WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Mechanic Mistake

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<v Speaker 1>Second date. Up to date, we've heard about hundreds of

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<v Speaker 1>dates on this show, and I can tell you, based

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<v Speaker 1>on everything that we've learned, the single sexiest thing a

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<v Speaker 1>woman can do on a date, okay, is be prompt.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're going to confidence show up on time? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you can't spell prompt without romp. That's not an accident.

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<v Speaker 1>They did that on purpose. Actually, four out of five

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<v Speaker 1>relationship experts say, if your legs are in the door

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<v Speaker 1>on time, they'll be in the air three hours later.

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<v Speaker 1>And I read it. That's the experts saying that. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>well the experts have gotten very naughty. There's some saucy

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<v Speaker 1>experts out there. Unfortunately, for one of our listeners, Jen,

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<v Speaker 1>she was not prompt during her first date. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so unattractive. So of course she went rompless and now

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<v Speaker 1>she needs our help. So, Jim, how are you doing today? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay. How are you? I'm doing all right? Tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about the guy that you were not prompt for.

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<v Speaker 1>What was his name? His name is Tim? I met

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<v Speaker 1>him online. Okay, he's really cute. Oh that's good, that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how late were you to this date? I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't that late, like twenty minutes. I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>if you if you give a heads up, did you

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<v Speaker 1>give him the heads up? Well, that's kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>funny thing. I so I was driving there and he

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<v Speaker 1>texted me and said, I'm here and I'm running really late,

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<v Speaker 1>and I, you know, like in my head, I responded

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<v Speaker 1>to him and I texted him back. I didn't do

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<v Speaker 1>it with my phone. And I got there and he

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<v Speaker 1>was walking out of the restaurant. I said, where are

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<v Speaker 1>you going? And he was like, I thought you stood

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<v Speaker 1>me up. And I said, but I texted you, and

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<v Speaker 1>he showed me his phone and he's like, no, you

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<v Speaker 1>did it. That is embarrassing, dude, I understand. And that

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<v Speaker 1>though I do that all the time where I respond

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<v Speaker 1>to people and then I didn't actually type out, or worse,

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<v Speaker 1>you type it out and then you don't hit sin

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<v Speaker 1>right either way. I'm like, you're frantic because you're late.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, I don't have time to respond to this,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're exactly what did Tim say when that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he was cool about it. He said, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we still like went in and had dinner together.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really nice. That's I mean, that's got to be

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty good guy if he's willing to look past that.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he able to reset his attitude though, because I

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<v Speaker 1>assumed if you're walking out of a restaurant thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>you're stood up, you're in a pretty bad mood. Yeah. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he was super nice. We had a great conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. The one other thing that was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>weird I guess was I didn't know that he's a mechanic.

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<v Speaker 1>I like learned that through the course of conversation. So

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<v Speaker 1>I have been having some issues with my car, and

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<v Speaker 1>I asked if he could just like take a look

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<v Speaker 1>at it for me. WoT that's like a comedian tell you, Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't blame you, though, like take the help, get it,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're off. So you're already twenty minutes late to

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<v Speaker 1>the date. You show up, you find out that he's

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<v Speaker 1>a mechanic, and then you're like, hey, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>while we're here under the hood. Yeah, I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think. I think it was a big deal, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was nice about it, and he did and we

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<v Speaker 1>walked down the street and we looked at my car. Nice.

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<v Speaker 1>He's really nice, or maybe he really wanted to so

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<v Speaker 1>there is a chance that he wanted to show off

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<v Speaker 1>what he knows, you know, like he could see it

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<v Speaker 1>as his opportunity to be like, oh cool, I can

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<v Speaker 1>totally like yeah, you guys, you guys sure know how

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<v Speaker 1>men think. I don't know. I'm just trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>positive here. Like was he the one that suggested to

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<v Speaker 1>walk to your car and look at it? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he agreed to oh agree. He told me there was

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of stuff with my car, which I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I should have known. And then I asked if

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<v Speaker 1>I could like bring it by a shop. Oh no, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>the business transaction you're taking like she's taking all the

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<v Speaker 1>robbout of props. There's that I know. Okay, So now

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<v Speaker 1>I was just sport. Yeah. So he looked at your

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<v Speaker 1>car and then and told you there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>problems and then you need to bring it in. How

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<v Speaker 1>did this night end? Well, he kind of said like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I have to check my schedule up,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the business like okay, and then he just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like I don't know how to describe it,

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<v Speaker 1>just like sizzled out, Like he seemed disinterested, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we just kind of like left out in the room too.

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<v Speaker 1>Just now there was an opportunity there. You check under

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<v Speaker 1>my car's hood, maybe can check under some other that's

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<v Speaker 1>not much better. I don't think he wants he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to trade that. You do not understand how men think. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a weird I don't think that's right. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never heard my friends talk like this. Honestly, though, Jed,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that you should have just left that out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like you don't mix I mean for black

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a terrible cle eiche thing to say, but

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<v Speaker 1>like business and pleasure, they just don't mix together, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I didn't think of it that way. I

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<v Speaker 1>just thought, you know, he's friendly and he'd want to help.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, and it's free. It is what you

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<v Speaker 1>were saying. He give me a good deal. So have

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<v Speaker 1>you tried to reach out to Tim after the date happened? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I have, and he just like hasn't even really responded.

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<v Speaker 1>He gave me like a one word answer once. And

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<v Speaker 1>it seems because I really think he's a nice guy

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<v Speaker 1>and I have a really great time and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just i'd love it if you guys can help

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<v Speaker 1>me get like a redo. Yeah, I think you deserve

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<v Speaker 1>I think you need a redo. I hope you've learned

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<v Speaker 1>from your mistakes. Ye on him, not on your car? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll play a song, we'll come back promptly, and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see if we can get you a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of ROMP with Tim when we do the second date

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<v Speaker 1>but if you're just tuning in. One of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Jen showed up twenty minutes late to her date with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Tim. Shortly after that, she found out

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<v Speaker 1>he was a mechanic and asked him to take a

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<v Speaker 1>look at her car, which was apparently having issues, and Tim,

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<v Speaker 1>being a nice guy, actually did and she's worried it

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<v Speaker 1>may have killed the vibe of the date. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>now he's ghosting her right and not in the Patrick

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<v Speaker 1>swayzy Demi Moore kind of way, just the normal sad way.

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<v Speaker 1>So she needs our help, Jen, did we miss anything

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<v Speaker 1>with your date? There? No, he's just like, he's a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice guy and I wanted dative set. That's sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>It is sweet. I don't know that we asked. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you tried to contact him like text? Yeah? Yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 1>reached out and he hasn't really responded. Did you when

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<v Speaker 1>you texted him? Was it all about your car? Or

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<v Speaker 1>were you asking him to see you again? I might

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<v Speaker 1>have mentioned it, but I didn't like ask him to

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<v Speaker 1>do anything. Yeah. Well, let's just give Tim a call

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll not talk about car stuff. We're just going

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<v Speaker 1>to focus on getting you another date. You ready to

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<v Speaker 1>do this? Yes? Okay? Here we go. So, Hi, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking to speak with the guy named Tim. Are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you okay? Are you a small mouse? Come? There's

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<v Speaker 1>several people on this top. Yeah, We're a morning radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing? Um? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>is this a bad time? No? Ye? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>That's so well? We're doing a segment on our show

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<v Speaker 1>called a second Date Update. That's where if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back,

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<v Speaker 1>you can reach out to our show and we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>that person for you to try and figure out the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why. Okay, okay. And so you recently went out

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<v Speaker 1>with a woman who had a great time with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and now she's hoping to get back in touch, but

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<v Speaker 1>she's been having trouble reaching you. Her name's Jen Ah. Yes, Jen,

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<v Speaker 1>you know Jen. It's good. Jen realizes that she probably

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<v Speaker 1>didn't give like the best first impression on the date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or second impression or third impression. Yeah, that's a very

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<v Speaker 1>true statement right there. She feels bad. Yeah, she told

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<v Speaker 1>us about how everything played out, that she showed up late,

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<v Speaker 1>and that she asked you to go look at her car,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's remorseful about how that played out. But she's

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<v Speaker 1>hoping that you'll give her another shot. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know. She really liked you, Tim,

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<v Speaker 1>and she realizes that it may have come off as

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<v Speaker 1>like she, I don't know, she was trying to use

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<v Speaker 1>you for a free car mechanic labor, but that isn't

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<v Speaker 1>the case. Yeah, I don't know, so I would totally agree.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh why do you say that? I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it's just like like the date was

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<v Speaker 1>going pretty good for a while, you know, we're there,

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like we had things in common, like we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about books and you know, video games and stuff. But

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<v Speaker 1>like as soon as I mentioned the fact I'm a mechanic,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like the conversation just slipped instantly and like

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<v Speaker 1>it was that was all. What the conversation was about

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<v Speaker 1>was about her in her car. I mean, I can

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<v Speaker 1>see how that would be a frustrating thing, but it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like from what she told us, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of problems with her car, so maybe it was just

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<v Speaker 1>a top of mind situation. Oh it was just weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, sure, I'll look at your car. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was like dinner almost ended like instantly as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as they said it felt like it ended way too early.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, you have cash, you could just pay for this.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now. We didn't even like wait for her to

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<v Speaker 1>get money back. It was it was almost like abrupt

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<v Speaker 1>ending to the dinner. It was so fast, like she

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<v Speaker 1>like threw her cash on the table and ran out

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, this is it. You can fix it.

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<v Speaker 1>The check engine light's been on. I mean it felt

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<v Speaker 1>like that. It wasn't a dastic as like actually running

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<v Speaker 1>out of there, but like, you know, as soon as

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<v Speaker 1>we got to her car, like the moment we walked up,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like I knew I had made a mistake

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like the thing was total, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what to do. I told her it shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>even be on the road. What do you do? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean total? Like the wheel of kind of

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<v Speaker 1>wobbly and like the tail lights had been smashed in.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like she had been in a pretty serious

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<v Speaker 1>wreck and she was trying to tell me how. One

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<v Speaker 1>of her friends said, you know, it's probably just something

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<v Speaker 1>they can get done with a few repairs. But I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty much an expert on this stuff. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>doing this for a while. I'm like, that's a total car.

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<v Speaker 1>Like your car is done, the bumper is just gone.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was just trying to be honest with her

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<v Speaker 1>when I said that I couldn't help. And this is

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<v Speaker 1>like things just started getting weird then, because then her

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<v Speaker 1>voice started raising and she was like trying to tell

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<v Speaker 1>me that I didn't know what I was talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>and how like her friend was saying that it was

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<v Speaker 1>totally reparable, and it was just like, WHOA, take a

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<v Speaker 1>chill till year. I'm just trying to be a nice guy,

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<v Speaker 1>give you my professional advice. Well do you think I

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<v Speaker 1>mean maybe maybe it wasn't that she was reacting to you.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like really shocking for her to hear that. Maybe. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like as a mechanic, you must hear stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that all the time whenever you give people bad

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<v Speaker 1>news about their car. Well, totally, I mean we do.

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<v Speaker 1>But it like that wasn't even the end of it. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>on top of that, she was insistent on borrowing my car.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm like, how can are you serious? Right now? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Where what did she say? She didn't even She's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta at least let me borrow your car so

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<v Speaker 1>I can get around for a bit that night. Right there,

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to borrow your car. Yeah, this girl is

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<v Speaker 1>a genius. Wait was she joking? I mean that had

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<v Speaker 1>to do a bit of joke that maybe you just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't read write. No, I mean it wasn't a joke

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<v Speaker 1>at all. She said to me, you're a mechanic. You

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<v Speaker 1>have access to lots of cars. You can just drive

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<v Speaker 1>one of those for a few days. Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>Did did I feel bad asking? But did you let her? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I did not, But I did get her a toe

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<v Speaker 1>truck because I am a nice guy and I had

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<v Speaker 1>triple A. So I was like, the least I can

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<v Speaker 1>do is not let this girl drive in this thing again,

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<v Speaker 1>because this thing is like messed up. Wow. Why did

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<v Speaker 1>it took her car away from her? Was she it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't good to drive Alexe a danger on the road? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Alex. Tim. When we spoke to Jen, she

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<v Speaker 1>never told us the back end of that story. She

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<v Speaker 1>just said that you looked at her car. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's the truth. That is so crazy. What

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<v Speaker 1>is she like? Does she really want to date with you? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm even questioning her motend? Well, maybe we should

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<v Speaker 1>ask her because I need to tell you, Tim that

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<v Speaker 1>Jim has been on the other line listening and she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. Like that's but I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry that you fell used, but like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even understand what you're so upset about. WHOA I was

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<v Speaker 1>just asking for help. You weren't just asking for help.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you were basically felt like you were demanding

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<v Speaker 1>to use my car and like instructing me on how

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<v Speaker 1>to do my own job. Like you just said, like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm drivable car and you're like an expert. I have

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<v Speaker 1>you a front of me, and I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you like, hey, could you look at this like

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<v Speaker 1>and then yeah, I asked to borrow your car because

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<v Speaker 1>it's like ten thirty at night. What do you want

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<v Speaker 1>me to do like walk around at night by myself?

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<v Speaker 1>You just told me that I shouldn't been behind the

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<v Speaker 1>wheel of this car. Yeah, I could have gave you

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<v Speaker 1>a ride home instead of you borrow your I just

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<v Speaker 1>thought you had like options for other vehicles and if

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<v Speaker 1>you could help me out, why wouldn't you want? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we just had like a great date. Well, Jen, when

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<v Speaker 1>when a plumber comes to your house to fix a

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<v Speaker 1>broken pipe, they don't stay at the plumber's house while

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<v Speaker 1>they fix it. For you. Well, I wasn't dating a plumber, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I was on a date with a mechanic. That's and

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<v Speaker 1>you're on a date like he owes you nine. You're

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<v Speaker 1>like friends that friends help you do things. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>friends yet. You're not friends yet. It's one date. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't get that he doesn't. It's a very entitled thing

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<v Speaker 1>to do to assume that this guy should loan you

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<v Speaker 1>his car. Yeah. I just thought he seemed really nice

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<v Speaker 1>and helpful. I don't nderstand what a big deal is.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say we could just keep dating, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if I want anymore. Oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that that option was on the table.

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<v Speaker 1>Really sound Maybe as long as you stopped texting me

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<v Speaker 1>about your car issues, I don't need to update, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just like I told him it was still not

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<v Speaker 1>going great, assuming I actually wanted to know the update.

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<v Speaker 1>I ask you were a nice guy, and you're acting

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<v Speaker 1>like such a jerk right now, like all I need

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to help, Like you're making it such a

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<v Speaker 1>huge thing. They're like, oh, you're a mechanic and I

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<v Speaker 1>asked you for advice, Like the point all right? To

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<v Speaker 1>day if I'm such a big jerk. I guess you

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to reach out to me anymore. I mean, Tim,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to ask yourself. Am I car shaming her

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<v Speaker 1>right now? I mean I think she did a good

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<v Speaker 1>job of car shaming herself. Yeah, well wow, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation and isn't going great right now. But I

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<v Speaker 1>still need to ask Tim, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a second date with Jen? We will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. I'm gonna have to say, how would Jen

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<v Speaker 1>get there? Anyway? She doesn't have a good point. How

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<v Speaker 1>about this, Tim, would you be willing to give Jen

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<v Speaker 1>a friends and family discount on fixing her car? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if her car was actually fixable, maybe yes, But the

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<v Speaker 1>think just it's a piece of jump. It's fine, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>take it to a real Expert's sounds like your friend

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<v Speaker 1>is one, So just take it right under your friend

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,