Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who
Speaker 1: talks back? What's up, y'all? Thank if it in for
Speaker 1: a new episode, we talk back. It's your co host,
Speaker 1: AJ Holiday. What's up, Tam. Hey, Hey, y'all, it's me
Speaker 1: Tam Bam. Welcome to a new episode. I missed y'all.
Speaker 1: I love y'all. What's going on? Are we? Do we
Speaker 1: have any life today? Um? Mario mothers, Mario Kart. You
Speaker 1: know you're like your life level go down on the
Speaker 1: video games? Oh? Yeah, you know what? I really just
Speaker 1: want to say death to all spam calls on my phone,
Speaker 1: Like everybody, I get so many spams. I swear I
Speaker 1: get thirty spam calls a day. It got to be
Speaker 1: some type of ag against it. It ain't even your
Speaker 1: phone no more. I even put my phone number on
Speaker 1: that website. You know, it's a website out there you
Speaker 1: can go to and like put your phone number in
Speaker 1: there to make sure you don't get those type of calls.
Speaker 1: But I feel like ever since I did that, I
Speaker 1: get more FU calls. I'll be cussing the people out.
Speaker 1: I'll be cussing them the funk out. Look. Sometimes I
Speaker 1: play with them, especially, don't got them Indians really like Okay,
Speaker 1: if they call and be like, yeah, can we get
Speaker 1: your social No, don't say I got I keep get
Speaker 1: a call I says my Social Security number is suspended
Speaker 1: or expired. I'm like, how does that happen? But whatever,
Speaker 1: let me get a new one anyway, because I could
Speaker 1: use it. But I'll play along and then I'll start
Speaker 1: like giving them different numbers and I'll play along for
Speaker 1: a little bit. Then I'll just start cussing their grass
Speaker 1: out and they'll cuss you back though, fuck ship whenever
Speaker 1: I feel like it. But if I rushed to the
Speaker 1: phone and it's like one of them, I'm mad, I'd
Speaker 1: be man like, leave me alone. I'll be thinking, it's
Speaker 1: my it's one of your motherfucker's tell about my extended warranty, Like, man,
Speaker 1: get out of here. How is your weekend, tam? What
Speaker 1: you had going on this weekend? Y'all? What the fund
Speaker 1: did I do this weekend? Oh? I was in d
Speaker 1: C Uh? Yeah, I went to d C. I Um.
Speaker 1: I was there because one of my good girlfriends had
Speaker 1: her retirement ceremony from the Air Force and I went
Speaker 1: to do her hair and a couple of other people's hair.
Speaker 1: And then I slid and did um tequila Talk podcast
Speaker 1: in d C with Walton Jazz and they were a
Speaker 1: lot of fun. They showed me a lot of fun,
Speaker 1: a good time in uh d C. Took me out
Speaker 1: to a club call Sacks uh that night, got me
Speaker 1: a little table, got me a little bottle. You know,
Speaker 1: I had my name on the mark and it was
Speaker 1: a good time. Uh So they want to come and
Speaker 1: do our show. They definitely gotta come and do our show.
Speaker 1: I talked about you a lot on this episode a
Speaker 1: j So you're gonna have to go listen to that
Speaker 1: episode because I spoke about what y'all have been talking about.
Speaker 1: What's the show about? What are they? No, they're not
Speaker 1: a couple of DIF friends and you have a drink
Speaker 1: of tequila and they have like trending topic similar top
Speaker 1: shelf bottom shelf, like should they like and ship they
Speaker 1: don't like? And you know, they pretty much just interviewed
Speaker 1: me talking about my podcast and you know, you know,
Speaker 1: our show and things like that. It was a lot
Speaker 1: of fun. I told them your story about the dog
Speaker 1: eating the poop girl, not you telling people my worst
Speaker 1: life ship. I wish y'all can see how my ex
Speaker 1: is running around the room like act like he puking
Speaker 1: in his hand, and he was like, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: rush the cleaning ship up and my dog ate it. Yo. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I had to tell that story. That ship was funny, stupid.
Speaker 1: That ship was funny. Literally, what about your your weekend?
Speaker 1: Oh hold, let me just tell y'all the club sacks
Speaker 1: in d C. Baby Future DJ came in with he
Speaker 1: got this biggest section in the club and brought twenty
Speaker 1: strippers with him, and instantly the club went from a
Speaker 1: normal regular club to a strip club. Seriously, like they
Speaker 1: was naked strippers. It wasn't like they were strippers off
Speaker 1: duty with clothes off. No, these strippers came in and
Speaker 1: was naked. I was like, wait a minute, what happened here?
Speaker 1: I thought I was in the regular club. I didn't
Speaker 1: even bring anyones. Where do I get the ones at? Then?
Speaker 1: It was like, uh, like up top there was like
Speaker 1: a burlesque show going on up top. I mean it
Speaker 1: was just like a lot. He just got strippers on
Speaker 1: demand on the manholes door. Dad. Stripper's Baby sounds like
Speaker 1: a business idea to me, right, Like I swear during
Speaker 1: the pandemic. I put a pole on my Instagram story
Speaker 1: asking people if they would pay for virtual shrimp Club
Speaker 1: during the pandemic, and people was like, nah, they're all
Speaker 1: of a sudden at Busy and Tory Lanes was on
Speaker 1: some virtual stripper type ship, like why not, but nobody
Speaker 1: was paying for it. He was paying them. Put your
Speaker 1: pussy limps on live. I'll give you all now. The
Speaker 1: way Instagram and ship set up now, I feel like
Speaker 1: you could put tips and all that ship. Now you're
Speaker 1: definitely gonna be little only fans. Let let another pandemic
Speaker 1: come around. It's gonna be a uh a J's virtual.
Speaker 1: I don't know whore house for real, but no. So
Speaker 1: this weekend I just I hung out a little bit. Um.
Speaker 1: I went to y'all know, I like outdoorship. I like animals,
Speaker 1: I like birds, like oh little creatures. I went to
Speaker 1: this place called um B City. It's in South Carolina.
Speaker 1: One of my friends surprised me, or even one of
Speaker 1: my friends. My friend surprised me and took me there
Speaker 1: like he took this bitch out for a walk. So
Speaker 1: that's what we did this weekend. And then Sunday night
Speaker 1: kind of animals they got tigers, lions, and bears on
Speaker 1: my No, they got some tigers. No, hell no, they
Speaker 1: got tigers, all these different types of monkeys. Um, hundreds
Speaker 1: of thousands of bees, a bunch of birds. I got
Speaker 1: pictures to the birds. Was like, damn near attacking me, bitch.
Speaker 1: They was on my weaves, on my head, on my hands,
Speaker 1: like he just was on my body. What if a
Speaker 1: bird would have tried to take your week? Luckily it
Speaker 1: was blew down that day. Luckily, but you just see
Speaker 1: me on video set we're fighting birds, bitch, because while
Speaker 1: you're playing too much. That's nice day. It was nice.
Speaker 1: I was I like little, I like ship like that,
Speaker 1: like the ride bike like NIKEL take me the right bike.
Speaker 1: That's the type of should I'd be liking to do.
Speaker 1: And um, Sunday night, I just hung out a little bit.
Speaker 1: So somehow I got friends in Charleston now, so I
Speaker 1: got I'm happy. People be calling me to go outside
Speaker 1: and they think I'm new, so it's even better. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So that was my weekend. You know, Um, I think
Speaker 1: next week I'm gonna go to Atlanta for the whole week,
Speaker 1: hang out down there with my bestie. Okay, good because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to set up some ship for us
Speaker 1: down there, a couple of a couple of little rendezvous
Speaker 1: down there. Pull up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got a
Speaker 1: podcast in Atlanta. We're pulling up. Yeah, We're trying to
Speaker 1: pull up on y'all for real. So that that stupid bitches.
Speaker 1: Internet news all kind of shipping going on, not nothing
Speaker 1: like super crazy. Um, did you see what's going on
Speaker 1: with Dion Sanders. Oh? Yes, prime prime, The prime situation
Speaker 1: is what we're gonna call it. A situation is just
Speaker 1: proof that two things can be true at once on
Speaker 1: the area because nigga, get your bag and then also
Speaker 1: at the same time, damn, you're just gonna leave us
Speaker 1: like that, all right, y'all. So, um, Dion Sanders just
Speaker 1: took a job, and what I'm hearing is he's being
Speaker 1: paid five million dollars um. He took a lead coach
Speaker 1: position at the University of Colorado Boulder, UM, and he'll
Speaker 1: be the head coach over there. So a lot of
Speaker 1: people took the online, you know, took to the internet
Speaker 1: to say how disappointed they were and Dion Sanders for
Speaker 1: choosing his career over you know, HBC used because he's
Speaker 1: been a coach at Jackson State. I believe what since
Speaker 1: the beginning of the pandemic, like in the nineteen early
Speaker 1: and that's his first coaching job, right, So an HBCU.
Speaker 1: He's also an hbc you graduate also, right, So a
Speaker 1: lot of good people come out of HBCUs, A lot
Speaker 1: of black uh business professionals come out of HBCU. So
Speaker 1: our schools aren't the worst, but we are underfunded a
Speaker 1: lot of times. Right, Um, sports is what brings any
Speaker 1: school the most money. You know, if you're not like
Speaker 1: a damn Ivy League college, you know how they get
Speaker 1: their their checks, but you know, you gotta invest in sports.
Speaker 1: So now I saw a lot of things in the
Speaker 1: past with him, like complaining about, you know, not getting
Speaker 1: the support he needed to even like help the school,
Speaker 1: like help him help them essentially. Right, So now what
Speaker 1: was this initial m I doubt that his UM income
Speaker 1: at Jackson is anywhere near five so three thousand dollars,
Speaker 1: But they gave him a shot. Do you think that
Speaker 1: Dion Sanders would have been able to go straight to
Speaker 1: a bigger right, No, he wouldn't have been able to
Speaker 1: go to just straight to Colorado. He had to have
Speaker 1: a winning track record first as a coach. You know,
Speaker 1: they want to took it your ass. But I don't
Speaker 1: blame if he ever applied, though, I wonder if he
Speaker 1: ever even tried. He is Dion Sanders. Let's be clear,
Speaker 1: he's uh phenomenal baseball and yes, so he may have been.
Speaker 1: His start may have been very genuine, you know, trying
Speaker 1: to help HBCUs and even while in Colorado that work
Speaker 1: can continue, Yeah, because maybe he could like set up
Speaker 1: games with HBCUs for Colorado and get them schools to
Speaker 1: make money. They are gonna beat them big schools. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be on the pop, okay. But he ain't trying
Speaker 1: to bring him out there to beat their ass though,
Speaker 1: trying to win. But I mean, and you know, I
Speaker 1: saw an interview with him in when he first started,
Speaker 1: and he said that these big school was offer your job.
Speaker 1: He said that would be something he would have to entertain.
Speaker 1: So it was never He never said that I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be at Jackson State for the rest of my football
Speaker 1: coaching career. You know, he never said that. But if
Speaker 1: I was a student and I turned down an opportunity
Speaker 1: at a p w Y just based off of him,
Speaker 1: being my coach. I feel away. I might feel away
Speaker 1: like Nigga I could have. I was supposed to go
Speaker 1: to Colorado, right right, Yeah, So I know two things
Speaker 1: could be right at the same time. Yeah, So I
Speaker 1: don't I don't blame him because I'm pretty sure his
Speaker 1: goal is to get back to the NFL to be
Speaker 1: a coach. So this is the road to that, right,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I think that he
Speaker 1: has started something and maybe some other um retired football
Speaker 1: players they could pick up the torch right and keep
Speaker 1: it going. That would be dope if they just you know,
Speaker 1: but you know, everybody, just because you can play, don't
Speaker 1: mean you can coach absolutely exactly, because I know some
Speaker 1: of y'all athletes can't even hold make a good sentence,
Speaker 1: you know, formulate a good sentence. So how you go
Speaker 1: and coach exactly? So I want to read this right
Speaker 1: quick from Gary Chambers, just a little piece of it.
Speaker 1: So he said two things can be true. One can
Speaker 1: be happy to see Dion Sanders advance his career. I
Speaker 1: believe he's special and has the capacity to do something
Speaker 1: special anywhere he goes. It just felt good to see
Speaker 1: him bringing all that black power to black to a
Speaker 1: black institution. Um. Him leaving does impact right. Um, we
Speaker 1: have to be able to have more than one perspective
Speaker 1: at the table to have an honest conversation. First, Dion
Speaker 1: Sanders can do whatever he feels is best for him
Speaker 1: and his family. Second, people can feel different things about
Speaker 1: how it impacts others because it does. And HBCU is
Speaker 1: where Coach Prime got his degree and his head coach job. Um,
Speaker 1: the Winningnessam, excuse me, the winning winning is coach in
Speaker 1: football history is from an HBCU. HBCUs had and still
Speaker 1: have value. Um. The question for now isn't about Coach Prime.
Speaker 1: His decision is made. Is how do we carry what
Speaker 1: he started forward? And that's just what it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because that's what you're gonna have to do. I mean,
Speaker 1: ain't know you can do about it? Yeah, yeah, Like
Speaker 1: what are we going to do now? For the HBCUs.
Speaker 1: He's just one man. He's just one man. I just
Speaker 1: feel like there's like the savior complex people be having,
Speaker 1: Like y'all be looking for this this one person to
Speaker 1: put all your faith in that's gonna change everything. Na,
Speaker 1: it starts with that nigga in the mirror. So everybody
Speaker 1: has to. But I can't coach. You can't coach. But
Speaker 1: there's a lot of black men, I know, a lot
Speaker 1: of good and I mean, it can start with your
Speaker 1: little league teams in your city. It can start there,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like to make sure those
Speaker 1: boys go to college. Like it just has to be
Speaker 1: like a network, which I think it already is. But
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, we can't just be already with one man.
Speaker 1: We can't. We can't and the yeah, they mad and
Speaker 1: mean while I ain't doing ship, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: but talking on the internet. Right it's the ones who
Speaker 1: don't even pay their student loans. Girls them student loan.
Speaker 1: You pay them student loans. I'm deferred right now, all
Speaker 1: of us deferred, bitch, all of us spend the fur
Speaker 1: for the last two to three years, relaxed, and when
Speaker 1: I tell you, I'm paying them the bear minimum for
Speaker 1: the rest of my life. Oh I did get approved
Speaker 1: of that twenty though. Did you apply? No? Not yet.
Speaker 1: Every time I try to log on and say I
Speaker 1: can't apply right now because trying to block it day one, bitch,
Speaker 1: I was in there. You know, we're all white collar ship.
Speaker 1: I saw an article, well not an article. I saw
Speaker 1: the Jasmine and that Kiki Palmer posted a picture of
Speaker 1: herself in her uh the father of her child, in
Speaker 1: a very loving embrace, looking very happy, and people were
Speaker 1: making comments to her that weren't very kind, and it
Speaker 1: said I just saw a few comments of people saying
Speaker 1: I was ugly because I wasn't wearing any makeup. And
Speaker 1: I really want y'all to get to help y'all need,
Speaker 1: because makeup isn't real. I'm beautiful in real life because
Speaker 1: of who I am, not what I look like. I
Speaker 1: wish I could bottle how I feel about myself and
Speaker 1: sell it because some people take comments to heart, and
Speaker 1: these people just say anything. I mean, truly, it's insane
Speaker 1: to say anyone is ugly, but especially me laughing faces period,
Speaker 1: because Kiki is not ugly, far from it, right, and
Speaker 1: she's got a beautiful spirit on top of not being
Speaker 1: an ugly person people saw me. I mean, I'd be
Speaker 1: calling bitches ugly sometime, but I don't be doing it
Speaker 1: in a common I don't say it just like my mind.
Speaker 1: I would never go up underneath. I'll put like like
Speaker 1: the crazy eyes or something like that. But I'm not
Speaker 1: going to just be like, oh, this person ugly, that's
Speaker 1: hella mean that girl is pregnant, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like your face does change a little bit now. I
Speaker 1: didn't notice like she had acne in the image, which
Speaker 1: I don't think Kick has ever not have had acne,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But other than that, she's
Speaker 1: a very beautiful girl inside out. And on top of that,
Speaker 1: y'all bitches getting confused with these shelters. Okay, that's not you,
Speaker 1: like when we see you in person, that's not going
Speaker 1: to be you. Right, So to come at somebody for
Speaker 1: not wearing makeup, just being human, right, just being a
Speaker 1: human person and being authentic. You ugly because you're projecting
Speaker 1: because you're insecure. But I don't have nothing to do
Speaker 1: with Kiki exactly. Let me tell you, ugly on the inside,
Speaker 1: ugly on the outside, no matter what you look like.
Speaker 1: Child people need to get a grip. Child. Humanity is
Speaker 1: just fucked up right now, in shambles, you know. And
Speaker 1: I know, I guess I'm a hypocrite because I do
Speaker 1: be calling bitches ugly. Sometimes talking like bitches is ugly.
Speaker 1: Let's be clear, it's a lot of ugly bitches out here.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that people aren't ugly Kikei Palmer though,
Speaker 1: for people to be saying she's ugly for having bare face. Ya.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, this just mean to call anybody ugly,
Speaker 1: whether dogs. Some people be ugly and some people act
Speaker 1: to you right right cause beauty is what in the
Speaker 1: eye of the beholder, right, So you don't get to
Speaker 1: decide like it's only your opinion general consensus that somebody ugly.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be clear, y'all can call me a mean girl.
Speaker 1: I really don't give a fuck. I feel like if
Speaker 1: you're a nice person, nice girl, and you're also a
Speaker 1: pretty girl, you should hang around other nice, pretty girls.
Speaker 1: I have met some really ugly, physically ugly and ugly
Speaker 1: spirited girls because they just was unhappy. And I also
Speaker 1: know some bad bitch ugly bitches like they not. They
Speaker 1: may not be super aesthetically pleasing, but they are bad
Speaker 1: bitches all around everything else right, which makes them attractive.
Speaker 1: I think you just should pick the people who you
Speaker 1: are around by how they make you feel. Do you
Speaker 1: feel good? Are you happy when you're in their space?
Speaker 1: Then that's how you choose your friends. I don't think
Speaker 1: you should choose it just on based on how they who.
Speaker 1: The Internet was just holding heat on about that that
Speaker 1: girl from Texas to Erica Bank. Yeah, she's like only
Speaker 1: bad bitches with me. Girl, you just got your body
Speaker 1: done two seconds ago and now you fucking flexing on people.
Speaker 1: That's not what I'm talking about. I feel like super
Speaker 1: pretty girls hanging with a bunch of ugly girls. They
Speaker 1: have an instant curity. They too are insecure. That's why
Speaker 1: you're hanging with just like friends. Nah, because those friends
Speaker 1: be treating the pretty girls some type of way. I'm
Speaker 1: telling you, like you have, you have to have friends
Speaker 1: that are comparable to you. I'm telling you you just
Speaker 1: have to. Am I lying? Amen? Yes, you'll be trying
Speaker 1: to be fucking nice, bitch, And when we hang this
Speaker 1: ship up, you're gonna be like because the benches you'll
Speaker 1: be calling ugly. You're calling them ugly for a reason. Look,
Speaker 1: let me tell y'all me and tell me friends for
Speaker 1: a reason. I ain't the only one who be on
Speaker 1: this bit ship. Okay, listen, I admit, I admit that
Speaker 1: I said I have called people ugly, but I don't
Speaker 1: be choosing my friends like that. But do you have
Speaker 1: any like real life ugly friends ugly? I don't think no, no, no, exactly,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. But I don't think that is
Speaker 1: because somebody might say some of my friends are ugly.
Speaker 1: Somebody might say that I think my friends beautiful, right, Okay,
Speaker 1: I think all my friends beautiful too, And I picked
Speaker 1: them bitches because they're beautiful. I remember that, know how
Speaker 1: me the guy look? I remember I went to Puerto
Speaker 1: Rico when my first friend I met when I lived
Speaker 1: in St. Louis, first guy, mad I met this bitch
Speaker 1: in the club, my friend Ryan, and we went to
Speaker 1: Puerto Rico, um to her friends. I didn't know them
Speaker 1: until we got on the airplane, Like I didn't know them,
Speaker 1: And when we got to Puerto Rico we all laugh
Speaker 1: at trip. But I'm like, man, I'm so glad y'all pretty,
Speaker 1: because imagine going on a trip with some bitches that
Speaker 1: you really don't know, and it's usually the not so
Speaker 1: cute one who's acting mean on the trip. Yes, because
Speaker 1: I'd have been around them not so cute ones. That's
Speaker 1: the funniest ones. They had the best time, like the
Speaker 1: energy they like like, damn, my love is ugly. Couldn't
Speaker 1: call her ugly? Then, I guess I am saying, it's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that personality fucking matters. Yeah, yeah, you're cool. Like now
Speaker 1: you're beautiful to me because you're just so much fun
Speaker 1: and just a ball of good energy. You ain't never
Speaker 1: been around nobody that wasn't aesthetically pleasing to you at first,
Speaker 1: and then you get to know them me like you
Speaker 1: kind of look like Gabrielle Union is something I thought
Speaker 1: you didn't before, but now you look like I guess
Speaker 1: it'll make you more beautiful. I don't know what y'all
Speaker 1: think they're gonna say. I mean, and guess why I
Speaker 1: don't care. So another thing I saw Tam, there's another
Speaker 1: post going on online. I think you might have sent
Speaker 1: this ship to me. Um. The girl she was like
Speaker 1: going in um talking about how like a lot of
Speaker 1: pretty women can't keep a high value man, but a
Speaker 1: lot of things she was saying, it's true, like I know,
Speaker 1: like we have this high value man thing all of
Speaker 1: stuff going on, but the people that are in those circles,
Speaker 1: they have a certain type of lifestyle and oftentimes if
Speaker 1: you don't come from that lifestyle you may not know.
Speaker 1: In this video, she was saying, how you know, she
Speaker 1: saw a girl come to an event with a guy,
Speaker 1: you know, high high value man and everybody it was
Speaker 1: a gala and everybody had on like gowns and ship
Speaker 1: like that, and she had like a little two piece
Speaker 1: number so you already like aesthetically don't fit right, um.
Speaker 1: And then they said the girl was like noticeably uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: She couldn't speak to any of the topics that people
Speaker 1: were talking about. Right, but this girl and winding right,
Speaker 1: which is not all the high quality conversations so right
Speaker 1: that that ship is like they probably would start like
Speaker 1: that's the thing about that audio that kind of my
Speaker 1: nerves a little bit. Yea. Yeah. As if you're in
Speaker 1: a group of women who are from you know, maybe
Speaker 1: um operational on and you come here and looking a
Speaker 1: little different, they're gonna they're gonna be acting and different
Speaker 1: with you. They're gonna be asking you things they know
Speaker 1: you don't know to embarrass. You don't know what this girl,
Speaker 1: they don't know what. We've seen the movies. We know
Speaker 1: how to we know how snobby bitches do. Okay, now me,
Speaker 1: I'm a renaissance woman. I could. I'm comfortable anywhere, I
Speaker 1: can speak to anything. I can't fit in anywhere if
Speaker 1: all else fels tells a joke, Yeah, like, so I'm
Speaker 1: never going to be in no situation like that. But
Speaker 1: I can see them possibly being mean to an outsider
Speaker 1: because now maybe this woman is showing up to a
Speaker 1: guy that probably should be suited with somebody from their
Speaker 1: friend group. M So, now you this outside bitch coming in.
Speaker 1: That's really how these circles are m hm. So do
Speaker 1: you feel like you agree with her that you need
Speaker 1: to like advance your palette. Yes, absolutely, if that's the lifestyleue.
Speaker 1: If you want to high value life, you want to
Speaker 1: high value man like. These are different types of people.
Speaker 1: They probably went to IVY like the real high value ship, right,
Speaker 1: They probably went the IVY league colleges. You know, they're
Speaker 1: probably CEO of big corporation ship like that. You need
Speaker 1: to be able to talk about politics, You need to
Speaker 1: be able to talk about, you know, the good vacation
Speaker 1: places like. You need to be able to talk about
Speaker 1: different types of yachts. Who knows. But she was like,
Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on what's going on in Ukraine?
Speaker 1: She was like, and she didn't. I don't even know
Speaker 1: she knew if that was where that was. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: you need to be able to fucking read a map.
Speaker 1: I don't think a lot of people know where Ukraine,
Speaker 1: Russia and Germany are on a map. I really don't,
Speaker 1: because people lately, a lot lately have been confused in
Speaker 1: Russia with Germany. Yeah, I used to live in Ukraine.
Speaker 1: I know, I told you all that before, but I
Speaker 1: did live there. Acts me that being I'll tell you
Speaker 1: all about it actually while I was living there for
Speaker 1: a year. But see, those are the life experiences you
Speaker 1: you would have had to have to have these conversations
Speaker 1: these people. So she's not wrong. So this is another
Speaker 1: case of two things can beat you at the same time. Right,
Speaker 1: she's not wrong. But then it's like snowshy, real snowshy,
Speaker 1: posha posha snobby together exactly. And meanwhile, I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: me no matter where I go at. So guess what
Speaker 1: y'all bitch is gonna acts to me? Yeah, that excuse me?
Speaker 1: How it is like you won't have to come down
Speaker 1: here if you feel like you're up here and I'm
Speaker 1: down here. I bet you by the end of the
Speaker 1: evening you could be drinking. Do say, bitch, Ashley, you'rself
Speaker 1: funny and I'm a slide with y'all. Hide by you man?
Speaker 1: Good this um? So look, good morning America child. Here
Speaker 1: go another black man or whatever ambiguously black man cheat. No,
Speaker 1: his goddamn black wife. His wife nacky with a good hair. Yes, okay.
Speaker 1: So Amy Robot and t. J. Holmes from ABC's Good
Speaker 1: Morning America, they've been sleeping together. So the wife said that,
Speaker 1: you know, they did have some issues they've been working on,
Speaker 1: you know, but they're they're still married m hm. And
Speaker 1: apparently Amy got divorced in September. You know what this
Speaker 1: is a conversation about workplace romance is you know, that's
Speaker 1: a big thing. Like you're around these people nine eight
Speaker 1: to nine hours a day, five at least five days
Speaker 1: a week. Is it hard not to fund someone on
Speaker 1: the job? Right? I work. I work in environments that
Speaker 1: are with females and gay men, so there's nobody for
Speaker 1: me to fun. But I wonder if I worked in
Speaker 1: an environment that included heterosexual men, would I be smashing? Right?
Speaker 1: Where I come from, Corporate America and you will definitely
Speaker 1: be smashing. Okay, let's be clear, somebody, I had a
Speaker 1: relationship with one of my supervisors ones uh, like a
Speaker 1: year or so, like we're still good friends, but other
Speaker 1: than that, Yeah, but like just that was like the
Speaker 1: only relationship I had on the job. All the other
Speaker 1: times I'm working from home after that. So, but in
Speaker 1: an office setting, you're definitely going like you you guys
Speaker 1: spend a lot of time together, y'all joke, y'all, laugh, y'all,
Speaker 1: eat lunch together, like you're you're spending more time with
Speaker 1: this person than your spouse or than your girlfriend a
Speaker 1: boyfriend at home. So things happen, and it's not illegal.
Speaker 1: It's highly unethical, but they know they're not really violating
Speaker 1: any um like um work hr ship. Well, they need
Speaker 1: to put that in the Code of Conduct manual, do
Speaker 1: not fuck nobody up here, Go to your man. You're
Speaker 1: on page thirty seven. It says right there on the top,
Speaker 1: don't fuck nobody up here those words in particular. It's hard, though,
Speaker 1: it's hard when you at least at least flirting, you're
Speaker 1: gonna at least be flirting and talking shit at least
Speaker 1: that you're gonna at least be frattenizing. So and then
Speaker 1: these people are having these conversations, in depth conversations about
Speaker 1: different things. So a lot of times, um, they may
Speaker 1: put people together that have the same point of view
Speaker 1: on something, so now you'll have the same mind kinda.
Speaker 1: So he may have more in common and with her
Speaker 1: than his damn wife at this point, right who he's
Speaker 1: not seeing that often. I don't like that me either,
Speaker 1: But it happens. It happened, It happens. So they've been
Speaker 1: both suspended. Um, they haven't decided. ABC hasn't decided if
Speaker 1: they're gonna, um, you know, terminate the two of them.
Speaker 1: But I don't think happen. Every time Mary Alice from
Speaker 1: Wyoming turns on Good Morning America, all she sees is
Speaker 1: his dick in her mouth. And I can't watch this anymore.
Speaker 1: So listen. This says the haunch is over. At ABC
Speaker 1: News have made the decision to take Amy Robock and
Speaker 1: t J. Holmes off the air, calling a couple's relationship
Speaker 1: a distraction, with next steps to be sorted out by
Speaker 1: executive sources at ABC tell TMZ. ABC News President Kim
Speaker 1: Goodwin made the announcement during an editorial call Monday morning,
Speaker 1: calling it sit you wation and internal and external distraction.
Speaker 1: Um gonna get fired? Yeah, I think so too, And
Speaker 1: it says Kim also said the decision wasn't easy and
Speaker 1: not a violation of company policy, like I said, Um,
Speaker 1: she added, and so I want to say that while
Speaker 1: that relationship is not a not in violation of the
Speaker 1: company policy, I have really taken the last few days
Speaker 1: to think about the work through what I think is
Speaker 1: best for the ABC News organization. So it does sound
Speaker 1: like they but let they ask go yeah, because now
Speaker 1: they can't even laugh at jokes together on the air.
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, y'all think some ship funny, and they
Speaker 1: said keeping I don't even think it was like some
Speaker 1: So maybe he getting the doors too right because she,
Speaker 1: like I said, she got divorced in September. But y'all listen,
Speaker 1: when we come back from um this break, we're gonna
Speaker 1: get into today discussion this and this last like stupid
Speaker 1: in that news story kind of you know, it's sets
Speaker 1: the yeah exactly. So, Um, we're talking about side bitches,
Speaker 1: We're talking about mistresses, sneaky links and sneaky links. What's
Speaker 1: the difference. I think it's the money, exactly. Bitch, all right, y'all,
Speaker 1: so listen, we're back. So a couple of weeks ago,
Speaker 1: I know y'll probably saw this Kaisha please. She was online.
Speaker 1: She was talking to a group of friends in the
Speaker 1: house and they were talking about the difference between sneaky
Speaker 1: links inside bitch as it was m hmmm, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know what, that's a real good topic. We need
Speaker 1: to talk about that, because then we've got a lot
Speaker 1: of sexually liberated women out here with your bitches got
Speaker 1: going on though, right fun with somebody husband. So I
Speaker 1: think the sneaky link is just two people who come
Speaker 1: together to have sex every now and then, but they
Speaker 1: probably don't really talk on the phone, they don't really
Speaker 1: have like a emotional connection of any sort. Is just
Speaker 1: like straight physical yeah, hook up. And then a savage
Speaker 1: is like a girlfriend alternate girlfriend to your wife or
Speaker 1: your girlfriend. If you have one your main person that
Speaker 1: you're with every day. This person gets trips, this person
Speaker 1: might get money, this person gets good morning text messages
Speaker 1: and conversations, but they don't get Valentine's they don't get Christmas,
Speaker 1: they don't get that. They might even get a baby,
Speaker 1: but they don't get No. Seriously, they might even get
Speaker 1: a baby out your asks, but they don't get none
Speaker 1: of the accolades of being the main girlfriend. And sometimes
Speaker 1: the main girlfriend might know eventually, especially if you have
Speaker 1: a baby. About the side the mistress, it's just like
Speaker 1: a side but with more money. I feel like it's
Speaker 1: like a tax barket thing. Them high value men have mistresses.
Speaker 1: She's taken care of somewhere. She probably got her own
Speaker 1: little how high rise apartment, apartment house whatever. I think
Speaker 1: oftentimes the wife knows about her, right, you know, I think,
Speaker 1: but we so well taken care of that, she don't
Speaker 1: she Stevie wanted to the bullshit like, I'll deal with
Speaker 1: the mistress. I ain't dealing with no petty cibit ship, okay,
Speaker 1: because I feel like to do to do like the
Speaker 1: cyber ship and the mistress ship. You have to have money, right,
Speaker 1: What type of woman is allowing you to do this? Right?
Speaker 1: If you're not compensating her? Yeah, like you really want this?
Speaker 1: You really want this? Other woman's man that bad? I
Speaker 1: don't he please compensate me, sir? Like you have to
Speaker 1: pay for the amininity. That's really what it is. So
Speaker 1: usually the missions, I don't think it. I don't think
Speaker 1: it's like completely transactional like that, like where you just pay,
Speaker 1: like here's the money and be quiet. No, absolutely they're not,
Speaker 1: but they are. They are probably paid and taken care
Speaker 1: of well enough to where they gotta way those risks
Speaker 1: like I'm not about to funk this up. I'm chilling
Speaker 1: over here, like he got his wife. They do their thing.
Speaker 1: We take vacation once ice a year together too, Like
Speaker 1: maybe I don't want a man add percent at a time.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm okay with thisft you know, but how would
Speaker 1: you get in a space where you're okay with that?
Speaker 1: Like you're never you're just by yourself for Christmas every year. Um.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of women are habitual side bitches,
Speaker 1: like their mama probably was a side bitch, like this
Speaker 1: is this is just coming through the bloodline. Habitual habitual
Speaker 1: side b Yeah, this is just what they do. Like
Speaker 1: they may not be the type of woman who wants
Speaker 1: a man, like a full time man. Um maybe they
Speaker 1: have other men that they entertain for those during those times.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that makes sense. I don't know, you have
Speaker 1: a you have a maid. But then no, because that
Speaker 1: don't because the man ain't gonna be okay with that.
Speaker 1: The man who's taking care of care of you, he's
Speaker 1: not gonna be okay with you having other men. No,
Speaker 1: but listen, there are women with side niggas, absolutely, But
Speaker 1: I feel like when a woman has a side nigga,
Speaker 1: it's more of a sneaky link side nigga ship. That
Speaker 1: man ain't taking care of that woman financially, that's still
Speaker 1: your husband's job to take care of. You're just getting
Speaker 1: sucked by somebody else. That's what's happening. So who do
Speaker 1: you think better? I would think a guy would be
Speaker 1: better because they don't get as emotionally attached like women do.
Speaker 1: Women have a strength connected what I ain't gonna say women,
Speaker 1: I have a stream connected from my heart to my vagina.
Speaker 1: So unless you call hopper, unless you like sell pussy,
Speaker 1: like really like that's what you do for a living,
Speaker 1: that heart gonna run straight to your COUCHI for sure,
Speaker 1: or other way around the couch. Women don't They like
Speaker 1: a whole grown men out here that don't care and
Speaker 1: just be fucking for fun and don't care and send
Speaker 1: it at home right after and just don't care. And
Speaker 1: the man probably like you know, she got a lot
Speaker 1: of trauma why a woman got to have trauma when
Speaker 1: we just want to funk on you and have your
Speaker 1: ass leave because you do you do have trauma if
Speaker 1: you like that. But man, right, yeah, So I think
Speaker 1: that men may be better at being on the side
Speaker 1: because women have more integrity and we may be more
Speaker 1: honest with the man on the side. Women. If you
Speaker 1: if I'm in a relationship with somebody and I'm cheating
Speaker 1: on them, the man I'm cheating with no exactly what
Speaker 1: this is. I'm not like making him think he could
Speaker 1: be my girlfriend. Like there's no gray area. Yes, men
Speaker 1: be pillow talking with the side bitch. So now when
Speaker 1: you don't drop dick off or money off or whatever
Speaker 1: it is, now you're hitting me up on my job.
Speaker 1: Is disturbing my day because my man ain't dropped dicking
Speaker 1: money off. Like now you're trying to make me mad
Speaker 1: because you're mad. So women have more integrity when looking.
Speaker 1: Women have more integrity when it comes to cheating. You're
Speaker 1: all so full of shi it. Okay, that's so full
Speaker 1: of ship because this makes sense. Hold on, I just
Speaker 1: want you all to hear that she acknowledge. Yo, this
Speaker 1: makes me my sense to me, women have more integrity
Speaker 1: than men when it comes to cheating, because we're honest
Speaker 1: with the person that we're cheating with. Oftentimes that person
Speaker 1: probably got a whole situation themselves. We ain't trying to
Speaker 1: tie up a single person. We fucking want somebody who
Speaker 1: got some ship to lose. That's not always true. But
Speaker 1: just be savages too and be out here. Tells that
Speaker 1: they love them and they're gonna leave. The husbands ain't
Speaker 1: not happy knowing that they ain't going nowhere. We did
Speaker 1: have some cheating bitches on here, remember, or one of
Speaker 1: them was cheating. Yeah, but I'm pretty sure the man
Speaker 1: she was cheating with wasn't about to call her husband,
Speaker 1: call her husband, job pop pop up at the house.
Speaker 1: You know why. It's because of the type of relationship
Speaker 1: she has with them, the honesty she has with them.
Speaker 1: The one the woman that pops up at this man's
Speaker 1: house knowing he has a wife, is because you've sold
Speaker 1: her a bag of it goods. You told a lot
Speaker 1: of times though they just be jealous and like, okay,
Speaker 1: if I'm about to make all y'all, have they fucking raw?
Speaker 1: That's what I do know. That's whenever a woman started
Speaker 1: acting real stupid. It's because you're man. Yeah, yes, that's
Speaker 1: what's happening. Because women ain't really really studying condom dick
Speaker 1: like that. We ain't really that concerned. I'm not. I'm
Speaker 1: not deccessured about it. They gotta with a condom because
Speaker 1: I don't even like him for real, use condoms always,
Speaker 1: And I have loved someone and used condoms with them
Speaker 1: consistently because they did was outside and I just couldn't.
Speaker 1: I wasn't. I can't trust where they did. You know
Speaker 1: it was going when it left me, So I'd rather
Speaker 1: just not. I still loved him very much, I did,
Speaker 1: but I just I just don't trust nobody without a
Speaker 1: condom at this point in my life. But you're putting
Speaker 1: it all down your throat though, like, like, what do
Speaker 1: you think on having down that throat? That can't happen
Speaker 1: to that couci. I put a condom on with you,
Speaker 1: don't s shut up? Who you lially trying? Who are
Speaker 1: you talking to? Who are you talking to? I put
Speaker 1: the condom on with my mouth. Look, I wish we
Speaker 1: was like on YouTube or something. Put it one in
Speaker 1: the chat. If y'all second, dick with a condom? Oh
Speaker 1: on the movies, like, who does that in real life? Me?
Speaker 1: Are you serious? Are you just playing? I'm Li's stupid
Speaker 1: for no reason like this me, why are you lying
Speaker 1: to me? You in thousands of other bitches? Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: and guess what, none of them other thousands bitches they
Speaker 1: might be snashing with a condom, they're definitely not. Like
Speaker 1: sucking dick with a condom. That is outlandish, y'all wasting condoms. Dog,
Speaker 1: I tried it that nasty ass latex tasty amount and
Speaker 1: it's like powdery, Like, why are you doing that? Gross? Yeah,
Speaker 1: So that's anyway. I do haven sex with a condom.
Speaker 1: You know, I probably will press practice abstinence more than
Speaker 1: just I don't. I don't enjoy sex that way. I don't.
Speaker 1: So let's go to the doctor. But you ain't going
Speaker 1: to a doctor, We're not. But I go for me though,
Speaker 1: So I always got people work on my pussy, like,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna ask you about yours. When's the last
Speaker 1: time you had a check up? Yeah, we all got
Speaker 1: to go together. But as a grown man and a
Speaker 1: grown woman, you need to be going at least every
Speaker 1: three to six months if you are sexually active. No,
Speaker 1: So yeah, I got paperwork on this pussy. You got
Speaker 1: the pussy facts exactly, wh show me the dick facts,
Speaker 1: Show me the dick facts. So yeah, I think that
Speaker 1: mistresses are for Richmond side. Bitches are from middle class. Okay,
Speaker 1: you may not get you know, your full rent paid.
Speaker 1: He may contribute to it a little bit. Groceries, light
Speaker 1: bill ship like that. Whenever you need something you know
Speaker 1: you can needn't ask hire, Yes, he coming through. He's
Speaker 1: gonna come through for you. Um, I think sneaky link
Speaker 1: could be. I don't even think, yeah, sneaking like it's
Speaker 1: just like everybody, because I think about um working in
Speaker 1: like a corporate setting and you seeing people who these are, Like,
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know your high value people. These people, Um,
Speaker 1: I know for sure business professionals, these holes, they like
Speaker 1: their low annual trips to the grille, to Jamaica, the
Speaker 1: fun on other business professionals they got. They had all
Speaker 1: these low travel groups. Single is fucking all these low
Speaker 1: travel groups all over They're going to Egypt next year
Speaker 1: to buy or whatever. Like they are planning to get
Speaker 1: smashed on these trips and those that's a sneaky link situation.
Speaker 1: So it really doesn't ball down to like money in
Speaker 1: that case, it's just like too consenting adults with the ships.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, you and now you're getting fired for good
Speaker 1: one in America because you didn't fuck up or like
Speaker 1: Knia Long baby daddy, like she should have been married
Speaker 1: at man, that's her fault at least, like if she
Speaker 1: was playing on from doing what he did. No, absolutely not,
Speaker 1: but you'd have some paperwork on that dick that maybe
Speaker 1: you can be compensated for the heartbreak. That's what I'm
Speaker 1: talking about, because now she's looking for an apology from
Speaker 1: the from from the goddamn get from the team. Girl.
Speaker 1: They may fuck They didn't embarrass them though, so I
Speaker 1: agree with I agree with Nia Long and that they
Speaker 1: embarrassed them because that is like her Man embarrassed the team. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: her Man embarrassed the team. So did the two holes
Speaker 1: he was sucking at work for the team. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: it was you know who knew he was in a relationship,
Speaker 1: the team and Nia. So they owe an apology to
Speaker 1: the Celtics into Nia. I don't feel like the Celtics
Speaker 1: or heard an apology. Um, the organization didn't do it.
Speaker 1: They went in they're like cool, cool, Yeah, man, I
Speaker 1: don't agree to Hammy because I feel like there's okay,
Speaker 1: just imagine this is the same thing, work, work, relationships,
Speaker 1: same thing, right, So you don't think there's never been
Speaker 1: a time where a white man slept with somebody else's
Speaker 1: wife on one of those teams and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: It's not publicized in the way they did this. Man.
Speaker 1: Was it the Celtics that did it or was it
Speaker 1: everybody else? And they had to do some damage control if,
Speaker 1: if how else did it come out one of the husbands,
Speaker 1: the husband heard her talk, heard his wife talking to
Speaker 1: him on their doorbell. So I don't know where it
Speaker 1: went from there and how. But look, even with this
Speaker 1: thing with um Good Morning America, they told the story
Speaker 1: to TMZ, ABC told TMZ do you see what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: So it could stay in the house if they wanted to.
Speaker 1: They chose to embarrass me along. Um what's his name? Ibaka?
Speaker 1: Isn't Ibaka? Right? I don't know that. Yeah, they chose
Speaker 1: to embarrass them because I feel like it was a
Speaker 1: cover up for that ship that was going on with
Speaker 1: Brett Farb. Yeah, talk about that how he was embezzling
Speaker 1: all that damn money but yeah, so I don't know
Speaker 1: nobody or her in the policy. But then baka no, absolutely,
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't blame her if she stayed with me either.
Speaker 1: I mean, people stay with people for more for yeah,
Speaker 1: like if you choose to you know, if y'all have
Speaker 1: the conversation that it takes and y'all find a way
Speaker 1: to heal from that ship and decided to fight through exactly,
Speaker 1: people would be like any kind of Like I couldn't
Speaker 1: stay with him after the public embarrassment and your baby
Speaker 1: daddy got your job doing the same sho oh, you
Speaker 1: probably stayed with somebody who wasn't even provided for you
Speaker 1: and fucking you over like that? How about that? Right? Well,
Speaker 1: I don't have a journey for nobody when it comes
Speaker 1: to their relationships and matters of the heart. Right, I agree?
Speaker 1: But um, I found a good article. It's written by
Speaker 1: Tom Miller's on your tangle dot com, so it's like
Speaker 1: a blog site. Mm hm. So look, the title of
Speaker 1: it is there are only three kinds of home records
Speaker 1: in the world. When we use that term home record,
Speaker 1: you automatically think about a woman. Mhm. That's what I
Speaker 1: don't like about the title home record. Because guess what,
Speaker 1: bitch is the home record is a motherfucker that's in
Speaker 1: the home, right first, that's the first home record there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we can't hold those people outside the home acountable. But
Speaker 1: the first person that's in the home, that's the person
Speaker 1: who wrecked it. So, your husband, how are you gonna
Speaker 1: record home that's already rick? Exactly? Like how you expect
Speaker 1: somebody outside your relationship to respect it when the people
Speaker 1: in it aren't. Yeah, I'm confused. Okay. So um, so
Speaker 1: this is the three kinds of home records this this
Speaker 1: blog post is talking about. So it says the mistress,
Speaker 1: which we mentioned, it says, you're familiar with the concept
Speaker 1: of a mistress. She's a woman who has a long,
Speaker 1: loving relationship with a man, or a woman in a
Speaker 1: complimentary capacity to the man's marriage. Both parties know that
Speaker 1: the man is being unfaithful in our traditional, in our
Speaker 1: traditional understanding of the word to his wife. Okay. While
Speaker 1: some mistresses appreciate that they'll never replaced a man's wife
Speaker 1: in a legitimate slash legal sense, other mistresses hold out
Speaker 1: hope that he'll come to his senses and leave the
Speaker 1: mother of his children. Semantically speaking, I'm not sure where
Speaker 1: to go with this. But a man may believe he
Speaker 1: loves his mistress, his wife may know about her, and
Speaker 1: a mistress may also be married. Okay, So now this
Speaker 1: person is listening out the pros and cons Okay, so
Speaker 1: says uh pros. Some level of affection may receive thoughtful
Speaker 1: gifts or trips. Couldn't make for a fantastic novella. Someday
Speaker 1: both parties know the deal. Cons um it's sort of
Speaker 1: becomes it sort of becomes a second marriage. He's not
Speaker 1: leaving his wife for you. Exposing the whole thing is
Speaker 1: kind of a dick move, even in the case of
Speaker 1: a breakup. Okay, So that's the mistress. That's sound about right.
Speaker 1: Sounds right to me, all right, So now be on
Speaker 1: somebody's side. That would be the position I would want
Speaker 1: if I had to pick one of those. Yeah, Because
Speaker 1: what I was trying to explain earlier is that men
Speaker 1: do be men be all in love. Like it's not
Speaker 1: just women that fall in love inside situations. Men fall
Speaker 1: in love. You funk with somebody long enough, you're gonna
Speaker 1: fall in love. But I just want my you know,
Speaker 1: I don't even want my own. I do want my
Speaker 1: own nigga. I just want to be the main Honestly,
Speaker 1: I don't anticipate that a man will never like we
Speaker 1: get together now and he'll never I would I would
Speaker 1: be hopeful that he wouldn't step out on me for
Speaker 1: the remainder of our life. But I just feel like,
Speaker 1: if you get a good creamative crap fass type, there's
Speaker 1: a hard there's a large chance that it could happen
Speaker 1: at some point in your relationship. Right, it would be
Speaker 1: naive to think that it it could never have not us,
Speaker 1: you know, I couldn It wouldn't be naive to feel
Speaker 1: that way. But yeah, I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 1: where I was going with that. I just know I
Speaker 1: would rather be the main or if I'm gonna not
Speaker 1: be the main one, then I would want that first one.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be the side bitch order sneaky link.
Speaker 1: So you do want to be the taken care of mistress.
Speaker 1: If I had to choose one of those three, ideally
Speaker 1: I would want to be the wife obviously, But if
Speaker 1: I had to choose one of those three, definitely the
Speaker 1: mistress and not the savage or the sneaky link. The
Speaker 1: sneaky link just don't even sound that's not palatable for
Speaker 1: me for any reason. Why would I just want to
Speaker 1: fuck exactly? That's my thing now sometimes but no, um,
Speaker 1: sneaky link is like twice a year situation like I
Speaker 1: don't know, just somebody that you know gonna suck you
Speaker 1: real good, like you might pull up on the ass
Speaker 1: right quick. And it's just like that's just what it is.
Speaker 1: Like I knew where I could get some good dick
Speaker 1: from and I went there. That's about I get it.
Speaker 1: I get it. I get it all right. I think
Speaker 1: from women like sneaky links is more so like the
Speaker 1: people who you funk with in the interim, like in
Speaker 1: between relationships, like you just know we if you whenever
Speaker 1: you get that little urge, that's not a sneaky link.
Speaker 1: That is a sneaky link that I feel like a
Speaker 1: sneak Like if you're just sucking somebody that you used
Speaker 1: to fuck because you horny, is that a sneaky link.
Speaker 1: A sneaky link is win he could be in a relationship. Now, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, you know what I'm saying, Like that's a
Speaker 1: sneaky link, y'all. Just like sexually attracted to each other.
Speaker 1: That's just what it is, y'all. Don't talk, y'all, don't
Speaker 1: talk on the phone about nothing, you so listen right,
Speaker 1: all right? So the side chick, A side chick represents
Speaker 1: truly the best and worst of all women traits. What
Speaker 1: does that mean? Exactly? All? It says, truly the best
Speaker 1: and worst of all other women traits. A side chick
Speaker 1: is entitled to things like dates and gifts on her
Speaker 1: birth if they she may or may not know if
Speaker 1: the guy is married. She hasn't married herself, and treats
Speaker 1: it as a nascent relationship in any case. And um,
Speaker 1: nasan means like just coming into existence, and oh, like
Speaker 1: you know, like it's just starting. Okay, Yeah, So I
Speaker 1: mean sometimes when you meet somebody, you don't know what
Speaker 1: they have going on in life. So that's essentially what
Speaker 1: it's saying. Um. Even if she knows her status, she
Speaker 1: may feel compelled to tell the original wife of the situation.
Speaker 1: The wife is likely unaware of the side checks existence,
Speaker 1: but may have her suspicions. Many of the man man's
Speaker 1: friends know about the side chick and anxiously, anxiously await
Speaker 1: one of three outcomes. She's promoted to the mistress, she's
Speaker 1: um unceremoniously dumped, often with the ghosting technique, or she
Speaker 1: decides to read havoc by exposed in the situation to
Speaker 1: the light of day. A side chick may have a
Speaker 1: day of the week assigned to their relationship. Um and
Speaker 1: it says the pros are the sexiest, is dynamite, as
Speaker 1: you know each other's likes and dislikes, and the novelty
Speaker 1: has in no way worn off. While intense, the whole
Speaker 1: thing still has an air of casualness to it. The
Speaker 1: dates are great because you're both getting high off sneaking around.
Speaker 1: Cons She could be young enough to be his daughter.
Speaker 1: There may be money left on a dresser that muddies
Speaker 1: the water. This a man wrote this, This is funny.
Speaker 1: It's fun to me. Um, this will probably not in gracefully.
Speaker 1: The husband, wife, or side chick may end up stabbed.
Speaker 1: That's funny, shame, So listen. Are you a side chick
Speaker 1: only if a man or mistress only if a man
Speaker 1: is married, if he has a girlfriend, or you a
Speaker 1: side check or is your nigga just out here choosing so?
Speaker 1: Because like girlfriend boyfriend relationships are prerequisites right for marriage.
Speaker 1: M hmm. I think it would depend on how serious
Speaker 1: and how long these people have been together. If y'all
Speaker 1: living together and stuff like that, got businesses together, like
Speaker 1: y'all building a life together, heading towards marriage, and he's
Speaker 1: like out here choosing. I feel like that could be
Speaker 1: like a side bitch situation, Like he might have a
Speaker 1: side bitch. Some people take side bitches into marriages. I
Speaker 1: know some bitches who the nigga didn't choose, and this
Speaker 1: man got married, and you stole funking with him while
Speaker 1: he done got married. You. Now, that's a whole another
Speaker 1: level of commitment to a role exactly. I know a
Speaker 1: couple of bitches like that. I don't feel like if
Speaker 1: it's a girlfriend, I just all right, y'all, no shade,
Speaker 1: but I just don't respect girlfriends the way I respect wife.
Speaker 1: So like I don't feel like it's a savage, a
Speaker 1: mistress or you know, if you're a girlfriend, if you're
Speaker 1: a wife. If this man has a wife, then you
Speaker 1: outside bitch or a mistress. If he has a girlfriend,
Speaker 1: y'all just outside everybody out here playing right. I don't
Speaker 1: I don't see it that way, you know. I like
Speaker 1: to say and I probably joke about the ship. But
Speaker 1: I'll funk with somebody boyfriend, but I don't know my husband. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like I try my hardest, I'm not gonna say I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna say i've never I've never done it, especially
Speaker 1: when you're dealing like older men like his wife probably
Speaker 1: got a boyfriend, you know what I'm saying. Like these
Speaker 1: sicker know each other, they probably for twenty five years,
Speaker 1: Like they sticky each other. Like it's like nigga, long
Speaker 1: as you're paying these bills. Where in the girlfriend college fund,
Speaker 1: young bitch, you're fucking that, go bother her. Jeez, Wilson,
Speaker 1: go over there. She's just outsourcing some pussy like it's
Speaker 1: basically what it is. But day my normal setting, my
Speaker 1: normal setting is definitely not the funk with somebody husband
Speaker 1: because listen, I'm probably beating you up about my husband,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Because I do have this
Speaker 1: thing where I do believe, yes, the home record is
Speaker 1: the person that's in the home, But women do keep cheating,
Speaker 1: going like your man can't cheat unless a woman is
Speaker 1: willing to compete, and oftentimes like this is, they're gonna
Speaker 1: do that. And then I respect women who played a
Speaker 1: played a played the position like the mistress. I respect
Speaker 1: that the ones that get on social media and y'all
Speaker 1: blasting these guys and ship like that, Like I cannot
Speaker 1: respect that. You're stupid, Yeah, like why you do what
Speaker 1: you got you signed up for? Why are you out
Speaker 1: here and you're exposing yourself more than anybody exactly because
Speaker 1: with celebrit and he's like, everybody knows this guy is married.
Speaker 1: His wife is a stupid you stupid bitch. Everybody knows
Speaker 1: this is a married man, and you chose to let
Speaker 1: him have his way with you, and then on top
Speaker 1: of that, you want to flex on his fucking wife
Speaker 1: like she wrong for being mad? Right, No, a bit
Speaker 1: you need to get beat up. Yeah, I agree, you
Speaker 1: need if you're gonna be fucking on somebody husband, you
Speaker 1: need to be quiet. Yep, yep. So the last one
Speaker 1: they let's hear is a jump off, which I think
Speaker 1: essentially that would be like sneaky links. Uh activity um, So,
Speaker 1: like this thing is for women written by a man,
Speaker 1: but we know that men will cheat with people too.
Speaker 1: But I guess when a woman is getting fucked, a
Speaker 1: married woman is getting fucked by some outside dick is
Speaker 1: not seen as jump off behavior. It's just her being
Speaker 1: a slept is what men would say, so jump off
Speaker 1: this term is slightly more nubulus um. A jump off
Speaker 1: is a gal or a guy he mentions, who is
Speaker 1: just around for the sex stuff, the absolute closest thing
Speaker 1: to luxury and this relationship UM is a rod and escalade.
Speaker 1: I stay at a red roof in and possibly Hanfair
Speaker 1: and possibly ca Fair home, or a Hamburger sandwich from McDonald's.
Speaker 1: This could be a repeated engagement, though irregular, or a
Speaker 1: single serving bone fest. Meet Ups with a jump off
Speaker 1: are typically at odd hours, involved a text message along
Speaker 1: the lines of UM, and are fueled by alcohol. W
Speaker 1: y D is what it is right right UM. The
Speaker 1: key difference between a jump off and any other unfaithful
Speaker 1: activity is that it's clear, explicitly or not, that this
Speaker 1: relationship would never evolve past s a mis s, M
Speaker 1: S and smash. A jump off typically doesn't know if
Speaker 1: a partner is married, nor does she particularly care. This
Speaker 1: is expressly a key meets ignition transaction. A jump off
Speaker 1: situation is in no way, shape or form exclusive to
Speaker 1: either party. And let's see, so the pros are this
Speaker 1: is just about sex um. To say that the effort
Speaker 1: is mutually meant minimal would be an insult to the
Speaker 1: word minimal um. You've you'd have to be a moron
Speaker 1: to get caught and cons She may show up in
Speaker 1: his phone as Rick, which is unfortunately sure for trick.
Speaker 1: Y'all may be giving each other worse and worse stains
Speaker 1: of her Uh, y'all may be giving each other worse
Speaker 1: and worse strains of her pies. What you may be
Speaker 1: enough of a moron to get caught and hold on
Speaker 1: this ship gives examples. Let's see. I don't care to
Speaker 1: name him anyway, that was the part least pretty solid
Speaker 1: description of those uh those women or men when dealing
Speaker 1: with people jump off do not just get sandwiches McDonald's
Speaker 1: and herpies. Goodness now, jop offs do just get dick,
Speaker 1: and sometimes they might get dick from you and your homeboy. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right, Yeah, I agree there the jump off. That's
Speaker 1: the sneaky link though, right, Nah, like sneaky link. I
Speaker 1: feel like it's like more mutual. It's not like it
Speaker 1: seems like what the jump off is like the woman
Speaker 1: is getting played somehow, But that's not fair. Why the
Speaker 1: it's just that double standard. We gotta deal with We
Speaker 1: just gotta deal with it. It's just it's just true.
Speaker 1: We cannot do the things that men do. No, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I don't you know, I have
Speaker 1: no desire to have my dick in the dirt anyway,
Speaker 1: So exactly if I had one, I don't want my
Speaker 1: couching the dirt neither. Right, Shoot, y'are young holes, man.
Speaker 1: We'll be trying to tell y'all. Listen, y'all can live
Speaker 1: like curiously through this damn show. Y'all don't have to
Speaker 1: go through these dumb bit ships. You know your stories,
Speaker 1: and y'all don't have to. Y'all can listen to this
Speaker 1: and make better decisions. So then that way you aren't
Speaker 1: in your fucking mid thirties trying to reflect like God, Dad,
Speaker 1: where the funk up at? Right? Don't like at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, just don't be a mistress, a savage,
Speaker 1: a jump off, or a sneaky link. I mean you
Speaker 1: might get do the sneaky link every now, man, but
Speaker 1: don't be none of the rest of them. That's just
Speaker 1: lucrative fun the hoes unless it's lucrative. Do that ship
Speaker 1: got all it? You gotta pay for college? Girl, Let
Speaker 1: me tell you no, don't do that ship man, do
Speaker 1: none of that. Just leave it alone. Trust me that
Speaker 1: I put you in his will. Shoot U m hmmm,
Speaker 1: and be the main I just think is it cheating?
Speaker 1: If I think it's cheating. If the side bitch looks
Speaker 1: better than your your girl, that's cheating. The side bitch
Speaker 1: always looked better than me, that's cheating. That is cheating.
Speaker 1: That's always she's always younger, finer. That's cheating. Yeah, it's cheating.
Speaker 1: And what's also cheating is if they're comfortable too. It
Speaker 1: gotta be extreme opposite. You went and found you from
Speaker 1: when y'all met, he would have found a version of
Speaker 1: you that he used to be. That is cheating. That's
Speaker 1: so hurtful. That is cheating. But then I also don't
Speaker 1: like men who don't have preference. I cannot stand like
Speaker 1: seeing a woman that a dude is messing with. I'm like,
Speaker 1: she don't look nothing like me, she's nothing like me. Like,
Speaker 1: you don't have no preference. You just out here fucking
Speaker 1: on whatever. That is weird worst, that's the worst. At
Speaker 1: least let her be a bad bit. Yes. I remember
Speaker 1: this girl that I know from high school and she
Speaker 1: was like really pretty. All the boys loved her, right,
Speaker 1: and uh, she grew up and started working with this
Speaker 1: no good ass drug dealing as nigger, and he went
Speaker 1: and got this girl pregnant. Baby. This girl can't, she can't.
Speaker 1: I don't think she know how to read. She's very unattractive,
Speaker 1: very unfortunate looking girl and uneducated and just bottom of
Speaker 1: the barrel bitch. It's just like you got her pregnant.
Speaker 1: I would I don't understand. She stayed with him too.
Speaker 1: And like I said, I don't have a judge jury
Speaker 1: for anybody and when it comes to their relationship. But
Speaker 1: that have been here for me because you put your
Speaker 1: date anywhere, sir, you put your dick anywhere. And I
Speaker 1: am assaulted that you got this bitch bregnant. Shame. Listen
Speaker 1: my ex, the one that's in prison. Oh, I think
Speaker 1: you're about to come home too soon, so that I
Speaker 1: gotta listen. That ship don't got nothing to do with me,
Speaker 1: because I found out that that fool as a whole
Speaker 1: kid out here at the same age as how long
Speaker 1: he's been in prison. So let's be clear. But anyway,
Speaker 1: So when exactly, but the first this first child, Um,
Speaker 1: we were and in a long dis relationship. We definitely
Speaker 1: was in a relationship when this baby was conceived, right
Speaker 1: and the morning the girl had a baby and he
Speaker 1: sent me the picture of the baby. I was like, yes,
Speaker 1: why because she looked funny, the baby, the baby looked funny. No,
Speaker 1: you're going for that. Babies be looking weird when na bitch,
Speaker 1: she thought she was. But they had his fine ace
Speaker 1: nigga baby and she was gonna have a super gorgeous
Speaker 1: little baby and it just didn't happen that way. She's
Speaker 1: pretty now, but she had to grow into her looks.
Speaker 1: She definitely looks like her mama and daddy. But it's
Speaker 1: not a good mix. It wasn't a good mix anyway.
Speaker 1: It's the truth. And that nigga know it too. And
Speaker 1: if you listening, old girl, that was my nigga. You
Speaker 1: had a baby before and I slept it was like
Speaker 1: four o'clock in the morning when he sent me that
Speaker 1: picture to him. And when I tell you like, I
Speaker 1: feel like, because I mean it was we was together,
Speaker 1: damn it, the whole pregnancy, so like I knew it
Speaker 1: was happening. So he said, and then furthermore, like my
Speaker 1: ex he is like my family member, Like I love
Speaker 1: him like a family member, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So even like if he do like little, I could
Speaker 1: not just discard him completely in life, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So so he sent me the picture of
Speaker 1: the baby, and I slept like a fucking baby, just
Speaker 1: knowing like, hey, hey y'all got this log. Yeah, slept
Speaker 1: like whatever, that's y'all baby. But um, he was a
Speaker 1: nigger that never cheated with anybody that was comparable to me,
Speaker 1: Like I swear all the bitches was like super I'm
Speaker 1: brown skinned. Everybody's super light skin and two fifty pounds plus.
Speaker 1: Like he liked big light skin bitches. That's what that
Speaker 1: was his thing. And I wasn't that. So I don't
Speaker 1: know that was his preference. And what the hell are
Speaker 1: you doing with me? I feel like that was his
Speaker 1: real preference. But I like men with a big girl.
Speaker 1: Now in prison, you probably know I'm not about to
Speaker 1: play with him. I was about to say he probably
Speaker 1: with a big nigga. I know he know that type
Speaker 1: of time, but no, I don't know, he might be
Speaker 1: with a big one. I don't know. The second baby.
Speaker 1: Mama wasn't a big one and she was brown skin,
Speaker 1: so I don't know, more proud to than people. And
Speaker 1: that baby, that baby, that beautiful baby. Yeah she's beautiful. Now.
Speaker 1: I saw her last year. She's a beautiful little girl,
Speaker 1: but I hadn't seen her since he basically went to prison.
Speaker 1: But um, yeah, I wish them the best anyway, child,
Speaker 1: We ain't got no dumb bitch stories this week, okay, y'all,
Speaker 1: so listen. Rather you're the side bitch, the main bitch,
Speaker 1: the mistress that jump off, the kickoff, the sneaky link. Listen,
Speaker 1: be good or be good at it. Okay, that's just
Speaker 1: all I gotta say about it. That's a advice, my advice.
Speaker 1: It's just don't be nobody's mistress, side bitch, sneaky link.
Speaker 1: Just be the main or nothing. All that ship is
Speaker 1: a headache and it never ends well for the woman ever,
Speaker 1: So don't do it, ladies, all right, man, I love y'all.
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