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Speaker 1: Second date. Up to date, we've heard about hundreds of

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Speaker 1: dates on this show, and I can tell you, based

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Speaker 1: on everything that we've learned, the single sexiest thing a

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Speaker 1: woman can do on a date, okay, is be prompt.

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Speaker 1: So you're going to confidence show up on time? Oh

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Speaker 1: you can't spell prompt without romp. That's not an accident.

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Speaker 1: They did that on purpose. Actually, four out of five

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Speaker 1: relationship experts say, if your legs are in the door

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Speaker 1: on time, they'll be in the air three hours later.

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Speaker 1: And I read it. That's the experts saying that. Wow,

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Speaker 1: well the experts have gotten very naughty. There's some saucy

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Speaker 1: experts out there. Unfortunately, for one of our listeners, Jen,

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Speaker 1: she was not prompt during her first date. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: so unattractive. So of course she went rompless and now

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Speaker 1: she needs our help. So, Jim, how are you doing today? Hi?

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Speaker 1: I'm okay. How are you? I'm doing all right? Tell

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Speaker 1: us about the guy that you were not prompt for.

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Speaker 1: What was his name? His name is Tim? I met

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Speaker 1: him online. Okay, he's really cute. Oh that's good, that's good.

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Speaker 1: I mean, how late were you to this date? I

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Speaker 1: wasn't that late, like twenty minutes. I don't know that

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Speaker 1: funny thing. I so I was driving there and he

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Speaker 1: though I do that all the time where I respond

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Speaker 1: right either way. I'm like, you're frantic because you're late.

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Speaker 1: You're like, I don't have time to respond to this,

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Speaker 1: and you're exactly what did Tim say when that happened.

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Speaker 1: Was he able to reset his attitude though, because I

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Speaker 1: assumed if you're walking out of a restaurant thinking that

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Speaker 1: I mean he was super nice. We had a great conversation.

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Speaker 1: of ROMP with Tim when we do the second date

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Speaker 1: update right after this. Welcome back to the timeless love

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Speaker 1: Jen showed up twenty minutes late to her date with

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Speaker 1: So she needs our help, Jen, did we miss anything

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Speaker 1: with your date? There? No, he's just like, he's a

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Speaker 1: to focus on getting you another date. You ready to

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Speaker 1: do this? Yes? Okay? Here we go. So, Hi, I'm

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Speaker 1: looking to speak with the guy named Tim. Are you?

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Speaker 1: Are you okay? Are you a small mouse? Come? There's

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Speaker 1: several people on this top. Yeah, We're a morning radio show.

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Speaker 1: It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing? Um? Okay,

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Speaker 1: is this a bad time? No? Ye? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: reason why. Okay, okay. And so you recently went out

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Speaker 1: It was just like really shocking for her to hear that. Maybe. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But it like that wasn't even the end of it. Like,

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Speaker 1: Did did I feel bad asking? But did you let her? No?

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Speaker 1: because this thing is like messed up. Wow. Why did

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Speaker 1: all right, Alex. Tim. When we spoke to Jen, she

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Speaker 1: I mean that's the truth. That is so crazy. What

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Speaker 1: Now I'm even questioning her motend? Well, maybe we should

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Speaker 1: You just told me that I shouldn't been behind the

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Speaker 1: we just had like a great date. Well, Jen, when

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Speaker 1: they fix it. For you. Well, I wasn't dating a plumber, okay,

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Speaker 1: I was on a date with a mechanic. That's and

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Speaker 1: you're on a date like he owes you nine. You're

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Speaker 1: don't get that he doesn't. It's a very entitled thing

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Speaker 1: I don't know that that option was on the table.

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Speaker 1: Really sound Maybe as long as you stopped texting me

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Speaker 1: I just like I told him it was still not

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Speaker 1: still need to ask Tim, would you like to go

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Speaker 1: out on a second date with Jen? We will pay

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Speaker 1: about this, Tim, would you be willing to give Jen

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Speaker 1: think just it's a piece of jump. It's fine, I'll

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Speaker 1: take it to a real Expert's sounds like your friend

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