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Speaker 1: are perfectly fine? Why did you do this to me?

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Speaker 1: I guess I just need to start at the beginning.

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Speaker 1: I've been dating my girlfriend for almost three years now.

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Speaker 1: We started dating in three months into our freshman year

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Davis on the radio

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Speaker 1: on the hour Slash Okay storytime subured it. When we

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Speaker 1: We've met most of each other's families, and she would

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: She's an amazing person, without a doubt. She works harder

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Speaker 2: Here it is, Here we go, Here we go. I'm

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Speaker 1: But but ever since our senior years started, something has

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Speaker 3: So so what's the problem here?

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Speaker 1: I'm boss, I'm lost, dear, and sure there's some minor

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Speaker 1: All that being said, I just don't feel connected to

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Speaker 1: I honestly can't say with confidence that I still love her.

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Speaker 1: I've always had trouble reading my own emotions, so I'm

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Speaker 1: Just tap her profile.

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Speaker 2: Be better boyfriend, be a better boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: H And there's a little bit more, but would say you.

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Speaker 1: You need to tell her.

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Speaker 3: Like super confused yea, and just like low key almost

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do not hold this inside. Yeah, like explain it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because you don't want to get married. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Am I just being insane? Or is this a real

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Speaker 2: You don't, You don't, But.

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Speaker 1: I think you just talked to her and you don't

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Speaker 2: But yeah, because you do.

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Speaker 1: You know, you deserve someone that you're attracted to, and

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Speaker 2: I adopted my daughter eleven years ago and now the

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Speaker 2: legal if you just snatch them, you know, finders keepers, Babe, snatcher, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: finders keepers. You know, I just take them. Go to Cuba,

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Speaker 4: Nobody will know that it's not a local baby.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. All the babies in Cuba are giving Cubans

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Speaker 2: He randomly says this two year old is mine? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. What would you do if you adopted this kid

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Speaker 5: Well no, no, no, I would yeah, but I would

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Speaker 2: And had run into him at a club and drunkenly

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Speaker 2: And now that man is my husband of seven years.

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Speaker 2: Coming back to my sister, she wait, what.

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Speaker 4: What's a big jump? We missed some details?

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Speaker 2: Wait so the guy that you're mister wait wait, wait,

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Speaker 4: Has a baby with her.

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Speaker 2: He's like, now it's time to go to bone town.

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Speaker 4: Put him in the army man.

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Speaker 5: She legally adopted this baby. You can't just say trainsies again.

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Speaker 5: She didn't want the baby in the first place. I know,

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Speaker 2: Mean, but You're like, kids are basically like a fucking

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Speaker 5: I actually think that your most impressionable years are in

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Speaker 4: It, you subconsciously too.

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Speaker 2: I was speechless for a few moments before replying that

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Speaker 2: du dude, she's spelling the tea yoo. That's actually kind

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Speaker 4: This is a really complicated siblings.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, She's like, oh, you want to take my

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Speaker 2: baby back? Well, you know the father, we're married. What

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Speaker 5: And now the sister has no bargaining rights because the

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Speaker 2: Well I guess maybe they can split custody or something.

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Speaker 5: Damn, I would hate to be the lawyers on this case. Complicated,

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Speaker 2: She exploded, calling me names and staying I store her life. Naw, girl,

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Speaker 5: Baby, literally the life that came.

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Speaker 2: Out of you. I still Oh my god. I then

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Speaker 2: I now feel bad because me and N we're very

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Speaker 2: I know the struggles of inferterlity, but that's not going

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Speaker 2: it's kind of fucked up to like secretly marry the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's pretty fucked Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's pretty fuck Yeah. Guys, what do you think, Like,

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Speaker 4: And then marry them and then marry them? And true

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Speaker 4: love is true love? T wasn't enough for N back

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Speaker 2: This is not making me very confident in the future relationship.

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Speaker 2: True love is true love?

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Speaker 4: Who got it?

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Speaker 5: Though?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? We got it? We got it. He said there

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Speaker 2: was no way he was letting my sister have full custody,

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Speaker 2: and I agree, But I want to know if I'm

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Speaker 2: too harsh and telling her about Tea. So people, I

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Speaker 2: want to know, is op the ahole? Put it down

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Speaker 2: the comments? But while you're comment in below, Arianna, what

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Speaker 2: do you think the verdict is?

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Speaker 4: I don't think her and the sister that close.

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Speaker 5: If they don't know that they're getting married, why was

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Speaker 4: No, I think I think a piece in the clear.

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Speaker 2: I think it's pretty shitty to marry the guy, Like

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Speaker 2: baby with and not tell your sister. That's shitty. You

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Speaker 4: No, I mean it is, But it sounds like a

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think the sister has a right

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Speaker 2: the baby though. That both that we both agree on. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: the sister does not have a right to ope. She

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Speaker 2: babe that she adopted, she gave it up. She can

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Speaker 2: come as an at that's nice. Yeah, but yeah, anyway,

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Speaker 2: let us know what you think the comments below. You've

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Speaker 2: just had the pleasure of knowing this beautiful gem ariana.

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Speaker 2: My girlfriend. John's out for the week, but he will

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Speaker 2: be back soon and I'll catch you in the next one.

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Speaker 3: I blew up at my husband. He lied and said

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Speaker 3: my sister and her baby left when he was the

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Speaker 3: one that kicked him out.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? Okay? Op, this is okay. Op.

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Speaker 2: I'm Samuel Donner and I'm John Fry.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: And these the best and the funniest stories. Wicked wicked bird.

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Speaker 2: Hell yeah, that's kind of sick. But John, I heard

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Speaker 2: you have a story for me.

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Speaker 3: I do, I do, But first I have to asked

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Speaker 3: you a question. Yeah, I mean they call it a

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Speaker 2: You know, we got it was straight fire. It was

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Speaker 3: But you know, we gotta, you know, have a little

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 3: I think I think most of us in this world

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Speaker 3: have had you know, different messes and disasters in the

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Speaker 3: world of like dating and relationships. What's what's what's a

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Speaker 3: fun funny uh mess that you've that you've been in

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Speaker 3: your dating and relationship jeez?

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Speaker 2: I okay, oh sorry, I have some. I have some.

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Speaker 2: I have to specify.

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Speaker 3: What's a lie that somebody that you were in a

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Speaker 2: Oh? Why yeah, like the clothing one, right, the clothing one. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: the one where she like lied that she Oh yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: so John just knows me too well yeah. Yeah. So

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Speaker 2: so my first real girlfriend or second real girlfriend. Should

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Speaker 2: I say your name? No, you can omit? Last name? No, No,

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Speaker 2: make a new name, make a new name. Adison Addison.

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Speaker 2: There we go. Uh so not Addison Ray. So that's

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Speaker 2: so this uh, this girl Addison, like I we had

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Speaker 2: you know, I'll give her another chance, right, So we

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Speaker 2: I'm fine giving you another chance, but you got to

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Speaker 2: this is this is not going to work right, and

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Speaker 2: then she like she I'm like I see this skirt.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you should get this right, and she's

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Speaker 2: like cool, I'm going to order it. And then she

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Speaker 2: like says she orders it, and I'm like cool, right,

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Speaker 2: very normal, right, and then like I check in. I'm like, hey, like,

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Speaker 2: it's great. I love it so much, and I'm like, cool,

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Speaker 2: we'd love to see you it at some time. Like

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Speaker 2: I'm like, do you know? It's just like how are

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Speaker 2: I have it. I bought it. I'll even send you

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Speaker 2: the receipt of like me getting it, and again like

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Speaker 2: I do not care about the skirt you You're like,

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to know, like it was my suggestion, diacon, right.

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Speaker 2: She sends me a receipt of this very poorly doctored

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Speaker 2: why did you want to do edit this receipt? And

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Speaker 2: it's like I didn't at the receipt. I got this

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Speaker 2: and and it and like it. Basically I found out

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Speaker 2: freaking skirt. Like, if you're gonna edit it, at least

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Speaker 2: use the same freaking thought and not Comic Sands. So

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Speaker 2: it's so obvious that you changed the day. I don't

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Speaker 2: Comic Sands.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I admittedly already knew this story, but I had

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Speaker 3: completely forgotten about that detail. Yeah, no, that she doctored

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Speaker 2: Yeah ridiculous. Wow, well well.

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Speaker 3: That was that was more of a doozy than I

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Speaker 3: you have another story for you, Samuel, about a lie,

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Speaker 3: a relationship and some hurt, some hurt feelings.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's hear it.

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Speaker 3: I blew up at my husband he lied and said

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Speaker 3: one that kicked him out?

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? Why are you lying? Don't

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Speaker 3: You always lying?

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Speaker 2: Why are you always lying? Why are you lying? Fine?

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Speaker 3: I think that's where that came from. Okay, let's read

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Speaker 3: a story, guys. So my sister twenty got out of

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Speaker 3: we're already off to a.

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Speaker 2: Very Jesus when it just like starts and it just

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Speaker 3: And you know what's funny is like she's it's most

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Speaker 3: people like show how terrible is She's just like, here

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Speaker 3: are the facts?

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Speaker 2: That's actually like, oh this is bad.

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Speaker 3: My sister was dealing with a handful of issues like

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Speaker 3: just this, but he was the one who picked her

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Speaker 2: On board, fully in support. Right.

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Speaker 3: She stayed for two weeks and helped around the house.

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Speaker 3: My husband started complaining about the baby crying. But a

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Speaker 2: This is what babies do. I cry, man, They eat, sleep, whoop,

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Speaker 2: and cry.

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Speaker 3: I've never had a baby. You've never had a baby.

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Speaker 3: But would you be shocked if a newborn was crying.

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Speaker 2: I would not be shocked. I would be awoken, but

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't be shocked. He says it causes some stress.

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Speaker 2: So I suggested that he puts some earbuds in. He's

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Speaker 2: probably the solution, but.

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Speaker 3: At that point he just seemed frustrated and just said

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Speaker 3: suddenly to forget it, and so I did. Last week

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Speaker 3: I had to go out of town to attend a

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Speaker 3: friend's funeral without my husband. Geez, gosh, these really like

447
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 3: heavy details just nonchalantly dropped in.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, yeah, that totally didn't even register our funeral. Gay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he said he wanted to stay with my sister

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Speaker 3: to make sure she's okay. I returned home the next

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Speaker 3: day and didn't find her or the baby at home.

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Speaker 3: My husband said that she had contacted a friend in

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Speaker 3: another town and wanted to move with them and left

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Speaker 3: that morning.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: He handed me a letter from her, claiming that it

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Speaker 3: was written by her. This felt so odd, especially after

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Speaker 3: reading the letter. So I called her phone many many times.

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Speaker 3: But it turns out that my husband found her phone

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Speaker 3: and said she must have left it behind.

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Speaker 2: What this seems weird? This is getting weirder and weird.

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Speaker 2: It seems really really weird.

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Speaker 3: I was worried and had no means of contacting my

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Speaker 3: own sister and her baby to make sure they were okay.

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Speaker 3: So I contacted relatives, but they knew nothing.

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Speaker 4: Jeez.

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Speaker 3: Yesterday, I got a call from an unknown number and

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Speaker 3: it was her. We talked and she told me that

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Speaker 3: she didn't leave on her own, but my husband kicked

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Speaker 3: her out after telling her she was no longer welcome

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Speaker 3: and she needed to take responsibility.

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Speaker 2: For her decisions. Oh my god, dude, that's so bad.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I was in shock as she explained

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Speaker 3: that she's not with a friend but at a shelter

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Speaker 3: and has no money.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, this husband is a piece of crap. Dude,

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Speaker 2: like this is lied about it and then put her

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Speaker 2: in a shelter base. This is like evil stuff. Yeah evil.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how you can forget your husband after this. Jesus, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is egregious. I waited until he got home and

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Speaker 2: I blew up at him. He admitted he faked the

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Speaker 2: letter and hit her phone, then argue that it's his

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Speaker 2: house and he has to say. But he shouldn't have

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Speaker 2: lied to me about my sister and causing her to

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Speaker 2: be homeless. You think it just that statement. Yeah, I

486
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Speaker 2: shouldn't have a lied to you by writing a fake

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Speaker 2: letter and then putting your sister and then making your

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Speaker 2: and then making your sister homeless like like obviously obviously.

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Speaker 3: He said I was being unfair and it was wrong

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Speaker 3: to lash out at him for wanting peace in his home.

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Speaker 3: I went upstairs and refused to argue anymore. I told

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Speaker 3: him I'm going to pick her up tomorrow, and he

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Speaker 3: said he changed the locks while I'm gone, and I

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Speaker 3: won't be allowed to bring her home. Geez, this guy

495
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Speaker 3: is like this dude, this guy is insane. I'm thinking

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Speaker 3: of going to hotel, but he kept saying that I'm

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Speaker 3: letting my sister affect our lives by prioritizing her.

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Speaker 2: But here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: There's a baby involved, my nephew, and I am not

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Speaker 3: going to leave him homeless.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're not going to leave your sister homeless either.

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Speaker 3: I get that it's his house too, but I don't

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Speaker 3: see why he is so incredibly against her staying and

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Speaker 3: there isn't edit. He returned home and we started arguing again.

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Speaker 3: I could not take it anymore. So I'm going to

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Speaker 3: stay at a hotel for tonight and I'm leaving in

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Speaker 3: an hour or so. He's wanting to talk again now,

508
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Speaker 3: but I'm incredibly overwhelmed and stressed out and need some

509
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,360
Speaker 3: time to be by myself. Don't blame you at all

510
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Speaker 3: for that. I don't care if he's going to change

511
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Speaker 3: the locks or not. I'm working on meeting up with

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Speaker 3: my sister as soon as possible so we can talk

513
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Speaker 3: more openly about what happened and hopefully try to figure

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Speaker 3: something out and help her.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I mean, great sister. Yeah, the sister.

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Speaker 3: This guy's like a sociopath, Like everything combined.

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Speaker 2: This husband needs to be dropped like asap. I like

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Speaker 2: it's evil, Like it's evil, and like he like he

519
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 2: lied about the letter. He tried to cover his tracks.

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Speaker 2: Like the thing is, it's like it's not like he

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Speaker 2: didn't know that what he was doing was wrong, Like

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Speaker 2: he knew what he was doing was wrong, and so

523
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Speaker 2: tried to cover up his tracks so to his wife,

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Speaker 2: he wouldn't look evil, but he looks evil. Yeah. See

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Speaker 2: that's why I think.

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Speaker 3: Is it sociopath the one where you like don't basically

527
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Speaker 3: don't feel bad about, yeah, or psychopath maybe one of those,

528
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 3: like basically the thing where like you do evil and

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Speaker 3: you literally feel like you have no guilt.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you just have like no conscience. That is this

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Speaker 2: guy so bad? But you know what you should never

532
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Speaker 2: feel guilty about.

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