Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels, second date date. There are all types of
Speaker 1: places that you can meet somebody to date online apps,
Speaker 1: on your phone, or sometimes while you're out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody else. What no, I mean? I thought
Speaker 1: you're gonna just say in person. That's where Abby met
Speaker 1: the guy she wants to call today for a second
Speaker 1: date update. Apparently she met him while she was out
Speaker 1: on a date with another dude. What's up, Abby? Hey?
Speaker 1: How are you? It's pretty good? Hello? Man eater? My god,
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not. It sounds so much cooler than
Speaker 1: I am. That's how your email said. You said you
Speaker 1: met what's the guy's name you want to call today?
Speaker 1: His name is Connor. Connor says you met Connor while
Speaker 1: you were out with another guy. How'd that worked? Okay,
Speaker 1: So I met this guy on Tinder, not Connor, the
Speaker 1: other guy. When I'm on a date with this Tinder guy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: first red flag is he hadn't you meet him at
Speaker 1: a bar that was like thirty minutes away from my
Speaker 1: place and it was like super close to his He
Speaker 1: wasn't like consider it at all with that? Okay? And
Speaker 1: you knew you felt like he was looking for a
Speaker 1: hook up. This Tinder guy a little bit, absolutely, yeah,
Speaker 1: Like why would he want to go to a bar
Speaker 1: that was people called to his place? Right? Anyway, the
Speaker 1: entire date, he just talks about himself, like I probably
Speaker 1: said like two things about myself. Okay, So he was
Speaker 1: kind of a d bag totally, and he was just
Speaker 1: so in himself and like he would interrupt me constantly
Speaker 1: and I couldn't even get a word in edgewise. And
Speaker 1: he was like super loud, incredibly rude. I mean it's
Speaker 1: a wait staff, like he would like snap at them.
Speaker 1: I guarantee there's people listening that are like, I've been
Speaker 1: on that date. That's so weird. I'm sure there's way
Speaker 1: so many men like that out there. Absolutely. So the
Speaker 1: dude that you want to call the day Connor, how
Speaker 1: does he fit into this whole thing. So in the
Speaker 1: middle of him talking, Tinder Guy gets up and he's like, man,
Speaker 1: I've got to go pitch. They've got to go open
Speaker 1: the sludgegates. We'll be right back. I think it's a
Speaker 1: really really classy move. No, no, no, one says that. Oh. Anyways,
Speaker 1: Tinder guy goes to the bathroom and there's this table
Speaker 1: next to me and there's this really cute guy sitting
Speaker 1: there and he leans over to me and he was like, sorry,
Speaker 1: I don't mean it interrupts, but I have to ask
Speaker 1: if that's a first date. Oh my god, people were
Speaker 1: actually eavesdropping on your date. That's how bad it was. Well,
Speaker 1: he was so loud and sere they could could hear
Speaker 1: everything about him. Oh and I love going to restaurants
Speaker 1: and over listening on people's tender dates. You can always
Speaker 1: tell when they're a train wreck. It was so obvious.
Speaker 1: It was really embarrassing. So you obviously said yes to
Speaker 1: this guy. I did, and Connor was so sweet. He
Speaker 1: was like, you know, you seem way too nice for
Speaker 1: a girl to be on a date with him. He
Speaker 1: seems like a total like douche bag. And he offers
Speaker 1: to pretend to be my brother, and he offers to
Speaker 1: like come in to the bar and like interrupt our
Speaker 1: date and say that it's like emergency and he wants
Speaker 1: to take me away. That's nice of him offered to
Speaker 1: do that. That is a modern day night in shining
Speaker 1: armor right there, the little night in training armor. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: And I said, no, that's not necessary. And I was
Speaker 1: just like, why don't we just leave together, you and
Speaker 1: I and go like somewhere else. Whoa, So you were
Speaker 1: going to skip that piece in the bathroom worked out
Speaker 1: in Connor's favor. Yeah, he's like whoa yeah, Like he
Speaker 1: was really surprised with me saying that, but like he
Speaker 1: agreed to do it. Well, you were still on a date.
Speaker 1: You probably wanted to go on a date with somebody
Speaker 1: at least and finish it all up totally. Like I
Speaker 1: shaved my legs, like from my hair I had to do. Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't waste your pretty So where'd you guys go? We
Speaker 1: literally went to a bar right down the street. I
Speaker 1: was very impossible that Cinder guy could totally like seeing us.
Speaker 1: Sounds like he's so stupid he wouldn't even got it though, Like,
Speaker 1: whoa are you the chick I was just talking to
Speaker 1: just yeah, I mean I left without paying the tab
Speaker 1: or anything like that was for him to do it.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you deserve that though. So how was
Speaker 1: the time with Connor the night and shining Armor at
Speaker 1: the other bar. You obviously enjoyed that or you wouldn't
Speaker 1: be wondering why he's not getting back to you. I did.
Speaker 1: And the thing is is we only hung out for
Speaker 1: like an hour, but he was so genuine and just
Speaker 1: so like cool, like you know when you'd like click
Speaker 1: with someone really really well, you know, you just laughed
Speaker 1: and like feel comfortable with him, like I felt like
Speaker 1: I'd known him for like a year. It was. It
Speaker 1: was really weird. So you didn't think that the conversation
Speaker 1: ended up all being about the Tinder guy or anything, right,
Speaker 1: you guys, really not at all? Okay, Like we kind
Speaker 1: of joked about it in the beginning, but then it
Speaker 1: was like we were on a gate, like he genuinely
Speaker 1: wanted to get to know me and vice versa. It
Speaker 1: was really refreshing. How long did you guys hang out together?
Speaker 1: Only an hour? And then I asked if you know,
Speaker 1: we could like hang out it later, but he said
Speaker 1: he had planned, so he gave me his number. But
Speaker 1: like in the back of my mind, it was thinking
Speaker 1: planned at ten o'clock at night, you know, it would
Speaker 1: did he have like a girlfriend or was there something
Speaker 1: going on, Like I don't know, I don't know who
Speaker 1: I hang out with it o'clock at night. Yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: he had another date planned. I didn't expect a date
Speaker 1: to just happen while he was out earlier, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I guess I didn't even think about that,
Speaker 1: so you never established with him, like you'd never asked
Speaker 1: specifically are you single? Well, no, I just kind of
Speaker 1: like assumed, right, I don't think a guy in a
Speaker 1: relationship would offer to do that. I don't know, Well,
Speaker 1: they could, I mean, it's happened. Why not mean you could? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm I could actually see my husband doing it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and like being kind of an idiot thinking that he
Speaker 1: was just helping and not realizing that it was coming
Speaker 1: off as hitting on someone. Yeah, but it really did
Speaker 1: seem like he was really into me and like flirting.
Speaker 1: He was touching my arm and stuff like. I don't
Speaker 1: know where he would have thought that that wouldn't come
Speaker 1: across as him being interested. Okay, and how many times
Speaker 1: have you tried to get a hold of him since
Speaker 1: you guys hung out. I didn't want to come off
Speaker 1: too crazy, so I just texted him like a couple
Speaker 1: of times, you know ever since Okay, andsn't responded. Okay,
Speaker 1: what We'll play a song, come back call him and
Speaker 1: get your second date update and find out why he's
Speaker 1: not getting back to you. Okay, oh, I'm so nervous.
Speaker 1: Okay brooking jubil in the morning, if you're just joining
Speaker 1: us for today's second date update. Abby is on the
Speaker 1: phone and today she wants to call a guy named Connor.
Speaker 1: She met Connor in a pretty unconventional way. She was
Speaker 1: actually out on a date with another dude who sounds
Speaker 1: like a huge duche. Yeah. I guess he was just
Speaker 1: like talking about himself the whole time and was loud
Speaker 1: and obnoxious and rude in the bar. And when he
Speaker 1: got up to go to the bathroom, Connor, the dude
Speaker 1: that we're about to call, lean over to Abbey and
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, is this the first date? It
Speaker 1: sounds terrible. Do you want me to pretend to be
Speaker 1: your brother and come in and tell him that there's
Speaker 1: an emergency and you leave with me? And she was like, no,
Speaker 1: let's just leave now and go on a date. So
Speaker 1: they went right from there and hung out for about
Speaker 1: an hour and she really liked Connor. But now he's
Speaker 1: not getting back to her. Abby, Are you ready to
Speaker 1: call him? I am? I just food he's like really
Speaker 1: heartbroken if he did up a girlfriend, because he just
Speaker 1: seems so genuine. Yeah, but think of it. This. Wait,
Speaker 1: that's way better than him saying something awful about you totally. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I'm just saying you could be more heartbroken here
Speaker 1: in a second. All right, thank you? Why do you
Speaker 1: prepare for every angle? Look forward to that? Well? Thanks
Speaker 1: a lot, guys, Yeah, no problem. We're always very supportive.
Speaker 1: We're doing these second date updates. All right. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: dial him right now, get him on the phone and
Speaker 1: see if we can find out why he's not going
Speaker 1: to back to you. Okay, oh oh man, I'm really nervous.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Connor please?
Speaker 1: This is Connor Connor. How are you? This is Jewil
Speaker 1: from brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry you're
Speaker 1: you said your name is Jebil. Yes, and huh from
Speaker 1: Jebil from from Brooke and Jewbil in the Morning. It's
Speaker 1: a radio show. All right? Then you call me. Why
Speaker 1: I'm calling you because we got an email about you
Speaker 1: from one of our listeners and they asked us to
Speaker 1: give you a call. I don't want to understand. I'll
Speaker 1: explain it for you. So we do a segment on
Speaker 1: our show called the Second Date Update. Right, it's where
Speaker 1: if you go out on a date with somebody and
Speaker 1: then end up blowing them off after they email us
Speaker 1: to see if we can get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and find out why you didn't call him back. So
Speaker 1: what does it have to do with me? I don't
Speaker 1: well get it because you recently went on a date
Speaker 1: sort of with a girl named Abby. Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: don't want to talk about that. Is there anything else
Speaker 1: that you hang on? One second? Like, Abby asked us
Speaker 1: to call you because she wants to know why you
Speaker 1: won't get back to her. She said she had a
Speaker 1: really fun time with you and thought you guys had
Speaker 1: a great connection and chemistry and everything else. I really
Speaker 1: just so much. Well, she was nice on all those things.
Speaker 1: We are really fun time and I thought it was
Speaker 1: going to be great. But I just I just don't
Speaker 1: want to talk about Hold connor, hold on a second,
Speaker 1: Take a breath. The thing is she really liked you man,
Speaker 1: Like we talked to her about your date by the way,
Speaker 1: nice move swooping in and rescuing her from a dirt bag.
Speaker 1: She told you about all that. Yeah, yeah, she told
Speaker 1: us about how you guys met. She told us about
Speaker 1: how you hung out for a while after and she
Speaker 1: told us how she really liked you, and now you're
Speaker 1: not calling her back. She sounds like a really nice girl,
Speaker 1: and even though I spent an hour together, she's invested
Speaker 1: into this. I wish I could make a different I
Speaker 1: really do, but I just can't. I just can't. What
Speaker 1: do you mean you can't make it different? I mean
Speaker 1: I feel like you can do whatever you want to do.
Speaker 1: Are you really uncomfortable right now because you're actually in
Speaker 1: a relationship and you don't want your girlfriend to find out?
Speaker 1: That's No, that's not it at all. That's not it
Speaker 1: at all. I just she was really nice, she was
Speaker 1: really sweet. It's just it just wouldn't work out. Well,
Speaker 1: it's hold on a sucond, Connor. If you're saying that
Speaker 1: she's nice, sweet and you're available, don't you think you
Speaker 1: owe her an explanation and telling her why you're not
Speaker 1: getting back to her. I mean, did you just not
Speaker 1: like her? No? I totally like her. But I like
Speaker 1: the way my face looks more. You like the way
Speaker 1: your face looks more. Oh my god, you want to
Speaker 1: date yourself? What are you talking about? Man? You're like
Speaker 1: rambling right now, and I'm making any sense? Okay, Hi.
Speaker 1: She obviously told you guys how we met. Yeah, which
Speaker 1: again nice move, and we uh we hung out afterwards.
Speaker 1: And after the date, I'm going home and I'm walking
Speaker 1: up to my apartment and I get confronted, attacked by
Speaker 1: douchebag who she was with at the first place. Are
Speaker 1: you serious? Whatever the hell's name is, the knuckle dragon
Speaker 1: frat boy follows me home telling me that I'm not
Speaker 1: allowed to talk to her. I'm not allowed to contact her.
Speaker 1: If she contacts me, all this stuff is going to
Speaker 1: happen to me. I mean, he pushed me, and he
Speaker 1: was like trying to get physical in but he was
Speaker 1: like ten times bigger than me, and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: oh man, I gotta talking my way out of it.
Speaker 1: What did you say to him? I just said, look,
Speaker 1: you know, I just met her for the first time.
Speaker 1: She asked me to get her out of there. I
Speaker 1: didn't know what your relationship status was or anything. And
Speaker 1: he's wearing and cuffing at me, and he's like ready
Speaker 1: to blow a gask and he's like, that's my up
Speaker 1: and girlfriend and you don't talk to him. Wow, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, that's crazy. Do you think that that was
Speaker 1: actually her boyfriend. I don't know. I met her for
Speaker 1: the first time. All I know is that this dude
Speaker 1: knew where I lived, followed me home, and I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna mess with him. Does that her boyfriend? That's like
Speaker 1: some psycho tender guy. If it was her boyfriend, she
Speaker 1: wouldn't be contacting us to put all of her business
Speaker 1: out on the radio. Oh, we don't know that for sure.
Speaker 1: We have had a lot of weird things happened. It
Speaker 1: could be her boyfriend of like seven years, and we
Speaker 1: had no idea. I know how we can find out, though, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can ask me. Okay, good, thank you, Abby. What's
Speaker 1: going on? Connor? That's Abby. She's actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening and wants to talk to you. She's on
Speaker 1: the phone. Yeah, why don't you talk to her and
Speaker 1: find out the information for yourself? Yeah? Yeah, Connor High.
Speaker 1: Is this dude your boyfriend or what? No? No, he's
Speaker 1: absolutely not my boyfriend. Everything I told you it's true.
Speaker 1: You know, realistically, it doesn't really matter because this dude
Speaker 1: knows where I live and he wants to kick Maya
Speaker 1: and I don't want to be part of that. Connor
Speaker 1: is so cowardly. You're gonna let this guy not day
Speaker 1: the girl that you're interested in because you're afraid of Inima.
Speaker 1: This guy he's huge. I mean, I can't believe that
Speaker 1: you just call him cowardly. I'd be scared boodless too.
Speaker 1: But if you really like someone, if you really really
Speaker 1: like someone, it shouldn't matter. Why are you sonnche lot
Speaker 1: about your Tinder date being so crazy? There are a
Speaker 1: lot of crazy douchebogs out there, But I am more
Speaker 1: concerned about Connor. He was willing to like protect me
Speaker 1: when kinder guy wasn't there, but when he is, he
Speaker 1: just like backs out, Like. I don't understand how am
Speaker 1: I a bad guy? Here? I was? I almost got
Speaker 1: my app Connor. I'm not saying you're a bad guy
Speaker 1: at all. I'm just saying, if you're going to be
Speaker 1: a man, be a man the entire time. Ouchy, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that hurt. That hurt me listening to it. I don't
Speaker 1: understand who I'm being hurtful. I just need him to
Speaker 1: man up. Man. I mean I met you, would talk
Speaker 1: to you like for an hour, and I just wasn't
Speaker 1: ready to get being up for you. I mean, it
Speaker 1: sounds like you're more interested in two guys fighting over
Speaker 1: you than you are an actually dating Connor. No, I
Speaker 1: really really really like Connor. It's just confusing to me
Speaker 1: because he was my hero that night, and a hero
Speaker 1: doesn't back down to like a bully like he's doing
Speaker 1: right now. I'm just so confused. I didn't want to
Speaker 1: back down, but I did. You know that happens a
Speaker 1: lot sometimes you're confronted with something like I don't want
Speaker 1: to back down from this, but you know what I'm
Speaker 1: going to. Well, Connor, let me ask this. Would you
Speaker 1: like to go out on a second date with Abby?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. Maybe we can even hire
Speaker 1: a security guard to come along with you if you
Speaker 1: need it. You should go, Connor. You know Abby, I
Speaker 1: really do like you. I mean, I am a little
Speaker 1: scared of this guy, but you make some one point.
Speaker 1: Maybe I need to stand up for myself a little bit. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think you should. So is that a yes, Connor?
Speaker 1: Where you go out with her again? Well? He probably
Speaker 1: can't take both of us, so yeah, let's go. All right,
Speaker 1: if he does, you're gonna throw Abby in front of Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, us are as a shield. Abby does sound scrappy.
Speaker 1: I will say that Abby, do you want to go
Speaker 1: out with Connor again? Even though he let you down
Speaker 1: in the man lead department. I wouldn't love scra out
Speaker 1: with Connor again. He and Connor I can really help
Speaker 1: you be tougher, Like we can take a tech on
Speaker 1: fast together, like or Abby, great idea. You guys go
Speaker 1: to a bar on your next day and then you
Speaker 1: just mouth off to people left and right. I'm sure
Speaker 1: eventually somebody won't want to punch the broken jupil in
Speaker 1: the morning text at seven eight five to nine two
Speaker 1: that says, please get an update on that second date
Speaker 1: update when the guy is in the hospital. I would
Speaker 1: love to hear from him if you missed today's second
Speaker 1: date update. Abby wanted to call a guy named Connor.
Speaker 1: She actually met him while she was out on another
Speaker 1: date with some d bag that she met off a
Speaker 1: tender I guess the guy was rude and loud, and
Speaker 1: this guy, Connor, could tell that she was not enjoying herself,
Speaker 1: so he lean over and was like, Hey, is this
Speaker 1: a first date? Do you want me to help you
Speaker 1: out and pretend like I'm your brother and there's an
Speaker 1: emergency And she was like, nah, actually, let's just you
Speaker 1: and I go to another bar right now and have
Speaker 1: a date. So they did that, but he wasn't calling
Speaker 1: her back because when he got back to his place,
Speaker 1: the dude that she was originally out on a date
Speaker 1: with confronted him and threatened to beat him up if
Speaker 1: he ever talked to her again, which is nuts until
Speaker 1: you heard Abby's reaction of well, why didn't you get
Speaker 1: in a fight with him? Because ye aren't you a man?
Speaker 1: She should have stood up for me and been a
Speaker 1: man for once in your life. At the beginning, I
Speaker 1: felt bad for her with that d bag, but then
Speaker 1: afterwards I'm like, maybe she should be with him because
Speaker 1: they sound like a match meet. Yeah, I get beat
Speaker 1: up for you. I just met you. Well, he agreed
Speaker 1: to go out with her again, So the impending beat
Speaker 1: down is coming, and we'll hopefully follow up with them
Speaker 1: and see how everything went. Remember, if you want to
Speaker 1: do a second day up, they'd all have to do
Speaker 1: is email the show and we will call a person
Speaker 1: who didn't call you back. Moving ninety two point five