was? I almost got

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<v Speaker 1>my app Connor. I'm not saying you're a bad guy

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<v Speaker 1>at all. I'm just saying, if you're going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a man, be a man the entire time. Ouchy, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that hurt. That hurt me listening to it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand who I'm being hurtful. I just need him to

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<v Speaker 1>man up. Man. I mean I met you, would talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you like for an hour, and I just wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>ready to get being up for you. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're more interested in two guys fighting over

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<v Speaker 1>you than you are an actually dating Connor. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>really really really like Connor. It's just confusing to me

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<v Speaker 1>because he was my hero that night, and a hero

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't back down to like a bully like he's doing

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I'm just so confused. I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>back down, but I did. You know that happens a

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<v Speaker 1>lot sometimes you're confronted with something like I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to back down from this, but you know what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to. Well, Connor, let me ask this. Would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out on a second date with Abby?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. Maybe we can even hire

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<v Speaker 1>a security guard to come along with you if you

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<v Speaker 1>need it. You should go, Connor. You know Abby, I

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<v Speaker 1>really do like you. I mean, I am a little

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<v Speaker 1>scared of this guy, but you make some one point.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I need to stand up for myself a little bit. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should. So is that a yes, Connor?

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<v Speaker 1>Where you go out with her again? Well? He probably

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<v Speaker 1>can't take both of us, so yeah, let's go. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>if he does, you're gonna throw Abby in front of Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, us are as a shield. Abby does sound scrappy.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say that Abby, do you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Connor again? Even though he let you down

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<v Speaker 1>in the man lead department. I wouldn't love scra out

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<v Speaker 1>with Connor again. He and Connor I can really help

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<v Speaker 1>you be tougher, Like we can take a tech on

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<v Speaker 1>fast together, like or Abby, great idea. You guys go

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<v Speaker 1>to a bar on your next day and then you

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<v Speaker 1>just mouth off to people left and right. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>eventually somebody won't want to punch the broken jupil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning text at seven eight five to nine two

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<v Speaker 1>that says, please get an update on that second date

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<v Speaker 1>update when the guy is in the hospital. I would

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<v Speaker 1>love to hear from him if you missed today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Abby wanted to call a guy named Connor.

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<v Speaker 1>She actually met him while she was out on another

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<v Speaker 1>date with some d bag that she met off a

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<v Speaker 1>tender I guess the guy was rude and loud, and

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<v Speaker 1>this guy, Connor, could tell that she was not enjoying herself,

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<v Speaker 1>so he lean over and was like, Hey, is this

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<v Speaker 1>a first date? Do you want me to help you

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<v Speaker 1>out and pretend like I'm your brother and there's an

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<v Speaker 1>emergency And she was like, nah, actually, let's just you

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<v Speaker 1>and I go to another bar right now and have

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<v Speaker 1>a date. So they did that, but he wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>her back because when he got back to his place,

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<v Speaker 1>the dude that she was originally out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with confronted him and threatened to beat him up if

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<v Speaker 1>he ever talked to her again, which is nuts until

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<v Speaker 1>you heard Abby's reaction of well, why didn't you get

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<v Speaker 1>in a fight with him? Because ye aren't you a man?

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<v Speaker 1>She should have stood up for me and been a

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<v Speaker 1>man for once in your life. At the beginning, I

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<v Speaker 1>felt bad for her with that d bag, but then

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<v Speaker 1>afterwards I'm like, maybe she should be with him because

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<v Speaker 1>they sound like a match meet. Yeah, I get beat

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<v Speaker 1>up for you. I just met you. Well, he agreed

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with her again, So the impending beat

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<v Speaker 1>down is coming, and we'll hopefully follow up with them

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<v Speaker 1>and see how everything went. Remember, if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second day up, they'd all have to do

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<v Speaker 1>is email the show and we will call a person

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<v Speaker 1>who didn't call you back. Moving ninety two point five