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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 1: She couldn't She cleaned and cared for her children and

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Speaker 1: the man of the house, and of course she didn't

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Speaker 1: talk back. She was both obeat, hint and soft by nature.

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Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made good choice.

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Speaker 2: That ship, We're Good Mom's Bad Choices. Two single mom

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Speaker 2: who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all their bad choices

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Speaker 2: and found.

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Speaker 3: Out they were so bad after all.

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Speaker 2: We're experts. Over shares and your new besties.

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Speaker 3: Sit back and enjoy the ride.

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Speaker 2: I can do a bad alone mom. I can do

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Speaker 2: he me Mom, Flowers.

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Speaker 3: I can play it back powers play as we have lived.

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Speaker 3: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 2: I'm Mela and I'm Erica, and we are live on YouTube,

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Speaker 2: y'all for the first time ever. We've got our shit together,

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Speaker 2: and we are recording a live podcast, yes, with our

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Speaker 2: online community and YouTube. So if you want to join

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Speaker 2: the show and report live and get it early, then

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Speaker 2: you need to come subscribe to YouTube because we're gonna

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Speaker 2: do it once a month.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we're doing it on the third week of the month.

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Speaker 3: I want to say a specific day, but I don't

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Speaker 3: even want to put that pressure on us because it

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Speaker 3: should be changing. Let's just say it's the third day,

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Speaker 3: the third week of the month. We shall be going

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Speaker 3: YouTube live.

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Speaker 2: Keep your eyes field. I am.

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Speaker 3: We're in LA right now and I'm seeing all the

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Speaker 3: people in the chat. I just want to say hello

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Speaker 3: to everybody in the chat. This is so dope to

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Speaker 3: see all of you guys and be able to read

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Speaker 3: all of your chats live.

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Speaker 2: This is so cool, I know. I'm like, this is

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Speaker 2: this is what we've been waiting for. Feel interactive. Oh

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Speaker 2: my god, Oh my goodness. Someone said, I'm so glad

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Speaker 2: you guys are officially back. Don't ever leave us alone

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Speaker 2: along like that again. That was a long time.

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Speaker 3: I know, we were gone for a long time. We

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Speaker 3: needed to shut the fuck up for a secondly, But

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Speaker 3: now we really needed to shut the fuck up. We

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Speaker 3: really needed to just go integrate all the things that

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Speaker 3: we've learned over the last six years. We've shared so

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Speaker 3: much with you guys, of our lives and also the

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Speaker 3: lives of other people, and just learned so share so

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Speaker 3: much knowledge with you. I felt like every week I

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Speaker 3: even the things that we were sharing with one another.

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Speaker 3: It was just like we were onto the next, onto

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Speaker 3: and scorpial vibes and you know, not just share so

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Speaker 3: much and actually go live life. So I'm excited to

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Speaker 3: last nine months over the next.

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Speaker 2: Forty eight episodes of the year. I am too. I'm excited,

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 3: So there's big news, big, major motherfucking news. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if you know, but you're engaged, bitch.

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Speaker 2: just I'm having separation anxiety. She's like, okay, I'll get

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Speaker 3: Jamila got engaged over the weekend. Orlando proposed to her

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Speaker 3: Then it wasn't just a good mom's bad choices season

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was totally shocked in surprise. It was really nice.

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Speaker 3: And then like literally an hour later, RSVP Mela. I

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Speaker 2: I literally had no idea, not even to the second

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Speaker 2: I was like pouring a shot. Orlando was like, hurry up.

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Speaker 2: He's like, well, split it, and he told me and

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Speaker 2: I was like huh. I was like, what the fuck

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Speaker 2: I feel like like like Cinderella, like a fairy tale,

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Speaker 2: woke up the next morning like Hose with Hope. Hose

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Speaker 2: with Hope. That's our new nonprofit foundation. So if anyone

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Speaker 2: wants to join Hose with Hope, it just means once

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Speaker 2: you're a hope, you're probably still a hope, but now

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Speaker 2: I gonna be? A late life fitness?

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00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,399
Speaker 3: Remember the TikTok star on the Rise too?

431
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, TikTok. I'm also TikTok. Well now I'm not

432
00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,680
Speaker 2: TikTok stars Rise because TikTok's about to get banned, so

433
00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:29,800
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be and it's do you think it's gonna

434
00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:31,399
Speaker 2: get banned? No sounds gonna buy it.

435
00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:34,320
Speaker 3: I saw that there was some other app, some like

436
00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,800
Speaker 3: Chinese app that was like number one on Apple and

437
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 3: it was like literally like in Chinese like it was

438
00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 3: I couldn't even read what the fuck is said.

439
00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:42,560
Speaker 2: Over there.

440
00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,320
Speaker 3: But then there's also Isaac Kayes's son has one called

441
00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,160
Speaker 3: fan Base that everyone keeps talking about, and it's basically

442
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 3: like a subscription app too for content creators, but it's

443
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,680
Speaker 3: created by a black man. I think he's got like

444
00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 3: a lot of funding for it. I think he has

445
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 3: like five million dollars in funding. I saw Tamika Mawori

446
00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 3: post about it today actually, and I joined, but I

447
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,880
Speaker 3: haven't been able to explore it yet. But I don't

448
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 3: know what it is about, Like why we trust these

449
00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:12,680
Speaker 3: like foreign apps more than we would like be quick

450
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,960
Speaker 3: to support a black owned app like that?

451
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 2: Historically, if you've ever been on Black People Meet dot com,

452
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:28,680
Speaker 2: you know it. It's glitchy over there? What is it?

453
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 2: Black peopleneed dot com? Black planet was lit? Was it glitch? No?

454
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:33,880
Speaker 3: It worked great?

455
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 2: Okay, I never got to black Planet air. I'm just kidding.

456
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 2: I think we should support our people, we support our

457
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 2: we should support our own shit, we support our own people.

458
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 2: I'm ten tones down with that. I do want the

459
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 2: technology to be up to part though, so that's all

460
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 2: that I ask. But I'll go over there, what is

461
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,680
Speaker 2: it called fan base. Fan base. Yeah, look, it looks

462
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 2: like it's it looks like they're doing some stuff over there.

463
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,239
Speaker 2: Is TikTok isn't the same thing.

464
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 3: I haven't explored it yet, but I did download it.

465
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:01,840
Speaker 2: Step one.

466
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 3: I'm also not a technology I mean, okay, I'm not

467
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 3: going to say that I am a technology person because

468
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 3: I am decent at it. I just don't fully enjoy technology,

469
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 3: specifically social media apps, and so I've been slow to

470
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 3: add another fucking platform to my thing.

471
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I never opened the new what is it? The Instagram?

472
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 2: Twitter threads? Threads? Is that still a thing? That's just dying?

473
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 2: I barely can get on like I used to do Twitter,

474
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 2: and I can barely figure it out. I don't know

475
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 2: where black Twitter is still.

476
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 3: And I just I've be seeing like I'm trying to

477
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 3: promote threads in my like in my feed, and then

478
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,440
Speaker 3: I click it and then I can't. So I'm like,

479
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 3: fuck this shit.

480
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 2: I'm not as far as I get too like what

481
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 2: they say. Oh never mind. Remember the other one, Clubhouse?

482
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,360
Speaker 3: Oh my god, remember when everyone was stressing us out

483
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,400
Speaker 3: about getting on Clubhouse and how we were missing out

484
00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 3: on thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars, like this

485
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 3: is the problem, Like it's all this hysteria and like

486
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 3: people literally start freaking out about shit and focusing all

487
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 3: their attention all obsessing over things. Literally, this is like

488
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 3: with part like this was really stressful for me. Clubhouse

489
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:18,920
Speaker 3: in particular were clubhouse stars. Literally Clubhouse made me feel

490
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 3: like I was not doing enough and I was already

491
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 3: talking every week.

492
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 2: You want me to talk more, but don't you remember

493
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 2: our friends that you're missing out? Who was it?

494
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 3: It was a lot of you. It was like three

495
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 3: people specifically that I can think of. They were like,

496
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,600
Speaker 3: you're missing out on thousands and thousands of dollars. You're

497
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 3: not you don't have your own club, you don't have

498
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 3: your own room, Like you're not on their weekly like

499
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 3: daily talking.

500
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 2: I was like, I didn't understand when people were on

501
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 2: there all day fucking talking, particularly Joe Beden. He was

502
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 2: doing so much talking there. And do you remember there's

503
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 2: a couple there's like five main clubhouse people who were

504
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 2: talking so much. It made me wonder if they had

505
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:57,879
Speaker 2: any friends. Sorry, there was just like few people in

506
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 2: there who were I would just the alert will go

507
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 2: off every second, and I said, wow, they have no friends,

508
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 2: people have people then had more time on them. It

509
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 2: was that around. It was.

510
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 3: It was it was pandemic times. Yeah. Yeah, people had

511
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,360
Speaker 3: a lot of time on their hands. So I don't

512
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 3: I don't know. I just I never got into the

513
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:16,880
Speaker 3: clubhouse thing.

514
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:22,160
Speaker 2: It was it was too much for me. Anyway. Anyway,

515
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 2: enough of the enough of the socials that we don't

516
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:35,399
Speaker 2: understand and we won't get on.

517
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 3: Well, we have some people that actually have some questions

518
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 3: for us in this social on YouTube.

519
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 2: Live okay, tell the.

520
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 3: Bridget are asked, are we going to do any type

521
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 3: of tour this year? This is our tour. We're alive

522
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 3: right now. We're live with you right now, babe, this

523
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 3: is our tour. Welcome live from La.

524
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 2: You know, you know the thing about the Tories. Imagine,

525
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 2: imagine this picture.

526
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 3: This paint the picture, babe, just let them know.

527
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 2: Let me just paint the picture for your close your eyes.

528
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 2: It's you, your best friend and your nigga, just the

529
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 2: three of you. It's beautiful. You book your flights, you

530
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 2: get your hotels, and then you pack about tucas four

531
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 2: to six suitcases. Two of them are merch books, heavy ones,

532
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 2: and then two of them are your wardrobe because guess what, babe,

533
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 2: you're styling yourself. That means you have no Let me

534
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 2: correct ourselves because bitches like us, we want to have

535
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 2: two outphit changes because we're not you know who we are,

536
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 2: We're the fucking two show, fucking blue Man group. Okay,

537
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 2: with an outfit change. So we have. You have fourteen

538
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 2: stage outfits that you rush to figure out what the

539
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 2: fuck they're going to be at the last minute. You

540
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 2: threw them in there, and you probably threw in twenty

541
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 2: eight because just in case. These boots, stripper shoes, glitter,

542
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 2: regular outfits, long gloves, longmestones, fish nets, lingre and we

543
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 2: even brought props because we're two extra bitches, I'll giveaways. Okay,

544
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 2: that's that's about three bags there, not to mention the

545
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 2: other clothes you have to wear the other fourteen days

546
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 2: of the tour regular sweats and shit. Okay. Then your

547
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,400
Speaker 2: nigga has his own small, very small carry on because

548
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 2: that's all he will allow. And then we map out,

549
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: map it out. Okay. Sometimes we're flying, sometimes we're going

550
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: on stage really scared, we're drinking tequila, and then we're

551
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 2: going to the next place that night. Or the very

552
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,199
Speaker 2: next morning. And sometimes we say fuckay, we don't need

553
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 2: a plane. We're just gonna do it in a car.

554
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 2: We're gonna drive ourselves, aka, Orlando's gonna drive you.

555
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 3: Oh wait, there's a sex party in New York. Let's

556
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 3: stop by their first. Let's add that to the thing. Yeah,

557
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:47,639
Speaker 3: come on, Oh wait, you want to pay us for

558
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 3: the sex party? Oh sure, come on, let's do it.

559
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 3: It's a paid gig. We gotta stay. Then, then we

560
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 3: say we have to come up with the two hours

561
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 3: of a show. Oh shit, Oh wait, we're stand up

562
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 3: comedians to.

563
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 2: Be Do you want to be comedian? Do you want

564
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 2: to be commedian? Today? I am? Oh do you know

565
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 2: how sexy dance? Because I need to get that in there?

566
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: All right? Can you teach me? Do you know any

567
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 2: strippers or subs in six different cities?

568
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 3: I don't know. Let me find the stripper madam of

569
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 3: every city and the stripper pimp.

570
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 2: Guess who does that? Us? And sometimes in Orlando has

571
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 2: to be the shipper pimp because we all had a

572
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 2: new the work. Okay, so we've got to be a

573
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 2: stripper pimp that do you know how many? Do you

574
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 2: know how many instagrams.

575
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 3: Wait, have you ever have you ever searched strippers New Orleans,

576
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:31,879
Speaker 3: strippers Atlanta?

577
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 2: Then then shippers don't work, no mail shippers, and then

578
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 2: that won't work, so then you have to go see dancers.

579
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 2: So then you just go black athletic, black workout, black fitness,

580
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 2: black Fitness, Washington, DC. Then you start following random men

581
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 2: with muscles that have good smiles. And then you find

582
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 2: out there is a dark web of male shippers, and

583
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 2: like all web cities anyway, that's another thing. So in

584
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 2: addition to that, but then certain strippers don't dance for men,

585
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,360
Speaker 2: so then they let me out. They're out.

586
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 3: They don't they don't do any performances where men are involved,

587
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 3: so they're they're out.

588
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 2: There's a very little there's very little ones that don't

589
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 2: show their penis. You have to tell them, don't show

590
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 2: your penis. And then also sometimes we say we don't

591
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 2: need a supper, we need a sub. Let's find a sub.

592
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 2: So then you're looking at for a sub New York,

593
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 2: calling friends, you're figuring out how to be funny for

594
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: two hours. You have to remember what that funny is.

595
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 2: What are we supposed to do? Did you have to

596
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 2: do your own makeup.

597
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 3: Do you have to find a DJ in every city?

598
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 2: Yes, you have to find a DJ in every city. Okay,

599
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 2: so that's about We've already got about fifteen things we

600
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 2: needed to employ for for this tour. And oh and

601
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,160
Speaker 2: then we have to sell tickets.

602
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 3: There's that part.

603
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 2: We love that power tickets favorite part. Every you know,

604
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 2: you whores, you horse.

605
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 3: You told us to come to your city.

606
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 2: We're friends, right, could we just curse your out for.

607
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 3: You bitches, you fucking you fucking host told us to

608
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 3: come to your city.

609
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 2: And then we're like, we have let's go.

610
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 3: We're like famous, and you start, They're gonna they love us,

611
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: all my friends are, and our tour manager, you've only

612
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 3: sold twelve tickets the shows in four days. Are we

613
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 3: gonna cancel?

614
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 2: Are we gonna cancel? So in addition to that, you're like,

615
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 2: oh great, I'm gonna go on stage in my fishnets

616
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 2: and my fucking boot all my ship being a comedian,

617
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 2: and there's gonna be four fucking people on the stage

618
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 2: in the audience, and I'm gonna have to do it

619
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 2: anyway and still be funny and not cry. And then

620
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 2: guess what, And then we say you know we're not

621
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 2: gonna do this show because we're gonna look stupid. And

622
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 2: then everyone says, oh my god, why are you guys

623
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 2: cancel the show? We were coming up. I was gonna

624
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 2: book today, my friends and all my friends, so we

625
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 2: were all gonna fly down there to support you, you

626
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 2: lying bitch, fucking liars. I have lied trauma issues. I

627
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 2: have daddy issues. He lied a lot. I don't need

628
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 2: my friends to lie to me, even though I never

629
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 2: met so so long story short one day, but I

630
00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 2: don't know.

631
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 3: We just we have a little bit of tour trauma

632
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 3: and we love it.

633
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 2: We do love it fun. I fucking love it when

634
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 2: every time we get off stage, we're like, we're so good,

635
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 2: that was good. Whoa, We're like all like hy bar

636
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 2: adrenolins going, we go to the sex party and then

637
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: we crash hard and then yeah, and then we make

638
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 2: two hundred dollars because we had to pay everyone. So yeah,

639
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 2: just do that times five and stay away from your

640
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: kids for three weeks and yeah, then maybe in two

641
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 2: years we'll go on tour. Yeah. So that's so, yes, Bridget,

642
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 2: that's the longest, Sorry, Bridget, that was not That was

643
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 2: not directed towards you in anyway that's been built up

644
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 2: in us for a long time. I'm glad we got

645
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 2: that out me too, yeah, because that was that was

646
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 2: a lot.

647
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 3: That was a lot. That was actually part of the

648
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 3: reason after we went off, after we ended the season

649
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 3: in March, we actually went on tour and then I

650
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 3: was we were supposed to come back like two months later,

651
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 3: and I told Jamila. I was like, no, I can't

652
00:30:57,120 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 3: come back yet. We have to extend this podcast. We

653
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 3: just the tour traumatized the fuck out of me as

654
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 3: far as like my nervous system, the alcohol, the stress,

655
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 3: like it was it was too much.

656
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 2: And you know what, I'm generally the one who will

657
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 2: go go go, like even if I'm dying inside, just

658
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 2: because out of my mind doesn't get that my body's dying.

659
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 2: And you would think that. The last time we had

660
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 2: a great show in New York, we were going to

661
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 2: a sex party. I was having a great time, like

662
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 2: I was an all time high, and then just suddenly

663
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 2: I broke down crying like I was just like malfunctioning.

664
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 2: And I was like, was like, let's go in the

665
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 2: other room at the sex party. Erica and Orlando are

666
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 2: just holding me. They're like, what's these I think I'm

667
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 2: really happy. I'm so happy. It's just a lot, you know,

668
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,719
Speaker 2: it's just a lot. So that was the first indication

669
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 2: that maybe something was wrong. Yeah, we needed to take

670
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 2: a break.

671
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe in twenty twenty six, we'll revisit these thoughts.

672
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 2: Anyway, any of the Christians.

673
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 3: Anyway, we have another question, what about Oh well this

674
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 3: is Frederic asked, how do you balance working on parts

675
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 3: of your life and actually living working on parts of

676
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 3: my life? I have to do both at the same time.

677
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 2: I don't know, you can't. I can't.

678
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 3: I can't separate the two.

679
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 2: I have to live, right, It's a very hard balance.

680
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess sometimes I'm not working on parts

681
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 3: of myself.

682
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 2: This is the thing.

683
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 3: I'm just kind of living and not working on shit. Yeah,

684
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 3: And I think that's the thing. Is like giving yourself grace,

685
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 3: giving yourself permission to just do the living and it

686
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 3: not being perfect and you fucking up and maybe backsliding

687
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 3: on your goals and your dreams, and then you come back,

688
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 3: you know, and you know, hopefully having a tribe of

689
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 3: people and community that are going to hold you accountable

690
00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 3: and be like bitch, you said you're about to do this.

691
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 3: Where why are you doing this? So I think it's

692
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 3: about just giving yourself the permission to kind of do

693
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 3: both at the same time. Sometimes then also like take

694
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 3: the fucking the crown off that you think you're supposed

695
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 3: to wear all the time and just let it rest

696
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 3: and live.

697
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's so crazy. It's like it's the

698
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 2: same thing, but we we are the ones who compart

699
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 2: car compartmentalize those things, and like we're like, this is

700
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: what working on yourself looks like. And then you're living,

701
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 2: but you're not doing Like so basically you're saying like

702
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 2: you're all living and so inevitably you're working on parts

703
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 2: of yourself, but it's not fast enough, it doesn't look perfect.

704
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 2: You're not going to the gym on through Friday like

705
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 2: you said, you're not, you know. And but sometimes like

706
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 2: the living is like your hardcore about work. Your head

707
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 2: is down. It's only work. Because last night I was

708
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 2: working on my phone and doing a million things. Souse,

709
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 2: I have fucking eighty d and at night I think

710
00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:59,719
Speaker 2: I should deal with things, and Luna I till Una

711
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 2: got her phone and her and Orlando did and I didn't,

712
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 2: and I put her to bed and she was like

713
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 2: really upset with me, and she's like you told she

714
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:09,320
Speaker 2: was like not trying to touch me, and I just

715
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 2: like laid there with her anyway, and she finally was

716
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 2: like she finally like came and wrapped her arms around

717
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 2: me after she was like trying to be in fetal position,

718
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 2: and I felt her like one teer just like roll

719
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 2: down my shoulder, and I was like, she's like me

720
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 2: and Orlando got up our phones and you cult being

721
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 2: on your phone and I was like, oh my god,

722
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 2: I'm horrible mom. But it's like sometimes you think that

723
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 2: being you know, productive, is what you're supposed to do,

724
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 2: but like we're only just supposed to be living in

725
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 2: coexistence with one another, and like that is what we're

726
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 2: supposed to be doing, you know, everything else comes like

727
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 2: when you realize that like the most important thing is

728
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 2: being with your loved ones, Like then you'll be healthy,

729
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 2: then you'll like you'll check in with your body. Like

730
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 2: those things will come in evidily because you're being present

731
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 2: in your community in a real way. But when your

732
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:03,839
Speaker 2: head is down doing the things that sometimes we think

733
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 2: is what we're supposed to do, be productive, be successful,

734
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 2: then you miss out on living, and the living is

735
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 2: exactly like our divine purpose. So it's just a word

736
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,320
Speaker 2: from my testimony from last night where I felt like

737
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 2: really terrible and then then I had to check myself

738
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 2: and be like, it's okay, you know, it's this is

739
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 2: a learning moment, this is important, this is this is

740
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 2: you know, like it really that one tier on my shoulder, bitch,

741
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 2: I was like, and for a minute, I started to think,

742
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 2: like go down a rabbit hole of all this time

743
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 2: that I've missed, And then I was like, no, this

744
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 2: is a way to gently just reposition and check in

745
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 2: with how you're spending your time and what you're actually doing.

746
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 2: And that means like when I'm putting in my body,

747
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 2: when I'm putting the phone down, Like I knew I

748
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 2: needed to put my phone down, but I was just

749
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 2: so curious to see this airbnb. You know, I just

750
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 2: couldn't stop, and I knew I couldn't stop, and I

751
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 2: just was like the fact that she noticed it, that

752
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 2: sit really checked the shit out of me. And I

753
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 2: will never like I feel like that'll be one day

754
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 2: I'll be eighty and I'm like, I remember that time

755
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 2: you know, and like, but that is why we have

756
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 2: to be present and live our lives.

757
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think also at this season in my life too,

758
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 3: and it's it's been a lot, it's been a season

759
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 3: of trying to figure this specific thing out. Is like,

760
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 3: you know, people always talk about the work life balance

761
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 3: and how you do it, and I don't really know

762
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 3: if there's there's really no real answer. You can go

763
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 3: buy the fucking download of whatever. The fuck bitch said

764
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 3: that she mastered it. Maybe she did for herself, but

765
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 3: everybody's different, and like it's really for me personally, like

766
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 3: I have to there is a regimen that I have

767
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 3: to exist in ways for me to find balance. And

768
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 3: I've realized that, Like today, I woke up at I

769
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 3: went to a workout class at six am. That is

770
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 3: literally the only time I can work out. I'm not

771
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 3: going to work out at night.

772
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 2: I tried to.

773
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 3: I actually worked out last night, and I was like,

774
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 3: maybe I could do this later, maybe I could do

775
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 3: this more often, And I was like, no, bitch, no

776
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 3: morning morning. I have to get that out of the way.

777
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:57,800
Speaker 3: And that's my me time I wake up early, I

778
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 3: do that, I get home. She's just waking up now

779
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 3: my daughter sets an alarm and she's waking up on

780
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 3: waking up herself. So it's like creating a regimen for her,

781
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,439
Speaker 3: creating one for me. And then like after I haven't

782
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 3: really talked about this much yet and I haven't really

783
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 3: even shared the video going to this cave for my birthday.

784
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 3: I went into this like dark cave in Oregon for

785
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 3: my birthday, in isolation and darkness for like four days,

786
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 3: and when I came out, I just realized how much,

787
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 3: how how I needed to have more boundaries around work

788
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 3: in general, and just like at a certain time, I

789
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 3: have to shut it off because I won't shut it off.

790
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 3: I don't know how to shut it off. I am

791
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 3: such a workhorse. And I realized I look at my mom,

792
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 3: I look at my grandmother, I look at all the

793
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 3: women in my life, and they're like such fucking doers

794
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 3: and they're not even all the way happy.

795
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 2: Like they're not.

796
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 3: And so it's like I can see myself heading on

797
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,439
Speaker 3: that trajectory of just being a doer all the time,

798
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:02,240
Speaker 3: and then like like having this little space and permission

799
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 3: for living and it's like I don't, I can't. I

800
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 3: can't live life like that, and I think luckily, I've

801
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 3: I've been more of a liver than a doer. I

802
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 3: think starting Good Moms and finding my purpose in this

803
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 3: space made activated me in that way to like, oh,

804
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 3: now I get it.

805
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 2: Now, I get when my mom is so obsessed with

806
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 2: creating her brand. Now I love it.

807
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 3: I get it, and I get why, like you know,

808
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 3: but there is there is. I know that I've missed

809
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 3: a lot of things with Iri, and I have a

810
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 3: lot of regret, regret, regret, regret around it. She's expressed

811
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 3: it to me, you know, like multiple times. And I

812
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 3: haven't always shifted. I haven't shifted all the way quickly

813
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,919
Speaker 3: even now. You know, it's hard. It really is hard

814
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 3: when you are doing something that gives you so much

815
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 3: purpose and so much joy that does require you to

816
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 3: be on your phone. Maybe not on Airbnb, but like

817
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 3: be on your phone and looking at some shit, or

818
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 3: like answering an email and saying, hold on one second,

819
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 3: I'll I'm going to watch the movie, but let me

820
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 3: just handle put out this fire or whatever. But it

821
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 3: does require also for me to say like I can't, no,

822
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 3: I can't do that right now. Sorry, sorry, person on

823
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 3: my team. I will respond tomorrow you know, and so

824
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 3: you know, it's you have to find what works for you,

825
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 3: and you have to know that it's not going to

826
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 3: be perfect. You're going to fuck it up.

827
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 2: And the fund up part ext I've read something about

828
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 2: like having a ritual. The fucked up part this is

829
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 2: like making it a ritual makes it the habit that

830
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 2: you that makes the thing like that makes you feel

831
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 2: productive and the thing that you want to feel productive

832
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:41,360
Speaker 2: like that is the only way to be able to

833
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,359
Speaker 2: dedicate time to all of the things is having set

834
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 2: time and then dedicating it and then repeating it, you know,

835
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 2: and it's always it's going to be out of flow,

836
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 2: but like you have to start somewhere and try.

837
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 3: Whether you want to call it a regimen, whether you

838
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 3: want to call it a ritual, whatever the fuck you

839
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 3: need to call it to do it. If it ritual

840
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 3: sounds cuter to you, and it sounds more.

841
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 2: Sacred, it's sacred. Am I rich you will? Am I

842
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 2: richu will?

843
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 3: Is that at at ten am I begin work, it's

844
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:08,839
Speaker 3: my ritual and then if I pem my end work,

845
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 3: my ritual's over and I begin my new ritual, which

846
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:11,919
Speaker 3: is cooking dinner.

847
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 2: Maybe we don't call it work. Just money play, ritualize

848
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 2: your life. It's what It's how I play when I

849
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 2: want to make money. My currency play. You have a

850
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 2: currency play date that means a workday. Okay.

851
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 3: We have another question, which I guess can go hand

852
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 3: and have. There's two different questions. What about retreats.

853
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 2: How do you find your tribe of women as a mommy?

854
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 3: Okay, so those are two different questions, and I think

855
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 3: let me start with finding your tribe. You know, I

856
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 3: realize that as an adult, it can feel really intimidating

857
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,959
Speaker 3: to make new friends. It can feel it can feel

858
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 3: like the last thing on your list, you know, and

859
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 3: then you're like alone at night and you're like, damn,

860
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,320
Speaker 3: I have no one to call. I have no girlfriend

861
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 3: to like Kiki over this, this or that. You have

862
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 3: to make it a priority. You have to go outside

863
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 3: of your comfort zone. You have to go up to

864
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 3: the friend in the bathroom and say, hey, bitch, want

865
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:12,360
Speaker 3: to hang out, Like I'm not going to promise you

866
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 3: that you're gonna find your bestie. And you're in a

867
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 3: mommy group.

868
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 2: You know.

869
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:17,360
Speaker 3: Early on when I became a mom, like I was,

870
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 3: I was also trying to find my tribe as well,

871
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 3: and I was in like you know, like going to

872
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,800
Speaker 3: the mommy and me like play dates and you know,

873
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 3: trying to even find my tribe at my daughter's school,

874
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 3: and those moms weren't really were really it. It's spaces

875
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 3: like this right here. Like if you fuck with this

876
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 3: energy and this vibe, then there's a bunch of women

877
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,839
Speaker 3: literally right now in this chat that are probably your

878
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 3: tribe right there, because they're already they're entertained by this conversation.

879
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 3: They feel for this, they feel this conversation, they feel

880
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 3: the energy that me and Mila and our guests share,

881
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 3: and they understand. So I think it's about like connecting

882
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 3: to the people and the communities that speak to you.

883
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 3: Like that's really how you find your tribe. I mean

884
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 3: for us, like we have our you know, we have

885
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 3: our Facebook groups, like there's people in there and and again,

886
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 3: like those things feel weird, right, You're like, so I'm

887
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,279
Speaker 3: going to meet someone on the internet, Yeah, bitch, you

888
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 3: might have to, Like that's kind of the beauty of

889
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 3: the internet sometimes, Yeah.

890
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 2: Use it for what it's good for. Yeah, you know,

891
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 2: cause technically we low key met via the internet and

892
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 2: a lot of my friends that we've met through the

893
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,240
Speaker 2: podcast who are friends now are through the internet.

894
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, And like even in our discord, we have a

895
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 3: channel specifically and they're called find your Tribe, And so

896
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 3: there's women in there, like, Hey, I'm in LA. Does

897
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 3: anybody like around want to like get lunch next weekend?

898
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 3: I'm going to go to brunch next week? Does anybody

899
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 3: want to come here? I'm in Houston. Like these are

900
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 3: the ways that you are able to connect with people

901
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:45,840
Speaker 3: that you already know that are kind of on your frequency,

902
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 3: and you kind of just have to step outside of

903
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 3: not kind of you actually have to actively step outside

904
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 3: of your comfort zone to meet your people. They're not

905
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 3: going to find you, They're like sometimes they will and

906
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 3: that's beautiful. But even me when I met Mila, like

907
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 3: I was I felt so uncomfortable approaching her, but I

908
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 3: was desperate, Like I knew that, like I knew that

909
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 3: there was a woman out there that like was on

910
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 3: my frequency because she was friends with my friends. So

911
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, Like that's step one.

912
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 2: That's the same as being somebody in the tribe. If

913
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,879
Speaker 2: you like them, I'll probably like you yeah, like yeah,

914
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 2: you trust it because it's like if you hang out

915
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 2: with this person, then I know of them, we'll probably gel.

916
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you use your discernment and then you

917
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 3: figure out is it a go or is it a

918
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 3: not go? And then you stay consistent like that's the

919
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 3: that's the next part is like staying consistent with that

920
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 3: relationship is like pouring into it how you want to

921
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 3: be poured into as much as you would pour into

922
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 3: a romantic relationship.

923
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and not being scared to be like, hey, you know,

924
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 2: what's up? What are you doing? And sometimes people won't respond,

925
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,240
Speaker 2: and not taking it personally and you won't always get together,

926
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 2: but still trying. You know, I have some friends. I'm

927
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 2: a friendly bitch, but I have friends who I'm like, Okay,

928
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 2: I see that you really want to be friends. Okay,

929
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 2: I see you girl, I'm gonna And that's because they're

930
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,280
Speaker 2: clear about it, you know. And it's just like sometimes

931
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 2: I think we underestimate as women to the the divine

932
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,399
Speaker 2: timing of women coming into your life sometime when people

933
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 2: are really trying to be your friend. I think sometimes

934
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 2: people shy away from that when they're strangers or they

935
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 2: don't know them or's not part of their immediate group.

936
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 2: Sometimes that's God saying I'm fucking serving Ali youup right now.

937
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 2: This is your friend, you know what I mean. And

938
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:17,840
Speaker 2: so it's just like you never know who's a message

939
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 2: for you and or there's something you're supposed to supposed

940
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: to birth together, And like, I've met so many friends

941
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 2: that way, just being open to.

942
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 4: Making new friends friends, friends, and I think we put

943
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 4: so much.

944
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:42,280
Speaker 2: Effort into meeting romantic partners that we forget how important

945
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 2: is to birth like friendships. Because a lot of your

946
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 2: old friends that you've known for twenty fifteen years, they're

947
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 2: still holding you to the old version of yourself. They

948
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 2: haven't really Sometimes it's hard for your friends that have

949
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 2: been your friends for a long ass time to accept

950
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 2: you as this new version of yourself. And sometimes it

951
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 2: requires that you meet friends on where you're at right now.

952
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 2: So don't underestimates that.

953
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,320
Speaker 3: I think there's also another really important step to this

954
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 3: process that I think is the reason why me and

955
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:14,280
Speaker 3: you became friends. It requires you to share something vulnerable

956
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 3: and personal, like yes, you can meet those mommy friends

957
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,799
Speaker 3: and you can keep it surface, and that's exactly where

958
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 3: you'll be. That's exactly where you'll keep it. That's exactly

959
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 3: why you won't hear from her. That's exactly why you

960
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,840
Speaker 3: just see each other at the birthday parties. And that's it, Like,

961
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 3: it really does require not only for you to get

962
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 3: outside of your comfort zone and like and initiate the hangout,

963
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 3: but then be brave enough and bold enough to share

964
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 3: something vulnerable, because that's really the gel where someone's like,

965
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:41,280
Speaker 3: oh shit.

966
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,320
Speaker 2: Oh we are from Oh oh right, you know, And

967
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 2: that's so true. I think about the first time we

968
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 2: ever hung out, you know, like she did that thing.

969
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 2: She came to the bathroom and she cornered me, and

970
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, okay, I didn't know her at all.

971
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 2: I was very like I was caught off guard by it.

972
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 2: But I really did want a friend who was in

973
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 2: the same position as I was, as far as like

974
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:59,839
Speaker 2: parenthood very early, and that first time you hung out,

975
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 2: like two days later you're like, hey, hey, how are

976
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 2: you like trying to fill each other out, But there

977
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,879
Speaker 2: was nothing truly like deep about the conversation the first

978
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 2: couple of times. It really wasn't until she came to

979
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,399
Speaker 2: the birthday party and shared the information about her being

980
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 2: on tender and her like finding a really hot couple

981
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 2: and that she had hung out with them that it

982
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 2: made me feel comfortable to be myself and to really

983
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 2: be like, oh, this is who I am and this

984
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 2: is what you know, like where I'm at, and like,

985
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 2: you know, just be honest about who I was because

986
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 2: I felt comfortable enough to do that. So I think

987
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 2: sometimes we're both both parties are being surface level because

988
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 2: you're being fear of being judged or being too much.

989
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 2: And I think we do ourselves a disservice by not

990
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 2: just going deep immediately, like bitch, this is what I'm

991
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 2: going through, you know. I think we try to save

992
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 2: face all the time, so don't always like sometimes it

993
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 2: requires for you to get especially in adulthood when we

994
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 2: don't have a lot of time. We got to get

995
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 2: to the nitty gritty quick.

996
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, like come on, bitch, I don't want to talk

997
00:46:56,160 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 3: about canny little baby canny and his fucking colic, Like

998
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 3: let's talk about his baby daddy ain't fucking there and

999
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 3: fuck that?

1000
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 2: No kidding? So are you getting your pussy hater or

1001
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 2: what's that?

1002
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 3: Oh my god? And then as far as our retreats go,

1003
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 3: I mean that is obviously like that's like the level

1004
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 3: up of like really really really being committed to finding

1005
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 3: the tribe and integrating in person with them, Like our

1006
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 3: retreats are are really I don't even the sacred place.

1007
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 3: You know, there's probably some women in the chat right

1008
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 3: now that have come on our retreats, and maybe you

1009
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 3: can speak to it in like a few words if

1010
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 3: you're in the chat and just explain what happens there.

1011
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,479
Speaker 3: But it's really an opportunity for you to actually meet

1012
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 3: the people that have are really dedicated to the calling

1013
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 3: of a healing, finding their purpose, igniting their self, restarting over,

1014
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 3: rebranding themselves, taking care of themselves, figuring some shit out,

1015
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 3: letting some shit go, allowing yourself to be taken care

1016
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 3: of for the first time, surrendering like all those things.

1017
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 3: Like that's really like what happens at our retreats. And

1018
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:14,320
Speaker 3: we're actually about to leave to our annual Golden Gem

1019
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 3: retreat of Costa Rica. We do this one every single

1020
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:21,879
Speaker 3: year in February first. It's usually either January thirty first

1021
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 3: or February first, And like I said, I think that

1022
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 3: for me and Miila, like our year really starts in

1023
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 3: February after this retreat. And I always tell people like

1024
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 3: if you are in a space in your life where

1025
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 3: you're ready to just just kind of do away with whatever,

1026
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 3: like just anything that's been holding you back, if you're

1027
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,320
Speaker 3: ready to like rebrand your life, if you're ready to

1028
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:47,760
Speaker 3: just meet the people that are committed to that process,

1029
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 3: and if you're ready to just kind of be taken

1030
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 3: care of for once. As moms now to take care

1031
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:55,800
Speaker 3: of anybody else, I mean women, not even yourself.

1032
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:57,879
Speaker 2: Really, we take care of you, right, like all women.

1033
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 3: I mean, I think all women need the retreats, but

1034
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 3: Mom's specific, Like we have such a hard time letting

1035
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 3: people take care of us and me and Mila at

1036
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 3: these retreats, like this is what we pride ourselves in,

1037
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 3: is that we take care of everything from start to finish.

1038
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,439
Speaker 3: This is really a place for you to just take

1039
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 3: off the fucking mommy roll and just be the woman

1040
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 3: that you are and allow yourself to be guided. Allow

1041
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 3: yourself to be be guided by the feminine too, because

1042
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 3: I think as women were always looking for the man

1043
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 3: to guide us. But there's such deep healing and so

1044
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 3: much awakening and just magic and allowing the feminine to

1045
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 3: guide you as well. And yeah, so and we do

1046
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 3: still have some spots left, so if you guys are

1047
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 3: interested in coming to Costa Rica and it's last minute

1048
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 3: and you if you but shit, sometimes last minute.

1049
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 2: That's that's what it really when you need to go,

1050
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 2: some shit has happened and you need to make the decision,

1051
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 2: and it's prompted you and this is your sign and

1052
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:52,879
Speaker 2: some things have happened and you're like, what the fuck

1053
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 2: am I gonna do? This is what you're gonna do.

1054
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,800
Speaker 2: Just do the thing, don't think about it, and just

1055
00:49:57,880 --> 00:49:59,319
Speaker 2: let people come take care of you. I know, we've

1056
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 2: been talking a lot of like all the crazy shit

1057
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 2: that happens in the world, and like that has happened,

1058
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 2: and like how do you care for yourself and be

1059
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,319
Speaker 2: gentle with yourself. It's like you're right a find your

1060
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 2: tribe because you need like nurturing. But go on vacation,

1061
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 2: like go get out of the environment of what is

1062
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 2: happening and be surrounded by people who care, and like

1063
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 2: this is one of those places where you're like, oh

1064
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 2: my god, is this a call? Everybody cares so much,

1065
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 2: everyone's so loving, and it's true, it's not a call.

1066
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 2: It's just a love fest. And it's because everyone comes

1067
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:32,359
Speaker 2: seeking something, you know, and seeking and ready to give

1068
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 2: and it's just like an abundant feminine energy. And like

1069
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 2: I saw Frederic say, you know, she came and she

1070
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:40,720
Speaker 2: spilled her heart about heart out about of a friendship breakup,

1071
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 2: and then she left with thirty new friends. Literally, you

1072
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:48,320
Speaker 2: leave with twenty new friends. It's not even exaggeration. Like

1073
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 2: it's an amazing, beautiful thing when you allow women to

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00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 2: take care of you, and you allow women to be

1075
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 2: soft and let them own their guards and just you know,

1076
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 2: really be there for each other. We are so why

1077
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 2: and like have so much information to give each other

1078
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:04,960
Speaker 2: and so many lessons to share, and like I think

1079
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:06,880
Speaker 2: that's really where the beauty comes in and the strength.

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00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, I think, especially with everything that's going on

1081
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 3: in La I literally cannot wait to just go a

1082
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 3: breathe fresh air, eat real food, eat real food, and

1083
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 3: just just unwind.

1084
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 2: Let go like this.

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00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:27,400
Speaker 3: We've been preparing for our season for months now, and

1086
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 3: like it's kind of like scary to like go into

1087
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 3: retreat mode in the midst of like what we're doing.

1088
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,479
Speaker 3: But this is but that's just life, and that's life

1089
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 3: isn't going to slow down. There's no perfect time for

1090
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 3: you to take a trip sometimes, you know, like even

1091
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 3: us right now, like we're literally in the beginning of

1092
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,919
Speaker 3: our season and we're like, bye, we'll be right back

1093
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:49,759
Speaker 3: because we got to go take care of ourselves and

1094
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:53,399
Speaker 3: some bitches, and like I never regret it. There's never

1095
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 3: a regret.

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00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,760
Speaker 2: God's always like, bitch, go sit down, and I always

1097
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 2: trust it and it always works out. Like little Johnny

1098
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 2: will it's teeth while you're gone for six days. I

1099
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 2: fucking promise you. And you know, trust the person you

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00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 2: had a baby with, or like trust the assistant, trust

1101
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 2: the other person in your position, and all the people

1102
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 2: feel like they can't walk away from work. And sometimes

1103
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 2: it's like you can't do your work unless you do

1104
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 2: the thing for you, and like don't overgive to outside

1105
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 2: and not remember to give to you. So amen, I

1106
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:26,359
Speaker 2: can't mother fucking white a man. Are you saw you pulled?

1107
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 2: Some you pulled? The Tarot time is a Tarot time.

1108
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 2: It's Tarot time, Terot time. I don't know if you

1109
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 2: want to pull, if I want to pull you pull,

1110
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 2: I pulled the High Priestess. Shall I look it up

1111
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 2: and look it up? I feel like it's it has

1112
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 2: lots to do with balance, can you say that this

1113
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 2: is our Mahogany tarot card. They're all black and brown

1114
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 2: representations illustration, and there's this one looks first of all

1115
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 2: B and J and I don't know what that means,

1116
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 2: but it looks like it's very balanced. Well, let me

1117
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:11,959
Speaker 2: tell you what it means, baby.

1118
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 3: The upright means intuition, sacred knowledge, divine, feminine, and the

1119
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 3: subconscious mind. While the magician is the guardian of the

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00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 3: conscious mind and the tangible world, the High Priestess is

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00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:26,800
Speaker 3: the guardian of the subconscious mind and the teacher of

1122
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 3: sacred knowledge and hidden mysteries. Sitting at the threshold of

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00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 3: the conscious and subconscious mind, the High Priestess has an

1124
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:38,440
Speaker 3: innate ability ability to travel between these realms effortlessly. She

1125
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 3: teaches you that the world is not always as it seems,

1126
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 3: and more profound influences are often at play. The High

1127
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 3: Priestess signifies spiritual enlightenment in her illumination, divine knowledge, and wisdom.

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00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 3: She shows up in your tarror reading when the veil

1129
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 3: between you and the underworld is thin and you have

1130
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 3: the opportunity to access the knowledge deep within your soul.

1131
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:00,839
Speaker 3: Now is the time to be still, so you can

1132
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:03,399
Speaker 3: tune in to your intuition in Costa Rica.

1133
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 4: Yep.

1134
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:07,799
Speaker 3: The answers you are seeking will come from within, from

1135
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 3: your deepest truth and knowing. Allow the High Priestess to

1136
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 3: become your guide as you venture deep into the jungle

1137
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:18,720
Speaker 3: of your subconscious mind and access the inner wisdom. Connect

1138
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 3: with your intuition and your higher self through meditation, visualization,

1139
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 3: shamanic journeying aka mynashreams, and being a part of spiritual communities. Wow, welcome,

1140
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 3: Welcome to our spiritual community. Yeah this I mean obviously

1141
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 3: whenever we pull a card it always is like literally

1142
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 3: right on divine timing, and I think, uh put we

1143
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 3: put in the chat a link to the retreat if

1144
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:46,719
Speaker 3: you guys are interested in coming to the retreat that

1145
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 3: we do have a few spots left. We have a

1146
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:52,360
Speaker 3: solo room available, one more and a few more shared

1147
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 3: rooms available. So if you're feeling like you know what

1148
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,880
Speaker 3: I need to fucking break, I need to get on

1149
00:54:57,920 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 3: this trip, please come and make sure you use the

1150
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 3: code Tribe at checkout. Use the code Tribe at checkout

1151
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 3: because you're gonna get a beautiful gift from us, and

1152
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 3: we have payment plans available too, So if like you're like,

1153
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 3: I can't afford this shit, don't worry, we will figure

1154
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 3: it out. You can come, I promise you.

1155
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:17,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, make it, make it happen. Don't make an excuse, like,

1156
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 2: don't make excuses for yourself. Yeah, make it happy, like

1157
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 2: you make it happen for somebody else, like if it

1158
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 2: was baby, your little baby. I know.

1159
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 3: We did a little giveaway on Facebook in our Facebook group.

1160
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:38,319
Speaker 3: We were giving away one hundred dollars mystery Bagoo mystery bag.

1161
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 2: Mm hm.

1162
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 3: We never we never really do a lot of giveaways,

1163
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 3: but I'm excited if you join our Facebook group, We're

1164
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 3: gonna be doing a lot more giveaways in that space.

1165
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 3: And so in this mystery bag, WEMLA were like, what

1166
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 3: should we include in this hundred dollars giveaway bag? And

1167
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 3: I was like, I think it's gonna be a little

1168
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 3: bit more than a hundred dollars.

1169
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, probably so.

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00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 3: Number one, our good Mom crew, Neck show the ladies.

1171
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm on Home Shopping Network.

1172
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 2: This is your specialty, your expertise, wasn't it like go

1173
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 2: to I did go.

1174
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 3: I went to Home Shopping Network school. So you guys

1175
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 3: see this, This is a very rich beautiful cot and

1176
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 3: only the highest luxury for our bitches.

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00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 2: It also includes the good.

1178
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:23,239
Speaker 3: Mom beautiful puff paint, high quality puff paint because we

1179
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 3: only do the best for our extra puff.

1180
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 2: You can't really see it from here, but it's three D.

1181
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:32,560
Speaker 3: It is three D and then boom on the back,

1182
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:37,320
Speaker 3: we have our beautiful trippy happy face because we're some

1183
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,320
Speaker 3: trippy bitches. So this is something that is included in

1184
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 3: the giveaway.

1185
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 2: And oh go ahead, we're also including this top of

1186
00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:52,400
Speaker 2: the line fourteen gold plated Bad Choice necklace.

1187
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 3: Orlando cut to Jamila, so speaking she can really show

1188
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:58,400
Speaker 3: show the people you see this.

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00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 2: It's blame every time you come.

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00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 3: And I must buying bang yes, and I you know what,

1191
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 3: I love this, Mela and I wear these necklaces literally

1192
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 3: every day. We shower with them. We never take them off.

1193
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 3: They never turn like literally they do not turn. I

1194
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 3: know you all read. You know I just bought this

1195
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:19,120
Speaker 3: fucking stupid ass necklace that I'm wearing here. You don't

1196
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 3: have to zoom into this. It was supposed to be

1197
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 3: non tarnish. It's just already tarnishing.

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00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, these really don't tarnish. I don't like to really

1199
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 2: take jewelry off when I shower because I'm lazy. I

1200
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 2: think I'm rich. It's diamonds, but it's never turns and

1201
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 2: it never like makes you itch earning those things. It's

1202
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 2: definitely like the gold plate. It is is gold plating.

1203
00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's beautiful. It's beautiful, and.

1204
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 2: It kind of lets people know, like, you know what

1205
00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 2: kind of type time you're on. Bad choices, bad choices,

1206
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 2: bad choices.

1207
00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 3: And last but not least, you know, I had to

1208
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 3: include a beauty blender. This is my favorite product. It's

1209
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 3: also my family business. For those that don't know, my

1210
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 3: mom was is also was also a single mom when

1211
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 3: she raised me. She was a makeup artist and came

1212
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 3: up with this on set. She used to be the

1213
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 3: department head for the show Girlfriends and started cutting sponges

1214
00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 3: and created the beauty blender. And so this is a

1215
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 3: woman owned, Latina owned product. It's the original. So for

1216
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 3: all the other dupes that you see at the CBS's

1217
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 3: and the Walgreens that ain't this, this is the high quality,

1218
00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 3: the original beauty blender. And so this I'm also going

1219
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 3: to throw into the bag and make sure you get

1220
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 3: it wet when you use it. You have to get

1221
00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 3: it wet, squeeze it out, damp, bounce, and so I'm

1222
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 3: going to pick the winner right here live, Oh Lenny, do.

1223
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 2: The damn thing like I'm on wheel of fortune. Like

1224
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 2: I don't know why because it is a wheel. Look,

1225
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:53,840
Speaker 2: it's been the wheel. Oh cute.

1226
00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 3: Shout out to Terranny who hooked us up and figured

1227
00:58:57,600 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 3: this out for us because.

1228
00:58:58,520 --> 00:58:58,920
Speaker 2: I had known.

1229
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:00,800
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's so cute. See look at our

1230
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 3: pictures in the background, and shit, ah, okay, we're gonna

1231
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:04,880
Speaker 3: spin the wheel.

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00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 2: Live y'all. Let's spin. Let's spin. Everyone's in there already. Yes, yeah,

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00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 2: this is interesting technology.

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00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 3: Oh Crimson Doula underscore. Lenae, you are the winner of

1235
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 3: the Good Mom's Bad Choices giveaway. I've seen Crimson Crimson Dola, Lena,

1236
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 3: you are the winner.

1237
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:38,800
Speaker 2: If you're in here, you won. You will be rocking

1238
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 2: all the Good Mom's Bad Choices merch no time.

1239
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 3: And if you haven't checked out our store, make sure

1240
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 3: you go to Good Momsbad Choices dot com check out

1241
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 3: our merch store. We not only have the good Mom's sweatshirts,

1242
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 3: we have the good dads, we have the good aunties,

1243
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:54,919
Speaker 3: we have the good Baby. We got the good kid,

1244
00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 3: we got the whole. It's the good, it's the Good

1245
00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 3: family collection. We got it all for you, guys. So

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00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 3: make sure you check out our cutest fuck merch store

1247
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Speaker 3: and support moms who make shit.

1248
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 2: Oh oh mushroom, Oh not the mushroom.

1249
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:20,920
Speaker 3: Oh speaking of mushrooms, guys, I don't know if you've

1250
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:24,320
Speaker 3: seen me on Instagram talking about this mushroom tea that

1251
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 3: I've been drinking.

1252
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 2: Oh, Schedule thirty five.

1253
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 3: Yes, So this brand, Schedule thirty five, sent me their shit,

1254
01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 3: and then I wasn't sure because I was like, first

1255
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 3: of all, how are you sending me mushrooms in the mail? Like?

1256
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 2: Is this legal?

1257
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:39,919
Speaker 3: Apparently it is, because they send it all over the US.

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01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 3: It is legal. I don't know how, but it is.

1259
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 2: Listen, don't don't. They're a verified brand. Okay.

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01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 3: Anyway, I was like, let me, let me just try

1261
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 3: try it out. And so I started off with their teas,

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01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 3: which I'm obsessed with. They have like a they have

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01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:58,880
Speaker 3: a two hundred milligram tea. They have like different like levels.

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01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 2: Which one did you do? I did the two hundred

1265
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 2: milligram one, and like, but how'd you feel?

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Speaker 3: You know, what I wasn't sure like how I thought

1267
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 3: maybe it was going to make me feel like a

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01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 3: little like very relaxed, which kind of was what I

1269
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 3: was looking for, but really it wasn't even I was

1270
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 3: looking for my anxiety to go away, is what I

1271
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:19,680
Speaker 3: really wanted, which usually I think I need to be

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01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 3: relaxed for that to happen. But it actually gave me energy.

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01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 3: It gave me energy, but like the anxiety was gone,

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01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:28,920
Speaker 3: and so it gave me energy. So I wasn't necessarily

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01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 3: relaxed or I couldn't do shit because a lot of times,

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01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 3: like when you're taking like I don't know, when you're

1277
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 3: taking like a pill like xanax, you have anxiety, which

1278
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 3: is because now you're gonna be laid out.

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01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:38,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't do shit out. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I really enjoyed. I really enjoyed taking this tea

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01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 3: in the morning. I'll drink in the morning before our meetings.

1282
01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 3: And it doesn't make you feel like how you would

1283
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:50,920
Speaker 3: feel if you actually took like a lot of mushrooms.

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Speaker 3: I think a lot of people it's microdocing. So a

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Speaker 3: lot of people have misconceptions around plant medicine in general

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Speaker 3: and think like, oh my god, I'm going to take

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Speaker 3: mushrooms and I'm gonna be like seeing fucking tied eye

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Speaker 3: rainbows and shit. But it actually made me feel really productive.

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Speaker 3: It made me feel anxiety free, it made me feel

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Speaker 3: really create It makes me feel really creative. And so

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Speaker 3: for those of you, because a lot of people have

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Speaker 3: reached out to me about this specific brand schedule thirty five,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna have tea, put the link in the chat

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Speaker 3: and use code good Moms fifteen at checkout for fifteen

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Speaker 3: percent off. Like I said, they ship all over the

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Speaker 3: United States. So if this is something you've wanted to try,

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Speaker 3: I highly recommend, if you've never even tried plant medicine

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Speaker 3: at all, to either start with the two gram tea

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Speaker 3: or the.

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Speaker 2: Capsules same point is it two or point?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm sorry, it's two hundred milligrams, but the package

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Speaker 3: has two grams on there. There's two grams worth of

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Speaker 3: mushrooms in Yeah, and I think they they recommend three

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Speaker 3: days on, four days off, three days on four days.

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Speaker 2: Off to like kind of like acclimate your body.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know if there's any microdosing mommies or

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Speaker 3: people in the chat, maybe throwing a mushroom in there.

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Speaker 3: If you're if you're down with the plant medicine.

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Speaker 2: It's definitely a good alternative for like for like anxiety

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Speaker 2: meds or something like that or something. Because mushrooms saved

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Speaker 2: my life twenty twenty.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they really did.

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Speaker 2: They really did. They really did, really dead.

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Speaker 3: And you know, even at our retreats, we do we

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Speaker 3: do a much heavier dose. At our retreat. We actually

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Speaker 3: go on an actual real journey during one of the

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Speaker 3: last few days of the retreat. And that is so

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Speaker 3: beautiful too, because we're literally in the middle of the jungle.

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Speaker 3: It's such a safe container, and it's accompanied by sound, healing, reiki,

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Speaker 3: all the things. But if you're just like, let me

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Speaker 3: just dip my toe in try schedule thirty five, it's

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Speaker 3: really a game changer. Well, we should get out of

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Speaker 3: here soon.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I've been having so much fun with our friends,

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Speaker 2: but I guess we can carry along.

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Speaker 3: Wait, but before we get out, I didn't want to

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Speaker 3: share a hoory okay that someone sent us because I

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Speaker 3: feel like it was really it was really something. It

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Speaker 3: was really it was really something.

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Speaker 2: So we have if you also, if you have.

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Speaker 3: Any horries or bad choices of the week, or just

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Speaker 3: something you want to share, like a secret that you

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01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 3: want to share anonymously that maybe you've just needed to

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Speaker 3: get off your chest. We have a link that you

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Speaker 3: can click on in our Instagram or maybe I don't know, tea,

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Speaker 3: maybe you can share it here. But either way you

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Speaker 3: can find it our Instagram. You can share your stuff

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Speaker 3: with us, so we can share and talk to you

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Speaker 3: about it.

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Speaker 2: But our hory, where is our hoorriy?

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Speaker 3: We find it?

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Speaker 2: It's time for horse stories. Mm hmm m m. This

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Speaker 2: is a horror.

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Speaker 3: And also I don't know this is This is definitely

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Speaker 3: a secret safe because yeah, here we go. My bestie's

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01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:18,960
Speaker 3: old side, nigga is my new side?

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Speaker 2: Nigga? Did she give him to you? And she doesn't

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Speaker 2: know we talk.

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Speaker 3: She's married and lives out of state and they haven't

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Speaker 3: seen each other in over a year.

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Speaker 2: Oh damn, she had a side, niggah. She was married, okay,

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01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 2: her bestie. Oh oh, that's a real side nigga. Okay.

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Speaker 3: I met him on a dating app not knowing that

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01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 3: it was him, ended up talking to her about it

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Speaker 3: casually one day and she said, wait a minute, who no,

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01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:49,400
Speaker 3: stop talking to him? But me and him vibe. We

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01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:52,440
Speaker 3: fuck good, We have a good time, and he's just

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01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:56,000
Speaker 3: the best eater I've ever had. I can't come up

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Speaker 3: off him, and I know I need to, because ultimately

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01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:01,760
Speaker 3: he's not my nigga. A girl I used to talk

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Speaker 3: to even ask me about him before, come to find

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Speaker 3: out they were talking too.

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Speaker 2: He's for everybody, he'd he'd be on the ass. Your

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01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 2: friend needs to just understand he's for everybody.

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Speaker 3: How do I leave this freaky ass nigga alone? I

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01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:16,040
Speaker 3: need it out so I can find my own freaky

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01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 3: ass nigger. Oh I didn't mention he ain't got no car,

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01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 3: live with his mama, Oh no, and barely got a job.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, lord, And he'd be asking me for money.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, Lord, No, I don't know. I reveal him.

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Speaker 3: We listen and we don't judge, but please judge my ass.

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Speaker 2: Sorry it came out too soon. Now you know that.

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01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 2: Now the dick must be dick In.

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01:06:47,840 --> 01:06:49,520
Speaker 3: You know, broke dick is the best dick.

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01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 2: Because I got somewhere, need somewhere to say, you know

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01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 2: it's dick In, Because if this bitch said don't talk

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01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:56,040
Speaker 2: to him, I'd be like, if we don't take his luck,

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Speaker 2: get his ass out of here. Sure, take him. Oh

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01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 2: my goodness, Oh my goodness, he must be a girl.

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Speaker 3: You need to leave that man alone.

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01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 2: But I mean, maybe just get it in a few times.

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01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 3: You know, you have you have until February first, bitch,

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01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 3: your time is up on February first. That's when New

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Speaker 3: Year's begins, and you gotta drop this nigga. Okay, no

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01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 3: more broke, freaky ass side niggas on the February first,

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01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 3: Let's do a deadline.

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Speaker 2: You know what I will say on a positive note

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01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 2: is at least you're aware that this is not your nigga,

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Speaker 2: and that you're not trying to get him a job

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01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 2: at your job, and you're not trying to set him

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01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,200
Speaker 2: up with a finance niggas so he can get himself

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01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 2: a car and get him together. Because at least you're

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01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 2: allusional illusional. I just waited them. At least you're lusional,

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01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 2: which is the opposite of delusional. Hmmm. I like that

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01:07:48,200 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 2: you illusional. So like, sometimes we do stupid shit, but

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01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:53,480
Speaker 2: as long as we're aware of conscious that we're doing

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01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 2: stupid shit, and like it's cold, it's called aware. A

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Speaker 2: stupid aware bitch, You know you're not just a stupid bitch.

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01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 2: You're a stupid aware bitch. Stupid. And you know I

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01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:05,600
Speaker 2: have a lot of respect for a stupid aware bitch

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01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 2: because I've been there, You've been stupid bitch. We've all

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01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 2: been stupidware beaches. Like I'm aware, I'm stupid bitch. Okay,

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01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 2: I'm aware. You ain't gotta tell me. I'm telling you.

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01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 2: You gotta tell me because I'm telling you. But all

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01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:20,200
Speaker 2: stupid aware bitchness comes with it. You know, there's a deadline,

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01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 2: there's a you know, we can't you can't be a

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01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:25,560
Speaker 2: stupid aware bitch for twelve months because then you're just

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01:08:25,640 --> 01:08:28,320
Speaker 2: a stupid bitch. No, then you're just a stupid bitch. Fact.

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01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:30,920
Speaker 2: You know, there's a threshold, there's a timeline, there's a

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01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:33,719
Speaker 2: there's a quick timeline. And trust me, I know because

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01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:38,280
Speaker 2: I have grazed, I have gone penetrated far past the line.

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01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:40,840
Speaker 2: So just let me tell you, as this once stupid

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Speaker 2: aware bitch turned stupid bitch, it.

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Speaker 3: Can go quickly turned fiance.

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Speaker 2: Have my ring damp turn fiance, okay, because you know

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01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 2: you gotta sometimes you gotta. You gotta fall so you

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01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:54,120
Speaker 2: can walk, so you can run, so just take it

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01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:55,599
Speaker 2: for me because now I'm a fian. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: that's gonna be my whole spiel. I'm like, I'm a fiance,

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01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 2: so let me just tell you some relationship advice as

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Speaker 2: the fiance of this Oh god here, as the fiance

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01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 2: of the podcast, I would just say, drop it low,

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01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:12,760
Speaker 2: suck it slow. Because I'm the fiance of the podcast,

1425
01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:15,799
Speaker 2: I can come to you with all my relationship advice.

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01:09:16,880 --> 01:09:22,000
Speaker 2: Signed xoxo Mila the fiance, And I'm gonna say it

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Speaker 2: like that fiance because it's French. Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: And if you'd like to donate to her nonprofit Hoes

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Speaker 3: with Hope, you know, click the link in this episode description.

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Speaker 2: Thus he hopes is direct fund that helps all hose

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Speaker 2: who are stupid bitches come be stupid ware bitches to

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Speaker 2: be Hose with Hope aka fiance and they will come

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Speaker 2: on the retreat so they could do it deep intensive

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01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:47,240
Speaker 2: of being less stupid and more smart. When they come back,

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01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 2: it's more hopeful, more hopeful. Have you seen scared straight?

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01:09:51,200 --> 01:09:56,360
Speaker 2: It's that but gentle with meditations and sound bowls and

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01:09:56,400 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 2: titties like at my titties, be free, be free. We're

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01:10:01,080 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 2: gonna save you to death to get that nigga all

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01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 2: about your point.

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01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 3: He's gonna be out of there.

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01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 2: Besides you and saved you. You're gonna smoke that nigga

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01:10:08,960 --> 01:10:10,880
Speaker 2: out when you go back. You canna be allergic to

1443
01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 2: his ass. Okay, So come on down to the gid Vibertrue,

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01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:18,800
Speaker 2: there's still time for you to be an aware bitch.

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01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:27,599
Speaker 2: There's still time. Let's take some meala moans from the fiance.

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01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:29,640
Speaker 2: Let's take a deep breath in.

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01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:34,599
Speaker 3: At least with sounds.

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01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 2: Life is hard, the world is crazy. At least we

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01:10:42,520 --> 01:11:05,479
Speaker 2: have each other. Mm hmmm. You don't have to be

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01:11:05,560 --> 01:11:09,040
Speaker 2: fucking to moan. Sometimes just breathing is good enough. Life

1451
01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:11,679
Speaker 2: is good, and we love you so much.

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01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:19,040
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Speaker 2: underscore map with two p's, and I'm at watch Erica.

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Speaker 2: And if you have some business that you need to

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Speaker 2: tell us because I'm a fiancee, so I can give

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Speaker 2: dating advice, etc. And Hope Hose with Hope advice. If

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Speaker 2: and we'll give you good advice.

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Speaker 3: Yes, just click the link in the episode description and

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Speaker 3: fill out the type form anonymously and we'll share all

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Speaker 3: your bad choices anonymously and give you advice.

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Speaker 2: We love you until next time. Hose with Hope signing out,

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Speaker 2: Pose with Hope signing out. This is fun.

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