1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: So there's a guy that's gone viral. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 2: Thanks to his Reddit post, and he has created a 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 2: list of dating deal breakers and people. It's very controversial. 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 2: People are really upset about this list. And I'm wondering, 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 2: before I tell you what it is eight five, five, five, nine, 6 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 2: one one oh three five, whether you're single now or 7 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,959 Speaker 2: you were one single, was there anything that you just 8 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 2: were unwilling to negotiate about. I think for a lot 9 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 2: of people it's kids. I think it's a pretty basic one. 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: I run into that one all the time. This is 11 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 2: a certain demographic, and I get it, you know, I 12 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: think it's I don't I don't want to say a 13 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 2: specific age, but I think women if they haven't had 14 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:37,919 Speaker 2: kids at a certain age and they want them, then 15 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 2: they're not. They're going to be very many of them 16 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 2: are going to be very straightforward with you about what 17 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 2: they want. And if you don't, they're gonna find somebody 18 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 2: who does. Because and I get it, you don't want 19 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 2: to waste time, valuable time on somebody who definitely doesn't 20 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 2: want kids. 21 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 3: Do you tell them that you definitely don't want kids? 22 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:53,639 Speaker 1: No, I tell them that it's it's. 23 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 2: Uh, it's kind of partner specific which it is. 24 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: I can see a world without kids. I can see 25 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 1: a world with kids. 26 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 2: I will say the older I get, the less likely 27 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 2: I see that I would have kids, But I can't 28 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 2: imagine having kids with someone who I didn't feel compelled 29 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 2: to have. 30 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: Kids with it that makes sense, that's smart. 31 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 2: I feel like there are people out there who they 32 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 2: want family, and so they find the person to make 33 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 2: the family with. And that's not to say that the 34 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 2: person they're making the family with isn't a great person, 35 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 2: but but the family and the security is a bigger priority, 36 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 2: maybe than the partnership. The partnership for me is number one, 37 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 2: and then maybe you could talk me into number two. 38 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 2: But without one, I would never do too. Like I'm 39 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,479 Speaker 2: just not compelled to have children, you know. I mean, 40 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 2: I don't know, Like are you, kik, Are you compelled 41 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 2: to have Like? Can you see a world without them? 42 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 4: Yes? 43 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 5: Okay, I say often at thirty five. If I get 44 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 5: to thirty five and I haven't had kids yet, I'll 45 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 5: probably not have them. 46 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: Okay, I have enough lads in my life. What are 47 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: you two years away? 48 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 5: Mind your business them? But yeah, I don't feel like 49 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 5: I could see it we're with or without them. 50 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 2: I'm not Yeah, yeah, I don't know that my sister 51 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 2: married a great guy. It turns out, as it turns 52 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 2: I he's a great guy, but my sister is for 53 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 2: as long as I can remember, that wanted to be 54 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 2: a mom. And so I'm not saying that she didn't 55 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 2: marry a great guy, but like, I think that there 56 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 2: were a number of things that were as important to her, 57 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 2: not as important as him. But I mean it was like, 58 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 2: we needed the other piece to make this happen, and 59 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 2: she found a great guy and they're doing it and 60 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 2: it's amazing. But I think sometimes people get in a 61 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 2: hurry for the other piece and they don't always necessarily 62 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 2: make the choice that is, you know, gonna sustain decades 63 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 2: or a lifetime. And then it's like, well, I got 64 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: the kids in the family, but now I'm stuck with 65 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 2: this idiot. 66 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: So I don't know. 67 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 2: I guess I'd rather never feel like I got stuck 68 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 2: with his idiot and then if I never have kids, 69 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 2: then I probably shouldn't have, right, because isn't that the purpose? 70 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: Is that the point? 71 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 2: I might I realize his legacy, but like, if I'm 72 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 2: gonna have a kid, I want to be nuts about 73 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 2: the person I'm having a kid with. 74 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, sometimes it doesn't work out though, you know what 75 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 4: I mean? 76 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 6: And I think that's like also okay, like I feel 77 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 6: like I remember Kaylin and I had this conversation where 78 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 6: it's like I wanted to make sure I had like 79 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 6: the right person, but like I also knew, like deep inside, 80 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 6: like okay, like if God forbid, it does not work 81 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 6: out with my husband, which it's going to, but if 82 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 6: it doesn't, ram being realistic, then like I know, like 83 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 6: she'll have a great dad and even greater family like 84 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 6: grandparents and all of that. 85 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 4: To me, it's so importan because I didn't have that 86 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 4: growing up, So I. 87 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 6: Wanted to make sure she kind of had that too, 88 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,799 Speaker 6: you know, no matter what happens with me and my husband, 89 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 6: because that is some of it's out of your control unfortunately, 90 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 6: right if something is to happen or whatever. 91 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 2: But I want to know, did you any of you 92 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 2: have any or do you have any like hardcore deal 93 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 2: breakers that you're willing to do it and mad? Because 94 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: here here is what got this guy in trouble. Okay, 95 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: he's been actively dating this guy he's twenty nine, since 96 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: he was eighteen. He's met a wide array of women, 97 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: which led him to construct the not to do list, 98 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 2: which helps him determine suitability early in the dating stage. 99 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 2: So these are non negotiables. Females need not apply if 100 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 2: they these are his words. By the way, he got 101 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 2: apply not mine. Cheated in a past relationship, Oh God, 102 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 2: agree with them. Take recreational drugs on a regular basis, okay, 103 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: have an incurable sexually transmitted disease, Okay, are currently in 104 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 2: a situationship or have a friend with benefits. I mean, yeah, 105 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 2: I suppose if you're trying to date somebody and they're 106 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 2: having sex with somebody else, that's probably not going to 107 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,679 Speaker 2: be great for the success rate. But I also pretty 108 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 2: much assume that anybody I meet, until we have a 109 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 2: conversation about exclusivity, I just assume they are also doing 110 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 2: it with someone else. 111 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, right, you're smart. I used to be so naive. 112 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 4: I think I'm the only one over here here in 113 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:34,559 Speaker 4: these streets. 114 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 2: I just think you're less likely to be disappointed if 115 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 2: you just assume that everybody's out there doing it because 116 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 2: they are. And by the way, if you're doing it 117 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 2: on the side, they're doing it on the side. So 118 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 2: let's just be clear about that. And especially with the 119 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 2: dating apps and stuff like. I mean, I feel like 120 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 2: you have to You've heard me talk about it before. 121 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 2: You have to roll it. Not necessarily sleep with, but 122 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 2: you have to roll three or four deep on those 123 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 2: things at any given time if you want one to 124 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 2: work out. Because I feel like everybody's doing the same thing. 125 00:04:58,279 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 2: They're all looking and oh I got a new mad 126 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 2: the whole it's it's very difficult to think to to 127 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 2: maintain one person's attention when it's designed to bring new 128 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 2: things in all the time. Anyway, have low standards of hygiene. 129 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 2: Are a sex worker and he put that twice online 130 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 2: or in person, So if you do an OnlyFans non 131 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 2: negotiable for this guy. Have extreme political views. Are a 132 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 2: single mother? Wow, and then he puts sex workers again? 133 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I mean no, I would I guess 134 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 2: I would prefer not to date officially somebody who is 135 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 2: also sleeping with somebody else. So sure, But again, if 136 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 2: I meet you and your single I assume that you've 137 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 2: got a sneaky lank or you got you got something. 138 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 2: I don't assume that you're just sitting there with your hands, 139 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 2: you know, folded waiting for me to come along, and 140 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 2: then you're just gonna wait until I decide what you're 141 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 2: gonna know. I don't think that now, the cheating and 142 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 2: a past relationship one that that's that I don't know 143 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 2: about that. I don't I don't necessarily believe that just 144 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 2: because you cheated one time means that you will cheat 145 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 2: again inevitably. I think if you have a history of cheating, 146 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 2: then I can count on you cheating, because that, to 147 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 2: me is fun. It's a fundamental character flaw if you 148 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 2: have a history of it. If you cheat all the time, 149 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 2: you know, one more than one person consecutively or whatever, 150 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 2: that means that you at that point put yourself above 151 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 2: other people. 152 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: Right. 153 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:22,359 Speaker 2: But I think if you cheat one time, I don't know, 154 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 2: there's so many different variables there. 155 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. 156 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 2: I would just rule somebody out because they cheat it 157 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 2: one time. I guess I'd want to hear the other 158 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 2: side of the story. 159 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:33,119 Speaker 4: Yeah, not you is it at home business? 160 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,039 Speaker 3: Like what if you don't ever tell them that you 161 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 3: cheat it? Like what if you learned your lesson? Like, 162 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't go that in depth about 163 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 3: past relationships when I'm dating someone. 164 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 2: Oh, but you know me, I like to ask all 165 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: the questions you do, all the questions that are oh no, 166 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 2: I'm famous for that, ask all the questions I don't 167 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 2: want the answers to. 168 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 6: I don't torture why I read that first one as 169 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 6: being cheated on that I thought that's what he was saying, like, Oh, 170 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,159 Speaker 6: if you've ever been cheated on, then like don't apply 171 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 6: because you know they say like that, Oh we're so 172 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 6: scorn and so like we carry all this hurt with 173 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 6: us in our next relationship when you've been cheated on, 174 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 6: That's what I thought he was referring to. And that 175 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 6: got me mad because I'm like, well, it's not like 176 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:06,359 Speaker 6: the person's fault, you know what I mean, that. 177 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 1: Can be a fact. 178 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 2: I wouldn't necessarily rule somebody out for that, But I've 179 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 2: paid the price for other people's in discretions in relationship. 180 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 2: We all have for it sucks, but so I feel like, 181 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 2: you know, it sucks to be cheated on. But at 182 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 2: the same time, there does come a point where it's 183 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 2: gonna sabbatine. The thing you didn't do is going to 184 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 2: sabotage the rest of your relationships if you don't figure 185 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 2: out a way to deal with it, because not everybody's 186 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 2: gonna cheat on you, not everyone's gonna lie to you. 187 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 4: You gotta work with the pain. 188 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 2: The drugs thing, I don't know, the STD thing, I mean, 189 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 2: I'm saying. 190 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 4: I'm literally kidding. 191 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 3: I mean, that's so unfair, though it is not someone's 192 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 3: fault if they get that. 193 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. 194 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 2: I just think, yeah, I'd love to know this guy's success, 195 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 2: right though, Like, let's see, I want to know in 196 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 2: five years who this guy winds up with, because it 197 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: sounds like somebody could apply to almost any one of 198 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 2: these categories except the low standards of hygiene. If you 199 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 2: if you stanky, then I will not interested because I 200 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 2: do shower and groom and like I value that. But 201 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 2: like single moms, what the hell's wrong with you? I 202 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 2: hate him anyway, None of you guys did honestly that 203 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 2: you're willing to admit like a hardcore non negotiable. 204 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 7: I think, like, especially in the gay culture, open relationships 205 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 7: are something that people go into like dating, like wanting, 206 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 7: and that's just. 207 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: Something that I know I could not do. 208 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 7: I'm far too jealous and far too crazy to be 209 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 7: knowing that you're out doing something else you pretending to 210 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 7: be okay with it. 211 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's real. 212 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: I don't like that. I wouldn't be able to do that. 213 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 2: I don't know how people, I mean, I hate more 214 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 2: power to you though, and then if you get an OnlyFans, 215 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 2: just bring in some dough. I mean, let's talk about 216 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 2: that a little bit. Let's see the finances on it, 217 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 2: like I want to hear both sides. Yeah, well, you 218 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 2: know what kind of portfolio do you have? It's a 219 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 2: strong to quite strong, like it's you know, hold on 220 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 2: a second, like, let's is it just feet and ankles? 221 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,719 Speaker 2: And I don't have a problem with that, Jason, you 222 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 2: just learned online that I don't know who came up 223 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 2: with this, but I guess you're not supposed to wash 224 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 2: your jeans every single time that you wear them. 225 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: Well, I was surprised that people do because I don't. 226 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: But then I was like, am I disgusting that I 227 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: don't Wait, you've. 228 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 4: Never washed them? 229 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: No? No, no, I don't watch them like after every wearing 230 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: of them. You can't. You're not supposed to, but some 231 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: people do. 232 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 7: And so I'm like, wait, I guess it makes sense 233 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:26,439 Speaker 7: because like I wash my shirt, I don't wear my 234 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 7: shirt multiple times. But I'm like, my gross because I 235 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 7: don't watch it after every. 236 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 2: Well, so wait, how many times? How often do you 237 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 2: wash your jeans? I usually go through like two pairs 238 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 2: of jeans a week. Okay, so like every two to 239 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 2: three times. Actually it's bad for the jeans, I guess 240 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 2: it's like bad for the fabric to wash them. I 241 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 2: watched my jeanes a lot, me too, every day. But 242 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 2: you were shocked to learn that people wash your jeans 243 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 2: every single day. 244 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: Yes, I didn't know that was a thing. 245 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 2: It is kind of ghost to think about it. I 246 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 2: don't even think about it though, Like I realized that 247 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 2: people wash their shirt and stuff because of their under 248 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 2: arms or you know, because it touch their skin, And 249 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,079 Speaker 2: I realize you why you wash your underwear, of course. 250 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 2: But but the jeans are I mean, we we we're 251 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 2: out here. I mean they have the most probably surface 252 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 2: area coverage to touching things. 253 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:12,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. 254 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:14,839 Speaker 2: So you think that you should probably watch them more 255 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 2: than you do. But I think the reason people don't 256 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 2: watch them is because they don't. They won't last as long, 257 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 2: not because you probably shouldn't. 258 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 7: And also they don't feel dirty to me, like I 259 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 7: don't know why, Like, my shirts feel dirty, but my 260 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 7: pants don't. 261 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 2: So you're you're like at every three day jean washer. Yeah, yeah, 262 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 2: is that okay? Or three ware? 263 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I'm disgusting. No, not at all. No, bro, 264 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 1: I have one pair of underwear. Oh, that's your good. 265 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: I don't know if I trust you. Actually not. I 266 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: have not worn jeans since the pandemic. 267 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 5: I have not. 268 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: Your thighs are out. 269 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's the wrong guy to ask about about what's appropriate. Yeah, 270 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 2: but I I feel like if I don't, you're not 271 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 2: supposed to dry them either, which I also do, because 272 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 2: I feel like if they like, they like fall out 273 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 2: the jeans kind of fall out, you know what I mean, 274 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 2: Like over the course of I don't know however long 275 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 2: and then they start to stick kind of fit differently. 276 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 277 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 7: I mean my favorite jeans today and they're starting to 278 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 7: get like, I don't know what you would call it, 279 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 7: but you start feeling like a touchture, like they're like 280 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 7: do you feel they're like ripping or fading or like something. 281 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 1: Oh, they're worn in though I like a worn in Yeah, I. 282 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 7: Like it, but I feel like they're gonna. 283 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 8: Rip because when you buy jeans. You know it takes 284 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 8: a while for them to fit right, to break them in. Yeah, right, 285 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 8: and then when you wash them, you just reset the 286 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 8: whole process. 287 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: You know they're tight agains and you try them. Read 288 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 1: I try. 289 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 4: Laundry habits like I try. 290 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 1: I draw a lot of stuff. Yeah, because what am 291 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 1: I gonna do? 292 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:34,079 Speaker 2: Hang it? 293 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: Or where am I gonna hang it? 294 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 9: Where? 295 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:36,679 Speaker 1: Small apartment? 296 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 8: Gonna have a second bedroom with the with the bathroom 297 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 8: with a bar, right, a shower curtain bar, Hang on? 298 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 6: No, your balcony, I think you would do that. 299 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: My clothes are fine. Look at me. My clothes look 300 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: fine on the balcony. 301 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:54,679 Speaker 8: Never he's gonna do them when when it gets. 302 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 3: Windy out like somebody's with this clothing line, Oh imagine. 303 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 8: In the winter time and reasons out there that it 304 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 8: falls and against I don't think I can have a 305 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 8: clothesline on the forty. 306 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 3: Floor or whatever, because it would drive you insane to 307 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 3: know that not everything's in order, Like to think of 308 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 3: hanging clothes in. 309 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 2: Your if I had like a I don't know, if 310 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 2: I were out in the stick somewhere living only a 311 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 2: farm or what. I probably because they smell good sometimes 312 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 2: when you do you hang all your shirts or do 313 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 2: you Wow, if it's something I could damage, then I 314 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 2: haven't professionally done. Like if it's if it's like a 315 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 2: nice shirt or something that I would mess up. And 316 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 2: I don't also really want to iron, so I'll take 317 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 2: it to the dry cleaner. But I and the laundry 318 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 2: and a dry cleaner. I don't even tell them what 319 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 2: to do. I just say here, and I just give 320 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 2: them the stuff and then they read the instructions. 321 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: They do it. 322 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 2: But then everything else like t shirts, underwear, socks. I 323 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 2: just said, it's all the same. It's all the same, 324 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 2: and I'm cold. Put it all in there, boom, off 325 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 2: it goes. 326 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 1: That's dry. 327 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:52,319 Speaker 3: My underwear, well, my underwear, underwear, it's really delicate. 328 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 4: I don't know. 329 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 8: No regular box, nice box of briefs. 330 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like boxer briefs. Whatever. I don't want handle it. 331 00:12:59,120 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 4: I'm nice. 332 00:12:59,559 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 1: I'm sure. 333 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 3: What do you wear, Tommy John? 334 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not handwashing my manties just they just go 335 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 2: into their look. I have very few problems with with shrinkage, 336 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:11,679 Speaker 2: with with color, blooding. 337 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 1: I mean, it works out fine. It works out fine. 338 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 1: With your shirts. 339 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 8: They don't none of them shrink at all that sometimes. 340 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 2: It's actually designed to be a week, which one I 341 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 2: got a couple of going over there. 342 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: No worry about it. I supposed to boys have a 343 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: pair of things I don't have, or that you can't see. 344 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: One more watch and we'll see them. Prince Albert, Indeed 345 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:48,439 Speaker 1: it is God saying the clay. 346 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 2: A thousand bucks we started with Jason doesn't watch his 347 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 2: jeans here. 348 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: And if you don't know that, you don't know. 349 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:06,959 Speaker 7: Not a clue, then google right now? 350 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:12,199 Speaker 1: What am I going google? Prince Albert Piercing, Yes, Albert Piercing. 351 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to get a real go one of these. 352 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:17,840 Speaker 4: It's like near me, like I want to get one. 353 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 9: Okay, I cannot not think of that he does because j. 354 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: Well mentioned it when they were looking up on the show. 355 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 2: I also at the at the Tin Roof Establishment, I 356 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: did meet a woman who has a tongue ring, which 357 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 2: I didn't know. People still did that. I've never kissed 358 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 2: anybody with a tongue ring though, and honestly I didn't 359 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 2: kiss her, but just as an experiment, you know, we 360 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 2: made love. We drank some rumples, and that we've made 361 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 2: in the corner of Tin roof. 362 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 1: I guess nobody. 363 00:14:58,120 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 2: I've never kissed anybody with a tongue ring, and for 364 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 2: that reason, I just wanted, like again, no like purpose what. 365 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 2: I just wanted to do it just so I knew 366 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 2: what that was like. Have you ever kissed thee with 367 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 2: a tongue ring? 368 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 4: No, but my dad's X has one. 369 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 2: Any of you, Yeah, I have it. It just seems 370 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 2: like there's a lot of luck going on in there. 371 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 2: Seems like there's a lot of like a lot of material. 372 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 3: God, and my friend's male X had one. 373 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 1: M Oh, you can think about why they exit. I'm 374 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 1: surprised you didn't stick with him too. 375 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 4: Honestly. 376 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 2: Maybe it's the tongue ring with the gift that giveth 377 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 2: and the gift that take it away. I take it 378 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 2: away eight nine, one three five show bis Shelley one 379 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 2: thousand bucks. If you can snap her fourteen game win 380 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 2: streaking the showdown, we'll play next after whatever this hick's 381 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 2: name is. 382 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: I forgot Fred's show is on. It feels good. 383 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 2: I don't have six figures of Instagram. That would be 384 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 2: nearly catastrophic. 385 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 4: The reason is very sad too good. 386 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 2: News, happy stories. We share him with you every day 387 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 2: on the show Kail and Go. 388 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 3: Just a year ago, Oliver James threw up a TikTok 389 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 3: with a simple but brutally honest confession. He started it 390 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 3: out saying, what's up? 391 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 4: I can't read. 392 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 3: Oliver was in prison for most of his twenties for 393 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 3: dealing firearms, but after he got out and posted that TikTok, 394 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 3: he kind of became a viral sensation by posting lots 395 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 3: of videos of him sitting in his van, slowly trying 396 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 3: to read and working his way through one book after another. 397 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 4: Cut to now. 398 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 3: He recently got a standing ovation while being honored by 399 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 3: the Barbara Bush Foundation for Family Literacy. The thirty five 400 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 3: year old that took a deep breath before he was 401 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 3: able to begin reading the teleprompter, he said, I started 402 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 3: out on this journey just to help myself, but it 403 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 3: turns out I'm helping a lot of kids and even 404 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 3: Adele too have struggle with. 405 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 4: Reading like I was, or I did rather and yeah, so. 406 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 3: Now he turned this into his own little foundation and 407 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 3: he's helping lots of people learn how to read. 408 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 2: Oh whoa, Yes, this is kind of incredible. I should 409 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 2: stay kind of it is incredible. A middle school principal 410 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 2: in Kentucky adopted a girl one of his own students 411 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 2: who was acting out after she'd spent her whole life 412 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 2: in and out of foster homes. Sent to his office 413 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 2: after being suspended. He realized that she just needed someone 414 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 2: to do something for her, somebody to go in her favor. 415 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 2: So the Kentucky school principal named Jason walked out of 416 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 2: his office one day and saw a girl from the 417 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 2: sixth grade sitting in a chair by the door, suspended 418 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 2: for throwing a cup of yogurt during lunch. One can 419 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,959 Speaker 2: only imagine how much delinquency in mischief this guy had 420 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 2: seen throughout his fourteen year career, but something about this 421 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 2: girl struck him that day. Asking whether she thought such 422 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 2: behavior was acceptable at a restaurant, she said she'd never 423 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 2: even been to one. This little girl said, so, she'd 424 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 2: been in and out of foster homes. 425 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:32,400 Speaker 1: She said. 426 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 2: At this point, I had felt like or he said, 427 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 2: she just needed a hand. I recognized that she needed 428 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 2: something to go in her favor, maybe for once, that 429 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 2: it hadn't gone in her favor in the past, but 430 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 2: she needed someone to help her, and so he winds 431 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 2: up adopting her and the whole process was formal, and 432 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:50,680 Speaker 2: now they're for her parents. 433 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 1: And I mean, it's an incredible story. 434 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 2: But yeah, from uh, don't throw your yogurt to like, 435 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 2: come live in my house and I'll raise you and 436 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:57,439 Speaker 2: pay for your college. 437 00:17:57,960 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 1: It's kind of incredible. 438 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 2: And I guess they were trying to have cares and 439 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 2: they weren't able to and then this little girl shows up. 440 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 2: So pretty amazing. Let's do Kiki's court. The Entertainer Report 441 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 2: trending story is a fun fact. All next frend show's 442 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:15,959 Speaker 2: on up, a fresh show. You take it away, Judge Kiky, 443 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 2: all rise, that's right for today's case. 444 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 5: All right, baby, let's get into the courtroom now. This 445 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 5: letter says, hey, Kike, please give me your thoughts on this. 446 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 5: My name is Ashley, and my husband and I have 447 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:30,639 Speaker 5: been married for seven years. We have three daughters, and 448 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 5: for the last few years we've had a rough patch 449 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 5: in our marriage. During the pandemic, we lived separately, but 450 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 5: since then he's moved back in with me and the girls, 451 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 5: and we both agreed to try to get pregnant one 452 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 5: last time and hopes for a boy. 453 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: Well that's always a good idea. 454 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 9: I know. 455 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 1: They started working out, let's have another. 456 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 4: Kid, bring another baby up again. 457 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 5: Well, after almost a year of trying, we were not successful, 458 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 5: and I went to the doctor thinking something was wrong 459 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 5: with me, only for my husband to finally admit that 460 00:18:57,040 --> 00:19:01,679 Speaker 5: he had a vasectomy while we were separated. I was devastated, rightfully, 461 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 5: So when I asked him why didn't he talk to 462 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 5: me about it first, his only response was my body. 463 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 4: My choice, sir, sir, okay. 464 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 5: So since he made the choice without me, I feel 465 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:16,160 Speaker 5: like we should adopt the son to complete our family. 466 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 5: He refused, so I gave him an ultimatum, either we 467 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 5: adopt a son or I'm leaving the marriage. 468 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 4: What should I do? 469 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 1: Wait, he went and got it secretly snipped. 470 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,919 Speaker 4: He wouldn't get that thing clipped, and he did not 471 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 4: tell her, And so. 472 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:31,399 Speaker 2: He was like, let's make a baby, but he knew 473 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 2: that it was impossible to do it. 474 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:36,360 Speaker 5: Yes, sent this woman to the doctor and everything she's 475 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 5: thinking something's wrong with her, And the whole time he 476 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,919 Speaker 5: has a pasecon me that is Christy. 477 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, baby, I don't know. Better try again. I 478 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know if. 479 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:51,400 Speaker 2: This poor lady, I mean another month at aw Man 480 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 2: I yess, yeah damn, and that in itself is divorce worthy. 481 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 4: That is some sneaky, nasty work. 482 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 1: When he was living apart from her. Yeah, oh my god. 483 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 2: Okay, so what are your thoughts, judge kick eight five 484 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 2: five five nine three five. You guys at the jury, 485 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 2: what are your thoughts, Judge Kick King? 486 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 5: Well, Ashley, I think you need to pack his bags 487 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 5: and he needs to go ahead and leave. 488 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 4: You don't leave your house. 489 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 5: He needs to go ahead and leave him and his 490 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 5: thing that he didne got clipped. They need to be 491 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 5: out in the street so he could live his best life, 492 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,719 Speaker 5: because clearly that's what he's been trying to do. And 493 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:26,880 Speaker 5: absolutely you don't. I don't think you should make him 494 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 5: adopt the child. That child doesn't deserve to be in 495 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 5: a household with somebody like him who can't is not trustworthy, 496 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 5: and then doesn't even want the kid. 497 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 4: So no, don't adopt a child with him. You need 498 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 4: to leave. I think that that's really the only answer. 499 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:40,159 Speaker 1: Huh for me. 500 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 2: I also don't know, again, to return to the original point, 501 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 2: I don't know why we're bringing more kids into a 502 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,640 Speaker 2: situation that's already known to be volatile. 503 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 4: Well, she said, they're back on good so you know 504 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:52,919 Speaker 4: he moved it. He've been getting it in. 505 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 5: They've been getting it here for a year, trying to 506 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:56,880 Speaker 5: have a baby that he knew he couldn't have, like that. 507 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: Schedule. It's time again. Okay, let's go, let's again. 508 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Ashley, save yourself, honey. 509 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: I'm surprised he told her after she went to the doctor, like. 510 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 5: He probably felt, I mean like his conscience probably was 511 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:13,879 Speaker 5: eating him up to the point where he was like, 512 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 5: let me just tell this lady, you know, like that's crazy. 513 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,679 Speaker 1: Get tested, you know, to see what your count is. 514 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 1: It's zero. I had no idea, right, how did that happen? 515 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,439 Speaker 1: Shut that thing down? Man? 516 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 4: Oh my god. 517 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 2: Well, look, she wants to have a kid. He doesn't 518 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,160 Speaker 2: want to have a kid. They probably shouldn't if things 519 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,880 Speaker 2: were going well. So they got to go their separate ways. 520 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:37,160 Speaker 2: It's over, That's what I say. 521 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 4: I agree. No ultimatum is gonna fix that. I would 522 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 4: feel too, like after a year, like I would feel. 523 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 6: Maybe something's going on with me, and then that causes 524 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 6: even more streuss, so I would literally, yeah, this man 525 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:55,119 Speaker 6: would be unlived so quick, so quick than he. 526 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 1: Won't have anything left. 527 00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,719 Speaker 4: But I mean, you guys have those things. 528 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 5: Do you feel like you need to consult with your 529 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,120 Speaker 5: partner before you make that decision. 530 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 1: To consult with Well, they were separated, you know what 531 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: I'm saying. 532 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,119 Speaker 5: Okay, still, but they're you know how I feel legally 533 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 5: that's her thing. They're married still, just a little separation. 534 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 5: They're just mad that week. Would you really go and 535 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,919 Speaker 5: get your things snip and not consult your wife? 536 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: Oh? No, I would. You'd have to tell you know, 537 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: I'd have to tell my wife. I mean, maybe he. 538 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 2: Thought they were never going to get back together, you know, 539 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 2: he was, he was living somewhere else. Maybe he thought 540 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 2: it was over, so he went and got snipped and 541 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,120 Speaker 2: he was out here doing this thing. Also, he didn't 542 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 2: want any kind of accidents either, right, you know, because 543 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 2: he was probably doing some things and you know, they 544 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 2: were separated. So that's that's what happens when you get separated, 545 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 2: but you're. 546 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:41,439 Speaker 5: Still legally, legally, legally married, Like you can't just be 547 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 5: out here yea and stuff? 548 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 1: Right, Well you can't. 549 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 8: It's it's I don't think it's wrong that he didn't 550 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 8: tell her that. You know, he got a sect that 551 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 8: he got it it's the fact that he continued for 552 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 8: a year. 553 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 1: I didn't say anything. That's that's the bigger. 554 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,160 Speaker 2: Issue to me, right, Oh, we gotta do it again. 555 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 2: Oh man, I'm sorry, must that's not working. 556 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: Not feel now, let's go didn't work again? Sorry, Hey, Erica. 557 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 1: Fred's show is on Good Morning Everybody, Monday, December fourth. 558 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: It's The Fred Show. 559 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:20,919 Speaker 2: Hikitlin morning, Hi, Roofy, Hello, Hello, Paulina Taikikilly, Jason Brown interned, 560 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 2: vendo me Benjamin all here, we'll get to waiting on 561 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:27,480 Speaker 2: the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted? You've got to 562 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 2: hear this in just a second. 563 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 1: This dude, this dude, big creek, this guy, Yeah, big 564 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 1: creep is right. 565 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 2: But I'm sure it's been done here, Like I feel 566 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:46,919 Speaker 2: like this is probably not the first time and definitely 567 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 2: not the first time for this guy, and it won't 568 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:50,399 Speaker 2: be the last sea to But you're hearing this a 569 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 2: second the entertainer report after that, what are you working on? 570 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 1: Kaylin? 571 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 3: Well, a man with too much time on his hands 572 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 3: figured out how much mcaulay Culkin's grocery bill in the 573 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 3: movie Home Alone would be in today's economy. 574 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,200 Speaker 2: Okay, that's coming up by the way, Low Wayne at 575 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 2: our cabinito. One jingle Ball tonight sold out all State, 576 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,200 Speaker 2: all kinds of behind the scenes stuff. We will have 577 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 2: it on our gram Fred Show Radio, So give us 578 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 2: a follow back in two minutes