Speaker 1: Second date. Up to date, we've heard about hundreds of
Speaker 1: dates on this show, and I can tell you, based
Speaker 1: on everything that we've learned, the single sexiest thing a
Speaker 1: woman can do on a date, okay, is be prompt.
Speaker 1: So you're going to confidence show up on time? Oh
Speaker 1: you can't spell prompt without romp. That's not an accident.
Speaker 1: They did that on purpose. Actually, four out of five
Speaker 1: relationship experts say, if your legs are in the door
Speaker 1: on time, they'll be in the air three hours later.
Speaker 1: And I read it. That's the experts saying that. Wow,
Speaker 1: well the experts have gotten very naughty. There's some saucy
Speaker 1: experts out there. Unfortunately, for one of our listeners, Jen,
Speaker 1: she was not prompt during her first date. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: so unattractive. So of course she went rompless and now
Speaker 1: she needs our help. So, Jim, how are you doing today? Hi?
Speaker 1: I'm okay. How are you? I'm doing all right? Tell
Speaker 1: us about the guy that you were not prompt for.
Speaker 1: What was his name? His name is Tim? I met
Speaker 1: him online. Okay, he's really cute. Oh that's good, that's good.
Speaker 1: I mean, how late were you to this date? I
Speaker 1: wasn't that late, like twenty minutes. I don't know that
Speaker 1: if you if you give a heads up, did you
Speaker 1: give him the heads up? Well, that's kind of a
Speaker 1: funny thing. I so I was driving there and he
Speaker 1: texted me and said, I'm here and I'm running really late,
Speaker 1: and I, you know, like in my head, I responded
Speaker 1: to him and I texted him back. I didn't do
Speaker 1: it with my phone. And I got there and he
Speaker 1: was walking out of the restaurant. I said, where are
Speaker 1: you going? And he was like, I thought you stood
Speaker 1: me up. And I said, but I texted you, and
Speaker 1: he showed me his phone and he's like, no, you
Speaker 1: did it. That is embarrassing, dude, I understand. And that
Speaker 1: though I do that all the time where I respond
Speaker 1: to people and then I didn't actually type out, or worse,
Speaker 1: you type it out and then you don't hit sin
Speaker 1: right either way. I'm like, you're frantic because you're late.
Speaker 1: You're like, I don't have time to respond to this,
Speaker 1: and you're exactly what did Tim say when that happened.
Speaker 1: I mean, he was cool about it. He said, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: and so we still like went in and had dinner together.
Speaker 1: That's really nice. That's I mean, that's got to be
Speaker 1: a pretty good guy if he's willing to look past that.
Speaker 1: Was he able to reset his attitude though, because I
Speaker 1: assumed if you're walking out of a restaurant thinking that
Speaker 1: you're stood up, you're in a pretty bad mood. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: I mean he was super nice. We had a great conversation.
Speaker 1: I mean. The one other thing that was kind of
Speaker 1: weird I guess was I didn't know that he's a mechanic.
Speaker 1: I like learned that through the course of conversation. So
Speaker 1: I have been having some issues with my car, and
Speaker 1: I asked if he could just like take a look
Speaker 1: at it for me. WoT that's like a comedian tell you, Joe,
Speaker 1: I can't blame you, though, like take the help, get it,
Speaker 1: but you're off. So you're already twenty minutes late to
Speaker 1: the date. You show up, you find out that he's
Speaker 1: a mechanic, and then you're like, hey, by the way,
Speaker 1: while we're here under the hood. Yeah, I guess I
Speaker 1: didn't think. I think it was a big deal, and
Speaker 1: he was nice about it, and he did and we
Speaker 1: walked down the street and we looked at my car. Nice.
Speaker 1: He's really nice, or maybe he really wanted to so
Speaker 1: there is a chance that he wanted to show off
Speaker 1: what he knows, you know, like he could see it
Speaker 1: as his opportunity to be like, oh cool, I can
Speaker 1: totally like yeah, you guys, you guys sure know how
Speaker 1: men think. I don't know. I'm just trying to be
Speaker 1: positive here. Like was he the one that suggested to
Speaker 1: walk to your car and look at it? I mean
Speaker 1: he agreed to oh agree. He told me there was
Speaker 1: like a lot of stuff with my car, which I
Speaker 1: guess I should have known. And then I asked if
Speaker 1: I could like bring it by a shop. Oh no, wow,
Speaker 1: the business transaction you're taking like she's taking all the
Speaker 1: robbout of props. There's that I know. Okay, So now
Speaker 1: I was just sport. Yeah. So he looked at your
Speaker 1: car and then and told you there's a lot of
Speaker 1: problems and then you need to bring it in. How
Speaker 1: did this night end? Well, he kind of said like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I have to check my schedule up,
Speaker 1: you know, the business like okay, and then he just
Speaker 1: kind of like I don't know how to describe it,
Speaker 1: just like sizzled out, Like he seemed disinterested, and so
Speaker 1: we just kind of like left out in the room too.
Speaker 1: Just now there was an opportunity there. You check under
Speaker 1: my car's hood, maybe can check under some other that's
Speaker 1: not much better. I don't think he wants he doesn't
Speaker 1: want to trade that. You do not understand how men think. Hey,
Speaker 1: it's not a weird I don't think that's right. I've
Speaker 1: never heard my friends talk like this. Honestly, though, Jed,
Speaker 1: I just think that you should have just left that out.
Speaker 1: You know, like you don't mix I mean for black
Speaker 1: like it's a terrible cle eiche thing to say, but
Speaker 1: like business and pleasure, they just don't mix together, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't think of it that way. I
Speaker 1: just thought, you know, he's friendly and he'd want to help.
Speaker 1: I don't know, and it's free. It is what you
Speaker 1: were saying. He give me a good deal. So have
Speaker 1: you tried to reach out to Tim after the date happened? Um?
Speaker 1: I have, and he just like hasn't even really responded.
Speaker 1: He gave me like a one word answer once. And
Speaker 1: it seems because I really think he's a nice guy
Speaker 1: and I have a really great time and I don't know,
Speaker 1: I just i'd love it if you guys can help
Speaker 1: me get like a redo. Yeah, I think you deserve
Speaker 1: I think you need a redo. I hope you've learned
Speaker 1: from your mistakes. Ye on him, not on your car? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: so we'll play a song, we'll come back promptly, and
Speaker 1: we'll see if we can get you a little bit
Speaker 1: of ROMP with Tim when we do the second date
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Speaker 1: but if you're just tuning in. One of our listeners,
Speaker 1: Jen showed up twenty minutes late to her date with
Speaker 1: a guy named Tim. Shortly after that, she found out
Speaker 1: he was a mechanic and asked him to take a
Speaker 1: look at her car, which was apparently having issues, and Tim,
Speaker 1: being a nice guy, actually did and she's worried it
Speaker 1: may have killed the vibe of the date. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: now he's ghosting her right and not in the Patrick
Speaker 1: swayzy Demi Moore kind of way, just the normal sad way.
Speaker 1: So she needs our help, Jen, did we miss anything
Speaker 1: with your date? There? No, he's just like, he's a
Speaker 1: really nice guy and I wanted dative set. That's sweet,
Speaker 1: It is sweet. I don't know that we asked. Have
Speaker 1: you tried to contact him like text? Yeah? Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: reached out and he hasn't really responded. Did you when
Speaker 1: you texted him? Was it all about your car? Or
Speaker 1: were you asking him to see you again? I might
Speaker 1: have mentioned it, but I didn't like ask him to
Speaker 1: do anything. Yeah. Well, let's just give Tim a call
Speaker 1: and we'll not talk about car stuff. We're just going
Speaker 1: to focus on getting you another date. You ready to
Speaker 1: do this? Yes? Okay? Here we go. So, Hi, I'm
Speaker 1: looking to speak with the guy named Tim. Are you?
Speaker 1: Are you okay? Are you a small mouse? Come? There's
Speaker 1: several people on this top. Yeah, We're a morning radio show.
Speaker 1: It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing? Um? Okay,
Speaker 1: is this a bad time? No? Ye? What's going on?
Speaker 1: That's so well? We're doing a segment on our show
Speaker 1: called a second Date Update. That's where if you go
Speaker 1: out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back,
Speaker 1: you can reach out to our show and we'll call
Speaker 1: that person for you to try and figure out the
Speaker 1: reason why. Okay, okay. And so you recently went out
Speaker 1: with a woman who had a great time with you,
Speaker 1: and now she's hoping to get back in touch, but
Speaker 1: she's been having trouble reaching you. Her name's Jen Ah. Yes, Jen,
Speaker 1: you know Jen. It's good. Jen realizes that she probably
Speaker 1: didn't give like the best first impression on the date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: or second impression or third impression. Yeah, that's a very
Speaker 1: true statement right there. She feels bad. Yeah, she told
Speaker 1: us about how everything played out, that she showed up late,
Speaker 1: and that she asked you to go look at her car,
Speaker 1: and she's remorseful about how that played out. But she's
Speaker 1: hoping that you'll give her another shot. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. She really liked you, Tim,
Speaker 1: and she realizes that it may have come off as
Speaker 1: like she, I don't know, she was trying to use
Speaker 1: you for a free car mechanic labor, but that isn't
Speaker 1: the case. Yeah, I don't know, so I would totally agree.
Speaker 1: Oh why do you say that? I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's just like like the date was
Speaker 1: going pretty good for a while, you know, we're there,
Speaker 1: seemed like we had things in common, like we're talking
Speaker 1: about books and you know, video games and stuff. But
Speaker 1: like as soon as I mentioned the fact I'm a mechanic,
Speaker 1: it was like the conversation just slipped instantly and like
Speaker 1: it was that was all. What the conversation was about
Speaker 1: was about her in her car. I mean, I can
Speaker 1: see how that would be a frustrating thing, but it
Speaker 1: sounds like from what she told us, there's a lot
Speaker 1: of problems with her car, so maybe it was just
Speaker 1: a top of mind situation. Oh it was just weird.
Speaker 1: I mean, like, sure, I'll look at your car. And
Speaker 1: it was like dinner almost ended like instantly as soon
Speaker 1: as they said it felt like it ended way too early.
Speaker 1: She's like, you have cash, you could just pay for this.
Speaker 1: Right now. We didn't even like wait for her to
Speaker 1: get money back. It was it was almost like abrupt
Speaker 1: ending to the dinner. It was so fast, like she
Speaker 1: like threw her cash on the table and ran out
Speaker 1: and was like, this is it. You can fix it.
Speaker 1: The check engine light's been on. I mean it felt
Speaker 1: like that. It wasn't a dastic as like actually running
Speaker 1: out of there, but like, you know, as soon as
Speaker 1: we got to her car, like the moment we walked up,
Speaker 1: I was like I knew I had made a mistake
Speaker 1: and it was like the thing was total, Like I
Speaker 1: didn't know what to do. I told her it shouldn't
Speaker 1: even be on the road. What do you do? What
Speaker 1: do you mean total? Like the wheel of kind of
Speaker 1: wobbly and like the tail lights had been smashed in.
Speaker 1: It was like she had been in a pretty serious
Speaker 1: wreck and she was trying to tell me how. One
Speaker 1: of her friends said, you know, it's probably just something
Speaker 1: they can get done with a few repairs. But I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty much an expert on this stuff. I've been
Speaker 1: doing this for a while. I'm like, that's a total car.
Speaker 1: Like your car is done, the bumper is just gone.
Speaker 1: And I was just trying to be honest with her
Speaker 1: when I said that I couldn't help. And this is
Speaker 1: like things just started getting weird then, because then her
Speaker 1: voice started raising and she was like trying to tell
Speaker 1: me that I didn't know what I was talking about,
Speaker 1: and how like her friend was saying that it was
Speaker 1: totally reparable, and it was just like, WHOA, take a
Speaker 1: chill till year. I'm just trying to be a nice guy,
Speaker 1: give you my professional advice. Well do you think I
Speaker 1: mean maybe maybe it wasn't that she was reacting to you.
Speaker 1: It was just like really shocking for her to hear that. Maybe. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like as a mechanic, you must hear stuff
Speaker 1: like that all the time whenever you give people bad
Speaker 1: news about their car. Well, totally, I mean we do.
Speaker 1: But it like that wasn't even the end of it. Like,
Speaker 1: on top of that, she was insistent on borrowing my car.
Speaker 1: What I'm like, how can are you serious? Right now? Wait?
Speaker 1: Where what did she say? She didn't even She's like, hey,
Speaker 1: you gotta at least let me borrow your car so
Speaker 1: I can get around for a bit that night. Right there,
Speaker 1: she wanted to borrow your car. Yeah, this girl is
Speaker 1: a genius. Wait was she joking? I mean that had
Speaker 1: to do a bit of joke that maybe you just
Speaker 1: didn't read write. No, I mean it wasn't a joke
Speaker 1: at all. She said to me, you're a mechanic. You
Speaker 1: have access to lots of cars. You can just drive
Speaker 1: one of those for a few days. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: Did did I feel bad asking? But did you let her? No?
Speaker 1: I did not, But I did get her a toe
Speaker 1: truck because I am a nice guy and I had
Speaker 1: triple A. So I was like, the least I can
Speaker 1: do is not let this girl drive in this thing again,
Speaker 1: because this thing is like messed up. Wow. Why did
Speaker 1: it took her car away from her? Was she it
Speaker 1: wasn't good to drive Alexe a danger on the road? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, Alex. Tim. When we spoke to Jen, she
Speaker 1: never told us the back end of that story. She
Speaker 1: just said that you looked at her car. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that's the truth. That is so crazy. What
Speaker 1: is she like? Does she really want to date with you? Then?
Speaker 1: Now I'm even questioning her motend? Well, maybe we should
Speaker 1: ask her because I need to tell you, Tim that
Speaker 1: Jim has been on the other line listening and she
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. Like that's but I guess
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you fell used, but like, I don't
Speaker 1: even understand what you're so upset about. WHOA I was
Speaker 1: just asking for help. You weren't just asking for help.
Speaker 1: I mean you were basically felt like you were demanding
Speaker 1: to use my car and like instructing me on how
Speaker 1: to do my own job. Like you just said, like
Speaker 1: I'm drivable car and you're like an expert. I have
Speaker 1: you a front of me, and I'm not going to
Speaker 1: ask you like, hey, could you look at this like
Speaker 1: and then yeah, I asked to borrow your car because
Speaker 1: it's like ten thirty at night. What do you want
Speaker 1: me to do like walk around at night by myself?
Speaker 1: You just told me that I shouldn't been behind the
Speaker 1: wheel of this car. Yeah, I could have gave you
Speaker 1: a ride home instead of you borrow your I just
Speaker 1: thought you had like options for other vehicles and if
Speaker 1: you could help me out, why wouldn't you want? You know,
Speaker 1: we just had like a great date. Well, Jen, when
Speaker 1: when a plumber comes to your house to fix a
Speaker 1: broken pipe, they don't stay at the plumber's house while
Speaker 1: they fix it. For you. Well, I wasn't dating a plumber, okay,
Speaker 1: I was on a date with a mechanic. That's and
Speaker 1: you're on a date like he owes you nine. You're
Speaker 1: like friends that friends help you do things. You're not
Speaker 1: friends yet. You're not friends yet. It's one date. You
Speaker 1: don't get that he doesn't. It's a very entitled thing
Speaker 1: to do to assume that this guy should loan you
Speaker 1: his car. Yeah. I just thought he seemed really nice
Speaker 1: and helpful. I don't nderstand what a big deal is.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say we could just keep dating, but
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I want anymore. Oh wow,
Speaker 1: I don't know that that option was on the table.
Speaker 1: Really sound Maybe as long as you stopped texting me
Speaker 1: about your car issues, I don't need to update, you know.
Speaker 1: I just like I told him it was still not
Speaker 1: going great, assuming I actually wanted to know the update.
Speaker 1: I ask you were a nice guy, and you're acting
Speaker 1: like such a jerk right now, like all I need
Speaker 1: to listen to help, Like you're making it such a
Speaker 1: huge thing. They're like, oh, you're a mechanic and I
Speaker 1: asked you for advice, Like the point all right? To
Speaker 1: day if I'm such a big jerk. I guess you
Speaker 1: don't need to reach out to me anymore. I mean, Tim,
Speaker 1: you have to ask yourself. Am I car shaming her
Speaker 1: right now? I mean I think she did a good
Speaker 1: job of car shaming herself. Yeah, well wow, I mean
Speaker 1: the conversation and isn't going great right now. But I
Speaker 1: still need to ask Tim, would you like to go
Speaker 1: out on a second date with Jen? We will pay
Speaker 1: for it. I'm gonna have to say, how would Jen
Speaker 1: get there? Anyway? She doesn't have a good point. How
Speaker 1: about this, Tim, would you be willing to give Jen
Speaker 1: a friends and family discount on fixing her car? I mean,
Speaker 1: if her car was actually fixable, maybe yes, But the
Speaker 1: think just it's a piece of jump. It's fine, I'll
Speaker 1: take it to a real Expert's sounds like your friend
Speaker 1: is one, So just take it right under your friend
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,