1 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: We are so excited about today's guest, our first castmate 2 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 1: to join us on the pod. He first captured the 3 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: hearts of women everywhere as Blackie on General Hospital, before 4 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: committing to the role that would propel him to superstardom 5 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: and follow him for the rest of his life Uncle 6 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: Jesse on Full House. To Jody and me, he's just John, 7 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: or Mud, as we affectionately call him. His new memoir, 8 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: If You Would Have Told Me, is an incredibly poignant 9 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: and heartfelt look inside John's life and legacy. I cried 10 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: more times than I can count without further ado. The 11 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: man with the megawat smile and the best head of 12 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: hair in Hollywood. We love and adore him. John Stamos, Hi, 13 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: ladies one, Hey, welcome to how Rude Tannertos. Hello, we're 14 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: so excited. 15 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 2: Your so excited. First of all, let me say something 16 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 2: to you too. I love you both so much. I 17 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 2: am so proud of both of you. You've just turned 18 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 2: into the kind of people that I hope my son 19 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 2: turns into. I just love you both. I'm again. You've 20 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 2: done so much great work in the world. You've overcome obstacles. 21 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 2: You you you're nice people. Your good mothers and I 22 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 2: just love you and that's it. Goodbye, everybody. 23 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 3: Thank you for joining us than I love you. That's 24 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 3: all you need to know is one compliments at any time. 25 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 3: And then disappeared. 26 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: Ye trying to play. Do you remember when we sang 27 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: to you teddy bear and oh that was Michelle? 28 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 4: Huh that was Michelle the teddy Bear? 29 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 2: What did we say? 30 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: Are you playing it right now? Oh, he's got a guitar, 31 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 1: all right, play us a ballad. 32 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:04,559 Speaker 5: And go play uh venus? 33 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, watched that episode. 34 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 5: We just watched. 35 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 4: The episode was amazing on the mountain. 36 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 2: Who sang that? Did you? Andrew? 37 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 5: Yes? 38 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 4: You and me I sang it. We were the Bengals. 39 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 4: DJ and Kimmy were the Bengals. And the bracelets thet yeah, 40 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 4: the bracelets. 41 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 1: Yes, and you were teaching DJ how to play guitar horribly, 42 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: by the way, or she was not you. 43 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 2: I've listened to a few of these, and the first one, 44 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 2: you guys claim that you never watched the show. You 45 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 2: guys watched the show. I never watched watched No. 46 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 5: I mean I had seen the pilot. 47 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 3: I had seen like bits and pieces of clips or whatever, 48 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 3: but I never watched it when it was on TV. 49 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 3: I didn't tune into like TGIF or anything. I'm sure 50 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 3: my parents did, but I was like, it's fine. 51 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 2: All the other rest of the years, you just never 52 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 2: your kids. Did your girls watch it? They did not? 53 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 5: Really not mad. They didn't. Yeah, they were like whatever. 54 00:02:58,240 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 5: They weren't really that impressed. 55 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 4: They're not a pressed with their parents. 56 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 2: You're You're like, oh god, Billy watches it, but only 57 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 2: to get stuff to mock me. Like that's yeah, Like, Billy, 58 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 2: go clean up the toys you get. 59 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 4: Indeed, right, he does that hysterical. 60 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 2: He said the other day, he goes. He goes, uh. 61 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 2: It was after Halloween and he had a whole drawer 62 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: full of candy and he's like, Dad, yes, you know 63 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 2: my candy drawer. Yeah, because I'm gonna eat all the candy. 64 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 2: I said, no, you're not. He goes, yes, I am. 65 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 2: I go, uh, why because I have a secret. We 66 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 2: don't keep secrets in this house. We don't have secrets. 67 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 2: He goes, Okay, but I have a secret. I'm like, 68 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 2: what is it? I saw you kissing another girl and 69 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell mom. I go, was it aunt Becky? 70 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 2: He goes, yes, I said you're grounded, get in your room. 71 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 2: And it wasn't a kiss. It wasn't a real kiss. 72 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 2: He goes, No, you guys were kissing. He's rugging me 73 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: on it. He said, you I saw your lips. How 74 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: could it be not a real kiss? 75 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 5: That's true. I mean that's very hard explaining that to 76 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 5: a kid. They're like, I saw it. 77 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. How is this podcast going great? I mean, there 78 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 2: should be a full house podcast for years I've been 79 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 2: saying it, and you guys did it. Dave has his Yeah. 80 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 5: It's great. 81 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 4: Everywhere you look, there's a there's a new full house pod. 82 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 5: That's true. Everywhere you look. 83 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 3: We've had a really good time finding weird random things 84 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 3: in the set that we do remember with strange props. 85 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 5: Okay, things like that. 86 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 3: We have a whole everywhere you Look segment where we 87 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 3: pick up on random little things in the in the background, a. 88 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 4: K in the alcove. Yes, yes, we've talked about that. 89 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: How you have stolen the couch and read the red 90 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 1: front door? What else are you holding out on us 91 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: that we don't know. 92 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 2: That you Today I'm going to I'm going to reveal 93 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 2: that I have one of the Alsen twins in my garage. 94 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 2: I can't tell which one, but right, she's got a 95 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 2: lot of money. 96 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 4: And she can design clothes for you. 97 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 2: Right, let's get into it. You remember, I know you 98 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 2: guys read the book, and I appreciate that. And I 99 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 2: went back to Andrew's book and listen into it. I 100 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 2: told you, Andrew a couple of weeks ago, and I 101 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 2: guess one that came out you sent me one. I 102 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: kind of grazed it and I looked in. But listening 103 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 2: to it this time, I was really I really felt 104 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 2: for you. It was really beautiful writing, and you were 105 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: very you know, forthcoming with issues that I didn't even 106 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 2: know you had, and you know, we sort of all 107 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 2: lost touch for a few crazy years there. But it 108 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 2: was really beautiful. And and Jody, I know you've written 109 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 2: about eighteen books, and. 110 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 5: No I haven't. I've only written just the one, just 111 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 5: the one. 112 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 2: But it was did you narrate it or Britney Spears 113 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 2: who did the audio of it? 114 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 3: I actually never did an audiobook of it, I don't 115 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 3: think because if this was like it came out in nine, 116 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 3: I mean it was, it came out a long time ago, 117 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 3: so it was kind of in the era of like 118 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 3: I don't know that we were doing like as many 119 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 3: of the audible books and stuff. 120 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 2: But I found that really the hardest part. 121 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 4: Did you, Andrew, what was the hardest part for you. 122 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 2: Doing the audio? Well? Doing the audio really, I mean. 123 00:05:58,320 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 4: It was I was saying what part of the book 124 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 4: was the hardest for you? To write? 125 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 2: All of it, I'll tell you that about that, But 126 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 2: the audio I thought was going to be so like 127 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 2: I was really looking forward to it because I listened 128 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 2: to audio books all the time, and it was hard. 129 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 2: It took me, Like, I said, how long would it take? 130 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 2: And they said, well, you'll have five or six days. 131 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 2: I took like thirty two days or something, because you're 132 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 2: cold reading your life, you know, for the first time, 133 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,919 Speaker 2: right right, yeah, And I did this and I you know, 134 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 2: I rewrote. 135 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 3: And then you're like, did I I don't want to 136 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 3: I take all this back? Never mind, just kidding, Right, 137 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 3: how did you get me and YouTube? 138 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 2: Jody? Like, wasn't it? It's so I started out to 139 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 2: write like a hero book, like I did this, and 140 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 2: I did that, you know, and then it automatically, you know, 141 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 2: very soon became a human story and I had to 142 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 2: really dig deep to when I started to tell the 143 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 2: absolute truth about stuff, and I stumble upon this line 144 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 2: without anything less than the truth is paralysis, and so 145 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 2: I was like, oh crap, now I got to go 146 00:06:56,640 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 2: by that and it was just uh, cathartic, yes, but 147 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 2: it was it was hard, right, I mean, what did 148 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 2: you guys feel when you had to write all that? 149 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 5: I mean, I'll never forget going. 150 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 3: Like after I'd written the book and then going and 151 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 3: starting my press tour and I was. 152 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 5: Doing the Today Show. 153 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 3: Uh, and I had this moment and my first interview 154 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 3: was the Today Show. I think it was Matt Lower. 155 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 3: That tells you how long that that was, but it was. 156 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 2: He's a beacon of you know, good solid. 157 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 3: Well yeah, but uh, it was I remember thinking the 158 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 3: night before I was like, what have I done that? 159 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 5: I oh, no, you know what I mean? 160 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:37,239 Speaker 3: And then it was But then there was a sense 161 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 3: also a sense of freedom once you kind of step 162 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 3: off that ledge and just tell the truth and tell 163 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 3: your story and tell all of your you know, faults 164 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 3: and everything that you think is so scary, and you 165 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 3: find that people respond to it really wonderfully and positively 166 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 3: and supportively, and then you're like, oh, oh, actually, like 167 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 3: that was terrifying at first, but it was very freeing 168 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 3: and very yeah, like you said, cathartic. 169 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: It was like therapy for me to write some of 170 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: these innermost feelings that I hadn't really unpacked ever in 171 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: my life. That's what I was forced to by writing 172 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: these deep chapters where you're writing about your difficult times, 173 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: the times when you've struggled. 174 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 4: I mean, these are really personal moments, and so that's. 175 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: It's cathartic, it's therapeutic and like Jody said, terrifying, you know, 176 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: the night before it's released into the public. 177 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 2: And then you but then then it goes from that 178 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 2: to terrifying to like everybody's known your business and they're saying, oh, 179 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 2: my god, you're so brave and brave, and then it 180 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 2: goes to my god, you helped me. I had the 181 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 2: same issue I haven't you know. And there's a couple 182 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 2: of things that I a lot of. They asked me 183 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 2: to write a book a couple of times over the years. 184 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 2: I was like, no, no, no, no, I don't I 185 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,439 Speaker 2: can't write how. I didn't even know. I couldn't even know, 186 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 2: like where do I where am I even start? I 187 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 2: know nothing about writing a book. I could rewrite stuff. 188 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 2: You you guys have been. 189 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 4: There for that, but many many scenes, I can't. 190 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 2: I never wrote anything, so I kept saying no, and 191 00:08:57,559 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 2: then I thought, oh, the only thing anyone wants to 192 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 2: hear is you know who I slept with, and I'm 193 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 2: not going to talk about that, which is only about 194 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 2: four people. And sure, And so then I became a 195 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 2: dad and I sobered up. And then Bob died and 196 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 2: they read the obituary thing that I did in the 197 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 2: La Times said you're a good writer. I'm like, I 198 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 2: don't even remember writing that. 199 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 3: And then I said, well, it's usually the best writing 200 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 3: is when you go back and you read it and. 201 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 5: You're like, I don't I wrote that. Yeah, Wow, that's weird. 202 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. And then I thought, right, yeah. And then I thought, 203 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 2: I have all these letters from my mom, and I 204 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 2: know you guys do too, and you probably seen my 205 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,439 Speaker 2: mom's notes and stuff. So I thought, okay, that makes sense. 206 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 2: I called my sisters. I got all of them, I 207 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 2: sort of line them up. I said, okay, here's a 208 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 2: road map, and I and I put the all the 209 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: letters in here as you can see it, of my 210 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 2: mom's and they I put the actual you know her 211 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: writing and everything. 212 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 4: I loved that part of Yeah, it was so special. 213 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 4: It's such a great window into Loretta's love for you. 214 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 2: And you got let me, let me read this one. 215 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 2: It's nice, it says, dear son, don't release your memoir 216 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 2: the same day as Britney spears. Come on, Yeah, you guys, 217 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 2: you know yeah, well you guys. You knew my mom 218 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 2: and my dad, and I knew your parents, and Andrea, 219 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 2: you know we missed your mom. Did you ever talk 220 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 2: about that? She was she? 221 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:26,479 Speaker 4: I just told that story, just told that story. 222 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 2: Of your birthday. 223 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 4: Beautiful text you sent me. 224 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: I actually read the text and teared up because I've 225 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: saved it. You sent it to me like three years ago, 226 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: just a few months after my mom passed, and it 227 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: was it was the day of your ma, of Loretta's birthday, 228 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,559 Speaker 1: and Billie was asking everyone, you know, when's your birthday? 229 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:43,559 Speaker 4: When's your birthday? 230 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: It reminded you of my mom, and you sent me 231 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,719 Speaker 1: this beautiful text, and I cried, and I've saved it 232 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: because I just want to read it forever. It was 233 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 1: so special and loving and what a beautiful gift that. 234 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: And you do this all the time too. You you 235 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 1: you're like that, You'll just send random text out of 236 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: the blue saying I'm thinking of you and I love you, 237 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: and that's it's very much like Bob. 238 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, I think I got that from him. He 239 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 2: never left anything on the table, and that's you know, 240 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 2: you guys know, it's it's really his legacy that we 241 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 2: have to continue, which is like, just tell everybody that 242 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 2: you love him, you care about him. 243 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, and tell them that you're busy, tell them that 244 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:22,440 Speaker 3: you're very busy while telling Yeah, I. 245 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 2: Talk about him in almost every interview because if I don't, 246 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 2: it'll weather it gets really bad. 247 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he'll want you. 248 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 3: I have a picture of him hanging over my desk 249 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 3: up here. That was an actual little painting that somebody did. 250 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 3: So he's just always he's just always up here. So 251 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 3: I make sure and make inappropriate jokes just so. 252 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 2: That he what do you think people want to know? 253 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 2: I mean, this is so cool that we're all talking together. 254 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 2: We as you guys have probably talked about and people 255 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 2: are listening, know that we've we've stayed very close over 256 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:52,319 Speaker 2: the years. Although now Bob was was the guy who 257 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 2: kept us all together. 258 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 5: So yeah, yeah, he was the patriarch. Yeah. 259 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and he was a nag too. He would call. 260 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 3: You, well, you couldn't tell him no because you knew 261 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 3: he wasn't going to give it up and you weren't. 262 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 3: That wasn't the end of it, you know what I mean, Like, no, 263 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 3: I gotta be like you'd hear the guilt and the 264 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 3: thing and you know. 265 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 2: The two hardest chapters. Oh go ahead, I'm sorry. 266 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 1: Andrea, Well, I might be talking about what you're about 267 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: to talk about, which is the last chapter of your book, 268 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: which details the day that you found out Bob passed 269 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: and then the immediate aftermath the weeks following that. And 270 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: I had never I know, I've never talked to you 271 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: guys about that day and how we found out when 272 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: Bob passed. And so that was really cathartic for me 273 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 1: just to read those emotions and revisit those feelings. 274 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 4: Learnt, Like what what I didn't know how you found out? 275 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: How you were driving Billy around he was napping and 276 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: then you pulled over and like just fell to your 277 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: knees in the parking lot. 278 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 2: I got a call a few weeks before from my 279 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: publicist on the weekend, and he was like he called 280 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 2: and Caitlyn answered, he couldn't get me. I was asleep, 281 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 2: and Kitlyn answered, he called Kaitlyn and she said, and 282 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 2: he said it's John okay, And I was like, yeah, 283 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 2: why he's sleepy? You want me to wake him up? 284 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 2: And he's like, no, no, no, no. Uh. I just 285 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 2: got a call from TMZ and they said, sources said 286 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 2: that John went down in a plane crash near San Diego, 287 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 2: private plane. And clearly their sources were wrong, because. 288 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 4: You know, oh yeah. 289 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 2: Two weeks later, Matt gets the same call about something 290 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 2: about Bob. So he calls, calls me and I and 291 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 2: I pulled over because yeah, Billy was I was driving 292 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 2: him around to fall asleep in the back, and I 293 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 2: pulled over in the commons over here. I talked to 294 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 2: him and said, is Bobo Camick? What do you mean 295 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 2: it is Boboka? I don't know. So well, have you 296 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 2: talked to him today? I said, no, he's on the road. 297 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 2: I'm sure he's fine. He played some show last night. Okay, Well, 298 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 2: just why Matt? Why? 299 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 5: Well? 300 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 2: I got a call sources say, I go, so your 301 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,319 Speaker 2: sources can kiss my ass, because last week they had 302 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:47,320 Speaker 2: me dying him. Two weeks ago, I said, he said, okay, okay. 303 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 2: So I called Bob, didn't answer, texted him a couple 304 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 2: of times, didn't answer. Called Kelly, didn't answer. Then I 305 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 2: get a text from Candice saying that she got a 306 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 2: DM from somebody in Florida saying, Hey, I'm sorry to 307 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 2: have to tell you this, but that Bob died and 308 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 2: my sister's a cop on the scene. And Candas was like, 309 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 2: you better not be kidding. She I'll send you the 310 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 2: police report. So I'm reading this thinking, oh no, this 311 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 2: is too many, you know, Matt and YZ. So then 312 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 2: I called Candace and she explained it to me. As 313 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 2: I'm talking to Candace, Kelly calls me and she's just 314 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 2: wailing and I just hit the asphalt with my knees. 315 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, no, no, yeah. 316 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, they're the same thing. 317 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, what a gut punch. 318 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 2: At this beginning of this episode is just like the 319 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 2: colonoscopy and and mammogram, uh start from. 320 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: That's the one. I think, Yes, hey, we talk about 321 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: everything on this show. 322 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 4: Nothing. 323 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 3: It's HRC, which is also hormone replacement therapy. That's the 324 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 3: acronym of the podcast. That's our target audience, that's our 325 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 3: target audience. 326 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 2: So that was the I thought that was gonna be 327 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 2: the hardest chapter of the Bob And then the first 328 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 2: chapter when I got a dui and it was this horrific, 329 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 2: you know, my lowest point in life, and I was 330 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 2: going to meet Bob at the poem. I thought those 331 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 2: two the two hardest were the Full House chapters. Really, yeah, because. 332 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: Was it hard to remember or hard to talk about 333 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 1: those times? Or why was it difficult? 334 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 2: Because I know how important the show was to so 335 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 2: many people. I didn't know why. And Jeff was over 336 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 2: here a couple of weeks ago and he said, he said, 337 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 2: when did you come He's writing a book to Jeff Franklin. 338 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 2: He said, when did you come to terms with the Full House? 339 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 2: I said, when I wrote this, when I actually sat 340 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 2: down pended paper computer, because I've always you know, my 341 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 2: feeling of it. It was double edged sword and you 342 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 2: guys probably had some of it. 343 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, very very similar where you're like, I love this 344 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 3: and it gave me sort of the career that I had, 345 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 3: but also at the same time, like I can do 346 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 3: other things too, you know, but it's such a special 347 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 3: place in people's heart. 348 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 2: Yes, so I wanted to do it justice, and so 349 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 2: I didn't I get it was the last two chapters 350 00:15:56,960 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 2: I wrote. I just kept writing, Bob. And you know, 351 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 2: it's eight years too, as you guys know, and there's 352 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 2: a lot of people, a lot of things involved. So 353 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 2: I started off with the reading of the pilot and 354 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 2: it was at the it was at the Century Plaza Hotel, 355 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 2: and I talked about I was, you know, I was 356 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 2: on General Hospital and worked and I was the big 357 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 2: star of the thing. And and you know when when 358 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 2: it was pitched to me, Look, I always wanted to 359 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 2: be on a Gary Marshall type show. You and Gary 360 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 2: actually helped me get the get the job. And he 361 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 2: also told me get a catchphrase. Everybody. Yeah, yeah, you 362 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 2: guys know it's the name of your podcasts. Thanks and 363 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 2: and and Billy. Now he's he's he's asking me about 364 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 2: catch phrase. He wanted to know everyone's catchphrase and what 365 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 2: did DJ have one? He said, oh, my lant. He goes, 366 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 2: what's that? But he his deal is he just puts 367 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 2: baby at the end of it. I'm going to the bathroom, baby, 368 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 2: So picking my nose, baby. 369 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 4: The apple doesn't fall f Yeah, it's weird. 370 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 2: I wonder where he gets that his humor is closer 371 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 2: to Bob's then to mine. Wow, sehrty and funny. So uh, 372 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 2: I thought I was going to be on this show. 373 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 2: So they told me because it was Millan Braad show, 374 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 2: Oh this is going to be like Buzz and Buddies, 375 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 2: but there's three of you and no cross dressing until 376 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 2: maybe season two or three. And the kids are like, 377 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:18,120 Speaker 2: you know, kids are back here. You know, Okay, buzz 378 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 2: and Budies. That sounds fun of comic a musician, right, 379 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 2: And then they were doing a lot of work on 380 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 2: the casting of the of you girls, and I was like, well, 381 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 2: just putting a lot of effort into the kids that 382 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:29,199 Speaker 2: are going to be in the background. But you know, 383 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 2: so I walk into the reading like the like, I 384 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 2: think I'm the big shot, you know, and your your 385 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 2: moms knew me from General Hospital. 386 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah it's Blacky. It's Blacky. 387 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, can this is mom and sisters? I think? 388 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 2: And I walk in and so we start the reading 389 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 2: and I wrote it all pretty cool, did you see? 390 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 2: Like I actually put the script in the in the book, right, 391 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 2: And I sit down and I get these big applause 392 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 2: and everybody, and then we start and you you mainly 393 00:17:57,080 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 2: Jody blew the roof off the place, and every joke 394 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:04,239 Speaker 2: that you got, I slipped a little further in my 395 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:07,679 Speaker 2: seat like this, and they were laughing so frigging hard 396 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 2: they couldn't even hear my lines. And I'm like, oh 397 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 2: my god. And I remember running out to the lobby 398 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 2: and I had a quarter and I jammed it into 399 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:17,439 Speaker 2: the phone and I called my managers, like, get me 400 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 2: the f off this show. It's ropper room. 401 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 5: You know what. 402 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 3: It's so funny too, because I remember when you first 403 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 3: told that story. 404 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 5: I was like, really I intimidated John. 405 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 4: At age five age still. 406 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:36,239 Speaker 3: I mean, it's just that story to me, like was 407 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 3: so funny because it was I was like, wow, I 408 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 3: had you know, It's just funny to hear the things 409 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 3: that I don't really remember. I sort of vaguely remember 410 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 3: the you know, the the table read, but like hearing 411 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 3: it from the adults around us, what their perspective was, 412 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 3: like hearing it from you and Dave and Jeff and 413 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 3: you know, all these bob and what their experience was. 414 00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 5: It's crazy. 415 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 1: Howl did that feeling last of you wanting to get 416 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 1: the f off of Full House? 417 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 4: As you result that. 418 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 5: Eight and a half seasons. 419 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 2: Actually, well, that's a good question. I mean, first of all, 420 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 2: it was so I started to but I started to 421 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 2: get into it obviously, and I knew that you guys 422 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 2: were your kids were, you know, we're going to be 423 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 2: huge stars on there. And instead of being like a 424 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 2: dad on Webster or something, I said, I got to 425 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 2: get in the middle of this, and you know, I 426 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 2: nurtured that Michelle Jesse relationship, which just which pissed Bob 427 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 2: off even more. This first chapter of the full House 428 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 2: stuff is called your Baby's a Pig, which was. 429 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 3: Which is one of the lines that we were like, wow, 430 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 3: Jesse's calling children bigs. 431 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 2: Yeah no, And I was so worried that you know, 432 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,359 Speaker 2: we're going to steal show what you did. But that 433 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 2: line was the highest testing line of the whole pilot. 434 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:49,200 Speaker 2: So there. 435 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:53,160 Speaker 4: Where credit is due. 436 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, exactly. 437 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 2: And Bob and I, you know, we just didn't like 438 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 2: each other for for a good long time, as you 439 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,880 Speaker 2: guys probably remember. And it wasn't that I didn't think 440 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 2: he was talented or funny. I mean I thought he 441 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,639 Speaker 2: was a genius. I just wouldn't tell him, you know, 442 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 2: until years later, right, And he you know. He his 443 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 2: process was very different than mine, as you guys remember, 444 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 2: And I came from working with Jack Klugman on the 445 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 2: show right before and where we'd break it apart every 446 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 2: scene and we'd talk it out, and Bob just wanted 447 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 2: to take a fork and stab his penis with it 448 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 2: and say, I hate my penis, you know right, I 449 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 2: could just. 450 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 5: Be an idiot. 451 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, right, yeah Jones, yeah yeah yeah, unfurling your inside. 452 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 3: I mean, it was just and people are like, what 453 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,719 Speaker 3: is wrong with you guys? You're like, I couldn't explain 454 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 3: it to you if I tried, and I don't know why, 455 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:45,360 Speaker 3: but it will always be funny to us. 456 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 4: It's just Bob. Yeah. 457 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 2: Well, you guys missed, so you wouldn't. So we'd have 458 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:50,440 Speaker 2: notes at the end of the like a couple of 459 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:52,880 Speaker 2: days or whatever, and you guys missed those those days. 460 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:54,399 Speaker 2: I should show you know. I was thinking the. 461 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:55,879 Speaker 4: Kids didn't get to go to the notes. 462 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 5: Thank god, though. 463 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 3: Can you imagine imagine notes, because think about notes when 464 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 3: we did Fuller, I would just be drawing Boobs on 465 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 3: canvas's script. 466 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 5: I was I was being Bob basically. 467 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:10,399 Speaker 2: I was just it was it was terrible, and I 468 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 2: have some video of it. You know, I know you 469 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 2: guys don't do. 470 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 5: This great documentary and that I know we should show. 471 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 2: We'll get to that. I'll show some stuff that you 472 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 2: guys maybe have never seen before, and you can use 473 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 2: it or however you want to do it to make 474 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 2: this a special episode. 475 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:23,679 Speaker 4: Love it. 476 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:27,439 Speaker 2: So, Bob was was that? And and you got in 477 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:31,200 Speaker 2: trouble a lot from your mother's you know, it's like upstairs, yep. 478 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 2: But it was all loving and he was pretty good 479 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 2: around you guys most of the time, although it was 480 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 2: you have stories. What was the what? What was the 481 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 2: What's one of the things that really stuck out to 482 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 2: you girls that you didn't know was going on that 483 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,400 Speaker 2: you found out later from the adults. 484 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 5: Huh. 485 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 2: Remember when Dave used to get massages. Before I was 486 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 2: going to. 487 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 5: Say I was going to say, I was like, do 488 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 5: I say this? Do I not? 489 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 4: My brain is there was there too, It was like 490 00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 4: do we mention it? 491 00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:59,880 Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean, well, I mean here's the thing. 492 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 3: I don't think we probably knew how much like dating, debauchery, 493 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 3: et cetera, was going on with you guys outside, you know, 494 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 3: either with anybody on the crew, or the cast or 495 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,400 Speaker 3: but you know, we were sort of oblivious to all 496 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 3: of that stuff, creating some of the stories that we heard. 497 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:19,640 Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I mean, I don't know, like there 498 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 5: was anybody hooking up with each other or. 499 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 4: Whatever gens were or not. 500 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 5: Amongst our cast. 501 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 3: I'm saying like, I don't know, I feel like I've 502 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,439 Speaker 3: heard stories of like, you know, certain like somebody that 503 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 3: went out with a stand in or thought they were 504 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 3: cute or that, I don't know, stuff like that that 505 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 3: you hear about and you're like, oh my god, Dave. 506 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 2: You know, we would get massages before the right show. 507 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,439 Speaker 2: I wanted to really be relaxed, and so and we 508 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 2: had this husband and wife team and husband I think 509 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:45,919 Speaker 2: usually would do Dave in the way and then they 510 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 2: were out of town and so somehow somebody got this 511 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 2: big blonde Swedish me souse to come in instead of 512 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 2: them and for Dave. And do you remember, I mean, 513 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys remember, but you know, 514 00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 2: showtime and Dave's still up in his dressing room. 515 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 5: That's right, Dave was in and we're like. 516 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 2: Like banging on the day of day they spt me 517 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 2: for intros. 518 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 4: What's that time for introsday. 519 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and he was up there with the messeuse. 520 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened in there, but I did. 521 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:12,960 Speaker 2: Over here. Uh, I was listening to the doors, like 522 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 2: can I touch it? I don't know what she wanted 523 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:16,919 Speaker 2: to touch, but it was I heard that. 524 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 5: Yeah, that was, yeah, that was I didn't remember that. 525 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I didn't learn that until thirty years later. 526 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 2: Tell right, now, do you guys remember that I got 527 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 2: a death threat? I do. 528 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 4: I remember that. 529 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,119 Speaker 1: So you were getting death threats that I was probably 530 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,719 Speaker 1: by letters in the nineties. It was not like, oh 531 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:39,400 Speaker 1: yeah the creative you were getting death threats. So when 532 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,959 Speaker 1: they brought the audience in on that Friday night, like 533 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 1: they set up metal detectors for the first times, like 534 00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 1: this was this was unheard of back in the early nineties, 535 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,920 Speaker 1: and I could feel like this nervous energy all throughout 536 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 1: backstage or like uh. And then right before you went 537 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:57,199 Speaker 1: out for your intro, John, you did the Sign of 538 00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: the Cross, and then I think it was Bob, maybe Dave, 539 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 1: but I think it was Bob who leaned over to 540 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 1: you and said, can I have your parking spot? 541 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:07,479 Speaker 2: That's it? 542 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, it sounds like a Bob thing. I think I 543 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:09,879 Speaker 4: thing that was about it. 544 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 2: I had some deranged idiot that was he showed up 545 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 2: on the lot across the street, you know, the other Yeah, 546 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,159 Speaker 2: it was across from Sony, but it was where they 547 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 2: had and he told somebody where they said, He said 548 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 2: where John Stamins And the girl said, I don't know. 549 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 2: Luckily she didn't say. She said, why is because I'm 550 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,920 Speaker 2: gonna kill him, and then she went to get security 551 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 2: and then he was gone. And then then he started 552 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,440 Speaker 2: calling the the I had a whole chapter. 553 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 5: Of this house season three. 554 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 2: I had a whole chapter of this in my book 555 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 2: and I pulled it out. So this is a special 556 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:45,480 Speaker 2: oh whatever, and so yeah, so it was, and he 557 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 2: was calling the hotline and I had an FBI agent 558 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 2: with me twenty four hours a day, and I was 559 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 2: so stupid because I was trying to ditch him, and 560 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 2: you know, and I got this. I remember when it happened. 561 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,640 Speaker 2: I got this weird you know, summons of it to 562 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 2: Tom and Bob's office and then I Hi John, John, 563 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 2: you know, and there was if you remember their office, 564 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 2: it would look like Willie Walkers getting it. 565 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:03,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 566 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's candy everywhere and these weird little dogs that 567 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 2: looked at you like you were poorer than them, and you. 568 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,880 Speaker 5: Were because you were absolutely Yeah. 569 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. They were like, John, we don't want you to worry, 570 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 2: but you got a death threat. I'm like, don't worry. 571 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,639 Speaker 2: What do you mean don't worry? And they and they 572 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 2: had the security guy there, Gavin de Becker anyway. 573 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah that thing, Gavin. 574 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 2: A couple of times you did. 575 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was death threats as a kid, you did. 576 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're death threat letters from men in prison asking 577 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 1: for specific photo of us as children. 578 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 5: Yeah. 579 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 3: I had someone who was calling the stage, the calling 580 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 3: the set the stage floor and say and asking for 581 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 3: my mom and somebody they connected it to my dressing 582 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:51,159 Speaker 3: room and they were like, do you know where your 583 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,240 Speaker 3: daughter is right now? We have her like really creepy stuff, 584 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 3: and yeah somebody it was Bob, No, it was it 585 00:25:59,080 --> 00:25:59,879 Speaker 3: was just a break now. 586 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 2: Uh. 587 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 5: Yeah. 588 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 3: I had a bodyguard was actually Henry Kissinger's for me bodyguard, 589 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,680 Speaker 3: which had I known that now is a whole different situation. 590 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 3: But yeah, I had a bodyguard in New York because 591 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 3: there was a guy that the FBI was following was 592 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 3: trying to kidnap me. 593 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 5: Weird. It's a weird way to exist. 594 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 2: I know, I always had somebody that wanted to beat 595 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 2: me up. Always until now, I think I don't know 596 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:19,400 Speaker 2: I had a bully. 597 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 1: You know. 598 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:20,919 Speaker 2: When I was writing the book, I was trying to, 599 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 2: you know, come up with as many relatable Yeah. 600 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 3: Were you always John Stamos or were you you know 601 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:28,640 Speaker 3: what I mean? 602 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,159 Speaker 5: You got bullied and you. 603 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, well, when I, first of all, I 604 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,160 Speaker 2: was a door key kid. I was my mom. She's 605 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 2: on a talk show saying it too. I just found 606 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 2: it recently where she said I was so ugly that 607 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 2: she covered my face with a blanket when she took 608 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 2: me home so the neighbors didn't see me. No, someday 609 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:45,719 Speaker 2: he'll grow into his looks. I think she told him 610 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 2: that he had pet monkey or something. But I wasn't 611 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 2: the best. I was a little I wasn't a great 612 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,959 Speaker 2: looking baby. Okay, telling you, I'll show you pictures. 613 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 5: Everybody got to grow into their. 614 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 2: Look true, it took me longer than that. Okay, you know, 615 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 2: looked like Rickles and look at you now. Well, but 616 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 2: when I was sort of that moment where I was 617 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 2: coming out of the caterpillar phasing, into the butterfly phase 618 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 2: or whatever the girls started. You know, I was in 619 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,680 Speaker 2: high school and no girls liked me. Now, nobody was 620 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 2: interested in me, and then all of a sudden it 621 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 2: just started to happen. It was so weird. And I 622 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 2: remember so this I'm in marching band, and this kid says, hey, 623 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 2: so and so, I know so and so sister, and 624 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 2: she said that you're really cute and wants to go 625 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 2: out with you. And I stopped in my tracks and 626 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,639 Speaker 2: trombone guy hit me in the back whatever, and I said, what, 627 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,399 Speaker 2: you can't tell anybody? I said, okay, And then that 628 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 2: night I told everybody. It was a party, you know, 629 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:40,160 Speaker 2: block party. 630 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 3: Right. 631 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 2: Turns out that the girl had a boyfriend, which I 632 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,359 Speaker 2: didn't know about, big football player, you know, on the 633 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 2: football team. And I'm sitting in a car and he 634 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 2: comes and knocks on it and I rolled the window 635 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 2: on a high damn black punches me right in the eye, 636 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 2: really hard, black eye. And I was like, oh my god, 637 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,119 Speaker 2: this is the most humili and it was. And back then, 638 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 2: there was no word. Bullying didn't exist, right, and and 639 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 2: you know, and I was too embarrassed to talk to 640 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 2: my mom and dad about it. I think they bust 641 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 2: the saw but so but I was living in fear 642 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,359 Speaker 2: because this guy was always after me, every time I 643 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 2: would turn a corner. And I'll never forget it. It 644 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 2: was I walked into the bathroom and on it he'd 645 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,880 Speaker 2: written on the mirror I'm gonna kill you, big nose, 646 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 2: and I'm looking at my face this black eye, and 647 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,719 Speaker 2: I go, that's it. I've got to do something. I've 648 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 2: got to do something drastic. I've got to become famous. 649 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 2: That was what through my head, and I thought, Okay, 650 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 2: if I become famous, I'll have bodyguards. Then they'll beat 651 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,439 Speaker 2: him up. And to be honest with you, like my 652 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 2: whole I remember each you know level that I got, Like, 653 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 2: I'll get a TV show. I'll show that son of 654 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 2: a bitch, I'm gonna play with the Beach Boys, and 655 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna invite him to the show and I'll come backstage. 656 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,479 Speaker 2: I'll be doing a drum soll and my bodyguards will 657 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 2: beat him up. And I swear I that was going 658 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:52,960 Speaker 2: through my mind up until today. But did you guys 659 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 2: have anything that propelled Well, we have a special guest 660 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 2: for you, John Oh, come on, I wrote him. I 661 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 2: wanted to dedicate the whole book to him, but I'm 662 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 2: not sure he could read so. But I do look 663 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 2: always forgiven, like we've all. You know, I've moved on, obviously, 664 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 2: it's it's you know, I got the last laugh. Probably 665 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 2: I'm happy. 666 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 1: Did you ever try to find him or tell him 667 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 1: any of this or give him a free copy of 668 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 1: your book? 669 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 5: Maybe? 670 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 2: I mean right, well, like a phantom limb of a 671 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 2: soldier in war, it's always naying it may I do 672 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 2: wish I haven't seen him, but if I do, I 673 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 2: would I would be super gentleman, say hey, remember me 674 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 2: black eye. Oh yeah, you don't have to stand up, 675 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 2: you don't have to clean the toilet, stand up. I 676 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 2: wanted to tell you thank you. Without you, I don't 677 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 2: know if I would be where I'm at today. And 678 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 2: you've you've done everything. You know, you've really propelled me. 679 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:43,920 Speaker 2: And I know we were kids and it was the thing. 680 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 2: You know, sorry about that, you know, and I wish 681 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 2: you the best and walk away. But that I would 682 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:52,959 Speaker 2: turn around and say, but you know, the girl that 683 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 2: you was your girlfriend? I dated her for three years 684 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 2: and she said you were hung like a finch a 685 00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 2: very small place. So and then I would just walk away. 686 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 2: That's sort of the scene there. 687 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 3: Sat that rank drop that you've ever thought about that 688 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 3: ever every night before bed or anything. 689 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,719 Speaker 2: Right, So I tried to find those moments, you know. 690 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 2: I put in a moment that got a lot of 691 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 2: attention about I was madly in love with this girl, 692 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 2: madly in love with her, and she broke my heart 693 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 2: and she cheated on me. I walked in and they 694 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 2: were asleep, but I saw four feet in the bed. 695 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 2: Then I ran out, crying and running down the hall, 696 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 2: down the driveway. And the reason why I put that 697 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 2: story in because years later, when we did Full House, 698 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 2: I don't know if you girls knew this. The show 699 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 2: wasn't didn't do great the first season. 700 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:38,719 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, we were barely. 701 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 2: We didn't. 702 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, we were going to pick thirteen. 703 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 4: Critics hated it. 704 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 2: Well, the oh yeah, we should talk about that never 705 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 2: changed the back thirteen though. Before we got that, you know, 706 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 2: Jeff went into ABC with Milan Boat and they said, well, 707 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 2: why should we keep the show on because we're thinking 708 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 2: about canceling and they have dived in the they were 709 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 2: leaving and Dave Jeff said, I have an idea, and 710 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 2: then Tom and Bob were like, well, and he showed that. 711 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 2: He showed this guy. Uh anyway, he showed him a 712 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,719 Speaker 2: scene of me and Michelle and Dave when we were 713 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 2: feeding her cough medicine. Oh yeah, and it hadn't aired yet, 714 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 2: and you know, look at the chemistry, look at these guys, 715 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 2: and you know, and and we're doing something that no 716 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:23,440 Speaker 2: other show has ever done before. And everybody was like, 717 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 2: what have you done that no one's done before? We're 718 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 2: raising a baby on television. And they were like, oh, 719 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 2: and that's how we got the back nine. But we 720 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 2: still didn't do great, and so they said, you know, 721 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 2: we're going to cancel you guys. Oh no, no, no, 722 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 2: but okay, we're gonna try one thing. We're gonna try 723 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 2: putting you on after one of our hit shows during 724 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 2: the summer reruns, and if you get an audience and 725 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 2: it looks like they're gonna follow you, then we'll keep 726 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 2: for season two. That show was Who's the Boss starring 727 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,920 Speaker 2: Tony Danza, and Tony Danza was the one who was 728 00:31:51,960 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 2: in bed with my girlfriend as exactly, so Who's the Boss? 729 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 3: Now? 730 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 2: Well, anyway, so those are the things, so what else? 731 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 2: But then it took me I stopped and thought about 732 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 2: what the show meant to people. And like you said, 733 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:15,080 Speaker 2: the critics got in my ear and I let them, 734 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,320 Speaker 2: and most of the time I don't. And they've been 735 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 2: very good to me for a lot of things. They 736 00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 2: love this book, and you know, and then you know 737 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 2: something they've not liked it with that's, you know, whatever. 738 00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 2: But they hated Full House and I and you know, 739 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,720 Speaker 2: they didn't think it was sophisticated, right, and it wasn't, 740 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,479 Speaker 2: you know. And there were shows like Seinfeld coming up 741 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 2: and some of these other shows, and you know, I 742 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,000 Speaker 2: felt like, why am I not on that kind of show? 743 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 2: What I realized when I was writing this is that 744 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 2: in lieu of sophistication, there was sweetness and and and 745 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 2: it gave a chance for the brain to step aside 746 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 2: and for you to feel the heart, to feel something 747 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 2: wholesome and good. And the show. Watching the show made 748 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 2: us made us think about the good in us, in 749 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 2: the in the viewer right right. And I mean when 750 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:06,720 Speaker 2: did you guys come to it? 751 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 3: I mean, like as far as sort of reconciling with 752 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 3: what the show was, I mean, you know, I'll be honest, 753 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 3: it took me a while. It definitely took me a while, 754 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 3: I think, growing up on the show and going through 755 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 3: all of my awkward phases, and I mean, you know, 756 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 3: just all of the things that you get made fun of, 757 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 3: your teeth, your hair, your clothes, your whatever, dance move, 758 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 3: you know, all of those things. 759 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 2: Who was making fun of you? There's no social. 760 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 5: Media, yeah, but it was. 761 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 3: I mean I'd show up to school and I would get, 762 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 3: you know, apple's thrown at my head at lunch, and 763 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,000 Speaker 3: get tripped and get pushed, and get stuff written on 764 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 3: my locker and get you know, and I went to 765 00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 3: public school half the time, so it took a long 766 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 3: time to kind of just like sort of pull all 767 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 3: of that apart, right. But now that I've gotten older, 768 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:04,040 Speaker 3: I think I've i under I understand how special it 769 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 3: is to have something that taps into that heart, and 770 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 3: like you were saying, there's not a lot of shows 771 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 3: that necessarily do that. And I've always said that the 772 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 3: appeal of this show was the fact that we genuinely 773 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 3: loved each other in real life, and that the relationships 774 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:21,400 Speaker 3: you were seeing on screen. 775 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,320 Speaker 5: Were how we actually were together. 776 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 3: And I've always said that that is why I think 777 00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 3: people really gravitated toward this show because they were watching 778 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:33,279 Speaker 3: an actual family exist and you know, yes it was 779 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 3: under imaginary circumstances, but our relationships and love were real. 780 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 3: And it wasn't until I got a little bit older 781 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,439 Speaker 3: that I could really appreciate. 782 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 5: The specialness of that. 783 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:46,399 Speaker 3: And I think that's with most things, right, Like, you're 784 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 3: in your teens, twenties, this is stupid, this is lame. 785 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 5: I'm not this, I'm not that, you know, And then. 786 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 3: You get a little older, you know, you have your 787 00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:56,000 Speaker 3: own family or you just kind of settle in a 788 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:56,319 Speaker 3: little and. 789 00:34:56,360 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 5: You go, you know that heart is actually really important. Yeah, 790 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 5: it's really important. I say that there was. 791 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,320 Speaker 2: No central character on the show. The central character of 792 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 2: the show is love exactly and family. 793 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:09,760 Speaker 5: Who's the couch? 794 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 1: Well, you know that if we have John Stamos on, 795 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 1: we had to turn it into a two parter. Too 796 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,280 Speaker 1: much to go over. So tune in for our next episode. 797 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:23,280 Speaker 1: It's our first to be continued more with Uncle. 798 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 4: Jesse next time. 799 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 1: You can follow us on Instagram at how Rude podcast 800 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 1: and you can email us at how rudpodcast at gmail 801 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 1: dot com. 802 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 4: And remember the world is small, but the house is full. 803 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 5: Oh yeah,