WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Bathroom Door Freak Out

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewels Second Date up date. Remember, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want a second date update, all you have to do

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<v Speaker 1>is just email us Brooke and Jewel at Movie nine

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<v Speaker 1>two five dot com. We will call the person that

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back. Sarah emailed us about a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Randy. She said she met the guy when she

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<v Speaker 1>was out with friends and then they went bar hopping together. Hi, Sarah,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, is that what happened? Well, this is a

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<v Speaker 1>really like a dream date. It was I thought this

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<v Speaker 1>would be. I don't know, it's just a dream date.

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<v Speaker 1>We've said a great time. It's the nicest, funniest, kindest

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<v Speaker 1>guy I've ever had a date with. Your email said

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<v Speaker 1>that you met him out with friends and then you

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<v Speaker 1>went bar hopping. Is this all like in the same night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's happened fast. It's just one of those things. I

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<v Speaker 1>just went with it because it felt right. It just

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like he's too good to be true. Like in

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<v Speaker 1>one night, you know that he's the nicest, funniest guy

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<v Speaker 1>you've ever met. Why Nan stays, I just fin the

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<v Speaker 1>way he behaved. How many drinks did you have during

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<v Speaker 1>the bar hopping? That's what I really want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>We were drinking. Sarah, can you say that you have

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<v Speaker 1>ever felt this way before about a guy, not on

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<v Speaker 1>a first day, maybe eventually, but never this quickly. Wow? Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought it would be, you know, a few

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<v Speaker 1>minutes of conversation, but I mean it just it became

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<v Speaker 1>so much more and we just were in our own world.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the weirdest thing, like nothing else was happening,

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<v Speaker 1>although things were spinning around us. Anyway. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a Disney movie. To back her up, I

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<v Speaker 1>will say I have a best friend who describes meeting

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<v Speaker 1>her husband in this very same way. They were in

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<v Speaker 1>a Don't you just planted a huge seed in Sarah's said, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>that's exactly what she said to me the night that

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<v Speaker 1>she met this guy. No, he didn't ask you out,

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<v Speaker 1>per se right, Well, what happened was, after we talked

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<v Speaker 1>for a long time, Brandy and I decided to go

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<v Speaker 1>someplace else where you could shove cocktails. So no, there

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<v Speaker 1>was never technically the time when a guy asks you out,

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<v Speaker 1>but he suggested it. So, Sarah, can I ask you

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<v Speaker 1>a question? Did you sleep with him? Um? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think a lady talks about it? Thank you? For answering

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<v Speaker 1>my question. So did you leave that night or did

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<v Speaker 1>you leave the next morning from his place? Um, in

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<v Speaker 1>the in the morning and we kissed good bye, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just said I look forward to seeing him again.

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<v Speaker 1>He said he felt the same way. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it just never felt like anything short of the most

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<v Speaker 1>natural thing in the world. And yet no, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>digging this. I just it. You're very expressive, and it

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<v Speaker 1>just it sounds like a Disney movie, Like he said,

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<v Speaker 1>was he good? I want to see him again? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think. I don't think. It sounds like she has

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<v Speaker 1>a permanent smile on her face. I'm gonna go with yes.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we're gonna play a song and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come back and call him and get your second day

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<v Speaker 1>up dated. Okay, okay, thank you, all right, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>brooking jubil in the morning update. This next portion of

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update is either going to be a

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<v Speaker 1>great love story or an enormous let down for Sarah,

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<v Speaker 1>who's on the phone with us. Sarah, Hi, now it's

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<v Speaker 1>obvious that you are really, really, really into the guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Randy who you went out with. Yes, definitely, we

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<v Speaker 1>could just call him Prince charming. I feel like, what's

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<v Speaker 1>going to happen If there's something that he doesn't like

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<v Speaker 1>about you? Are you going to be able to take

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<v Speaker 1>that news? Okay? Well, I mean I have to, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. It doesn't make sense to me because we

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<v Speaker 1>had an amazing time. Okay, and remember you didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>a traditional date. You guys went bar hoppy and with

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<v Speaker 1>some friends you ended back up at his place. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what that means though, I mean, sorry, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you know modern times, we had a romantic evening together.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a date, Sarah. I just want you to be

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<v Speaker 1>prepared for that. He could think if you have a

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<v Speaker 1>romantic evening with a person, it's a date. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand why that word is so scary all of a sudden.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, no no, it's not scared of fin out.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that you guys are a last thing, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know it's I don't understand, Sarah. Sarah, We're on

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<v Speaker 1>your side. We just wanted to go well for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call him right now and let me see

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<v Speaker 1>if I can drag out the answer as to why

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<v Speaker 1>I's not calling you back anytime you want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him after that you can. Okay, thank you. Hey

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<v Speaker 1>is Randy there? Yeah, Randy? What's up? Man? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving

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<v Speaker 1>at the two point five. How are you, I'm I'm fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you because I wanted to talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>about a girl that we both know. Okay. We do

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<v Speaker 1>a segment on our show called the second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you've heard of it. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's where somebody goes out on a date and then

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<v Speaker 1>kind of gets blown off. They email us to call

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<v Speaker 1>the person they went on a date with to find

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<v Speaker 1>out why you went on a date. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>any idea of who that would be? Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I can guess Sarah Bingo. Okay, real quick, if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't mind. What was the date like to you? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I met her at the bar and like she was

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<v Speaker 1>with a bunch of her friends and we're having a

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<v Speaker 1>nice time, so I suggest we go to this place,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, let's lounge, discuss some artisanal cocktails and whatnot,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, you know, we ended up in my uplid.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel something special with Sarah? Wait? A nice time,

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<v Speaker 1>but not like knock your socks off. This could be it. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I liked her. Okay, so you liked her.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell us why you didn't call her back?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you do you not want a second

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<v Speaker 1>date with her? I don't, I don't, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I would be going on. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know if you'd go back out with her?

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<v Speaker 1>And why is that? You really want to know? She

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<v Speaker 1>wants to know. She's the one that emailed us to

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<v Speaker 1>ask a question like I want to know too now badly,

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<v Speaker 1>but she emailed us to ask you why? So she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to know. Um, you know, I went back to

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<v Speaker 1>my place and after things happened, she gets out of bed.

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<v Speaker 1>My bathroom is like right next to my bedroom, so, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm lying there and she goes to use the facilities

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of leaves the door open and is talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me, talking to you. Why, Yeah, she's talking to

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<v Speaker 1>me while she was going to the bathroom. Were you

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<v Speaker 1>awake at this point? Yeah? Okay, So she's using the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom and having a conversation with you. I mean, And

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<v Speaker 1>two things about that. Number one like how did she

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<v Speaker 1>get so comfortable he after you know, a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>hours and number two, like, dude, come on, like ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to you. I was using the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>after we had sex, and that's like, that's like weird

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<v Speaker 1>for you, Randy. Sarah is obviously on the phone. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>that's nice. It wasn't too personal for us to have sex.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's too personal if I talked to you when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in the bathroom, that's too personal? Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying? Because are you crazy? You're not? Personally? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>was I so drunk to it? I didn't realize is

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<v Speaker 1>it's the biggest infant on earth? Because I really thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were a good guy, a cool guy, a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're not even a guy or a baby. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>wow about the woman who's just left with you? And

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<v Speaker 1>you're offended because I evidently spoke to you when I

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<v Speaker 1>was using not the facility. It's a toilet. It's called

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<v Speaker 1>a toilet. You don't know the real word for it, facilities?

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<v Speaker 1>How old are you? Sarah? You're not exactly winning me

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<v Speaker 1>over here? So Sarah, Sarah, what I need to win

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<v Speaker 1>out with somebody who would be so disparaging towards me? Sarah,

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<v Speaker 1>are you getting you don't really like women, and Sarah

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't shoot the man this way either, But this isn't

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<v Speaker 1>how you cheat a woman, Sarah. Sarah, I take a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of deep breaths, count to like twenty five and

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<v Speaker 1>hang off for he didn't say anything really, that mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he just said that you talked to him. If you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>if we were people who didn't know it very well,

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<v Speaker 1>it would be a big deal. But after that night,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's offensive, Sarah. I'm on your side on

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<v Speaker 1>this one, and I think what you're being a little mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think it's mean asleep with somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>then to be so nasty and rude to them because

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<v Speaker 1>they talk to you during going the bathroom. Okay, Sarah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the one on your side is agreeing with you? Mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not mean. I can agree, yes, but it's hard

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<v Speaker 1>to agree with you. He's a little a little scorn, Sara,

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<v Speaker 1>is so offensive and so chauvin it and the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that the men they are sitting laughing, cracking up. I

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<v Speaker 1>find it revolting. When a woman give yourself it is

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<v Speaker 1>very meaningful. And for a stupid guy, a frat boy,

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<v Speaker 1>no less, I never thought you were now I see

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<v Speaker 1>you are Sarah her because he spoked him in the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom to me like a thousand years ago. Hey, Randy,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't heard from you? Was I mean? I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>had a chance to hear Yeah? Did you did? You

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of words in Okay, we heard your words.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you see this coming at all? So you would

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<v Speaker 1>have talked to me about it and you would have

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<v Speaker 1>said this out. Was this the same Sarah you hung

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<v Speaker 1>out with that night? Not real? No, I wasn't angry

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<v Speaker 1>that night, of course not. He only saw one part

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<v Speaker 1>of me. But I'm many many, I'm a multi fast

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<v Speaker 1>to this person, and I have to stand up Sarah.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that, Sarah. I believe you wholeheartedly, that you

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<v Speaker 1>were a bunch of different people, not fun to different people. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you all. There it goes, Sarah. I have been

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah hung up on us? What the hell was that?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I'm gonna go out on a limb

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<v Speaker 1>and say you dodged a bullet there, buddy, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I did. I'm kind of into her though now.

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<v Speaker 1>I like her. She's feisty, crazy. I think she was

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<v Speaker 1>good in bed. Yeah, Randy, she was probably pretty good

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<v Speaker 1>in bed right, it's like a wildcat in the morning.