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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for ordering takeout after my

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Speaker 1: husband tricked me to cook for the kids? Uh?

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. There was some coorsion going on.

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Speaker 2: So but we'll see.

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Speaker 1: We'll see. Yeah, don't let the kids freaking start. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: come on, come on. So context, I female thirty five,

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Speaker 1: have married to my husband, male thirty seven for six months.

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Speaker 1: Disgusting new relationship, young love or old middle aged love.

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Speaker 1: He has two children from two different uninvolved mothers, and

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Speaker 1: they live with us full time, the kids, not the

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Speaker 1: uninvolved mother. That would be a very interesting arrangement, right,

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Speaker 1: that's like a sitcom arrangement. I think the kids are

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Speaker 1: seven years old and ten years old. I work long

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Speaker 1: hours and it's a demanding job time wise. My husband

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Speaker 1: thinks that just because I work from home that I

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Speaker 1: can pause whatever, But that is untrue.

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Speaker 2: Of course, you're just right there.

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Speaker 1: Just do it, do it, meal prep. He'd ask me

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Speaker 1: to do things for the kids or him during work hours,

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Speaker 1: but I told him I am working and unavailable during

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Speaker 1: those hours, and the kids are your responsibility until I'm done.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, Yesterday he told me he wanted to go

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Speaker 1: a tent of friends engagement dinner and asked if I

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Speaker 1: could take time off work to make the kids dinner.

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Speaker 1: I told him, absolutely, freaking nash, just because I married,

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Speaker 1: you think I'm going to adopt your kids in no way.

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Speaker 1: H disgusting. He insisted that he and I insisted that

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Speaker 1: he cooked for them or ordered take out. He said

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Speaker 1: he had no time to He said he had no

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Speaker 1: time to cook and takeout was off the table because

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Speaker 1: he doesn't because he doesn't want them to eat fast food, which, yo, dog.

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Speaker 1: There's door Dash you heard of. There's a rub hub like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you could order sweet green through there.

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Speaker 2: That's a salad or like Chipotle. You know, that's like

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Speaker 2: it's fast food. Pretty, it's nice, but it's fast. It's

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Speaker 2: it's not a burger. Not a burger. That that should

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Speaker 2: be their true Yeah, not a burger. Two hours later,

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Speaker 2: the kids came in and said.

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Speaker 1: I'm hungry. I was puzzled, and I asked them if

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Speaker 1: their dad cooked them dinner, and they said he didn't. Moreover,

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Speaker 1: he told me to come ask me to cook them

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Speaker 1: food at exactly seven pm.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I was pushed to find myself in this situation. I

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Speaker 1: took a few minutes off the meeting in order to

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Speaker 1: take out from a nearby restaurant and fed the kids,

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Speaker 1: then had them watch TV and go to sleep. Well,

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Speaker 1: Hobby came home at eleven PM and went off at

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Speaker 1: me after he discovered that I didn't cook, like he

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Speaker 1: was counting on me to do. What a shit bag, bro.

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Speaker 1: Not only that, but he yelled about feeding the kids takeout.

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Speaker 1: I argued back, saying I had no choice after he

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Speaker 1: basically tricked me into cooking for them, knowing I was busy,

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Speaker 1: so I ordered food and made sure the kids were

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Speaker 1: fed and to go hungry as I focused on work.

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Speaker 1: He ranted about how I care more about work than

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Speaker 1: my step children God forbid, and called me selfish, then

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Speaker 1: went upstairs and refused to talk to me, still sulking

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Speaker 1: about it today and says I need to get my

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Speaker 1: priorities in order because they're all messed up.

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Speaker 2: I mean, bro, Like the trickery is is the trick

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Speaker 2: It's terrible. It's the trickery. It's like why also like

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Speaker 2: this aversion? Like again, I get okay, you don't want

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Speaker 2: fast food, but it's like there are so many takeout

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Speaker 2: options and delivery options, so many options, like you can

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Speaker 2: find something that suits your kid's dietary restriction or go

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Speaker 2: to like I mean, yeah, well I guess like going.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say she could go to like the

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Speaker 2: even the grocery store and get one of those like

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Speaker 2: more healthier like pre made things, but that.

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Speaker 1: You could order it on amazons or order it disorder it.

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Speaker 1: Jesus stupid