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Start your 11 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel Registry now at Crton Barrel dot com 12 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: slash Wedding dash Registry. This is the Benn and Ashley 13 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: I Almost Famous podcast with on our radio and we're 14 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: live in studio. Happy Bachelort Week, Ashley. Hello, Happy Crate 15 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: and Barrel Bridal Shower Week. To me, that is true. 16 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: That's why I'm out here, isn't it? Yes? Yeah, what 17 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: do you expect out of this event? I actually don't know. 18 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure we're doing a podcast, which makes it 19 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: an interesting and unique bridle shower. Um. I also know 20 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: that there will be a lot of Baudel people there. 21 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: I know that we're not going to podcast for three hours, 22 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: and that we have the time slot of three hours, 23 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: so I'm interested to see what you have planned because 24 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: you've planned it right, did you know? Here's the thing 25 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: that I don't quite get Ashley, as I'm researching Bridle Show, 26 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: and I don't get it for like podcast? Good point? 27 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: What are you like? Everything changes so quickly in baby 28 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 1: showers and bridle showers and wedding showers. Every new new 29 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: year seems to bring new trends. What would be the 30 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: absolute coolest thing you could do at your baby shower, 31 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: your bridle shower, and then your wedding shower. Like, what's 32 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: one thing you want to add those? Well? The baby shower. 33 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: I love the poopy diaper game. I think I may 34 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: have brought this up before, but basically, you mush a 35 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: chocolate bar in a diaper and you have to like 36 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: smell to determine which chocolate bar it is crushed up. 37 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: It would be fantastic if you actually snuck in like 38 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: baby poop and OI, I'm sure that's having so many times. 39 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: That's awesome. I honestly am I the Looman out there. 40 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 1: Please sit in your opinions. But actually I hurt me 41 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: dot com. I the only one out there that even 42 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:26,959 Speaker 1: though I would know it would be chocolate bars, it 43 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: still makes me gag. Oh, it doesn't make me gag, 44 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: I know, but I would think that it would too. 45 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 1: I can't pick up my dog's poop or their throw 46 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: up without dry heaving, like I literally be like really, 47 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: And Jared's like, actually, stop being so dramatic. You are 48 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: so dramatic. It annoys the heck out of him. And 49 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't help it. This is how my 50 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: body reacts. It's not mental, it's physical. Yeah, I actually 51 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: would agree. There's moments I actually remember this. Here's here's 52 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: a funny story, one that I don't share very often. 53 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: It's embarrassing. I uh, I was in a freshman high school. 54 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: My neighbor, I think he I think the kid was 55 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: like three four years old. I don't know how old 56 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: you are when you stop using diapers, but he was 57 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: still using diapers and I still need to help like clean, 58 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: So I was that's the most awkward. That's like the 59 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: time that you really don't want a babysity. Yeah, And 60 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: I was babysitting and he did his business and I 61 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 1: put his diaper down and I literally didn't just dry heave. 62 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: I puked all over. Yeah, I had to call It 63 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: was literally my next one time. I had to call 64 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: my mom over to clean like it up because I 65 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: was so disgusted. I don't know. It makes me worried 66 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: that I'm not gonna be a good dad. I worry 67 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: about it too. Jade has reassured me that the smell 68 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: of your own baby's poop actually doesn't gross you out, 69 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: especially initially. She says, it doesn't even smell like poop, 70 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: especially the first six months. Really yeah, and then you know, 71 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: after that, you're just so used to it. What a 72 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: what a day. I'm learning a lot. It's gonna be fun. Um. 73 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: I am out here for the creating barrel uh Bridle 74 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: shower for Ashley because she is a bride. Ashley, before 75 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: we start talking about the podcast, how is your bride 76 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: prep going? Like? Are you? I noticed the other day 77 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: you posted about like being on diet or working out 78 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: or something. Um, I also noticed that you're glowing, Like 79 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: what are you doing right now to get prepped for 80 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 1: this big day? Well? I actually because they tell you 81 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: not to go in for your fitting until like you 82 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: think you're the weight that you're going to be on 83 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 1: your wedding day and I just have I was like 84 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: gonna put it off and put it off. I was like, 85 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep losing. I'm gonna keep losing. And I 86 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: was like, you know, my mom is here. My mom 87 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: just got here because she's going to our bridle shower 88 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 1: tomorrow and she um. I was like, you know, let 89 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: me make my fitting while my mom's here. So tomorrow 90 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: I have my fitting, which is very exciting if you 91 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: want that would be hilarious. You're welcome. Who's a coming 92 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: just to I was just my mom and my sister. 93 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 1: You know, the invoices are kind of coming in at 94 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 1: this point and we're like, wow, heavy hurts a little bit. 95 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: Speaking of invoices, Ashley, I gotta use this podcast for 96 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: shameless plug. I hope you don't take offense to it, 97 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: ash of course not. I just did a shameless plug 98 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: for the I Don't get a podcast. Um. Ashley's wedding 99 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: is in the beautiful, uh state of Rhode Island, and 100 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: we just watched that this week on The Bachelor. Newport 101 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: specifically Newports, specifically hotel rooms in Newports are expensive. So 102 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: if anybody out there has any hookups to hotel rooms 103 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: in Newport, Rhode Island, I, myself and the rest of 104 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: the Bachelor men, the Bachelor men, they want to stay 105 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: at your house, place to stay. I'm not kidding. It's ridiculous, 106 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 1: you guys. We feel a lot of secondhand guilt for 107 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: making people not only fly into Providence or Boston, but 108 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:57,479 Speaker 1: Providence is convenient and yet more expensive, and then to 109 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: be in one of the most expensive cities in a 110 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: mirror during August. Yeah, so I would spend I mean, 111 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm not gonna have a hard time actually 112 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: like breaking the bank for you. I would do it 113 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 1: in a second. But I'm just saying, if, on top 114 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: of being able to be there for you, if I 115 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 1: can get a free room to stay in uh please 116 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: email us at the been an actually amazing podcast. Yeah, 117 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 1: if you're interested in having a Bachelor lum stay at 118 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: your place in Newport, Rhode Island, let us know. Uh okay, Yeah, 119 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: speaking of Newport, I know we're going to get into 120 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 1: this episode of the Bachelorette, episode four. Jared and I 121 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: actually filmed a scene for this episode that got cut, 122 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 1: which is not a rarity. Ben has been on scenes, 123 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: has had scenes that have been cut, and it's so 124 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 1: unfortunate because you look forward to it. You're like, is 125 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: it gonna make it? Is it gonna make it? And 126 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: it doesn't make it. Um, Hannah just sat down with 127 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: us for like an hour and chatted about who she 128 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 1: was really feeling at that point. And it's interesting because 129 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: I think I could say now, but she told us 130 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 1: that her three standouts when we sat down with her 131 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: before she embarked on that week was Jed Luke p 132 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: who she said she had to straighten out, and Peter. 133 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: She said that she was very taken with Peter the 134 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: week before. During Week three, that whole slamming her against 135 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: not slamming her, pushing her up against that brick wall 136 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: and making out with her yes, really turned her on, 137 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: nice little gentle nudge. And then um, I talked to 138 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 1: her about Tyler see because I was like, Tyler sees 139 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 1: who all the girls are talking about, going he just 140 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: made off pictures, you know, just going off pictures. The 141 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: girls seemed to like, only think that Tyler sees the 142 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: hot guy in your bunch. Now we've known. Now we've 143 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: seen that there are a lot of other attractive men 144 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 1: in her season, but based on those original pictures anyway, 145 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: I go, but he looks like a player, right, And 146 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 1: she goes, yeah, I feel like he might be a 147 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: flare like something along those lines. And I think this 148 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: episode dispelled that for not just Hannah, but for the audience. 149 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: What do you think? So before we get into the episode, 150 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: we have a really special guest in the line, Diggie Moreland, 151 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: what's going on? How you doing? Man? Ben and Ashley Here, 152 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: we're just getting ready to break down this week's episode 153 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: of the Bachelorte. Before we do that, we had to 154 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: bring you on to catch up with you and what 155 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 1: is going on in your life now. So with that, 156 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: we like to do a really special uh segment that 157 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: should you should take no offense to. We've done it 158 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: with everybody from Trista Center to Ben Zorne. We just 159 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 1: call it, who the heck are you? Because you've been 160 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: off the show for a while, we'll do it with 161 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: me here as well, Diggie, what are you up to 162 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: these days? Um? So right now, I'm still living in Chicago. 163 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: I did not move to l A yet. Um I 164 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:58,079 Speaker 1: am back at work, so I'm actum a normal job, 165 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: but now I'm doing a lot of modeling. I'm doing 166 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 1: a lot of traveling. Just want to see the world, 167 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: and so I've been giving a lot of obviously different 168 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: experiences and different opportunities. So yeah, now I'm just modeling, traveling, 169 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:12,959 Speaker 1: my fashion blog. I'm doing a lot of stuff like 170 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: that with fashion. So yeah, I'm just doing a lot 171 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: of different things right now. So just help our listeners out. 172 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: How would they know you? Maybe there, let's say at 173 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: a young age and they were watching back then, or 174 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: maybe they just are casual fans. Can you give us 175 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 1: a little background of what seen you're on, how did 176 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: it go for you, and how people would remember you. Yeah, so, um, 177 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 1: season thirteen of Bacherette with Rachel Lindsay and then season 178 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 1: four and five a Bachelor in Paradise. I first came 179 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: on seeing the Bachelrette in season thirteen, and I was 180 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: a guy that probably a different pair of glasses on 181 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 1: every five or six hours, um, and I wore some 182 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: pretty dope bow ties and suit and stuff like that. 183 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:00,959 Speaker 1: So I think that's how the world knew me. And 184 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 1: somebody who was really in a fashion loved the shop 185 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 1: and everything like that, so, UM, that's why I started 186 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 1: and then went straight from the Best Head to Paradise. UM. 187 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: Had an amazing time down in Mexico with my friends, UM, 188 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 1: and then decided to do it again at the tail 189 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: end of last year. So UM yeah, I had a 190 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: good uh. Three uh, I would say three shows stint 191 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 1: with the franchise. So I assume that you're not going 192 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: to go back to Paradise this season. UM. I think 193 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: that'd be a safe assumption. UM. Yeah, I probably will 194 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:39,719 Speaker 1: avoid Paradise this season. So when you're in Paradise last time, 195 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 1: I can't remember. I'm a big Paradise fan. Did you 196 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: find any type of romantic feelings in Paradise last season? 197 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: I did not. Um. I went towards the very end, 198 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: and it was somebody Olivia. She actually lived here in Chicago. UM. 199 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: I went on a date with her. Um. She had 200 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: already been with Venmo John for like think a couple 201 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: of weeks down to that point. So I just went 202 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:06,080 Speaker 1: down there, really didn't have any like emotional connections, and 203 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: then as a result, we uh just kind of went home. 204 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 1: And then that was the end of the season. I 205 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:13,079 Speaker 1: think right before they brought Robbie down I remember that 206 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: if you were to go again, who from this past 207 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: season do you? Would you be crushing on? Katie A 208 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: thousand present? Feel like all the guys have crushes on Katie. 209 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: She is beautiful. Katie and Tasha Um probably are my 210 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: top two. I really have. I forgot her name, Sydney. 211 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: I think Sydney is like kind of interesting, very cute, 212 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: and I just would like to know more about her. 213 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: So that's the three I would be crushing on. I'm 214 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: telling you what ash you feel. But Diggy might be 215 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: the first potential Bachelor in Paradise person we've had that 216 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 1: it seems very confident in who he's going after. Tashia 217 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 1: kind of felt that way a little bit. I do 218 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: like that because I think a lot of the times 219 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: when we asked who they want to see there, they 220 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: get a little has it ends Yeah, tongue tied. No. 221 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: I think. I think the way we work is just 222 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: more so obviously being in the franchise, now we know 223 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 1: who these people are. People asking about us all the time, 224 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: So at this point I'm like, all right, I know 225 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: I would be interested in Tatia, Katie and like really 226 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: nobody else, and that's it. The there's one thing I 227 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: was I was watching um some clips last night from 228 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:28,199 Speaker 1: last year's Paradise. It was just on the internet. You know. 229 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: The one of the cool parts about Paradise for me 230 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 1: is when I watch it, it's funny, it's entertaining, but 231 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:35,199 Speaker 1: people leave with real love stories. That's why we're here 232 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: this week in Los Angeles celebrating Ashley and Jared's love story. Um, diggie, 233 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 1: are you ready for that? I mean, you're traveling the world. Uh, 234 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: you know you're good looking due to whereas a thousand 235 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: different kinds of glasses? Can you settle down and pick one? 236 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: I easily can and let me take it back? I can. 237 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: I won't say easily because I do know what the process, 238 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,839 Speaker 1: but I think you get to that point right now, dirty. 239 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 1: You get to the point where it's like going out 240 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,719 Speaker 1: meeting new people, going on first date, Like it just 241 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: gets tiresome and you get tired of it and you 242 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 1: just don't want to do it anymore. So at this 243 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: point in your life, you're kind of looking for somebody 244 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: that you're actually interested in and want to like get 245 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:18,719 Speaker 1: to know better as a person and then just kind 246 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 1: of grow together. So I think I know I'm definitely 247 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 1: ready for that. So it sounds like you're keeping up 248 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: with The Bachelor or the Bachelor franchise. Um, who do 249 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: you see Hannah having a long glass and connection list? Okay, 250 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: so I've been I haven't watched every episode. I don't 251 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:42,840 Speaker 1: the names kind of escaped me. Um. I think Tyler's see. Yeah, 252 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: it looked like they had somewhat of a connection last night. Um, 253 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: he knew everything, like all the right things to say, 254 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: which kind of scares me a little bit. Yeah, when 255 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: he was I think, uh, Hannah was like, I'm just 256 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: down right now, and then Tyler was like, I want 257 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: to see you at your high I then at your lows. 258 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: That was perfect. So I don't know how he came 259 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 1: up with that, but I'm feeling that first off, and 260 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 1: then secondly it was just like time perfectly. I think 261 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 1: they'd be great together. I just don't know how Tyler 262 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: is like off camera as a person. That's a good moment, 263 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: do you. Let's take it's a second and talk about that. 264 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 1: So when you were on the show, did you feel 265 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: like guys the men were calculated and how they were 266 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: talking to Rachel. Um, could you pick up on when 267 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: it was calculated how often? I mean, honestly, were you 268 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 1: calculated in your speech? Because I know we've talked about 269 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 1: on the podcast before. There's I'd say the first two weeks, 270 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: I knew pretty much. I was very slow to speak, 271 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: and and I didn't say a lot because I was 272 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 1: processing everything. But there is a moment in time where 273 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 1: you just give it all up, don't you think, like 274 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 1: you just kind of let go and you forget cameras 275 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 1: are there, and you start being yourself a thousand percent. 276 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: I would say, like you've been the first couple of weeks, 277 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: I was more like trying to be calculated. Whatever I said, 278 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure it couldn't be edited in 279 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 1: a wrong, like incorrect way, to make kind of like 280 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: worry about how it would come off. I'd say like 281 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: week three and beyond. At that point you start to 282 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 1: like say exactly what you would in inside the mansion 283 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 1: outside the mansion, just like back in normal life. Um, 284 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 1: and then by the time if you're fortunate enough to 285 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: go to Paradise, I mean I walked down those steps, 286 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I'm gonna see these cameras being 287 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: in my face. I'm gonna just be me whatever. But 288 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: those first first couple of weeks, you're definitely just like 289 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 1: trying to say stuff just to you know, not rock 290 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: any you know, ships or whatever, and you just wanna 291 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 1: don't ruffle any feathers. But then after a while it 292 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 1: kind of hits you and you just start being yourself. Yeah, 293 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: I agree. Now it just takes a bit. But once 294 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: you get in the move and the groove, stuff starts 295 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: coming out, and then that's the true I think is 296 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: where we're at the Bachelorette. Hey, we've got to start 297 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 1: talking about the Bachelorette actually do so. So we're gonna 298 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: let you go. But before we do that, I want 299 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 1: to ask you, is there anything you'd like to tell 300 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 1: our listeners to pay attention to that you are are 301 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 1: up to these days, or any kind words that you'd 302 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 1: like to pass on to our listeners before we let 303 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: you go. Um, I will say this. I have a 304 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: lot of people that are fans of the ben an 305 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: astute I podcast. So I get through the office every 306 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 1: day and like on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, people asked me 307 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: did you listen yet or whatever? So um, no, I 308 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 1: want to say you guys are do an amazing job 309 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: so keep it up and I will say I'm path myself. 310 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: Just check out the blog um anytime anybody gets a 311 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 1: chance more than a tie dot com And uh, I 312 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: love you guys having me on. Thank you appreciate it. 313 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: Do you appreciate you? Man? And we hope to see 314 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 1: you in paradise and if we don't, we hope to 315 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: uh see you again soon and talk to you soon. 316 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: All right, I thought to you that soon have going. Thanks. Okay, 317 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: now tell me what you thought about Tyler see you know, Ashley. 318 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 1: I would love to, but there's so many more important 319 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: things to talk about right now, you're just going to 320 00:16:56,760 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 1: leave me, I am, but also have to tell them 321 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 1: about your registry. Okay, well, just because I love my 322 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 1: crpan barrel registry so much. When it comes to a 323 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: wedding registry, I think a lot of people think kitchen supplies, 324 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:15,159 Speaker 1: furniture and you know, things for the home, but a 325 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 1: lot of people don't think about bathtime. 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Um, I think this is cool right now 388 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 1: with people that are a lot hipper than I in 389 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 1: but I got a gift in the mail of this 390 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,120 Speaker 1: like buzzy lip bombs, So you put on your lips 391 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 1: and your lips like kind of buzz or stings. This 392 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 1: isn't nod you guys, Can I see the Um. I 393 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 1: don't know if we should say the name of it, 394 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 1: because I don't think I'm gonna like talk very positive, Okay, 395 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,479 Speaker 1: So I don't know if you girls remember about a 396 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,479 Speaker 1: decade ago there was this stuff called lip venom and 397 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 1: it used to like it used to it was about 398 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 1: to plump your lips. It was like before lip injections 399 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:38,479 Speaker 1: were normal, and it used to like burn and tingle 400 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 1: your lips for like maybe twenty to thirty minutes, and 401 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 1: it really wouldn't make them maybe not like fuller, but 402 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:50,840 Speaker 1: looked like really inflamed. And you you just let you 403 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: just he just like waved this at me and said 404 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 1: put it on, and of course I did. And now 405 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 1: my lips are just tingling like little pins and need 406 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 1: but in like a fun way. It kind of feels good, right, 407 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:05,359 Speaker 1: It's like um, pop rocks on my tongue, that's a 408 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: great way to say it. It's like pop rocks rocks. 409 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 1: I can't speak. My lips are so plump right now, 410 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 1: the strongest buzzing lip we gave him to Easton and 411 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,439 Speaker 1: he says he always typically has the potty lips, and 412 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,479 Speaker 1: now they're even bigger. Um are they supposed to be? 413 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:21,639 Speaker 1: Is this like dirty or something? I don't know what 414 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: it is anyways, if I'm stumbling over my words just 415 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 1: because my lips are so big right now, I can't 416 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:31,120 Speaker 1: get my tongue to make the right curvatures. Okay, it's fun, though, Ashley, 417 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:34,120 Speaker 1: You've asked me a couple of times. I cannot wait 418 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: to break down this episode. I think you need to 419 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:38,960 Speaker 1: guide this because I have some thoughts that I'm going 420 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:40,679 Speaker 1: to go on tangents on and I don't want to 421 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 1: do that for the sake of our listeners and for you. 422 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,640 Speaker 1: So you're saying that you don't want to talk about 423 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: Tyler right now, you want to go through I can't. Yeah, 424 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: I just want you to guide me in this because 425 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 1: I'm so passionate about this episode that I think if 426 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 1: I guided it, I would just like bulldoze through the 427 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,680 Speaker 1: whole thing. Okay, So I have a quote here, our 428 00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 1: dear Lauren Ziema. Um. She she transcribed this quote from Tyler. 429 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:10,159 Speaker 1: He goes, I have transcribed Tyler's speech to Hannah last night, 430 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:13,199 Speaker 1: and it is something to behold. Nicholas Sparks, this is 431 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 1: your guy. I am in awe. She's a fan and 432 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 1: this really was the speech that got me. And I've 433 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 1: been pretty honest on here about the fact that I 434 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 1: think that Tyler is very classically handsome man. He looks 435 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 1: like he popped out of like Hollywood and like the 436 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 1: nineteen Yeah, like that kind very Paul Newman is like, 437 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 1: he's kind of like honestly, he looks a little bit 438 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 1: like Patrick Swayze if you look hard enough, but like 439 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,439 Speaker 1: that classic Studley you know. Um. And then I but 440 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 1: I thought that he was like a laid back stoner 441 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 1: type for a while, but now yesterday my entire opinion 442 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,639 Speaker 1: on him has changed, and it really started with this quote. 443 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 1: Just know that when you're getting down, there's a reason 444 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: why you're going through all this right now, There's no 445 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 1: doubt in my mind that this is all going to 446 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,159 Speaker 1: make you better at the end of the day, and 447 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 1: you're going to come out the most amazing person ever 448 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,160 Speaker 1: with the most amazing person ever. I want you in 449 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: your highs, I want you in your lows. I'll take 450 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 1: whatever I can get with you. I want to be 451 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 1: the man with you at the end of this and 452 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 1: today I want to show you that I can be 453 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: the man who picks you up. We'll have fun. Just 454 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,439 Speaker 1: know that I got you, and then I'm always going 455 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 1: to have you. No. But but like it was good 456 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: and I would say, like, oh, man, smooth like I 457 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,639 Speaker 1: could like be all like sassy like smooth like he 458 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: has like used that all the time. But I felt 459 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 1: it was so authentic and genuine. I don't care anymore. 460 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 1: I'm team Taylor, I'm Tom Tyler. See let's let's stop 461 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: here because this is where I first want to stop 462 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:48,719 Speaker 1: and talk. Ah he I'm not gonna share you if 463 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: he impressed me not. What about his speech made you 464 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 1: go that's authentic and genuine When other times on the show, 465 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 1: we can watch it and people can say all the 466 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,679 Speaker 1: word right things and all the right words and we 467 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: go he is bs and his way through this. This 468 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: is ridiculous. And I also felt like the majority of 469 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 1: people viewers from what we could see on Twitter and 470 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 1: what we got in our emails. Really thought the speech 471 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 1: was genuine and authentic as well. I think that he 472 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,640 Speaker 1: delivered it with a lot of warmth. I think sometimes 473 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,639 Speaker 1: it sounds like a monologue, but I think the way 474 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:27,679 Speaker 1: he said it was different. I think that the situation 475 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,880 Speaker 1: he said it was probably a little different. And then 476 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,680 Speaker 1: he showed it like he really it wasn't just words, 477 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,400 Speaker 1: it was also actions, and he also made it seem 478 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: like he wanted to prove it to her little by 479 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 1: little over time, and he didn't think that it was 480 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: something that was just given that he was just going 481 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 1: to be liked by her immediately. It was something that 482 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,199 Speaker 1: he wanted to prove to her fair enough. What do 483 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 1: you think? I think so too. So I was gonna say, 484 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 1: is um, I want to hate the guy because he's 485 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 1: so good looking. He's a professional football player, well he was, 486 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 1: he was a good and then he's a model. Look 487 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: at his modeling shots. He's the perfect Apercromish model. And 488 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 1: then he's a dancer, Like he's a good dancer, like 489 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 1: he did his intro video of him skipping around the 490 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,159 Speaker 1: room with a shirt off and his ab showing like 491 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: I think he's one of those guys that we look 492 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 1: at as other men and go yeah, and he's he's 493 00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: the guy that women look at as, oh, you must 494 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 1: be a player, because no guy who looks like we 495 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 1: can't assume that about him, but we can. We cannot, 496 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,439 Speaker 1: we cannot, but we do, but we can't assume. And 497 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 1: that's unfair to him because just because you're a six 498 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:36,399 Speaker 1: ft five professional athlete that can dance with rock solid 499 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: abs in a beautiful face does not mean here's my thing. 500 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 1: That's not what it's impressed me about him. Impressed me 501 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 1: was he was not expecting Hannah to be in this mood. 502 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:50,439 Speaker 1: He was expecting a great day, So his reaction was 503 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 1: not calculated and planned. It's not like he had like 504 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 1: thirty forty minutes to think, Okay, what should I say 505 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 1: to her now she's in a bad mood. No, she 506 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 1: drops this on him and ride a way. He goes, yeah, 507 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 1: but yeah, who would ever assume the Bachelor I was 508 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 1: going to be in a bad mood? First off, love 509 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 1: that Hannah is so expressive when she is feeling down, 510 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 1: because that's just reality. When you are in that world wind, 511 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:18,120 Speaker 1: you are exhausted and you are cranky and She's just like, hey, 512 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm not feeling it. I wish I didn't have to 513 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:23,439 Speaker 1: go on the state. And I love that about her. Um. 514 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,960 Speaker 1: Another thing that showed authenticity with Tyler and I didn't 515 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,159 Speaker 1: even notice, as my sister did. She said that he 516 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 1: seemed really nervous and then his hands were shaking when 517 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:39,639 Speaker 1: when they were having that talk. Yeah, and um, I 518 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 1: think he thought he was gonna get eliminated in that moment. 519 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,680 Speaker 1: I think I think that for a second he was like, Oh, 520 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,160 Speaker 1: she's gonna send me home right now. Do you think 521 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 1: he knows he's good looking? Yeah? Yeah, he modeled, you know, 522 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,360 Speaker 1: like when you do model shots like that, you kind 523 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 1: of Yeah. I don't have a problem with people know 524 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: that they're good looking. I feel like most of the 525 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 1: people on The Bachelor know that they're better than average looking. Yeah. 526 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 1: I mean I don't have a problem with that because 527 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,639 Speaker 1: it gives you a little confidence. Um. But you know, 528 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 1: here's the thing. I think Tyler C is sneaking in 529 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 1: to be come. Here's my he's my forecast, one of 530 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 1: batchel Nation's most memorable contestants. I think he will go 531 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 1: down if he wins or doesn't. As a guy that 532 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: people look at for years and goes. It's kind of 533 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,400 Speaker 1: like the Deans of the World. Yeah, Yeah, that guy 534 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,159 Speaker 1: is good looking because oh, because of his looks or 535 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: because his looks, plus he has an instance. I think 536 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 1: he's the total package. If there's been a lot of 537 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 1: really good looking people on this show that do not 538 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: have the personality and they're forgotten, I think you. I 539 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 1: think the standouts are the ones that have both, and 540 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 1: I think Tyler C is one of those. Hey, I 541 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: know we just really dove into the Tyler C scenario. 542 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 1: But let's backtrack and start at the beginning. Let's break 543 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: down the episode. On this week's segment episode of the 544 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 1: Almost Famous Podcast, Ashley, let's start at the beginning. They're 545 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 1: Newport Rhode Island. I want you to give a little 546 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 1: breakdown of what makes Newport Rhode Islands so special and 547 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: unique and why you chose to do your wedding there. 548 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 1: When I used to live outside Boston when my dad 549 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,200 Speaker 1: was doing his residency on the weekends, I was like 550 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 1: three or four, we used to go down to Newport 551 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 1: and just watch the sailboats. And then fast forward like 552 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 1: twenty five years. I do the same thing with Jared, 553 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 1: so yeah, it's pretty cool. I always talked to Jared like, 554 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 1: I was like, what if we were like both like 555 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 1: two or three in a stroller and we just strolled 556 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 1: by each other in Newport and then you just love 557 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 1: made eye contect. So I always thought it was like 558 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 1: a very romantic place as a place that my parents 559 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 1: used to love going to when they had spare time. 560 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: It is just like your perfect little sailboat town. I 561 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 1: can't really describe it. I wouldn't call it a beach town. 562 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: Of course, there is a beach you can go to, 563 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 1: but it's more about the harbor. It's quaint. It's just 564 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 1: like the cutest town. It's very old. It was one 565 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 1: of the most early established places in the Northeast, so 566 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: I think it was like or something. So everything is 567 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 1: very cute and colonial. It's it's got old school charm. 568 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 1: And also you can sense that it was a place 569 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:20,400 Speaker 1: that they used to have like grand, wealthy the houses 570 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 1: that there's this thing called like the Mansion Row and 571 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: there's just like these huge like Vanderbilt mansions and it's 572 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 1: really really cool. And and Chris Harrison I think did 573 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 1: a unique I think he intruded by saying where the 574 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 1: wealthy goes still go to play or something that. So 575 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 1: the wealthy go to play in Newport, Rhode Island, and 576 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 1: so does the bachelor at which brings us to our 577 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,959 Speaker 1: very first date. I still think an underdog in this 578 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 1: whole thing, one that's stuck up on us slowly but 579 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 1: surely is Jed. Jed gets the very first date card 580 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 1: in Newport, Rhode Island. The date card clue is Jed 581 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 1: meet me in Boston. Well, surprise, surprise, Jed, You're going 582 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: to meet Hannah by and tour Boston. Here's the thing. 583 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 1: Twitter kind of reacted Ashley to Hannah by doing the 584 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 1: fake news or pointing out fake things in Boston. I 585 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,680 Speaker 1: liked it, but I didn't have a problem with it. 586 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: I just didn't like it, like I don't know, because 587 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:21,840 Speaker 1: it took away from the like, let's not belittle the 588 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,800 Speaker 1: history of Boston, especially a city in which, like there 589 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 1: is so much of America's roots. I agree. So you 590 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,520 Speaker 1: spend the whole day it was a weird like time 591 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: on the show because we spent the whole ten minutes 592 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 1: of them touring Boston actually learning nothing and learning nothing 593 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 1: about them, Like all we did was see them walk 594 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: around and point things out. But we didn't get to 595 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: meet Jed really until we meet up with the Boston 596 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 1: Celtics players and then we can see for the first time. 597 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 1: I think all episode his more fun side coming out. 598 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:54,280 Speaker 1: I'm still not positive he's comfortable yet. Yeah, I didn't 599 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 1: get much about out of his one on one. I 600 00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 1: feel like I actually learned more about Jed in theire episodes, 601 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 1: except for during their dinner date. Do you want to 602 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 1: get to the dinner day part or is there anything 603 00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 1: more about the Celtics part? Yeah, I just I just 604 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 1: want to close that little thing off and say, it 605 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 1: was really cool this episode to see so much of 606 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 1: the Northeast come to live the Celtics coming into the play. 607 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 1: We'll talk about some other things that they did in 608 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 1: the Northeast later on. Uh. And it was a fun date. 609 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: The two on two was fun and it was cute 610 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 1: to see Uh Hannah just again letting loose. I thought 611 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:28,959 Speaker 1: it was a really good time for her to just 612 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 1: enjoy yourself. But here's the part, and I want to 613 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,840 Speaker 1: and this will tie into the dinner part. She says 614 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:38,080 Speaker 1: to the whole thing. I'm comfortable around Jed. I can 615 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 1: relax around him. He's fun, I can be myself. I 616 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 1: felt like I never got to see that. Yeah, I 617 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 1: haven't seen Jed v fun. You guys all know that 618 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: I'm like a big Jet fan. Up until yesterday, I 619 00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 1: think he was my favorite. Now I think he's oh definitely, 620 00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 1: I say top two. Um, but I didn't get to 621 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,320 Speaker 1: see much like fun from him. I feel like I 622 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,560 Speaker 1: just see one static side, which is like, again, I'm 623 00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 1: going to use the word studley, laid back. I think 624 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 1: there are similarities between Tyler and Jed, which is why 625 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:14,640 Speaker 1: I like them. I think Hannah is the one that 626 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 1: is like super full of energy and peppy, like the 627 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:21,800 Speaker 1: firework in the relationships. But then with Jed and Tyler, 628 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 1: they're bore, more laid back and like observers, which I 629 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,520 Speaker 1: think it's comfortable for me to watch, and so probably 630 00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 1: it is comfortable in real life for her. Um. But 631 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 1: one thing we do know about Jed is he's honest. 632 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 1: And I know you have opinions on this. This is 633 00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 1: my favorite. So we go to dinner and Ashley, what 634 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 1: happens at dinner? A dinner, Jed says, going to be 635 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 1: straight up with you. I actually signed up for the 636 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 1: show because I know it would give me a good 637 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:51,360 Speaker 1: platform and audience for my music career, give me opportunities 638 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 1: and connections there. And I loved this. It was honest, 639 00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 1: it was up front. He addressed it before anyone could 640 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 1: have dres usaid for him or question and doubt him 641 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 1: for it, and he just admitted what pretty much everybody. 642 00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 1: Everybody goes on, everybody goes on for an experience. Barely 643 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,800 Speaker 1: anybody thinks they're gonna end up with the lead. Um. 644 00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,840 Speaker 1: I had gotten really nervous back during Chris Soulds this 645 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 1: season when he asked me what I do and I 646 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 1: was like, well, I just graduated with my masters from 647 00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:29,000 Speaker 1: broadcasting school. And I was like, great, he's gonna think broadcasting. 648 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:30,839 Speaker 1: I want to be an entertainment reporter, and he's gonna 649 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:35,360 Speaker 1: immediately think wrong reasons He didn't, Hannah, I think like 650 00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,319 Speaker 1: any time that you want to be involved in the 651 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 1: entertainment industry on the show People, the red flag goes up, right. 652 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,960 Speaker 1: But the big thing here with Jed was that he 653 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 1: was upfront and honest about it. And then he said, 654 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,879 Speaker 1: once I've been here and once I've met you, that 655 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:53,799 Speaker 1: has totally taken the back seat because you are my 656 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 1: priority now, not my career, and I think at the 657 00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:03,319 Speaker 1: end of the day, that's all that really matters. Yeah. Sorry, No, 658 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,279 Speaker 1: I'm trying to process what you're saying, because I do 659 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:10,359 Speaker 1: agree everybody goes on it for experiment or experience. I 660 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 1: loved it too, and I think that what I was 661 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 1: processing here is I think the show actually loved it 662 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 1: because it breaks down the wall that nobody's been able 663 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 1: to break down before. And so here's what's happened to 664 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,600 Speaker 1: Jetty's came He's like, had this idea of what could 665 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,319 Speaker 1: happen to him. Uh. For the one thing is when 666 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,280 Speaker 1: you have you have to have a product that's marketable, 667 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 1: So like a liquor we here, we're gonna talk about 668 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,359 Speaker 1: that later in this podcast. That I don't as much, 669 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:36,760 Speaker 1: but the music career, something that's tangible that you can market. 670 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 1: Jet obviously has that, and I bet he did go 671 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 1: on with the intentions of I'm gonna be this is 672 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,719 Speaker 1: gonna rocket my career to a whole new level, and 673 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, just like true love does, 674 00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:51,359 Speaker 1: it stops you and plans change. And I think that's 675 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,279 Speaker 1: okay right with Jess who know, you know, when I 676 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,279 Speaker 1: first started talking to her. My what I could first 677 00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 1: see our relationship being or with you a Jared was 678 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 1: different than where we're at now right My plans has 679 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 1: changed and as a result, I've communicated on her, which 680 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 1: was what he's doing to Hannah. I think it was honest. 681 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,880 Speaker 1: I think it was great. And he's also allowing the 682 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:11,840 Speaker 1: person that's close to him right now in his life 683 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 1: in on his insecurities. He's being vulnerable and vulnerability always wins. 684 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 1: So and I also want to say that in my experience, 685 00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 1: I did get to the point where I was like 686 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,919 Speaker 1: I always went in being like it would be so 687 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,680 Speaker 1: great if it helped me with opportunities in my career, 688 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,880 Speaker 1: but it would be even greater if I found the 689 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,440 Speaker 1: person through it. And I think that's what he's saying. 690 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,440 Speaker 1: And I love that she gave him the time to 691 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 1: make his point without her like getting jumpy. Hannah actually 692 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 1: then today says this is the most excited I've ever 693 00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 1: been um in a long time over a first day, Ashley, 694 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 1: So that crosses out the other guys that she went on. 695 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 1: I agree with what is your rating for Jed and 696 00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:03,800 Speaker 1: Hannah's connection after this one on one after the dinner portion, 697 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,399 Speaker 1: I say B plus. What do you say? I'd say 698 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 1: B plus. But this whole podcast now is going to 699 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 1: get blown up because the two people the whole show 700 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,320 Speaker 1: really if we think about it. We we talked a 701 00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:17,120 Speaker 1: little bit about Tyler se I'm glad we did because 702 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,959 Speaker 1: it's important. We talked about Jed, but but this whole 703 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,840 Speaker 1: episode was really about two people. Is circled around two people, 704 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:27,360 Speaker 1: and unless we talk about it as much as the 705 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,479 Speaker 1: show showed it, we're not going to do this whole 706 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:31,839 Speaker 1: season justice. We have to talk about it. But before 707 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:35,319 Speaker 1: we do that, we need to take a break. I 708 00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,719 Speaker 1: would say, actually, the group dates this season have been 709 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 1: one of the most entertaining parts, mostly because we've had 710 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:44,000 Speaker 1: some massive characters UH play a part in this season. 711 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:47,240 Speaker 1: I think this season has been one of some major 712 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:50,320 Speaker 1: personalities and they're showing the personality, which we gotta respect. 713 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 1: I want to break down who was on the group date, 714 00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: what the group date was, and then if you all 715 00:37:55,480 --> 00:38:00,640 Speaker 1: will allow us, I want to unleash Ashley two, breakdown 716 00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,400 Speaker 1: what is going on between the Luke's and why is 717 00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,920 Speaker 1: it going down afterwards. So here I might disappoint you, 718 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 1: but let's continue the group day had Dylan, Mateo, J 719 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:12,760 Speaker 1: P J, John, Paul Jones, Connor Garrett, Dustin, Devon, Grant, 720 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,880 Speaker 1: Peter Kevin, Mike Lucas and Luke p The clue on 721 00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: the date was true love requires blood, sweat and tears. 722 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:25,879 Speaker 1: The boys are playing rugby, which I tell you what. 723 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,400 Speaker 1: Over the last few years, really starting with Caitlin season, 724 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,320 Speaker 1: the show on the Batchelorette at least, and even on 725 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,919 Speaker 1: The Bachelor, I can remember the boxing date this year 726 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 1: of this last season, have have got have allowed dates 727 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,240 Speaker 1: to get pretty physical. Early on we did the boxing 728 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:47,279 Speaker 1: date where Jared knocked Yeah he just rocked me. Um, 729 00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:50,360 Speaker 1: well he got a concussion. Yeah, you were not happy. 730 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:55,399 Speaker 1: And then this date rugby, which is a pretty fair 731 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 1: sport for a bunch of grown men off from anywhere 732 00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:01,359 Speaker 1: from two to thirty four playing started four. I don't know, 733 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 1: I just what do you think about that? Do you 734 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:11,040 Speaker 1: enjoy watching these kind of dates? Not particularly? I like talking. 735 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,200 Speaker 1: I like listening to them talk. This is just more like, 736 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,840 Speaker 1: let's see a bunch of people run around, get tired, 737 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:18,880 Speaker 1: beat each other up for a bit. But I do 738 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,719 Speaker 1: I will say this and we can skip over a 739 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,320 Speaker 1: lot of what happened to date. Right, A bunch of 740 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,280 Speaker 1: people ran up and down the field. It was intense, 741 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 1: it was fierce. We're gonna skip to this moment to 742 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:32,799 Speaker 1: where I think what competition and physical activities do for 743 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 1: these shows and for dates in general, like dates wherever 744 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:39,040 Speaker 1: we're in the world in real life as well, they 745 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:42,080 Speaker 1: bring out the truest forms of our personality, and they 746 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,399 Speaker 1: either enrage us or they bring us to peace. So 747 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 1: I'm super competitive, actually bring us to peace. Yeah, so 748 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:52,400 Speaker 1: I'm super competitive. But when I get competitive, for as 749 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,759 Speaker 1: much as I talk in my normal life, I don't 750 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,480 Speaker 1: talk in sports when I'm on the field or when 751 00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,520 Speaker 1: I'm on the core, where I'm in golf, I'm in 752 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,400 Speaker 1: my own head the whole time, right, So that brings me. 753 00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 1: Actually competition brings me to peace. Like I'm met more 754 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:08,200 Speaker 1: peace when I'm in competition than i am when I'm 755 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,399 Speaker 1: outside of it. But what we see what it does 756 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:14,759 Speaker 1: for Luke p as example, is it enrages him. Right. 757 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 1: Competition brings out this like inner animal that we don't 758 00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:20,479 Speaker 1: get to show in our normal lives, which is also 759 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:23,879 Speaker 1: not always bad. Right. Football players thrive off of this, 760 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:27,600 Speaker 1: like competition brings out that fierceness. But in this scenario, 761 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 1: and again for anybody out there listening, we're gonna spend 762 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:34,239 Speaker 1: a lot of time breaking this down. Now, something happened 763 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,280 Speaker 1: we don't I don't want to assume, and I actually 764 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 1: have some pretty strong feelings for this. Actually, I don't 765 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 1: want to assume that we know that Lucas was gonna 766 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:46,000 Speaker 1: swing on Luke P or that he wasn't. But this 767 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 1: got physical way beyond the competition, and that's where the 768 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 1: story begins, the feud, the match between Lucas and Luke P. Actually, 769 00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:03,120 Speaker 1: when you first start seeing this, what are your initial thoughts? Um, 770 00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,759 Speaker 1: it's wild, right, Like we see two girl men on 771 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:09,360 Speaker 1: a field at this point and one is getting tackled. 772 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:13,600 Speaker 1: I feel very uncomfortable as I'm watching this, because I 773 00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 1: know that this is gonna be detrimental for both sides 774 00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 1: when it comes to their character once they get off 775 00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 1: the show. And that's where this show, to me, I 776 00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:25,000 Speaker 1: get a little bit protective. I love breaking down these things, 777 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,799 Speaker 1: and I love chatting about these dudes and kind of, 778 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: you know, jabbing at them a little bit because we 779 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 1: all got jabbed that we should jab at each other's 780 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 1: while you're on the show. But this is where it 781 00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,520 Speaker 1: feels like it's getting this. This episode to me felt 782 00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:40,120 Speaker 1: very real and it was too intense to do you 783 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,840 Speaker 1: not think that people should be You said that people's 784 00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 1: character comes out while they're in competitive sport, But do 785 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,359 Speaker 1: you not think that they should be judged by their 786 00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,680 Speaker 1: behavior one competing? No? I do. And I think that's 787 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,280 Speaker 1: where this gets scary, as if I watched this episode 788 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,400 Speaker 1: especially for Luke p and I'm like, this will this 789 00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,560 Speaker 1: will last with you a long time, like this is 790 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:01,520 Speaker 1: the first moment. All the other stuff was kind of 791 00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:05,840 Speaker 1: goofy and weird and like kind of you know his stuff. JJ. Yeah, 792 00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,839 Speaker 1: like he could just like say and this is where 793 00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:09,520 Speaker 1: I was watching Lupine. I was like, oh, this is 794 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 1: this is gonna haunt him post show. He just tackled 795 00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 1: a grown man on television and supposedly need him in 796 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,879 Speaker 1: the face, calling itself to fatten and calling it self 797 00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 1: defense against quite honestly, and I think if Lucas would 798 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:25,759 Speaker 1: would be fine if he sat here. He kind of 799 00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,719 Speaker 1: said it like my mom and dad didn't raise me 800 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,040 Speaker 1: to be like this, Like it's Lucas and I think 801 00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 1: a guy on the show set like you're not threatened 802 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:35,520 Speaker 1: by that man, especially you like you're not threatened by 803 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:39,360 Speaker 1: Lucas at least shyly. It's like me trying to tackle 804 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 1: like Luke P. He's like, it's bed Like, I'm not 805 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:47,200 Speaker 1: threatened by this man, right. I mean it's a little awkward. 806 00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,319 Speaker 1: And and so that's where that group date ends and 807 00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,560 Speaker 1: it leads us into the cock Toower hour where things 808 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 1: get really interesting. Now it's either time for Luke Pete 809 00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:01,799 Speaker 1: to apologize and Luke us to apologize or double down 810 00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:05,320 Speaker 1: on what they said before. If Luke P was smart, 811 00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,359 Speaker 1: no matter what he truly believes happened in there, and 812 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 1: he if he thinks it was self defense, whatever, he 813 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:16,000 Speaker 1: should have still apologized to Luke for getting rougher than 814 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: he should have in bachelorette game. His his apologies still 815 00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:24,439 Speaker 1: weren't like real apologies. They were still protecting himself. They're 816 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,879 Speaker 1: defending himself. I was like, I'm sorry, but I'm sorry, 817 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,319 Speaker 1: and I've I've hit a girl man before, Okay, one 818 00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,400 Speaker 1: time my life. It's it's a side story. We'll talk 819 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,720 Speaker 1: about it. I don't want to talk about it. Um. 820 00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,840 Speaker 1: And once I did it, it felt right, like it 821 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,000 Speaker 1: felt good at the time, like my rage came out 822 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:43,239 Speaker 1: and then we're buddies and two hours later, once it 823 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:46,200 Speaker 1: all calmed down, Like all I wanted to do was apologize. 824 00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 1: And I think you see that a lot with fighting, 825 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,800 Speaker 1: Like that's where brothers fight. Like that's why parents sometimes 826 00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:54,040 Speaker 1: allow there's the brothers to fight, because what it does 827 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:57,080 Speaker 1: is it it allows both parties to get out what 828 00:43:57,120 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 1: they need. But then all most of the time, when 829 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:03,800 Speaker 1: you're you're when you have some some time to calm down, 830 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:05,799 Speaker 1: all you want to do is to apologize to the 831 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,399 Speaker 1: people that you love and hurt, no matter if you're 832 00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,200 Speaker 1: in the right or not right. It's and Luke P 833 00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:14,279 Speaker 1: didn't do that, and this is but honestly, actually I 834 00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 1: didn't love how either Luke's That's like, that's why you 835 00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:18,920 Speaker 1: said before You're like, I'm sure you have allowed to 836 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,960 Speaker 1: say this. I'm like, honestly, I'm not really sure because 837 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,600 Speaker 1: I don't particularly like either one of them. Well, and 838 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,799 Speaker 1: I said, Lucas is kind of acting childish and Luke 839 00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,719 Speaker 1: P won't take responsibility for anything. That's that's honestly how 840 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:35,080 Speaker 1: I broke this down, this whole argument. Would you agree, Yeah, 841 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:39,920 Speaker 1: I mean I feel like people respond you can respond 842 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,880 Speaker 1: to conflict and get involved in the drama and still 843 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:48,359 Speaker 1: and feel like a sense of okay. It's just so 844 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:52,160 Speaker 1: hard to explain. On this show, I feel like people 845 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:56,880 Speaker 1: can get involved in drama and either they can be 846 00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:03,359 Speaker 1: like it's not warm, but there's there's something about you 847 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,080 Speaker 1: that's like, I'm so on their side, they're so right, 848 00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:09,640 Speaker 1: You're so empathetic towards them and frustrated because they're frustrated. 849 00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:15,239 Speaker 1: But with Luke as I just felt like I just 850 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,000 Speaker 1: didn't want to root for him either. I knew that 851 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 1: he was more in the right than Luke P obviously, yeah, 852 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 1: but there was you feel that there wasn't a side 853 00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,279 Speaker 1: that as a as a viewer I was pulling for. 854 00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,640 Speaker 1: And I wonder if technically pulling for Luke asked because 855 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 1: he represented all the guys. But you didn't repret but 856 00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:36,040 Speaker 1: you weren't pulling for Luke Pay at all. I would 857 00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 1: agree with you, and I want to hear from our listeners, Uh, 858 00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 1: who were you pulling for? If any? And why maybe 859 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,720 Speaker 1: you were? Were you weren't emails at been a Ashley 860 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:49,160 Speaker 1: I heart me dot com Luke s. The first time 861 00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:53,920 Speaker 1: I started rooting for him was once luke P, I 862 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:57,319 Speaker 1: I will call almost lied Hannah. I agree. That was 863 00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,160 Speaker 1: the first time I said, Lukes, you're in the right, 864 00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,239 Speaker 1: You're confus used. This is swirling around you faster than 865 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,480 Speaker 1: what anybody can process and as a result, you're getting 866 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,120 Speaker 1: thrown out of the rub for something that you really 867 00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,040 Speaker 1: haven't done wrong. But actually, I need to take a 868 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:12,239 Speaker 1: second and pause us here because this is where I 869 00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:15,000 Speaker 1: want to redirect this so far. I want to break 870 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:18,400 Speaker 1: down what we've said. We've said that both of these 871 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:23,359 Speaker 1: are hard to root for. Um luke P has not 872 00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,279 Speaker 1: handled himself well and this could be detrimental long term, 873 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:29,040 Speaker 1: and Lucas is acting childish. Now that's why I want 874 00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:30,640 Speaker 1: to pause this because I want us to be very 875 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,240 Speaker 1: careful because this is the other moment that we reckonize 876 00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:36,160 Speaker 1: that I recognize during this. What I love again about 877 00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,399 Speaker 1: doing Almost Famous podcast is that we can break down 878 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 1: these episodes and break down these people in these scenarios. Right. 879 00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:43,440 Speaker 1: We want to find as viewers were fans, we want 880 00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,880 Speaker 1: to find out what's happening. I think there was a 881 00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:51,640 Speaker 1: moment during while watching this that I started to feel 882 00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,919 Speaker 1: like we need to be very careful again because this 883 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,759 Speaker 1: is this is detrimental long term to looke P. This 884 00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:00,799 Speaker 1: almost felt it feels weird now for me, and I 885 00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,200 Speaker 1: don't want to see him mess up anymore. Like this 886 00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,279 Speaker 1: was at first, you know, it's kind of like Cam, 887 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 1: Like we watch and we're like, oh, Cam seems like 888 00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:10,399 Speaker 1: a nice guy, but he's he's just not doing it right, 889 00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,080 Speaker 1: and he's saying things that are absolutely ridiculous, and he's 890 00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:17,040 Speaker 1: his behavior is unwarranted and weird, but he's he's probably 891 00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:19,680 Speaker 1: he's gonna be fine, Like people are gonna laugh in 892 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,520 Speaker 1: a little bit, but he's fine. There was a moment 893 00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,399 Speaker 1: watching this that I I don't want to see Luke 894 00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:28,960 Speaker 1: P mess up anymore because it's it's it's hard for 895 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,879 Speaker 1: me to watch somebody's life get blown up on this show, 896 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 1: and it feels like it's getting really close to that, 897 00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 1: and I'm scared that this this show is no longer 898 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:40,880 Speaker 1: just fun and games and something that you could possibly 899 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,960 Speaker 1: meet somebody you could. You don't that this will last 900 00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:45,600 Speaker 1: a long time and it could be really hard for 901 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:49,160 Speaker 1: him for for his mental health. You don't want to see. 902 00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 1: I don't know how he stayed. I don't I don't 903 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,880 Speaker 1: know how he is mentally, but I do know that 904 00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,480 Speaker 1: this this. If I was Luke, I would be struggling 905 00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:58,320 Speaker 1: right now. And I think we need to be careful 906 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,160 Speaker 1: as viewers. And his face ends no matter where you're 907 00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:03,960 Speaker 1: at out there of what we say on Twitter. I mean, 908 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,520 Speaker 1: every week this guy has been trending and it's never 909 00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:10,359 Speaker 1: been for a good thing. I got two questions for you, 910 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:15,120 Speaker 1: m should Hannah have gotten like an instant replay of 911 00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,320 Speaker 1: what happened out on the field because she didn't see 912 00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:21,239 Speaker 1: this collision because there wasn't like I mean, we we 913 00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 1: do have the benefit of being on TV, but I 914 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,799 Speaker 1: don't think you could ever. I don't think the show 915 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 1: can start incorporating that into Okay, Hannah, you missed this, 916 00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 1: but here you go. I don't think we can because 917 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:35,239 Speaker 1: it brings to it would allow then what happens when 918 00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:38,440 Speaker 1: there's an argument that the Bachelor bachet doesn't see but 919 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:40,000 Speaker 1: they know is going on, and then what stops the 920 00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,319 Speaker 1: Bachelor bachelor from being well watch it. You guys have 921 00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,480 Speaker 1: been videotaping it, So I don't think so, I think 922 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:47,880 Speaker 1: it would. Yeah, it's gonna answer to that question. And secondly, 923 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:51,000 Speaker 1: Luke p said, I'm going to fight for Hannah. I 924 00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,239 Speaker 1: refused to quit. I'll never quit on her. When he 925 00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,839 Speaker 1: says I'm going to fight for Hannah, Like, do you 926 00:48:56,880 --> 00:49:00,239 Speaker 1: believe that a guy should like physically he was like 927 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:05,319 Speaker 1: physically fighting, like the physical battle one would win her 928 00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,960 Speaker 1: over in any capacity. Yeah, I don't know where he's 929 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,839 Speaker 1: getting his his insight from, but yeah, that no, Like 930 00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:14,839 Speaker 1: I don't think I actually have not dated anybody that 931 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:20,759 Speaker 1: has believed that unwarranted fighting is attractive. But it also 932 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,680 Speaker 1: I think, and what she probably was telling him last 933 00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:28,160 Speaker 1: week is a relationship is not about one side fighting 934 00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:30,759 Speaker 1: for the other. It's a partnership, right, I mean, ultimately 935 00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:33,400 Speaker 1: both sides are working together to figure out if this 936 00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 1: is going to be something that's mutually beneficial for for 937 00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,640 Speaker 1: the team that you're creating. It's not one side fighting 938 00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:43,040 Speaker 1: to win a love like at that point, it's there's 939 00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:45,360 Speaker 1: no relationships, Like makes it seem like he's just in 940 00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,439 Speaker 1: this for the competition. But then last week I said, 941 00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:48,920 Speaker 1: it doesn't even seem like he's in it for the 942 00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:52,080 Speaker 1: competition because once he's losing, he wants to just back 943 00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:56,439 Speaker 1: out and quit. So he's a bad competitor. And we're 944 00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:59,200 Speaker 1: seeing that. I think actually, I think this is one 945 00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:02,840 Speaker 1: of the first time times in a long time that 946 00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:09,640 Speaker 1: I've watched a season and it was interesting Jess. So 947 00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,840 Speaker 1: I was voicing this to Jess last night, and I 948 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 1: was like, why am I so like almost sad for 949 00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:19,919 Speaker 1: this guy? Like I'm sad, like because I don't want 950 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 1: to I've learned enough on this show, and you've learned 951 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:26,000 Speaker 1: we've talked about it to be slow to judge, and 952 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:30,000 Speaker 1: Jess goes, then you need to talk to him because 953 00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:34,840 Speaker 1: I haven't called him because he makes me angry. But 954 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,360 Speaker 1: I also know that when typically when somebody makes me angry, 955 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:41,120 Speaker 1: there's a reason why. That's either I'm insecure about or 956 00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:43,239 Speaker 1: that there's a legit reason why I need to like 957 00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:48,400 Speaker 1: get it out of him. And it's selfishly where I'm going. 958 00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:50,480 Speaker 1: And I think a lot of the country's going looke Pe, 959 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:52,439 Speaker 1: Why are you being this. We're good looking dude, man, 960 00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:55,160 Speaker 1: and you want to do what's right, You want to 961 00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:58,319 Speaker 1: do what's best when you're calm and collected, your your 962 00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:01,080 Speaker 1: intentions are good. It's when you you have this all 963 00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:03,840 Speaker 1: of a sudden, this reactionary moment, and things get heated 964 00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:08,800 Speaker 1: and you say things that just aren't healthy for anybody. 965 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:14,680 Speaker 1: I mean, at one point during this show is he 966 00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,719 Speaker 1: sits down with Hannah after a long week and he goes, 967 00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:18,400 Speaker 1: I know this week has been hard for you, but 968 00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:21,120 Speaker 1: it's been hard for me also, and I'm like, just 969 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,880 Speaker 1: make it about her for So that's where on this 970 00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:28,319 Speaker 1: whole thing, ash Um, I'm just encouraging all of our 971 00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:32,280 Speaker 1: listeners to continue to engage in their relationship, to continue 972 00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,640 Speaker 1: to tweak at the small words like that and say, oh, 973 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:37,400 Speaker 1: he could have said that better. But also let's be 974 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:41,319 Speaker 1: careful to how we react to general statements about Luke 975 00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:44,560 Speaker 1: p that we don't know yet. Because he is a human, 976 00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:49,200 Speaker 1: he's a real person. He joined the show to allow 977 00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 1: us all to be entertained by him. We just need 978 00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:57,880 Speaker 1: to be careful, myself included, definitely myself included on what internally, 979 00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:00,640 Speaker 1: how we're judging him as a as a person. We 980 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,000 Speaker 1: let's let's wait till we get to meet Lupi a 981 00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:06,719 Speaker 1: little bit more, um, which is typically either in paradise 982 00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:08,920 Speaker 1: or post show, or if he's with Hannah, we get 983 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,440 Speaker 1: to meet him, you know, as they're doing press. But 984 00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:17,360 Speaker 1: it feels heavy right now, I would I can't imagine Ashley. 985 00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:20,520 Speaker 1: If I was on this show and three weeks straight 986 00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:22,839 Speaker 1: I was trending because of negative things, yeah, I would 987 00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 1: be really hard, Like, I don't know how I would 988 00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:29,480 Speaker 1: handle that. You gotta go hide. I was actually thinking 989 00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:35,239 Speaker 1: about us saying unflattering things here with Lukes, because I 990 00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:39,280 Speaker 1: believe Luke s said something on Twitter this week about 991 00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:43,040 Speaker 1: how like he thinks it's obnoxious for the alums to 992 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:47,440 Speaker 1: speak negatively towards the current contestants. He's like something about 993 00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:52,480 Speaker 1: like has Been's talking about him? Really, I didn't like it. No, 994 00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:57,920 Speaker 1: I'd take a vice to that. I like, that's his podcast. 995 00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 1: I can't find it. I was trying to find a tweet. 996 00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:05,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean what I would say to that, if, if, 997 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,839 Speaker 1: if anybody did say that is that's where we break 998 00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:10,080 Speaker 1: down the podcast, just like reilor fans. Now, of course 999 00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:13,799 Speaker 1: where has Been's we get that, uh, but where has Beens? Uh? 1000 00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:17,920 Speaker 1: That still around and and still would support you and 1001 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:20,520 Speaker 1: probably know more about this franchise than you do, and 1002 00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:23,920 Speaker 1: probably allow you a platform to come into you ever 1003 00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,400 Speaker 1: got in trouble, if you ever got in trouble to 1004 00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:32,520 Speaker 1: explain yourself, We're open place for um. Hey. Anyways, I 1005 00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:34,480 Speaker 1: want to hear from you, the listeners, actually wants to 1006 00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,520 Speaker 1: hear from you, the listeners. What was your breakdown of 1007 00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:39,520 Speaker 1: this week's episode. Was it heavy, was it sad? Was 1008 00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:42,880 Speaker 1: it encouraging? What did you learn? Um? What did you 1009 00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:46,759 Speaker 1: take away from it? Uh? And does the Luke situation 1010 00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:53,840 Speaker 1: feel as confusing and unsettling as we're making it sound today? 1011 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:56,400 Speaker 1: I don't know any other ways Confusingly, it's hard to 1012 00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,520 Speaker 1: recap even because it's like he said this, and then 1013 00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:01,000 Speaker 1: she said this, and then that other that p said this, 1014 00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:02,840 Speaker 1: and that the Lucas said this, and then Luke he 1015 00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:05,320 Speaker 1: said this and then she said that, and it is hard. 1016 00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:07,640 Speaker 1: I think the one part that we didn't mention that 1017 00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:09,719 Speaker 1: really just made my jaw drop and I want to 1018 00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:13,200 Speaker 1: bring up before we move on was when he was like, 1019 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:15,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go tell her that you are here for 1020 00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:18,319 Speaker 1: the right reasons, and then he goes and tells him, 1021 00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:22,680 Speaker 1: goes and tells Hannah. So Lucas wanted me to come 1022 00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:25,680 Speaker 1: here and tell you that I think he's here for 1023 00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:29,200 Speaker 1: the right reasons, but I really don't. Yeah, not good again. 1024 00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:31,680 Speaker 1: It was just it was like, why are you doing 1025 00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:34,880 Speaker 1: to yourself and and all that is fine, like he 1026 00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 1: could do those things that we could sit here and 1027 00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,440 Speaker 1: say why did you say that? And again this this 1028 00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,680 Speaker 1: episode for the first time has to me when this 1029 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,840 Speaker 1: took we took it too far. Like now it's starting 1030 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:48,240 Speaker 1: to become detrimental. Saying weird stuff and acting in weird ways. 1031 00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:52,480 Speaker 1: Is uh, it's fine and will pass. But this episode 1032 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:54,080 Speaker 1: to me felt like it could be dutrimen a long 1033 00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:56,919 Speaker 1: term and I want that. But yeah, super confusing, really 1034 00:54:56,960 --> 00:55:00,600 Speaker 1: hard to break down, really doesn't make much since to 1035 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:03,560 Speaker 1: either of us at all. So the question then is 1036 00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:08,239 Speaker 1: for you the viewers listeners, what happens next week? Can 1037 00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:10,760 Speaker 1: you wait to see next Monday? Who will go home? 1038 00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:15,239 Speaker 1: What are your predictions? And Ashley before removing to the 1039 00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:18,799 Speaker 1: final segment of this podcast, what are your predictions? Who 1040 00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,960 Speaker 1: goes home? Ditions? Yeah, this is our first cliffhanger of 1041 00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:26,880 Speaker 1: the season. 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It's free to use an easy 1126 01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:06,800 Speaker 1: to install on your computer and just two clicks. So 1127 01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:10,680 Speaker 1: shop with confidence, Ashley, go out there and shop a 1128 01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:14,080 Speaker 1: little bit. Get Honey for free at joint Honey dot 1129 01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:20,720 Speaker 1: com backslash famous. That's joint Honey dot com backslash famous Honey, 1130 01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:24,919 Speaker 1: the smart shopping assistant that saves you time and money 1131 01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:30,160 Speaker 1: when shopping online. Alright, Ashley, I have a stack. I 1132 01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:32,840 Speaker 1: don't know how many here, twenty emails. I only we 1133 01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:36,320 Speaker 1: can go through them all. I'm sifting through them right now. Okay, 1134 01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:41,320 Speaker 1: pick your favorites. And as you pick your favorites, I'm 1135 01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:44,439 Speaker 1: gonna pick mine and then we'll read them to each other. 1136 01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:50,160 Speaker 1: Here's uh, here's a few updates, Ashley. Um, in my life, 1137 01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:53,880 Speaker 1: I'm doing my my second wedding this weekend. Oh my goodness. 1138 01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:55,880 Speaker 1: Oh I ran into one of the people that you're 1139 01:00:55,880 --> 01:01:01,640 Speaker 1: doing a wedding for on my block. They and Trevor. Yeah, Brandon, 1140 01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:03,840 Speaker 1: Trevor lived next to you. I'm sorry to interrupt, Bend. 1141 01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:08,440 Speaker 1: This is breaking news. I have breaking news. Your cousin nephew, 1142 01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:11,200 Speaker 1: Philip Clark, was born Mike. No, no, no, no. My 1143 01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:15,040 Speaker 1: girlfriend's brother. Your girlfriend's brother is the Toronto Blue Jay. 1144 01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:21,280 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's the second time and uh college, Wow, 1145 01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:24,120 Speaker 1: they took him again in the ninth round. Philip Clark 1146 01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:26,440 Speaker 1: from Vanderbilt University is a catcher. He is such a 1147 01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:29,640 Speaker 1: good dude. I don't know how the draft works necessarily, 1148 01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:31,120 Speaker 1: so I don't know if he's going back to school, 1149 01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:32,560 Speaker 1: if he's going to go pro. I don't. I don't 1150 01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:34,240 Speaker 1: know the inside of this. All I know is this 1151 01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:37,680 Speaker 1: dude's a study. He hit the s eh C Championship 1152 01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:41,439 Speaker 1: game winning hit to move them on and now they're 1153 01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:45,959 Speaker 1: moving on to the super Regional at Vandabilt University against Duke. Uh. 1154 01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:47,960 Speaker 1: That starts the seventh of June, so make sure you 1155 01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:50,240 Speaker 1: check it out. It's gonna be on TV. He's the catcher. 1156 01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:55,720 Speaker 1: Philip Clark is an absolute beast. He's a monster. Um, 1157 01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:58,360 Speaker 1: you were stressed about the draft, and there is thank 1158 01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:04,760 Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Okay, Well, hey, playing the MLB. To 1159 01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:07,960 Speaker 1: be drafted must be cool. You're right to be wanted. 1160 01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:14,040 Speaker 1: It must be nice. Um. The breaking news leads us 1161 01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:16,800 Speaker 1: now to say that. Yeah, so I'm doing this wedding 1162 01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:21,160 Speaker 1: festival in Denver, Colorado, uh, September one. It's a festival 1163 01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:25,320 Speaker 1: where Tin couples get married at one time. Um, I'm 1164 01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:27,800 Speaker 1: gonna be doing the wedding. I'm officiating the wedding, and 1165 01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:31,120 Speaker 1: then the reception is a food and music festival, like 1166 01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:34,000 Speaker 1: a legit f music music festival, where everybody is a 1167 01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:36,680 Speaker 1: joint reception, so everybody gets a celebrated together. It's a 1168 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,960 Speaker 1: massive festival. It's a huge celebration and I'm one of 1169 01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:42,840 Speaker 1: the three creators of it, and it's gonna be launching, 1170 01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:45,040 Speaker 1: I'm hope and to do all across the country. But yeah, 1171 01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:46,560 Speaker 1: one of your neighbors I just found out I had 1172 01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:50,760 Speaker 1: breakfast with them, is in the festival. Yeah, they're ready. 1173 01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:52,880 Speaker 1: They said, they see you walking the dog or Jared 1174 01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:55,640 Speaker 1: walking the dog. Jared, they always see Jared walking the dogs. Yeah, 1175 01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:58,640 Speaker 1: how cool is that? Anyways, Um, that's going on in 1176 01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:00,240 Speaker 1: my life. And I'm also going to Vague US this 1177 01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:04,840 Speaker 1: weekend to officiate a renewal vows mark you're married, East 1178 01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:07,600 Speaker 1: and you're married or have you ever gotten your vows renewed? No, 1179 01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:10,240 Speaker 1: my parents did. In fact, it was it was twenty 1180 01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:13,000 Speaker 1: years ago, yesterday, everything something like that. They got their 1181 01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:15,240 Speaker 1: vows in New in Las Vegas. It was a beautiful thing. Oh, 1182 01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:16,919 Speaker 1: I have thoughts on this, but I want to hear 1183 01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:21,000 Speaker 1: about Easton. I mean, we're not at two years yet, 1184 01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:23,080 Speaker 1: but we're thinking about think about renewing it just to 1185 01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:25,520 Speaker 1: keep it shining. You know, what do you think about 1186 01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:28,160 Speaker 1: renewing vows? Then? I think it's I think it's really 1187 01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,400 Speaker 1: a cool thing. After a few years. I mean, I've 1188 01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:32,440 Speaker 1: been in a couple of long term relationships and no 1189 01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:36,960 Speaker 1: matter how healthy they are, like the luster kind of 1190 01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:39,200 Speaker 1: fades a little bit. I think, like and and you 1191 01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:42,320 Speaker 1: need a new reason to kind of spark the relationship 1192 01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:45,400 Speaker 1: or just something exciting to happen, right, Like, once you 1193 01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:48,040 Speaker 1: kind of have kids, you're living vicariously through them, and 1194 01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:50,160 Speaker 1: it's because you're getting a really good routine and that's 1195 01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:52,880 Speaker 1: kind of how you survive and thrive. But then I 1196 01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:55,720 Speaker 1: think a renewal is kind of that like new I 1197 01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:57,240 Speaker 1: think it would be really cool to do once the 1198 01:03:57,360 --> 01:04:00,360 Speaker 1: kids leave the house. So, like, you know, there space 1199 01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:03,480 Speaker 1: for couples once their kids leave the house is very 1200 01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:06,160 Speaker 1: high because now they have to focus on each other again. 1201 01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:09,760 Speaker 1: How cool would it be if Uh, as soon as 1202 01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:11,520 Speaker 1: the kids left house, you put a stake in the ground. 1203 01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:14,720 Speaker 1: You said, Okay, now it's time for us again, or 1204 01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:16,840 Speaker 1: now it's time for us to remember each other and 1205 01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:18,760 Speaker 1: what we have. So I think it's a cool thing. 1206 01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:20,000 Speaker 1: I just think it has to be done in the 1207 01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:22,280 Speaker 1: right time. That period of time when the kids go 1208 01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:26,360 Speaker 1: to school is usually when their bond is either strengthened 1209 01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:30,720 Speaker 1: or broken. My parents got, I think, just by observation, 1210 01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:33,840 Speaker 1: strengthened at that time. Now that they were ever not good, 1211 01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:37,160 Speaker 1: they were always great. I never really witnessed a fight, 1212 01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:40,040 Speaker 1: but I think that they, like it, became even more 1213 01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:44,080 Speaker 1: obsessed and ugly about each other after we like officially 1214 01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:45,840 Speaker 1: kind of left a couple, like i'd say, like five 1215 01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:48,680 Speaker 1: years ago. But my mom is always ingrained in me, 1216 01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:51,720 Speaker 1: and this is her opinion. But now I've taken it 1217 01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:56,200 Speaker 1: on as my own that if you were new your vows, 1218 01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:59,360 Speaker 1: like something happened to make you need to review renew 1219 01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:05,520 Speaker 1: the vows, like there was infidelity. Especially. I don't think 1220 01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:07,240 Speaker 1: that was the case with my parents, but who knows. Yeah, 1221 01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:09,640 Speaker 1: it's not the case with everyone, of course not. But 1222 01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:12,680 Speaker 1: I think that normally there must have been some sort 1223 01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:14,920 Speaker 1: of uneasiness for them to be like, Okay, let's like 1224 01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,760 Speaker 1: remember that we're married again. And what marriage is all about. 1225 01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:23,000 Speaker 1: So I'm pretty pumped for I'm excited, uh and Ashley. 1226 01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 1: Before we dive into your favorite emails, I did find 1227 01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:28,560 Speaker 1: a tweet from Luke Stone. It says those ex Bachelor 1228 01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:31,720 Speaker 1: people commenting negatively on us remind me of those kids 1229 01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:34,720 Speaker 1: from high school that ten years ago, ten years later 1230 01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:37,440 Speaker 1: still talk about how awesome they supposedly were at football. 1231 01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:40,000 Speaker 1: My coming back to you, Luke would be, it's not 1232 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:43,959 Speaker 1: all negative. We like a lot of the contestants, um 1233 01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:47,720 Speaker 1: actually most of them are. It is positive when you 1234 01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:50,800 Speaker 1: know we were big fans. If I'd say ninety five 1235 01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:53,200 Speaker 1: percent of the people on this season, yeah, there's just 1236 01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:55,680 Speaker 1: lit like two or three that we have bad things set. 1237 01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:58,160 Speaker 1: And I would also like to say that, Luke, there's 1238 01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:00,720 Speaker 1: a whole there's a whole industry built around this. Oh 1239 01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:02,960 Speaker 1: so if you don't want people stop, if you want 1240 01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:05,480 Speaker 1: people to stop talking about it, well then you just 1241 01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:07,520 Speaker 1: might want to find a new show to go on 1242 01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:10,000 Speaker 1: because the show would no longer last. So with that, 1243 01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:14,080 Speaker 1: um Man, I don't have anything really negative to say 1244 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:15,640 Speaker 1: about you. Other thn. I thought it was childish what 1245 01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:18,000 Speaker 1: you did with Luke p But I hope next week 1246 01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:19,800 Speaker 1: you redeem yourself and you're right back at it. We 1247 01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:22,800 Speaker 1: wish you the best, um, and most of the time 1248 01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:25,520 Speaker 1: we like to just celebrate the love stories being created. 1249 01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:28,840 Speaker 1: All Right, I got an email here for you. This 1250 01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:32,280 Speaker 1: is from Casey. Always Be My Baby is the title, 1251 01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:33,880 Speaker 1: and I love that because it is one of my 1252 01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:39,360 Speaker 1: favorite movies out there right now, and probably questionably my 1253 01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:43,280 Speaker 1: favorite chick flick since like two ten, since something Borrowed. 1254 01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:45,520 Speaker 1: I keep saying two thousand ten because it's something borrowed 1255 01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:47,600 Speaker 1: came out then, and I can watch it all the time. 1256 01:06:47,840 --> 01:06:50,000 Speaker 1: Whenever it's on, I click it. But Always Be My 1257 01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:55,439 Speaker 1: Maybe is now out on Netflix and it is so good, 1258 01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:59,120 Speaker 1: you guys. If you like romantic comedies, it's a must. 1259 01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,160 Speaker 1: So the email from Casey goes like this. I loved 1260 01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:06,000 Speaker 1: Ashley and Jared's promo for Always My Maybe. During tonight's 1261 01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:10,000 Speaker 1: episode of The Bachelorette, I saw the Twitter that Sarah 1262 01:07:10,000 --> 01:07:13,479 Speaker 1: Silverman is throwing her support behind Randall Park, the lead 1263 01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:17,560 Speaker 1: in the movie being People's Sexiest Man Alive this Year, 1264 01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:21,240 Speaker 1: which comes out in November. My question for Ashley now is, 1265 01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:23,360 Speaker 1: now that you've met him, do you think he deserves 1266 01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:26,200 Speaker 1: this title? Okay, well, maybe not the sexiest man alive, 1267 01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:31,160 Speaker 1: but he definitely deserves a picture in that list of men. 1268 01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:35,720 Speaker 1: He is hilarious and his character in the movie is 1269 01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:40,360 Speaker 1: extremely endearing. Um Not only does the title always be 1270 01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:45,600 Speaker 1: my maybe obviously allude to Jared and in my relationship 1271 01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:47,520 Speaker 1: because we were just like, it's it gonna happen. It's 1272 01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:49,840 Speaker 1: not gonna hapens happen, It's not gonna happen. The actual 1273 01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:54,080 Speaker 1: issues between Ali um Ali and Randall's character in the 1274 01:07:54,120 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 1: movie is very similar to the issues that Jared and 1275 01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:59,160 Speaker 1: I have had to overcome. Is it a good movie? 1276 01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:03,880 Speaker 1: It's listening to me, I have like, how good? No, 1277 01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:06,240 Speaker 1: it's really good. And Jared is very you know, he 1278 01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:10,400 Speaker 1: thinks he's a critic. Yeah, he watches movies through like 1279 01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:15,840 Speaker 1: a critic's microscope. And he loved it. And the Kiano 1280 01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:21,080 Speaker 1: Reeves cameo is hysterical. Keana Reeves sat two rows in 1281 01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:24,559 Speaker 1: front of us at the premiere and Jared was seeking 1282 01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:28,400 Speaker 1: out I'm pumped to watch it. I saw. I was 1283 01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:31,080 Speaker 1: updating as I was scrolling through stuff, trying to stay 1284 01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:34,120 Speaker 1: relevant on hot topics to always be my maybe promo. 1285 01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:35,800 Speaker 1: I'm in on it. I have a senior. I have 1286 01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:39,240 Speaker 1: zero to comment, but I looked up that Randall guy. 1287 01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:41,559 Speaker 1: I mean, I could see it's very cute, and I 1288 01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:44,080 Speaker 1: can see it. I was a big fan of Fresh 1289 01:08:44,120 --> 01:08:46,479 Speaker 1: Off the Boat, which he was in. Yeah, I think 1290 01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:49,400 Speaker 1: it's actually renewed. Yeah, so big fan of it. I 1291 01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:52,800 Speaker 1: guess I should say, um, all right, here we go. 1292 01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:55,759 Speaker 1: Next the email. One of our favorites Bebiana. I'm obsessed 1293 01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:59,280 Speaker 1: with Beyond. It says beautiful and with such good vibes. 1294 01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:01,120 Speaker 1: Can we get en up ate on her? Did she 1295 01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:03,439 Speaker 1: break up with her boyfriend? If so, is she going 1296 01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:09,280 Speaker 1: to Bachelor in Paradise? Um? I think she's going to 1297 01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:11,479 Speaker 1: go to Bachelor in Paradise. I would assume. I have 1298 01:09:11,560 --> 01:09:15,240 Speaker 1: no idea, but I just feel like Babiana has to 1299 01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:17,200 Speaker 1: be there. I think that she deserves it. I think 1300 01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:19,639 Speaker 1: every time she goes on one of these shows. Yeah, 1301 01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:21,960 Speaker 1: she's stuck around long in Winter Games, but I think, 1302 01:09:21,960 --> 01:09:25,840 Speaker 1: like the other times between Ari Season and Last Paradise, 1303 01:09:25,960 --> 01:09:27,960 Speaker 1: she doesn't stay around nearly as much as the fan 1304 01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:31,760 Speaker 1: base wants her to. So if she is single right now, 1305 01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:35,280 Speaker 1: I ex actually just expect to. Baba is one of 1306 01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:38,639 Speaker 1: those people we talked very positively about Oh, absolutely nothing negative. 1307 01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:44,479 Speaker 1: There's nothing negative to say. Really big fan of Bibiana anyways, 1308 01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:49,719 Speaker 1: me too. Favorite ask from Tiffany says, my best friend 1309 01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:51,759 Speaker 1: Aaron is moving from Ellie to Nashville at the beginning 1310 01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:53,760 Speaker 1: of July to start a new job at a church 1311 01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:56,920 Speaker 1: in Nashville. She's a huge Bachelor fan and two of 1312 01:09:56,920 --> 01:10:01,080 Speaker 1: her favorite people from the franchise are Been and Ashley. 1313 01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:04,040 Speaker 1: That's sweet. Every time we get together, we always spend 1314 01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:05,920 Speaker 1: time recapping what you guys talked about on the almost 1315 01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:08,519 Speaker 1: famous podcast. I wanted to see if it might be 1316 01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:10,800 Speaker 1: possible to have Been or Ashley record a quick video 1317 01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:13,599 Speaker 1: that we might be able to surprise her with at 1318 01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:16,160 Speaker 1: a goodbye party that we're throwing for her at the 1319 01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:18,880 Speaker 1: end of June. It would mean the world to her. Yes, Ashton, 1320 01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:20,360 Speaker 1: I will do that at the end of the podcast. 1321 01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:23,080 Speaker 1: Will make sure it gets to you. But if for 1322 01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:28,120 Speaker 1: some reason it doesn't, well. Also, uh, Aaron, you're here 1323 01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:31,640 Speaker 1: getting shouted out on the almost Samos podcast. Yeah. I 1324 01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:34,559 Speaker 1: don't know what's better, video from us or a nice 1325 01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:37,519 Speaker 1: little shut out on this almost serious podcast. Aaron. Also 1326 01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:40,360 Speaker 1: from Ashley myself, good luck and have fun moving to Nashville, 1327 01:10:40,400 --> 01:10:42,280 Speaker 1: an amazing city that I spent a ton of time in. 1328 01:10:42,800 --> 01:10:45,280 Speaker 1: You're gonna have a blast. We're wishing the best, but 1329 01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:48,560 Speaker 1: also shoot your video very soon, Ashley. What do you have? 1330 01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:52,360 Speaker 1: I got this one from Jeremy that says where all 1331 01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:56,040 Speaker 1: the good looking bald men actually on the topic of 1332 01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:59,479 Speaker 1: Randall park in the promo, which Jared and I could 1333 01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:01,600 Speaker 1: not feel leave they kept in the always be My 1334 01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:05,720 Speaker 1: Maybe Bachelorette promo. Um, I was like, so, what's your thing? 1335 01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:08,200 Speaker 1: What's gonna make you stand out amongst everybody else in 1336 01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:09,920 Speaker 1: the cast if you were to do the bachelor of 1337 01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:12,920 Speaker 1: the Bachelorette even though they're both married, and Randall goes, 1338 01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:17,639 Speaker 1: I'm an Asian man, And we taved a few different 1339 01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:20,640 Speaker 1: versions of that. We basically add lived the entire commercial 1340 01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:24,519 Speaker 1: with like some guidelines and he just was so hung 1341 01:11:24,600 --> 01:11:26,400 Speaker 1: up on saying that, and Jared and I got a 1342 01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:28,479 Speaker 1: kick out of it. But of course we had to 1343 01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:31,280 Speaker 1: record something else just in case like that wasn't approved, 1344 01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:34,040 Speaker 1: and they approved it. We were so happy. So now 1345 01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:36,000 Speaker 1: we're going to talk about not only where all the 1346 01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:38,639 Speaker 1: good looking Asian men are, but what about the good 1347 01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:42,200 Speaker 1: looking bald men? So Jeremy says, I'm a forty one 1348 01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:44,880 Speaker 1: year old male living with my wife and two kids 1349 01:11:44,920 --> 01:11:48,240 Speaker 1: in Montana. We're a huge Bachelor and Bachelorette fans. As 1350 01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:52,120 Speaker 1: a bald man, I can appreciate the Bachelorette contestants with nice, 1351 01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:55,519 Speaker 1: flowing locks of hair, and as nice as that is, 1352 01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:58,320 Speaker 1: why is it that we never see any bald Caucasian 1353 01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:01,680 Speaker 1: men as content since on the Bachelorette. There's a lot 1354 01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:04,120 Speaker 1: of good looking baldmin out there and we deserve a chance. 1355 01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:07,360 Speaker 1: I agree. I mean, there's so many baldmin out there. 1356 01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:11,640 Speaker 1: Why not? I can't answer that question. And then the 1357 01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:17,760 Speaker 1: fact that most baldmin are probably not applying for the Bachelor, right, 1358 01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:21,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't haven't seen the casting photos. 1359 01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:23,160 Speaker 1: It'd be great if they were right. You can't even 1360 01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:25,560 Speaker 1: really see many receiving Matt on the show. No, a 1361 01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:27,599 Speaker 1: nice guy with a horseshoe on top of his head, 1362 01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:31,560 Speaker 1: coming on, confident and strong. Why not? Maybe because I 1363 01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:34,000 Speaker 1: don't let them wear hats and like so many guys 1364 01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:37,080 Speaker 1: who are receiving just addicted to their hats. Yeah, I 1365 01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:44,599 Speaker 1: would agree, who knows, let's talk to casting. Absolutely ridiculous, Hey, um, 1366 01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:46,880 Speaker 1: What a weird episode of Almost Famous podcast for a 1367 01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:50,240 Speaker 1: couple of reasons. Uh, one is actually in our live 1368 01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:52,200 Speaker 1: in studio in l A. And we typically love that. 1369 01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:54,880 Speaker 1: But I thought this episode was probably going to be 1370 01:12:54,920 --> 01:12:56,840 Speaker 1: the hardest to break down. Yeah, it was just a 1371 01:12:56,840 --> 01:12:58,960 Speaker 1: hard episode to break down, which just doesn't make a 1372 01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:00,800 Speaker 1: lot of said. She's said, it's like and then then 1373 01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,240 Speaker 1: it come to a conclusion. So like when we were 1374 01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:04,759 Speaker 1: like talking about things, we don't know how it plays 1375 01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:08,679 Speaker 1: out that, so we did it. We hope you're enjoying 1376 01:13:08,720 --> 01:13:11,799 Speaker 1: this season, Ashley, just like we do every week before 1377 01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:17,599 Speaker 1: we go who your top three? Tyler Ce, Jed and Peter? 1378 01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:27,240 Speaker 1: And then Grade three tyler Ce h Grant. I love 1379 01:13:27,280 --> 01:13:29,960 Speaker 1: that dude. He's like forty year old uncle hanging out 1380 01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:35,800 Speaker 1: the party. Uh, Tyler Ce Grant and Peter I think 1381 01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:39,360 Speaker 1: are my favorites right now? And then what's your great 1382 01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:42,720 Speaker 1: on Hannah? My hand great on Hannah is now? Well 1383 01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:44,679 Speaker 1: it's an A. It's a nice so it's gone upper 1384 01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:48,000 Speaker 1: down up from a minus. It's an A minus. Um, 1385 01:13:48,080 --> 01:13:53,240 Speaker 1: Can I just say that. I also appreciated Garrett this episode, 1386 01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:56,680 Speaker 1: and I think he's been overlooked. Wow, big statement. I 1387 01:13:56,680 --> 01:13:58,559 Speaker 1: don't think that he's going to make Top four or anything, 1388 01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:00,960 Speaker 1: but I think that he is a good catch and 1389 01:14:01,000 --> 01:14:03,400 Speaker 1: I think he'll find make somebody happy in Paradise. Yeah, 1390 01:14:03,439 --> 01:14:05,280 Speaker 1: I think he's a good Paradise contestant. I would say 1391 01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:07,439 Speaker 1: Hannah be stuck about the same issue was last week 1392 01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:10,920 Speaker 1: nothing either way for me. This week I didn't. It 1393 01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:14,719 Speaker 1: comes up to an a for me because consistency. Yeah, 1394 01:14:14,720 --> 01:14:17,880 Speaker 1: honestly my breakdown of this and I'm sure I hope 1395 01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:21,000 Speaker 1: Lucas is listening. Um, it kind of feels like it's tweet, 1396 01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:22,920 Speaker 1: like there was nothing for us to say on this 1397 01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:25,120 Speaker 1: podcast other than negative things, because it just felt like 1398 01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:30,480 Speaker 1: the whole the whole episode highlighted these contestants bad reactions 1399 01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:33,439 Speaker 1: to a really difficult scenario, and so the only way 1400 01:14:33,479 --> 01:14:35,919 Speaker 1: to break down the episode was to highlight the negatives 1401 01:14:35,920 --> 01:14:39,040 Speaker 1: that were said and done and lies and miss feelings 1402 01:14:39,160 --> 01:14:42,080 Speaker 1: and and rage and those things. And for so for me, 1403 01:14:42,120 --> 01:14:44,479 Speaker 1: I don't love those type of episodes because the only 1404 01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:46,240 Speaker 1: positives came out of like the Tyler c date and 1405 01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:48,160 Speaker 1: the jet day. But then half the episode was just 1406 01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:50,800 Speaker 1: highlighting this group date in the few between the Luke's 1407 01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:52,640 Speaker 1: and the few between the Luke's I mean, look at 1408 01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:54,479 Speaker 1: Instagram and Twitter. The only thing that came out of 1409 01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:57,000 Speaker 1: it was negativity on the behalf of the masses. And 1410 01:14:57,040 --> 01:14:59,559 Speaker 1: there isn't really a good way to positively spin that 1411 01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:02,439 Speaker 1: other than and say, let's be slow to judge it, 1412 01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:05,640 Speaker 1: really slow to judge on all of these contestants at 1413 01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:09,719 Speaker 1: this point, because it feels heavy, and so Luke s again, 1414 01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:13,679 Speaker 1: if you're out there listening, we're giving you some patience, 1415 01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:17,519 Speaker 1: We're giving you some some peace until next week when 1416 01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:20,000 Speaker 1: we break you down once again. 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