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Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels Second date Update. I'm gonna start today's second

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Speaker 1: date update off with a line from the email that

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Speaker 1: we got from Emma, who was on the phone with

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Speaker 1: us right now. She wants us to do a second

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Speaker 1: date update and call a dude named Matt. Okay. This

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Speaker 1: is what her email said. If Matt proposed to me today,

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Speaker 1: I would say, yes, what? Yeah, Emma, how are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm okay, how are you? Oh? God, good, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Now explain yourself, because I hope you can understand. It

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Speaker 1: sounds a little intense. You just went out with this

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Speaker 1: propose to you today, you would say yes. I know,

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Speaker 1: I know, trust me. Though it was like it was

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Speaker 1: an amazing experience. Why did I feel this way? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to explain it other than that

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Speaker 1: I just felt that way that I like looked into

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Speaker 1: I've never had this happen to me before, not a

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Speaker 1: crazy person. That was going to be my other question.

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Speaker 1: If you have ever gone out on a date with

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Speaker 1: a guy and been like, oh my god, no, this

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Speaker 1: is the one. No, I mean, I like, I'm like

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Speaker 1: a passionate person, but I've never gone out with someone

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Speaker 1: once and then felt like they are the person for me,

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Speaker 1: and I absolutely feel that way. Where did you meet

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Speaker 1: this guy? We were volunteering at the theater, passing up programs,

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Speaker 1: you'd pass up programs and like do usher type of stuff,

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Speaker 1: and that's cool. He just asked you out or yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean we were like super obvious. It was like

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Speaker 1: this guy's eyes. The stars collided jubil and it was destiny.

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Speaker 1: That's how it felt like the time there. It's like

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Speaker 1: wasn't about what we were doing. It was just like

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Speaker 1: the whole world dropped away. And at like some point

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Speaker 1: I mentioned that if he would ask me out, I

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Speaker 1: sounds crazy, but I really do. Have a girlfriend who's

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Speaker 1: been married eleven years. They have four kids, and the

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Speaker 1: night she met her husband, before she even knew his name,

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Speaker 1: she told me I'm going to marry that guy. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I feel like when you know in your soul and heart,

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Speaker 1: you know, like it feels undebatable. Did you tell him?

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Speaker 1: And this is how intense you were feeling? Not directly,

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Speaker 1: I mean when we had our dates, I felt like

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Speaker 1: it was almost obvious. It was in the air, like

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Speaker 1: I said that this feels amazing. And I didn't tell

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Speaker 1: him that I would marry him, because if there's one

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Speaker 1: thing guys like on a first date, it's marriage talk

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Speaker 1: and soulmates that meant to be together. Do you feel

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Speaker 1: like he felt the same way. I feel like I

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Speaker 1: can't imagine that I would feel that way if he

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Speaker 1: didn't feel that way. It felt like a connection. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't like coming from me. It was us meeting in

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Speaker 1: the middle. So how did they go? Like? What was

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Speaker 1: The date itself was like normal. It was we had

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Speaker 1: dinner and drink. That had nothing to do with what

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Speaker 1: my mom always told me that marriage or long term

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Speaker 1: relationships are as one long conversation, and I felt like

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Speaker 1: the rest of my life. Okay, so you had a

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Speaker 1: fun time with him, and you never wanted it to end?

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Speaker 1: How did it end? He like walked me to my car,

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Speaker 1: and we were like staring in each other, and I

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Speaker 1: Did fireworks go off behind you? Because That's what I'm

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Speaker 1: picturing right now. Yeah, all of a sudden over a lake. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's what it felt. And like he said that he

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Speaker 1: It was two days ago, two days. It hasn't been

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Speaker 1: very long. So you emailed us after a day of

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Speaker 1: him not getting back to you. I know what I'm

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Speaker 1: telling you. This is a tense experience of my life. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but you're resorting. You're resorting to have us call him

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Speaker 1: after a day. Basically, Yeah, but it wasn't a normal date,

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Speaker 1: and it wasn't a normal day, and I'm I am like,

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Speaker 1: I'm in love. God, all right, Well love can't wait.

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Speaker 1: But it's like if a miracle happened to you. Is

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Speaker 1: that all right? This is Emma? Well I'm serious, dude,

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Speaker 1: would you find Emma? Emma, Emma, Emma. We're gonna play

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Speaker 1: a song, We're gonna come back. We're gonna call him

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Speaker 1: and get your second date update. Okay, Okay, thank you,

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Speaker 1: good luck, hang on the phone, brooking jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're about to call a guy for a

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Speaker 1: second date update That could either end in one of

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Speaker 1: the most romantic love stories you've ever heard in your

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Speaker 1: entire life, or it could end crashing and burning, tears

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Speaker 1: and flames. Yeah. Remember the girl that's on the phone

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Speaker 1: with us right now that wants us to call a

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Speaker 1: guy named Matt. Emma is her name. She emailed us

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Speaker 1: and said, if Matt asked me to marry him today,

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Speaker 1: I would say yes. At the end of the first

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Speaker 1: part of the second day update, she actually said I

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Speaker 1: and I'd be the first one to say, Okay, this

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Speaker 1: the fifty times that's happened, it has worked out once. Emma,

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Speaker 1: the odds are in your favor. I think great. I

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Speaker 1: one thing about you, Emma. You don't sound absolutely insane.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. It is sort of insane what you're saying,

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Speaker 1: but there are people who feel that way. You feel

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Speaker 1: strongly that you care about him. We're gonna call him

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Speaker 1: the phone. Are you ready, I'm ready? Okay, Hello, I

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Speaker 1: was looking for Matt. This is Matt hey Man. How

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Speaker 1: are you. This is Jewel from brook and Jewel in

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Speaker 1: the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Okay, you

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Speaker 1: sound a little confused. Yeah, what's going on? You recently

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Speaker 1: wants to know why. Do you have any idea who

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Speaker 1: I could be talking about? I don't know dat I

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Speaker 1: couple of days ago. No. The girl that emailed us,

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Speaker 1: two or three days ago? Was that not a date? No?

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Speaker 1: What do you all right? That's confusing? Yeah, No, Emma

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Speaker 1: had a great time. You didn't consider that a date.

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Speaker 1: she didn't tell the whole story here, Emma, we were

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Speaker 1: So okay, So the show ends, left the theater, went

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Speaker 1: listen to this anymore. Man, What are you doing? Emma? Yeah, Matt,

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Speaker 1: They've been listening this whole time. Oh my god, Matt,

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Speaker 1: We're going to be Why would you tell me where

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Speaker 1: why does it matter what we ate? That has nothing

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Speaker 1: We could have eaten twigs. It doesn't matter. You were

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Speaker 1: talking about our family and what we want out of light.

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Speaker 1: Oh see, here we GOI We were just talking about

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Speaker 1: this phone call, if you rewind all this, you will

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Speaker 1: hear Emma say amazing about four hundred times. It was amazing.

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Speaker 1: You know that, Emma, when you kept talking. You are

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Speaker 1: Why do you care? Because I want to know you

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Speaker 1: happens when you're not afraid to know another person. You

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Speaker 1: want to know their thoughts all the time. Haven't hear

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking, Emma's nuts. I don't understand why you're afraid

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Speaker 1: the path. But this is a real thing that you

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Speaker 1: can trust. You can trust it. Mass. No, I don't

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Speaker 1: to each other. That doesn't matter. Who cares what my

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Speaker 1: last name is, Emma. Is there some way that you

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Speaker 1: blew this all out of proportion? Absolutely not. I know

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Speaker 1: in a stronger way than I have ever felt in

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Speaker 1: my life, and I think that Matt is afraid of that.

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Speaker 1: I will say this, I am afraid. I am not crazy.

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Speaker 1: when it happened. Matt, Emma, you sound very, very very passionate, crazy, upset,

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Speaker 1: and one's telling me that an experience that was more

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Speaker 1: like that didn't happen. Okay, anyone feel well? Matt felt differently, obviously, Emma.

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Speaker 1: He has a right to his feeling. Yeah, pretending to

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Speaker 1: feel differently, And I would love to have another chance

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Speaker 1: Matt right now, Matt, would you like to go out

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Speaker 1: it a second day with this Emma. Yes, the Emma

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you just got to embrace it and get on

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Speaker 1: the train, Matt, Well, you go out on a second day.

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Speaker 1: We will pay for it. I will let that train

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Speaker 1: You sure, we'll pay for it. I appreciate it, guys,

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Speaker 1: but this is not the one for me. You know what, Emma.

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Speaker 1: In a little while, Matt's going to be kicking himself

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Speaker 1: a few years down the road. Yeah, I know, absolutely, Matt,

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Speaker 1: He's going to be thinking back to this phone call,

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Speaker 1: realize how he screwed up. Emma. Man, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome. Thanks for listening. Thanks, I know, honey, love

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Speaker 1: hurts sometimes, You'll be Okay, he's really making the biggest

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Speaker 1: mistake of his life. I can help Emma. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wish, Emma, I wish I could help both you

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Speaker 1: guys in lots of way. Yeah, we did try. You

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Speaker 1: have a good one and Matt, thank you for your time. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much. Be safe, broken Jewel in the morning,