1 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: Hey guys, Sunday Sampler time. 2 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 2: We're gonna start with In the Vets Office with Doctor Josie, 3 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 2: where she had on a pet psychic and usually I'd 4 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,479 Speaker 2: be like, all right, give me a break, but some 5 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 2: of this stuff is crazy, So Doctor Josie, we're gonna 6 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 2: start with. 7 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: Also, we did something different on the Bobbycast. 8 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 2: We had a music panel, Drew Baldridge who's about to 9 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: have a number one, Chris Owen who works in publishing, 10 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 2: Eddie and myself. We talked about the charts. It definitely 11 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 2: got a little nerdy, but I liked this episode. So 12 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 2: a lot to happen here. Take this personally with Morgan. 13 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: She brought on a couple of guests as well. So 14 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 2: all these on the Sunday Sampler, but we will start 15 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 2: with doctor Josie. 16 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:53,319 Speaker 3: Now enjoy. 17 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're listening to in the Vets Office with Doctor 18 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 4: Josie Horschak. 19 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 5: So we were talking a little bit before we started recording, 20 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 5: and we're gonna have you do some readings on Siya 21 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 5: and Biggie that are here, which are two of my 22 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 5: little rescue dogs. I do have a third dog at home, 23 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 5: but as I said before, it would be chaos to 24 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 5: have all three of them here. And then I do 25 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 5: have a dog that was really special to me that 26 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 5: passed away a couple of years ago. So we had 27 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 5: talked about maybe doing an angel reading for her as well. 28 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 6: And all that you need for that is a picture. 29 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 7: Right, Absolutely, that's all I need. 30 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 5: Okay, very good. Well which of these two? What are 31 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 5: you thinking? How should we start? 32 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 7: Let's talk to Siah first. Okay, so she is six 33 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 7: years old, right, but I'm feeling yeah, So before we 34 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 7: started recording, Carrie asked me how old do you think 35 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 7: she is? 36 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 6: And I said, well, you know, I rescued her. 37 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 5: I think she's around five and Carrie said I'm getting 38 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 5: six and I said, okay, that makes total sense. And 39 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 5: then you said I think her birthday is May fifth. 40 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, she told me Sinco de mile is her birthday. 41 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, and that is so crazy because that's what we 42 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 5: have been celebrating at home for since we got her. 43 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 7: I love it, and she's very excited that you celebrate 44 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 7: her birthday. So that's like one of her favorite memories, 45 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 7: just so you know. Okay, yeah, she does not like water. 46 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 7: Did you know that? 47 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 6: I did know that. Okay, she hates. 48 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 7: Water Oh, she's like, tell my mom, I hate water. Okay, 49 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 7: and is there a white swimmy white dog? Is there 50 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 7: a white dog? 51 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 6: Yes, that's Oakley, our third dog at home. 52 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 7: Yeah. She's not so sure about Oakley. So she's a 53 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 7: little bit jealous of Oakley. Does that make sense? 54 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? 55 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 6: I see that. 56 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 7: Okay, like warming up to Oakley, but not quite there. 57 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 7: Ok These two though, they love each other and Siah sia, 58 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 7: I'm biggie. They absolutely adore each other, and they're like, 59 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 7: they feel very bondent to me. Somebody just said, rabbits. 60 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:54,119 Speaker 7: Do you have rabbits in your backyard? 61 00:02:55,360 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 5: Wow, that's so funny. We have, Yes, we have rap rabbits. 62 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 5: And Saya love squirrels and rabbits. 63 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 7: Yes, they love to chase them. Okay, Sya, she's so 64 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 7: relaxed right now. So what I did earlier, She came 65 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 7: to me and she was reverse sneezing, and so I 66 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 7: gave her Reiki energy healing moan, I guess brand of 67 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 7: energy healing, and she stopped sneezing, and I kept telling her, 68 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 7: you're safe, You're safe, coach. She does that because she doesn't. 69 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 7: She feels anxious a lot. She has anxiety I'm sure 70 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 7: you know that. But she stopped the reverse sneezing as 71 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 7: soon as I did that, So that's pretty cool. 72 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 6: That's amazing. 73 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, she's very chill right now, obviously. 74 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 6: Do you need me to get her perked up for you? Hey, 75 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 6: I say them here, hie. She's like, I'm sleeping during 76 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 6: this reading. This is a great She. 77 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 7: Just showed me horses. Do you what is that? Does 78 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 7: she go around horses? What does that mean? 79 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 5: Yes, I have an older horse, he's twenty four. Oh wow, yeah, 80 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 5: his name is kay Timmy. So we go out to 81 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 5: the barn and she runs around, Yes, around the horses. 82 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 6: She loves it. 83 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 7: Oh yeah she does. That's like her other favorite memory. 84 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 7: And are there chickens there? Or do you give her chicken? 85 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 6: There are chickens there. 86 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, she loves to see the chickens too. She probably 87 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 7: wants to eat them. 88 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 6: That's cute. 89 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 7: Loves to see them. 90 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, she likes to chase them. 91 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, she's super happy, like she could not be happier 92 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 7: for sure. Yeah. Did she eat a fly or like 93 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 7: chase a fly? 94 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 6: A fly? Probably not that off the top of my head. 95 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 7: She's saying. It was like a year ago. She's like, yeah, 96 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 7: there was a fly there, So let me let me 97 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 7: scan the rest of her body and see how she 98 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 7: Tommy's a little bit upset. I would say, like two 99 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 7: out of ten upset. Nothing to worry about. I mean 100 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 7: your vet. 101 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 6: Yeah that's okay. 102 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, you get it more than I do. But yeah, 103 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 7: and then okay, and then she's got a little bit 104 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 7: of pain towards her tailbone on the left side, on 105 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:52,840 Speaker 7: that muscle, if that makes sense, and then it's kind 106 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 7: of shooting down into her left hip. Okay, it makes 107 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 7: sense to you. 108 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 5: That is Actually I was just telling the listeners this 109 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 5: is crazy because you were not here for this. But 110 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 5: she had a bullet in that and her thigh muscle 111 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 5: and her left Like. 112 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I. 113 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:14,480 Speaker 7: Wonder she has anxiety. Yeah, you and so many pets 114 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 7: I talked to have severe anxiety, severe generalized anxiety disorder. 115 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 7: As you know, it's an epidemic in our country, just 116 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 7: like cancer. So I would love to know what do 117 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 7: you do to treat her anxiety anything? 118 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean she I wouldn't say she has generalized 119 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 5: I think it's more situational in her case. But you're right, 120 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 5: I see a ton of generalized anxiety disorders and our pets. 121 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 5: She's not to the point where it's like, oh gosh, 122 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 5: we need to do medication. But we do a lot 123 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 5: of like positive reinforcement with her and it's helped. Yes, 124 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 5: we do the thunder jacket. 125 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 6: She's really of work for you. 126 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 7: Because I have so many people tell me, yes, no, 127 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 7: it doesn't. I don't know. 128 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 5: It does work for her her A lot of her 129 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 5: anxiety stems around like loud noises, which I guess she 130 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 5: got shot, so that makes sense, makes sense. So I 131 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 5: find that, like with fireworks and thunderstorms, that does make 132 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 5: a big difference. 133 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 6: Yeah. 134 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 7: And are you a fan of CBD oil because I 135 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 7: tell everybody about it? 136 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,839 Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, I like CBD for the longest time. As vets. 137 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 5: We couldn't really give it our blessing, but I have 138 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 5: had a lot of patients respond really well to it. 139 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 8: Yep. 140 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 7: I tell everybody about honest pause. Okay, they should pay 141 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 7: me for it, but they don't. But I but my 142 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 7: dog has severe anxiety too, and honest pause, it's the 143 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 7: It's called calm. It's peanut butter and oil in a jar, 144 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 7: and it's fantastic, Like it really helps this anxiety, so 145 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 7: perfect highly recommend. 146 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 6: This is not an ad. 147 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 7: This is not an ad. 148 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 6: All right, Well we'll have to try it. 149 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 7: Pay me after this, but no, it's not exactly honest. Pause, 150 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 7: give us a call. 151 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 6: Pause. Yes, that's amazing. 152 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:44,799 Speaker 7: Yeah. 153 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 5: One thing I would love to know about her is, 154 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 5: and I know you don't like to know too much, 155 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 5: but she was in Mexico when we found her. 156 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 6: She was on the streets. 157 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 5: I just like, does she tell you anything about her 158 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 5: life before we adopted her. 159 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:59,359 Speaker 7: She's saying a lot of people actually fet her, So 160 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 7: that's good. She was very thirsty, she said, and she 161 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 7: had she had bugs, and so you helped her with 162 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 7: the fleas and the bugs and the means. 163 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: Right. 164 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, she had a tick born disease when we adopted her, 165 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 5: so that makes sense. 166 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh. Yeah, she said, I've come a long 167 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,679 Speaker 7: way and I'm so grateful that you got me because 168 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 7: I wasn't going to survive. 169 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 6: Yeah. 170 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 7: So yeah, I. 171 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 6: Can't cry on this podcast, but I might. 172 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 3: Drew. 173 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 8: You have the odd roll. 174 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: Of spearheading your entire promotion you as an artist. It's 175 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 2: a multi pronged approach to having a record that's number one, 176 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 2: but you're all the prongs. 177 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 9: Yeah, and since we talked last week, talked on here 178 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 9: about maybe signing with UTA. I actually got a booking 179 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 9: agent now. I went with UTA, which is super exciting. 180 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 9: So I don't have to book my own shows now, 181 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 9: which I was doing for the last year five years. 182 00:07:59,080 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 9: Thank you, Bobby. 183 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: He's got himself to a numb rate by himself. But 184 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 2: I take credit for one interview where we're talking. I'm 185 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 2: totally kidding when I said. 186 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 9: But yeah, it's been you know, super super crazy ride. 187 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 9: And I think, now, what's the hardest thing is enjoying 188 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 9: it because everybody's like, what's next, what's your next single? 189 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: Where are you at with that? 190 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 9: And I'm just like, dang, dude, I just feel like 191 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 9: I've been fighting goliath this whole time and now like 192 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 9: I'm having trouble enjoying the top ten because I'm stressed 193 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 9: about what the next single is and because this town 194 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 9: moves so fast all the time, and is that next 195 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 9: single gonna be me again by myself? Right now? 196 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 197 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 9: You know, I don't have like a bunch of labels 198 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 9: calling or anything. 199 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 2: I would still say. I would say, no, it will 200 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 2: not be by yourself. That's what I would guess. Listen, 201 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 2: success draws attention, draws people who want to make money, 202 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 2: and if they say you can make the money, I mean, 203 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 2: this is. 204 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 1: Word in capitalist world. 205 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, one hundred percent. 206 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 2: I think you just got a booking agent far too 207 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 2: late for that to actually have happened. But it's gonna 208 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 2: that stuff's gonna start stumbling in when you're not even 209 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 2: gonna want some of it. Honestly, you're gonna have learned 210 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 2: things where you're going, Oh, I don't even need to 211 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 2: have this type of person because I know how to 212 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: do it, or I don't have to have a full 213 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 2: capacity person. 214 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 9: Yeah, and I think I'm to that point where I 215 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 9: do want somebody, you know, if anybody's listening out there 216 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 9: and want assigning a record deal, come on. 217 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 2: But but okay, great, great point you do. But I 218 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 2: would say, like a Cody Johnson, for example, signs to Warner, 219 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 2: but still he had created a business, his own path, 220 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 2: owns owns basically everything, had the leverage to make that 221 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 2: deal a little better. I think you'll have either the 222 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 2: leverage to make it a little better or not take one. Yeah, 223 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 2: which is the best place to be? Do you know 224 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 2: about the Cody Johnson situation? 225 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:42,959 Speaker 7: Oh? 226 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure he has. 227 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 10: He has one of the best record deals in down 228 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 10: He gets I mean full creative control, and he gets 229 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 10: so much of his music back in terms of just 230 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 10: you know, the masters and money and all that, and 231 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 10: I mean he had all the leverage before he signed 232 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 10: with Warner. He could have just like stayed Indye and 233 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 10: still sold out every single show he played, but he 234 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 10: decided to partner with Warner because it was the best 235 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 10: opportunity to help him with mainstream radio, but still keep 236 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 10: all the stuff that. 237 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: He wanted to keep. So it's like, what advice. 238 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:11,959 Speaker 2: The world would you give Drew here about because he's 239 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 2: gonna he's going to have labels coming at him and 240 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 2: it may not be the biggest or it may not 241 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:20,599 Speaker 2: be the most money, or it might be right, or 242 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 2: maybe people that can provide a certain type of service 243 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 2: that you need. What what advice would you give Drew 244 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: about labels when they come calling. 245 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 10: I would say, definitely, try to explore every single option 246 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 10: in terms of what what does this record deal give 247 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 10: to me that I can't do on my own, and 248 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 10: what do I need help with? What do I not 249 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 10: need help with? And then all of the you know, 250 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 10: all the money that you could be making with a 251 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 10: record deal and how did the masters look and all 252 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 10: this other stuff. You have the factor and so definitely 253 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 10: don't like take the first thing that's offered to you. 254 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 10: And again you you know, I mean, Drew holds all 255 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 10: the leverage right now. And when you have a number 256 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 10: one song like this where you're doing it all yourself, yeah, 257 00:10:58,480 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 10: so I. 258 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 2: Think a problem that you could get into as well. 259 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 2: And it's a great problem to have. And I have 260 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 2: a bit of this where I just did everything myself 261 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 2: for so long that it's just expected, even though I 262 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 2: have teams that I'm just gonna do it myself. Yeah, 263 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 2: where they're like, oh, you know that he's already done this. 264 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 2: It's like even the radio show when I started, I 265 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:18,719 Speaker 2: was paying for the whole thing. I was funding the 266 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 2: whole thing, even the syndication. I was buying the equipment. 267 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:22,679 Speaker 2: I was calling the stations, I was hustling station. I 268 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 2: was losing money, broken equipment. It didn't work half the time. 269 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 2: We were syndicating the like two cities and I'm sure 270 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 2: they're real cities, you know. And so but because I 271 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 2: made it work without any sort of budget for promotion, 272 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: like oh, we don't have given promotion. He can do 273 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 2: it himself. 274 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 9: Yeah, And see that's something that I think about all 275 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 9: the time now, is like, you know, if you go 276 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 9: to one of these labels, I know how it works, 277 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 9: you know. 278 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: So they can't really pull the wool over the again. 279 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 8: There's no wool, you know. 280 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 9: Like there, I'm gonna know, like, hey, did you call 281 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 9: so and so to about this? Because that's what we 282 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 9: did on this last one. And I think, you know, 283 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,599 Speaker 9: I don't know if that's a good thing or a 284 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 9: bad thing in their eyes, but I will say, like 285 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:05,559 Speaker 9: I do have a problem now of a little bit 286 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 9: of like control of my business and what's going on, 287 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:10,959 Speaker 9: because I'm like, I've been doing this alone for a 288 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,080 Speaker 9: long time and it's all your money now, Yeah, it's 289 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:15,559 Speaker 9: all my money. I fund it all, you know, and 290 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 9: it's a lot when you start looking back at it, 291 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 9: but obviously it's an investment in us moving forward. But yeah, 292 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 9: just like you said, funding your own show, buying your 293 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,959 Speaker 9: own gear, you know, it's like that's what we're doing 294 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 9: right now, funding it, buying it, going on tour, paying 295 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 9: for the guys. And I saw your post just last 296 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 9: week breakdown of artists pay you know, and stuff that's real, 297 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 9: you know, of like artists normally makes about fifteen percent 298 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 9: when after the show's done or whatever. We're very lucky 299 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 9: that the masters don't do that. 300 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:08,839 Speaker 8: Than personal flds men. 301 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 11: I am so excited to welcome Nicole on with us 302 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 11: right now. Nicole, how are you today? 303 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 6: I am great? Thank you very much for having me. 304 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 11: I'm so excited because you are a neuroscientist, you have 305 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 11: a master's in organizational psychology, and you're a personal coach, 306 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 11: which is so many titles and just totally awesome. 307 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 12: Thank you, that's really kind. Thank you so much for 308 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 12: having me. I'm so excited for this. 309 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 11: Is there anything outside of exercise that you're like, make 310 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 11: sure you're doing this for your brain health? Exercise is 311 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 11: really important. What's kind of some other ones there? 312 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 5: Yeah? 313 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 12: I think the key to keeping brain health is staying active, 314 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 12: so not just physically but mentally as well. So continue 315 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 12: to learn new things, continue to stay engaged with life. 316 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 12: I know that dubs can get very stressful, and I 317 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 12: think we allso withdrew the lockdown. You know, when we're 318 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,559 Speaker 12: in these confined spaces and people having to live in 319 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 12: maybe not such happy homes or maybe just seeing the 320 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 12: same thing every day. It's taxing on the brain and 321 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 12: we do see it in research and especially in mice experiments. 322 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 12: When you put them in an environment that is monotonous 323 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 12: and that is not joyful, they will dispense drugs if 324 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 12: they are available. But the drug is available even if 325 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 12: they are in an environment that is happy, and they 326 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 12: choose not to dispend drugs, So the choice is always there. 327 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 12: The environment as well keeps them happy, so staying engaged 328 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 12: with life, so finding a hobby. And we see this 329 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 12: in all the individuals who maintain volunteering jobs or hobbies 330 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 12: or continue to socialize with friends. They live more prosperous 331 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 12: lives and that is linked to BD and F when 332 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 12: we are learning. When we continue to learn, we continue 333 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 12: to change our brain to sort of it's almost like 334 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 12: not letting it stagnate, if you will, And that is 335 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 12: because of BD and F. When we learn, we increase B, 336 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 12: D and F as well. So I actually get all 337 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 12: my clients to do some ball training games, or I 338 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 12: encourage them to use the opposite hand. So try and 339 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 12: brush your teeth with your left hand if you're right handed, 340 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 12: or the other hand if you're left handed. It's really hard, 341 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 12: and that's actually really challenging. So just taking your mind 342 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 12: and your brain sort of places where it's not comfortable 343 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 12: will mean that it has to drive BDNF and then 344 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 12: in turn keep you know, integrity. 345 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 11: I mean, I took up adult gymnastics at twenty eight 346 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 11: and I felt really good about that. But now I 347 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 11: want to brush my teeth with my left hand because 348 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 11: that sounds even more. 349 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 12: People that ask me questions what the best way to 350 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 12: keep my brain health at the cheapest cost is just 351 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 12: hydrating consistently literally hydrating water. 352 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 6: Because I found it quite crazy. 353 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 12: But there's a lot of people that don't drink a 354 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 12: lot of water throughout the day, clients that only drink 355 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 12: coffee and the tea in the evening. It's very British, 356 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 12: and I was saying, no, no, no, You've got to 357 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 12: drink water. There's water in my coffee, and I'm thinking, no, 358 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 12: you have to drink water. 359 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 11: Well, I will say I am one of those people. 360 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 11: For whatever reason, I my taste buds hate water and 361 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 11: I do my best, though to still force myself to 362 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 11: drink water because I do know I feel better when. 363 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 12: I could you put electrolytes. You can afford electrolynes, pop 364 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 12: them in and then you've got a flavored water. 365 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 11: So yes, I do meo mio is my like go 366 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 11: to t you guys just squirt it in and it 367 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 11: makes me drink more water. 368 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 6: So I found the little cure perfect. 369 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 12: And if it's got electrolytes, and then it's even better 370 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 12: because your signapses communicate through sodium potassium pump, which is 371 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 12: literally sodium potassium communicating through a membrane, and that's how 372 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 12: we generate energy to spike and action potential, which then 373 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 12: sends the information to another sign apps you see. So 374 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 12: something as simple as ingesting electrolytes can help maintain cognition 375 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 12: and brain help. 376 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 11: I love when we find out that we're doing good things. 377 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 11: It's probly now we're doing bad things. I'm really excited 378 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 11: when I find. 379 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: Out I did I'm good. 380 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 11: It's actually true that different parts of our brain trigger 381 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 11: different things. You know, they talk about the right brain 382 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 11: and the left brain and creativity versus analytical. Is that 383 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 11: something that's actually true or is that something that just 384 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 11: kind of came out into the universe. 385 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 6: It came out into the universe with good reason, but 386 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 6: we did disprove it if you will. 387 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 12: So, the left side of the brain and the right 388 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 12: side of brain both work together in language. So they 389 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 12: used to think that the left side was more logical. 390 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 12: I think it's that way around that. I don't even 391 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 12: know anymore because I know that it's not that way. 392 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 12: So I think the left, so they bely, was more 393 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 12: logical because it dealt with language. But actually the right 394 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 12: hand side helps put the sentence together, so it puts 395 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 12: sort of context to the message, whereas a left side 396 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 12: just sort of picks up on the actual words. But no, 397 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 12: we don't have a sort of left brain right brain dominancy. 398 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 12: But with that being said, the left side of the 399 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 12: brain does control the right and the right does control 400 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 12: the left. So if you're right handed and you use 401 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 12: your right hand more, you might be using it a 402 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 12: bit more of your left hand side. But the brain 403 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 12: is always going to maximize itself, and it's always going 404 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:30,639 Speaker 12: to make sure that it's using one hundred percent of 405 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 12: its energy. And the other myth is that we use 406 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 12: ten percent of our brains. 407 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 6: That's not true. 408 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 12: We use one hundred percent. So the brain will maximize 409 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 12: itself where it can. So creativity and logical thinking actually 410 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 12: come from two separate networks. One network for creativity is 411 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 12: called the default mode network. It's a network of three 412 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 12: brain areas and actually form a triangle sort of like 413 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 12: here in the frontal lobes and then down to the 414 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 12: side and then sort of back together. Okay, so you 415 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:57,160 Speaker 12: can see it now on both sides, and that's responsible 416 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:01,160 Speaker 12: for mind wandering sometimes rumination as well, but their creativity 417 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 12: and individuals who have a higher connectivity in that system 418 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 12: are able to siphon memories and use them as inspiration, 419 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 12: which someone like me will probably lack a little bit of, 420 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 12: although I'm a little bit creative, but it can be trained. 421 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 12: The brain is classic, so it can be trained. You 422 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,119 Speaker 12: can become more creative, you can become more logic. The 423 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 12: logic network of the brain is also on both sides. 424 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 12: It's called the central executive network. So that's cognitively demanding tasks, 425 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:26,399 Speaker 12: problem solving, and there will be higher connectivity in the 426 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 12: frontal lobes because that's where your conscious sort of decision 427 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:30,160 Speaker 12: making comes from. 428 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 11: Wow, that is fascinating, especially to learn the myths that 429 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 11: we learn thanks to the internet. But thank you for 430 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 11: debunking some of those for us. It sounds like we 431 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:41,959 Speaker 11: can use all of our brains to unlock some new 432 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 11: potential because it's constantly learning. 433 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: We're going to do it live. We are the one too, 434 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 1: very sore Losers. What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I 435 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: know the most about sports, so I'll give you the 436 00:18:56,359 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 1: sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much Jay 437 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: sports genius. Y'all. 438 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 3: It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. 439 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 3: I live on the North side of Nashville with bays 440 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 3: Or my wife. 441 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: We do have a farm. 442 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 3: It's beautiful, a lot of acreage, no animals, a lot 443 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 3: of crops. Hopefully soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe 444 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 3: a little fescue to be determined. 445 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 1: Over to you, coach, And here's a clip from this 446 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: week's episode of The Sore Losers. 447 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,680 Speaker 3: Do you know Riley Duckman has a bar in Midtown 448 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 3: and it's called duck Hunt. 449 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 2: Or some shit. 450 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 1: Who Riley Green has a bar? Riley? 451 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 3: Yeah no, no, there's no one. So Arnold was there 452 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 3: tasting out their whiskey. Yeah, check it out, guys, Arnold's 453 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 3: gonna be off the show for a minute. There was 454 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 3: a lot of rumored affairs. We're gonna start the show. 455 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 3: We're gonna do it live type Riley Green. Midtown bars 456 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,199 Speaker 3: supposed to be right next to winters and losers. 457 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,199 Speaker 1: I don't see anything. I'm not making it up. It's 458 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 1: a legit story. Ray, I need two sources before it 459 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: says Rithy Green to open Nashville bar. Yeah, jelly Rolls 460 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: get open one too. 461 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 3: Actually, that's not even a joke. You probably will. 462 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I heard actually Cooks opening one. Okay, I'm gonna 463 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: have to sit on this for a minute. Yeah, who's 464 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 1: another newcomer, Shaboozies opening one man? Seriously, I mean no, 465 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: but everybody that gets a number one song is opening 466 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 1: a bar. At some point, the Alcoholics Anonymous company needs 467 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 1: to come and be founded in Nashville because that's just 468 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 1: too much alcohol. I'm amazed how so many bars just 469 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,680 Speaker 1: keep opening up and they're all pat they're all just slammed. 470 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 3: Hey, you fill them. Hawktua was way south of town. 471 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 3: You got people coming from cities all around Nashville. Lane 472 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 3: where the population is. It's all the silent majority an 473 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 3: hour in each direction. You should come up by me, dude, 474 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 3: seven lanes cars near mirror. My holy shit, I thought 475 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:05,920 Speaker 3: I came to the country, but then you go two 476 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 3: blocks over and it's nothing butt country. But there's main 477 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 3: roads where cars just fly. 478 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:14,399 Speaker 1: Man. Not just in Nashville, the city. The population of 479 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,640 Speaker 1: Austin is in Austin. It's round rock In that metal Puda, 480 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:22,359 Speaker 1: it's Kyle. It's uh Fredericksburg. That's a little far. You 481 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 1: make a watering hole. These cowboys are gonna find it, 482 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 1: and there's Taylor. They're gonna put down a whole yack 483 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 1: of a case of Iraq huddo. Yeah, so if you 484 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 1: drink it, bring it. If you buy it, they'll drink it. 485 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 1: Logo Vista. What's he gonna name? The art isn't saying there. 486 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:39,160 Speaker 3: I just made up duck Hunt. 487 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 1: Uh the there was a girl artists who have a 488 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: presidence of Mintown neighborhood, Nashville. Green is set to open 489 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: a bar called Riley Green's duck Blind Nashville. I almost 490 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 1: came it because his nickname is Duckman. Thumb Blind will 491 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 1: be open on the location of Winning. They're gonna have 492 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 1: duck Hunt. Hey, honey, me a beer. So it's not 493 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 1: gonna be Winners anymore. It's gonna be duck Hunt or 494 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 1: whatever he's calling. Yeah, so winners is no more losers? 495 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:12,160 Speaker 3: Is there? 496 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,920 Speaker 1: Winners is no more? Oh wow? 497 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 3: And then there's even one two bars over which used 498 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 3: to be rebar is gonna be a new thing? 499 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,639 Speaker 1: Abby showed me the picture. 500 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:22,160 Speaker 13: Yeah. 501 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 1: And then what's it called the one from Austin kung Fu? No, 502 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 1: the other one kung Fu? 503 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 8: The ranch not not the ranch? 504 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, doghouse, dogwood, dogwood? Yeah, what's that gonna be? Oh, 505 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 1: it's closed. I don't know if it closed, but I 506 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: know they sold. They sold. 507 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 3: And did you see dog pound or dog house on Mumbrian. Yeah, 508 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 3: it's closed. 509 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 1: Really, it's now live oak And McKitty told you guys, 510 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 1: this is in between the weeds. But McKitty told me 511 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 1: that whole Dumumbrian complex it's gonna be a two year development. 512 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 1: They're knocking out all those buildings and it's just gonna 513 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,360 Speaker 1: be live oak and tin roof and then the rest 514 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 1: is going to be an apartment or something. No crap, 515 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 1: because no nobody ever those bars never excel and never 516 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 1: succeed in the bank that was there got robbed or 517 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:12,880 Speaker 1: something because it's never reopened. Oh that's not good news, hey, guys, 518 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna rub me. Alright, let's do a live man. Yeah, 519 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 1: we're gonna do a live Oh the one dude? Three losers? 520 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,160 Speaker 1: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most 521 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 1: about sports, so I'll give you the sports facts, my 522 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: sports opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all. 523 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 1: It says. 524 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 3: And I'm from the North. I'm in Alpha male. I 525 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 3: live on the North Side in Nashville. Bazer, she's a 526 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,879 Speaker 3: Broadway girl. Meta took her there by her wanting it 527 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 3: wasn't kidnap, and we'd have property two and a half acres. 528 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 3: There's farmers and ranchers that have two hundred acres. They're 529 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 3: not gonna sell. They could probably make about ten million. 530 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 3: We are not gonna sell either. We won't sell. We 531 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 3: won't sell. And here's your newest Nashville bar, Ingrid Andres. 532 00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 3: It's called the Anthem. 533 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 1: Yet, dude, if she opens a bar, I've seen it 534 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,879 Speaker 1: all I have and it's a karaoke or something. No, 535 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 1: she Oh man, that's funny, that's free. 536 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,919 Speaker 3: I'm at the risk of sounding old, dude. We were 537 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:20,879 Speaker 3: here when there was not one artist bar. Was there 538 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:24,119 Speaker 3: even one? I mean there was Alan Jackson's. No that 539 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,199 Speaker 3: was there. No, wasn't the good time bar's been there. 540 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:27,439 Speaker 1: No, it's not, it hasn't. 541 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 11: No. 542 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:29,640 Speaker 3: Then it opened looking like shit. 543 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, it just always looked bad. Yes, because it's that 544 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:35,879 Speaker 1: real skinny one right on the right hand side of 545 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 1: the road. That's new, dude. There was no artist bars 546 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 1: when we moved here. 547 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:39,880 Speaker 8: None. 548 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 1: Wow, do we sound old? Not a single one? We 549 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 1: sound old. The first artist bar was Florida Georgia Lyon. 550 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 1: That was the first one. 551 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 3: And then George Jones was pretty quick in there because 552 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 3: we used to always came and go. Yeah, we went 553 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 3: to did brunch there. It was a museum, but they 554 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 3: had a little brunch spot, great Mimosa Deals. It was 555 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,639 Speaker 3: a block from where we used to live. That's the 556 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 3: only reason I know that. And then you had your dirks, 557 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 3: open your Garth, open your Laney, Luke Combs, Morgan Wallen, 558 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 3: bon Jovi's, Open Jovi, Rich, John Rich, Miranda, Lambert, Blake Shelton, 559 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 3: Luke Bryan. 560 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:26,159 Speaker 1: She's Can I just say I walked by Morgan Wallen's 561 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 1: bar this weekend. I've been in it. I didn't go 562 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 1: in it, but from the outside it doesn't look that 563 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: it just looks like an office building, right. And I 564 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,159 Speaker 1: had a friend visit town, very trustworthy. It was the 565 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 1: girl Katie from Charleston. She was included in some of 566 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 1: the stories. Yeah, she said it was her favorite bar. 567 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 1: It's just goes straight up. It's one of the smaller interiors. 568 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 1: You're gonna have maybe good live music, but it's very small. 569 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,880 Speaker 1: The line was down the street to get into it. Ray, 570 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 1: there wasn't an empty chair. 571 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:12,680 Speaker 8: Be good, Okay, cast up little food for yourself. 572 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 1: Life. 573 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 8: Say oh it's pretty bad. It's pretty beautiful, man, beautiful 574 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 8: laughs a little more said he cut. You're kicking it 575 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 8: with full. 576 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:31,680 Speaker 14: Thing with Amy Brown, Amanda, When did Dennis first say 577 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 14: he loved you? Or did you say it first? And 578 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,400 Speaker 14: share whatever details you went to about y'all's situation. 579 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 4: Okay, I totally blurted it out like it was me 580 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 4: and Dennis and I have an age gap. We will 581 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:50,480 Speaker 4: be married ten years in October, and when we met, 582 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 4: we had a connection. 583 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 14: And before you tell the rest of the story, I'm 584 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 14: gonna pausital quo because I'm gonna bring up why we're 585 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:56,400 Speaker 14: talking about the OT word. 586 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 6: Okay, let me start with that, and then finish your story. 587 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,439 Speaker 6: But there's this dating coach. 588 00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,160 Speaker 14: His name is Jake Maddick, and he was talking about 589 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 14: how if your partner doesn't say very clearly I love 590 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,320 Speaker 14: you by twelve weeks, then he's not your ideal partner 591 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 14: and you've wasted your time. He puts dating tips on 592 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 14: TikTok and Instagram. He said, you'll know with your ideal 593 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 14: partner and they'll know too, and that it needs to 594 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 14: unravel in the twelve week time span. So continue your 595 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 14: story and give us the timeline. 596 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 4: Well, we met, and yes there was an age gap, 597 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:34,640 Speaker 4: but we just had this connection. And what I loved 598 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 4: before I knew I loved Dennis. What I loved about 599 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 4: him is, first of all, just his energy. He was 600 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,960 Speaker 4: super grounded, but he was honest. What you saw was 601 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 4: what you got, Like he said what he meant, and 602 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 4: he meant what he said, and he's still like that 603 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 4: to this day. Sometimes he's really cut and dry and literal, 604 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:54,920 Speaker 4: and that can drive me nutso but I also really 605 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,959 Speaker 4: appreciate that I get an honest person who shows up 606 00:27:59,000 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 4: and is consistent. 607 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 15: So anyway, we had probably been dating. 608 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,120 Speaker 4: I mean, get ready for this, because this is it's 609 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 4: pretty crazy we had been seeing each other, and we 610 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 4: were seeing each other long distance, so we would see 611 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 4: each other every couple of weeks or every three weeks, 612 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,520 Speaker 4: but we would talk on the phone. So we had 613 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 4: been cultivating this relationship, you know, over the phone and 614 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 4: over text, and then we'd see each other every couple 615 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 4: of weeks. But we had probably been seeing each other 616 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,680 Speaker 4: six weeks two months. I don't know the exact time, 617 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 4: but we were together one weekend and we were going 618 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 4: to hear some live music and we had just had 619 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 4: dinner and we were sitting and talking and he was 620 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:32,960 Speaker 4: making me laugh. 621 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 15: And I said, oh my gosh, I love you. 622 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 4: And then as I said it, I went, I love you, 623 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 4: I love and then I remember like cause I was like, 624 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 4: I turned beat red. And he was standing there and 625 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 4: he was smiling, and I said, well, I guess I 626 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 4: may as well just finish what I was saying, I 627 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 4: love you, and he smiled back at me. Because I 628 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 4: couldn't believe myself. I was embarrassed. It just flew out 629 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 4: of my mouth and he smiled back and he goes, 630 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 4: I love you too, And like I said, Dennis says 631 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 4: what he means, and means what he says, so, of 632 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 4: course I was kind of like, but then it was like, 633 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,040 Speaker 4: but this is true, this is love, and so it 634 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 4: was spontaneous. So whether you're the man or the woman 635 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 4: or where whatever role you are in your relationship, I 636 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 4: think for me it was the spontaneity of it. And 637 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 4: even though I tried to edit myself, I went ahead 638 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 4: and said, well, I'm putting it out there, and I 639 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 4: was like, whatever he said in the moment, I was 640 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 4: ready for it, but I was so embarrassed. 641 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 15: But he said I love you, and after that it 642 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 15: was like I do love you. 643 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, I love you. 644 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 14: So it didn't quite turn into I love your shoes. Yeah, 645 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 14: Like yeah, I would edit it to that, just because 646 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 14: like blurting it out or just wanting for him to 647 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 14: say it first. And I don't know where we get 648 00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 14: that from. Jake doesn't say here if it matters or not. 649 00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 14: But you and Dennis, y'all fall into the dating coach's timeline. 650 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 4: We do fall into that timeline. And then if you 651 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 4: want to get another layer deep, so I'll just reveal 652 00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 4: this to y'all. And Dennis tells us to people all 653 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 4: the time. He says, oh, yeah, she proposed to me. 654 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 4: So I am the one in the relationship that just 655 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 4: blurted things out. And we had been together, I don't know, 656 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 4: not quite a year at that time, and I said 657 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 4: to him one day we were somewhere and I said, 658 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, I could totally be married to you. 659 00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 4: I've never been married. I've been married one time to Dennis, like, 660 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 4: this is my marriage, my one and only married and 661 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 4: y'all been married ten years and we've been married ten 662 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 4: years now, and we have a pretty wonderful marriage. We 663 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 4: go through our ups and downs, but it is pretty 664 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 4: consistent and he is my person. But I'm again, I'm like, 665 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 4: I'm the blurder outer, and I'm like, oh my gosh, 666 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 4: I could be married to you. And again I did 667 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 4: the same thing, like, oh my gosh, I just said that, 668 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 4: and he but then again he said, and I could 669 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,120 Speaker 4: be married to you, and he proposed to me within 670 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 4: I don't know, six weeks after that. 671 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 6: Probably yeah, shout out Dennis. Do you think you'll listen? 672 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,160 Speaker 15: No, probably not, but I'll I'll probably recount him. Yeah, 673 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 15: he won't listen. 674 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 6: Does he listen to soul sessions? 675 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 15: No, he doesn't. He does not. 676 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 4: Every now and then if I ask him to listen 677 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 4: to my podcast, he will, but he hears that stuff 678 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 4: for me all the time. He just wants to hang 679 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 4: out with me, so he doesn't want to hear my 680 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 4: pontifications and wisdom or whatever. 681 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 15: It is not saying that I'm wise. 682 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 14: But oh, I think you're wise, but also yeah, I 683 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 14: mean Ben and I were married seventeen years. I was 684 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 14: on the radio the entire time. He barely listened to 685 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 14: the show ever, and definitely didn't listen to my podcast. 686 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 15: I don't think, yeah, and just doesn't listen to mine. 687 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 14: Like a friend said something to him that lunchbox said 688 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 14: at one point, and then he would go back and 689 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 14: try to hear it, and then he'd be. 690 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 6: Like, what happened here? Yeah, And I'm like he was 691 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 6: just joking. 692 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 4: Yeah. I think it's like he gets the intimate version 693 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 4: of me and that's the one that he loves. But 694 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 4: he celebrates all parts of me. And if I were 695 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 4: to request something or if people bring it up to 696 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 4: him all the time and he's like, I didn't hear that, 697 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 4: but it doesn't surprise me, or I'll have to go 698 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 4: listen and he will, but he's he's not that interested. 699 00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 15: He likes to have me, you know, one on one time. 700 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,440 Speaker 14: Well, I'm thankful that you were able to come here 701 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 14: for one on one time with me. And that's what 702 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 14: we'll talk about next, is friendships and what those are 703 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 14: looking like these days compared. 704 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 15: Let's get to you with the L word and evelo. 705 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 6: You got to get to the third thing. 706 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 4: I know, like just for one second, because I know 707 00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 4: your listeners are interested in this and because they know 708 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 4: your journey and that you're opening yourself up when it 709 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 4: comes to love and loving someone. You know, have you 710 00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 4: been thinking about, gosh, how do I express myself? 711 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 13: You know? 712 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 4: I mean, there's this something that you're thinking about because 713 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 4: it's different, You're in a different stage of life and 714 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,720 Speaker 4: in a different place. Would you just blurt it out, 715 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 4: like if it came to you like I did, would 716 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 4: you just not edit yourself? 717 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 15: Maybe yes, we'll have to see. I know we'll have 718 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 15: to see. 719 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 4: I'm just hey, I'm throwing these things out there for 720 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 4: her on her journey because I want you to just 721 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 4: be you. And I know that for me in that moment, 722 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 4: it was like that was just me, even if it 723 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 4: was embarrassing, it was just me. 724 00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 14: I will say, it's not the L word, but I 725 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:04,600 Speaker 14: blurred out things that I didn't blurt out in previous relationships, 726 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 14: my college boyfriends or in my marriage early on, especially 727 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 14: when we were dating. I don't know if I would 728 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,280 Speaker 14: have said stuff to him later like that, but I've 729 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 14: just shared different thoughts that pop into my head, and 730 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 14: I'm like, I don't know if I should be saying 731 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 14: this right now, but I'm just going to tell you 732 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 14: this because this is what I'm thinking, this is where 733 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 14: I am, and this may sound weird, and I have 734 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 14: found myself communicating in that way a little bit more. 735 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 16: Hey, it's Mike d And this week on Movie Mike's 736 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 16: movie podcast, I shared my traumatic history with R raided movies. 737 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 16: I'm gonna play this clip where I talk about the 738 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 16: first rated R movie I ever saw when I was 739 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 16: way too young for it, plus the most regretful R 740 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 16: rated movie I've ever seen. You gotta check out this 741 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 16: whole episode because I also get into my best, worst, 742 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 16: and the last R rated movies, plus a spoiler free 743 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 16: movie review of d D, which just became one of 744 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,800 Speaker 16: my favorite coming of age movies in the last ten years. 745 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 16: But right now, here's just a little bit of movie 746 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:15,239 Speaker 16: Mike's Movie Podcast. The first R rated movie I ever saw. 747 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,880 Speaker 16: I was seven years old in nineteen ninety eight. This 748 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 16: movie came out in nineteen eighty eight and is regarded 749 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 16: as the movie that almost traumatized me forever. It was 750 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,240 Speaker 16: child's play. The reason I watched this movie at seven 751 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,800 Speaker 16: years old. The reason I was really exposed to so 752 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,839 Speaker 16: many things so early on is because I have an 753 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 16: older brother and an older sister who are seven and 754 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,880 Speaker 16: nine years older than me, so they were probably fifteen 755 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 16: fourteen years old in that age range, and I was 756 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,160 Speaker 16: always exposed to things that they were exposed to just 757 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,560 Speaker 16: because I was around. I wanted to be with him, 758 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 16: and my parents were okay with it for the most part. 759 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 16: I think the problem my parents had was nudity. They 760 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,840 Speaker 16: could do and deal with us watching bloody and violent. 761 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 16: That was okay with them. They were used to that. 762 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 16: We would even watch old school eighties Mexican movies with 763 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:09,800 Speaker 16: people getting shot and cut up, and that was fine 764 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 16: with them. But when it came to anything showing a nipple, 765 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 16: we were not exposed to that. And we'll get into 766 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,320 Speaker 16: one of the movies later on this list that was 767 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:18,440 Speaker 16: traumatizing for everybody. 768 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 1: In that picture. 769 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:21,919 Speaker 16: But I always wanted to be just like my brother, 770 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,640 Speaker 16: just like my sister. What came along with that is 771 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 16: I watched a lot of movies I was not supposed 772 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 16: to watch. And the way we watched Child's Play is 773 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,360 Speaker 16: we used to go to Walmart, and there was a 774 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,280 Speaker 16: video store connected to our Walmart back in the nineties. 775 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,960 Speaker 16: I don't even think it made it to the two thousands. 776 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:42,040 Speaker 16: It wasn't even a name brand video store like Blockbuster 777 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 16: or anything. I really never went to Blockbuster as a kid. 778 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,480 Speaker 16: Their prices were astronomical for us. We never had a 779 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 16: membership card, so I don't really get nostalgic for Blockbuster. 780 00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 16: The other video store in town and walks of Hatchie, 781 00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 16: we had a place I was just called the Video Store, 782 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 16: and you could go rent movies for a dollar. They 783 00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,719 Speaker 16: would have these little hooks on the wall with a 784 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 16: number written on them. They were like these little coin 785 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 16: medallion things, and you would take it off the wall 786 00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 16: on any movie you wanted to rent, and then just 787 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 16: go up to the cashier and give them all these 788 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,800 Speaker 16: little coins and they would go get the VHS or 789 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 16: the DVD for you. That was probably our primary source 790 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 16: of video rental after the video store inside of the 791 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 16: Walmart could put But the first time we ever went 792 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:33,040 Speaker 16: and rented a movie from this Walmart video rental place. 793 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 16: I had my cousins in town from Memphis and we 794 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,040 Speaker 16: wanted to rent some movies, and that was really the 795 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 16: only way we could convince my mom to allow us 796 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,640 Speaker 16: to rent something, because we just never paid for that. 797 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 16: If we were going to get a movie in any capacity, 798 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,279 Speaker 16: we would buy it from the flea market. That way 799 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,320 Speaker 16: we could keep it forever and watch it for years 800 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,320 Speaker 16: to come, which we did with a lot of our vhs. 801 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 16: But convince her to do it. And I don't know 802 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 16: why she let us rent Child's Play. Maybe she didn't 803 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,719 Speaker 16: really know what it was. Maybe it's because Chucky is 804 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 16: on the cover and it looks like it could be 805 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 16: a movie for kids. There's a doll on it. And 806 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:09,120 Speaker 16: we also rented one more VHS that night, and it 807 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,320 Speaker 16: was a Thundercat's VHS. I think it was just episodes 808 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,239 Speaker 16: of ThunderCats from the eighties, and I remember my brother 809 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,759 Speaker 16: being a big fan of that show, and it blew 810 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,839 Speaker 16: our mind that it was available to watch it home, 811 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 16: back when you had to watch everything on regular TV. 812 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 16: But we rented Child's Play, watched it on a Friday night, 813 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:31,240 Speaker 16: and by late Friday night, I was traumatized. It freaked 814 00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,640 Speaker 16: me out so bad I thought all of my toys 815 00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 16: were going to come to life. The first kill in 816 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:41,680 Speaker 16: this movie is just burned into my head as being 817 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 16: one of the gnarliest things I ever witnessed as a kid, 818 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 16: and I was so freaked out by the end of 819 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 16: this movie that I was so glad that we had 820 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 16: also rented ThunderCats because it was kind of a palate 821 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,359 Speaker 16: cleanser and I still need that to this day. 822 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:55,919 Speaker 1: If I watch a really dark show. 823 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,719 Speaker 16: I was just watching The Boys on Amazon, and not 824 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 16: that show would give you nightmares, but there are some 825 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,400 Speaker 16: very graphic and violent images that if I watched that 826 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 16: show right before bed, it could creep into my dreams 827 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:10,640 Speaker 16: and I have nightmares. So sometimes I'll throw in an 828 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 16: episode of Dragon ball Z in between, so I don't 829 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 16: have that as the last thing I watched. But luckily 830 00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 16: we had a VHS tape of ThunderCats. I watched that 831 00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 16: after Child's Play but still ended up having nightmares. So 832 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,640 Speaker 16: that was the first ever R rated movie I watched 833 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 16: back when I was seven years old. In nineteen ninety eight, 834 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 16: last R rated movie I watched in theaters was Deadpool 835 00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,960 Speaker 16: in Wolverine. Streaming at home, it was probably Late Night 836 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 16: with the Devil Love that horror movie. Still in my 837 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 16: running for the best horror movie of the year. That movie, 838 00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:44,479 Speaker 16: in my mind is battling out right now with long 839 00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,880 Speaker 16: Legs as taking that number one spot. Most regretful R 840 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,279 Speaker 16: rated movie I ever watched was also in nineteen ninety eight, 841 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,920 Speaker 16: another movie we got from the Walmart video rental store, 842 00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:59,440 Speaker 16: and it was Beloved, starring Oprah and Danny Glover. I 843 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,399 Speaker 16: don't know what possessed my mom to want to rent 844 00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,480 Speaker 16: this movie. This was a pick from my mom. And 845 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 16: if you listen to this podcast, you know then my 846 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 16: mom oddly loves horror movies. Really, the genre she leans 847 00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 16: into most is horror movies, and it doesn't matter if 848 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:18,959 Speaker 16: it's overle gory, if it's I would say she leans 849 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:23,840 Speaker 16: more towards like a possession type movie, anything related with 850 00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:28,759 Speaker 16: any kind of exorcism Laorna. She loves Annabelle in the 851 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 16: Conjuring series. She is all about the horror genre. Second 852 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 16: favorite genre of movie for her is probably animated when 853 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,759 Speaker 16: it comes to Pixar movies, Coco being one of her 854 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 16: favorite movies of all time. In that third category, it 855 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,920 Speaker 16: would definitely be comedies from the nineties. But for some 856 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:49,840 Speaker 16: reason she wanted to rent Beloved. And maybe it was 857 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:54,200 Speaker 16: because Oprah's talk show was much more popular in the nineties. 858 00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,960 Speaker 7: And I don't know if she did an entire. 859 00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 16: Segment promoting this movie or had people on her show 860 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,799 Speaker 16: to talk about but for some reason, when this movie 861 00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,520 Speaker 16: came out on VHS, my mom wanted to rent it. 862 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:05,960 Speaker 1: And if you've never seen. 863 00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 16: Beloved, it is a very disturbing and weird movie that's 864 00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:15,560 Speaker 16: part drama, part fantasy horror, and we were not prepared 865 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 16: for this type of movie. If you've ever went blind 866 00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 16: to a film, this is not one to go in 867 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 16: blind on that you watch with your parents, and you 868 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,880 Speaker 16: probably have a story like this of hey, let's all 869 00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,880 Speaker 16: go watch this movie as a family. It's all rated, 870 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 16: but it'll be okay, and then bam, you get a 871 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 16: wiener on the screen, you get people hooking up, you 872 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,600 Speaker 16: get something that is going to traumatize your experience that 873 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 16: you were not expected to see with your mom and dad. 874 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:42,960 Speaker 1: Beloved is one of them. 875 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,839 Speaker 16: Again, if you're not familiar with this movie. It has 876 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:51,640 Speaker 16: full frontal nudity, and my seven year old self was 877 00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 16: exposed to that with my mom for the very first time. 878 00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,640 Speaker 16: I think my mom gasped in sheer terror of what 879 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:02,720 Speaker 16: was happening on this screen. That paired with the fact 880 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,440 Speaker 16: that we didn't really understand what was going on in 881 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,719 Speaker 16: this movie, it was hard for us to comprehend. Not 882 00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 16: a movie we should have watched together as a family, 883 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 16: But that scene came out of nowhere, and I will 884 00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,840 Speaker 16: never forget it, much like I never forgot the first 885 00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:19,719 Speaker 16: time I saw Child's Play. So the one regretful R 886 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,719 Speaker 16: rated movie I have is beloved from nineteen eighty eight. 887 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,600 Speaker 16: I feel like now, as an adult thirty three years old, 888 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,320 Speaker 16: I should revisit that movie to see if I understand 889 00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,279 Speaker 16: it a little bit more. Now people say you have 890 00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:33,200 Speaker 16: to read the book before watching that movie to understand it. 891 00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:37,040 Speaker 16: Maybe that would have helped, But still I regret that 892 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:37,839 Speaker 16: R rated movie. 893 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:51,240 Speaker 8: Carlone, she's a queen of talking. 894 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:52,600 Speaker 15: It was a son. 895 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,920 Speaker 1: She's getting really not afraid to face it's so so 896 00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 1: just let it flow. No one can do with ca. 897 00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 13: Okay, So, so you broke up with boyfriend, toxic boyfriend, 898 00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:12,800 Speaker 13: and then all of a sudden, you are just in 899 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 13: the dating scene. 900 00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:16,239 Speaker 15: Yeah, what on earth is that like? 901 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,279 Speaker 13: Because now you have a sexy man in uniform. We 902 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,360 Speaker 13: don't call him by name. What's his name? Man in uniform? 903 00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:20,600 Speaker 7: Yeah? 904 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:21,240 Speaker 1: Uniform? 905 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,719 Speaker 13: I mean love it. We only see his hands in 906 00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:25,880 Speaker 13: your Instagram twirling you and things and like bringing you 907 00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:28,560 Speaker 13: flowers and like just being so sexy. Yes, I mean 908 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 13: he looks sexy from that hand. Oh, then is a 909 00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,840 Speaker 13: hot hands. It looks like a strong hand. It is, yeah, yeah, strong, 910 00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,600 Speaker 13: And she's like notebook kissy, I'll throw up against the walls. 911 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:38,600 Speaker 11: Yeah, you in that phase? 912 00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 6: Are y'all having that kind of hot romance? 913 00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:40,399 Speaker 8: Oh? 914 00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,800 Speaker 11: I mean we are absolutely in honeymoon face. But what 915 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:43,799 Speaker 11: hozy fout with her? 916 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:44,920 Speaker 6: You get after it? 917 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,360 Speaker 11: Girl, I don't feel like it's like gonna be a 918 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,640 Speaker 11: honeymoon thing. I think this is just what it is. 919 00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 13: You're gonna have hot, sexy romance for the rest of 920 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:52,640 Speaker 13: your days with him. 921 00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:55,120 Speaker 11: That's what I'm hoping for, because that's what it feels like. 922 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:56,920 Speaker 13: Like when you see him. Are you just like running 923 00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:57,399 Speaker 13: into his arms? 924 00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:58,239 Speaker 15: Yeah, wait to move. 925 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,399 Speaker 11: I'm so excited sometimes he's like more and I saw 926 00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:01,880 Speaker 11: you this morning and I was like, yeah, but it 927 00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 11: was so long ago. 928 00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,279 Speaker 13: Are all like kissing for hours? I mean no, we're 929 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 13: not like sitting at all the time making out Like 930 00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 13: I just don't ever remember these beginning phases because I've 931 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 13: been married now ten years. Love my husband, Michael. You're great, 932 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,239 Speaker 13: You're so sexy. I mean, I want you, baby, But 933 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,279 Speaker 13: it is not like this. So you know, when you 934 00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,960 Speaker 13: first meet that person in the beginning, you're like, tell 935 00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,240 Speaker 13: me what that's like, Like, how is how are these vibes? 936 00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,520 Speaker 11: You know, it was it was different with him because 937 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,520 Speaker 11: it you are taught like well, I don't know if 938 00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 11: you watched a lot of Disney Princess, So yeah, all 939 00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:29,120 Speaker 11: of it. 940 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,440 Speaker 13: It's really ruined all my perception of life and what 941 00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:33,240 Speaker 13: we got screwed. 942 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 11: I saw really mean the other day that I was 943 00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,239 Speaker 11: like the kids, easys get inside and out too, And 944 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,440 Speaker 11: here we are dealing with Cinderella having an ugly stepmom 945 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:41,200 Speaker 11: and all the im. 946 00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,040 Speaker 13: Like, hey, they didn't get screwed, and now they have 947 00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 13: Mawana and they having Conto with these strong women who 948 00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:47,960 Speaker 13: is not about finding a man to save you. 949 00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:48,319 Speaker 10: Oh. 950 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:50,640 Speaker 13: I was always looking for a man to save me. 951 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,240 Speaker 11: I'm pretty sure all of us were. You were a millennial. 952 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:55,760 Speaker 11: You were always looking for a man to save you always. 953 00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:59,480 Speaker 11: But we're learning and now. And they said it was 954 00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:02,680 Speaker 11: millennial who did Inside and Out too, because we had 955 00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:04,560 Speaker 11: to help people go through things that we didn't go 956 00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:05,200 Speaker 11: get to go through. 957 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:07,320 Speaker 13: Those movies are phenomenal. I saw Inside Out too, and 958 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,160 Speaker 13: I'm like, this is absolutely phenomenal. 959 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:09,920 Speaker 15: I haven't seen it yet. 960 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:10,960 Speaker 13: It's phenomenal, but I do know. 961 00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:12,640 Speaker 11: It's like all about emotions, yes. 962 00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:12,880 Speaker 15: And I love that. 963 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:13,640 Speaker 8: It's incredible. 964 00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,160 Speaker 13: So I forgot what you asked. Okay, so weird that one. 965 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 11: On a tangent about your insights, planning your form? 966 00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:19,840 Speaker 13: Oh do y'all mug down all the time? Are you 967 00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:21,560 Speaker 13: constantly making out? Do you have time to talk because 968 00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:22,160 Speaker 13: you're kissing something? 969 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 8: So does? 970 00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:26,719 Speaker 11: He taught me to think that, you know, these really 971 00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:31,000 Speaker 11: intense butterflies and all these feelings were what you should have. 972 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 11: And he was just safe from the beginning. He was 973 00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:39,040 Speaker 11: like this place of comfort, and I wanted to see 974 00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:42,120 Speaker 11: him more because he was so cool and calm and 975 00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:45,560 Speaker 11: just nothing phased him and he stayed that way. 976 00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:46,719 Speaker 15: That wasn't just an act. 977 00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,480 Speaker 11: It wasn't just like this is who I am to 978 00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:50,600 Speaker 11: make you like me. It's like that's who he is 979 00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:54,320 Speaker 11: all the time, and he's like become this very safe 980 00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:58,560 Speaker 11: place for me because I am chaos. My life is chaos, 981 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 11: and I am chaos. But he is like steady and 982 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:06,759 Speaker 11: steady and consistent, and so I think that's why. Like 983 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,520 Speaker 11: so when it's like the steamy romance stuff, it's we're like, gosh, 984 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,919 Speaker 11: like you just want to squeeze you. You're so great, 985 00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,040 Speaker 11: and not as much like the oh my gosh, I 986 00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,200 Speaker 11: have butterflies the night, like what's going to happen next? 987 00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:18,920 Speaker 4: Just you know. 988 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,920 Speaker 11: Yeah, it does feel that way, So I hope it 989 00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:25,160 Speaker 11: continues to stay that way, and it feels like it's 990 00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:25,960 Speaker 11: progressing to that. 991 00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,279 Speaker 13: So okay, So does he know that you talk about 992 00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 13: him on air and stuff? Oh yeah, And how does 993 00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,400 Speaker 13: he feel about that? He thinks it's hilarious, Like he 994 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:34,879 Speaker 13: is not impacted in the slightest. Do you think it's 995 00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:37,360 Speaker 13: just because he's cool, calm, collected man in uniform that 996 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:38,440 Speaker 13: he can handle pressure? 997 00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 11: Yeah, for sure. I mean it's definitely his personality and. 998 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:42,840 Speaker 1: How he was raised. 999 00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,719 Speaker 11: He just is really like there are not a lot 1000 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:47,040 Speaker 11: of things that bother him. 1001 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:48,360 Speaker 15: What would that be like? 1002 00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 11: I don't know, I mean, what would that be like? 1003 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:51,600 Speaker 8: Could it be? 1004 00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:52,439 Speaker 7: Gosh? 1005 00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:54,800 Speaker 6: I wish I could know what that was like? 1006 00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,919 Speaker 11: Yeah, Like, you know, he has his moments, and he's 1007 00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,839 Speaker 11: so great about talking about his feelings and he's great 1008 00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:04,520 Speaker 11: at listing and communicating, but he's just not He doesn't 1009 00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,360 Speaker 11: just have this chaos following him, And so we're like, 1010 00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,360 Speaker 11: what is it when you put like, uh, you know, 1011 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,640 Speaker 11: wind and fire, ice and fire whatever together, it's kind 1012 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,160 Speaker 11: of like us. We're very polar opposite, but somehow we 1013 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 11: blend very seamlessly together. 1014 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:23,200 Speaker 13: I was loving some of your pre manning uniform reels 1015 00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,560 Speaker 13: because you were talking about dating and mom. You were 1016 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,520 Speaker 13: sitting down there saying like, I am a great first date. 1017 00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 13: Like am I the reason I have great first dates 1018 00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 13: because I'm a great listener. I'm super fun. I bring 1019 00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,640 Speaker 13: the energy you can like carry the conversation. But then 1020 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:39,279 Speaker 13: you said this thing like quick to something roast, like 1021 00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:42,680 Speaker 13: chat to roast or something quick too. No, it's called 1022 00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 13: I wrote it down because I was like, what is this? 1023 00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:48,359 Speaker 13: This is called flirt to roast? Oh, flirt to roast? 1024 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,160 Speaker 11: Ratio. Yeah, you don't have a flirt to roast ratio 1025 00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:52,399 Speaker 11: so old and out of the loop. 1026 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:53,880 Speaker 13: I didn't even have a dating app when I was 1027 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,040 Speaker 13: out there. They weren't even existing and y'all went on 1028 00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:59,600 Speaker 13: hinge right, Oh yeah he did hints. I mean that's amazing, even. 1029 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,240 Speaker 8: On a Yeah, I mean that's just a day and age. 1030 00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,719 Speaker 11: You have to be right if you're meeting any other way, 1031 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,359 Speaker 11: you're a unicorn and cool. Love that every love for that. Yeah, 1032 00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:09,160 Speaker 11: everybody's on the date. 1033 00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:10,640 Speaker 13: You got a bigger pool. I mean it makes a 1034 00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 13: lot of sense. 1035 00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,800 Speaker 11: Actually, I would have you know, we talk about that, like, 1036 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 11: I don't know that him and I would have ever 1037 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,239 Speaker 11: met if it wasn't for those dating up right. 1038 00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:18,680 Speaker 6: How would your paths have crossed? 1039 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,319 Speaker 11: And I just don't know that it would have happened. Yeah, 1040 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:25,920 Speaker 11: So flirt to roast ratio Caroline, what is where like, 1041 00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:29,080 Speaker 11: you know, you're on a date and you're you're flirty 1042 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,480 Speaker 11: and you're you're making them like you, but then you 1043 00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:32,800 Speaker 11: also like roast. 1044 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,040 Speaker 1: Them a little bit at the same time, because. 1045 00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 11: No guy really needs his ego aflated so much that 1046 00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,239 Speaker 11: you're like he's on like a hundred you need him 1047 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:42,680 Speaker 11: to be like knocked out a little bit, but then 1048 00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:44,759 Speaker 11: pushed back up. You push him up and down a lot. 1049 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,359 Speaker 13: I think if you ask anyone that I dated, they 1050 00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:50,560 Speaker 13: would say I just roasted. I didn't know how to flirt. 1051 00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,160 Speaker 13: I was like so awkward, and like I thought, my 1052 00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:55,080 Speaker 13: flirting technique was, let me just be mean to you 1053 00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,680 Speaker 13: and awkward, and then if you can fight through those walls, 1054 00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 13: then then. 1055 00:47:58,880 --> 00:47:59,400 Speaker 15: I can show you. 1056 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:00,919 Speaker 13: My sou said, I can love you, but I'm first 1057 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 13: of I'm just gonna give you all my heat. 1058 00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:13,920 Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for listening to this week's Sunday Sampler. 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