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Speaker 1: Second date of dating. In the dating world, is it

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Speaker 1: that is a tough question because people, I've always found

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Speaker 1: it harder personally. I mean, you go up there, you

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Speaker 1: Yeah for putting myself out there. I'm sorry one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, and Nate agrees with me because he says

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Speaker 1: he met a girl at a wedding and apparently was

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Speaker 1: not as easy as he expected it to be. Nate,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. How you doing, man, how's it going?

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Speaker 1: Please don't tell me it was a bride, the mother

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Speaker 1: in law, any of it. Yeah. I mean, god, it's

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Speaker 1: a crazy story. I oh my god. Wait was it

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Speaker 1: someone that was single that you met? She was single? Yeah? Okay,

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Speaker 1: brides are technically single until they say I do. They're

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Speaker 1: as single. Okay, Well that's good to know. Yeah, I've

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Speaker 1: learned something here. But go ahead and name who who

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Speaker 1: is the woman that she met? What's her name? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Her name is Meg? Okay, mega, okay, And I figured

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Speaker 1: bringing the professionals, I need help with the situations, okay.

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Speaker 1: And did you notice Meg right away at the wedding?

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Speaker 1: I did notice her right away. I saw her sitting

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Speaker 1: in one of the pews across the aisle, and I'm like, oh, wow, okay,

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Speaker 1: And it was pretty much a struggle to even get

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Speaker 1: to meet her. What was your strategy to meet her? Well?

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Speaker 1: I was first. I was like, oh, maybe we'll be

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Speaker 1: far away. And then I was trying to do another

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Speaker 1: at a moundy. Do you know how much time and

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Speaker 1: energy goes into like eating charge? Yes? So much. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was eating the fish. I didn't order the fish.

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Speaker 1: At this point, you're just taking someone else's chair, So

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Speaker 1: you your table hopping, slowly making your way closer and

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Speaker 1: at the same time as hers or yeah, right, that's

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Speaker 1: exactly what happened. It's so great. Okay. It feels almost

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Speaker 1: probably happened organically. Saw you really trying to force it.

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Speaker 1: that wouldn't be a little bit creepy. Yeah, like the terminator,

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Speaker 1: I'm like anything. So was there ever a moment when

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Speaker 1: bringing the drink over to our table. Oh, he made

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Speaker 1: So she brought the drink over to the table and

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Speaker 1: so what was the date? Like, hopefully you didn't make

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Speaker 1: her your waitress there too, right though, exactly? So we

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Speaker 1: there and then she kissed me in front of street Fighter.

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Speaker 1: so it was just typical. And did you make any

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Speaker 1: we'll call Meg for you, and we'll try and get

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Speaker 1: your second date up date. All right, Yeah, that's great things,

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Speaker 1: all right, Nate, hold one. When you think of the

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Speaker 1: of course our listener Nate and his date Meg swapping

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Speaker 1: So now I'm started to think the reason she's not

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Speaker 1: right now. Hello, Hey, I'm looking for Meg. Um. This

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Speaker 1: mag Do you go by Meg? Ever? Um? My friends

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Speaker 1: a second date update. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 1: His name is Nate. Oh yeah, I know Nate. Ate. Okay,

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Speaker 1: exactly that it could be not even true. Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 1: This isn't a rumor. This was like one true. I

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Speaker 1: we're the professionals at blowing it. Yeah, that's why maybe

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Speaker 1: That wouldn't work for dance dance. Remember, if you want

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