1 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Grace. Well, I have talked till 2 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: I'm blue in the face about being careful, not getting 3 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 1: in cars with people you don't know, not accepting rides, 4 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: all about personal safety. I've even written a book on it. 5 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 1: Don't be a victim? And what does this mother do? 6 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: A thirty four year old mother. She puts her little girl, 7 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: a little tiny girl, into a car with a stranger 8 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: and sends her off. How does she know whether that 9 00:00:55,480 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: lift driver was a registered sex offender closet purv Who 10 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: knows who he was a kidnapper? How do I know 11 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: he and his wife didn't always want a little girl? 12 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:25,199 Speaker 1: Just like her Crime Stories with Nancy Grace, It never ends, 13 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: doesn't I'm Nancy Grace, this is Crime Stories. Thank you 14 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: for being with us here at Fox Nation. And Sirius 15 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: XM one eleven. Well, I guess I know the answer 16 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 1: to that, Cheryl McCallum. It does never end, It will 17 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: not ever end. But you know what, we can take 18 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:45,839 Speaker 1: care of this woman. What is her name, Stephanie? Good 19 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: do take a listen to our friends a crime online. 20 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: New Hampshire Police get a call that two of Stephanie 21 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: Gaudu's children had not been picked up from daycare. Childcare 22 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: workers report they tried to call his thirty four year 23 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: old mother, but we're unable to reach her. Police beginning 24 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: and investigation finding out Godhu also has a three month 25 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: old baby. Officers go to Godhu's home and find her 26 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: allegedly incoherent and disoriented. Then they uncover that the mom 27 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: sent her three year old to daycare alone using lift. 28 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: If there was any confusion that she has sent the 29 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: eight year old to school alone, no, no, let's be clear. 30 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: It was the three year old top girl that was 31 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 1: sent alone with a man they've never seen before and 32 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: their lies. They don't know him. From Adam's housecat to 33 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: who knows where daycare? We hope have you ever heard 34 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: of such a thing? Every day there's a brand new 35 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: way to mistreat your child, isn't there. Let me introduce 36 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: to you an all star panel to make sense of 37 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: it all. First of all, James shell Nutt, twenty seven 38 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 1: years Metro major case including swat now lawyer at shell 39 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: Nutt Law Firm dot com. Renowned clinical psychiatrists and I 40 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: mean renowned professor behavioral Medicine at Truro College. Doctor Jeff 41 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: Guardier dot com, author of the Causes of Autism and 42 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: I think several other books on Amazon. Cheryl McCollum, director 43 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:22,519 Speaker 1: of the Cold Case Research Institute and crime scene Expert. 44 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: Special guests are joining me Daphne Young, National chief Communications 45 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: officer at one of my favorite organizations, Childhelp dot Org. 46 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: But first to the lead news anchor W Dbo Ray Kaputo, Ray, 47 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: it never ends, it never ends. I used to think, 48 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: Ray Kaputo, as I would sit in court, what's in 49 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: a while to see Cheryl McCollum wander through as a witness. 50 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: I would sit in court and I see about one 51 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: hundred new felons every week from me to figure out 52 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: do I try them? Do I plead them? Do I 53 00:03:56,040 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: cut them loose? Not likely? And I would think, well, 54 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: I ever see anything new under the sun? Will ever end? Well? Obviously, 55 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: thank you Stephanie got Do, thirty four year old victim's 56 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: mother for proving it never will end. What happened? Ray Nan. 57 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: This is in Manchester, New Hampshire, northern New England, and 58 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: this is the first Monday in the new year. Wait, 59 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: an a lot of people wait, wait, you know where 60 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: I want to start? Where is this Manchester? And New Hampshire. 61 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: What is that? Is it residential? Is it all high rises? 62 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: When you say New England, I have these thoughts in 63 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 1: like the front of a Christmas card and a little 64 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 1: village and snow, maybe a ski slope in the back. 65 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 1: What is Manchester, New Hampshire. I wouldn't say that it's 66 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: that idealistic, but it's the biggest metro area in northern 67 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: New England. It's not far from Boston. It's like, I 68 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 1: wouldn't call it a college time, but there are several colleges. 69 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: There are a lot of young people and you know, 70 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 1: bottom line, it's a nice affordable place to live if 71 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: you don't mind a little snow and cold in the winter. 72 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: So when you say you wouldn't call it a collegetown, 73 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: which colleges isn't there? I know that there's a community college. 74 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,799 Speaker 1: I think there's a Southern New Hampshire College and there's 75 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 1: another one. So there's like three colleges right in that 76 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 1: town and not far from Boston, not far from Boston 77 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: at all. Say when you say Boston, that conjures images 78 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: from me of the Freedom Trail, the Parker House where 79 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 1: JFK proposed to Jackie Parker House, Rolls, Betsy Ross l 80 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: North Church, all good things, right, So it's hard for 81 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: me to get my mind around where this is. And 82 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: also it's very important to me, Ray Kiputo, where the 83 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: child was picked up. You go ahead, go ahead with 84 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 1: your story. Yeah, well it was a Monday after years, 85 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,239 Speaker 1: so the child just picked up right at their house, 86 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: right right at their house in a residential area. The 87 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: daycare is actually not far away. But the problem was 88 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 1: is a lift driver, a person who had no known 89 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 1: affiliation for that family, a complete stranger if you will, 90 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 1: was the one that picked up that child and brought 91 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: the little girl to dcare on Monday after New Year. 92 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: I've just learned something about Manchester, New Hampshire. It's small. 93 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: The entire metro area if you could call it that, 94 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: as one hundred and nine thousand people. I grew up 95 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 1: outside of a city, making Georgia, in an unincorporated area 96 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: which was all rural and the population was I don't 97 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 1: know maybe about that at the time. That's a very 98 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 1: small community and that's significant why Cheryl McCollum Nancy has 99 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: signifted it. Because this club is central to this location, 100 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 1: meaning the drugs in the area, the other sex offenders 101 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: in the area. All of this is going to come 102 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: into play when this woman this child into a lift 103 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: with no care and continuing, what's going to happen after 104 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 1: that car pool aways a whole You know, to doctor 105 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: Jeff Gardier, renowned clinical psychologist, professor behavioral medicine, Doctor Jeff, 106 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: you and I've covered a lot of cases together. We've 107 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 1: studied a lot of cases. Have you noticed that people 108 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: seem to think they have a familiarity with people they 109 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: don't even know. For instance, the guy, the cashier at 110 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: the grocery store, the delivery person, the person you see 111 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: on TV. You think you know them. I think that 112 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: I actually know certain people that I've watched for a 113 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: really long time on TV, and then I find out, no, 114 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: they did something crazy, And it's hard to take in. 115 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: What I'm getting at is just because you order up 116 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: a lift on your cell phone, you don't know that 117 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: person absolutely. And let me tell you that there have 118 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: been incidents where people have been attacked by some of 119 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: these private companies that you get on your phone, and 120 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: they have been very dangerous situations. Even though my understanding 121 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: is companies like Lift and Uber and others do very 122 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: strict screening, do training. There are rules that the drivers 123 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: have to follow, but it's a wild card. You never 124 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 1: know who the person is who is unstable. And we 125 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: also notice the luck of the draw as to who 126 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: you get as a driver. It's not like you get 127 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: the same driver every time. So certainly putting a child 128 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: in a car with an adult and an adult you 129 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: don't know is very dangerous. And let me wrap that 130 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: up by saying, I have put my seventeen or eighteen 131 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: year old in cars with a lift or uber driver, 132 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: but I made sure that I was also in the 133 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: car too, because I just don't trust that process. You mean, 134 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: you ride along with them, or you went to the car, 135 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 1: you look at the driver and all that. I rode 136 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: along in the car with them, And I've also looked 137 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: at the driver for the eighteen year old, looked at 138 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: the driver, spoke to the driver, knew who the driver was, 139 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: and made sure that I tracked the driver all the way. 140 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 1: And even then, it's not one hundred percent safe. So 141 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 1: doing this with a three year old is absolutely not 142 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: just dangerous but crazy irresponsible. Time Stories with Nancy Grace. Guys, 143 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: we are talking about a three year old little talk 144 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: girl being put in a lift with a man mommy 145 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: has never seen in her life much less than three 146 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: year old to send her to daycare. Just let that 147 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: sink in for a moment. Speaking lift drivers, take a 148 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:06,599 Speaker 1: listen to our new friend Torsten, and experienced driver for 149 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: both Uber and Lift truly blown away that this lift 150 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 1: driver would actually take a little three year old boy 151 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: to a day care center alone. Right, should have refused 152 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 1: this mother in the first place. And shame on the 153 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: mother for just trying to send a three year old 154 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: off with some strange lift driver that she doesn't even know. Right, 155 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: it's not even accompanying her child. Both have to face charges, 156 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: not just the mother. You know you've got You've got 157 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:44,559 Speaker 1: to set standards here. People know what they signed up 158 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: with for Lift and Uber and that clearly clearly breaks 159 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: the lot. You know, I have done some research as 160 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: I found out about this mother putting her child or 161 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: three year old little girl on a lift driver, research 162 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 1: into attacks alleged attacks by lift and Uber drivers. And 163 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 1: we use Uber a lot, a lot, But with me, 164 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: I use Uber. If I have one of the twins 165 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: who are now thirteen, I'm with them. Like Jeff Gardier 166 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: just said, deaths attributed to Uber and lyft. Woman dies 167 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 1: after being struck by Uber Uber driver North Philadelphia, Florida. 168 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: Crash victims family files negligent's lawsuit against Seminole County Uber driver. 169 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Uber shoots and kills six people one to 170 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: two others Uber driver Pedestrians struck by Uber driver. Uber 171 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: and Uber drivers suited for a negligent after collision kills passenger, 172 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 1: wrongful death, blah blah blah, being run, Ober attacked, hit, 173 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: dragged down the street. I mean, I haven't even gotten 174 00:11:56,800 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 1: past the first paragraph. These are alleged incidents by drivers, 175 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: and it could be Uber, it could be Lived, it 176 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: could be any one of the ride for pay drivers. 177 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 1: The point is, why would you put your three year 178 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 1: old child in the care of someone you've never met before, 179 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 1: never laid eyes on them. Straight out to Daphne Young, 180 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: our special guests joining us the National Chief Communications Officer 181 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: with Childhelp dot Org, Daphanie. So often we read about 182 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 1: babysitters and nanny's from hell that beat, torture, abuse, or 183 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 1: kill a child. How is this different? There, you're trusting 184 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: a babysitter or nanny. Here, you're trusting a man who statistically, 185 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 1: males commit more violent acts than women. With your baby girl, 186 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 1: who's to say he's not going to drive off with 187 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:56,559 Speaker 1: her and never be seen again. Well, this is absolutely horrific, 188 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 1: and to put your child in the hands of any 189 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: string or just defies logic. But I'm going to go 190 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 1: at one step further and say the danger was coming 191 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: from inside the house. And we know that the majority 192 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: of abuse is by someone the child knows. And looking 193 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 1: at this story, looking at these mugshots, doing a little 194 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 1: research into this area, you had an entire community, you know, 195 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 1: as you were discussing where are they located? I also 196 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 1: thought was this a rural farmhouse? And it was a 197 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 1: complex with neighbors, and there was a playground across the street, 198 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: And I thought, how many eyes have been on these children? 199 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: How many people have seen this disheveled figure walking through 200 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: the neighborhood or push shoving a child in a lift 201 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: in an area where in a small town where neighbors talked. 202 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 1: And it bothered me to no end that this mother 203 00:13:55,960 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: did this act, that this lift driver took the child 204 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: and apparently didn't just go straight to a police station. 205 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: But there's so many people that I hope made a 206 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 1: call or reported this circumstance because this is not a 207 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 1: one off. You do not shove your child in an 208 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 1: uber in a urine soaked blanket as a one off. Guys, 209 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 1: I want to go to raik computer on this WDBO. 210 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: How did find out about the woman basically farmer three 211 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 1: year old little girl out to a lift driver. Well, 212 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: this is the scary part. It wasn't the actual act 213 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: of the lift driver bringing the kids to school. It 214 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: was like two days later when miss Godu didn't take 215 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 1: up her kids from school. She just left him at daycare. 216 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: So the daycare calls police and Mom's not picking up 217 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: these two kids, and that's when police go to the 218 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 1: house and at that moment learned about the lift driver 219 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: bringing the other child to school on a Monday. So 220 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: it wasn't the day that had happened. It was like 221 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: two days later that police catch window of it. I 222 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: don't know if mommy would have even known if the 223 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: baby didn't come home that day at all. Take a 224 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: listen to our friends at crime online dot Com. Officers 225 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 1: had a major concern. After visiting Stephanie Gordo's home, they 226 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 1: found her month old baby strapped to an infant carrier seat. 227 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: The child was wearing extremely warm clothing and covered with 228 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 1: a blanket. What's more, there reports that the carrier was 229 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: not more than six feet away from a heater. There 230 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: were concerns that the child could overheat. The child was 231 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 1: also found to be soaked in urine. The condition of 232 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: the infant and the unsupervised right to daycare led police 233 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 1: to charge godd The child also found soaked in a urine. 234 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: James Shellnut twenty seven years Metro major case including Swat 235 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: now lawyer at Shelnut Law Firm dot com. James, how 236 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: many times did you go to a crime saying as 237 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 1: a cap and look around and just see the children 238 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: in squalor MENI times you walk into an apartment or 239 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: walk into the home and it's just unbelievable that people 240 00:15:57,640 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 1: can live like that. And you got these in the 241 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: victims of these innocent little children who they have no 242 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: control over it. They're forced to live in this Environment's heartbreaking, 243 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 1: you know what, Cheryl McCullum. My grandmother Lucy helped raise me. 244 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 1: When my mother would go to work. She lived in 245 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: a wooden house on old farm with a rusty tin roof. 246 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 1: My great grandmother lived in a mobile home, a trailer 247 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: pulled up on the farm property. And I've never seen 248 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 1: floors and tables as clean as they were. And my 249 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 1: grandmother's and my Grannie's house. I remember going over to 250 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 1: my Grannie's house. A little bitty lady I always wore 251 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 1: a white apron with her hair back in a bum. 252 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 1: And I would thread needles for her because she still sewed, 253 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:08,679 Speaker 1: but she couldn't see to thread the needles, and I 254 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 1: would thread twenty or thirty needles and then poke them 255 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 1: into a pincushion. It looked like a tomato for her. 256 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 1: And God help whoever tracked dirt, left dust anything in 257 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: either one of those two homes. And my grandmother would 258 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 1: even sweep the walkway leading up to her front porch, 259 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 1: front porch, as it was an old wooden home with 260 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 1: a rusty tin roof. Now, if they could provide that clean, 261 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:48,120 Speaker 1: loving home for us, why is this child left soaked 262 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: in urine, strapped in covered in a blanket. Buy a 263 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:56,120 Speaker 1: space heater. You know what it came to my mind, Nancy, Bill, 264 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 1: was one night you and I were working as domestic 265 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 1: in Thomas Hille. Oh Lord, if we got there the 266 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:04,679 Speaker 1: parents were just yelling and screaming at each other still, 267 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 1: and each one was trying to tell their side and 268 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 1: how the other one had done great harm to them. 269 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 1: There was a little fella sitting on the floor playing 270 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: with a matchbox truck and he just like, you know, 271 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 1: making the sounds of a truck, and he just playing. 272 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: And what struck you and I was how normal this 273 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: was for him. He wasn't even affected by the police 274 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:32,640 Speaker 1: being there, He wasn't affected by his parent jelling and screaming. 275 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 1: He was just playing. So again, for this child, maybe 276 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 1: this wasn't the first lift they took along. Maybe this 277 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: wasn't the first time the school had seen somebody they 278 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,360 Speaker 1: didn't know drop the child off. They may not even 279 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 1: know it was a lift driver, you know. Sometimes they 280 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: just come out and take the child and welcome into school. 281 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 1: This might be normal for them because their mother clearly 282 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 1: is a drug at it crime stories with Nancy Grace, Guys, 283 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 1: we are talking about dodging a bullet. Dodging a bullet. Now, 284 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 1: maybe I've seen too much crime, maybe I've been on 285 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 1: too many crime scenes, but I know this. When you 286 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 1: send your three year old little girl off for this 287 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:36,919 Speaker 1: stranger you are courting heartbreak and disaster. But that is 288 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 1: what happened. According to police, thirty four year old Stephanie 289 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 1: godd sends off her little top to daycare play school 290 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:52,120 Speaker 1: with a lift driver she's never seen and cops only 291 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:56,160 Speaker 1: find out about this by chance. Take a listen to 292 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 1: tie our hunt at crime Online. These charges are not 293 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:01,439 Speaker 1: the first time time Godhu has been in trouble with 294 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: the law. In twenty fifteen, an infant was found dead 295 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 1: in Stephanie Gadhu, then known as Stephanie Carmelo's apartment. News 296 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 1: reports say the woman was found on the bathroom floor, 297 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:14,439 Speaker 1: drooling and with dilated pupils. During that investigation, police alleged 298 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: that Godu often put the baby in the care of 299 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 1: her eight year old daughter. She was also accused of 300 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:21,719 Speaker 1: putting a blanket over the infant's face on several occasions. 301 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,959 Speaker 1: WMU R nine reported court documents as stating the eight 302 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: year old was expected to feed, change, and care for 303 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:31,440 Speaker 1: the baby overnight. Godu was never specifically charged with her 304 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:34,639 Speaker 1: newborn's twenty fifteen death, but was charged with two counts 305 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 1: of endangering the welfare of a child and one count 306 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 1: of requist conduct. You know What I don't understand right there, 307 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 1: Ray Kiputo w Dbo, is why on that occasion Stephanie 308 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 1: Gadou was not charged. It's murder. I know everybody in 309 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 1: the study I was shuddering that I said murder. But 310 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: it's felony murder when you are in the act of 311 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 1: a felony, in this case, felony child neglect, and a 312 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 1: death occurs, whether you meant the child to die or not. 313 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:14,640 Speaker 1: If a death occurs during a felony, that's felony murder. 314 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:18,439 Speaker 1: Why does she still have children in the home with her? Well, Nancy, 315 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: your guess is as good as mine, and the only 316 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: thing I could speculate is that you know these people 317 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,439 Speaker 1: who come in and look at the parents and decide 318 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: whether they're going to take their parent or rights away. 319 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: That's a big deal and it's a cost of benefit. 320 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 1: Is the cost of pulling kids away from their parents? 321 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 1: Who got dead baby? Are you actually did he actually say? 322 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,439 Speaker 1: Did he say the words cost benefit analysis? Did you 323 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: say that, Ray, computer? Because Jackie does not want to 324 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 1: wrap you out a cost analysis with a dead baby? 325 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:49,919 Speaker 1: I did, But let me be clear, I think this 326 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,000 Speaker 1: woman should have never seen another child. She had never 327 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: seen the life of day, much less another child. There 328 00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:00,879 Speaker 1: you go again, Daphne Young, National Chief Communications also Childhelp 329 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: dot Org. I will scream it out in the wilderness 330 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 1: yet again. I might as well roll the window down 331 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 1: on Third Avenue and yelling out the window. But CPS 332 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:16,360 Speaker 1: leaves another child in a home. You've got a mom 333 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 1: not picking up her children, not taking them, ignoring them 334 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: as you described earlier, what neighbors saw, what, and now 335 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 1: we find out there is a dead baby in her history. Absolutely, Nancy. 336 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: You know you're good friends with our founders, Sarah and 337 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: Yvon who've been doing this work for over sixty years, 338 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 1: and one of their great heartbreaks when you talk to 339 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: them is the system. Time and time again, they said, 340 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,119 Speaker 1: we can do everything. We can. Bring these children in 341 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: covered in lice and scabies and dirt, clean them, care 342 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 1: for them, give them therapy, nurture them. But if you 343 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: have kids that keep getting back into the system, keep 344 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 1: getting back to those parents, if there's not enough oversight 345 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: at the law don't change, then we have no legal 346 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 1: right to hold them, despite getting every lawyer and every 347 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 1: doctor and everybody we can possibly put on the case. 348 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 1: And it is heartbreaking. That's why we're so adamant about 349 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:17,160 Speaker 1: doing amazing interviews and making sure that they are fail safe. 350 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 1: Though when we get that case to a lawyer, they 351 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: have everything they need to nail them to the wall, 352 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,160 Speaker 1: because it breaks our heart when a kid comes back 353 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,680 Speaker 1: through that system time and time again. You just increase 354 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: the chance for that child to one day show up 355 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 1: as a statistic the one in five kids that die 356 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 1: every day from abuse. One in five children, You know, 357 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:45,200 Speaker 1: Cheryl McCollum, I dream of a day when CPS, Child 358 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:50,160 Speaker 1: protect With Services Defects Department Family Children Services are hell 359 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 1: responsible for leaving children like this in a home. Can 360 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: you imagine leaving your baby in the care of an 361 00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: eight year old child share? You know. I don't know 362 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 1: if you remember this, but I used to tell the 363 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 1: children when they were little, turn the lights. No, no, no. 364 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: It was worse than me just telling them. I would 365 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 1: make David, my husband, sneak out and ring the doorbell 366 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: at eight o'clock and go it's DFACTS Department Family Shoulder Services. 367 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: They know you're still awake. Do you want mommy arrested 368 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,680 Speaker 1: for child neglect? Now get in the bed right now 369 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,280 Speaker 1: and cut the light off. If they see the light on. 370 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: They don't know you're in the bedroom with the light on. 371 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: And I remember that, Say, Mommy, do they walk around 372 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 1: the house and look? And I'm like, yes, of course 373 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 1: they do. And I happened to pull up a picture. 374 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 1: Do you remember the child Catcher on What was the movie? 375 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: Was it Chivy Chivy Bang Bang? Yes? And I happened 376 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: to insinuate that that was DFAX looking for children that 377 00:24:56,359 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 1: were out on their own. And and last, thank goodness, 378 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 1: it lasted a long time. When they were up in 379 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 1: the fourth and fifth grade, I'm like, we've got to 380 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:09,640 Speaker 1: wash your hair. Fhly, mom. If de facts finds out 381 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 1: that I'm sending you to school without your hair washed 382 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 1: and shiny, they'll arrest mommy. You put her in jail 383 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 1: for child neglect. Oh, how I wish you know. Forget 384 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 1: about the hair washing and the staying up late, what 385 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 1: about the mistreated children. I mean, how could they not 386 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 1: take the children away from this mother? Once they find 387 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 1: one dead baby in the home, I think it's going 388 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 1: to be a simple search of her left activity. Talking 389 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 1: to people at the school, I'm gonna tell again this 390 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 1: hit the first time that child took a trip and 391 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: a lift by the self. Can you imagine, at three 392 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 1: years old, find time to put Lucy in a car 393 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: by herself to go somewhere she would have had a fetch. 394 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:58,120 Speaker 1: She would still be talking about that. She would still 395 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:02,359 Speaker 1: be talking about that traumaticking experience. And you know another 396 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 1: thing that Cheryl mcculluugh mentioned earlier to you, Doctor Jeff Gardier, 397 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 1: board certified clinical psychologists joining me out of New York 398 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,959 Speaker 1: today is the sense I'm normal see. She described as 399 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 1: saying that she and I saw early in our careers 400 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,640 Speaker 1: of a child just sitting there playing with his car 401 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 1: while as parents, after we were already on the scene, 402 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 1: we're still yelling and screaming. Doctor Gardier. Did you ever 403 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 1: see Cops, the show Cops, Yeah, okay, there would be 404 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,439 Speaker 1: a scene where there'd be a guy sitting on his 405 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: easy chair drinking a beer, watching TV, and suddenly swat 406 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 1: would break in and start running through the house and 407 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 1: he would just sit there, still watching TV, drinking his beer. 408 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 1: And that always struck me that he didn't think there 409 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 1: was anything unusual about that because it was so normal. 410 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 1: It was sop standard operating procedure. How many times have 411 00:26:56,240 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 1: these children been abused neglected or mistreated, not fed, not bathed. 412 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 1: How many times have this baby been less soaked in 413 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 1: urine for hours on ants, strapped in a car seat 414 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 1: by a space heater. How many times had they been 415 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 1: ignored until it was sp Well, what we're really seeing 416 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 1: here is the level of damage that these parents have 417 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:32,359 Speaker 1: their pathology in that what we call in psychology egosyntonic, 418 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 1: meaning they just go along to get along. They don't 419 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,159 Speaker 1: see anything is wrong, and so when they are approached 420 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 1: by neighbors or by child protective services, they're like, what what, No, 421 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong here, Everything is okay. But that speaks 422 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:53,199 Speaker 1: to the pathology where they're not able to recognize that 423 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 1: they are involved in child abuse child neglect, and therefore 424 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,199 Speaker 1: they don't ask for help in some ways. And I 425 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: know this is going to sound strange, Nancy, but thank 426 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:10,360 Speaker 1: god that you called that lift driver, because that sent 427 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 1: a clear signal to someone, Hey, something is going on 428 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: in this house. We need to find out what's happening, 429 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: because this abuse in the home could have gone on 430 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 1: for years and years and years and no one would 431 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,360 Speaker 1: have known. And I just don't know how the system 432 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:32,879 Speaker 1: failed the children in that house. After that first incident 433 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: where someone was found dead in her home. Time Stories 434 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 1: with Nancy Grace guys Hey. Thirty four year old mother 435 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,600 Speaker 1: sends her three year old baby girl with a man 436 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 1: she never met, a lift driver to drop off at 437 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 1: daycare while mommy what late home in the bottle? Who knows? 438 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 1: But it's not the first time cases like this have 439 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 1: made headlines. Take a listen to our friends at WWL. 440 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: New Orleans. A New Orleans bounce artist was arrested in 441 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 1: Saint Bernard Parish after she allegedly sent her five year 442 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 1: old child alone in a ride sharing service. Rihanna Oliver, 443 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: a bounce artist known as Game of a Ready, took 444 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 1: the driver, told the driver rather to take the child 445 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 1: from a home and shall met to a school in 446 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 1: New Orleans. The driver told Oliver that he could not 447 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 1: give a ride to a child without an adult, but 448 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 1: she went back inside the hall. The driver then took 449 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 1: the child to the Saint Bernard's Sheriff substation in Araby. 450 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 1: Oliver was booked with child desertion. Child desertion. James Shellnutt, 451 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 1: twenty seven years met Major kse Swat Now lawyer James 452 00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 1: Shellnutt explained the desertion charge. Well, you know, you've got 453 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: several different types of abuse that is legal. You've got 454 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 1: active abuse, which is where we commonly think of as 455 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: someone you know, punching or hitting a child or physically 456 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 1: sexually abusing a child. And then you have passive abuse 457 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: that can be illegal as well, which is failed to 458 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 1: provide proper care and adequate supervision for a child. And 459 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:21,720 Speaker 1: that's what that would fall in. Uys. Take a listen 460 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,200 Speaker 1: to the host of breakfast Club Power one oh five 461 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 1: point one FM, Charlemagne game overready listening. We live in 462 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 1: this era where child trafficking is at an all time 463 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 1: high in America. Oh, I don't know if it's at 464 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 1: an all time high, but I do know one point 465 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 1: two million people are trafficking trafficked each year. Okay, why 466 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 1: are you making it easy for them? All right, there's 467 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 1: nothing a five year old is capable of doing without 468 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,640 Speaker 1: adult supervision. Not to mention the way my anxiety is 469 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 1: set up, the way my PARENTI paranoia works, the way 470 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 1: I constantly worry about the safety of all three of 471 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 1: my children. I need to know how you, as a parent, 472 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 1: felt comfortable putting your five year old in a lift 473 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 1: with a total scrange. That's what the driver was. Well, Charloma, 474 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 1: ain't those breakfast club power is absolutely right. Yeah it 475 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 1: has happened again. Straight back out to Daphne Young, national 476 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 1: chief communications officer with one of my favorite organizations, childhelp 477 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 1: dot Org. He's right. Tell me about child sex trafficking. Well, 478 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 1: the scary thing is your child has a better chance 479 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: to be trafficked by someone. You know, someone in that household, 480 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: one of the rotating boyfriends that comes in when somebody's 481 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 1: a drug addict. Well wait, wait, wait, there's nobody rotating 482 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 1: in this house. Oh, nobody's rotating? What not my house? 483 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: I make a shot. The front door to you is 484 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: not Nancy Grace here, But I'm talking about you know, 485 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,479 Speaker 1: when these child children are at risk. You know, one 486 00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 1: of the things that you probably model strongly for your 487 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:57,800 Speaker 1: kids is parental resilience. They know mommy's story, they know 488 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: to some degree, they know what you been through, They 489 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,479 Speaker 1: know your advocacy. So in a sense, you start to 490 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:07,280 Speaker 1: imp you impart that strength to them. When a child 491 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 1: is with a parent that is falling down, drunk, a 492 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 1: drug addict who maybe even considers themselves a victim and 493 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 1: maybe of domestic violence, and other elements. These kids are 494 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,959 Speaker 1: are so unresilient and they start off with all these deficits, 495 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,480 Speaker 1: and then you have you know, who knows what kind 496 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:32,520 Speaker 1: of boyfriends or drug deliveries come around and they look 497 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 1: for those vulnerable children. They look for a mother whose 498 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,959 Speaker 1: hair is disheveled, eyes are bleary, and is falling down drunk, 499 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 1: and they know, I've got hours with these kids while 500 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,320 Speaker 1: she's passed out. So I actually am less afraid of 501 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 1: I'm totally afraid of all the strangers that they're you know, 502 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 1: where people put their kids in danger like that, But 503 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm less afraid of that list driver who is doing 504 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 1: regular job, especially the one that took that child directly 505 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 1: to the Sheriff's office. That one's a hero. And I'm 506 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:04,120 Speaker 1: aim more afraid of mom, the boyfriends who she's meeting online, 507 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 1: who she's getting drug deliveries from, who she's leading her 508 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: kids with, an eight year old at home with a 509 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,880 Speaker 1: little child, and a neighbor knows about it. These are 510 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,400 Speaker 1: crimes of opportunity that these children are open to, and 511 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 1: it breaks my heart. Take a listen again to our 512 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,160 Speaker 1: friends Charlemagne at breakfast Club Power one or five point 513 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 1: one FM. She said she wasn't feeling well and said 514 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 1: that she had been told that it was okay to 515 00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: do that. All right. Here's the thing about being a parent. 516 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:33,600 Speaker 1: And I can only speak on this because I am 517 00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 1: indeed a parent. It's not about you, all right. You 518 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 1: don't get six days when you're a parent. And VM 519 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 1: my line. No, Okay, yesterday I tried to lay around 520 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,800 Speaker 1: the house all day for my three year old wasn't 521 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,000 Speaker 1: having it. Okay. My daughter wanted to play Nintendo. I 522 00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:48,320 Speaker 1: gotta play Nintendo. My daughter wants to play people Pete 523 00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 1: board game. I gotta play people Pete board game. My 524 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 1: daughter wants to play Barbie Dreamhouse. I gotta play Barbie Dreamhouse. Okay. 525 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 1: The Marlin story is no matter how tired I was, 526 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: no matter how I was feeling, what my child wanted 527 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,720 Speaker 1: to do? Game first game over? Ready, That's what being 528 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: a parent is all about. Okay, if you didn't feel well, 529 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 1: call the lift, get in with your child, make sure 530 00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: your child gets to school, and then have to LI 531 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 1: bring you back home. What's so difficult about that? What 532 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:18,800 Speaker 1: is so difficult about that? But guess what it happens 533 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,919 Speaker 1: all the time. Take a listen to Chelsea Edwards News 534 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 1: ten killing Texas Uber and Lyft drivers tell us they 535 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:29,399 Speaker 1: get regular requests from nearby schools during the day when 536 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 1: school lets out. I guarantee you people are telling uber 537 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 1: lyft to go pick up their kids. It might be 538 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,360 Speaker 1: a matter of convenience or lack of options. Some of 539 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,840 Speaker 1: the drivers may not report it because they want you know, 540 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: that's their income. He drives for both services and doesn't 541 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 1: want to show his face. He says he's even had 542 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 1: to call a mom at three in the morning when 543 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 1: her thirteen year old requested a ride hern and mother 544 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 1: was angry with me because she was going to have 545 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: to get her clothes on and miss her TV show 546 00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 1: to come get her daughter. Mattor Raycipudo b DBO. What 547 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 1: is the evidence, if any, that this mother had anything 548 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 1: to do with drugs or alcohol. Well, I mean, look 549 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:12,239 Speaker 1: at her mugshot, Nancy. She looks to shovel. But we 550 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:16,000 Speaker 1: have all kinds of reports that she's incoherent, that she 551 00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 1: just she wasn't acted right. So I mean, I don't 552 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 1: have toxology results any forced her to get drug tester 553 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,360 Speaker 1: get a bruntalizer, but clearly she's on something and my 554 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,720 Speaker 1: guess would be alcohol and possibly a combination of maybe 555 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:34,440 Speaker 1: prescription pills. Well, we can speculate until we're blue in 556 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,239 Speaker 1: the face, Like I said at the get Go, But 557 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:40,440 Speaker 1: we don't know this mother was under the influence of 558 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:43,799 Speaker 1: drugs or alcohol at the time. But we do know 559 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:48,799 Speaker 1: she had the wherewithal to call lift to pick up 560 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:53,320 Speaker 1: her three year old child. Back to Sean mccollin, director 561 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,400 Speaker 1: of the Coal Case Research Institute and crime scene expert, 562 00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:01,879 Speaker 1: you know what situations like you. I mean, I've had 563 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 1: cases where grandma lets the child play in the front 564 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: yard and they're grabbed, they're taking they're killed. Cases where 565 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 1: let's talk about Adam Walsh. He was a couple of 566 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 1: rows over from his mom and a sears and he 567 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 1: ended up taken and murdered. Let's look at Cherish. These 568 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,839 Speaker 1: are off the top of my head, cherished Periwinkle. Her 569 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:31,839 Speaker 1: mom is a good Samaritan in a Walmart superstore and 570 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 1: they go to the front of the store to get 571 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:38,200 Speaker 1: the hamburgers within the store. She's never seen alive again. 572 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 1: It's people that you think you have some connection with, 573 00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:46,360 Speaker 1: but you don't have a connection with the lift driver. No, 574 00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:49,240 Speaker 1: But I want to be real clear. The lift driver 575 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 1: did the right thing. He protected the child. The mama 576 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,520 Speaker 1: is the one that has failed to child. And I'll 577 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,399 Speaker 1: tell you something else. We don't even know that she's 578 00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,759 Speaker 1: the one that did the lift driver. It could have 579 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 1: been eight year old or'll be eleven year old that 580 00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 1: did that old mamma's cell phone. Well, you know what 581 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 1: you're right about that Both of my children know how 582 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 1: to use my phone to get an uber. They know 583 00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,920 Speaker 1: how to do that. Are self sufficient. If they are 584 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,239 Speaker 1: going to eat, they make it. If they're gonna get 585 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 1: to school, they figure out how to do it. Because 586 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,879 Speaker 1: Mama is m iag and I paid something else. If 587 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 1: this was Nancy Grace's case, I know something that would 588 00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:27,719 Speaker 1: happen in that courtroom. Mama in two fifteen became a 589 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:31,680 Speaker 1: nurses assistant, and I know that you would blow that 590 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 1: certificate up big as Dallas and let everybody in the 591 00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,760 Speaker 1: courtroom look at it, because everybody in God and country 592 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,240 Speaker 1: needs to know not only does Mama no better, she's 593 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: been trained to care for other people. Guys, I'm gonna 594 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:48,600 Speaker 1: leave you with something significant. Take us to our cup 595 00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:54,920 Speaker 1: thirteen from k etv Omaha. It is shocking even seasoned 596 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,720 Speaker 1: law enforcement officers are stunned the thirteen year old Kansas 597 00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:01,839 Speaker 1: girl ended up at the ellew home of registered sex 598 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:07,120 Speaker 1: offender Nicholas Avery for a young child, a thirteen year 599 00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 1: old to get into a stranger's vehicle in the middle 600 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,440 Speaker 1: of the night and be transported for hours into a 601 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,640 Speaker 1: different state. Bellevue police say thirty four year old Avery 602 00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,520 Speaker 1: met the girl on social media sites and that he 603 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 1: ordered and paid for the ride with Lift, a trip 604 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,640 Speaker 1: that was almost two hundred miles across state lines. You're 605 00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 1: charged with the felony account. Avery appeared before a Sarpee 606 00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,759 Speaker 1: County judge Monday, charged with first degree sexual assault of 607 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:38,000 Speaker 1: a child. The Shawnee County, Kansas Sheriff's office tells me 608 00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 1: it is investigating the Lift driver. It's unclear what happened 609 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,960 Speaker 1: between the girl and the driver and why she ended 610 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:49,200 Speaker 1: up in Nebraska. Lift and Aber claim they do not 611 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: sir policy not to allow solo riders under eighteen, But 612 00:38:53,200 --> 00:39:00,239 Speaker 1: obviously it's happening. Thirteen year old girl delivered on a 613 00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: silver platter to a register sex offender. That's what I'm 614 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:11,440 Speaker 1: talking about. We wait as just as unfalls. Nancy Gray's 615 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,720 Speaker 1: crime story signing off goodbye friend,