1 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who 2 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: talks back? What's up, y'all? Thank if it in for 3 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: a new episode, we talk back. It's your co host, 4 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:19,159 Speaker 1: AJ Holiday. What's up, Tam. Hey, Hey, y'all, it's me 5 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: Tam Bam. Welcome to a new episode. I missed y'all. 6 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 1: I love y'all. What's going on? Are we? Do we 7 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: have any life today? Um? Mario mothers, Mario Kart. You 8 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 1: know you're like your life level go down on the 9 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: video games? Oh? Yeah, you know what? I really just 10 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 1: want to say death to all spam calls on my phone, 11 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: Like everybody, I get so many spams. I swear I 12 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 1: get thirty spam calls a day. It got to be 13 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: some type of ag against it. It ain't even your 14 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: phone no more. I even put my phone number on 15 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: that website. You know, it's a website out there you 16 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: can go to and like put your phone number in 17 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: there to make sure you don't get those type of calls. 18 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: But I feel like ever since I did that, I 19 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: get more FU calls. I'll be cussing the people out. 20 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: I'll be cussing them the funk out. Look. Sometimes I 21 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: play with them, especially, don't got them Indians really like Okay, 22 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: if they call and be like, yeah, can we get 23 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: your social No, don't say I got I keep get 24 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,559 Speaker 1: a call I says my Social Security number is suspended 25 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,639 Speaker 1: or expired. I'm like, how does that happen? But whatever, 26 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: let me get a new one anyway, because I could 27 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: use it. But I'll play along and then I'll start 28 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: like giving them different numbers and I'll play along for 29 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 1: a little bit. Then I'll just start cussing their grass 30 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: out and they'll cuss you back though, fuck ship whenever 31 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: I feel like it. But if I rushed to the 32 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: phone and it's like one of them, I'm mad, I'd 33 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: be man like, leave me alone. I'll be thinking, it's 34 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: my it's one of your motherfucker's tell about my extended warranty, Like, man, 35 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: get out of here. How is your weekend, tam? What 36 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: you had going on this weekend? Y'all? What the fund 37 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: did I do this weekend? Oh? I was in d 38 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: C Uh? Yeah, I went to d C. I Um. 39 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: I was there because one of my good girlfriends had 40 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: her retirement ceremony from the Air Force and I went 41 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: to do her hair and a couple of other people's hair. 42 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:34,519 Speaker 1: And then I slid and did um tequila Talk podcast 43 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: in d C with Walton Jazz and they were a 44 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: lot of fun. They showed me a lot of fun, 45 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,839 Speaker 1: a good time in uh d C. Took me out 46 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 1: to a club call Sacks uh that night, got me 47 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 1: a little table, got me a little bottle. You know, 48 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,679 Speaker 1: I had my name on the mark and it was 49 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: a good time. Uh So they want to come and 50 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: do our show. They definitely gotta come and do our show. 51 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: I talked about you a lot on this episode a 52 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 1: j So you're gonna have to go listen to that 53 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: episode because I spoke about what y'all have been talking about. 54 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 1: What's the show about? What are they? No, they're not 55 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: a couple of DIF friends and you have a drink 56 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: of tequila and they have like trending topic similar top 57 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: shelf bottom shelf, like should they like and ship they 58 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: don't like? And you know, they pretty much just interviewed 59 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: me talking about my podcast and you know, you know, 60 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: our show and things like that. It was a lot 61 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: of fun. I told them your story about the dog 62 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 1: eating the poop girl, not you telling people my worst 63 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: life ship. I wish y'all can see how my ex 64 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: is running around the room like act like he puking 65 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: in his hand, and he was like, I'm trying to 66 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: rush the cleaning ship up and my dog ate it. Yo. Yeah, 67 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: I had to tell that story. That ship was funny, stupid. 68 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: That ship was funny. Literally, what about your your weekend? 69 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: Oh hold, let me just tell y'all the club sacks 70 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: in d C. Baby Future DJ came in with he 71 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: got this biggest section in the club and brought twenty 72 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: strippers with him, and instantly the club went from a 73 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 1: normal regular club to a strip club. Seriously, like they 74 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 1: was naked strippers. It wasn't like they were strippers off 75 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 1: duty with clothes off. No, these strippers came in and 76 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 1: was naked. I was like, wait a minute, what happened here? 77 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: I thought I was in the regular club. I didn't 78 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: even bring anyones. Where do I get the ones at? Then? 79 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: It was like, uh, like up top there was like 80 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: a burlesque show going on up top. I mean it 81 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: was just like a lot. He just got strippers on 82 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 1: demand on the manholes door. Dad. Stripper's Baby sounds like 83 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: a business idea to me, right, Like I swear during 84 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: the pandemic. I put a pole on my Instagram story 85 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: asking people if they would pay for virtual shrimp Club 86 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 1: during the pandemic, and people was like, nah, they're all 87 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: of a sudden at Busy and Tory Lanes was on 88 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: some virtual stripper type ship, like why not, but nobody 89 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 1: was paying for it. He was paying them. Put your 90 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: pussy limps on live. I'll give you all now. The 91 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: way Instagram and ship set up now, I feel like 92 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 1: you could put tips and all that ship. Now you're 93 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: definitely gonna be little only fans. Let let another pandemic 94 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: come around. It's gonna be a uh a J's virtual. 95 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: I don't know whore house for real, but no. So 96 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: this weekend I just I hung out a little bit. Um. 97 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: I went to y'all know, I like outdoorship. I like animals, 98 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: I like birds, like oh little creatures. I went to 99 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: this place called um B City. It's in South Carolina. 100 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: One of my friends surprised me, or even one of 101 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: my friends. My friend surprised me and took me there 102 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: like he took this bitch out for a walk. So 103 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: that's what we did this weekend. And then Sunday night 104 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: kind of animals they got tigers, lions, and bears on 105 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: my No, they got some tigers. No, hell no, they 106 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: got tigers, all these different types of monkeys. Um, hundreds 107 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 1: of thousands of bees, a bunch of birds. I got 108 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: pictures to the birds. Was like, damn near attacking me, bitch. 109 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: They was on my weaves, on my head, on my hands, 110 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: like he just was on my body. What if a 111 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 1: bird would have tried to take your week? Luckily it 112 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: was blew down that day. Luckily, but you just see 113 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: me on video set we're fighting birds, bitch, because while 114 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: you're playing too much. That's nice day. It was nice. 115 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 1: I was I like little, I like ship like that, 116 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 1: like the ride bike like NIKEL take me the right bike. 117 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: That's the type of should I'd be liking to do. 118 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: And um, Sunday night, I just hung out a little bit. 119 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: So somehow I got friends in Charleston now, so I 120 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: got I'm happy. People be calling me to go outside 121 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 1: and they think I'm new, so it's even better. Yeah. Yeah, 122 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: So that was my weekend. You know, Um, I think 123 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: next week I'm gonna go to Atlanta for the whole week, 124 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: hang out down there with my bestie. Okay, good because 125 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to set up some ship for us 126 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 1: down there, a couple of a couple of little rendezvous 127 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: down there. Pull up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got a 128 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: podcast in Atlanta. We're pulling up. Yeah, We're trying to 129 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: pull up on y'all for real. So that that stupid bitches. 130 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:53,119 Speaker 1: Internet news all kind of shipping going on, not nothing 131 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: like super crazy. Um, did you see what's going on 132 00:07:56,280 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: with Dion Sanders. Oh? Yes, prime prime, The prime situation 133 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: is what we're gonna call it. A situation is just 134 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: proof that two things can be true at once on 135 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: the area because nigga, get your bag and then also 136 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: at the same time, damn, you're just gonna leave us 137 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: like that, all right, y'all. So, um, Dion Sanders just 138 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: took a job, and what I'm hearing is he's being 139 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: paid five million dollars um. He took a lead coach 140 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: position at the University of Colorado Boulder, UM, and he'll 141 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 1: be the head coach over there. So a lot of 142 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: people took the online, you know, took to the internet 143 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 1: to say how disappointed they were and Dion Sanders for 144 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: choosing his career over you know, HBC used because he's 145 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: been a coach at Jackson State. I believe what since 146 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: the beginning of the pandemic, like in the nineteen early 147 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 1: and that's his first coaching job, right, So an HBCU. 148 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 1: He's also an hbc you graduate also, right, So a 149 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: lot of good people come out of HBCUs, A lot 150 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: of black uh business professionals come out of HBCU. So 151 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: our schools aren't the worst, but we are underfunded a 152 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: lot of times. Right, Um, sports is what brings any 153 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: school the most money. You know, if you're not like 154 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,839 Speaker 1: a damn Ivy League college, you know how they get 155 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: their their checks, but you know, you gotta invest in sports. 156 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 1: So now I saw a lot of things in the 157 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 1: past with him, like complaining about, you know, not getting 158 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: the support he needed to even like help the school, 159 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: like help him help them essentially. Right, So now what 160 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: was this initial m I doubt that his UM income 161 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 1: at Jackson is anywhere near five so three thousand dollars, 162 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 1: But they gave him a shot. Do you think that 163 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: Dion Sanders would have been able to go straight to 164 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 1: a bigger right, No, he wouldn't have been able to 165 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: go to just straight to Colorado. He had to have 166 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 1: a winning track record first as a coach. You know, 167 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 1: they want to took it your ass. But I don't 168 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 1: blame if he ever applied, though, I wonder if he 169 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 1: ever even tried. He is Dion Sanders. Let's be clear, 170 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: he's uh phenomenal baseball and yes, so he may have been. 171 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: His start may have been very genuine, you know, trying 172 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:34,199 Speaker 1: to help HBCUs and even while in Colorado that work 173 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: can continue, Yeah, because maybe he could like set up 174 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 1: games with HBCUs for Colorado and get them schools to 175 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 1: make money. They are gonna beat them big schools. It's 176 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: gonna be on the pop, okay. But he ain't trying 177 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: to bring him out there to beat their ass though, 178 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: trying to win. But I mean, and you know, I 179 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: saw an interview with him in when he first started, 180 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: and he said that these big school was offer your job. 181 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: He said that would be something he would have to entertain. 182 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: So it was never He never said that I'm gonna 183 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: be at Jackson State for the rest of my football 184 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:12,559 Speaker 1: coaching career. You know, he never said that. But if 185 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: I was a student and I turned down an opportunity 186 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: at a p w Y just based off of him, 187 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:24,079 Speaker 1: being my coach. I feel away. I might feel away 188 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: like Nigga I could have. I was supposed to go 189 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: to Colorado, right right, Yeah, So I know two things 190 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: could be right at the same time. Yeah, So I 191 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: don't I don't blame him because I'm pretty sure his 192 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 1: goal is to get back to the NFL to be 193 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 1: a coach. So this is the road to that, right, 194 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:47,719 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I think that he 195 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 1: has started something and maybe some other um retired football 196 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: players they could pick up the torch right and keep 197 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: it going. That would be dope if they just you know, 198 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: but you know, everybody, just because you can play, don't 199 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: mean you can coach absolutely exactly, because I know some 200 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 1: of y'all athletes can't even hold make a good sentence, 201 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: you know, formulate a good sentence. So how you go 202 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: and coach exactly? So I want to read this right 203 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: quick from Gary Chambers, just a little piece of it. 204 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: So he said two things can be true. One can 205 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: be happy to see Dion Sanders advance his career. I 206 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: believe he's special and has the capacity to do something 207 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 1: special anywhere he goes. It just felt good to see 208 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: him bringing all that black power to black to a 209 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: black institution. Um. Him leaving does impact right. Um, we 210 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: have to be able to have more than one perspective 211 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: at the table to have an honest conversation. First, Dion 212 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,439 Speaker 1: Sanders can do whatever he feels is best for him 213 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: and his family. Second, people can feel different things about 214 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: how it impacts others because it does. And HBCU is 215 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: where Coach Prime got his degree and his head coach job. Um, 216 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 1: the Winningnessam, excuse me, the winning winning is coach in 217 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 1: football history is from an HBCU. HBCUs had and still 218 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 1: have value. Um. The question for now isn't about Coach Prime. 219 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: His decision is made. Is how do we carry what 220 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 1: he started forward? And that's just what it is. Yeah, 221 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: because that's what you're gonna have to do. I mean, 222 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 1: ain't know you can do about it? Yeah, yeah, Like 223 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 1: what are we going to do now? For the HBCUs. 224 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 1: He's just one man. He's just one man. I just 225 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,839 Speaker 1: feel like there's like the savior complex people be having, 226 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 1: Like y'all be looking for this this one person to 227 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 1: put all your faith in that's gonna change everything. Na, 228 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: it starts with that nigga in the mirror. So everybody 229 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: has to. But I can't coach. You can't coach. But 230 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:47,320 Speaker 1: there's a lot of black men, I know, a lot 231 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: of good and I mean, it can start with your 232 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: little league teams in your city. It can start there, 233 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like to make sure those 234 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 1: boys go to college. Like it just has to be 235 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: like a network, which I think it already is. But 236 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, we can't just be already with one man. 237 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: We can't. We can't and the yeah, they mad and 238 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: mean while I ain't doing ship, you know what I'm saying, 239 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: but talking on the internet. Right it's the ones who 240 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: don't even pay their student loans. Girls them student loan. 241 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 1: You pay them student loans. I'm deferred right now, all 242 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: of us deferred, bitch, all of us spend the fur 243 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: for the last two to three years, relaxed, and when 244 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: I tell you, I'm paying them the bear minimum for 245 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: the rest of my life. Oh I did get approved 246 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: of that twenty though. Did you apply? No? Not yet. 247 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 1: Every time I try to log on and say I 248 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: can't apply right now because trying to block it day one, bitch, 249 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 1: I was in there. You know, we're all white collar ship. 250 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: I saw an article, well not an article. I saw 251 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 1: the Jasmine and that Kiki Palmer posted a picture of 252 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: herself in her uh the father of her child, in 253 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 1: a very loving embrace, looking very happy, and people were 254 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: making comments to her that weren't very kind, and it 255 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 1: said I just saw a few comments of people saying 256 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 1: I was ugly because I wasn't wearing any makeup. And 257 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: I really want y'all to get to help y'all need, 258 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: because makeup isn't real. I'm beautiful in real life because 259 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 1: of who I am, not what I look like. I 260 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 1: wish I could bottle how I feel about myself and 261 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: sell it because some people take comments to heart, and 262 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: these people just say anything. I mean, truly, it's insane 263 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: to say anyone is ugly, but especially me laughing faces period, 264 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 1: because Kiki is not ugly, far from it, right, and 265 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 1: she's got a beautiful spirit on top of not being 266 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: an ugly person people saw me. I mean, I'd be 267 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: calling bitches ugly sometime, but I don't be doing it 268 00:15:55,000 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: in a common I don't say it just like my mind. 269 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: I would never go up underneath. I'll put like like 270 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: the crazy eyes or something like that. But I'm not 271 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: going to just be like, oh, this person ugly, that's 272 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: hella mean that girl is pregnant, you know what I'm saying, 273 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: Like your face does change a little bit now. I 274 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 1: didn't notice like she had acne in the image, which 275 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: I don't think Kick has ever not have had acne, 276 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But other than that, she's 277 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: a very beautiful girl inside out. And on top of that, 278 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 1: y'all bitches getting confused with these shelters. Okay, that's not you, 279 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 1: like when we see you in person, that's not going 280 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: to be you. Right, So to come at somebody for 281 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 1: not wearing makeup, just being human, right, just being a 282 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: human person and being authentic. You ugly because you're projecting 283 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 1: because you're insecure. But I don't have nothing to do 284 00:16:57,160 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 1: with Kiki exactly. Let me tell you, ugly on the inside, 285 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:05,919 Speaker 1: ugly on the outside, no matter what you look like. 286 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 1: Child people need to get a grip. Child. Humanity is 287 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: just fucked up right now, in shambles, you know. And 288 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 1: I know, I guess I'm a hypocrite because I do 289 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 1: be calling bitches ugly. Sometimes talking like bitches is ugly. 290 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 1: Let's be clear, it's a lot of ugly bitches out here. 291 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,880 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that people aren't ugly Kikei Palmer though, 292 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 1: for people to be saying she's ugly for having bare face. Ya. 293 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 1: But here's the thing, this just mean to call anybody ugly, 294 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 1: whether dogs. Some people be ugly and some people act 295 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 1: to you right right cause beauty is what in the 296 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 1: eye of the beholder, right, So you don't get to 297 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 1: decide like it's only your opinion general consensus that somebody ugly. 298 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be clear, y'all can call me a mean girl. 299 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 1: I really don't give a fuck. I feel like if 300 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: you're a nice person, nice girl, and you're also a 301 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:06,479 Speaker 1: pretty girl, you should hang around other nice, pretty girls. 302 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 1: I have met some really ugly, physically ugly and ugly 303 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: spirited girls because they just was unhappy. And I also 304 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: know some bad bitch ugly bitches like they not. They 305 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 1: may not be super aesthetically pleasing, but they are bad 306 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:26,959 Speaker 1: bitches all around everything else right, which makes them attractive. 307 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 1: I think you just should pick the people who you 308 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: are around by how they make you feel. Do you 309 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:34,439 Speaker 1: feel good? Are you happy when you're in their space? 310 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:37,199 Speaker 1: Then that's how you choose your friends. I don't think 311 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: you should choose it just on based on how they who. 312 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: The Internet was just holding heat on about that that 313 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: girl from Texas to Erica Bank. Yeah, she's like only 314 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 1: bad bitches with me. Girl, you just got your body 315 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 1: done two seconds ago and now you fucking flexing on people. 316 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: That's not what I'm talking about. I feel like super 317 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:59,440 Speaker 1: pretty girls hanging with a bunch of ugly girls. They 318 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 1: have an instant curity. They too are insecure. That's why 319 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 1: you're hanging with just like friends. Nah, because those friends 320 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 1: be treating the pretty girls some type of way. I'm 321 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 1: telling you, like you have, you have to have friends 322 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 1: that are comparable to you. I'm telling you you just 323 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: have to. Am I lying? Amen? Yes, you'll be trying 324 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: to be fucking nice, bitch, And when we hang this 325 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:27,440 Speaker 1: ship up, you're gonna be like because the benches you'll 326 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: be calling ugly. You're calling them ugly for a reason. Look, 327 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:35,399 Speaker 1: let me tell y'all me and tell me friends for 328 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,439 Speaker 1: a reason. I ain't the only one who be on 329 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 1: this bit ship. Okay, listen, I admit, I admit that 330 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 1: I said I have called people ugly, but I don't 331 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 1: be choosing my friends like that. But do you have 332 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:54,719 Speaker 1: any like real life ugly friends ugly? I don't think no, no, no, exactly, 333 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. But I don't think that is 334 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 1: because somebody might say some of my friends are ugly. 335 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 1: Somebody might say that I think my friends beautiful, right, Okay, 336 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 1: I think all my friends beautiful too, And I picked 337 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 1: them bitches because they're beautiful. I remember that, know how 338 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:16,639 Speaker 1: me the guy look? I remember I went to Puerto 339 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: Rico when my first friend I met when I lived 340 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 1: in St. Louis, first guy, mad I met this bitch 341 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 1: in the club, my friend Ryan, and we went to 342 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:27,919 Speaker 1: Puerto Rico, um to her friends. I didn't know them 343 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 1: until we got on the airplane, Like I didn't know them, 344 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 1: And when we got to Puerto Rico we all laugh 345 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 1: at trip. But I'm like, man, I'm so glad y'all pretty, 346 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 1: because imagine going on a trip with some bitches that 347 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:42,479 Speaker 1: you really don't know, and it's usually the not so 348 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 1: cute one who's acting mean on the trip. Yes, because 349 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 1: I'd have been around them not so cute ones. That's 350 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 1: the funniest ones. They had the best time, like the 351 00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 1: energy they like like, damn, my love is ugly. Couldn't 352 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 1: call her ugly? Then, I guess I am saying, it's like, yeah, 353 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:10,120 Speaker 1: that personality fucking matters. Yeah, yeah, you're cool. Like now 354 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 1: you're beautiful to me because you're just so much fun 355 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: and just a ball of good energy. You ain't never 356 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:19,160 Speaker 1: been around nobody that wasn't aesthetically pleasing to you at first, 357 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: and then you get to know them me like you 358 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 1: kind of look like Gabrielle Union is something I thought 359 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: you didn't before, but now you look like I guess 360 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 1: it'll make you more beautiful. I don't know what y'all 361 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: think they're gonna say. I mean, and guess why I 362 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 1: don't care. So another thing I saw Tam, there's another 363 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 1: post going on online. I think you might have sent 364 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 1: this ship to me. Um. The girl she was like 365 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 1: going in um talking about how like a lot of 366 00:21:56,400 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 1: pretty women can't keep a high value man, but a 367 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: lot of things she was saying, it's true, like I know, 368 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: like we have this high value man thing all of 369 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:09,200 Speaker 1: stuff going on, but the people that are in those circles, 370 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:13,679 Speaker 1: they have a certain type of lifestyle and oftentimes if 371 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,639 Speaker 1: you don't come from that lifestyle you may not know. 372 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 1: In this video, she was saying, how you know, she 373 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: saw a girl come to an event with a guy, 374 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 1: you know, high high value man and everybody it was 375 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: a gala and everybody had on like gowns and ship 376 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:29,400 Speaker 1: like that, and she had like a little two piece 377 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 1: number so you already like aesthetically don't fit right, um. 378 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 1: And then they said the girl was like noticeably uncomfortable. 379 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 1: She couldn't speak to any of the topics that people 380 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 1: were talking about. Right, but this girl and winding right, 381 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,800 Speaker 1: which is not all the high quality conversations so right 382 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 1: that that ship is like they probably would start like 383 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 1: that's the thing about that audio that kind of my 384 00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: nerves a little bit. Yea. Yeah. As if you're in 385 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 1: a group of women who are from you know, maybe 386 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: um operational on and you come here and looking a 387 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: little different, they're gonna they're gonna be acting and different 388 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: with you. They're gonna be asking you things they know 389 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: you don't know to embarrass. You don't know what this girl, 390 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: they don't know what. We've seen the movies. We know 391 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: how to we know how snobby bitches do. Okay, now me, 392 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 1: I'm a renaissance woman. I could. I'm comfortable anywhere, I 393 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 1: can speak to anything. I can't fit in anywhere if 394 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 1: all else fels tells a joke, Yeah, like, so I'm 395 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 1: never going to be in no situation like that. But 396 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 1: I can see them possibly being mean to an outsider 397 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 1: because now maybe this woman is showing up to a 398 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,399 Speaker 1: guy that probably should be suited with somebody from their 399 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,880 Speaker 1: friend group. M So, now you this outside bitch coming in. 400 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 1: That's really how these circles are m hm. So do 401 00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 1: you feel like you agree with her that you need 402 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: to like advance your palette. Yes, absolutely, if that's the lifestyleue. 403 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 1: If you want to high value life, you want to 404 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,919 Speaker 1: high value man like. These are different types of people. 405 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 1: They probably went to IVY like the real high value ship, right, 406 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 1: They probably went the IVY league colleges. You know, they're 407 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 1: probably CEO of big corporation ship like that. You need 408 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 1: to be able to talk about politics, You need to 409 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: be able to talk about, you know, the good vacation 410 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 1: places like. You need to be able to talk about 411 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 1: different types of yachts. Who knows. But she was like, 412 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,440 Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on what's going on in Ukraine? 413 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 1: She was like, and she didn't. I don't even know 414 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 1: she knew if that was where that was. Yeah, like 415 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 1: you need to be able to fucking read a map. 416 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: I don't think a lot of people know where Ukraine, 417 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 1: Russia and Germany are on a map. I really don't, 418 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 1: because people lately, a lot lately have been confused in 419 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: Russia with Germany. Yeah, I used to live in Ukraine. 420 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: I know, I told you all that before, but I 421 00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:00,639 Speaker 1: did live there. Acts me that being I'll tell you 422 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:04,639 Speaker 1: all about it actually while I was living there for 423 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,520 Speaker 1: a year. But see, those are the life experiences you 424 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: you would have had to have to have these conversations 425 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 1: these people. So she's not wrong. So this is another 426 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 1: case of two things can beat you at the same time. Right, 427 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:21,480 Speaker 1: she's not wrong. But then it's like snowshy, real snowshy, 428 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 1: posha posha snobby together exactly. And meanwhile, I'm gonna be 429 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 1: me no matter where I go at. So guess what 430 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 1: y'all bitch is gonna acts to me? Yeah, that excuse me? 431 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 1: How it is like you won't have to come down 432 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 1: here if you feel like you're up here and I'm 433 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 1: down here. I bet you by the end of the 434 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: evening you could be drinking. Do say, bitch, Ashley, you'rself 435 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:56,920 Speaker 1: funny and I'm a slide with y'all. Hide by you man? 436 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:04,239 Speaker 1: Good this um? So look, good morning America child. Here 437 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 1: go another black man or whatever ambiguously black man cheat. No, 438 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 1: his goddamn black wife. His wife nacky with a good hair. Yes, okay. 439 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 1: So Amy Robot and t. J. Holmes from ABC's Good 440 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 1: Morning America, they've been sleeping together. So the wife said that, 441 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 1: you know, they did have some issues they've been working on, 442 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 1: you know, but they're they're still married m hm. And 443 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: apparently Amy got divorced in September. You know what this 444 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 1: is a conversation about workplace romance is you know, that's 445 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 1: a big thing. Like you're around these people nine eight 446 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 1: to nine hours a day, five at least five days 447 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:57,159 Speaker 1: a week. Is it hard not to fund someone on 448 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 1: the job? Right? I work. I work in environments that 449 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 1: are with females and gay men, so there's nobody for 450 00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 1: me to fun. But I wonder if I worked in 451 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:13,960 Speaker 1: an environment that included heterosexual men, would I be smashing? Right? 452 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: Where I come from, Corporate America and you will definitely 453 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:22,639 Speaker 1: be smashing. Okay, let's be clear, somebody, I had a 454 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:27,159 Speaker 1: relationship with one of my supervisors ones uh, like a 455 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 1: year or so, like we're still good friends, but other 456 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: than that, Yeah, but like just that was like the 457 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,120 Speaker 1: only relationship I had on the job. All the other 458 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 1: times I'm working from home after that. So, but in 459 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 1: an office setting, you're definitely going like you you guys 460 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 1: spend a lot of time together, y'all joke, y'all, laugh, y'all, 461 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: eat lunch together, like you're you're spending more time with 462 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,000 Speaker 1: this person than your spouse or than your girlfriend a 463 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: boyfriend at home. So things happen, and it's not illegal. 464 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 1: It's highly unethical, but they know they're not really violating 465 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:13,440 Speaker 1: any um like um work hr ship. Well, they need 466 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 1: to put that in the Code of Conduct manual, do 467 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:24,200 Speaker 1: not fuck nobody up here, Go to your man. You're 468 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,879 Speaker 1: on page thirty seven. It says right there on the top, 469 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: don't fuck nobody up here those words in particular. It's hard, though, 470 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 1: it's hard when you at least at least flirting, you're 471 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: gonna at least be flirting and talking shit at least 472 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 1: that you're gonna at least be frattenizing. So and then 473 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: these people are having these conversations, in depth conversations about 474 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 1: different things. So a lot of times, um, they may 475 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: put people together that have the same point of view 476 00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: on something, so now you'll have the same mind kinda. 477 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 1: So he may have more in common and with her 478 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 1: than his damn wife at this point, right who he's 479 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: not seeing that often. I don't like that me either, 480 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 1: But it happens. It happened, It happens. So they've been 481 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 1: both suspended. Um, they haven't decided. ABC hasn't decided if 482 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: they're gonna, um, you know, terminate the two of them. 483 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 1: But I don't think happen. Every time Mary Alice from 484 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 1: Wyoming turns on Good Morning America, all she sees is 485 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: his dick in her mouth. And I can't watch this anymore. 486 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 1: So listen. This says the haunch is over. At ABC 487 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 1: News have made the decision to take Amy Robock and 488 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 1: t J. Holmes off the air, calling a couple's relationship 489 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 1: a distraction, with next steps to be sorted out by 490 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 1: executive sources at ABC tell TMZ. ABC News President Kim 491 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: Goodwin made the announcement during an editorial call Monday morning, 492 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 1: calling it sit you wation and internal and external distraction. 493 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: Um gonna get fired? Yeah, I think so too, And 494 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: it says Kim also said the decision wasn't easy and 495 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 1: not a violation of company policy, like I said, Um, 496 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 1: she added, and so I want to say that while 497 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 1: that relationship is not a not in violation of the 498 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 1: company policy, I have really taken the last few days 499 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 1: to think about the work through what I think is 500 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 1: best for the ABC News organization. So it does sound 501 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 1: like they but let they ask go yeah, because now 502 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 1: they can't even laugh at jokes together on the air. 503 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, y'all think some ship funny, and they 504 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: said keeping I don't even think it was like some 505 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 1: So maybe he getting the doors too right because she, 506 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 1: like I said, she got divorced in September. But y'all listen, 507 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,960 Speaker 1: when we come back from um this break, we're gonna 508 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 1: get into today discussion this and this last like stupid 509 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 1: in that news story kind of you know, it's sets 510 00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: the yeah exactly. So, Um, we're talking about side bitches, 511 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 1: We're talking about mistresses, sneaky links and sneaky links. What's 512 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 1: the difference. I think it's the money, exactly. Bitch, all right, y'all, 513 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 1: so listen, we're back. So a couple of weeks ago, 514 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 1: I know y'll probably saw this Kaisha please. She was online. 515 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 1: She was talking to a group of friends in the 516 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 1: house and they were talking about the difference between sneaky 517 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 1: links inside bitch as it was m hmmm, and I'm like, 518 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: you know what, that's a real good topic. We need 519 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: to talk about that, because then we've got a lot 520 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 1: of sexually liberated women out here with your bitches got 521 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 1: going on though, right fun with somebody husband. So I 522 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 1: think the sneaky link is just two people who come 523 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 1: together to have sex every now and then, but they 524 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 1: probably don't really talk on the phone, they don't really 525 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 1: have like a emotional connection of any sort. Is just 526 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 1: like straight physical yeah, hook up. And then a savage 527 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 1: is like a girlfriend alternate girlfriend to your wife or 528 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 1: your girlfriend. If you have one your main person that 529 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 1: you're with every day. This person gets trips, this person 530 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 1: might get money, this person gets good morning text messages 531 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 1: and conversations, but they don't get Valentine's they don't get Christmas, 532 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 1: they don't get that. They might even get a baby, 533 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 1: but they don't get No. Seriously, they might even get 534 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 1: a baby out your asks, but they don't get none 535 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:37,760 Speaker 1: of the accolades of being the main girlfriend. And sometimes 536 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 1: the main girlfriend might know eventually, especially if you have 537 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 1: a baby. About the side the mistress, it's just like 538 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 1: a side but with more money. I feel like it's 539 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: like a tax barket thing. Them high value men have mistresses. 540 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: She's taken care of somewhere. She probably got her own 541 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 1: little how high rise apartment, apartment house whatever. I think 542 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 1: oftentimes the wife knows about her, right, you know, I think, 543 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 1: but we so well taken care of that, she don't 544 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: she Stevie wanted to the bullshit like, I'll deal with 545 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 1: the mistress. I ain't dealing with no petty cibit ship, okay, 546 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,560 Speaker 1: because I feel like to do to do like the 547 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:26,360 Speaker 1: cyber ship and the mistress ship. You have to have money, right, 548 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 1: What type of woman is allowing you to do this? Right? 549 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 1: If you're not compensating her? Yeah, like you really want this? 550 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 1: You really want this? Other woman's man that bad? I 551 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: don't he please compensate me, sir? Like you have to 552 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:46,640 Speaker 1: pay for the amininity. That's really what it is. So 553 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 1: usually the missions, I don't think it. I don't think 554 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: it's like completely transactional like that, like where you just pay, 555 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 1: like here's the money and be quiet. No, absolutely they're not, 556 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 1: but they are. They are probably paid and taken care 557 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 1: of well enough to where they gotta way those risks 558 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 1: like I'm not about to funk this up. I'm chilling 559 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 1: over here, like he got his wife. They do their thing. 560 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:15,319 Speaker 1: We take vacation once ice a year together too, Like 561 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 1: maybe I don't want a man add percent at a time. 562 00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:23,839 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm okay with thisft you know, but how would 563 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,919 Speaker 1: you get in a space where you're okay with that? 564 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 1: Like you're never you're just by yourself for Christmas every year. Um. 565 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 1: I think a lot of women are habitual side bitches, 566 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 1: like their mama probably was a side bitch, like this 567 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 1: is this is just coming through the bloodline. Habitual habitual 568 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,759 Speaker 1: side b Yeah, this is just what they do. Like 569 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 1: they may not be the type of woman who wants 570 00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: a man, like a full time man. Um maybe they 571 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 1: have other men that they entertain for those during those times. 572 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that makes sense. I don't know, you have 573 00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,840 Speaker 1: a you have a maid. But then no, because that 574 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 1: don't because the man ain't gonna be okay with that. 575 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 1: The man who's taking care of care of you, he's 576 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,960 Speaker 1: not gonna be okay with you having other men. No, 577 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: but listen, there are women with side niggas, absolutely, But 578 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 1: I feel like when a woman has a side nigga, 579 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 1: it's more of a sneaky link side nigga ship. That 580 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:25,959 Speaker 1: man ain't taking care of that woman financially, that's still 581 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: your husband's job to take care of. You're just getting 582 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:32,279 Speaker 1: sucked by somebody else. That's what's happening. So who do 583 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,960 Speaker 1: you think better? I would think a guy would be 584 00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 1: better because they don't get as emotionally attached like women do. 585 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:42,440 Speaker 1: Women have a strength connected what I ain't gonna say women, 586 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 1: I have a stream connected from my heart to my vagina. 587 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:49,880 Speaker 1: So unless you call hopper, unless you like sell pussy, 588 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,280 Speaker 1: like really like that's what you do for a living, 589 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,399 Speaker 1: that heart gonna run straight to your COUCHI for sure, 590 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 1: or other way around the couch. Women don't They like 591 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 1: a whole grown men out here that don't care and 592 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 1: just be fucking for fun and don't care and send 593 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 1: it at home right after and just don't care. And 594 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 1: the man probably like you know, she got a lot 595 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 1: of trauma why a woman got to have trauma when 596 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:17,879 Speaker 1: we just want to funk on you and have your 597 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:24,319 Speaker 1: ass leave because you do you do have trauma if 598 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 1: you like that. But man, right, yeah, So I think 599 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:34,240 Speaker 1: that men may be better at being on the side 600 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 1: because women have more integrity and we may be more 601 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:44,239 Speaker 1: honest with the man on the side. Women. If you 602 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,400 Speaker 1: if I'm in a relationship with somebody and I'm cheating 603 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,879 Speaker 1: on them, the man I'm cheating with no exactly what 604 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 1: this is. I'm not like making him think he could 605 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,839 Speaker 1: be my girlfriend. Like there's no gray area. Yes, men 606 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,399 Speaker 1: be pillow talking with the side bitch. So now when 607 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,800 Speaker 1: you don't drop dick off or money off or whatever 608 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 1: it is, now you're hitting me up on my job. 609 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:08,479 Speaker 1: Is disturbing my day because my man ain't dropped dicking 610 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 1: money off. Like now you're trying to make me mad 611 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:17,120 Speaker 1: because you're mad. So women have more integrity when looking. 612 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:22,080 Speaker 1: Women have more integrity when it comes to cheating. You're 613 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 1: all so full of shi it. Okay, that's so full 614 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:29,400 Speaker 1: of ship because this makes sense. Hold on, I just 615 00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 1: want you all to hear that she acknowledge. Yo, this 616 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:38,840 Speaker 1: makes me my sense to me, women have more integrity 617 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 1: than men when it comes to cheating, because we're honest 618 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,920 Speaker 1: with the person that we're cheating with. Oftentimes that person 619 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,560 Speaker 1: probably got a whole situation themselves. We ain't trying to 620 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 1: tie up a single person. We fucking want somebody who 621 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 1: got some ship to lose. That's not always true. But 622 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:58,320 Speaker 1: just be savages too and be out here. Tells that 623 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,919 Speaker 1: they love them and they're gonna leave. The husbands ain't 624 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:04,400 Speaker 1: not happy knowing that they ain't going nowhere. We did 625 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:09,200 Speaker 1: have some cheating bitches on here, remember, or one of 626 00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,160 Speaker 1: them was cheating. Yeah, but I'm pretty sure the man 627 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,200 Speaker 1: she was cheating with wasn't about to call her husband, 628 00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 1: call her husband, job pop pop up at the house. 629 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,879 Speaker 1: You know why. It's because of the type of relationship 630 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 1: she has with them, the honesty she has with them. 631 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,920 Speaker 1: The one the woman that pops up at this man's 632 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,480 Speaker 1: house knowing he has a wife, is because you've sold 633 00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 1: her a bag of it goods. You told a lot 634 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:38,319 Speaker 1: of times though they just be jealous and like, okay, 635 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:45,399 Speaker 1: if I'm about to make all y'all, have they fucking raw? 636 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 1: That's what I do know. That's whenever a woman started 637 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:53,759 Speaker 1: acting real stupid. It's because you're man. Yeah, yes, that's 638 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:57,000 Speaker 1: what's happening. Because women ain't really really studying condom dick 639 00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:00,919 Speaker 1: like that. We ain't really that concerned. I'm not. I'm 640 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,279 Speaker 1: not deccessured about it. They gotta with a condom because 641 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:08,360 Speaker 1: I don't even like him for real, use condoms always, 642 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,200 Speaker 1: And I have loved someone and used condoms with them 643 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 1: consistently because they did was outside and I just couldn't. 644 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 1: I wasn't. I can't trust where they did. You know 645 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:22,399 Speaker 1: it was going when it left me, So I'd rather 646 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,879 Speaker 1: just not. I still loved him very much, I did, 647 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,000 Speaker 1: but I just I just don't trust nobody without a 648 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,560 Speaker 1: condom at this point in my life. But you're putting 649 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:36,239 Speaker 1: it all down your throat though, like, like, what do 650 00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,239 Speaker 1: you think on having down that throat? That can't happen 651 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:41,920 Speaker 1: to that couci. I put a condom on with you, 652 00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,719 Speaker 1: don't s shut up? Who you lially trying? Who are 653 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:49,879 Speaker 1: you talking to? Who are you talking to? I put 654 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:53,000 Speaker 1: the condom on with my mouth. Look, I wish we 655 00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:54,960 Speaker 1: was like on YouTube or something. Put it one in 656 00:39:54,960 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 1: the chat. If y'all second, dick with a condom? Oh 657 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:06,680 Speaker 1: on the movies, like, who does that in real life? Me? 658 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:13,440 Speaker 1: Are you serious? Are you just playing? I'm Li's stupid 659 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,880 Speaker 1: for no reason like this me, why are you lying 660 00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:23,279 Speaker 1: to me? You in thousands of other bitches? Okay, yeah, 661 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,920 Speaker 1: and guess what, none of them other thousands bitches they 662 00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:28,480 Speaker 1: might be snashing with a condom, they're definitely not. Like 663 00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:34,279 Speaker 1: sucking dick with a condom. That is outlandish, y'all wasting condoms. Dog, 664 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:41,719 Speaker 1: I tried it that nasty ass latex tasty amount and 665 00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:46,720 Speaker 1: it's like powdery, Like, why are you doing that? Gross? Yeah, 666 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 1: So that's anyway. I do haven sex with a condom. 667 00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:59,839 Speaker 1: You know, I probably will press practice abstinence more than 668 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:03,840 Speaker 1: just I don't. I don't enjoy sex that way. I don't. 669 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:09,359 Speaker 1: So let's go to the doctor. But you ain't going 670 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,560 Speaker 1: to a doctor, We're not. But I go for me though, 671 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,239 Speaker 1: So I always got people work on my pussy, like, 672 00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,160 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna ask you about yours. When's the last 673 00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:20,839 Speaker 1: time you had a check up? Yeah, we all got 674 00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,799 Speaker 1: to go together. But as a grown man and a 675 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,360 Speaker 1: grown woman, you need to be going at least every 676 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:29,480 Speaker 1: three to six months if you are sexually active. No, 677 00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 1: So yeah, I got paperwork on this pussy. You got 678 00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,920 Speaker 1: the pussy facts exactly, wh show me the dick facts, 679 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:45,520 Speaker 1: Show me the dick facts. So yeah, I think that 680 00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:51,400 Speaker 1: mistresses are for Richmond side. Bitches are from middle class. Okay, 681 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,839 Speaker 1: you may not get you know, your full rent paid. 682 00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:56,719 Speaker 1: He may contribute to it a little bit. Groceries, light 683 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,880 Speaker 1: bill ship like that. Whenever you need something you know 684 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,319 Speaker 1: you can needn't ask hire, Yes, he coming through. He's 685 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:09,080 Speaker 1: gonna come through for you. Um, I think sneaky link 686 00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:12,319 Speaker 1: could be. I don't even think, yeah, sneaking like it's 687 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:17,480 Speaker 1: just like everybody, because I think about um working in 688 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:21,319 Speaker 1: like a corporate setting and you seeing people who these are, Like, 689 00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:26,879 Speaker 1: I guess I don't know your high value people. These people, Um, 690 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,680 Speaker 1: I know for sure business professionals, these holes, they like 691 00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:34,719 Speaker 1: their low annual trips to the grille, to Jamaica, the 692 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:39,120 Speaker 1: fun on other business professionals they got. They had all 693 00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 1: these low travel groups. Single is fucking all these low 694 00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:47,680 Speaker 1: travel groups all over They're going to Egypt next year 695 00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,359 Speaker 1: to buy or whatever. Like they are planning to get 696 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,640 Speaker 1: smashed on these trips and those that's a sneaky link situation. 697 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:57,120 Speaker 1: So it really doesn't ball down to like money in 698 00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:02,080 Speaker 1: that case, it's just like too consenting adults with the ships. 699 00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:07,640 Speaker 1: Yeah right, you and now you're getting fired for good 700 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:12,600 Speaker 1: one in America because you didn't fuck up or like 701 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,560 Speaker 1: Knia Long baby daddy, like she should have been married 702 00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,120 Speaker 1: at man, that's her fault at least, like if she 703 00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,799 Speaker 1: was playing on from doing what he did. No, absolutely not, 704 00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,239 Speaker 1: but you'd have some paperwork on that dick that maybe 705 00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,040 Speaker 1: you can be compensated for the heartbreak. That's what I'm 706 00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,959 Speaker 1: talking about, because now she's looking for an apology from 707 00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:35,400 Speaker 1: the from from the goddamn get from the team. Girl. 708 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 1: They may fuck They didn't embarrass them though, so I 709 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 1: agree with I agree with Nia Long and that they 710 00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:48,600 Speaker 1: embarrassed them because that is like her Man embarrassed the team. Absolutely, 711 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,200 Speaker 1: her Man embarrassed the team. So did the two holes 712 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:54,040 Speaker 1: he was sucking at work for the team. Yeah, they 713 00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,360 Speaker 1: it was you know who knew he was in a relationship, 714 00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:01,000 Speaker 1: the team and Nia. So they owe an apology to 715 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,920 Speaker 1: the Celtics into Nia. I don't feel like the Celtics 716 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:11,879 Speaker 1: or heard an apology. Um, the organization didn't do it. 717 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:16,480 Speaker 1: They went in they're like cool, cool, Yeah, man, I 718 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 1: don't agree to Hammy because I feel like there's okay, 719 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,960 Speaker 1: just imagine this is the same thing, work, work, relationships, 720 00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:26,000 Speaker 1: same thing, right, So you don't think there's never been 721 00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 1: a time where a white man slept with somebody else's 722 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,440 Speaker 1: wife on one of those teams and stuff like that. 723 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,040 Speaker 1: It's not publicized in the way they did this. Man. 724 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:36,000 Speaker 1: Was it the Celtics that did it or was it 725 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:39,600 Speaker 1: everybody else? And they had to do some damage control if, 726 00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:42,560 Speaker 1: if how else did it come out one of the husbands, 727 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,600 Speaker 1: the husband heard her talk, heard his wife talking to 728 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:51,040 Speaker 1: him on their doorbell. So I don't know where it 729 00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 1: went from there and how. But look, even with this 730 00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:58,000 Speaker 1: thing with um Good Morning America, they told the story 731 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:03,520 Speaker 1: to TMZ, ABC told TMZ do you see what I'm saying? 732 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:06,960 Speaker 1: So it could stay in the house if they wanted to. 733 00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:12,840 Speaker 1: They chose to embarrass me along. Um what's his name? Ibaka? 734 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:19,080 Speaker 1: Isn't Ibaka? Right? I don't know that. Yeah, they chose 735 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 1: to embarrass them because I feel like it was a 736 00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,040 Speaker 1: cover up for that ship that was going on with 737 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 1: Brett Farb. Yeah, talk about that how he was embezzling 738 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:31,600 Speaker 1: all that damn money but yeah, so I don't know 739 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:35,759 Speaker 1: nobody or her in the policy. But then baka no, absolutely, 740 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 1: and I wouldn't blame her if she stayed with me either. 741 00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 1: I mean, people stay with people for more for yeah, 742 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 1: like if you choose to you know, if y'all have 743 00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 1: the conversation that it takes and y'all find a way 744 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:54,560 Speaker 1: to heal from that ship and decided to fight through exactly, 745 00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,000 Speaker 1: people would be like any kind of Like I couldn't 746 00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 1: stay with him after the public embarrassment and your baby 747 00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 1: daddy got your job doing the same sho oh, you 748 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:12,000 Speaker 1: probably stayed with somebody who wasn't even provided for you 749 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:16,319 Speaker 1: and fucking you over like that? How about that? Right? Well, 750 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,520 Speaker 1: I don't have a journey for nobody when it comes 751 00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:22,960 Speaker 1: to their relationships and matters of the heart. Right, I agree? 752 00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:27,200 Speaker 1: But um, I found a good article. It's written by 753 00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 1: Tom Miller's on your tangle dot com, so it's like 754 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:34,840 Speaker 1: a blog site. Mm hm. So look, the title of 755 00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 1: it is there are only three kinds of home records 756 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,360 Speaker 1: in the world. When we use that term home record, 757 00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,880 Speaker 1: you automatically think about a woman. Mhm. That's what I 758 00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,600 Speaker 1: don't like about the title home record. Because guess what, 759 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:52,640 Speaker 1: bitch is the home record is a motherfucker that's in 760 00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:57,919 Speaker 1: the home, right first, that's the first home record there. Yeah, 761 00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,520 Speaker 1: we can't hold those people outside the home acountable. But 762 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,920 Speaker 1: the first person that's in the home, that's the person 763 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,719 Speaker 1: who wrecked it. So, your husband, how are you gonna 764 00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:10,040 Speaker 1: record home that's already rick? Exactly? Like how you expect 765 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,840 Speaker 1: somebody outside your relationship to respect it when the people 766 00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:17,879 Speaker 1: in it aren't. Yeah, I'm confused. Okay. So um, so 767 00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,359 Speaker 1: this is the three kinds of home records this this 768 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,840 Speaker 1: blog post is talking about. So it says the mistress, 769 00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 1: which we mentioned, it says, you're familiar with the concept 770 00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,600 Speaker 1: of a mistress. She's a woman who has a long, 771 00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:33,120 Speaker 1: loving relationship with a man, or a woman in a 772 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:37,440 Speaker 1: complimentary capacity to the man's marriage. Both parties know that 773 00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:41,040 Speaker 1: the man is being unfaithful in our traditional, in our 774 00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:45,879 Speaker 1: traditional understanding of the word to his wife. Okay. While 775 00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:50,560 Speaker 1: some mistresses appreciate that they'll never replaced a man's wife 776 00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:54,479 Speaker 1: in a legitimate slash legal sense, other mistresses hold out 777 00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,440 Speaker 1: hope that he'll come to his senses and leave the 778 00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: mother of his children. Semantically speaking, I'm not sure where 779 00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:04,160 Speaker 1: to go with this. But a man may believe he 780 00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:08,040 Speaker 1: loves his mistress, his wife may know about her, and 781 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 1: a mistress may also be married. Okay, So now this 782 00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,399 Speaker 1: person is listening out the pros and cons Okay, so 783 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:20,520 Speaker 1: says uh pros. Some level of affection may receive thoughtful 784 00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:24,680 Speaker 1: gifts or trips. Couldn't make for a fantastic novella. Someday 785 00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:29,279 Speaker 1: both parties know the deal. Cons um it's sort of 786 00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:32,239 Speaker 1: becomes it sort of becomes a second marriage. He's not 787 00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:35,400 Speaker 1: leaving his wife for you. Exposing the whole thing is 788 00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,840 Speaker 1: kind of a dick move, even in the case of 789 00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:42,960 Speaker 1: a breakup. Okay, So that's the mistress. That's sound about right. 790 00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:48,719 Speaker 1: Sounds right to me, all right, So now be on 791 00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,040 Speaker 1: somebody's side. That would be the position I would want 792 00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:55,360 Speaker 1: if I had to pick one of those. Yeah, Because 793 00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,839 Speaker 1: what I was trying to explain earlier is that men 794 00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,880 Speaker 1: do be men be all in love. Like it's not 795 00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,719 Speaker 1: just women that fall in love inside situations. Men fall 796 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:06,719 Speaker 1: in love. You funk with somebody long enough, you're gonna 797 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,920 Speaker 1: fall in love. But I just want my you know, 798 00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,040 Speaker 1: I don't even want my own. I do want my 799 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:15,160 Speaker 1: own nigga. I just want to be the main Honestly, 800 00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:23,480 Speaker 1: I don't anticipate that a man will never like we 801 00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,959 Speaker 1: get together now and he'll never I would I would 802 00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:30,279 Speaker 1: be hopeful that he wouldn't step out on me for 803 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,200 Speaker 1: the remainder of our life. But I just feel like, 804 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 1: if you get a good creamative crap fass type, there's 805 00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:41,240 Speaker 1: a hard there's a large chance that it could happen 806 00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:45,480 Speaker 1: at some point in your relationship. Right, it would be 807 00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:49,360 Speaker 1: naive to think that it it could never have not us, 808 00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:53,279 Speaker 1: you know, I couldn It wouldn't be naive to feel 809 00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 1: that way. But yeah, I don't know. I don't know 810 00:49:58,239 --> 00:49:59,520 Speaker 1: where I was going with that. I just know I 811 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:02,040 Speaker 1: would rather be the main or if I'm gonna not 812 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,759 Speaker 1: be the main one, then I would want that first one. 813 00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:08,479 Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be the side bitch order sneaky link. 814 00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:12,280 Speaker 1: So you do want to be the taken care of mistress. 815 00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:16,040 Speaker 1: If I had to choose one of those three, ideally 816 00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:21,560 Speaker 1: I would want to be the wife obviously, But if 817 00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:23,319 Speaker 1: I had to choose one of those three, definitely the 818 00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:26,080 Speaker 1: mistress and not the savage or the sneaky link. The 819 00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:29,239 Speaker 1: sneaky link just don't even sound that's not palatable for 820 00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 1: me for any reason. Why would I just want to 821 00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:38,920 Speaker 1: fuck exactly? That's my thing now sometimes but no, um, 822 00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:42,759 Speaker 1: sneaky link is like twice a year situation like I 823 00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,000 Speaker 1: don't know, just somebody that you know gonna suck you 824 00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:46,920 Speaker 1: real good, like you might pull up on the ass 825 00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,359 Speaker 1: right quick. And it's just like that's just what it is. 826 00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 1: Like I knew where I could get some good dick 827 00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:56,719 Speaker 1: from and I went there. That's about I get it. 828 00:50:56,760 --> 00:51:01,200 Speaker 1: I get it. I get it all right. I think 829 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,080 Speaker 1: from women like sneaky links is more so like the 830 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 1: people who you funk with in the interim, like in 831 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:09,880 Speaker 1: between relationships, like you just know we if you whenever 832 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,080 Speaker 1: you get that little urge, that's not a sneaky link. 833 00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:16,759 Speaker 1: That is a sneaky link that I feel like a 834 00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:19,960 Speaker 1: sneak Like if you're just sucking somebody that you used 835 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,319 Speaker 1: to fuck because you horny, is that a sneaky link. 836 00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:28,080 Speaker 1: A sneaky link is win he could be in a relationship. Now, okay, okay, 837 00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:30,920 Speaker 1: all right, you know what I'm saying, Like that's a 838 00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:35,200 Speaker 1: sneaky link, y'all. Just like sexually attracted to each other. 839 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,200 Speaker 1: That's just what it is, y'all. Don't talk, y'all, don't 840 00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:42,359 Speaker 1: talk on the phone about nothing, you so listen right, 841 00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,520 Speaker 1: all right? So the side chick, A side chick represents 842 00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:50,759 Speaker 1: truly the best and worst of all women traits. What 843 00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:54,640 Speaker 1: does that mean? Exactly? All? It says, truly the best 844 00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:57,799 Speaker 1: and worst of all other women traits. A side chick 845 00:51:57,880 --> 00:51:59,799 Speaker 1: is entitled to things like dates and gifts on her 846 00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:02,359 Speaker 1: birth if they she may or may not know if 847 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 1: the guy is married. She hasn't married herself, and treats 848 00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:10,200 Speaker 1: it as a nascent relationship in any case. And um, 849 00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:15,600 Speaker 1: nasan means like just coming into existence, and oh, like 850 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:19,480 Speaker 1: you know, like it's just starting. Okay, Yeah, So I 851 00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:21,279 Speaker 1: mean sometimes when you meet somebody, you don't know what 852 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:23,279 Speaker 1: they have going on in life. So that's essentially what 853 00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:28,880 Speaker 1: it's saying. Um. Even if she knows her status, she 854 00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:33,120 Speaker 1: may feel compelled to tell the original wife of the situation. 855 00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:36,040 Speaker 1: The wife is likely unaware of the side checks existence, 856 00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:40,480 Speaker 1: but may have her suspicions. Many of the man man's 857 00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:44,800 Speaker 1: friends know about the side chick and anxiously, anxiously await 858 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:51,600 Speaker 1: one of three outcomes. She's promoted to the mistress, she's 859 00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:57,560 Speaker 1: um unceremoniously dumped, often with the ghosting technique, or she 860 00:52:57,680 --> 00:53:01,360 Speaker 1: decides to read havoc by exposed in the situation to 861 00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,840 Speaker 1: the light of day. A side chick may have a 862 00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:07,239 Speaker 1: day of the week assigned to their relationship. Um and 863 00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:11,120 Speaker 1: it says the pros are the sexiest, is dynamite, as 864 00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 1: you know each other's likes and dislikes, and the novelty 865 00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:17,560 Speaker 1: has in no way worn off. While intense, the whole 866 00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:20,960 Speaker 1: thing still has an air of casualness to it. The 867 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:24,360 Speaker 1: dates are great because you're both getting high off sneaking around. 868 00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:28,360 Speaker 1: Cons She could be young enough to be his daughter. 869 00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:33,480 Speaker 1: There may be money left on a dresser that muddies 870 00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,960 Speaker 1: the water. This a man wrote this, This is funny. 871 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:41,040 Speaker 1: It's fun to me. Um, this will probably not in gracefully. 872 00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:45,279 Speaker 1: The husband, wife, or side chick may end up stabbed. 873 00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:55,799 Speaker 1: That's funny, shame, So listen. Are you a side chick 874 00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:59,000 Speaker 1: only if a man or mistress only if a man 875 00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 1: is married, if he has a girlfriend, or you a 876 00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:06,759 Speaker 1: side check or is your nigga just out here choosing so? 877 00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:12,800 Speaker 1: Because like girlfriend boyfriend relationships are prerequisites right for marriage. 878 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:16,600 Speaker 1: M hmm. I think it would depend on how serious 879 00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:18,959 Speaker 1: and how long these people have been together. If y'all 880 00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,799 Speaker 1: living together and stuff like that, got businesses together, like 881 00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:25,680 Speaker 1: y'all building a life together, heading towards marriage, and he's 882 00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:28,880 Speaker 1: like out here choosing. I feel like that could be 883 00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:31,600 Speaker 1: like a side bitch situation, Like he might have a 884 00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:35,400 Speaker 1: side bitch. Some people take side bitches into marriages. I 885 00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 1: know some bitches who the nigga didn't choose, and this 886 00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:41,399 Speaker 1: man got married, and you stole funking with him while 887 00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:45,800 Speaker 1: he done got married. You. Now, that's a whole another 888 00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:50,719 Speaker 1: level of commitment to a role exactly. I know a 889 00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:53,279 Speaker 1: couple of bitches like that. I don't feel like if 890 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:58,280 Speaker 1: it's a girlfriend, I just all right, y'all, no shade, 891 00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 1: but I just don't respect girlfriends the way I respect wife. 892 00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:04,520 Speaker 1: So like I don't feel like it's a savage, a 893 00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:08,239 Speaker 1: mistress or you know, if you're a girlfriend, if you're 894 00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:11,400 Speaker 1: a wife. If this man has a wife, then you 895 00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:14,680 Speaker 1: outside bitch or a mistress. If he has a girlfriend, 896 00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:19,680 Speaker 1: y'all just outside everybody out here playing right. I don't 897 00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:23,080 Speaker 1: I don't see it that way, you know. I like 898 00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:24,960 Speaker 1: to say and I probably joke about the ship. But 899 00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:32,440 Speaker 1: I'll funk with somebody boyfriend, but I don't know my husband. Yeah, 900 00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:36,120 Speaker 1: Like I try my hardest, I'm not gonna say I'm 901 00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:39,480 Speaker 1: not gonna say i've never I've never done it, especially 902 00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,360 Speaker 1: when you're dealing like older men like his wife probably 903 00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:44,920 Speaker 1: got a boyfriend, you know what I'm saying. Like these 904 00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:48,720 Speaker 1: sicker know each other, they probably for twenty five years, 905 00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:51,440 Speaker 1: Like they sticky each other. Like it's like nigga, long 906 00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:57,240 Speaker 1: as you're paying these bills. Where in the girlfriend college fund, 907 00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:02,800 Speaker 1: young bitch, you're fucking that, go bother her. Jeez, Wilson, 908 00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:09,560 Speaker 1: go over there. She's just outsourcing some pussy like it's 909 00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:14,040 Speaker 1: basically what it is. But day my normal setting, my 910 00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,399 Speaker 1: normal setting is definitely not the funk with somebody husband 911 00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:19,760 Speaker 1: because listen, I'm probably beating you up about my husband, 912 00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:22,560 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Because I do have this 913 00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:24,960 Speaker 1: thing where I do believe, yes, the home record is 914 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:28,840 Speaker 1: the person that's in the home, But women do keep cheating, 915 00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,400 Speaker 1: going like your man can't cheat unless a woman is 916 00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:35,040 Speaker 1: willing to compete, and oftentimes like this is, they're gonna 917 00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:38,160 Speaker 1: do that. And then I respect women who played a 918 00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:41,320 Speaker 1: played a played the position like the mistress. I respect 919 00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:45,000 Speaker 1: that the ones that get on social media and y'all 920 00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:47,520 Speaker 1: blasting these guys and ship like that, Like I cannot 921 00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:50,440 Speaker 1: respect that. You're stupid, Yeah, like why you do what 922 00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:52,239 Speaker 1: you got you signed up for? Why are you out 923 00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:59,480 Speaker 1: here and you're exposing yourself more than anybody exactly because 924 00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 1: with celebrit and he's like, everybody knows this guy is married. 925 00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:07,000 Speaker 1: His wife is a stupid you stupid bitch. Everybody knows 926 00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:10,560 Speaker 1: this is a married man, and you chose to let 927 00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:13,200 Speaker 1: him have his way with you, and then on top 928 00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:15,080 Speaker 1: of that, you want to flex on his fucking wife 929 00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:19,240 Speaker 1: like she wrong for being mad? Right, No, a bit 930 00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:24,120 Speaker 1: you need to get beat up. Yeah, I agree, you 931 00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,560 Speaker 1: need if you're gonna be fucking on somebody husband, you 932 00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:31,800 Speaker 1: need to be quiet. Yep, yep. So the last one 933 00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:33,760 Speaker 1: they let's hear is a jump off, which I think 934 00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:38,520 Speaker 1: essentially that would be like sneaky links. Uh activity um, So, 935 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,120 Speaker 1: like this thing is for women written by a man, 936 00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:45,080 Speaker 1: but we know that men will cheat with people too. 937 00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:47,600 Speaker 1: But I guess when a woman is getting fucked, a 938 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:52,120 Speaker 1: married woman is getting fucked by some outside dick is 939 00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:56,040 Speaker 1: not seen as jump off behavior. It's just her being 940 00:57:56,160 --> 00:58:00,520 Speaker 1: a slept is what men would say, so jump off 941 00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:04,720 Speaker 1: this term is slightly more nubulus um. A jump off 942 00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,800 Speaker 1: is a gal or a guy he mentions, who is 943 00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:11,200 Speaker 1: just around for the sex stuff, the absolute closest thing 944 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:15,400 Speaker 1: to luxury and this relationship UM is a rod and escalade. 945 00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:19,440 Speaker 1: I stay at a red roof in and possibly Hanfair 946 00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:25,000 Speaker 1: and possibly ca Fair home, or a Hamburger sandwich from McDonald's. 947 00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:31,960 Speaker 1: This could be a repeated engagement, though irregular, or a 948 00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:35,080 Speaker 1: single serving bone fest. Meet Ups with a jump off 949 00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:38,200 Speaker 1: are typically at odd hours, involved a text message along 950 00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:44,200 Speaker 1: the lines of UM, and are fueled by alcohol. W 951 00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:49,840 Speaker 1: y D is what it is right right UM. The 952 00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:53,120 Speaker 1: key difference between a jump off and any other unfaithful 953 00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:57,000 Speaker 1: activity is that it's clear, explicitly or not, that this 954 00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:00,520 Speaker 1: relationship would never evolve past s a mis s, M 955 00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:04,520 Speaker 1: S and smash. A jump off typically doesn't know if 956 00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:07,880 Speaker 1: a partner is married, nor does she particularly care. This 957 00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:12,000 Speaker 1: is expressly a key meets ignition transaction. A jump off 958 00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:15,840 Speaker 1: situation is in no way, shape or form exclusive to 959 00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 1: either party. And let's see, so the pros are this 960 00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:24,200 Speaker 1: is just about sex um. To say that the effort 961 00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:27,200 Speaker 1: is mutually meant minimal would be an insult to the 962 00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:31,280 Speaker 1: word minimal um. You've you'd have to be a moron 963 00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:35,200 Speaker 1: to get caught and cons She may show up in 964 00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:40,520 Speaker 1: his phone as Rick, which is unfortunately sure for trick. 965 00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:49,360 Speaker 1: Y'all may be giving each other worse and worse stains 966 00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:52,840 Speaker 1: of her Uh, y'all may be giving each other worse 967 00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:58,280 Speaker 1: and worse strains of her pies. What you may be 968 00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:02,080 Speaker 1: enough of a moron to get caught and hold on 969 01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:06,400 Speaker 1: this ship gives examples. Let's see. I don't care to 970 01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:12,440 Speaker 1: name him anyway, that was the part least pretty solid 971 01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:17,960 Speaker 1: description of those uh those women or men when dealing 972 01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:23,760 Speaker 1: with people jump off do not just get sandwiches McDonald's 973 01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:30,720 Speaker 1: and herpies. Goodness now, jop offs do just get dick, 974 01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:35,000 Speaker 1: and sometimes they might get dick from you and your homeboy. Okay, yeah, 975 01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:38,360 Speaker 1: you're right, Yeah, I agree there the jump off. That's 976 01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:43,840 Speaker 1: the sneaky link though, right, Nah, like sneaky link. I 977 01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:46,560 Speaker 1: feel like it's like more mutual. It's not like it 978 01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:48,400 Speaker 1: seems like what the jump off is like the woman 979 01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:53,480 Speaker 1: is getting played somehow, But that's not fair. Why the 980 01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:58,000 Speaker 1: it's just that double standard. We gotta deal with We 981 01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:00,320 Speaker 1: just gotta deal with it. It's just it's just true. 982 01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:04,400 Speaker 1: We cannot do the things that men do. No, you 983 01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,200 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I don't you know, I have 984 01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:08,520 Speaker 1: no desire to have my dick in the dirt anyway, 985 01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:12,360 Speaker 1: So exactly if I had one, I don't want my 986 01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:17,200 Speaker 1: couching the dirt neither. Right, Shoot, y'are young holes, man. 987 01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:19,400 Speaker 1: We'll be trying to tell y'all. Listen, y'all can live 988 01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:21,520 Speaker 1: like curiously through this damn show. Y'all don't have to 989 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,520 Speaker 1: go through these dumb bit ships. You know your stories, 990 01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,200 Speaker 1: and y'all don't have to. Y'all can listen to this 991 01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,520 Speaker 1: and make better decisions. So then that way you aren't 992 01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:33,480 Speaker 1: in your fucking mid thirties trying to reflect like God, Dad, 993 01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:37,440 Speaker 1: where the funk up at? Right? Don't like at the 994 01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:40,200 Speaker 1: end of the day, just don't be a mistress, a savage, 995 01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:43,400 Speaker 1: a jump off, or a sneaky link. I mean you 996 01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:45,280 Speaker 1: might get do the sneaky link every now, man, but 997 01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,720 Speaker 1: don't be none of the rest of them. That's just 998 01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:52,360 Speaker 1: lucrative fun the hoes unless it's lucrative. Do that ship 999 01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:56,560 Speaker 1: got all it? You gotta pay for college? Girl, Let 1000 01:01:56,560 --> 01:02:00,080 Speaker 1: me tell you no, don't do that ship man, do 1001 01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:05,040 Speaker 1: none of that. Just leave it alone. Trust me that 1002 01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:12,200 Speaker 1: I put you in his will. Shoot U m hmmm, 1003 01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:18,040 Speaker 1: and be the main I just think is it cheating? 1004 01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:21,080 Speaker 1: If I think it's cheating. If the side bitch looks 1005 01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:24,280 Speaker 1: better than your your girl, that's cheating. The side bitch 1006 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:29,560 Speaker 1: always looked better than me, that's cheating. That is cheating. 1007 01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:36,680 Speaker 1: That's always she's always younger, finer. That's cheating. Yeah, it's cheating. 1008 01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:41,640 Speaker 1: And what's also cheating is if they're comfortable too. It 1009 01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:45,720 Speaker 1: gotta be extreme opposite. You went and found you from 1010 01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:50,640 Speaker 1: when y'all met, he would have found a version of 1011 01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:54,400 Speaker 1: you that he used to be. That is cheating. That's 1012 01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:59,040 Speaker 1: so hurtful. That is cheating. But then I also don't 1013 01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:02,240 Speaker 1: like men who don't have preference. I cannot stand like 1014 01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:04,760 Speaker 1: seeing a woman that a dude is messing with. I'm like, 1015 01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:08,200 Speaker 1: she don't look nothing like me, she's nothing like me. Like, 1016 01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:10,560 Speaker 1: you don't have no preference. You just out here fucking 1017 01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:14,440 Speaker 1: on whatever. That is weird worst, that's the worst. At 1018 01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:20,040 Speaker 1: least let her be a bad bit. Yes. I remember 1019 01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:23,360 Speaker 1: this girl that I know from high school and she 1020 01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:25,800 Speaker 1: was like really pretty. All the boys loved her, right, 1021 01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:29,080 Speaker 1: and uh, she grew up and started working with this 1022 01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:33,800 Speaker 1: no good ass drug dealing as nigger, and he went 1023 01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:38,360 Speaker 1: and got this girl pregnant. Baby. This girl can't, she can't. 1024 01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:42,080 Speaker 1: I don't think she know how to read. She's very unattractive, 1025 01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:49,920 Speaker 1: very unfortunate looking girl and uneducated and just bottom of 1026 01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:52,920 Speaker 1: the barrel bitch. It's just like you got her pregnant. 1027 01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:55,600 Speaker 1: I would I don't understand. She stayed with him too. 1028 01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:57,280 Speaker 1: And like I said, I don't have a judge jury 1029 01:03:57,280 --> 01:03:59,640 Speaker 1: for anybody and when it comes to their relationship. But 1030 01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:02,760 Speaker 1: that have been here for me because you put your 1031 01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:08,320 Speaker 1: date anywhere, sir, you put your dick anywhere. And I 1032 01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:11,880 Speaker 1: am assaulted that you got this bitch bregnant. Shame. Listen 1033 01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:14,720 Speaker 1: my ex, the one that's in prison. Oh, I think 1034 01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:18,480 Speaker 1: you're about to come home too soon, so that I 1035 01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:20,520 Speaker 1: gotta listen. That ship don't got nothing to do with me, 1036 01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:22,960 Speaker 1: because I found out that that fool as a whole 1037 01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:24,919 Speaker 1: kid out here at the same age as how long 1038 01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:28,320 Speaker 1: he's been in prison. So let's be clear. But anyway, 1039 01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:35,120 Speaker 1: So when exactly, but the first this first child, Um, 1040 01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:38,320 Speaker 1: we were and in a long dis relationship. We definitely 1041 01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:40,880 Speaker 1: was in a relationship when this baby was conceived, right 1042 01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:45,600 Speaker 1: and the morning the girl had a baby and he 1043 01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:49,120 Speaker 1: sent me the picture of the baby. I was like, yes, 1044 01:04:52,200 --> 01:05:00,040 Speaker 1: why because she looked funny, the baby, the baby looked funny. No, 1045 01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:05,640 Speaker 1: you're going for that. Babies be looking weird when na bitch, 1046 01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:08,560 Speaker 1: she thought she was. But they had his fine ace 1047 01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:10,680 Speaker 1: nigga baby and she was gonna have a super gorgeous 1048 01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:13,600 Speaker 1: little baby and it just didn't happen that way. She's 1049 01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:15,880 Speaker 1: pretty now, but she had to grow into her looks. 1050 01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:19,800 Speaker 1: She definitely looks like her mama and daddy. But it's 1051 01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:22,760 Speaker 1: not a good mix. It wasn't a good mix anyway. 1052 01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:26,560 Speaker 1: It's the truth. And that nigga know it too. And 1053 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:32,280 Speaker 1: if you listening, old girl, that was my nigga. You 1054 01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:35,200 Speaker 1: had a baby before and I slept it was like 1055 01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:36,800 Speaker 1: four o'clock in the morning when he sent me that 1056 01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:39,160 Speaker 1: picture to him. And when I tell you like, I 1057 01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:43,440 Speaker 1: feel like, because I mean it was we was together, 1058 01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:45,920 Speaker 1: damn it, the whole pregnancy, so like I knew it 1059 01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:48,560 Speaker 1: was happening. So he said, and then furthermore, like my 1060 01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:50,760 Speaker 1: ex he is like my family member, Like I love 1061 01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:53,800 Speaker 1: him like a family member, you know what I'm saying. 1062 01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:55,959 Speaker 1: So even like if he do like little, I could 1063 01:05:55,960 --> 01:06:00,520 Speaker 1: not just discard him completely in life, you know what 1064 01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:03,880 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So so he sent me the picture of 1065 01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:07,800 Speaker 1: the baby, and I slept like a fucking baby, just 1066 01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:15,480 Speaker 1: knowing like, hey, hey y'all got this log. Yeah, slept 1067 01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:20,520 Speaker 1: like whatever, that's y'all baby. But um, he was a 1068 01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:23,920 Speaker 1: nigger that never cheated with anybody that was comparable to me, 1069 01:06:24,000 --> 01:06:27,360 Speaker 1: Like I swear all the bitches was like super I'm 1070 01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:31,880 Speaker 1: brown skinned. Everybody's super light skin and two fifty pounds plus. 1071 01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:36,560 Speaker 1: Like he liked big light skin bitches. That's what that 1072 01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:41,040 Speaker 1: was his thing. And I wasn't that. So I don't 1073 01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:42,880 Speaker 1: know that was his preference. And what the hell are 1074 01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:46,400 Speaker 1: you doing with me? I feel like that was his 1075 01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:49,880 Speaker 1: real preference. But I like men with a big girl. 1076 01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:53,120 Speaker 1: Now in prison, you probably know I'm not about to 1077 01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:54,440 Speaker 1: play with him. I was about to say he probably 1078 01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:59,040 Speaker 1: with a big nigga. I know he know that type 1079 01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,920 Speaker 1: of time, but no, I don't know, he might be 1080 01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:04,280 Speaker 1: with a big one. I don't know. The second baby. 1081 01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:06,120 Speaker 1: Mama wasn't a big one and she was brown skin, 1082 01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:10,880 Speaker 1: so I don't know, more proud to than people. And 1083 01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:14,720 Speaker 1: that baby, that baby, that beautiful baby. Yeah she's beautiful. Now. 1084 01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:17,600 Speaker 1: I saw her last year. She's a beautiful little girl, 1085 01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:20,160 Speaker 1: but I hadn't seen her since he basically went to prison. 1086 01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:26,560 Speaker 1: But um, yeah, I wish them the best anyway, child, 1087 01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:30,760 Speaker 1: We ain't got no dumb bitch stories this week, okay, y'all, 1088 01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:33,440 Speaker 1: so listen. Rather you're the side bitch, the main bitch, 1089 01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:39,520 Speaker 1: the mistress that jump off, the kickoff, the sneaky link. Listen, 1090 01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:43,320 Speaker 1: be good or be good at it. Okay, that's just 1091 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:47,240 Speaker 1: all I gotta say about it. That's a advice, my advice. 1092 01:07:48,200 --> 01:07:52,400 Speaker 1: It's just don't be nobody's mistress, side bitch, sneaky link. 1093 01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:55,840 Speaker 1: Just be the main or nothing. All that ship is 1094 01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:59,760 Speaker 1: a headache and it never ends well for the woman ever, 1095 01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:05,280 Speaker 1: So don't do it, ladies, all right, man, I love y'all. 1096 01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:09,320 Speaker 1: That's it man, she Hey, look hey, if you guys 1097 01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:11,920 Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday on an 1098 01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:14,200 Speaker 1: I Heart radio app at wherever the fun you get 1099 01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:16,879 Speaker 1: your podcast. That this is your co host AJ Holiday 1100 01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:20,280 Speaker 1: two point oh. Y'all following me on Instagram. We got YouTube, 1101 01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:24,639 Speaker 1: we got Twitter, we got a website. Hit us up, y'all. 1102 01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:26,880 Speaker 1: This official tam Bam on Instagram. Y'all following me. I 1103 01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:30,040 Speaker 1: love y'all. 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