1 00:00:01,560 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. 3 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and 4 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: this one today right here, right now. All right, buckle up, 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. It 8 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you enough. Subject my man 9 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: loves being in the doghouse. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am 10 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: a twenty eight year old woman dating a thirty four 11 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: year old man. We were together nine months and waited 12 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: almost five months before we started having sex. He was 13 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: very kinky and liked to keep it interesting in the bedroom, 14 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:51,959 Speaker 1: but it ended up being way too much for me. 15 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: You've answered a letter like this before, but mine is 16 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: different because my man is more extreme. Who started one 17 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 1: night about three months ago when out of nowhere, during sex, 18 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: he started barking like a dog and licking me all 19 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 1: over during sex. I asked what the hell was going 20 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: on and he shushed me and told me not to 21 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: spoil the mood. He told me to say good boy 22 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 1: while we were having sex. I thought he was playing 23 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: it first, so I did it. I told him afterwards 24 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: that it was awkward as hell, but he said he 25 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: loved it. From then on, we did this dog We 26 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: did his doggy routine during sex a few more times, 27 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: but he got too darn weird. One night, when he 28 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: came into the bedroom naked on all fours wearing a leash, 29 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: he asked me to pet him and take him for 30 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: a walk in the backyard. Of course I didn't want to, 31 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: but I did. Come on, I'm trying to read this 32 00:01:54,560 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: with a straight face, guys. We walked out of the yard. 33 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: We walked out to the yard, and he stopped and 34 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: relieved himself, yes, in the grass. This pushed me to 35 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: the edge and I broke up with him and left 36 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: his naked behind in the yard. I could never have 37 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: sex with him again. Now he's calling me NonStop and 38 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: begging me to hear him out. He sent me a 39 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 1: link to an online group of people that also indulge 40 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: in this fetish. It's all too freaky for me. But 41 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: now I have a major problem. I am pregnant by him. 42 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,239 Speaker 1: I don't want my child to have a freaky father 43 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: that might lick on him and make him potty in 44 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 1: the backyard. I really just want to move away and 45 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: not even tell him that I'm pregnant. I know that's 46 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: not right, though, What should I do? Please advise? Oh boy, 47 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 1: this lady Anna say was I know, I know, Steve, 48 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: I know, I know She's saved that until the end, 49 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: didn't she? And she's right. We did have a letter 50 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: earlier about a guy who liked to wear furry dog costumes. 51 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 1: We did have that. But you're definitely right. This is 52 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: way more extreme with this man right here. And listen, 53 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: I was perfectly ready to tell you to run, not 54 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: walk away from this man. But now you're pregnant and 55 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: an innocent baby is involved in all this foolishness. So 56 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I don't. This is hard. I mean, 57 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: what do you You've got a baby? You know, you 58 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: put yourself into this freaky situation. Why didn't you wear protection? 59 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: You could get pregnant if you don't wear protection and 60 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: you're having sex, you know, And you had sex with 61 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: him more than once, you know, so you knew he 62 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: was into this freaky stuff, but you had sex with him. 63 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: Now the baby is going to have a man who 64 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: literally I mean literally wants to be treated like a dog. 65 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: Completed with like you saying the letter walking naked on 66 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: all fours and you were nating in the in the backyard. 67 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I just have to say, get ready to 68 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: be a single parent unless this guy straightens up and changes, 69 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: you know. But it sounds like he's really deep into this. 70 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: I mean he's part of a group that does it. 71 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: He shows you that, you know, he's not the only one. 72 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: There's more like me. I guess to make it seem 73 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 1: like he's not so bad or something, but this is 74 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: pretty bad, especially if you're bringing a baby into this situation. 75 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: So yes, you have some decisions to make. I mean, 76 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: he's the father, you owe him that. But get ready, 77 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: like I said, to be a single parent unless he changes. 78 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: Steve well, because I just handing this the best way 79 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: I can until we get to the impregnant part. Twenty 80 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: eight year old woman y'all and her Shelley is answered 81 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 1: dating a thirty year old man. We was together nine 82 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: months and waited almost five months before we begin having sex. 83 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 1: He was kinky like to keep it interested. Now, the 84 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: reason y'all waited five months is caused probably just probably 85 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: I'm going out on a limb. It wasn't maiden seasons. 86 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna that's who I'm gonna think. Maybe maybe 87 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: it just wasn't maiden season. Now, you know you didn't 88 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: even then y'all having sex and it went kind of kinky. 89 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:24,160 Speaker 1: One night he just started barking and looking on you 90 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: like a dog, and you told him hold on. He said, 91 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: now just pat me and say good boy. All right, 92 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: so you start patting it now, sirley. But I can't 93 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: get to that part yet. But here where it got 94 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: real stake that night that he came over and you 95 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 1: opened the bedroom. He crawled in on all fours with 96 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 1: that leash and then asked you to walk him outside, 97 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 1: and you didn't want to, but you did. But I'm 98 00:05:56,279 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 1: assuming you had your clothes on. Maybe you just put 99 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: your rob on, so you take your negative ass outside, right, 100 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 1: come on, come on? And he I'm did he squat? Now? 101 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:21,119 Speaker 1: He was already four? Yeah, but you gotta do something else. 102 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: You can't that ain't you got humans now? League? Yeah? 103 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 1: Well you can pee, but I'm talking about that other thing. 104 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: If you're trying to do that, you're gonna have to 105 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: get in a squat position. Are you finna have stuff 106 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: running all down your damn league? Hold your response. Last 107 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 1: part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three 108 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: after the hour, subject my man loves to be in 109 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 1: the doghouse. We'll get back into it right after this. 110 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, We gotta recap today's strawberry 111 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 1: letter subject my man loves being in the doghouse. This 112 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: woman that met this man that likes to do dog stuff, 113 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 1: barg when they're having sex, liquor when they having sex. 114 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: It got kind of ignorant. One night he came in 115 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: on all folds naked with a leash round his nag 116 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: begged her to take his stupid ass outside naked, and 117 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 1: she put a robe on and got the leash. He 118 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: on all fours crawled in the grass. He gets out 119 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: there and he relieves himself in the grass. Now I 120 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: know he peed in the grass, but I'm trying to 121 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:33,559 Speaker 1: figure out if he tried to number two in this yard, because, 122 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: as I said on the last break, the reason you 123 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 1: don't want to do that on all fours it because 124 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: man booty ain't the save a dog booty, because dog 125 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: booty can do things that man booty can't. Dog booty 126 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: can push it out, shop it off, clean it, go 127 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: back in. Ain't no sign of it. Human booty don't 128 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: work that way. Humane booty reques wiping and pattern and washing. Okay, 129 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 1: well I'm just tenant now, Captains, while he outside, Look, 130 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:19,239 Speaker 1: come quick? Did he pee on your leg? Because after 131 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: this happened, she didn't call him no more. You should 132 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: have rolled up a newspaper and just wore his ass out. 133 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: He probably would have liked that too. Good. Now it's 134 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: some other problems you got to deal with him. Now, 135 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: I can't have sex with him again. Now he's calling 136 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: me non stopped, want me to hear him out? Then 137 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 1: he sent you a link now to an online group 138 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: of people that also indulge in his fetish See, so 139 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: he in deep. You're not gonna change him. He not 140 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: gonna change him, and you should not be involved with him. 141 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: And you did a good thing. But na you pregnant 142 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 1: by him? That surely got on you and tried to 143 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: tell you. Why didn't you use protection? Surely? When have 144 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: you ever seen a dog with a condom? Harvey, I'm 145 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: asking you what dog? And I've seen a lot of 146 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: dogs have sex, have you ever seen one. Stop. Hold on, 147 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: wait a minute. I got to get something. I got 148 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 1: it up on it, got it taped up on my collar. 149 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 1: Reaching there and get that fun. I got a dog 150 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 1: and now he took both Paul bit it off with 151 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 1: his teeth and rolled it on. Dogs don't use condom. Shut. 152 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: He's a man. Now you obviously keeping the baby. So 153 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: now I don't know, you have to tell this man 154 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: as his baby. You do not have to have sex 155 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: with him again. But if you're gonna have the child, 156 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:03,079 Speaker 1: the child should know it's father. It's just what you're 157 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: gonna need to do, a supervised visit. But you're gonna 158 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 1: go over there and get your baby one day, and 159 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: your baby gonna be in the kiel. Wow. Yeah, I 160 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: mean no, I'm just telling you. If he thinking a dog, 161 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: where is this going? The baby is part of a 162 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: litter like a puppy. That's how you know. You don't 163 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: name the dog Scoopy for sure. Y'all don't know where 164 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:31,719 Speaker 1: this is going now, Oh my god. So since this 165 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: is gonna happen, I'm thinking something like we gotta get 166 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 1: a name, and I think we need to name this 167 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: baby something that's kind of gonna make him happy, but 168 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 1: kind of remind you of what you're dealing with. God, Like, 169 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:53,239 Speaker 1: if your name is Landis, your last name is Landis, 170 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: maybe you can name the baby Rover Landis. Uh. Maybe 171 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 1: it's your last name is Johnson. Maybe the baby name 172 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 1: can be Skippy Johnson. Oh, I hate you your last 173 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 1: name Thompson. Maybe we can name the baby bow huh bow? 174 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,439 Speaker 1: How about buddy? Buddy is a good dog name, but 175 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: sound like name, but dog names that sound like people 176 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 1: name Scotty scott It. A lot of people name their 177 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 1: dogs scott It. If it's a girl, lasting last I'm 178 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: just trying to come up with some name that's kind 179 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: of sick, like any of you got, I know, but 180 00:11:57,320 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta do stuff like you gotta compensation 181 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 1: because there's nothing to do about this hill. But if 182 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: you sleep with a man with all this going on, 183 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:08,839 Speaker 1: you gotta be out your mind, you know, you come 184 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: up with stuff like you know, maybe if it's a 185 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:21,599 Speaker 1: little girl like Tricksie, you know, uh, hounds Worth Oundsworth, 186 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:30,679 Speaker 1: hound Houndsworth, Jackson Houndsworth, Tomlin. You know something in that 187 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 1: so far like Skippy and lastly Boody, like like eagle Jackson. 188 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 1: This is crazy right here. Yeah, this nst all right listen. 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