Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decision,
Speaker 1: amigaevnto too, Harry Blade, this is the ow what that
Speaker 1: was real Spanish? That was even an tho. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I can't say, b Why why are you looking so
Speaker 1: fed up with me? Bron, I don't like that. I'll
Speaker 1: come back from vacation to start speaking Spanish like I
Speaker 1: came back from Jamaica. I don't like that you came
Speaker 1: back from everything ire mind No, that's awful. The fact
Speaker 1: that Mandy is actually Jamaican and does a terrible I
Speaker 1: don't believe it. Bro, you gotta not be listening episode anyways. Guys,
Speaker 1: this is your grandny ak a that bitch a fol
Speaker 1: core pumps a k a Peggan Marco. I like you
Speaker 1: know you feel me, Bro when I tell you the
Speaker 1: face a weheezy Bro, Chill, Bro, I'm not your lady.
Speaker 1: I'm judging. Why so we're doing this again? I'm not trying.
Speaker 1: We have two other guests. I must say it's the
Speaker 1: same thing, thank you. I don't, I just I've been listening.
Speaker 1: I've been listening. Katie is a nice nasty like like
Speaker 1: nice nasty for example, like oh oh, so that you're
Speaker 1: holds in your pants. You wanted to do that, right,
Speaker 1: dging is like why would you have holding? Like no, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: nasty shady, but shady is when you're like trying to
Speaker 1: be nice nasty. I don't like that. One is direct
Speaker 1: shade and one is like sly shade. Yes, it's still shade,
Speaker 1: though it's still it's still nasty. I see your point. Okay,
Speaker 1: well I don't see what I mean. We say it's like, guys,
Speaker 1: we are doing the day by two of three, though
Speaker 1: we are missing third. They are of the Black Girls
Speaker 1: Texting podcast, which I actually were on three or four
Speaker 1: years ago. Now, first Wheezy also went on Black Girls Texting. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Um so I'm excited to have a conversation with again
Speaker 1: more women podcasters. Um so, you guys have been doing
Speaker 1: this for how long? And when I came on, y'all
Speaker 1: had four? Correct? No, it was three of us Jim
Speaker 1: Jim Okay, it was another third. What happened? Did you
Speaker 1: guys break up? What's two? No? No, we still love
Speaker 1: Jim Jam shout out to Jim Jim. Yeah, Jim Jim studios. No,
Speaker 1: we used to record in person and then I moved
Speaker 1: to California. You moved to and it's possible, it's possible
Speaker 1: we find similarity. Stay home. Let me tell you. I
Speaker 1: always think sometimes because like Mandy, and I think you
Speaker 1: said to me a few days ago, not a few
Speaker 1: weeks ago on a call, like I'm gonna be podcasting
Speaker 1: for like five years. I feel like that's my time frame, right,
Speaker 1: and assuming that we will do this for five years,
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're three, I'm gonna have a moment and eat, pray,
Speaker 1: love and how I'm gonna tell Mandy And I feel
Speaker 1: like it's gonna be like I just really need to
Speaker 1: center myself and move to l A for a little bit,
Speaker 1: like I just need this for me. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: think what I'll say that guess what when she moved
Speaker 1: she when she moved to l A. I'll be like, well,
Speaker 1: let me know how often you're gonna fly back to
Speaker 1: New York so we can record um or or we
Speaker 1: just gonna bulk record all that. When I lived in Mexico, yeah,
Speaker 1: like when well it was COVID, so we did remote.
Speaker 1: We were fine with remote, but when she was back
Speaker 1: and forth, we would like record like fucking six episodes
Speaker 1: podcast commitment, like if you've made it, you should if
Speaker 1: you're cool with in person, like we don't fun with um.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm going to ask. Everything is okay, okay,
Speaker 1: it's not. The energy is different. I've listened to a
Speaker 1: few of your episodes, like, first off, y'all have some
Speaker 1: huge as guests on your fucking platform. I was listening
Speaker 1: to the one with Robin Thick. The fact that he
Speaker 1: just started singing his like songs. That was like, he's
Speaker 1: so cute. They had us because he likes girls. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: well yeah, for sure, for sure. Did you guys meet him?
Speaker 1: We got connected through our friends at Lady Gang, which
Speaker 1: is another podcast, all women's podcast. He just needed to
Speaker 1: see the name of yours. He was like black, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll go yeah, And as soon as we got on
Speaker 1: with him, he was like, oh, how's dating in New York?
Speaker 1: I was like, oh from the jump, he was like,
Speaker 1: I heard you ladies. You know you talked about a
Speaker 1: lot of things. How's dating in New York? I was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: that's a lot of things, but well, you know what,
Speaker 1: we the last two potters that we had are actually
Speaker 1: from the South. I guess I wanted to ask y'all,
Speaker 1: especially because we do have a large uh listenership in
Speaker 1: New York. Was dating been like, or are you single?
Speaker 1: What are your pronouns? How do you identify sexually? We
Speaker 1: normally asked that, so pronoun talk. Yeah, you're right now,
Speaker 1: we have another girl podcast on right now. Oh no,
Speaker 1: did you get canceled or something? Honestly, it never mat
Speaker 1: at her an emphasis some day, but Jesus no, Like
Speaker 1: we brought someone on that we wanted to discuss in
Speaker 1: nonconformity with and there were just some slip up stuff
Speaker 1: like that where um we were sucking it up, you know,
Speaker 1: just stuff like that. But no point was never what
Speaker 1: y'all suck COUCHI or suck dick? And do you do
Speaker 1: you have a boyfriend or girlfriend's gonna say you could
Speaker 1: do both? Right, I'm single. I don't really suck dick,
Speaker 1: I take dick. I don't really suck. You don't suck
Speaker 1: get her out of it? Wait wait, bit, how old
Speaker 1: are you? Not? Really? But like you not listen, I'll
Speaker 1: suck your dick. But you know some people are like,
Speaker 1: oh I love sucking dick. Not um it just doesn't
Speaker 1: like do it for me if you don't do it. Well, No,
Speaker 1: it's not even that. Like I've been told that do
Speaker 1: it pretty pretty good for someone who doesn't really suck dick.
Speaker 1: You know, they like you good. You know what you're doing,
Speaker 1: a good job. It's something and you know what, you're
Speaker 1: excited to do it. If you do, they're like, it
Speaker 1: just doesn't do it for me. Now here's the thing.
Speaker 1: I'm a super sub not I haven't been tied up
Speaker 1: and all that jazz yet. But like if you're like, bitch,
Speaker 1: come here, suck my dick, and you like shove it
Speaker 1: down my throat, I'll probably way more into it. If
Speaker 1: it's shoved down your throat, you can't help but suck
Speaker 1: it because I shoved down. And that's the kind of approach.
Speaker 1: Like if you're going to kind of be like he's
Speaker 1: like my dick, I'll probably be like, no, who asked?
Speaker 1: Like some people do, because you know, I don't because
Speaker 1: I think men think you're just gonna go straight for it,
Speaker 1: and I'm I don't be like kind of they're like
Speaker 1: they don't know how to I don't know how to have.
Speaker 1: I feel like they do that when it comes to
Speaker 1: like eating the butt, they'll like do a little thing
Speaker 1: like a little shoot but like dick sucking. That's that's
Speaker 1: I thought it was a part of the heart. So
Speaker 1: how exactly we're supposed to ask, Oh, look, he's been
Speaker 1: supposed to ask to get well if you if it's
Speaker 1: like if you're dealing with a girl like me, it's
Speaker 1: like come suck my fucking dick or something like aggressive like,
Speaker 1: then I'm then I'm but you have a rapport with
Speaker 1: this person first, right, Maybe I don't think men maybe
Speaker 1: not have a sexual rapport with a woman would like that,
Speaker 1: should say it like that or would be kind of discussing.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, I'm absolutely not, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, like pick up on my vibe, like I
Speaker 1: go full into like little dainty like no, I would
Speaker 1: agree that. I feel like I'm like you, I get
Speaker 1: very like subby and ship like that. But first off,
Speaker 1: the rip like the first time it's in your mouth,
Speaker 1: you wanted to talk to you, like my fucking bitch
Speaker 1: like too much. Might take her advice that will get you. No,
Speaker 1: but it's just me, It's just me. Fine, I'll say
Speaker 1: this is the personal thing. I'm sorry, my phone's going off.
Speaker 1: Came in here right off the rip and was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so I don't suck dick. I don't think he's gonna
Speaker 1: be a great converse. How many guests we had the day? Cutty?
Speaker 1: I think her and Cutty who else don't suck? Everybody
Speaker 1: up in here be sucking dick galore? Ye, but okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't know if y'all don't suck dick. I mean
Speaker 1: the fir ast far as like, you know, I haven't
Speaker 1: sucked dick in the studio yet, but the day's coming.
Speaker 1: Oh as you should like that sounds I can't believe
Speaker 1: I haven't sucked a dick. And keep asking which is
Speaker 1: the couch? Everybody asked that this looks like a kind
Speaker 1: of couch, and this looks like you've had sex on
Speaker 1: this couch? No not? They was ready to get what
Speaker 1: the problem? I don't have a problem with that. Do
Speaker 1: y'all think that when y'all go to your friend's houses
Speaker 1: that they ain't never fucked in the kitchen? Out? You
Speaker 1: better be sucking all over the house. Just wipe the
Speaker 1: ship down, or I mean, or don't yo, Mandy, Yes,
Speaker 1: for breathing, but I'm saying you should be for breathing
Speaker 1: or doing some type of couch maintenance anyways, So I
Speaker 1: guess I'm nat. I mean, I gotta let roll a bit.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, I wanted to do an icebreaker with
Speaker 1: you ladies. We haven't member the ice but this is
Speaker 1: so this icebreakers so bad. This icebreaker is called black girls.
Speaker 1: Sexting is a segment. I'm a comfort y'allless, god forbid.
Speaker 1: Like Bandy made the word, don't you dare call youring?
Speaker 1: When people see the when they see it all in
Speaker 1: one word, like it looks like this looks like girls
Speaker 1: are sexting, like all together, people, what's your podcast about? Exactly?
Speaker 1: What can I ask? Before the icebreaker? What's your podcast about?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that'd be helpful to I'll go it's about
Speaker 1: black millennial women. It's kind of like a benign name texting.
Speaker 1: Everyone text because black women are women. I feel like
Speaker 1: in media were portrayed either as like Olivia Pope, super
Speaker 1: black excellence or like downtrotten Tyler Perry, and it's like
Speaker 1: we're just living like day to day life like that
Speaker 1: you just said Tyler Perry for women like movies, the
Speaker 1: woman is like yeah, it's crazy and it's been through it.
Speaker 1: And on top of that, the three of us are
Speaker 1: all so different, like we probably never agree on things,
Speaker 1: and so like that just proves that, like black women,
Speaker 1: we're not a monolith. Yeah, we all think the same.
Speaker 1: So it's about our group chat. Like everything goes down
Speaker 1: in group chat. And at one point they were like
Speaker 1: seven fucking seven bitches in this. It was. It was crazy.
Speaker 1: And it would be like one minute someone's like, yo,
Speaker 1: so date three, Like, am I bringing to spend a
Speaker 1: night bag? What should be might spend a night bag?
Speaker 1: We're giving advice on what to bring, and then somebody's
Speaker 1: like so um, am I doing the roth ira And
Speaker 1: like it was just like the subtex would just change
Speaker 1: left and right and we were like okay, to spend
Speaker 1: the night bag. What do you call it? I call
Speaker 1: it overnight bag. I called my actual bag of hobag,
Speaker 1: and then I've called like people hobags. It depends. It's
Speaker 1: not a lift. My boyfriend told me to bring a
Speaker 1: hole bag the other day and it was a fabulous night.
Speaker 1: To me, a ho bag is like your purse, I
Speaker 1: get it, but an overnight bag now like a hope
Speaker 1: bag has overnight bag. No overnight as a whole new outfit.
Speaker 1: I was about to say I'm bringing for the next
Speaker 1: day with the overnight bag means I'm going to be
Speaker 1: a How I could say, you just need your essentials
Speaker 1: like Oban, and I still call it a hoback. He
Speaker 1: just bought me a ho bag to see if you're
Speaker 1: really being a home You're not like haired. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie I didn't. I just wake up like I
Speaker 1: didn't know. You gotta be a conscious host like girl
Speaker 1: when I went to that party. But I had to
Speaker 1: buy outfit the next day H and M because I
Speaker 1: ended up with that guy. Yeah. Yeah, anyways, this was
Speaker 1: this one before. Yes, bring the sex to life. But
Speaker 1: you see how we just did this. This is the
Speaker 1: group chat. This is essentially what it is. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So tell this fay no soill the t
Speaker 1: he was cute. Though he was cute, he was handsome.
Speaker 1: So shout out to the ladies over at the over
Speaker 1: ROAs show through and Tira through uh Valentine's Day singles.
Speaker 1: I think I remember you telling this a little bit
Speaker 1: a little bit, and I got so drunk and there
Speaker 1: was just a very handsome man that came in there
Speaker 1: and we were just flirting our lives away so much
Speaker 1: soda were um, we just wanted. We rented a hotel
Speaker 1: right after the party. I love that, I got it.
Speaker 1: I would like, well, I gotta marry I dis kount.
Speaker 1: I don't want to go all the way back to
Speaker 1: the boy. What I did have to marry Hunt, all
Speaker 1: of which I got, you feel me? So we went
Speaker 1: and had amazing uh sex and then like we stayed
Speaker 1: in touch and talking, but he wasn't as consistent and
Speaker 1: as I wanted. And I think really at that time,
Speaker 1: I wanted a boyfriend. So I was like, if you're
Speaker 1: not gonna be my boyfriend, we had fun, that's it,
Speaker 1: that's real, that's it. I need commitment or cock, that's it.
Speaker 1: And I didn't even want his cop because he wasn't
Speaker 1: committed enough. He worked more than I did. And this
Speaker 1: is when I was an accounting so I'm like, nigga, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna wait in the city for you to
Speaker 1: get off. I just got off an hour late. You
Speaker 1: still at work? No, not if you're not. He worked
Speaker 1: on all streets. So I have a question, y'all say cock?
Speaker 1: She I just like literally, like that's a great question,
Speaker 1: Like that commit just a literation. Okay, I got it correct.
Speaker 1: So I want to get into the icebreaker real quick.
Speaker 1: We're gonna go down this real fast fire style baby
Speaker 1: that girl sexting. Send a nude or receive a nude?
Speaker 1: I hate dick picks. Send a nude, Okay, send all day.
Speaker 1: My face won't be in it. I'm different, y'all can
Speaker 1: send it to me all day. I hate the production
Speaker 1: of taking one. Probably could do a little tutorial, a
Speaker 1: little one on one. I don't even send my nigga ones.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, you want to see it, nigga, come over,
Speaker 1: look out of here. Um next one. FaceTime sexting or
Speaker 1: text sexting. Mm hmmm, face time? You like to see
Speaker 1: FaceTime because you like writing paragraphs? No, like you go
Speaker 1: on that dipsia thing. No, we we know we're gonna
Speaker 1: have and then we didn't do it today. Look, she said,
Speaker 1: so we're not gonna talk about Sorry, never heard of
Speaker 1: I don't know that man. I don't know him. You
Speaker 1: can do mutual like masturbation on FaceTime, I know, but
Speaker 1: like I actually like the sex thing better, Like I
Speaker 1: like plus that like going back and reading it. I
Speaker 1: do like going back, and that's not gonna like, okay,
Speaker 1: do like going back and reading when and it really
Speaker 1: I'm a leo, so I love the ego stroke, Like
Speaker 1: I'll go back and read about how much you want
Speaker 1: everything upon me and my body. I'd be like, or
Speaker 1: you can screen record the FaceTime whoa, whoa. Look we're
Speaker 1: all now we're shading and judging you, which you cannot
Speaker 1: both together if it's your if it's your man, if
Speaker 1: it's your man, No, no, you can't screw record. Oh
Speaker 1: I like to have videos to look at later. Didn't
Speaker 1: tell them that you receive not screen question, how you guys? Okay,
Speaker 1: last fun, would you rather accidentally send your masturbation video
Speaker 1: to your mom or receive a video of your mom masturbating.
Speaker 1: I'd rather send to my mom. I'm actually accidentally sent
Speaker 1: my mom a nude in the past. Yeah. So at
Speaker 1: the time I was dating this guy. He was a
Speaker 1: Patriots fan Whiteman obviously, and I'm a big Jets fan.
Speaker 1: If you don't know, those are rival teams. So I
Speaker 1: have these little like Jets panties and I was like
Speaker 1: sending him pictures of them on my ass Like his
Speaker 1: name was Mike. M had me up and I sent
Speaker 1: my mom, helapis on my ass and then she said
Speaker 1: she was like love yudya. She was like wow, she
Speaker 1: was like, come walk the dog. And I won't tell
Speaker 1: your father trade fair trade story? What about? Uh? Oh god,
Speaker 1: I'm want to sound like a creep, but I think
Speaker 1: I would rather see it. I would rather see your
Speaker 1: mom than you don't think she when you was a baby.
Speaker 1: I'm just kind of curious. You're curious, won't wait? Not
Speaker 1: judging for that one. Thoughts and opinions members of black
Speaker 1: genetic reasons. You want to see if you know? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you got something from your mama? Yeah, your face, Bro,
Speaker 1: you're just bro. Y'all gotta watch watch us on YouTube
Speaker 1: if y'all want to see the shadiness that wheezy w.
Speaker 1: But I don't want to. I don't want to see me.
Speaker 1: You don't want to catch it? Broad Fine? I changed
Speaker 1: my answer. We're not here to judge. Yeah, apparently we
Speaker 1: is here to judge. Motherfucker's because I mean, this girl
Speaker 1: is vanilla and guess not. I don't know, maybe you're
Speaker 1: not that vanilla. How do I know? I just know
Speaker 1: laid together? No, damn no, don't be asking me all
Speaker 1: these questions on my show. I wanted to get into
Speaker 1: our Vanilla Ship Nillasian segment. I just want to say
Speaker 1: I felt like this entire time we were thinking about it,
Speaker 1: we've like, if you guys have listened to the show
Speaker 1: and you see my mom and and you know my mom,
Speaker 1: don't you feel like if my mom got a new
Speaker 1: to me and I just said to leat it, she
Speaker 1: would not. My mom would study the video and then
Speaker 1: tell me something about myself, like give you a tip.
Speaker 1: She'd be like, why would you do it like that?
Speaker 1: Why would you what? What do you mean for me?
Speaker 1: Why would you say that? I love that. My mom
Speaker 1: would be so extra about it. What do you think
Speaker 1: your mom would do if you accidentally send it? I
Speaker 1: don't know, Like some moms would delete it, But back
Speaker 1: in the day, my mom would probably want to know
Speaker 1: what team the person played for that I was sending
Speaker 1: it to to see if she could get some free tickets.
Speaker 1: That's what my mom would do. Well, who was that
Speaker 1: going to? Well they come to Orlando and I would
Speaker 1: like to go to a game, That's what my mom
Speaker 1: will Nannie is not free? No, you listen, You're right.
Speaker 1: I mean I have a man now, so it is.
Speaker 1: It's free to hm. Girlfriend. Still I don't give a ship.
Speaker 1: I gotta give my shape paper. Are you kidding me? Nigga?
Speaker 1: I want this that I love sending links to persons
Speaker 1: I enjoyed vacations. What you're going to still pay for
Speaker 1: my pussy? You know why? Because I can't really have
Speaker 1: other niggas like I want. Sure, once in a blue
Speaker 1: we let the ship, little non monogamous thing go. But
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you need to keep
Speaker 1: reinvesting into your business, which is my pussy. If my
Speaker 1: pussy is your business, you fucking pay up for it.
Speaker 1: Do you think that laptops came and landed on the table?
Speaker 1: It did not. It's weird because like so I I mean,
Speaker 1: I just got back from Jamaica. My man does think that,
Speaker 1: Like I generally feel like it's just I've never experienced before.
Speaker 1: So I'm enjoying like the subtle little things girl. So well,
Speaker 1: when I was in Jamaica, He's like, I just want
Speaker 1: to let you know I did some modifications to your apartment.
Speaker 1: I was like, what, So I come home. There's a
Speaker 1: rack behind my door. He hung up hooks in my
Speaker 1: bathroom for like all of my hair stuff. He hung
Speaker 1: up a shelf up from my projector screen from my
Speaker 1: back bedroom. He got me a side table, all this
Speaker 1: handyman work ung up a picture of Bodie over his
Speaker 1: litter box. I was like, oh my god. And so
Speaker 1: I'm just I come in mind, dishes are done, my
Speaker 1: bed is made. He's like cleaned and organized my house
Speaker 1: while I was gone. And I was just like that
Speaker 1: to me, I mean, I'm not like I like that.
Speaker 1: So it used to be like I mean, no, it
Speaker 1: is now acts of service and quality time, especially because
Speaker 1: I really realistically thought I could never get it from
Speaker 1: the past guys I was dealing. I was dealing with
Speaker 1: niggas on Wall Street or fucking athletes or people that
Speaker 1: I only got to see them when they made time
Speaker 1: and wanted to see me. And so for him, he
Speaker 1: goes out the way, like before I even asked him,
Speaker 1: he was like, you're going to Jamaica next week, like
Speaker 1: you need me to feed Bodie. And I was like, actually,
Speaker 1: I do like and so like those type of things
Speaker 1: I've never gotten because also I had a lot of
Speaker 1: if I did really like someone, it was long distance.
Speaker 1: So those types of acts of service you don't get
Speaker 1: it's long distance and so I mean I've appreciate all
Speaker 1: those types of things. So you're both in relationships, yes,
Speaker 1: I mean wait, I didn't know you were in a
Speaker 1: relationship other niggas. Okay, I mean that's also you know,
Speaker 1: well he has to know, of course, and he has
Speaker 1: to also know how to hoist on it TV about
Speaker 1: and do all the other ship too. But I still
Speaker 1: would like my active says he has to be sex
Speaker 1: with other women. Yeah, okay, yeah, we've had sex away here.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Even my man wanted me to get
Speaker 1: some Jamaican dick. If you're out the country doesn't count Wait,
Speaker 1: dick doesn't count out the country, I would like to argue,
Speaker 1: I think out of the state. About what about the
Speaker 1: streets that you're on the west side the country. Yes,
Speaker 1: I've never had Statin Island Communian. I feel like I
Speaker 1: had a wait. No, I'm not gonna lie. I had
Speaker 1: a boyfriend when I was in high school and he
Speaker 1: was from New York. I think you met him maybe. Anyways,
Speaker 1: I was in love with him. And when you're in
Speaker 1: Florida up north, nigga's just got a swag. It's like
Speaker 1: who you're from New York. Oh, I got me a
Speaker 1: little dip set nigga. No, he was from Staten Island
Speaker 1: and I didn't know how Staten Island really was in
Speaker 1: New York and black Staten Island or Italian? Can you
Speaker 1: say that Italian? Italianalian sat and leave? Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: it's like Italian Island. No to say Italian? Why why?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I mean I want
Speaker 1: to know why people every other episode can you look
Speaker 1: at what is? Why would why is Italian? A slurt? No?
Speaker 1: Because I'm curious who? Because we're Italian and do the
Speaker 1: right thing? They kept saying, like the Italians. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: can't even I don't even think you're gonna be How
Speaker 1: do you feel like that's such a stretch like it
Speaker 1: would maybe you know what if? How do you even
Speaker 1: type this in the same parentheses Italian and nothing? Nothing
Speaker 1: comes up? Okay, Well then I'm in the clear way
Speaker 1: that I mean him if we go to the sex
Speaker 1: clook like he'll come, I want to go, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: which double day is it? COVID say? I mean, do
Speaker 1: you walk outside to fucking COVID? Like yo? No life
Speaker 1: shout out to Daniel sat but shout him out. Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. That is the biggest oxyen. COVID safe sex party?
Speaker 1: Is it safe? Sense? But like COVID say, bit you're outside,
Speaker 1: You're like, does everyone have to present their vaccination car? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You basically like, oh that's kind of hot, but from
Speaker 1: the back, only worth my mask six ft that's how
Speaker 1: you COVID say, I ain't no dick six feet. So
Speaker 1: I don't know what you like. Plastic curtains everywhere, it's
Speaker 1: none of that is there. It's actually really wide as open,
Speaker 1: like plasses are wide open. Literally. I thought she was
Speaker 1: gonna say, like, I got you girl. You know I'm
Speaker 1: special over here. You know I'm I'm I'm ruler of
Speaker 1: the sex clubs out here. Um, it's just a link
Speaker 1: on the website, and I believe anyway you could become
Speaker 1: a member. And it also is free to be a member. Okay,
Speaker 1: the barriers of entry. Yeah, I got you know, I
Speaker 1: got you. I did wanna bring up this really quick
Speaker 1: for our vanilla ship. This this was from a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks ago. Um, but as outside is opening, I
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you guys maybe some tips to keep
Speaker 1: our hot girls summer safe. UM, I didn't want to
Speaker 1: read that to spring breakers. Uh, this happened actually out
Speaker 1: in Miami. UM drugged and raped a woman. UM. I
Speaker 1: don't think that they meant for her to die, but
Speaker 1: I guess the drug amount that they gave her was
Speaker 1: so much that she actually was found dead in her Um,
Speaker 1: dead in her in her hotel. The reason why it
Speaker 1: also became viral was because earlier that day, a woman
Speaker 1: on South Beach posted a picture and they actually photo
Speaker 1: bombed her, and so there was a pick there was
Speaker 1: It was viral saying that you never know like who
Speaker 1: you're gonna meet and what they're capable of. And she
Speaker 1: was just like, Wow, to know that I have two
Speaker 1: killers posing in the back of my spring break picture,
Speaker 1: this is this is pretty crazy. UM. And they were
Speaker 1: literally just out enjoying their time like they hadn't done
Speaker 1: what they've done the night before. UM. And I say
Speaker 1: I said all of this to say, I'm not sure
Speaker 1: who the who the girl was friends with, how many
Speaker 1: people she traveled with. I know that even when I
Speaker 1: was in Jamaica the first night, I was only there
Speaker 1: with two people. Then it was eighteen so our party
Speaker 1: grew over this time. But we were invited to the
Speaker 1: house parties because there was curfew in Jamaica, and we
Speaker 1: were even thinking like, yeah, I know that we all
Speaker 1: celebrate our parties differently. We go out, we get drunk,
Speaker 1: it sport twenties. I don't know, but Miami should be
Speaker 1: a place where you could be. I like it makes
Speaker 1: sense that should be you know what I mean, like,
Speaker 1: um aware when you're in another country, right, but like
Speaker 1: if I'm in Miami with my home girls, what would
Speaker 1: I give it? Like I know that that happened everywhere
Speaker 1: because nikkas are weird. No, I just mean like I
Speaker 1: could see how she got caught up. Yeah, Like it
Speaker 1: doesn't seem like you would eat that fauntionary in a
Speaker 1: place where like we've all been before, definitely, but like
Speaker 1: you being out the country like absolutely, Like even when
Speaker 1: I was living in Mexico, like I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: who through the party because you know, you become a
Speaker 1: close community. But I think in this particular situation, it
Speaker 1: really sucks because yes, like if you want to go
Speaker 1: out and have a good time, people are doing more kickbacks,
Speaker 1: people are doing more stuff in their Like even me,
Speaker 1: I'm doing parties like every Saturday at my crib, not
Speaker 1: a lot of people, maybe like ten people ahead you
Speaker 1: said ten to fifty A lot of people. Kind of
Speaker 1: I'll ask Andrew Cuomo. I feel like you were just
Speaker 1: allegedly allegedly that's it could be maybe it's the people
Speaker 1: in my head or whatever anyway, but no, this girl,
Speaker 1: like we were parting whatever, and she was like whose
Speaker 1: house is it? Is it your house? Who's going to
Speaker 1: be there? And I just thought she was like doing
Speaker 1: too much And I was like, oh my gosh, she
Speaker 1: trying to make sure she's say. I felt so bad
Speaker 1: because she was like I don't understand that your home
Speaker 1: and like other other people that lived there with you.
Speaker 1: But that was a great question to ask. It's true
Speaker 1: what if you have? And we should all be asking
Speaker 1: them when we go to someone's home. Are there other
Speaker 1: people there? When I come there? Like you need your
Speaker 1: drinks to drink? Drink? But the thing is when you're
Speaker 1: on vacation, not speaking about this woman, but sometimes when
Speaker 1: you're on vacation, you get like not smart, like we
Speaker 1: were in Yeah, we were in Argentina and literally telling
Speaker 1: the story. Yes, we literally went into a white van. Man.
Speaker 1: Isn't that craze? A white van was like it was
Speaker 1: a calf a man that we met at the club.
Speaker 1: He was a beautiful man. He was Brazilian, he had bundy,
Speaker 1: he was Brasilian with locks. I might have got into alright, alright,
Speaker 1: like this tall black eye. Oh my god, like here,
Speaker 1: but yeah, we got in his white van. Thank god,
Speaker 1: we're alive to tell the story. But like literally, you're
Speaker 1: always taught don't go in the van, especially okay, but no,
Speaker 1: you got in there, even suburban. Don't get in the suburb. Okay.
Speaker 1: So we were in Argentina. We went to this outdoor party.
Speaker 1: I used to I started abroad there, so I was like,
Speaker 1: we gotta go to this party. And this Brazilian man
Speaker 1: find girl. Everybody is like giving him the looks, and
Speaker 1: of course he wants my fucking lesbian friend. And we're like, wow,
Speaker 1: that's that's the and you picked. We're like, come on, bitch,
Speaker 1: you got chows. Let's go give him the car. Allegedly
Speaker 1: doing um drugs like you South America, so you can
Speaker 1: imagine what drugs were doing. Um, I don't condone drug
Speaker 1: the drugs were doing, not what the people doing the
Speaker 1: drugs were doing. Ok. And it was fucking lit and
Speaker 1: then he took us to this club. There was a
Speaker 1: whole long nest line out side of the club. He
Speaker 1: just walked up. He pulled them with all the bad bitches,
Speaker 1: all the black, bad black, and we were all black
Speaker 1: and Argentina is like mad white. So people were waiting. Wait,
Speaker 1: So it was a bunch of bad bitches in the
Speaker 1: car doing drugs with the funding. Yeah, bitch, chake me back,
Speaker 1: keep going to with the story. No, no, but we didn't.
Speaker 1: We didn't get bade him. But people have like the
Speaker 1: three his eyes like doing stuff. There wasn't like three
Speaker 1: way kisses. But then like everybody kind of like at
Speaker 1: the club found their nigga. I found like an argentinean
Speaker 1: race car driver's changing. But like, what were they doing
Speaker 1: with the man? All sorts of things are they doing?
Speaker 1: Like drugs off his day? They were doing wild stuff.
Speaker 1: He was doing drugs off people's ass. Yeah, and people
Speaker 1: were doing drugs. Didn't someone do drugs off his Wiener
Speaker 1: off his phone? Van? She just I'm sure you're a
Speaker 1: nice girl, Juggie, not shady, right, Mom, you'd rather have
Speaker 1: the mom video because you're curious. You're asking Mandy about
Speaker 1: the sex club and now it's a weener. What do
Speaker 1: you wanted to say? Cock? His dick would be okay
Speaker 1: as well, Dick. I mean I feel like, oh, it's
Speaker 1: okay to tell the drug story, but now it's off
Speaker 1: his weener. Lizzie, you like you genuinely say weener? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you got me thinking of Nathan's Can we not
Speaker 1: not hold on? Hold on, hold hold on? Okay, you
Speaker 1: asked your boyfriend like no, no, no, for him, it's dick,
Speaker 1: But like, have you said something about his ween or two? Yeah,
Speaker 1: like when we're not having sex, I would be like
Speaker 1: something about your wieners kind of like my thing. It's
Speaker 1: like it works for me, it works for me, it's
Speaker 1: really help you. Um wait, okay, she lies, Okay, the
Speaker 1: nos okay, wait, but I'm gonna bring it back because
Speaker 1: now we told this whole very unsafe story. But no, lady,
Speaker 1: you don't literally like, can we give tips to the lady? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta watch you gotta watch your back,
Speaker 1: your front, like because nigga's are weird. I went to
Speaker 1: this party the other day and like a couple nigs
Speaker 1: are following me around and I'm talking about let's go
Speaker 1: for a walk. Nigga, I don't know you where are
Speaker 1: we going? For a white and owner eases right at least,
Speaker 1: but the speak Spanish, Portuguese and probably Spanish. But if
Speaker 1: he was fine, and I would go on and walk
Speaker 1: with him, that's true. But the thing is, if you're
Speaker 1: traveling in a group, you have to look out for
Speaker 1: your friends. You have to look out for your friends.
Speaker 1: But all of you. Yeah, but we would, we would,
Speaker 1: we would have taken you down. You know, what's the
Speaker 1: safest thing to do. If you're gonna go and start
Speaker 1: whiling and doing drugs with your friends, you have to
Speaker 1: have one be the test dummy, because you can't all
Speaker 1: do the drugs together. That if the drugs I'm not
Speaker 1: even kidding. What if it's like a drug that like
Speaker 1: knocks you out exactly. That's so like one time what
Speaker 1: you can't have one story. I'm telling you, this is
Speaker 1: no bullshit. People are gonna do it anyway, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So like you have to just figure
Speaker 1: out how to do the ship or I tell the
Speaker 1: guy to do it first, Like that's better you take
Speaker 1: the first, yes, if they do. But something is just
Speaker 1: have drugs for bitches. That's the thing too, especially if
Speaker 1: you're partnering with like hood niggas. They'd be like, y'all
Speaker 1: want some molly, They'll just have a bag now if
Speaker 1: you're gonna do a little dip. Not saying I know how,
Speaker 1: I've just learned from friends. Right. I was with some
Speaker 1: home girls this is only like a year and a
Speaker 1: half ago, and they wanted to do molly and it
Speaker 1: was like four of us and they were about to
Speaker 1: split it up in their drink. I'm like, well, when
Speaker 1: do y'all business do it first? And one of y'all
Speaker 1: died has been called No, I feel you you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? And you say, because how I intended
Speaker 1: this out, Like like I really thought we were gonna
Speaker 1: be about to have a fucking heart attack. We're not.
Speaker 1: We're talking about weiners and talking about wieners and cops. No,
Speaker 1: but white man, no bullshit. If you're gonna do drugs,
Speaker 1: even we dog like anything edibles, like you should not
Speaker 1: just be all taking the same drug at the same time,
Speaker 1: like you have dispersed the ship. Okay, these are the
Speaker 1: tips were giving because you know what, you know, this
Speaker 1: should be called you're gonna do it anyway? Yeah, they're
Speaker 1: definitely gonna be called winers and white vans. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: like that. I think you know I've done a lot
Speaker 1: of terrible things. Somehow somebody's looking out for me, because
Speaker 1: I am. You're just digging the whole so much. I
Speaker 1: have the f that gets in the van, that goes
Speaker 1: in the car, that goes okay, but you won't be
Speaker 1: any more. Oh no, no, no, we don't want you
Speaker 1: to be body this white girl. Text me. What I
Speaker 1: was gonna say is, but my friends always hold me
Speaker 1: down until you're they're not with you. But we don't
Speaker 1: what you're traveling, you don't leave your friend. No you can't.
Speaker 1: You can't. There's the tip, Like there's the tip, and
Speaker 1: that's it. I think that's because we got to stay
Speaker 1: with your friends, like even Vinnie, Like Vinnie and I
Speaker 1: go do a lot of our traveling together and are
Speaker 1: drugs fun whatever. But like even when he's going to
Speaker 1: suck some niggas, like he's always were always trying to
Speaker 1: figure out how to make this happen right to make
Speaker 1: sure we're saying, because no, you can't bring your home
Speaker 1: girl when you're about to like puck the ship out
Speaker 1: of this dude, bro, Well, we went to Miami. Definitely
Speaker 1: in front of me. It's a little bit different I
Speaker 1: think for gay men though, because girls a little more
Speaker 1: like they're expecting you to be that way, but with
Speaker 1: men they like, I don't know, I will say that
Speaker 1: it's just a little different with game in um so
Speaker 1: just and even in that regard, like we try our
Speaker 1: best to like maybe we meet the guy for a
Speaker 1: drink first, catch the vibes, and then like I'll follow
Speaker 1: and trap on his phone or something like that phone trap. Um.
Speaker 1: But yeah, like in Spain it was hard because when
Speaker 1: he was like looking like I have to do this him.
Speaker 1: A lot of women stay with each other on vacation,
Speaker 1: I mean, so I think it's just very important. Like
Speaker 1: even if one of your girls do want to hook
Speaker 1: up with somebody, let it happen where you're in control
Speaker 1: of the environment. Um, bring it back to your room,
Speaker 1: smash room for the airbb get. Oh, if you have
Speaker 1: an Airbnb, there's extra room, you'd be like, oh, there's
Speaker 1: a couple, you gotta have that extra rooms. I was
Speaker 1: gonna say it's a hotel, Like definitely you meet the
Speaker 1: guy as well, so that you can identify all that
Speaker 1: and just have no problem staying at a bar, at
Speaker 1: the lobby bar while your girlfriend is up stiously, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's fair. It's a good friend. Also, my friends, Oh,
Speaker 1: I let them know you're staying the lobby for them,
Speaker 1: Like that used to be like a thing. I mean,
Speaker 1: or you can watch. I let my friends know you
Speaker 1: can watch, you could join, or you can stay in
Speaker 1: the lobby. But if we go on vacation watch see
Speaker 1: look she but she'd be playing. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: like watching. I don't watch either. But if I'm sucking
Speaker 1: you fine, But like I'm not watching. I did record
Speaker 1: my friend. I love watching. I like having three sums,
Speaker 1: but like Broadway porn. Yeah, but like I need to start,
Speaker 1: like I like watching. I want to watch my fair
Speaker 1: man paid for me to record. You're what I got? Yeah?
Speaker 1: He paid? And didn't she like squirt and you hit
Speaker 1: you a little bit? Did um? Well? Okay it wasn't
Speaker 1: quite her man, it's her her sugar daddy. He paid
Speaker 1: me to film that much. Yeah, I'm like five, What
Speaker 1: wouldn't sugar daddy? You still friends? Win? You take you
Speaker 1: out to Vegas too? Oh? Yeah, he does all types
Speaker 1: of Wait, wait the girl were you friends with? The
Speaker 1: girl with a sugar daddy. I'm priends with the girl.
Speaker 1: That's a great friend. She's like, look, I don't need
Speaker 1: to look kid. Yeah that would be me. It was
Speaker 1: like a camera with a phone. It's on my phone.
Speaker 1: But if if you give me a task, I get
Speaker 1: very dedicated. I was in there, we are looking for
Speaker 1: videographers here well, and she squirted on you and I
Speaker 1: got a little too close, and it was like I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, bitch, I forgot that. She being like
Speaker 1: she's like a squirter. She's a she's a real squirter.
Speaker 1: So like, was it you? My last tip? Though? Condoms
Speaker 1: in every purse. I keep a condom in every person
Speaker 1: one or two? What about that person? Look there? Why
Speaker 1: you out here? Lying girl? Not for that winner? You
Speaker 1: know I've been I can't say this. You o. You
Speaker 1: talked about drugs and getting a white man? Oh or
Speaker 1: we've it? Huh no birth control? You better not. And
Speaker 1: that's a p anyway, So let's use this as a break.
Speaker 1: Who what we That's what she said pretty much? Where
Speaker 1: is so they're just not there? Okay? No? No? Did uh? Well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna go ahead and skip the hor derve because
Speaker 1: y'all just gave so many tips without giving tips at all.
Speaker 1: It was amazing. I thought you did a wonderful job
Speaker 1: at that. Unless you have a quick you have a
Speaker 1: quick one. Okay, okay, y'all know, okay, outline, we were
Speaker 1: back at it. The hor derv is our sex tipp
Speaker 1: and we're gonna get one from Chelsea the vanilla bean.
Speaker 1: Oh that's perfect, good rude, Chelsea. What's your sex strawberry bean?
Speaker 1: Because I'm Chelsea Pinky okay girl, All right, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: This might not be a big tip, but some of
Speaker 1: us complain about giving blow jobs because like it's too
Speaker 1: much in your mouth. But if you just like put
Speaker 1: a toothbrush down there and like train your throat, you
Speaker 1: can do deep throat. So training your throat with a toothbrush. Yes,
Speaker 1: let me tell you the problem I have with that
Speaker 1: you're skinny? No, well, it's even even My reflexes work
Speaker 1: differently with something that small compared to a dick size. Also,
Speaker 1: it's really weird because as long as I'm looking at
Speaker 1: myself in the mirror brushing my tongue, I don't gag.
Speaker 1: When I'm in the shower brushing my tongue. Without the mirror,
Speaker 1: I gag. So also, I just feel like the toothbrush
Speaker 1: charges different gag reflexes because you're doing it yourself. I
Speaker 1: think you never brush your tongue and you're like like
Speaker 1: a little too far when I'm not looking in the mirror.
Speaker 1: Even the tongue bitch, That's what I'm talking about. That's
Speaker 1: that's what I'm talking about. But if I'm in the
Speaker 1: mirror a looking at myself, do it bro For whatever reason,
Speaker 1: I don't know, Maybe it's some kind of what I
Speaker 1: don't fucking gag. It's so weird. Well, you probably don't
Speaker 1: need the tip then, because when you're having sex and
Speaker 1: you have something in your mouth, you're not or you
Speaker 1: could have a mirror. Yeah, but that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Your mouth opens a different way when you're sucking dick
Speaker 1: then when it's not. It's not training because not training
Speaker 1: your mouth to get big, it's training your throat to
Speaker 1: not gab. What I'm saying is depicting on how your
Speaker 1: mouth is open. Though, don't your tongue in your throat
Speaker 1: are probably all right? If I don't take it was okay?
Speaker 1: Can I ask a question? I'm going to ask how
Speaker 1: do you breathe at the same but you don't know
Speaker 1: how to breathe. I'm genuinely curious. I've ever heard Can
Speaker 1: you ask that question one more time? How do you
Speaker 1: breathe at the same time? I want to do this
Speaker 1: a heaver, so we can learn right now. Because close
Speaker 1: your mouth. Okay, so close my mouth right now? Are
Speaker 1: you not find that I get a little overwhelmed that
Speaker 1: I'll be like and then I'm like, see this. I
Speaker 1: don't do this ship because you can have a bathe
Speaker 1: you don't know. You don't know how to just breathe
Speaker 1: through your nose when something's in your mouth. It just
Speaker 1: doesn't feel I think it's just too Are you able
Speaker 1: to breathe when you shoot food? She's overthinking are you
Speaker 1: a mouth breather? I I will tell you I have
Speaker 1: a mouth breather too, because I didn't really realize how
Speaker 1: much till the mask because it's like we'll go into
Speaker 1: my glasses. But like it's just I feel really hot,
Speaker 1: Like it gets very irritating. But you should be able
Speaker 1: to teck a tack. So one day, one day? All right, Well,
Speaker 1: we are now going to get into our horrible decision
Speaker 1: I wanted each of y'all's thoughts on these various five
Speaker 1: things this week. Our horrible decision is the five things
Speaker 1: getting in the way of Black women's sex lives. I
Speaker 1: know that we all just gave tips. Uh we talked
Speaker 1: about sexting, which was something else, and then with your stories,
Speaker 1: y'all shared a ton of them that was amazing, you know.
Speaker 1: But as Black women speaking on this platform, I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk about the things that get in the way
Speaker 1: of our sex lives that we may or may not
Speaker 1: even know, uh, could be barriers as to why we
Speaker 1: view things a certain way. So the first thing that
Speaker 1: is listed this comes from Mind Body gream um website,
Speaker 1: by the way, and this whole article is by Ashley Towns,
Speaker 1: who is an epidemiologist. Yes, big work, got that, I
Speaker 1: practiced it all right. So the first thing that affects
Speaker 1: black women in their sex lives is stereotypes and myths
Speaker 1: about black sexuality. Um. It says that a few historical
Speaker 1: images that black women have been labeled as include the mammy,
Speaker 1: the Jezebel, the welfare mother, and the angry black woman,
Speaker 1: something that y'all kind of even talked about earlier, like
Speaker 1: just the monolith of it. In general, Black women have
Speaker 1: also often been portrayed as being sexually experienced and or
Speaker 1: engaging in sexual risk taking behaviors rather than being sexually
Speaker 1: responsible and having sexual autonomy of their bodies. One of
Speaker 1: the things that they brought up in this which was
Speaker 1: really interesting is stereotypes and myths might also play a
Speaker 1: role in dating relationships and sexual behaviors. For example, the
Speaker 1: idea or belief that black women are promiscuous may cause
Speaker 1: the way to may cause the woman to feel ashamed
Speaker 1: of her true sexual identity and behaviors. Now, Weezy and
Speaker 1: I had that conversation very early on into this podcast,
Speaker 1: and when I read this, I was like, wow, like
Speaker 1: the words she didn't want to be associated with it
Speaker 1: at all, And it could possibly be without us even knowing,
Speaker 1: because there's just already a negative connotation of that word
Speaker 1: that's often times applied to Black women and no other
Speaker 1: types of women as far as being promiscuous. Um, can
Speaker 1: y'all think of any other stereotypes that work against us
Speaker 1: in dating, sex and relationships. I think the only thing
Speaker 1: is body type that came to mind. I think black women.
Speaker 1: You know, we talked about this so much with hap
Speaker 1: being shapely and being fast things like that. I think
Speaker 1: there's other another one that black women don't suck, but
Speaker 1: we've we've have look at most of us. But but hey,
Speaker 1: but they also say like black women don't do you know,
Speaker 1: isn't that a thing too? That is the thing too.
Speaker 1: And I think even in sex, the stereotypes of not
Speaker 1: being able to touch a black woman's hair and not
Speaker 1: being able to do things, um like that, a lot
Speaker 1: of people assume, like, there's a lot of things your hair. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well unless I have a cell in, even with a sellin.
Speaker 1: Like if I do have a selle, I'm like, you
Speaker 1: can't like pull it, you can't your hands like him.
Speaker 1: Oh that doesn't bother me. I'd be telling me, oh,
Speaker 1: you're gonna hit something, but go in. But so another
Speaker 1: thing I put on my trucks. Another thing I thought
Speaker 1: of because I went to a predominantly white college and
Speaker 1: I was in a sorority, um, a very white sorority
Speaker 1: and like the girl don't even know what those are
Speaker 1: called about fight the second largest one in the country. Um.
Speaker 1: But anyways, so white people they were doing wild stuff,
Speaker 1: and I feel like I kind of like was more
Speaker 1: like restricted and restrained because I was like, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: the only black girl, and it's almost like you have
Speaker 1: to represent fear people. You had the Obama flux, so like, God,
Speaker 1: you did classy even though in my brain I wanted
Speaker 1: to do some stuff. You felt the need to portray
Speaker 1: yourself in a certain way because I'm the only one,
Speaker 1: because like, if a black person represents all black people,
Speaker 1: like you're not allowed to be an individual. That's a
Speaker 1: fact that I didn't even think of that. I've been
Speaker 1: at a dinner table recently UM where it was TV
Speaker 1: writers like media people. I was the only black girl,
Speaker 1: and when we started talking about the stuff that we're
Speaker 1: working on, one of the things that I am working
Speaker 1: on is very much a black script, and I just
Speaker 1: tried to talk about everything else because I just knew
Speaker 1: they were waiting to hear about it. Like I felt
Speaker 1: like that, yes, they wanted to hear me how about
Speaker 1: the black stuff? And I was like, yeah, so what
Speaker 1: about you something with the culture? That was a word
Speaker 1: like that, And it's funny with a friend of mine
Speaker 1: and I were trying to name the thing that we're
Speaker 1: working on, and I was like, what's another word for
Speaker 1: black that we can use where niggas will know, but
Speaker 1: they may not. He's like the only other word we
Speaker 1: can do like that is culture because true. And I
Speaker 1: didn't think about it until I sat at that table
Speaker 1: and they were like, are you doing anything with the culture. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but we talked about We've talked about adultification of black women.
Speaker 1: How like from black on black girls, black girls, Like
Speaker 1: you know black women, black girls tend to develop earlier,
Speaker 1: and I think immediately there's like a stigma put on
Speaker 1: them around like how they can move, Like we're both Caribbean,
Speaker 1: so like it's just the way you damn yeah, you
Speaker 1: grow up and like you're whining and you're doing things
Speaker 1: like going to Carnival, Kitty Carnival, playing mass and like
Speaker 1: that's just a part of I'm like the culture. First
Speaker 1: of all these cheerleading and wearing the tiniest little tops
Speaker 1: and doing all of that ship and shaking and ship
Speaker 1: just because we do a little home beat. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's about to say it's really sexualized.
Speaker 1: And that part sucks because yeah, white white kids, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: they do anything. It's just it's just not even cute.
Speaker 1: So they get kids, they get to get to be kids.
Speaker 1: Black kids do not get to be kids. They're they're
Speaker 1: automatically seen as adults. The way women are moving there,
Speaker 1: they're seeing us fast. I remember I would get in
Speaker 1: trouble if I like sat on man's lap, Like my
Speaker 1: mom would be like, don't be sitting on the person. La.
Speaker 1: Even I have a friend now who sends pictures all
Speaker 1: the time of celebrity men and their children, and she questions,
Speaker 1: is disappropriate because she said she's never kissed her dad
Speaker 1: growing up? There was so many things, there's so much trauma.
Speaker 1: Who knows what she's experienced, right, And but though there
Speaker 1: were so many ways that a young black girl shouldn't
Speaker 1: engage with an adult man, where I was just like,
Speaker 1: but that's her dad, there's nothing that's actually about what's
Speaker 1: going on here, Like your dad can kiss you, your
Speaker 1: dad can hug you, your dad can you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? So that's another thing that, yeah, maybe kids
Speaker 1: don't get to be kids. It's crazy. There's that. The
Speaker 1: next one, Uh, we definitely know this is that health
Speaker 1: disparities and sexual health care, so education, income level, and
Speaker 1: insurance status can affect a person's access to health care
Speaker 1: and quality. We know that the next one is hilariously
Speaker 1: funny because we just talked about it a lack of
Speaker 1: culturally sensitive sex education. So this one I thought was
Speaker 1: very interesting because America lacks comprehensive sexually sexuality education in general.
Speaker 1: But in addition, there's a shortage of trained sexuality educations
Speaker 1: and cultural sensitivity and therefore miss many opportunities to black
Speaker 1: girls to receive sexually education that is unbiased. I guess
Speaker 1: that kind of goes exactly what we were talking about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: even just thinking about anatomy, like, think about every like
Speaker 1: book you've read, or like health book, it's always like
Speaker 1: a white person's body. So like, god forbid, your vagina
Speaker 1: doesn't look like the one in the book. Maybe you
Speaker 1: think something's wrong those stupid ass pink pussy hats. My
Speaker 1: vagina is not. It's round, like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So funny you mentioned that because, Um, I slept with
Speaker 1: this dude he's black, like some years ago, and I'll
Speaker 1: never forget it. Sorry, I just got my period, you guys,
Speaker 1: I'm feeling so crampy. This guy goes, Um, what do
Speaker 1: you say? He was like sometimes when you strain your hair,
Speaker 1: you'd be looking like a white girl, but like your
Speaker 1: pussy lets me know, like new mix for real, like
Speaker 1: you got some black dude. And I was like, I
Speaker 1: don't know about that. Wasn't a white person or black
Speaker 1: was a black dude? And he was like, white girl,
Speaker 1: pussy to be looking different and he says they'd be
Speaker 1: like kind of bright and they got this little wish.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, can we not pussy shame though? No,
Speaker 1: but everyone looks different. He said to me that he
Speaker 1: believes that black women, he said Latina's. He was like,
Speaker 1: I've just noticed that, like their vaginas are different. And
Speaker 1: he said, uh yeah, He's like, you know, your pussy
Speaker 1: looks like And I think it reminds me of like
Speaker 1: when Mandy and I have talked about because she's never
Speaker 1: said with a white dude, and I'll talk about like
Speaker 1: the way white dick looks. There's certainly like yes, like
Speaker 1: Middle Eastern dudes or like um Eastern European dudes where
Speaker 1: their dicks won't look the same either. It's not like
Speaker 1: that white boy Alabama dick not Alabama. That's just the
Speaker 1: whitest thing. I can think. There are both. Okay, now
Speaker 1: I get it of your genitals are different, Yes, I
Speaker 1: want to go past this fourth one because I think
Speaker 1: we all know mistrust of medical providers. Uh, that's very
Speaker 1: prevalent within Black women and the community. But the last
Speaker 1: one I want to talk about before we get out
Speaker 1: of here is the fact that, uh, we oftentimes focus
Speaker 1: on prevention instead of pleasure. So sexuality research and sex
Speaker 1: education materials reflect black women tend to highlight adverse sexual
Speaker 1: and reproductive outcomes such as the rates of unintended pregnancy
Speaker 1: and s t I S. Meanwhile, the average sex at
Speaker 1: class for black teams seldomensions more positive research UM and
Speaker 1: data regarding and a huge survey revealed that tons of
Speaker 1: really hopeful insights a black about Black women's lives. Surveyed
Speaker 1: that they engage in a variety of sexual behaviors and
Speaker 1: most fine that their recent experiences are pleasurable. UM. Most
Speaker 1: also have experience in orgasm. But it's just talking about
Speaker 1: mainstream conversations regarding Black sexuality and how they oftentimes lead
Speaker 1: with the risks and negative sexual outcomes instead of conversations
Speaker 1: about black pleasure. Jada Pinkett, she said that she red
Speaker 1: Table talked to and how she's talked to Willow about sex.
Speaker 1: She was like, you know when I grew up, it
Speaker 1: was like, you can get pregnant, you can get AIDS
Speaker 1: or whatever disease was how at the time, And she
Speaker 1: was like, I told Willow that, but I also told
Speaker 1: her that it's amazing. She's like, I don't want to
Speaker 1: scare her about sex because it's like a beautiful thing.
Speaker 1: We're all scared for sex. We're all told it's gonna hurt.
Speaker 1: I think, even and I'm only thirty, but yeah, if
Speaker 1: you have sex, you're gonna get pregnant in and die eventually,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, it's that's what's gonna happen.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think. I think because even in sex education,
Speaker 1: we all were taught abstinence, weren't taught how wonderful it is,
Speaker 1: or how to enjoy ourselves, how to engage in healthy
Speaker 1: conversations with sex. It was just don't have I don't
Speaker 1: know if pleasure is necessarily seraly something I want my
Speaker 1: kids to learn in school, but I think those are
Speaker 1: discussions that we should be having, like communally. Like I've
Speaker 1: had a friend's kid who's around sixteen talked to me
Speaker 1: about pleasure with sex, and I found that interesting because
Speaker 1: she was embarrassed. Not that her mom is dope, I think,
Speaker 1: not that her mom and her couldn't have that combo,
Speaker 1: but she was like, oh, I don't want to tell
Speaker 1: my mom was something it feels good. It's weird to
Speaker 1: talk my mom that. Yeah. And when she talked to
Speaker 1: me about it, I was like, Oh, it's not like
Speaker 1: she has no idea about sex, because she gets it.
Speaker 1: She's watched porn at some point. You know, she's sixteen,
Speaker 1: you're seeing it, your friends are doing it. But she
Speaker 1: genuinely was like, oh, what if it feels like this?
Speaker 1: She thought she was going to pee on herself once.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, bit she just squirre
Speaker 1: and I can't if she saw a video, you know,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you're really you're going with it. You're
Speaker 1: going you're going with you know what's crazy? Um and
Speaker 1: not to And I'm I'm not a parent, but I'm
Speaker 1: thinking of just psychologically how things happen with people. I
Speaker 1: actually think that pleasure learning in a classroom would probably
Speaker 1: be the best setting. And I say that because the
Speaker 1: same way there's things that an adolescent teenager or child
Speaker 1: may tell the doctor about themselves because they don't feel
Speaker 1: comfortable telling their parents because they there's still stigmas that
Speaker 1: they're going to get into trouble and all of these
Speaker 1: other things. There are things that we as children would
Speaker 1: tell a therapist that we would tell uh a doctor
Speaker 1: and so in and and and in that setting. I
Speaker 1: think a sex education teacher would be someone that a
Speaker 1: lot of students will feel open with. I mean again,
Speaker 1: and I think I brought it up on another episode,
Speaker 1: Dwyane Wade sat and talked about how Zaia Wade coming
Speaker 1: out to him. He feels like lended a helping hand
Speaker 1: to his teacher that was a woman but that identified
Speaker 1: as lesbian, and he said that if it weren't for
Speaker 1: that teacher, I don't think Zia would have been comfortable
Speaker 1: coming out to me. So I just feel like there
Speaker 1: are people in the community that I think kids would
Speaker 1: feel comfortable and it can be done in a cool
Speaker 1: chemistry way, like this is how orgasm works. Yeah, the
Speaker 1: indoor friends, the stimulation, the nerves, this that the third
Speaker 1: But like my mom was pretty open with me about sex,
Speaker 1: Like I think around four or five, my mom was
Speaker 1: like this is for four or five, I was hunting them.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was masturbating from jump but like
Speaker 1: she she was like, this is oral sex, this is
Speaker 1: anal sex, this is vaginal sex, and like very kind
Speaker 1: of like and called it the correct name. I call
Speaker 1: it correct names, and like I love. I was very comfortable.
Speaker 1: I wasn't like, mom, I'm getting it in, but like
Speaker 1: because I felt like very much like sex isn't a
Speaker 1: bad thing. I just was it was easier to talk
Speaker 1: about it. It was much easier. I mean, what does
Speaker 1: that make you? More like want of thought and say
Speaker 1: I was a little thought um, but I think that's
Speaker 1: just who I am. I mean, but she wasn't thought
Speaker 1: and she was open about it. We were still we
Speaker 1: still with thought about And I think the good thing
Speaker 1: about having a teacher too is that yes, you should
Speaker 1: talk about pleasure, but you can also like guide it
Speaker 1: because and it's an adult guiding the conversation, because otherwise
Speaker 1: it's just them talking to their friends who don't know anything.
Speaker 1: So like an adult can say, yeah, it does feel great,
Speaker 1: but honestly, there's emotional things and like you're just not mature,
Speaker 1: like Tom tells me about the emotions that they not mentioned.
Speaker 1: It should just be like a whole like for little
Speaker 1: boys for something. It's very important. Like you know, we're
Speaker 1: telling men to like thick, they're dicking everything, and you
Speaker 1: know we're all at that age I think, just so
Speaker 1: open to feeling something new and being coming obsessed with it,
Speaker 1: that obsessive stage. And I think what boys can end
Speaker 1: up feeling can cause them a lot of pain later
Speaker 1: in life, Like a lot of these bitches in high
Speaker 1: school birth horas nic is what I'm saying. Hurt people,
Speaker 1: hurt people, and they always remember that one bitch that
Speaker 1: broke their heart in the sixth right her, Damn, this
Speaker 1: is true. I remember, Yeah, I just wanted to funk
Speaker 1: when I was like, I just wanted to get it
Speaker 1: over with. I'm way more emotional than I was, and
Speaker 1: I was like a kid, like it's bad. I was
Speaker 1: a better home in high school. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: But it's also because we're dealing with grown ass niggas
Speaker 1: a sorry sorry sorry, that's bottom at a school teacher
Speaker 1: to help God? No, Well, and I agree, and I
Speaker 1: think that it again. Yeah, I think it is kids
Speaker 1: teaching kids, like you said, because it's not like it's
Speaker 1: not happening, whether there's education around it or not. There's
Speaker 1: it's happening, you know what I mean? And did you
Speaker 1: just do or now? I can only imagine with Instagram,
Speaker 1: which I go on Twitter, it's on my timeline. Like now,
Speaker 1: it's way more in your face than it was with us.
Speaker 1: So praying for these kids. Yeah, I gonna hold you.
Speaker 1: That's a different motherfucking thing. I Before we get out
Speaker 1: of here, let's do our motherfucking home. Know, if you
Speaker 1: have not yet sent us one, please do. We are
Speaker 1: going through them. You can send it to us at
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. Again, that's our homemail,
Speaker 1: this one. Since it's a couch of women and I
Speaker 1: think it has all happened to us at some point,
Speaker 1: or maybe we've exuded it. I thought that we could help. Uh,
Speaker 1: it looks like a gentleman asking the title of the head.
Speaker 1: You want to hear the title? How do I flirt
Speaker 1: with girls and not be a creep? Interesting? Hi, Mandy
Speaker 1: and Wheezy. I desperately, I desperately need advice on how
Speaker 1: to talk to women. I've been with my Oh no,
Speaker 1: this is a girl. This is a girl. I have
Speaker 1: been with my husband for fifteen years, but have always
Speaker 1: been super attracted to women. I want to have a
Speaker 1: threesome so bad, and my husband is down. But with that,
Speaker 1: with the condition that I bring the girl. My husband
Speaker 1: is amazing at eating pussy, and my fantasy is for
Speaker 1: him to teach me during a threesome. Possibly the problem
Speaker 1: is I have no idea when it comes to talking
Speaker 1: to women. Ironically, no no game when it comes to
Speaker 1: talking to women. Ironically, I'm a sex worker and have
Speaker 1: been for almost twenty years. I have game. I have
Speaker 1: game for days when it comes to attracting men. But
Speaker 1: I cannot get out of my shyness when it comes
Speaker 1: to hitting on women. It's so bad that I've had
Speaker 1: women hit on me and I've been too shy to
Speaker 1: respond even when I wanted to. I just get super
Speaker 1: awkward and run away. Women are super intimidating and just
Speaker 1: don't know how to even start. And I just don't
Speaker 1: know how to start even trying to hit on a woman.
Speaker 1: What is rude versus not? How can I tell when
Speaker 1: a girl is bisexual? How do women fart with women?
Speaker 1: I really don't know. I seriously have zero game, but
Speaker 1: I want to suck a girl so bad. Please help
Speaker 1: sign a no game having hope say, I would if
Speaker 1: you're a sex worker, I would just like break the
Speaker 1: seal and are you a sex worker and have a
Speaker 1: threesome first. That way, so you have your first experience
Speaker 1: with someone who's experienced, and then after that, I think
Speaker 1: once you know what it's like, you'll be a little
Speaker 1: bit comfortable fucking women. But initially, I think it's probably
Speaker 1: really difficult to you don't get out there and just
Speaker 1: start floating with someone just off the bat and you
Speaker 1: have no experience with that, Like, it's going to be awkward.
Speaker 1: Maybe you want your husband to lead it, but then
Speaker 1: at the same time, it may be weird for that person.
Speaker 1: So honestly, the only thing I do with flirting is
Speaker 1: tell people they're pretty and it works. What about Okay,
Speaker 1: tell me if this is a bad advice, because I
Speaker 1: do not know anything of the realm with women apps,
Speaker 1: Like I see a lot of people on the apps
Speaker 1: and they're like that I am a couple seeking blah
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah, and I feel like it's easier,
Speaker 1: Like I've talked to some couples on apps and like
Speaker 1: I think it's easy to live. I mean, I haven't
Speaker 1: done anything, but like I've been curious, so like you know,
Speaker 1: you start, you bet you see what's going on. You're
Speaker 1: one of those I talked about women like that cross
Speaker 1: the bridge. Well, it mostly because I'm like, are they
Speaker 1: not forward enough? Because I'd be like, yeah, let's go eat,
Speaker 1: and then I just pick an expensive restaurant because nobody
Speaker 1: ever wants to say none to that. Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know. They just haven't, like I haven't been
Speaker 1: able to commit. But anyway, I think it's easier to
Speaker 1: talk when you're maybe not in person. You could be
Speaker 1: a little bit more like flirty via messaging and then
Speaker 1: I don't know, just set it up and have a
Speaker 1: couple of shots, be a little flirty. Wants you need
Speaker 1: to pussy. It'll all go away. Just to get a
Speaker 1: sex worker since you were one, because you probably have
Speaker 1: a decent network and they can find you someone once
Speaker 1: you do that. Like do you learn how to do that?
Speaker 1: You don't need to learn. They're they're like, literally tell
Speaker 1: them it's your first time. I think that's the great thing.
Speaker 1: And she said her man's going to teach her how
Speaker 1: to eat pussy. You know what I mean is like, actually,
Speaker 1: you don't even have to go looking. I'm kind of hot.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm meant to like her. Man's going to
Speaker 1: teach her how to eat the pussy, like because my poorn,
Speaker 1: my favorite stuff is like teacher doctor Like. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'll also let some if I'm if if I catch
Speaker 1: a vibe with someone and say I'm flirting with them
Speaker 1: and I feel like they're flirting back, even if they're
Speaker 1: not flirting back, I'll make a joke and be like,
Speaker 1: just so you know, I like girls. So if you're
Speaker 1: gonna keep flirting with me, this may you know, this
Speaker 1: may go somewhere. And so I let them know a
Speaker 1: van like I'm I feel like you may be amancing.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you know. I'm gonna take it there
Speaker 1: if that's what you're into. I had to tell a
Speaker 1: friend recently who got too wasted, like, oh, I feel
Speaker 1: so bad. But she's just like really pretty and I
Speaker 1: have one sex for that for a long time. So
Speaker 1: she gets wasted. She comes back to my place, She's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, we gotta watch any Fiance and we're
Speaker 1: on the couch. She was like, no, we're gonna get
Speaker 1: in the battle tired bitch. I was like, bro, you
Speaker 1: can't get in my bed. I'm sorry. I have a
Speaker 1: second bedroom. You can sleep in there, or you can
Speaker 1: sleep on this couch, but you can't get in my bed.
Speaker 1: And she's like why. I was like, you know why,
Speaker 1: I'm glad you said that, because I just take advantage
Speaker 1: of me. Yeah, yeah, no, I mean I I let
Speaker 1: it be very clear and as them when I wanted
Speaker 1: her to be like, okay, but yeah, but but but
Speaker 1: how we like jokingly do that. I think it's important
Speaker 1: for if you're interested in that, you could even have
Speaker 1: the joke with you know, saying yeah and my man's
Speaker 1: gonna watch, just to see a reaction. You can jokingly
Speaker 1: throw things out there that you really are comfortable with,
Speaker 1: but just to gauge the temperature in the room. I mean,
Speaker 1: like should the nigga Oh, I didn't even tell the
Speaker 1: story with the nigga met at Jamaica. I let him
Speaker 1: know when he comes, I said, well, you know, I
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend, so maybe you can join us at
Speaker 1: the sex club. Didn't say much else after that, but
Speaker 1: like I threw out there that he already knew I
Speaker 1: had a boyfriend. I told him how a boyfriend. I said, yes,
Speaker 1: my boyfriend's giving me permission to speak to you, so
Speaker 1: he knew what the dynamic was. And then he's like, well,
Speaker 1: if I come up, I still want to talking about
Speaker 1: like a DP situation. I've never done it, but I
Speaker 1: don't know what size that he is, and so I
Speaker 1: don't know if I would be inside just imagine me.
Speaker 1: And they're like, hey, just technically for this to work,
Speaker 1: I need to know if you're able. And then I said,
Speaker 1: my nigga the picture of him, and his response was,
Speaker 1: at least you're consistent because they look like brothers. But
Speaker 1: you know, oh no, they look real close. That's kind
Speaker 1: of um and it shows. I guess before we get
Speaker 1: out of here, what advice would you give with flirting
Speaker 1: or gauging the temperature of another vanilla bean strawberries? This
Speaker 1: is why I asked her I wanted to vanilla bean
Speaker 1: take because she's doing sex workers. Then we're both just saying, well,
Speaker 1: let him know where he puts, y'all, just like and
Speaker 1: then I just creep on her. So like, from a
Speaker 1: vanilla standpoint, how would you have a vanilla standpoint? Go ahead,
Speaker 1: you're gonna see keep see what wait is? This is
Speaker 1: where I say, Chelsea, just so you know, I like
Speaker 1: girls bitch, and then she said it with a smile.
Speaker 1: I'm like, bit, you've been flirting with me and I'm
Speaker 1: feeling it. But this is why I said. When she
Speaker 1: came in the room, she'd be playing. So she's been
Speaker 1: she's been playing for the last three years. Like I
Speaker 1: ain't been flirting with her. I'm like, damn, you came
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Speaker 1: A man dies during an orgy after using viagra erection
Speaker 1: cream a sex addict in a Thailand down cocktail of drugs,
Speaker 1: including viagra, sounds like something I would I would love
Speaker 1: if someone gave me, like a little drink of Thailand,
Speaker 1: Like you're gonna get out of it anyway. Basically, it's
Speaker 1: called marathon rub. They put it on his peen. This um.
Speaker 1: It's an erection cream and he put it on before
Speaker 1: he took part in an orgy in which he died
Speaker 1: of a heart attack. Forty four years old collapsed during
Speaker 1: a monthly romp with friends in a hotel suite and
Speaker 1: Samprakan province, where the police found the erectile dysfunction medication,
Speaker 1: the cream, the booze, and other meds. The cab driver
Speaker 1: had taken a woman to his room and told his
Speaker 1: friends an hour later that he was feeling unusually tired.
Speaker 1: They later found him unresponsive naked from the waist down. Um,
Speaker 1: and they said we do this every month. He came
Speaker 1: to our sleet and just sweet and just slept on
Speaker 1: the couch while we parted. We thought he was tired.
Speaker 1: After I shook his body, he wasn't responding. In addition,
Speaker 1: Severn several bottles of whiskey, cans, beer, fried chicken, and
Speaker 1: dried shrimper on the table as well. They said he
Speaker 1: suffered a heart attack after having energetic sex. Is it
Speaker 1: this is the way you said you would want to
Speaker 1: go out like no, like himself to death. I also
Speaker 1: mahogany I made the outline for that episode. But Wheezy
Speaker 1: may very much be into this. Someone said sex at
Speaker 1: a cemetery. Now, this just let us know you're into necrophilia.
Speaker 1: You need to can't recruit for this, no, I mean
Speaker 1: like it's weird, but also I would like to die
Speaker 1: this way. But can I ask you? Um? And maybe
Speaker 1: we could also ask someone in the audience. You guys,
Speaker 1: feel free to raise your hand. And he's been on
Speaker 1: clubhouse so long, she's someone in the audience. Yeah, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'll be on clubs like a motherfucker. I wanted to
Speaker 1: know if this would cause you trauma as someone who
Speaker 1: was a part of it, So you're not dying wheezy,
Speaker 1: But if you were to have a group sex, like
Speaker 1: if you killed somebody with my pussy, would you have
Speaker 1: PTSD afterwards? I feel like that sells the pussy more
Speaker 1: like if you let's just say, for example, I'm not
Speaker 1: and this is fucked up, but like, let me just
Speaker 1: give you an example. My weird guy you guys, no, Well,
Speaker 1: you'll hear on the episode coming up from Moca Fes
Speaker 1: that I almost fucking went like I almost died from
Speaker 1: his weed and I made a joke in my week
Speaker 1: I like you tell people sent me to the hospital
Speaker 1: and he was like I am so Like, imagine if
Speaker 1: you sucked a guy and he died and the next
Speaker 1: guy year about, you'll be like, yo, we gotta re talk.
Speaker 1: Someone did bring it up. Yes, my mom did have
Speaker 1: sex with a guy who had a heart attack and
Speaker 1: she had to get him dressed before the ambulance came.
Speaker 1: So maybe when I get her out of the house
Speaker 1: because she has a boyfriend now, I would love to
Speaker 1: hear if she has trauma regarding a man having a
Speaker 1: fucking heart attack in the middle of sex and her
Speaker 1: having to pretty much dress a guy who's almost about
Speaker 1: to be dead while the ambulance comes. Honestly, I really
Speaker 1: I think your mom is a champion for it. And
Speaker 1: as someone who works in the medical field. Someone said,
Speaker 1: my last words need to be sucking me harder, bitch. Okay,
Speaker 1: hold on, Jamie Williams said this, tell him this pussy
Speaker 1: caught a body. I kind of like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I don't know why we haven't yet, and wheezy, it
Speaker 1: may take some time to get our tones together as rappers,
Speaker 1: but I would love to make a horrible decisions. This
Speaker 1: pussy is a killer type of anthem. I think it
Speaker 1: would go viral, and I think it would be amazing
Speaker 1: because he's had a music podcast for two months and
Speaker 1: now she's we need to make a song. Boy, I
Speaker 1: call I feel like I called my pussy a rent snapper,
Speaker 1: and I know it's a fish, so it's not really good.
Speaker 1: But my pussy be snapping, you know what I mean? Okay,
Speaker 1: if if your pussy had to be a food, like,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go with a red snapper. Nobody's about
Speaker 1: to say I'm a fish, bit, but but it be
Speaker 1: snapping like it got that I understanding pussy can snap,
Speaker 1: but there's other animals that bite, and I'm not growing
Speaker 1: with a fish. Um. Let me look this up. I
Speaker 1: always google stuff cute names for your pussy a kitty
Speaker 1: cat to see duh. Let me look cute names for vagina.
Speaker 1: There has to be an article on that a butterfly
Speaker 1: because it opens Maria. Why would why would they call
Speaker 1: it a Maria. She's definitely Latina and they always want
Speaker 1: to bring things back to the Latina community. Okay, Volverine
Speaker 1: l isn't here in the pink bearded clam, red wagon,
Speaker 1: meat curtains, flower for burger. Okay, I don't like any
Speaker 1: of these. That's what Cardi B calls it fish lips.
Speaker 1: Someone someone said juicy fruit or honeysuckle. I like honeysuckle.
Speaker 1: That's hot, Miss Kitty. I love that you guys are
Speaker 1: joining us. Why did you sell it m Z kitty?
Speaker 1: Miss Kitty, First of all, we didn't ask you for
Speaker 1: your hot mail scream name. Okay,