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Speaker 1: fed up with me? Bron, I don't like that. I'll

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Speaker 1: come back from vacation to start speaking Spanish like I

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Speaker 1: came back from Jamaica. I don't like that you came

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Speaker 1: back from everything ire mind No, that's awful. The fact

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Speaker 1: that Mandy is actually Jamaican and does a terrible I

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Speaker 1: don't believe it. Bro, you gotta not be listening episode anyways. Guys,

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Speaker 1: core pumps a k a Peggan Marco. I like you

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Speaker 1: know you feel me, Bro when I tell you the

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Speaker 1: face a weheezy Bro, Chill, Bro, I'm not your lady.

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Speaker 1: I'm judging. Why so we're doing this again? I'm not trying.

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Speaker 1: We have two other guests. I must say it's the

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Speaker 1: same thing, thank you. I don't, I just I've been listening.

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Speaker 1: I've been listening. Katie is a nice nasty like like

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Speaker 1: dging is like why would you have holding? Like no, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: nasty shady, but shady is when you're like trying to

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Speaker 1: be nice nasty. I don't like that. One is direct

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Speaker 1: though it's still it's still nasty. I see your point. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well I don't see what I mean. We say it's like, guys,

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Speaker 1: we are missing third. They are of the Black Girls

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Speaker 1: Texting podcast, which I actually were on three or four

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Speaker 1: Um so I'm excited to have a conversation with again

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Speaker 1: more women podcasters. Um so, you guys have been doing

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Speaker 1: Jim Okay, it was another third. What happened? Did you

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm going to ask. Everything is okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: it's not. The energy is different. I've listened to a

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Speaker 1: Sexting is a segment. I'm a comfort y'allless, god forbid.

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Speaker 1: like to go to a game, That's what my mom

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Speaker 1: will Nannie is not free? No, you listen, You're right.

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Speaker 1: I enjoyed vacations. What you're going to still pay for

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Speaker 1: it's like Italian Island. No to say Italian? Why why?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm curious who? Because we're Italian and do the

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Speaker 1: that I mean him if we go to the sex

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Speaker 1: which double day is it? COVID say? I mean, do

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Speaker 1: you walk outside to fucking COVID? Like yo? No life

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Speaker 1: Is it safe? Sense? But like COVID say, bit you're outside,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you like. Plastic curtains everywhere, it's

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Speaker 1: gonna say, like, I got you girl. You know I'm

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00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 1: special over here. You know I'm I'm I'm ruler of

420
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: the sex clubs out here. Um, it's just a link

421
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:27,640
Speaker 1: on the website, and I believe anyway you could become

422
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: a member. And it also is free to be a member. Okay,

423
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 1: the barriers of entry. Yeah, I got you know, I

424
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:40,880
Speaker 1: got you. I did wanna bring up this really quick

425
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 1: for our vanilla ship. This this was from a couple

426
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: of weeks ago. Um, but as outside is opening, I

427
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you guys maybe some tips to keep

428
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 1: our hot girls summer safe. UM, I didn't want to

429
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: read that to spring breakers. Uh, this happened actually out

430
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: in Miami. UM drugged and raped a woman. UM. I

431
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 1: don't think that they meant for her to die, but

432
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 1: I guess the drug amount that they gave her was

433
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 1: so much that she actually was found dead in her Um,

434
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: dead in her in her hotel. The reason why it

435
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: also became viral was because earlier that day, a woman

436
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 1: on South Beach posted a picture and they actually photo

437
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: bombed her, and so there was a pick there was

438
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: It was viral saying that you never know like who

439
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 1: you're gonna meet and what they're capable of. And she

440
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 1: was just like, Wow, to know that I have two

441
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 1: killers posing in the back of my spring break picture,

442
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,479
Speaker 1: this is this is pretty crazy. UM. And they were

443
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: literally just out enjoying their time like they hadn't done

444
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 1: what they've done the night before. UM. And I say

445
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 1: I said all of this to say, I'm not sure

446
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 1: who the who the girl was friends with, how many

447
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: people she traveled with. I know that even when I

448
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 1: was in Jamaica the first night, I was only there

449
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 1: with two people. Then it was eighteen so our party

450
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: grew over this time. But we were invited to the

451
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 1: house parties because there was curfew in Jamaica, and we

452
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: were even thinking like, yeah, I know that we all

453
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: celebrate our parties differently. We go out, we get drunk,

454
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: it sport twenties. I don't know, but Miami should be

455
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 1: a place where you could be. I like it makes

456
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: sense that should be you know what I mean, like,

457
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 1: um aware when you're in another country, right, but like

458
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 1: if I'm in Miami with my home girls, what would

459
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 1: I give it? Like I know that that happened everywhere

460
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: because nikkas are weird. No, I just mean like I

461
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 1: could see how she got caught up. Yeah, Like it

462
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: doesn't seem like you would eat that fauntionary in a

463
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 1: place where like we've all been before, definitely, but like

464
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: you being out the country like absolutely, Like even when

465
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: I was living in Mexico, like I was like, okay,

466
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: who through the party because you know, you become a

467
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 1: close community. But I think in this particular situation, it

468
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 1: really sucks because yes, like if you want to go

469
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 1: out and have a good time, people are doing more kickbacks,

470
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: people are doing more stuff in their Like even me,

471
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 1: I'm doing parties like every Saturday at my crib, not

472
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,639
Speaker 1: a lot of people, maybe like ten people ahead you

473
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: said ten to fifty A lot of people. Kind of

474
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 1: I'll ask Andrew Cuomo. I feel like you were just

475
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 1: allegedly allegedly that's it could be maybe it's the people

476
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,640
Speaker 1: in my head or whatever anyway, but no, this girl,

477
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: like we were parting whatever, and she was like whose

478
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: house is it? Is it your house? Who's going to

479
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 1: be there? And I just thought she was like doing

480
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: too much And I was like, oh my gosh, she

481
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:31,160
Speaker 1: trying to make sure she's say. I felt so bad

482
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: because she was like I don't understand that your home

483
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 1: and like other other people that lived there with you.

484
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 1: But that was a great question to ask. It's true

485
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 1: what if you have? And we should all be asking

486
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: them when we go to someone's home. Are there other

487
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 1: people there? When I come there? Like you need your

488
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 1: drinks to drink? Drink? But the thing is when you're

489
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 1: on vacation, not speaking about this woman, but sometimes when

490
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 1: you're on vacation, you get like not smart, like we

491
00:27:56,160 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 1: were in Yeah, we were in Argentina and literally telling

492
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: the story. Yes, we literally went into a white van. Man.

493
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: Isn't that craze? A white van was like it was

494
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 1: a calf a man that we met at the club.

495
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 1: He was a beautiful man. He was Brazilian, he had bundy,

496
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 1: he was Brasilian with locks. I might have got into alright, alright,

497
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: like this tall black eye. Oh my god, like here,

498
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,640
Speaker 1: but yeah, we got in his white van. Thank god,

499
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,360
Speaker 1: we're alive to tell the story. But like literally, you're

500
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: always taught don't go in the van, especially okay, but no,

501
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 1: you got in there, even suburban. Don't get in the suburb. Okay.

502
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: So we were in Argentina. We went to this outdoor party.

503
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: I used to I started abroad there, so I was like,

504
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:52,719
Speaker 1: we gotta go to this party. And this Brazilian man

505
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: find girl. Everybody is like giving him the looks, and

506
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: of course he wants my fucking lesbian friend. And we're like, wow,

507
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 1: that's that's the and you picked. We're like, come on, bitch,

508
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: you got chows. Let's go give him the car. Allegedly

509
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: doing um drugs like you South America, so you can

510
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: imagine what drugs were doing. Um, I don't condone drug

511
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: the drugs were doing, not what the people doing the

512
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 1: drugs were doing. Ok. And it was fucking lit and

513
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: then he took us to this club. There was a

514
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: whole long nest line out side of the club. He

515
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: just walked up. He pulled them with all the bad bitches,

516
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: all the black, bad black, and we were all black

517
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: and Argentina is like mad white. So people were waiting. Wait,

518
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: So it was a bunch of bad bitches in the

519
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: car doing drugs with the funding. Yeah, bitch, chake me back,

520
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: keep going to with the story. No, no, but we didn't.

521
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: We didn't get bade him. But people have like the

522
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: three his eyes like doing stuff. There wasn't like three

523
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,959
Speaker 1: way kisses. But then like everybody kind of like at

524
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: the club found their nigga. I found like an argentinean

525
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: race car driver's changing. But like, what were they doing

526
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: with the man? All sorts of things are they doing?

527
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: Like drugs off his day? They were doing wild stuff.

528
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 1: He was doing drugs off people's ass. Yeah, and people

529
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: were doing drugs. Didn't someone do drugs off his Wiener

530
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: off his phone? Van? She just I'm sure you're a

531
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 1: nice girl, Juggie, not shady, right, Mom, you'd rather have

532
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: the mom video because you're curious. You're asking Mandy about

533
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: the sex club and now it's a weener. What do

534
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: you wanted to say? Cock? His dick would be okay

535
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 1: as well, Dick. I mean I feel like, oh, it's

536
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: okay to tell the drug story, but now it's off

537
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 1: his weener. Lizzie, you like you genuinely say weener? Yeah,

538
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 1: because you got me thinking of Nathan's Can we not

539
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 1: not hold on? Hold on, hold hold on? Okay, you

540
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 1: asked your boyfriend like no, no, no, for him, it's dick,

541
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: But like, have you said something about his ween or two? Yeah,

542
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: like when we're not having sex, I would be like

543
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: something about your wieners kind of like my thing. It's

544
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: like it works for me, it works for me, it's

545
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: really help you. Um wait, okay, she lies, Okay, the

546
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: nos okay, wait, but I'm gonna bring it back because

547
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: now we told this whole very unsafe story. But no, lady,

548
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: you don't literally like, can we give tips to the lady? Yeah,

549
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta watch you gotta watch your back,

550
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 1: your front, like because nigga's are weird. I went to

551
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 1: this party the other day and like a couple nigs

552
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 1: are following me around and I'm talking about let's go

553
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: for a walk. Nigga, I don't know you where are

554
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 1: we going? For a white and owner eases right at least,

555
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 1: but the speak Spanish, Portuguese and probably Spanish. But if

556
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: he was fine, and I would go on and walk

557
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: with him, that's true. But the thing is, if you're

558
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: traveling in a group, you have to look out for

559
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 1: your friends. You have to look out for your friends.

560
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 1: But all of you. Yeah, but we would, we would,

561
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 1: we would have taken you down. You know, what's the

562
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: safest thing to do. If you're gonna go and start

563
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: whiling and doing drugs with your friends, you have to

564
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: have one be the test dummy, because you can't all

565
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: do the drugs together. That if the drugs I'm not

566
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: even kidding. What if it's like a drug that like

567
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: knocks you out exactly. That's so like one time what

568
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: you can't have one story. I'm telling you, this is

569
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: no bullshit. People are gonna do it anyway, you know

570
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So like you have to just figure

571
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: out how to do the ship or I tell the

572
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: guy to do it first, Like that's better you take

573
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: the first, yes, if they do. But something is just

574
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 1: have drugs for bitches. That's the thing too, especially if

575
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: you're partnering with like hood niggas. They'd be like, y'all

576
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,479
Speaker 1: want some molly, They'll just have a bag now if

577
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna do a little dip. Not saying I know how,

578
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: I've just learned from friends. Right. I was with some

579
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: home girls this is only like a year and a

580
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 1: half ago, and they wanted to do molly and it

581
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 1: was like four of us and they were about to

582
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: split it up in their drink. I'm like, well, when

583
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: do y'all business do it first? And one of y'all

584
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: died has been called No, I feel you you know

585
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: what I mean? And you say, because how I intended

586
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 1: this out, Like like I really thought we were gonna

587
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 1: be about to have a fucking heart attack. We're not.

588
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: We're talking about weiners and talking about wieners and cops. No,

589
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 1: but white man, no bullshit. If you're gonna do drugs,

590
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 1: even we dog like anything edibles, like you should not

591
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 1: just be all taking the same drug at the same time,

592
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 1: like you have dispersed the ship. Okay, these are the

593
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 1: tips were giving because you know what, you know, this

594
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: should be called you're gonna do it anyway? Yeah, they're

595
00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 1: definitely gonna be called winers and white vans. Yeah, I

596
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,200
Speaker 1: like that. I think you know I've done a lot

597
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: of terrible things. Somehow somebody's looking out for me, because

598
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 1: I am. You're just digging the whole so much. I

599
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 1: have the f that gets in the van, that goes

600
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 1: in the car, that goes okay, but you won't be

601
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: any more. Oh no, no, no, we don't want you

602
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:23,320
Speaker 1: to be body this white girl. Text me. What I

603
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: was gonna say is, but my friends always hold me

604
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: down until you're they're not with you. But we don't

605
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: what you're traveling, you don't leave your friend. No you can't.

606
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: You can't. There's the tip, Like there's the tip, and

607
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: that's it. I think that's because we got to stay

608
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 1: with your friends, like even Vinnie, Like Vinnie and I

609
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 1: go do a lot of our traveling together and are

610
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 1: drugs fun whatever. But like even when he's going to

611
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: suck some niggas, like he's always were always trying to

612
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 1: figure out how to make this happen right to make

613
00:34:58,360 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 1: sure we're saying, because no, you can't bring your home

614
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 1: girl when you're about to like puck the ship out

615
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 1: of this dude, bro, Well, we went to Miami. Definitely

616
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: in front of me. It's a little bit different I

617
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: think for gay men though, because girls a little more

618
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 1: like they're expecting you to be that way, but with

619
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: men they like, I don't know, I will say that

620
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 1: it's just a little different with game in um so

621
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 1: just and even in that regard, like we try our

622
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: best to like maybe we meet the guy for a

623
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 1: drink first, catch the vibes, and then like I'll follow

624
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 1: and trap on his phone or something like that phone trap. Um.

625
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, like in Spain it was hard because when

626
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 1: he was like looking like I have to do this him.

627
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: A lot of women stay with each other on vacation,

628
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: I mean, so I think it's just very important. Like

629
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 1: even if one of your girls do want to hook

630
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: up with somebody, let it happen where you're in control

631
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 1: of the environment. Um, bring it back to your room,

632
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: smash room for the airbb get. Oh, if you have

633
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: an Airbnb, there's extra room, you'd be like, oh, there's

634
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: a couple, you gotta have that extra rooms. I was

635
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: gonna say it's a hotel, Like definitely you meet the

636
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: guy as well, so that you can identify all that

637
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: and just have no problem staying at a bar, at

638
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: the lobby bar while your girlfriend is up stiously, Okay,

639
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 1: that's fair. It's a good friend. Also, my friends, Oh,

640
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: I let them know you're staying the lobby for them,

641
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 1: Like that used to be like a thing. I mean,

642
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 1: or you can watch. I let my friends know you

643
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: can watch, you could join, or you can stay in

644
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: the lobby. But if we go on vacation watch see

645
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: look she but she'd be playing. You know, I don't

646
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: like watching. I don't watch either. But if I'm sucking

647
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: you fine, But like I'm not watching. I did record

648
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 1: my friend. I love watching. I like having three sums,

649
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 1: but like Broadway porn. Yeah, but like I need to start,

650
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,479
Speaker 1: like I like watching. I want to watch my fair

651
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 1: man paid for me to record. You're what I got? Yeah?

652
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: He paid? And didn't she like squirt and you hit

653
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 1: you a little bit? Did um? Well? Okay it wasn't

654
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 1: quite her man, it's her her sugar daddy. He paid

655
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: me to film that much. Yeah, I'm like five, What

656
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't sugar daddy? You still friends? Win? You take you

657
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: out to Vegas too? Oh? Yeah, he does all types

658
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 1: of Wait, wait the girl were you friends with? The

659
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: girl with a sugar daddy. I'm priends with the girl.

660
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 1: That's a great friend. She's like, look, I don't need

661
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 1: to look kid. Yeah that would be me. It was

662
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 1: like a camera with a phone. It's on my phone.

663
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 1: But if if you give me a task, I get

664
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: very dedicated. I was in there, we are looking for

665
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: videographers here well, and she squirted on you and I

666
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: got a little too close, and it was like I

667
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 1: was like, oh, bitch, I forgot that. She being like

668
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,240
Speaker 1: she's like a squirter. She's a she's a real squirter.

669
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: So like, was it you? My last tip? Though? Condoms

670
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,839
Speaker 1: in every purse. I keep a condom in every person

671
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: one or two? What about that person? Look there? Why

672
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 1: you out here? Lying girl? Not for that winner? You

673
00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 1: know I've been I can't say this. You o. You

674
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 1: talked about drugs and getting a white man? Oh or

675
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 1: we've it? Huh no birth control? You better not. And

676
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: that's a p anyway, So let's use this as a break.

677
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 1: Who what we That's what she said pretty much? Where

678
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 1: is so they're just not there? Okay? No? No? Did uh? Well,

679
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 1: we're gonna go ahead and skip the hor derve because

680
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 1: y'all just gave so many tips without giving tips at all.

681
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: It was amazing. I thought you did a wonderful job

682
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:34,800
Speaker 1: at that. Unless you have a quick you have a

683
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 1: quick one. Okay, okay, y'all know, okay, outline, we were

684
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 1: back at it. The hor derv is our sex tipp

685
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: and we're gonna get one from Chelsea the vanilla bean.

686
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 1: Oh that's perfect, good rude, Chelsea. What's your sex strawberry bean?

687
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:59,760
Speaker 1: Because I'm Chelsea Pinky okay girl, All right, okay, okay.

688
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: This might not be a big tip, but some of

689
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 1: us complain about giving blow jobs because like it's too

690
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: much in your mouth. But if you just like put

691
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:12,320
Speaker 1: a toothbrush down there and like train your throat, you

692
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 1: can do deep throat. So training your throat with a toothbrush. Yes,

693
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: let me tell you the problem I have with that

694
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: you're skinny? No, well, it's even even My reflexes work

695
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 1: differently with something that small compared to a dick size. Also,

696
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: it's really weird because as long as I'm looking at

697
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 1: myself in the mirror brushing my tongue, I don't gag.

698
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: When I'm in the shower brushing my tongue. Without the mirror,

699
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: I gag. So also, I just feel like the toothbrush

700
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,800
Speaker 1: charges different gag reflexes because you're doing it yourself. I

701
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 1: think you never brush your tongue and you're like like

702
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: a little too far when I'm not looking in the mirror.

703
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 1: Even the tongue bitch, That's what I'm talking about. That's

704
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 1: that's what I'm talking about. But if I'm in the

705
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 1: mirror a looking at myself, do it bro For whatever reason,

706
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, Maybe it's some kind of what I

707
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 1: don't fucking gag. It's so weird. Well, you probably don't

708
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: need the tip then, because when you're having sex and

709
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: you have something in your mouth, you're not or you

710
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,479
Speaker 1: could have a mirror. Yeah, but that's what I'm saying.

711
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: Your mouth opens a different way when you're sucking dick

712
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:25,840
Speaker 1: then when it's not. It's not training because not training

713
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: your mouth to get big, it's training your throat to

714
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: not gab. What I'm saying is depicting on how your

715
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 1: mouth is open. Though, don't your tongue in your throat

716
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: are probably all right? If I don't take it was okay?

717
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 1: Can I ask a question? I'm going to ask how

718
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: do you breathe at the same but you don't know

719
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 1: how to breathe. I'm genuinely curious. I've ever heard Can

720
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,400
Speaker 1: you ask that question one more time? How do you

721
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,800
Speaker 1: breathe at the same time? I want to do this

722
00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: a heaver, so we can learn right now. Because close

723
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: your mouth. Okay, so close my mouth right now? Are

724
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 1: you not find that I get a little overwhelmed that

725
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 1: I'll be like and then I'm like, see this. I

726
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: don't do this ship because you can have a bathe

727
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: you don't know. You don't know how to just breathe

728
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 1: through your nose when something's in your mouth. It just

729
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 1: doesn't feel I think it's just too Are you able

730
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: to breathe when you shoot food? She's overthinking are you

731
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: a mouth breather? I I will tell you I have

732
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 1: a mouth breather too, because I didn't really realize how

733
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 1: much till the mask because it's like we'll go into

734
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 1: my glasses. But like it's just I feel really hot,

735
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: Like it gets very irritating. But you should be able

736
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 1: to teck a tack. So one day, one day? All right, Well,

737
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 1: we are now going to get into our horrible decision

738
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 1: I wanted each of y'all's thoughts on these various five

739
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 1: things this week. Our horrible decision is the five things

740
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 1: getting in the way of Black women's sex lives. I

741
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: know that we all just gave tips. Uh we talked

742
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 1: about sexting, which was something else, and then with your stories,

743
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 1: y'all shared a ton of them that was amazing, you know.

744
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: But as Black women speaking on this platform, I wanted

745
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: to talk about the things that get in the way

746
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 1: of our sex lives that we may or may not

747
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,800
Speaker 1: even know, uh, could be barriers as to why we

748
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 1: view things a certain way. So the first thing that

749
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 1: is listed this comes from Mind Body gream um website,

750
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 1: by the way, and this whole article is by Ashley Towns,

751
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 1: who is an epidemiologist. Yes, big work, got that, I

752
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 1: practiced it all right. So the first thing that affects

753
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: black women in their sex lives is stereotypes and myths

754
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 1: about black sexuality. Um. It says that a few historical

755
00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 1: images that black women have been labeled as include the mammy,

756
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 1: the Jezebel, the welfare mother, and the angry black woman,

757
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: something that y'all kind of even talked about earlier, like

758
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: just the monolith of it. In general, Black women have

759
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 1: also often been portrayed as being sexually experienced and or

760
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 1: engaging in sexual risk taking behaviors rather than being sexually

761
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 1: responsible and having sexual autonomy of their bodies. One of

762
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 1: the things that they brought up in this which was

763
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 1: really interesting is stereotypes and myths might also play a

764
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: role in dating relationships and sexual behaviors. For example, the

765
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 1: idea or belief that black women are promiscuous may cause

766
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 1: the way to may cause the woman to feel ashamed

767
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 1: of her true sexual identity and behaviors. Now, Weezy and

768
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 1: I had that conversation very early on into this podcast,

769
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: and when I read this, I was like, wow, like

770
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: the words she didn't want to be associated with it

771
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 1: at all, And it could possibly be without us even knowing,

772
00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: because there's just already a negative connotation of that word

773
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: that's often times applied to Black women and no other

774
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: types of women as far as being promiscuous. Um, can

775
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: y'all think of any other stereotypes that work against us

776
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: in dating, sex and relationships. I think the only thing

777
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: is body type that came to mind. I think black women.

778
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:18,839
Speaker 1: You know, we talked about this so much with hap

779
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 1: being shapely and being fast things like that. I think

780
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 1: there's other another one that black women don't suck, but

781
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 1: we've we've have look at most of us. But but hey,

782
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: but they also say like black women don't do you know,

783
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 1: isn't that a thing too? That is the thing too.

784
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: And I think even in sex, the stereotypes of not

785
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 1: being able to touch a black woman's hair and not

786
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: being able to do things, um like that, a lot

787
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 1: of people assume, like, there's a lot of things your hair. Yeah,

788
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 1: well unless I have a cell in, even with a sellin.

789
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: Like if I do have a selle, I'm like, you

790
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: can't like pull it, you can't your hands like him.

791
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 1: Oh that doesn't bother me. I'd be telling me, oh,

792
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna hit something, but go in. But so another

793
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 1: thing I put on my trucks. Another thing I thought

794
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: of because I went to a predominantly white college and

795
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 1: I was in a sorority, um, a very white sorority

796
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: and like the girl don't even know what those are

797
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 1: called about fight the second largest one in the country. Um.

798
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: But anyways, so white people they were doing wild stuff,

799
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 1: and I feel like I kind of like was more

800
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 1: like restricted and restrained because I was like, Okay, I'm

801
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: the only black girl, and it's almost like you have

802
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 1: to represent fear people. You had the Obama flux, so like, God,

803
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: you did classy even though in my brain I wanted

804
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 1: to do some stuff. You felt the need to portray

805
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: yourself in a certain way because I'm the only one,

806
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 1: because like, if a black person represents all black people,

807
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: like you're not allowed to be an individual. That's a

808
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 1: fact that I didn't even think of that. I've been

809
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: at a dinner table recently UM where it was TV

810
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: writers like media people. I was the only black girl,

811
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:16,399
Speaker 1: and when we started talking about the stuff that we're

812
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: working on, one of the things that I am working

813
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: on is very much a black script, and I just

814
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 1: tried to talk about everything else because I just knew

815
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: they were waiting to hear about it. Like I felt

816
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: like that, yes, they wanted to hear me how about

817
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: the black stuff? And I was like, yeah, so what

818
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 1: about you something with the culture? That was a word

819
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: like that, And it's funny with a friend of mine

820
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: and I were trying to name the thing that we're

821
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,320
Speaker 1: working on, and I was like, what's another word for

822
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: black that we can use where niggas will know, but

823
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: they may not. He's like the only other word we

824
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 1: can do like that is culture because true. And I

825
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:55,960
Speaker 1: didn't think about it until I sat at that table

826
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,399
Speaker 1: and they were like, are you doing anything with the culture. Yeah,

827
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: but we talked about We've talked about adultification of black women.

828
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: How like from black on black girls, black girls, Like

829
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: you know black women, black girls tend to develop earlier,

830
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 1: and I think immediately there's like a stigma put on

831
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: them around like how they can move, Like we're both Caribbean,

832
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 1: so like it's just the way you damn yeah, you

833
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: grow up and like you're whining and you're doing things

834
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 1: like going to Carnival, Kitty Carnival, playing mass and like

835
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: that's just a part of I'm like the culture. First

836
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: of all these cheerleading and wearing the tiniest little tops

837
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: and doing all of that ship and shaking and ship

838
00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: just because we do a little home beat. You know

839
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's about to say it's really sexualized.

840
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:42,839
Speaker 1: And that part sucks because yeah, white white kids, I'm sorry,

841
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 1: they do anything. It's just it's just not even cute.

842
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 1: So they get kids, they get to get to be kids.

843
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: Black kids do not get to be kids. They're they're

844
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 1: automatically seen as adults. The way women are moving there,

845
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: they're seeing us fast. I remember I would get in

846
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: trouble if I like sat on man's lap, Like my

847
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 1: mom would be like, don't be sitting on the person. La.

848
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: Even I have a friend now who sends pictures all

849
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:11,280
Speaker 1: the time of celebrity men and their children, and she questions,

850
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 1: is disappropriate because she said she's never kissed her dad

851
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 1: growing up? There was so many things, there's so much trauma.

852
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 1: Who knows what she's experienced, right, And but though there

853
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 1: were so many ways that a young black girl shouldn't

854
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: engage with an adult man, where I was just like,

855
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: but that's her dad, there's nothing that's actually about what's

856
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: going on here, Like your dad can kiss you, your

857
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 1: dad can hug you, your dad can you know what

858
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 1: I mean? So that's another thing that, yeah, maybe kids

859
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 1: don't get to be kids. It's crazy. There's that. The

860
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:45,959
Speaker 1: next one, Uh, we definitely know this is that health

861
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 1: disparities and sexual health care, so education, income level, and

862
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 1: insurance status can affect a person's access to health care

863
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:56,320
Speaker 1: and quality. We know that the next one is hilariously

864
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 1: funny because we just talked about it a lack of

865
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 1: culturally sensitive sex education. So this one I thought was

866
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 1: very interesting because America lacks comprehensive sexually sexuality education in general.

867
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: But in addition, there's a shortage of trained sexuality educations

868
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: and cultural sensitivity and therefore miss many opportunities to black

869
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:22,360
Speaker 1: girls to receive sexually education that is unbiased. I guess

870
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 1: that kind of goes exactly what we were talking about. Yeah,

871
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: even just thinking about anatomy, like, think about every like

872
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 1: book you've read, or like health book, it's always like

873
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: a white person's body. So like, god forbid, your vagina

874
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 1: doesn't look like the one in the book. Maybe you

875
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 1: think something's wrong those stupid ass pink pussy hats. My

876
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 1: vagina is not. It's round, like you know what I'm saying.

877
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 1: So funny you mentioned that because, Um, I slept with

878
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: this dude he's black, like some years ago, and I'll

879
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 1: never forget it. Sorry, I just got my period, you guys,

880
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: I'm feeling so crampy. This guy goes, Um, what do

881
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:01,400
Speaker 1: you say? He was like sometimes when you strain your hair,

882
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 1: you'd be looking like a white girl, but like your

883
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: pussy lets me know, like new mix for real, like

884
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 1: you got some black dude. And I was like, I

885
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 1: don't know about that. Wasn't a white person or black

886
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: was a black dude? And he was like, white girl,

887
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 1: pussy to be looking different and he says they'd be

888
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 1: like kind of bright and they got this little wish.

889
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 1: Oh my god, can we not pussy shame though? No,

890
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 1: but everyone looks different. He said to me that he

891
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: believes that black women, he said Latina's. He was like,

892
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 1: I've just noticed that, like their vaginas are different. And

893
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 1: he said, uh yeah, He's like, you know, your pussy

894
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 1: looks like And I think it reminds me of like

895
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: when Mandy and I have talked about because she's never

896
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: said with a white dude, and I'll talk about like

897
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: the way white dick looks. There's certainly like yes, like

898
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 1: Middle Eastern dudes or like um Eastern European dudes where

899
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 1: their dicks won't look the same either. It's not like

900
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 1: that white boy Alabama dick not Alabama. That's just the

901
00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: whitest thing. I can think. There are both. Okay, now

902
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: I get it of your genitals are different, Yes, I

903
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: want to go past this fourth one because I think

904
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:15,879
Speaker 1: we all know mistrust of medical providers. Uh, that's very

905
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 1: prevalent within Black women and the community. But the last

906
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: one I want to talk about before we get out

907
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 1: of here is the fact that, uh, we oftentimes focus

908
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 1: on prevention instead of pleasure. So sexuality research and sex

909
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:35,760
Speaker 1: education materials reflect black women tend to highlight adverse sexual

910
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 1: and reproductive outcomes such as the rates of unintended pregnancy

911
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 1: and s t I S. Meanwhile, the average sex at

912
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 1: class for black teams seldomensions more positive research UM and

913
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 1: data regarding and a huge survey revealed that tons of

914
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: really hopeful insights a black about Black women's lives. Surveyed

915
00:51:57,480 --> 00:52:00,040
Speaker 1: that they engage in a variety of sexual behaviors and

916
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: most fine that their recent experiences are pleasurable. UM. Most

917
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 1: also have experience in orgasm. But it's just talking about

918
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:12,399
Speaker 1: mainstream conversations regarding Black sexuality and how they oftentimes lead

919
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:17,359
Speaker 1: with the risks and negative sexual outcomes instead of conversations

920
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 1: about black pleasure. Jada Pinkett, she said that she red

921
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 1: Table talked to and how she's talked to Willow about sex.

922
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 1: She was like, you know when I grew up, it

923
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 1: was like, you can get pregnant, you can get AIDS

924
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 1: or whatever disease was how at the time, And she

925
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: was like, I told Willow that, but I also told

926
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: her that it's amazing. She's like, I don't want to

927
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,359
Speaker 1: scare her about sex because it's like a beautiful thing.

928
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,919
Speaker 1: We're all scared for sex. We're all told it's gonna hurt.

929
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 1: I think, even and I'm only thirty, but yeah, if

930
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 1: you have sex, you're gonna get pregnant in and die eventually,

931
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, it's that's what's gonna happen.

932
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:54,800
Speaker 1: I mean, I think. I think because even in sex education,

933
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: we all were taught abstinence, weren't taught how wonderful it is,

934
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:02,520
Speaker 1: or how to enjoy ourselves, how to engage in healthy

935
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 1: conversations with sex. It was just don't have I don't

936
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: know if pleasure is necessarily seraly something I want my

937
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: kids to learn in school, but I think those are

938
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 1: discussions that we should be having, like communally. Like I've

939
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: had a friend's kid who's around sixteen talked to me

940
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 1: about pleasure with sex, and I found that interesting because

941
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: she was embarrassed. Not that her mom is dope, I think,

942
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 1: not that her mom and her couldn't have that combo,

943
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:28,400
Speaker 1: but she was like, oh, I don't want to tell

944
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: my mom was something it feels good. It's weird to

945
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 1: talk my mom that. Yeah. And when she talked to

946
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: me about it, I was like, Oh, it's not like

947
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 1: she has no idea about sex, because she gets it.

948
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 1: She's watched porn at some point. You know, she's sixteen,

949
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 1: you're seeing it, your friends are doing it. But she

950
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 1: genuinely was like, oh, what if it feels like this?

951
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 1: She thought she was going to pee on herself once.

952
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, bit she just squirre

953
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:50,920
Speaker 1: and I can't if she saw a video, you know,

954
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 1: oh my god, you're really you're going with it. You're

955
00:53:56,600 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 1: going you're going with you know what's crazy? Um and

956
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: not to And I'm I'm not a parent, but I'm

957
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: thinking of just psychologically how things happen with people. I

958
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: actually think that pleasure learning in a classroom would probably

959
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 1: be the best setting. And I say that because the

960
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 1: same way there's things that an adolescent teenager or child

961
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: may tell the doctor about themselves because they don't feel

962
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 1: comfortable telling their parents because they there's still stigmas that

963
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 1: they're going to get into trouble and all of these

964
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:32,879
Speaker 1: other things. There are things that we as children would

965
00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: tell a therapist that we would tell uh a doctor

966
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 1: and so in and and and in that setting. I

967
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 1: think a sex education teacher would be someone that a

968
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 1: lot of students will feel open with. I mean again,

969
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 1: and I think I brought it up on another episode,

970
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:53,439
Speaker 1: Dwyane Wade sat and talked about how Zaia Wade coming

971
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: out to him. He feels like lended a helping hand

972
00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 1: to his teacher that was a woman but that identified

973
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 1: as lesbian, and he said that if it weren't for

974
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,760
Speaker 1: that teacher, I don't think Zia would have been comfortable

975
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: coming out to me. So I just feel like there

976
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 1: are people in the community that I think kids would

977
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:12,919
Speaker 1: feel comfortable and it can be done in a cool

978
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:17,320
Speaker 1: chemistry way, like this is how orgasm works. Yeah, the

979
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,359
Speaker 1: indoor friends, the stimulation, the nerves, this that the third

980
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: But like my mom was pretty open with me about sex,

981
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 1: Like I think around four or five, my mom was

982
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: like this is for four or five, I was hunting them.

983
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was masturbating from jump but like

984
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 1: she she was like, this is oral sex, this is

985
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: anal sex, this is vaginal sex, and like very kind

986
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:41,440
Speaker 1: of like and called it the correct name. I call

987
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 1: it correct names, and like I love. I was very comfortable.

988
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 1: I wasn't like, mom, I'm getting it in, but like

989
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 1: because I felt like very much like sex isn't a

990
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,440
Speaker 1: bad thing. I just was it was easier to talk

991
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 1: about it. It was much easier. I mean, what does

992
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 1: that make you? More like want of thought and say

993
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: I was a little thought um, but I think that's

994
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 1: just who I am. I mean, but she wasn't thought

995
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:07,840
Speaker 1: and she was open about it. We were still we

996
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: still with thought about And I think the good thing

997
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:14,400
Speaker 1: about having a teacher too is that yes, you should

998
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 1: talk about pleasure, but you can also like guide it

999
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 1: because and it's an adult guiding the conversation, because otherwise

1000
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:23,720
Speaker 1: it's just them talking to their friends who don't know anything.

1001
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: So like an adult can say, yeah, it does feel great,

1002
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:30,240
Speaker 1: but honestly, there's emotional things and like you're just not mature,

1003
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 1: like Tom tells me about the emotions that they not mentioned.

1004
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: It should just be like a whole like for little

1005
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 1: boys for something. It's very important. Like you know, we're

1006
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 1: telling men to like thick, they're dicking everything, and you

1007
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 1: know we're all at that age I think, just so

1008
00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 1: open to feeling something new and being coming obsessed with it,

1009
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 1: that obsessive stage. And I think what boys can end

1010
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 1: up feeling can cause them a lot of pain later

1011
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 1: in life, Like a lot of these bitches in high

1012
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 1: school birth horas nic is what I'm saying. Hurt people,

1013
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 1: hurt people, and they always remember that one bitch that

1014
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 1: broke their heart in the sixth right her, Damn, this

1015
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:08,919
Speaker 1: is true. I remember, Yeah, I just wanted to funk

1016
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:10,680
Speaker 1: when I was like, I just wanted to get it

1017
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: over with. I'm way more emotional than I was, and

1018
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: I was like a kid, like it's bad. I was

1019
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: a better home in high school. I'm not gonna lie.

1020
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 1: But it's also because we're dealing with grown ass niggas

1021
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: a sorry sorry sorry, that's bottom at a school teacher

1022
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 1: to help God? No, Well, and I agree, and I

1023
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: think that it again. Yeah, I think it is kids

1024
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 1: teaching kids, like you said, because it's not like it's

1025
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,920
Speaker 1: not happening, whether there's education around it or not. There's

1026
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 1: it's happening, you know what I mean? And did you

1027
00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 1: just do or now? I can only imagine with Instagram,

1028
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 1: which I go on Twitter, it's on my timeline. Like now,

1029
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 1: it's way more in your face than it was with us.

1030
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 1: So praying for these kids. Yeah, I gonna hold you.

1031
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: That's a different motherfucking thing. I Before we get out

1032
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: of here, let's do our motherfucking home. Know, if you

1033
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 1: have not yet sent us one, please do. We are

1034
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 1: going through them. You can send it to us at

1035
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. Again, that's our homemail,

1036
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 1: this one. Since it's a couch of women and I

1037
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: think it has all happened to us at some point,

1038
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 1: or maybe we've exuded it. I thought that we could help. Uh,

1039
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 1: it looks like a gentleman asking the title of the head.

1040
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 1: You want to hear the title? How do I flirt

1041
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:30,920
Speaker 1: with girls and not be a creep? Interesting? Hi, Mandy

1042
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 1: and Wheezy. I desperately, I desperately need advice on how

1043
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 1: to talk to women. I've been with my Oh no,

1044
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 1: this is a girl. This is a girl. I have

1045
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 1: been with my husband for fifteen years, but have always

1046
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 1: been super attracted to women. I want to have a

1047
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Speaker 1: threesome so bad, and my husband is down. But with that,

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Speaker 1: with the condition that I bring the girl. My husband

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Speaker 1: is amazing at eating pussy, and my fantasy is for

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Speaker 1: him to teach me during a threesome. Possibly the problem

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Speaker 1: is I have no idea when it comes to talking

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Speaker 1: to women. Ironically, no no game when it comes to

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Speaker 1: talking to women. Ironically, I'm a sex worker and have

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Speaker 1: been for almost twenty years. I have game. I have

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Speaker 1: game for days when it comes to attracting men. But

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Speaker 1: I cannot get out of my shyness when it comes

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Speaker 1: to hitting on women. It's so bad that I've had

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Speaker 1: women hit on me and I've been too shy to

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00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 1: respond even when I wanted to. I just get super

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Speaker 1: awkward and run away. Women are super intimidating and just

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Speaker 1: don't know how to even start. And I just don't

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Speaker 1: know how to start even trying to hit on a woman.

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Speaker 1: What is rude versus not? How can I tell when

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Speaker 1: a girl is bisexual? How do women fart with women?

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Speaker 1: I really don't know. I seriously have zero game, but

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Speaker 1: I want to suck a girl so bad. Please help

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Speaker 1: sign a no game having hope say, I would if

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Speaker 1: you're a sex worker, I would just like break the

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Speaker 1: seal and are you a sex worker and have a

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Speaker 1: threesome first. That way, so you have your first experience

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Speaker 1: with someone who's experienced, and then after that, I think

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Speaker 1: once you know what it's like, you'll be a little

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Speaker 1: bit comfortable fucking women. But initially, I think it's probably

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Speaker 1: really difficult to you don't get out there and just

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01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 1: start floating with someone just off the bat and you

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01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:20,280
Speaker 1: have no experience with that, Like, it's going to be awkward.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you want your husband to lead it, but then

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Speaker 1: at the same time, it may be weird for that person.

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Speaker 1: So honestly, the only thing I do with flirting is

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Speaker 1: tell people they're pretty and it works. What about Okay,

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Speaker 1: tell me if this is a bad advice, because I

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Speaker 1: do not know anything of the realm with women apps,

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Speaker 1: Like I see a lot of people on the apps

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Speaker 1: and they're like that I am a couple seeking blah

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Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah, and I feel like it's easier,

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Speaker 1: Like I've talked to some couples on apps and like

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Speaker 1: I think it's easy to live. I mean, I haven't

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01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 1: done anything, but like I've been curious, so like you know,

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Speaker 1: you start, you bet you see what's going on. You're

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Speaker 1: one of those I talked about women like that cross

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Speaker 1: the bridge. Well, it mostly because I'm like, are they

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01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 1: not forward enough? Because I'd be like, yeah, let's go eat,

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Speaker 1: and then I just pick an expensive restaurant because nobody

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Speaker 1: ever wants to say none to that. Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. They just haven't, like I haven't been

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Speaker 1: able to commit. But anyway, I think it's easier to

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01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 1: talk when you're maybe not in person. You could be

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Speaker 1: a little bit more like flirty via messaging and then

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Speaker 1: I don't know, just set it up and have a

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Speaker 1: couple of shots, be a little flirty. Wants you need

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Speaker 1: to pussy. It'll all go away. Just to get a

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Speaker 1: sex worker since you were one, because you probably have

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Speaker 1: a decent network and they can find you someone once

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Speaker 1: you do that. Like do you learn how to do that?

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Speaker 1: You don't need to learn. They're they're like, literally tell

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Speaker 1: them it's your first time. I think that's the great thing.

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Speaker 1: And she said her man's going to teach her how

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Speaker 1: to eat pussy. You know what I mean is like, actually,

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Speaker 1: you don't even have to go looking. I'm kind of hot.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm meant to like her. Man's going to

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Speaker 1: teach her how to eat the pussy, like because my poorn,

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Speaker 1: my favorite stuff is like teacher doctor Like. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'll also let some if I'm if if I catch

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01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,920
Speaker 1: a vibe with someone and say I'm flirting with them

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Speaker 1: and I feel like they're flirting back, even if they're

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01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 1: not flirting back, I'll make a joke and be like,

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Speaker 1: just so you know, I like girls. So if you're

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Speaker 1: gonna keep flirting with me, this may you know, this

1119
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 1: may go somewhere. And so I let them know a

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Speaker 1: van like I'm I feel like you may be amancing.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you know. I'm gonna take it there

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Speaker 1: if that's what you're into. I had to tell a

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Speaker 1: friend recently who got too wasted, like, oh, I feel

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Speaker 1: so bad. But she's just like really pretty and I

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Speaker 1: have one sex for that for a long time. So

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Speaker 1: she gets wasted. She comes back to my place, She's like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, we gotta watch any Fiance and we're

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Speaker 1: on the couch. She was like, no, we're gonna get

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Speaker 1: in the battle tired bitch. I was like, bro, you

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Speaker 1: can't get in my bed. I'm sorry. I have a

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Speaker 1: second bedroom. You can sleep in there, or you can

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Speaker 1: sleep on this couch, but you can't get in my bed.

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Speaker 1: And she's like why. I was like, you know why,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you said that, because I just take advantage

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Speaker 1: of me. Yeah, yeah, no, I mean I I let

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01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 1: it be very clear and as them when I wanted

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01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 1: her to be like, okay, but yeah, but but but

1138
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 1: how we like jokingly do that. I think it's important

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01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,240
Speaker 1: for if you're interested in that, you could even have

1140
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 1: the joke with you know, saying yeah and my man's

1141
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 1: gonna watch, just to see a reaction. You can jokingly

1142
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 1: throw things out there that you really are comfortable with,

1143
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 1: but just to gauge the temperature in the room. I mean,

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Speaker 1: like should the nigga Oh, I didn't even tell the

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01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 1: story with the nigga met at Jamaica. I let him

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01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:23,120
Speaker 1: know when he comes, I said, well, you know, I

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01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend, so maybe you can join us at

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01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: the sex club. Didn't say much else after that, but

1149
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:30,560
Speaker 1: like I threw out there that he already knew I

1150
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:32,600
Speaker 1: had a boyfriend. I told him how a boyfriend. I said, yes,

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01:03:32,640 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 1: my boyfriend's giving me permission to speak to you, so

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01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:37,400
Speaker 1: he knew what the dynamic was. And then he's like, well,

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01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 1: if I come up, I still want to talking about

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Speaker 1: like a DP situation. I've never done it, but I

1155
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 1: don't know what size that he is, and so I

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01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 1: don't know if I would be inside just imagine me.

1157
01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: And they're like, hey, just technically for this to work,

1158
01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 1: I need to know if you're able. And then I said,

1159
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Speaker 1: my nigga the picture of him, and his response was,

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01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 1: at least you're consistent because they look like brothers. But

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Speaker 1: you know, oh no, they look real close. That's kind

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01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 1: of um and it shows. I guess before we get

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Speaker 1: out of here, what advice would you give with flirting

1164
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 1: or gauging the temperature of another vanilla bean strawberries? This

1165
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Speaker 1: is why I asked her I wanted to vanilla bean

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Speaker 1: take because she's doing sex workers. Then we're both just saying, well,

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Speaker 1: let him know where he puts, y'all, just like and

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Speaker 1: then I just creep on her. So like, from a

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Speaker 1: you're gonna see keep see what wait is? This is

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Speaker 1: where I say, Chelsea, just so you know, I like

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Speaker 1: girls bitch, and then she said it with a smile.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, bit, you've been flirting with me and I'm

1174
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Speaker 1: feeling it. But this is why I said. When she

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Speaker 1: came in the room, she'd be playing. So she's been

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Speaker 1: she's been playing for the last three years. Like I

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Speaker 1: ain't been flirting with her. I'm like, damn, you came

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Speaker 1: They later found him unresponsive naked from the waist down. Um,

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Speaker 1: and they said we do this every month. He came

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Speaker 1: to our sleet and just sweet and just slept on

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Speaker 1: the couch while we parted. We thought he was tired.

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01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 1: After I shook his body, he wasn't responding. In addition,

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Speaker 1: Severn several bottles of whiskey, cans, beer, fried chicken, and

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Speaker 1: dried shrimper on the table as well. They said he

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01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:53,840
Speaker 1: suffered a heart attack after having energetic sex. Is it

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Speaker 1: this is the way you said you would want to

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01:09:55,640 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 1: go out like no, like himself to death. I also

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Speaker 1: mahogany I made the outline for that episode. But Wheezy

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Speaker 1: may very much be into this. Someone said sex at

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Speaker 1: a cemetery. Now, this just let us know you're into necrophilia.

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Speaker 1: You need to can't recruit for this, no, I mean

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01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 1: like it's weird, but also I would like to die

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Speaker 1: this way. But can I ask you? Um? And maybe

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01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:26,240
Speaker 1: we could also ask someone in the audience. You guys,

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01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:29,080
Speaker 1: feel free to raise your hand. And he's been on

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Speaker 1: clubhouse so long, she's someone in the audience. Yeah, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I'll be on clubs like a motherfucker. I wanted to

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Speaker 1: know if this would cause you trauma as someone who

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Speaker 1: was a part of it, So you're not dying wheezy,

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Speaker 1: But if you were to have a group sex, like

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Speaker 1: if you killed somebody with my pussy, would you have

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01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 1: PTSD afterwards? I feel like that sells the pussy more

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01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:55,479
Speaker 1: like if you let's just say, for example, I'm not

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01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:57,320
Speaker 1: and this is fucked up, but like, let me just

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01:10:57,360 --> 01:11:00,400
Speaker 1: give you an example. My weird guy you guys, no, Well,

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Speaker 1: you'll hear on the episode coming up from Moca Fes

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01:11:02,320 --> 01:11:04,720
Speaker 1: that I almost fucking went like I almost died from

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01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:06,800
Speaker 1: his weed and I made a joke in my week

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01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:08,639
Speaker 1: I like you tell people sent me to the hospital

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01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 1: and he was like I am so Like, imagine if

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01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 1: you sucked a guy and he died and the next

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01:11:14,560 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 1: guy year about, you'll be like, yo, we gotta re talk.

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Speaker 1: Someone did bring it up. Yes, my mom did have

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01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 1: sex with a guy who had a heart attack and

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01:11:24,040 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 1: she had to get him dressed before the ambulance came.

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01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 1: So maybe when I get her out of the house

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01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 1: because she has a boyfriend now, I would love to

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01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 1: hear if she has trauma regarding a man having a

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Speaker 1: fucking heart attack in the middle of sex and her

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01:11:40,000 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 1: having to pretty much dress a guy who's almost about

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01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:48,759
Speaker 1: to be dead while the ambulance comes. Honestly, I really

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01:11:48,960 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 1: I think your mom is a champion for it. And

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Speaker 1: as someone who works in the medical field. Someone said,

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01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 1: my last words need to be sucking me harder, bitch. Okay,

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01:11:56,960 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 1: hold on, Jamie Williams said this, tell him this pussy

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01:12:00,000 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 1: caught a body. I kind of like, you know what,

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01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:07,040
Speaker 1: I don't know why we haven't yet, and wheezy, it

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01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:10,280
Speaker 1: may take some time to get our tones together as rappers,

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01:12:10,760 --> 01:12:14,400
Speaker 1: but I would love to make a horrible decisions. This

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01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:18,600
Speaker 1: pussy is a killer type of anthem. I think it

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01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:20,759
Speaker 1: would go viral, and I think it would be amazing

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01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:23,680
Speaker 1: because he's had a music podcast for two months and

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01:12:23,760 --> 01:12:26,880
Speaker 1: now she's we need to make a song. Boy, I

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01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:31,240
Speaker 1: call I feel like I called my pussy a rent snapper,

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01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 1: and I know it's a fish, so it's not really good.

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01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:36,760
Speaker 1: But my pussy be snapping, you know what I mean? Okay,

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01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:39,720
Speaker 1: if if your pussy had to be a food, like,

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01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go with a red snapper. Nobody's about

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01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:44,800
Speaker 1: to say I'm a fish, bit, but but it be

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Speaker 1: snapping like it got that I understanding pussy can snap,

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01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:50,280
Speaker 1: but there's other animals that bite, and I'm not growing

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01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:54,360
Speaker 1: with a fish. Um. Let me look this up. I

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01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 1: always google stuff cute names for your pussy a kitty

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01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 1: cat to see duh. Let me look cute names for vagina.

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01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:05,840
Speaker 1: There has to be an article on that a butterfly

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01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 1: because it opens Maria. Why would why would they call

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01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:14,000
Speaker 1: it a Maria. She's definitely Latina and they always want

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01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 1: to bring things back to the Latina community. Okay, Volverine

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Speaker 1: l isn't here in the pink bearded clam, red wagon,

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01:13:25,880 --> 01:13:30,840
Speaker 1: meat curtains, flower for burger. Okay, I don't like any

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01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:34,719
Speaker 1: of these. That's what Cardi B calls it fish lips.

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01:13:35,120 --> 01:13:39,960
Speaker 1: Someone someone said juicy fruit or honeysuckle. I like honeysuckle.

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Speaker 1: That's hot, Miss Kitty. I love that you guys are

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Speaker 1: joining us. Why did you sell it m Z kitty?

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Speaker 1: Miss Kitty, First of all, we didn't ask you for

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Speaker 1: your hot mail scream name. Okay,