WEBVTT - Amy & Morgan Exchange Boyfriend Stories

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<v Speaker 1>The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part.

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<v Speaker 2>One behind a scene with a member of the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy Saturday. Everyone joining me this weekend on Best Bits

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<v Speaker 2>is Amy. How are you Amy?

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<v Speaker 1>Hello?

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<v Speaker 2>Excited to be here?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Catch up on the all things going on in your life. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna start with the one thing that I was

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<v Speaker 2>getting so many questions about, and it is both of

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<v Speaker 2>our boyfriends.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, Oh, I do have a few.

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<v Speaker 2>Specific questions okay, but and these are from listeners. These

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<v Speaker 2>are not me. I'll have my questions after. Okay, perfect,

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<v Speaker 2>because this is not the question part. But when there's

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<v Speaker 2>so many of one thing, I reserve it for a

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<v Speaker 2>space be where we can just talk all about that.

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<v Speaker 2>So most attractive thing about your new boyfriends to you, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>this is coming from Kate.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh, there's several things. But I do like that

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<v Speaker 1>he's tall. He's six' three.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay oh we went physical, Okay oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah but also he's, kind all, right we got we

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<v Speaker 1>got tall.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind, yeah he's a great. Dad, okay these are good.

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<v Speaker 2>THINGS i would Say mine is that he Is his

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<v Speaker 2>love language is acts of service AND i love. It.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, so what's?

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<v Speaker 2>Yours my giving one is acts of. Service my, sorry

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<v Speaker 2>my receiving one is acts of, service.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay my giving.

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<v Speaker 2>ONE i don't know THAT i have a specific. ONE

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<v Speaker 2>i try and show up in a lot of. Them

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<v Speaker 2>but maybe more than, anything it's quality. TIME i like

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure THAT i give a lot of quality.

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<v Speaker 2>Time BUT i also love acts of, service giving and.

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<v Speaker 2>Receiving M h has always been but he's very big in.

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<v Speaker 2>That and he's very, consistent which are two qualities that

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<v Speaker 2>are kind of hard to.

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<v Speaker 1>Find, YEAH i would say consistent is a good. One

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<v Speaker 1>like there's he's very, stable consistent, mine so that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Attractive consistency is.

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<v Speaker 2>Sexy we. Have that has been a thing that we've

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<v Speaker 2>talked about on my. Podcast that is a trait that we.

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<v Speaker 2>Love and, PHYSICALLY i mean he has very nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Muscles oh, yes, YEAH i saw that. Picture, yeah he

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<v Speaker 1>does look Like thor a little.

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<v Speaker 2>Bit and he's ALSO i don't, know he's just, tall

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<v Speaker 2>dark and. HANDSOME i would say we're going to the physical.

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<v Speaker 1>Route oh did you just Say?

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<v Speaker 2>Thor, yeah because the guys all Reference.

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<v Speaker 1>Thor, yeah they'll call Them. THOR i forgot. THAT i

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<v Speaker 1>put up a little question box. TOO i know this

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<v Speaker 1>is YOUR i was, like so just, NOW i was, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Did they come in through?

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<v Speaker 1>Yours, WELL i PUT i overlaid a question box on

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<v Speaker 1>top of your question box because IF i IF, i you,

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<v Speaker 1>know IF i do, yours they click on your, page

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<v Speaker 1>and just in case they, didn't WHICH i want them,

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<v Speaker 1>to but if they, clicked if they clicked the question,

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<v Speaker 1>box then maybe they could just ask right. Away so,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah and you're, right there's lots.

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<v Speaker 2>Of there's lots of boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Questions there's lots of boyfriend. Questions, okay well Here i'll ask.

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<v Speaker 2>This this is the only other specific ONE i had

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<v Speaker 2>that came from. IT a lot of them was just,

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<v Speaker 2>like talk about your. Boyfriends how does he feel about

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<v Speaker 2>sharing on the podcast including his?

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<v Speaker 1>Name? Okay he he is okay with. It that's so

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<v Speaker 1>funny BECAUSE i just read a question here Is amy's,

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend okay With amy talking about? Him that's From julie In.

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<v Speaker 1>Kansas he is okay with.

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<v Speaker 2>It, YEAH i would assume that you've probably had that

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<v Speaker 2>conversation and he guys have talked about things much like

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<v Speaker 2>both you AND i have. Discussed we always ask for

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<v Speaker 2>it's not necessarily an, approval but just to like the

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<v Speaker 2>communication is. There we're not openly going to share something without.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you okay IF i say? This and that's with

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<v Speaker 1>any of our friendships or. RELATIONSHIPS i think we've learned,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes although sometimes stuff will just organically come up And i'm, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh this is a good, story AND i have to

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<v Speaker 1>pause be, like OH i HAVEN'T i haven't asked IF

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<v Speaker 1>i can share this, yet So i'll have to. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>or sometimes it just comes out and then you ask for.

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<v Speaker 2>Forgiveness, yes but more often than, not we are asking

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<v Speaker 2>for be, like, hey you good with. This we're not,

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<v Speaker 2>Guys we're not. Stupid we're Not we're not openly just

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<v Speaker 2>talking about other people's lives without having some version of

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<v Speaker 2>a reality outside of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Job, yeah but to just BE i get the curiosity behind,

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<v Speaker 1>it because to be kind of thrown into dating somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that talks about their life on YEAH, prettyo it's, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh how do they really feel about? It and he

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty okay with it from the get. GO i,

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<v Speaker 1>mean he's not eager to like come on and talk

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<v Speaker 1>like he doesn't want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be ever be a guest on your.

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<v Speaker 1>PODCAST i don't think, so, okay but but that may.

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<v Speaker 1>CHANGE i just, know, right, Now, no he doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>any interest in, that Which i'm okay.

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<v Speaker 2>With, yeah and you guys hard, launched, well you hard

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<v Speaker 2>launched a picture of you guys On. INSTAGRAM i, did

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<v Speaker 2>how did that? Feel it felt?

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<v Speaker 1>Good but we had been In. CHARLESTON i posted the

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<v Speaker 1>picture that you're talking about we took In, charleston WHICH

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<v Speaker 1>i think was two weeks BEFORE i posted. It SO

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<v Speaker 1>i didn't really post that much while we were In,

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<v Speaker 1>charleston AND i didn't really post much of our trip.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway BUT i had that picture AND i just thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was sweet and, cute AND i, thought, WELL i

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<v Speaker 1>Guess i'll make this the cover shot for the month Of.

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<v Speaker 2>April after you posted, it was there any like second

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<v Speaker 2>hand where you're, like, oh MAYBE i shouldn't have or

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<v Speaker 2>were you just, like, yes this feels.

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<v Speaker 1>Good, no it felt. Good my ex husband. Been he

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<v Speaker 1>did say something to me, later BECAUSE i think he

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<v Speaker 1>saw it like a week, like because he doesn't spend

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time On instagram or, anything but he

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<v Speaker 1>does have an. Account we has a work, one but

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<v Speaker 1>then he has this other account where he posts nothing

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<v Speaker 1>but our daughter's On instagram and he follows her and

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<v Speaker 1>he uses it to keep up with certain. Things and he, said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>HEY i didn't know we were posting like our. PEOPLE

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<v Speaker 1>i think that what he's referring to is way back,

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<v Speaker 1>whenever maybe we were first getting divorced or, something or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe even we were still, married but someone we knew

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<v Speaker 1>had gotten divorced and they were just in a new

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and putting it all over social. Media and he said, That,

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<v Speaker 1>okay now That i'm thinking this, THROUGH i didn't plan

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<v Speaker 1>on talking about, this BUT i don't need to Ask

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<v Speaker 1>ben's permission BECAUSE i know that he'd be fine with

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<v Speaker 1>me telling the. Story but now THAT i think about,

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<v Speaker 1>it we definitely were still married because it was at

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<v Speaker 1>a couple we knew that got divorced and then the

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<v Speaker 1>husband was like posting all these pictures of him and

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<v Speaker 1>his new, person AND i just was, like it just was.

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<v Speaker 1>Cringey it felt, Weird AND i said to, HIM i was,

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<v Speaker 1>like this could never be. Us and maybe that's a

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<v Speaker 1>little foreshadowing, there BECAUSE i don't know at the time

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<v Speaker 1>THAT i knew we would end up getting. Divorced But i'm,

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<v Speaker 1>like oh my, gosh if we were to ever be

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<v Speaker 1>in this, situation, like we cannot do, that AND i

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<v Speaker 1>guess he held onto that because then he said something to.

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<v Speaker 1>Me he's, LIKE i thought we weren't supposed to be those.

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<v Speaker 1>People we we're like posting all this. Stuff AND i,

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<v Speaker 1>SAID i don't really feel like that was posting all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff now THAT i know what you're referring. To

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<v Speaker 1>we were. That it was just like very much in our,

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<v Speaker 1>face like, everywhere and it was a shady. SITUATION i,

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<v Speaker 1>SAID i think all the variables are very very. Different

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<v Speaker 1>AND i posted a picture of, us and so he's, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>okay good to. Know it was like all, Right not

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<v Speaker 1>that he has social media that he, uses BUT i

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<v Speaker 1>guess if he wanted, to and he were to post

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<v Speaker 1>him and who he's, dating because he had a girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>for a year but they broke, up but they didn't he,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't he didn't ever post about.

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<v Speaker 2>Her it's so interesting to me just hearing how much

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<v Speaker 2>you're navigating and these new waters of having a, boyfriend you,

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<v Speaker 2>have your ex, husband all these just kind of pieces

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<v Speaker 2>and balancing things that you're. Doing does that do you

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<v Speaker 2>ever think about?

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<v Speaker 1>That, NO i think we're just Doing but, yeah looking

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<v Speaker 1>at it, all sometimes it can feel like a. Lot

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<v Speaker 1>IF i focus on, it but, no it's just, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh we got to navigate. THIS i, Know ben AND

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<v Speaker 1>i haven't been exchanging like five hundred texts and emails

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out our summer schedule because it different

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<v Speaker 1>travel and camps that the kids have and different. Things

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<v Speaker 1>we can't stick with our Typical friday To, friday which

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<v Speaker 1>is what we do are week, on week, off because he's, like,

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<v Speaker 1>OH i want to take the kids to do this this,

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<v Speaker 1>week And i'm, like, well this is when we have

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<v Speaker 1>show vacation AND i would like to take the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>here but that happens to be a week that he's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to have. Them so there's just a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>coordinating that has to. Happen and that's when it makes

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<v Speaker 1>me thankful That ben AND i are in such a healthy,

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<v Speaker 1>place BECAUSE i would imagine if we weren't that would

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<v Speaker 1>just make stuff like. This it's already grueling just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to like tetras sometimes making it all, work but if

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<v Speaker 1>you add in a layer of disdain and discuss and

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<v Speaker 1>you know how some people really feel about and having

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<v Speaker 1>to work with AN x man would be. Painful SO

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<v Speaker 1>i have a level of gratitude for where we are

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<v Speaker 1>and how we navigate. It, so, yeah it's not as

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<v Speaker 1>much as it could, be you know WHAT i. Mean, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>NO I.

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<v Speaker 2>I totally hear, that and it's made me think. Too

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<v Speaker 2>JUST i think it's harder probably for you to see

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<v Speaker 2>in that. Moment But i'm just sitting here in a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of respect for you that you're going through just

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of different changes and phases all at the

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<v Speaker 2>same time and learning constantly while it's all.

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<v Speaker 1>Happening, yeah they, met But ben Met alex for the first.

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<v Speaker 1>Time how did it? Go it was really. Good it happened,

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<v Speaker 1>organically and he stopped by the house After sashira's, birthday

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<v Speaker 1>And alex didn't go to the birthday. Party he was

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<v Speaker 1>invited By, sashira and he's, like, Look ben AND i

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<v Speaker 1>haven't met. YET i don't want that to steal any

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<v Speaker 1>of the, spotlight So i'll just stop by the house.

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<v Speaker 1>After and Then ben AND i sat by each other

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<v Speaker 1>at dinner and we were talking AND i, said you,

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<v Speaker 1>KNOW i rode here with your parents because his parents

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<v Speaker 1>were in town and they wanted to come over and

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with. Me so THEN i just rode with

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<v Speaker 1>them to. DINNER i, said they're going to drop me.

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<v Speaker 1>Off so they're going to be, there SO i bet

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<v Speaker 1>they'll Meet. Alex why don't you stop by and meet him.

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<v Speaker 1>Too let's just rip this band aid off Because i've

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<v Speaker 1>been waiting for it to happen and it hadn't happened,

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<v Speaker 1>yet AND i just, thought maybe now it's a good.

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<v Speaker 1>Time and Then ben said. Okay so it's a little awkward,

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<v Speaker 1>though Because ben always comes through the back. Door he

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<v Speaker 1>won't just walk, in but he always parks in the

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<v Speaker 1>back and comes through the. Porch and this time we're all.

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<v Speaker 1>Inside his parents are, There alex is, there the kids are,

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<v Speaker 1>there And ben, parks goes to the front, door. Knocks

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<v Speaker 1>he can see us all through the, window so you'd

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<v Speaker 1>think you'd just be, like, hey walk, in so. Knocks

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<v Speaker 1>everything just seemed very, formal and then he comes in

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<v Speaker 1>and he sticks his hand out and he goes to

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<v Speaker 1>Meet alex and they both shake and they do first

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<v Speaker 1>and last, name real firm grip and just, clear like you, know.

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<v Speaker 2>Be, like, yeah are you holding your breath in that,

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<v Speaker 2>moment just kind.

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<v Speaker 1>Of like watching it. Happen and my Friend cat was

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<v Speaker 1>there AND i was looking at her AND i was,

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<v Speaker 1>like what is? Happening right. Now why are they both

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<v Speaker 1>acting so? Weird you?

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<v Speaker 2>Know but it is better to be formal than. INFORMAL

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<v Speaker 2>i suppose in that.

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<v Speaker 1>Situation like be like walking through my front door and

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<v Speaker 1>then making a beeline and being Like Amy, brown nice

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<v Speaker 1>to meet, you and then you'd be Like Morgan, hewlesman

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<v Speaker 1>and so, yeah it. Was it was good. THOUGH i feel,

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<v Speaker 1>Relief and that was one of my feelings on my

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<v Speaker 1>podcast this week With Therapy, cat the cat that was

0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:33.560
<v Speaker 1>at my house that. Night she's my friend also, cat

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<v Speaker 1>but she's cry okat The Therapy cat AND i talked

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<v Speaker 1>about on the podcast because we have a feeling of

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<v Speaker 1>the day on Our Feeling things, Podcast and my feeling

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<v Speaker 1>was relief that that finally happened AND i can like

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<v Speaker 1>exhale and it, went it went, well and SO i

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<v Speaker 1>want TO i want to celebrate that and soak it

0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:54.600
<v Speaker 1>up AND i look for more. Interactions ben had told

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<v Speaker 1>me at one point early on in a divorce THAT

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<v Speaker 1>i had this fantasy in my head that made be

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<v Speaker 1>whoever we ended up dating next or being with in the,

0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:08.800
<v Speaker 1>future that we would all take family vacations. Together, Okay

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<v Speaker 1>and he THOUGHT i was In La La, land AND

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<v Speaker 1>i will say in the relationship he was in for that,

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<v Speaker 1>year that was definitely a lot of land statement that

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<v Speaker 1>would not have. Happened that just would Not AND i

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<v Speaker 1>can understand. THAT i can understand if some people feel that,

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<v Speaker 1>way like there's, separation you don't want to have a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with that, Person, Okay But ben AND i share,

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<v Speaker 1>kids and we've known each other since we were, kids

0:12:33.679 --> 0:12:36.920
<v Speaker 1>AND i think our dynamic is just different than a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of other. Relationships AND i don't, KNOW i, Started

0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:44.160
<v Speaker 1>i'm starting to think, like, oh we could be LIKE

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<v Speaker 1>i don't know that that would really really, happen but

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<v Speaker 1>we're closer to. It it doesn't seem like so crazy right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now If ben were to be in a relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>then we all were decided to like all go hang

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<v Speaker 1>out and take the kids and do something.

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<v Speaker 2>Well AND i don't feel like it's as weird because

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<v Speaker 2>even listening to you talk about, it you already have

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<v Speaker 2>an interesting dynamic in the fact that you're really close

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<v Speaker 2>To benn's. Parents that's an important thing for you because

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<v Speaker 2>of so many different life. Events they've been involved in

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<v Speaker 2>your life since you were very. Young they're around a

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<v Speaker 2>lot his ex or His how do you say widowed his,

0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:22.000
<v Speaker 2>wife oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>Boyfriend. Yes oh so his wife is in, laws he

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<v Speaker 1>has a father in.

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<v Speaker 2>Law, YES i was going to say THAT i would

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<v Speaker 2>imagine it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Involved, Yeah i've met. Him i've met him a couple times.

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<v Speaker 2>Because he would want them close to. Them so you

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<v Speaker 2>have some interesting dynamics happening here that you guys are

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<v Speaker 2>all being very mature and understanding and connecting on. THAT

0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:52.280
<v Speaker 2>i don't think this idea that you have is really

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<v Speaker 2>that far. Fetched, yeah, no because a lot isn't could

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<v Speaker 2>have handle those, dynamics and you guys are handling multiple.

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<v Speaker 1>DYNAMICS i wouldn't say my situation With, Alex i'm handling it,

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<v Speaker 1>perfectly But i'm. Trying AND i had no issues meeting

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<v Speaker 1>her dad and her twin sister and her best. Friends

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<v Speaker 1>i've met them, all and because it's like there's that

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<v Speaker 1>would not be happening if they had got, divorced if

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<v Speaker 1>they had been divorced and she was still, Alive, like,

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously i'm probably not gonna meet her best, friends but

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<v Speaker 1>they're all in a place where they knew before she passed.

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<v Speaker 1>Away she, SAID i Want alex to meet somebody make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that that happens sort of. Things so her best

0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:39.160
<v Speaker 1>friends are giddy over the moon That alex has met

0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:41.440
<v Speaker 1>somebody and he's dating. Somebody they're, like oh, gosh you,

0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:43.080
<v Speaker 1>know and it's gonna be hard for them, because, yeah

0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:46.640
<v Speaker 1>their best friend passed. Away they also. Know part of

0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:49.280
<v Speaker 1>something she shared when she was dying WAS i hope

0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:52.800
<v Speaker 1>he meets, somebody and now they're, like, oh, yay this is,

0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:58.880
<v Speaker 1>happening and so, yeah it. Is it's interesting territory THAT

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<v Speaker 1>i never thought i'd be.

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<v Speaker 2>Navigating but, well you're doing it from a bird's eye,

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<v Speaker 2>view you're doing it. Beautifully. THANKS i know when you're in,

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<v Speaker 2>it it seems a lot. Different there's a lot of things,

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<v Speaker 2>happening but from my, perspective you're handling it really, well

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<v Speaker 2>and you're navigating as best as somebody possibly could given

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of different.

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<v Speaker 1>Factors thank.

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<v Speaker 2>You SO i hope you know That.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm learning how to receive praise or compliments cats seeing

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<v Speaker 1>a Therapy. Cat in the, podcast she gave us tips

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<v Speaker 1>for receiving, compliments and she, said you, know research, shows

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<v Speaker 1>especially for, women it's really hard to just receive a,

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<v Speaker 1>compliment like we feel like we have to be like

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<v Speaker 1>if someone's, like oh nice. Shirt you'd be, like oh, this,

0:15:32.840 --> 0:15:35.520
<v Speaker 1>UGH i felt gross this, morning or oh This i've

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<v Speaker 1>had it, forever like you feel like you have to

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<v Speaker 1>instead of just saying thank, you and so her tip

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<v Speaker 1>number one is you just say thank you and then

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<v Speaker 1>your head go, pause, pause, pause. Pods so right Now

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<v Speaker 1>i'm trying to receive you saying That i'm handling it

0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:50.320
<v Speaker 1>beautifully from what you can, tell And i'm going to

0:15:50.360 --> 0:15:52.760
<v Speaker 1>go thank, you and in my head pods pause, pause

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<v Speaker 1>pose like not say anything. Else, OH i don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to say, anything just thank.

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<v Speaker 2>YOU i need to do. This my boyfriend loves to

0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:02.600
<v Speaker 2>be very kind to, me and he's always giving me

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<v Speaker 2>compliments AND i deflect all of. Them i'm, Like I'M

0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:09.120
<v Speaker 2>i am literally like if you put up a DEFLECTOR

0:16:09.160 --> 0:16:11.280
<v Speaker 2>i am. It he'll compliment me and he's, Like i'll

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<v Speaker 2>be like.

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<v Speaker 1>You cann't stop AND.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't believe. That Or i'll say something just totally

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<v Speaker 2>off put and he's, like where did that even come?

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<v Speaker 2>From and he'll just look at me and Say, morgan

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<v Speaker 2>AND i just have to look at him. BACK i

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<v Speaker 2>say thank, you like very.

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<v Speaker 1>Quietly now you can go thank. You paus, pus paus.

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<v Speaker 2>Paus he's gonna be, like why are you saying? Pas i'm,

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<v Speaker 2>Like i'm trying to make this happen in my. Head

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<v Speaker 2>SO i get. It it's hard and we've been conditioned

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<v Speaker 2>a certain way and it gets hard to break that.

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<v Speaker 2>Habit we're gonna take a quick. Break we'll be. Back

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<v Speaker 2>we have more to talk. About have you had this

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<v Speaker 2>where you're learning an entirely new? Language SO i remember

0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:51.400
<v Speaker 2>you bringing up, football and he watches football a. Lot

0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:55.200
<v Speaker 2>my boyfriend's very interested in golf until he'll text me

0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:57.600
<v Speaker 2>when he's out, golfing and he the other day he was,

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<v Speaker 2>LIKE i got a, birdie And i'm like, googling what

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<v Speaker 2>the heck is a? Birdie And i'm trying to learn

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<v Speaker 2>and understand this whole new language of golf BECAUSE i

0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:08.200
<v Speaker 2>NEVER i knew golf. EXISTED i had boyfriends that played,

0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:10.680
<v Speaker 2>before BUT i was never truly. Invested and now when

0:17:10.680 --> 0:17:12.040
<v Speaker 2>he texted, Me i'm, like dang, IT i have to

0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:15.359
<v Speaker 2>learn all these new. Terms and some listener messaged me

0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:18.520
<v Speaker 2>that a pro tip in golf is anything with a

0:17:18.520 --> 0:17:22.399
<v Speaker 2>bird is good, news anything not with a bird. Questionable

0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:24.760
<v Speaker 2>so she's, like pro tip if you ever get a

0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:28.919
<v Speaker 2>bird text, message it means good, good don't know what it,

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<v Speaker 2>means AND i have to go. Further but So i'm

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<v Speaker 2>learning an entirely new language right, now and that language is.

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<v Speaker 1>Golf, Yeah i'm going to need to pick up on.

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<v Speaker 1>Golf that's something that we've decided we're gonna start doing more.

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<v Speaker 1>Together he, plays he doesn't play as much as he wants.

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<v Speaker 1>To that's why he wants us to play together so

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<v Speaker 1>we can play. More and his fifteen year old son

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<v Speaker 1>is getting really into, it SO i think he also

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<v Speaker 1>that's the way he wants to bond with his. Son,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah SO i see more golf in my. Future SO

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<v Speaker 1>i got a golf skirt the other.

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<v Speaker 2>DAY i love that you went straight to golf skirt

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<v Speaker 2>and golf clubs or, YEAH i don't.

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<v Speaker 1>KNOW i don't need my own CLUBS i, yet BUT

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<v Speaker 1>i assume IF i start playing more THAN i. Will

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<v Speaker 1>BUT i got a cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Skirt, well we love A q. Shirt that's where it. Starts,

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<v Speaker 2>remember the outfit helps us get excited about.

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<v Speaker 1>Something, yeah Like Deone. Sanders if you look, good you feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Good if you feel, good you play. Good, yeah if

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<v Speaker 1>you play, good they pay.

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<v Speaker 2>GOOD i didn't know that was the any part of.

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<v Speaker 2>THAT i THINK i always ever just heard if you look,

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<v Speaker 2>good you feel. Good if you feel if.

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<v Speaker 1>You look, good you feel. Good if you feel, good

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<v Speaker 1>you play. Good that's WHAT i pay. Good they pay.

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<v Speaker 2>Good that last, ONE i did not. Know that is new.

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<v Speaker 2>Information but, yeah that's where my territory is right. Now

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<v Speaker 2>and if you want to ask any, questions you. Can

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<v Speaker 2>BUT i just grilled, you So i'm giving you space

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<v Speaker 2>to now go me back if you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well LIKE i, mean what about your boyfriend being a

0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:51.600
<v Speaker 1>part of any of your, Stuff like you have a,

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<v Speaker 1>podcast and do you think that that's something one day

0:18:55.320 --> 0:18:56.720
<v Speaker 1>he would? EVER i MEAN i feel LIKE i know

0:18:56.760 --> 0:18:59.000
<v Speaker 1>it's a little, early but Sometimes ben would do stuff with.

0:18:59.000 --> 0:19:02.040
<v Speaker 1>Me and even After ben AND i, divorced he came

0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:03.760
<v Speaker 1>on the podcast and we talked a little bit about co.

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<v Speaker 1>Parenting but is that and that was Not BEN'S i would.

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<v Speaker 1>Say out of the seventeen years that we were, married

0:19:09.000 --> 0:19:11.080
<v Speaker 1>AND i was on the radio the whole time we were,

0:19:11.080 --> 0:19:16.399
<v Speaker 1>TOGETHER i, mean he was. Involved he was involved with a,

0:19:16.440 --> 0:19:18.000
<v Speaker 1>microphone LIKE i could fit it all one.

0:19:18.000 --> 0:19:21.080
<v Speaker 2>Hand, Probably, YEAH i don't know THAT i would ever

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<v Speaker 2>like a show scenario that feels Like i'm just walking

0:19:25.200 --> 0:19:27.160
<v Speaker 2>him into a lions, den you know WHAT i. Mean

0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:29.720
<v Speaker 2>but on my, podcast, YEAH i think he would be

0:19:29.960 --> 0:19:30.439
<v Speaker 2>so up for.

0:19:30.480 --> 0:19:33.480
<v Speaker 1>It what do you think you would talk? About like

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<v Speaker 1>use you're very into therapy and you're Podcast lean's, Therapeutic

0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:37.480
<v Speaker 1>like is he open to?

0:19:37.560 --> 0:19:41.080
<v Speaker 2>Therapy, Yes and he's very mental health. Focused and he

0:19:41.119 --> 0:19:43.920
<v Speaker 2>also has a crazy life story THAT i would love

0:19:43.960 --> 0:19:47.440
<v Speaker 2>to share and he would love to share. Someday that's really.

0:19:47.440 --> 0:19:52.520
<v Speaker 2>Cool and also just our relationship and meeting and because

0:19:52.560 --> 0:19:55.159
<v Speaker 2>it was in real life and it was kind of

0:19:55.760 --> 0:19:58.840
<v Speaker 2>fate playing a hand in all of that versus dating

0:19:58.840 --> 0:20:01.199
<v Speaker 2>apps and stuff that stories. Interesting all my friends love

0:20:01.240 --> 0:20:02.560
<v Speaker 2>to hear, it like gives them hope that you can

0:20:02.640 --> 0:20:05.640
<v Speaker 2>still meet the old school. Away so those two, things

0:20:06.000 --> 0:20:08.560
<v Speaker 2>and he's super. Supportive he will always take photos and

0:20:08.680 --> 0:20:11.280
<v Speaker 2>videos of me all the time without me ever, asking

0:20:11.640 --> 0:20:13.560
<v Speaker 2>just he's like, HERE i took all these And i'm,

0:20:13.560 --> 0:20:15.160
<v Speaker 2>like what when did you even do?

0:20:15.280 --> 0:20:17.399
<v Speaker 1>That like if you're just like what are you?

0:20:17.400 --> 0:20:20.080
<v Speaker 2>Doing like If i'm putting together flower bouquets Or i'm

0:20:20.080 --> 0:20:22.159
<v Speaker 2>hanging out with the, animals like he's just always he

0:20:22.240 --> 0:20:25.080
<v Speaker 2>loves snapping photos and, videos WHICH i.

0:20:25.119 --> 0:20:26.520
<v Speaker 1>Love that's helpful.

0:20:26.200 --> 0:20:28.920
<v Speaker 2>Because I've i've always dated people who kind of resented

0:20:28.960 --> 0:20:31.520
<v Speaker 2>that part about me THAT i wanted to take photos

0:20:31.520 --> 0:20:35.040
<v Speaker 2>and pictures and you, know do my little food posts

0:20:35.160 --> 0:20:37.639
<v Speaker 2>or any anything like. That it just felt like it

0:20:37.680 --> 0:20:40.480
<v Speaker 2>was always a. Burden and with, him there is none of.

0:20:40.480 --> 0:20:44.040
<v Speaker 2>That he's he loves capturing. Content he's not even a content.

0:20:44.080 --> 0:20:47.359
<v Speaker 2>Person he just likes creating memories through.

0:20:47.400 --> 0:20:51.520
<v Speaker 1>Photos and he's not trying to be like an he.

0:20:51.560 --> 0:20:53.439
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't he's not asking you to capture.

0:20:53.480 --> 0:20:55.919
<v Speaker 2>Content, no, No but LIKE i love taking pictures and

0:20:55.960 --> 0:20:58.560
<v Speaker 2>videos of him because that's WHO i was before and

0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:01.359
<v Speaker 2>he loves. That and he's, like nobody ever took videos

0:21:01.359 --> 0:21:02.840
<v Speaker 2>and stuff of. Me this is a really Cool it

0:21:02.920 --> 0:21:04.440
<v Speaker 2>was like nobody ever took them on. Me so this

0:21:04.480 --> 0:21:08.199
<v Speaker 2>is a cool moment that we're. Having and SO i

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<v Speaker 2>don't there's no part of me now that feels burdened

0:21:11.440 --> 0:21:13.480
<v Speaker 2>in that, aspect at least in my side of my.

0:21:13.560 --> 0:21:16.120
<v Speaker 1>Career how long has it been at this, point were

0:21:16.600 --> 0:21:20.200
<v Speaker 1>over a month and a. Half, so, LIKE i guess

0:21:20.280 --> 0:21:22.359
<v Speaker 1>your parents will meet him In june when they come

0:21:22.359 --> 0:21:22.680
<v Speaker 1>for sea.

0:21:22.840 --> 0:21:25.280
<v Speaker 2>Fans, yes, yes they will meet. Him they're very. Excited

0:21:25.720 --> 0:21:26.520
<v Speaker 2>i've met.

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<v Speaker 1>Have they like face timed with?

0:21:27.480 --> 0:21:30.879
<v Speaker 2>Them, yes they've met on, FaceTime and he's met one

0:21:30.920 --> 0:21:34.800
<v Speaker 2>of my sisters on FaceTime and My i've met his

0:21:35.160 --> 0:21:37.800
<v Speaker 2>whole family besides his. Dad dad hasn't been down, yet

0:21:37.840 --> 0:21:42.240
<v Speaker 2>But i've met everybody. Else so it feels, safe it feels,

0:21:42.240 --> 0:21:46.480
<v Speaker 2>good it feels right in a lot of. Ways but

0:21:46.560 --> 0:21:48.560
<v Speaker 2>there's just you, know there's still walls THAT i have

0:21:48.680 --> 0:21:51.679
<v Speaker 2>up that are slowly coming. DOWN i think over the

0:21:51.720 --> 0:21:53.600
<v Speaker 2>course of time that's the only thing that will really

0:21:53.720 --> 0:21:56.359
<v Speaker 2>make those come. Down BUT i have this kind of

0:21:56.440 --> 0:21:59.840
<v Speaker 2>arbitrary timelines in my head of, well maybe in like six,

0:22:00.080 --> 0:22:02.800
<v Speaker 2>months it'll feel Like i'll Feel, okay he's not going,

0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:05.640
<v Speaker 2>Anywhere but it's just me and my past like kind

0:22:05.640 --> 0:22:08.840
<v Speaker 2>of speaking to me and trying to make me feel

0:22:08.880 --> 0:22:12.600
<v Speaker 2>LIKE i have to pay attention to these arbitrary timelines

0:22:12.640 --> 0:22:15.880
<v Speaker 2>that happened in my past relationships or situations where something.

0:22:15.960 --> 0:22:19.040
<v Speaker 2>Happened So i'm really trying to fight those back and

0:22:19.160 --> 0:22:22.280
<v Speaker 2>just allow it to be good and safe and, happy

0:22:23.000 --> 0:22:25.480
<v Speaker 2>because that's what it. Is, yeah you, KNOW i haven't

0:22:25.480 --> 0:22:28.440
<v Speaker 2>had any reason not to feel that. Way it's really

0:22:28.520 --> 0:22:31.720
<v Speaker 2>just more my past situations that like to try and

0:22:31.760 --> 0:22:36.040
<v Speaker 2>creep in WHICH i was prepared. For my therapists THAT

0:22:36.119 --> 0:22:39.000
<v Speaker 2>i had for a really long, time especially after the abusive,

0:22:39.040 --> 0:22:41.320
<v Speaker 2>relationship told me the only way THAT i would ever

0:22:41.359 --> 0:22:43.520
<v Speaker 2>truly heal is like WHEN i felt really safe in

0:22:43.560 --> 0:22:48.439
<v Speaker 2>a relationship to let things down and guards. Down And

0:22:48.480 --> 0:22:52.120
<v Speaker 2>i've had moments of that in, relationships BUT i don't

0:22:52.160 --> 0:22:54.119
<v Speaker 2>know That i've HAD i think it was going to

0:22:54.160 --> 0:22:57.640
<v Speaker 2>take the right whoever was going to be the right

0:22:57.680 --> 0:23:03.000
<v Speaker 2>one for it to truly my healing to truly. FINISH

0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:06.120
<v Speaker 2>i don't know if that makes any, sense Because i've

0:23:06.119 --> 0:23:07.840
<v Speaker 2>had lessons That i've had a lot of growth and a

0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:10.720
<v Speaker 2>lot of learning and past, relationships BUT i think Whoever

0:23:10.800 --> 0:23:12.760
<v Speaker 2>i'm supposed to marry is the one will be the

0:23:12.760 --> 0:23:16.840
<v Speaker 2>one where the remainder of the really hard healing is

0:23:16.880 --> 0:23:19.520
<v Speaker 2>going to happen for, me like, internally.

0:23:19.280 --> 0:23:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Right that makes.

0:23:20.640 --> 0:23:24.080
<v Speaker 2>Sense, so and it feels like that's kind of happening

0:23:24.119 --> 0:23:26.080
<v Speaker 2>in a, way and that scares, Me AND i Think

0:23:26.119 --> 0:23:28.880
<v Speaker 2>i'm pushing back on her a lot of like, No

0:23:28.960 --> 0:23:31.840
<v Speaker 2>i'm not ready for that. Yet, yeah you, know so it's,

0:23:31.840 --> 0:23:35.080
<v Speaker 2>interesting you, know like you, mentioned it's this, internal you're

0:23:35.119 --> 0:23:38.320
<v Speaker 2>just fighting a lot of things and trying to understand what's,

0:23:38.320 --> 0:23:41.160
<v Speaker 2>happening trying to understand yourself and your body and what's

0:23:41.160 --> 0:23:43.919
<v Speaker 2>going on in all these different, moments while also just

0:23:43.960 --> 0:23:46.679
<v Speaker 2>trying to enjoy the, present the good that's happening to.

0:23:46.720 --> 0:23:50.840
<v Speaker 2>You so it's an interesting experience That i'm happening right.

0:23:50.880 --> 0:23:54.879
<v Speaker 2>Now but so, far no, flags lots of.

0:23:54.920 --> 0:23:57.399
<v Speaker 1>Happiness, yeah he sounds like a. Dream he is.

0:23:57.600 --> 0:23:59.480
<v Speaker 2>Everybody all my friends are like obsessed with. THEM i

0:23:59.520 --> 0:24:01.720
<v Speaker 2>literally got it text from my friend the other day

0:24:01.920 --> 0:24:06.080
<v Speaker 2>that was, Like, morgan your boyfriend is the sweetest guy,

0:24:06.080 --> 0:24:07.600
<v Speaker 2>ever even at five, am because he goes to the

0:24:07.680 --> 0:24:10.880
<v Speaker 2>gym and he'll go work out and she sees. Him

0:24:10.960 --> 0:24:12.640
<v Speaker 2>she goes to this gym, too and she's, like he's

0:24:12.720 --> 0:24:15.800
<v Speaker 2>literally the kindest. HUMAN i was, like that's all you ever, want,

0:24:15.920 --> 0:24:18.720
<v Speaker 2>right is for not only you to feel that, way

0:24:18.720 --> 0:24:24.040
<v Speaker 2>but everybody around you to also feel that same way about, them.

0:24:23.400 --> 0:24:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Especially if they're nice at five. Am, right who's nice

0:24:27.000 --> 0:24:28.359
<v Speaker 1>at five? Am i'm.

0:24:28.400 --> 0:24:31.760
<v Speaker 2>Not i'm a little little hungry and steepy girl all the.

0:24:31.800 --> 0:24:34.439
<v Speaker 2>Time so but, yeah that's where we.

0:24:34.480 --> 0:24:37.120
<v Speaker 1>Are, well that's. EXCITING i KNOW i.

0:24:37.080 --> 0:24:39.160
<v Speaker 2>Need an update on the kiddos before we go into

0:24:39.200 --> 0:24:39.520
<v Speaker 2>our Next.

0:24:39.520 --> 0:24:41.040
<v Speaker 1>Gray, WELL i was gonna, SAY i would like TO

0:24:41.080 --> 0:24:42.200
<v Speaker 1>i look forward to meeting.

0:24:42.240 --> 0:24:43.560
<v Speaker 2>Him oh, yeah you definitely.

0:24:43.600 --> 0:24:49.280
<v Speaker 1>Will, yeah my kids Or i'm like my kids Are they're,

0:24:49.320 --> 0:24:49.960
<v Speaker 1>Like i've got.

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:52.280
<v Speaker 2>All the kids whatever you want to, say.

0:24:52.400 --> 0:24:55.320
<v Speaker 1>Three other, kids but they're not. There i'm not, there,

0:24:56.280 --> 0:25:04.040
<v Speaker 1>mom we're Not we're taking things. Slow but let's see my. Kids,

0:25:04.840 --> 0:25:06.520
<v Speaker 1>stevenson they're about to finish.

0:25:06.520 --> 0:25:09.800
<v Speaker 2>School istash about to finish.

0:25:09.840 --> 0:25:12.560
<v Speaker 1>Finish, No, no she's a junior's one more year. Left,

0:25:12.760 --> 0:25:15.560
<v Speaker 1>yeah even though she just turned. Eighteen she's obviously with

0:25:15.600 --> 0:25:18.360
<v Speaker 1>the adoption and them getting here, late like we held them,

0:25:18.400 --> 0:25:21.359
<v Speaker 1>Back like, stevensince you, know fourteen and still in junior.

0:25:21.440 --> 0:25:23.720
<v Speaker 1>High or and he's gonna be fifteen this summer and

0:25:23.720 --> 0:25:27.400
<v Speaker 1>he'll still be in junior. High but they're both doing really.

0:25:27.400 --> 0:25:31.760
<v Speaker 1>Great Like. Stevenson last, NIGHT i don't, know just bedtime

0:25:31.840 --> 0:25:34.399
<v Speaker 1>last night was really. Sweet like. EVERYBODY i was, like,

0:25:34.400 --> 0:25:36.800
<v Speaker 1>hey it's time for, bed and nobody fought me on.

0:25:36.840 --> 0:25:40.439
<v Speaker 1>It everybody just went to. Bed and THEN i go

0:25:40.480 --> 0:25:42.159
<v Speaker 1>to their rooms AND i say good, Night but his

0:25:42.280 --> 0:25:45.199
<v Speaker 1>door was already shut and the dog was in, there

0:25:45.240 --> 0:25:46.679
<v Speaker 1>so didn't want to open it because the dog will run.

0:25:46.720 --> 0:25:49.919
<v Speaker 1>Out she loves coming to my. Room and so just

0:25:49.960 --> 0:25:52.000
<v Speaker 1>through the, DOOR i was, like good, Night. Stephenson and

0:25:52.040 --> 0:25:54.600
<v Speaker 1>then he just yelled so, loud probably making SURE i

0:25:54.600 --> 0:25:56.000
<v Speaker 1>could hear it because his door was, shut and he was,

0:25:56.040 --> 0:25:58.280
<v Speaker 1>like good, night, Mom AND i don't, know it just

0:25:58.400 --> 0:26:00.760
<v Speaker 1>warmed my heart so, much AND i was, LIKE i

0:26:01.760 --> 0:26:05.840
<v Speaker 1>loved hearing that yeah from. Him and you, know we

0:26:05.920 --> 0:26:07.560
<v Speaker 1>went through a season with him for a little bit

0:26:07.560 --> 0:26:10.520
<v Speaker 1>where it was pretty, rough and it just reminded me

0:26:10.560 --> 0:26:14.359
<v Speaker 1>how far we have. Come and it's just a special

0:26:14.400 --> 0:26:16.600
<v Speaker 1>moment for. Me so when you're asking me about the,

0:26:16.680 --> 0:26:20.080
<v Speaker 1>kids That stevenson's story popped in my. Mind and then

0:26:21.000 --> 0:26:27.080
<v Speaker 1>So shiraa is doing great, Too like she's like trying

0:26:27.080 --> 0:26:28.760
<v Speaker 1>to figure out what her summer job is going to,

0:26:28.760 --> 0:26:31.560
<v Speaker 1>be trying to decide if she wants to apply at

0:26:31.600 --> 0:26:32.480
<v Speaker 1>clothing boutiques or.

0:26:32.560 --> 0:26:36.440
<v Speaker 2>Restaurants, okay was she still working at her other?

0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:40.600
<v Speaker 1>Restaurants she quit that one track, Seasons like she hasn't

0:26:40.640 --> 0:26:42.960
<v Speaker 1>been there AND i don't think she wants to go back.

0:26:42.960 --> 0:26:44.520
<v Speaker 1>There if she does do a, restaurant she'll do a

0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:48.320
<v Speaker 1>different one just for try some new things, out just, Diversity,

0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:50.919
<v Speaker 1>yeah a new. Experience but this one restaurant she did

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:52.520
<v Speaker 1>want to apply, to it's a little bit further. Away

0:26:52.560 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 1>SO i had to talk to her about how the

0:26:54.080 --> 0:26:56.719
<v Speaker 1>further away you, work that's the more that you're spending

0:26:56.720 --> 0:26:59.680
<v Speaker 1>on gas. Money and so she was, like, OH i

0:26:59.720 --> 0:27:01.960
<v Speaker 1>don't know IF i want to do, That AND i was, like,

0:27:02.040 --> 0:27:04.199
<v Speaker 1>YEAH i, mean if that's really where you want to,

0:27:04.200 --> 0:27:07.080
<v Speaker 1>work then you weigh that out and you sacrifice the.

0:27:07.119 --> 0:27:10.720
<v Speaker 1>Gas it's. Fine but at her, Age i'm, like you could,

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:13.960
<v Speaker 1>Work you're gonna want to work closer to, home and

0:27:14.040 --> 0:27:16.879
<v Speaker 1>SO i don't. KNOW i was encouraging to try the

0:27:16.880 --> 0:27:19.000
<v Speaker 1>boutique this time, around like if she just did the

0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:22.640
<v Speaker 1>restaurant thing last, time like working in retail and, clothing

0:27:22.720 --> 0:27:24.959
<v Speaker 1>AND i was, like but you may have to you, know,

0:27:25.520 --> 0:27:28.280
<v Speaker 1>start you may not be working the floor helping customers right.

0:27:28.320 --> 0:27:30.720
<v Speaker 1>Away maybe you're working in the back or doing, things

0:27:30.960 --> 0:27:34.320
<v Speaker 1>which she did have a small job steaming clothes a,

0:27:34.400 --> 0:27:36.720
<v Speaker 1>boutique which she reached out to. THEM i don't know

0:27:36.720 --> 0:27:39.000
<v Speaker 1>if she's going to they have anything for her like

0:27:39.600 --> 0:27:44.399
<v Speaker 1>more than. That so she's hoping for more. EXPERIENCE i

0:27:44.440 --> 0:27:45.600
<v Speaker 1>think interacting with.

0:27:45.640 --> 0:27:50.120
<v Speaker 2>People she's still wanting to do. HAIR i know at

0:27:50.160 --> 0:27:52.200
<v Speaker 2>one moment in, time she was wanting to do beauty.

0:27:52.200 --> 0:27:56.840
<v Speaker 1>School oh well Esthetician, okay she wanted to go for face. Stuff,

0:27:56.920 --> 0:27:58.040
<v Speaker 1>yes she's still interested in.

0:27:58.080 --> 0:28:01.720
<v Speaker 2>That could she be a front desk a place like

0:28:01.800 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 2>that or around, YEAH.

0:28:02.920 --> 0:28:05.960
<v Speaker 1>I think for summer they're. Not those jobs are more

0:28:05.960 --> 0:28:11.080
<v Speaker 1>difficult to get if you're just looking for. Summer but

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:14.600
<v Speaker 1>she has asked some of my friends that are in that, field, like,

0:28:14.600 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 1>hey CAN i come shadow? You or are you looking

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:19.560
<v Speaker 1>for an? INTERN i want to learn? More so she

0:28:19.560 --> 0:28:21.280
<v Speaker 1>could do that. Too but if she's an, INTERN i

0:28:21.280 --> 0:28:23.480
<v Speaker 1>don't think she's going to get, paid or if she's just.

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:27.399
<v Speaker 1>Shadowing but she's looking to save up some money and

0:28:27.440 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 1>she's you, know starting to look at colleges and trying

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:34.399
<v Speaker 1>to figure out applying for scholarships and stuff like.

0:28:34.480 --> 0:28:35.840
<v Speaker 2>That so does she want to go to?

0:28:35.920 --> 0:28:36.280
<v Speaker 1>College?

0:28:36.320 --> 0:28:37.840
<v Speaker 2>NOW i know that was also not.

0:28:37.800 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 1>Really, important not like she wanted to do more of

0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:45.960
<v Speaker 1>the esthetician school, route which we, supported and now she

0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:48.840
<v Speaker 1>is thinking she wants the college. EXPERIENCE i think because

0:28:48.840 --> 0:28:50.640
<v Speaker 1>some of her friends are doing college visits and she

0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:54.480
<v Speaker 1>went with her best friend to Visit, alabama and when

0:28:54.480 --> 0:28:56.280
<v Speaker 1>she came back from, THAT i think she was, Like,

0:28:56.320 --> 0:29:00.000
<v Speaker 1>OH i THINK i do want to have the college. Experience,

0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:05.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah and so we'll. See we're trying not to push

0:29:05.160 --> 0:29:08.800
<v Speaker 1>it either. Way we kind of want to see where

0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:14.479
<v Speaker 1>she lands with. It But i'm excited for her if

0:29:14.480 --> 0:29:16.440
<v Speaker 1>she does do, that BECAUSE i think it'd be cool

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:20.600
<v Speaker 1>for her to have the full blown, experiment not experiment.

0:29:20.680 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>Experience but she was saying the other, DAY i THINK

0:29:22.320 --> 0:29:24.080
<v Speaker 1>i need to get a, dog like A German shepherd

0:29:24.120 --> 0:29:25.960
<v Speaker 1>IF i go to, college AND i was, like, What

0:29:26.440 --> 0:29:28.440
<v Speaker 1>first of, all you're going to be in a small

0:29:28.480 --> 0:29:30.640
<v Speaker 1>space with. Roommates you don't have room for A German.

0:29:30.680 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 1>Shepherd they're likely not going to be allowed if you're

0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:34.480
<v Speaker 1>living in a dorm or an apartment or something like.

0:29:34.520 --> 0:29:36.640
<v Speaker 1>That and she's, like, What, no it's going to keep me,

0:29:36.720 --> 0:29:39.400
<v Speaker 1>safe LIKE i don't want to get assaulted or LIKE

0:29:39.480 --> 0:29:41.560
<v Speaker 1>i was, like where are? You what stories you're hearing

0:29:41.600 --> 0:29:44.080
<v Speaker 1>on college, campuses WHICH i know that sadly stuff like

0:29:44.120 --> 0:29:48.480
<v Speaker 1>that does, happen but you could also survive it without

0:29:48.520 --> 0:29:51.080
<v Speaker 1>A German. Shepherd AND i just don't think that your

0:29:51.080 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 1>freshman year of college is when you need to focus

0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:56.360
<v Speaker 1>on having a big dog because you're going to be

0:29:56.520 --> 0:29:59.000
<v Speaker 1>going to school and you may have some sort of

0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:01.479
<v Speaker 1>a job and you're going to need to, study and

0:30:02.160 --> 0:30:03.080
<v Speaker 1>you're going to have a social.

0:30:03.160 --> 0:30:06.240
<v Speaker 2>Life, yeah it sounds like there might be some fear

0:30:06.320 --> 0:30:09.520
<v Speaker 2>associated with, college just based on, stories.

0:30:09.400 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>Especially off you, KNOW i think she sees stuff on

0:30:14.040 --> 0:30:17.800
<v Speaker 1>YouTube and, TikTok like she watches all those. Crimes oh

0:30:18.000 --> 0:30:19.920
<v Speaker 1>there's this one crime. GIRL i don't even know the person's,

0:30:19.960 --> 0:30:23.160
<v Speaker 1>name but she breaks down like crazy cases on. YouTube

0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:25.720
<v Speaker 1>she's just some girl that records them out of her

0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:28.040
<v Speaker 1>bedroom And i've watched some of them with. HER i

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:31.000
<v Speaker 1>WISH i could remember the person's. Name she's got millions of.

0:30:31.560 --> 0:30:34.120
<v Speaker 1>Viewers but so she is very into, those And i'm,

0:30:34.120 --> 0:30:35.640
<v Speaker 1>like maybe we need to cut back on that BECAUSE

0:30:35.640 --> 0:30:38.040
<v Speaker 1>i think that's why you think you need A German.

0:30:38.080 --> 0:30:41.600
<v Speaker 2>Shepherd, well and she loves, horror, right, yeah loves. IT

0:30:44.360 --> 0:30:46.880
<v Speaker 2>i feel like between the crime and the horror, stuff

0:30:47.040 --> 0:30:49.480
<v Speaker 2>we're definitely IMPACTING i know a little bit of. Power

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:53.680
<v Speaker 2>how she feels in, safety, right and that's. Fair, YEAH

0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:56.280
<v Speaker 2>i totally get. It but, yeah definitely No German shepherd

0:30:56.280 --> 0:30:57.040
<v Speaker 2>freshman year of.

0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:59.959
<v Speaker 1>COLLEGE i know definitely you don't have time for. That,

0:31:00.200 --> 0:31:05.120
<v Speaker 1>yeah and also or, money, like, Yeah i'm like A

0:31:05.200 --> 0:31:07.640
<v Speaker 1>german shepherd that requires a lot of. Care there's vet,

0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:12.040
<v Speaker 1>bills shedding tons of. Food you're not thinking this.

0:31:12.200 --> 0:31:15.479
<v Speaker 2>THROUGH i really appreciate that we are going from a

0:31:15.520 --> 0:31:17.160
<v Speaker 2>bird to A german. Shepherd.

0:31:17.520 --> 0:31:21.240
<v Speaker 1>YEAH i like the evolution of the. Bird, definitely a

0:31:21.280 --> 0:31:23.880
<v Speaker 1>bird could not protect, her or a cat like she

0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:27.560
<v Speaker 1>loves her, Cat, maggie that would not protect. Her, No

0:31:28.120 --> 0:31:31.280
<v Speaker 1>so she just wants protection And i'm, like get some

0:31:31.400 --> 0:31:33.160
<v Speaker 1>mace OR i bought her one of those. Birdies.

0:31:33.560 --> 0:31:37.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah the there's also an app chain things so that

0:31:37.000 --> 0:31:38.480
<v Speaker 2>she can have on her phone that she can hold

0:31:38.520 --> 0:31:41.239
<v Speaker 2>onto whenever she goes, places and if she releases her,

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:43.160
<v Speaker 2>hand it calls nine one. One that's WHAT i used

0:31:43.160 --> 0:31:43.600
<v Speaker 2>a lot in called.

0:31:43.680 --> 0:31:46.200
<v Speaker 1>GOSH i would have. TO i feel LIKE i would

0:31:46.200 --> 0:31:47.520
<v Speaker 1>accidentally release my hand and.

0:31:47.560 --> 0:31:49.840
<v Speaker 2>Be, like oh, shoot, WELL i think when you're that.

0:31:49.960 --> 0:31:52.320
<v Speaker 2>TENSE i would be tents, sometimes walking in dark places

0:31:52.320 --> 0:31:53.440
<v Speaker 2>AND i would just like grip my.

0:31:53.480 --> 0:31:55.160
<v Speaker 1>Phone so that's when you would pull it, Up like

0:31:55.360 --> 0:31:58.040
<v Speaker 1>if you're walking on campus at night by yourself or.

0:31:58.040 --> 0:32:00.680
<v Speaker 2>Something and all of your. TIME i would somebody IF

0:32:00.680 --> 0:32:02.440
<v Speaker 2>i was, walking so somebody was on the, phone but

0:32:02.480 --> 0:32:05.160
<v Speaker 2>if nobody could answer or. Somebody it was kind of

0:32:05.200 --> 0:32:07.760
<v Speaker 2>just my backup. Plan but it was there and it was,

0:32:07.800 --> 0:32:10.440
<v Speaker 2>ready AND i felt safe because IF i released it

0:32:10.640 --> 0:32:12.840
<v Speaker 2>and didn't put, like you can release it FOR i

0:32:12.840 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 2>think it's three, seconds but if you put it back,

0:32:15.200 --> 0:32:17.680
<v Speaker 2>on then it won't call nine one. One if you

0:32:17.760 --> 0:32:19.640
<v Speaker 2>release it and you never put it back, on it

0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:22.720
<v Speaker 2>will call nine one to your direct. Location, gotcha it's

0:32:22.760 --> 0:32:25.160
<v Speaker 2>on like safe, Light. Homelight i'd have to look it.

0:32:25.200 --> 0:32:27.840
<v Speaker 2>Up but so there's so many things that she could.

0:32:28.240 --> 0:32:31.960
<v Speaker 1>Have, yeah, yes and like here's a key. Chain you

0:32:32.000 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 1>don't need A german, shepherd you.

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:36.520
<v Speaker 2>Know BUT i shout out to. Her she's dreaming for

0:32:36.560 --> 0:32:38.920
<v Speaker 2>the stars AND i appreciate that about. Her we're gonna

0:32:38.920 --> 0:32:41.120
<v Speaker 2>take another quick break and we'll be back for maybe

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:46.760
<v Speaker 2>some stories From, Austin texas for a. Festival how was

0:32:46.800 --> 0:32:49.880
<v Speaker 2>The iHeart festival for, You Austin? Texas what was it

0:32:49.960 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 2>like going back for? You especially living In nashville for

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:53.360
<v Speaker 2>so long, NOW.

0:32:53.920 --> 0:32:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I i get asked that question like every TIME i go, back,

0:32:57.600 --> 0:32:59.320
<v Speaker 1>like oh my, Gosh you're going to see family And i'm,

0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:01.640
<v Speaker 1>like it's so. Awkwards i'm, LIKE i don't have family there,

0:33:01.640 --> 0:33:05.520
<v Speaker 1>Anymore like my sister moved To, colorado my mom, died

0:33:05.560 --> 0:33:09.000
<v Speaker 1>my dad, died nobody's. THERE i do have friends that

0:33:09.040 --> 0:33:11.960
<v Speaker 1>are still, there and my cousin is In, wimberley which

0:33:12.000 --> 0:33:14.400
<v Speaker 1>is outside Of, austin so it's not necessarily super easy

0:33:14.400 --> 0:33:16.719
<v Speaker 1>to get. To it's not, like, oh you're In. Austin

0:33:16.840 --> 0:33:19.880
<v Speaker 1>so Obviously i'm going to see my cousin because it's

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:22.600
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a hike To. Wimberley BUT i

0:33:22.640 --> 0:33:27.360
<v Speaker 1>do like going. Back it's just not the. Same it's

0:33:27.520 --> 0:33:31.959
<v Speaker 1>very busy and, trafficky and we're we're staying like our

0:33:32.000 --> 0:33:35.760
<v Speaker 1>hotel to the, venue there's a lot of, construction and

0:33:35.840 --> 0:33:39.000
<v Speaker 1>so it just feels, like, yeah like IF i. Could

0:33:39.520 --> 0:33:41.480
<v Speaker 1>we're very busy, Too so IF i had time to

0:33:41.520 --> 0:33:44.720
<v Speaker 1>actually get out and enjoy a few, THINGS i THINK

0:33:44.720 --> 0:33:47.320
<v Speaker 1>i would love. It LIKE i normally do try to

0:33:47.360 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 1>go like. Hike we used to call it back in

0:33:50.680 --> 0:33:53.120
<v Speaker 1>the Day Town, lake but now It's Ladybird. Lake IF

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.760
<v Speaker 1>i go do, that that's very life giving to. Me

0:33:57.560 --> 0:33:59.120
<v Speaker 1>AND i didn't get to do that this, trip SO

0:33:59.160 --> 0:34:01.360
<v Speaker 1>i was kind of, sad but of COURSE i Love.

0:34:01.400 --> 0:34:04.600
<v Speaker 1>Austin it'll always be home for. Me it just doesn't

0:34:04.760 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 1>feel the same going. Back and THEN i there's the

0:34:07.920 --> 0:34:10.279
<v Speaker 1>awkward like are you gonna see?

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:12.719
<v Speaker 2>Family, yeah And you're like, okay we have to do this,

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:17.320
<v Speaker 2>again And i'm like no want Wam it was. INTERESTING

0:34:17.440 --> 0:34:20.160
<v Speaker 2>i Love, austin BUT i don't have the experience that.

0:34:20.200 --> 0:34:22.320
<v Speaker 2>You BUT i do know what that feeling is like

0:34:22.360 --> 0:34:24.040
<v Speaker 2>WHENEVER i go back To wichita and so much has

0:34:24.120 --> 0:34:27.400
<v Speaker 2>changed and you've just been gone for a long, time

0:34:27.640 --> 0:34:30.000
<v Speaker 2>and life is, different even though my. Family that is

0:34:30.040 --> 0:34:32.439
<v Speaker 2>the different part is my family's all still. There there's

0:34:32.440 --> 0:34:35.800
<v Speaker 2>so much that has changed and all your, favorites a

0:34:35.840 --> 0:34:38.160
<v Speaker 2>lot of things have, gone new things have replaced, them

0:34:38.440 --> 0:34:42.920
<v Speaker 2>or just a lot of change WHEN i don't, know

0:34:43.280 --> 0:34:46.200
<v Speaker 2>tourism is more likely In austin than In, wichita but

0:34:46.640 --> 0:34:50.080
<v Speaker 2>when new businesses come in and it just changes the

0:34:50.160 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 2>layout and the environment of a place like. That SO

0:34:53.280 --> 0:34:56.000
<v Speaker 2>i know that. Feeling but Also austin to me has

0:34:56.040 --> 0:35:00.239
<v Speaker 2>always always been, strange literally because WHAT i knew About

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:02.400
<v Speaker 2>austin BEFORE i ever visited it Was austin is. Weird

0:35:03.280 --> 0:35:06.160
<v Speaker 2>their slogan or mode At boston, weird Keep boston. Weird

0:35:06.520 --> 0:35:08.680
<v Speaker 2>and so WHEN i first went, THERE i, said, yeah

0:35:08.719 --> 0:35:11.439
<v Speaker 2>it's a little, strange there's some strangeness to, it but good.

0:35:11.440 --> 0:35:14.440
<v Speaker 2>Weird it's fun. Weird and every TIME i, GO i

0:35:14.560 --> 0:35:18.480
<v Speaker 2>JUST i always experience some, funny quirky, things especially If

0:35:18.480 --> 0:35:20.880
<v Speaker 2>i'm walking Down Sixth street or, something AND i just

0:35:21.239 --> 0:35:25.080
<v Speaker 2>witness weirder things THAN i Think i've witnessed in any.

0:35:25.120 --> 0:35:26.719
<v Speaker 2>City And i've spent a lot of time In, denver

0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:28.720
<v Speaker 2>which is supposed to be like the comparison Of austin

0:35:28.800 --> 0:35:32.400
<v Speaker 2>of the, weirdness AND i Think austin Wins austin.

0:35:32.440 --> 0:35:34.200
<v Speaker 1>PIZZA i think.

0:35:34.280 --> 0:35:37.640
<v Speaker 2>So BUT i always get breakfast. Tacos that's my. THING

0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 2>i will always eat breakfast, tacos like from a specific

0:35:40.640 --> 0:35:43.239
<v Speaker 2>place or just, NO i like try and go to

0:35:43.360 --> 0:35:46.520
<v Speaker 2>new places THAT i haven't been and because that's JUST

0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:49.320
<v Speaker 2>i feel Like austin is really good for breakfast tacos,

0:35:49.520 --> 0:35:52.120
<v Speaker 2>Definitely so that's What i'll always. Get it's always on the.

0:35:52.160 --> 0:35:55.000
<v Speaker 2>MENU i try and get it both days or especially

0:35:55.000 --> 0:35:56.960
<v Speaker 2>even in the airport on the way, Back i'll get

0:35:56.960 --> 0:35:58.719
<v Speaker 2>a breakfast. TACO hm just makes me.

0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:00.800
<v Speaker 1>HAPPY yea favorite kind of breakfast.

0:36:00.840 --> 0:36:04.279
<v Speaker 2>COCCO i love anything where they put a potato and,

0:36:04.360 --> 0:36:06.719
<v Speaker 2>egg so it's not really. Hard Because i'm. Vegetarians you

0:36:06.719 --> 0:36:08.520
<v Speaker 2>can't add a whole lot of, things but as. Long

0:36:08.640 --> 0:36:11.560
<v Speaker 2>there's some places that don't make potato and egg breakfast,

0:36:11.600 --> 0:36:14.360
<v Speaker 2>tacos but anytime they. Do there's one place at the,

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:16.480
<v Speaker 2>airport AND i can't remember what they're, called but their

0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:19.520
<v Speaker 2>potato egg is mashed potato with egg and then they

0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:21.160
<v Speaker 2>add avocado to it and it's so.

0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:24.480
<v Speaker 1>Yummy Oh i'm trying to think of what is there

0:36:24.560 --> 0:36:27.319
<v Speaker 1>at the. AIRPORT i like the migas breakfast taco all

0:36:27.600 --> 0:36:30.200
<v Speaker 1>always from. Anywhere migas is.

0:36:30.160 --> 0:36:32.920
<v Speaker 2>It that's scrambled, eggs a specific kind of?

0:36:33.000 --> 0:36:37.160
<v Speaker 1>Cheese, well they may they may use. IT i don't

0:36:37.160 --> 0:36:39.279
<v Speaker 1>know if every place may have a different type of

0:36:39.320 --> 0:36:41.759
<v Speaker 1>cheese that they, use but it's typically just like a

0:36:42.600 --> 0:36:45.720
<v Speaker 1>like a HOW i make. Migas so there's like maybe

0:36:45.800 --> 0:36:50.640
<v Speaker 1>some rotel type, situation so like a tomato pepper concoction

0:36:51.320 --> 0:36:58.000
<v Speaker 1>and then, eggs, cheese tortilla strips or like you, know

0:36:58.080 --> 0:37:01.520
<v Speaker 1>like a crunch like you get that in. There that's

0:37:01.600 --> 0:37:02.400
<v Speaker 1>that's migas for.

0:37:02.480 --> 0:37:03.040
<v Speaker 2>Me got?

0:37:03.080 --> 0:37:04.960
<v Speaker 1>It and it's wrapped up in a tortilla with some

0:37:05.000 --> 0:37:07.680
<v Speaker 1>avocado and maybe a dipping.

0:37:07.719 --> 0:37:11.280
<v Speaker 2>Sauce, Okay and the dipping sauces are always so. Spicy

0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 2>WHENEVER i go To, austin the spicy sauce always gets

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:16.279
<v Speaker 2>me BECAUSE i think it's not gonna be. Spicy sitting,

0:37:16.400 --> 0:37:19.440
<v Speaker 2>There i'm, like you start sweating Because i'm a. Baby

0:37:19.520 --> 0:37:21.799
<v Speaker 2>i'm a baby when it comes to spices THAT i am.

0:37:21.840 --> 0:37:23.080
<v Speaker 1>Too i'm not good at.

0:37:23.120 --> 0:37:26.960
<v Speaker 2>It i'm trying to expand my, palate BUT i swear

0:37:27.200 --> 0:37:29.359
<v Speaker 2>every time one of my friends who like spicy food

0:37:29.360 --> 0:37:31.719
<v Speaker 2>will try something and they'll be, like it's not, spicy you're,

0:37:31.760 --> 0:37:33.359
<v Speaker 2>Fine and THEN i, Eat i'm, like, guys that was so,

0:37:33.400 --> 0:37:35.160
<v Speaker 2>hot and my mouth is dying AND i have to

0:37:35.200 --> 0:37:38.320
<v Speaker 2>like chug water AND i feel like such a. Child

0:37:38.800 --> 0:37:40.520
<v Speaker 2>but in my, FAIRNESS i have come a long way

0:37:40.520 --> 0:37:42.520
<v Speaker 2>BECAUSE i did used to put sugar in, salsa so.

0:37:43.440 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 1>Okay AND i feel LIKE i used to think that

0:37:45.080 --> 0:37:46.879
<v Speaker 1>that was weird when you would say, That but THEN

0:37:47.320 --> 0:37:50.000
<v Speaker 1>i feel LIKE i got messages after, that and then

0:37:50.040 --> 0:37:53.320
<v Speaker 1>even started looking at ingredients and sometimes sugar is added

0:37:53.520 --> 0:37:56.480
<v Speaker 1>to the to the. RECIPE i know you were doing

0:37:56.520 --> 0:37:59.640
<v Speaker 1>it to counter so you were adding extra BUT i

0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:02.560
<v Speaker 1>JUST i ever associated sugar at all with. It but

0:38:02.960 --> 0:38:04.839
<v Speaker 1>in some jars if you look at the, back there's added.

0:38:04.880 --> 0:38:07.520
<v Speaker 2>Sugar, well so this this is funny about this. TOO

0:38:07.560 --> 0:38:10.279
<v Speaker 2>i was making the homemade enchilada, sauce which tends to

0:38:10.320 --> 0:38:14.399
<v Speaker 2>be pretty mild and it calls for chili. Powder, WELL

0:38:14.440 --> 0:38:16.720
<v Speaker 2>i was making this enchilata sauce AND i didn't have chili,

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:22.480
<v Speaker 2>powder SO i added cayenne. Pepper, OH i didn't realize

0:38:22.600 --> 0:38:25.840
<v Speaker 2>how much cayenne PEPPER i, added and it was so.

0:38:26.000 --> 0:38:28.320
<v Speaker 2>Spicy SO i ended up having to add sugar to

0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:32.240
<v Speaker 2>my enchilada sauce and it was kind of a, mess

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:34.400
<v Speaker 2>but it ended up tasting really. Good BUT i added

0:38:34.400 --> 0:38:35.960
<v Speaker 2>a crap ton of sugar that was supposed to be

0:38:36.000 --> 0:38:39.319
<v Speaker 2>something that was relatively, healthy and it was just. Not

0:38:39.480 --> 0:38:42.880
<v Speaker 2>it tasted very sweet and then the, ending, though was

0:38:43.160 --> 0:38:46.680
<v Speaker 2>still really. Spicy and SO i would finish eating my

0:38:46.760 --> 0:38:49.920
<v Speaker 2>enchiladas AND i would just be. Stewetty oh, yeah it

0:38:50.000 --> 0:38:52.040
<v Speaker 2>was not a Good you're still gonna have to kick.

0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:55.399
<v Speaker 1>There, well you were telling your story. TOO i tried

0:38:55.400 --> 0:38:58.080
<v Speaker 1>to look up taco restaurants at the. Airport so is

0:38:58.080 --> 0:38:58.480
<v Speaker 1>It Taco.

0:38:58.520 --> 0:39:02.280
<v Speaker 2>DELI i think it Was Taco. Deli, Yeah i'm.

0:39:02.120 --> 0:39:04.120
<v Speaker 1>Trying to think because if anybody wanted to know if

0:39:04.120 --> 0:39:07.399
<v Speaker 1>they're traveling through The Austin. Airport WHAT i love about

0:39:07.400 --> 0:39:11.319
<v Speaker 1>the airport there is it's all local. Places so if

0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:13.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't have time to drive out To driftwood to

0:39:13.160 --> 0:39:15.720
<v Speaker 1>Get Salt lake, barbecue you can get salt like barbecue

0:39:15.719 --> 0:39:15.880
<v Speaker 1>at the.

0:39:15.920 --> 0:39:19.120
<v Speaker 2>Airport, yes and there's a food. Truck there's two Places

0:39:19.160 --> 0:39:21.600
<v Speaker 2>i've had breakfast tacos in. There there's a food truck

0:39:22.120 --> 0:39:24.239
<v Speaker 2>that has you literally walk up to it and it's

0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:27.640
<v Speaker 2>a food. Truck and Then Taco, deli Which Taco deli

0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:31.120
<v Speaker 2>is consistently. Good is that A texas chain for?

0:39:31.200 --> 0:39:35.040
<v Speaker 1>TACOS i mean there's multiple locations In, austin BUT i

0:39:35.040 --> 0:39:38.840
<v Speaker 1>don't know if that says. Here Taco deli handcrafted tacos Across,

0:39:38.840 --> 0:39:41.040
<v Speaker 1>texas So i'm not quite sure where it. Started but,

0:39:41.760 --> 0:39:45.799
<v Speaker 1>yeah we would Get Taco deli. Back you, know when

0:39:45.840 --> 0:39:48.840
<v Speaker 1>we were working at the station In, austin a coffee

0:39:48.840 --> 0:39:50.920
<v Speaker 1>shop across the street from us would Carry Taco deli's.

0:39:50.920 --> 0:39:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Tacos it's Called Rudo Maaya, coffee and we would go

0:39:55.239 --> 0:39:57.200
<v Speaker 1>get the tacos and they were so. Good and then

0:39:57.680 --> 0:40:02.239
<v Speaker 1>speaking of, Barbecue rudy's has breakfast tacos and they would

0:40:02.360 --> 0:40:07.360
<v Speaker 1>drop off tacos Every thursday at the station and it

0:40:07.440 --> 0:40:09.360
<v Speaker 1>was so. Good and they would do pigs in a blanket.

0:40:09.400 --> 0:40:11.440
<v Speaker 1>Too they would drop off breakfast tacos and pigs and

0:40:11.440 --> 0:40:13.239
<v Speaker 1>a blanket AND i was, like, oh this was.

0:40:13.600 --> 0:40:15.640
<v Speaker 2>Like to get food all the. Time we don't have that.

0:40:15.719 --> 0:40:18.080
<v Speaker 1>Experience, well when we were going over to the coffee

0:40:18.080 --> 0:40:19.759
<v Speaker 1>shop to get Taco, deli we were paying for. It

0:40:19.760 --> 0:40:21.719
<v Speaker 1>but Every thursday When brutis would drop it, off it

0:40:21.760 --> 0:40:24.439
<v Speaker 1>was treat and that was so. Awesome SEE i love

0:40:24.520 --> 0:40:28.120
<v Speaker 1>that tons of, tacos lots of. Tacos we'd be like,

0:40:28.160 --> 0:40:31.439
<v Speaker 1>breakfast this is breakfast. Lunch that was back, when, yeah

0:40:31.520 --> 0:40:34.440
<v Speaker 1>we were just starting out and we free food WAS i,

0:40:34.440 --> 0:40:37.719
<v Speaker 1>mean free food is always, great but especially in our early. Twenties, yeah,

0:40:37.800 --> 0:40:38.799
<v Speaker 1>yeah free food was.

0:40:39.600 --> 0:40:42.480
<v Speaker 2>Everything that's one of my favorite inventions of food Is

0:40:42.520 --> 0:40:46.040
<v Speaker 2>mexican food with. Breakfast AND i don't think UNTIL i

0:40:46.080 --> 0:40:49.360
<v Speaker 2>finally went To austin DID i ever realized like breakfast.

0:40:49.440 --> 0:40:52.719
<v Speaker 1>Burritos so they didn't have that growing up In, wichita.

0:40:52.640 --> 0:40:56.160
<v Speaker 2>Not anywhere THAT i went because, like Our mexican food

0:40:56.400 --> 0:41:00.000
<v Speaker 2>was on the Border Taco, bell and we never really

0:41:00.160 --> 0:41:04.840
<v Speaker 2>Went Taco. Bell we had A Taco tico if that

0:41:04.880 --> 0:41:06.520
<v Speaker 2>was also a fast food, joint AND i never went.

0:41:06.560 --> 0:41:08.960
<v Speaker 2>There we always Chose Taco bell, because especially in the,

0:41:09.040 --> 0:41:11.239
<v Speaker 2>Nineties Taco bell looks so. Cool it was a cool

0:41:11.280 --> 0:41:14.759
<v Speaker 2>LITTLE i don't know the pastels that they had or,

0:41:14.760 --> 0:41:19.040
<v Speaker 2>Whatever but we never went to any Local mexican. RESTAURANTS i,

0:41:19.080 --> 0:41:21.560
<v Speaker 2>know now there's a, lot but WHEN i was growing, up,

0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:24.840
<v Speaker 2>no for, sure we did all the, Chains Texas roadhouse

0:41:25.600 --> 0:41:29.800
<v Speaker 2>And Olive. Gordon we had a lot of, chains so

0:41:30.320 --> 0:41:32.239
<v Speaker 2>Don't it wasn't really UNTIL i was in college THAT

0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:34.920
<v Speaker 2>i learned about breakfast in, tacos and a lot of

0:41:35.000 --> 0:41:38.080
<v Speaker 2>restaurants started putting breakfast tacos on their. Menus kind of

0:41:38.120 --> 0:41:41.560
<v Speaker 2>became a thing at one. Point but then WHEN i

0:41:41.640 --> 0:41:43.840
<v Speaker 2>went To austin was WHEN i really, realized like what

0:41:44.040 --> 0:41:46.560
<v Speaker 2>breakfast tacos were supposed to taste, Like and you, know

0:41:46.680 --> 0:41:48.200
<v Speaker 2>like the really good, ones.

0:41:48.160 --> 0:41:49.640
<v Speaker 1>The, authentic, good, stuffy.

0:41:49.560 --> 0:41:51.919
<v Speaker 2>Yeah because you get it From american restaurants and they're.

0:41:51.960 --> 0:41:54.319
<v Speaker 2>GOOD i love a breakfast taco no matter. What but

0:41:54.360 --> 0:41:56.919
<v Speaker 2>THEN i went To austin and it ruined me BECAUSE

0:41:56.960 --> 0:41:59.280
<v Speaker 2>i had really good breakfast burritos and breakfast.

0:41:59.320 --> 0:42:03.200
<v Speaker 1>Tacos you gotta find when it comes To mexican restaurants In,

0:42:03.239 --> 0:42:07.839
<v Speaker 1>texas you gotta find just like the the places that you're,

0:42:07.880 --> 0:42:10.200
<v Speaker 1>like you, Question you're, LIKE i don't, know SHOULD i

0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:11.839
<v Speaker 1>go in? THERE i, mean that's what my dad would always.

0:42:11.880 --> 0:42:13.680
<v Speaker 1>Do he's, like, oh the more like he would just

0:42:13.719 --> 0:42:15.360
<v Speaker 1>call him a hole in the wall type, place even for,

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:17.759
<v Speaker 1>burgers not Just mexican, Food, like the more hole in

0:42:17.760 --> 0:42:20.000
<v Speaker 1>the wall, Looks he's, like the better it's gonna.

0:42:20.040 --> 0:42:23.319
<v Speaker 2>Be that is, True he's not. Wrong is it a

0:42:23.360 --> 0:42:25.040
<v Speaker 2>place where he has a burger named not for? Him

0:42:25.080 --> 0:42:25.840
<v Speaker 2>also a hole in the?

0:42:25.840 --> 0:42:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Wall oh that's, Big Daddy's, no not. Real, NO i

0:42:29.920 --> 0:42:32.360
<v Speaker 1>would call that more of like a like A texas

0:42:32.400 --> 0:42:36.879
<v Speaker 1>roadhouse type. Situation oh, okay shout out. Dad, Yeah well

0:42:36.920 --> 0:42:39.400
<v Speaker 1>he had a that was a they had some of

0:42:39.400 --> 0:42:43.719
<v Speaker 1>those restaurants and he was it's, where, uh the one

0:42:43.719 --> 0:42:48.959
<v Speaker 1>In odessa he had for, Years like WHEN i go visit,

0:42:49.040 --> 0:42:50.879
<v Speaker 1>him he moved To odessa for a little bit after

0:42:51.000 --> 0:42:54.360
<v Speaker 1>him and my mom. SPLIT i guess to probably quiet

0:42:54.400 --> 0:42:58.000
<v Speaker 1>down some of the buzz because he was leaving her

0:42:58.040 --> 0:43:00.640
<v Speaker 1>for somebody. Else so they Moved odessa for a little,

0:43:00.640 --> 0:43:03.120
<v Speaker 1>bit AND i would go visit him for spring. Break

0:43:03.160 --> 0:43:06.640
<v Speaker 1>AND i was the hostess At Big, daddies SO i

0:43:06.680 --> 0:43:10.400
<v Speaker 1>would host us there and uh then, yeah HE i,

0:43:10.400 --> 0:43:12.680
<v Speaker 1>GUESS i guess still. THERE i don't know who owns

0:43:12.719 --> 0:43:17.120
<v Speaker 1>it now or, what but there's Still my half sister

0:43:18.000 --> 0:43:20.440
<v Speaker 1>was In odessa for something and they decided to go

0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:22.239
<v Speaker 1>eat A Big daddy's and she opened up the menu

0:43:22.320 --> 0:43:25.080
<v Speaker 1>and there was Cliffs burger still on the. Menu that's.

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<v Speaker 2>WILD i, know it's cool that it's still there though years.

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<v Speaker 1>Later, YEAH i love.

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<v Speaker 2>That, okay we're gonna end us on a celebrity. Story

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<v Speaker 2>do you have a celebrity story From iHeart?

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<v Speaker 1>Festival, WELL i told this one on the, Show My

0:43:39.239 --> 0:43:41.879
<v Speaker 1>Sam hunt story where he fell in front of it. Fell,

0:43:42.280 --> 0:43:44.320
<v Speaker 1>WELL i didn't, fall BUT i dropped all my luggage

0:43:44.360 --> 0:43:45.960
<v Speaker 1>in front of, him AND i might as well have.

0:43:46.040 --> 0:43:49.839
<v Speaker 1>Fallen it's. RIDICULOUS i was about to start A Thomas

0:43:49.920 --> 0:43:52.560
<v Speaker 1>rhett interview On hulu and his phone started ringing and

0:43:52.600 --> 0:43:54.680
<v Speaker 1>he was, like, oh what's. This he looked at it

0:43:54.719 --> 0:43:56.960
<v Speaker 1>was his wife, calling AND i, thought and The hulu

0:43:57.080 --> 0:43:59.560
<v Speaker 1>hits are, live and SO i was, like, oh shoot

0:44:00.200 --> 0:44:01.719
<v Speaker 1>to answer a phone call from his wife and then

0:44:01.719 --> 0:44:05.600
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go and have to. Stall but he was,

0:44:05.640 --> 0:44:08.399
<v Speaker 1>Like i'll call her Rag AND i was, like, oh,

0:44:08.520 --> 0:44:10.279
<v Speaker 1>see stars are just like. Us like he's at work

0:44:10.320 --> 0:44:11.840
<v Speaker 1>doing his, thing but his wife is, like, OH i

0:44:11.840 --> 0:44:13.960
<v Speaker 1>got to call my. HUSBAND i have a. Question or

0:44:14.000 --> 0:44:15.520
<v Speaker 1>maybe he's not on. STAGE i, mean because he was

0:44:15.520 --> 0:44:16.320
<v Speaker 1>also about to take the.

0:44:16.360 --> 0:44:18.400
<v Speaker 2>Stage, Well AND i feel like she wouldn't call for

0:44:18.480 --> 0:44:22.120
<v Speaker 2>no reason either, too because of his work. Environment so

0:44:22.200 --> 0:44:24.000
<v Speaker 2>she mustn't called because something was going, on.

0:44:24.520 --> 0:44:26.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah or she could have JUST i don't think it

0:44:26.280 --> 0:44:28.640
<v Speaker 1>was anything serious because if he was alarmed by, that

0:44:28.760 --> 0:44:31.000
<v Speaker 1>he would have picked it. UP i don't think he would. Have,

0:44:31.160 --> 0:44:34.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah so they probably are just used to, talking which

0:44:34.640 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 1>that's the whole. Thing like some people do not call

0:44:36.560 --> 0:44:40.400
<v Speaker 1>their spouses or their significant others on the. Job that

0:44:40.560 --> 0:44:42.799
<v Speaker 1>was shocking to, Me like therapy. Cats she told me

0:44:42.840 --> 0:44:44.719
<v Speaker 1>she just never called her husband at, work AND i was,

0:44:44.760 --> 0:44:47.520
<v Speaker 1>like WHAT i would Call ben all the. TIME i,

0:44:47.520 --> 0:44:49.480
<v Speaker 1>MEAN i guess when he was in the military it was. Different.

0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Uh but and my BOYFRIEND i call. HIM i call.

0:44:54.760 --> 0:44:56.319
<v Speaker 1>Him i'll call him as soon as we get done

0:44:56.360 --> 0:44:59.239
<v Speaker 1>here we, Leave, yeah and Then i'll call him, again just,

0:44:59.560 --> 0:45:03.680
<v Speaker 1>hey what are you's? Doing i'm? Working, okay you know.

0:45:04.040 --> 0:45:06.560
<v Speaker 1>So BUT i put up a thing about it On

0:45:06.600 --> 0:45:08.920
<v Speaker 1>instagram a couple of months, ago AND i was shocked

0:45:08.960 --> 0:45:10.959
<v Speaker 1>at how divided some people. Were they're, like oh my, gosh,

0:45:11.000 --> 0:45:14.239
<v Speaker 1>YEAH i would never call my spouse at work, ever

0:45:14.360 --> 0:45:17.719
<v Speaker 1>and again it depends on what your spouse. Does but

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:19.239
<v Speaker 1>just the fact that it's a thing of, like, no

0:45:19.320 --> 0:45:21.359
<v Speaker 1>they're at, work why WOULD i call. Them i'm like

0:45:21.480 --> 0:45:22.200
<v Speaker 1>to see what's.

0:45:22.280 --> 0:45:25.360
<v Speaker 2>Up that kind of shocks me BECAUSE i feel like

0:45:25.440 --> 0:45:27.719
<v Speaker 2>most people when they were kids would call their parents

0:45:27.760 --> 0:45:29.920
<v Speaker 2>while they ARE i don't know how many TIMES i

0:45:29.960 --> 0:45:32.360
<v Speaker 2>would pick up the home phone just to bother my

0:45:32.440 --> 0:45:34.680
<v Speaker 2>parents at work for the stupidest. Things.

0:45:34.960 --> 0:45:36.760
<v Speaker 1>YEAH i, mean maybe.

0:45:36.520 --> 0:45:38.880
<v Speaker 2>People are traumatized from that, experience and others are, like,

0:45:38.960 --> 0:45:40.160
<v Speaker 2>NAH i did it all the, time.

0:45:40.120 --> 0:45:41.680
<v Speaker 1>Or to your, point depending how they grew, up maybe

0:45:41.719 --> 0:45:44.680
<v Speaker 1>their parents had jobs where they couldn't call them and

0:45:44.800 --> 0:45:47.880
<v Speaker 1>so they just it doesn't occur to them to just

0:45:47.960 --> 0:45:52.480
<v Speaker 1>call theirs their, Partner, yeah because, YEAH i would call

0:45:52.640 --> 0:45:54.560
<v Speaker 1>to your, POINT i would call my parents all the time,

0:45:54.600 --> 0:45:59.000
<v Speaker 1>too AND i definitely call my, boyfriend probably too. Much

0:45:59.160 --> 0:46:01.279
<v Speaker 1>and then sometimes he's, Like, OKAY i gotta, go And i'm, like,

0:46:02.040 --> 0:46:03.840
<v Speaker 1>WELL i just got done with work because our schedules

0:46:03.880 --> 0:46:05.640
<v Speaker 1>are very, different AND i was, LIKE i have a

0:46:05.719 --> 0:46:08.239
<v Speaker 1>twenty minute drive, Home like what AM i supposed to do?

0:46:08.280 --> 0:46:11.359
<v Speaker 2>Now isn't it funny? Too? HOW i don't know if

0:46:11.360 --> 0:46:13.920
<v Speaker 2>you've ever seen those memes or videos where you call

0:46:13.960 --> 0:46:16.600
<v Speaker 2>somebody when you're on a drive home and they don't

0:46:16.600 --> 0:46:18.160
<v Speaker 2>call you back until you pull in the garage and you're, like,

0:46:18.200 --> 0:46:19.239
<v Speaker 2>NO i don't want to talk to you. NOW i

0:46:19.239 --> 0:46:20.880
<v Speaker 2>only want to talk to you BECAUSE i would drive me.

0:46:20.920 --> 0:46:23.600
<v Speaker 1>Home, yes. Hilarious it's like you're at, home or they'll

0:46:23.600 --> 0:46:26.399
<v Speaker 1>show it's like a girl at home like eating, popcorn WATCHING,

0:46:26.440 --> 0:46:30.440
<v Speaker 1>tv literally doing nothing but her phone rings and she ignores.

0:46:30.520 --> 0:46:33.120
<v Speaker 1>It and she's like when that person calls that you

0:46:33.160 --> 0:46:36.160
<v Speaker 1>called when you were driving because you're still not doing,

0:46:36.160 --> 0:46:38.560
<v Speaker 1>anything like you could totally, answer but it's, like oh, no,

0:46:38.560 --> 0:46:41.839
<v Speaker 1>no you missed your. WINDOW i know when you had

0:46:41.960 --> 0:46:43.840
<v Speaker 1>way more energy or you were in the mood to.

0:46:43.880 --> 0:46:45.400
<v Speaker 1>Talk they may never.

0:46:45.480 --> 0:46:46.000
<v Speaker 2>MIND i take it.

0:46:46.040 --> 0:46:48.040
<v Speaker 1>Back, yeah you may not find that energy again for

0:46:48.040 --> 0:46:51.000
<v Speaker 1>another five. Days, yeah, yep very.

0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:53.360
<v Speaker 2>Real all, Right, amyel thanks for joining, Me thanks for

0:46:53.560 --> 0:46:55.480
<v Speaker 2>talking about, boyfriend, kids all the life.

0:46:55.520 --> 0:46:57.719
<v Speaker 1>Updates thank. You same to you before we.

0:46:57.840 --> 0:46:59.279
<v Speaker 2>Leave just you're. Good how are you.

0:46:59.320 --> 0:47:00.160
<v Speaker 1>Feeling i'm.

0:47:00.160 --> 0:47:02.040
<v Speaker 2>Great perimantal pause everything.

0:47:02.239 --> 0:47:06.320
<v Speaker 1>Perimidal pausal stuff is you, know it's ebbs and. Flows,

0:47:06.800 --> 0:47:09.080
<v Speaker 1>yeah so you never. Know speaking of by, HER i

0:47:09.080 --> 0:47:11.719
<v Speaker 1>did have a little bit of A i was emotional and.

0:47:11.760 --> 0:47:14.640
<v Speaker 1>HORMONAL i had a moment With Elizabeth, fazio who we work.

0:47:14.719 --> 0:47:17.399
<v Speaker 1>With we're. BACKSTAGE i had to let out a quick

0:47:17.440 --> 0:47:19.000
<v Speaker 1>cry for a, second AND i was, LIKE i looked

0:47:19.040 --> 0:47:20.480
<v Speaker 1>at her AND i was, LIKE i don't know what is.

0:47:20.520 --> 0:47:23.640
<v Speaker 1>HAPPENING i really. DON'T i was, LIKE i don't know

0:47:23.680 --> 0:47:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Why i'm. CRYING i cannot explain this right. Now and

0:47:27.239 --> 0:47:29.520
<v Speaker 1>that's one of those things where it's just, Like, god

0:47:30.040 --> 0:47:33.000
<v Speaker 1>this is so. Unprofessional nobody else saw me besides, her

0:47:33.040 --> 0:47:35.399
<v Speaker 1>SO i felt, okay but it just made me want

0:47:35.440 --> 0:47:37.319
<v Speaker 1>to like hug a lot of women that maybe just

0:47:37.360 --> 0:47:39.120
<v Speaker 1>need to let out a cry where literally at their,

0:47:39.200 --> 0:47:41.600
<v Speaker 1>job there's no way they could do, it and you

0:47:41.680 --> 0:47:45.000
<v Speaker 1>have to go hide and find a. Space SO i

0:47:45.040 --> 0:47:50.560
<v Speaker 1>just want to normalize random tears at work when you're you,

0:47:50.600 --> 0:47:52.840
<v Speaker 1>know you're estrogen might be a little off or something,

0:47:53.000 --> 0:47:56.720
<v Speaker 1>LIKE i don't know it. Was that was a, CRAZY

0:47:56.800 --> 0:47:58.239
<v Speaker 1>i heart. Story i've never had that.

0:47:58.320 --> 0:48:02.000
<v Speaker 2>Happen it feels really out of body where you just feel.

0:48:01.960 --> 0:48:04.439
<v Speaker 1>Yes BECAUSE i like focus and like get my job

0:48:04.480 --> 0:48:06.279
<v Speaker 1>done and like do WHAT i need to. Do AND

0:48:06.400 --> 0:48:08.520
<v Speaker 1>i was. VACCAGING i was, Like, ELIZABETH i don't know what's,

0:48:08.520 --> 0:48:09.719
<v Speaker 1>happening but we need to go over here in the

0:48:09.800 --> 0:48:12.120
<v Speaker 1>dark right, now because like tears are flowing AND i

0:48:12.280 --> 0:48:14.560
<v Speaker 1>JUST i feel off AND i need to feel. On

0:48:15.200 --> 0:48:17.120
<v Speaker 1>and so it was LIKE i got it out and

0:48:17.120 --> 0:48:19.480
<v Speaker 1>THEN i felt a little bit. Better so that released

0:48:19.480 --> 0:48:22.319
<v Speaker 1>some chemicals THAT i needed to help me. Survive so,

0:48:22.480 --> 0:48:24.359
<v Speaker 1>YEAH i know a lot of other women are going through.

0:48:24.360 --> 0:48:27.680
<v Speaker 1>It SO i just want to send you a hug

0:48:27.719 --> 0:48:31.280
<v Speaker 1>through the. Podcast and, also if you're a guy listening

0:48:31.320 --> 0:48:32.759
<v Speaker 1>and you have a woman in your life that might

0:48:32.800 --> 0:48:35.160
<v Speaker 1>be going through, it just remember to have some compassion

0:48:35.200 --> 0:48:36.840
<v Speaker 1>and grace because she may act in a way that

0:48:37.080 --> 0:48:39.920
<v Speaker 1>is confusing to her as. Well it doesn't excuse our,

0:48:39.960 --> 0:48:42.879
<v Speaker 1>behavior but sometimes maybe you just get curious about, hey,

0:48:43.360 --> 0:48:48.719
<v Speaker 1>uh let's let's let's. Pause what what could really be going?

0:48:48.760 --> 0:48:53.000
<v Speaker 1>On you, know instead of thinking, that you, know we're

0:48:53.040 --> 0:48:55.040
<v Speaker 1>just sacting all, Crazy you're not.

0:48:55.160 --> 0:48:57.439
<v Speaker 2>Crazy your body's just betraying you a little.

0:48:57.480 --> 0:49:01.280
<v Speaker 1>Bit and we'll even know that it's like betraying because

0:49:01.920 --> 0:49:04.720
<v Speaker 1>it's so it's part of the. Process it's like literally

0:49:04.760 --> 0:49:07.760
<v Speaker 1>what is supposed to be, happening but also.

0:49:07.600 --> 0:49:09.080
<v Speaker 2>Crap because why do we have to have?

0:49:09.160 --> 0:49:11.360
<v Speaker 1>That you know WHAT i, mean that's WHAT i.

0:49:11.360 --> 0:49:13.759
<v Speaker 2>Want that's WHERE i feel. Betrayed is this feels very

0:49:13.760 --> 0:49:16.480
<v Speaker 2>one sided, exactly AND i don't appreciate that experience for

0:49:16.560 --> 0:49:19.040
<v Speaker 2>all of you guys that are going through. It all,

0:49:19.120 --> 0:49:20.440
<v Speaker 2>Right we'll tell the people where they can find to

0:49:20.480 --> 0:49:21.320
<v Speaker 2>hear you all that good.

0:49:21.160 --> 0:49:25.040
<v Speaker 1>Stuff At Radio amy On socials and podcast Is Feeling Things,

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<v Speaker 1>podcasts which that's also the social handle for that, show

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<v Speaker 1>and you can download and listen wherever you listen.

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<v Speaker 2>To podcasts, awesome and you can follow me at Web

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<v Speaker 2>Girl morgan take this personally as my. Podcast we have

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<v Speaker 2>lots of good stuff up. There if you want some

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<v Speaker 2>extra content Between amy and myself you know everybody else.

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<v Speaker 2>Too you, Know amy AND i are sitting right here

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<v Speaker 2>Show bye Everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye that's the best bits of the week With.

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<v Speaker 2>Morgan thanks for.

0:49:51.040 --> 0:49:53.400
<v Speaker 1>Listening be sure to check out the other two parts this.

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<v Speaker 2>Weekend go follow the show on all social platforms and

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