WEBVTT - Funky Town

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love dating niggas who naturally smell good. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>the niggas that I've been in serious situations with, they

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<v Speaker 1>always just naturally smell really good.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, the breath. Breath is a big thing.

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<v Speaker 1>The breath, the armpits. Like, I've never, a man that

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in a relationship with, I've never, like, smelled them.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, of course, on, like, a drunken night. We

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<v Speaker 1>all be drinking. Yeah, you got that Henny breath. You

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<v Speaker 1>got that Don Julio acting a foolio.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I done had a little burger or two.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so it be like that sometimes. But I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about just normally, naturally. Like, I never have smelt they breath.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never smelt they armpits. I've never smelt they balls.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, me neither.

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<v Speaker 1>How girls be like, niggas booties be musty. Why is

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<v Speaker 1>your man booty musty?

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<v Speaker 2>And if I'm that close to the balls, I'm holding

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<v Speaker 2>my breath. You are? Yeah, girl. I don't be wanting

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<v Speaker 2>to smell that.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to be sniffing it? Mm-mm.

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<v Speaker 2>I will stretch that skin out and put it on

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<v Speaker 2>my face. Okay, I'm going to try it next time.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to do it just like that, too. Y'all

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<v Speaker 2>know how people do them things? They put their face

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<v Speaker 2>through it? That's me with that bald skin.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, my goodness.

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<v Speaker 3>Ew.

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<v Speaker 2>Ew. Oh! What's up, y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>It's your girl, Lex P. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole.

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<v Speaker 4>And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds.

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<v Speaker 1>Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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<v Speaker 2>guests today. What's up, girl? Hey, girl. What's up? How

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<v Speaker 2>you doing? I'm good. I know. I see you with

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<v Speaker 2>your Chanel from head to toe.

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<v Speaker 1>That's regular at this point, though.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that one. I know. Do you? The usual.

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing? I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>You done switched it up.

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<v Speaker 2>You got some blonde braids. You know what's crazy?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I was just like, I knew I wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>get my hair braided, but I always do like the

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<v Speaker 4>same color, same thing all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, you know what? Let me switch

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<v Speaker 2>it up. Sorry. Someone rang my doorbell. Sorry, my bad.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay. But, yeah, I just wanted to switch it up.

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<v Speaker 2>One thing, and I'm glad you brought it up. First,

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<v Speaker 2>do you like them? Does it give, like, is it

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<v Speaker 2>matching the blonde? Because, you know, Savannah is good at

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<v Speaker 2>matching the blonde, Savannah James. I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but, you know, I love, I like to

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<v Speaker 1>switch it up a little bit. Like, I love a

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<v Speaker 1>little blonde braid.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm saying because I wanted to make sure the

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<v Speaker 4>blonde matched my undertone.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you know I got a little tan right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but I feel like.

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<v Speaker 1>Black girls look good with 6'13, as long as you

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<v Speaker 1>know how to blend it well.

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<v Speaker 2>But I do want to say, I want us to

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<v Speaker 2>get back to having fun. Fun with the hair, fun

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<v Speaker 2>with the makeup.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why I'm enjoying the little blush trend that's going

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<v Speaker 4>on right now. Because don't get me wrong, I love

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<v Speaker 4>the clean girl aesthetic. I think it's super cute when

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<v Speaker 4>you're having a little day at the mall or a

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<v Speaker 4>little nice, fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Lighthearted date night. But let's get back to being creative

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<v Speaker 2>and having fun with our looks.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, you know what? Let me try

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<v Speaker 2>something that I've never done before. Yeah. So I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to have a little blind moment. So yeah, that's what

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<v Speaker 2>we doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I love a little blind.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm-hmm.

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<v Speaker 4>And I also have to say, today is the first day.

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<v Speaker 4>We have our fall interns here.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. Which is super exciting. Mm-hmm. But you know

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<v Speaker 2>what it made me think of? What? You know.

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<v Speaker 4>Back then when I saw this on TV, it was, like,

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<v Speaker 4>so funny. But I thought of this today. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>do you remember on that episode of America's Next Top

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<v Speaker 4>Model when Tyra, like, pretended to pass out?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yeah. And she was like, were you guys scared? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Weren't y'all horrified? Why would you do that? You know, listen. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>that's why they make that documentary about her ass. Why

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck would you pass out and be like, were

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<v Speaker 2>you scared?

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<v Speaker 1>That's why they make that documentary about her. And what

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<v Speaker 1>y'all did say, I was like, I don't feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like it called for a documentary. And

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel that way.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's why.

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<v Speaker 1>Tyra ass was on that documentary. Because why the hell

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<v Speaker 1>would you play them people like that? It make them

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you had passed out. Imagine being your first

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<v Speaker 1>day on the job.

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<v Speaker 2>You thought I died. That's how she was like, you

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<v Speaker 2>thought I died, didn't you? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still alive. I'm still alive.

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<v Speaker 2>That was crazy as fuck. Because I was like, what

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<v Speaker 2>if I passed out in front of the interns? I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, y'all were so scared, weren't you? Oh, my God.

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<v Speaker 4>They would be like, you know, I had a poor

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<v Speaker 4>mind internship.

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<v Speaker 2>They would be on TikTok. I'd be like, ooh.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you can never do it for the first day.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to wait till the last.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh. Now I got, I'm plotting on that motherfucker. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't call them motherfuckers yet. It's the first day.

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<v Speaker 1>We just met them.

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<v Speaker 2>Take that out. Take that out. Oh, never mind. They here.

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<v Speaker 2>They in the back. We just met them.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to be professional today. Not next week.

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<v Speaker 2>You right. You right. You right. It's a new day.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a new day. Oh, my God. No, you can't.

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<v Speaker 2>You got to quiet on the Christmas. You're right. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot.

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<v Speaker 1>But, yeah, so how are you feeling about us transitioning

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<v Speaker 1>into fall?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, it's fall now. It's not summer anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we had the longest summer ever. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a good summer, but it was so goddamn long.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so long, and I was so tired. Because

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<v Speaker 1>we was going somewhere every weekend with us being on tour.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But I really had a great summer. And, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I love fall weather. But it's just something

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<v Speaker 1>about that time change that I just can't never fuck with,

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<v Speaker 1>for real. I do not like that fall time change

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<v Speaker 1>of it getting dark.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, it be getting... The sun comes up later, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it comes up earlier.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. The sun comes up way earlier, and then it

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<v Speaker 2>gets dark. way earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm just like, uh, where's the day? Like the

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<v Speaker 1>days already feel short.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what that, you know what it mean though, right? Wait.

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<v Speaker 4>It's time to fall into depression, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm finna be sad as fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>Seasonal depression.

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<v Speaker 2>It's time to cry.

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<v Speaker 1>Seasonal depression is a real thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do it. I will never be a fall girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I know y'all finna be like, ooh, it's time for

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<v Speaker 2>the real bitches to dress.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm finna show y'all how I put that shit on.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm finna show y'all how to be depressed. I'm finna

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<v Speaker 4>show y'all how a bad bitch gets down when it's

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<v Speaker 4>time to be sad. Everybody's finna be sad in this bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel that way, though. I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really suffer from seasonal depression, but I do,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do feel like I'm not as chipper in

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<v Speaker 1>the fall.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Especially that winter. Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>When it get cold, I don't want to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>shit to nobody. Don't talk to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't talk to me. And then, it be so damn

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<v Speaker 1>cold outside. Like, you know, I was working out with

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<v Speaker 1>my trainer last winter, so I used to be getting

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<v Speaker 1>up at 5.30 in the morning so that I could

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<v Speaker 1>be at the gym. No, I would get up at 6.

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<v Speaker 1>But I could be at the gym at 7. And,

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<v Speaker 1>It would be so goddamn cold when I would go outside,

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<v Speaker 1>and the sun wouldn't be out yet. It would still

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<v Speaker 1>be dark, and I would want to be in my

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<v Speaker 1>bed so bad, but I had shit to do. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>why is it so fucking cold?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't let it be wet. It ain't raining. I hate it.

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<v Speaker 4>But I will say, the best thing about fall and

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<v Speaker 4>winter is nobody be funky.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, that's a lie. I done smelled some funky people

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<v Speaker 2>in the winter, too. I done smelled some funky coats. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Coats be funky. Please wash them. It's a new season.

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<v Speaker 2>Wash them.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so we got to take the coats to the

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<v Speaker 4>dry cleaner.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been in the back of the closet. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>you got to dust it off. Yeah. Because coats do

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<v Speaker 2>hold shit. I mean, you got to take it to

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<v Speaker 2>the cleaner. Yeah. Got my clothes from the cleaner.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you should take the liberty of washing

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<v Speaker 1>your own coats. Depending on how thick they are, they

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<v Speaker 1>need to go to the cleaners.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm.

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<v Speaker 1>To get properly clean. Because like Ty said, it still got...

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<v Speaker 1>Three winters ago, must on it. Like, somebody needs to

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<v Speaker 1>professionally clean it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm about to pull out my chinchilla. Okay. I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even know you had a chinchilla. I don't. But.

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<v Speaker 1>It look like it.

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<v Speaker 2>Until you touch it.

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<v Speaker 1>Until you touch it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a little... A little rough? Yeah, I got to

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<v Speaker 2>brush it out, bitch. You got to brush it out.

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<v Speaker 2>I need some Baskin-Lavs on my shit, bitch. But once

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<v Speaker 2>I wash it down, she going to be ready to go.

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<v Speaker 1>You can use a little Baskin-Lav and then probably put

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<v Speaker 1>that little oil on it.

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<v Speaker 2>A little sacred? No, the stimulating oil. Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to stimulate it.

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<v Speaker 2>Annie, I need some leave-in conditioner for that motherfucker. I

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<v Speaker 2>ain't going to lie. You might have to soak it overnight. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we do our bundles. Oh, yeah. You know they

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<v Speaker 2>got the silicone hair stuff? Okay, I'm going to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I'm not a fall and winter person.

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<v Speaker 4>But again, I've been working on my attitude during this season.

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<v Speaker 4>Like last year was probably the best holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>Time I had.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you know what's crazy to me? My friend, Killa,

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<v Speaker 4>had posted this on her story the other day. She

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<v Speaker 4>was like, love the fall holidays, hate the fall and

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<v Speaker 4>winter seasons. Like, the fall holidays have the best. You know, Halloween,

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<v Speaker 4>if y'all celebrate that. I'm too woke for Halloween sometimes,

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<v Speaker 4>but that's another conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanksgiving, I love me a turkey, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>You can eat that year-round.

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<v Speaker 2>But turk-turk, I only do it once a year. It's

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<v Speaker 2>a special occasion. And see, I'm not even.

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<v Speaker 1>and that's my thing. I eat turkey year-round. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>eat that shit on Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 2>I do, because I like to gobble gobble while I

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<v Speaker 2>wobble wobble.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. I feel like turkey, Thanksgiving turkey always be dry.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care who granny make you.

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<v Speaker 2>Ooh.

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<v Speaker 3>Ooh.

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<v Speaker 2>It be dry as fuck. No, they not doing it right.

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<v Speaker 2>I like thinly sliced turkey. You like deli meat. But

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<v Speaker 2>you ain't supposed to eat that. Because it's a carcinogen.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. I learned a new word, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was mad as fuck when I found that

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<v Speaker 1>out because I used to fuck up a turkey club.

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<v Speaker 2>And a little turkey bacon. I used to love turkey.

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<v Speaker 2>And turkey bacon. Bro, we can't have shit.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I was a turkey bacon fool.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to let y'all know right now, if anything

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<v Speaker 4>happens to beans.

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<v Speaker 2>Bro, take me the fuck out. And if they announce

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<v Speaker 2>it during fall and winter, that's an easy jump.

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<v Speaker 1>Or beef bacon.

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<v Speaker 2>That's an easy jump. Hey, I'm finna go.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I got people waiting on me anyway. Fuck this shit,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm out. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like we can't eat nothing no more.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>All you can eat is coochie.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all it says. What was we talking about, bro?

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<v Speaker 2>Remember Willow Smith said that. She said who ate all

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<v Speaker 2>the pussy. What the fuck? That's a good question. All

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<v Speaker 2>the coochie has been eaten? It hasn't. That's the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all you can eat.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that. That sounds like a buffet.

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<v Speaker 4>Because this is all you can eat, motherfucker.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the only thing safe. But yeah, well... I keep

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<v Speaker 2>dropping my cards. That's why they say there's nothing on

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<v Speaker 2>these motherfuckers.

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<v Speaker 1>You a little disheveled up there. I don't know what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on.

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<v Speaker 4>You know when your braids ain't settled in yet and

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<v Speaker 4>they keep leaning over?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Hey. Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I'm going to work on my attitude for

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<v Speaker 4>the fall and the winter. Like I was saying earlier,

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<v Speaker 4>last year was my first good year where I had

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<v Speaker 4>a great Thanksgiving and a great Christmas. So I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to try to keep it going. But what helped me

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<v Speaker 4>last year was decorating. So I'm going to go get

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<v Speaker 4>some pumpkins.

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<v Speaker 2>OK, real ones? Yeah. I'm not going to carve them.

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<v Speaker 2>Too far.

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<v Speaker 1>You just gonna let them sit there?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm gonna look at them and rub it like

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<v Speaker 2>on Apollo when you walk in the house. It'll get

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<v Speaker 2>my spirit going.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Rub the pumpkin, bitch.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why I dress like this today, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a pumpkin?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in the fucking spirit. Baby steps. God damn.

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<v Speaker 1>It is like the... At this point, what, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>the third day, second day of fall.

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<v Speaker 2>It's only my third day out here. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm doing, bro. Like, let me get in the

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<v Speaker 2>spirit in the best way I can. I'm trying. Pumpkin booty, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>You think, therefore you are.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, and I'm trying to give jack-o'-lantern. Okay. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So, baby steps. I don't want to carve no fucking pumpkin.

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<v Speaker 4>Pumpkins actually smell good.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do that, though.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't did that since I was a kid. I definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I might do that this year. I might

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<v Speaker 1>go carve a pumpkin.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I think carving pumpkins is like very, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>family activity. It's nostalgic. Yeah, it's very nostalgic. So, my

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<v Speaker 2>first step is to buy a pumpkin. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>just set them outside my door.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But why don't you try to make a pumpkin pie?

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<v Speaker 2>I love pumpkin pie.

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<v Speaker 4>Because, you know, everybody likes to drag the pumpkin spice lattes.

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<v Speaker 4>They drag Kev on stage because he loves pumpkin pie.

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<v Speaker 4>First of all, I've always said this. Pumpkin pie and

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<v Speaker 4>sweet potato pie taste the same.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't. No. Okay. I didn't ask y'all to respond.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how we know.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, get out. They don't taste the same. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have very... Obviously, I don't have a refined palate.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even think that is that you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a refined palate. I just think. It's not about being

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<v Speaker 1>refined because you don't have to be refined.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think you think a lot of.

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<v Speaker 1>Things taste good, like everything tastes like you will eat anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Except coochie bitch. Well... That's better than... Okay. I hate

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<v Speaker 2>the fall.

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, I feel like you think a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>things taste good. Whereas some other people would be like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not actually going to eat this.

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<v Speaker 2>Give me an example. Like, we've been.

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<v Speaker 1>To places, and, like, they've had catering and stuff, and

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<v Speaker 1>you be thinking everything tastes good.

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<v Speaker 2>And it depends, because I probably ain't paid.

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<v Speaker 1>And I be kind of like, okay, this was okay. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I be critiquing stuff on my plate. Like, I be like,

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<v Speaker 1>this was good, but this could use a little more paprika.

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<v Speaker 2>A little more paprika.

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<v Speaker 1>A little more. Even though paprika don't really have a taste,

0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:53.330
<v Speaker 1>it more so makes stuff smoky. Smoked paprika makes it smoky,

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<v Speaker 1>and it adds a little color.

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<v Speaker 2>I love some color.

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<v Speaker 4>I love a colorful plate now. But even if my

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<v Speaker 4>plate is dull, still gonna get ate.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And I'll be like, oh, this need a little thyme.

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<v Speaker 1>This need a little sage.

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<v Speaker 2>It needs a little.

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell, oh, you put bay leaves in these. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I be knowing the flavors. you just be like.

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<v Speaker 2>Ooh, this good. I be hungry, bitch. Especially when we

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<v Speaker 2>was on tour.

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<v Speaker 4>Every time I came home, my fridge was empty.

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<v Speaker 1>But that burger that we ate when we was in London,

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<v Speaker 1>that burger was so good. I be thinking about that

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<v Speaker 1>burger all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>First of all, if you know me, I love a

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<v Speaker 4>little burger. A little burger is a snack to me.

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<v Speaker 4>When I say, oh my gosh, I need a little snack,

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<v Speaker 4>I'll go in my kitchen and I'm eating a burger.

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<v Speaker 2>A burger.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll go in my kitchen and I'll have a steak.

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<v Speaker 4>We went to an event last night And I could

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<v Speaker 4>not get a fucking burger.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm walking through the event.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody got a little fucking burger in their hands. Where

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<v Speaker 4>is my fucking burger, bro? And I kept asking him.

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<v Speaker 4>I was following him around. I said, oh, that's not

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<v Speaker 4>a burger. He had fucking cornbread bites, chicken tenders. Everybody

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<v Speaker 4>got a burger but me.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get one either.

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<v Speaker 2>That's some bullshit.

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<v Speaker 1>The burgers did look good.

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<v Speaker 4>They look so delicious and nutritious because they got pickles

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<v Speaker 4>on them so it's healthy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then that's like saying it's nutritious because the potato bean.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. A potato is a veggie. I was about

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<v Speaker 2>to say a fruit. Tomatoes are fruits. I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt smart. You were supposed to be like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my God, you enlightened me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm-hmm. Oh, my God. You ain't like me. Did you

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<v Speaker 2>know that George Washington's teeth were not wooden? They were

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<v Speaker 2>from slaves? No.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my God. Thank you, Ty. Well, I did. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I did.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, them shits was not wooden, my brothers and sisters.

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<v Speaker 4>He stole the teeth of our ancestors.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was brown.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. And this is how they be trying to rewrite history, bitch. Mm.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't drink the Kool-Aid. Mm.

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<v Speaker 1>So you saying they was brown because they was dead,

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<v Speaker 1>not because they was.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm not saying they were brown.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, obviously, hygiene was a lot different back then,

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<v Speaker 4>but they tried to rewrite history and say... I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>did he maybe use wood sometimes? Maybe sometimes, but, bitch,

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<v Speaker 4>he was using them slaves' teeth, and we put him

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<v Speaker 4>on a dollar bill? You need to be on that

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<v Speaker 4>Charmin tissue and wipe my ass.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you got to think... You got to think about

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<v Speaker 1>the people that put him on the dollar bill, though.

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<v Speaker 2>They were.

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<v Speaker 1>Cook is kind.

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<v Speaker 2>Cook! Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So, of course he's on the dollar bill. Who did

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<v Speaker 1>you think was going to be on the dollar bill?

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<v Speaker 1>George Washington Carver?

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<v Speaker 4>He should have been, because peanut butter fucking good as fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>Peanut butter is good as fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>I love peanut butter!

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<v Speaker 1>That ain't come till later, though. Later down the line,

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<v Speaker 1>after we already had currency.

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<v Speaker 2>But peanut butter is delicious. I love peanut butter. It's

0:17:50.480 --> 0:17:55.889
<v Speaker 2>so good. Okay. Anything else, my queen? No, let's get

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<v Speaker 2>into the first topic. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Because one thing about this.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't ever just go straight into the topic. We

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<v Speaker 1>always going to talk about a whole bunch of random shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, but wait, before we get into that, Ty, you

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<v Speaker 2>just celebrated your birthday. How was your birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>I had such a good time. I took a solo trip.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you did?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I went to Arizona. So I stayed in Scottsdale

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<v Speaker 1>and did like a day trip to Sedona.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And I did like a long hike. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>really nice to just get away. I rented a convertible

0:18:25.440 --> 0:18:28.580
<v Speaker 1>drop top. So I was just on my waiting to exhale. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Letting my hair blow in the wind. I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>Good.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been looking at this retreat in Sedona.

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<v Speaker 2>I already know which one you talking about. I know

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<v Speaker 2>for a fact I know the one.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been looking at this retreat in Sedona. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about going there maybe like, I said I might

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<v Speaker 1>go in November and do like four days there. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's the place that I want to go to.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're going to have to let me know how

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<v Speaker 1>your experience was. I have a really great restaurant for

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<v Speaker 1>you in Sedona.

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<v Speaker 2>It's beautiful, y'all. Like, Especially for the retreats that they have.

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<v Speaker 2>You can do yoga.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, they have a whole schedule of classes that you

0:19:03.670 --> 0:19:07.210
<v Speaker 1>can take. Meditation in the morning. Like, depending on how, like,

0:19:07.310 --> 0:19:09.169
<v Speaker 1>you want to be by yourself. Or if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to join others and kind of do a lot of

0:19:10.930 --> 0:19:14.090
<v Speaker 1>things for yourself up there. But it's highly recommended.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you doing a solo trip? Yes. I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that when you do things like that, it

0:19:21.780 --> 0:19:25.060
<v Speaker 1>should be solo experiences. Unless you're going with your partner.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I say partner, I mean like being married.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you? I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>And my goal was to go see how I like

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<v Speaker 1>it alone. And then if I want to go with

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<v Speaker 1>some girlfriends later, then that's something that I'm definitely open

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<v Speaker 1>to doing.

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<v Speaker 2>But this one was like for me. That's like a reset.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you going to FaceTime me while you're there? Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, I don't think I could use my,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not supposed to use my phone. The one that

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<v Speaker 1>I looking at like I'm really not supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>on my phone are they gonna take your phone no

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so but I just think like if

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<v Speaker 1>you get caught with it they'll try to like be

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<v Speaker 1>like hey you're not supposed to be on your phone

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<v Speaker 1>because apparently the one I've been looking at it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of like celebrities and, like, affluent people that.

0:20:06.420 --> 0:20:07.399
<v Speaker 2>Go in there. Yeah.

0:20:07.660 --> 0:20:09.960
<v Speaker 1>So I guess they don't be wanting everybody to be

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<v Speaker 1>on their phones. And plus, you're supposed to be healing.

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<v Speaker 1>And disconnecting. And disconnecting. Like, a lot of people go

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<v Speaker 1>to this particular retreat. It's a lot of people who are, like, divorcees.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot of people who are dealing with grief.

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<v Speaker 1>And then some people who just might in life feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I know I'm finna get pissed off, so don't even

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<v Speaker 4>stand up and come over here.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry. I'm sorry, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Straight just distracted me. No, why you ain't come over

0:20:46.350 --> 0:20:50.830
<v Speaker 1>here with that hat on? Why you didn't come over

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<v Speaker 1>here with the hat on? Back there being a clown. Anyway, so.

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<v Speaker 2>It's people who, and I was having.

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<v Speaker 1>A serious conversation, by the way, Shay. It's people who are, like, divorcees,

0:21:08.280 --> 0:21:13.300
<v Speaker 1>people who are going through grief trying to heal, people

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<v Speaker 1>who just feel like they're at an impasse in their

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<v Speaker 1>life and they trying to, like, find themselves again or, like,

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<v Speaker 1>get excited about their life again. Like, people who are

0:21:23.150 --> 0:21:26.070
<v Speaker 1>just trying to turn over a new leaf.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So they don't really want you to be on your

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<v Speaker 1>phones and stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's important to disconnect, though. It's so important

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<v Speaker 4>to disconnect. Like, I was having a moment online. Like,

0:21:36.690 --> 0:21:40.109
<v Speaker 4>somebody had... I be on threads now. And shout out

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<v Speaker 4>to my girl, Hoochie Guy, because she was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we on Twitter and we tweet. What do we do

0:21:45.140 --> 0:21:47.780
<v Speaker 4>on threads? She said, well, I had a string. So

0:21:47.800 --> 0:21:50.580
<v Speaker 4>on my string... Somebody added me and it was like,

0:21:50.660 --> 0:21:54.619
<v Speaker 4>Lex is right. The internet is getting so toxic. And honestly,

0:21:54.740 --> 0:21:56.939
<v Speaker 4>I've started to post my content and go.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. Literally.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that that's so important just to get

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<v Speaker 4>off your phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I've noticed myself really just enjoying life in general more

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<v Speaker 4>being off my phone because I don't have to sit

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<v Speaker 4>there and hear what people think about me all day

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<v Speaker 4>or see people dragging other people down.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think something like that is important because... People

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<v Speaker 2>do not disconnect from that phone. Yes. At all. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I was reading.

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<v Speaker 1>I took a book, and I actually, like, would sit

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<v Speaker 1>by the pool, watch The View, read a book, and, like,

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<v Speaker 1>not a self-help book or, like, learning and trying to

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<v Speaker 1>enhance myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Just a fiction book. Escape. Escape. Like, literally.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was just so relaxing. Like, I just felt

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<v Speaker 1>so much at peace. And I'm not really trying to

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<v Speaker 1>run from anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted a break from, like, screen time, laptops, computers,

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<v Speaker 1>people asking me for shit.

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<v Speaker 2>That, too. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Four days with nobody asking me to do anything was

0:22:46.950 --> 0:22:49.530
<v Speaker 1>like heaven. And that's what I kind of want too,

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<v Speaker 1>just like a reset. Like just being away from everything

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<v Speaker 1>and disconnected for like four days. And I've been talking

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<v Speaker 1>about on the show for years, like yes, people do

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<v Speaker 1>got to put them phones down. Like even if you

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<v Speaker 1>got to download apps on your phone that block... your

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<v Speaker 1>social media apps from you to where you have a

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<v Speaker 1>certain time of day that you on there. And then

0:23:10.109 --> 0:23:12.610
<v Speaker 1>it'll automatically log you out and log you back on

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<v Speaker 1>once that 10 hour window is over. Or if you

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<v Speaker 1>just need to like, if you're a person who struggled

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<v Speaker 1>with finding reading time, get one of those apps, block

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<v Speaker 1>an hour out of.

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<v Speaker 2>Your day, and this will be your reading time.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's very important that you just step away from

0:23:27.350 --> 0:23:30.369
<v Speaker 1>the phone, social media, and other people opinions. sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And it's kind of scary how people don't read anymore.

0:23:33.380 --> 0:23:35.560
<v Speaker 2>I know this is a little... I was watching.

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<v Speaker 4>I finally watched... Whatchamacallit? The Devil Wears Prada 2. And

0:23:41.640 --> 0:23:43.270
<v Speaker 4>if y'all have seen that, the whole thing was like

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<v Speaker 4>journalism is dying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. Because people will literally.

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<v Speaker 4>You will see an article and people be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not reading all that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's four paragraphs. Like.

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<v Speaker 4>People do not want to read nothing anymore. So the

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<v Speaker 4>fact that you said you put your phone down and

0:23:57.450 --> 0:24:00.240
<v Speaker 4>you actually picked up an actual book, we got to

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<v Speaker 4>start picking up the books again.

0:24:01.740 --> 0:24:05.820
<v Speaker 2>Even the newspaper, a magazine, something, y'all. Pick up something

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<v Speaker 2>that's not your phone where you have to read.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that'd be my favorite thing to ask people when

0:24:10.510 --> 0:24:11.070
<v Speaker 1>I first meet them.

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<v Speaker 2>When was the last book you read?

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<v Speaker 1>Because most people be like, oh. And then it'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a certain list. I'm not going to say the books,

0:24:18.650 --> 0:24:20.580
<v Speaker 1>but it's a certain list of books that if people

0:24:20.600 --> 0:24:22.060
<v Speaker 1>say that them the last books they read.

0:24:22.100 --> 0:24:23.720
<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, okay. The Art of War.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't really be reading for real.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think for me, like, I'm a person, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I watch the news a lot, right? But I think, like,

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<v Speaker 4>for me, like, even seeing that, it was like, you

0:24:33.760 --> 0:24:36.640
<v Speaker 4>know what? I want to start reading, like, newspapers more

0:24:36.740 --> 0:24:40.060
<v Speaker 4>and really supporting, like, actual journalism.

0:24:40.100 --> 0:24:44.970
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Because I think we are kind of losing... A

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people who are really exceptionally good at their job.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 4>Like I saw a post that somebody made on TikTok too.

0:24:52.930 --> 0:24:56.290
<v Speaker 4>She was like, you know, at New York Fashion Week, 40%

0:24:56.290 --> 0:24:58.780
<v Speaker 4>of the models that were walking the runway were influencers,

0:24:59.190 --> 0:25:04.119
<v Speaker 4>which it's a little both sides on that because it

0:25:04.160 --> 0:25:07.520
<v Speaker 4>can be somebody who used influencing to maybe get into

0:25:07.540 --> 0:25:10.100
<v Speaker 4>modeling but that's different if it's just an influencer who

0:25:10.140 --> 0:25:11.660
<v Speaker 4>was like hey you want to model my clothes because

0:25:11.680 --> 0:25:14.100
<v Speaker 4>you got a million followers so it's like it used

0:25:14.119 --> 0:25:17.240
<v Speaker 4>to be like are you talented can you walk can

0:25:17.280 --> 0:25:20.010
<v Speaker 4>you write a good story can you sing really well

0:25:20.050 --> 0:25:23.290
<v Speaker 4>versus like if you have a hundred thousand followers you

0:25:23.310 --> 0:25:25.790
<v Speaker 4>can do anything so it's kind of things are starting

0:25:25.810 --> 0:25:28.570
<v Speaker 4>to lose their value a little bit because people just

0:25:28.630 --> 0:25:32.670
<v Speaker 4>aren't engaging with things like they used to you know Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that people aren't engaging in it. People don't have

0:25:35.730 --> 0:25:39.610
<v Speaker 1>to be skilled at it anymore. Because like you said,

0:25:39.630 --> 0:25:41.550
<v Speaker 1>as long as you got the following, that's all that matter.

0:25:41.570 --> 0:25:43.790
<v Speaker 1>Like you don't actually have to be a good writer.

0:25:44.230 --> 0:25:46.770
<v Speaker 1>You don't actually have to be a good model. You

0:25:46.790 --> 0:25:49.530
<v Speaker 1>could just be somebody who got a large following and

0:25:49.550 --> 0:25:53.590
<v Speaker 1>then you're going to get these opportunities automatically. Whereas back

0:25:53.630 --> 0:25:55.910
<v Speaker 1>in the day, people had to put the groundwork in.

0:25:56.270 --> 0:25:59.490
<v Speaker 1>They had to get degrees, right? They had to get

0:25:59.530 --> 0:26:01.330
<v Speaker 1>certificates to do certain things.

0:26:01.530 --> 0:26:02.129
<v Speaker 2>You had to be qualified.

0:26:02.170 --> 0:26:03.750
<v Speaker 1>You had to be qualified, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So the times are changing.

0:26:09.700 --> 0:26:11.060
<v Speaker 2>Moral of the story is.

0:26:11.100 --> 0:26:11.899
<v Speaker 1>Moral of the story.

0:26:12.720 --> 0:26:15.560
<v Speaker 2>Go to Sedona and read about George Washington and his teeth.

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<v Speaker 2>Read about it. You're going to learn something.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to say, moral of the story is

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<v Speaker 1>tomatoes are a fruit.

0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:26.169
<v Speaker 2>And they are. I was shook when I heard that.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate a fucking tomato.

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<v Speaker 1>I love tomatoes.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to make y'all a tomato drink so bad.

0:26:31.170 --> 0:26:34.430
<v Speaker 2>You like Bloody Marys. I told you I like Bloody Marys. Okay,

0:26:34.450 --> 0:26:35.109
<v Speaker 2>we gonna try that.

0:26:35.470 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 1>But I said I don't.

0:26:36.600 --> 0:26:40.080
<v Speaker 2>A raw tomato? I want me a Bloody Mary with

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<v Speaker 2>a burger in it. I'll order some little sliders. I

0:26:42.420 --> 0:26:44.760
<v Speaker 2>can do like a little mini slider. Yeah.

0:26:45.320 --> 0:26:46.379
<v Speaker 1>That's a little gluttony.

0:26:47.109 --> 0:26:47.629
<v Speaker 2>Look at me.

0:26:48.840 --> 0:26:50.810
<v Speaker 4>I stole all the ass in the clinic that day.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a little.

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<v Speaker 1>A little burger, but you know, I have seen that

0:26:55.710 --> 0:26:58.430
<v Speaker 1>on menus before. Like, they'll have, like, a little slider

0:26:58.540 --> 0:26:59.180
<v Speaker 1>at the top.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't make this up. Or a lemon pepper... A

0:27:02.180 --> 0:27:04.060
<v Speaker 2>lemon pepper wing. A lemon pepper wing on it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. Shit is getting too gluttonous for real. Like,

0:27:07.440 --> 0:27:09.740
<v Speaker 1>that's what we ought to really start chatting about shit.

0:27:10.290 --> 0:27:13.949
<v Speaker 1>I seen a lemon pepper pound cake.

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<v Speaker 2>Ooh.

0:27:14.369 --> 0:27:16.330
<v Speaker 1>I seen a lemon pound cake the other day, and

0:27:16.350 --> 0:27:18.369
<v Speaker 1>then it had the lemon pepper wings on there with

0:27:18.390 --> 0:27:19.250
<v Speaker 1>the glaze.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't gonna lie.

0:27:19.850 --> 0:27:22.770
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, this is so gluttonous. I'll take three.

0:27:23.970 --> 0:27:26.590
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna lie.

0:27:26.670 --> 0:27:30.740
<v Speaker 2>Like, I feel like, you know, life is about balance. Exactly.

0:27:30.820 --> 0:27:32.879
<v Speaker 4>So you're going to enjoy a little gluttony every now

0:27:32.900 --> 0:27:35.320
<v Speaker 4>and then. You can't be gluttonous every day. You can't

0:27:35.380 --> 0:27:37.780
<v Speaker 4>eat no lemon pepper pound cake every day.

0:27:37.820 --> 0:27:39.159
<v Speaker 2>But I'm going to try that motherfucker.

0:27:39.180 --> 0:27:40.340
<v Speaker 1>But I would try it too.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh, you know what they need to do? Somebody going

0:27:43.050 --> 0:27:46.050
<v Speaker 1>to steal my idea. They need to make like a

0:27:46.130 --> 0:27:49.290
<v Speaker 1>cornbread pound cake and then put the lemon pepper wings

0:27:49.369 --> 0:27:51.590
<v Speaker 1>on top with the glaze.

0:27:52.109 --> 0:27:52.650
<v Speaker 2>I like that.

0:27:52.670 --> 0:27:54.990
<v Speaker 1>With the cornbread, I feel like that would be good.

0:27:55.010 --> 0:27:57.070
<v Speaker 2>I was into it, but again, I eat anything. Because

0:27:57.150 --> 0:27:58.190
<v Speaker 2>it's savory.

0:27:58.210 --> 0:28:00.399
<v Speaker 1>It's a little more savory than like.

0:28:00.420 --> 0:28:03.700
<v Speaker 4>I love savory things. You know, I'm not a sweets girl. So,

0:28:04.540 --> 0:28:05.260
<v Speaker 4>food be good.

0:28:05.580 --> 0:28:07.560
<v Speaker 2>Food do be good. It be good and seasoned.

0:28:08.280 --> 0:28:09.460
<v Speaker 1>It do be good and seasoned.

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<v Speaker 4>I love when I'm eating and then I finish eating

0:28:11.920 --> 0:28:13.760
<v Speaker 4>and then like, you know, you still having a conversation

0:28:13.780 --> 0:28:15.139
<v Speaker 4>and then you lick your lips and you got a

0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:16.350
<v Speaker 4>little lemon pepper left.

0:28:17.690 --> 0:28:20.500
<v Speaker 2>Ugh. I'd be like, ooh, I should have ordered something

0:28:20.540 --> 0:28:20.760
<v Speaker 2>to go.

0:28:20.840 --> 0:28:22.800
<v Speaker 1>A little seasoning on your lip.

0:28:22.980 --> 0:28:27.940
<v Speaker 2>The seasoning needs to go. That flavor be so good.

0:28:28.260 --> 0:28:29.359
<v Speaker 1>Save the flavor.

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<v Speaker 2>Love it. Okay. Uh-oh, we said 10 minutes ago we

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:34.310
<v Speaker 2>was going to start. Yep, we did. That's all right.

0:28:34.330 --> 0:28:37.830
<v Speaker 1>So topic number one, jobs you never want to work.

0:28:38.430 --> 0:28:40.910
<v Speaker 1>What is a job that you never want to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Explain why you think you'd be bad at it or

0:28:43.310 --> 0:28:47.210
<v Speaker 1>why it would frighten you. Or is it just too dirty?

0:28:48.440 --> 0:28:49.480
<v Speaker 2>You want to go first or you want me to

0:28:49.510 --> 0:28:52.170
<v Speaker 2>go first? You can go first. Oh, I'm sorry. I burped.

0:28:52.390 --> 0:28:53.390
<v Speaker 2>I'm a nasty bitch.

0:28:53.990 --> 0:28:57.190
<v Speaker 1>As long as I don't smelly, keep that shit over there.

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<v Speaker 2>A job I would never work, and this is me

0:29:03.140 --> 0:29:07.420
<v Speaker 2>being truly honest, and I'm not even trying to be like, oh, no, ha, ha, hee, hee,

0:29:07.460 --> 0:29:08.300
<v Speaker 2>no funny shit.

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<v Speaker 4>I could absolutely... Never work at Taco Bell. You want

0:29:14.270 --> 0:29:15.430
<v Speaker 4>to talk about gluttony?

0:29:15.930 --> 0:29:18.270
<v Speaker 2>The way I will be sitting in the back tearing

0:29:18.290 --> 0:29:20.610
<v Speaker 2>that shit up, I will be a nasty bitch too

0:29:20.630 --> 0:29:23.750
<v Speaker 2>because I'm dipping my spoon in and making shit, not

0:29:23.950 --> 0:29:25.010
<v Speaker 2>changing my gloves.

0:29:25.650 --> 0:29:27.710
<v Speaker 4>I want the smell on my hands for later, bitch.

0:29:28.370 --> 0:29:31.970
<v Speaker 4>I'm dumping the fire sauce packets in my mouth. I'm

0:29:32.030 --> 0:29:35.410
<v Speaker 4>drinking the Mountain Dew freezies. I'm making me a Mexican

0:29:35.490 --> 0:29:40.380
<v Speaker 4>pizza and eating it while I'm making your taco. It's

0:29:40.500 --> 0:29:44.330
<v Speaker 4>nasty work. What I would do in that restaurant should

0:29:44.370 --> 0:29:47.650
<v Speaker 4>be illegal. My restaurant that I would work at would

0:29:47.670 --> 0:29:50.970
<v Speaker 4>get a F when them motherfucking people come in there.

0:29:51.850 --> 0:29:54.610
<v Speaker 4>Cause I'm working overtime too. You never going to come

0:29:54.650 --> 0:29:58.030
<v Speaker 4>in Taco Bell and not see me there. I'm overtime

0:29:58.030 --> 0:30:02.340
<v Speaker 4>60 hours a week. I'm waking up early. Who needs

0:30:02.380 --> 0:30:05.440
<v Speaker 4>me to pick up they shift? Do you want to

0:30:05.460 --> 0:30:07.400
<v Speaker 4>work tonight? I was doing that anyway.

0:30:08.780 --> 0:30:11.980
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So I could never work at Taco Bell because...

0:30:17.150 --> 0:30:18.230
<v Speaker 2>Let me take a sip, bitch.

0:30:20.020 --> 0:30:22.240
<v Speaker 1>I would feel like you working at Taco Bell would

0:30:22.260 --> 0:30:24.040
<v Speaker 1>make you not want to eat it no more.

0:30:24.060 --> 0:30:25.880
<v Speaker 2>That's what I was thinking. Shit.

0:30:26.040 --> 0:30:27.860
<v Speaker 1>Like you would know too much. Like you would know

0:30:27.900 --> 0:30:30.240
<v Speaker 1>too much. You would know how the mystery meat is made.

0:30:30.320 --> 0:30:31.620
<v Speaker 2>Do y'all understand?

0:30:31.680 --> 0:30:34.270
<v Speaker 1>This is kangaroo pouch. I don't want to eat this

0:30:34.330 --> 0:30:34.850
<v Speaker 1>no more.

0:30:34.940 --> 0:30:36.890
<v Speaker 4>We're going to go back to that later. I have

0:30:36.910 --> 0:30:40.380
<v Speaker 4>something to say about that. Somebody, there's a video going

0:30:40.420 --> 0:30:42.230
<v Speaker 4>viral about the Taco Bell meat right now.

0:30:42.390 --> 0:30:43.710
<v Speaker 2>And they were like, Lex, I.

0:30:43.630 --> 0:30:47.170
<v Speaker 4>Got literally probably about 100 people tagging me in this.

0:30:47.570 --> 0:30:50.590
<v Speaker 4>Because the meat was like these hard-looking pellets. They added

0:30:50.650 --> 0:30:51.450
<v Speaker 4>water to it.

0:30:51.730 --> 0:30:52.930
<v Speaker 2>I said, tasty, bitch.

0:30:54.670 --> 0:30:57.250
<v Speaker 4>Again, I've put worse in my mouth. You cannot scare

0:30:57.270 --> 0:30:58.610
<v Speaker 4>me from anything that I love.

0:30:58.970 --> 0:31:02.120
<v Speaker 1>But when you say that, though, like what the fuck

0:31:02.180 --> 0:31:07.520
<v Speaker 1>is worse than ground beef pellets? That you add water

0:31:07.540 --> 0:31:09.780
<v Speaker 1>to and they expand. Because when you say pellets, I

0:31:09.800 --> 0:31:11.680
<v Speaker 1>think about the things that come in your shoes or

0:31:11.720 --> 0:31:12.000
<v Speaker 1>like a.

0:31:12.000 --> 0:31:13.240
<v Speaker 2>Box or something.

0:31:13.260 --> 0:31:16.850
<v Speaker 1>I think about shit that horses eat. Don't they eat pellets?

0:31:17.230 --> 0:31:18.130
<v Speaker 2>They call me the stallion.

0:31:18.150 --> 0:31:19.130
<v Speaker 1>Don't rats eat pellets?

0:31:19.210 --> 0:31:24.910
<v Speaker 2>I'm a stallion. They say I'm thicker than a hippo

0:31:25.050 --> 0:31:28.550
<v Speaker 2>swimming down the Nile. Okay. So, yeah.

0:31:28.630 --> 0:31:30.330
<v Speaker 1>It might be hippo in that meat, too.

0:31:30.590 --> 0:31:37.550
<v Speaker 2>Mood. Mood. I don't, like, I just don't care. Like,

0:31:37.610 --> 0:31:39.050
<v Speaker 2>y'all cannot change my mind.

0:31:39.090 --> 0:31:42.050
<v Speaker 1>It's definitely hippopotamus remnants in their heads.

0:31:43.260 --> 0:31:45.160
<v Speaker 2>It really is.

0:31:45.520 --> 0:31:48.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, I don't know what's up in the

0:31:48.740 --> 0:31:53.000
<v Speaker 1>scorpion toenail. Taco Bell might let you do a shift somewhere, though.

0:31:53.100 --> 0:31:54.550
<v Speaker 1>They let my friend do one at McDonald's.

0:31:55.450 --> 0:31:58.140
<v Speaker 2>Oh. You got to, like, go back. in the back and, like,

0:31:58.180 --> 0:32:00.090
<v Speaker 2>make the food and see how everything... Joanne, we have

0:32:00.110 --> 0:32:01.670
<v Speaker 2>to do that for one of our Patreon episodes. I

0:32:01.670 --> 0:32:05.490
<v Speaker 2>saw Jay Nice did that, too. She was at Chipotle. Okay.

0:32:05.930 --> 0:32:07.570
<v Speaker 2>We have to do that for one of our Patreon episodes.

0:32:07.610 --> 0:32:09.830
<v Speaker 2>That would be funny. That would be funny. It's not funny. Oh.

0:32:10.910 --> 0:32:11.690
<v Speaker 2>It would be funny.

0:32:11.710 --> 0:32:13.070
<v Speaker 1>Y'all came home, actually.

0:32:13.490 --> 0:32:15.530
<v Speaker 2>I'm okay. I was going to invite you. Stay home.

0:32:15.580 --> 0:32:18.100
<v Speaker 2>It's okay. Uh, actually, you got to come now. I

0:32:18.160 --> 0:32:19.100
<v Speaker 2>don't like that attitude.

0:32:19.540 --> 0:32:21.350
<v Speaker 1>We could do it at, I feel like if we

0:32:21.390 --> 0:32:23.709
<v Speaker 1>did it at like Chipotle or Chick-fil-A, I would do it.

0:32:23.810 --> 0:32:26.350
<v Speaker 1>If we did it at Taco Bell, you on your own, sister.

0:32:26.810 --> 0:32:28.030
<v Speaker 2>No, you're definitely coming.

0:32:28.150 --> 0:32:30.370
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I'm definitely going to just record.

0:32:31.330 --> 0:32:31.590
<v Speaker 2>Well.

0:32:31.650 --> 0:32:32.670
<v Speaker 1>Not eating none of that.

0:32:33.760 --> 0:32:37.990
<v Speaker 2>You don't have to record. Maybe a little cheese quesadilla. Mmm.

0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:43.260
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. A little cheese. No meat. No meat. Anyways, okay.

0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:46.220
<v Speaker 2>What's your job that you would do? Wouldn't do. I'm sorry.

0:32:46.280 --> 0:32:49.620
<v Speaker 2>I would never be a mortician. Drive a pool of

0:32:49.640 --> 0:32:55.220
<v Speaker 2>the mort... Oh. No. What? Drive a pool of the mortician, please.

0:32:55.340 --> 0:33:06.590
<v Speaker 2>And then Phaedra Parks come out. Oh! You rang?

0:33:11.590 --> 0:33:12.690
<v Speaker 1>Phaedra!

0:33:12.750 --> 0:33:18.520
<v Speaker 2>What are you doing here? Oh, my goodness. Okay. Okay. No.

0:33:19.150 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Mortician bitch. Oh, you right.

0:33:20.660 --> 0:33:21.780
<v Speaker 2>You right. Okay.

0:33:22.340 --> 0:33:25.100
<v Speaker 1>We done butchered two of Beyonce's songs today.

0:33:26.240 --> 0:33:29.540
<v Speaker 2>That's all right. Okay. Oh, Lord. Okay, what about a mortician?

0:33:29.560 --> 0:33:31.520
<v Speaker 2>They make a lot of money, especially in Chicago.

0:33:31.540 --> 0:33:32.320
<v Speaker 1>They do.

0:33:33.020 --> 0:33:37.200
<v Speaker 2>Now, I see. But I don't see.

0:33:38.520 --> 0:33:43.860
<v Speaker 1>I feel like... It's too morbid. It's too morbid. That's heavy.

0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 1>It's very heavy. I would not want to be faced

0:33:48.740 --> 0:33:52.750
<v Speaker 1>with death every day. Obviously, it's something that we all

0:33:52.850 --> 0:33:57.390
<v Speaker 1>know is going to happen at some point. We can't

0:33:57.430 --> 0:33:59.430
<v Speaker 1>stop it from happening. It's going to happen to all

0:33:59.470 --> 0:34:01.370
<v Speaker 1>of us. But I just think when you have a

0:34:01.390 --> 0:34:04.990
<v Speaker 1>job like that, it's constantly on your mind and constantly

0:34:05.030 --> 0:34:07.090
<v Speaker 1>in your face. And I kind of low-key feel like

0:34:07.110 --> 0:34:10.360
<v Speaker 1>you got to be a little bit of a psychopaths

0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:13.419
<v Speaker 1>or sociopaths to be able to be around death like

0:34:13.460 --> 0:34:21.370
<v Speaker 1>that all the time and not be phased by it.

0:34:21.510 --> 0:34:21.710
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:34:21.950 --> 0:34:24.689
<v Speaker 4>I 1,000% agree and understand your point. But I guess

0:34:24.750 --> 0:34:27.229
<v Speaker 4>because my sister works in the hospital, right?

0:34:27.310 --> 0:34:29.580
<v Speaker 2>So she's around a lot of death too. So I

0:34:29.680 --> 0:34:32.650
<v Speaker 2>say that to say, I don't think that death doesn't

0:34:32.750 --> 0:34:36.069
<v Speaker 2>necessarily bother people, but I think they just know, like

0:34:36.090 --> 0:34:39.410
<v Speaker 2>you said, it's inevitable and it's natural and it comes.

0:34:39.950 --> 0:34:42.739
<v Speaker 2>Because a lot of times, yes, you are having like.

0:34:43.850 --> 0:34:46.800
<v Speaker 4>a weird case where maybe somebody died young or, you know,

0:34:46.910 --> 0:34:49.700
<v Speaker 4>a car accident or shoot, whatever. But a lot of

0:34:49.739 --> 0:34:51.959
<v Speaker 4>times you are burying like a lot of older people

0:34:52.000 --> 0:34:53.640
<v Speaker 4>who lived a beautiful life.

0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:54.140
<v Speaker 2>And things like that.

0:34:54.180 --> 0:34:57.220
<v Speaker 4>So I think it sometimes maybe can be a balance,

0:34:57.239 --> 0:34:59.590
<v Speaker 4>but where you just, you have a different understanding of life.

0:34:59.719 --> 0:35:02.149
<v Speaker 4>I think when you're around a lot of death, because

0:35:02.190 --> 0:35:04.730
<v Speaker 4>I thought the same thing, there's this lady, I'm gonna

0:35:04.750 --> 0:35:07.410
<v Speaker 4>get her name. I follow her on Tik TOK. She

0:35:07.430 --> 0:35:11.470
<v Speaker 4>works in the hospice space, uh, works at a hospice.

0:35:11.510 --> 0:35:14.419
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Hospice care. And I used to be like, why

0:35:14.440 --> 0:35:16.120
<v Speaker 2>would you do that? You're seeing people die.

0:35:16.180 --> 0:35:20.300
<v Speaker 4>But she just has a view of it that is beautiful,

0:35:20.380 --> 0:35:21.480
<v Speaker 4>as crazy as it sounds.

0:35:21.520 --> 0:35:22.029
<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean?

0:35:22.219 --> 0:35:24.230
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think you can for sure. I mean, my

0:35:24.270 --> 0:35:27.240
<v Speaker 1>mom was a nurse. She was an RN for like 30,

0:35:27.239 --> 0:35:30.590
<v Speaker 1>40 years before she retired. And one of the main

0:35:30.650 --> 0:35:34.569
<v Speaker 1>reasons why she stopped working in the hospital, because she

0:35:34.590 --> 0:35:36.250
<v Speaker 1>used to work in NICU and she used to help

0:35:36.310 --> 0:35:38.210
<v Speaker 1>deliver babies too. She used to work in labor and

0:35:38.250 --> 0:35:40.350
<v Speaker 1>delivery too. One of the main reasons why she stopped

0:35:40.390 --> 0:35:42.689
<v Speaker 1>working at the hospital and she decided to go into

0:35:42.730 --> 0:35:46.410
<v Speaker 1>pediatrics and be a pediatric nurse is because she was like,

0:35:46.550 --> 0:35:49.450
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't deal with being around all of this death,

0:35:49.489 --> 0:35:51.640
<v Speaker 1>especially with babies.

0:35:51.739 --> 0:35:54.120
<v Speaker 2>Like, this is a lot. And it's a lot of babies.

0:35:54.180 --> 0:35:55.540
<v Speaker 1>I get what you're saying. It is a lot of

0:35:55.719 --> 0:35:57.680
<v Speaker 1>older people that are dying too. But it's a lot

0:35:57.739 --> 0:36:02.299
<v Speaker 1>of women who go through stillborn births and losing their

0:36:02.340 --> 0:36:04.250
<v Speaker 1>kids in EQ and stuff like that. And my mom

0:36:04.270 --> 0:36:07.230
<v Speaker 1>was just like, I couldn't deal with that.

0:36:07.370 --> 0:36:08.320
<v Speaker 2>Like, it was a lot for me.

0:36:09.170 --> 0:36:13.060
<v Speaker 1>And I don't know. Like, I get both sides of it.

0:36:13.070 --> 0:36:14.920
<v Speaker 1>But I think that you could be in a space

0:36:14.940 --> 0:36:16.500
<v Speaker 1>where you feel at peace with it. That don't mean

0:36:16.540 --> 0:36:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I want to paint your face. I don't want to

0:36:17.880 --> 0:36:21.560
<v Speaker 1>paint dead faces every day, personally. Like, that would be

0:36:21.580 --> 0:36:24.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot for me to see on a daily basis.

0:36:24.739 --> 0:36:27.279
<v Speaker 1>And it's just my opinion. Like, you know what I mean?

0:36:27.300 --> 0:36:29.279
<v Speaker 1>I think different people have different opinions on it. That's

0:36:29.300 --> 0:36:32.090
<v Speaker 1>why we have morticians. That's why we have makeup artists

0:36:32.130 --> 0:36:34.910
<v Speaker 1>that do dead people's makeup.

0:36:35.010 --> 0:36:36.310
<v Speaker 2>And they specialize in that.

0:36:37.070 --> 0:36:39.350
<v Speaker 1>I personally don't think that it's something that I could

0:36:39.370 --> 0:36:44.810
<v Speaker 1>be around on a consistent basis. Like, I know it's

0:36:44.830 --> 0:36:46.390
<v Speaker 1>going to happen. I just don't need it in my

0:36:46.410 --> 0:36:47.089
<v Speaker 1>face all the time.

0:36:47.110 --> 0:36:47.210
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:36:47.230 --> 0:36:50.690
<v Speaker 4>Y'all want to know something that's so crazy? My cousin,

0:36:50.750 --> 0:36:53.509
<v Speaker 4>when I was younger, her mom passed away. You know

0:36:53.530 --> 0:36:54.390
<v Speaker 4>my cousin, I told you.

0:36:55.510 --> 0:36:56.470
<v Speaker 1>That's missing the tooth?

0:36:56.489 --> 0:36:56.890
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:36:57.570 --> 0:37:02.860
<v Speaker 4>She did her mom's hair when she passed away. She

0:37:02.900 --> 0:37:07.770
<v Speaker 4>did her mom's hair. That's crazy as fuck. But again,

0:37:07.790 --> 0:37:09.050
<v Speaker 4>I think some people can just.

0:37:09.530 --> 0:37:10.090
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:37:10.110 --> 0:37:13.290
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's a very lucrative business, too. So I

0:37:13.310 --> 0:37:16.340
<v Speaker 1>think if you can get over that hump, you can

0:37:16.360 --> 0:37:18.400
<v Speaker 1>make a lot of money, unfortunately.

0:37:18.820 --> 0:37:20.819
<v Speaker 2>What about you? What's a job that you could never do?

0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:24.940
<v Speaker 2>A trash man. Oh, no. Yeah. I don't want to

0:37:24.980 --> 0:37:27.279
<v Speaker 2>touch nobody's trash. I don't want to smell trash. I

0:37:27.300 --> 0:37:28.420
<v Speaker 2>don't want to smell like trash.

0:37:28.520 --> 0:37:28.620
<v Speaker 1>Ooh.

0:37:29.380 --> 0:37:30.020
<v Speaker 2>I can't do it.

0:37:30.300 --> 0:37:30.850
<v Speaker 1>I agree with you.

0:37:30.880 --> 0:37:33.259
<v Speaker 2>It's the trash juice. Ooh, the juice.

0:37:33.680 --> 0:37:36.320
<v Speaker 1>Ooh. Because have that shit ever got on your foot

0:37:36.340 --> 0:37:38.250
<v Speaker 1>when you were taking your old trash out?

0:37:39.510 --> 0:37:41.610
<v Speaker 2>Bitch, I'll be ready to cut my foot off. Oh,

0:37:41.630 --> 0:37:44.790
<v Speaker 2>my God. What the fuck? What the fuck is this?

0:37:44.850 --> 0:37:45.989
<v Speaker 1>And that's your trash.

0:37:46.030 --> 0:37:48.190
<v Speaker 2>And that's somebody else's. Because you don't even know what

0:37:48.230 --> 0:37:49.130
<v Speaker 2>the juice is from.

0:37:49.190 --> 0:37:51.370
<v Speaker 1>Is this from yesterday or is it from three weeks

0:37:51.430 --> 0:37:52.790
<v Speaker 1>ago or two weeks ago?

0:37:52.810 --> 0:37:56.009
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know. I don't even like dishwater.

0:37:56.630 --> 0:38:00.290
<v Speaker 2>Like dishwater? Oh, my God. Dumpster juice?

0:38:00.690 --> 0:38:02.629
<v Speaker 1>Because then what if you touch that little... It's some meat,

0:38:02.650 --> 0:38:03.669
<v Speaker 1>that Taco Bell meat.

0:38:03.989 --> 0:38:04.969
<v Speaker 2>Oh, hanging off.

0:38:05.070 --> 0:38:06.390
<v Speaker 1>Me in that water.

0:38:06.469 --> 0:38:08.469
<v Speaker 2>And you be like, what is this? But that juice

0:38:08.489 --> 0:38:12.610
<v Speaker 2>smell good. Okay. All right. I've never.

0:38:12.670 --> 0:38:15.950
<v Speaker 1>But you know, I've never been a person who make dishwater.

0:38:16.010 --> 0:38:16.410
<v Speaker 2>I don't make.

0:38:17.070 --> 0:38:19.509
<v Speaker 1>I never grew up... My parents didn't wash dishes like that,

0:38:19.530 --> 0:38:21.890
<v Speaker 1>so I never washed dishes like that.

0:38:21.969 --> 0:38:24.379
<v Speaker 2>Well... Because you had a dishwasher, right?

0:38:24.739 --> 0:38:27.160
<v Speaker 1>We had a dishwasher, but also when, like, we would

0:38:27.200 --> 0:38:29.609
<v Speaker 1>just wash dishes, I would just wash them. Yeah.

0:38:29.650 --> 0:38:30.629
<v Speaker 2>And then rinse them.

0:38:30.770 --> 0:38:33.509
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't make water and let it all sit in

0:38:33.570 --> 0:38:35.549
<v Speaker 1>water and then it be food particles in there and

0:38:35.590 --> 0:38:36.950
<v Speaker 1>I got to... I don't know.

0:38:37.090 --> 0:38:40.259
<v Speaker 2>So, we had a dishwasher, but my mom hated using it. So,

0:38:40.360 --> 0:38:40.799
<v Speaker 2>we would.

0:38:41.239 --> 0:38:43.960
<v Speaker 4>put the dishes in there and soak them. So by

0:38:43.980 --> 0:38:45.240
<v Speaker 4>the time they were ready.

0:38:45.060 --> 0:38:47.980
<v Speaker 2>To wash by our hands, it would be easier.

0:38:48.480 --> 0:38:51.030
<v Speaker 4>But now what I do is I soak my dishes

0:38:51.160 --> 0:38:51.480
<v Speaker 4>and I.

0:38:51.450 --> 0:38:53.950
<v Speaker 2>Rinse them off. Then I put them in a dishwasher.

0:38:53.969 --> 0:38:56.850
<v Speaker 4>Because, you know, when you put a plate full of food,

0:38:56.890 --> 0:39:00.029
<v Speaker 4>stuck on food in your dishwasher, if y'all didn't notice, that.

0:39:00.110 --> 0:39:01.910
<v Speaker 2>Takes the life away from your dishwasher.

0:39:02.350 --> 0:39:05.290
<v Speaker 4>Like you should put dishes in your dishwasher that are

0:39:06.200 --> 0:39:07.680
<v Speaker 4>Till the naked eye look clean.

0:39:08.000 --> 0:39:09.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure. Like, you supposed to be rinsing off

0:39:09.820 --> 0:39:12.160
<v Speaker 2>your dishes before you put them in the dishwasher. I

0:39:12.219 --> 0:39:15.960
<v Speaker 2>know that. As somebody, if my dishwasher break, I got

0:39:15.980 --> 0:39:17.600
<v Speaker 2>to replace it myself. Yeah.

0:39:17.760 --> 0:39:21.540
<v Speaker 4>But I always may have dishwater. I always have dishwater.

0:39:21.600 --> 0:39:24.940
<v Speaker 4>And that shit, I hate it. I hate it. I

0:39:25.080 --> 0:39:25.900
<v Speaker 4>hate it.

0:39:26.600 --> 0:39:27.560
<v Speaker 2>It's dumpster juice.

0:39:27.820 --> 0:39:28.050
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:39:28.280 --> 0:39:31.020
<v Speaker 2>That's what dumpster juice be. Yeah, pretty much. But you

0:39:31.040 --> 0:39:34.620
<v Speaker 2>know what's crazy? The trash people make some good money.

0:39:34.640 --> 0:39:35.590
<v Speaker 2>They make great money.

0:39:35.620 --> 0:39:36.790
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they do make good money.

0:39:37.290 --> 0:39:37.790
<v Speaker 2>They do.

0:39:37.910 --> 0:39:39.950
<v Speaker 1>But I can't, because when I be on my walks

0:39:39.989 --> 0:39:43.110
<v Speaker 1>in the morning in a trash truck, fly by, I

0:39:43.130 --> 0:39:44.430
<v Speaker 1>be like, what the fuck is that?

0:39:44.570 --> 0:39:45.770
<v Speaker 2>What the fuck going on?

0:39:47.410 --> 0:39:50.430
<v Speaker 1>If it's not 100 degrees, that trash just sizzling.

0:39:50.489 --> 0:39:52.589
<v Speaker 2>And it linger, too. But guess what? In the winter,

0:39:52.780 --> 0:39:53.560
<v Speaker 2>you don't smell it.

0:39:53.940 --> 0:39:55.420
<v Speaker 1>Nah, you smell it.

0:39:55.620 --> 0:39:58.029
<v Speaker 2>Not in the winter, you don't. Not as bad. It

0:39:58.070 --> 0:40:00.219
<v Speaker 2>ain't cooking in that trash. It ain't cooking.

0:40:00.280 --> 0:40:03.260
<v Speaker 1>It ain't cooking, but when they fly by, you still

0:40:03.280 --> 0:40:03.880
<v Speaker 1>see it.

0:40:04.580 --> 0:40:08.340
<v Speaker 2>Not they swinging that motherfucker. Why is they flying by?

0:40:08.400 --> 0:40:11.330
<v Speaker 2>Because they be flying by. You know I live in midtown.

0:40:11.550 --> 0:40:14.330
<v Speaker 2>They be zooming down that street. And you know what's crazy?

0:40:14.469 --> 0:40:16.430
<v Speaker 2>Me living in the area that I live in now,

0:40:18.650 --> 0:40:20.990
<v Speaker 2>the men that pick up the trash in my neighborhood,

0:40:21.010 --> 0:40:24.600
<v Speaker 2>they are so sweet. They are so nice. Like, they...

0:40:25.450 --> 0:40:27.680
<v Speaker 2>They be like, he like you. He was funny. They're

0:40:27.700 --> 0:40:31.180
<v Speaker 2>so funny, but they be like joking around. So sweet.

0:40:31.200 --> 0:40:32.980
<v Speaker 2>They be in a cheerful mood because I know that

0:40:33.020 --> 0:40:34.440
<v Speaker 2>check clearing. Yeah.

0:40:34.660 --> 0:40:36.219
<v Speaker 4>I know they be like, damn, it's a lot of

0:40:36.640 --> 0:40:39.240
<v Speaker 4>Louis Vuitton and Taco Bell in this trash can.

0:40:39.460 --> 0:40:43.739
<v Speaker 1>They getting their money. You know, okay, I don't think

0:40:43.820 --> 0:40:47.080
<v Speaker 1>I could be a skyscraper window cleaner either.

0:40:47.100 --> 0:40:51.000
<v Speaker 2>Ooh. I think I could. That's too dangerous. Yeah, it

0:40:51.080 --> 0:40:51.600
<v Speaker 2>is dangerous.

0:40:51.640 --> 0:40:53.739
<v Speaker 1>And then on top of it, I mean, the only, well,

0:40:53.780 --> 0:40:54.340
<v Speaker 1>never mind.

0:40:54.360 --> 0:40:54.739
<v Speaker 2>I guess.

0:40:55.940 --> 0:40:57.700
<v Speaker 1>Unless you like a pervert, you probably get to see

0:40:57.719 --> 0:40:58.180
<v Speaker 1>people naked.

0:40:58.200 --> 0:41:00.219
<v Speaker 2>They get to see you naked because you definitely.

0:41:00.260 --> 0:41:01.760
<v Speaker 1>They seen me naked for sure.

0:41:01.800 --> 0:41:02.279
<v Speaker 2>And I be like.

0:41:02.320 --> 0:41:03.040
<v Speaker 1>And.

0:41:04.410 --> 0:41:05.450
<v Speaker 2>Then she be like, leg.

0:41:05.469 --> 0:41:07.350
<v Speaker 1>I remember one time I dropped my towel.

0:41:08.230 --> 0:41:09.850
<v Speaker 2>Drea. I did.

0:41:10.489 --> 0:41:11.670
<v Speaker 1>And I was in an accident.

0:41:11.770 --> 0:41:23.440
<v Speaker 2>Drea. She probably be like this. Yeah. And then she'll

0:41:23.460 --> 0:41:26.870
<v Speaker 2>be go complaining, they looking in my window. Yeah, bitch,

0:41:26.910 --> 0:41:28.310
<v Speaker 2>we looking in your window.

0:41:28.330 --> 0:41:29.509
<v Speaker 1>Yes, they be looking.

0:41:29.650 --> 0:41:32.509
<v Speaker 2>Why is that pussy jaw-rating? Because I should be able

0:41:32.530 --> 0:41:34.750
<v Speaker 2>to be naked in my home. Yeah, I mean, you have.

0:41:34.770 --> 0:41:35.839
<v Speaker 1>Jaw-rate in my home.

0:41:35.950 --> 0:41:37.520
<v Speaker 2>It do, because I remember when my building was.

0:41:37.540 --> 0:41:40.340
<v Speaker 1>It vibrate whatever I want to do.

0:41:41.219 --> 0:41:44.819
<v Speaker 2>And then when you walk... It vibrate. It be vibrating. Yeah.

0:41:47.070 --> 0:41:49.890
<v Speaker 4>You got a nasty walk. And I say nasty in

0:41:49.910 --> 0:41:52.870
<v Speaker 4>a good way. Yeah, that thing be moving. So I

0:41:53.070 --> 0:41:56.830
<v Speaker 4>know that building finna crumble. They didn't put up no foundation.

0:41:57.270 --> 0:41:59.109
<v Speaker 4>They wasn't paying attention at all.

0:41:59.930 --> 0:42:00.850
<v Speaker 2>But no.

0:42:01.350 --> 0:42:02.969
<v Speaker 1>I mean, so I think maybe it might be a

0:42:03.050 --> 0:42:05.410
<v Speaker 1>good job for that reason. Because you get to see

0:42:05.430 --> 0:42:08.280
<v Speaker 1>what the fuck they doing in they house and shit.

0:42:08.300 --> 0:42:10.900
<v Speaker 1>But I would be too scared. Like, because them buildings

0:42:10.960 --> 0:42:14.359
<v Speaker 1>be so high up. And then all that's holding you

0:42:14.460 --> 0:42:15.140
<v Speaker 1>is a string.

0:42:15.620 --> 0:42:16.750
<v Speaker 2>In a harness? Yeah.

0:42:16.850 --> 0:42:17.830
<v Speaker 1>No, thank you.

0:42:17.910 --> 0:42:21.930
<v Speaker 2>A scaffold. Yeah. In my building. They don't?

0:42:22.210 --> 0:42:23.350
<v Speaker 1>They be on a harness.

0:42:23.410 --> 0:42:27.870
<v Speaker 2>They be like Spider-Man? Yeah. Oh, my God. They really do. Yeah.

0:42:28.010 --> 0:42:29.690
<v Speaker 2>I think that used to be like that on my building.

0:42:29.710 --> 0:42:31.350
<v Speaker 2>Because I never saw that thing. And they be hopping

0:42:31.430 --> 0:42:33.730
<v Speaker 2>from window to window. Yeah, they do. They do. She's

0:42:33.750 --> 0:42:36.239
<v Speaker 2>not lying. They do. They really do. I do remember.

0:42:36.380 --> 0:42:38.460
<v Speaker 1>I know what you're talking about, but no. I think

0:42:38.500 --> 0:42:41.200
<v Speaker 1>you're thinking about when they be building the buildings.

0:42:41.540 --> 0:42:42.020
<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:42:42.100 --> 0:42:45.460
<v Speaker 1>But when they're cleaning your windows, they just be having

0:42:45.500 --> 0:42:46.219
<v Speaker 1>on a harness.

0:42:46.280 --> 0:42:49.489
<v Speaker 2>Where do they put their supplies? All they need is

0:42:49.530 --> 0:42:53.170
<v Speaker 2>that little loogie, loogie. But how do you do that?

0:42:54.370 --> 0:42:57.690
<v Speaker 4>See, me, I could do that job, but I also

0:42:57.730 --> 0:43:00.219
<v Speaker 4>watch too many action movies. Because in my head on

0:43:00.239 --> 0:43:03.380
<v Speaker 4>the way down, I'm hitting a window, and then I'm

0:43:03.739 --> 0:43:05.480
<v Speaker 4>flying through the window, and I'm doing a somersault, and

0:43:05.500 --> 0:43:07.280
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, sorry, guys.

0:43:08.050 --> 0:43:11.939
<v Speaker 2>Just cleaning the windows. That's what I would do. Why

0:43:11.960 --> 0:43:12.340
<v Speaker 2>are you.

0:43:12.260 --> 0:43:13.500
<v Speaker 1>Breaking somebody's window?

0:43:13.700 --> 0:43:16.460
<v Speaker 2>So I wouldn't fall to the ground. So like I'm

0:43:16.500 --> 0:43:17.610
<v Speaker 2>Jason Statham.

0:43:19.530 --> 0:43:23.009
<v Speaker 4>Finally a window breaks and I do a dive roll

0:43:23.050 --> 0:43:23.910
<v Speaker 4>and I somersault.

0:43:24.610 --> 0:43:28.500
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, my bad guys. You got to hit the

0:43:28.540 --> 0:43:29.700
<v Speaker 2>wink and you got to be out of breath.

0:43:30.610 --> 0:43:32.870
<v Speaker 1>And that's your problem for thinking you in a movie because, bitch,

0:43:32.910 --> 0:43:36.230
<v Speaker 1>I always take a picture of your badge number. This

0:43:36.250 --> 0:43:38.790
<v Speaker 1>bitch about to pay for my window. What's your name, ma'am?

0:43:39.150 --> 0:43:43.430
<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay, Sarah. Not the government. Why did you say

0:43:43.450 --> 0:43:49.320
<v Speaker 2>it like that? You trying to be funny. I'm not.

0:43:49.590 --> 0:43:52.740
<v Speaker 1>I have no clue what you talking about.

0:43:52.800 --> 0:43:54.580
<v Speaker 2>What the fuck?

0:43:54.600 --> 0:43:56.940
<v Speaker 1>Yes, you about to pay for this window, boo. What's

0:43:56.960 --> 0:43:57.760
<v Speaker 1>coming out your pay?

0:43:59.210 --> 0:44:02.110
<v Speaker 2>I'm not mad at the skyscraper. You not? But I

0:44:02.150 --> 0:44:03.890
<v Speaker 2>do feel like at this point, they should put something

0:44:03.950 --> 0:44:05.469
<v Speaker 2>on the windows so they don't have to go up

0:44:05.489 --> 0:44:07.850
<v Speaker 2>there and clean it. It is very dangerous, okay?

0:44:08.280 --> 0:44:09.990
<v Speaker 1>Like a big-ass windshield wiper?

0:44:10.380 --> 0:44:10.860
<v Speaker 2>Well, no.

0:44:10.930 --> 0:44:12.969
<v Speaker 4>They have the things that you can spray on it

0:44:13.070 --> 0:44:15.420
<v Speaker 4>so it, like, you know, you don't have to do that.

0:44:15.960 --> 0:44:17.400
<v Speaker 4>You don't got to do all that because some buildings

0:44:17.440 --> 0:44:20.040
<v Speaker 4>do have, it's like something that they put on the window.

0:44:20.060 --> 0:44:21.779
<v Speaker 2>Like the type of window that they use? Yes, it's

0:44:21.840 --> 0:44:25.170
<v Speaker 2>a type of window that it doesn't, nothing sticks to it.

0:44:25.320 --> 0:44:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Mmm.

0:44:26.440 --> 0:44:30.420
<v Speaker 2>So. Okay. Here we got this.

0:44:30.460 --> 0:44:31.360
<v Speaker 1>Topic number two.

0:44:31.820 --> 0:44:35.399
<v Speaker 2>Oh, no. Tell me what we're drinking today. Yeah, let's

0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:37.299
<v Speaker 2>get into it. Uh-huh. Y'all like this one?

0:44:37.560 --> 0:44:41.120
<v Speaker 1>This is good. It tastes very fall. It's giving fall vibes.

0:44:41.780 --> 0:44:44.480
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I've been being good the past few episodes.

0:44:44.500 --> 0:44:47.300
<v Speaker 2>This got me cutting up. It's good. Yeah.

0:44:47.540 --> 0:44:49.390
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so this one, like you said, it is giving

0:44:49.410 --> 0:44:51.200
<v Speaker 1>a little autumn. It is giving a little fall. We're

0:44:51.219 --> 0:44:53.550
<v Speaker 1>going to call this one Off the Record, okay? So

0:44:53.910 --> 0:44:56.710
<v Speaker 1>you can use whatever spirit of choice. We have some

0:44:57.960 --> 0:45:00.580
<v Speaker 1>We have some ginger. We have some fresh thyme. We

0:45:00.620 --> 0:45:03.759
<v Speaker 1>have some pear syrup in there. And then we topped

0:45:03.780 --> 0:45:05.759
<v Speaker 1>it off with a little ginger beer, and it adds

0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:07.859
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of lemon in it. And then for

0:45:07.920 --> 0:45:12.009
<v Speaker 1>the garnish, we have some pear slices, some fresh thyme,

0:45:12.200 --> 0:45:13.430
<v Speaker 1>and a candied.

0:45:13.010 --> 0:45:15.790
<v Speaker 2>Ginger in there. So it's nice and warm.

0:45:16.070 --> 0:45:18.250
<v Speaker 1>The pomegranate is floating at the bottom to give us

0:45:18.290 --> 0:45:19.510
<v Speaker 1>a little ombre effect.

0:45:20.030 --> 0:45:26.350
<v Speaker 2>And, yeah, we're gearing up for this seasonal depression, I guess, maybe. Boo, tomato, tomato.

0:45:27.200 --> 0:45:27.490
<v Speaker 2>You like it?

0:45:27.500 --> 0:45:28.260
<v Speaker 1>I don't like those.

0:45:28.320 --> 0:45:30.480
<v Speaker 2>That's the candy ginger? I like it. See, that's good

0:45:30.540 --> 0:45:31.080
<v Speaker 2>for you, too.

0:45:31.460 --> 0:45:33.640
<v Speaker 1>Let me try it. I like ginger.

0:45:33.660 --> 0:45:38.060
<v Speaker 2>Me, too. Get a little wellness shot of ginger. Yeah,

0:45:38.160 --> 0:45:43.200
<v Speaker 2>I like that. I love ginger. That is good. Let

0:45:43.239 --> 0:45:44.080
<v Speaker 2>me wash it down.

0:45:44.100 --> 0:45:49.420
<v Speaker 1>Okay, thank you, Ty. These drinks are delicious per usual.

0:45:50.180 --> 0:45:52.480
<v Speaker 1>And so, you know we love to pour it up.

0:45:52.620 --> 0:45:53.060
<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:45:53.100 --> 0:45:54.680
<v Speaker 1>So, we ought to get into our pour picks of

0:45:54.700 --> 0:45:55.120
<v Speaker 1>the week.

0:45:55.180 --> 0:45:55.379
<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:45:55.440 --> 0:45:57.680
<v Speaker 1>Sponsored by our friends over at PrizePix.

0:45:58.430 --> 0:45:58.739
<v Speaker 2>Mm-hmm.

0:45:58.860 --> 0:46:01.290
<v Speaker 4>One thing about it that I love about PrizePix is

0:46:01.770 --> 0:46:04.469
<v Speaker 4>I'm seeing everybody online talking about PrizePix, and I'm like.

0:46:04.850 --> 0:46:08.230
<v Speaker 2>Well, I love a little sports because go team, period.

0:46:08.510 --> 0:46:10.109
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, how can we get in on this? They

0:46:10.130 --> 0:46:10.990
<v Speaker 2>got entertainment picks.

0:46:11.570 --> 0:46:13.330
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because we don't always be knowing what's going on

0:46:13.350 --> 0:46:14.550
<v Speaker 1>with the sports. Mm-hmm.

0:46:17.520 --> 0:46:20.969
<v Speaker 2>That's how I place my picks. I don't know about you.

0:46:21.140 --> 0:46:24.210
<v Speaker 1>That's how I be picking my picks. But, so let's

0:46:24.230 --> 0:46:26.169
<v Speaker 1>get into some entertainment picks this week.

0:46:26.270 --> 0:46:28.930
<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay. Let me see. Let me open up my

0:46:29.030 --> 0:46:31.610
<v Speaker 2>app real quick. Oh, well, you know what? Let's do

0:46:31.650 --> 0:46:33.320
<v Speaker 2>this one because this is sports related.

0:46:34.040 --> 0:46:35.060
<v Speaker 1>We can do this one first.

0:46:35.120 --> 0:46:35.560
<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:46:37.380 --> 0:46:45.160
<v Speaker 4>Who will headline the 2026 NFL Super Bowl halftime show?

0:46:46.290 --> 0:46:51.210
<v Speaker 4>You got Jay-Z, Miley Cyrus are like the main choices,

0:46:51.250 --> 0:46:53.390
<v Speaker 4>but you can, you know, put anything in there.

0:46:53.690 --> 0:46:55.880
<v Speaker 2>Who do you think? It don't got to be Jay-Z

0:46:55.890 --> 0:46:57.950
<v Speaker 2>or Miley. You can pick whoever. Who do you think?

0:46:58.700 --> 0:47:00.980
<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm going to, out of those two people, I'm

0:47:01.020 --> 0:47:03.440
<v Speaker 1>going to bet on who I would like to see

0:47:03.920 --> 0:47:06.279
<v Speaker 1>this year. And I don't know. I kind of feel

0:47:06.300 --> 0:47:09.820
<v Speaker 1>like it might be Jay-Z. Jay-Z been outside.

0:47:10.120 --> 0:47:11.440
<v Speaker 2>He has been outside.

0:47:11.460 --> 0:47:13.440
<v Speaker 1>And then on top of that, isn't he like the

0:47:13.480 --> 0:47:17.170
<v Speaker 1>chairman of Isn't he the person who performs at the

0:47:17.190 --> 0:47:18.320
<v Speaker 1>Super Bowl every year? He is.

0:47:18.380 --> 0:47:18.570
<v Speaker 2>He is.

0:47:18.610 --> 0:47:20.660
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what his proper title is for that,

0:47:20.700 --> 0:47:22.279
<v Speaker 1>but I know that he's in charge of it.

0:47:22.580 --> 0:47:22.900
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:47:22.980 --> 0:47:27.259
<v Speaker 1>So, I think that it might be Jay-Z. And he's

0:47:27.320 --> 0:47:29.239
<v Speaker 1>never done a Super Bowl half time.

0:47:29.420 --> 0:47:29.560
<v Speaker 3>Uh-uh.

0:47:29.620 --> 0:47:30.700
<v Speaker 2>He hasn't. He hasn't.

0:47:31.320 --> 0:47:32.320
<v Speaker 1>The time is near.

0:47:32.600 --> 0:47:34.680
<v Speaker 2>The time might be near. The time is near.

0:47:35.130 --> 0:47:35.350
<v Speaker 3>Now.

0:47:35.570 --> 0:47:36.850
<v Speaker 1>So, that's who I'm voting for.

0:47:37.010 --> 0:47:40.469
<v Speaker 2>Okay. For me, I'm going to go opposite. I'm going

0:47:40.510 --> 0:47:42.500
<v Speaker 2>to say Miley Cyrus....

0:47:43.890 --> 0:47:47.690
<v Speaker 4>Uh, because if the Cowboys get there, walk with me now,

0:47:48.450 --> 0:47:51.650
<v Speaker 4>if the Cowboys make it to the Super Bowl, Mollie

0:47:51.690 --> 0:47:54.630
<v Speaker 4>Cyrus has to do the halftime show because she got

0:47:54.650 --> 0:47:57.350
<v Speaker 4>to do a Dolly Parton tribute, bruh.

0:47:57.770 --> 0:48:01.920
<v Speaker 2>She got to. Dolly Parton loved the Cowboys. She always

0:48:01.960 --> 0:48:05.120
<v Speaker 2>used to dress up in her Cowboys uniform. She did.

0:48:05.239 --> 0:48:06.020
<v Speaker 1>That's a good point.

0:48:07.230 --> 0:48:09.890
<v Speaker 4>I think that if they want to do a Dolly

0:48:09.910 --> 0:48:12.950
<v Speaker 4>Parton tribute, they got to get Miley. They have to

0:48:12.989 --> 0:48:16.010
<v Speaker 4>do Miley because, you know, she loved to sing about.

0:48:15.850 --> 0:48:19.800
<v Speaker 2>Jolene, bitch ass. Okay. She loved it. She loved it.

0:48:19.890 --> 0:48:22.109
<v Speaker 2>So that's going to be my poor pick of the week.

0:48:22.140 --> 0:48:22.589
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:48:22.640 --> 0:48:24.090
<v Speaker 1>That's a good poor pick. I mean, I think that

0:48:24.140 --> 0:48:27.219
<v Speaker 1>those are two really good options for the halftime show, though.

0:48:27.239 --> 0:48:30.170
<v Speaker 1>Like Jay-Z is an icon. He's a legend. And so

0:48:30.210 --> 0:48:31.170
<v Speaker 1>is Miley Cyrus.

0:48:31.210 --> 0:48:32.870
<v Speaker 2>So, I don't know.

0:48:32.930 --> 0:48:33.989
<v Speaker 1>I guess we got to wait and see.

0:48:34.030 --> 0:48:36.010
<v Speaker 2>We gots to wait and see, child.

0:48:36.050 --> 0:48:40.140
<v Speaker 4>But also, if y'all download the app and use code POORMINDS,

0:48:40.860 --> 0:48:44.500
<v Speaker 4>you can win $ 150 if you win.

0:48:44.160 --> 0:48:47.940
<v Speaker 2>Your first $ 5 lineup, okay? I don't know about y'all,

0:48:47.960 --> 0:48:50.540
<v Speaker 2>but it's time to get into these pics, poo.

0:48:50.719 --> 0:48:53.859
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to get this money, okay? Save that money up.

0:48:53.960 --> 0:48:57.610
<v Speaker 2>I like that. I like that. All right. All right.

0:48:59.770 --> 0:49:03.930
<v Speaker 2>Topic number two, can you take your partner anywhere?

0:49:04.360 --> 0:49:06.920
<v Speaker 4>One of the most underrated qualities in a partner is

0:49:06.960 --> 0:49:08.880
<v Speaker 4>knowing that you can take them anywhere, whether it's a

0:49:08.900 --> 0:49:13.040
<v Speaker 4>corporate event, family gathering, a cookout, wedding, or just like

0:49:13.080 --> 0:49:15.450
<v Speaker 4>a night out with your friends and trust that they'll

0:49:15.530 --> 0:49:21.250
<v Speaker 4>represent themselves and your relationship wells. do you feel like

0:49:21.710 --> 0:49:24.839
<v Speaker 4>you've ever dated someone who like you could take them

0:49:24.880 --> 0:49:25.840
<v Speaker 4>everywhere or you couldn't?

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:28.040
<v Speaker 2>Hmm.

0:49:29.140 --> 0:49:31.480
<v Speaker 1>No, I always feel like I could take the person

0:49:31.500 --> 0:49:33.700
<v Speaker 1>that I'm dating everywhere because if I'm embarrassed to you,

0:49:33.739 --> 0:49:34.600
<v Speaker 1>why am I dating you?

0:49:34.660 --> 0:49:36.700
<v Speaker 2>Come on now. Come on now.

0:49:37.239 --> 0:49:38.780
<v Speaker 1>Like, I feel like you multi-purpose.

0:49:38.820 --> 0:49:41.820
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. You multi-use. We gonna go everywhere together. Yes.

0:49:42.620 --> 0:49:44.480
<v Speaker 1>If you don't know how to dress, we gonna find

0:49:44.500 --> 0:49:45.040
<v Speaker 1>you a suit.

0:49:45.120 --> 0:49:45.460
<v Speaker 2>Uh-oh.

0:49:46.000 --> 0:49:47.950
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, like, you know what I mean? Like,

0:49:48.450 --> 0:49:53.650
<v Speaker 1>whatever the occasion is, I'm your partner. So, if it's

0:49:53.730 --> 0:49:56.190
<v Speaker 1>a situation where it's like maybe you a loud person

0:49:56.230 --> 0:49:57.830
<v Speaker 1>and I feel like you need to be a little more.

0:49:57.770 --> 0:50:02.860
<v Speaker 2>Calm, like, you know, calm down. Relax. Be cool.

0:50:02.980 --> 0:50:05.219
<v Speaker 1>But I'm not gonna just not bring you. Like, I

0:50:05.239 --> 0:50:08.160
<v Speaker 1>think it's weird when people date a person that they're

0:50:08.260 --> 0:50:10.660
<v Speaker 1>embarrassed of or they feel like don't fit in certain

0:50:10.700 --> 0:50:13.900
<v Speaker 1>settings or they don't want to bring them around certain

0:50:13.920 --> 0:50:15.549
<v Speaker 1>people or in certain environments.

0:50:15.610 --> 0:50:19.990
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I 100% agree. I think that one thing.

0:50:19.890 --> 0:50:24.049
<v Speaker 4>That I love about, like, men is that when you

0:50:24.070 --> 0:50:26.109
<v Speaker 4>date a certain type of man, especially one that knows

0:50:26.150 --> 0:50:28.629
<v Speaker 4>how to talk, I like men who know how to, like,

0:50:28.690 --> 0:50:30.790
<v Speaker 4>work a room. Because one thing about me is I'm

0:50:31.320 --> 0:50:33.380
<v Speaker 4>as crazy as it sounds. Like, when I'm in, like,

0:50:33.420 --> 0:50:35.379
<v Speaker 4>a group of people or, like, a setting, like, I'm

0:50:35.480 --> 0:50:36.360
<v Speaker 4>really not a talker.

0:50:37.310 --> 0:50:39.510
<v Speaker 2>Because I hate small talk. I'm trying to get better

0:50:39.550 --> 0:50:40.469
<v Speaker 2>at it, obviously.

0:50:40.860 --> 0:50:42.819
<v Speaker 4>But one thing I love is a man who can

0:50:42.900 --> 0:50:45.650
<v Speaker 4>work a fucking room. He walks in the room, everybody's like, oh,

0:50:45.670 --> 0:50:47.930
<v Speaker 4>let me go see what he's about. So, I agree

0:50:47.950 --> 0:50:49.710
<v Speaker 4>with Dre. Like, I would never date somebody that I'm

0:50:49.770 --> 0:50:52.509
<v Speaker 4>embarrassed of. I actually like being with men who know

0:50:52.550 --> 0:50:54.190
<v Speaker 4>how to work a room. People walking up to him,

0:50:54.210 --> 0:50:56.739
<v Speaker 4>they're like, hey, what's up, bro? And he's like, yeah,

0:50:56.800 --> 0:50:58.860
<v Speaker 4>and he's just working the room. So, and I also

0:50:58.930 --> 0:51:02.259
<v Speaker 4>think that, again, this goes with communication. Why are you

0:51:02.300 --> 0:51:05.120
<v Speaker 4>dating somebody and you're not comfortable enough to tell them, like, hey, babe,

0:51:05.520 --> 0:51:07.160
<v Speaker 4>I know you be getting lit and turned up.

0:51:07.520 --> 0:51:09.360
<v Speaker 2>This ain't the vibe for that.

0:51:09.660 --> 0:51:11.940
<v Speaker 4>So, if you can't have a conversation with your man

0:51:12.000 --> 0:51:13.560
<v Speaker 4>or your woman, then why are you with them?

0:51:14.180 --> 0:51:16.660
<v Speaker 2>That's weird. Like, it.

0:51:17.230 --> 0:51:19.730
<v Speaker 4>I love to tell, because I have conversations with friends, too.

0:51:19.750 --> 0:51:21.130
<v Speaker 4>Sometimes I'll be like, okay, bitch, I'm like, you know,

0:51:21.150 --> 0:51:23.089
<v Speaker 4>this is not that type of party. We not finna

0:51:23.110 --> 0:51:25.950
<v Speaker 4>be in here popping pussy. Not tonight. That's tomorrow.

0:51:26.750 --> 0:51:27.150
<v Speaker 2>Tonight?

0:51:27.170 --> 0:51:28.130
<v Speaker 1>That's at the after party.

0:51:28.150 --> 0:51:30.290
<v Speaker 2>That's at the after party. It's the main event.

0:51:30.310 --> 0:51:31.370
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:51:31.390 --> 0:51:33.589
<v Speaker 2>You gotta know how to act. So, I think that

0:51:33.610 --> 0:51:36.209
<v Speaker 2>dating somebody... You say what?

0:51:39.120 --> 0:51:41.109
<v Speaker 4>But have y'all ever had a conversation with somebody y'all

0:51:41.130 --> 0:51:44.210
<v Speaker 4>dated in the past and they got upset? Because you

0:51:44.230 --> 0:51:46.710
<v Speaker 4>were like, hey, don't do this here.

0:51:46.750 --> 0:51:48.779
<v Speaker 2>And they was like, I don't ever do that. Why

0:51:48.800 --> 0:51:55.739
<v Speaker 2>are you acting like that? Um... No, not really. Because,

0:51:55.980 --> 0:51:57.219
<v Speaker 2>like I said, I don't know.

0:51:57.320 --> 0:51:59.440
<v Speaker 1>I feel like dudes I be dating, they be matching

0:51:59.460 --> 0:52:02.520
<v Speaker 1>my vibe. Like, I know how to act in public.

0:52:02.680 --> 0:52:02.919
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:52:02.960 --> 0:52:05.279
<v Speaker 1>So, I typically date men who know how to act

0:52:05.390 --> 0:52:05.989
<v Speaker 1>in public.

0:52:06.070 --> 0:52:06.800
<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean?

0:52:06.840 --> 0:52:09.969
<v Speaker 1>So, I've never really had to have those type of

0:52:10.010 --> 0:52:13.610
<v Speaker 1>conversations with men that I've dated because we always align

0:52:13.670 --> 0:52:16.310
<v Speaker 1>in that way with how we move publicly.

0:52:16.550 --> 0:52:17.590
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:52:18.170 --> 0:52:18.430
<v Speaker 3>But.

0:52:19.340 --> 0:52:21.080
<v Speaker 1>If I did, that would be a red flag for

0:52:21.100 --> 0:52:23.120
<v Speaker 1>the relationship and the fact that me and my best

0:52:23.160 --> 0:52:25.319
<v Speaker 1>friend was talking about this yesterday. And I know that

0:52:25.360 --> 0:52:28.290
<v Speaker 1>this is probably like off topic, but I think that

0:52:28.330 --> 0:52:32.569
<v Speaker 1>when you date people who y'all naturally align and care

0:52:32.610 --> 0:52:36.020
<v Speaker 1>about the same things, you can avoid having those type

0:52:36.060 --> 0:52:38.759
<v Speaker 1>of conversations. Like it won't be a point of contention

0:52:38.820 --> 0:52:41.980
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, how they act or how they maneuver

0:52:42.280 --> 0:52:44.340
<v Speaker 1>or the fact that they drink too much in public

0:52:44.440 --> 0:52:46.540
<v Speaker 1>and you only going to have a cocktail or two.

0:52:46.780 --> 0:52:48.940
<v Speaker 1>You're not going to have to have these type of conversations.

0:52:48.980 --> 0:52:54.660
<v Speaker 1>They too loud, you more quiet and reserved because y'all

0:52:54.680 --> 0:52:57.180
<v Speaker 1>don't care about the same thing. So if you just

0:52:57.239 --> 0:52:59.650
<v Speaker 1>date somebody where y'all care about the same things, y'all

0:52:59.690 --> 0:53:02.390
<v Speaker 1>already aligned, it's never going to be a conversation.

0:53:02.760 --> 0:53:03.259
<v Speaker 2>That's true.

0:53:03.280 --> 0:53:05.030
<v Speaker 4>Because I think a lot of times we got hooked

0:53:05.150 --> 0:53:07.390
<v Speaker 4>on that opposites attract.

0:53:07.450 --> 0:53:11.630
<v Speaker 2>And that's bullshit. Yeah, I agree. I 100% agree.

0:53:11.830 --> 0:53:14.320
<v Speaker 1>I think it can work, but I think it takes

0:53:14.400 --> 0:53:16.940
<v Speaker 1>a lot of work to date an opposite. And I

0:53:16.960 --> 0:53:20.549
<v Speaker 1>think a lot of our parents and older generations made

0:53:20.620 --> 0:53:23.290
<v Speaker 1>it work. Like, they made it happen because it's like,

0:53:23.350 --> 0:53:25.730
<v Speaker 1>I love this person. I already got six kids with them,

0:53:25.770 --> 0:53:28.189
<v Speaker 1>so even though we different, we gonna make this shit

0:53:28.230 --> 0:53:30.049
<v Speaker 1>work and we gonna thug it and ride it till

0:53:30.070 --> 0:53:32.450
<v Speaker 1>the wheels fall off. But I think that initially, if

0:53:32.489 --> 0:53:35.320
<v Speaker 1>you just date somebody where y'all are already aligned, a

0:53:35.960 --> 0:53:38.239
<v Speaker 1>lot of those conversations won't ever be had.

0:53:39.540 --> 0:53:41.779
<v Speaker 2>And honestly, one thing that I've learned from kind of

0:53:41.820 --> 0:53:44.820
<v Speaker 2>dating somebody who's a lot more mellow, like in my past,

0:53:45.260 --> 0:53:49.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be anybody's excitement. Like, If they're

0:53:49.739 --> 0:53:51.560
<v Speaker 2>feeling down, let me call Lex because I need my

0:53:51.660 --> 0:53:53.040
<v Speaker 2>cup filled up. Yeah.

0:53:53.320 --> 0:53:55.770
<v Speaker 4>I don't want to be anybody... Like, I enjoy being, like,

0:53:55.810 --> 0:53:58.210
<v Speaker 4>the highlight of my man's day. That's not what I'm saying, but...

0:53:58.070 --> 0:54:04.340
<v Speaker 4>Because they will siphon your energy 1,000% because you will literally,

0:54:04.480 --> 0:54:06.339
<v Speaker 4>especially if you think you love someone or you are

0:54:06.380 --> 0:54:07.520
<v Speaker 4>in love with someone, you find.

0:54:07.340 --> 0:54:07.940
<v Speaker 2>Yourself, like.

0:54:08.690 --> 0:54:11.610
<v Speaker 4>kind of tap dancing for them to entertain them versus

0:54:11.670 --> 0:54:15.750
<v Speaker 4>like when me and a man that I'm with go

0:54:15.830 --> 0:54:17.299
<v Speaker 4>in a room and stuff, like we can work in

0:54:17.320 --> 0:54:19.379
<v Speaker 4>a room, we having a good time or if something

0:54:19.400 --> 0:54:21.420
<v Speaker 4>happens where I get too drunk or he gets too drunk, we.

0:54:21.380 --> 0:54:23.420
<v Speaker 2>Know how to work it out because shit, this is

0:54:23.460 --> 0:54:23.860
<v Speaker 2>how we are.

0:54:23.880 --> 0:54:27.460
<v Speaker 4>This is what we do versus somebody who's like, oh

0:54:27.500 --> 0:54:29.839
<v Speaker 4>my God, Lex is pissing me off.

0:54:30.060 --> 0:54:32.780
<v Speaker 2>Lex, why you talking so much? Because I like to talk,

0:54:32.860 --> 0:54:36.570
<v Speaker 2>bitch ass nigga. I'm a talker. So why are you here?

0:54:36.590 --> 0:54:39.850
<v Speaker 4>Because people that are opposite of you, that don't understand you,

0:54:40.510 --> 0:54:42.380
<v Speaker 4>the same reason why they fall in love with you,

0:54:42.390 --> 0:54:45.109
<v Speaker 4>they'll start to make you feel bad about who you are.

0:54:45.650 --> 0:54:49.049
<v Speaker 4>And then they'll start to try to change you. And

0:54:49.090 --> 0:54:50.990
<v Speaker 4>that's where the issues lie.

0:54:51.130 --> 0:54:53.190
<v Speaker 1>I don't even be feeling like that is people fall

0:54:53.230 --> 0:54:55.440
<v Speaker 1>in love with it. I think it just be exciting

0:54:55.460 --> 0:54:58.399
<v Speaker 1>because it's something different. But I don't really think, like,

0:54:58.500 --> 0:55:02.100
<v Speaker 1>I think that in situations where people will resent you

0:55:02.140 --> 0:55:04.560
<v Speaker 1>later down the line or feel some type of way about...

0:55:05.030 --> 0:55:08.770
<v Speaker 1>your personality traits or ways that you initially were when

0:55:08.790 --> 0:55:11.050
<v Speaker 1>they met you, they already knew you was this way.

0:55:11.150 --> 0:55:13.200
<v Speaker 1>And they probably never really liked it. It was just

0:55:13.260 --> 0:55:15.919
<v Speaker 1>exciting at first. Because it was something different. It's something

0:55:15.940 --> 0:55:18.120
<v Speaker 1>that they wasn't used to being around.

0:55:18.300 --> 0:55:18.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:55:19.540 --> 0:55:22.120
<v Speaker 1>Because one thing about it, I tried to do that before.

0:55:22.140 --> 0:55:26.550
<v Speaker 1>Because you don't resent what you ever was, like, really liking.

0:55:27.110 --> 0:55:28.450
<v Speaker 2>For real. Yeah.

0:55:29.450 --> 0:55:30.210
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I'm saying.

0:55:30.270 --> 0:55:32.029
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it's like, I get what you're saying.

0:55:32.090 --> 0:55:35.029
<v Speaker 4>I think it's like, Because people will.

0:55:36.460 --> 0:55:39.420
<v Speaker 4>Like that about you, too, because it's like something different.

0:55:39.440 --> 0:55:40.719
<v Speaker 4>They'll be like, you know what, let me try this.

0:55:40.739 --> 0:55:42.799
<v Speaker 4>This seems a little different. And in the beginning, it

0:55:42.840 --> 0:55:45.339
<v Speaker 4>do be fun for them. It's like, oh, this girl crazy.

0:55:45.360 --> 0:55:45.839
<v Speaker 2>This is fun.

0:55:45.890 --> 0:55:47.550
<v Speaker 4>But then it starts to get on their nerves or

0:55:47.570 --> 0:55:49.990
<v Speaker 4>whatever the case may be. Then they try to be like, hey,

0:55:50.010 --> 0:55:52.430
<v Speaker 4>can you... Actually, no, I can't. You can leave me

0:55:52.450 --> 0:55:53.730
<v Speaker 4>the fuck alone, bitch.

0:55:54.110 --> 0:55:57.870
<v Speaker 1>The hateration in that dancery was already there since day one.

0:55:57.969 --> 0:55:58.990
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah.

0:55:59.010 --> 0:56:02.620
<v Speaker 1>Seriously. Anybody that I've ever felt like had started to

0:56:02.640 --> 0:56:05.920
<v Speaker 1>have resentment towards me... Later in a relationship, whether it

0:56:05.960 --> 0:56:10.460
<v Speaker 1>was a man or a friendship, the resentment was already

0:56:10.480 --> 0:56:12.940
<v Speaker 1>there since day one. The jealousy was already there since

0:56:13.180 --> 0:56:15.930
<v Speaker 1>day one. I just chose to not pay attention to

0:56:15.989 --> 0:56:18.569
<v Speaker 1>it or we already weren't in alignment since day one.

0:56:18.969 --> 0:56:21.549
<v Speaker 1>I just was like, oh, let me try something different.

0:56:22.030 --> 0:56:24.710
<v Speaker 4>And I will always say, too, people will literally hate

0:56:24.750 --> 0:56:27.629
<v Speaker 4>you because of how loved you are. Like when they

0:56:27.690 --> 0:56:29.910
<v Speaker 4>see you, because it gets on their nerves, but they

0:56:29.950 --> 0:56:33.190
<v Speaker 4>see you walk in a room and people, oh my God, and.

0:56:33.150 --> 0:56:33.969
<v Speaker 2>They love it.

0:56:34.250 --> 0:56:37.160
<v Speaker 4>That makes it even worse because they don't like it,

0:56:37.190 --> 0:56:38.790
<v Speaker 4>but they see other people love it.

0:56:39.350 --> 0:56:41.379
<v Speaker 2>Oh, that makes the shit even worse.

0:56:42.030 --> 0:56:44.899
<v Speaker 4>I have literally known people, they be like, they try

0:56:44.920 --> 0:56:48.180
<v Speaker 4>to tell me to shut up, but then people are like,

0:56:48.260 --> 0:56:52.260
<v Speaker 4>no Lex, keep shining, keep glowing, keep growing, keep going.

0:56:52.540 --> 0:56:57.480
<v Speaker 2>Ooh, bars. Hold on, let me write that down. I'm

0:56:57.500 --> 0:57:00.580
<v Speaker 2>finna go to the stew. I'm finna go to the stew, Dre.

0:57:00.760 --> 0:57:01.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:57:01.300 --> 0:57:01.500
<v Speaker 2>Oh.

0:57:01.600 --> 0:57:07.210
<v Speaker 3>Because I'm telling you, man, stuff like that makes it.

0:57:07.310 --> 0:57:10.950
<v Speaker 4>Even worse because they want you to doubt yourself sometimes

0:57:11.030 --> 0:57:12.180
<v Speaker 4>because how they feel.

0:57:12.239 --> 0:57:16.150
<v Speaker 2>But just because I'm not for you... It doesn't mean

0:57:16.190 --> 0:57:18.820
<v Speaker 2>I'm not for this person or this person. Yeah.

0:57:19.060 --> 0:57:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I agree with you on that. And that's what I

0:57:20.200 --> 0:57:22.090
<v Speaker 1>was going to say. I think that, again, that's where

0:57:22.120 --> 0:57:25.670
<v Speaker 1>compatibility come into play. It don't necessarily ever be anything

0:57:25.770 --> 0:57:30.240
<v Speaker 1>wrong with anybody's personality, in my opinion. Again, unless you

0:57:30.260 --> 0:57:32.720
<v Speaker 1>just like an evil motherfucker. Like, it really is some

0:57:32.740 --> 0:57:36.880
<v Speaker 1>people out here that's just like nasty, mean, evil people. Like, bitch,

0:57:36.900 --> 0:57:38.900
<v Speaker 1>you need to go do some inner work. You need

0:57:38.920 --> 0:57:40.370
<v Speaker 1>to go to therapy. You need to go to church.

0:57:40.390 --> 0:57:41.830
<v Speaker 1>You need to pray. You need to get right with

0:57:41.850 --> 0:57:44.030
<v Speaker 1>the Lord and figure out why you have all of

0:57:44.050 --> 0:57:47.370
<v Speaker 1>this trauma and why you just genuinely not a nice person.

0:57:47.710 --> 0:57:50.930
<v Speaker 1>But when it comes to certain personality traits of like

0:57:51.380 --> 0:57:56.180
<v Speaker 1>somebody maybe being a little bit more optimistic and bubbly and...

0:57:56.800 --> 0:57:59.340
<v Speaker 1>another person not being as bubbly I don't really think

0:57:59.440 --> 0:58:03.570
<v Speaker 1>it's anything wrong with those things people just don't be

0:58:03.620 --> 0:58:06.670
<v Speaker 1>compatible and people be trying to force compatibility a lot

0:58:06.710 --> 0:58:09.210
<v Speaker 1>of the time yeah and then that's when they try

0:58:09.230 --> 0:58:12.410
<v Speaker 1>to tell you what's wrong with your personality and what

0:58:12.450 --> 0:58:14.130
<v Speaker 1>you need to work on like people I feel like

0:58:14.150 --> 0:58:15.810
<v Speaker 1>people do that to me and Lex all the time

0:58:15.850 --> 0:58:17.490
<v Speaker 1>in the comments like people will try to tell us

0:58:18.030 --> 0:58:20.390
<v Speaker 1>what Lex needs to work on with her personality or

0:58:20.430 --> 0:58:22.540
<v Speaker 1>what I need to work on with my personality when

0:58:22.580 --> 0:58:25.840
<v Speaker 1>maybe like Maybe this show ain't compatible for your personality.

0:58:26.380 --> 0:58:31.700
<v Speaker 2>Uh-oh. They need to use the watch. Y'all still watching

0:58:31.740 --> 0:58:34.360
<v Speaker 2>and y'all need to use the watch.

0:58:34.400 --> 0:58:36.700
<v Speaker 1>But I'm just saying, and I wonder why people don't

0:58:36.780 --> 0:58:40.520
<v Speaker 1>think that enough versus trying to make people change who

0:58:40.560 --> 0:58:43.450
<v Speaker 1>they are or make them feel like there's something wrong

0:58:43.490 --> 0:58:45.030
<v Speaker 1>with them being the way that they are.

0:58:45.070 --> 0:58:47.930
<v Speaker 2>Like, maybe you just don't like these people.

0:58:48.050 --> 0:58:50.630
<v Speaker 1>And that's okay, too. It's okay for us all to

0:58:50.670 --> 0:58:52.810
<v Speaker 1>not vibe with each other all the time.

0:58:52.830 --> 0:58:54.790
<v Speaker 2>Mm-hmm. But people try.

0:58:54.630 --> 0:58:56.950
<v Speaker 1>To force it. Just like sometimes I think people try

0:58:56.970 --> 0:59:01.930
<v Speaker 1>to force us. So I complain about this all the time.

0:59:01.930 --> 0:59:04.340
<v Speaker 4>Well, I think a lot of times people want to

0:59:04.340 --> 0:59:07.180
<v Speaker 4>get the hoopla around it. Because it, I'm not going

0:59:07.180 --> 0:59:08.939
<v Speaker 4>to lie, bitch, poor minds.

0:59:08.570 --> 0:59:09.860
<v Speaker 2>Is fucking fun. It is. fun.

0:59:09.880 --> 0:59:11.440
<v Speaker 4>Like, if you're not part of the poor crew and

0:59:11.480 --> 0:59:13.940
<v Speaker 4>you get it, it's a fucking vibe.

0:59:14.020 --> 0:59:14.560
<v Speaker 1>It's fun.

0:59:14.600 --> 0:59:17.480
<v Speaker 4>Because sometimes... I get it though. It'd be like some

0:59:17.520 --> 0:59:20.610
<v Speaker 4>music or like an artist or something. I'm like, I

0:59:20.620 --> 0:59:22.890
<v Speaker 4>want to have fun and I want to get it

0:59:22.970 --> 0:59:25.290
<v Speaker 4>and I don't get it. So, you know, I'd be like,

0:59:25.310 --> 0:59:27.180
<v Speaker 4>you know what? Let me politely exit my way because

0:59:27.220 --> 0:59:28.140
<v Speaker 4>I just don't hear it.

0:59:28.180 --> 0:59:29.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't get it.

0:59:29.240 --> 0:59:33.110
<v Speaker 4>But it'll be literally superstar. artists, and I'm just like,

0:59:33.150 --> 0:59:35.210
<v Speaker 4>I don't get it. And I think people don't understand, like,

0:59:35.290 --> 0:59:37.590
<v Speaker 4>just powwow, I understand it's not for you. You know,

0:59:37.610 --> 0:59:42.000
<v Speaker 4>because they, FOMO. FOMO be whooping everybody at. But that's

0:59:42.020 --> 0:59:44.000
<v Speaker 4>why I'm grateful for the people who get us and

0:59:44.040 --> 0:59:45.780
<v Speaker 4>understand us, because bitch, we be having a ball.

0:59:46.200 --> 0:59:48.650
<v Speaker 2>But understand, like, it's okay if you don't like us.

0:59:49.330 --> 0:59:50.090
<v Speaker 2>It's okay.

0:59:50.390 --> 0:59:50.490
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:59:50.730 --> 0:59:53.330
<v Speaker 1>And I feel that way in real life. Like, going

0:59:53.370 --> 0:59:57.090
<v Speaker 1>back to the topic, like, in real relationships, it's okay

0:59:57.110 --> 1:00:01.580
<v Speaker 1>to not be compatible. Like, people be trying to force you. Like,

1:00:01.980 --> 1:00:04.380
<v Speaker 1>if you feel like you can't take your partner everywhere

1:00:04.420 --> 1:00:07.300
<v Speaker 1>with you, maybe you need to sit down and reevaluate

1:00:07.320 --> 1:00:10.220
<v Speaker 1>why is this your partner. If they be embarrassing you

1:00:10.300 --> 1:00:12.070
<v Speaker 1>all the time and you feel like they don't fit

1:00:12.150 --> 1:00:15.650
<v Speaker 1>certain settings and surroundings and environments that you're in.

1:00:15.730 --> 1:00:15.930
<v Speaker 2>Mm-hmm.

1:00:19.740 --> 1:00:22.140
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's not the person for you. If you a

1:00:22.160 --> 1:00:24.440
<v Speaker 1>little more reserved, maybe you should find a man who's

1:00:24.460 --> 1:00:27.220
<v Speaker 1>more reserved. If you a little bit more outgoing, maybe

1:00:27.240 --> 1:00:28.950
<v Speaker 1>you should find a woman that's a little bit more

1:00:29.070 --> 1:00:34.290
<v Speaker 1>outgoing versus trying to make somebody assimilate to what you

1:00:34.330 --> 1:00:35.490
<v Speaker 1>think they supposed to be.

1:00:35.710 --> 1:00:38.840
<v Speaker 2>Ooh. You know how that mean when that nigga took

1:00:38.880 --> 1:00:48.120
<v Speaker 2>out that... He sell. And it was smoke coming out. Ooh. Motherfucker, goddamn, assimilate.

1:00:48.160 --> 1:00:49.600
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, seriously.

1:00:50.020 --> 1:00:52.630
<v Speaker 2>But you assimilate that nigga. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But again, that's why people were so obsessed with like

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<v Speaker 4>Whitney and Bobby.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's funny to be like, oh, me and my

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<v Speaker 2>man Whitney and Bobby, whatever, because it works. They was

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<v Speaker 2>in the Chanel store, Gucci store, whatever that was. Hey. Hey.

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<v Speaker 2>They in the designer store. They didn't give a fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't. Because that's the vibe. That's the vibe I

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<v Speaker 2>always want. Where are we going? Are we having a

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<v Speaker 2>good time? Are we having a ball? Let's turn the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the ass for me. We can have a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>but we not about to be in the Chanel store

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<v Speaker 1>doing our leg.

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<v Speaker 2>Sit down. Hand me the MX.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep it cute and classy in this environment.

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<v Speaker 2>We at the club. You can get it in.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, I'm an environment person. It depends on where

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<v Speaker 1>we at.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah. It depends on where we at.

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<v Speaker 1>But I like to be on the same type of

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<v Speaker 1>time with my man all the time. That's what I

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<v Speaker 1>was saying. I like to date a man who he understand.

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<v Speaker 1>In this environment, we have coots.

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<v Speaker 2>In this environment... We can get down to business. It's

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<v Speaker 2>time to bust that pussy open. Or, I mean, pussy.

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<v Speaker 2>We might both hit a split. Oh, my God. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to say what I thought. Ty, how do

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<v Speaker 2>you feel? Do you feel like you... Can I say

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<v Speaker 2>your man? Yeah. Okay. Do you feel like you and

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<v Speaker 2>your man, like, y'all's vibes match? Yeah, most of the time, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I do work in spirits, right?

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<v Speaker 2>So, I have had to reel him in. A couple times.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's free drinks. It's flowing. Like, hey, hey. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>This is my work environment.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still working right now. But you can have a

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<v Speaker 1>good time just really eating.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. He's okay with that.

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<v Speaker 1>He understands that he doesn't, like, get upset or he

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't been offended.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, good.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>And then the next time going forward, he knows, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how to act. But we have our moments where it's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to turn up. We at Magic City tonight,

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<v Speaker 1>all bottles on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Cool, cool, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>But we can be in a very professional setting and

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<v Speaker 1>he can, like, Like last week he was talking to

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<v Speaker 1>my manager and like buttering her up and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like they were connecting so he can kind.

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<v Speaker 2>Of fit in any environment. And I really appreciate that too. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Speaking of, I remember one time, this was when Ty

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<v Speaker 4>was bartending Armani's baby shower. Well, was it a baby

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<v Speaker 4>shower event? And I was like, ooh, I woke up

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<v Speaker 4>the next morning. I said, I hope I wasn't embarrassing Ty.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, that's my bartender. Yeah, that drink good, motherfucker,

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<v Speaker 2>ain't it?

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<v Speaker 4>I woke up the next morning like, yeah, dig it

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<v Speaker 4>a damn. Because I was in there cutting the fuck up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I had a bar. I said, that right, Ty.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all going to get a drink. I said, ooh. That

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<v Speaker 2>helped with the tips. You didn't do too bad. Teamwork. Teamwork.

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<v Speaker 1>With a nice little stack.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that's right. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>So now it's time to get into the bed.

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<v Speaker 2>The bow. The bed. The bow. The bed. Bow, bow, bow, bow, bow.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all. So y'all know the bed segment is

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<v Speaker 1>goes a long way like for me personally one of

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<v Speaker 1>these bottles be lasting me like six months no bullshit

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<v Speaker 1>seriously Like it be lasting me like six months because

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<v Speaker 1>you literally only need a small amount and it lathers

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<v Speaker 1>really well. And then I also really love the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that they have washes for all types of coochies. If

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<v Speaker 1>you got a sensitive coochie, if you got a coochie

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<v Speaker 1>that has like a normal pH balance and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>really need that, you don't have that sensitivity to things,

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<v Speaker 1>then they have it for that. Then they also have

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that have the cooling effect. If you like

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<v Speaker 1>for your coochie to be minty fresh and outside a

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<v Speaker 1>coochie wash, They also have oils. They also have suppositories.

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<v Speaker 1>They also have probiotics. All the things that keep their

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<v Speaker 1>coochie together.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I agree with you on that. A little bit

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<v Speaker 2>goes a long way, but I have a wide-set vagina.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going through it in about four months. Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>About four months, that's a little good amount of time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, about four months.

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<v Speaker 4>That pussy is large and in charge.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. It is. I was agreeing.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, but yeah, shout out to Salt XO. Make sure

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<v Speaker 4>y'all use code XOPORE. Mine's for a discount, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And also, I really love the fact, outside of the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that they have travel-sized products now, because y'all know

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<v Speaker 1>Lex and I are always on the go, they also

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<v Speaker 1>have these new convenient tops. I love a flip top.

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<v Speaker 2>Ooh. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that, too.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yeah, so you don't lose a top no more. Uh-huh. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. Amen, sister. Shout out to Sonic Soul.

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<v Speaker 2>Love y'all. All right.

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<v Speaker 4>So the topic this week for the bed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you attracted to the smell of a man?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Researchers suggest that body scent can influence attraction and provide

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<v Speaker 4>comfort in relationships. Have you ever smelled a man's natural

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<v Speaker 4>scent and immediately felt turned on?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I love to sniff my men.

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<v Speaker 2>You couldn't wait. She was ready for that one. I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't wait.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I love, I love when men smell good, like

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<v Speaker 1>the natural scent. Not once you put your cologne on,

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<v Speaker 1>not once you put your body lotion on or your deodorant,

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<v Speaker 1>like your natural pheromones. I love to smell it. So, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I like to smell my men's breath. I like to

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<v Speaker 1>smell his armpits.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't just.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't be just, like, tucked in him. But you know, like,

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<v Speaker 1>when you sleep and stuff, if his arm be up,

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<v Speaker 1>you be like.

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<v Speaker 1>I do like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe your.

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<v Speaker 1>Never mind. I'm about to get to your mind.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not. I love the way... I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe it's... My man balls smell so good.

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<v Speaker 2>Ugh, they be smelling so.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh. What do we smell like? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, when he gets fresh out the shower, not even

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<v Speaker 4>laced with baby powder. He just smells so good. Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not going to lie to y'all. I have never

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<v Speaker 4>smelt my man.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, never. Yeah. Like, never. Even, like, he gets done

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<v Speaker 2>working out, he be like, ooh, baby, I'm sweating. I

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<v Speaker 2>be like... Bring it over. Bring it on over here.

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<v Speaker 4>And he's like a sweaty guy. Them balls smell good.

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<v Speaker 4>Them armpits, that neck.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Behind the ears matter, too, because that's where they funk stay.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where they hidden funk be. When people do not

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<v Speaker 1>be washing properly, if you rub behind their ears and

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<v Speaker 1>you smell it.

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<v Speaker 2>Lord have mercy, mama, them raise the real thug. It

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<v Speaker 2>do gotta be funk. It do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that in their belly button.

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<v Speaker 2>Belly buttons stink? Yeah. If you don't clean them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's wherever them creases at.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you know, I had an out, I have an

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<v Speaker 4>outie and then I, you know, I had my hernia.

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<v Speaker 2>So now it's like a, but it's not very in.

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<v Speaker 2>So my belly button, I've never had issues. Okay. But

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<v Speaker 2>you have a deep belly button. I've always told you that.

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<v Speaker 4>I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I smell good. I know. Well, you've never smelled. I've

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<v Speaker 2>never smelled you either.

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<v Speaker 4>But Drea's belly button, when Kendrick Lamar said, pool full.

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<v Speaker 2>Of liquor, we dive.

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<v Speaker 1>It ain't really that deep.

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<v Speaker 2>That motherfucker deep. No, it's not. I feel like it's normal.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a normal belly button. No, it's a beautiful belly button.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just deep.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think it's deep, Ty?

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<v Speaker 2>You got to stick your finger in, Ty. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to stick something in there.

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<v Speaker 4>Here, let me stick it in there and see if

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<v Speaker 4>it's still deep.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, no. Maybe it's not deep no more because she

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<v Speaker 2>got abs now. Oh, okay. Them abs pushed it out.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember I used to stick my finger in and

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<v Speaker 4>I used to hide my beans in there when you

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<v Speaker 4>were sleeping.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, shut up. It ain't deep no more because it

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<v Speaker 2>used to be deep though. Hiding your beans in there

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<v Speaker 2>is insane.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you would be sleeping.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be like this.

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<v Speaker 1>But now, yes, it be that belly button and it

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<v Speaker 1>be behind them fucking ears. Behind the neck probably stank

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<v Speaker 1>too for some people. Oof.

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy. For real, though.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, smelling good, I'm sorry, is a personality trait.

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<v Speaker 2>It is.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, I love when just walking by somebody and they

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<v Speaker 4>just smell so good. Like, so, yeah, I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>you can definitely be attracted to somebody's, like, pheromones.

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<v Speaker 2>Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love dating niggas who naturally smell good. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>the niggas that I've been in serious situations with, they

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<v Speaker 1>always just naturally smell really good.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, the bread... Breath is a big thing. The breath,

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<v Speaker 2>the armpits. Like, I've never.

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<v Speaker 1>A man that I've been in a relationship with, I've never, like,

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<v Speaker 1>smelled them. I mean, of course, on, like, a drunken night,

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<v Speaker 1>we all be drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>You got a little Hennessy breath. Yeah, you got that

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<v Speaker 2>Henny breath.

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<v Speaker 1>You got that Don Julio, acting a foolio.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I done had a little burger or two.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so it be like that sometimes. But I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about just normally, naturally. Like, I never have smelt they breath.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never smelt they armpits. I've never smelt they balls.

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<v Speaker 1>How girls be like, niggas' booties be musty. Why is

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<v Speaker 1>your man booty musty?

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<v Speaker 2>And if I'm that close to the balls, I'm holding

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<v Speaker 2>my breath. You are? Yeah, girl. I don't be wanting

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<v Speaker 2>to smell that.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't be sniffing it?

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<v Speaker 2>I will stretch that skin out and put it on

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<v Speaker 2>my face. Okay, I'm going to try it next time.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to do it just like that, too. Y'all

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<v Speaker 2>know how people do them things and they put their

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<v Speaker 2>face through it? That's me with that ball skin.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, my goodness.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh!

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<v Speaker 1>I do appreciate a man whose house smells really good.

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<v Speaker 1>When I walk into his house, it smells masculine. I

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<v Speaker 1>like sandalwood or mahogany or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Leather. I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>I love a little mahogany teak wood.

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<v Speaker 2>A clean house with men. I think one thing about it, women,

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<v Speaker 2>we care about having a very, very clean, clean house.

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<v Speaker 4>A clean house says a lot about, you know, who

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<v Speaker 4>you are. So, I can 100% agree with that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just like men that are just clean in general. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've dated guys who, like, they will not go to

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<v Speaker 1>bed without taking a shower. They will not want to

1:11:17.040 --> 1:11:19.500
<v Speaker 1>sleep on the same sheets if we just had sex. Like,

1:11:19.540 --> 1:11:21.680
<v Speaker 1>they want to change the sheets. Like, we got to

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<v Speaker 1>change the sheets.

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<v Speaker 2>Right after? Yeah. Babes, let's go to sleep. Oh, no.

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<v Speaker 2>I dated this... I didn't say a word. Why are

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<v Speaker 2>you making that face? I'm listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I used to date this one dude. Every time

1:11:40.350 --> 1:11:43.110
<v Speaker 1>we would have sex, he would want to change. Like,

1:11:43.130 --> 1:11:44.730
<v Speaker 1>he would be like, no, we can't go to Sleepy Day.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to change the sheets. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you a little strict, but I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>What if it was multiple times? Because me, I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>roll over. Yeah, for real.

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<v Speaker 1>What if it was multiple times? Like, would you wait

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<v Speaker 1>until after y'all are finished, finished?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah.

1:11:59.020 --> 1:12:00.280
<v Speaker 1>After we're finished, finished.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's not going to sleep in sheets that he

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<v Speaker 1>just had sex in.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>He just feel like you need to change the sheets.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're going to get in the shower, too. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>he too strict. Because to be honest, yes, that's my thing, too.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, sometimes after you have sex, realistically, yes, should you

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<v Speaker 1>go shower.

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<v Speaker 2>But you'll be going to sleep sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's good and you pass the night, you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to go to bed. Especially if you done had a

1:12:23.330 --> 1:12:24.370
<v Speaker 1>few drinks and shit.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say, we do wipe off. A whole shower

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<v Speaker 2>is crazy. Well, who don't wipe off? Who just sleep

1:12:33.780 --> 1:12:38.030
<v Speaker 2>in there with the nut on them? I've done it before. No.

1:12:38.150 --> 1:12:39.610
<v Speaker 2>And I woke up and I told y'all I had

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<v Speaker 2>to heal it all.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 2>A good facial.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to wipe that thing. I feel like, especially

1:12:45.850 --> 1:12:47.610
<v Speaker 1>as women, you need to wipe it off and you

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<v Speaker 1>need to go pee before you go to bed.

1:12:49.670 --> 1:12:50.410
<v Speaker 2>Oh, you got to pee.

1:12:50.590 --> 1:12:52.290
<v Speaker 1>You have to pee before you go to bed and

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<v Speaker 1>then you need to wipe it off. But like, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>a whole shower.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 1>If you a little drunk and you a little tip-tip

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<v Speaker 1>and he just put you through the mattress, you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to roll over and go to sleep. But this particular nigga, shower.

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<v Speaker 2>If.

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<v Speaker 4>If you just had sex with a woman and she

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<v Speaker 4>has energy to take a whole shower, that dick ain't

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<v Speaker 4>hitting for shit.

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<v Speaker 2>At all. That dick is actually... She packs her ass. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>if it's in the morning, that's different because we got

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<v Speaker 2>to go to work. We got to go get the

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<v Speaker 2>day started.

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<v Speaker 4>But at night, she a little tipsy and you fuck

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<v Speaker 4>her and she goes and takes a whole shower. She

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<v Speaker 4>in the mirror putting on her Salt-X-O rejuvenation oil and

1:13:30.410 --> 1:13:31.379
<v Speaker 4>spraying herself.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby, that dick ain't hitting on nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>But it ain't... It don't be the woman, it's the man.

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<v Speaker 1>It's his requirement. He like, you ain't gotta go get

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<v Speaker 1>in the shower.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm, yeah, that's for you, but I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 4>in general for men.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, if you have a woman that does that is

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<v Speaker 2>what I would say. Oh, if she just get up

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<v Speaker 2>and do it on her own. Yeah, if she just

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<v Speaker 2>get up and do it on her own. I don't,

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<v Speaker 2>I should be forced. Man, go wash your ass, man.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to get a sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>I was trying to get a bed. I'm tired.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you supposed to force me to get up and

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<v Speaker 4>wipe it off and scrub it down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So, yeah. I don't know how we got on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's move on. Let's talk about pheromones and, like, people

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<v Speaker 2>being clean. And sniffing bones.

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<v Speaker 1>I just like very cleanly men who just keep it

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<v Speaker 1>clean and keep it together.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm-hmm. All right, y'all.

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<v Speaker 4>So now we have the item of the week. Y'all

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<v Speaker 4>know this is one of our favorite segments and we

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<v Speaker 4>love to shout out Black-owned businesses.

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<v Speaker 2>And today we have a line by Forest Street Co.,

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<v Speaker 2>a Black woman-owned brand.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, y'all. And I love that. any practical travel brands

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<v Speaker 1>because we travel so much these days. I just love

1:14:44.680 --> 1:14:47.740
<v Speaker 1>brands that have like a plethora of products. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>love this tote bag. I wore this today with my

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<v Speaker 1>outfit and it fits perfectly with what I have on.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love the fact that it's top handle. I

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<v Speaker 1>also love the fact that it comes with a crossbody.

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<v Speaker 1>So depending on what type of girl you are, if

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<v Speaker 1>you love top handle, if you love crossbody, it'll fit

1:15:02.070 --> 1:15:05.130
<v Speaker 1>whatever aesthetic. And I think crossbody always fits for a

1:15:05.170 --> 1:15:06.870
<v Speaker 1>more casual look. Mm-hmm.

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<v Speaker 4>And one thing about me, first of all, I personally,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a top-handle girly, but I'm a girl who is like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm very rough with my bags. So if you're a

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<v Speaker 4>girl who needs something that has structure, this is it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because sometimes you... Yeah! Yeah. It's starting for that. I

1:15:24.160 --> 1:15:25.559
<v Speaker 2>love it. And the quality.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you got to molly-wop.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Sometimes you got to molly-wop. This can definitely molly-wop.

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<v Speaker 4>And this color is just so vibrant and pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>And they match your outfit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. See, hun? Yeah. Top handle just gives to me personally.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, I very rarely do a crossbody, but I love

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<v Speaker 4>the fact that you have options.

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<v Speaker 1>I like the fact that you have options. And then also,

1:15:47.210 --> 1:15:50.009
<v Speaker 1>like I said, traveling, being on the go all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I love me a cute little tote. And I love

1:15:52.770 --> 1:15:55.010
<v Speaker 1>that these two totes that we have right here are

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<v Speaker 1>like the perfect fall colors. They fit into the fall

1:15:57.670 --> 1:16:00.930
<v Speaker 1>aesthetic perfectly. I personally love me a little burgundy top.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love camel brown.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. That's actually funny because I've been buying bags this color.

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<v Speaker 2>I have some flip-flops this color.

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<v Speaker 4>It ain't nothing like a little cognac camel color. And

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like when you're walking through the airport, you

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<v Speaker 4>want to look a little expensive.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, excuse me? Get out of my way. I'm here.

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<v Speaker 2>My bag belongs at the top. I agree.

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<v Speaker 4>This is giving move your bag. My bag needs to

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<v Speaker 4>go in the upper room. You put your bag under

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<v Speaker 4>the seat.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's very polished. And you can tell it's good quality.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good quality. It's going to last you for many

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<v Speaker 1>years to come. Let's get into the specs because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pretty sure this probably has a crossbody strap as well.

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<v Speaker 2>I see it. And then it got gold hardware on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, gold hardware. Let's see. Come on, big money.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I was right. Ooh! Jackpot! Mm-hmm. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So, I love that. Like I said, I love anything

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<v Speaker 1>that you can multi-use, whether you can want to carry

1:17:02.510 --> 1:17:03.970
<v Speaker 1>it in your hands or you want to carry it

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<v Speaker 1>across the body.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love that it's... Off, too.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. My leather's so soft. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really good quality leather, and I do like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And then on top of that, y'all, y'all know we

1:17:20.160 --> 1:17:23.799
<v Speaker 1>live in Atlanta. It's always different concerts and different events

1:17:23.860 --> 1:17:26.360
<v Speaker 1>going on out here. And you have to have those

1:17:26.420 --> 1:17:28.800
<v Speaker 1>approved bags when you go to the stadiums and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I really love this clear.

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<v Speaker 2>Bag as well.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like you can also use this as

1:17:33.890 --> 1:17:36.030
<v Speaker 1>a toiletry bag when you on the go. Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that. You need a clear bag. Is my

1:17:39.210 --> 1:17:42.740
<v Speaker 2>concealer in here? No, it's not. Yeah. You need a

1:17:42.780 --> 1:17:43.580
<v Speaker 2>clear bag.

1:17:43.840 --> 1:17:46.060
<v Speaker 1>And again, I love something that you can use for

1:17:46.080 --> 1:17:47.900
<v Speaker 1>different purposes. You can use it as a bag that

1:17:47.930 --> 1:17:50.490
<v Speaker 1>you're going to carry and you're going to wear. Or

1:17:50.510 --> 1:17:52.210
<v Speaker 1>like I said, a toiletry bag. And you can put

1:17:52.290 --> 1:17:54.970
<v Speaker 1>all of your to-go items in here when you're on

1:17:54.990 --> 1:17:56.170
<v Speaker 1>the go and when you're traveling.

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<v Speaker 4>And it is fall time. I'm not going to lie

1:18:02.010 --> 1:18:04.680
<v Speaker 4>to y'all. I've always been like a pajama girl. But, like,

1:18:04.740 --> 1:18:07.439
<v Speaker 4>it's something about fall and winter seasons and, like, having

1:18:07.460 --> 1:18:11.640
<v Speaker 4>some cute, comfy pajamas. Sitting on that couch. I like

1:18:11.680 --> 1:18:15.450
<v Speaker 4>my hot chocolate spiked. Shout out to Todd.

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<v Speaker 1>Little Bailey's.

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<v Speaker 2>I love these PJs.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, these are so cute. And I love PJs that

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<v Speaker 1>have the short arms on them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

1:18:27.090 --> 1:18:29.280
<v Speaker 1>And this boot, this is soft. And you got the

1:18:29.320 --> 1:18:30.440
<v Speaker 1>shorts and I got the pants.

1:18:30.479 --> 1:18:34.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this booty finna be poking, boo. Love it. Ten

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<v Speaker 2>out of ten, and it's very soft.

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<v Speaker 4>But I will say this about this brand. One thing

1:18:38.700 --> 1:18:40.710
<v Speaker 4>that I love is I like brands who are, like,

1:18:40.770 --> 1:18:45.950
<v Speaker 4>very thoughtful. So, Forest Street Company is actually inspired by

1:18:46.010 --> 1:18:49.290
<v Speaker 4>her late grandmother, and it was created to celebrate women

1:18:49.350 --> 1:18:51.640
<v Speaker 4>who were, like, caring a lot. Because I think as

1:18:51.700 --> 1:18:53.920
<v Speaker 4>black women, that's what we naturally do, is, like, carry

1:18:53.960 --> 1:18:54.220
<v Speaker 4>a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>So, the fact that this is.

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<v Speaker 4>Dedicated to her late grandmother, I think this is absolutely tea,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's meaningful, so I like it. So, when y'all

1:19:03.160 --> 1:19:05.340
<v Speaker 4>see me with my bag on, you already know.

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<v Speaker 2>Where it's from.

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<v Speaker 1>And I like it, too, because, like, in... Speaking about

1:19:08.720 --> 1:19:11.300
<v Speaker 1>carrying a lot, we carry a lot of ass. And

1:19:11.340 --> 1:19:15.990
<v Speaker 1>this is also very stretchy. And that's what I need. Because,

1:19:16.010 --> 1:19:19.490
<v Speaker 1>you know, stuff do not be fitting your wood. Stuff

1:19:19.510 --> 1:19:21.570
<v Speaker 1>do not be fitting your booty all the time. I

1:19:21.630 --> 1:19:23.910
<v Speaker 1>love that this is stretchy and I know it fits

1:19:23.950 --> 1:19:24.530
<v Speaker 1>that thing.

1:19:25.740 --> 1:19:27.780
<v Speaker 2>It's going to fit that thing. And she can breathe. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know what? It's breathable.

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<v Speaker 4>The reason this is good for you is because this waistband,

1:19:32.010 --> 1:19:33.450
<v Speaker 4>because that waist is small.

1:19:33.470 --> 1:19:35.110
<v Speaker 1>It's tiny, but that ass is fat.

1:19:35.130 --> 1:19:37.250
<v Speaker 2>That ass is fat, so this is going to cinch

1:19:37.330 --> 1:19:39.950
<v Speaker 2>in on the waist, and this is going to stretch

1:19:40.010 --> 1:19:41.650
<v Speaker 2>out on the booty. She had me in mind, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's what I like.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what she's going to always get. Forestry Cole is

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<v Speaker 1>going to always get my business.

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<v Speaker 2>I love this.

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<v Speaker 4>So make sure y'all shop Forestry Co. Everything is in

1:19:51.470 --> 1:19:55.150
<v Speaker 4>the description box below. And tell them Drea and Lex

1:19:55.370 --> 1:19:56.570
<v Speaker 4>sent y'all, period.

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<v Speaker 2>Amen. So now it's time to get into the bow.

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<v Speaker 2>The bow.

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<v Speaker 3>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 3>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 3>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow.

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<v Speaker 3>Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 4>Bow.

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<v Speaker 3>Bow.

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<v Speaker 4>Bow.

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<v Speaker 3>Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow.

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<v Speaker 3>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow.

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<v Speaker 3>Bow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow. Bow Never mind. We're going to get into your

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<v Speaker 2>bop in a second because I have a feeling I know.

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<v Speaker 3>What it is.

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<v Speaker 2>But.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel like a feeling you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that I know what it is. Wait, what do

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<v Speaker 2>you think it is? I'm going to tell you after

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<v Speaker 2>I talk. Tell me in my ear. Oh. The one with... Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>But that was your song. No, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>That was your song initially on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it wasn't. Yes, it was. Which song? I'm talking about....

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<v Speaker 1>No, but it is him.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, girl. I'm going to lick it. If your girl choose,

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<v Speaker 2>let her do her thing.

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<v Speaker 4>My bop of the week is a song by Lee

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<v Speaker 4>Bianca featuring Z-Boy. It's called I Know. Now, y'all probably like,

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<v Speaker 4>who is Lee Bianca? Y'all know her song. She said,

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<v Speaker 4>Can you.

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<v Speaker 2>See people, people, people? Y'all know that damn song. We

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<v Speaker 2>don't really know you. I've been drinking.

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<v Speaker 4>More alcohol than a family.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah! Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>She got a new song called I Know, and I

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<v Speaker 4>absolutely love it. It's something about her voice that is

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<v Speaker 4>just so soothing. And y'all know I love a little

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<v Speaker 4>Afrobeats vibe. It's very like, I don't know. It's just,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a great song. It's one of them songs like

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<v Speaker 4>you get ready and you vibe into it. She has

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<v Speaker 4>just really vibey music. So, Lee Bianca, I Know with Z-Boy.

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<v Speaker 4>That's my vibe of the week.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. What you got, Lil' Dreya?

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<v Speaker 1>So, you was right about the artist.

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<v Speaker 2>I know I was.

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<v Speaker 1>But you was wrong as fuck about the song.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't wrong as fuck.

1:21:50.800 --> 1:21:53.020
<v Speaker 1>You was wrong as fuck about the song. The song

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't have been wronger.

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<v Speaker 2>How can you be so wrong if it's the same artist?

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<v Speaker 2>You're not that wrong. You're just the wrong song. Because

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<v Speaker 2>artists be having like 200 songs. I only got two.

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<v Speaker 1>You only got two what?

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<v Speaker 2>Songs.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. She's right about Dreya. And I haven't had a Drake,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't be having Drake bops. Not like I

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<v Speaker 1>used to back in the day, honestly. But Drake got

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<v Speaker 1>a new song with Don Toliver and it was on

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<v Speaker 1>his FOMO movie that he dropped on YouTube, Choose in Texas.

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<v Speaker 1>They did a remix to the Ella Langley song that

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<v Speaker 1>she had on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>She's from Texas, I can tell. Yes, but him and

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<v Speaker 2>Don Toliver did a remix. I haven't heard it.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly, and that's why you need to shut up. Talk about,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what's up.

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<v Speaker 4>But it was in the same video, the one I

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<v Speaker 4>was talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have watched the whole video.

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<v Speaker 2>How long is it? Long. Yeah. It was a live stream.

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<v Speaker 2>An hour? It was like 50-something minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Oh, wow.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a live stream. Wow. But yeah, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>good song. I do think you would enjoy it. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I love Ella Langley. Like, she's everything. Jesus Christ.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it's like, I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it the same theme? Because Choosing Texas is about

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<v Speaker 2>she's dating a guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, they were more so talking about women.

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<v Speaker 4>From Texas. But her song is about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because obviously Don Toliver is from Houston, and we

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<v Speaker 1>know how much.

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<v Speaker 2>Drake is an honorary Houstonian. He is an honorary Houstonian. 1,000%. Yes. So, yes. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you would like the song.

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<v Speaker 4>And y'all know I am a Don Toliver stan.

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<v Speaker 2>So, I got to listen to it. You do.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to watch the movie when I get home.

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<v Speaker 4>That'll be my review for Love Lex P next week.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to watch that. You should. Okay. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>So, now it's time for us to get into our

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<v Speaker 1>favorite segment of the show, which is Pour Your Heart Out.

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<v Speaker 1>So y'all know if y'all have any questions, send them

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<v Speaker 1>to AskPoorMinds at gmail.com. That's A-S-K-P-O-U-R-M-I-N-D-S at gmail.com.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Lex and Drea. First, I want to say I'm

1:24:04.450 --> 1:24:07.540
<v Speaker 1>24 and a huge fan of Poor Minds. I'm writing

1:24:07.580 --> 1:24:09.979
<v Speaker 1>to you because I have a dilemma. I have this

1:24:10.000 --> 1:24:12.840
<v Speaker 1>guy that I've been best friends with for about three years.

1:24:13.260 --> 1:24:15.620
<v Speaker 1>I've never had a friendship this close with another man

1:24:15.979 --> 1:24:18.860
<v Speaker 1>like I've had with him. Although we are long distance,

1:24:18.979 --> 1:24:22.740
<v Speaker 1>our friendship is great. He's always kind, talks to me

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<v Speaker 1>every day, spends lots of time with me, and we

1:24:25.630 --> 1:24:28.530
<v Speaker 1>have a lot of the same interests. Honestly, he treats

1:24:28.570 --> 1:24:31.930
<v Speaker 1>me better than men I've been in relationships with. At times,

1:24:32.070 --> 1:24:34.429
<v Speaker 1>I feel like he likes me and drops hints like

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<v Speaker 1>telling me I love you and I miss you often,

1:24:37.830 --> 1:24:40.790
<v Speaker 1>accidentally calling me babe, and when we do see each

1:24:40.890 --> 1:24:44.330
<v Speaker 1>other in person, he's really touchy. But at the same time,

1:24:44.390 --> 1:24:47.220
<v Speaker 1>he actively pursues other women and but doesn't talk to

1:24:47.260 --> 1:24:49.800
<v Speaker 1>me about them like you'd expect a friend to do.

1:24:50.400 --> 1:24:53.620
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I feel like he likes me more than for

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<v Speaker 1>a friend, and sometimes I feel like that's all that

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<v Speaker 1>I am. I'm developing feelings for him, but I'm afraid

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<v Speaker 1>to say something because number one, what if I'm wrong

1:25:03.479 --> 1:25:06.780
<v Speaker 1>and reading between the lines that weren't there? And number two,

1:25:06.840 --> 1:25:09.390
<v Speaker 1>what if I'm right and we pursue something, it doesn't

1:25:09.430 --> 1:25:12.270
<v Speaker 1>work and the friendship sinks? I don't know what to

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<v Speaker 1>do because I don't want to lose him.

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<v Speaker 2>What should I do? That is such a gray area. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I always think that you should be, like, the

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<v Speaker 4>base of a great relationship is a friendship. But also,

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<v Speaker 4>if the feelings aren't mutual, that could fuck up everything.

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<v Speaker 2>And then, men are weird.

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<v Speaker 4>So, a man will be like, until she lets me

1:25:34.729 --> 1:25:37.010
<v Speaker 4>know she like me, I mean, I'm throwing hints, so

1:25:37.030 --> 1:25:38.410
<v Speaker 4>I'ma still fuck with other women.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's definitely giving mixed signals, because I would have

1:25:41.400 --> 1:25:43.259
<v Speaker 2>been like, is we fucking or not?

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<v Speaker 4>By those signs, because I feel like if you're not

1:25:46.460 --> 1:25:48.190
<v Speaker 4>talking to me about the women you're dating, like, I

1:25:48.229 --> 1:25:50.630
<v Speaker 4>have a lot of guy friends and they always will

1:25:50.650 --> 1:25:53.170
<v Speaker 4>talk to me about their women because, but he's not,

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<v Speaker 4>and my guy friends aren't, like, touchy-feely with me or

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<v Speaker 4>be like, I mean, we say I love you, but

1:25:59.900 --> 1:26:02.900
<v Speaker 4>it's in, like, a brotherly, sisterly type of way, so...

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<v Speaker 4>I want to say be honest, but you also have

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<v Speaker 4>to understand what comes with being honest. If you feel

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<v Speaker 4>like being honest is worth losing the friendship over, I

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<v Speaker 4>would say yes. But you have to be understanding that

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<v Speaker 4>you could possibly lose your very, very close.

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<v Speaker 2>Friendship by being honest about your feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>I say don't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's rarely ever worth it to mess up your friendship

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<v Speaker 1>to date somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

1:26:31.540 --> 1:26:34.430
<v Speaker 1>From my experience. I feel like if he wants you,

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<v Speaker 1>he needs to say it with his chest.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I do agree with that.

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<v Speaker 1>He needs to say it.

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<v Speaker 2>He needs to be the one. That's my person. Agreed.

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely.

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<v Speaker 4>And I agree with that as well because I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like sometimes, like I said.

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<v Speaker 2>Having a friend, a guy that's a great friend is

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<v Speaker 2>so rare. Yeah.

1:26:53.060 --> 1:26:56.420
<v Speaker 4>So it's like, I'm going to always choose having a

1:26:56.500 --> 1:26:59.559
<v Speaker 4>great guy friend and then a relationship is kind of risky.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you don't know. You just don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know that y'all's friendship is solid. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think a lot of times as women, we tell men, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>control yourself. We are platonic friends. So at the same time,

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<v Speaker 4>it's like, I'm not saying suppress your feelings, but... It

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<v Speaker 4>may be because you've never had a close friendship with

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<v Speaker 4>a guy. I don't know if you have brothers or

1:27:19.979 --> 1:27:23.980
<v Speaker 4>things like that. So your feelings could maybe be confused

1:27:24.280 --> 1:27:26.170
<v Speaker 4>with just you having a close guy friend that you've

1:27:26.210 --> 1:27:29.189
<v Speaker 4>never had like that before. So you might be confusing lust...

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<v Speaker 4>with just having a good platonic friendship and a trusting

1:27:33.350 --> 1:27:34.290
<v Speaker 4>guy in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good point. Because as somebody who, I didn't

1:27:37.229 --> 1:27:39.339
<v Speaker 2>grow up with brothers, I didn't grow up with a dad,

1:27:39.500 --> 1:27:42.700
<v Speaker 2>so sometimes when men would come into my life and

1:27:42.880 --> 1:27:45.500
<v Speaker 2>they would be protective over me, they would be very,

1:27:45.540 --> 1:27:47.800
<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, do you like me? It's like, nah,

1:27:47.820 --> 1:27:51.540
<v Speaker 2>you're definitely giving little sister vibes. So I think sometimes

1:27:51.680 --> 1:27:53.740
<v Speaker 2>those things can get misconstrued. And I'm not saying that

1:27:53.780 --> 1:27:56.780
<v Speaker 2>about her, but it could be multiple things. But I

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<v Speaker 2>do agree with you guys. I think sometimes you just

1:27:58.700 --> 1:28:03.040
<v Speaker 2>need to enjoy the friendships. And let him be a man. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's worth crossing those lines if y'all

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<v Speaker 1>have such a great friendship and great relationship. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's worth it to, like, mess that up. Like

1:28:12.439 --> 1:28:14.719
<v Speaker 1>Ty said, unless he just say it with his chest

1:28:14.780 --> 1:28:16.860
<v Speaker 1>and he let it be known and you feel like

1:28:16.920 --> 1:28:20.440
<v Speaker 1>it's this undeniable chemistry and you feel like he your soulmate, girl,

1:28:21.000 --> 1:28:23.439
<v Speaker 1>don't date your friend. I said this to somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>has dated friends before.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't do that.

1:28:26.030 --> 1:28:26.550
<v Speaker 1>But.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. All right, y'all.

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<v Speaker 4>And that is the end of the episode. Thank y'all

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<v Speaker 4>so much for tuning in. Y'all make sure y'all check

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<v Speaker 5>She's from Texas, I can tell, by the way.

1:29:05.939 --> 1:29:11.019
<v Speaker 2>Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm begging of you, please don't take my man.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene.

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<v Speaker 3>Please don't take him just because you can Your beauty

1:29:30.720 --> 1:29:34.340
<v Speaker 3>is beyond compare With flaming locks of auburn hair With

1:29:34.560 --> 1:29:37.860
<v Speaker 3>ivory skin and eyes of emerald green Yeah.

1:29:40.780 --> 1:29:42.200
<v Speaker 2>Your smile is like.

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<v Speaker 4>A breath of spring Your voice is like a summer

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<v Speaker 4>rain And I just can't.

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<v Speaker 5>Compete with you, Jolene Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>He talks about you in his sleep and there's nothing

1:29:54.740 --> 1:29:57.790
<v Speaker 4>I can do to keep from crying when he calls

1:29:57.830 --> 1:30:05.290
<v Speaker 4>your name Jolene. And I can easily understand how you

1:30:05.330 --> 1:30:08.340
<v Speaker 4>can easily take my man, but you don't know what

1:30:08.380 --> 1:30:09.240
<v Speaker 4>he means to.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, Jolene. Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm begging of you, please don't take my man.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I hit that one. Okay. Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene.

1:30:31.020 --> 1:30:36.790
<v Speaker 5>Please don't take him just because you care.

1:30:36.870 --> 1:30:41.890
<v Speaker 2>Hey, you can every chance. I can never love again.

1:30:42.070 --> 1:30:45.010
<v Speaker 2>He's the only one for me, Jolene.

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<v Speaker 1>Amen, sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I had to have this talk with you. My

1:30:50.820 --> 1:30:57.110
<v Speaker 2>happiness depends on you and whatever you decide to do. Jolene.

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<v Speaker 2>Hit that shit, Lil Dre. Jolene, Jolene, Jolene. Yeah, give

1:31:03.850 --> 1:31:07.090
<v Speaker 2>it to them. I'm begging of you, please don't take

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<v Speaker 2>my man.

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<v Speaker 5>Jolene, Jolene, Jolene. Please don't take him even though you can.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody say fuck Jolene. Say fuck Jolene. I said fuck him.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck him.