WEBVTT - Habitual Side Bih 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:07.160 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:12.280 talks back? What's up, y'all? Thank if it in for 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:14.400 a new episode, we talk back. It's your co host, 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:19.159 AJ Holiday. What's up, Tam. Hey, Hey, y'all, it's me 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:21.560 Tam Bam. Welcome to a new episode. I missed y'all. 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:25.919 I love y'all. What's going on? Are we? Do we 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:32.479 have any life today? Um? Mario mothers, Mario Kart. You 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:34.199 know you're like your life level go down on the 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:38.800 video games? Oh? Yeah, you know what? I really just 0:00:38.840 --> 0:00:44.640 want to say death to all spam calls on my phone, 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:47.280 Like everybody, I get so many spams. I swear I 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:51.879 get thirty spam calls a day. It got to be 0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:55.080 some type of ag against it. It ain't even your 0:00:55.080 --> 0:00:57.040 phone no more. I even put my phone number on 0:00:57.040 --> 0:00:58.640 that website. You know, it's a website out there you 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:01.080 can go to and like put your phone number in 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:03.120 there to make sure you don't get those type of calls. 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:05.520 But I feel like ever since I did that, I 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:12.480 get more FU calls. I'll be cussing the people out. 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:15.720 I'll be cussing them the funk out. Look. Sometimes I 0:01:15.760 --> 0:01:21.959 play with them, especially, don't got them Indians really like Okay, 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:23.920 if they call and be like, yeah, can we get 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:26.840 your social No, don't say I got I keep get 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:29.559 a call I says my Social Security number is suspended 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:32.639 or expired. I'm like, how does that happen? But whatever, 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:34.280 let me get a new one anyway, because I could 0:01:34.360 --> 0:01:37.240 use it. But I'll play along and then I'll start 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.280 like giving them different numbers and I'll play along for 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:42.320 a little bit. Then I'll just start cussing their grass 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:51.800 out and they'll cuss you back though, fuck ship whenever 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:53.680 I feel like it. But if I rushed to the 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:57.640 phone and it's like one of them, I'm mad, I'd 0:01:57.680 --> 0:01:59.760 be man like, leave me alone. I'll be thinking, it's 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:04.280 my it's one of your motherfucker's tell about my extended warranty, Like, man, 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:10.280 get out of here. How is your weekend, tam? What 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:12.560 you had going on this weekend? Y'all? What the fund 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:15.000 did I do this weekend? Oh? I was in d 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:19.480 C Uh? Yeah, I went to d C. I Um. 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:23.520 I was there because one of my good girlfriends had 0:02:23.600 --> 0:02:26.160 her retirement ceremony from the Air Force and I went 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:28.880 to do her hair and a couple of other people's hair. 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:34.519 And then I slid and did um tequila Talk podcast 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:38.200 in d C with Walton Jazz and they were a 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.320 lot of fun. They showed me a lot of fun, 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:42.839 a good time in uh d C. Took me out 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:46.920 to a club call Sacks uh that night, got me 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:48.920 a little table, got me a little bottle. You know, 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:51.679 I had my name on the mark and it was 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:54.280 a good time. Uh So they want to come and 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:56.640 do our show. They definitely gotta come and do our show. 0:02:57.360 --> 0:02:59.480 I talked about you a lot on this episode a 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:01.160 j So you're gonna have to go listen to that 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:03.760 episode because I spoke about what y'all have been talking about. 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:08.080 What's the show about? What are they? No, they're not 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:10.880 a couple of DIF friends and you have a drink 0:03:10.919 --> 0:03:15.320 of tequila and they have like trending topic similar top 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:17.680 shelf bottom shelf, like should they like and ship they 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:20.000 don't like? And you know, they pretty much just interviewed 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:22.880 me talking about my podcast and you know, you know, 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:25.320 our show and things like that. It was a lot 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:30.480 of fun. I told them your story about the dog 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:34.560 eating the poop girl, not you telling people my worst 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:42.080 life ship. I wish y'all can see how my ex 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.840 is running around the room like act like he puking 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:47.920 in his hand, and he was like, I'm trying to 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:57.640 rush the cleaning ship up and my dog ate it. Yo. Yeah, 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:00.440 I had to tell that story. That ship was funny, stupid. 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:06.920 That ship was funny. Literally, what about your your weekend? 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:10.320 Oh hold, let me just tell y'all the club sacks 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:16.080 in d C. Baby Future DJ came in with he 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:19.160 got this biggest section in the club and brought twenty 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:22.880 strippers with him, and instantly the club went from a 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:27.840 normal regular club to a strip club. Seriously, like they 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:30.159 was naked strippers. It wasn't like they were strippers off 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:34.240 duty with clothes off. No, these strippers came in and 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:36.279 was naked. I was like, wait a minute, what happened here? 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:37.920 I thought I was in the regular club. I didn't 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:43.960 even bring anyones. Where do I get the ones at? Then? 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:47.440 It was like, uh, like up top there was like 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:50.440 a burlesque show going on up top. I mean it 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:52.560 was just like a lot. He just got strippers on 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:57.920 demand on the manholes door. Dad. Stripper's Baby sounds like 0:04:57.960 --> 0:05:01.960 a business idea to me, right, Like I swear during 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:05.000 the pandemic. I put a pole on my Instagram story 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:08.640 asking people if they would pay for virtual shrimp Club 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:11.920 during the pandemic, and people was like, nah, they're all 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:15.400 of a sudden at Busy and Tory Lanes was on 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:19.560 some virtual stripper type ship, like why not, but nobody 0:05:19.640 --> 0:05:21.720 was paying for it. He was paying them. Put your 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:28.640 pussy limps on live. I'll give you all now. The 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:31.080 way Instagram and ship set up now, I feel like 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:33.720 you could put tips and all that ship. Now you're 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:36.640 definitely gonna be little only fans. Let let another pandemic 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:39.680 come around. It's gonna be a uh a J's virtual. 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:46.880 I don't know whore house for real, but no. So 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:50.080 this weekend I just I hung out a little bit. Um. 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:54.120 I went to y'all know, I like outdoorship. I like animals, 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:58.880 I like birds, like oh little creatures. I went to 0:05:58.960 --> 0:06:04.520 this place called um B City. It's in South Carolina. 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.880 One of my friends surprised me, or even one of 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:12.000 my friends. My friend surprised me and took me there 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:14.000 like he took this bitch out for a walk. So 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:16.080 that's what we did this weekend. And then Sunday night 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:19.680 kind of animals they got tigers, lions, and bears on 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:22.800 my No, they got some tigers. No, hell no, they 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:27.800 got tigers, all these different types of monkeys. Um, hundreds 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:30.720 of thousands of bees, a bunch of birds. I got 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:33.320 pictures to the birds. Was like, damn near attacking me, bitch. 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:36.880 They was on my weaves, on my head, on my hands, 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:39.760 like he just was on my body. What if a 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:42.880 bird would have tried to take your week? Luckily it 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:46.880 was blew down that day. Luckily, but you just see 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:49.240 me on video set we're fighting birds, bitch, because while 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:55.760 you're playing too much. That's nice day. It was nice. 0:06:55.920 --> 0:06:57.839 I was I like little, I like ship like that, 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:00.280 like the ride bike like NIKEL take me the right bike. 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:02.200 That's the type of should I'd be liking to do. 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:05.520 And um, Sunday night, I just hung out a little bit. 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:08.240 So somehow I got friends in Charleston now, so I 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:13.480 got I'm happy. People be calling me to go outside 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:19.560 and they think I'm new, so it's even better. Yeah. Yeah, 0:07:19.600 --> 0:07:22.680 So that was my weekend. You know, Um, I think 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:25.040 next week I'm gonna go to Atlanta for the whole week, 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:28.480 hang out down there with my bestie. Okay, good because 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:30.240 I'm gonna try to set up some ship for us 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:32.960 down there, a couple of a couple of little rendezvous 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:38.400 down there. Pull up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got a 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:40.920 podcast in Atlanta. We're pulling up. Yeah, We're trying to 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:48.040 pull up on y'all for real. So that that stupid bitches. 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:53.119 Internet news all kind of shipping going on, not nothing 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:56.200 like super crazy. Um, did you see what's going on 0:07:56.280 --> 0:08:02.400 with Dion Sanders. Oh? Yes, prime prime, The prime situation 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:04.920 is what we're gonna call it. A situation is just 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:07.840 proof that two things can be true at once on 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:14.320 the area because nigga, get your bag and then also 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.800 at the same time, damn, you're just gonna leave us 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:23.160 like that, all right, y'all. So, um, Dion Sanders just 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:26.200 took a job, and what I'm hearing is he's being 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:29.720 paid five million dollars um. He took a lead coach 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:34.920 position at the University of Colorado Boulder, UM, and he'll 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:36.800 be the head coach over there. So a lot of 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:39.720 people took the online, you know, took to the internet 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:44.200 to say how disappointed they were and Dion Sanders for 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:49.160 choosing his career over you know, HBC used because he's 0:08:49.200 --> 0:08:52.880 been a coach at Jackson State. I believe what since 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:57.360 the beginning of the pandemic, like in the nineteen early 0:08:58.040 --> 0:09:02.679 and that's his first coaching job, right, So an HBCU. 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:05.439 He's also an hbc you graduate also, right, So a 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.880 lot of good people come out of HBCUs, A lot 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:13.200 of black uh business professionals come out of HBCU. So 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:16.920 our schools aren't the worst, but we are underfunded a 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:22.360 lot of times. Right, Um, sports is what brings any 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:24.920 school the most money. You know, if you're not like 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:27.839 a damn Ivy League college, you know how they get 0:09:27.840 --> 0:09:31.920 their their checks, but you know, you gotta invest in sports. 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:35.240 So now I saw a lot of things in the 0:09:35.280 --> 0:09:38.160 past with him, like complaining about, you know, not getting 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:41.760 the support he needed to even like help the school, 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:47.880 like help him help them essentially. Right, So now what 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:51.760 was this initial m I doubt that his UM income 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:56.679 at Jackson is anywhere near five so three thousand dollars, 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:58.680 But they gave him a shot. Do you think that 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:00.920 Dion Sanders would have been able to go straight to 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:03.960 a bigger right, No, he wouldn't have been able to 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:06.040 go to just straight to Colorado. He had to have 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:09.200 a winning track record first as a coach. You know, 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:13.760 they want to took it your ass. But I don't 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:15.760 blame if he ever applied, though, I wonder if he 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:18.560 ever even tried. He is Dion Sanders. Let's be clear, 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:25.640 he's uh phenomenal baseball and yes, so he may have been. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:29.240 His start may have been very genuine, you know, trying 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:34.199 to help HBCUs and even while in Colorado that work 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:37.040 can continue, Yeah, because maybe he could like set up 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:41.200 games with HBCUs for Colorado and get them schools to 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:43.760 make money. They are gonna beat them big schools. It's 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:47.800 gonna be on the pop, okay. But he ain't trying 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:49.600 to bring him out there to beat their ass though, 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:55.280 trying to win. But I mean, and you know, I 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:58.880 saw an interview with him in when he first started, 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:01.240 and he said that these big school was offer your job. 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:03.480 He said that would be something he would have to entertain. 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:06.360 So it was never He never said that I'm gonna 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:09.160 be at Jackson State for the rest of my football 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:12.559 coaching career. You know, he never said that. But if 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:16.040 I was a student and I turned down an opportunity 0:11:16.080 --> 0:11:19.520 at a p w Y just based off of him, 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:24.079 being my coach. I feel away. I might feel away 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:26.360 like Nigga I could have. I was supposed to go 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:34.320 to Colorado, right right, Yeah, So I know two things 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:37.240 could be right at the same time. Yeah, So I 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:39.480 don't I don't blame him because I'm pretty sure his 0:11:39.559 --> 0:11:42.040 goal is to get back to the NFL to be 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:45.319 a coach. So this is the road to that, right, 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:47.719 you know what I'm saying. So I think that he 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:53.319 has started something and maybe some other um retired football 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:56.800 players they could pick up the torch right and keep 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:59.880 it going. That would be dope if they just you know, 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:02.760 but you know, everybody, just because you can play, don't 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:07.920 mean you can coach absolutely exactly, because I know some 0:12:08.000 --> 0:12:10.720 of y'all athletes can't even hold make a good sentence, 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:13.920 you know, formulate a good sentence. So how you go 0:12:13.960 --> 0:12:16.240 and coach exactly? So I want to read this right 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:18.280 quick from Gary Chambers, just a little piece of it. 0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:21.400 So he said two things can be true. One can 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:24.920 be happy to see Dion Sanders advance his career. I 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:28.240 believe he's special and has the capacity to do something 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:31.960 special anywhere he goes. It just felt good to see 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:34.320 him bringing all that black power to black to a 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:39.640 black institution. Um. Him leaving does impact right. Um, we 0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:41.800 have to be able to have more than one perspective 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:45.040 at the table to have an honest conversation. First, Dion 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:47.439 Sanders can do whatever he feels is best for him 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:50.760 and his family. Second, people can feel different things about 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:54.400 how it impacts others because it does. And HBCU is 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:58.840 where Coach Prime got his degree and his head coach job. Um, 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:03.480 the Winningnessam, excuse me, the winning winning is coach in 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:08.760 football history is from an HBCU. HBCUs had and still 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:13.080 have value. Um. The question for now isn't about Coach Prime. 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:16.880 His decision is made. Is how do we carry what 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:19.839 he started forward? And that's just what it is. Yeah, 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:22.280 because that's what you're gonna have to do. I mean, 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:25.200 ain't know you can do about it? Yeah, yeah, Like 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:27.400 what are we going to do now? For the HBCUs. 0:13:27.480 --> 0:13:30.120 He's just one man. He's just one man. I just 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:32.839 feel like there's like the savior complex people be having, 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:35.280 Like y'all be looking for this this one person to 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:37.800 put all your faith in that's gonna change everything. Na, 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:41.520 it starts with that nigga in the mirror. So everybody 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:44.800 has to. But I can't coach. You can't coach. But 0:13:44.840 --> 0:13:47.320 there's a lot of black men, I know, a lot 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:49.120 of good and I mean, it can start with your 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:52.000 little league teams in your city. It can start there, 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:55.560 you know what I'm saying, like to make sure those 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:58.199 boys go to college. Like it just has to be 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:02.880 like a network, which I think it already is. But 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:05.120 I'm just saying, we can't just be already with one man. 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:11.040 We can't. We can't and the yeah, they mad and 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:13.800 mean while I ain't doing ship, you know what I'm saying, 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:18.400 but talking on the internet. Right it's the ones who 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:20.800 don't even pay their student loans. Girls them student loan. 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:25.120 You pay them student loans. I'm deferred right now, all 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:29.200 of us deferred, bitch, all of us spend the fur 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:33.440 for the last two to three years, relaxed, and when 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:35.560 I tell you, I'm paying them the bear minimum for 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:38.480 the rest of my life. Oh I did get approved 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:41.440 of that twenty though. Did you apply? No? Not yet. 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:43.200 Every time I try to log on and say I 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:48.240 can't apply right now because trying to block it day one, bitch, 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:52.520 I was in there. You know, we're all white collar ship. 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:58.880 I saw an article, well not an article. I saw 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:03.880 the Jasmine and that Kiki Palmer posted a picture of 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:07.280 herself in her uh the father of her child, in 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:11.000 a very loving embrace, looking very happy, and people were 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:14.160 making comments to her that weren't very kind, and it 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:17.280 said I just saw a few comments of people saying 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:19.840 I was ugly because I wasn't wearing any makeup. And 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:21.680 I really want y'all to get to help y'all need, 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:24.800 because makeup isn't real. I'm beautiful in real life because 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:27.240 of who I am, not what I look like. I 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:29.400 wish I could bottle how I feel about myself and 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:31.960 sell it because some people take comments to heart, and 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:35.160 these people just say anything. I mean, truly, it's insane 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:39.600 to say anyone is ugly, but especially me laughing faces period, 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:44.120 because Kiki is not ugly, far from it, right, and 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:46.760 she's got a beautiful spirit on top of not being 0:15:46.800 --> 0:15:51.400 an ugly person people saw me. I mean, I'd be 0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:54.960 calling bitches ugly sometime, but I don't be doing it 0:15:55.000 --> 0:16:00.480 in a common I don't say it just like my mind. 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:03.360 I would never go up underneath. I'll put like like 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:05.480 the crazy eyes or something like that. But I'm not 0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:08.200 going to just be like, oh, this person ugly, that's 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:12.000 hella mean that girl is pregnant, you know what I'm saying, 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.800 Like your face does change a little bit now. I 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:18.240 didn't notice like she had acne in the image, which 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:21.040 I don't think Kick has ever not have had acne, 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:23.040 you know what I'm saying. But other than that, she's 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:27.320 a very beautiful girl inside out. And on top of that, 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:36.760 y'all bitches getting confused with these shelters. Okay, that's not you, 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:39.360 like when we see you in person, that's not going 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:42.760 to be you. Right, So to come at somebody for 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:47.400 not wearing makeup, just being human, right, just being a 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:53.640 human person and being authentic. You ugly because you're projecting 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:57.080 because you're insecure. But I don't have nothing to do 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:01.360 with Kiki exactly. Let me tell you, ugly on the inside, 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:05.919 ugly on the outside, no matter what you look like. 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:10.960 Child people need to get a grip. Child. Humanity is 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:15.800 just fucked up right now, in shambles, you know. And 0:17:15.880 --> 0:17:17.600 I know, I guess I'm a hypocrite because I do 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:21.800 be calling bitches ugly. Sometimes talking like bitches is ugly. 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:24.520 Let's be clear, it's a lot of ugly bitches out here. 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:27.880 I'm not saying that people aren't ugly Kikei Palmer though, 0:17:27.920 --> 0:17:31.320 for people to be saying she's ugly for having bare face. Ya. 0:17:32.480 --> 0:17:35.200 But here's the thing, this just mean to call anybody ugly, 0:17:35.720 --> 0:17:39.880 whether dogs. Some people be ugly and some people act 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:44.000 to you right right cause beauty is what in the 0:17:44.040 --> 0:17:46.399 eye of the beholder, right, So you don't get to 0:17:46.400 --> 0:17:52.160 decide like it's only your opinion general consensus that somebody ugly. 0:17:53.840 --> 0:17:56.000 I'm gonna be clear, y'all can call me a mean girl. 0:17:56.040 --> 0:17:58.920 I really don't give a fuck. I feel like if 0:17:58.920 --> 0:18:02.000 you're a nice person, nice girl, and you're also a 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:06.479 pretty girl, you should hang around other nice, pretty girls. 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:11.119 I have met some really ugly, physically ugly and ugly 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:14.840 spirited girls because they just was unhappy. And I also 0:18:14.960 --> 0:18:19.240 know some bad bitch ugly bitches like they not. They 0:18:19.280 --> 0:18:22.440 may not be super aesthetically pleasing, but they are bad 0:18:22.480 --> 0:18:26.959 bitches all around everything else right, which makes them attractive. 0:18:27.800 --> 0:18:29.639 I think you just should pick the people who you 0:18:29.760 --> 0:18:32.320 are around by how they make you feel. Do you 0:18:32.320 --> 0:18:34.439 feel good? Are you happy when you're in their space? 0:18:34.720 --> 0:18:37.199 Then that's how you choose your friends. I don't think 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:40.840 you should choose it just on based on how they who. 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:43.080 The Internet was just holding heat on about that that 0:18:43.119 --> 0:18:47.680 girl from Texas to Erica Bank. Yeah, she's like only 0:18:47.720 --> 0:18:50.680 bad bitches with me. Girl, you just got your body 0:18:50.720 --> 0:18:53.280 done two seconds ago and now you fucking flexing on people. 0:18:53.320 --> 0:18:56.520 That's not what I'm talking about. I feel like super 0:18:56.520 --> 0:18:59.440 pretty girls hanging with a bunch of ugly girls. They 0:18:59.440 --> 0:19:03.120 have an instant curity. They too are insecure. That's why 0:19:03.160 --> 0:19:09.480 you're hanging with just like friends. Nah, because those friends 0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:11.920 be treating the pretty girls some type of way. I'm 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:15.040 telling you, like you have, you have to have friends 0:19:15.080 --> 0:19:17.600 that are comparable to you. I'm telling you you just 0:19:17.640 --> 0:19:23.000 have to. Am I lying? Amen? Yes, you'll be trying 0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:25.080 to be fucking nice, bitch, And when we hang this 0:19:25.119 --> 0:19:27.440 ship up, you're gonna be like because the benches you'll 0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:32.480 be calling ugly. You're calling them ugly for a reason. Look, 0:19:32.840 --> 0:19:35.399 let me tell y'all me and tell me friends for 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:37.439 a reason. I ain't the only one who be on 0:19:37.480 --> 0:19:41.679 this bit ship. Okay, listen, I admit, I admit that 0:19:41.720 --> 0:19:43.680 I said I have called people ugly, but I don't 0:19:43.680 --> 0:19:47.600 be choosing my friends like that. But do you have 0:19:47.640 --> 0:19:54.719 any like real life ugly friends ugly? I don't think no, no, no, exactly, 0:19:54.880 --> 0:19:56.600 that's what I'm saying. But I don't think that is 0:19:56.680 --> 0:19:59.440 because somebody might say some of my friends are ugly. 0:20:00.560 --> 0:20:03.639 Somebody might say that I think my friends beautiful, right, Okay, 0:20:03.680 --> 0:20:06.320 I think all my friends beautiful too, And I picked 0:20:06.359 --> 0:20:12.120 them bitches because they're beautiful. I remember that, know how 0:20:12.400 --> 0:20:16.639 me the guy look? I remember I went to Puerto 0:20:16.720 --> 0:20:19.480 Rico when my first friend I met when I lived 0:20:19.560 --> 0:20:21.600 in St. Louis, first guy, mad I met this bitch 0:20:21.600 --> 0:20:24.159 in the club, my friend Ryan, and we went to 0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:27.919 Puerto Rico, um to her friends. I didn't know them 0:20:28.000 --> 0:20:31.680 until we got on the airplane, Like I didn't know them, 0:20:31.720 --> 0:20:33.399 And when we got to Puerto Rico we all laugh 0:20:33.440 --> 0:20:36.320 at trip. But I'm like, man, I'm so glad y'all pretty, 0:20:36.720 --> 0:20:38.879 because imagine going on a trip with some bitches that 0:20:38.920 --> 0:20:42.479 you really don't know, and it's usually the not so 0:20:42.600 --> 0:20:50.680 cute one who's acting mean on the trip. Yes, because 0:20:50.720 --> 0:20:53.680 I'd have been around them not so cute ones. That's 0:20:53.720 --> 0:20:56.800 the funniest ones. They had the best time, like the 0:20:57.080 --> 0:21:02.000 energy they like like, damn, my love is ugly. Couldn't 0:21:02.040 --> 0:21:05.080 call her ugly? Then, I guess I am saying, it's like, yeah, 0:21:05.160 --> 0:21:10.120 that personality fucking matters. Yeah, yeah, you're cool. Like now 0:21:10.160 --> 0:21:13.240 you're beautiful to me because you're just so much fun 0:21:13.359 --> 0:21:15.560 and just a ball of good energy. You ain't never 0:21:15.560 --> 0:21:19.160 been around nobody that wasn't aesthetically pleasing to you at first, 0:21:19.200 --> 0:21:21.800 and then you get to know them me like you 0:21:21.960 --> 0:21:26.320 kind of look like Gabrielle Union is something I thought 0:21:26.359 --> 0:21:32.840 you didn't before, but now you look like I guess 0:21:33.200 --> 0:21:37.000 it'll make you more beautiful. I don't know what y'all 0:21:37.000 --> 0:21:42.840 think they're gonna say. I mean, and guess why I 0:21:42.880 --> 0:21:47.800 don't care. So another thing I saw Tam, there's another 0:21:47.840 --> 0:21:50.040 post going on online. I think you might have sent 0:21:50.080 --> 0:21:52.800 this ship to me. Um. The girl she was like 0:21:52.880 --> 0:21:56.399 going in um talking about how like a lot of 0:21:56.400 --> 0:22:00.560 pretty women can't keep a high value man, but a 0:22:00.560 --> 0:22:02.320 lot of things she was saying, it's true, like I know, 0:22:02.440 --> 0:22:05.200 like we have this high value man thing all of 0:22:05.240 --> 0:22:09.200 stuff going on, but the people that are in those circles, 0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:13.679 they have a certain type of lifestyle and oftentimes if 0:22:13.720 --> 0:22:16.639 you don't come from that lifestyle you may not know. 0:22:17.280 --> 0:22:19.600 In this video, she was saying, how you know, she 0:22:19.680 --> 0:22:21.760 saw a girl come to an event with a guy, 0:22:22.119 --> 0:22:24.800 you know, high high value man and everybody it was 0:22:24.840 --> 0:22:27.760 a gala and everybody had on like gowns and ship 0:22:27.840 --> 0:22:29.400 like that, and she had like a little two piece 0:22:29.480 --> 0:22:34.720 number so you already like aesthetically don't fit right, um. 0:22:34.800 --> 0:22:37.240 And then they said the girl was like noticeably uncomfortable. 0:22:37.280 --> 0:22:41.320 She couldn't speak to any of the topics that people 0:22:41.320 --> 0:22:47.280 were talking about. Right, but this girl and winding right, 0:22:48.800 --> 0:22:51.800 which is not all the high quality conversations so right 0:22:51.920 --> 0:22:54.520 that that ship is like they probably would start like 0:22:54.560 --> 0:22:57.040 that's the thing about that audio that kind of my 0:22:57.119 --> 0:23:00.560 nerves a little bit. Yea. Yeah. As if you're in 0:23:00.600 --> 0:23:04.920 a group of women who are from you know, maybe 0:23:05.280 --> 0:23:10.280 um operational on and you come here and looking a 0:23:10.320 --> 0:23:12.720 little different, they're gonna they're gonna be acting and different 0:23:12.760 --> 0:23:15.600 with you. They're gonna be asking you things they know 0:23:15.640 --> 0:23:20.760 you don't know to embarrass. You don't know what this girl, 0:23:21.280 --> 0:23:24.080 they don't know what. We've seen the movies. We know 0:23:24.119 --> 0:23:27.359 how to we know how snobby bitches do. Okay, now me, 0:23:27.440 --> 0:23:29.800 I'm a renaissance woman. I could. I'm comfortable anywhere, I 0:23:29.800 --> 0:23:33.320 can speak to anything. I can't fit in anywhere if 0:23:33.359 --> 0:23:38.520 all else fels tells a joke, Yeah, like, so I'm 0:23:38.560 --> 0:23:40.480 never going to be in no situation like that. But 0:23:40.840 --> 0:23:44.119 I can see them possibly being mean to an outsider 0:23:44.560 --> 0:23:46.800 because now maybe this woman is showing up to a 0:23:46.840 --> 0:23:50.399 guy that probably should be suited with somebody from their 0:23:50.440 --> 0:23:53.880 friend group. M So, now you this outside bitch coming in. 0:23:54.280 --> 0:23:57.879 That's really how these circles are m hm. So do 0:23:57.920 --> 0:23:59.800