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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels, second date date. There are all types of

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Speaker 1: date with somebody else. What no, I mean? I thought

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Speaker 1: you're gonna just say in person. That's where Abby met

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Speaker 1: the guy she wants to call today for a second

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Speaker 1: on a date with another dude. What's up, Abby? Hey?

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Speaker 1: How are you? It's pretty good? Hello? Man eater? My god,

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not. It sounds so much cooler than

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Speaker 1: I am. That's how your email said. You said you

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Speaker 1: met what's the guy's name you want to call today?

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Speaker 1: His name is Connor. Connor says you met Connor while

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Speaker 1: you were out with another guy. How'd that worked? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I met this guy on Tinder, not Connor, the

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Speaker 1: other guy. When I'm on a date with this Tinder guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: first red flag is he hadn't you meet him at

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Speaker 1: a bar that was like thirty minutes away from my

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Speaker 1: wasn't like consider it at all with that? Okay? And

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Speaker 1: Like why would he want to go to a bar

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Speaker 1: that was people called to his place? Right? Anyway, the

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Speaker 1: entire date, he just talks about himself, like I probably

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Speaker 1: said like two things about myself. Okay, So he was

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Speaker 1: I guarantee there's people listening that are like, I've been

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Speaker 1: on that date. That's so weird. I'm sure there's way

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Speaker 1: so many men like that out there. Absolutely. So the

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Speaker 1: dude that you want to call the day Connor, how

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Speaker 1: does he fit into this whole thing. So in the

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Speaker 1: middle of him talking, Tinder Guy gets up and he's like, man,

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Speaker 1: really really classy move. No, no, no, one says that. Oh. Anyways,

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Speaker 1: I don't mean it interrupts, but I have to ask

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Speaker 1: if that's a first date. Oh my god, people were

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Speaker 1: actually eavesdropping on your date. That's how bad it was. Well,

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Speaker 1: he was so loud and sere they could could hear

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Speaker 1: everything about him. Oh and I love going to restaurants

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Speaker 1: and over listening on people's tender dates. You can always

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Speaker 1: tell when they're a train wreck. It was so obvious.

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Speaker 1: It was really embarrassing. So you obviously said yes to

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Speaker 1: seems like a total like douche bag. And he offers

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Speaker 1: And I said, no, that's not necessary. And I was

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Speaker 1: don't waste your pretty So where'd you guys go? We

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Speaker 1: Sounds like he's so stupid he wouldn't even got it though, Like,

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Speaker 1: She met Connor in a pretty unconventional way. She was

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Speaker 1: a lot, guys, Yeah, no problem. We're always very supportive.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Connor please?

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Speaker 1: This is Connor Connor. How are you? This is Jewil

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Speaker 1: from brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry you're

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Speaker 1: you said your name is Jebil. Yes, and huh from

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Speaker 1: Jebil from from Brooke and Jewbil in the Morning. It's

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Speaker 1: a radio show. All right? Then you call me. Why

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Speaker 1: She told you about all that. Yeah, yeah, she told

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Speaker 1: it's hold on a sucond, Connor. If you're saying that

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Speaker 1: like her? No? I totally like her. But I like

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