Speaker 1: Second date of dating. In the dating world, is it
Speaker 1: easier to meet someone at a wedding or is it harder? Oh? Oh,
Speaker 1: that is a tough question because people, I've always found
Speaker 1: it harder personally. I mean, you go up there, you
Speaker 1: deliver a great pickup line, compliment the girl on her
Speaker 1: beautiful white dress, going for the kiss. I'm getting thrown out.
Speaker 1: Yeah for putting myself out there. I'm sorry one of
Speaker 1: our listeners, and Nate agrees with me because he says
Speaker 1: he met a girl at a wedding and apparently was
Speaker 1: not as easy as he expected it to be. Nate,
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. How you doing, man, how's it going?
Speaker 1: Please don't tell me it was a bride, the mother
Speaker 1: in law, any of it. Yeah. I mean, god, it's
Speaker 1: a crazy story. I oh my god. Wait was it
Speaker 1: someone that was single that you met? She was single? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: brides are technically single until they say I do. They're
Speaker 1: not being engaged to someone else who doesn't qualify you
Speaker 1: as single. Okay, Well that's good to know. Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: learned something here. But go ahead and name who who
Speaker 1: is the woman that she met? What's her name? Okay?
Speaker 1: Her name is Meg? Okay, mega, okay, And I figured
Speaker 1: bringing the professionals, I need help with the situations, okay.
Speaker 1: And did you notice Meg right away at the wedding?
Speaker 1: I did notice her right away. I saw her sitting
Speaker 1: in one of the pews across the aisle, and I'm like, oh, wow, okay,
Speaker 1: she's really attractive. I should try to talk to her.
Speaker 1: And it was pretty much a struggle to even get
Speaker 1: to meet her. What was your strategy to meet her? Well?
Speaker 1: I was first. I was like, oh, maybe we'll be
Speaker 1: at the same table, but of course we weren't. So
Speaker 1: I was actually trying to switch with somebody, like a
Speaker 1: single person at her table. Actually was able to move
Speaker 1: one table closer, but I was still a table too
Speaker 1: far away. And then I was trying to do another
Speaker 1: table over and that didn't work. You can't do that
Speaker 1: at a moundy. Do you know how much time and
Speaker 1: energy goes into like eating charge? Yes? So much. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was eating the fish. I didn't order the fish.
Speaker 1: At this point, you're just taking someone else's chair, So
Speaker 1: you your table hopping, slowly making your way closer and
Speaker 1: closer to her table. Did you ever make it? I
Speaker 1: never made it to your table. You just wait till
Speaker 1: she's up at the bar and then time your drink
Speaker 1: at the same time as hers or yeah, right, that's
Speaker 1: exactly what happened. It's so great. Okay. It feels almost
Speaker 1: like you were trying too hard, like it could have
Speaker 1: probably happened organically. Saw you really trying to force it.
Speaker 1: If she saw each table you getting closer and closer,
Speaker 1: that wouldn't be a little bit creepy. Yeah, like the terminator,
Speaker 1: I'm like anything. So was there ever a moment when
Speaker 1: you were able to get some one on one time
Speaker 1: with her? Yeah, finally at the bar. I hear at
Speaker 1: the bar because she's my mom made okay, and I
Speaker 1: go up there and then I tell her that I
Speaker 1: actually have to talk to the groom, which you mind
Speaker 1: bringing the drink over to our table. Oh, he made
Speaker 1: her your waitress for the night. Yeah that was my movie. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I made her my waitress. That's a terrible blue wow.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, yeah, I would love if someone
Speaker 1: that's me. He didn't work. It did work? Oh oh wow? Right,
Speaker 1: So she brought the drink over to the table and
Speaker 1: that was cool. So we were able to talk for
Speaker 1: a little bit, you know, obviously we knew common people
Speaker 1: and it went well. And then I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: would you like to get dinner sometime? And she was
Speaker 1: actually a little surprised. I guess that like I was
Speaker 1: hitting on her at the wedding you know, so stereotypical,
Speaker 1: but oh she didn't pick up that you were hitting
Speaker 1: on her at first, and then finally was like, oh,
Speaker 1: oh wait a minute, like you yeah, yeah, okay, So
Speaker 1: so the wedding night was not considered the actual date
Speaker 1: right now? That was the yeah, that was the meetings. Wow, okay,
Speaker 1: so what was the date? Like, hopefully you didn't make
Speaker 1: her your waitress there too, right though, exactly? So we
Speaker 1: went out for dinner and uh, that went really well,
Speaker 1: Like we got to know each other, like chatted a
Speaker 1: bit and we had some fun and uh what was
Speaker 1: the vibe? Like were you nervous? I mean on her
Speaker 1: side and your side? Well, she actually called me out,
Speaker 1: she said, did you stage that whole waitress thing? Did
Speaker 1: you just to meet me? She pulled me out, and
Speaker 1: I actually I was like, yeah I did. But it
Speaker 1: started out really good. We were being playful with each other. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And it's a good sign when somebody can give you
Speaker 1: crap you know, like, yeah, and you can take it,
Speaker 1: you give it back like that's a good dynamic. Someone's
Speaker 1: laughing at your creepiness. Then there's a moment. So how
Speaker 1: did the rest of the night go? Well? Okay, So
Speaker 1: then she did say that she talked to the bride
Speaker 1: about me, and she wouldn't say exactly what she said,
Speaker 1: but she just said that I would be trouble. No,
Speaker 1: wait are you? I mean at the wedding. Were you
Speaker 1: the groom's friend or the bride's friend I didn't know,
Speaker 1: or both the groom's friend. Why would she say that
Speaker 1: your trouble because obviously don't know you. I'm such a
Speaker 1: great guy, I don't I have no idea. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean typically, like if I were to say that about
Speaker 1: one of my husband's buddies, it's be because they drink
Speaker 1: a lot there with multiple different women all the time,
Speaker 1: very attractive qualities. Yeah, like you know you. Yeah, there's
Speaker 1: a rumor about you. Well, how did the date end?
Speaker 1: So then it was the next stage. We went to
Speaker 1: one of those arcade bar places, so it continued. She
Speaker 1: was still into it. Okay, So we were having fun
Speaker 1: there and then she kissed me in front of street Fighter.
Speaker 1: Oh does that mean something? It's interesting the way that
Speaker 1: you said it, though you said she kissed you, is that?
Speaker 1: Is that what it was? She kissed you at the
Speaker 1: street fighter? Or did you kiss her? Okay? Well I
Speaker 1: kissed her, but she kissed me back, okay, okay, so
Speaker 1: it was your move, it wasn't her move, all right, right,
Speaker 1: so it was just typical. And did you make any
Speaker 1: plans to see each other again? We were just like, oh,
Speaker 1: we'll talk and we'll set up something. And then, of
Speaker 1: course this is what I'm calling. I haven't heard from
Speaker 1: her since she hasn't responded to any texts. You have
Speaker 1: text or probably three or four times. Maybe she talked
Speaker 1: to the bride again. Yeah, yeah, we'll find out what
Speaker 1: really happened. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back,
Speaker 1: we'll call Meg for you, and we'll try and get
Speaker 1: your second date up date. All right, Yeah, that's great things,
Speaker 1: all right, Nate, hold one. When you think of the
Speaker 1: most romantic Hollywood moments of all time, there's Jack and
Speaker 1: Rose kissing on the bow with a Titanic Noah and
Speaker 1: Ali's passionate kiss in the rain from the Notebook, and
Speaker 1: of course our listener Nate and his date Meg swapping
Speaker 1: saliva in front of the street Fighter video. Hey, that's
Speaker 1: the sound of their tongues punching each other anyway. But
Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Nate had a nice dinner date
Speaker 1: with a girl named Meg, followed by a little arcade action,
Speaker 1: but afterwards she's been blowing him off and he wants
Speaker 1: to know why. So, Nate, how you feeling before we
Speaker 1: call her? I'm so really good honestly. I mean, I
Speaker 1: hate to say this, but I'm thinking she could be
Speaker 1: the one. WHOA, that's pretty quick. I mean, I just
Speaker 1: we just didn't get that sense from the you know,
Speaker 1: talking to you a second ago. No, No, I really
Speaker 1: love I love her. Whoa, you just set it again.
Speaker 1: I mean I love being with her. Oh wow. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: So now I'm started to think the reason she's not
Speaker 1: calling you is maybe you came on too strong. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I never say anything like that in front of her.
Speaker 1: I'm just feeling really positive. Okay, Okay. There's a lot
Speaker 1: writing on this now, so up. It makes me want
Speaker 1: to make in front of a street Fighter machine though,
Speaker 1: I'm going to get those types of feelings. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm worried. I need to bring a machine around with me. Okay, No,
Speaker 1: don't do that. That doesn't make sense. I think. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we all need to stop talking and just call up
Speaker 1: Meg and figure out what's going on. You ready, man,
Speaker 1: I'm ready. Okay, here we go. I'm a dollar number
Speaker 1: right now. Hello, Hey, I'm looking for Meg. Um. This
Speaker 1: is Maggie. Who who's calling Maggie? Oh? Is that is
Speaker 1: mag Do you go by Meg? Ever? Um? My friends
Speaker 1: call me Meg, but I don't know who you are.
Speaker 1: I mean, hopefully we can do after we're done with this.
Speaker 1: But we're calling on behalf of one of our listeners
Speaker 1: who went out on a date with you recently. Okay, again,
Speaker 1: still awkward and not really sure? Like okay, that's pretty
Speaker 1: part for the course with these we're doing something called
Speaker 1: a second date update. That's where if you go out
Speaker 1: with someone and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back,
Speaker 1: you can email our show for help and we'll reach
Speaker 1: out to them for you to help you figure out
Speaker 1: the reason why. And so the listener that we're calling for.
Speaker 1: His name is Nate. Oh yeah, I know Nate. Ate. Okay,
Speaker 1: do you like Nate? Maybe I should just say how
Speaker 1: do you feel about Nate. I mean, Nate's a funny guy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we didn't speak with Nate a little bit earlier, and
Speaker 1: he told us all about how you guys met. He
Speaker 1: told us about your dinner date and go into the
Speaker 1: arcade together, and he said there was even a kiss
Speaker 1: that you guys had at the end of the night.
Speaker 1: So from our end, it all sounded pretty good. He's
Speaker 1: a little bit confused why afterwards you're not calling him
Speaker 1: back though. I mean, he's a nice guy and all,
Speaker 1: and like we did have a pretty fun date. I
Speaker 1: just wasn't sure. I'm not sure how to proceed. I'm
Speaker 1: not really sure if I want to pursue it. So
Speaker 1: that's why I've just kind of been like radio is silent.
Speaker 1: I just don't want to give the wrong impression or
Speaker 1: the wrong idea to him. Can I ask? Because he
Speaker 1: did mention that you told him that the bride of
Speaker 1: the wedding said that he was trouble. Is that what
Speaker 1: you're referring to? I mean, is it just because of
Speaker 1: something she told you. I don't want to embarrass him, because,
Speaker 1: like I said, she's a nice guy. He's a funny dude. Well,
Speaker 1: he probably wants to know, Like if somebody was saying
Speaker 1: stuff behind your bad yeah, you know, warning people about you,
Speaker 1: you'd want to know what they were saying and to
Speaker 1: defend a little bit. A lot of time, rumors aren't
Speaker 1: exactly that it could be not even true. Yeah, totally.
Speaker 1: This isn't a rumor. This was like one true. I
Speaker 1: saw it with my own eyes. She saw it, so
Speaker 1: she warned you. What did you see at first? But
Speaker 1: she was like, you know, you gotta be cautious. I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, if he a criminal, does he have
Speaker 1: a record. Yeah, but it wasn't that. It may be
Speaker 1: worse depending just how you look at it. She told
Speaker 1: me that he loves to dance, but he is terrible,
Speaker 1: Like he's a terrible dancer, but just doesn't like he's
Speaker 1: so oblivious about how bad he is. Oh, I don't
Speaker 1: think there could be Like, dude, if people love to dance, like,
Speaker 1: just let him dance. Who cares if it looks like
Speaker 1: an idiot? Do you want to date that person? What
Speaker 1: do you want? That person is so fun at a party,
Speaker 1: Like everybody loves that person, no matter how terrible they
Speaker 1: So you saw what you saw him dance at the
Speaker 1: wedding before you said yes to a date. But the
Speaker 1: difference is Brooke knows that she's like a mediocre dancer.
Speaker 1: The bride says that he's oblivious to it. But but
Speaker 1: you said yes after you saw him dance at the wedding.
Speaker 1: I didn't really see him dancing that much at the
Speaker 1: wedding because there's a lot going on, a lot of
Speaker 1: people are dancing. Yeah, so wait, when did you see
Speaker 1: him dance then? So we went obviously, you know, we
Speaker 1: went to an arcade bar, and of course they had
Speaker 1: dance dance Revolution. This is the whole realm of dancing.
Speaker 1: But nobody's nobody looks good when they do dd. They
Speaker 1: look like idiots. I mean, it's just like stepped up.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Like when he saw he was like
Speaker 1: a well Kim at Canning Sports, like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: oh my god, oh my god, we have to play
Speaker 1: and we have to play. That's like twenty thirty minutes.
Speaker 1: He is just like going to town. Oh no, was
Speaker 1: he so sweaty? He was? It was just so bad.
Speaker 1: Like he's just kept getting these really low scores and
Speaker 1: he's like, I do understand what's happening. He's not doing well.
Speaker 1: So wait, you just sat there and watched him do
Speaker 1: this for twenty to thirty minutes. I felt like so
Speaker 1: like people are looking. I felt awkward. How do you
Speaker 1: tell someone like maybe we should stop? Like at one point,
Speaker 1: I watched the bar to replyished my drink. Oh no,
Speaker 1: like you go, you go, you get yourself down to drink.
Speaker 1: He's like, I don't want to lose my game. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll defend a bad dancer forever. But that, I mean,
Speaker 1: it's almost like borderline rude. Yeah, he's ignoring you for
Speaker 1: thirty minutes. I don't think he probably didn't even realize.
Speaker 1: Yeah he was doing that. But I think maybe we
Speaker 1: could find out by asking him. Because Meg, I need
Speaker 1: to tell you or sorry, excuse me, Maggie. I know
Speaker 1: we're not friends yet, Maggie, I need to let you
Speaker 1: know we are. Nate's been on the other line listening
Speaker 1: and he wants to talk to you. Oh, oh god,
Speaker 1: I am on the other line, and I will say
Speaker 1: that you were getting some terrible scores yourself. Oh why
Speaker 1: are you being defensive? Dude need to come in like
Speaker 1: that because we ragged on his DDR skills the claws come.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even take it that seriously, Like
Speaker 1: I wasset about getting low scores, like you were devastated
Speaker 1: that you were getting low scores on Dance Dance Revolution,
Speaker 1: Like there's a bigger difference. I don't know. I mean,
Speaker 1: you're acting like you should be on Dancing with the
Speaker 1: Stars or something, and that's not the case. I'm not.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't. I'm not. I don't think I
Speaker 1: should be on Dancing with the Stars. I'm not thinking
Speaker 1: so I don't even think that matters. I think what
Speaker 1: matters is you were more concentrated on this game for
Speaker 1: half an hour than your date. You center to the
Speaker 1: bar by yourself to get it. I don't think it
Speaker 1: did well. Let's thinking a good strict I am a
Speaker 1: great dancer. Okay, your scorer on the game would beg
Speaker 1: to differ, but that game was a polish. One of
Speaker 1: the senses is broken. Okay, Okay, I think we're learning
Speaker 1: a lot more about how gonna tell you something. It
Speaker 1: definitely wasn't broken because the person who like went right
Speaker 1: before him before this whole thing started, that a really
Speaker 1: high score. Its because he works there. Okay, he thought
Speaker 1: they're all us. He knows the senses not working right,
Speaker 1: he knows how to use it. Okay, I think we're
Speaker 1: missing the point of this. Hall. I thought you wanted
Speaker 1: to go out with her again. Remember how much you
Speaker 1: like her? You really like her? Yes, well, I'm actually
Speaker 1: doesn't seem to like my dancing. I mean, now what,
Speaker 1: It's not even just about the dancing anymore. It's just
Speaker 1: about the delusion right now that I'm listening to. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm a great dancer. There's nothing delusional about that. So
Speaker 1: to be clear, if he had scored higher once revolution game,
Speaker 1: then you would be interested. I don't think any score
Speaker 1: would really impress the I mean, the fact of the
Speaker 1: matter is, I was pretty much ignored for such a
Speaker 1: good amount of time. I just really don't understand, like
Speaker 1: how you could ignore your date to just try to
Speaker 1: get the highest score possible and not realize, like when
Speaker 1: you're constantly failing, Like you know, I really, I'm no,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna send videos of me dancing you can see,
Speaker 1: but a dance for you. Okay, I'm going to block
Speaker 1: your number right now. Listen. I don't take so much offense.
Speaker 1: You know, dancings like art, it's in the eye of
Speaker 1: the beholder. Look, man, if I was you, I would
Speaker 1: not listen to Brooks. She's a really, really bad dancer.
Speaker 1: I would just stop the dancing altogether and focus on
Speaker 1: the relationship. If you guys have a connection, that's what
Speaker 1: we need to be focusing on. There is no relationship.
Speaker 1: There's no connection, there's nothing like. I'm done. I just
Speaker 1: we'll hold on before you're done. I do need to
Speaker 1: ask you if you would like to go out on
Speaker 1: another date with names. We'll pay for dancing. There won't
Speaker 1: be any dancing. I don't think anything you can't hear
Speaker 1: see that? Yeah, who knows. He could take me to
Speaker 1: a restaurant and next thing I know, there's a dance
Speaker 1: floor opening up. You would be so wealthy if dancefloor
Speaker 1: opened up in the middle of a restaurant and we
Speaker 1: were there. Yeah, you will find your dancing partner. I
Speaker 1: just don't think it's Maggie. I have to say, you
Speaker 1: guys really blew it for me. You know I'm the
Speaker 1: one that was fighting for you. Dude, you're professional. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're the professionals at blowing it. Yeah, that's why maybe
Speaker 1: we should rename this segment blowing it with Broke and Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: It will get a lot of Google clicks. Okay, text
Speaker 1: into seven eight, five nine two. If you have a
Speaker 1: promising love interest, call us and we'll find a way
Speaker 1: to blow it for Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: I feel like if people are bad dancers, and you
Speaker 1: just acknowledge that you're a bad dancer, you're five hundred
Speaker 1: percent more likely to get another day. Yeah. Absolutely, Like
Speaker 1: if you're oh, I suck but I love it, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you just make fun of yourself for it. But if
Speaker 1: you deny it and you fight it and you have
Speaker 1: no self awareness, that's not attractive. Fringe, And that's why
Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Nate, had such a hard time
Speaker 1: getting another date. He doesn't take criticism. Well, no, but
Speaker 1: I do appreciate a man who loves to dance. Sure,
Speaker 1: even if they're terrible. I love it. Dance revolution. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they have fun with it. But wasn't having fun. He
Speaker 1: was very serious. Yeah. If he didn't ignore his date
Speaker 1: the entire time, I would have been fine with it,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, But unfortunately he did all the things wrong,
Speaker 1: and so that's why Nate ended up dateless by the
Speaker 1: end of this second date. Does anyone else want to
Speaker 1: go play some DDR with me, though flip flops right now.
Speaker 1: That wouldn't work for dance dance. Remember, if you want
Speaker 1: to get a second date update, email the show. We'll
Speaker 1: call the person into us and calling you back