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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part.

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Speaker 2: One behind a scene with a member of the show.

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Speaker 2: Happy Saturday. Everyone joining me this weekend on Best Bits

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Speaker 2: is Amy. How are you Amy?

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Speaker 1: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Excited to be here?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Catch up on the all things going on in your life. Well,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna start with the one thing that I was

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Speaker 2: getting so many questions about, and it is both of

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Speaker 2: our boyfriends.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Oh, I do have a few.

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Speaker 2: Specific questions okay, but and these are from listeners. These

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Speaker 2: are not me. I'll have my questions after. Okay, perfect,

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Speaker 2: because this is not the question part. But when there's

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Speaker 2: so many of one thing, I reserve it for a

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Speaker 2: space be where we can just talk all about that.

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Speaker 2: So most attractive thing about your new boyfriends to you, guys,

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Speaker 2: this is coming from Kate.

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, there's several things. But I do like that

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Speaker 1: he's tall. He's six' three.

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Speaker 2: Okay oh we went physical, Okay oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah but also he's, kind all, right we got we

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Speaker 1: got tall.

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Speaker 2: Kind, yeah he's a great. Dad, okay these are good.

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Speaker 2: THINGS i would Say mine is that he Is his

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Speaker 2: love language is acts of service AND i love. It.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so what's?

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Speaker 2: Yours my giving one is acts of. Service my, sorry

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Speaker 2: my receiving one is acts of, service.

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Speaker 1: Okay my giving.

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Speaker 2: ONE i don't know THAT i have a specific. ONE

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Speaker 2: i try and show up in a lot of. Them

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Speaker 2: but maybe more than, anything it's quality. TIME i like

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Speaker 2: to make sure THAT i give a lot of quality.

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Speaker 2: Time BUT i also love acts of, service giving and.

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Speaker 2: Receiving M h has always been but he's very big in.

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Speaker 2: That and he's very, consistent which are two qualities that

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Speaker 2: are kind of hard to.

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Speaker 1: Find, YEAH i would say consistent is a good. One

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Speaker 1: like there's he's very, stable consistent, mine so that is.

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Speaker 1: Attractive consistency is.

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Speaker 2: Sexy we. Have that has been a thing that we've

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Speaker 2: talked about on my. Podcast that is a trait that we.

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Speaker 2: Love and, PHYSICALLY i mean he has very nice.

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Speaker 1: Muscles oh, yes, YEAH i saw that. Picture, yeah he

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Speaker 1: does look Like thor a little.

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Speaker 2: Bit and he's ALSO i don't, know he's just, tall

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Speaker 2: dark and. HANDSOME i would say we're going to the physical.

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Speaker 1: Route oh did you just Say?

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Speaker 2: Thor, yeah because the guys all Reference.

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Speaker 1: Thor, yeah they'll call Them. THOR i forgot. THAT i

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Speaker 1: put up a little question box. TOO i know this

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Speaker 1: is YOUR i was, like so just, NOW i was, like.

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Speaker 2: Did they come in through?

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Speaker 1: Yours, WELL i PUT i overlaid a question box on

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Speaker 1: top of your question box because IF i IF, i you,

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Speaker 1: know IF i do, yours they click on your, page

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Speaker 1: and just in case they, didn't WHICH i want them,

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Speaker 1: to but if they, clicked if they clicked the question,

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Speaker 1: box then maybe they could just ask right. Away so,

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Speaker 1: yeah and you're, right there's lots.

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Speaker 2: Of there's lots of boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Questions there's lots of boyfriend. Questions, okay well Here i'll ask.

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Speaker 2: This this is the only other specific ONE i had

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Speaker 2: that came from. IT a lot of them was just,

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Speaker 2: like talk about your. Boyfriends how does he feel about

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Speaker 2: sharing on the podcast including his?

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Speaker 1: Name? Okay he he is okay with. It that's so

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Speaker 1: funny BECAUSE i just read a question here Is amy's,

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Speaker 1: boyfriend okay With amy talking about? Him that's From julie In.

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Speaker 1: Kansas he is okay with.

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Speaker 2: It, YEAH i would assume that you've probably had that

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Speaker 2: conversation and he guys have talked about things much like

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Speaker 2: both you AND i have. Discussed we always ask for

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Speaker 2: it's not necessarily an, approval but just to like the

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Speaker 2: communication is. There we're not openly going to share something without.

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Speaker 1: Are you okay IF i say? This and that's with

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Speaker 1: any of our friendships or. RELATIONSHIPS i think we've learned,

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Speaker 1: sometimes although sometimes stuff will just organically come up And i'm, like,

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Speaker 1: oh this is a good, story AND i have to

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Speaker 1: pause be, like OH i HAVEN'T i haven't asked IF

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Speaker 1: i can share this, yet So i'll have to. Wait

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Speaker 1: or sometimes it just comes out and then you ask for.

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Speaker 2: Forgiveness, yes but more often than, not we are asking

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Speaker 2: for be, like, hey you good with. This we're not,

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Speaker 2: Guys we're not. Stupid we're Not we're not openly just

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Speaker 2: talking about other people's lives without having some version of

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Speaker 1: Job, yeah but to just BE i get the curiosity behind,

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Speaker 1: it because to be kind of thrown into dating somebody

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Speaker 1: that talks about their life on YEAH, prettyo it's, like,

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Speaker 1: oh how do they really feel about? It and he

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Speaker 1: was pretty okay with it from the get. GO i,

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Speaker 1: mean he's not eager to like come on and talk

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Speaker 1: like he doesn't want to.

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Speaker 2: Be ever be a guest on your.

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Speaker 1: PODCAST i don't think, so, okay but but that may.

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Speaker 1: CHANGE i just, know, right, Now, no he doesn't have

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Speaker 1: any interest in, that Which i'm okay.

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Speaker 2: With, yeah and you guys hard, launched, well you hard

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Speaker 2: launched a picture of you guys On. INSTAGRAM i, did

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Speaker 2: how did that? Feel it felt?

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Speaker 1: Good but we had been In. CHARLESTON i posted the

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Speaker 1: picture that you're talking about we took In, charleston WHICH

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Speaker 1: i think was two weeks BEFORE i posted. It SO

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Speaker 1: i didn't really post that much while we were In,

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Speaker 1: charleston AND i didn't really post much of our trip.

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Speaker 1: Anyway BUT i had that picture AND i just thought

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Speaker 1: it was sweet and, cute AND i, thought, WELL i

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Speaker 1: Guess i'll make this the cover shot for the month Of.

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Speaker 2: April after you posted, it was there any like second

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Speaker 2: hand where you're, like, oh MAYBE i shouldn't have or

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Speaker 2: were you just, like, yes this feels.

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Speaker 1: Good, no it felt. Good my ex husband. Been he

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Speaker 1: saw it like a week, like because he doesn't spend

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Speaker 1: a lot of time On instagram or, anything but he

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Speaker 1: does have an. Account we has a work, one but

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Speaker 1: then he has this other account where he posts nothing

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Speaker 1: but our daughter's On instagram and he follows her and

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Speaker 1: he uses it to keep up with certain. Things and he, said, oh,

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Speaker 1: HEY i didn't know we were posting like our. PEOPLE

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Speaker 1: i think that what he's referring to is way back,

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Speaker 1: whenever maybe we were first getting divorced or, something or

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Speaker 1: maybe even we were still, married but someone we knew

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Speaker 1: had gotten divorced and they were just in a new

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Speaker 1: relationship and putting it all over social. Media and he said, That,

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Speaker 1: okay now That i'm thinking this, THROUGH i didn't plan

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Speaker 1: on talking about, this BUT i don't need to Ask

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Speaker 1: ben's permission BECAUSE i know that he'd be fine with

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Speaker 1: me telling the. Story but now THAT i think about,

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Speaker 1: it we definitely were still married because it was at

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Speaker 1: a couple we knew that got divorced and then the

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Speaker 1: husband was like posting all these pictures of him and

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Speaker 1: his new, person AND i just was, like it just was.

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Speaker 1: Cringey it felt, Weird AND i said to, HIM i was,

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Speaker 1: like this could never be. Us and maybe that's a

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Speaker 1: little foreshadowing, there BECAUSE i don't know at the time

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Speaker 1: THAT i knew we would end up getting. Divorced But i'm,

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Speaker 1: like oh my, gosh if we were to ever be

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Speaker 1: in this, situation, like we cannot do, that AND i

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Speaker 1: guess he held onto that because then he said something to.

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Speaker 1: Me he's, LIKE i thought we weren't supposed to be those.

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Speaker 1: People we we're like posting all this. Stuff AND i,

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Speaker 1: SAID i don't really feel like that was posting all

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Speaker 1: that stuff now THAT i know what you're referring. To

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Speaker 1: we were. That it was just like very much in our,

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Speaker 1: face like, everywhere and it was a shady. SITUATION i,

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Speaker 1: SAID i think all the variables are very very. Different

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Speaker 1: AND i posted a picture of, us and so he's, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: okay good to. Know it was like all, Right not

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Speaker 1: that he has social media that he, uses BUT i

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Speaker 1: guess if he wanted, to and he were to post

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Speaker 1: him and who he's, dating because he had a girlfriend

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Speaker 1: for a year but they broke, up but they didn't he,

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Speaker 1: didn't he didn't ever post about.

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Speaker 2: Her it's so interesting to me just hearing how much

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Speaker 2: you're navigating and these new waters of having a, boyfriend you,

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Speaker 2: have your ex, husband all these just kind of pieces

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Speaker 2: and balancing things that you're. Doing does that do you

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Speaker 2: ever think about?

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Speaker 1: That, NO i think we're just Doing but, yeah looking

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Speaker 1: at it, all sometimes it can feel like a. Lot

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Speaker 1: IF i focus on, it but, no it's just, like,

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Speaker 1: oh we got to navigate. THIS i, Know ben AND

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Speaker 1: i haven't been exchanging like five hundred texts and emails

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out our summer schedule because it different

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Speaker 1: we can't stick with our Typical friday To, friday which

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Speaker 1: is what we do are week, on week, off because he's, like,

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Speaker 1: OH i want to take the kids to do this this,

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Speaker 1: week And i'm, like, well this is when we have

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Speaker 1: show vacation AND i would like to take the kids,

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Speaker 1: supposed to have. Them so there's just a lot of

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Speaker 1: coordinating that has to. Happen and that's when it makes

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Speaker 1: me thankful That ben AND i are in such a healthy,

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Speaker 1: place BECAUSE i would imagine if we weren't that would

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Speaker 1: just make stuff like. This it's already grueling just trying

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Speaker 1: to like tetras sometimes making it all, work but if

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Speaker 1: you know how some people really feel about and having

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Speaker 1: to work with AN x man would be. Painful SO

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Speaker 1: i have a level of gratitude for where we are

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Speaker 1: and how we navigate. It, so, yeah it's not as

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Speaker 1: much as it could, be you know WHAT i. Mean, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I totally hear, that and it's made me think. Too

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Speaker 2: JUST i think it's harder probably for you to see

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Speaker 2: in that. Moment But i'm just sitting here in a

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Speaker 2: lot of respect for you that you're going through just

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Speaker 2: a lot of different changes and phases all at the

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Speaker 2: same time and learning constantly while it's all.

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Speaker 1: Happening, yeah they, met But ben Met alex for the first.

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Speaker 1: Time how did it? Go it was really. Good it happened,

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Speaker 1: organically and he stopped by the house After sashira's, birthday

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Speaker 1: And alex didn't go to the birthday. Party he was

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Speaker 1: invited By, sashira and he's, like, Look ben AND i

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Speaker 1: haven't met. YET i don't want that to steal any

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Speaker 1: of the, spotlight So i'll just stop by the house.

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Speaker 1: After and Then ben AND i sat by each other

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Speaker 1: at dinner and we were talking AND i, said you,

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Speaker 1: KNOW i rode here with your parents because his parents

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Speaker 1: were in town and they wanted to come over and

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Speaker 1: hang out with. Me so THEN i just rode with

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Speaker 1: them to. DINNER i, said they're going to drop me.

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Speaker 1: Off so they're going to be, there SO i bet

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Speaker 1: they'll Meet. Alex why don't you stop by and meet him.

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Speaker 1: Too let's just rip this band aid off Because i've

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Speaker 1: Time and Then ben said. Okay so it's a little awkward,

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Speaker 1: though Because ben always comes through the back. Door he

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Speaker 2: AND i just have to look at him. BACK i

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Speaker 1: Quietly now you can go thank. You paus, pus paus.

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Speaker 2: we have more to talk. About have you had this

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Speaker 2: NEVER i knew golf. EXISTED i had boyfriends that played,

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Speaker 1: Golf, Yeah i'm going to need to pick up on.

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Speaker 1: Golf that's something that we've decided we're gonna start doing more.

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Speaker 1: To that's why he wants us to play together so

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Speaker 2: DAY i love that you went straight to golf skirt

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Speaker 2: BUT i just grilled, you So i'm giving you space

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Speaker 1: Well LIKE i, mean what about your boyfriend being a

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Speaker 1: he would? EVER i MEAN i feel LIKE i know

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Speaker 1: TOGETHER i, mean he was. Involved he was involved with a,

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Speaker 2: Hand, Probably, YEAH i don't know THAT i would ever

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Speaker 2: like a show scenario that feels Like i'm just walking

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Speaker 2: him into a lions, den you know WHAT i. Mean

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Speaker 2: but on my, podcast, YEAH i think he would be

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Speaker 1: It what do you think you would talk? About like

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Speaker 2: Therapy, Yes and he's very mental health. Focused and he

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Speaker 2: also has a crazy life story THAT i would love

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Speaker 2: to share and he would love to share. Someday that's really.

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Speaker 2: Cool and also just our relationship and meeting and because

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Speaker 2: it was in real life and it was kind of

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Speaker 2: fate playing a hand in all of that versus dating

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Speaker 2: apps and stuff that stories. Interesting all my friends love

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Speaker 2: to hear, it like gives them hope that you can

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Speaker 2: still meet the old school. Away so those two, things

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Speaker 2: and he's super. Supportive he will always take photos and

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Speaker 2: videos of me all the time without me ever, asking

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Speaker 1: That like if you're just like what are you?

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Speaker 2: Doing like If i'm putting together flower bouquets Or i'm

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Speaker 2: hanging out with the, animals like he's just always he

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Speaker 1: Love that's helpful.

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00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:28,920
Speaker 2: Because I've i've always dated people who kind of resented

432
00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,520
Speaker 2: that part about me THAT i wanted to take photos

433
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 2: and pictures and you, know do my little food posts

434
00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,639
Speaker 2: or any anything like. That it just felt like it

435
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,480
Speaker 2: was always a. Burden and with, him there is none of.

436
00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:44,040
Speaker 2: That he's he loves capturing. Content he's not even a content.

437
00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:47,359
Speaker 2: Person he just likes creating memories through.

438
00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:51,520
Speaker 1: Photos and he's not trying to be like an he.

439
00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,439
Speaker 1: Doesn't he's not asking you to capture.

440
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,919
Speaker 2: Content, no, No but LIKE i love taking pictures and

441
00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 2: videos of him because that's WHO i was before and

442
00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,359
Speaker 2: he loves. That and he's, like nobody ever took videos

443
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 2: and stuff of. Me this is a really Cool it

444
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,440
Speaker 2: was like nobody ever took them on. Me so this

445
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:08,199
Speaker 2: is a cool moment that we're. Having and SO i

446
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 2: don't there's no part of me now that feels burdened

447
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,480
Speaker 2: in that, aspect at least in my side of my.

448
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:16,120
Speaker 1: Career how long has it been at this, point were

449
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 1: over a month and a. Half, so, LIKE i guess

450
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 1: your parents will meet him In june when they come

451
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:22,680
Speaker 1: for sea.

452
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 2: Fans, yes, yes they will meet. Him they're very. Excited

453
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 2: i've met.

454
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:27,439
Speaker 1: Have they like face timed with?

455
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,879
Speaker 2: Them, yes they've met on, FaceTime and he's met one

456
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 2: of my sisters on FaceTime and My i've met his

457
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,800
Speaker 2: whole family besides his. Dad dad hasn't been down, yet

458
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 2: But i've met everybody. Else so it feels, safe it feels,

459
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 2: good it feels right in a lot of. Ways but

460
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 2: there's just you, know there's still walls THAT i have

461
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,679
Speaker 2: up that are slowly coming. DOWN i think over the

462
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 2: course of time that's the only thing that will really

463
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 2: make those come. Down BUT i have this kind of

464
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 2: arbitrary timelines in my head of, well maybe in like six,

465
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 2: months it'll feel Like i'll Feel, okay he's not going,

466
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 2: Anywhere but it's just me and my past like kind

467
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 2: of speaking to me and trying to make me feel

468
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 2: LIKE i have to pay attention to these arbitrary timelines

469
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,880
Speaker 2: that happened in my past relationships or situations where something.

470
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 2: Happened So i'm really trying to fight those back and

471
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 2: just allow it to be good and safe and, happy

472
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,480
Speaker 2: because that's what it. Is, yeah you, KNOW i haven't

473
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,440
Speaker 2: had any reason not to feel that. Way it's really

474
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 2: just more my past situations that like to try and

475
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 2: creep in WHICH i was prepared. For my therapists THAT

476
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 2: i had for a really long, time especially after the abusive,

477
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 2: relationship told me the only way THAT i would ever

478
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 2: truly heal is like WHEN i felt really safe in

479
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:48,439
Speaker 2: a relationship to let things down and guards. Down And

480
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:52,120
Speaker 2: i've had moments of that in, relationships BUT i don't

481
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 2: know That i've HAD i think it was going to

482
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 2: take the right whoever was going to be the right

483
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 2: one for it to truly my healing to truly. FINISH

484
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,120
Speaker 2: i don't know if that makes any, sense Because i've

485
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 2: had lessons That i've had a lot of growth and a

486
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 2: lot of learning and past, relationships BUT i think Whoever

487
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 2: i'm supposed to marry is the one will be the

488
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 2: one where the remainder of the really hard healing is

489
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 2: going to happen for, me like, internally.

490
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 1: Right that makes.

491
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 2: Sense, so and it feels like that's kind of happening

492
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 2: in a, way and that scares, Me AND i Think

493
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,880
Speaker 2: i'm pushing back on her a lot of like, No

494
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 2: i'm not ready for that. Yet, yeah you, know so it's,

495
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 2: interesting you, know like you, mentioned it's this, internal you're

496
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 2: just fighting a lot of things and trying to understand what's,

497
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 2: happening trying to understand yourself and your body and what's

498
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 2: going on in all these different, moments while also just

499
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,679
Speaker 2: trying to enjoy the, present the good that's happening to.

500
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 2: You so it's an interesting experience That i'm happening right.

501
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:54,879
Speaker 2: Now but so, far no, flags lots of.

502
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: Happiness, yeah he sounds like a. Dream he is.

503
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 2: Everybody all my friends are like obsessed with. THEM i

504
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 2: literally got it text from my friend the other day

505
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: that was, Like, morgan your boyfriend is the sweetest guy,

506
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 2: ever even at five, am because he goes to the

507
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 2: gym and he'll go work out and she sees. Him

508
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:12,640
Speaker 2: she goes to this gym, too and she's, like he's

509
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 2: literally the kindest. HUMAN i was, like that's all you ever, want,

510
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 2: right is for not only you to feel that, way

511
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 2: but everybody around you to also feel that same way about, them.

512
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: Especially if they're nice at five. Am, right who's nice

513
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 1: at five? Am i'm.

514
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 2: Not i'm a little little hungry and steepy girl all the.

515
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 2: Time so but, yeah that's where we.

516
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,120
Speaker 1: Are, well that's. EXCITING i KNOW i.

517
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 2: Need an update on the kiddos before we go into

518
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 2: our Next.

519
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: Gray, WELL i was gonna, SAY i would like TO

520
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: i look forward to meeting.

521
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 2: Him oh, yeah you definitely.

522
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: Will, yeah my kids Or i'm like my kids Are they're,

523
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 1: Like i've got.

524
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 2: All the kids whatever you want to, say.

525
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: Three other, kids but they're not. There i'm not, there,

526
00:24:56,280 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: mom we're Not we're taking things. Slow but let's see my. Kids,

527
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: stevenson they're about to finish.

528
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: School istash about to finish.

529
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: Finish, No, no she's a junior's one more year. Left,

530
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: yeah even though she just turned. Eighteen she's obviously with

531
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 1: the adoption and them getting here, late like we held them,

532
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 1: Back like, stevensince you, know fourteen and still in junior.

533
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 1: High or and he's gonna be fifteen this summer and

534
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,400
Speaker 1: he'll still be in junior. High but they're both doing really.

535
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 1: Great Like. Stevenson last, NIGHT i don't, know just bedtime

536
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 1: last night was really. Sweet like. EVERYBODY i was, like,

537
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: hey it's time for, bed and nobody fought me on.

538
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 1: It everybody just went to. Bed and THEN i go

539
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 1: to their rooms AND i say good, Night but his

540
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:45,199
Speaker 1: door was already shut and the dog was in, there

541
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 1: so didn't want to open it because the dog will run.

542
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,919
Speaker 1: Out she loves coming to my. Room and so just

543
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: through the, DOOR i was, like good, Night. Stephenson and

544
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: then he just yelled so, loud probably making SURE i

545
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: could hear it because his door was, shut and he was,

546
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: like good, night, Mom AND i don't, know it just

547
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: warmed my heart so, much AND i was, LIKE i

548
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 1: loved hearing that yeah from. Him and you, know we

549
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: went through a season with him for a little bit

550
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 1: where it was pretty, rough and it just reminded me

551
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: how far we have. Come and it's just a special

552
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: moment for. Me so when you're asking me about the,

553
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: kids That stevenson's story popped in my. Mind and then

554
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: So shiraa is doing great, Too like she's like trying

555
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 1: to figure out what her summer job is going to,

556
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: be trying to decide if she wants to apply at

557
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 1: clothing boutiques or.

558
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:36,440
Speaker 2: Restaurants, okay was she still working at her other?

559
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: Restaurants she quit that one track, Seasons like she hasn't

560
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: been there AND i don't think she wants to go back.

561
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: There if she does do a, restaurant she'll do a

562
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: different one just for try some new things, out just, Diversity,

563
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 1: yeah a new. Experience but this one restaurant she did

564
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: want to apply, to it's a little bit further. Away

565
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 1: SO i had to talk to her about how the

566
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,719
Speaker 1: further away you, work that's the more that you're spending

567
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 1: on gas. Money and so she was, like, OH i

568
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: don't know IF i want to do, That AND i was, like,

569
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,199
Speaker 1: YEAH i, mean if that's really where you want to,

570
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 1: work then you weigh that out and you sacrifice the.

571
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: Gas it's. Fine but at her, Age i'm, like you could,

572
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: Work you're gonna want to work closer to, home and

573
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 1: SO i don't. KNOW i was encouraging to try the

574
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: boutique this time, around like if she just did the

575
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,640
Speaker 1: restaurant thing last, time like working in retail and, clothing

576
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,959
Speaker 1: AND i was, like but you may have to you, know,

577
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 1: start you may not be working the floor helping customers right.

578
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 1: Away maybe you're working in the back or doing, things

579
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: which she did have a small job steaming clothes a,

580
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: boutique which she reached out to. THEM i don't know

581
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: if she's going to they have anything for her like

582
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 1: more than. That so she's hoping for more. EXPERIENCE i

583
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: think interacting with.

584
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:50,120
Speaker 2: People she's still wanting to do. HAIR i know at

585
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 2: one moment in, time she was wanting to do beauty.

586
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: School oh well Esthetician, okay she wanted to go for face. Stuff,

587
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: yes she's still interested in.

588
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 2: That could she be a front desk a place like

589
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 2: that or around, YEAH.

590
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 1: I think for summer they're. Not those jobs are more

591
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: difficult to get if you're just looking for. Summer but

592
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 1: she has asked some of my friends that are in that, field, like,

593
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: hey CAN i come shadow? You or are you looking

594
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: for an? INTERN i want to learn? More so she

595
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: could do that. Too but if she's an, INTERN i

596
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: don't think she's going to get, paid or if she's just.

597
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 1: Shadowing but she's looking to save up some money and

598
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: she's you, know starting to look at colleges and trying

599
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: to figure out applying for scholarships and stuff like.

600
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 2: That so does she want to go to?

601
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 1: College?

602
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 2: NOW i know that was also not.

603
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: Really, important not like she wanted to do more of

604
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: the esthetician school, route which we, supported and now she

605
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: is thinking she wants the college. EXPERIENCE i think because

606
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: some of her friends are doing college visits and she

607
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 1: went with her best friend to Visit, alabama and when

608
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: she came back from, THAT i think she was, Like,

609
00:28:56,320 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: OH i THINK i do want to have the college. Experience,

610
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: Yeah and so we'll. See we're trying not to push

611
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: it either. Way we kind of want to see where

612
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:14,479
Speaker 1: she lands with. It But i'm excited for her if

613
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: she does do, that BECAUSE i think it'd be cool

614
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 1: for her to have the full blown, experiment not experiment.

615
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: Experience but she was saying the other, DAY i THINK

616
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: i need to get a, dog like A German shepherd

617
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: IF i go to, college AND i was, like, What

618
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: first of, all you're going to be in a small

619
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 1: space with. Roommates you don't have room for A German.

620
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: Shepherd they're likely not going to be allowed if you're

621
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: living in a dorm or an apartment or something like.

622
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: That and she's, like, What, no it's going to keep me,

623
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: safe LIKE i don't want to get assaulted or LIKE

624
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: i was, like where are? You what stories you're hearing

625
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 1: on college, campuses WHICH i know that sadly stuff like

626
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: that does, happen but you could also survive it without

627
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: A German. Shepherd AND i just don't think that your

628
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 1: freshman year of college is when you need to focus

629
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: on having a big dog because you're going to be

630
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: going to school and you may have some sort of

631
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,479
Speaker 1: a job and you're going to need to, study and

632
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: you're going to have a social.

633
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 2: Life, yeah it sounds like there might be some fear

634
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 2: associated with, college just based on, stories.

635
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: Especially off you, KNOW i think she sees stuff on

636
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: YouTube and, TikTok like she watches all those. Crimes oh

637
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: there's this one crime. GIRL i don't even know the person's,

638
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: name but she breaks down like crazy cases on. YouTube

639
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: she's just some girl that records them out of her

640
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 1: bedroom And i've watched some of them with. HER i

641
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: WISH i could remember the person's. Name she's got millions of.

642
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: Viewers but so she is very into, those And i'm,

643
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 1: like maybe we need to cut back on that BECAUSE

644
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: i think that's why you think you need A German.

645
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: Shepherd, well and she loves, horror, right, yeah loves. IT

646
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 2: i feel like between the crime and the horror, stuff

647
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 2: we're definitely IMPACTING i know a little bit of. Power

648
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 2: how she feels in, safety, right and that's. Fair, YEAH

649
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 2: i totally get. It but, yeah definitely No German shepherd

650
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 2: freshman year of.

651
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,959
Speaker 1: COLLEGE i know definitely you don't have time for. That,

652
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: yeah and also or, money, like, Yeah i'm like A

653
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: german shepherd that requires a lot of. Care there's vet,

654
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: bills shedding tons of. Food you're not thinking this.

655
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,479
Speaker 2: THROUGH i really appreciate that we are going from a

656
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 2: bird to A german. Shepherd.

657
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 1: YEAH i like the evolution of the. Bird, definitely a

658
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: bird could not protect, her or a cat like she

659
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 1: loves her, Cat, maggie that would not protect. Her, No

660
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: so she just wants protection And i'm, like get some

661
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: mace OR i bought her one of those. Birdies.

662
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah the there's also an app chain things so that

663
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 2: she can have on her phone that she can hold

664
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:41,239
Speaker 2: onto whenever she goes, places and if she releases her,

665
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 2: hand it calls nine one. One that's WHAT i used

666
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 2: a lot in called.

667
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: GOSH i would have. TO i feel LIKE i would

668
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: accidentally release my hand and.

669
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 2: Be, like oh, shoot, WELL i think when you're that.

670
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 2: TENSE i would be tents, sometimes walking in dark places

671
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 2: AND i would just like grip my.

672
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: Phone so that's when you would pull it, Up like

673
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 1: if you're walking on campus at night by yourself or.

674
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 2: Something and all of your. TIME i would somebody IF

675
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 2: i was, walking so somebody was on the, phone but

676
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 2: if nobody could answer or. Somebody it was kind of

677
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 2: just my backup. Plan but it was there and it was,

678
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 2: ready AND i felt safe because IF i released it

679
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 2: and didn't put, like you can release it FOR i

680
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 2: think it's three, seconds but if you put it back,

681
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 2: on then it won't call nine one. One if you

682
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 2: release it and you never put it back, on it

683
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 2: will call nine one to your direct. Location, gotcha it's

684
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 2: on like safe, Light. Homelight i'd have to look it.

685
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 2: Up but so there's so many things that she could.

686
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 1: Have, yeah, yes and like here's a key. Chain you

687
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 1: don't need A german, shepherd you.

688
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 2: Know BUT i shout out to. Her she's dreaming for

689
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 2: the stars AND i appreciate that about. Her we're gonna

690
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 2: take another quick break and we'll be back for maybe

691
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 2: some stories From, Austin texas for a. Festival how was

692
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 2: The iHeart festival for, You Austin? Texas what was it

693
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 2: like going back for? You especially living In nashville for

694
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 2: so long, NOW.

695
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: I i get asked that question like every TIME i go, back,

696
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: like oh my, Gosh you're going to see family And i'm,

697
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: like it's so. Awkwards i'm, LIKE i don't have family there,

698
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 1: Anymore like my sister moved To, colorado my mom, died

699
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: my dad, died nobody's. THERE i do have friends that

700
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: are still, there and my cousin is In, wimberley which

701
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: is outside Of, austin so it's not necessarily super easy

702
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,719
Speaker 1: to get. To it's not, like, oh you're In. Austin

703
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: so Obviously i'm going to see my cousin because it's

704
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: a little bit of a hike To. Wimberley BUT i

705
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: do like going. Back it's just not the. Same it's

706
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:31,959
Speaker 1: very busy and, trafficky and we're we're staying like our

707
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 1: hotel to the, venue there's a lot of, construction and

708
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 1: so it just feels, like, yeah like IF i. Could

709
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: we're very busy, Too so IF i had time to

710
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: actually get out and enjoy a few, THINGS i THINK

711
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 1: i would love. It LIKE i normally do try to

712
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: go like. Hike we used to call it back in

713
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: the Day Town, lake but now It's Ladybird. Lake IF

714
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: i go do, that that's very life giving to. Me

715
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 1: AND i didn't get to do that this, trip SO

716
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: i was kind of, sad but of COURSE i Love.

717
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: Austin it'll always be home for. Me it just doesn't

718
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: feel the same going. Back and THEN i there's the

719
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: awkward like are you gonna see?

720
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 2: Family, yeah And you're like, okay we have to do this,

721
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:17,320
Speaker 2: again And i'm like no want Wam it was. INTERESTING

722
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 2: i Love, austin BUT i don't have the experience that.

723
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 2: You BUT i do know what that feeling is like

724
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 2: WHENEVER i go back To wichita and so much has

725
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 2: changed and you've just been gone for a long, time

726
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 2: and life is, different even though my. Family that is

727
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,439
Speaker 2: the different part is my family's all still. There there's

728
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,800
Speaker 2: so much that has changed and all your, favorites a

729
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: lot of things have, gone new things have replaced, them

730
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 2: or just a lot of change WHEN i don't, know

731
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 2: tourism is more likely In austin than In, wichita but

732
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 2: when new businesses come in and it just changes the

733
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 2: layout and the environment of a place like. That SO

734
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 2: i know that. Feeling but Also austin to me has

735
00:34:56,040 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 2: always always been, strange literally because WHAT i knew About

736
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 2: austin BEFORE i ever visited it Was austin is. Weird

737
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 2: their slogan or mode At boston, weird Keep boston. Weird

738
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 2: and so WHEN i first went, THERE i, said, yeah

739
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,439
Speaker 2: it's a little, strange there's some strangeness to, it but good.

740
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 2: Weird it's fun. Weird and every TIME i, GO i

741
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 2: JUST i always experience some, funny quirky, things especially If

742
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 2: i'm walking Down Sixth street or, something AND i just

743
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 2: witness weirder things THAN i Think i've witnessed in any.

744
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 2: City And i've spent a lot of time In, denver

745
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,720
Speaker 2: which is supposed to be like the comparison Of austin

746
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 2: of the, weirdness AND i Think austin Wins austin.

747
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: PIZZA i think.

748
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 2: So BUT i always get breakfast. Tacos that's my. THING

749
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: i will always eat breakfast, tacos like from a specific

750
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 2: place or just, NO i like try and go to

751
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 2: new places THAT i haven't been and because that's JUST

752
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,320
Speaker 2: i feel Like austin is really good for breakfast tacos,

753
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 2: Definitely so that's What i'll always. Get it's always on the.

754
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 2: MENU i try and get it both days or especially

755
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 2: even in the airport on the way, Back i'll get

756
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 2: a breakfast. TACO hm just makes me.

757
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 1: HAPPY yea favorite kind of breakfast.

758
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 2: COCCO i love anything where they put a potato and,

759
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 2: egg so it's not really. Hard Because i'm. Vegetarians you

760
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 2: can't add a whole lot of, things but as. Long

761
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 2: there's some places that don't make potato and egg breakfast,

762
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 2: tacos but anytime they. Do there's one place at the,

763
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 2: airport AND i can't remember what they're, called but their

764
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 2: potato egg is mashed potato with egg and then they

765
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 2: add avocado to it and it's so.

766
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: Yummy Oh i'm trying to think of what is there

767
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 1: at the. AIRPORT i like the migas breakfast taco all

768
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: always from. Anywhere migas is.

769
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 2: It that's scrambled, eggs a specific kind of?

770
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: Cheese, well they may they may use. IT i don't

771
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 1: know if every place may have a different type of

772
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: cheese that they, use but it's typically just like a

773
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:45,720
Speaker 1: like a HOW i make. Migas so there's like maybe

774
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: some rotel type, situation so like a tomato pepper concoction

775
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: and then, eggs, cheese tortilla strips or like you, know

776
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: like a crunch like you get that in. There that's

777
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 1: that's migas for.

778
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: Me got?

779
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: It and it's wrapped up in a tortilla with some

780
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: avocado and maybe a dipping.

781
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:11,280
Speaker 2: Sauce, Okay and the dipping sauces are always so. Spicy

782
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 2: WHENEVER i go To, austin the spicy sauce always gets

783
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 2: me BECAUSE i think it's not gonna be. Spicy sitting,

784
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 2: There i'm, like you start sweating Because i'm a. Baby

785
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 2: i'm a baby when it comes to spices THAT i am.

786
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 1: Too i'm not good at.

787
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 2: It i'm trying to expand my, palate BUT i swear

788
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 2: every time one of my friends who like spicy food

789
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 2: will try something and they'll be, like it's not, spicy you're,

790
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 2: Fine and THEN i, Eat i'm, like, guys that was so,

791
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 2: hot and my mouth is dying AND i have to

792
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 2: like chug water AND i feel like such a. Child

793
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 2: but in my, FAIRNESS i have come a long way

794
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 2: BECAUSE i did used to put sugar in, salsa so.

795
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: Okay AND i feel LIKE i used to think that

796
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:46,879
Speaker 1: that was weird when you would say, That but THEN

797
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: i feel LIKE i got messages after, that and then

798
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:53,320
Speaker 1: even started looking at ingredients and sometimes sugar is added

799
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: to the to the. RECIPE i know you were doing

800
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: it to counter so you were adding extra BUT i

801
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: JUST i ever associated sugar at all with. It but

802
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 1: in some jars if you look at the, back there's added.

803
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 2: Sugar, well so this this is funny about this. TOO

804
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 2: i was making the homemade enchilada, sauce which tends to

805
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:14,399
Speaker 2: be pretty mild and it calls for chili. Powder, WELL

806
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,720
Speaker 2: i was making this enchilata sauce AND i didn't have chili,

807
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 2: powder SO i added cayenne. Pepper, OH i didn't realize

808
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 2: how much cayenne PEPPER i, added and it was so.

809
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,320
Speaker 2: Spicy SO i ended up having to add sugar to

810
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:32,240
Speaker 2: my enchilada sauce and it was kind of a, mess

811
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 2: but it ended up tasting really. Good BUT i added

812
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 2: a crap ton of sugar that was supposed to be

813
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 2: something that was relatively, healthy and it was just. Not

814
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 2: it tasted very sweet and then the, ending, though was

815
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: still really. Spicy and SO i would finish eating my

816
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 2: enchiladas AND i would just be. Stewetty oh, yeah it

817
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 2: was not a Good you're still gonna have to kick.

818
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,399
Speaker 1: There, well you were telling your story. TOO i tried

819
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 1: to look up taco restaurants at the. Airport so is

820
00:38:58,080 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: It Taco.

821
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:02,280
Speaker 2: DELI i think it Was Taco. Deli, Yeah i'm.

822
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 1: Trying to think because if anybody wanted to know if

823
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,399
Speaker 1: they're traveling through The Austin. Airport WHAT i love about

824
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 1: the airport there is it's all local. Places so if

825
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: you don't have time to drive out To driftwood to

826
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,720
Speaker 1: Get Salt lake, barbecue you can get salt like barbecue

827
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:15,880
Speaker 1: at the.

828
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 2: Airport, yes and there's a food. Truck there's two Places

829
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 2: i've had breakfast tacos in. There there's a food truck

830
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 2: that has you literally walk up to it and it's

831
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 2: a food. Truck and Then Taco, deli Which Taco deli

832
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 2: is consistently. Good is that A texas chain for?

833
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: TACOS i mean there's multiple locations In, austin BUT i

834
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 1: don't know if that says. Here Taco deli handcrafted tacos Across,

835
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: texas So i'm not quite sure where it. Started but,

836
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 1: yeah we would Get Taco deli. Back you, know when

837
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 1: we were working at the station In, austin a coffee

838
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 1: shop across the street from us would Carry Taco deli's.

839
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: Tacos it's Called Rudo Maaya, coffee and we would go

840
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: get the tacos and they were so. Good and then

841
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 1: speaking of, Barbecue rudy's has breakfast tacos and they would

842
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:07,360
Speaker 1: drop off tacos Every thursday at the station and it

843
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: was so. Good and they would do pigs in a blanket.

844
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 1: Too they would drop off breakfast tacos and pigs and

845
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 1: a blanket AND i was, like, oh this was.

846
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 2: Like to get food all the. Time we don't have that.

847
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 1: Experience, well when we were going over to the coffee

848
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 1: shop to get Taco, deli we were paying for. It

849
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: but Every thursday When brutis would drop it, off it

850
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,439
Speaker 1: was treat and that was so. Awesome SEE i love

851
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: that tons of, tacos lots of. Tacos we'd be like,

852
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,439
Speaker 1: breakfast this is breakfast. Lunch that was back, when, yeah

853
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 1: we were just starting out and we free food WAS i,

854
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: mean free food is always, great but especially in our early. Twenties, yeah,

855
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 1: yeah free food was.

856
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 2: Everything that's one of my favorite inventions of food Is

857
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 2: mexican food with. Breakfast AND i don't think UNTIL i

858
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 2: finally went To austin DID i ever realized like breakfast.

859
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 1: Burritos so they didn't have that growing up In, wichita.

860
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 2: Not anywhere THAT i went because, like Our mexican food

861
00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 2: was on the Border Taco, bell and we never really

862
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 2: Went Taco. Bell we had A Taco tico if that

863
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 2: was also a fast food, joint AND i never went.

864
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 2: There we always Chose Taco bell, because especially in the,

865
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 2: Nineties Taco bell looks so. Cool it was a cool

866
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 2: LITTLE i don't know the pastels that they had or,

867
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 2: Whatever but we never went to any Local mexican. RESTAURANTS i,

868
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 2: know now there's a, lot but WHEN i was growing, up,

869
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 2: no for, sure we did all the, Chains Texas roadhouse

870
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:29,800
Speaker 2: And Olive. Gordon we had a lot of, chains so

871
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 2: Don't it wasn't really UNTIL i was in college THAT

872
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 2: i learned about breakfast in, tacos and a lot of

873
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 2: restaurants started putting breakfast tacos on their. Menus kind of

874
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 2: became a thing at one. Point but then WHEN i

875
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:43,840
Speaker 2: went To austin was WHEN i really, realized like what

876
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 2: breakfast tacos were supposed to taste, Like and you, know

877
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 2: like the really good, ones.

878
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: The, authentic, good, stuffy.

879
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:51,919
Speaker 2: Yeah because you get it From american restaurants and they're.

880
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 2: GOOD i love a breakfast taco no matter. What but

881
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,919
Speaker 2: THEN i went To austin and it ruined me BECAUSE

882
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,280
Speaker 2: i had really good breakfast burritos and breakfast.

883
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: Tacos you gotta find when it comes To mexican restaurants In,

884
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 1: texas you gotta find just like the the places that you're,

885
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 1: like you, Question you're, LIKE i don't, know SHOULD i

886
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 1: go in? THERE i, mean that's what my dad would always.

887
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: Do he's, like, oh the more like he would just

888
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:15,360
Speaker 1: call him a hole in the wall type, place even for,

889
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 1: burgers not Just mexican, Food, like the more hole in

890
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: the wall, Looks he's, like the better it's gonna.

891
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,319
Speaker 2: Be that is, True he's not. Wrong is it a

892
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 2: place where he has a burger named not for? Him

893
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 2: also a hole in the?

894
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: Wall oh that's, Big Daddy's, no not. Real, NO i

895
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 1: would call that more of like a like A texas

896
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 1: roadhouse type. Situation oh, okay shout out. Dad, Yeah well

897
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 1: he had a that was a they had some of

898
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 1: those restaurants and he was it's, where, uh the one

899
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:48,959
Speaker 1: In odessa he had for, Years like WHEN i go visit,

900
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:50,879
Speaker 1: him he moved To odessa for a little bit after

901
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 1: him and my mom. SPLIT i guess to probably quiet

902
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: down some of the buzz because he was leaving her

903
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: for somebody. Else so they Moved odessa for a little,

904
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 1: bit AND i would go visit him for spring. Break

905
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: AND i was the hostess At Big, daddies SO i

906
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 1: would host us there and uh then, yeah HE i,

907
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: GUESS i guess still. THERE i don't know who owns

908
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 1: it now or, what but there's Still my half sister

909
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 1: was In odessa for something and they decided to go

910
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 1: eat A Big daddy's and she opened up the menu

911
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: and there was Cliffs burger still on the. Menu that's.

912
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 2: WILD i, know it's cool that it's still there though years.

913
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:29,879
Speaker 1: Later, YEAH i love.

914
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 2: That, okay we're gonna end us on a celebrity. Story

915
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 2: do you have a celebrity story From iHeart?

916
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: Festival, WELL i told this one on the, Show My

917
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:41,879
Speaker 1: Sam hunt story where he fell in front of it. Fell,

918
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:44,320
Speaker 1: WELL i didn't, fall BUT i dropped all my luggage

919
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: in front of, him AND i might as well have.

920
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,839
Speaker 1: Fallen it's. RIDICULOUS i was about to start A Thomas

921
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: rhett interview On hulu and his phone started ringing and

922
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: he was, like, oh what's. This he looked at it

923
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 1: was his wife, calling AND i, thought and The hulu

924
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: hits are, live and SO i was, like, oh shoot

925
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 1: to answer a phone call from his wife and then

926
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: we're gonna go and have to. Stall but he was,

927
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,399
Speaker 1: Like i'll call her Rag AND i was, like, oh,

928
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 1: see stars are just like. Us like he's at work

929
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 1: doing his, thing but his wife is, like, OH i

930
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 1: got to call my. HUSBAND i have a. Question or

931
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 1: maybe he's not on. STAGE i, mean because he was

932
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:16,320
Speaker 1: also about to take the.

933
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 2: Stage, Well AND i feel like she wouldn't call for

934
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 2: no reason either, too because of his work. Environment so

935
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 2: she mustn't called because something was going, on.

936
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 1: Yeah or she could have JUST i don't think it

937
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: was anything serious because if he was alarmed by, that

938
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: he would have picked it. UP i don't think he would. Have,

939
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: Yeah so they probably are just used to, talking which

940
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: that's the whole. Thing like some people do not call

941
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 1: their spouses or their significant others on the. Job that

942
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 1: was shocking to, Me like therapy. Cats she told me

943
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: she just never called her husband at, work AND i was,

944
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: like WHAT i would Call ben all the. TIME i,

945
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: MEAN i guess when he was in the military it was. Different.

946
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: Uh but and my BOYFRIEND i call. HIM i call.

947
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 1: Him i'll call him as soon as we get done

948
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 1: here we, Leave, yeah and Then i'll call him, again just,

949
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: hey what are you's? Doing i'm? Working, okay you know.

950
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 1: So BUT i put up a thing about it On

951
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 1: instagram a couple of months, ago AND i was shocked

952
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:10,959
Speaker 1: at how divided some people. Were they're, like oh my, gosh,

953
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 1: YEAH i would never call my spouse at work, ever

954
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 1: and again it depends on what your spouse. Does but

955
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: just the fact that it's a thing of, like, no

956
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 1: they're at, work why WOULD i call. Them i'm like

957
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 1: to see what's.

958
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 2: Up that kind of shocks me BECAUSE i feel like

959
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 2: most people when they were kids would call their parents

960
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 2: while they ARE i don't know how many TIMES i

961
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 2: would pick up the home phone just to bother my

962
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 2: parents at work for the stupidest. Things.

963
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:36,760
Speaker 1: YEAH i, mean maybe.

964
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 2: People are traumatized from that, experience and others are, like,

965
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 2: NAH i did it all the, time.

966
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: Or to your, point depending how they grew, up maybe

967
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: their parents had jobs where they couldn't call them and

968
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,880
Speaker 1: so they just it doesn't occur to them to just

969
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: call theirs their, Partner, yeah because, YEAH i would call

970
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 1: to your, POINT i would call my parents all the time,

971
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 1: too AND i definitely call my, boyfriend probably too. Much

972
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: and then sometimes he's, Like, OKAY i gotta, go And i'm, like,

973
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 1: WELL i just got done with work because our schedules

974
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: are very, different AND i was, LIKE i have a

975
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: twenty minute drive, Home like what AM i supposed to do?

976
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 2: Now isn't it funny? Too? HOW i don't know if

977
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 2: you've ever seen those memes or videos where you call

978
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 2: somebody when you're on a drive home and they don't

979
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 2: call you back until you pull in the garage and you're, like,

980
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 2: NO i don't want to talk to you. NOW i

981
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 2: only want to talk to you BECAUSE i would drive me.

982
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: Home, yes. Hilarious it's like you're at, home or they'll

983
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,399
Speaker 1: show it's like a girl at home like eating, popcorn WATCHING,

984
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 1: tv literally doing nothing but her phone rings and she ignores.

985
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: It and she's like when that person calls that you

986
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: called when you were driving because you're still not doing,

987
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 1: anything like you could totally, answer but it's, like oh, no,

988
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,839
Speaker 1: no you missed your. WINDOW i know when you had

989
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:43,840
Speaker 1: way more energy or you were in the mood to.

990
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:45,400
Speaker 1: Talk they may never.

991
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 2: MIND i take it.

992
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: Back, yeah you may not find that energy again for

993
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: another five. Days, yeah, yep very.

994
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 2: Real all, Right, amyel thanks for joining, Me thanks for

995
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 2: talking about, boyfriend, kids all the life.

996
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 1: Updates thank. You same to you before we.

997
00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 2: Leave just you're. Good how are you.

998
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 1: Feeling i'm.

999
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 2: Great perimantal pause everything.

1000
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 1: Perimidal pausal stuff is you, know it's ebbs and. Flows,

1001
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: yeah so you never. Know speaking of by, HER i

1002
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 1: did have a little bit of A i was emotional and.

1003
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: HORMONAL i had a moment With Elizabeth, fazio who we work.

1004
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,399
Speaker 1: With we're. BACKSTAGE i had to let out a quick

1005
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 1: cry for a, second AND i was, LIKE i looked

1006
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 1: at her AND i was, LIKE i don't know what is.

1007
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: HAPPENING i really. DON'T i was, LIKE i don't know

1008
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: Why i'm. CRYING i cannot explain this right. Now and

1009
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: that's one of those things where it's just, Like, god

1010
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: this is so. Unprofessional nobody else saw me besides, her

1011
00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,399
Speaker 1: SO i felt, okay but it just made me want

1012
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 1: to like hug a lot of women that maybe just

1013
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 1: need to let out a cry where literally at their,

1014
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: job there's no way they could do, it and you

1015
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: have to go hide and find a. Space SO i

1016
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: just want to normalize random tears at work when you're you,

1017
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 1: know you're estrogen might be a little off or something,

1018
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:56,720
Speaker 1: LIKE i don't know it. Was that was a, CRAZY

1019
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,239
Speaker 1: i heart. Story i've never had that.

1020
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 2: Happen it feels really out of body where you just feel.

1021
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:04,439
Speaker 1: Yes BECAUSE i like focus and like get my job

1022
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 1: done and like do WHAT i need to. Do AND

1023
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 1: i was. VACCAGING i was, Like, ELIZABETH i don't know what's,

1024
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: happening but we need to go over here in the

1025
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: dark right, now because like tears are flowing AND i

1026
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: JUST i feel off AND i need to feel. On

1027
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: and so it was LIKE i got it out and

1028
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: THEN i felt a little bit. Better so that released

1029
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 1: some chemicals THAT i needed to help me. Survive so,

1030
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:24,359
Speaker 1: YEAH i know a lot of other women are going through.

1031
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 1: It SO i just want to send you a hug

1032
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:31,280
Speaker 1: through the. Podcast and, also if you're a guy listening

1033
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: and you have a woman in your life that might

1034
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: be going through, it just remember to have some compassion

1035
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 1: and grace because she may act in a way that

1036
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: is confusing to her as. Well it doesn't excuse our,

1037
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 1: behavior but sometimes maybe you just get curious about, hey,

1038
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 1: uh let's let's let's. Pause what what could really be going?

1039
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: On you, know instead of thinking, that you, know we're

1040
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: just sacting all, Crazy you're not.

1041
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,439
Speaker 2: Crazy your body's just betraying you a little.

1042
00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:01,280
Speaker 1: Bit and we'll even know that it's like betraying because

1043
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,720
Speaker 1: it's so it's part of the. Process it's like literally

1044
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,760
Speaker 1: what is supposed to be, happening but also.

1045
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 2: Crap because why do we have to have?

1046
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 1: That you know WHAT i, mean that's WHAT i.

1047
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 2: Want that's WHERE i feel. Betrayed is this feels very

1048
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 2: one sided, exactly AND i don't appreciate that experience for

1049
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 2: all of you guys that are going through. It all,

1050
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 2: Right we'll tell the people where they can find to

1051
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:21,320
Speaker 2: hear you all that good.

1052
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 1: Stuff At Radio amy On socials and podcast Is Feeling Things,

1053
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: podcasts which that's also the social handle for that, show

1054
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,800
Speaker 1: and you can download and listen wherever you listen.

1055
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 2: To podcasts, awesome and you can follow me at Web

1056
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 2: Girl morgan take this personally as my. Podcast we have

1057
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 2: lots of good stuff up. There if you want some

1058
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: extra content Between amy and myself you know everybody else.

1059
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 2: Too you, Know amy AND i are sitting right here

1060
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 2: and go subscribe to the show YouTube page At Bobby Bone.

1061
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 2: Show bye Everybody.

1062
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 1: Bye that's the best bits of the week With.

1063
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 2: Morgan thanks for.

1064
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: Listening be sure to check out the other two parts this.

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