Speaker 1: Brooking jub Second date up date. Thomas is on the
Speaker 1: phone with us right now for a second date update.
Speaker 1: He's not even really sure if he wants a second
Speaker 1: date with the girl that he went out with, but
Speaker 1: he does know one thing. If he can't get a
Speaker 1: second date, he wants some of his money back. What yea, Thomas?
Speaker 1: How you doing? Man? I'm doing at you guys doing good?
Speaker 1: So your email said you went out on a date
Speaker 1: with a girl and you think she might have just
Speaker 1: like used you to eat at a really nice restaurant.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, this is the most expensive date I've ever
Speaker 1: been on. Really, And what dade you want to spend
Speaker 1: all this money on this girl? How did you meet her?
Speaker 1: What makes her so special? We met online and we've
Speaker 1: been texting for last like month, Okay, so I thought
Speaker 1: things were like pretty solid and I don't know, it's
Speaker 1: like the best first date I've ever been on, honestly. Okay.
Speaker 1: And did you, like, before you guys went out, did
Speaker 1: you say, hey, we're both gonna pay for the date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna split it up. So you knew that, okay,
Speaker 1: but you ended up paying for everything. Yeah, I kind
Speaker 1: of like in the middle of dinner was like it
Speaker 1: was going that was like, this is going well enough.
Speaker 1: I want to lock down a second date and she
Speaker 1: was like yeah, totally. So then when the check came,
Speaker 1: I offered to pay for the whole thing, and she
Speaker 1: was like, I'll get you on the next one. How
Speaker 1: much was dinner? If you don't mind me asking, it's
Speaker 1: like two hundred and sixty five bucks. Geez, okay, that's fancy.
Speaker 1: I'll pay for this two hundred and sixty dollars dinner
Speaker 1: right now. You take me to Applebee's and drop forty God,
Speaker 1: I hope not who picked the restaurant in the first place.
Speaker 1: I mean I chose it just because it is a
Speaker 1: nice place and I figured it make a great impression. Look,
Speaker 1: I have trouble spending like over fifty dollars on a date.
Speaker 1: And that's when my girlfriend, who I've been with for
Speaker 1: over a year, Now, what makes you want to spend
Speaker 1: like over three hundred dollars on a girl on a
Speaker 1: first date. She's incredibly attractive, like very very good lucking,
Speaker 1: probably the best looking girl I've ever tooken on a
Speaker 1: first date. And so I was like great, Like I
Speaker 1: don't know, I thought that that would like seal the deal.
Speaker 1: You do realize, though, when you ask a girl to
Speaker 1: really expensive restaurant usually it's kind of an unwritten rule
Speaker 1: that you're going to pay, right, Yeah, I kind of
Speaker 1: knew that going in. But that's why in the middle
Speaker 1: of the first date, I wanted to lock down the
Speaker 1: second one, Like, I don't even care if, like the
Speaker 1: second date is as expensive. I just wanted the second date.
Speaker 1: But I get looking, But are you assuming that she
Speaker 1: would have paid for half if you hadn't offered? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: she totally would have, like she was reaching for a
Speaker 1: person everything. And I was like, no, no no, no, I
Speaker 1: got this one, you get the next one, Okay, And
Speaker 1: how many times have you tried to get ahold of
Speaker 1: her since your date? To set up your your second
Speaker 1: encounter where she was supposed to pay. So texted her
Speaker 1: that night just to like tell he had a great time.
Speaker 1: She's texted back one time she said I'm really busy,
Speaker 1: I'll call you back later, and then never called back,
Speaker 1: Like there was no overturn phone call, right, so so
Speaker 1: an excuse obviously, Yeah, yeah, called her like a day
Speaker 1: later later a couple of days texted again, like left
Speaker 1: the message I mean at this point, I've called her
Speaker 1: now three times and gotten nothing second, so do you
Speaker 1: want another date with her? It's it's like, at this
Speaker 1: point she's blowing me off, so nuch, I don't want
Speaker 1: another date. But if I'm not going to get that
Speaker 1: second dinner like she I mean, she's said, I give
Speaker 1: the second one, Like I want that half of the
Speaker 1: bill that I paid to be paid for then, but
Speaker 1: you actually want to call her and asked for your
Speaker 1: money back refund on your date? Yeah, she's so many
Speaker 1: bill of goods and it's like this is less of
Speaker 1: a second to take me to dinner and then not
Speaker 1: answer when I text you, especially when we had a
Speaker 1: great date. It's less of a second date update and
Speaker 1: more of a small claims court right now. At this point,
Speaker 1: she paid for her half with a peck on the
Speaker 1: cheek at the end of the date. That's that's what
Speaker 1: she paid. Okay. Sometimes that's so you guys didn't even
Speaker 1: really kiss or anything. No, No, it was like I
Speaker 1: was very nice at the end. It's just like a
Speaker 1: little kiss on the cheek whatever. And I was like, okay, great,
Speaker 1: Like I'll see him a second date and hopefully get
Speaker 1: a little better kiss. That's got to upset. You've you
Speaker 1: dropped two hundred almost three und dollars. Yeah, yeah, come on, obligated,
Speaker 1: Yeah you are, Yeah, over seventy five dollars. You have
Speaker 1: to at least kiss, at least get to one base
Speaker 1: yeah something. Yeah, seriously, three hundred bucks. I think you
Speaker 1: better get pregnant. But all right, man, well we'll play
Speaker 1: a song. Come back, call her, see if we can
Speaker 1: get her on the phone and get your money back
Speaker 1: or a date or something. Right, all right, hold on
Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning. I think more second date
Speaker 1: updates should be like this. Oh yeah, I think more
Speaker 1: dates in general should be like this. What do you
Speaker 1: mean if you go out with someone and you spend
Speaker 1: too much on dinner and then you think about it
Speaker 1: later and go, I wish I wouldn't have dropped so
Speaker 1: much money. You should be able to get at least
Speaker 1: half of your money back if you don't see that
Speaker 1: person again. Return policy on dating. Well, I think that's
Speaker 1: the problem right there, Lydia, there needs to be one.
Speaker 1: Thomas is on the phone with us right now. He
Speaker 1: went out with a girl named Laura. Met her online.
Speaker 1: They had a perfectly fine time on the date. The
Speaker 1: issue that he's having, though, is he ended up spending
Speaker 1: like three hundred dollars on dinner. Yeah. When the check came,
Speaker 1: he said, hey, i'll pay for this, because she was
Speaker 1: reaching for her wallet. I'll pay for it as long
Speaker 1: as you get the next date. She agreed, and now
Speaker 1: she's not calling him back, so he's kind of over
Speaker 1: it at this point. I just want the money back
Speaker 1: the second date. It's not as important. Just give me
Speaker 1: the cash. Okay, all right, you did say it was
Speaker 1: the most amazing date up until this whole money thing.
Speaker 1: It was a very good date. And she's really hot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: very good date. She's really hot. Kind of a user though,
Speaker 1: because she didn't pay for come on, offered to pay.
Speaker 1: The only reason I offered to pay was because she
Speaker 1: really genuinely seemed interested in the second date. And now
Speaker 1: I feel just a little betrayed. I feel like this
Speaker 1: kind of thing happens a little too often, like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: second date for sure, and then nothing. Yeah, and I
Speaker 1: think you're taking a stand right now for everybody who's
Speaker 1: ever had to pay for a meal and then hasn't
Speaker 1: gotten one bought for them in return. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna doll the phone number. See we can get
Speaker 1: her on the phone and get your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hold on Hello. Hey is Laura there. This
Speaker 1: is Laura. Laura. How are you? This is Jewel from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the morning. Hello. What's going on? Nothing?
Speaker 1: Do you know why I'm calling you? I have no
Speaker 1: idea why you're calling me or how you know who
Speaker 1: I am. I'll explain. I'm calling you because we recently
Speaker 1: got an email from a listener who went out on
Speaker 1: a date with you, okay, and you are not calling
Speaker 1: him back, and so he emailed us to ask you
Speaker 1: why are you blowing him off? Basically, his name is
Speaker 1: Thomas Thomas. Yeah, you remember going on a date with Thomas. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was just last week, right. He asked you to
Speaker 1: call me. Yes, he said that he's he's texted you
Speaker 1: once since your date. You said that you were really busy,
Speaker 1: and then he hasn't been able to get a hold
Speaker 1: of you. And at this point he feels like you've
Speaker 1: blown him off and he wants to know if he
Speaker 1: did something wrong. That's what he said to you. I
Speaker 1: told him that I will call him back, right, but
Speaker 1: he said you never called him back. Is there a reason. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's there's a reason. My ever since I went on
Speaker 1: the date with him, Like, my life's pretty crazy. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you're just busy. Yeah, I've been announced at busy
Speaker 1: since since the date. I haven't had time to call
Speaker 1: him back. So you're not lying, you've been legitimately busy. Yeah.
Speaker 1: My grandma's in the hospital. She was admitted to the
Speaker 1: hospital the day after our game. The entire week, my
Speaker 1: whole family has. So Thomas probably jumped the gun then
Speaker 1: by emailing a radio show to call you. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't understand why he wouldn't just wait for me to
Speaker 1: call him back. Well, he was just nervous because he
Speaker 1: had such a great time with you. He thought you
Speaker 1: might just be like, you know, trying to blow him
Speaker 1: off and not talk to him again. So he was
Speaker 1: he was nervous, I guess, and emailed us a little
Speaker 1: too soon to call you. People do this on our
Speaker 1: show all the time. It's called a second date update.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard of. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: nice that he's that interested, but it's like, I don't
Speaker 1: understand why he had to get like somebody else involved.
Speaker 1: It's just it's it's it works. Hey, it works for
Speaker 1: a lot of people. So that's probably why. So you
Speaker 1: would actually go out with him again. Well yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I thought we were him out again. Hasn't changed,
Speaker 1: I just have been busy. Oh okay, Well that's good news.
Speaker 1: But there is one other thing he wanted us to
Speaker 1: call you about, okay, and that's the fact that he
Speaker 1: feels like you owe him money. Oh no, wait what?
Speaker 1: Oh wait? Can she hear me? Can she hear me? Laura?
Speaker 1: Can I owe him money? So? Oh no, no, you
Speaker 1: don't owe me money. Can she hear me? Yes? She can? Yeahyah,
Speaker 1: but you don't owe me money. I didn't realize that
Speaker 1: you're grand Oh no, no, Thomas, done nothing. You don't
Speaker 1: owe me money. I just was I was concerned that
Speaker 1: you were blowing me off. But oh my god, I
Speaker 1: didn't know you're on the phone this whole time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't know that you could hear me. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: I did not know that your grandma was in the hospital. Yeah, Laura,
Speaker 1: that's how the second day updates work. We call with
Speaker 1: the other person on the line, and then they hear
Speaker 1: the reason why they're not getting a call back. Now,
Speaker 1: Thomas knows that you actually wanted to go on a
Speaker 1: second date with him, and you have a legitimate excuse
Speaker 1: for not calling him back, But you do still owe
Speaker 1: the guys some money. No, you don't. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that your grandmother was in the offic Well,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. What did that have anything to do
Speaker 1: with money? It doesn't. I just told him that you
Speaker 1: at the end of our you know, when I was
Speaker 1: gonna pay, and he said that you get a second date,
Speaker 1: and I said, well, I want to go on a
Speaker 1: second date. And then they were like, oh, if it
Speaker 1: doesn't happen, then you eat your money back. Come on that,
Speaker 1: yeahs are you saying that you want me to pay
Speaker 1: for half of the date? Is that no thing? I
Speaker 1: told him that, you know, joking around. I said, if
Speaker 1: she doesn't go out with me again, I should just
Speaker 1: get Thomas. Come on, no, no, no, Laura. Thomas told
Speaker 1: us when he was first talking to us, he told
Speaker 1: us about your date, said you had a great time,
Speaker 1: and it was like, at this point, she hasn't called
Speaker 1: me back, and I don't care. I just want my
Speaker 1: money back because I shouldn't have had to spend so
Speaker 1: much on dinner. She's not gonna call you back? Whose
Speaker 1: side to help me get a second date. I'm on
Speaker 1: the side of justice right now, and I still think
Speaker 1: you're owned some money. I don't know why you guys
Speaker 1: are laughing. I don't think this is funny, rudest thing
Speaker 1: I've ever so or not. It's not true. It really
Speaker 1: I was worried that I wasn't going to get a
Speaker 1: second date with you, so I had them call you. Thomas.
Speaker 1: I'm being serious. I really liked you, and I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: I am not a bad person. This is not indicative
Speaker 1: of my character. This ispletely out of character. And they're
Speaker 1: and they're the ones who are putting this in the
Speaker 1: realm of like wanting the money back. I don't care
Speaker 1: about the money, Thomas. You didn't say that. Sounds like
Speaker 1: there's a bunch of people that disagree with you, and
Speaker 1: they also they're doing it for ratings or whatever they do.
Speaker 1: I don't know why they're doing this, Thomas. Here, Thomas
Speaker 1: treadwater right now. Seriously, Hey, Laura, I would love to
Speaker 1: ask to be honest with you guys. I mean to
Speaker 1: be rude, but I don't really have time for this. Well,
Speaker 1: all right, before you go. I know that you're busy.
Speaker 1: I appreciate you staying on the phone as long as
Speaker 1: you did. Would you go out on a second date
Speaker 1: with Thomas? We will pay for it. That way, neither
Speaker 1: of you have to worry about the money. I'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. I don't care. I just want to go
Speaker 1: out with you. I'll pay for it, and then I'll
Speaker 1: call you after Thomas and get half my money back. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna pass on that one. No. Oh god, okay,
Speaker 1: So if you won't go out on a second date
Speaker 1: with him, can we get that money back? You guys yourself?
Speaker 1: All right? Well, what the was that? It's supposed to
Speaker 1: be second date update? Not blow my second date up?
Speaker 1: You said you said you wanted to give money. No,
Speaker 1: I said, I want to be go on a date
Speaker 1: with her. Oh come on, dude, when we're being that
Speaker 1: I wanted. When we first talked to you, you said,
Speaker 1: I don't care if I get a second date. I
Speaker 1: want to get half blew it up, Thomas. It was
Speaker 1: clearly not going to happen. We were at least trying
Speaker 1: to get you a check in the mail. I don't
Speaker 1: Lord's right, do you guys, just go yourselves. Wow, Hey,
Speaker 1: it's a second date update first a double hang up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the second date is over and neither one of the
Speaker 1: parties is on the phone. We just lost two listeners. Yeah, success,
Speaker 1: I think in the morning sex seven eight five nine two. Well,
Speaker 1: actually lots of tex sent at seven eight five to
Speaker 1: nine two, all hating on me. I don't understand what
Speaker 1: the big deal is. I was just trying to help
Speaker 1: the guy out for the second date uptake. Thomas called us.
Speaker 1: Wanted us to ask Laura to give him a refund
Speaker 1: on his date because he spent a bunch of money.
Speaker 1: She wasn't calling him back. He said, if she's not
Speaker 1: gonna call me back for a date the night, at
Speaker 1: least like some of my money back for the almost
Speaker 1: three hundred dollars that I spent. And it comes out
Speaker 1: that she was just not calling him back because she
Speaker 1: was busy, legitimately busy. And then I happened to drop
Speaker 1: the fact that he wanted his money back, and then
Speaker 1: she got pissed and didn't want a day with him.
Speaker 1: At the end, both of us told us to f
Speaker 1: off and then hung up the phone on us. I
Speaker 1: may have thrown him the vestles pots, and people are like, jew,
Speaker 1: will you pro pro code? Listen, listen. There are certain
Speaker 1: times when it's okay to break bro code. Yes it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like when we're trying to get ratings and we're trying
Speaker 1: to be funny for entertainment, for entertainment purposes, it is
Speaker 1: okay to break bro code. And yes, I did it. Also,
Speaker 1: let's still remember that this is this guy's not a
Speaker 1: stand up guy. Yeah, he said he said she should
Speaker 1: have put out because he paid for an expensive dinner
Speaker 1: in the first part, and he wanted his money back
Speaker 1: for the Come on brook, like he wanted his money
Speaker 1: back for the day. That's the first thing you did,
Speaker 1: and you guys recorded it. I think that he he
Speaker 1: was just bitter and angry because he wasn't getting a cost.
Speaker 1: The first time you ever would stand up for a
Speaker 1: guy like that. If you would have been here and
Speaker 1: you said I want my money back, you would have
Speaker 1: been like, you're right. Yeah anyway, Like I was saying, look,
Speaker 1: all right, it's okay to break bro code. It is
Speaker 1: and this is like that no, because I knew it
Speaker 1: would be funny and it was funny seven eight five
Speaker 1: nine two. Think it's funny, and jose pointed out, Hey,
Speaker 1: but that's his life that you're messing with, right, That
Speaker 1: is his life that I'm messing with. But also he's
Speaker 1: on our show, and that's my paycheck that I'm hopefully
Speaker 1: making bigger by messing with his life. So that's why
Speaker 1: I did it.