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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: Thank you enough you subject in between Lovers. In between

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Speaker 1: Lovers is our subject. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty

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Speaker 1: four year old woman and I'm married. I found the

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Speaker 1: man of my dreams and he's treated me like a

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Speaker 1: queen since the beginning of our courtship. We've been married

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Speaker 1: almost a year. Until recently, my life and marriage were great.

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Speaker 1: He's in his late forties and he's having issues with

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Speaker 1: high blood pressure, so his doctor put him on a

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Speaker 1: high dose of medication. Because of all the medicine, our

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Speaker 1: sex life sucks. He has to get really worked up

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Speaker 1: to get it started, and then it's over for him

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Speaker 1: at the blink of an eye. I lost all hope

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Speaker 1: when his doctor said he need to be on the

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Speaker 1: medication indefinitely. He has the medication for erectile dysfunctions, but

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Speaker 1: he refuses to take it because he's gotten excited at

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Speaker 1: the wrong time. I had to suffer without sex for

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Speaker 1: a while, but then the unthinkable happened. My husband's twenty

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Speaker 1: eight year old son is a personal trainer and he's

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Speaker 1: got muscles that pop out all over his creamy chocolate body.

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Speaker 1: He also has twists in his hair, and since I

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Speaker 1: was a hairstylist for years, I help him by retwisting

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Speaker 1: his hair when needed. He'd usually come over in the

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Speaker 1: morning after his dad went to work. He's always been

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Speaker 1: a little firtatious, and I'm sure he could sense that

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Speaker 1: I was attracted to him. He finally admitted that he

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Speaker 1: fantasizes about his sexy stepmother seducing him, and he suggested

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Speaker 1: we role play. I was so turned on and in

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Speaker 1: need of sex that I played along with him. We

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Speaker 1: have the most amazing sex and have been sneaking around

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Speaker 1: for two months. I've got the best of both worlds,

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Speaker 1: with a husband that spoils me and my stepson that

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Speaker 1: pleases me. I'm just doing this until my husband gets

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Speaker 1: his Mojo back. Do you think I should have a

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Speaker 1: talk with my stepson or do you think he's just

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Speaker 1: in it for the sex too? Please advise, well, talk

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Speaker 1: to him about what? What are you talking to him about?

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Speaker 1: And yes, of course he's just in it for the sex.

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Speaker 1: You're his dad's wife, and what does it matter what

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Speaker 1: the reason is anyway? I mean, you're sleeping with your stepson. Okay, hello,

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Speaker 1: you're sleeping with your stepson. You can't rationalize this, you

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Speaker 1: can't excuse this. You can't act like this is a

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Speaker 1: normal affair. You're not even have a normal affair. You're

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Speaker 1: sleeping with your husband's son. Come on, both of you.

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Speaker 1: Both of you are really low for doing this to

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Speaker 1: your husband and his father. Your man has a medical issue, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's what that is, and this is how you help him.

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Speaker 1: This is your version of being the supportive wife to

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Speaker 1: sleep with his son and gloat about it to us.

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Speaker 1: My husband spoils me. Oh no, she said, I have

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Speaker 1: the best of both worlds. My husband spoils me and

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Speaker 1: my stepson pleases me. That sounds crazy and how selfish

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Speaker 1: of you. I mean, this is not a movie, this

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Speaker 1: is real life. Well, what you're doing is really not cool.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you guys slipped up and your husband

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Speaker 1: found out about this, this would tear him apart. He's

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Speaker 1: already going through enough. I think he would be as mad.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he would be as mad. I should

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Speaker 1: say if you did go out and had like a

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Speaker 1: his son, that's unthinkable. I'm not telling you to do that,

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Speaker 1: of course, to go out and have any kind of

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Speaker 1: some alternative solutions to get your husband's blood pressure down.

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Speaker 1: In the meantime, you're gonna have to break it off

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Speaker 1: with Junior, because that's a go nowhere situation that's going

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Speaker 1: to hurt everyone. Steve, Wow, this letter is filled with

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Speaker 1: nothing but triflingness. I mean, there's no there's no redeeming

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Speaker 1: disappointed at well. I can't say that I'm just the

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Speaker 1: whole letter. It's just trifling. First of all, she's thirty four,

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Speaker 1: her husband is in his late forty let's say forty

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Speaker 1: eight is late forty nine, leading forty eight forty nine,

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Speaker 1: that's late forty you're the man of your dreams. Treat

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Speaker 1: you like a tween a queen. Since the beginning of

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Speaker 1: our court, we've been married almost a year a year,

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Speaker 1: one year, and until recently my life in marriage were great.

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Speaker 1: It's just been a year. You go digging low down,

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Speaker 1: no good weinch a year. Man, it's just winch is winch,

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Speaker 1: but winch is when you're from the country, just no

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Speaker 1: good woman. You know, without using no other words, just

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Speaker 1: We've been married almost a year, and until recently, my

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Speaker 1: He's having issues with high blood pressure, so it's doctor

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Speaker 1: to put him on a high dose of medication. Because

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Speaker 1: of all his medication, our sex life sucks. He gotta

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Speaker 1: get really rucked up to get his started, and then

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Speaker 1: it's over him at the blink of an eye. I

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Speaker 1: lost all hope when the doctor said he'd been needed

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Speaker 1: a medication in definitely, So you lost all hope in

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Speaker 1: a year? Why was you in it in the first place? Yo? Yo,

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Speaker 1: files ain't death do us part meant? Nothing? Seeking his

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Speaker 1: health meant Now it ain't even been a year, and

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Speaker 1: yore trifling behind. I ain't even told the people what

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Speaker 1: you did it yet he got a reduction. Boy. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: we'll get back to the Wayne. All right. We'll have

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Speaker 1: part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three

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Speaker 1: minutes after be our today's Strawberry letters. Subjects in between lovers.

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Speaker 1: That's all she cares about. We'll get back into it

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is between lovers.

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Speaker 1: This girl, thirty four year old trifling woman married. Now,

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Speaker 1: she didn't wrote this letter. She didn't found the man

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Speaker 1: of her dream. Treat her like a queen, and it's

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Speaker 1: been a queen since the beginning by a core show.

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Speaker 1: Now they've been married almost a year. And then your

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Speaker 1: life and marriage were great. He's in his late forties

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Speaker 1: and he's having issues with high blood so the doctor

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Speaker 1: put him on a high dose medication. Because of all

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Speaker 1: the medicine, our sex life sucks. It's been a year.

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Speaker 1: It's been one year and this trifling woman right here.

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Speaker 1: He got to really get worked up to get his start,

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Speaker 1: and then it's over for him at the blink of

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Speaker 1: he needed to be on the medication indefinitely. That's not true.

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Speaker 1: High blood you can you can help change your high

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Speaker 1: blood with food. You can change high blood with food.

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Speaker 1: I know for a witness, I am a living witness

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Speaker 1: to this that I was given a diagnosis of going

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Speaker 1: into high blood and I was put on a low

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Speaker 1: dose of high blood. I no longer take it, and

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Speaker 1: I did it with food and exercise. You can. You

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Speaker 1: don't have to be on that. I'm not saying high

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Speaker 1: blood is is not incurable, but you have to make

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Speaker 1: some drastic steps. You gotta get real holistic. His medication

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Speaker 1: and so the doc said he be on medication. In Deva,

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Speaker 1: he has medication for erectile dysfunction, but refuses to take

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Speaker 1: it because he's gotten excited at the wrong time. What

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Speaker 1: wait a minute, You got some medicine for erectile dysfunction

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Speaker 1: and you don't want to take it because you get

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Speaker 1: in direction at the wrong time. Where the wrong time

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Speaker 1: is now the right time for us to get on

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Speaker 1: any hill. Yeah see now yeah, time to check the

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Speaker 1: time is now? All all that stuff come with instructions, Yes,

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Speaker 1: but they got some stuff out there. Now, man, you

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Speaker 1: can take in this instant. You ain't got to wear

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Speaker 1: about no timing. This don't make no sense, this twenty

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Speaker 1: because it gets sex after get excited at the wrong times.

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Speaker 1: I've had to suffer without sex for a while. But

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Speaker 1: then the unthinkable happened. Now I see first right here,

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Speaker 1: It wasn't unthinkable. This what I'm about to share with

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Speaker 1: y'all was not unthinkable. You thought of this before. My

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Speaker 1: husband's twenty eight year old son is a personal train

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Speaker 1: and he got muscles that pop out all over his

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Speaker 1: creamy chocolate body. He also has twist in his hand,

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Speaker 1: and since I was a half stylist for years, I

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Speaker 1: used to help him about retwisting his half when needed.

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Speaker 1: He usually come over in the morning after his dad

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Speaker 1: that went to work. He's always been a little flirtations

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Speaker 1: and I'm sure he consense that I was attracted to him. Well, then, then,

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Speaker 1: when you said earlier that the unthinkable happened? Who who

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Speaker 1: was you trying to fool in the letter? Because it

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Speaker 1: wasn't unthinkable because Jeff from twisting his hair, he could

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Speaker 1: tell that you was attracted to him, see because you're

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Speaker 1: thirty four and twenty eight year old dude and his

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Speaker 1: late forties. He finally admitted that he fantasizes about his

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Speaker 1: sexy stepmother seducing him, and he suggested we rolled play.

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Speaker 1: You ain't have no problem. I was so turned on

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Speaker 1: and didn't need a sex that I played along with him.

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Speaker 1: We had the most amazing sex and have been sneaking

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Speaker 1: around for two months. I got the best of both

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Speaker 1: worlds with a husband that spoils me and my stepson

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Speaker 1: that pleases me. I'm just doing this until my husband

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Speaker 1: gets his mojo back. What wait a minute, see, let

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Speaker 1: me let me stay to you trifling. Yeah, you just

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Speaker 1: said it was gonna be in definitely and you've lost

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Speaker 1: all hope. So you're not doing this until your husband

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Speaker 1: get it mojo back. I don't know who you thought

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Speaker 1: you wrote this letter. Team. You're doing it because you're trifling.

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Speaker 1: You're doing it because it's already been just a year

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Speaker 1: and your life is ruined. See, you can't be a

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Speaker 1: of circumstances on when the triflings is gonna surface. Trifling

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Speaker 1: people do trifling things all the time, all the time.

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Speaker 1: You can't put a time limit when your husband getting back.

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Speaker 1: That's not gonna stop you from being trifling. I got

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Speaker 1: news for you. You was trifling before your husband had

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Speaker 1: the rectile problem. You've been trifling. See this just bought

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Speaker 1: it out. You married him because you was trifling, because

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Speaker 1: you was getting small and getting treated right. I'm doing

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Speaker 1: this until my husband gets them. Do you think I

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Speaker 1: should have a talk with my stepson, like Sherley said,

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Speaker 1: what you've been talking about? What is your talk about?

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Speaker 1: Y'all ain't been talking y'all, stoop, So what you want

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Speaker 1: to talk to him about? Do you think we should

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Speaker 1: sex too? What you think it was? He told you

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Speaker 1: fantasized me. What you see? What you think is I'm

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Speaker 1: just doing as my husband. Do you think I should

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Speaker 1: he just send it for the sex? Please a bye, lady,

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Speaker 1: listen to me. See what else could he be in

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you this, Chip thinks it could be more.

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Speaker 1: That's why she want to have a talk with him

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Speaker 1: because she gonna go with him exactly exactly because all

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Speaker 1: hope is gone. His son ain't sugar honey iced tea,

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Speaker 1: and his wife ain't sugar honey iced tea. Bye for Alicia.

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